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Speaker 1 (00:00):
John, Jay and Rich You can call us anytime at
eight seven seven nine seven one four seven. Daileen's doing that? Hi, Daileen, Hi,
you have a comment about second eight update.

Speaker 2 (00:13):
Yes, I feel for Elena because I feel like I
may have been that person years ago. I'm older now
and I've grown and realized a lot of things. And
what this guy doesn't understand, and what he probably didn't
even take into consideration, is constantly apologizing is a trauma

(00:37):
response and it's a survival mechanism for people that have
their survivors of emotional abuse, narcissistic abuse, or childhood trauma.
And if he would have taken the time to get
to know her instead of just jumping to a conclusion,

(00:58):
I think it would have worked out a lot better
for the both of them.

Speaker 1 (01:02):
It's a good point, you know. On a side note
that today is National Forgiveness and Happiness Day.

Speaker 3 (01:07):
Did you guys know that I know that. I love that.

Speaker 2 (01:09):
Yeah, Oh, I do love that, you know? And that's
you know my dad growing up. I guess I was
the misunderstood middle child, and I guess he thought I
needed this the most. But every day he would drill
into my head dailing treat people the way you would
want them to treat you. And I've used that throughout
my life and it works.

Speaker 3 (01:32):
Well, it does.

Speaker 2 (01:34):
You catch more flies with honey than you do vinegar.
Very true, and and so I feel for her, but
you know what, he's not worthy of her.

Speaker 3 (01:43):
Yeah, that's true. Well, thank you so much for listening, Dailien,
thanks for calling in.

Speaker 2 (01:48):
I thank you.

Speaker 1 (01:49):
Treat people the way you want to be treated, you, guys,
that's why it doesn't work. Really, I try to ignore everybody. Yesterday,
at this time, I played for you the mashup of
the Jonas Brothers and Tater Swift, and I was telling
you guys that there was a song that was going
viral of Luis Miguel. Now, Luis Miguel is a very

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famous singer, but this when he was a kid. This
is like he was like twelve or thirteen years old,
one of his first hits.

Speaker 3 (02:16):
And you're gonna hear it's this.

Speaker 1 (02:18):
It's identical to Open Lite.

Speaker 3 (02:21):
Okay, check this out. Weird right dead on, eerily close. Probably.

Speaker 1 (03:02):
A source close to the Jonah's brothers say they will
not be pursuing copyright infringement against Taylor's smart very smarter
than Joe bros. Taylor did a bunch of a handful
of interviews the last couple of days, and you know,
she started with the BBC clip and we were BBC
we're talking about that yesterday and the other day. The
best interview I've seen so far, the most complete interview
I've seen so far, as Jimmy Fallon last night.

Speaker 4 (03:24):
He had some good time with her, like it was.
It was a very long interview, and he asked her,
you know, questions, just bullet point questions after questions after
question like then he played this game with her on
like what was true or not? And he guessed was
it actually true that Ed Sheeran, one of your best
friends didn't find out about your wedding until you posted
on Instagram. And she's like, yes, that is actually true.

Speaker 5 (03:47):
But I have a perfect explanation.

Speaker 6 (03:51):
He doesn't have a phone.

Speaker 5 (03:53):
He doesn't have a phone.

Speaker 1 (03:54):
Did you write a whole album about an old phone
that he had or something?

Speaker 5 (03:57):
But he doesn't have one. That works true when I'm
going through being like, hey, people who should be facetimeed?
Going through my texts and being like, who have I
texted within the last like months of my life? And
he just wasn't there.

Speaker 4 (04:14):
It is actually a perfectly good explanation. And I think
if you're ed cheer and you're like, it's fine, I'm
going to the wedding and probably performing there.

Speaker 1 (04:20):
So if you're sharing, though, and you say you heard
about it on Instagram like everybody else, how do you
have Instagram laptop?

Speaker 2 (04:26):
Oh?

Speaker 3 (04:27):
Really help go to their laptop on Instagram.

Speaker 4 (04:30):
But I think it does that. He's talked about being
intentional about staying away from that stuff on purpose and so,
but he's still plugged in here or there. I did
also like how she talked about one of the songs
out for album that's getting maybe the most attention because
it's just a it's it's a different side of tailor
really is would right because of its spiciness in nature,

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And she talked about how like this song didn't start
off with that intention.

Speaker 5 (04:58):
I brought this into the studio and I was like,
I want to do do a throwback, kind of timeless
sounding song, and I have this idea about like I
got to knock on wood and we would knock on
wood and it would be all these superstitions, and it
really started out in a very innocent place. I don't
know what happened.

Speaker 2 (05:16):
Man, I we went off the rail.

Speaker 5 (05:18):
I got in there, we started vibing, and I don't
know how we got here, but I love the song.

Speaker 4 (05:23):
So in a different interview that she did, they asked
a question that we literally brought up yesterday, is like
the parents' situation, specifically like her mother, What.

Speaker 7 (05:36):
Does your mom's face do when you play wood for
her for the first time?

Speaker 5 (05:40):
I think that she thinks that that song is about superstitions,
popular superstitions, which which it absolutely is.

Speaker 7 (05:46):
That's the joy of.

Speaker 5 (05:47):
The double entendre that song for people and it just
goes right over their head. Would that song you can
see in that song?

Speaker 7 (05:55):
What you want to see in that song?

Speaker 4 (05:57):
I'm like, you played your mom on the clean version?

Speaker 3 (06:00):
Did she obvious the clean brision?

Speaker 1 (06:02):
You see the part where they talk about the super Bowl?

Speaker 3 (06:04):
Do you have that part? Oh? Yeah?

Speaker 1 (06:06):
So they Jimmy Fallon asks her about the super Bowl, uh,
and she gave some excuse. She goes like, which jay
Z and I are good friends and when his team
talked to my team, and she gets into something. I
wish I had it, my bad, but it was really
interesting to go buy everything that we keep thinking about.

Speaker 3 (06:22):
Oh, here's what she says.

Speaker 1 (06:23):
She says, she goes, my boyfriend or my fiance plays football.
He's a he's a warrior, he's a gladiator. He's out
there every day putting his life on the line. And
what am I going to do?

Speaker 2 (06:34):
Go?

Speaker 1 (06:34):
Should I do?

Speaker 3 (06:36):
What's one of her songs gonna make you shake it off?
Should I do?

Speaker 1 (06:38):
Shake it off? Twice? And she's like, I can't, I
can't compare.

Speaker 3 (06:43):
I can't take his mind off the game like that.
It was something like that because he would.

Speaker 7 (06:46):
Be distracted if say, the Chiefs were playing in the
super Bowl, and I don't think they're gonna be a
future they're struggling right now. But like, yeah, I can
see that. But also it's like, so does Taylor. Does
that mean we're never gonna get a Taylor su Super
Bowl as long as Travis Kelsey's playing might retire anyway?

Speaker 4 (07:01):
Probably Yeah, Well, I mean we're not because if he retires,
sits here, he's not going to be playing. So she
could do it any other year and not distract him,
which would be interesting. I did find it fascinating because
you know, we talk a lot about TV shows on
this show. Specifically, and Taylor Swift brought up her song
father Figure, which is basically about the power dynamic between
a mentor anim and tea if you will, and an

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amenity you know, or a protege she called it, and
she said this, this song was very much inspired about
the power dynamic that can change and shift between that relationship,
and it was actually inspired by one of our favorite shows, Succession.

Speaker 5 (07:39):
I kept thinking about that scene in Succession where Logan
looks at his kids and says, I love you, but
you are not serious people. And I think about that
scene constantly.

Speaker 6 (07:52):
I just think it's one.

Speaker 5 (07:53):
Of the coolest scenes ever. And I was like, I
want to write a song that has that energy of
sort of Logan Roy being like you bit the hand
that fed you.

Speaker 3 (08:02):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (08:03):
I think about that scene a lot too.

Speaker 3 (08:04):
From Succession.

Speaker 6 (08:05):
You're not serious people coming with this whole plan, this
whole billion dollar empire they would have taken over.

Speaker 1 (08:10):
I don't remember that scene.

Speaker 3 (08:11):
Oh yeah, yeah in the beginning.

Speaker 6 (08:13):
No, it's in this like towards the end of the series.
It might be either the last season or the next
to last season. But I think about that too, because
he's such a power boss where they come up with
this plan to buy him out or you know, like
move him aside and take over every episode.

Speaker 1 (08:29):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (08:29):
I know, but in this one he's like, that's cute,
but you're not serious people.

Speaker 3 (08:33):
I like that she just watches TV like us.

Speaker 4 (08:35):
It's so funny because I was literally talking about this
interview with Noah earlier. No on the show, he's he's
the Swiftie, and I go, don't you think it's just
weird picturing Taylor Swift sitting down and watching TV app
R choosing which streaming service.

Speaker 7 (08:53):
Cale.

Speaker 1 (08:54):
Yeah,