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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It's time to Catch a Cheater. Only on the Jubile Show.
Katie is on the phone today for to Catch a Cheater.
She's been married to her husband for eight years. His
name is Seth, but now she thinks that something might
be going on, so we'll see if we can help
her out. Katie, sorry, you're going through this, but why
don't yourselves what's going on? Why do you think your
husband is cheating?
Speaker 2 (00:20):
I don't know if he's cheating or not. It's just
this weird.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
We have a very good marriage, and we have I mean,
I guess we've had a handful of rough spots, but
I mean over the course of eight Like, well, we
were together for eleven.
Speaker 2 (00:32):
Years, so a couple of years before we got married,
and so there's going to be some rough spots. But
I mean, you know, we we still went out.
Speaker 3 (00:39):
You know, we were trying, we were having fun, we
were going to concerts and like, I don't know, we.
Speaker 2 (00:43):
Like to bowl, and I don't.
Speaker 3 (00:45):
Know, I always looked at us and thought of us
as being like a really strong couple, and I don't know,
I guess in the last couple of years, we both just.
Speaker 2 (00:56):
Started to work more and more. You know, I got this.
Speaker 3 (00:58):
Promotion and we're at work so much that I guess
I kind of got complacent, and you know, maybe he
did too, you know, get home and just eat dinner
and go to bed, and now he doesn't really want
to go out as.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
Much anymore, which I mean, all of this, in my
mind is kind of normal.
Speaker 3 (01:16):
Like, you know, we've been together for a really long time,
and he's kind of a stereotypically kind of lazy dude,
and I like that about him, you know, I like
being comfy and cozy at home, but he does you know,
he goes to see his friend Josh, but he's like
that's been one of his best friends since high school.
And I don't think he could be the cheer types
because he doesn't really want to go out and do anything.
(01:39):
But like I said, things have been different this last month.
So he's going over to josh his place like twice
as much as he usually does, and I don't know,
I'm wondering what he's really doing at his house. I mean,
I've heard he's complained in the past about how Josh
was like he can get annoying after a while. And
I've hung out with Josh and Seth before and he's
(02:00):
I can confirm that.
Speaker 2 (02:04):
Like, I don't know if we met him now in
real life, like would we be would he be close
friends with him?
Speaker 3 (02:09):
I don't know. It's not like he's been friends with
him since high school and you know they've I respect
that and I admire that, and I see, you know,
there's a lot of love there for him, but like,
I don't.
Speaker 2 (02:19):
Know, he's a boring dude and he's kind of annoying
and I can't I can't figure out what he's.
Speaker 3 (02:23):
Doing over there twice as much as usual. So that's
one thing. And then the other thing that's been this
kind of like huge change is.
Speaker 2 (02:33):
That, all of a sudden, Seth is a workout guy.
I probably wouldn't have called you guys if it wasn't
for that.
Speaker 3 (02:41):
He's working out every single day for several hours at
a time.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
But I don't think he's ever worked out since we
first met. And just is he doing it to impress someone?
Is it someone at work? Like he's there a long time.
I don't know. This is not me, Like I'm not
normally an insecure person. I know that it doesn't feel good.
Speaker 4 (03:04):
Yeah, I wouldn't call yourself insecure, even though it's like
you're noticing things are changing, and of course it's going
to set off an alarm in you. So that's not
even an insecurity.
Speaker 3 (03:12):
And his appetite is less too now, Like he says
he's not really very hungry when we have.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
Dinner, like he had a big lunch or something like.
Speaker 3 (03:20):
That, and that, like there's never been a time where
Seth hasn't wanted like pizza or Friday, we usually get
Mexican dinner.
Speaker 2 (03:27):
And I don't know, he's just not finishing.
Speaker 3 (03:31):
His plate, which is again unusual, And I asked him
about it, and he and he just said he wanted
to get back into shape, which again totally valid.
Speaker 2 (03:40):
I want to support him in that. I don't want
to deter him in any way. I'm just nervous.
Speaker 4 (03:48):
Yeah, and then if he's spending more time at the
boring Josh's house, maybe I'm just curious is what triggered it.
Maybe it's not necessarily cheating. Maybe it's just he was
inspired by something.
Speaker 1 (04:01):
I don't know. Hopefully he's not all right. You already
told us what grocery store you guys are rewards card
members at, so we'll play a song come back, and
then call him and pretend to be from the grocery
store and say that every single month, we choose one
Rewards card member who gets free flowers delivered from our
floral department. We'll see if he sends us to you
or somebody else. Okay, okay, thank you, all right, we'll
plays son, come back, get your to catch a teeter next.
(04:23):
Right in the middle of to Catch a Teeter, if
you're just joining us, Katie is on the phone and
she thinks that her husband's seth of eight years might
be cheating. So in a second, we're gonna call him
and pretend to be from the grocery store that he's
a rewards member at, and say that every single month
we choose one lucky Rewards card member who gets free
flowers delivered from our flooral department, and he's this month's
big winner. We'll see if he sends those flowers to
(04:44):
his wife, Katie or someone else. But first, Katie, why
don't you refresh everybody's memory on what's going on.
Speaker 2 (04:49):
Yeah, we've just drifted a little.
Speaker 3 (04:50):
In the last couple of years. We both work a lot,
and in the last couple of months he's totally changed.
Suddenly he's going over to his friend house. It's as
much as usual as all high school buddy, who I
think is pretty boring.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
He's told me he's boring.
Speaker 3 (05:05):
And the big thing that's worrying me is suddenly he's
working out every day, which is great. He's looking great,
but he's never been a workout guy. He's eating healthy.
It's just such a sudden shift, and I'm just worried.
Speaker 1 (05:18):
Okay, you ready for us to call him? Yeah, okay,
here we go. Hell, Hi, this is corrible calling from
I was looking for a rewards card member named Seth. Seth. Hi,
(05:41):
Please don't hang up. This is not a marketing phone call.
I'm calling to actually tell you congratulations. Here this month's
big winner.
Speaker 5 (05:48):
Okay, what did I win?
Speaker 1 (05:51):
Every single month, we choose one lucky rewards card member
who gets free flowers delivered from our floral department, absolutely
free on us to anybody that you want. You want,
thirty six more same red roses, a box of candy
or chocolate, and a car to be delivered to anybody
that you want.
Speaker 5 (06:04):
All right, it's very cool, not bad.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
So here's how it works. I can take down the
information in just a couple of minutes over the phone.
Speaker 5 (06:13):
No, that's fine, No, that's fine. I actually have a
little bit of downtime. It's good.
Speaker 1 (06:16):
All I will need is the first and last name
of the person you want to send them to.
Speaker 5 (06:20):
Okay, same last name as mine, Katie.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
And anything you'd like to put on a card.
Speaker 5 (06:25):
Uh yeah, pretty roses for a pretty lady. Love you kid?
Speaker 1 (06:29):
Oh that is I like that?
Speaker 5 (06:31):
Thanks? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (06:33):
So you have very you ever cheat on your wife
at all? Ever? Set My name is Jebel and I
lost the radio show. It's called the Jebels Show.
Speaker 4 (06:41):
Hi poll shows Here. I'm Nina, Hi, and I'm Victoria.
Speaker 1 (06:44):
And your wife Katie is actually on the phone listening
to this.
Speaker 5 (06:48):
Ah. So this is kind of like a set up
to seat and cheating or something like that.
Speaker 1 (06:51):
Is that like a yes, that's exactly what it is.
We do a segment called to Catch a Cheater, and
Katie thought maybe there might be something going on, so
we were seeing it. We could catch you by who
you'd send flowers too?
Speaker 2 (07:03):
Kind of flowers? Babe?
Speaker 5 (07:06):
What would you do this?
Speaker 2 (07:08):
Oh? I'm sorry, I just didn't know what to do.
You've been so different this last month. I mean, you're
not the same guy.
Speaker 3 (07:15):
You just you're working out every single day for like
multiple hours at a.
Speaker 2 (07:19):
Time, and I don't know, I just got in my
head about stuff. I mean, but just I asked you why,
and you didn't give me a reason.
Speaker 3 (07:26):
You just said you wanted to be more healthy, which
is valid, but like it's just so sudden.
Speaker 2 (07:30):
And I don't know.
Speaker 3 (07:32):
You're spending all this time over at Josh is like
double sometimes triple as much as you used to, and.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
Like it's just a like, are you really there? I
don't know.
Speaker 6 (07:43):
It's crazy you think that I actually cheat cheat on you.
Speaker 5 (07:47):
It's pretty cute, but like not really giving that cheat
on you with some like hot hot lady or something.
Speaker 1 (07:54):
That's not that's I'm sorry, he's definitely not.
Speaker 2 (07:59):
Lady.
Speaker 5 (08:02):
I love you. I wouldn't. I wouldn't, but also I
guess I should.
Speaker 6 (08:06):
We should probably talk about it. Something kind of happened
that it made me, uh kind of look at my
life where I am right now as this is, uh,
this is weird. So uh the reason I haven't spending
a lot of time with Josh and he doesn't really
want anybody to know, but you're kind of forcing my
hand in this. He's he's been diagnosed with uh cancer.
Speaker 1 (08:30):
I'm so sorry.
Speaker 6 (08:32):
I've been going with him to doctor visits and stuff,
you know, because he's not he doesn't live near his family,
and we just, you know, we have been best friends
for a long time. And doctors are saying that it's
totally tradable and success rates are pretty pretty good, pretty
pretty irresponsive with how how early they caught it. But
I mean that's kind of what's going on with him,
(08:52):
and you know, he's he's Josh is really kind of
secretive in his life, and he's like, you know, don't
tell anybody.
Speaker 5 (08:59):
It's very embarrassing and everything. And I just didn't know
what to do.
Speaker 6 (09:03):
So I've just really been kind of there for him
as he's going through this so he doesn't have to
do it alone.
Speaker 2 (09:08):
I had no idea. I had no idea, and so
I mean, wow, but what does that what does that
have to do with you? Like the working out and
the eating. I mean, it's all that.
Speaker 5 (09:21):
Honestly.
Speaker 6 (09:22):
It was when I saw the look in his eyes
when he first told me, you know, he couldn't stop crying,
and it kind of freaked me out.
Speaker 5 (09:27):
It kind of like made me think about my mortality
and everything.
Speaker 6 (09:32):
And I just as soon as I saw that look
in his eyes, I just decided. I was like, you
have to make sure that you're around for the people
you care about. You know, it wouldn't be good if
you know he's going through this, and you know, I
haven't been healthy. I haven't been you know, I'm black,
black and eating pizza.
Speaker 5 (09:51):
You know, we always go out for Chinese, you go
out for Mexican.
Speaker 6 (09:53):
Food and everything, and I'm just like, let me just
make sure that I'm here. Let me just make sure
that I'm around. So I'm really just wanted to be
healthier and just be here for him, be here for you,
be here for everybody that I care about.
Speaker 5 (10:07):
And uh, you know, it just it sucked too, because I.
Speaker 6 (10:10):
Mean, I haven't worked out like this in years. But
now that I'm doing it and really focusing on.
Speaker 5 (10:16):
The reasons for doing it, it makes.
Speaker 6 (10:18):
Me start to enjoy it. Like I kind of tricked
my brain and it's thinking, like you want to do this,
and next thing you know, it's like, I do want
to do this, and then eating right kind of followed.
I mean, I know, I say I don't have an
apathet a lot of times, but I don't. I'm just
trying to eat, eat a little bit better.
Speaker 5 (10:33):
You know, well, I'm terrible.
Speaker 2 (10:38):
Why didn't you just tell me? Why didn't you tell
me any of this? I would have understood completely.
Speaker 5 (10:46):
I'm I'm a.
Speaker 6 (10:47):
Little to be honest, I'm a little embarrassed about it too.
I haven't you know, I haven't done anything physical since
way way before the pandemic, and I just got used
to that lacked lifestyle. You know, let me just hang
out and we always just kind of stay home and
hang out, and we've just been in that mode. And
you know, when to Josh is health scare made me
(11:07):
kind of realize that, you know, that's not a way
to live.
Speaker 5 (11:10):
It's just kind of a way to just be. And
I want to I just want to do more.
Speaker 6 (11:14):
I just want to be here and just have a better,
healthier life and you know, not make a noise every
single time I've been over.
Speaker 5 (11:21):
And honestly, I think that maybe I didn't.
Speaker 6 (11:24):
Tell you because as Josh was going through this house
trying to respect his privacy, and then you know, the
embarrassment from him kind of leaked over unto me, and
I was like, let me just you know, it's like,
sometimes you're improving yourself, you kind of want to hide
from the world and reappear as a better version of yourself.
I should have definitely told you because you clearly thought
(11:44):
I was you care around for somebody.
Speaker 2 (11:48):
Well, I'm really I'm really sorry.
Speaker 1 (11:51):
Yeah, sorry about your friend man, but Katie, at least
you know now he's not cheating.
Speaker 4 (11:56):
Yeah, and I'm glad they caught it early. Everybody's got
this awakened need for wellness, and I think that's a
great thing.
Speaker 5 (12:04):
Yeah, I mean I keep looking for a side piece though.
Speaker 4 (12:11):
Well if that happens, you know, you can hear from
us again.
Speaker 3 (12:13):
There the Jewel Shows to catch a cheater.