Autumn and her Bridesmaid Dilemma

Episode Transcript

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John Jay Rich Autumn. Hello,good morning, Thanks for holding. What's
up. I'm confused. So myfriend recently asked me to be a bridesmaid.
I said yes, of course,and I was so thrilled because she
ended up saying that she was goingto pay for all the bridesmaid's dresses so
we didn't have to worry about theexpense, which was very rare. I've

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never heard of that before. Sothe problem is she bought all the bridesmaid's
dresses in a size six, andshe said that if we can't fit into
them, then we have to justhit the gym. Oh wow, Oh
that's offensive. I'm appalled. Imean, it's not okay, and that's

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unrealistic for all of us to haveto fit into a size six by the
time her wedding comes up. Idon't think it's okay. Yeah, that's
like I don't even know how tofeel about that, because it's not even
if like you would need to godownsizes, Like what if you're a size
too and you need to like puton some weight to go to a size
six. Sometimes people can't do thatkind of stuff. I wonder if you

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could just take the dress from herfind out where she got it and then
say I'm gonna need to exchange this. That's like a ridiculous request. Let
me ask you something. So Idon't know sizes with women like Peyton,
what are you? I wear sizefour, but that's new for me.
Okay, that's new. Yeah,like I used to wear size too.

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I'm just a two. So asize six is a bigger size? Is
that it's not? Like, butit's still a pretty small size. Yeah.
Small. I mean it's a sizebigger than me. And I'm I
think I'm big, but other peoplewill not agree to that, you know.
So I remember my friend Brad,who you guys have I've talked about
Brad. You guys have met him, some of you. I was in
his wedding and I remember, likeI was. We had meetings every morning

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and I would every morning eat likea supreme croissant from jacket a box,
which he was the most delicious breakfastsalvage, and he'd walk in and go
the weddings three months away. I'mlike Rex, like you're like my next
all fat and sweaty. That Iremember I was eating a supreme croissant and
then I had a smoothie and hewas like the way two months away,
kind of smoothie relax. Anyway,I didn't lose any way for the wedding,

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and I see, I gotta findthese pictures because I'm like, I'll
I'll get Peter Griffin. But anyway, so that's me, That's what I
was, you know what I mean. He end up getting divorced, so
there, it doesn't matter. Ohmy god. I feel like the brider
groom should care about anyone's weights,your own way, care about appropriate you
might spark some people calling up irritated. Dude, Actually, how do you

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feel, Autumn? What do youwant to do? I mean, I
I want to talk to the otherbrides means, and I don't want to
form a mutiny necessarily. But alsoI'm wondering if I'm the only one that's
feeling this way, is feeling soinsulted, I can't imagine you are you
guys know my friend Chris who Itrain with, Chris, So he's in
a wedding. It's and uh,it's in Denver, and the guys,

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the groomsman all have to get thesame talks at the same place or the
same suit and it and I waslike, oh, whatever, you know,
just do it and he's like,it's green. Like I thought,
you get the suit you could probablywear to other functions. You can't really
wear a green suit anywhere. Christmastime I said that too, Yeah you
got to holiday. But it's thatkind of a weird thing and a grab.

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But I know it's like it's likeyou want the suits and the dresses
to be the color and the themeof the wedding. We like, get
something you can wear. I remembermy wife did is she made everyone all
the bridesmaids had black dresses that youcould wear again. Everyone always says the
bridesmaid dress is a dress you couldwear again. They try. That's what
I thought about. Mind this one? Oh really colors with yours is gray?
Oh yeah, wear gray. It'svery neutral, so they don't wear

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color. None of any any bridesmaidsever wore that dress. What's really in
right now too, is like bridesmaid'sdresses that the bridesmaids get to pick out
on their own right flattering type themchampagne, yeah, and then go exactly
or floral and then have fun andmaking your own. The owl would be
doing that for my wedding for sure. What are you getting married. I

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got a pictures of my future that'scoming. Happened, I don't know,
but autumn we are with you?Girl Like that is so rude and inappropriate,
and you should definitely talk to yourfriend or at least you should give
you a gym membership. Six andhere's a membership of the lifetime. She'd
want you in it because she lovesyou and you are who you are.

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She needs to check herself. Whatif she's not even getting married. This
is all the way to get youto lose weight. That's either way,
it's terrible. Well, thank youfor your support because I just feel a
little bit less crazy now and Ifeel like I have the love little confidence
to go up and say, hey, cool right, thank you, well,
good luck, send us pictures.Thanks for calling in. Thank you,

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Anum. It's jah Jane Rich