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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It's time to Catch a Cheater.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
Only on the Jubil Show.
Speaker 3 (00:05):
Evan is on the phone today for to Catch a
Cheater and he's been dating his girlfriend Marcy for about
six months and now he thinks she might be cheating.
So let's see if we can figure it out for you. Evan, Sorry, man,
but what's going on.
Speaker 4 (00:17):
Yeah, we've been to.
Speaker 5 (00:17):
There about six months.
Speaker 4 (00:19):
Like we met at a bar one night. I thought
it was just a one night stand, but it just
kind of progressed from there. Okay, we kind of weren't
looking for a relationship, per say, we just got out
of a long relationship both of us and are like, yeah,
our mindset wasn't in that direction, but.
Speaker 5 (00:35):
It's just, uh, you know, I got to have a
long relationship.
Speaker 4 (00:38):
She was seeing a married guy that she would hoped
would leave his wife or her, and we were just
talking to bonding about like how screwed up our lives were,
and we just started expressing our connection in other ways,
like you know, basically bedroom.
Speaker 2 (00:54):
One.
Speaker 1 (00:55):
Yeah, one one night stand.
Speaker 4 (00:56):
Led to another one night stand and then it just
turned into this thing, you know, and then I just
started to kind of care for her. You know, I
don't know it. We've always tried to level up with
one another. I always try to be honest.
Speaker 1 (01:10):
You know, We've had enough.
Speaker 4 (01:11):
Drama to last a lifetime. And I was like, well,
if we're gonna do a relationship type of thing, then
we need to be upfront about things nobs, and she
said she wanted the same thing. I don't know. It's
like we kind of saved each other from like losching
ourselves off a bridge or losing our mind.
Speaker 6 (01:28):
So you definitely play a very key role in both
of each other's lives. And she feels the same way
you do.
Speaker 4 (01:34):
Yeah, well, I guess, I guess.
Speaker 6 (01:36):
Sorry, I thought, So, what's been going on that makes
you feel like things are changing?
Speaker 4 (01:41):
So probably within the last month or so. I don't know,
she's like like a different woman. Like she's always been busy,
you know, she's need to go get her you know,
but she's becoming like more scarce than normal. Like we
don't live together, but we always made some type of
effort kind of see each other, And like lately she
(02:02):
would do this thing where she said she would call
and then we can meet up, but then she never calls.
Then she'll just start fights for no reason and like
to make them bigger than like they need to be.
And then then there was a there was a client party.
Speaker 2 (02:17):
Okay, what happened that? With that?
Speaker 4 (02:19):
She had a client party thing and she she mentioned like, hey,
do you want to come? And then she decided to downplay,
like it's not really that big a deal. You can
stay home if you want to, And I was like, no,
I want to. I want to go, like, you know,
almost stress my legs out.
Speaker 5 (02:34):
What's that open bar?
Speaker 1 (02:35):
It's free?
Speaker 4 (02:36):
I was like, yeah, that sounds like a fun night,
you know, So I tagged along. That's when I noticed
the Mary guy. Oh he was there. I was across
the room talking to someone and I noticed them. I
knew they worked together, but like she seemed really really
really really comfortable talking to him, and you could pick
(02:58):
up on body language like when do you want to
go home with somebody? And that's kind of the vibe
I was getting. And then later I made a comment
about it, and then she kind of shut it down.
And then she made the comment of like, jealousy isn't
a good color on you?
Speaker 2 (03:12):
Okay?
Speaker 5 (03:13):
You know, yeah, I mean you know, she got a.
Speaker 4 (03:15):
Point a little bit, like we never really put strong
parameters on our relationship. But I don't know, Man, Marcie's
smarter than this man, Like, yeah, she could be over
being strong along with someone that's like fake promises that
he's going to leave his wife and he's not. I
don't know. I just wanted to do what she needs
to do, you know.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
I hope it's not that.
Speaker 6 (03:37):
But those types of relationships kind of turn into a drug,
you know, and you have so many high highs and
low lows that you get on these crazy rides. So
you probably served as a wonderful distraction and showed her
that life could be wonderful. But if this guy started
popping back up, I mean there's a chance that she
could she could be kind of playing around in that
area again, or she's using the opportunity to have you
(03:59):
to make him jealous. So either way, there's still going
to be some type of poking at that.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
Man. I feel, Oh, I hate this for you and
I hate this for her. That sucks. Well, let's see
if we can figure it out.
Speaker 3 (04:11):
You already told us a grocery store she's a rewards
card member at. So we'll play a song, come back,
and then call her and pretend to be from the
grocery store and say that she's this month's lucky winner
of free flowers delivered to whoever she wants to send
them to, and we'll see if she sends them to
you or to somebody else.
Speaker 2 (04:24):
Okay, okay, we'll.
Speaker 3 (04:26):
Play a song come back, get your to Catch a
Cheeter next. Right in the middle of to Catch a Cheater,
if you're just joining us, Evan is on the phone
and he thinks that his girlfriend of six months named
Marcy might be cheating. So in a second, we're gonna
call her and pretend to be from the grocery store
that she's a rewards member at and say that she's
(04:47):
this month's a big winner of free flowers delivered from
our floral department. We'll see if she sends those to
her boyfriend or to somebody else.
Speaker 2 (04:54):
All right, Evan.
Speaker 3 (04:55):
Before we do that, though, why don't you remind us
of your situation?
Speaker 4 (05:00):
Okay, me and Marcy met one night's stan turned to
a relationship thing.
Speaker 1 (05:04):
Always very honest.
Speaker 4 (05:05):
Lately she's been kind of sneaky and then it looks
like she at a work function and kind of awfully
reconnected with a guy that she was interested in before
me who was married? Yeah, married, stringer along. She deserves
better than this.
Speaker 2 (05:20):
You know what's mary guy's name?
Speaker 4 (05:22):
It's Charlie.
Speaker 2 (05:23):
Charlie. Are you ready for us to call her?
Speaker 6 (05:27):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (05:27):
Yeah, yeah, let's get let's pull that band aid up.
Speaker 3 (05:41):
Hello, Hi, this is horrible calling from grocers. I was
looking for a rewards card member named Marcy.
Speaker 1 (05:47):
Oh hey, this is she.
Speaker 3 (05:48):
Hi Marcy, Please don't hang up. This is not a
marketing phone call. I'm actually calling to say congratulations. Here
this most big winner. Thank you for shopping with us.
Speaker 1 (05:54):
Oh my gosh, well, thank you so much. That's awesome.
Where did I win?
Speaker 4 (05:59):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (05:59):
You, I've just won thirty six long stem red Roses,
box of candy or chocolates and a card to be
delivered to anybody that you want within the fift the
United States. It's a three hundred and sixteen dollars value. Actually,
Oh my gosh, congratulations.
Speaker 1 (06:10):
Thank you. That's insane. What do I need to do?
Speaker 4 (06:14):
Well?
Speaker 3 (06:14):
How it works is I can take down the information
in just a matter of minutes over the phone.
Speaker 1 (06:18):
And yeah, we could definitely do it over the phone.
Speaker 3 (06:20):
Then great, Do you want me to set up a
time to call you back or do you know who
you'd like to send him to.
Speaker 1 (06:25):
I definitely have somebody i'd want to send it to.
It's a guy, though, Is there anything else like it?
Maybe send him?
Speaker 3 (06:33):
Yes, we can send a bottle of it, like alcohol, whatever, wine?
Speaker 2 (06:37):
We have some whiskeys.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
Perfect, Yeah, I know he definitely like whiskey, so that
would be perfect.
Speaker 2 (06:44):
Okay, how does that Woodford reserve sound?
Speaker 1 (06:47):
Oh my gosh, she loves that. That'll do just fine.
Speaker 3 (06:50):
Okay, we'll do a bottle of that and it will
still come with flowers and then a card.
Speaker 1 (06:54):
Awesome. Well, thank you so much. What do I need
to do?
Speaker 3 (06:57):
Well, I'm prepared to take the information right now. If
you just you for give me the first and last
name of the person you want to send them to,
we can start there.
Speaker 1 (07:04):
Sure, his name is Charlie.
Speaker 2 (07:09):
Is there anything you want to put on a card?
Speaker 1 (07:11):
Yeah? Actually, could we put just wanted to send something
small to celebrate. I'm so excited to see what the
future holds.
Speaker 2 (07:23):
Great AKA married guy.
Speaker 3 (07:28):
Hello, Mary, that's Evan your boyfriend on the phone.
Speaker 2 (07:31):
This is actually the Jubil Show. My name's Jubal. Yeah,
I'm Nina.
Speaker 3 (07:34):
Hi, I'm Victoria, and we do a segment called to
Catch a Teeter, and Evan thought, you might be messing
around with a guy named Charlie, so the married guy.
Speaker 7 (07:42):
Okay, Hi, Evan, I'm so sorry you heard that.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
So you are with the married guy, So.
Speaker 1 (07:59):
It's it's kind of complicated, he'd you know, i'd been
with Evan for several months and i'd kind of given
up on Charlie. You guys are calling Mary guy. That's
that's actually kind of funny. And he was still seeing
his wife and I that's why i'd kind of stepped
away for a while.
Speaker 7 (08:20):
And then I had kind of.
Speaker 1 (08:22):
Heard through the great line at work that things maybe
weren't going so well with the wife. And I spoke
to him at this work party that I did have
Evan with me at. I'd kind of discouraged Evan for coming,
but he'd wanted to come, and I felt like I
kind of needed to say yes, and he came, and
(08:45):
I spoke to Charlie for a while. Turns out him
and his wife path completely separated. He has left, and
at one point I stepped away and I did see
Evan actually approach him and tell him, you know, he
better not hurt her. You better not mess with her.
Speaker 2 (09:02):
Why does this seem so nonchalant and funny to you?
Speaker 4 (09:05):
Like you're just like it's like, oh yeah, and then
you know, I've been dating Evan, but whatever the dude
was seeing is white, Like that's that's crazy to me.
Speaker 5 (09:12):
I mean it's I mean, I understand the situation.
Speaker 4 (09:15):
Is kind of weird, but it does sound very assay
about it, like, you know, like you kind of don't
care like I care about you. I just want you happy.
I don't want to be strung along yet either, And
so this is I don't know, this is this is
proof that I kind of have been strong along and
I thought we were more honest than that. You are.
Speaker 1 (09:36):
You're totally right, and I am. I'm sorry. I know
we never really labeled things in the relationship, and sometimes
I felt like maybe you were still hung up on
your ex. But that's that's not an excuse. So I
genuinely am very sorry, Evan. I didn't think this was
going to happen. So, yes, Evan, I can confirm I
was cheating on you.
Speaker 2 (09:55):
Oh wow, at least you're honest.
Speaker 5 (10:00):
I mean, yeah, I mean that's the type.
Speaker 4 (10:02):
Of honesty I'm used to. I just wish you were
more honest in the lead up.
Speaker 2 (10:06):
You know, like sound very upset of it.
Speaker 4 (10:09):
I am. It's weird because I'm upset and in a
lot of ways that can't be you know, because I
still have feelings for my ex, but like that's not
a thing, and we were dating and I started caring about.
Speaker 1 (10:21):
Marcon, So wait, you still have feelings for your ex? Really?
Speaker 4 (10:29):
I mean yeah, we weren't. I mean that's how we
met was we were pining over people that at the
particular moment didn't want us. So yeah, I still have feelings,
but like that's not a thing that's gonna happen because
she doesn't want to be with me.
Speaker 5 (10:44):
I started caring about you. I thought we were more
honest than this.
Speaker 4 (10:47):
That's why I'm upset, but I feel like I can't
be but.
Speaker 1 (10:50):
Now I know wait what, Oh my gosh, do it?
Speaker 4 (10:55):
I'm baffled all right, Like, wait, you've been geting on me?
Why is this getting turned about on me? I? Uh,
this is this is ridiculous. This is the most like
mental gymnastics I've ever heard from somebody that try to
turn around on me like this.
Speaker 1 (11:09):
This is everything I needed to hear. I am so done.
Speaker 2 (11:12):
Oh my god, Evan, she hung up.
Speaker 3 (11:19):
I think you just got broken up with by the
person who cheated on you, but you didn't cheat.
Speaker 4 (11:24):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (11:24):
Uh, I think I didn't.
Speaker 4 (11:26):
Do anything wrong.
Speaker 5 (11:27):
That's that's the I don't know what's happening.
Speaker 6 (11:30):
You know what, Now you know that you guys both
served a purpose. You helped each other get past or
at least she helped you get past a little bit
somebody else that you could open up to. Now, the
key is going to be, don't take her back when
married man decides to go to stay married.
Speaker 4 (11:43):
I mean, yeah, I don't.
Speaker 8 (11:44):
I don't think she bolted it anyway. So after I
told her I saw feelings for my act, I'm so
right now. But now I know, now that I know,
I have a clear answer, that was not.
Speaker 4 (11:54):
Where I needed to put my energy at.
Speaker 3 (11:56):
Sorry that happened, but yeah, I bet there's somewhere elsewhere
here your energy is gonna be better.
Speaker 2 (12:01):
To start fresh.
Speaker 6 (12:04):
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