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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Nasday, I haven't met as you say, his way.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
John Jay and Rich so on Reddit, I downloaded the
Reddit app. Now I like spending a little time on Reddit.
I still find it hard to maneuver, but I'm on
the Reddit app. And I saw this thing where guys
on social media were listing girl flexes that instantly make
them attractive, and they had posted like.
Speaker 3 (00:25):
The top fifteen of them.
Speaker 2 (00:27):
These are flexes, you call them flexes, things that make
them instantly attractive. Like for me, I remember when I
was in college there was this girl and she drove by.
She was in a pickup truck, and something that was like,
oh my god, is so sexy girl in a pickup truck?
Speaker 3 (00:43):
That right?
Speaker 2 (00:43):
So that that kind of thing, right, So I hear
one of the things on the list is a girl
comfortable with power tools.
Speaker 3 (00:50):
Sounds weird but pretty bad ass yep.
Speaker 2 (00:52):
So I want you to think of guy flexes you girls,
and we will go over girl flexes us and I'll
go over this list too if you I can think
of flexes something that makes them instantly attractive. For example,
these guys say the ability to take responsibility and apologize,
that is a flex.
Speaker 3 (01:10):
It turns on these guys.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
When she can say I got this and then proceeds
to get this right, that's big. Picking up stuff on
the floor with her toes, that is actually on the list.
Speaker 3 (01:22):
That impressive seeing Kyle throw things with her toes. You
throw keys and a knife.
Speaker 2 (01:28):
Yeah, this is also impressive. Good posture, yep, good posture.
This is also impressive. This is a flex for girls.
A green thumb of any kind, this is the This
is big too. I think actually all these are not
posting on social media.
Speaker 3 (01:46):
That is a flex. I love that. Guys think that's
a very attractive.
Speaker 4 (01:50):
My wife has zero social media and I love it.
Speaker 3 (01:52):
So's my wife zero.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
Now for our jobs, we have to so I think
you have to take us out of the out of
the equation. Financial responsibility, that's good. Having an open attitude
towards the outside world and new experiences. If he's overly
closed off and judgmental, that's a red flag. Emotional maturity
is a girl flex that these guys like. Well, those
(02:15):
are deep curious about the world, not necessarily smart, not
necessarily worldly, but just like learning and finds the world
to be an interesting place. Number three on this list
is problem solving skills. One person said, you and me
versus the problem instead of who is to blame?
Speaker 3 (02:33):
Is so hot, that is what this guy says. This
is so awesome.
Speaker 2 (02:36):
One person said, we drank for free at every bar
we went to because we had so much credit everywhere
from trivia winnings. That's a lot of the opposite what
we hear from up to the second updates the number
one flex and I agree with this take you guess what.
I'm a flex that guys like about girls. When girls
do this, they love it.
Speaker 4 (02:58):
Pay for dinner, be kind.
Speaker 5 (03:01):
I'm like, your seems like very emotional.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
The first thing I was gonna say is like when
they were like a summer dress, like when they were
the bright.
Speaker 5 (03:07):
That was like the first, of course, that's not wrong.
Speaker 3 (03:10):
I would put Kyle in this category. This is a
flex of yours. Is a big craft. This is a
big I would draft. Wouldn't get to.
Speaker 2 (03:17):
The top ten toes positivity, pedicured toast. Yeah, that's a
Kyle flex. But no, that's not the number one answer.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
What is it?
Speaker 2 (03:24):
I mean, come on, if you were to described Kyle's
fun here pretending not here, it's fine.
Speaker 3 (03:30):
Funny, a good sense of humor.
Speaker 4 (03:31):
Yeah, you know, what I was thinking of the same thing,
because I think both Kyle and Peyton. One of the
things I think is attractive is when you go with
the bit, when somebody goes with the bit, you say
something stupid and then they just roll with it. I
think that's amazing, and both both of you are excellent.
Speaker 3 (03:44):
That's that's that's true. But I mean she's funny and.
Speaker 5 (03:47):
Here laugh out.
Speaker 3 (03:49):
Yes, that's what I mean.
Speaker 2 (03:50):
Sometimes I think it's something she said I laugh by
myself later in the day for sure.
Speaker 3 (03:54):
Yeah, So that's it.
Speaker 2 (03:54):
OK.
Speaker 3 (03:55):
You guys, think of some guy flexes, I.
Speaker 5 (03:57):
Would say off the top of my head, I could
think of three right away.
Speaker 4 (04:00):
One like a good close relationship with his family and
his parents, say, if he has a.
Speaker 5 (04:06):
Dog and he's really good with it, and if he's.
Speaker 1 (04:09):
Like hilarious also around kids, and even if it's not that,
I think there's a good flex for for girls too.
Speaker 4 (04:17):
I think it's attractive when you are nice to a
kid that's not yours. Yeah, because that means that you
care about the children.
Speaker 5 (04:23):
For sure. That I have three that come to my mind.
Speaker 1 (04:26):
Two that are kind of similar like Kyle for me,
it's kind of family oriented, but specifically how they treat
the women in their life, your mom, your sister, your aunties.
Speaker 5 (04:35):
That's big for me. Another one kind of shallow is like.
Speaker 1 (04:41):
When you're like really good at the sport that you play,
like you could be busted a.
Speaker 3 (04:46):
Really good that's good.
Speaker 1 (04:47):
It can kind of make you hot, Like look at
some of these NBA players have back these baddies.
Speaker 5 (04:51):
It's like you're topped. But if you're good at your.
Speaker 4 (04:55):
Sort, you are fine.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
And then another one big for me and I didn't
realize until I started dating Kadem is like when I
can like turn my brain off, like when I don't
have to be like lights are on, no one's home.
I like to be able to do that when my
man's there because I know he's going to handle it.
I know he's going to take care of I know
he's going to do the thinking for it.
Speaker 3 (05:11):
It goes back to that I got this. Yeah, Yeah,
I think a guy.
Speaker 2 (05:15):
There's a couple of things I think a guy. Like,
there's a big flex when a he looks good in
a hat, because I think that's such a hard thing
to do. But I like what a guy wears a
T shirt and jeans and they just look cool, you know.
Sadly I can't do that because white's not my color,
especially white T shirt, and they looks good. I also
like when they I think it's sexy when a guy
like there's a good handyman and can do all kinds
(05:35):
of stuff. And sometimes I'm like, how do you learn
to do all that stuff? How do you know what
screwdriver to use? How do you know like that kind
of stuff. I think he's awesome, you know. Also, you know,
it's funny like when you talk about sports. But I
like the guys, like all my kids are like this,
and my dad was like this, if we were walking
on the beach and someone was playing catch, they will
participate in the catch with the strangers. Whereas just an example,
(05:56):
I was in San Diego not that long ago. I'm
walking on the beach and there were three guys the
football tossing the football, and one of the guys tosses
the football to me right and I catch it and
I throw it back and I'm like, okay, now I
gotta walk back that way, and they're still there.
Speaker 3 (06:09):
They're gonna throw the football. I went all the way
around the.
Speaker 5 (06:11):
Beach so they would so they.
Speaker 2 (06:15):
So they would and throw me in the football. I
was like, I want to like I caught the ball.
I threw it back to them. It was a spiral,
he caught it. I'm like, I don't want to be
through that pressure again.
Speaker 3 (06:23):
I'm on vacation. That's true. I don't need that stress.
I'm the kid with the stress of not catching the
ball dropping the ball.
Speaker 2 (06:30):
I literally, dude, I saw much me. I went around
and I walked off the beach. You got in the
street and WRAP passed around and went back on the beach.
True story. Anyway, what's the flex that a guy or
girl has for you? Call us at eighty seven seven
nine three seven one four seven or text j j
RD whatever that flexes to nine six eight nine three
Nasday, I haven't met as you say, his way.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
John Jay and Rich so on Reddit, I downloaded the
Reddit app. Now I like spending a little time on Reddit.
I still find it hard to maneuver, but I'm on
the Reddit app. And I saw this thing where guys
on social media were listing girl flexes that instantly make
them attractive, and they had posted like.
Speaker 3 (00:25):
The top fifteen of them.
Speaker 2 (00:27):
These are flexes, you call them flexes, things that make
them instantly attractive. Like for me, I remember when I
was in college there was this girl and she drove by.
She was in a pickup truck, and something that was like,
oh my god, is so sexy girl in a pickup truck?
Speaker 3 (00:43):
That right?
Speaker 2 (00:43):
So that that kind of thing, right, So I hear
one of the things on the list is a girl
comfortable with power tools.
Speaker 3 (00:50):
Sounds weird but pretty bad ass yep.
Speaker 2 (00:52):
So I want you to think of guy flexes you girls,
and we will go over girl flexes us and I'll
go over this list too if you I can think
of flexes something that makes them instantly attractive. For example,
these guys say the ability to take responsibility and apologize,
that is a flex.
Speaker 3 (01:10):
It turns on these guys.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
When she can say I got this and then proceeds
to get this right, that's big. Picking up stuff on
the floor with her toes, that is actually on the list.
Speaker 3 (01:22):
That impressive seeing Kyle throw things with her toes. You
throw keys and a knife.
Speaker 2 (01:28):
Yeah, this is also impressive. Good posture, yep, good posture.
This is also impressive. This is a flex for girls.
A green thumb of any kind, this is the This
is big too. I think actually all these are not
posting on social media.
Speaker 3 (01:46):
That is a flex. I love that. Guys think that's
a very attractive.
Speaker 4 (01:50):
My wife has zero social media and I love it.
Speaker 3 (01:52):
So's my wife zero.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
Now for our jobs, we have to so I think
you have to take us out of the out of
the equation. Financial responsibility, that's good. Having an open attitude
towards the outside world and new experiences. If he's overly
closed off and judgmental, that's a red flag. Emotional maturity
is a girl flex that these guys like. Well, those
(02:15):
are deep curious about the world, not necessarily smart, not
necessarily worldly, but just like learning and finds the world
to be an interesting place. Number three on this list
is problem solving skills. One person said, you and me
versus the problem instead of who is to blame?
Speaker 3 (02:33):
Is so hot, that is what this guy says. This
is so awesome.
Speaker 2 (02:36):
One person said, we drank for free at every bar
we went to because we had so much credit everywhere
from trivia winnings. That's a lot of the opposite what
we hear from up to the second updates the number
one flex and I agree with this take you guess what.
I'm a flex that guys like about girls. When girls
do this, they love it.
Speaker 4 (02:58):
Pay for dinner, be kind.
Speaker 5 (03:01):
I'm like, your seems like very emotional.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
The first thing I was gonna say is like when
they were like a summer dress, like when they were
the bright.
Speaker 5 (03:07):
That was like the first, of course, that's not wrong.
Speaker 3 (03:10):
I would put Kyle in this category. This is a
flex of yours. Is a big craft. This is a
big I would draft. Wouldn't get to.
Speaker 2 (03:17):
The top ten toes positivity, pedicured toast. Yeah, that's a
Kyle flex. But no, that's not the number one answer.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
What is it?
Speaker 2 (03:24):
I mean, come on, if you were to described Kyle's
fun here pretending not here, it's fine.
Speaker 3 (03:30):
Funny, a good sense of humor.
Speaker 4 (03:31):
Yeah, you know, what I was thinking of the same thing,
because I think both Kyle and Peyton. One of the
things I think is attractive is when you go with
the bit, when somebody goes with the bit, you say
something stupid and then they just roll with it. I
think that's amazing, and both both of you are excellent.
Speaker 3 (03:44):
That's that's that's true. But I mean she's funny and.
Speaker 5 (03:47):
Here laugh out.
Speaker 3 (03:49):
Yes, that's what I mean.
Speaker 2 (03:50):
Sometimes I think it's something she said I laugh by
myself later in the day for sure.
Speaker 3 (03:54):
Yeah, So that's it.
Speaker 2 (03:54):
OK.
Speaker 3 (03:55):
You guys, think of some guy flexes, I.
Speaker 5 (03:57):
Would say off the top of my head, I could
think of three right away.
Speaker 4 (04:00):
One like a good close relationship with his family and
his parents, say, if he has a.
Speaker 5 (04:06):
Dog and he's really good with it, and if he's.
Speaker 1 (04:09):
Like hilarious also around kids, and even if it's not that,
I think there's a good flex for for girls too.
Speaker 4 (04:17):
I think it's attractive when you are nice to a
kid that's not yours. Yeah, because that means that you
care about the children.
Speaker 5 (04:23):
For sure. That I have three that come to my mind.
Speaker 1 (04:26):
Two that are kind of similar like Kyle for me,
it's kind of family oriented, but specifically how they treat
the women in their life, your mom, your sister, your aunties.
Speaker 5 (04:35):
That's big for me. Another one kind of shallow is like.
Speaker 1 (04:41):
When you're like really good at the sport that you play,
like you could be busted a.
Speaker 3 (04:46):
Really good that's good.
Speaker 1 (04:47):
It can kind of make you hot, Like look at
some of these NBA players have back these baddies.
Speaker 5 (04:51):
It's like you're topped. But if you're good at your.
Speaker 4 (04:55):
Sort, you are fine.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
And then another one big for me and I didn't
realize until I started dating Kadem is like when I
can like turn my brain off, like when I don't
have to be like lights are on, no one's home.
I like to be able to do that when my
man's there because I know he's going to handle it.
I know he's going to take care of I know
he's going to do the thinking for it.
Speaker 3 (05:11):
It goes back to that I got this. Yeah, Yeah,
I think a guy.
Speaker 2 (05:15):
There's a couple of things I think a guy. Like,
there's a big flex when a he looks good in
a hat, because I think that's such a hard thing
to do. But I like what a guy wears a
T shirt and jeans and they just look cool, you know.
Sadly I can't do that because white's not my color,
especially white T shirt, and they looks good. I also
like when they I think it's sexy when a guy
like there's a good handyman and can do all kinds
(05:35):
of stuff. And sometimes I'm like, how do you learn
to do all that stuff? How do you know what
screwdriver to use? How do you know like that kind
of stuff. I think he's awesome, you know. Also, you know,
it's funny like when you talk about sports. But I
like the guys, like all my kids are like this,
and my dad was like this, if we were walking
on the beach and someone was playing catch, they will
participate in the catch with the strangers. Whereas just an example,
(05:56):
I was in San Diego not that long ago. I'm
walking on the beach and there were three guys the
football tossing the football, and one of the guys tosses
the football to me right and I catch it and
I throw it back and I'm like, okay, now I
gotta walk back that way, and they're still there.
Speaker 3 (06:09):
They're gonna throw the football. I went all the way
around the.
Speaker 5 (06:11):
Beach so they would so they.
Speaker 2 (06:15):
So they would and throw me in the football. I
was like, I want to like I caught the ball.
I threw it back to them. It was a spiral,
he caught it. I'm like, I don't want to be
through that pressure again.
Speaker 3 (06:23):
I'm on vacation. That's true. I don't need that stress.
I'm the kid with the stress of not catching the
ball dropping the ball.
Speaker 2 (06:30):
I literally, dude, I saw much me. I went around
and I walked off the beach. You got in the
street and WRAP passed around and went back on the beach.
True story. Anyway, what's the flex that a guy or
girl has for you? Call us at eighty seven seven
nine three seven one four seven or text j j
RD whatever that flexes to nine six eight nine three
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