September 4, 2026 • 26 mins
On today's show: Ryan has advice for being friends with an ex, a Second Date Update and a hack for describing yourself on dating apps! Listen NOW!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
From Hollywood to you. Thank you for listening to us.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 1 (00:04):
Seacrest. On air, on air, on.
Speaker 3 (00:06):
Air with Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 1 (00:09):
He's a fan. Let me grab King. This topic has
come up a lot on this show, and that is
whether or not you should be friends with your exes.
I am a proponent. Sisney and Tanya are opponents of
this idea. King, where do you weigh in?
Speaker 2 (00:25):
I actually land halfway in the middle because I've had
both experiences. I've had friends that were exes and it
went great. And then I've had friends that were exes
and it was the worst thing I could ever think
of doing.
Speaker 1 (00:36):
Okay. But in a perfect world, which would you prefer?
Speaker 2 (00:40):
I prefer, honestly, staying friends because you never know if
you're going to need someone in your life for something
later on. I think I prefer to stay friends. I just,
I've seen the good and bad in both. But I
prefer to stay friends.
Speaker 1 (00:56):
Okay. And are you still really close with one of
those exes? Like, do you check in with them? Do
you wish them happy birthday? Do you check in on
a holiday?
Speaker 2 (01:06):
Well, funny thing that you asked that. I am actually
getting married and my ex-wife is coming to mine and
my fiance's wedding. And I'm very close with her. I've
known her for like 26 years.
Speaker 1 (01:20):
That's interesting. I've never gone down that path before. How
does your fiance feel about your ex-wife coming?
Speaker 2 (01:27):
Well, not to call out a lot, but he's a
trans man, and he looks at her, and they have
great conversation, and now they talk about me behind my back,
and it works out great.
Speaker 1 (01:41):
Whatever works out great is the path to take. I
just love peace, happiness, and less... And so I'm happy
that things, by the way, congratulations, things are going great.
You're getting married and happy for you, King. Thank you
for listening to Kiss FM.
Speaker 2 (01:57):
Thank you very much. And I just want to say
I love how you guys actually talk about issues that
people need to hear. So I want to say keep
up the great work. Ryan, I watch you all the time.
I watch on everything that you're on and very impressed
by just how much you really care about the community
and people out there. So thank you so much.
Speaker 1 (02:17):
Thank you, King. Big hugs to you. Have a great weekend.
You too. Okay, buddy. Bye-bye. Bye-bye. Kat in Encino. How
about this? So you have plans to go on a
couple's trip, but the couple you're supposed to go with
broke up?
Speaker 2 (02:32):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (02:33):
For the past like seven years, we've done the same
annual couple's trip. It's like six couples, same vibe every year.
We get a big house, like cook dinner together. It's
been kind of a tradition.
Speaker 1 (02:51):
And what are the options now if they broke up?
So you don't go on the trip? Or, I mean,
they can't go separately as a couple.
Speaker 4 (02:57):
I mean, we have thought through everything.
Speaker 1 (03:00):
Well, what is the most likely scenario here? If it
were me, can you just go on the trip? You
and your significant other?
Speaker 5 (03:09):
Well, they're still friends with all of them, right? It's
not like they broke up with you guys as friends.
Speaker 6 (03:15):
Right.
Speaker 4 (03:16):
And it feels weird to just not.
Speaker 5 (03:19):
I feel like this happens on Summer House all the time.
Speaker 3 (03:21):
You know, and they figure it out.
Speaker 1 (03:23):
And they're being taped.
Speaker 3 (03:23):
This is not Summer House.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
This is Kat's life in Encino.
Speaker 5 (03:26):
Still.
Speaker 1 (03:27):
No, but the thing is, like, it changes the dynamic.
So either they don't go and you go with your
significant other, or you postpone this trip.
Speaker 7 (03:36):
What?
Speaker 1 (03:36):
Postpone this trip? Find another couple.
Speaker 3 (03:37):
Find another couple?
Speaker 1 (03:39):
Wow.
Speaker 4 (03:40):
I mean, or we just invite her because we're closer
to her, but then it feels like we're taking sides.
Speaker 3 (03:46):
Yeah, but guys don't care.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
We don't. And also, I don't know. Is this the
trip where you take, I mean, she went through the breakup.
I know you don't want to leave her alone, but
is she's going to, it's not going to, now it's
going to become a therapy session.
Speaker 3 (04:01):
She's like, yeah, she's not going to have anybody.
Speaker 1 (04:03):
I would kick the can on this trip, postpone this thing.
Let's move on.
Speaker 3 (04:07):
Why?
Speaker 5 (04:07):
Just because this one couple couldn't figure out their lives.
Speaker 3 (04:09):
Now nobody can go have fun.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
You can't bring the person that got broken up with.
That is a sad weekend.
Speaker 6 (04:15):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (04:18):
It's not mean i know that by the way it's
not mean i've been that woman yeah aren't.
Speaker 3 (04:23):
You happy that your friends invite you out and keep
you occupied and busy for.
Speaker 1 (04:29):
A night they'll take me with me on vacation all
right cat good luck on this let.
Speaker 3 (04:34):
Us thank you i feel like we didn't help her
at all.
Speaker 1 (04:37):
Yes we did well let's ask her quickly cat what's
your decision what are you gonna do.
Speaker 4 (04:44):
I think we're, oh, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (04:48):
I think you're going to postpone it.
Speaker 4 (04:51):
I mean, we could do a not a couple strip.
Speaker 3 (04:54):
Invite some other people.
Speaker 4 (04:56):
Yes.
Speaker 3 (04:57):
Invite some other singles.
Speaker 4 (05:00):
But it changes the whole dynamic.
Speaker 1 (05:01):
I know. Weird. You're not in the mood to go
on a trip right now. I can tell. You don't
want to go on a trip. You're not in the mood.
You're not there. You're not doing it. Hold on. It's
Kiss FM. free gas is next ryan sofia this isn't
a tanya the back room now there are stories that
(05:22):
certain casinos in vegas have banned this song because people
were winning too much and it's got a certain frequency
here's the song ring my bell old song so apparently
that song there from the 70s By Anita Ward has
some sort of abundant frequency that causes people to be
(05:44):
lucky and get lucky. Come on. I'm just telling you
what they told me. Now, there's also a story that
says many casinos won't play that song because people win
too much money from the house.
Speaker 8 (05:57):
Really?
Speaker 1 (05:58):
It's not true. It's not true. Casinos have not banned it.
But the song does have what they call abundance frequency.
And this is something scientific and real. I love it.
This creates more luck in the universe because of the frequency.
I mean, look that part up. But then I took
the equation and I started looking for songs that have
abundant frequencies that also will cause good mojo in the world.
Speaker 3 (06:20):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (06:21):
And this one has it. Same as abundance. It has
the scientific....
Speaker 5 (06:29):
It does make me feel good. I don't know if
they make me feel lucky.
Speaker 1 (06:33):
Well, no, this generates luck. This is fact science. It's
musically similar to that other ring the bell song. Here's
another one. Abundant frequency here. Doja Cat. That's another one.
Tate McRae's got one too. Listen to this. Now, all
these songs make you feel good, but these actually inspire
(06:55):
better luck in the universe because of their frequency levels. So,
I don't know. Play them on loop and see if
you get lucky.
Speaker 6 (07:03):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:04):
All right, three words right now. Kiss FM and a
quote of the day. Three words you've got to use
to describe yourself. They say if you want to get
more matches on a dating app for women, you say,
you're sweet, ambitious, and thoughtful. Do you like it?
Speaker 3 (07:19):
Those are strong, great words.
Speaker 1 (07:22):
For men, they say you're physically fit, spontaneous, and perceptive.
I think physically fit sounds bragger.
Speaker 3 (07:28):
Yeah, I'd be so turned off.
Speaker 1 (07:31):
I would be too. I would not even, I cringe
if I were to say it.
Speaker 3 (07:35):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
I like to work out, but I don't want to
say it.
Speaker 3 (07:37):
Imagine you had that in your dating profile.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
What is in my dating profile? Physically fit. I don't
have a dating profile.
Speaker 3 (07:41):
What's in my profile?
Speaker 1 (07:43):
Spontaneous. I like it, but that'd be a lie if
I said that.
Speaker 3 (07:47):
I don't like perceptive either.
Speaker 1 (07:49):
What do we think about over planner? Perceptive? I mean,
perceptive sounds businessy.
Speaker 3 (07:56):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:57):
Or it sounds judgy.
Speaker 3 (07:58):
It does. That's what it is. It sounds like cocky
and judgy.
Speaker 1 (08:01):
That's a bunch of BS then. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (08:04):
I think you'd crush it on a dating app.
Speaker 1 (08:07):
Please. Which one?
Speaker 3 (08:08):
Your lips to God's ears.
Speaker 1 (08:09):
What's with you being all so impatient about me?
Speaker 3 (08:12):
I would love to have you on a dating app.
I could create your profile, pick your pictures.
Speaker 1 (08:16):
Guys, what dating app am I going to go on?
I'm not going to be comfortable with that. Raya.
Speaker 9 (08:20):
Yeah, Raya.
Speaker 6 (08:21):
Raya.
Speaker 5 (08:22):
Raya.
Speaker 3 (08:22):
Nobody can screenshot. You're protected.
Speaker 1 (08:24):
I don't want you... This is the whole point. I
don't want you engaged in my dating life.
Speaker 3 (08:28):
Well, maybe it's about time we are engaged.
Speaker 1 (08:30):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (08:31):
It hasn't been going so well lately, has it?
Speaker 1 (08:33):
What do you know?
Speaker 6 (08:34):
Yes.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
Well, then spill it. What do you know?
Speaker 3 (08:36):
I think it's about time we get involved. Yeah, this
is our intervention.
Speaker 5 (08:41):
Like becoming your dating coaches.
Speaker 3 (08:47):
We all just signed four more years, Ryan.
Speaker 1 (08:49):
Oh my gosh, we did? All right, then somehow they're
inevitably going to work their way into this, I have
a feeling. All right, today's quote. The life you want
begins the moment you stop apologizing for wanting it. Take
that to heart, Ryan, Sisney, Tanya, whoever. Kiss FM. Kiss FM.
(09:09):
So we played this lucky or unlucky scenario thing the
other day, and I liked it. Yeah, me too. Sophia,
our intern, she had a school credit assignment. She came
up with this game. Hopefully you got points for it.
Speaker 3 (09:21):
Everything's points.
Speaker 1 (09:23):
Right?
Speaker 10 (09:23):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (09:24):
It's a scoring system. She gave us a scenario, and
then we go, oh, lucky or unlucky. Yeah. This is interesting.
If you find someone right, talk to them behind your back. Sophia,
is that right?
Speaker 5 (09:34):
Yes.
Speaker 3 (09:34):
What do you guys feel?
Speaker 11 (09:36):
Do you think it's unlucky or lucky if you hear
that somebody you know is talking about you behind your back?
Speaker 1 (09:41):
Okay, so, Sisney, what do you think?
Speaker 8 (09:44):
It's unlucky.
Speaker 5 (09:45):
I'd rather not know. Ignorance is bliss to me. Talk
behind my back, but I just don't want to know
about it because then I'm toxic towards you and then
I'm not going to like you and then it's like
it's like a ripple effect.
Speaker 1 (09:56):
See, you're wrong. This is all lucky because you need
to know that people are two facing you and you
need to know who's really being true to you. And
the fact that they're talking behind your back, edit, they're gone.
They're out. Edit telling you, you want to know, you
want to know those people are lying to you.
Speaker 3 (10:11):
If I know, then it's like, then you're done. That's it.
Speaker 1 (10:13):
If you don't know, they're pretending to be your friend
and they're not. Get them out of my life.
Speaker 5 (10:17):
All right.
Speaker 1 (10:18):
Lucky or unlucky. What's next, Safiya?
Speaker 11 (10:20):
Your friend doesn't think the guy you're dating is cute.
Speaker 1 (10:25):
Well, that's good news. I don't want my friend to
think the person I'm dating is cute because they might
try to hit on him and I'll lose him.
Speaker 11 (10:30):
But I feel like that's kind of unlucky because my
friend is very honest and I don't want to be
dating somebody.
Speaker 3 (10:36):
That maybe is like.
Speaker 1 (10:37):
Did your friend say Skeletor is not cute?
Speaker 3 (10:40):
She did.
Speaker 1 (10:41):
Yes or no? Yeah, she did. See, guys, I think
this is lucky. You don't want someone that's so hot
that your friends think they're hot and they're coming after them.
I'm just telling you.
Speaker 10 (10:50):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (10:51):
I would like to think that people think that the
person you're with is a good-looking person.
Speaker 1 (10:57):
I don't need that. All right, what's next, Sophia? Lucky
or unlucky?
Speaker 11 (11:01):
Your friend brings a surprise guest to your plans.
Speaker 8 (11:05):
Oh, unlucky.
Speaker 1 (11:06):
That's totally unlucky. I think we can agree to that one.
That is rude. Am I a stranger at our intimate
little thing? All right, one more. Lucky or unlucky?
Speaker 11 (11:14):
And how would you feel if your ex likes your
photo from years ago?
Speaker 1 (11:19):
Great. I think that's fantastic. Why would you not want that?
Speaker 3 (11:24):
That would send you into a whirlwind.
Speaker 1 (11:26):
Don't you want your ex to still be into you?
Speaker 3 (11:28):
Unless you're not into them.
Speaker 1 (11:30):
Yeah, but even if you're not into them, don't you
want to be distracting to them in a way?
Speaker 3 (11:34):
Like wanted?
Speaker 1 (11:35):
Interesting.
Speaker 3 (11:36):
Oh, you want to be wanted, don't you? That's so interesting.
Speaker 1 (11:39):
Well, yeah, don't we all?
Speaker 3 (11:42):
Not from an ex. I don't care about an ex.
Speaker 1 (11:44):
I don't care. I could be wanted from Mark. We
had Jonas Brothers take us next. All right, let's get
into this second date update. Have you ever been stood
up on a date? I was, what do you call it? Gaslit?
I don't know what it was, but like I, this was,
I asked her out and she said, I'll meet you
at seven and seven 30. Let me shoot nine, then
(12:06):
nine 30. Then I never heard from her. Wow.
Speaker 3 (12:09):
And you were there.
Speaker 1 (12:09):
I was there. I was sitting in a booth. I
remember asking for a booth. I wanted a booth.
Speaker 3 (12:14):
That's so rude.
Speaker 1 (12:15):
I like a date with a booth.
Speaker 3 (12:17):
No, it must be a booth.
Speaker 1 (12:18):
No, you wouldn't want to be in a booth on
a date. I get it, yeah. A booth is different
than sitting. A Charlie booth is better than chairs.
Speaker 10 (12:24):
Yes.
Speaker 3 (12:25):
For sure.
Speaker 1 (12:25):
All right, so let's get into Olivia's situation here. Olivia
reached out to us from West Covino for some help.
This is not the first time it's happened. She said,
I'm sick of it. I got stood up on a
first date with a guy I met on Bumble. So
what happened, Olivia, in your mind? Or what did happen?
Speaker 7 (12:41):
Yeah, so it was like any other date. Like you said,
we met on Bumble. I think we hit it off
like crazy.
Speaker 9 (12:46):
We had plans to go out.
Speaker 7 (12:47):
He seemed excited about it. But sitting there for 45 minutes,
getting pitied by the waitstaff, and so I left. And
then when I checked Bumble, he had unmatched me.
Speaker 10 (12:59):
Oh.
Speaker 1 (13:01):
So now, is this something that happened twice through a
dating app? Is that right? Yeah.
Speaker 4 (13:08):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (13:09):
It's just like rude. I mean, if you can't go
or you don't want to or you had to change
your heart, it's not great, but just say that, right?
Speaker 4 (13:17):
Yes.
Speaker 1 (13:18):
Where's the courtesy? Where's the courtesy? I mean– It sounds
much different when I say it in falsetto, doesn't it? Yeah.
All right, well, here's what we're going to do. I
think we tracked him down. We're going to put him
on the spot. We're going to find out what happened.
But just, like, bro, just say. Like, I got nervous.
(13:38):
I don't want it. Whatever. I have a girlfriend. Just say.
Next kiss. Good morning. See Chris with you. This is Natanya.
And we're in a second date update right now. That's
what we're doing. Olivia reached out in West Covina and
she met this guy on Bumble. It's happened to her twice.
Have you ever been stood up on a first date?
It's not a good feeling. Do you want to see
(13:58):
the guy again, even if he apologized or has a
good excuse? Would you want to see him again, Olivia?
Speaker 7 (14:02):
I mean, honestly, not really. It speaks to character, but
I just want to know why.
Speaker 1 (14:08):
I don't know if I would at this point. Don't
even give him the air time. Don't even give him
the attention time that you care. I kind of want
to know why. Well, that's because we are not involved.
We're on the outside looking in. She's in the middle
of it. If it were me in the middle of it,
I'd be like, you know what? You don't get my time.
(14:30):
You don't get my attention. But she reached out to us.
Jay is on the line. Olivia, be very quiet. We're
going to talk to him here for a second. Okay,
here we go.
Speaker 4 (14:37):
Jay.
Speaker 1 (14:39):
It's Ryan Seacrest. Hey, Tanya. Hi, you're on the air
with us, and we're calling about Olivia. You met Olivia
on Bumble. We know some things. We know that you
guys were meant to go out on a date, and
then you stood her up. Can you just tell us why?
Speaker 9 (14:53):
Yeah, it's a little embarrassing. I just kind of froze up,
if I'm being honest.
Speaker 1 (15:03):
You froze up? You got nervous?
Speaker 11 (15:04):
Yes.
Speaker 1 (15:05):
Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 9 (15:06):
I mean, I enjoyed talking to her, but then the
moment came to go in, and I just froze up.
Speaker 7 (15:13):
Got it.
Speaker 1 (15:14):
Is she on the line? Yes, she is on the line. So, Olivia,
what's your response to that from Jay?
Speaker 7 (15:22):
Okay, I mean, I get it.
Speaker 2 (15:24):
I really do.
Speaker 7 (15:26):
But if you were anxious enough to walk away, you
could have at least texted me.
Speaker 9 (15:30):
I know it doesn't make sense, but texting felt like...
harder than walking away.
Speaker 10 (15:36):
Okay.
Speaker 7 (15:37):
But I mean, I get anxiety, but at some point
your anxiety becomes someone else's feelings.
Speaker 4 (15:43):
Oh, Hey, that's fair.
Speaker 9 (15:45):
You're, you're, you know, you're, you're totally right. I'm in
the wrong. I'm sorry.
Speaker 1 (15:51):
Wow. Well, what's our takeaway here? Just be upfront and
be honest. And Olivia, do you want to see him again?
Speaker 7 (15:57):
Maybe, but I'd need way more communication.
Speaker 4 (16:00):
Like a lot, a lot.
Speaker 1 (16:01):
Why did you unmatch her bro? Why'd you unmatch her?
Speaker 3 (16:03):
Oh, good question.
Speaker 4 (16:06):
I did.
Speaker 9 (16:08):
I matched her, and I shouldn't have.
Speaker 1 (16:11):
But why?
Speaker 9 (16:12):
Honestly, I was embarrassed, and I just wanted to make
it all go away.
Speaker 1 (16:16):
He sounds like a nice guy. I know he kind
of does. So, look, Olivia, I don't know. You make...
I think this is not feeling right, if you want.
You didn't ask, but if you want my opinion.
Speaker 11 (16:26):
Okay.
Speaker 4 (16:29):
I mean.
Speaker 7 (16:31):
Are you willing to communicate better?
Speaker 4 (16:34):
I guess like, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 9 (16:37):
I would love to actually. And, um, yeah, that's something
I would love to do. And I, I promise to
show up unless I don't.
Speaker 7 (16:50):
I'm kidding.
Speaker 1 (16:52):
Okay. There we go. That's just too much. All right.
Speaker 5 (16:55):
Well, yeah.
Speaker 1 (16:58):
Olivia, I would say red, red, red wine. Flag.
Speaker 2 (17:02):
Red, red, red flag.
Speaker 1 (17:04):
I would say no, no, no. Jane Olivia, second date
update there. Right? That guy's just not.
Speaker 5 (17:12):
I kind of feel for him, though. I want him
to win. I want him to get over this fear
that he has.
Speaker 1 (17:18):
I don't think it's for.
Speaker 2 (17:20):
Olivia.
Speaker 1 (17:21):
On Air with Ryan Seacrest. How do you like saying
the word toxic anymore? You know, it's like, I don't
want to say, I do believe that when you use vocabulary,
that comes back at you in life. So we need
to be careful when we're saying these words.
Speaker 5 (17:35):
Okay. Right.
Speaker 3 (17:36):
Let's say weird. Or is it silly?
Speaker 8 (17:37):
Or is it?
Speaker 1 (17:38):
We can say it here because we're at work and
we want to, we want to, it's okay. But I'm
saying that we need to be aware of where, because
I'm convinced that the things that I say out loud,
my brain says again, a hundred times inside. So anyway,
just be aware of that. That's it. Lola Martinez, the
daughter of Tim Martinez, who has worked here forever, is
back in the back room. Now, Lola, so your question was,
(18:01):
this is interesting. You're going on virtual tours of people's
apartments or homes before you meet them. Why?
Speaker 3 (18:10):
Just for fun.
Speaker 1 (18:12):
But who are these people?
Speaker 6 (18:14):
Sometimes, like in the past, before I had a boyfriend,
I would do it on guys I'd be talking to
or if I'm going to a party or like those
kind of houses.
Speaker 3 (18:23):
I like to, I'm just curious. And then you know
where the bathroom is.
Speaker 7 (18:26):
And things like that.
Speaker 1 (18:26):
You do this too, Susan? You go on virtual tours
of people's places before you see them or meet them?
Speaker 3 (18:29):
I kind of do.
Speaker 5 (18:31):
Like if I get invited to a birthday party and
it's at someone's house, I will for sure Redfin or
Zillow your house and.
Speaker 3 (18:37):
See them on your tour. Yeah, I love it. I've
never done this.
Speaker 1 (18:41):
I've never done this either. And frankly, I don't want
anyone to do this or do this. That is, I
think it's a, I get like.
Speaker 3 (18:48):
Everyone does this.
Speaker 1 (18:50):
No. Two people sit next to you. Do not.
Speaker 3 (18:53):
Anybody else do this?
Speaker 1 (18:54):
The element of surprise. Sophia, do you do this at
your school? No.
Speaker 11 (18:59):
The only thing I do is look on Zillow to
look at like million dollar mansions, just like thinking one
day I could buy them.
Speaker 3 (19:05):
Right.
Speaker 5 (19:05):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (19:05):
People love to do that. I mean, that's something that
you do, but just to daydream, right?
Speaker 5 (19:11):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (19:11):
Or to dream or set goals. How do you get
their addresses, Lolo? Okay.
Speaker 6 (19:15):
So basically on Snapchat, if you have your location on-
You can go on Snap Maps, click on their house.
get their address, put that in a Zillow, and you're there.
Speaker 1 (19:26):
You're home. But does it ever make you not want
to go out with somebody because you see their pad?
Speaker 8 (19:30):
No.
Speaker 6 (19:31):
No, I will never do it to, like, judge someone.
But I'm just very, I'm a curious girl.
Speaker 1 (19:35):
I got to know. Yeah, I'm curious. That's a version
of judging, FYI. No, it's not.
Speaker 3 (19:39):
It's not. It's curious. See, like, if they got a
good deal in their house, like, wow, that's really appreciated. Yeah,
there you go.
Speaker 1 (19:45):
What happened to discovering stuff about.
Speaker 5 (19:48):
People no no i need to know i want to
know honestly now that i know you can do this
i feel like i would.
Speaker 1 (19:53):
See there you go i started a trend i'm gonna
do this too i'm gonna still tell you i don't
but i'm gonna start doing.
Speaker 3 (19:57):
This everyone does this.
Speaker 1 (20:00):
Um by tomorrow everyone here will be doing it all
right michaela appreciate your singleness So Michaela in the back
room is on all the dating apps, and she meets
these guys, and some of which are really good-looking, and
some have okay pickup lines. Then there are the others
that just– I don't– you wonder what dudes are thinking
when they throw these things out there to bait you, right,
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to respond. So should we start with the latest here?
Speaker 9 (20:26):
Sure.
Speaker 1 (20:26):
All right, and we have some pictures. Take a look
at the pictures of everybody as well. All right, opening lines.
Let's start with the first one. This guy, not a
bad-looking guy, reminds me of– Who does he look like?
Speaker 5 (20:39):
He looks like Burger from Sex and the City.
Speaker 1 (20:41):
Okay, whoever that is. Sure. Go ahead. What's his line?
Speaker 8 (20:46):
I bet I can tell you something about your profile
no one else on Hinge has noticed.
Speaker 1 (20:51):
Now, I'm intrigued.
Speaker 3 (20:53):
I'm intrigued, too.
Speaker 1 (20:54):
Have I done something wrong? Are you giving me a note?
Should I fix it? I don't even know if I
want to go out with the guy. I just want
to know what he noticed.
Speaker 3 (21:01):
I kind of like this.
Speaker 8 (21:03):
Yeah, it makes you want to message back.
Speaker 1 (21:06):
You can't not respond to that. Yeah, you have to.
Speaker 3 (21:08):
He's a contender.
Speaker 1 (21:09):
But is he your type?
Speaker 8 (21:11):
No, but I think I can also just.
Speaker 5 (21:13):
Wait, what?
Speaker 8 (21:14):
I want to know.
Speaker 1 (21:15):
He's not my type for her. He's not my type
for her.
Speaker 3 (21:16):
He looks like he's giving a TED Talk.
Speaker 1 (21:19):
Okay, what's next? These are real pickup lines that Michaela
is sifting through on dating apps.
Speaker 8 (21:24):
Okay, number two. Is stepping with a wet sock worse
than stepping on a Lego?
Speaker 1 (21:28):
Okay, get out. Bye.
Speaker 3 (21:29):
That scares me.
Speaker 1 (21:31):
He's done.
Speaker 3 (21:32):
Too nerdy.
Speaker 8 (21:34):
Next one. I come with a golden retriever as well.
Speaker 3 (21:37):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (21:39):
I like that. Is he holding two raw fish in
front of his car?
Speaker 8 (21:43):
Yeah, with the golden retriever.
Speaker 3 (21:44):
And he's straddling his golden retriever.
Speaker 1 (21:46):
He's straddling his golden retriever and he's got two fish
he just caught in a pond in front of his truck.
I mean, it's original. Yeah, exactly.
Speaker 3 (21:55):
Don't hate it.
Speaker 1 (21:56):
All right, one more.
Speaker 8 (21:57):
Last one. Quick question. Do you prefer being called babe, baby,
or future wife?
Speaker 1 (22:02):
Whoa. See, you know, that's the problem. That's cute minus
the future wife thing a little ways in. Like, what
do you like to be called? Now, what is a
good pickup line? Let me ask Chad. Hey, Chad, it's Ryan.
Based on what you know about me, what would be
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a good pickup line I could use if I wanted
to have someone respond to me on a dating app?
I'm not on a dating app, FYI, Chad, so don't
put that in your files. But what would I say?
If you were me, what would be a good, charming,
clever pickup line? Chad says, try this, Ryan. Hey, you
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strike me as someone who probably knows a great bar
with excellent lighting and terrible decisions. Am I right?
Speaker 3 (22:49):
Oh.
Speaker 1 (22:51):
I mean, the terrible decisions part was me. I mean,
that's what chat's on. Here's another one. Another option, Ryan.
You seem interesting in a way that suggests good stories.
What's one I should hear?
Speaker 3 (23:03):
Oh, okay. That's not horrible.
Speaker 1 (23:06):
It sounds chat GPT, though. All right. Any better?
Speaker 3 (23:10):
Yeah, I feel like you're better than chat GPT.
Speaker 1 (23:13):
Well, don't tell my chat. Then they'll get upset with
me and file that. The filing part. Yeah. Well, you know,
our voice is being recorded. Everything we're asking is in there.
Speaker 11 (23:24):
All right.
Speaker 1 (23:24):
Here's one more. They say this one's cool. You seem
like trouble in a very well-dressed way.
Speaker 3 (23:30):
You would never.
Speaker 1 (23:31):
I kind of love it.
Speaker 6 (23:32):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (23:33):
I love it too.
Speaker 1 (23:36):
Back room.
Speaker 3 (23:36):
Not bad.
Speaker 1 (23:39):
It's not bad, right?
Speaker 3 (23:40):
Please send that to somebody right now.
Speaker 1 (23:44):
I don't like it. All right, let's take a break. Chat,
you are the best chatter. I'm not going to gronk
ever again. So, Cisney and Tanya, they share each other's locations.
They keep trying to get me to do the same thing. No,
I don't want it. I don't want to share my location.
I don't think we should have that much awareness of
where we are when we're not here.
Speaker 10 (24:04):
Why?
Speaker 3 (24:04):
It's so convenient.
Speaker 5 (24:05):
If we were sharing location, we could have easily seen
where we were when we were both at Disneyland the
same exact day.
Speaker 3 (24:10):
That would have been nice.
Speaker 5 (24:11):
I share with Ronnie, and I saw that Ronnie was
at Disneyland that day, and we met up and had
a cocktail.
Speaker 1 (24:15):
Well, I would share with Ronnie because I'd like to
see where Ronnie's going. What?
Speaker 3 (24:19):
You would share with Ronnie over us?
Speaker 1 (24:20):
Come on. Well, Ronnie would just be entertaining. I would
watch where he'd go. That guy was in a bikini
picture the other day here, walking around. Wasn't he just
wearing a bikini?
Speaker 3 (24:32):
It was Speedo. Yeah, he's always wearing that when he's.
Speaker 1 (24:35):
At the beach. And he keeps telling me, have you
seen my photo? I'm like, yes, Ronnie, you brought the
photo into me. I saw it. Can't get it out
of my head. So anyway, Jordan in the back room. Now,
what did you find out? Why should Sisney and Tiny
not be sharing their locations?
Speaker 10 (24:47):
It just It takes one person to make you feel like,
all right, maybe I shouldn't be doing this often. One
of my friends, she's very interested with my life and
what goes on.
Speaker 3 (24:59):
I love her.
Speaker 10 (25:00):
She's like my best friend, but it's just doing too much,
like checking in, calling me, asking what I'm doing and
why I'm there.
Speaker 3 (25:09):
It's just very consistent.
Speaker 1 (25:12):
And do you sort of white lie to her?
Speaker 10 (25:15):
I can't even do that. I have to turn it
off sometimes because if I'm going somewhere, I'm like, maybe
not today.
Speaker 3 (25:22):
I would not like to be hit a.
Speaker 1 (25:23):
Little about where I'm going. Let's just back off this iOS.
This is a lot of stuff. You guys already, you, you,
there's already enough going on. You don't need to be
following each other when we're not even.
Speaker 3 (25:32):
We're not following each other. It's just like in the back.
You don't even think about it.
Speaker 1 (25:35):
Like you do, you would check, you would go, Oh, where,
where is he right now? And then if I were,
if it were at five 30, now we're at a restaurant, Tonya,
who's he with?
Speaker 3 (25:44):
Well, that's Tonya. That's not me.
Speaker 1 (25:46):
Is he driving slow or fast?
Speaker 10 (25:48):
Yes. Yeah, the slowdown messages are crazy too. Hey, I
saw you like speeding going way too fast.
Speaker 9 (25:53):
Yeah, exactly.
Speaker 1 (25:53):
Leave me alone. iOS out of my life.
Speaker 5 (25:56):
First of all, it's so nice that you have a
friend that cares so deeply about you that she is
wanting to know all of these things.
Speaker 3 (26:03):
What about a phone call?
Speaker 1 (26:04):
Yeah, I agree with Jordan on this. All right, we're
going to back it down. iOS out a little bit.
iOS out. By the way, I tried to get the
new iOS. Good luck on that for two days.
Speaker 3 (26:13):
Yeah, it keeps telling me it's going to update tonight
and then it doesn't. I don't know.
Speaker 1 (26:17):
Yeah, two days of just my contacts went to phone numbers.
Panic for two days. Then all of a sudden the
names start trickling back in. Well, friends, that is going
to do it for the Friday broadcast for us. Monday morning,
we're back with a Ryan's Roses. So make sure you
check that out. 740 standard. Standard operating procedure with the
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Ryan's Roses. Have a fantastic weekend. Keep it on kids
all weekend long. Thanks for listening to On Air with
Ryan Seacrest. Make sure to subscribe, and we'll talk to
you again Monday.
From Hollywood to you. Thank you for listening to us.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 1 (00:04):
Seacrest. On air, on air, on.
Speaker 3 (00:06):
Air with Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 1 (00:09):
He's a fan. Let me grab King. This topic has
come up a lot on this show, and that is
whether or not you should be friends with your exes.
I am a proponent. Sisney and Tanya are opponents of
this idea. King, where do you weigh in?
Speaker 2 (00:25):
I actually land halfway in the middle because I've had
both experiences. I've had friends that were exes and it
went great. And then I've had friends that were exes
and it was the worst thing I could ever think
of doing.
Speaker 1 (00:36):
Okay. But in a perfect world, which would you prefer?
Speaker 2 (00:40):
I prefer, honestly, staying friends because you never know if
you're going to need someone in your life for something
later on. I think I prefer to stay friends. I just,
I've seen the good and bad in both. But I
prefer to stay friends.
Speaker 1 (00:56):
Okay. And are you still really close with one of
those exes? Like, do you check in with them? Do
you wish them happy birthday? Do you check in on
a holiday?
Speaker 2 (01:06):
Well, funny thing that you asked that. I am actually
getting married and my ex-wife is coming to mine and
my fiance's wedding. And I'm very close with her. I've
known her for like 26 years.
Speaker 1 (01:20):
That's interesting. I've never gone down that path before. How
does your fiance feel about your ex-wife coming?
Speaker 2 (01:27):
Well, not to call out a lot, but he's a
trans man, and he looks at her, and they have
great conversation, and now they talk about me behind my back,
and it works out great.
Speaker 1 (01:41):
Whatever works out great is the path to take. I
just love peace, happiness, and less... And so I'm happy
that things, by the way, congratulations, things are going great.
You're getting married and happy for you, King. Thank you
for listening to Kiss FM.
Speaker 2 (01:57):
Thank you very much. And I just want to say
I love how you guys actually talk about issues that
people need to hear. So I want to say keep
up the great work. Ryan, I watch you all the time.
I watch on everything that you're on and very impressed
by just how much you really care about the community
and people out there. So thank you so much.
Speaker 1 (02:17):
Thank you, King. Big hugs to you. Have a great weekend.
You too. Okay, buddy. Bye-bye. Bye-bye. Kat in Encino. How
about this? So you have plans to go on a
couple's trip, but the couple you're supposed to go with
broke up?
Speaker 2 (02:32):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (02:33):
For the past like seven years, we've done the same
annual couple's trip. It's like six couples, same vibe every year.
We get a big house, like cook dinner together. It's
been kind of a tradition.
Speaker 1 (02:51):
And what are the options now if they broke up?
So you don't go on the trip? Or, I mean,
they can't go separately as a couple.
Speaker 4 (02:57):
I mean, we have thought through everything.
Speaker 1 (03:00):
Well, what is the most likely scenario here? If it
were me, can you just go on the trip? You
and your significant other?
Speaker 5 (03:09):
Well, they're still friends with all of them, right? It's
not like they broke up with you guys as friends.
Speaker 6 (03:15):
Right.
Speaker 4 (03:16):
And it feels weird to just not.
Speaker 5 (03:19):
I feel like this happens on Summer House all the time.
Speaker 3 (03:21):
You know, and they figure it out.
Speaker 1 (03:23):
And they're being taped.
Speaker 3 (03:23):
This is not Summer House.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
This is Kat's life in Encino.
Speaker 5 (03:26):
Still.
Speaker 1 (03:27):
No, but the thing is, like, it changes the dynamic.
So either they don't go and you go with your
significant other, or you postpone this trip.
Speaker 7 (03:36):
What?
Speaker 1 (03:36):
Postpone this trip? Find another couple.
Speaker 3 (03:37):
Find another couple?
Speaker 1 (03:39):
Wow.
Speaker 4 (03:40):
I mean, or we just invite her because we're closer
to her, but then it feels like we're taking sides.
Speaker 3 (03:46):
Yeah, but guys don't care.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
We don't. And also, I don't know. Is this the
trip where you take, I mean, she went through the breakup.
I know you don't want to leave her alone, but
is she's going to, it's not going to, now it's
going to become a therapy session.
Speaker 3 (04:01):
She's like, yeah, she's not going to have anybody.
Speaker 1 (04:03):
I would kick the can on this trip, postpone this thing.
Let's move on.
Speaker 3 (04:07):
Why?
Speaker 5 (04:07):
Just because this one couple couldn't figure out their lives.
Speaker 3 (04:09):
Now nobody can go have fun.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
You can't bring the person that got broken up with.
That is a sad weekend.
Speaker 6 (04:15):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (04:18):
It's not mean i know that by the way it's
not mean i've been that woman yeah aren't.
Speaker 3 (04:23):
You happy that your friends invite you out and keep
you occupied and busy for.
Speaker 1 (04:29):
A night they'll take me with me on vacation all
right cat good luck on this let.
Speaker 3 (04:34):
Us thank you i feel like we didn't help her
at all.
Speaker 1 (04:37):
Yes we did well let's ask her quickly cat what's
your decision what are you gonna do.
Speaker 4 (04:44):
I think we're, oh, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (04:48):
I think you're going to postpone it.
Speaker 4 (04:51):
I mean, we could do a not a couple strip.
Speaker 3 (04:54):
Invite some other people.
Speaker 4 (04:56):
Yes.
Speaker 3 (04:57):
Invite some other singles.
Speaker 4 (05:00):
But it changes the whole dynamic.
Speaker 1 (05:01):
I know. Weird. You're not in the mood to go
on a trip right now. I can tell. You don't
want to go on a trip. You're not in the mood.
You're not there. You're not doing it. Hold on. It's
Kiss FM. free gas is next ryan sofia this isn't
a tanya the back room now there are stories that
(05:22):
certain casinos in vegas have banned this song because people
were winning too much and it's got a certain frequency
here's the song ring my bell old song so apparently
that song there from the 70s By Anita Ward has
some sort of abundant frequency that causes people to be
(05:44):
lucky and get lucky. Come on. I'm just telling you
what they told me. Now, there's also a story that
says many casinos won't play that song because people win
too much money from the house.
Speaker 8 (05:57):
Really?
Speaker 1 (05:58):
It's not true. It's not true. Casinos have not banned it.
But the song does have what they call abundance frequency.
And this is something scientific and real. I love it.
This creates more luck in the universe because of the frequency.
I mean, look that part up. But then I took
the equation and I started looking for songs that have
abundant frequencies that also will cause good mojo in the world.
Speaker 3 (06:20):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (06:21):
And this one has it. Same as abundance. It has
the scientific....
Speaker 5 (06:29):
It does make me feel good. I don't know if
they make me feel lucky.
Speaker 1 (06:33):
Well, no, this generates luck. This is fact science. It's
musically similar to that other ring the bell song. Here's
another one. Abundant frequency here. Doja Cat. That's another one.
Tate McRae's got one too. Listen to this. Now, all
these songs make you feel good, but these actually inspire
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better luck in the universe because of their frequency levels. So,
I don't know. Play them on loop and see if
you get lucky.
Speaker 6 (07:03):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:04):
All right, three words right now. Kiss FM and a
quote of the day. Three words you've got to use
to describe yourself. They say if you want to get
more matches on a dating app for women, you say,
you're sweet, ambitious, and thoughtful. Do you like it?
Speaker 3 (07:19):
Those are strong, great words.
Speaker 1 (07:22):
For men, they say you're physically fit, spontaneous, and perceptive.
I think physically fit sounds bragger.
Speaker 3 (07:28):
Yeah, I'd be so turned off.
Speaker 1 (07:31):
I would be too. I would not even, I cringe
if I were to say it.
Speaker 3 (07:35):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
I like to work out, but I don't want to
say it.
Speaker 3 (07:37):
Imagine you had that in your dating profile.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
What is in my dating profile? Physically fit. I don't
have a dating profile.
Speaker 3 (07:41):
What's in my profile?
Speaker 1 (07:43):
Spontaneous. I like it, but that'd be a lie if
I said that.
Speaker 3 (07:47):
I don't like perceptive either.
Speaker 1 (07:49):
What do we think about over planner? Perceptive? I mean,
perceptive sounds businessy.
Speaker 3 (07:56):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:57):
Or it sounds judgy.
Speaker 3 (07:58):
It does. That's what it is. It sounds like cocky
and judgy.
Speaker 1 (08:01):
That's a bunch of BS then. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (08:04):
I think you'd crush it on a dating app.
Speaker 1 (08:07):
Please. Which one?
Speaker 3 (08:08):
Your lips to God's ears.
Speaker 1 (08:09):
What's with you being all so impatient about me?
Speaker 3 (08:12):
I would love to have you on a dating app.
I could create your profile, pick your pictures.
Speaker 1 (08:16):
Guys, what dating app am I going to go on?
I'm not going to be comfortable with that. Raya.
Speaker 9 (08:20):
Yeah, Raya.
Speaker 6 (08:21):
Raya.
Speaker 5 (08:22):
Raya.
Speaker 3 (08:22):
Nobody can screenshot. You're protected.
Speaker 1 (08:24):
I don't want you... This is the whole point. I
don't want you engaged in my dating life.
Speaker 3 (08:28):
Well, maybe it's about time we are engaged.
Speaker 1 (08:30):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (08:31):
It hasn't been going so well lately, has it?
Speaker 1 (08:33):
What do you know?
Speaker 6 (08:34):
Yes.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
Well, then spill it. What do you know?
Speaker 3 (08:36):
I think it's about time we get involved. Yeah, this
is our intervention.
Speaker 5 (08:41):
Like becoming your dating coaches.
Speaker 3 (08:47):
We all just signed four more years, Ryan.
Speaker 1 (08:49):
Oh my gosh, we did? All right, then somehow they're
inevitably going to work their way into this, I have
a feeling. All right, today's quote. The life you want
begins the moment you stop apologizing for wanting it. Take
that to heart, Ryan, Sisney, Tanya, whoever. Kiss FM. Kiss FM.
(09:09):
So we played this lucky or unlucky scenario thing the
other day, and I liked it. Yeah, me too. Sophia,
our intern, she had a school credit assignment. She came
up with this game. Hopefully you got points for it.
Speaker 3 (09:21):
Everything's points.
Speaker 1 (09:23):
Right?
Speaker 10 (09:23):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (09:24):
It's a scoring system. She gave us a scenario, and
then we go, oh, lucky or unlucky. Yeah. This is interesting.
If you find someone right, talk to them behind your back. Sophia,
is that right?
Speaker 5 (09:34):
Yes.
Speaker 3 (09:34):
What do you guys feel?
Speaker 11 (09:36):
Do you think it's unlucky or lucky if you hear
that somebody you know is talking about you behind your back?
Speaker 1 (09:41):
Okay, so, Sisney, what do you think?
Speaker 8 (09:44):
It's unlucky.
Speaker 5 (09:45):
I'd rather not know. Ignorance is bliss to me. Talk
behind my back, but I just don't want to know
about it because then I'm toxic towards you and then
I'm not going to like you and then it's like
it's like a ripple effect.
Speaker 1 (09:56):
See, you're wrong. This is all lucky because you need
to know that people are two facing you and you
need to know who's really being true to you. And
the fact that they're talking behind your back, edit, they're gone.
They're out. Edit telling you, you want to know, you
want to know those people are lying to you.
Speaker 3 (10:11):
If I know, then it's like, then you're done. That's it.
Speaker 1 (10:13):
If you don't know, they're pretending to be your friend
and they're not. Get them out of my life.
Speaker 5 (10:17):
All right.
Speaker 1 (10:18):
Lucky or unlucky. What's next, Safiya?
Speaker 11 (10:20):
Your friend doesn't think the guy you're dating is cute.
Speaker 1 (10:25):
Well, that's good news. I don't want my friend to
think the person I'm dating is cute because they might
try to hit on him and I'll lose him.
Speaker 11 (10:30):
But I feel like that's kind of unlucky because my
friend is very honest and I don't want to be
dating somebody.
Speaker 3 (10:36):
That maybe is like.
Speaker 1 (10:37):
Did your friend say Skeletor is not cute?
Speaker 3 (10:40):
She did.
Speaker 1 (10:41):
Yes or no? Yeah, she did. See, guys, I think
this is lucky. You don't want someone that's so hot
that your friends think they're hot and they're coming after them.
I'm just telling you.
Speaker 10 (10:50):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (10:51):
I would like to think that people think that the
person you're with is a good-looking person.
Speaker 1 (10:57):
I don't need that. All right, what's next, Sophia? Lucky
or unlucky?
Speaker 11 (11:01):
Your friend brings a surprise guest to your plans.
Speaker 8 (11:05):
Oh, unlucky.
Speaker 1 (11:06):
That's totally unlucky. I think we can agree to that one.
That is rude. Am I a stranger at our intimate
little thing? All right, one more. Lucky or unlucky?
Speaker 11 (11:14):
And how would you feel if your ex likes your
photo from years ago?
Speaker 1 (11:19):
Great. I think that's fantastic. Why would you not want that?
Speaker 3 (11:24):
That would send you into a whirlwind.
Speaker 1 (11:26):
Don't you want your ex to still be into you?
Speaker 3 (11:28):
Unless you're not into them.
Speaker 1 (11:30):
Yeah, but even if you're not into them, don't you
want to be distracting to them in a way?
Speaker 3 (11:34):
Like wanted?
Speaker 1 (11:35):
Interesting.
Speaker 3 (11:36):
Oh, you want to be wanted, don't you? That's so interesting.
Speaker 1 (11:39):
Well, yeah, don't we all?
Speaker 3 (11:42):
Not from an ex. I don't care about an ex.
Speaker 1 (11:44):
I don't care. I could be wanted from Mark. We
had Jonas Brothers take us next. All right, let's get
into this second date update. Have you ever been stood
up on a date? I was, what do you call it? Gaslit?
I don't know what it was, but like I, this was,
I asked her out and she said, I'll meet you
at seven and seven 30. Let me shoot nine, then
(12:06):
nine 30. Then I never heard from her. Wow.
Speaker 3 (12:09):
And you were there.
Speaker 1 (12:09):
I was there. I was sitting in a booth. I
remember asking for a booth. I wanted a booth.
Speaker 3 (12:14):
That's so rude.
Speaker 1 (12:15):
I like a date with a booth.
Speaker 3 (12:17):
No, it must be a booth.
Speaker 1 (12:18):
No, you wouldn't want to be in a booth on
a date. I get it, yeah. A booth is different
than sitting. A Charlie booth is better than chairs.
Speaker 10 (12:24):
Yes.
Speaker 3 (12:25):
For sure.
Speaker 1 (12:25):
All right, so let's get into Olivia's situation here. Olivia
reached out to us from West Covino for some help.
This is not the first time it's happened. She said,
I'm sick of it. I got stood up on a
first date with a guy I met on Bumble. So
what happened, Olivia, in your mind? Or what did happen?
Speaker 7 (12:41):
Yeah, so it was like any other date. Like you said,
we met on Bumble. I think we hit it off
like crazy.
Speaker 9 (12:46):
We had plans to go out.
Speaker 7 (12:47):
He seemed excited about it. But sitting there for 45 minutes,
getting pitied by the waitstaff, and so I left. And
then when I checked Bumble, he had unmatched me.
Speaker 10 (12:59):
Oh.
Speaker 1 (13:01):
So now, is this something that happened twice through a
dating app? Is that right? Yeah.
Speaker 4 (13:08):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (13:09):
It's just like rude. I mean, if you can't go
or you don't want to or you had to change
your heart, it's not great, but just say that, right?
Speaker 4 (13:17):
Yes.
Speaker 1 (13:18):
Where's the courtesy? Where's the courtesy? I mean– It sounds
much different when I say it in falsetto, doesn't it? Yeah.
All right, well, here's what we're going to do. I
think we tracked him down. We're going to put him
on the spot. We're going to find out what happened.
But just, like, bro, just say. Like, I got nervous.
(13:38):
I don't want it. Whatever. I have a girlfriend. Just say.
Next kiss. Good morning. See Chris with you. This is Natanya.
And we're in a second date update right now. That's
what we're doing. Olivia reached out in West Covina and
she met this guy on Bumble. It's happened to her twice.
Have you ever been stood up on a first date?
It's not a good feeling. Do you want to see
(13:58):
the guy again, even if he apologized or has a
good excuse? Would you want to see him again, Olivia?
Speaker 7 (14:02):
I mean, honestly, not really. It speaks to character, but
I just want to know why.
Speaker 1 (14:08):
I don't know if I would at this point. Don't
even give him the air time. Don't even give him
the attention time that you care. I kind of want
to know why. Well, that's because we are not involved.
We're on the outside looking in. She's in the middle
of it. If it were me in the middle of it,
I'd be like, you know what? You don't get my time.
(14:30):
You don't get my attention. But she reached out to us.
Jay is on the line. Olivia, be very quiet. We're
going to talk to him here for a second. Okay,
here we go.
Speaker 4 (14:37):
Jay.
Speaker 1 (14:39):
It's Ryan Seacrest. Hey, Tanya. Hi, you're on the air
with us, and we're calling about Olivia. You met Olivia
on Bumble. We know some things. We know that you
guys were meant to go out on a date, and
then you stood her up. Can you just tell us why?
Speaker 9 (14:53):
Yeah, it's a little embarrassing. I just kind of froze up,
if I'm being honest.
Speaker 1 (15:03):
You froze up? You got nervous?
Speaker 11 (15:04):
Yes.
Speaker 1 (15:05):
Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 9 (15:06):
I mean, I enjoyed talking to her, but then the
moment came to go in, and I just froze up.
Speaker 7 (15:13):
Got it.
Speaker 1 (15:14):
Is she on the line? Yes, she is on the line. So, Olivia,
what's your response to that from Jay?
Speaker 7 (15:22):
Okay, I mean, I get it.
Speaker 2 (15:24):
I really do.
Speaker 7 (15:26):
But if you were anxious enough to walk away, you
could have at least texted me.
Speaker 9 (15:30):
I know it doesn't make sense, but texting felt like...
harder than walking away.
Speaker 10 (15:36):
Okay.
Speaker 7 (15:37):
But I mean, I get anxiety, but at some point
your anxiety becomes someone else's feelings.
Speaker 4 (15:43):
Oh, Hey, that's fair.
Speaker 9 (15:45):
You're, you're, you know, you're, you're totally right. I'm in
the wrong. I'm sorry.
Speaker 1 (15:51):
Wow. Well, what's our takeaway here? Just be upfront and
be honest. And Olivia, do you want to see him again?
Speaker 7 (15:57):
Maybe, but I'd need way more communication.
Speaker 4 (16:00):
Like a lot, a lot.
Speaker 1 (16:01):
Why did you unmatch her bro? Why'd you unmatch her?
Speaker 3 (16:03):
Oh, good question.
Speaker 4 (16:06):
I did.
Speaker 9 (16:08):
I matched her, and I shouldn't have.
Speaker 1 (16:11):
But why?
Speaker 9 (16:12):
Honestly, I was embarrassed, and I just wanted to make
it all go away.
Speaker 1 (16:16):
He sounds like a nice guy. I know he kind
of does. So, look, Olivia, I don't know. You make...
I think this is not feeling right, if you want.
You didn't ask, but if you want my opinion.
Speaker 11 (16:26):
Okay.
Speaker 4 (16:29):
I mean.
Speaker 7 (16:31):
Are you willing to communicate better?
Speaker 4 (16:34):
I guess like, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 9 (16:37):
I would love to actually. And, um, yeah, that's something
I would love to do. And I, I promise to
show up unless I don't.
Speaker 7 (16:50):
I'm kidding.
Speaker 1 (16:52):
Okay. There we go. That's just too much. All right.
Speaker 5 (16:55):
Well, yeah.
Speaker 1 (16:58):
Olivia, I would say red, red, red wine. Flag.
Speaker 2 (17:02):
Red, red, red flag.
Speaker 1 (17:04):
I would say no, no, no. Jane Olivia, second date
update there. Right? That guy's just not.
Speaker 5 (17:12):
I kind of feel for him, though. I want him
to win. I want him to get over this fear
that he has.
Speaker 1 (17:18):
I don't think it's for.
Speaker 2 (17:20):
Olivia.
Speaker 1 (17:21):
On Air with Ryan Seacrest. How do you like saying
the word toxic anymore? You know, it's like, I don't
want to say, I do believe that when you use vocabulary,
that comes back at you in life. So we need
to be careful when we're saying these words.
Speaker 5 (17:35):
Okay. Right.
Speaker 3 (17:36):
Let's say weird. Or is it silly?
Speaker 8 (17:37):
Or is it?
Speaker 1 (17:38):
We can say it here because we're at work and
we want to, we want to, it's okay. But I'm
saying that we need to be aware of where, because
I'm convinced that the things that I say out loud,
my brain says again, a hundred times inside. So anyway,
just be aware of that. That's it. Lola Martinez, the
daughter of Tim Martinez, who has worked here forever, is
back in the back room. Now, Lola, so your question was,
(18:01):
this is interesting. You're going on virtual tours of people's
apartments or homes before you meet them. Why?
Speaker 3 (18:10):
Just for fun.
Speaker 1 (18:12):
But who are these people?
Speaker 6 (18:14):
Sometimes, like in the past, before I had a boyfriend,
I would do it on guys I'd be talking to
or if I'm going to a party or like those
kind of houses.
Speaker 3 (18:23):
I like to, I'm just curious. And then you know
where the bathroom is.
Speaker 7 (18:26):
And things like that.
Speaker 1 (18:26):
You do this too, Susan? You go on virtual tours
of people's places before you see them or meet them?
Speaker 3 (18:29):
I kind of do.
Speaker 5 (18:31):
Like if I get invited to a birthday party and
it's at someone's house, I will for sure Redfin or
Zillow your house and.
Speaker 3 (18:37):
See them on your tour. Yeah, I love it. I've
never done this.
Speaker 1 (18:41):
I've never done this either. And frankly, I don't want
anyone to do this or do this. That is, I
think it's a, I get like.
Speaker 3 (18:48):
Everyone does this.
Speaker 1 (18:50):
No. Two people sit next to you. Do not.
Speaker 3 (18:53):
Anybody else do this?
Speaker 1 (18:54):
The element of surprise. Sophia, do you do this at
your school? No.
Speaker 11 (18:59):
The only thing I do is look on Zillow to
look at like million dollar mansions, just like thinking one
day I could buy them.
Speaker 3 (19:05):
Right.
Speaker 5 (19:05):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (19:05):
People love to do that. I mean, that's something that
you do, but just to daydream, right?
Speaker 5 (19:11):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (19:11):
Or to dream or set goals. How do you get
their addresses, Lolo? Okay.
Speaker 6 (19:15):
So basically on Snapchat, if you have your location on-
You can go on Snap Maps, click on their house.
get their address, put that in a Zillow, and you're there.
Speaker 1 (19:26):
You're home. But does it ever make you not want
to go out with somebody because you see their pad?
Speaker 8 (19:30):
No.
Speaker 6 (19:31):
No, I will never do it to, like, judge someone.
But I'm just very, I'm a curious girl.
Speaker 1 (19:35):
I got to know. Yeah, I'm curious. That's a version
of judging, FYI. No, it's not.
Speaker 3 (19:39):
It's not. It's curious. See, like, if they got a
good deal in their house, like, wow, that's really appreciated. Yeah,
there you go.
Speaker 1 (19:45):
What happened to discovering stuff about.
Speaker 5 (19:48):
People no no i need to know i want to
know honestly now that i know you can do this
i feel like i would.
Speaker 1 (19:53):
See there you go i started a trend i'm gonna
do this too i'm gonna still tell you i don't
but i'm gonna start doing.
Speaker 3 (19:57):
This everyone does this.
Speaker 1 (20:00):
Um by tomorrow everyone here will be doing it all
right michaela appreciate your singleness So Michaela in the back
room is on all the dating apps, and she meets
these guys, and some of which are really good-looking, and
some have okay pickup lines. Then there are the others
that just– I don't– you wonder what dudes are thinking
when they throw these things out there to bait you, right,
(20:23):
to respond. So should we start with the latest here?
Speaker 9 (20:26):
Sure.
Speaker 1 (20:26):
All right, and we have some pictures. Take a look
at the pictures of everybody as well. All right, opening lines.
Let's start with the first one. This guy, not a
bad-looking guy, reminds me of– Who does he look like?
Speaker 5 (20:39):
He looks like Burger from Sex and the City.
Speaker 1 (20:41):
Okay, whoever that is. Sure. Go ahead. What's his line?
Speaker 8 (20:46):
I bet I can tell you something about your profile
no one else on Hinge has noticed.
Speaker 1 (20:51):
Now, I'm intrigued.
Speaker 3 (20:53):
I'm intrigued, too.
Speaker 1 (20:54):
Have I done something wrong? Are you giving me a note?
Should I fix it? I don't even know if I
want to go out with the guy. I just want
to know what he noticed.
Speaker 3 (21:01):
I kind of like this.
Speaker 8 (21:03):
Yeah, it makes you want to message back.
Speaker 1 (21:06):
You can't not respond to that. Yeah, you have to.
Speaker 3 (21:08):
He's a contender.
Speaker 1 (21:09):
But is he your type?
Speaker 8 (21:11):
No, but I think I can also just.
Speaker 5 (21:13):
Wait, what?
Speaker 8 (21:14):
I want to know.
Speaker 1 (21:15):
He's not my type for her. He's not my type
for her.
Speaker 3 (21:16):
He looks like he's giving a TED Talk.
Speaker 1 (21:19):
Okay, what's next? These are real pickup lines that Michaela
is sifting through on dating apps.
Speaker 8 (21:24):
Okay, number two. Is stepping with a wet sock worse
than stepping on a Lego?
Speaker 1 (21:28):
Okay, get out. Bye.
Speaker 3 (21:29):
That scares me.
Speaker 1 (21:31):
He's done.
Speaker 3 (21:32):
Too nerdy.
Speaker 8 (21:34):
Next one. I come with a golden retriever as well.
Speaker 3 (21:37):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (21:39):
I like that. Is he holding two raw fish in
front of his car?
Speaker 8 (21:43):
Yeah, with the golden retriever.
Speaker 3 (21:44):
And he's straddling his golden retriever.
Speaker 1 (21:46):
He's straddling his golden retriever and he's got two fish
he just caught in a pond in front of his truck.
I mean, it's original. Yeah, exactly.
Speaker 3 (21:55):
Don't hate it.
Speaker 1 (21:56):
All right, one more.
Speaker 8 (21:57):
Last one. Quick question. Do you prefer being called babe, baby,
or future wife?
Speaker 1 (22:02):
Whoa. See, you know, that's the problem. That's cute minus
the future wife thing a little ways in. Like, what
do you like to be called? Now, what is a
good pickup line? Let me ask Chad. Hey, Chad, it's Ryan.
Based on what you know about me, what would be
(22:22):
a good pickup line I could use if I wanted
to have someone respond to me on a dating app?
I'm not on a dating app, FYI, Chad, so don't
put that in your files. But what would I say?
If you were me, what would be a good, charming,
clever pickup line? Chad says, try this, Ryan. Hey, you
(22:44):
strike me as someone who probably knows a great bar
with excellent lighting and terrible decisions. Am I right?
Speaker 3 (22:49):
Oh.
Speaker 1 (22:51):
I mean, the terrible decisions part was me. I mean,
that's what chat's on. Here's another one. Another option, Ryan.
You seem interesting in a way that suggests good stories.
What's one I should hear?
Speaker 3 (23:03):
Oh, okay. That's not horrible.
Speaker 1 (23:06):
It sounds chat GPT, though. All right. Any better?
Speaker 3 (23:10):
Yeah, I feel like you're better than chat GPT.
Speaker 1 (23:13):
Well, don't tell my chat. Then they'll get upset with
me and file that. The filing part. Yeah. Well, you know,
our voice is being recorded. Everything we're asking is in there.
Speaker 11 (23:24):
All right.
Speaker 1 (23:24):
Here's one more. They say this one's cool. You seem
like trouble in a very well-dressed way.
Speaker 3 (23:30):
You would never.
Speaker 1 (23:31):
I kind of love it.
Speaker 6 (23:32):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (23:33):
I love it too.
Speaker 1 (23:36):
Back room.
Speaker 3 (23:36):
Not bad.
Speaker 1 (23:39):
It's not bad, right?
Speaker 3 (23:40):
Please send that to somebody right now.
Speaker 1 (23:44):
I don't like it. All right, let's take a break. Chat,
you are the best chatter. I'm not going to gronk
ever again. So, Cisney and Tanya, they share each other's locations.
They keep trying to get me to do the same thing. No,
I don't want it. I don't want to share my location.
I don't think we should have that much awareness of
where we are when we're not here.
Speaker 10 (24:04):
Why?
Speaker 3 (24:04):
It's so convenient.
Speaker 5 (24:05):
If we were sharing location, we could have easily seen
where we were when we were both at Disneyland the
same exact day.
Speaker 3 (24:10):
That would have been nice.
Speaker 5 (24:11):
I share with Ronnie, and I saw that Ronnie was
at Disneyland that day, and we met up and had
a cocktail.
Speaker 1 (24:15):
Well, I would share with Ronnie because I'd like to
see where Ronnie's going. What?
Speaker 3 (24:19):
You would share with Ronnie over us?
Speaker 1 (24:20):
Come on. Well, Ronnie would just be entertaining. I would
watch where he'd go. That guy was in a bikini
picture the other day here, walking around. Wasn't he just
wearing a bikini?
Speaker 3 (24:32):
It was Speedo. Yeah, he's always wearing that when he's.
Speaker 1 (24:35):
At the beach. And he keeps telling me, have you
seen my photo? I'm like, yes, Ronnie, you brought the
photo into me. I saw it. Can't get it out
of my head. So anyway, Jordan in the back room. Now,
what did you find out? Why should Sisney and Tiny
not be sharing their locations?
Speaker 10 (24:47):
It just It takes one person to make you feel like,
all right, maybe I shouldn't be doing this often. One
of my friends, she's very interested with my life and
what goes on.
Speaker 3 (24:59):
I love her.
Speaker 10 (25:00):
She's like my best friend, but it's just doing too much,
like checking in, calling me, asking what I'm doing and
why I'm there.
Speaker 3 (25:09):
It's just very consistent.
Speaker 1 (25:12):
And do you sort of white lie to her?
Speaker 10 (25:15):
I can't even do that. I have to turn it
off sometimes because if I'm going somewhere, I'm like, maybe
not today.
Speaker 3 (25:22):
I would not like to be hit a.
Speaker 1 (25:23):
Little about where I'm going. Let's just back off this iOS.
This is a lot of stuff. You guys already, you, you,
there's already enough going on. You don't need to be
following each other when we're not even.
Speaker 3 (25:32):
We're not following each other. It's just like in the back.
You don't even think about it.
Speaker 1 (25:35):
Like you do, you would check, you would go, Oh, where,
where is he right now? And then if I were,
if it were at five 30, now we're at a restaurant, Tonya,
who's he with?
Speaker 3 (25:44):
Well, that's Tonya. That's not me.
Speaker 1 (25:46):
Is he driving slow or fast?
Speaker 10 (25:48):
Yes. Yeah, the slowdown messages are crazy too. Hey, I
saw you like speeding going way too fast.
Speaker 9 (25:53):
Yeah, exactly.
Speaker 1 (25:53):
Leave me alone. iOS out of my life.
Speaker 5 (25:56):
First of all, it's so nice that you have a
friend that cares so deeply about you that she is
wanting to know all of these things.
Speaker 3 (26:03):
What about a phone call?
Speaker 1 (26:04):
Yeah, I agree with Jordan on this. All right, we're
going to back it down. iOS out a little bit.
iOS out. By the way, I tried to get the
new iOS. Good luck on that for two days.
Speaker 3 (26:13):
Yeah, it keeps telling me it's going to update tonight
and then it doesn't. I don't know.
Speaker 1 (26:17):
Yeah, two days of just my contacts went to phone numbers.
Panic for two days. Then all of a sudden the
names start trickling back in. Well, friends, that is going
to do it for the Friday broadcast for us. Monday morning,
we're back with a Ryan's Roses. So make sure you
check that out. 740 standard. Standard operating procedure with the
(26:37):
Ryan's Roses. Have a fantastic weekend. Keep it on kids
all weekend long. Thanks for listening to On Air with
Ryan Seacrest. Make sure to subscribe, and we'll talk to
you again Monday.
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