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February 24, 2025 18 mins
THE BIG PODCAST - Would You Speak To The Person Your Mate Cheated On You With?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is Big Boy's neighborhood on demand, Big Boy's neighborhood.

Speaker 2 (00:04):
Luieg is up in here. What I'm all right?

Speaker 3 (00:06):
Would you want to talk to the person that your
mate cheated on, like, have a conversation with cheated with?

Speaker 4 (00:12):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (00:12):
Yeah, man, you don't want to ask me because you
know I did.

Speaker 3 (00:14):
Oh yeah, you did. So listen to this doc. There's
a former NFL player right his named Steve Smith Junior.
He right right now works for like NFL network, so
he does a lot of.

Speaker 2 (00:22):
But I Steven A Smith.

Speaker 3 (00:23):
No, no, no, no, he does a lot of commentating, right,
So I guess this dude slept with one of like
the Baltimore Ravens employees, and that woman happens to be
married to this guy who is now exposing Steve Smith
online text messages between uh, the former football player and
his and his wife, and it's so dirty I can't
even tell you that.

Speaker 2 (00:45):
Oh yeah on him. Yeah.

Speaker 3 (00:48):
But not only that, he ended up calling this dude
and asking him like, bro, man.

Speaker 5 (00:52):
Bill, Steve, bro Wow, you put it out, Steve? Yeah?
My wife, Bro, what you gotta say for yourself? You're
sorry she was married?

Speaker 1 (01:08):
You know?

Speaker 4 (01:09):
My man said, I'm sorry, all right, cool, have a
good desk, young kid.

Speaker 2 (01:14):
I'm sorry. Yeah, man, what.

Speaker 5 (01:16):
Man, Steve Smith Senior? What kind of dumb was that?
Why you quiet?

Speaker 4 (01:21):
Man?

Speaker 2 (01:21):
Be a man?

Speaker 5 (01:22):
Steve? Yeah, man, bro, all that do on TV, all
that talking to do to other people. Now someone's got
you on the phone. You came hand up.

Speaker 4 (01:33):
Wow.

Speaker 2 (01:34):
I didn't know about that one man.

Speaker 4 (01:36):
He even said his whole name in there for like evidences,
Miss Junior Lake?

Speaker 2 (01:42):
Sure drive? What do you want to hear? Right right?

Speaker 5 (01:47):
Yes?

Speaker 2 (01:47):
What do you really want? Details?

Speaker 6 (01:49):
Like?

Speaker 4 (01:49):
Hey, man, let me let me tell you when I
found them my ex was cheating. I called the dude. No, yeah,
I called him man number it was it was it's
it's kind of a longer story, but his number.

Speaker 2 (02:00):
Was at my house, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (02:02):
Because I had a calendar and I noticed this number,
and I was like, damn, I don't remember writing this
person's name down, because would write little things on my calendar.
It was like a desk calendar that you would sit down,
and it was on my desk. So then I called
it and I was like hello, and I was like,
who's this? And didn't hit me with that Who's this?
And so I'm like, who's this? And he hit me
with the who's this? So I'm like, man, who am
I speaking to? Who am I speaking to?

Speaker 2 (02:23):
Like that?

Speaker 4 (02:24):
And so I said, Hey, it's big boy, and then
he got too cool, Ah, what's up?

Speaker 2 (02:28):
Big Hey? What's up?

Speaker 4 (02:29):
Man?

Speaker 2 (02:29):
Then he said almost such and such friend, which is
my ex?

Speaker 4 (02:32):
Right?

Speaker 2 (02:33):
Something didn't hit me? Right, dude? You know what I'm saying.
Two weeks later, I called the number back. She was
with him. Wait, how'd you know?

Speaker 4 (02:41):
I just it was Valentine's Day? Which what that got
together for Valentine's Day? And when I called he answered
the phone, and I say he passed the phone or
such as?

Speaker 2 (02:50):
I didn't even ask?

Speaker 4 (02:52):
Oh, and my thing is bro I was done?

Speaker 2 (02:57):
Didn't hear it for the next ten years? Or sorry?
The concert? Damn? I was done. No slow songs, no,
none of that stuff.

Speaker 4 (03:04):
You know what I'm saying. But I want to hear
from you. Would you or did you speak to the
person you're mate?

Speaker 2 (03:09):
Cheated with?

Speaker 4 (03:10):
Hit us up? Broke eight six six two four six
eight nine two three. That's eight six six two four
six eight nine two three. Would you or did you
speak to the person you're mate? Cheated with hit us up.
Big Boys neighbor This.

Speaker 1 (03:24):
Is big Boy on demand, Big.

Speaker 2 (03:26):
Boys neighborhood up in here. You know, she just went
to the bar again.

Speaker 4 (03:30):
No not you go get some audio, that's what that's
what he tailors queen.

Speaker 2 (03:35):
They wanted to go.

Speaker 6 (03:36):
Do it Louis at the bar.

Speaker 2 (03:38):
Yeah, I gotta go to work. They need me to
get drunk. I don't know.

Speaker 3 (03:42):
Christ hey man, But we're still talking about the story
where the former NFL player got caught up cheating. Right,
he also had a family too, so technically he was cheating. Yeah,
so he he got caught up with another Baltimore Ravens employee.
Obviously she was married, so the husband ended up finding
out and putting him on blast on social media, with
the recorded message of him even calling.

Speaker 5 (04:02):
Steve, Yeah, my wife, Bro, what you gotta say for yourself?

Speaker 6 (04:07):
I'm sorry?

Speaker 5 (04:07):
You're sorry?

Speaker 4 (04:09):
She was?

Speaker 2 (04:09):
He did say, so what.

Speaker 5 (04:15):
You're not a man? You're Steve Smith Senior? Was that
white quiet man man? Steve? You know, man, bro, all
that on TV, all that talking to do to other people.
Now someone's got you on the phone. You came up.

Speaker 4 (04:32):
A man.

Speaker 2 (04:33):
Take that to your wife. But yeah, like her guts
were good. That's the other level of sassiness.

Speaker 4 (04:39):
Yeah, like you're gonna post that's crazy. And I like
how you said his name. He was stuttering his looking
at his like, how many legs.

Speaker 2 (04:52):
That's worth? You talked about you a big boy. You
Oh my god, my god.

Speaker 5 (05:03):
Guy.

Speaker 2 (05:04):
So louis at the ball Yeah, at the bar.

Speaker 3 (05:05):
So I was just asking, let's go with the Stelle.
I asked her if she would want to talk to
that person the other mate. She'd with, you know what, funny,
I know, how mad?

Speaker 2 (05:12):
How girl that I man? What's talking to hey?

Speaker 6 (05:16):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (05:17):
Yeah I did.

Speaker 7 (05:18):
She told me, she said, hey girl, I've been talking.

Speaker 8 (05:21):
To your man for a month.

Speaker 2 (05:23):
What did she tell you?

Speaker 3 (05:24):
She just said, hey girl, I know you have kids
with this man, but he's been talking to me for
the past six months.

Speaker 2 (05:32):
You didn't ask her any questions that you wanted to know.

Speaker 8 (05:34):
I did, was what I said.

Speaker 4 (05:36):
You knew he had a family, why would you pursue that?

Speaker 2 (05:39):
But also, like that was his song, you know what.

Speaker 8 (05:42):
I took my loss and I've been seeing Sten ahead.

Speaker 4 (05:47):
Hey man, they don't have an outdoor patio, we can
do the Yeah, it was weird what he said. We
can do my car.

Speaker 2 (05:56):
Audio in the car. Alrighty, Now, what's your name? I
went to My name is mag bro from what do
your California? Low key grew up in south central California.
All right, let me hold out your bro.

Speaker 3 (06:06):
Hey dog, if your girl cheats on you, would you
want to talk to the guy?

Speaker 2 (06:10):
And if you do want to talk to the guy,
what would you ask him? Hey, I'll be like, hey, bro,
how long has this been going for?

Speaker 7 (06:16):
Man?

Speaker 2 (06:17):
You should have told me about this, like we could
have low keep.

Speaker 5 (06:19):
It plotting on this tripping you guys both could have
been Patty.

Speaker 2 (06:25):
I low key wouldn't go against him. I would lowkey
go against him. I'll be like, you tripping, you would
want to you would want to talk to him? Though,
I would. I'd be like, I'd be like, he's she
tripping right, She's crazy? Has ain't no fun?

Speaker 4 (06:36):
He's playing in the back. I heard it saying we
want to hear from you as well. Would you or
DG speak to the person you're mate cheated with? We
continue to talk about that in the neighborhood as well.
Y'all stick around your radios.

Speaker 1 (06:47):
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Speaker 4 (06:57):
Alright, we're speaking on it. Would you or did you
speak to the person you're make cheated with? We're gonna
bring Nancy into the neighborhoods. He was going down with
Nancy up in here. Nancy, Hello, hello boy, Hello there Nancy.

Speaker 2 (07:11):
Nancy. Would you or did you speak to the person
you're ex or you're mate cheated with?

Speaker 9 (07:15):
I did?

Speaker 5 (07:16):
Yes?

Speaker 2 (07:16):
Oh, speak on it. Yeah.

Speaker 9 (07:18):
So I my husband cheated on me and I found out.
Not long story, because short, I come telling her. I
got her number, do the phoning all that, and I
went to her job and I actually show her. I
was like, you know what, you slept with my hooked
up with my husband.

Speaker 6 (07:33):
I walked in on you guys.

Speaker 9 (07:34):
Oh, she told me this long story.

Speaker 8 (07:37):
You know, she was young, she's eighteen.

Speaker 9 (07:39):
You know we're are in our late thirties. So she
was just being stupid.

Speaker 2 (07:42):
Okay, so she has she has slept with your husband
years before.

Speaker 9 (07:46):
No, it was all just recent.

Speaker 2 (07:48):
Wait, okay, so did did I get lost here?

Speaker 1 (07:51):
She was?

Speaker 2 (07:52):
The girl was eighteen? Oh, okay, got it got thirty.

Speaker 9 (07:57):
Wow young?

Speaker 4 (07:59):
So how long have you you and your husband? How
long have y'all been together? And how long have you
been married?

Speaker 9 (08:03):
Where newly Li was? I just had a baby.

Speaker 2 (08:08):
And so how did you find out, Nancy that they
were that they were cheating?

Speaker 9 (08:11):
I work nights, you know, I work in healthcare, and
I had no idea. I just got flexed from work
one day.

Speaker 2 (08:17):
And hello, really, and you say, Nancy, you walked in
on them.

Speaker 9 (08:22):
I walked in on.

Speaker 2 (08:23):
Them at your home, my home, in your bed.

Speaker 4 (08:27):
Oh, so did you have any feeling premonition that he
was cheating on you?

Speaker 9 (08:35):
You know what I did actually, because you know, I
had a baby, and you know he kind of already
told me, you know, you let yourself go and stuff.

Speaker 4 (08:42):
Oh no, man, So when you come home, Nancy, are
they in the room? Are they like in full motion?

Speaker 9 (08:50):
They're in full motion?

Speaker 4 (08:51):
And so what happens right when you catch them? Do
you start swinging? Does she get up and run out?

Speaker 5 (08:56):
Like?

Speaker 2 (08:56):
What does your man say?

Speaker 6 (08:57):
Do you know?

Speaker 9 (08:58):
When she got up and run out? So that was
the opportunity to throw her clothes out, you.

Speaker 2 (09:01):
Know, right, man? She ran out the house naked. She
did that night and so you ended up going to
her job.

Speaker 4 (09:08):
I did the next day, right.

Speaker 2 (09:09):
Did he know that you was going to go to
the job.

Speaker 9 (09:11):
No, he didn't because he was like, I'm gonna be silent,
keep everything right.

Speaker 2 (09:16):
And what did she say?

Speaker 6 (09:17):
She what?

Speaker 2 (09:18):
So she just said she was young? Or what did
she say she was young?

Speaker 9 (09:21):
She was eighteen? It was all just a game for her, damn,
Like it's a sucking game.

Speaker 4 (09:28):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (09:29):
Now let me ask you this, Nancy, are you still
with your husband?

Speaker 4 (09:31):
Now?

Speaker 2 (09:32):
I mean y'all y'all married and got a kid.

Speaker 9 (09:34):
Yeah, we're still together. And I think it kind of
made it stronger.

Speaker 4 (09:38):
No, it didn't.

Speaker 9 (09:40):
This sounds good.

Speaker 4 (09:43):
Already, Nancy. I wish you nothing but the best baby.
And how long ago did this happen?

Speaker 2 (09:48):
Nancy?

Speaker 6 (09:48):
In December? Oh?

Speaker 2 (09:49):
Man, so this is very fresh.

Speaker 4 (09:51):
This is very fre there it is, man, would you
or did you speak to the person your mate cheated with?

Speaker 2 (09:57):
Hit us up? Eight six six two four six eight
nine two three Big.

Speaker 4 (10:01):
Boy neighborhood, this is big Boy on demand, Big Boy
Neighborhood already speak on it. Would you or did you
speak to the person that cheat that you may cheated with? Alrighty,
we're gonna bring anonymous. I always love anonymous when they
call it anonymous. Hello, Hello, Hello, they're anonymous, Anonymous.

Speaker 2 (10:21):
Would you or did you speak to the person you're
mate cheated with?

Speaker 8 (10:24):
I sure did?

Speaker 7 (10:25):
Met her in the flesh?

Speaker 2 (10:26):
Really? All right?

Speaker 4 (10:28):
Give me a backstory? There was is his boyfriend, husband mate?

Speaker 2 (10:31):
What's to say?

Speaker 8 (10:32):
Husband?

Speaker 7 (10:33):
Husband?

Speaker 2 (10:34):
How long were y'all together or have y'all been together?
And how long have you been married?

Speaker 7 (10:38):
We've been together for about twenty years, high school sweethearts.
Only person I've ever been with and married for about.

Speaker 2 (10:46):
Eight alrighty, so Anonymous, what happened?

Speaker 7 (10:49):
So I had caught him cheating, like, found out about it,
confronted him and everything. You know, I got the whole
sob story, I'm sorry and won't do it again and
all that, and then you know, like that woman's intuition
kicked in. One day, I woke up and I was like,
I don't know, something didn't sit right. Drove to his job,
found out he wasn't there. I remember seeing like a

(11:13):
text message of a hotel room. So I pulled up
and sure enough I saw his car there. And he
was so good at his life and teating that I
knew he was gonna call me on his lunch, So
I waited marked so he couldn't see my car. Waited,
sir enough called me, pretended like he was at work,
pulled up right behind him. We were in the park

(11:35):
low arguing, you know, like how did you do this?
Back and forth?

Speaker 2 (11:38):
Whatever?

Speaker 7 (11:39):
And then she decided to join the conversation. That was
the first time I saw her, and I was just shocked.

Speaker 2 (11:45):
Had you ever seen so? You had seen her before?
Did they work together? You know?

Speaker 6 (11:49):
Yeah?

Speaker 7 (11:50):
They worked again. I'd never seen her, so so I
could definitely say it was a downgrade for sure.

Speaker 2 (11:56):
Real man, so you so when you super model?

Speaker 8 (12:02):
Leave me for that at least?

Speaker 2 (12:03):
Man, No, don't worry about it. We got you. But
but so that wasn't his first time or that was
the first time you caught him?

Speaker 7 (12:11):
Uh No, that was his first time that I saw her.
But I had already found out about the affair, like right.

Speaker 2 (12:19):
And do you know about how long anonymous they have
been having an.

Speaker 7 (12:22):
Affair for like almost a year?

Speaker 2 (12:25):
Wow? Now do you and do you and your husband?
Do y'all have kids together?

Speaker 5 (12:30):
We do?

Speaker 4 (12:32):
And it's so easy for somebody to say, oh, leave them, girl,
leave them girl, But there's so much there.

Speaker 2 (12:36):
So when you when you're in the parking lot and
she jumps in, what is she saying?

Speaker 7 (12:41):
She told us she tried to get the management to
kick me out and asked me to leave. And I
was like, oh, like she lisn't my husband Like, I'm
not leaving. I'm not going anywhere.

Speaker 4 (12:52):
And so what happens when when he gets home? Like
what's your next conversation? Do you leave without him? Does
he stay with her?

Speaker 7 (12:59):
So they continued their affair for about three years, and
I would find out in and out, like you would
tell me, they're done. Very good at lying, by the way,
very good.

Speaker 2 (13:09):
So you stayed on?

Speaker 6 (13:10):
Yeah?

Speaker 7 (13:11):
Yeah, I was fighting for my family right Like I said,
it's the only person I had ever been with, never
had any other boyfriend.

Speaker 2 (13:18):
And he was still cheating for like another three years.

Speaker 7 (13:21):
Or three years.

Speaker 4 (13:22):
Now.

Speaker 2 (13:22):
Are y'all still together now? Anonymous? Because there's got to
be some kind of relationship because y'all have the kids together.

Speaker 7 (13:26):
Yeah, we're still together.

Speaker 4 (13:28):
I did.

Speaker 9 (13:29):
We're trying to work it out.

Speaker 7 (13:30):
We're working it out.

Speaker 2 (13:31):
How many years has it been that he's been cheating,
that you've been working it out?

Speaker 5 (13:35):
Oh?

Speaker 7 (13:35):
It hasn't even been a year yet.

Speaker 2 (13:36):
I'm talking about it's been three years because you know
they've been cheating, so.

Speaker 7 (13:39):
Yeah, the past three years and we're cheating. Yeah, so
maybe they stopped allegedly stop talking, because it never feels.

Speaker 8 (13:46):
Like they ever stopped.

Speaker 7 (13:47):
But right, maybe like in June the summertime.

Speaker 4 (13:52):
All right, yeah, damn, man, would you or did you
speak to the person your mate cheated?

Speaker 2 (13:57):
We want to hear from you. Hit us up eight
six six two four six eight nine two three Big
Boy's neighborhood.

Speaker 1 (14:03):
This is big Boy on demand, Big Boys neighborhood.

Speaker 4 (14:06):
Lord have mercy. We continue to speak on it. Man, Yeah,
would you or did you speak to the person you're
mate cheated with? All right, we need to just change
it to what did you say to the person right here?
Because everybody that's calling us so they spoke to the person.
All right, Let's bring Christy into the neighborhood.

Speaker 2 (14:22):
Christy. Hello, Hello, hello there, Christy. Christy? Would you or
did you speak to the person you makee cheated with?

Speaker 8 (14:30):
I did?

Speaker 2 (14:31):
Alrighty? Oh talk to me Christy? Now what now?

Speaker 4 (14:34):
Boyfriend, girlfriend, husband? What what's the relationship there?

Speaker 6 (14:39):
My baby's dad?

Speaker 2 (14:40):
Okay, baby's dad. And how long had y'all been together?

Speaker 8 (14:43):
Twenty plus years?

Speaker 2 (14:44):
Twenty plus years? Alrighty, Christy? What happened?

Speaker 8 (14:46):
So I tould up at the house and I'm seen
this girl funding outside and I was like what. So
I parked up the street and she had taken off walking,
so I followed her. Turns out I knew who it was.
So I got out her and I was like, you know, like,
what's up or whatever? And she came at me cool,
you know, she was cool people. She told me the truth,
you know, like and you know, he was just saying
he wasn't with me whatever. And so her and I

(15:06):
ended up talking and kicking him with each other quite often,
and I kised him off, you know, and then her
and I ended up putting up with each other.

Speaker 4 (15:12):
Oh wow, there you go, the big payback. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (15:17):
Okay, so so I did Christie. Y'all you and your
the baby dad, y'all weren't living together.

Speaker 8 (15:23):
No, I had just kicked him out.

Speaker 2 (15:25):
Okay, So you had just kicked him out? And where
did you roll up?

Speaker 6 (15:28):
Like?

Speaker 2 (15:28):
You rolled up to his house? Like whe where he
was living his grandma's.

Speaker 8 (15:31):
Yeah, he was staying at his grandma's house, supposed to
be getting it together, right.

Speaker 4 (15:35):
So so he was staying at he was staying at
his grandma's house, and you saw her and you confronted her.

Speaker 2 (15:41):
Yeah, but and then you say, y'all started kicking it?

Speaker 4 (15:43):
Like how long?

Speaker 2 (15:44):
Had y'all? Like, were y'all kicking baby?

Speaker 9 (15:48):
Damn?

Speaker 8 (15:49):
Not like that, you know, not like that now?

Speaker 2 (15:50):
But but but but you and her, y'all did hook up?

Speaker 6 (15:53):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (15:54):
Had you ever been in a relationship like that before? Oh?

Speaker 4 (15:56):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (15:57):
Okay, alrighty you just see it.

Speaker 4 (15:59):
But and I know this may sound crazy, but I
know somebody probably listening, like, man, if you were mad
that he slept with her, then you slept with her.

Speaker 2 (16:06):
Y'all should have just got together.

Speaker 4 (16:09):
I mean, hey, Susan, the subscribed to that only fan
rather not give him the satisfaction. So are you and
you and the girl? Y'all still cool? Y'all still buddies now?
But not like intimate?

Speaker 6 (16:23):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (16:24):
And what did he think about when you got with
the girl that he got with?

Speaker 6 (16:28):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (16:29):
Yeah he was.

Speaker 2 (16:33):
What just happened? Yeah? Yeah? What are you doing with her?
She took his girl?

Speaker 5 (16:38):
For real?

Speaker 6 (16:38):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (16:38):
Yeah?

Speaker 6 (16:39):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (16:39):
Yeah you did?

Speaker 4 (16:40):
You did not this girl, Hey, Christy in a nutshell?
How do you feel now? Do you feel vindicated? Did
you feel better? Or was the emotion still there? Like damn,
he cheated? No, I don't.

Speaker 8 (16:53):
I'm not even mad about it. Like it's like like
I said, I took her from you know what I mean?

Speaker 4 (16:57):
I heard that alrighty man, Well she's finally with I'm
just trying to bring another emotion. I know what you're doing,
and you're like, I'm fine with you. I'm fine and
I'm done with her. What's that?

Speaker 6 (17:06):
What you.

Speaker 2 (17:09):
All right?

Speaker 6 (17:10):
Now?

Speaker 2 (17:10):
When you or did you speak to the person your
mate cheated with?

Speaker 4 (17:13):
Hit us up eight six six two four six eight
nine two three Big Boys Neighborhood Neighborhood.

Speaker 7 (17:22):
Eighties.

Speaker 4 (17:22):
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Speaker 2 (17:26):
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Speaker 6 (17:33):
I'm sorry, I just ran into work right now.

Speaker 2 (17:35):
I heard that.

Speaker 6 (17:38):
Okay, so sorry, I'm gonna catch.

Speaker 2 (17:42):
Myst Okay, No, it's just just live radio, you know.

Speaker 6 (17:48):
I'm so fun. Okay. So basically, we need at least
a day or two days at max, especially someone you.

Speaker 4 (17:59):
Need a day breath, Thank you for listening. It is
upon a big Boy, Big Boys neighborhood. You can catch
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Speaker 5 (18:14):
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Ding dong! Join your culture consultants, Matt Rogers and Bowen Yang, on an unforgettable journey into the beating heart of CULTURE. Alongside sizzling special guests, they GET INTO the hottest pop-culture moments of the day and the formative cultural experiences that turned them into Culturistas. Produced by the Big Money Players Network and iHeartRadio.

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