July 16, 2026 • 9 mins
Jasmine and Ian have been together FOREVER. They're not married, but are headed that way...unless there's something else going on...?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hey, dummy, if you get free roses, it's a trap.
Woar of the Roses starts right now on John Jay
and Rich.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
One O four to seven Kiss FM John Jay and
Rich type for War of the Roses. So you're in
a relationship like Jasmine here and she thinks that whoever
she's in relationship with is cheating on her.
Speaker 1 (00:17):
So we're gonna hear her story.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
They recall the person that she thinks is cheating on
her and see who they send roses to Romantic Red Roses. Jasmine,
Welcome to John Jay and Rich War the Roses.
Speaker 3 (00:28):
Hey, how you joing good?
Speaker 1 (00:30):
What's your story?
Speaker 3 (00:31):
I'm just really conflicted because it's my baby's daddy and
I love him. We've been together since high school, so
a really long time we lived together and everything. They
have two kids. But if I'm being perfectly honest, he's
been he's been a dog since I've known him. He's
(00:52):
just it's just in him. I don't know what kind
of trauma he's working through, but it's just him.
Speaker 4 (00:58):
And you know, I really really love him, and I
keep convincing myself that he's finally going to grow up
and really make our kids and me.
Speaker 3 (01:08):
The priority of his life instead of being outside and
being in these streets. But I think I'm at my
breaking point.
Speaker 4 (01:16):
Last month, he disappeared on my birthday for hours.
Speaker 3 (01:20):
And he barely answered me, and somehow I was the
one that ended up apologizing to him. So I was
just like, yeah, this is this is crazy.
Speaker 1 (01:31):
Why did you apologize? What did you say?
Speaker 3 (01:33):
It's my birthday? And he and he's like late to
my birthday, Like where were you? It's like one.
Speaker 1 (01:39):
Day of the year.
Speaker 3 (01:41):
I mean, yeah, your kid's birthday too, but it's one
day of the year where it's like, what the hell?
Speaker 2 (01:46):
You know what I mean?
Speaker 1 (01:47):
Well, I get that. I'm saying, why did you apologize?
Speaker 3 (01:51):
I overreacting.
Speaker 1 (01:53):
I think you were overreacting?
Speaker 4 (01:55):
He said, I was overreacting, And I was very.
Speaker 3 (01:57):
Upset because at least he didn't miss all of the festivities.
He only missed the first two hours, which to me
is like is this crazy? Like you shouldn't you should?
I don't know, like you should be there. He left
out of the house while I was getting ready and
then text me and said babe, I'll be right back.
I'll meet you at the venue, and never showed.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
Up for two hours. Okay, so you think there's another woman.
Speaker 3 (02:20):
I don't know. He swears there was some huge traffic
accident holding up traffic. But I checked the live traffic cameras.
I like, I know him, and something in my gut
was telling me something was off and nothing was happening
on the traffic cameras, So like, what's the problem, you know?
And then when I tried to dig deeper and I'm like,
(02:41):
where exactly were you? Because maybe I checked the wrong cameras.
Speaker 4 (02:44):
Then he deflects, and it's messed up because every excuse
that he gives sounds logical for like the first five seconds,
but then it's just like the mass isn't mathing all
the time, and we hold life together.
Speaker 5 (02:58):
Someone specific that you feel it might be like, is
there a reoccurring problem or issue with like one specific girl?
Speaker 3 (03:06):
No, not really, I mean I don't know there was
it was one. There was two girls. One was at
his job and then the other one he knew from
way back when, from our college days.
Speaker 5 (03:20):
But I don't.
Speaker 3 (03:21):
I don't.
Speaker 4 (03:22):
I'm not a stalker.
Speaker 3 (03:23):
I'm too busy being a wife and a mother, you
know what I mean. So for me, it's kind of
like I don't know who it could be. I just
want to know if he's cheating or not, so I
could just convince myself I'm not crazy.
Speaker 2 (03:34):
No, you're good. You gave us enough reason to do it.
So what is his name?
Speaker 3 (03:38):
His name's Ian Ian?
Speaker 2 (03:39):
Okay, And he said he's your baby daddy. But is
he your husband or boyfriend?
Speaker 3 (03:44):
No, we've been together since high school. No, we refer
to each other as husband and one.
Speaker 1 (03:47):
I get it, I get it.
Speaker 3 (03:48):
Okay, all right, you're okay with it?
Speaker 1 (03:50):
Good?
Speaker 2 (03:51):
All right, We're gonna get Ian on the phone and
see who we sends flowers to Colin Fog.
Speaker 6 (03:55):
Are you ready?
Speaker 1 (03:55):
I'm prady, okay.
Speaker 2 (03:56):
War of the Roses continues next for John Jay Rich,
John Jane Rich.
Speaker 1 (04:01):
John Jane Rich. We're in the middle of War of
the Roses. Jasmine.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
Ian been together for since high school. And here's a deal.
He was a dog back in the day. Now he's
acting really strange. Was there for only half her birthday?
They got two kids together. She has a list of
things she's caught him lying. She looks at traffic cameras
when he says he's like a traffic and there's no traffic.
But she doesn't know I get it, and he's got
good responses at the time, and then she feels dumb later.
Speaker 1 (04:24):
But we're gonna call Ian Jasmine. I pretty much set
it up right.
Speaker 3 (04:28):
There, right yeah, okay.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
Okay, So are you ready? Are you here with us?
Speaker 2 (04:32):
Are you ready for us to call him?
Speaker 1 (04:35):
Are you ready to come?
Speaker 6 (04:36):
Let's do it?
Speaker 2 (04:51):
Hello?
Speaker 5 (04:52):
Hi, there is ianavailable?
Speaker 3 (04:55):
Uh? Yeah, yes, absolutely So.
Speaker 1 (04:58):
My name is Janie.
Speaker 5 (04:59):
I'm with a company we're called and Our Flowers, And
just like every other business, we're trying to get creative
with our marketing. So Ian, you've actually been chosen to
be part of our social media campaign. Here's why it's
really cool for you. You get to send our most
romantic bouquet of roses totally free, and all we're kind
of asking in return is that you maybe post about
us on whichever social media platform you use the most.
Speaker 3 (05:21):
Okay, yeah, I know you're like, what.
Speaker 1 (05:23):
Is the catch?
Speaker 5 (05:24):
I totally hear the skepticism in your voice, but it
really is like when you post about us, like other
people hear about it. So it's like we're getting something
out of it too. And I'm telling you this bouquet,
it's our pure passion bookuet So it's long stem red roses,
beautiful crystal vase, it's it just makes anyone swoon. So
if you've got someone special in your life, you should
really take advantage of this.
Speaker 1 (05:45):
Yeah, why not? All right?
Speaker 5 (05:47):
So, because you are skeptical, I feel the need to
tell you that I'm not going to ask you for
a credit card information or anything like that. Really, the
only info I need from you, Ian is I'm gonna
send the flowers off with a nice little card. And
I usually tell people this is your chance to personalize it,
sort of make it your own. And I just need
to know the message you want to write on the card.
And then we'll talk name and address and I'll give
(06:07):
you a time they'll be delivered.
Speaker 1 (06:10):
All right, let's put on there. It's been a dream
getting to know you, my love. I love that.
Speaker 5 (06:18):
It's been a dream getting to know you, my love. Okay,
and obviously like an XO XO or like a love.
Speaker 3 (06:29):
At the end.
Speaker 5 (06:30):
Okay, And then who did you want me to address
this to?
Speaker 1 (06:35):
Addressed to Sabrina?
Speaker 5 (06:37):
Sabrina Sabrina?
Speaker 3 (06:41):
Okay, PARTI, mother, did you just say Sabrina? Did you
just say Sabrina?
Speaker 5 (06:49):
My best friend.
Speaker 6 (06:50):
Sabrina.
Speaker 1 (06:51):
Hey, okay, what is this?
Speaker 3 (06:54):
What are you talking about? What I'm talking about?
Speaker 4 (06:58):
And you got free flowers from someone in a person's
name is Sabrina my best friend?
Speaker 3 (07:02):
What am I talking about? I think it's pretty snobvious
what I'm talking about, Jasmine, Jasmine relashes.
Speaker 1 (07:09):
Let me explain.
Speaker 3 (07:10):
Did you say relaxed? Are you crazy? Yeah? Just let
me explain. We did enough explaining. I think dur An ass,
you're a dog and you're never gonna see your kids
again unless it's supervised. And I want payments monthly.
Speaker 1 (07:27):
You like that? I mean, you're making this so much
bigger than what it is.
Speaker 4 (07:32):
Yeah, I am, I am, And Sabrina I'm gonna deal
with her too, because I at least expected some loyalty
from that bitch.
Speaker 3 (07:40):
Both the y'all are done. I was trying to hurt you, Yeah,
you were. You could have got a prostitute. You could
have went to someone on only fans. You could have
went with that dumb bitch from your job.
Speaker 1 (07:51):
You could have went with.
Speaker 3 (07:54):
No, you choose my best Si.
Speaker 1 (07:56):
Don't hold up. You don't even know who A story
like that, there is no sorry.
Speaker 3 (08:00):
Why would you send her why would you send her flowers?
And how are you getting to know her better? Because
we didn't know her better?
Speaker 1 (08:08):
Be real, you and I haven't been good for.
Speaker 3 (08:10):
A long time, my best friend.
Speaker 1 (08:13):
But I didn't say that.
Speaker 2 (08:16):
Yeah you did in the note.
Speaker 4 (08:18):
Why you put words my mare's There's no way that
you're this stupid.
Speaker 3 (08:25):
There's no way you're this stupid. And you know what,
You're not this stupid. You're a hole and you think
that I'm this stupid and that's the problem.
Speaker 4 (08:35):
I'm done so much to you guys for clearing it up.
Speaker 3 (08:41):
I'm not crazy. He's an acid.
Speaker 4 (08:44):
Out there, please please please an he loves stuff.
Speaker 3 (08:48):
So maybe, guys and I don't know what he's up
to out there.
Speaker 1 (08:53):
On grind, don't date him, all right, So real quick, Ian,
if you don't know, you are on the radio.
Speaker 2 (09:00):
You're on War of the Roses with John Jay and
Rich and Jasmine got you.
Speaker 3 (09:04):
Yeah, bussy, Yeah, I gat it that.
Speaker 2 (09:07):
Okay, So you said my love I mean that's yeah,
that was wrong, man, all right, Jasmine, you were right.
Speaker 1 (09:14):
Yeah, you're not crazy at all.
Speaker 3 (09:17):
Yeah, I gotta I gotta.
Speaker 2 (09:18):
Go, all right, I'm sorry, Okay, all right, all right,
we'll let you go, we understand, Thank you very much.
Speaker 1 (09:23):
All right, that's War of the roses you guys.
Speaker 2 (09:24):
Wow.
Hey, dummy, if you get free roses, it's a trap.
Woar of the Roses starts right now on John Jay
and Rich.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
One O four to seven Kiss FM John Jay and
Rich type for War of the Roses. So you're in
a relationship like Jasmine here and she thinks that whoever
she's in relationship with is cheating on her.
Speaker 1 (00:17):
So we're gonna hear her story.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
They recall the person that she thinks is cheating on
her and see who they send roses to Romantic Red Roses. Jasmine,
Welcome to John Jay and Rich War the Roses.
Speaker 3 (00:28):
Hey, how you joing good?
Speaker 1 (00:30):
What's your story?
Speaker 3 (00:31):
I'm just really conflicted because it's my baby's daddy and
I love him. We've been together since high school, so
a really long time we lived together and everything. They
have two kids. But if I'm being perfectly honest, he's
been he's been a dog since I've known him. He's
(00:52):
just it's just in him. I don't know what kind
of trauma he's working through, but it's just him.
Speaker 4 (00:58):
And you know, I really really love him, and I
keep convincing myself that he's finally going to grow up
and really make our kids and me.
Speaker 3 (01:08):
The priority of his life instead of being outside and
being in these streets. But I think I'm at my
breaking point.
Speaker 4 (01:16):
Last month, he disappeared on my birthday for hours.
Speaker 3 (01:20):
And he barely answered me, and somehow I was the
one that ended up apologizing to him. So I was
just like, yeah, this is this is crazy.
Speaker 1 (01:31):
Why did you apologize? What did you say?
Speaker 3 (01:33):
It's my birthday? And he and he's like late to
my birthday, Like where were you? It's like one.
Speaker 1 (01:39):
Day of the year.
Speaker 3 (01:41):
I mean, yeah, your kid's birthday too, but it's one
day of the year where it's like, what the hell?
Speaker 2 (01:46):
You know what I mean?
Speaker 1 (01:47):
Well, I get that. I'm saying, why did you apologize?
Speaker 3 (01:51):
I overreacting.
Speaker 1 (01:53):
I think you were overreacting?
Speaker 4 (01:55):
He said, I was overreacting, And I was very.
Speaker 3 (01:57):
Upset because at least he didn't miss all of the festivities.
He only missed the first two hours, which to me
is like is this crazy? Like you shouldn't you should?
I don't know, like you should be there. He left
out of the house while I was getting ready and
then text me and said babe, I'll be right back.
I'll meet you at the venue, and never showed.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
Up for two hours. Okay, so you think there's another woman.
Speaker 3 (02:20):
I don't know. He swears there was some huge traffic
accident holding up traffic. But I checked the live traffic cameras.
I like, I know him, and something in my gut
was telling me something was off and nothing was happening
on the traffic cameras, So like, what's the problem, you know?
And then when I tried to dig deeper and I'm like,
(02:41):
where exactly were you? Because maybe I checked the wrong cameras.
Speaker 4 (02:44):
Then he deflects, and it's messed up because every excuse
that he gives sounds logical for like the first five seconds,
but then it's just like the mass isn't mathing all
the time, and we hold life together.
Speaker 5 (02:58):
Someone specific that you feel it might be like, is
there a reoccurring problem or issue with like one specific girl?
Speaker 3 (03:06):
No, not really, I mean I don't know there was
it was one. There was two girls. One was at
his job and then the other one he knew from
way back when, from our college days.
Speaker 5 (03:20):
But I don't.
Speaker 3 (03:21):
I don't.
Speaker 4 (03:22):
I'm not a stalker.
Speaker 3 (03:23):
I'm too busy being a wife and a mother, you
know what I mean. So for me, it's kind of
like I don't know who it could be. I just
want to know if he's cheating or not, so I
could just convince myself I'm not crazy.
Speaker 2 (03:34):
No, you're good. You gave us enough reason to do it.
So what is his name?
Speaker 3 (03:38):
His name's Ian Ian?
Speaker 2 (03:39):
Okay, And he said he's your baby daddy. But is
he your husband or boyfriend?
Speaker 3 (03:44):
No, we've been together since high school. No, we refer
to each other as husband and one.
Speaker 1 (03:47):
I get it, I get it.
Speaker 3 (03:48):
Okay, all right, you're okay with it?
Speaker 1 (03:50):
Good?
Speaker 2 (03:51):
All right, We're gonna get Ian on the phone and
see who we sends flowers to Colin Fog.
Speaker 6 (03:55):
Are you ready?
Speaker 1 (03:55):
I'm prady, okay.
Speaker 2 (03:56):
War of the Roses continues next for John Jay Rich,
John Jane Rich.
Speaker 1 (04:01):
John Jane Rich. We're in the middle of War of
the Roses. Jasmine.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
Ian been together for since high school. And here's a deal.
He was a dog back in the day. Now he's
acting really strange. Was there for only half her birthday?
They got two kids together. She has a list of
things she's caught him lying. She looks at traffic cameras
when he says he's like a traffic and there's no traffic.
But she doesn't know I get it, and he's got
good responses at the time, and then she feels dumb later.
Speaker 1 (04:24):
But we're gonna call Ian Jasmine. I pretty much set
it up right.
Speaker 3 (04:28):
There, right yeah, okay.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
Okay, So are you ready? Are you here with us?
Speaker 2 (04:32):
Are you ready for us to call him?
Speaker 1 (04:35):
Are you ready to come?
Speaker 6 (04:36):
Let's do it?
Speaker 2 (04:51):
Hello?
Speaker 5 (04:52):
Hi, there is ianavailable?
Speaker 3 (04:55):
Uh? Yeah, yes, absolutely So.
Speaker 1 (04:58):
My name is Janie.
Speaker 5 (04:59):
I'm with a company we're called and Our Flowers, And
just like every other business, we're trying to get creative
with our marketing. So Ian, you've actually been chosen to
be part of our social media campaign. Here's why it's
really cool for you. You get to send our most
romantic bouquet of roses totally free, and all we're kind
of asking in return is that you maybe post about
us on whichever social media platform you use the most.
Speaker 3 (05:21):
Okay, yeah, I know you're like, what.
Speaker 1 (05:23):
Is the catch?
Speaker 5 (05:24):
I totally hear the skepticism in your voice, but it
really is like when you post about us, like other
people hear about it. So it's like we're getting something
out of it too. And I'm telling you this bouquet,
it's our pure passion bookuet So it's long stem red roses,
beautiful crystal vase, it's it just makes anyone swoon. So
if you've got someone special in your life, you should
really take advantage of this.
Speaker 1 (05:45):
Yeah, why not? All right?
Speaker 5 (05:47):
So, because you are skeptical, I feel the need to
tell you that I'm not going to ask you for
a credit card information or anything like that. Really, the
only info I need from you, Ian is I'm gonna
send the flowers off with a nice little card. And
I usually tell people this is your chance to personalize it,
sort of make it your own. And I just need
to know the message you want to write on the card.
And then we'll talk name and address and I'll give
(06:07):
you a time they'll be delivered.
Speaker 1 (06:10):
All right, let's put on there. It's been a dream
getting to know you, my love. I love that.
Speaker 5 (06:18):
It's been a dream getting to know you, my love. Okay,
and obviously like an XO XO or like a love.
Speaker 3 (06:29):
At the end.
Speaker 5 (06:30):
Okay, And then who did you want me to address
this to?
Speaker 1 (06:35):
Addressed to Sabrina?
Speaker 5 (06:37):
Sabrina Sabrina?
Speaker 3 (06:41):
Okay, PARTI, mother, did you just say Sabrina? Did you
just say Sabrina?
Speaker 5 (06:49):
My best friend.
Speaker 6 (06:50):
Sabrina.
Speaker 1 (06:51):
Hey, okay, what is this?
Speaker 3 (06:54):
What are you talking about? What I'm talking about?
Speaker 4 (06:58):
And you got free flowers from someone in a person's
name is Sabrina my best friend?
Speaker 3 (07:02):
What am I talking about? I think it's pretty snobvious
what I'm talking about, Jasmine, Jasmine relashes.
Speaker 1 (07:09):
Let me explain.
Speaker 3 (07:10):
Did you say relaxed? Are you crazy? Yeah? Just let
me explain. We did enough explaining. I think dur An ass,
you're a dog and you're never gonna see your kids
again unless it's supervised. And I want payments monthly.
Speaker 1 (07:27):
You like that? I mean, you're making this so much
bigger than what it is.
Speaker 4 (07:32):
Yeah, I am, I am, And Sabrina I'm gonna deal
with her too, because I at least expected some loyalty
from that bitch.
Speaker 3 (07:40):
Both the y'all are done. I was trying to hurt you, Yeah,
you were. You could have got a prostitute. You could
have went to someone on only fans. You could have
went with that dumb bitch from your job.
Speaker 1 (07:51):
You could have went with.
Speaker 3 (07:54):
No, you choose my best Si.
Speaker 1 (07:56):
Don't hold up. You don't even know who A story
like that, there is no sorry.
Speaker 3 (08:00):
Why would you send her why would you send her flowers?
And how are you getting to know her better? Because
we didn't know her better?
Speaker 1 (08:08):
Be real, you and I haven't been good for.
Speaker 3 (08:10):
A long time, my best friend.
Speaker 1 (08:13):
But I didn't say that.
Speaker 2 (08:16):
Yeah you did in the note.
Speaker 4 (08:18):
Why you put words my mare's There's no way that
you're this stupid.
Speaker 3 (08:25):
There's no way you're this stupid. And you know what,
You're not this stupid. You're a hole and you think
that I'm this stupid and that's the problem.
Speaker 4 (08:35):
I'm done so much to you guys for clearing it up.
Speaker 3 (08:41):
I'm not crazy. He's an acid.
Speaker 4 (08:44):
Out there, please please please an he loves stuff.
Speaker 3 (08:48):
So maybe, guys and I don't know what he's up
to out there.
Speaker 1 (08:53):
On grind, don't date him, all right, So real quick, Ian,
if you don't know, you are on the radio.
Speaker 2 (09:00):
You're on War of the Roses with John Jay and
Rich and Jasmine got you.
Speaker 3 (09:04):
Yeah, bussy, Yeah, I gat it that.
Speaker 2 (09:07):
Okay, So you said my love I mean that's yeah,
that was wrong, man, all right, Jasmine, you were right.
Speaker 1 (09:14):
Yeah, you're not crazy at all.
Speaker 3 (09:17):
Yeah, I gotta I gotta.
Speaker 2 (09:18):
Go, all right, I'm sorry, Okay, all right, all right,
we'll let you go, we understand, Thank you very much.
Speaker 1 (09:23):
All right, that's War of the roses you guys.
Speaker 2 (09:24):
Wow.
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