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February 14, 2025 • 16 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Tantaine Rich. Good morning, Brianna. Happy Valentine's Day. What's going on?

Speaker 2 (00:05):
Hi?

Speaker 3 (00:05):
Happy Valentine's Day. So yeah, I've been dating this guy
for four months and we're going to Sedona this weekend
to celebrate Valentine's Day, which everybody knows Sedona is super romantic.
And you, I mean you will. Yeah, there's yeah, there's
you know, tons of things for couples. They're like massage,

(00:26):
massages and fancy dinners. You know, you can do the
whole works. So we're doing that, and I'm in desperate
need of a time away from work because i haven't
had a day off since Christmas. Oh wow, Yeah, but
you know he has a thing. I'm as excited as

(00:47):
I am. I'm low key worried that he's going to propose.

Speaker 4 (00:52):
And you've only been dating four months?

Speaker 2 (00:55):
Yes, So what makes you think that?

Speaker 5 (00:58):
Is he like dropping sign? Is he like I want
to marry you and I'm going to propose you in Sedona?
Or like what? How do you know?

Speaker 3 (01:06):
He hasn't straight up told me, but I mean he's
been acting sentimental and even saying things like you know,
we're going to be together forever. And his sister accidentally
dropped a hint to me.

Speaker 6 (01:20):
What'd he say?

Speaker 3 (01:22):
Just that, you know, he's really really over the hills
for you, like enamored, and he kind of lived, you
know another I guess, a year without being totally committed
to you. So I was like, oh gosh, she's definitely
gonna propose, but I have to say no.

Speaker 6 (01:42):
Why.

Speaker 3 (01:44):
I mean, it's been only four months. That's way too soon.

Speaker 1 (01:46):
That is very sel Well, you know when you said that,
he said to you, we're going to be together forever.
That sounds beautiful, but the visual I got is like
you sitting in a chair looking at a mirror and
he's combing your hair, he's brushing hair, and you're tied
to the chair, and.

Speaker 6 (02:02):
He's going, We're going to be together forever. We're going
to be together forever. It was like you'd expect or
else after that.

Speaker 5 (02:08):
Yeah, I imagine that, John Jay, but also in a
plexiglass box, locked in the base, Joe.

Speaker 6 (02:14):
Yeah, So for you, for you can't wait till we
go to Sitna this weekend.

Speaker 2 (02:23):
So this stress free, romantic weekend that you're all down
for is low key driving you crazy because you're worried
about the ring coming out.

Speaker 3 (02:32):
Yeah, yeah, like you know, like in all jokes aside,
I really don't want to hurt his feelings. I mean,
but if he does propose, like I'm gonna have to
break up with him.

Speaker 1 (02:46):
And other than that, like if you didn't, you would
want to still go on in the relationship.

Speaker 6 (02:49):
You love that, you think he's a great guy.

Speaker 3 (02:51):
Yeah, absolutely, Oh my gosh.

Speaker 1 (02:55):
Okay, So what would you like us to do you
just want to vent?

Speaker 6 (02:59):
Or do you want to call him?

Speaker 3 (03:02):
Like, let's call him and maybe chalk it out. I mean,
I just want to have an enjoyable weekend.

Speaker 6 (03:08):
Like do you want to him?

Speaker 1 (03:10):
You want to poke around and make sure he's going
to propose and then you can stop You want us
to stop it?

Speaker 6 (03:15):
Or do you want to stop it?

Speaker 3 (03:18):
I'm hoping you guys can convince him that this is
a bad idea, Like we just need to take take
a slow, take our time.

Speaker 2 (03:25):
I'm trying to think in the point of view of
a guy. If you've got your proposal planned this weekend
and your potential fiance says, I still want to go
hang out, but if you propose, you're going to ruin
the whole weekend. Where would I be? I think I'd
be pretty upset that you didn't want to say yes.

Speaker 4 (03:41):
No.

Speaker 6 (03:41):
I think I'm like, okay you.

Speaker 2 (03:44):
Later. I hope you've got to prepare for the eventuality
that he's going to be like, well, then the whole
thing's off if you don't want to marry me together forever.

Speaker 6 (03:52):
Let's call him.

Speaker 5 (03:53):
Well, so how are we going to be Are you
going to tell him and be like, hey, we know
you're going to propose, don't do it?

Speaker 6 (03:57):
Or are we going to just like, ay.

Speaker 1 (03:59):
We just start just talking him? See where enrolls? But Brianna,
what's what's his name?

Speaker 3 (04:04):
Jamal?

Speaker 6 (04:05):
Okay, let's do this. We'll take a quick break.

Speaker 1 (04:07):
We'll get your number, we'll get his number from you,
and then we'll call him up here after the song okay,
and then we'll just kind of feel him out, and
if he goes that way, we will try to guide
him otherwise. All right, So hold on the line, Hold
on the line. We're gonna find out is there gonna
be a proposal this week? And for Brianna we will
call her boyfriend next.

Speaker 6 (04:27):
Got Brianna the line. She's been dating Jamal for four months.

Speaker 1 (04:30):
They're going away to sad Dona, very romantic place actually,
and she's afraid he's gonna propose because his sister gave clues.
He's said that they're gonna be together forever. She likes him, right,
Briandna you like him a lot.

Speaker 3 (04:43):
Yeah, he's awesome.

Speaker 6 (04:45):
Maybe a year from.

Speaker 1 (04:45):
Now or two years from now you would be willing
to get engaged, but not four months in so you're just.

Speaker 6 (04:50):
A little nervous.

Speaker 3 (04:52):
Yeah, definitely.

Speaker 6 (04:53):
Okay.

Speaker 1 (04:53):
So essentially you want us to you want us to
be the fall guys. You want us to make sure
he doesn't propose.

Speaker 2 (04:59):
I mean, it's your your first trip ever together. Maybe
that is a little suit. Maybe we can get behind
you on that one.

Speaker 6 (05:04):
Let's get him on the phone.

Speaker 7 (05:05):
You stay quiet for a second, okay, Breanda, Hello.

Speaker 5 (05:16):
Hey is Jamal there?

Speaker 2 (05:19):
Yes, Jamal, Hey, Jamal.

Speaker 5 (05:21):
My name is Peyton and I'm with John Jay and
Rich and we just wanted to talk to you on
the radio really quickly this morning.

Speaker 4 (05:27):
What's going on?

Speaker 6 (05:27):
Happy Valentine's state? Jamal? Oh?

Speaker 8 (05:31):
Okay, appreciated.

Speaker 1 (05:35):
We love you, We love you. A little bird told us,
Jamal that there's a chance that you and your girlfriend,
who I understand you and her are pretty serious.

Speaker 4 (05:43):
Right, Yes, I mean I think Solopics Forget is getting there.

Speaker 1 (05:49):
Okay, So do you have plans this weekend? We heard
you do have plans, but just kind of want to
unpack them a little bit this weekend. Maybe you're going
somewhere romantic.

Speaker 4 (05:58):
Yeah, So I'm taking my girl, Brianna. We're going to
a place called Sadannah.

Speaker 8 (06:12):
Oha.

Speaker 2 (06:15):
Okayanna, it might be different.

Speaker 4 (06:18):
No, no, yeah, Sedona.

Speaker 8 (06:20):
I mean my first time going. So, uh, I just
heard it was really nice. I'm taking her out there.

Speaker 4 (06:27):
We've been dating for about three or four months, and uh, honestly,
I'm kind of nervous because I was talking to her
friend Miranda, and she just kept giving me hints about
how Brie was, you know, looking to settle down and
possibly get real serious. So I took that as a.

Speaker 8 (06:53):
Lost heir. S I went and got a ring.

Speaker 6 (06:55):
Okay, So Miranda is telling you that Brianna is up
for it.

Speaker 8 (07:01):
Yeah, and you know how girls talk, so.

Speaker 1 (07:03):
Right, Okay, So what if we're like, let's say we're
your best friends and we're telling you he maybe you
shouldn't do that just yet.

Speaker 6 (07:10):
Maybe you should wait a little bit longer. Only three
or four months in.

Speaker 8 (07:14):
I hear where you're coming from when you know you
know right?

Speaker 2 (07:19):
Yeah, No, there's no need to rush, you know what
they you know what I always heard. I always heard
four seasons, four trips, this is your first season in
your first trip. Also, like, is Miranda that good of
a friend like Mirando?

Speaker 3 (07:33):
Any details like she wants to settle down asap?

Speaker 6 (07:37):
Or like eventually she's in that mode.

Speaker 4 (07:40):
I mean, I've heard the whole four seasons, four trip
things too, but why not have one season together?

Speaker 8 (07:48):
Three trips? Mary?

Speaker 1 (07:51):
Okay, so let me let me walking through that X this.
So you're in Sadana this weekend and you're going to
find it like a nice romantic Maybe you're going to
be an enchantment or the bear, or you're going to
be walking by a creek. Are you going to just
drop down to one knee and be like, I love you,
You're marry me? Is that your plan?

Speaker 4 (08:10):
Yeah?

Speaker 6 (08:10):
Pretty much?

Speaker 1 (08:11):
Okay, So I don't want to be like I don't
think I hate to be the show to do this,
but we have.

Speaker 6 (08:16):
To bring in somebody to talk to you real quick. Brianna,
have you been listening to all this?

Speaker 3 (08:21):
Yeah?

Speaker 5 (08:21):
I have.

Speaker 3 (08:23):
I hate Jamal, Hey, I definitely agree. We need to
take things slow. We need to have clear boundaries here.
I think we need to at least talk about marriage
together before we just launch into getting you know, rings
and proposing.

Speaker 4 (08:41):
I come from an environment where you shoot and ask
questions later, so I'm going to just I notice is sudden,
and I was going to wait until we went out
of Valentoine's Day. But and I know you can't see
me right now, but bree baby, I'm on one knee

(09:01):
right now. And again, I know, I know it's only
been four months.

Speaker 8 (09:08):
Do the best thing that's ever happened to me?

Speaker 4 (09:12):
And oh my god, it just I really please, please,
please please just let me finish.

Speaker 8 (09:17):
Let me finish. You're the best thing that's ever happened
to me.

Speaker 3 (09:20):
And I.

Speaker 8 (09:22):
Knew it when I first saw you. I just knew.
I felt something inside. And they say, when you know,
you know, and I know, so breathe, will you marry me?

Speaker 3 (09:38):
I Tama, I'm really like, You're amazing. I really love
the thought. I just don't want to. I don't want
to have to break up. But this is too much.
It's way too much pressure on me. Right now.

Speaker 4 (09:56):
I'm nervous too, I promise, I am, but I you
want to confess my love in front of everybody? Since
I didn't know I was going to be in the radio,
so I didn't know this was going to go down
like this either.

Speaker 6 (10:09):
But you were gonna do it in Saddana this weekend.

Speaker 1 (10:12):
Maybe now if she says, yes, you guys can go
to La Jalla, California.

Speaker 2 (10:19):
So she says, I don't want to propose. That was
more than a double down. Yeah, that was all down.

Speaker 6 (10:34):
Why would you do that? The hard ones? What the
hard ones? Peyton?

Speaker 1 (10:37):
Hey, guys, the start off slow? Take her like to Waco,
Texas or Louisville, Kentucky.

Speaker 8 (10:45):
I'm all in.

Speaker 4 (10:46):
I don't think.

Speaker 8 (10:47):
Guess. I know these streets are bad. I know how
bad they can get. I got single friends out there.

Speaker 4 (10:53):
I don't want to go back, and I know she
doesn't want to go back either. Maybe she just don't
understand that right now, like what she's.

Speaker 5 (10:59):
Say is or like maybe like just wait, yeah, and
like how do you skip to engagement? Like aren't there
searching as promise rings too? Like you really wanted to
really show your commitment, like get her a promise ring.
I promised to be loyal to you, to be faithful
to you, and eventually marry you. Like, I don't understand
why you had to go straight for the engagement ring. Wow.

Speaker 2 (11:17):
I'm surprised, though, Peyton. I would think you'd be like,
I'll take the ring.

Speaker 5 (11:21):
Well, yeah, but I've been with my boyfriend for four
and a half years. I mean I did get his
initial tattooed on me after like three weeks.

Speaker 6 (11:29):
Oh my god, that's even more hardcore. Yeah it is.
Were you even on vacation? Were you guys in Boyce, Idaho? Actually? So,
where are we, Brienna?

Speaker 3 (11:44):
I hope you can return the ring. I'm so sorry
I can't do this. I'm hoping you can put that
money towards something better, you know, like even if you
still want to go on this trip, like we can
just hang out as friends and the memories you're taking
it back a whole not friends. I think that's what

(12:07):
we have to do at this point.

Speaker 6 (12:08):
I agree. I agree with you.

Speaker 5 (12:09):
I think you're so right. You know what's best for you.

Speaker 4 (12:12):
I think we've had too many special moments and you
know what I'm talking about to be just friends.

Speaker 6 (12:18):
That romantic tuxst in Arizona.

Speaker 8 (12:23):
I didn't know, so let's let's not let's not a
lie on the radio.

Speaker 3 (12:28):
I'm not lying. I you know, I agree at least
let it go for four seasons, four trips, any of
these places that are you know, great places to visit
and a little hard to pronounce, but like, yeah, we
can just take it slow.

Speaker 8 (12:48):
But we are taking it slow.

Speaker 4 (12:50):
Just because I propose and you say yes doesn't mean
that we're going to the courthouse tomorrow.

Speaker 6 (12:58):
You didn't hear her say yes.

Speaker 1 (12:59):
He didn't say he's got a poet like I proposed,
and we waited eighteen months after right, I.

Speaker 4 (13:05):
Know, I get I get that she didn't say yes,
but saying she can still say yes and we can
be a fiance, uh, you know, fiance and for you know,
you can get some time want you though, you guys,
we're going around the circles.

Speaker 1 (13:23):
You guys, listen, listen. Thank you both for going on
there with us. Happy Valentine's Day. I think Jamal is
a really nice guy. Brian, are you amazing? But you
guys got to communicate a little bit more.

Speaker 3 (13:33):
I agree, Okay, yeah, all right.

Speaker 1 (13:36):
So Happy Valentine's Day, Jamal, you are awesome. Thank you
for jumping on the air with us.

Speaker 8 (13:40):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, no problem. I'll see you this weekend.

Speaker 3 (13:46):
We'll talk, we'll talk.

Speaker 6 (13:47):
All right.

Speaker 1 (13:48):
Happy Valentine's Day, Ariel, Good morning, Happy Valentine's Day.

Speaker 3 (13:53):
Good morning, Happy Valentine's Day.

Speaker 6 (13:55):
What's going on? What can we do for you?

Speaker 2 (13:57):
So?

Speaker 3 (13:58):
Me and my seven year old son, Henry, we listen
to you guys every morning, and I was wondering if
Henry will you be my Valentine?

Speaker 6 (14:12):
Shut down?

Speaker 3 (14:15):
I love you so much, I want you Valentine. Come on, Henry, Henry,
will you be my Valentine? Please? Oh he's even his

(14:35):
own special language now that means.

Speaker 6 (14:39):
That means yes, yes, Thank you for listening. You guys,
have a great day.

Speaker 3 (14:46):
Thank you.

Speaker 6 (14:47):
What up?

Speaker 5 (14:48):
Ray?

Speaker 6 (14:48):
What's going on? Have you been sure? Papin? Sir will good?
What's up?

Speaker 1 (14:57):
Man?

Speaker 9 (14:58):
No, they've been coming about the A couple of from
Valentine's I met my wife. We went out on the
Friday before Eastern We got married four months later, and
we've been married for the last twenty six years, all right.
And the funny thing about it that all our friends
were saying, oh, no, you guys will be divorced by
a year year and a half. Well, I would say

(15:18):
about eighty percent of her friends are the ones that
were divorced that they're working like their second or third
marriage and we're still together.

Speaker 6 (15:26):
Amazing.

Speaker 3 (15:26):
But you guys probably both wanted to get married.

Speaker 5 (15:29):
Right.

Speaker 9 (15:30):
Well, I remember John Jay one time saying about love
at first sight doesn't work. Well, sorry to say, no.

Speaker 6 (15:39):
No, no, no, I'm going to tell you why.

Speaker 1 (15:41):
I'm going to tell you why I'm right and why
you're very lucky you happened. You said you met her
on Good Friday. That's the only way it works. You
met her the friday before Easter. That is the only
day if you're going to meet someone and do love
at first sight, is on good Friday.

Speaker 6 (15:55):
Look it up if he is at fourteen twelve.

Speaker 9 (16:01):
Yeah, yeah, you sound like me to a point, because
we're never wrong.

Speaker 1 (16:05):
Right, Look it up, Ray, look it up, and congratulations man,
thanks for listening.

Speaker 9 (16:10):
Okay, Well, if I happened to find I wrote I
wrote a story about what happened between me, and if
I find it, I'll send it to you, Johnny.

Speaker 6 (16:18):
Yeah, we'll print it in our newspaper. Okay, thanks, Ray, Okay,
you just told the story. It's a radio show. Newspaper
wrote a story. You just told the story. It's an
audio program. Kind to take it easy and put in
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