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Speaker 1 (00:00):
John Jay and rich Thomas, Good morning. Thanks for holding man.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
I I've got a little bit of a situation. I
don't know what to do. I'm not sure if like anyone,
you know, any listeners or anybody has gone through this.
But so my ex girlfriend we broke up like five
six months ago, relatively amicable. But now she's like hitting
(00:24):
up all my coworkers on social media. She's for requesting
dming just like random stuff. And I don't know what
to do about it. Like I don't know if I
confront her about it or if I just kind of
let it blow over. Like I don't really understand what,
(00:45):
like what her goals are. But she's just hitting up
all my coworkers and they're asking me about it. They're like, hey,
that your extra friend like hitting me up, and yeah,
it's starting to go on for a little while. So
I just I don't know what to do about it.
Speaker 3 (01:00):
How long ago did you guys break up?
Speaker 2 (01:03):
Like five five five and a half months, five months?
Speaker 3 (01:07):
Have you moved on? Are you dating someone new? Now?
Speaker 2 (01:11):
I'm not dating anyone really, Like I'm kind of in
the talking stage with somebody, but I mean definitely like
moved on, like I'm not, you know what I mean,
Like we haven't talked. I'm not. Yeah, I'm not like.
Speaker 1 (01:22):
Stuck on her.
Speaker 2 (01:23):
It was a pretty clean break, I thought.
Speaker 3 (01:25):
You know, because what I wonder is like maybe she
has started missing you and then she heard you're kind
of talking to someone new and they mad. She's getting
a little jealous, and so she's trying to like reach
out to your coworkers so that she could be like
that cool ser your coworkers, Like remember you were actually
so cool like I was talking, you know what I mean,
and bringing herself back into your life kind of sneakily,
right or like.
Speaker 1 (01:45):
But that's crazy, right, No, that is really But like
what are the dms Like, is it like, hey, do
you guys want to hang out? Or is she like
trying to like hit on your coworkers and try to
make you jealous.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
No, they're just no, they're just kind of like casual,
like hey, how you doing, like almost as like as
if they were friends. Like she's talking to people that
she barely knows. I mean, you know, they've seen her
at like holiday parties and stuff. But yeah, nothing like flirty,
just kind.
Speaker 1 (02:12):
Of like hi, could she just be social? I think
it's it's what Kyle's saying, but a little bit more extreme.
To me, it seems like she's starting the spiral that
you've moved on without her. So she's reaching out to
everybody so she can kind of do everything she can
to spy on you. And maybe even if she reaches
(02:32):
out to you and you don't respond the way she wants,
she's got connections with all these people to throw you
under the bus when the time comes, maybe she's gonna
send them a picture that you sent her with your
shirt off, and maybe more than that, and you'll be Okay,
what do you see? Look at this is your coworker, Thomas.
Who could he sent me? So now she's established relationships
with these people, so she has no problem to send
(02:53):
a naked photo of you ORGM which is against the law,
by the way. But I'm just I'm just letting you
know it. I think it seems a little extreme in
my opinion.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
Yeah, No, I mean I'm starting to get a little
freaked out for sure.
Speaker 3 (03:04):
Yeah, And you won't just freach out and say what's
up with that?
Speaker 1 (03:07):
Why are you reaching out everybody in my world? What's up?
Speaker 2 (03:15):
That? Is the thing?
Speaker 1 (03:15):
The ex is like to collect your friends so that
they have advocates.
Speaker 2 (03:20):
Yeah, I just I feel like that's what she wants
is for you know, like she wants to me to
engage with her in some way, because I have it right,
Like it's kind of just cut her off. So I
feel like if I reach out to her, like that's
what she wants me to do, you know what I mean?
Speaker 1 (03:35):
Unless you're not telling us everything. And she's also a coworker,
Well she works here. What happened? Well, what are you
talking about? Were in the same place? Was fine? Literally
a different floor.
Speaker 2 (03:54):
Forgot to mention that.
Speaker 1 (03:55):
No, good luck on a psycho. Yeah, man, all right,
thanks for calling me.
Speaker 2 (04:05):
All right, thanks guys.
Speaker 1 (04:06):
All right,
John Jay and rich Thomas, Good morning. Thanks for holding man.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
I I've got a little bit of a situation. I
don't know what to do. I'm not sure if like anyone,
you know, any listeners or anybody has gone through this.
But so my ex girlfriend we broke up like five
six months ago, relatively amicable. But now she's like hitting
(00:24):
up all my coworkers on social media. She's for requesting
dming just like random stuff. And I don't know what
to do about it. Like I don't know if I
confront her about it or if I just kind of
let it blow over. Like I don't really understand what,
(00:45):
like what her goals are. But she's just hitting up
all my coworkers and they're asking me about it. They're like, hey,
that your extra friend like hitting me up, and yeah,
it's starting to go on for a little while. So
I just I don't know what to do about it.
Speaker 3 (01:00):
How long ago did you guys break up?
Speaker 2 (01:03):
Like five five five and a half months, five months?
Speaker 3 (01:07):
Have you moved on? Are you dating someone new? Now?
Speaker 2 (01:11):
I'm not dating anyone really, Like I'm kind of in
the talking stage with somebody, but I mean definitely like
moved on, like I'm not, you know what I mean,
Like we haven't talked. I'm not. Yeah, I'm not like.
Speaker 1 (01:22):
Stuck on her.
Speaker 2 (01:23):
It was a pretty clean break, I thought.
Speaker 3 (01:25):
You know, because what I wonder is like maybe she
has started missing you and then she heard you're kind
of talking to someone new and they mad. She's getting
a little jealous, and so she's trying to like reach
out to your coworkers so that she could be like
that cool ser your coworkers, Like remember you were actually
so cool like I was talking, you know what I mean,
and bringing herself back into your life kind of sneakily,
right or like.
Speaker 1 (01:45):
But that's crazy, right, No, that is really But like
what are the dms Like, is it like, hey, do
you guys want to hang out? Or is she like
trying to like hit on your coworkers and try to
make you jealous.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
No, they're just no, they're just kind of like casual,
like hey, how you doing, like almost as like as
if they were friends. Like she's talking to people that
she barely knows. I mean, you know, they've seen her
at like holiday parties and stuff. But yeah, nothing like flirty,
just kind.
Speaker 1 (02:12):
Of like hi, could she just be social? I think
it's it's what Kyle's saying, but a little bit more extreme.
To me, it seems like she's starting the spiral that
you've moved on without her. So she's reaching out to
everybody so she can kind of do everything she can
to spy on you. And maybe even if she reaches
(02:32):
out to you and you don't respond the way she wants,
she's got connections with all these people to throw you
under the bus when the time comes, maybe she's gonna
send them a picture that you sent her with your
shirt off, and maybe more than that, and you'll be Okay,
what do you see? Look at this is your coworker, Thomas.
Who could he sent me? So now she's established relationships
with these people, so she has no problem to send
(02:53):
a naked photo of you ORGM which is against the law,
by the way. But I'm just I'm just letting you
know it. I think it seems a little extreme in
my opinion.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
Yeah, No, I mean I'm starting to get a little
freaked out for sure.
Speaker 3 (03:04):
Yeah, And you won't just freach out and say what's
up with that?
Speaker 1 (03:07):
Why are you reaching out everybody in my world? What's up?
Speaker 2 (03:15):
That? Is the thing?
Speaker 1 (03:15):
The ex is like to collect your friends so that
they have advocates.
Speaker 2 (03:20):
Yeah, I just I feel like that's what she wants
is for you know, like she wants to me to
engage with her in some way, because I have it right,
Like it's kind of just cut her off. So I
feel like if I reach out to her, like that's
what she wants me to do, you know what I mean?
Speaker 1 (03:35):
Unless you're not telling us everything. And she's also a coworker,
Well she works here. What happened? Well, what are you
talking about? Were in the same place? Was fine? Literally
a different floor.
Speaker 2 (03:54):
Forgot to mention that.
Speaker 1 (03:55):
No, good luck on a psycho. Yeah, man, all right,
thanks for calling me.
Speaker 2 (04:05):
All right, thanks guys.
Speaker 1 (04:06):
All right,
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