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Speaker 1 (00:00):
From Hollywood to you, thank you for listening to us.
Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest. It's Wednesday, April eighth, sunny, skies,
highs in the low eighties. Looks like rain this weekend.
We're talking about that yesterday. Today's the seventh day of Passover,
and we are looking at a very fun and busy morning.
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Just a couple of things to pepper in. Obviously your
favorite songs and the things that we normally do. But
we've got Sebastian Meniscalco coming on. Stand up comedy to
me is one of the hardest things to do in
entertainment to me, totally. I watched Kevin Hart's latest stand
up Peace energy level and hitting every word in a
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rhythm like that. It's really remarkable to me. Broadway remarkable
to me, live performance remarkable. So this Sebastian Maniscalco, he
is one of my favorite comedians. I love his style.
I think he's great. Uh, he's coming on. Harry Styles
did a great impression of him on SNL. Here it
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is here. This guy took the close and he walked
right out of the store. We got the security footage
and here's the real guy. So we pull up to
the house. We get out of the car.
Speaker 2 (01:23):
Now we don't go right in because my wife's got
a coach made before we go into any social event.
Speaker 1 (01:29):
So come up to the door. I ring the bell.
They came to the door as a couple. That bothered me.
Seein a love that guy. So he's coming up. He's
got a new song out, yeah with Steve Aoki. Who
saw that's coming?
Speaker 3 (01:45):
Who ever saw that coming?
Speaker 4 (01:47):
Right?
Speaker 1 (01:47):
It's so bid que and Martinez. If you're wittier this morning,
round eight o'clock, he's going to stop at a random
gas station and buy your gas. That's just the beginning.
He's out buying free gas this morning. Here we start
there around eight o'clock. BTS tickets every single hour starting Kailani. Yeah,
how your first year of marriage goes could indicate how
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likely you are to get a divorce. I am here
all ears, Sophia, you are not married. You are all ears.
Everybody else it's fine, Fanzi you married yet?
Speaker 5 (02:19):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (02:19):
Right, Well there's enough of us represented here, so that's
coming up. Sistany've getting yourself now. I just want to
say you are a very disciplined, hard working, well balanced
human being.
Speaker 6 (02:34):
Oh thank you that's so nice, very nice for me
to say.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
And to celebrate, You'll want to make sure you had
plenty of pasta the other night at that Oh that
was a surprise. Now listen, I just also want to
say something that I've been guilty of over the years.
Don't be too rigid. Don't be too rigid, because you've
got a new rule for yourself. I know, share the rule.
Speaker 6 (02:54):
My new rule is that I'm trying to completely turn
off TV or my phone at least thirty minutes before
and go to bed, like at a decent time because
I don't I like, we'll get stuck in a series
and then all of a sudden, I.
Speaker 1 (03:06):
Look at you want to create that time for yourself.
Speaker 3 (03:09):
Yes, I know. We get the kids to bed at.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
Like eight something, then you want to create space.
Speaker 3 (03:13):
I want some of my own time.
Speaker 6 (03:15):
And sometimes it lingers into like eleven minnight, and yes,
I can pride myself. I'm like, oh, I only need
five hours of sleep.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
But no, no, I think as you go through they
tell you that you know the docks, they'll tell you
to exactly now. They're saying sleep is more important than anything.
Speaker 3 (03:28):
So I want to get that sleep, all right, so
just don't be too rigid.
Speaker 1 (03:31):
If you make a mistake, make mistake. But I like it.
You know, it's funny about the phone. So I occasionally
because everybody says, don't put your phone near your head
in bed right time, and don't charge it near your head.
So I now have started to put in my bathroom.
And then last night I was so proud of myself.
There it is in my bathroom. I turn off my lights,
I light my incense, I crawl under my duvet, I
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stack my pillows perfectly to watch something. I go to
HBO Max and there's a QR code.
Speaker 3 (03:58):
Ah, that's the worse.
Speaker 1 (04:01):
Now I gotta get up out of bed, go to
the bathroom, get the phone, come back to our code,
scan password, email. Distressed, the Court of Sool released anxiety
just to watch dt F Saint Louis.
Speaker 3 (04:13):
Yeah, which did you get into it?
Speaker 1 (04:16):
I'm worried about this show for me, I don't. I mean,
it's a bit like don't watch this with my mom. No,
definitely not. Don't watch this with Connie. Because she's asking
me for shows. I'm like, eh, you see Love Story. Yeah,
She's like yeah, I'm just finishing that one. Like well, don't, don't, don't,
don't watch everything you hear us talk about. I'll get
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some good stuff for you. Damn. I there's a great
not Geo special on Polar Bears. Meanwhile, okay, I believe
it means so easy to fall in love on one
or two point seven kiss FM. So she admitted that
she had to put down social media for a little bit,
just too much. She basically said, ignorance is fine. Yeah,
(04:59):
I'm happy be to celebrate my ignorance when it comes
to what people think. And I thought about that with Olivida.
I thought, wow, you've heard that saying ignorance is bliss right.
And then you also hear smart people say, you know,
the more data, the better off, the better more more
thoughtful choices you can make. I kind of stuff. So
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where are you like? Do you want all the facts?
Do you want all the information? Do you want all
the data? Do you want to make the thoughtful choice?
Or do you want to go with the flow of
the wind when it comes to the comments, I don't
want I mean, I don't know. Ignorance is good. It's okay, Tony.
I bring this up because Olivia Dean did it. Yes,
And have you heard. This is Tony's trying to get
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off her phone and her apps for an extended period
of time.
Speaker 3 (05:46):
For one for I did it, I gave them scrolling.
Speaker 1 (05:51):
Okay, so forty hours doesn't even really count. Let's say
it does weekend. This okay, but she can't find This
is the problem. This is the real issue. Here's the root.
She can't pick the weekend because all the weekends are
too active social media.
Speaker 3 (06:04):
Just do it this weekend.
Speaker 4 (06:05):
No, so this weekend is my best friend's birthday, and.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
There's always going to be something. But there's always going
to be something. I know.
Speaker 4 (06:12):
I picked a weekend, so it's not this weekend. It's
next weekend, weekend two of Coachella.
Speaker 1 (06:18):
But that's convenient.
Speaker 3 (06:19):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (06:20):
I think if you were really wanting to put this down,
it would be bold of you to do it on
your friend's birthday and Coachella.
Speaker 3 (06:27):
Yeah, why can't you do it this weekend and then just.
Speaker 1 (06:29):
Because he controls her too much and catch up.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
Next week on Coachella.
Speaker 6 (06:33):
Oh you can still get all the infos is it
won't be in real time?
Speaker 1 (06:38):
Yeah, we're here, we'll tell you. And to do it
in an incovenient time is to do it. To do
it at your convenience is not what.
Speaker 4 (06:46):
I'm hoping is I do it on a weekend where
I feel good about it, and then I love the
feeling of it, So then I'd do it more often.
That's like the goal. If I did this weekend, I'd
be stressed. I'd be like, I need to post for
Sophia's birthday. I need to, like watch Whatchell.
Speaker 1 (07:00):
Telling yourself, You'll be stressed. You will be stressed by
telling yourself you don't give up, you won't care. So
have you seen that book? There's a book called I've
read it but a long time ago.
Speaker 3 (07:11):
It's orange, Yes, it's a yellowish orange.
Speaker 1 (07:14):
Somebody in this trifecta of a talk needs to read it.
Talking about you.
Speaker 4 (07:19):
You think I should give it up this weekend, not next?
Speaker 1 (07:21):
I just think next.
Speaker 3 (07:22):
Why don't you schedule Sophia's post?
Speaker 1 (07:26):
Yeah, give to me, give me a password, I'll put
them up. You can do that. You can't.
Speaker 4 (07:31):
I don't know how to do that.
Speaker 3 (07:32):
Oh my gosh, I'll teach you.
Speaker 1 (07:34):
We have we have an entire it department can help
you anyway. Let's see what happens.
Speaker 3 (07:38):
But do it this weekend feels crazy.
Speaker 1 (07:42):
You can do it, beauty, that's the beauty.
Speaker 3 (07:44):
Did I do it?
Speaker 1 (07:45):
Do you guys?
Speaker 3 (07:46):
Do you think I could do it?
Speaker 1 (07:48):
Yeah? I know you can. You very know you can.
Speaker 3 (07:50):
When you put your mind to something, you can do it.
Speaker 4 (07:52):
So let's say Friday morning, after the show ten am
till Monday morning.
Speaker 3 (07:56):
Why does it have to be after the show? Start
Friday morning the minute you wake up? Nose growing? No, nothing,
You're done.
Speaker 1 (08:02):
I'm bored of this conversation. It Just do it. We're
coming back a kiss one two point seven kiss FM.
All right, I got a quote of the day here.
Yesterday's was so good. Did you remember yesterday's Yes? Who
was it?
Speaker 4 (08:16):
I don't remember it exactly, but it was. It was
something about you do it. You keep doing it, and
then it becomes like a habit.
Speaker 1 (08:23):
If you always keep showing up, the results will have
no other choice. Yeah, I loved it. Or here's another
one today. Somewhere someone is searching for you in every
person they meet. I love it. I'm gonna say it
again in a second now. I also read this if
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you are in your first year marriage. Couples who have
been in an easy first year are most likely to
divorce later the first year because they don't have to
deal with it. They don't know how to deal with
the challenges later.
Speaker 4 (08:57):
Yeah you had a rough first year's yeah, you're good.
Speaker 1 (09:01):
Good. We didn't know that everything was hunky dory every day.
Speaker 4 (09:04):
Well, no, we was fine with us. We just had
to navigate some difficult things together.
Speaker 1 (09:09):
Yes, yeah, yeah, I know. Yeah good. But then you're
then you're definitely solid. Love that today's quote again. Somewhere
someone is searching for you in every person they meet.
I don't totally believe it because I don't know, but
it sounds good.
Speaker 4 (09:26):
You're somebody's dream man. I said it genuinely.
Speaker 1 (09:36):
This is kiss Kiss, Kiss kids. It's because after seven
our intern show it out with the boys friends skeletor
and ran into n X an X of yours are
his of mine? Dreadful. I've had this happen too. All right,
let's get to it for Sisney the headline. FM headlines
with Sisy.
Speaker 6 (09:57):
Well UCLA, We'll throw a celebration tonight at except poly
Pavilion to celebrate the Bruins women's basketball team after its
first ever NCAA championship. Firefighters quickly knocked down a fire
at the iconic Magic Castle yesterday. It's unclear how much
damage was done or how it started. Wild Life experts
(10:17):
in Ventura County are warning hikers to be aware of
rattlesnakes after six people were bitten in the last thirty days,
and Target is once again offering its customers a twenty
percent discount digital discount in exchange for their old car seats.
Speaker 1 (10:33):
So Sophia our in turn, she found a photo strip
of her boyfriend with his ex and the cup holder
of the car the other day. We got past that.
I think it was just a mistake, just some laziness
on his part. Give it to him. We'll give it
to him that he didn't mean to put it there
and wasn't looking at him recently. So then all of
a sudden, the world of karma plays you, and you're out, Sophia,
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the intern in the wild and you run into an
X of yours.
Speaker 7 (10:58):
Yes, so skeleton and I I gave him a second
chance to look past the photo. We ended up going
out to dinner. I think it was like the next
day or something, and lo and behold, our waiter was
a guy I went on dates with like a year
and a half ago.
Speaker 1 (11:14):
How did you handle it? I?
Speaker 7 (11:16):
Oh my, it was so awkward because obviously, like we
immediately recognize each other. But thankfully, like nothing was said,
and I didn't say anything to Skeletor because I didn't
want to make it awkward.
Speaker 1 (11:27):
Hmm. Good on you if you got If you got
through it without making it awkward, then you're good. My
instinct would have been to say something to Skeletor. That's
about how uncomfortable it is. That's my instinct. Now you
got through it, so you're fine. This happened to me.
It was summer vacation a few years ago. There we
get there at a hotel and inside the restaurant is an
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ex with her new guy.
Speaker 4 (11:52):
Oh you know which one?
Speaker 1 (11:56):
Okay?
Speaker 4 (11:57):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (11:58):
And I thought, how do I play this? And I
told her that was my ex because I said, we talked,
I mean, we recognized each other. So we spoke and
I introduced and she introduced, and then we walked away.
And I said, obviously that was my ex, and we're good.
But what are the odds? What are the odds? Like
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why I know, of all the places in the world
at this time on our vacation, Yeah, are we in
the same spot?
Speaker 3 (12:24):
That is crazy, you're own vacation.
Speaker 6 (12:27):
Yeah, I could have sound like a public like a
concert or something that like everyone else going to that
consoletely random spot.
Speaker 1 (12:33):
Anyway, it broke the ice and everything was fine. You
made it through. But my guidance would have been speak up.
But you got through it, so all good. Don't go
back to that place anytime. So oh yeah, and did
the X try and reach out to you to say
good to see you? Thankfully?
Speaker 7 (12:48):
No, I think you picked up that the vibes were
just so awkward and tense.
Speaker 1 (12:52):
That good. We just left it at that. Good Then
everything is, yeah, great, all right, moving on? All right?
So I mean the stuff that I see it is
it looks legit. Fifty people use TikTok for health advice. Me,
can we just talk about a few things that struck me?
Face icing? Have you seen this? Now? I put my
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face in salad bowls of ice water.
Speaker 3 (13:14):
That's just yeah, like deep puff, be a deep puff.
Speaker 1 (13:17):
So this is face icing. You free stuff like lemon juice, garlic, water,
or aloe into cubes and you rub them on your
face to reduce inflammation. It's not really safe. It's not
really safe. Plain ice can help with the swelling. But
the acidic stuff not good, can cause a rash or
irritation or burning, so don't put stuff in and be careful.
(13:38):
Ice is cold. Another one is diiy lipfiller on TikTok.
Have you seen this?
Speaker 6 (13:44):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (13:45):
All right, So using suction tools and bottles and cups
to plump your lips up instead of getting injections and
stuff like. No, no, do not create swollenness. It's not safe, Tanya,
do one mony these day TikTok health advice things face taping.
I thought of you face taping. I feel like you
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do this.
Speaker 4 (14:06):
So I don't do it. Currently. I tape my mouth
shut at night. However, I have friends that face tape
and swear by it.
Speaker 1 (14:16):
If you just joined does She tapes her mouth shut
at night for what reason?
Speaker 4 (14:20):
It helps you sleep so much deeper, no snoring, and
it helps you get sick less because you're not breathing
in all the germs in the air.
Speaker 1 (14:30):
She says that with no medical clinical testing. FYI, So anyway,
this is where you tape your forehead to your eyes
and try and pull everything up to your eye.
Speaker 4 (14:45):
No, it's special face tape, it's not. You just don't
use like scotch tape to tape it. And it's supposed
to be like botox be gone. It's supposed to help
you with your face wrinkles.
Speaker 1 (14:54):
Yeah, you tape everything to pull it. I mean that
just sounds dumb.
Speaker 3 (14:57):
No, doesn't it sounds it works.
Speaker 1 (15:00):
Doesn't do anything but cause a rash. I guarantee you no. Yes,
I'm reading this from the doctors shot.
Speaker 4 (15:06):
I start doing this, and I'm gonna do this.
Speaker 3 (15:09):
With like your hair.
Speaker 6 (15:10):
Anne Hathaway showed it on that she did it for
like the oscars.
Speaker 3 (15:13):
You grab a little piece of your hair like this, and.
Speaker 1 (15:14):
You doctor and he said it doesn't do anything. It
can cause skin irritation or reactions from adhesives. Okay, full stop.
Speaker 4 (15:24):
I'm gonna start.
Speaker 1 (15:26):
All right. We're gonna play for six legs Magic Mountain tickets,
a little local game here. Stuart, how are you in Ontario?
Speaker 5 (15:33):
I'm great? How are you Ryan?
Speaker 1 (15:34):
Doing well? Thank you? Shall we play Boulevard Avenue or street?
Let's do it Boulevard Avenue or street? All right, Stuart,
is very easy. I'm gonna give you a famous Los
Angeles road. You tell me if it's a boulevard an
avenue or a street. I'm better at boulevards than I
am streets and avenues. But let's see how it goes
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for you. Three right before you get three wrong? And
the first one is Melrose is a what boulevard, avenue
or street?
Speaker 3 (16:06):
That is avenue?
Speaker 1 (16:08):
That's right? Yeah, that is right, Melrose. Okay. Next one,
Sunset is a boulevard, avenue or street? How I feel
like the world best? Yeah?
Speaker 5 (16:19):
Yeah, that one's easy.
Speaker 1 (16:22):
Lebrea librea, lebrea boulevard, avenue or street?
Speaker 5 (16:29):
Avenue?
Speaker 1 (16:31):
Wow? Yeah, Stuart, you got that, well done?
Speaker 5 (16:37):
Oh, thank you very good.
Speaker 1 (16:38):
You're totally welcome. You know, if we've really done my research,
I would have found out what the difference is in
an avenue, boulevard or a street. But I don't know,
do you know, Stuart?
Speaker 5 (16:46):
Uh No, I don't.
Speaker 1 (16:48):
Sorry, it doesn't matter. You're still gonna win. Congratulations, six flags, great,
Thank you so much. Thanks for listening, Mark. I figured
that was enough time for you to look it up.
Speaker 8 (17:01):
The avenues are generally wide, tree lined urban routes that
run in pendicular off in north south to boulevards, which
are wider have a median strip.
Speaker 1 (17:11):
Often what about an avenue at the Avenue is the
first one? What about North South? Everything else? Is the street?
Pretty much cool? That's awesome? All right? This is Kiss
More you Know on air with Ryan Seacrest. Katy Perry,
one of two point seven in his Kiss FM A
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is number one hit music station, Ryan Seacrest here coming
up in a few minutes, we are going to have
Sebastian Menaeskalco on, one of my favorite stand up comedians.
He's got a song with Steve Aoki. What Yes, and
it's actually really fun. Well, does your father know you
dance like that?
Speaker 3 (17:51):
Does your father know you dance like that?
Speaker 5 (17:53):
Good?
Speaker 1 (17:54):
Father know you dance like that? That's how he talks
about dance like that? Does he dance like that?
Speaker 5 (18:00):
Anyway?
Speaker 1 (18:00):
I love the guy. He's coming up in a few minutes.
How the world of Steve Oki and this guy's the
bash of Menescalco my favorite get together fan, slankdre We
Go True and Martinez. He's out in Whittier right now.
We have free gas. You've seen the prices. They probably
went up during the last song. Chewie Martinez is out
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in Whittier. Where are you, Chewie?
Speaker 5 (18:26):
Ryan? I'm right here on wind your boulevard in the
sixth oh five at the Arco station. Here, my girl, Lily, Lily,
my man running Seacrest wants to buy your gas. Is
that cool? Yes? Thank you so much, right, secrets, I
appreciate you so much.
Speaker 1 (18:39):
Good morning, Lily, Thank you so much for listening to us.
How much gas do you need?
Speaker 5 (18:43):
Fifty dollars?
Speaker 1 (18:44):
All right, we'll give you more, yelling.
Speaker 4 (18:48):
Up to the top.
Speaker 6 (18:50):
Thank you so much.
Speaker 1 (18:51):
What are you rolling in there, Chewie? What's she driving?
Speaker 5 (18:54):
Oh? She's coming the Mercedes bro I might have found
the sugar mama over here, Lidi Broa, she got a
nice one. The cup holder.
Speaker 1 (19:06):
That feels so bad for her. All right, it's not
the scene. Brother.
Speaker 5 (19:10):
Yes, we're here, baby, We're all over La right now, man,
we're all over Get ready because we got gas for you.
Speaker 1 (19:15):
All right. He's in Weedier this morning, rolling around. Look
for Chewy Martinez tomorrow when you wake up. He is
in down He's gonna surprise you one of the gas
stations in Downy here free gas one of two point
seven Kiss FM. Thanks Chewy. Yeah, did you get the lyric?
I think you got the lyric? On now? Well he
can sing that along next time Sebashi men a scout
going Steve Aoki. Yes, how in the world did that
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song happen?
Speaker 2 (19:39):
You know, me and my buddy Freddie Wexler, who I
work with. He's kind of my creative director. He's in
the music business. We're closely with Billy Joel Bieber and
a bunch of Dufferin artists over the years. And we
went into the studio and we wanted to create something
for my tour, kind of like a personal song, uh,
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for my it ain't right tour.
Speaker 1 (20:02):
So we were just goofing.
Speaker 2 (20:04):
Around in the studio and next thing you know, I
started doing this does your father know you dance like that?
It's uh, it's something that I've always said when I
go to nightclubs. You walk into a nightclub and you'd
see these gyrations and this that, and in my head
go does your father? And and then just kind of
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making fun of the whole nightclub scene because you know,
I've been out of that scene for a while, and
now you go and and it's like sparklers and the
guy thinks he's got a shot with the waitress. You know,
it's it's it's it's this whole club culture that I
kind of made fun of and and I would just
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I was goofing around on a microphone and next thing
you know, Steve Aoki heard the song. He put it
on his own spin on it. It's it's a catchy
song and I think people will enjoy it.
Speaker 1 (20:54):
Sebastian, manascalco here, it's out that song? Are you wearing pajamas?
Did those short sleep but jamas? You got on here
this morning for us?
Speaker 7 (21:02):
Uh?
Speaker 9 (21:03):
You know what? Are you making fun of me?
Speaker 1 (21:06):
Because I was making fun of you a.
Speaker 4 (21:08):
Little bit.
Speaker 3 (21:10):
About the turtlenecks.
Speaker 1 (21:12):
I mean, he had a run at me because I
wore a turtle neck the other night.
Speaker 9 (21:17):
No, I said you were a turtleneck quite well. You
don't see a lot of men pouring on over the
Adams after.
Speaker 4 (21:29):
I agree.
Speaker 1 (21:31):
All right, man, great to see you, Sebastian, thank you
so much for coming on. When will you? I mean,
I know that these things, you know, they take time
and it's a lot of work. Pay When will you
do another special another tour? What's on the schedule? Probably
twenty twenty seven. I'll start another tour right now. I'm
in the accumulating material phase. I just spent a week
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at my in laws in Florida. So literally, it just
got back last night, so I'm trying to do a job.
It's it's similar to the Astronauts coming back to so
it's the crew of Artemis and you can relate, all right, saynybody,
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thanks for coming on, take your care all right, it's
kiss miss Independent Neil see christ here all Tanya as
a smile on her face. Now, do you have a
question you're going to pose for us? Tanya? All right,
I do, all right. This is a trending report inspired
by influencer Alex Earle. Yes, and what is the question?
Speaker 4 (22:35):
Have you ever sent a text to an ex that
you immediately regretted to an X, to.
Speaker 1 (22:42):
A current to somebody just left yes, yes, and yes,
checking all the boxes. Why how can I help you?
Speaker 4 (22:48):
So Alex Earl did exactly that. So she was on
the Drew Barrymore Show. Andrew asked her about a bad
idea that she recently had, and Alex said, probably texting
my ex at five in the morning after going out
not the best idea. So she described the whole scene.
She said, she had a few drinks, she was on
the floor looking at her phone with one eye her
sister was right next to her, helping her check the
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spelling before she sent anything, and I feel like she
was on the floor. She was waiting for a microwave,
waiting for mac and cheese to heat up. But she
didn't name the.
Speaker 1 (23:19):
Egg on the floor. I mean, I figured something was
going on, right, she had a few drinks. You're on
the floor. If you're waiting for mac and cheese and
the microwave laying on the floor, you've had a few,
right I am.
Speaker 4 (23:27):
I'm giving you like the context of kind of like
where she was physically, but also mentally.
Speaker 1 (23:32):
Why is such a big deal?
Speaker 4 (23:33):
Because I feel like, with her sister being there, as
you as a sister, as a friend, you should stop
your friend from sending a text at five o'clock in
the morning to an X.
Speaker 1 (23:42):
Maybe the sister had a few as well. I'm thinking
to myself, get autocorrect. You don't need your sister to
check the spelling. One two. Here's what happens. This is
what I've decided to do. If I ever text someone
and then the next day or whenever, I think to myself,
why did you do that? I just don't look at
what I sent, and I don't look at what they
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responded to. I just don't look. I just text my
friends and say, feed me a bunch of texts, so
it goes way down on my screen. So even when
I scroll deep, I don't even see it because it's cringe.
Speaker 4 (24:14):
It's exactly feeling is like the biggest pit in your stomach.
I've had to literally delete conversations because I cannot.
Speaker 1 (24:21):
You can't go back and remember the one I bring
yourself to read.
Speaker 3 (24:25):
Does sheer panic when you wake up in the morning
and then you just search for your form, like what
did I text last night?
Speaker 4 (24:30):
Do you never when you said what I was with you,
it was we were at American Idol. You're or me, Yeah,
it just come from your show, and we were like
drinking at a bar and I sent like a basically
like a U up text yes, and I got crickets back,
and I was like, I need to literally sorry.
Speaker 1 (24:49):
American Idol ends at seven o'clock. You went to a
bar afterwards? You sent you up at eight fifteen. Who's
texting at eighteen?
Speaker 4 (24:54):
It was like eight thirty or nine or something.
Speaker 1 (24:57):
I am that's weird. That's where in itself. You up
at eight therapy.
Speaker 3 (25:02):
Didn't you make out with the person?
Speaker 10 (25:03):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (25:04):
Okay, so there was like, you know.
Speaker 1 (25:05):
Who did I not show up after show?
Speaker 3 (25:08):
You missed the party. We had our own little after party,
and then we took a picture with your star on.
Speaker 1 (25:13):
The Oh my gosh. All right, don't look back at
that night. Don't even look back at that night in
your calendar. Coming up next here on air with Ryan Seacrest,
It's Kiss FM. So I mean, honestly, doesn't matter what
we do or say. Everybody just wants these BTS tickets.
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And that's the next thing I'm gonna do. First, I
want to grab Julie here. I have more BTS tickets
tomorrow starting at six'. Ten Julian sherman Oaks, julie good, Morning,
hi good. Morning the guy you're dating says he a
therapist told him he should keep seeing other. PEOPLE i
don't understand why is this therapist saying.
Speaker 10 (25:55):
This, yeah So i've been dating this guy for about
a month and things have been going really. Well and
then the other day he hits me with we should,
talk which is never a good. Sign so we sit
down and he asks me What i'm looking, for like
something casual or a real, relationship AND i, Said i'm
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dating with, intention Like i'm open to something serious if
it's the right. Person and then he tells me that
he wants to keep dating other. People and his reasoning
is that his therapist told him he should because he's
been a serial monogamous to his whole life and tends
to jump from relationship to. Relationships so NOW i don't, Know, well, wait.
Speaker 1 (26:43):
Shouldn't this therapist be trying to get him away from
being a serial.
Speaker 4 (26:47):
Monogamist that's, it that's what they're.
Speaker 1 (26:50):
Doing, yeah how is the therapist doing? That therapist is
saying date other? People that isn't?
Speaker 6 (26:56):
That so don't get into a serious, relationship just bounce
around date?
Speaker 3 (27:00):
People right?
Speaker 1 (27:00):
Now we a serial? Monogamist what is?
Speaker 3 (27:04):
That somebody that it's like a muggt.
Speaker 6 (27:07):
Branch you're like getting into like a three year long distance,
relationship a long, relationship and then you break up and
then you get into another.
Speaker 1 (27:13):
Thing, well then what's the advice about then seeing a
bunch of different people so that she doesn't become another
one of the yes? Monogamies, Yes, julie, look you've got
a clear vision of what you. Want you said you're
dating with. Intention he's not dating with, Intention and this
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therapist doesn't think he should date with intention because she's
saying tree branch or whatever that thing is, money monkey,
branch monkey. Branch SO i can tell you right, now
in this moment, today you guys are not. Aligned you're not.
Aligned don't force. It you know what you're looking. For
he's not.
Speaker 3 (27:53):
It, yeah he's not.
Speaker 1 (27:56):
It let him, Go let him. Go, yes it's a
blessing that is so clear where you. Stand good, Luck,
julie thanks for calling. THINGS i don't know WHY i
was not knowing what a serial monogamist.
Speaker 4 (28:10):
Is, yeah you weren't putting the pieces.
Speaker 3 (28:11):
TOGETHER i was.
Speaker 1 (28:12):
Thinking that she should be getting him away from serial.
Monogamy BUT i guess she. Is but that doesn't seem
like a good plan. Either he's going to disdate a
bunch of people with no. Intent, yes, well that's bad.
THERAPY i mean that's.
Speaker 3 (28:24):
Fun it's not bad.
Speaker 4 (28:25):
Therapy if you are, know if you are a person
that's chronically in relationships and you don't know how to be,
single you should learn how to be single before you get.
Speaker 1 (28:33):
Married wouldn't you rather be a person that sees one
person and commits and then sees the next and commits
versus seeing a bunch of different people at. Once, no
not if you're.
Speaker 3 (28:42):
SINGLE i am.
Speaker 1 (28:44):
Single i'd rather be the serial.
Speaker 4 (28:46):
Monogamist but you know how to be, single like you
can stand on your own two. Feet there are people
that go from relationship to relationship because they don't know
how to be on their their codependent, dependent and that.
Speaker 1 (28:57):
Is you, Know i'm not like.
Speaker 3 (28:59):
THAT i think kind of a, Neat i'm for.
Speaker 1 (29:01):
Sure oh, YEAH i want Like Megan trainer has her
husband fluss her. TEETH i want. That ah.
Speaker 4 (29:08):
Yeah but you can be. Alone you've proven. It you're
alone right now and you're. Thriving i'm sitting with you
guys in a.
Speaker 1 (29:15):
Room it's not. Alone and then later Tonight i'm On.
Hulu that's not alone streaming all. Right puffer fishing is
the new thing when it comes to dating. Trends are
you a puffer? Fish are you guilty of? It, basically
it's when someone starts to lash out or pull away
(29:36):
the second they feel. VULNERABILITY i THINK i have done this. Before,
like you're in until you're starting to feel, something then
you back you puff yourself, up back, out because for whatever,
reason you don't want to share that. Vulnerability the problem
is the, problem AND i think its neat you were
reading about. This the problem is when you are with
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a puffer, fish you kind of want to react to
the puffing of the, fish the, puffering but you're not supposed.
To you kind of gotta let them puffer fish. Out.
Exactly they come back in and share that vulnerability with,
you and the wall comes down, right, yes.
Speaker 6 (30:13):
Exactly you don't want to come at them and be
like are you mad at? Me like that type of,
vibe that energy is not going to work with a puffer.
Speaker 1 (30:19):
Fish just let him do. It, NOW i think we've
all sort of puffer fished a little. BIT i, Mean
i'm afraid it's just like WHY i didn't want to
have you, KNOW i was nervous about having a. Dog uh.
HUH i was nervous when having a dog because the
vulnerability they love and then the. LIFESPAN i didn't want
TO i don't want to see the life span ever.
(30:39):
End AND i think with relationships sometimes it's that. Way
you don't want to give yourself because if it's never
worked out in the, past, forever you know that it's
gonna end and that hurts until you puffer fish. Out,
yeah you don't puffer FISH i THINK i.
Speaker 3 (30:56):
Have i'm guilty of that in the past for.
Speaker 1 (30:58):
Sure so how do you communicate? Best you let them do, It?
Sistney is that rights to? Experts? Say let them just do?
Speaker 6 (31:06):
It, yes you have to have a very gentle check
in to be able to call out the shift in
the energy from what they're giving, you and then you
have to be VERY i have to do it without being.
Speaker 1 (31:17):
Confrontational isn't it? Crazy how you know when you're with
your girlfriend or boyfriend or, whatever like you know when
they're mad at, you like you feel the. Energy it's an.
Energy they don't say. Anything you can sense the bad
energy from, them and it ruins the whole, day the whole,
night the whole. Weekend and you ask, them is there something? Wrong, no,
(31:38):
yes there, is LIKE i can tell we only talk about. It, Well,
NO i can't MOVE i can't move on until either
the energy changes or you tell me what it. Is
it's nothing you, did it is SOMETHING i, did or
you wouldn't act like it's SOMETHING i didn't. Do it's Something, Yeah,
yeah what DIDN'T i?
Speaker 5 (31:57):
Do?
Speaker 1 (31:57):
Yeah you didn't ask me this. QUESTION i didn't ask
you that. Question what? Question you know the? Question? WHAT
i don't?
Speaker 5 (32:07):
Know?
Speaker 1 (32:08):
Please can we finish JUST i want to FINISH dt
At Saint. Louis can we please just solve this.
Speaker 4 (32:13):
Problem you probably didn't ask her how her day.
Speaker 1 (32:15):
WAS i don't know what it. Was and making this
up but you know WHAT i?
Speaker 3 (32:17):
Mean, yeah making this up.
Speaker 5 (32:22):
For.
Speaker 6 (32:23):
Fish, yeah we see we see.
Speaker 1 (32:28):
It you can't see it on the, radio but you
can see it online on the podcast. Whatever it's his,
YouTube all? Right coming to next To Ki Secram. Instagram
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