July 3, 2026 • 32 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:03):
Something I want to talk about.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
This game is called firework, or you're a jerk.
Speaker 3 (00:08):
Okay, It's Friday and John got a game for you.
Speaker 1 (00:14):
So I'm gonna tell you if you have to tell me,
it's a real brand of firework. If that's the answer,
you say firework. If it's a trick answer, reply, you're
a jerk.
Speaker 3 (00:23):
Okay, okay, Rich bottle rocket firework.
Speaker 1 (00:29):
It's a small rocket that's approximately the size of a
standard firecracker, about one and a half inches long, and
it is a bottle rocket. Is a real firework, Yes,
Payton fire towork.
Speaker 4 (00:40):
You're a jerk.
Speaker 1 (00:41):
Yeah, it's a small rocket that it's not right, Kyle
Roman candle before you answer, it's a paper tube filled
with a composition that shoots flaming balls out of one end.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
Of the tube. Firework, Yes, Rich Lance Armstrong candle.
Speaker 1 (00:56):
It's a paper tube filled with composition that shoots only
one flaming ball out of one in a tube. It's
named for Lance Armstrong, the American bicyclist who had one
baller mood when fighting tistics your cancer, also known as
the Tom green Well.
Speaker 3 (01:07):
He is the biggest jerk in sports. So you're a jerk.
Speaker 2 (01:10):
Yes.
Speaker 1 (01:11):
Peyton Sexual fireworks the formal name for fireworks that also
doubles romantic aids. They were popular among the communes of
the nineteen sixties, and they're now banned in most states
by state and federal law.
Speaker 2 (01:22):
You're jerk, Yes, Kyle.
Speaker 1 (01:26):
Proximate fireworks the formal name for indoor fireworks. Indoor fireworks
are used for concerts and public events. Fireworks, Yes, rich
the palm tree, an aerial effect that produces a gold
or silver stem as the shell rises into the sky.
Speaker 3 (01:42):
Firework.
Speaker 1 (01:43):
Yes, peyton the evergreen tree, an aerial effect that produces
a green and brown effects similar.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
To a Christmas tree.
Speaker 3 (01:49):
You're jerk.
Speaker 2 (01:50):
Yes, Kyle.
Speaker 1 (01:52):
The eight pound cracker one thousand dollars one thousand roll cracker.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
Inside a plastic keeps cake item.
Speaker 4 (01:58):
You're jerk.
Speaker 2 (01:58):
No, it's a firework.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
Rich peony and aerial effect that looks like a spherical
ball of colored lights in the sky.
Speaker 2 (02:05):
Very common area effect for most firework shows.
Speaker 3 (02:07):
Yeah, that's a fireworks.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
Yes, it is peytonistill a ball of stars in the
center of another.
Speaker 2 (02:13):
Ball of stars.
Speaker 3 (02:15):
Fireworks.
Speaker 1 (02:15):
Yes, Kyle. The uncle cracker, It's a one thousand rolled cracker.
Inside of plastic keepskate. It resembles the singer.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
Uncle Cracker, your jerk, I am I know where.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
Rich Catherine Wheels spitting fireworks that create a wheel of sparks.
Speaker 3 (02:31):
It's a great band from the eighties. Also a firework.
Speaker 2 (02:35):
Named for a torture device. It's a firework. Peyton Mines ground.
Speaker 1 (02:38):
Based fireworks that shoots stars or other effects into the airwork.
Speaker 2 (02:42):
Yes, Kyle m eighty Yeah, firework Peyton the I ten
your jer.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
Yeah, that was a stupid game.
Speaker 2 (02:58):
Is kind of stupid, but that was really stupid.
Speaker 3 (03:01):
It's Friday, and got a game for you.
Speaker 1 (03:12):
John Dane Rich. So Payton's been married for what two
months now? Yeah, just about two months, and this is
breaking news. I can't wait to hear she found something
out about Kadeem, her husband, that you didn't know before
you got married.
Speaker 3 (03:25):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (03:26):
I feel so betrayed.
Speaker 5 (03:27):
And to be completely honest, I feel like our entire
relationship and marriage has been based on a lie.
Speaker 2 (03:32):
What really I do?
Speaker 6 (03:34):
I do?
Speaker 5 (03:35):
He gets on my nerves I discovered about him.
Speaker 4 (03:39):
This is so stupid.
Speaker 5 (03:41):
Okay, So you know Kadeem and I we actually met
in college playing basketball. He played basketball his whole life.
I played basketball my whole life. Both our dads were
our coaches growing up. That's where we that's where we are,
that's where we connect. Right. So, Kadem, he actually shoots
the basketball with his left hand, but he writes and
eats with his right hand. So he told me when
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we first started dating that when he was like three
or four, when he really started to pick up a basketball,
that he broke his right arm so he had to
learn how to shoot with his left hand. I was like,
makes sense to me.
Speaker 4 (04:15):
You do everything else with your right hand. You're just
a left handed shooter. Pretty cool whatever.
Speaker 5 (04:19):
Come to find out, apparently this mofo is ambidextrious.
Speaker 4 (04:23):
He's not just left handed.
Speaker 2 (04:27):
So did he not break his arm?
Speaker 3 (04:28):
He didn't break his army straight up?
Speaker 5 (04:30):
This lie.
Speaker 1 (04:31):
Why wouldn't he just say is ambidex I would think
the bigger thing is about being ambidextriates that he lies?
Speaker 5 (04:36):
Yeah, why he just got on him. But I was like,
why would you make that story up and tell me that?
He was like I told you that. I was like, yeah,
So apparently this is just something he tells random people.
So apparently I was just a random person at one
point and why you were you were betrayed?
Speaker 2 (04:53):
Can he write both perfectly?
Speaker 7 (04:55):
No?
Speaker 5 (04:55):
He so he's he can write with his right hand,
but if like he were to or punch, he's punching
with his left sense. But if he was going to
go kick somebody, he's kicking.
Speaker 4 (05:04):
With his right foot.
Speaker 2 (05:05):
You know what happened, Rich, tell the story. Rich.
Speaker 3 (05:07):
I'm left handed, but I went to a Catholic school.
In all the desks for those little right handed desks,
and I couldn't reach over far enough to write. And
then one of my nuns said, well, the devil is
left handed. So I switched to my right hand.
Speaker 4 (05:22):
That is dia barde.
Speaker 3 (05:26):
I even got. I asked my parents to put me
in a class where they would pull me out of
class and show me how to write with my right
hand on. But you see, like how crazy? Do you see?
How crazy neat my writing is? That's because of all that,
because I was afraid to wret.
Speaker 5 (05:43):
Used to walk around with like the rulers back then did.
Speaker 3 (05:45):
But there when we used to have to do essays,
I could flip back and forth pretty regularly. I'd write
something with my right and then I'd switch to my left.
And you couldn't tell the.
Speaker 1 (05:52):
Difference, So Paynt found out that her husband is ambidextrious.
Speaker 2 (05:57):
That's the big lie before she got married.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
Sarah, Sarah, what did you find out about your significant
other after you got married?
Speaker 8 (06:04):
It was a couple of years after that. He showed
me a YouTube video of himself up against Joey Chestnut,
the world hot dog eating champion.
Speaker 4 (06:14):
No way, that's awesome.
Speaker 2 (06:16):
I'm assuming he did not win. He did not win,
but he's right next to him sucking down hot dogs
left and right.
Speaker 8 (06:23):
Yeah, he signed up because he was a little bit
inebriated and he decided he wanted some free sausages.
Speaker 3 (06:29):
Well I had I get that. How did he how
did he do? What did he? Was he at least
in the in the competition?
Speaker 8 (06:36):
No? No, no, he's the guy next.
Speaker 1 (06:41):
It's bad if you would have known this before you
got married. But you've been like, WHOA hold on a minute.
I don't think so.
Speaker 9 (06:47):
No.
Speaker 8 (06:47):
I think it would have stealed the deal a lot quicker.
Speaker 1 (06:49):
Okay, all right, Sarah, thank you for calling in Christina.
What did you find out about your significant other after
you got married?
Speaker 7 (06:58):
I found out early during an episode of Everyone Loves Raymond.
This is after three years, and I said, could you
imagine if there's something that I was doing that you
repeatedly did not like? And that's when he told me
he actually doesn't like anything.
Speaker 10 (07:15):
With lemons, referring to my lemon chicken.
Speaker 2 (07:19):
Oh no, so you making lemon chicken. He would still
eat it.
Speaker 11 (07:23):
Oh.
Speaker 7 (07:23):
I was making it once a week and he was
eating it the whole thing.
Speaker 6 (07:28):
Never said anything.
Speaker 7 (07:29):
Oh he said something. Yeah, he finally said something during
an episode of Everyone.
Speaker 4 (07:34):
Loved kind of cute.
Speaker 1 (07:38):
Thank you, Christina, thanks for sharing that story. These are
really cute. I thought it was gonna go totally stop.
I found out that he was, you know, gay only
fan star.
Speaker 5 (07:45):
Jeez, that's how I felt like.
Speaker 3 (07:48):
I'm sure you were shook to the core.
Speaker 1 (07:53):
Why would you let's do more? Eight seven, seven nine
three seven one four seven. What did you find out
about your significant other after you got married?
Speaker 2 (08:02):
We'll talk to you next, John, Jay and Rich Why.
Speaker 7 (08:04):
You always in moon.
Speaker 2 (08:08):
Play? Played by your ruse.
Speaker 1 (08:13):
If. Stephanie Peyton told us that she learned something about
her husband after they got married.
Speaker 2 (08:17):
The don't have been married two months. She learned that
he's ambidextrious.
Speaker 1 (08:20):
What did you learn about your significant other after you
got married.
Speaker 6 (08:24):
My husband and I dated for nine years before we
got married, and three years after he and I got married,
I found out he had a brother.
Speaker 3 (08:32):
What well, no, I'll even gotchup even before we got married.
Speaker 6 (08:38):
Two weeks before we got married, he came home. We
had just moved in together, getting ready for the wedding,
and he came home one day, two weeks before we
got married, and he said, Hey, my brother Tony wants
to come over and meet you. And I went, who's
Tony my brother? Okay, well, I didn't think much of
about it. And then three years afterwards, we have a
(08:58):
joint profile on Facebook and I get the Sundary quest
from somebody and I said, hey, do you know who.
Speaker 9 (09:03):
This person is?
Speaker 1 (09:04):
He goes, yes, my brother.
Speaker 6 (09:05):
I'm like, okay, wait a minute, are there any other
siblings I.
Speaker 4 (09:08):
Need to know about?
Speaker 2 (09:11):
Hilarious?
Speaker 6 (09:12):
I know that was the last one.
Speaker 3 (09:14):
There's some dudes that if you don't ask him, you
just don't find out. It's not like they're trying to
keep it from you, they just don't share. I don't share.
Speaker 6 (09:23):
Yes, that was a little.
Speaker 11 (09:25):
Bit of a surprise.
Speaker 2 (09:26):
Thank you, Stephanie. Thanks for listening, Thanks for calling in,
Thank you for listening.
Speaker 11 (09:29):
Yeah you got it?
Speaker 1 (09:30):
Eight seven seven ninety seven four seven. What did you
find out about your shiitificaten? Other after he got married?
A couple of texts. Lisa says that he drank two
beers every night after he got home from work.
Speaker 2 (09:42):
I was worried too.
Speaker 1 (09:42):
It increased and I told him I wouldn't be married
to an alcoholic. Forty years later, it's still just two
beers every night. Oh. My mom found out after twenty
years of marriage that my dad had been married two
times prior instead of one. During my grandmother's funeral, both
ex wives and my mom were in attendance to pay respect.
(10:03):
My dad's response was he didn't have kids, so it
didn't seem like it mattered.
Speaker 2 (10:06):
It was just my practice marriage.
Speaker 3 (10:09):
He's like, you, I got it right.
Speaker 1 (10:11):
When we got married. Betty says, we got married. When
he met me, he told me his name was NICKI
when he got married, I learned.
Speaker 2 (10:16):
Out that his name was Miguel.
Speaker 1 (10:20):
Violet says, I got married, I found out he folds
the towels wrong. Charman, what'd you find out about your
your scenamic? Another Sharman Sharman.
Speaker 3 (10:36):
Oh my God, might have us muted.
Speaker 1 (10:39):
Sure, Scharman, I'm gonna keep gogle a couple more of these, Charmon,
hopefully you can pick up.
Speaker 2 (10:46):
Let's see found out that she was by? Interesting? Okay,
well hold on, Charman, we'll come back to you. Gloria.
Speaker 7 (10:55):
Hello, I found out that he was by, and I
had like I kind of knew.
Speaker 11 (11:02):
But once we got married, he came clean.
Speaker 3 (11:06):
Why not share that before? You think that would be
something you need to know?
Speaker 4 (11:11):
But is that why? I did he share that? Because
he wanted to bring someone else in? Like, what was
the point of sharing that?
Speaker 9 (11:19):
It's like at that point, you guys, I think.
Speaker 10 (11:22):
I think it was. Well, it was during COVID and
you know a lot of people were going through.
Speaker 7 (11:29):
Loneliness, that kind of thing.
Speaker 6 (11:31):
So I think that m pumpling to me, Yeah, your.
Speaker 2 (11:34):
Your quarantine went on floor around what best?
Speaker 3 (11:39):
Let's see let's see how you are.
Speaker 2 (11:42):
Are you still with him, Gloria, Yes.
Speaker 10 (11:44):
I am.
Speaker 11 (11:46):
We've been married for.
Speaker 8 (11:47):
Nine years now.
Speaker 2 (11:48):
Well thanks for calling in.
Speaker 11 (11:50):
Thank you?
Speaker 1 (11:51):
Just chicken with Sherman Charmany there, Charman, not Sherman Charman anyway,
Maybe Charlemagne. It's Charlemagne and the breakfast. I'll put it
back on hold.
Speaker 2 (12:06):
One etarity, lay down, Okay, listen.
Speaker 1 (12:10):
I'm hesitant to do this, you guys, okay, so bear
with me, but let's just try it. Charman, good morning.
Speaker 11 (12:18):
Good morning. Well you guys are gonna probably be blown
(12:40):
away by this. But after I got married, I found
out that my husband is a gang member.
Speaker 1 (12:46):
Oh like gang member, like street gang, or like cartel
or like mafia.
Speaker 11 (12:51):
Like a Latin king gang member.
Speaker 4 (12:56):
And I hesitate to ask how you found out? How
do you stumble up? Yeah, you know exactly.
Speaker 6 (13:06):
No.
Speaker 11 (13:06):
He he he got a phone call and he was
very hush hush about it. So I kept questioning and
questioning him, and he ended up telling me, and I'm like,
oh my god, why didn't you tell me this before
we got married? Because I didn't think you would marry me?
And I was like, you know, I don't, I don't
judge people, but I wish he would have told me
(13:27):
that that's what he was. Not that. I mean, I
know I'm protected, I'm not worried about that, but just
knowing and him keeping something so big from me was
like way out there.
Speaker 3 (13:39):
So is the call him when he gets a call
is it he's getting, you know, assigned a task or
something from the gang.
Speaker 11 (13:49):
Yes, and no he's Ah, God, I don't know if
I should say that on the air, but yeah, he's
getting a call for or him to go do things.
Speaker 2 (14:02):
But is he a hit man?
Speaker 11 (14:03):
Since I don't, I really, I don't.
Speaker 2 (14:09):
Want to see independent higher.
Speaker 1 (14:13):
So you're so you're still you're still married to him?
Speaker 11 (14:17):
Oh, definitely.
Speaker 1 (14:19):
But he lives in the United States. He lives in
the United States, but works for a Mexican cartel.
Speaker 11 (14:25):
Well, he's Puerto Rican, not a cartel. He's not a cartel.
Things get done and things get said, so you know,
and it's never it's it's never about anything that has
to do with a family or anything like that. It's
just you know, you just you you don't. You can't
cross him. And he's not a bad guy. You've got
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the biggest heart in the world that I've ever met,
Like he's he's my everything. But just I wish he
would have said something, you know, so I would have
been prepared because the phone call, I wasn't. I wasn't
prepared for.
Speaker 1 (14:59):
Hey, what happened in the beginning this phone I tried
to pick you up twice and it didn't work, and
I'm doing something that I hate doing.
Speaker 4 (15:04):
So I was trying to stop her from saying there
was no.
Speaker 1 (15:07):
No, no, I was gonna say because my wife, she's one
of these people were like her and I are talking
and if there's a disconnection on the phone when she
calls back, the whole conversation about what happened, what happened,
I'm driving through a tunnel? What why did we get disconnected?
It must be you. It must not be you. Mean,
I'm like, it doesn't matter, which is what we would
we talk about. But I don't understand my phone must
be acting weird. And that's the whole conversation. And then
(15:27):
I go, Okay, I gotta go buy. So I was like,
I want to know what happened.
Speaker 2 (15:30):
To try. We tried to pick up twice. Try to
pick up twice, CA and pigre up what happened? And
I don't.
Speaker 1 (15:33):
And it's funny because I'm doing what I despise what happened.
We tried to pick up twice?
Speaker 11 (15:38):
You doing that, J I appreciate you doing that because
just so.
Speaker 2 (15:42):
Your husband I was nice to you.
Speaker 11 (15:46):
He is he's very nice to me. I don't think
that's wrong.
Speaker 2 (15:50):
He said, thank you for calling it, and don't you
for me? Good God, you called that.
Speaker 7 (15:59):
Thank you?
Speaker 2 (16:04):
Right.
Speaker 1 (16:04):
So you got fourth of July weekend coming up, and
there's a lot going on, right, People are traveling, people
are barbecuing, right, And I have two things that fall
into that category.
Speaker 2 (16:15):
For one, seven things you should never grill.
Speaker 1 (16:19):
Okay, seven things you should And I think this is
going to cause controversy.
Speaker 4 (16:24):
Really, do you know what?
Speaker 2 (16:25):
Number one on that list is? Hamburgers?
Speaker 5 (16:29):
How else are you supposed to make up?
Speaker 2 (16:31):
It says.
Speaker 1 (16:32):
The argument is that fat trips down the outside, doesn't
get caramelized, you lose all the flavor you're supposed to use,
like a flat piece of cast iron you put on
top of the grill. So fourth of July it's all
about freedom, though, So you do what you want. So
filet migna not supposed to grill an It doesn't have
enough fat on the grill, and they're usually pretty thick,
so it's hard to cook them the way you want
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when you're using a flame.
Speaker 3 (16:53):
Cast iron skillet. Butter it's the way to go with.
Speaker 2 (16:55):
That, right.
Speaker 1 (16:56):
The same thing pizza most girls don't cook very evenly.
It's hard to get the toppings to cook right, so
you got to use a living and foil or a
pizza stove anyway.
Speaker 5 (17:07):
I feel like people are only doing that with their
like black stones nowadays, but those aren't open flames, so
it makes it different things.
Speaker 2 (17:12):
Never to barbecue.
Speaker 1 (17:13):
Fish, including salmon, tends to do better when you cook
it on low heat. Pork chops all that you lose
out the delicious fat shish kebobs, which by the way,
is really weird looking at the words shish kebobs, shish
spell shish.
Speaker 9 (17:26):
I was insheah, it looks weird.
Speaker 1 (17:30):
Kebab shish kebobs. They're actually okay on the grill, but
not the way most people do. And vegetables tend to
cook faster than meat, so don't put everything on the
same skewer. Put meat on one and veggies on the other,
and then melty cheeses.
Speaker 2 (17:42):
Don't put cheeses on there.
Speaker 1 (17:44):
Noll I was saving this for last. But this is
all according to chat chipe Tea.
Speaker 4 (17:51):
It's like, what is chatting about grilling?
Speaker 1 (17:53):
Do you want to hear something weird about chatchpe tea?
I was asking it some advice about parenting this is.
Speaker 2 (17:58):
Really really weird heard.
Speaker 1 (18:00):
So I'm going back forth to Chatchy to me about
some some advice.
Speaker 2 (18:03):
Like I was trying to be one of my kids.
Speaker 1 (18:05):
I was there was an issue with one of my kids,
so I wanted to I know, if this makes sense,
I'm about to say.
Speaker 2 (18:10):
I wanted to be the dad that he needed for
the situation he was in. And I was struggling.
Speaker 1 (18:15):
So I was asking Chetchip t something and Chatti said
to me, from one dad to another, from one dad to.
Speaker 2 (18:22):
Another, I gotta tell you this.
Speaker 1 (18:23):
And I was like, he's got a little baby chat.
I thought that was so such a weird football sty.
Speaker 4 (18:33):
Congratulations becoming a father.
Speaker 2 (18:35):
Yeah, isn't that weird version of chat? He was like listening.
He was like, from one dad to another, like, trust me,
this is the right move. This what I think.
Speaker 12 (18:43):
I was like, No, you got kids, dude, man, I go,
why wouldn't you have kids?
Speaker 1 (18:47):
You already got? Maybe you're hooking up with Kyle Schatch. Anyway,
I was talking to you. There's also a travel stuff.
People are barbecuing and traveling, and I guess TSA is
put out a thing of things not to put in
a little thing that goes through.
Speaker 3 (19:04):
The airport, the conveyor belt, the security check.
Speaker 1 (19:07):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (19:07):
Things never to put in there, like wallas and cash.
Speaker 1 (19:09):
Take all your cash and put it in your wallet
and then put your wallet inside of a bag. I
first time ever saw anyone do that was Rich. He
takes all this stuff and puts it in his bag,
and it was like, what are you doing? Just throw
it in the little round thing. No, because I don't
want to get stopped by anybody. I throw it my backpack,
zip it all up. If you lose cash, they won't
return it, but not why would they don't put your
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passport or ID in there? Same with your wallet, put
it in the bag. Your phone to s aln so
the number one place for stolen smartphones.
Speaker 9 (19:37):
That kind of makes sense because you know, sometimes you
need more than one bin. And let's say your phone
is just sitting out and in the other bind but
they take your first bin, Like maybe you left the
water bottle on your backpack.
Speaker 4 (19:47):
You kind of have to go over there. Easy to swipe.
Speaker 1 (19:50):
Watches and jewelry. Don't put those in the thing. Loose
lynthium batteries or power banks because they're a fire risk. Headphones,
classes neck pillows now because you might lose them because
the bins.
Speaker 2 (20:00):
Are loaded with germs.
Speaker 1 (20:01):
Oh and those germs are about to touch your face. Yeah,
So be careful this fourth of July where you're grilling
and when you're traveling, and know that your chat GPT
has kids.
Speaker 12 (20:14):
All right, it's John Daye ridd.
Speaker 1 (20:26):
You can text the show. You text jj R and
whatever your message is to nine six eight nine three.
I was in our iHeart Radio kitchen, the red Red
Red kitchen, making some coffee paint. Came walking in like
she spray painted her jeans on and she was like,
there's a skinny jeans. James is supposed to be banging.
(20:47):
That's exactly what happened.
Speaker 4 (20:48):
That's not okay, that's not exactly that.
Speaker 5 (20:50):
John j was like, are those skinny jeans? And I
said yes, and I hate them and I and skinny
jeans are out. They're officially out. Kyle has been telling
us for the last couple of weeks that skinny jeans
are making their way out of style, and the last
couple of times I wear them, I'm like, you're so right,
they are out of style and I look like a
square right now.
Speaker 4 (21:09):
I feel like I really loved the skinny jeans.
Speaker 9 (21:12):
I really fought them when they first came like back
in or whatever. But then I was kind of sad
to see them go and like to have to revamp
your wardrobe in that way, like redo all your pants.
Speaker 4 (21:24):
It's a slow build.
Speaker 12 (21:25):
Yeah, really you have to.
Speaker 4 (21:27):
You're just gonna have to wear the skinny jeans every
once in a while so you have all new pants.
Speaker 1 (21:30):
Can you define skinny jeans because I'm gonna I saw
the jeans painting had on it.
Speaker 2 (21:34):
Do you have skinny jeans on? Cole? Okay, so what
we define skinny jeans?
Speaker 5 (21:37):
Skinny jeans are jeans that basically fit from like your
waist all the way down to your ankles. They form fitting.
Speaker 2 (21:43):
They're tight like yoga pants.
Speaker 5 (21:46):
Yeah, but they're jeans.
Speaker 2 (21:47):
Okay, what do you have on?
Speaker 4 (21:48):
I have flared jeans on right now.
Speaker 2 (21:50):
And those are super cool.
Speaker 4 (21:52):
They're like kind of on their own little island affection.
Speaker 3 (21:58):
This makes sense.
Speaker 9 (21:58):
They flare out at the ball, I think the most
I think if I had to guess what the most
quote unquote popular gene type right now, it's like the
boyfriend jeans. So it's like kind of baggy and actually
low rise jeans are coming back into which is like,
I'm kind of fighting that.
Speaker 2 (22:11):
Do you know.
Speaker 3 (22:12):
Like at my house right now, my wife Stacy, who's
like the you know, the fashion person at the house,
she has four stacks of jeans on a bench at
the end of the bed because all of the skinny
jeans are going in the donate pile, and there are
lots of them.
Speaker 5 (22:24):
They're out, skinny, they're out.
Speaker 3 (22:26):
So there's some that like now there's new ones that
are the right style that we haven't tried, but we
don't know if we're going to return yet, and so
those are.
Speaker 4 (22:33):
On the right side, like the straight leg ones. That's
where it's sad.
Speaker 1 (22:36):
Yeah, it doesn't do that for guys to do Guys
go through jean phase because I feel like there's a
certain kind of geene I like, and those are the
only ones I wear like.
Speaker 2 (22:43):
I don't remember.
Speaker 3 (22:43):
I don't think it is really is.
Speaker 1 (22:46):
It's as drastic, I don't know, but I do know
that every pair of jeans I have eventually is a
low rise jean.
Speaker 3 (22:52):
You can you can wear like cargo pants again, I
think if you're.
Speaker 5 (22:54):
A guy, Yeah, cargo pants are really in, really in
right now.
Speaker 9 (22:57):
But yeah, I just type.
Speaker 5 (22:58):
Honestly, I just feel like my body dysmorphia just comes
out with the with the skinny jeans right now, because
I think I've told you guys this before. But in
high school, one of my nicknames was drumsticks because my
thighs were so big and my legs bottom part of
my legs were so skinny. I know, but when you
can really tell in the skinny jeans and I got
drunks pants, I do, but yoga pants are different.
Speaker 9 (23:19):
See, I actually liked I liked the fact that skinny
jeans were more for form fitting because I wore a
little bit baggier jean in our Christmas pictures this year,
And there are two pictures that I feel like I
will never show anybody because my legs look way bigger
than Scott's because.
Speaker 8 (23:36):
Of the gens.
Speaker 4 (23:37):
Like I know, I know my legs are smaller than his.
I know that, but just like mentally looking at the picture,
I'm like, oh, hell, this is not okay. This does
not make me feel okay.
Speaker 5 (23:47):
The struggle of being a woman and trying to look
presentable in public.
Speaker 1 (23:51):
Right, So we've been kind of like catching up on
our shopping birthdays or whatever, but I know Peyton did.
Speaker 2 (23:57):
The big purchase she made was up.
Speaker 5 (23:58):
I made the biggest purchase that I have ever made
on my credit card, to the point where, like I
have a stomach ache about it. What because I wanted
to go all out. It's kind of an experience. I
don't want to say it because I don't want to
ruin it. My mom and my sister listen to the show.
But I'm really excited. It's about the experience. But like
my stomach hurts that I have this massive payment on
(24:20):
my credit card because growing up, my grandma was like
she was the type she worked three jobs, like total workhorse,
like single mom, and she always told me, you pay
your credit card bill off no matter what she said.
If you're she was like, I'd rather you pay your
credit card off first before you pay your rent. Like
that's how important it is to her. Every month you
have to make sure your credit card payment is paid off.
(24:40):
Credit is so important, and so she kind of instilled
that in me. And so now I'm like, I have
an eighteen hundred dollars charge.
Speaker 2 (24:46):
On my credit.
Speaker 3 (24:49):
House I work card.
Speaker 9 (24:53):
You are so generous, like the fact that you just
want to like create this great experience.
Speaker 4 (24:58):
Yeah, for your mom and your sister. That's so you,
it's so sweet.
Speaker 3 (25:01):
Do you think we could get grandma to help you
pay that off?
Speaker 4 (25:03):
Because that's where it's gonna go with it.
Speaker 5 (25:06):
I feel like I'm going to call my grandma and
I'm gonna say, can I please take a.
Speaker 3 (25:10):
Little shout on you knock this bill out of the
way here?
Speaker 5 (25:12):
This interesting and she would totally help me.
Speaker 3 (25:14):
It's experience for me. You're doing it selflessly.
Speaker 2 (25:17):
My doctor said to me the other day.
Speaker 1 (25:18):
I was leaving there and they go, hey, just want
to let you know that you're going to get a
five thousand dollars charge on your credit but ignored it's
a mistake. And I was like, oh, how do I
explain that? Like what are you talking about? To just ignore?
Just ignore it? And it never it never came, It
never game, And.
Speaker 3 (25:34):
I was like reason.
Speaker 2 (25:36):
I was like, I would really have to worry about
because don't think it's gonna go through.
Speaker 1 (25:39):
Yeah, because I used to before I was married, and
I I was always trying to get good credit. So
I would try to get as many credit cards as
I can, which was stupid, and then I would just
buy stuff and it just seemed free. Then you get
that little red envelope, a little or that pink thing
in the mail and all all kinds of.
Speaker 2 (25:58):
Stuff man paidon.
Speaker 3 (25:59):
If we talked to the show about the time that
I went to go buy a Prince C and they
literally took and destroyed my credit card, I guess you
know they have the little thing that you have to
declined and mindset, take card and destroy just they cut
it up in front of me. That's terrible, terrible.
Speaker 2 (26:16):
Should do that? Think it's stolen?
Speaker 3 (26:20):
What did the name?
Speaker 5 (26:20):
What was the name on your card?
Speaker 3 (26:22):
It was my name, it was my card. I was
trying to buy Richard.
Speaker 5 (26:24):
You guys have a sneaky side test that you're not
telling you truly, I guess credit card scammer.
Speaker 3 (26:29):
I thought that I had paid my bills. Apparently I
did not pay that.
Speaker 2 (26:33):
He's like a jackle.
Speaker 1 (26:34):
He has different ideas, different passports.
Speaker 9 (26:37):
Just the feeling of like getting your card declined though
it's like so embarrassing and get all hot, like.
Speaker 3 (26:42):
I'm like being in line.
Speaker 4 (26:44):
Yeah, and having them tear it up in front of you.
Speaker 1 (26:47):
Nowadays, though, because I've had my car my card decline nowadays,
and it's it's a great it's a great response, just like, oh,
it must be the chip chip's not working.
Speaker 2 (26:55):
You don't have to be a loser.
Speaker 4 (26:58):
I happened to me just other day. It is my
card was declined.
Speaker 9 (27:01):
And then I was using my debit card and I
was like, I know I have enough to pay for
this fifteen.
Speaker 4 (27:06):
Dollars Walgreen strip.
Speaker 9 (27:08):
And then I looked down at my card's expired. So
it got declined because my card was expired. But I'm like,
how come they never sent me a new one? You
did send you a new one, right, like you it's
in advance.
Speaker 5 (27:18):
Get an email.
Speaker 1 (27:19):
I would think it's John Jay Rich just Jessica, good morning, Hi, good.
Speaker 10 (27:34):
Morning, good morning. I had a general question, so I
listened to one of the episodes on the highly successful
John Jay Vana's podcast. You had you had a girl
on there that was talking about ADHD, and you guys
(27:55):
had like a whole thing about it, And I was
just wondering because I know you guys discussed it a lot.
But I've noticed because I have ADHD really bad, so
I've noticed that you're really good at like balancing out.
Like when I listen to your show, you're really good
on like one not interrupting, or like staying on track,
(28:19):
or if somebody tells the story there you're just you know,
how to like circle back really well? Like is there
anything in particular that you do that like helps you
do that? Because I cannot do that.
Speaker 2 (28:34):
Well.
Speaker 1 (28:34):
I think you said it best when you said, John
J you're really good, And I think that's that's enough.
Speaker 2 (28:42):
Enough.
Speaker 1 (28:43):
No, you know, in all honesty, I mean, I mean,
I was kind of diagnosed by a psychiatrists I have ADHD,
but use a little weird, so I don't know if
I have ADHD.
Speaker 2 (28:52):
You do, I don't know if I do.
Speaker 3 (28:53):
For sure you do, Yeah.
Speaker 10 (28:54):
I can tell you that you do. I know you,
I know you.
Speaker 1 (28:58):
I know yeah, answer that question you're talking about on
the radio that I can bring you back and follow.
And by the way, when I do interrupt a lot,
and sometimes I try to apologize when I interrupt, But
a lot of times when I'm interrupting a person on
the phone, it's because their story is taken too long.
And if I interrupt one of these three here, it's
because we got to take a break. Most of the
time I tried. That's kind of like my rule.
Speaker 10 (29:17):
I know, but you're so good like, for example, like
let's say it's like second date up day and the
girl is or guy or girl is telling the story.
You're really good at like remembering like key facts about
the story, but like not getting off tracks. And I
cannot do that, and I notice that you're really good
at doing that.
Speaker 2 (29:39):
Well. I did take a test.
Speaker 1 (29:40):
You guys remember this test where they said I was
borderline genius?
Speaker 2 (29:43):
Do you remember that?
Speaker 4 (29:45):
We do remember that last.
Speaker 9 (29:46):
I think it's because he's genuinely interested in what he's
like talking about. I think like when you're genuinely interested,
it's easier to focus. And when you're like trying to
focus on maybe like a class you're not interested in,
or a conversation that kind of going somewhere where you
may not have interest or expertise.
Speaker 3 (30:03):
John J has attention for things are going on on
this show outside of the show, right, rampant ADHD Right.
Speaker 1 (30:10):
I actually do sometimes sometimes I catch myself on the
phone or on the computer when we're on the air,
and I try to put that down and try not
to do that, so I know, sometimes I'm not listening
to the story, and then these three catch me up
and I'm like, what, all right? But you're so nice, Jessica.
Thanks for listening. That's so nice. How do you know
you have ADHD? Who told you that?
Speaker 10 (30:27):
Well, for one, I was diagnosed. But it's also like
very obvious. Everybody around me like knows I do. I
just I bounced around from subject to subject. I can't
stay on track. I have a hard time like not
interrupting because like when I have a thought that runs
through my mind, I instantly just have to say it.
(30:48):
And I'm not being rude. I just have this like urgency,
like Okay, I have to say it otherwise I'm going
to forget, and because my I forget. But it's extremely
obvious when you like know me on a personal level.
Speaker 2 (31:10):
Yeah, totally get you.
Speaker 1 (31:13):
So you stayed on one subject full time here today
one subject? Do you have piles all over your house?
Do you keep cabinet doors open? Yours open? I don't
use a spoon.
Speaker 2 (31:23):
You don't have ADHD. I've undiagnosed you.
Speaker 11 (31:26):
You do not have.
Speaker 1 (31:29):
Yeah, I have undiagnosed you. All right, Jessica, I have
a wonderful day. Thank you so much for listening. Thanks
to the compliment, Thanks for watching that podcast. That's so awesome.
I literally have never met anyone who's watched the podcast.
I'm so excited.
Speaker 3 (31:42):
If she really had ADHD, she'd be like, John j
I have a question about your ADHD. Hey, does anybody
drive on MASTA?
Speaker 1 (31:48):
That's how I would have gone something like that, like
that podcast, so I'll interview somebody for like an hour.
And one of the things that I try to do
with this podcast is I don't take any notes. I
just try to remember, and I don't take any notes
writing down, so a lot of times I forget stuff.
Speaker 2 (32:02):
But I'm so glad you watched it. That's so quote.
What's on YouTube? Johji Van asked podcast, that's great. That's
so awesome me and my day, Jessica, thanks for listening.
Speaker 10 (32:10):
I thank you too, for you're not do
Something I want to talk about.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
This game is called firework, or you're a jerk.
Speaker 3 (00:08):
Okay, It's Friday and John got a game for you.
Speaker 1 (00:14):
So I'm gonna tell you if you have to tell me,
it's a real brand of firework. If that's the answer,
you say firework. If it's a trick answer, reply, you're
a jerk.
Speaker 3 (00:23):
Okay, okay, Rich bottle rocket firework.
Speaker 1 (00:29):
It's a small rocket that's approximately the size of a
standard firecracker, about one and a half inches long, and
it is a bottle rocket. Is a real firework, Yes,
Payton fire towork.
Speaker 4 (00:40):
You're a jerk.
Speaker 1 (00:41):
Yeah, it's a small rocket that it's not right, Kyle
Roman candle before you answer, it's a paper tube filled
with a composition that shoots flaming balls out of one end.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
Of the tube. Firework, Yes, Rich Lance Armstrong candle.
Speaker 1 (00:56):
It's a paper tube filled with composition that shoots only
one flaming ball out of one in a tube. It's
named for Lance Armstrong, the American bicyclist who had one
baller mood when fighting tistics your cancer, also known as
the Tom green Well.
Speaker 3 (01:07):
He is the biggest jerk in sports. So you're a jerk.
Speaker 2 (01:10):
Yes.
Speaker 1 (01:11):
Peyton Sexual fireworks the formal name for fireworks that also
doubles romantic aids. They were popular among the communes of
the nineteen sixties, and they're now banned in most states
by state and federal law.
Speaker 2 (01:22):
You're jerk, Yes, Kyle.
Speaker 1 (01:26):
Proximate fireworks the formal name for indoor fireworks. Indoor fireworks
are used for concerts and public events. Fireworks, Yes, rich
the palm tree, an aerial effect that produces a gold
or silver stem as the shell rises into the sky.
Speaker 3 (01:42):
Firework.
Speaker 1 (01:43):
Yes, peyton the evergreen tree, an aerial effect that produces
a green and brown effects similar.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
To a Christmas tree.
Speaker 3 (01:49):
You're jerk.
Speaker 2 (01:50):
Yes, Kyle.
Speaker 1 (01:52):
The eight pound cracker one thousand dollars one thousand roll cracker.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
Inside a plastic keeps cake item.
Speaker 4 (01:58):
You're jerk.
Speaker 2 (01:58):
No, it's a firework.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
Rich peony and aerial effect that looks like a spherical
ball of colored lights in the sky.
Speaker 2 (02:05):
Very common area effect for most firework shows.
Speaker 3 (02:07):
Yeah, that's a fireworks.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
Yes, it is peytonistill a ball of stars in the
center of another.
Speaker 2 (02:13):
Ball of stars.
Speaker 3 (02:15):
Fireworks.
Speaker 1 (02:15):
Yes, Kyle. The uncle cracker, It's a one thousand rolled cracker.
Inside of plastic keepskate. It resembles the singer.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
Uncle Cracker, your jerk, I am I know where.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
Rich Catherine Wheels spitting fireworks that create a wheel of sparks.
Speaker 3 (02:31):
It's a great band from the eighties. Also a firework.
Speaker 2 (02:35):
Named for a torture device. It's a firework. Peyton Mines ground.
Speaker 1 (02:38):
Based fireworks that shoots stars or other effects into the airwork.
Speaker 2 (02:42):
Yes, Kyle m eighty Yeah, firework Peyton the I ten
your jer.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
Yeah, that was a stupid game.
Speaker 2 (02:58):
Is kind of stupid, but that was really stupid.
Speaker 3 (03:01):
It's Friday, and got a game for you.
Speaker 1 (03:12):
John Dane Rich. So Payton's been married for what two
months now? Yeah, just about two months, and this is
breaking news. I can't wait to hear she found something
out about Kadeem, her husband, that you didn't know before
you got married.
Speaker 3 (03:25):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (03:26):
I feel so betrayed.
Speaker 5 (03:27):
And to be completely honest, I feel like our entire
relationship and marriage has been based on a lie.
Speaker 2 (03:32):
What really I do?
Speaker 6 (03:34):
I do?
Speaker 5 (03:35):
He gets on my nerves I discovered about him.
Speaker 4 (03:39):
This is so stupid.
Speaker 5 (03:41):
Okay, So you know Kadeem and I we actually met
in college playing basketball. He played basketball his whole life.
I played basketball my whole life. Both our dads were
our coaches growing up. That's where we that's where we are,
that's where we connect. Right. So, Kadem, he actually shoots
the basketball with his left hand, but he writes and
eats with his right hand. So he told me when
(04:03):
we first started dating that when he was like three
or four, when he really started to pick up a basketball,
that he broke his right arm so he had to
learn how to shoot with his left hand. I was like,
makes sense to me.
Speaker 4 (04:15):
You do everything else with your right hand. You're just
a left handed shooter. Pretty cool whatever.
Speaker 5 (04:19):
Come to find out, apparently this mofo is ambidextrious.
Speaker 4 (04:23):
He's not just left handed.
Speaker 2 (04:27):
So did he not break his arm?
Speaker 3 (04:28):
He didn't break his army straight up?
Speaker 5 (04:30):
This lie.
Speaker 1 (04:31):
Why wouldn't he just say is ambidex I would think
the bigger thing is about being ambidextriates that he lies?
Speaker 5 (04:36):
Yeah, why he just got on him. But I was like,
why would you make that story up and tell me that?
He was like I told you that. I was like, yeah,
So apparently this is just something he tells random people.
So apparently I was just a random person at one
point and why you were you were betrayed?
Speaker 2 (04:53):
Can he write both perfectly?
Speaker 7 (04:55):
No?
Speaker 5 (04:55):
He so he's he can write with his right hand,
but if like he were to or punch, he's punching
with his left sense. But if he was going to
go kick somebody, he's kicking.
Speaker 4 (05:04):
With his right foot.
Speaker 2 (05:05):
You know what happened, Rich, tell the story. Rich.
Speaker 3 (05:07):
I'm left handed, but I went to a Catholic school.
In all the desks for those little right handed desks,
and I couldn't reach over far enough to write. And
then one of my nuns said, well, the devil is
left handed. So I switched to my right hand.
Speaker 4 (05:22):
That is dia barde.
Speaker 3 (05:26):
I even got. I asked my parents to put me
in a class where they would pull me out of
class and show me how to write with my right
hand on. But you see, like how crazy? Do you see?
How crazy neat my writing is? That's because of all that,
because I was afraid to wret.
Speaker 5 (05:43):
Used to walk around with like the rulers back then did.
Speaker 3 (05:45):
But there when we used to have to do essays,
I could flip back and forth pretty regularly. I'd write
something with my right and then I'd switch to my left.
And you couldn't tell the.
Speaker 1 (05:52):
Difference, So Paynt found out that her husband is ambidextrious.
Speaker 2 (05:57):
That's the big lie before she got married.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
Sarah, Sarah, what did you find out about your significant
other after you got married?
Speaker 8 (06:04):
It was a couple of years after that. He showed
me a YouTube video of himself up against Joey Chestnut,
the world hot dog eating champion.
Speaker 4 (06:14):
No way, that's awesome.
Speaker 2 (06:16):
I'm assuming he did not win. He did not win,
but he's right next to him sucking down hot dogs
left and right.
Speaker 8 (06:23):
Yeah, he signed up because he was a little bit
inebriated and he decided he wanted some free sausages.
Speaker 3 (06:29):
Well I had I get that. How did he how
did he do? What did he? Was he at least
in the in the competition?
Speaker 8 (06:36):
No? No, no, he's the guy next.
Speaker 1 (06:41):
It's bad if you would have known this before you
got married. But you've been like, WHOA hold on a minute.
I don't think so.
Speaker 9 (06:47):
No.
Speaker 8 (06:47):
I think it would have stealed the deal a lot quicker.
Speaker 1 (06:49):
Okay, all right, Sarah, thank you for calling in Christina.
What did you find out about your significant other after
you got married?
Speaker 7 (06:58):
I found out early during an episode of Everyone Loves Raymond.
This is after three years, and I said, could you
imagine if there's something that I was doing that you
repeatedly did not like? And that's when he told me
he actually doesn't like anything.
Speaker 10 (07:15):
With lemons, referring to my lemon chicken.
Speaker 2 (07:19):
Oh no, so you making lemon chicken. He would still
eat it.
Speaker 11 (07:23):
Oh.
Speaker 7 (07:23):
I was making it once a week and he was
eating it the whole thing.
Speaker 6 (07:28):
Never said anything.
Speaker 7 (07:29):
Oh he said something. Yeah, he finally said something during
an episode of Everyone.
Speaker 4 (07:34):
Loved kind of cute.
Speaker 1 (07:38):
Thank you, Christina, thanks for sharing that story. These are
really cute. I thought it was gonna go totally stop.
I found out that he was, you know, gay only
fan star.
Speaker 5 (07:45):
Jeez, that's how I felt like.
Speaker 3 (07:48):
I'm sure you were shook to the core.
Speaker 1 (07:53):
Why would you let's do more? Eight seven, seven nine
three seven one four seven. What did you find out
about your significant other after you got married?
Speaker 2 (08:02):
We'll talk to you next, John, Jay and Rich Why.
Speaker 7 (08:04):
You always in moon.
Speaker 2 (08:08):
Play? Played by your ruse.
Speaker 1 (08:13):
If. Stephanie Peyton told us that she learned something about
her husband after they got married.
Speaker 2 (08:17):
The don't have been married two months. She learned that
he's ambidextrious.
Speaker 1 (08:20):
What did you learn about your significant other after you
got married.
Speaker 6 (08:24):
My husband and I dated for nine years before we
got married, and three years after he and I got married,
I found out he had a brother.
Speaker 3 (08:32):
What well, no, I'll even gotchup even before we got married.
Speaker 6 (08:38):
Two weeks before we got married, he came home. We
had just moved in together, getting ready for the wedding,
and he came home one day, two weeks before we
got married, and he said, Hey, my brother Tony wants
to come over and meet you. And I went, who's
Tony my brother? Okay, well, I didn't think much of
about it. And then three years afterwards, we have a
(08:58):
joint profile on Facebook and I get the Sundary quest
from somebody and I said, hey, do you know who.
Speaker 9 (09:03):
This person is?
Speaker 1 (09:04):
He goes, yes, my brother.
Speaker 6 (09:05):
I'm like, okay, wait a minute, are there any other
siblings I.
Speaker 4 (09:08):
Need to know about?
Speaker 2 (09:11):
Hilarious?
Speaker 6 (09:12):
I know that was the last one.
Speaker 3 (09:14):
There's some dudes that if you don't ask him, you
just don't find out. It's not like they're trying to
keep it from you, they just don't share. I don't share.
Speaker 6 (09:23):
Yes, that was a little.
Speaker 11 (09:25):
Bit of a surprise.
Speaker 2 (09:26):
Thank you, Stephanie. Thanks for listening, Thanks for calling in,
Thank you for listening.
Speaker 11 (09:29):
Yeah you got it?
Speaker 1 (09:30):
Eight seven seven ninety seven four seven. What did you
find out about your shiitificaten? Other after he got married?
A couple of texts. Lisa says that he drank two
beers every night after he got home from work.
Speaker 2 (09:42):
I was worried too.
Speaker 1 (09:42):
It increased and I told him I wouldn't be married
to an alcoholic. Forty years later, it's still just two
beers every night. Oh. My mom found out after twenty
years of marriage that my dad had been married two
times prior instead of one. During my grandmother's funeral, both
ex wives and my mom were in attendance to pay respect.
(10:03):
My dad's response was he didn't have kids, so it
didn't seem like it mattered.
Speaker 2 (10:06):
It was just my practice marriage.
Speaker 3 (10:09):
He's like, you, I got it right.
Speaker 1 (10:11):
When we got married. Betty says, we got married. When
he met me, he told me his name was NICKI
when he got married, I learned.
Speaker 2 (10:16):
Out that his name was Miguel.
Speaker 1 (10:20):
Violet says, I got married, I found out he folds
the towels wrong. Charman, what'd you find out about your
your scenamic? Another Sharman Sharman.
Speaker 3 (10:36):
Oh my God, might have us muted.
Speaker 1 (10:39):
Sure, Scharman, I'm gonna keep gogle a couple more of these, Charmon,
hopefully you can pick up.
Speaker 2 (10:46):
Let's see found out that she was by? Interesting? Okay,
well hold on, Charman, we'll come back to you. Gloria.
Speaker 7 (10:55):
Hello, I found out that he was by, and I
had like I kind of knew.
Speaker 11 (11:02):
But once we got married, he came clean.
Speaker 3 (11:06):
Why not share that before? You think that would be
something you need to know?
Speaker 4 (11:11):
But is that why? I did he share that? Because
he wanted to bring someone else in? Like, what was
the point of sharing that?
Speaker 9 (11:19):
It's like at that point, you guys, I think.
Speaker 10 (11:22):
I think it was. Well, it was during COVID and
you know a lot of people were going through.
Speaker 7 (11:29):
Loneliness, that kind of thing.
Speaker 6 (11:31):
So I think that m pumpling to me, Yeah, your.
Speaker 2 (11:34):
Your quarantine went on floor around what best?
Speaker 3 (11:39):
Let's see let's see how you are.
Speaker 2 (11:42):
Are you still with him, Gloria, Yes.
Speaker 10 (11:44):
I am.
Speaker 11 (11:46):
We've been married for.
Speaker 8 (11:47):
Nine years now.
Speaker 2 (11:48):
Well thanks for calling in.
Speaker 11 (11:50):
Thank you?
Speaker 1 (11:51):
Just chicken with Sherman Charmany there, Charman, not Sherman Charman anyway,
Maybe Charlemagne. It's Charlemagne and the breakfast. I'll put it
back on hold.
Speaker 2 (12:06):
One etarity, lay down, Okay, listen.
Speaker 1 (12:10):
I'm hesitant to do this, you guys, okay, so bear
with me, but let's just try it. Charman, good morning.
Speaker 11 (12:18):
Good morning. Well you guys are gonna probably be blown
(12:40):
away by this. But after I got married, I found
out that my husband is a gang member.
Speaker 1 (12:46):
Oh like gang member, like street gang, or like cartel
or like mafia.
Speaker 11 (12:51):
Like a Latin king gang member.
Speaker 4 (12:56):
And I hesitate to ask how you found out? How
do you stumble up? Yeah, you know exactly.
Speaker 6 (13:06):
No.
Speaker 11 (13:06):
He he he got a phone call and he was
very hush hush about it. So I kept questioning and
questioning him, and he ended up telling me, and I'm like,
oh my god, why didn't you tell me this before
we got married? Because I didn't think you would marry me?
And I was like, you know, I don't, I don't
judge people, but I wish he would have told me
(13:27):
that that's what he was. Not that. I mean, I
know I'm protected, I'm not worried about that, but just
knowing and him keeping something so big from me was
like way out there.
Speaker 3 (13:39):
So is the call him when he gets a call
is it he's getting, you know, assigned a task or
something from the gang.
Speaker 11 (13:49):
Yes, and no he's Ah, God, I don't know if
I should say that on the air, but yeah, he's
getting a call for or him to go do things.
Speaker 2 (14:02):
But is he a hit man?
Speaker 11 (14:03):
Since I don't, I really, I don't.
Speaker 2 (14:09):
Want to see independent higher.
Speaker 1 (14:13):
So you're so you're still you're still married to him?
Speaker 11 (14:17):
Oh, definitely.
Speaker 1 (14:19):
But he lives in the United States. He lives in
the United States, but works for a Mexican cartel.
Speaker 11 (14:25):
Well, he's Puerto Rican, not a cartel. He's not a cartel.
Things get done and things get said, so you know,
and it's never it's it's never about anything that has
to do with a family or anything like that. It's
just you know, you just you you don't. You can't
cross him. And he's not a bad guy. You've got
(14:47):
the biggest heart in the world that I've ever met,
Like he's he's my everything. But just I wish he
would have said something, you know, so I would have
been prepared because the phone call, I wasn't. I wasn't
prepared for.
Speaker 1 (14:59):
Hey, what happened in the beginning this phone I tried
to pick you up twice and it didn't work, and
I'm doing something that I hate doing.
Speaker 4 (15:04):
So I was trying to stop her from saying there
was no.
Speaker 1 (15:07):
No, no, I was gonna say because my wife, she's one
of these people were like her and I are talking
and if there's a disconnection on the phone when she
calls back, the whole conversation about what happened, what happened,
I'm driving through a tunnel? What why did we get disconnected?
It must be you. It must not be you. Mean,
I'm like, it doesn't matter, which is what we would
we talk about. But I don't understand my phone must
be acting weird. And that's the whole conversation. And then
(15:27):
I go, Okay, I gotta go buy. So I was like,
I want to know what happened.
Speaker 2 (15:30):
To try. We tried to pick up twice. Try to
pick up twice, CA and pigre up what happened? And
I don't.
Speaker 1 (15:33):
And it's funny because I'm doing what I despise what happened.
We tried to pick up twice?
Speaker 11 (15:38):
You doing that, J I appreciate you doing that because
just so.
Speaker 2 (15:42):
Your husband I was nice to you.
Speaker 11 (15:46):
He is he's very nice to me. I don't think
that's wrong.
Speaker 2 (15:50):
He said, thank you for calling it, and don't you
for me? Good God, you called that.
Speaker 7 (15:59):
Thank you?
Speaker 2 (16:04):
Right.
Speaker 1 (16:04):
So you got fourth of July weekend coming up, and
there's a lot going on, right, People are traveling, people
are barbecuing, right, And I have two things that fall
into that category.
Speaker 2 (16:15):
For one, seven things you should never grill.
Speaker 1 (16:19):
Okay, seven things you should And I think this is
going to cause controversy.
Speaker 4 (16:24):
Really, do you know what?
Speaker 2 (16:25):
Number one on that list is? Hamburgers?
Speaker 5 (16:29):
How else are you supposed to make up?
Speaker 2 (16:31):
It says.
Speaker 1 (16:32):
The argument is that fat trips down the outside, doesn't
get caramelized, you lose all the flavor you're supposed to use,
like a flat piece of cast iron you put on
top of the grill. So fourth of July it's all
about freedom, though, So you do what you want. So
filet migna not supposed to grill an It doesn't have
enough fat on the grill, and they're usually pretty thick,
so it's hard to cook them the way you want
(16:52):
when you're using a flame.
Speaker 3 (16:53):
Cast iron skillet. Butter it's the way to go with.
Speaker 2 (16:55):
That, right.
Speaker 1 (16:56):
The same thing pizza most girls don't cook very evenly.
It's hard to get the toppings to cook right, so
you got to use a living and foil or a
pizza stove anyway.
Speaker 5 (17:07):
I feel like people are only doing that with their
like black stones nowadays, but those aren't open flames, so
it makes it different things.
Speaker 2 (17:12):
Never to barbecue.
Speaker 1 (17:13):
Fish, including salmon, tends to do better when you cook
it on low heat. Pork chops all that you lose
out the delicious fat shish kebobs, which by the way,
is really weird looking at the words shish kebobs, shish
spell shish.
Speaker 9 (17:26):
I was insheah, it looks weird.
Speaker 1 (17:30):
Kebab shish kebobs. They're actually okay on the grill, but
not the way most people do. And vegetables tend to
cook faster than meat, so don't put everything on the
same skewer. Put meat on one and veggies on the other,
and then melty cheeses.
Speaker 2 (17:42):
Don't put cheeses on there.
Speaker 1 (17:44):
Noll I was saving this for last. But this is
all according to chat chipe Tea.
Speaker 4 (17:51):
It's like, what is chatting about grilling?
Speaker 1 (17:53):
Do you want to hear something weird about chatchpe tea?
I was asking it some advice about parenting this is.
Speaker 2 (17:58):
Really really weird heard.
Speaker 1 (18:00):
So I'm going back forth to Chatchy to me about
some some advice.
Speaker 2 (18:03):
Like I was trying to be one of my kids.
Speaker 1 (18:05):
I was there was an issue with one of my kids,
so I wanted to I know, if this makes sense,
I'm about to say.
Speaker 2 (18:10):
I wanted to be the dad that he needed for
the situation he was in. And I was struggling.
Speaker 1 (18:15):
So I was asking Chetchip t something and Chatti said
to me, from one dad to another, from one dad to.
Speaker 2 (18:22):
Another, I gotta tell you this.
Speaker 1 (18:23):
And I was like, he's got a little baby chat.
I thought that was so such a weird football sty.
Speaker 4 (18:33):
Congratulations becoming a father.
Speaker 2 (18:35):
Yeah, isn't that weird version of chat? He was like listening.
He was like, from one dad to another, like, trust me,
this is the right move. This what I think.
Speaker 12 (18:43):
I was like, No, you got kids, dude, man, I go,
why wouldn't you have kids?
Speaker 1 (18:47):
You already got? Maybe you're hooking up with Kyle Schatch. Anyway,
I was talking to you. There's also a travel stuff.
People are barbecuing and traveling, and I guess TSA is
put out a thing of things not to put in
a little thing that goes through.
Speaker 3 (19:04):
The airport, the conveyor belt, the security check.
Speaker 1 (19:07):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (19:07):
Things never to put in there, like wallas and cash.
Speaker 1 (19:09):
Take all your cash and put it in your wallet
and then put your wallet inside of a bag. I
first time ever saw anyone do that was Rich. He
takes all this stuff and puts it in his bag,
and it was like, what are you doing? Just throw
it in the little round thing. No, because I don't
want to get stopped by anybody. I throw it my backpack,
zip it all up. If you lose cash, they won't
return it, but not why would they don't put your
(19:30):
passport or ID in there? Same with your wallet, put
it in the bag. Your phone to s aln so
the number one place for stolen smartphones.
Speaker 9 (19:37):
That kind of makes sense because you know, sometimes you
need more than one bin. And let's say your phone
is just sitting out and in the other bind but
they take your first bin, Like maybe you left the
water bottle on your backpack.
Speaker 4 (19:47):
You kind of have to go over there. Easy to swipe.
Speaker 1 (19:50):
Watches and jewelry. Don't put those in the thing. Loose
lynthium batteries or power banks because they're a fire risk. Headphones,
classes neck pillows now because you might lose them because
the bins.
Speaker 2 (20:00):
Are loaded with germs.
Speaker 1 (20:01):
Oh and those germs are about to touch your face. Yeah,
So be careful this fourth of July where you're grilling
and when you're traveling, and know that your chat GPT
has kids.
Speaker 12 (20:14):
All right, it's John Daye ridd.
Speaker 1 (20:26):
You can text the show. You text jj R and
whatever your message is to nine six eight nine three.
I was in our iHeart Radio kitchen, the red Red
Red kitchen, making some coffee paint. Came walking in like
she spray painted her jeans on and she was like,
there's a skinny jeans. James is supposed to be banging.
(20:47):
That's exactly what happened.
Speaker 4 (20:48):
That's not okay, that's not exactly that.
Speaker 5 (20:50):
John j was like, are those skinny jeans? And I
said yes, and I hate them and I and skinny
jeans are out. They're officially out. Kyle has been telling
us for the last couple of weeks that skinny jeans
are making their way out of style, and the last
couple of times I wear them, I'm like, you're so right,
they are out of style and I look like a
square right now.
Speaker 4 (21:09):
I feel like I really loved the skinny jeans.
Speaker 9 (21:12):
I really fought them when they first came like back
in or whatever. But then I was kind of sad
to see them go and like to have to revamp
your wardrobe in that way, like redo all your pants.
Speaker 4 (21:24):
It's a slow build.
Speaker 12 (21:25):
Yeah, really you have to.
Speaker 4 (21:27):
You're just gonna have to wear the skinny jeans every
once in a while so you have all new pants.
Speaker 1 (21:30):
Can you define skinny jeans because I'm gonna I saw
the jeans painting had on it.
Speaker 2 (21:34):
Do you have skinny jeans on? Cole? Okay, so what
we define skinny jeans?
Speaker 5 (21:37):
Skinny jeans are jeans that basically fit from like your
waist all the way down to your ankles. They form fitting.
Speaker 2 (21:43):
They're tight like yoga pants.
Speaker 5 (21:46):
Yeah, but they're jeans.
Speaker 2 (21:47):
Okay, what do you have on?
Speaker 4 (21:48):
I have flared jeans on right now.
Speaker 2 (21:50):
And those are super cool.
Speaker 4 (21:52):
They're like kind of on their own little island affection.
Speaker 3 (21:58):
This makes sense.
Speaker 9 (21:58):
They flare out at the ball, I think the most
I think if I had to guess what the most
quote unquote popular gene type right now, it's like the
boyfriend jeans. So it's like kind of baggy and actually
low rise jeans are coming back into which is like,
I'm kind of fighting that.
Speaker 2 (22:11):
Do you know.
Speaker 3 (22:12):
Like at my house right now, my wife Stacy, who's
like the you know, the fashion person at the house,
she has four stacks of jeans on a bench at
the end of the bed because all of the skinny
jeans are going in the donate pile, and there are
lots of them.
Speaker 5 (22:24):
They're out, skinny, they're out.
Speaker 3 (22:26):
So there's some that like now there's new ones that
are the right style that we haven't tried, but we
don't know if we're going to return yet, and so
those are.
Speaker 4 (22:33):
On the right side, like the straight leg ones. That's
where it's sad.
Speaker 1 (22:36):
Yeah, it doesn't do that for guys to do Guys
go through jean phase because I feel like there's a
certain kind of geene I like, and those are the
only ones I wear like.
Speaker 2 (22:43):
I don't remember.
Speaker 3 (22:43):
I don't think it is really is.
Speaker 1 (22:46):
It's as drastic, I don't know, but I do know
that every pair of jeans I have eventually is a
low rise jean.
Speaker 3 (22:52):
You can you can wear like cargo pants again, I
think if you're.
Speaker 5 (22:54):
A guy, Yeah, cargo pants are really in, really in
right now.
Speaker 9 (22:57):
But yeah, I just type.
Speaker 5 (22:58):
Honestly, I just feel like my body dysmorphia just comes
out with the with the skinny jeans right now, because
I think I've told you guys this before. But in
high school, one of my nicknames was drumsticks because my
thighs were so big and my legs bottom part of
my legs were so skinny. I know, but when you
can really tell in the skinny jeans and I got
drunks pants, I do, but yoga pants are different.
Speaker 9 (23:19):
See, I actually liked I liked the fact that skinny
jeans were more for form fitting because I wore a
little bit baggier jean in our Christmas pictures this year,
And there are two pictures that I feel like I
will never show anybody because my legs look way bigger
than Scott's because.
Speaker 8 (23:36):
Of the gens.
Speaker 4 (23:37):
Like I know, I know my legs are smaller than his.
I know that, but just like mentally looking at the picture,
I'm like, oh, hell, this is not okay. This does
not make me feel okay.
Speaker 5 (23:47):
The struggle of being a woman and trying to look
presentable in public.
Speaker 1 (23:51):
Right, So we've been kind of like catching up on
our shopping birthdays or whatever, but I know Peyton did.
Speaker 2 (23:57):
The big purchase she made was up.
Speaker 5 (23:58):
I made the biggest purchase that I have ever made
on my credit card, to the point where, like I
have a stomach ache about it. What because I wanted
to go all out. It's kind of an experience. I
don't want to say it because I don't want to
ruin it. My mom and my sister listen to the show.
But I'm really excited. It's about the experience. But like
my stomach hurts that I have this massive payment on
(24:20):
my credit card because growing up, my grandma was like
she was the type she worked three jobs, like total workhorse,
like single mom, and she always told me, you pay
your credit card bill off no matter what she said.
If you're she was like, I'd rather you pay your
credit card off first before you pay your rent. Like
that's how important it is to her. Every month you
have to make sure your credit card payment is paid off.
(24:40):
Credit is so important, and so she kind of instilled
that in me. And so now I'm like, I have
an eighteen hundred dollars charge.
Speaker 2 (24:46):
On my credit.
Speaker 3 (24:49):
House I work card.
Speaker 9 (24:53):
You are so generous, like the fact that you just
want to like create this great experience.
Speaker 4 (24:58):
Yeah, for your mom and your sister. That's so you,
it's so sweet.
Speaker 3 (25:01):
Do you think we could get grandma to help you
pay that off?
Speaker 4 (25:03):
Because that's where it's gonna go with it.
Speaker 5 (25:06):
I feel like I'm going to call my grandma and
I'm gonna say, can I please take a.
Speaker 3 (25:10):
Little shout on you knock this bill out of the
way here?
Speaker 5 (25:12):
This interesting and she would totally help me.
Speaker 3 (25:14):
It's experience for me. You're doing it selflessly.
Speaker 2 (25:17):
My doctor said to me the other day.
Speaker 1 (25:18):
I was leaving there and they go, hey, just want
to let you know that you're going to get a
five thousand dollars charge on your credit but ignored it's
a mistake. And I was like, oh, how do I
explain that? Like what are you talking about? To just ignore?
Just ignore it? And it never it never came, It
never game, And.
Speaker 3 (25:34):
I was like reason.
Speaker 2 (25:36):
I was like, I would really have to worry about
because don't think it's gonna go through.
Speaker 1 (25:39):
Yeah, because I used to before I was married, and
I I was always trying to get good credit. So
I would try to get as many credit cards as
I can, which was stupid, and then I would just
buy stuff and it just seemed free. Then you get
that little red envelope, a little or that pink thing
in the mail and all all kinds of.
Speaker 2 (25:58):
Stuff man paidon.
Speaker 3 (25:59):
If we talked to the show about the time that
I went to go buy a Prince C and they
literally took and destroyed my credit card, I guess you
know they have the little thing that you have to
declined and mindset, take card and destroy just they cut
it up in front of me. That's terrible, terrible.
Speaker 2 (26:16):
Should do that? Think it's stolen?
Speaker 3 (26:20):
What did the name?
Speaker 5 (26:20):
What was the name on your card?
Speaker 3 (26:22):
It was my name, it was my card. I was
trying to buy Richard.
Speaker 5 (26:24):
You guys have a sneaky side test that you're not
telling you truly, I guess credit card scammer.
Speaker 3 (26:29):
I thought that I had paid my bills. Apparently I
did not pay that.
Speaker 2 (26:33):
He's like a jackle.
Speaker 1 (26:34):
He has different ideas, different passports.
Speaker 9 (26:37):
Just the feeling of like getting your card declined though
it's like so embarrassing and get all hot, like.
Speaker 3 (26:42):
I'm like being in line.
Speaker 4 (26:44):
Yeah, and having them tear it up in front of you.
Speaker 1 (26:47):
Nowadays, though, because I've had my car my card decline nowadays,
and it's it's a great it's a great response, just like, oh,
it must be the chip chip's not working.
Speaker 2 (26:55):
You don't have to be a loser.
Speaker 4 (26:58):
I happened to me just other day. It is my
card was declined.
Speaker 9 (27:01):
And then I was using my debit card and I
was like, I know I have enough to pay for
this fifteen.
Speaker 4 (27:06):
Dollars Walgreen strip.
Speaker 9 (27:08):
And then I looked down at my card's expired. So
it got declined because my card was expired. But I'm like,
how come they never sent me a new one? You
did send you a new one, right, like you it's
in advance.
Speaker 5 (27:18):
Get an email.
Speaker 1 (27:19):
I would think it's John Jay Rich just Jessica, good morning, Hi, good.
Speaker 10 (27:34):
Morning, good morning. I had a general question, so I
listened to one of the episodes on the highly successful
John Jay Vana's podcast. You had you had a girl
on there that was talking about ADHD, and you guys
(27:55):
had like a whole thing about it, And I was
just wondering because I know you guys discussed it a lot.
But I've noticed because I have ADHD really bad, so
I've noticed that you're really good at like balancing out.
Like when I listen to your show, you're really good
on like one not interrupting, or like staying on track,
(28:19):
or if somebody tells the story there you're just you know,
how to like circle back really well? Like is there
anything in particular that you do that like helps you
do that? Because I cannot do that.
Speaker 2 (28:34):
Well.
Speaker 1 (28:34):
I think you said it best when you said, John
J you're really good, And I think that's that's enough.
Speaker 2 (28:42):
Enough.
Speaker 1 (28:43):
No, you know, in all honesty, I mean, I mean,
I was kind of diagnosed by a psychiatrists I have ADHD,
but use a little weird, so I don't know if
I have ADHD.
Speaker 2 (28:52):
You do, I don't know if I do.
Speaker 3 (28:53):
For sure you do, Yeah.
Speaker 10 (28:54):
I can tell you that you do. I know you,
I know you.
Speaker 1 (28:58):
I know yeah, answer that question you're talking about on
the radio that I can bring you back and follow.
And by the way, when I do interrupt a lot,
and sometimes I try to apologize when I interrupt, But
a lot of times when I'm interrupting a person on
the phone, it's because their story is taken too long.
And if I interrupt one of these three here, it's
because we got to take a break. Most of the
time I tried. That's kind of like my rule.
Speaker 10 (29:17):
I know, but you're so good like, for example, like
let's say it's like second date up day and the
girl is or guy or girl is telling the story.
You're really good at like remembering like key facts about
the story, but like not getting off tracks. And I
cannot do that, and I notice that you're really good
at doing that.
Speaker 2 (29:39):
Well. I did take a test.
Speaker 1 (29:40):
You guys remember this test where they said I was
borderline genius?
Speaker 2 (29:43):
Do you remember that?
Speaker 4 (29:45):
We do remember that last.
Speaker 9 (29:46):
I think it's because he's genuinely interested in what he's
like talking about. I think like when you're genuinely interested,
it's easier to focus. And when you're like trying to
focus on maybe like a class you're not interested in,
or a conversation that kind of going somewhere where you
may not have interest or expertise.
Speaker 3 (30:03):
John J has attention for things are going on on
this show outside of the show, right, rampant ADHD Right.
Speaker 1 (30:10):
I actually do sometimes sometimes I catch myself on the
phone or on the computer when we're on the air,
and I try to put that down and try not
to do that, so I know, sometimes I'm not listening
to the story, and then these three catch me up
and I'm like, what, all right? But you're so nice, Jessica.
Thanks for listening. That's so nice. How do you know
you have ADHD? Who told you that?
Speaker 10 (30:27):
Well, for one, I was diagnosed. But it's also like
very obvious. Everybody around me like knows I do. I
just I bounced around from subject to subject. I can't
stay on track. I have a hard time like not
interrupting because like when I have a thought that runs
through my mind, I instantly just have to say it.
(30:48):
And I'm not being rude. I just have this like urgency,
like Okay, I have to say it otherwise I'm going
to forget, and because my I forget. But it's extremely
obvious when you like know me on a personal level.
Speaker 2 (31:10):
Yeah, totally get you.
Speaker 1 (31:13):
So you stayed on one subject full time here today
one subject? Do you have piles all over your house?
Do you keep cabinet doors open? Yours open? I don't
use a spoon.
Speaker 2 (31:23):
You don't have ADHD. I've undiagnosed you.
Speaker 11 (31:26):
You do not have.
Speaker 1 (31:29):
Yeah, I have undiagnosed you. All right, Jessica, I have
a wonderful day. Thank you so much for listening. Thanks
to the compliment, Thanks for watching that podcast. That's so awesome.
I literally have never met anyone who's watched the podcast.
I'm so excited.
Speaker 3 (31:42):
If she really had ADHD, she'd be like, John j
I have a question about your ADHD. Hey, does anybody
drive on MASTA?
Speaker 1 (31:48):
That's how I would have gone something like that, like
that podcast, so I'll interview somebody for like an hour.
And one of the things that I try to do
with this podcast is I don't take any notes. I
just try to remember, and I don't take any notes
writing down, so a lot of times I forget stuff.
Speaker 2 (32:02):
But I'm so glad you watched it. That's so quote.
What's on YouTube? Johji Van asked podcast, that's great. That's
so awesome me and my day, Jessica, thanks for listening.
Speaker 10 (32:10):
I thank you too, for you're not do
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