July 28, 2026 • 28 mins
On today's episode a caller tells us about a first date that ended with her walking back to her car alone at night, and Macayla accidentally waved at someone she didn't know... awkward! Listen NOW on the On Air with Ryan Seacrest Podcast!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
From Hollywood to you.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Thank you for listening to us on.
Speaker 3 (00:06):
Air with the Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 1 (00:09):
All right, it's good even let's check it.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
Where do you stand on this holding a spot in
line at the grocery store? I have asked, I've been
with people that.
Speaker 1 (00:19):
I do this.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
We have to go back and get one more thing right?
Is it rude or is it okay? And what's the
grace period? So here's the story. There's a there's a
guy at the grocery store with his parents and it
was very busy. The lines for the checkout were very long,
so his parents asked them to hold their spot in line. Well,
they grabbed the last few items, so, in other words,
they weren't finished yet and they wanted him to start
moving through the line. He gets to the front and
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his parents are still not back yet, and another customer
spoke up, much like Sophia did with Skeletor in Primate
with the loud people in front of it at the
movie theater, but spoke up and said, hey, it's unfair
and disrespectful. You can only wait in line once you've
got your stuff. So where do you stand on that?
Speaker 4 (00:58):
Sisiny depends on how much stuff you're coming back with.
If like you're already there with your shopping cart, then
you're holding your stuff. If you're there just your body,
and then all of a sudden here come as his
parents with a ginormous shopping cart. Then the person behind
him is like, I wouldn't have gone in line behind.
Speaker 1 (01:13):
You, So I think you run a risk.
Speaker 2 (01:17):
If you can hold the spot, go you know whoever else,
go run and get all the things and get back
in time before your spot is up in line.
Speaker 1 (01:26):
You ran the risk and you won.
Speaker 2 (01:27):
But if you aren't back and your son or your
kid is up to the place at the check out
and you're not back yet, they cannot hold up the
line and wait for you to come back while other
customers behind you. You cannot do that, so you run
a risk of having to go to the back of
the line if you do this.
Speaker 1 (01:47):
That's where I stay on this very clearly. I think
so too.
Speaker 4 (01:49):
And also people do this at Disneyland and amusement parks,
and this is why people get in fights now.
Speaker 1 (01:54):
We're seeing because they'll roll up.
Speaker 4 (01:57):
With like four people.
Speaker 1 (01:59):
Oh on, my mom's there.
Speaker 2 (02:01):
To get remind yourself you're not supposed to fight at
Disneyland's the happiest place on earth. Remind yourselves all right?
Coming up next, I get your five hund bucks and
back to school cash. Let's get going this morning on
kiss FM it now, do you measure the amount of
time Do you calculate the amount of time it takes
(02:21):
somebody to respond to a text that you send out?
Speaker 1 (02:24):
Do you do that? Are you that person or not? Sisney?
Is that person?
Speaker 5 (02:26):
Like?
Speaker 2 (02:27):
If she texts us and we don't text her back
within a certain amount of time and she sees us
texting someone else for example, Oh, in a group chat
that Rially text me and I were to respond to
the group or respond to Tanya in the group before
siciny she I wouldn't say she'd ald a grudge.
Speaker 5 (02:43):
But.
Speaker 4 (02:45):
Not in I don't care about the order of you
responding in a group chat. I'm just saying if if
I text you separately, that.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
I know that. That's what I said.
Speaker 2 (02:53):
If you text me and I don't respond to you,
but I respond to the group.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
Yeah, I just like noted if that's a grudge.
Speaker 2 (03:01):
Okay, Anyway, in case in point, there's a friend of
minor that's watching your IG stories but didn't text you
back and you're holding.
Speaker 1 (03:08):
Across I know.
Speaker 4 (03:09):
So I texted Tanya, I'm just kidding. It's notna, Tanya, I.
Speaker 1 (03:13):
Have a friend that I just you know.
Speaker 4 (03:15):
It was one of those things where I was like,
oh my gosh, she was told me about this restaurant
that she went to, and so I was trying to
figure out what it was and I couldn't think of
the name.
Speaker 1 (03:21):
So I texted her like, hey, what was the name
of that? D D D D nothing?
Speaker 4 (03:24):
And then I went on with life and I forgot
about it too. And then that night I was laying
on the couch and I see that she's responded, like
she actually like saw my stories and like responded in
a group chat that we're in, And I was like,
wait a minute, and so like, either she forgot about
me and it's not that big of a deal, But
then do I say something?
Speaker 1 (03:41):
And now, how do you care? Why do you care?
Doesn't there a therapy session.
Speaker 2 (03:45):
It doesn't clearly want to respond to whatever it was
you were talking about, whether she forgot about you, whether
she doesn't want to talk about the topic, but don't
let that navigate any of your emotion.
Speaker 1 (03:55):
That's the problem.
Speaker 4 (03:56):
Fine, and you're right, and I won't let that navigate
my emotions. But what it made me realize is that
I also do this, and so now I'm hyper aware
of when someone texts me and I haven't responded to them,
and then if I see their story, then that reminds me.
I'm like, oh my gosh, I need to go respond
to the text before I.
Speaker 1 (04:12):
Like their story. Yes, so you okay, So all this
stuff is a calculation. To you. What I do sometimes
is if you don't respond.
Speaker 2 (04:19):
I think it seems very Now when I actually get
it sent to me, it seems really harsh and rude.
But I'll just send boop question mark boop one line
question mark.
Speaker 1 (04:28):
But it's harsh. I didn't know it was so harsh.
I think you can do that's a little bit cuter.
Speaker 4 (04:32):
Is the eyeballs like the two eyes just looking like?
Speaker 6 (04:36):
So I use the microphone emoji and I say, is
this thing on much better?
Speaker 2 (04:40):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (04:40):
The question mark is harsh.
Speaker 2 (04:43):
Yeah, m Elsie, good morning, good mom, Thank you for calling.
Speaker 1 (04:51):
How can we help you.
Speaker 7 (04:54):
My brother and sister in law just recently had a baby,
which is awesome, and we're you know, all exce about it.
I totally get that they want to be, like you,
extremely careful, protective right now. But I just said out
something that just doesn't sit well with me at all,
kind of weird. So my husband and I work full time,
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and so our daughter she goes to daycare, you know,
a few times a week, and all the days that
she's not in daycare, my mom and dad you know,
watch her, and that's been a huge help and everything.
But recently our daughter had already nose major nothing major
or anything, you know, usual daycare stuff. You know, they
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come home with us, nanny knows, not a big deal.
So we decided to you know, add a caution and
respect you know, withhold friend, you know, visiting the new
baby for a bit, because we don't want to risk anything.
You know, totally understand, I'm a mom, But I thought
from my mom that my brother told my parents that
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they shouldn't be around my daughter because they shouldn't be
visiting the baby since they've been around my daughter, and
they wanted them to.
Speaker 3 (06:09):
Wait like a few days after just as like a period,
because my daughter goes to daycare, like she's some kind
of weird walking.
Speaker 2 (06:20):
Because they're concerned about your daughter carrying all the germs
that's where we are, right.
Speaker 7 (06:25):
Yeah, Like, I mean, yeah, daycare is that you're going
to have more cold than ready noses and everything.
Speaker 3 (06:32):
How old is the baby it's a newborn, like like
a month.
Speaker 1 (06:38):
Well, let's let's flip the rolls.
Speaker 2 (06:40):
If you just had your daughter, would you feel the
same way about their kids?
Speaker 1 (06:43):
There was it daycare?
Speaker 7 (06:46):
I mean, like, my parents are the ones who are
trying to visit the baby. Like I'm not trying to
because I understand, you know, but their daughter.
Speaker 4 (06:54):
Right, Oh, so they don't even want your parents around.
It's not even about your daughter. It's like just because
your parents, your.
Speaker 2 (06:59):
Parents were around your right yes yeah, yes, okay, so
they're thinking, yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:05):
If they're not showing symptoms and there's nothing really care.
Speaker 5 (07:08):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (07:09):
I don't think it's judgmental.
Speaker 4 (07:10):
They're trying to protect their baby.
Speaker 1 (07:11):
That's their prerogative. That's I think I would take it
personally at all.
Speaker 4 (07:15):
A month is young, But if baby's like six months
old at this point they're still kind of doing this stuff,
then that's just annoying.
Speaker 2 (07:22):
I think Sisney's got a good point. Let's see how
how long this lasts. Give them the benefit of this moment,
because they just have this new baby and let them
be overprotective. But let's ride this out.
Speaker 1 (07:33):
Yeah, I think you respect it.
Speaker 7 (07:39):
Yeah, I get it.
Speaker 4 (07:41):
By the third kid, they're not going to care because
I was the same way with the twins. I mean
I was like, hands in his eyes, wash your hands,
but oh, do you put a.
Speaker 1 (07:47):
Rag over your shoulder. Don't let it touch your actual clothes.
And then by Sevilla was just like, hey, you want
to hold her. So it's just time, Elsie, good luck,
thank you for calling.
Speaker 7 (07:58):
Thank you.
Speaker 2 (07:59):
Don't like it under your skin. It's not worth letting
it be personal. I think they're just being over protected.
Speaker 1 (08:06):
His FM.
Speaker 2 (08:07):
When you go to the doctor's office, they always give
me a clipboard and they say fill all the stuff out,
and I you know, have filled out right, yeah, check
check chuck check check sign. So the dirtiest place in
the doctor's office is that clipboard. It's the clip yeah,
id it has more than forty six thousand times more
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germs than a toilet seat.
Speaker 1 (08:33):
Questionnaire in the clip pad. That's crazy. I never have
to about that. Tell your friends that that's crazy. Today's quote, what.
Speaker 2 (08:41):
Is not started today is never finished by tomorrow. I mean,
you get a jump on it, So Tanya, doctor next week?
Speaker 1 (08:50):
No, no clipboard please? Yeah, your own gloves.
Speaker 2 (08:53):
Yeah exactly, I'm gonna look so instant And they got him.
Speaker 1 (08:58):
There, use their gloves morning.
Speaker 2 (09:00):
Why don't you point seven Kiss FM is on Los
Angeles Hights. Why don't you point seven KISSFM? All right, Tanya,
let's get to the headlines. What's happening this morning? Kiss
FM Headlines with Tanya red Well.
Speaker 6 (09:13):
A pack of coyotes has taken over and abandoned construction
site in West Hollywood, and neighbors say the loud howling
has been keeping them up at night. A woman was
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driving car on Venice Boulevard just north of the ten.
A small plane made an emergency landing on the sand
at Huntington Beach after reporting engine trouble and no one
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office records, earning another eighty seven million dollars in its
second weekend and becoming one of the biggest movies of
the year.
Speaker 2 (09:47):
Why don't two point seven It's Kiss FM. If a
guy on a date doesn't walk you back to your car.
Is that a red flag?
Speaker 1 (09:53):
Did Skeletor Sophia when he first started dating you? How
old Skeletor He's twenty four, so twenty.
Speaker 2 (10:00):
Four year old Skeletor walk you back to your car
at the beginning.
Speaker 8 (10:03):
Well, he actually picked me up, so it's more of.
Speaker 2 (10:06):
Like, did he open the door or lean over to
open the door from inside?
Speaker 8 (10:10):
No, he got out, he was waiting for me. He
opened the car door, and then he actually walked me
to my apartment door when he dropped me off.
Speaker 1 (10:17):
But go back to the car.
Speaker 2 (10:19):
When he stood there on guard for your arrival, put
you in the car, did you then lean over the
center console and pop his door open?
Speaker 1 (10:28):
No?
Speaker 2 (10:29):
Cool, that's the response. That's the considered response. Guy is
standing there opens your door, then you just from the
inside lean over and just try and pop his door.
Speaker 1 (10:42):
Just open the latch so it's unlatched.
Speaker 2 (10:46):
Guys, this is what you do if you if you
think about it.
Speaker 1 (10:50):
It's nice, isn't it. Okay, Well, let me talk to Megan. Megan.
Speaker 2 (10:55):
Good morning, Megan, I'm good. So the guy I didn't
walk you back to your car?
Speaker 5 (11:01):
Right, Yes, we went on our first date and it
was in downtown LA and I had to park in
a parking garage like about a block away, and after
the date, he didn't even offer to walk into my car.
So now I'm like, is that a red flag? Like?
Can I go out with him again?
Speaker 1 (11:18):
No? No, it's rude.
Speaker 2 (11:19):
First of all, he should be mindful of getting you
safely to your car.
Speaker 1 (11:24):
Number one.
Speaker 2 (11:26):
It's it's just a polite thing to do, right, He
gets more time with you, he has the peace of
mind and knowing that you got to your car and
you're on your way home, like all those things should
be in Yeah. The fact that they're not, I think
it is a red flag. And I really think that
traits like that from the beginning can only get worse.
Speaker 5 (11:43):
Yeah, I agree, No, definitely.
Speaker 4 (11:46):
That's why I was thinking it's a safety thing too.
It's like the parking garage late at night.
Speaker 1 (11:50):
Yeah, you should be walked downtown too, Exactly.
Speaker 5 (11:53):
I was a little nervous, but when he said he
got in the car.
Speaker 1 (11:57):
So I was like, whatever, this guy is not deserving
more time or attention.
Speaker 5 (12:02):
Perfect, thank you.
Speaker 1 (12:05):
I was gonna say, what's his name? Should we out him? No?
Speaker 2 (12:09):
He knows who he is now if he doesn't think
about things like that.
Speaker 1 (12:12):
He's just not going to be considerate as we go on.
It's true.
Speaker 2 (12:16):
Come on in for this one time for a second
date update. I got Alex on the phone. Let me
jump into Alex. Alex, good morning, bro, how are you.
Speaker 9 (12:23):
I'm good.
Speaker 1 (12:24):
I'm all right.
Speaker 2 (12:25):
So this is what's always fascinating about these second date
update stories. You think one thing, the woman you think
you were totally connected with, thinks the opposite and just
stops you, like she just closes the shop.
Speaker 9 (12:39):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (12:41):
Yeah, I don't get it exactly.
Speaker 2 (12:44):
Something I don't need to happen something us that. But
let me get some backtory. So you met her at
an after party. Is anything good ever happen at the
after party?
Speaker 1 (12:52):
No? Yeah, lots of good fun happens to Alex. Yeah
you met it the after party. What happened?
Speaker 2 (13:05):
Uh?
Speaker 9 (13:05):
You know I saw her at the party, like from
across the room, and uh, you know, and she's super
hot and uh so you know, I went over and
a bought our drink and we talked and it was
cool and we exchanged instas and you know, we dmmed
a little bit. Uh, nothing too exciting. But then I
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was at Toppy in lest Hollywood like the next week,
and and she was there and uh so we talked
more and I went ahead and I asked her out
and she said yes, and you know, we went on
to like great dates. We went back to my place
and it was super fun and and then, I mean
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I thought it was great, and I asked her to
hang out again and she said, I don't think it's
going to work out, but thanks for fun dates.
Speaker 2 (13:54):
And yeah, okay, so you went to what happened like,
we'll get like, can you imagine anything that you saw all, yeah,
it's a smell something, it's it's.
Speaker 1 (14:03):
A no, no, no, it's a habit they see anything.
Speaker 9 (14:07):
I got a great apartment, it's immaculate. I got a job.
I'm you know, I mean, I'm you know, I'm a
little older than she is. I don't know. Maybe that
bo you know how many years afferent, like I don't know,
a dozen maybe or a dozen ish twelve It.
Speaker 2 (14:26):
Says a dozen for years right there, and maybe how
you calculate time.
Speaker 1 (14:31):
And I don't know.
Speaker 9 (14:34):
I thought it. I got along great.
Speaker 1 (14:38):
I understand, I understand. I understand. Matthew McConaughey. By the way,
there's somebody who sounds like and I can't play it.
It's like it's like Matthew McConaughey. It's like I'm on
a roller coast. You're going up and down.
Speaker 2 (14:48):
Click click, whoa.
Speaker 1 (14:51):
Maybe it was I get older and the nobody was charming.
I think it's charming. Hold on, what is it? A
dozen ish years? Was it? Does it for a dozen
or so? And it's not. He's definitely more than twelve first,
I mean it might be twenty. You say a dozen ish,
Who says a does you.
Speaker 2 (15:12):
Definitely have a different generation if you say a dozen ish? Okay,
let's come back. It's a second D update. This is
why we come together to figure this out for Alex.
Second D update kids, f M. The whole point of
this is to try and get to the bottom of it.
It's the same thing with Ryan's roses. You just want
peace of mine, the same concept, I guess. But this
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is when you're not in the deep relationship. So Alex
reached his eyes, like, okay, dude, I met this girl
at an after party and we ran into each other
on the wild meant to be, meant to be. We
went out on several dates then all of a sudden,
she comes back to my place. Didn't he say she
came back to my place?
Speaker 1 (15:51):
He did?
Speaker 4 (15:51):
He said, it went back to my place.
Speaker 1 (15:53):
At that one problem too.
Speaker 2 (15:55):
We got a few situations where someone goes back to
his place and what they see, smell, or encounter is
the problem.
Speaker 4 (16:03):
But he said, my my apartment is immaculate and it's nice.
Speaker 1 (16:08):
He did. Right, that's like me saying I'm six too. Well,
we don't know that.
Speaker 5 (16:14):
I know.
Speaker 1 (16:14):
I'm just saying it could be that he should be,
but I don't think he also, he did say, he
did say. Maybe.
Speaker 2 (16:19):
I said, can you say anything, bro go deep with me,
anything you can think of that might be the problem.
Oh well, maybe it's our age gap. What's the age gap?
He said, a dozen ish or more? A dozen ish,
It could be twenty years when you say something like that.
That's what I'm thinking. All right, So Alex, hold on, Alex.
We got her to come on the line. You're gonna
listen in to everything. Don't say anything. We wanna try
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and find out. Okay, okay, Hey Liz, thanks for joining.
Speaker 1 (16:44):
Us this morning.
Speaker 2 (16:45):
You're on erics writing seacrest TONI in siciny. How you
doing I'm all right, we're great. So we're calling you
about this guy named Alex. Remember going out with Alex Alix?
Speaker 10 (16:57):
Oh okay, yeah, really?
Speaker 2 (16:59):
How is Alex? How was Alex? What'd you think of Alex?
Speaker 10 (17:04):
He was, he was really nice, But it was just
the dates we went on. We're just a reminder not
to date divorced guys.
Speaker 2 (17:15):
But then why go out with him a few tures?
Like why keep going on dates with him?
Speaker 10 (17:19):
Well, he was, he was really nice. I was having
fun with him, but the time, the date when we
went back to his place, that kind of became more clear.
But like I've been out with divorced guys before, I've
been out with guys who have never been married, guys
have never been married, who are older than me, Like,
they definitely have their issues too, but the energy with
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divorced guys is really different. Like I feel like they're
just like they're just trying to replace their wife in
a way.
Speaker 6 (17:48):
Talk to us about dating older guys who never been
married before?
Speaker 1 (17:52):
What are those what are those flags?
Speaker 5 (17:56):
Well, just like.
Speaker 10 (18:05):
Are they older? Are they still like in college? That's
kind of the vibe. It's like they they haven't grown up?
Speaker 1 (18:11):
Is the vibe? That.
Speaker 10 (18:13):
But then but then some divorced guys are too are
too grown, and it's hard to find the right balance.
Speaker 2 (18:21):
So why older guys? Then sounds like the older guy's
path is not your path?
Speaker 10 (18:24):
Yes, well no, no, I mean, I mean I older guys.
I don't know. I'm just open to whoever is like
nice and cool and and Alex seems really nice and cool.
Like there's there's nothing, so they're bad.
Speaker 2 (18:38):
So just trying to wrap my head around for our
own benefit here just to understand. So there are little
signs Alex not the guy for you. Then you go
home with him and you realize he's definitely not the guy.
What was it that made you decide that when you
went back to his good question?
Speaker 10 (18:54):
Okay, well there weren't even that many times that he
wasn't the guy for me before going back to his house.
So like, I go back to his house and it's
totally it's not like messy, it's not bad, it's just.
Speaker 7 (19:06):
He was like.
Speaker 10 (19:08):
He would be like, oh, what do you what do
you think of? Like my outfits in my closet or
like what should what clothes should I put together? Like
what curtains in this living room?
Speaker 9 (19:19):
Would look good. Like it was weird.
Speaker 10 (19:20):
I was like auditioning to become his wife or something.
Speaker 2 (19:24):
You know.
Speaker 10 (19:24):
He was like asking me about like my you know,
like my advice about his life and like how he lives.
And that's just like I'm not trying to do that.
I'm twenty four. Like I'm just trying to have fun.
I'm not trying to take on the role of someone's wife.
I felt bad though, because like it's definitely clear he's lonely.
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But I mean, yeah, I'm just like not up for
all that right now at my age.
Speaker 9 (19:49):
That's all.
Speaker 1 (19:50):
Yeah, I hear you.
Speaker 2 (19:51):
Okay, Well, we have Alex on the phone and I
want to bring him in Alis. Does this make any
sense to you?
Speaker 5 (19:56):
Oh?
Speaker 9 (19:57):
A whole ouch number one? I mean is that really?
Oh how I come off? It's a bummer.
Speaker 10 (20:08):
Okay, I did not know you on the line.
Speaker 2 (20:12):
But that's good because we may not have gotten the truth.
And I think everybody's happy.
Speaker 1 (20:16):
Alex. This is very constructive, Christian.
Speaker 4 (20:18):
Yeah, this is the most constructive you have done, crystal
clear position on this, So this is actually really good.
Speaker 10 (20:25):
Yeah, Like I just like being more interested in me
as opposed to like how I would help benefit, your life,
your apartment, your your look, whatever it might be. But anyway,
you're really nice.
Speaker 2 (20:39):
I'm sorry, but this is the best kind of it
didn't work out scenario. Everybody gets everybody, and everybody's a
nice person. It's just that it's not for me. And
I like you, and you're a good person. You're a
good guy, and you're a good wiz.
Speaker 1 (20:55):
You know. So Look, that's what we knew. We learned.
Speaker 9 (20:58):
I didn't know. I can't. I didn't know. I can't
even off that way, you know. I guess I appreciate
hearing it. I am divorced, and I thought maybe I'm
less over that than I thought. But you know, it's
good to hear it. Good here and she rocks and
I'm sorry, you know whatever. I think she's really cool
and thank you you good good, good to hear, good
and bad to hear at the same times.
Speaker 1 (21:19):
What's your age gap between the two of you.
Speaker 10 (21:23):
Well, I'm twenty four.
Speaker 1 (21:26):
And he got the legs.
Speaker 9 (21:29):
I'm thirty seven.
Speaker 4 (21:33):
I can't about thirteen.
Speaker 1 (21:34):
Yeah, he was right, he was not wrong.
Speaker 9 (21:37):
All right.
Speaker 2 (21:38):
Well, hey, guys, thank you, We appreciate both of you,
and good luck on your search for the right person.
Speaker 9 (21:42):
All right, thanks guys, thank you.
Speaker 8 (21:47):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (21:50):
On air with Ryan Seacret.
Speaker 2 (21:54):
All right, this is Kiss FM. Now some of the
things that social media can be good, some of them
not so good. This is actually deductive. This one here
a productive trend on social media. It's called the admin night.
Admin is something that is a word. Admin is a
word that makes I get afraid of admin. Yeah, it
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makes me nervous, it gives me anxiety. But admin night
is something where you make social and admin project right exactly.
Speaker 4 (22:24):
So think about all the admin stuff that we have
to do sometimes maybe it's our to do list. I mean,
it's like those emails that you need to respond to,
dentist appointments, all the stuff that you're just like, I'll
get to it eventually. Well, they're saying, have like an
admin night party with your friends. So everyone comes over
and everyone kind of kind of like handles that to
do list together. But you're like drinking, eating, having fun.
Speaker 2 (22:45):
No, it doesn't work, You're not going to get it done.
The admin is you want to get all those tasks
like cleaning up my closet, cleaning up the clutter my
glove compartment, cleaning up my desk, Stroyers. You want to
get all of that done as fast and as efficiently
as possible by having people over, It's only going to
distract me. I'm a not going to do a good job.
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I'm be not going to get through it. And see,
I'm not going to be focused. So I think it's
actually a terrible idea.
Speaker 4 (23:12):
No, it is not a terrible idea at all. Think
about like all the random emails that you want to
unsubscribe to.
Speaker 1 (23:18):
It's just I need to focus.
Speaker 2 (23:19):
I can't do that and also listen to you talk
about whatever you're talking about. It's not I can't do that,
And I don't want to mix the two, like admin
needs to be torture and social needs to be pleasure.
Speaker 1 (23:30):
Like otherwise I wouldn't know what's pleasure what's torture.
Speaker 4 (23:32):
Sometimes you have so much stuff on your to do
list that you don't get to have the social fund.
Speaker 1 (23:36):
So why not just on a Sunday, Git.
Speaker 2 (23:38):
Get up early on a Saturday, get this stuff done
in the morning with coffee.
Speaker 1 (23:41):
It's the best way to do it.
Speaker 4 (23:42):
Well, this is taking over for twenty twenty six. You'll
see you're going to be invited to my admin night
and you better come.
Speaker 1 (23:47):
No kiss FM Sophia.
Speaker 2 (23:51):
Here, the situation is you're you're kind of seeing the
sky skeletor I don't kind of, but you haven't made
it official yet.
Speaker 1 (23:57):
So but you've been seeing him.
Speaker 2 (23:58):
Regularly skeletor wow three years your senior the scout or
an older guy. Yes, and your friend has asked you
to wing with her and you don't know if you can.
Speaker 8 (24:08):
Yeah, so she wants to go out and actually, like
run a two man. And when you run a two man,
it's basically that you and your best friend you go
after two best friends. So you go, fine, two like
guys who are together as friends, and your friend takes
one and you take the other one.
Speaker 2 (24:25):
Well, hold, hold, hold, but who takes one for the
team if you're not into one? Do you have to
take one for the team? Or they have vice versa?
Like what if the guys aren't equally as attractive? Like
do you go into the two men saying, okay, whoever
gets a cute one gets a cute one, and the
other one's got to take one for the two man team?
Speaker 5 (24:45):
Yeah?
Speaker 8 (24:45):
You just sometimes you got to suck it up. But thankfully,
my best friend and I have opposite tastes, so usually
it works out in our favor.
Speaker 2 (24:52):
Well, my opinion is, you can't run a two man
and go out with another man of the two men. Why,
you've got a boyfriend a boyfriend, but she wants it
to be and if you do this, it's gonna for
sure screwed up if he finds out.
Speaker 8 (25:04):
That's what I'm thinking, Like, I feel like it's so disrespectful.
But then my friend she's like, well, you guys aren't
in a relationship and you're not official, and he hasn't
asked you, and this and that.
Speaker 2 (25:13):
So, but your friend has the motive to want to
get you to do this because she wants to meet
the other man of the two man, so she's got
an agenda here.
Speaker 1 (25:21):
This could really screw up your situation.
Speaker 2 (25:24):
And your intention is probably to go out and kind
of pretend to be after this OA, but not really.
Speaker 1 (25:30):
So I think it's a bad idea.
Speaker 4 (25:31):
No, I say, keep your options open. This guy is
not making an official with you, and you know what,
it's fair game.
Speaker 2 (25:37):
And to you, skeletor if you're listening, she's being offered
to go out and have a run.
Speaker 1 (25:41):
A two man, so get on it. Bro get on.
It sounds intense.
Speaker 8 (25:46):
He is listening, Thank you, Ryan.
Speaker 1 (25:48):
Clock is ticking turned twenty one too. Things are going
to change.
Speaker 2 (25:52):
Skeletor m sweating during this show. I actually perspire now,
Oh yeah, it's kiss FM. Yeah. I have those moments
where you have they call egg on your face. You
don't like get egg on your face. It's a moment
where you you ask somebody something and they don't answer
you back, or it's a form of rejection in a way. Actually,
I went to extend my hand to shake my hand
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to somebody just yesterday, and they didn't see it, and
so I tried to slowly, casually bring it back down
to my hip pocket as if I didn't extend it.
But third party people saw me extend it knew that
I was blown off. Now, they didn't bring it up
and make it awkward. I didn't bring it up and
make it awkward, but we all knew it happened. Bekayla,
This is what you can relate to, right, this just
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happened to you. What was the moment you had egg?
The expression egg on your face?
Speaker 1 (26:39):
What happened?
Speaker 11 (26:40):
So I was at a friend's birthday party, and so
we had a lot of mutual friends there and he
waved at me, or so I thought, and I waved back,
and he was waving at the person that was next
to me, and I was so embarrassed because he walked
over and he walked over to the other person.
Speaker 1 (26:57):
No matter what it.
Speaker 2 (27:00):
Says about you, is your polite person waving to strangers.
So at the end of the day, you're a good person.
How about you at the restaurant and they say, enjoy
your meal before they can finish, you go you two?
Speaker 1 (27:11):
Yeah, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (27:13):
I say, have a nice day, you too. Anyway, it's
egg on our face. We've all had it happen. But
it says you're a good person. You're polite, you're courteous.
You know what. You went out of your way not
to have that person feel bad. You didn't know who
they were waving to you, that's true, but out of
being kind and generous, you waved back and they didn't care.
Speaker 1 (27:32):
Way I look at it.
Speaker 10 (27:33):
Thank you.
Speaker 2 (27:34):
One on two point seven kiss FM. I was gonna
do it for us this morning. One more thing before
we go. What's your favorite piece of equipment at the playground, Tanya?
Speaker 1 (27:46):
I like a swing, me too. Because I pumped my legs. Yeah,
I'm going to pump. What about you?
Speaker 2 (27:52):
Isn't he the slide? You guys have a favorite playground
piece of equipment. Mikayla in the back.
Speaker 1 (27:57):
Room, being too, How about Druby. I like the teeter totter,
of course you do. My kids always get hurt on
that thing. Be careful of the teeter totter.
Speaker 6 (28:07):
But you can't do teeter totter alone.
Speaker 1 (28:11):
I thought it was called a seesaw.
Speaker 2 (28:13):
Is it not.
Speaker 1 (28:14):
We're out of time this teater it's a sea saw
the same thing? Is it the same thing?
Speaker 2 (28:22):
With me?
Speaker 1 (28:23):
We'll come back tomorrow. I always called it a teeter totter.
But stay too, you guys confused, she said y
From Hollywood to you.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Thank you for listening to us on.
Speaker 3 (00:06):
Air with the Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 1 (00:09):
All right, it's good even let's check it.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
Where do you stand on this holding a spot in
line at the grocery store? I have asked, I've been
with people that.
Speaker 1 (00:19):
I do this.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
We have to go back and get one more thing right?
Is it rude or is it okay? And what's the
grace period? So here's the story. There's a there's a
guy at the grocery store with his parents and it
was very busy. The lines for the checkout were very long,
so his parents asked them to hold their spot in line. Well,
they grabbed the last few items, so, in other words,
they weren't finished yet and they wanted him to start
moving through the line. He gets to the front and
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his parents are still not back yet, and another customer
spoke up, much like Sophia did with Skeletor in Primate
with the loud people in front of it at the
movie theater, but spoke up and said, hey, it's unfair
and disrespectful. You can only wait in line once you've
got your stuff. So where do you stand on that?
Speaker 4 (00:58):
Sisiny depends on how much stuff you're coming back with.
If like you're already there with your shopping cart, then
you're holding your stuff. If you're there just your body,
and then all of a sudden here come as his
parents with a ginormous shopping cart. Then the person behind
him is like, I wouldn't have gone in line behind.
Speaker 1 (01:13):
You, So I think you run a risk.
Speaker 2 (01:17):
If you can hold the spot, go you know whoever else,
go run and get all the things and get back
in time before your spot is up in line.
Speaker 1 (01:26):
You ran the risk and you won.
Speaker 2 (01:27):
But if you aren't back and your son or your
kid is up to the place at the check out
and you're not back yet, they cannot hold up the
line and wait for you to come back while other
customers behind you. You cannot do that, so you run
a risk of having to go to the back of
the line if you do this.
Speaker 1 (01:47):
That's where I stay on this very clearly. I think
so too.
Speaker 4 (01:49):
And also people do this at Disneyland and amusement parks,
and this is why people get in fights now.
Speaker 1 (01:54):
We're seeing because they'll roll up.
Speaker 4 (01:57):
With like four people.
Speaker 1 (01:59):
Oh on, my mom's there.
Speaker 2 (02:01):
To get remind yourself you're not supposed to fight at
Disneyland's the happiest place on earth. Remind yourselves all right?
Coming up next, I get your five hund bucks and
back to school cash. Let's get going this morning on
kiss FM it now, do you measure the amount of
time Do you calculate the amount of time it takes
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somebody to respond to a text that you send out?
Speaker 1 (02:24):
Do you do that? Are you that person or not? Sisney?
Is that person?
Speaker 5 (02:26):
Like?
Speaker 2 (02:27):
If she texts us and we don't text her back
within a certain amount of time and she sees us
texting someone else for example, Oh, in a group chat
that Rially text me and I were to respond to
the group or respond to Tanya in the group before
siciny she I wouldn't say she'd ald a grudge.
Speaker 5 (02:43):
But.
Speaker 4 (02:45):
Not in I don't care about the order of you
responding in a group chat. I'm just saying if if
I text you separately, that.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
I know that. That's what I said.
Speaker 2 (02:53):
If you text me and I don't respond to you,
but I respond to the group.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
Yeah, I just like noted if that's a grudge.
Speaker 2 (03:01):
Okay, Anyway, in case in point, there's a friend of
minor that's watching your IG stories but didn't text you
back and you're holding.
Speaker 1 (03:08):
Across I know.
Speaker 4 (03:09):
So I texted Tanya, I'm just kidding. It's notna, Tanya, I.
Speaker 1 (03:13):
Have a friend that I just you know.
Speaker 4 (03:15):
It was one of those things where I was like,
oh my gosh, she was told me about this restaurant
that she went to, and so I was trying to
figure out what it was and I couldn't think of
the name.
Speaker 1 (03:21):
So I texted her like, hey, what was the name
of that? D D D D nothing?
Speaker 4 (03:24):
And then I went on with life and I forgot
about it too. And then that night I was laying
on the couch and I see that she's responded, like
she actually like saw my stories and like responded in
a group chat that we're in, And I was like,
wait a minute, and so like, either she forgot about
me and it's not that big of a deal, But
then do I say something?
Speaker 1 (03:41):
And now, how do you care? Why do you care?
Doesn't there a therapy session.
Speaker 2 (03:45):
It doesn't clearly want to respond to whatever it was
you were talking about, whether she forgot about you, whether
she doesn't want to talk about the topic, but don't
let that navigate any of your emotion.
Speaker 1 (03:55):
That's the problem.
Speaker 4 (03:56):
Fine, and you're right, and I won't let that navigate
my emotions. But what it made me realize is that
I also do this, and so now I'm hyper aware
of when someone texts me and I haven't responded to them,
and then if I see their story, then that reminds me.
I'm like, oh my gosh, I need to go respond
to the text before I.
Speaker 1 (04:12):
Like their story. Yes, so you okay, So all this
stuff is a calculation. To you. What I do sometimes
is if you don't respond.
Speaker 2 (04:19):
I think it seems very Now when I actually get
it sent to me, it seems really harsh and rude.
But I'll just send boop question mark boop one line
question mark.
Speaker 1 (04:28):
But it's harsh. I didn't know it was so harsh.
I think you can do that's a little bit cuter.
Speaker 4 (04:32):
Is the eyeballs like the two eyes just looking like?
Speaker 6 (04:36):
So I use the microphone emoji and I say, is
this thing on much better?
Speaker 2 (04:40):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (04:40):
The question mark is harsh.
Speaker 2 (04:43):
Yeah, m Elsie, good morning, good mom, Thank you for calling.
Speaker 1 (04:51):
How can we help you.
Speaker 7 (04:54):
My brother and sister in law just recently had a baby,
which is awesome, and we're you know, all exce about it.
I totally get that they want to be, like you,
extremely careful, protective right now. But I just said out
something that just doesn't sit well with me at all,
kind of weird. So my husband and I work full time,
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and so our daughter she goes to daycare, you know,
a few times a week, and all the days that
she's not in daycare, my mom and dad you know,
watch her, and that's been a huge help and everything.
But recently our daughter had already nose major nothing major
or anything, you know, usual daycare stuff. You know, they
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come home with us, nanny knows, not a big deal.
So we decided to you know, add a caution and
respect you know, withhold friend, you know, visiting the new
baby for a bit, because we don't want to risk anything.
You know, totally understand, I'm a mom, But I thought
from my mom that my brother told my parents that
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they shouldn't be around my daughter because they shouldn't be
visiting the baby since they've been around my daughter, and
they wanted them to.
Speaker 3 (06:09):
Wait like a few days after just as like a period,
because my daughter goes to daycare, like she's some kind
of weird walking.
Speaker 2 (06:20):
Because they're concerned about your daughter carrying all the germs
that's where we are, right.
Speaker 7 (06:25):
Yeah, Like, I mean, yeah, daycare is that you're going
to have more cold than ready noses and everything.
Speaker 3 (06:32):
How old is the baby it's a newborn, like like
a month.
Speaker 1 (06:38):
Well, let's let's flip the rolls.
Speaker 2 (06:40):
If you just had your daughter, would you feel the
same way about their kids?
Speaker 1 (06:43):
There was it daycare?
Speaker 7 (06:46):
I mean, like, my parents are the ones who are
trying to visit the baby. Like I'm not trying to
because I understand, you know, but their daughter.
Speaker 4 (06:54):
Right, Oh, so they don't even want your parents around.
It's not even about your daughter. It's like just because
your parents, your.
Speaker 2 (06:59):
Parents were around your right yes yeah, yes, okay, so
they're thinking, yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:05):
If they're not showing symptoms and there's nothing really care.
Speaker 5 (07:08):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (07:09):
I don't think it's judgmental.
Speaker 4 (07:10):
They're trying to protect their baby.
Speaker 1 (07:11):
That's their prerogative. That's I think I would take it
personally at all.
Speaker 4 (07:15):
A month is young, But if baby's like six months
old at this point they're still kind of doing this stuff,
then that's just annoying.
Speaker 2 (07:22):
I think Sisney's got a good point. Let's see how
how long this lasts. Give them the benefit of this moment,
because they just have this new baby and let them
be overprotective. But let's ride this out.
Speaker 1 (07:33):
Yeah, I think you respect it.
Speaker 7 (07:39):
Yeah, I get it.
Speaker 4 (07:41):
By the third kid, they're not going to care because
I was the same way with the twins. I mean
I was like, hands in his eyes, wash your hands,
but oh, do you put a.
Speaker 1 (07:47):
Rag over your shoulder. Don't let it touch your actual clothes.
And then by Sevilla was just like, hey, you want
to hold her. So it's just time, Elsie, good luck,
thank you for calling.
Speaker 7 (07:58):
Thank you.
Speaker 2 (07:59):
Don't like it under your skin. It's not worth letting
it be personal. I think they're just being over protected.
Speaker 1 (08:06):
His FM.
Speaker 2 (08:07):
When you go to the doctor's office, they always give
me a clipboard and they say fill all the stuff out,
and I you know, have filled out right, yeah, check
check chuck check check sign. So the dirtiest place in
the doctor's office is that clipboard. It's the clip yeah,
id it has more than forty six thousand times more
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germs than a toilet seat.
Speaker 1 (08:33):
Questionnaire in the clip pad. That's crazy. I never have
to about that. Tell your friends that that's crazy. Today's quote, what.
Speaker 2 (08:41):
Is not started today is never finished by tomorrow. I mean,
you get a jump on it, So Tanya, doctor next week?
Speaker 1 (08:50):
No, no clipboard please? Yeah, your own gloves.
Speaker 2 (08:53):
Yeah exactly, I'm gonna look so instant And they got him.
Speaker 1 (08:58):
There, use their gloves morning.
Speaker 2 (09:00):
Why don't you point seven Kiss FM is on Los
Angeles Hights. Why don't you point seven KISSFM? All right, Tanya,
let's get to the headlines. What's happening this morning? Kiss
FM Headlines with Tanya red Well.
Speaker 6 (09:13):
A pack of coyotes has taken over and abandoned construction
site in West Hollywood, and neighbors say the loud howling
has been keeping them up at night. A woman was
critically hurt after a crash involving a way most self
driving car on Venice Boulevard just north of the ten.
A small plane made an emergency landing on the sand
at Huntington Beach after reporting engine trouble and no one
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was hurt. And Christopher Nolans The Odyssey keeps breaking box
office records, earning another eighty seven million dollars in its
second weekend and becoming one of the biggest movies of
the year.
Speaker 2 (09:47):
Why don't two point seven It's Kiss FM. If a
guy on a date doesn't walk you back to your car.
Is that a red flag?
Speaker 1 (09:53):
Did Skeletor Sophia when he first started dating you? How
old Skeletor He's twenty four, so twenty.
Speaker 2 (10:00):
Four year old Skeletor walk you back to your car
at the beginning.
Speaker 8 (10:03):
Well, he actually picked me up, so it's more of.
Speaker 2 (10:06):
Like, did he open the door or lean over to
open the door from inside?
Speaker 8 (10:10):
No, he got out, he was waiting for me. He
opened the car door, and then he actually walked me
to my apartment door when he dropped me off.
Speaker 1 (10:17):
But go back to the car.
Speaker 2 (10:19):
When he stood there on guard for your arrival, put
you in the car, did you then lean over the
center console and pop his door open?
Speaker 1 (10:28):
No?
Speaker 2 (10:29):
Cool, that's the response. That's the considered response. Guy is
standing there opens your door, then you just from the
inside lean over and just try and pop his door.
Speaker 1 (10:42):
Just open the latch so it's unlatched.
Speaker 2 (10:46):
Guys, this is what you do if you if you
think about it.
Speaker 1 (10:50):
It's nice, isn't it. Okay, Well, let me talk to Megan. Megan.
Speaker 2 (10:55):
Good morning, Megan, I'm good. So the guy I didn't
walk you back to your car?
Speaker 5 (11:01):
Right, Yes, we went on our first date and it
was in downtown LA and I had to park in
a parking garage like about a block away, and after
the date, he didn't even offer to walk into my car.
So now I'm like, is that a red flag? Like?
Can I go out with him again?
Speaker 1 (11:18):
No? No, it's rude.
Speaker 2 (11:19):
First of all, he should be mindful of getting you
safely to your car.
Speaker 1 (11:24):
Number one.
Speaker 2 (11:26):
It's it's just a polite thing to do, right, He
gets more time with you, he has the peace of
mind and knowing that you got to your car and
you're on your way home, like all those things should
be in Yeah. The fact that they're not, I think
it is a red flag. And I really think that
traits like that from the beginning can only get worse.
Speaker 5 (11:43):
Yeah, I agree, No, definitely.
Speaker 4 (11:46):
That's why I was thinking it's a safety thing too.
It's like the parking garage late at night.
Speaker 1 (11:50):
Yeah, you should be walked downtown too, Exactly.
Speaker 5 (11:53):
I was a little nervous, but when he said he
got in the car.
Speaker 1 (11:57):
So I was like, whatever, this guy is not deserving
more time or attention.
Speaker 5 (12:02):
Perfect, thank you.
Speaker 1 (12:05):
I was gonna say, what's his name? Should we out him? No?
Speaker 2 (12:09):
He knows who he is now if he doesn't think
about things like that.
Speaker 1 (12:12):
He's just not going to be considerate as we go on.
It's true.
Speaker 2 (12:16):
Come on in for this one time for a second
date update. I got Alex on the phone. Let me
jump into Alex. Alex, good morning, bro, how are you.
Speaker 9 (12:23):
I'm good.
Speaker 1 (12:24):
I'm all right.
Speaker 2 (12:25):
So this is what's always fascinating about these second date
update stories. You think one thing, the woman you think
you were totally connected with, thinks the opposite and just
stops you, like she just closes the shop.
Speaker 9 (12:39):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (12:41):
Yeah, I don't get it exactly.
Speaker 2 (12:44):
Something I don't need to happen something us that. But
let me get some backtory. So you met her at
an after party. Is anything good ever happen at the
after party?
Speaker 1 (12:52):
No? Yeah, lots of good fun happens to Alex. Yeah
you met it the after party. What happened?
Speaker 2 (13:05):
Uh?
Speaker 9 (13:05):
You know I saw her at the party, like from
across the room, and uh, you know, and she's super
hot and uh so you know, I went over and
a bought our drink and we talked and it was
cool and we exchanged instas and you know, we dmmed
a little bit. Uh, nothing too exciting. But then I
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was at Toppy in lest Hollywood like the next week,
and and she was there and uh so we talked
more and I went ahead and I asked her out
and she said yes, and you know, we went on
to like great dates. We went back to my place
and it was super fun and and then, I mean
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I thought it was great, and I asked her to
hang out again and she said, I don't think it's
going to work out, but thanks for fun dates.
Speaker 2 (13:54):
And yeah, okay, so you went to what happened like,
we'll get like, can you imagine anything that you saw all, yeah,
it's a smell something, it's it's.
Speaker 1 (14:03):
A no, no, no, it's a habit they see anything.
Speaker 9 (14:07):
I got a great apartment, it's immaculate. I got a job.
I'm you know, I mean, I'm you know, I'm a
little older than she is. I don't know. Maybe that
bo you know how many years afferent, like I don't know,
a dozen maybe or a dozen ish twelve It.
Speaker 2 (14:26):
Says a dozen for years right there, and maybe how
you calculate time.
Speaker 1 (14:31):
And I don't know.
Speaker 9 (14:34):
I thought it. I got along great.
Speaker 1 (14:38):
I understand, I understand. I understand. Matthew McConaughey. By the way,
there's somebody who sounds like and I can't play it.
It's like it's like Matthew McConaughey. It's like I'm on
a roller coast. You're going up and down.
Speaker 2 (14:48):
Click click, whoa.
Speaker 1 (14:51):
Maybe it was I get older and the nobody was charming.
I think it's charming. Hold on, what is it? A
dozen ish years? Was it? Does it for a dozen
or so? And it's not. He's definitely more than twelve first,
I mean it might be twenty. You say a dozen ish,
Who says a does you.
Speaker 2 (15:12):
Definitely have a different generation if you say a dozen ish? Okay,
let's come back. It's a second D update. This is
why we come together to figure this out for Alex.
Second D update kids, f M. The whole point of
this is to try and get to the bottom of it.
It's the same thing with Ryan's roses. You just want
peace of mine, the same concept, I guess. But this
(15:35):
is when you're not in the deep relationship. So Alex
reached his eyes, like, okay, dude, I met this girl
at an after party and we ran into each other
on the wild meant to be, meant to be. We
went out on several dates then all of a sudden,
she comes back to my place. Didn't he say she
came back to my place?
Speaker 1 (15:51):
He did?
Speaker 4 (15:51):
He said, it went back to my place.
Speaker 1 (15:53):
At that one problem too.
Speaker 2 (15:55):
We got a few situations where someone goes back to
his place and what they see, smell, or encounter is
the problem.
Speaker 4 (16:03):
But he said, my my apartment is immaculate and it's nice.
Speaker 1 (16:08):
He did. Right, that's like me saying I'm six too. Well,
we don't know that.
Speaker 5 (16:14):
I know.
Speaker 1 (16:14):
I'm just saying it could be that he should be,
but I don't think he also, he did say, he
did say. Maybe.
Speaker 2 (16:19):
I said, can you say anything, bro go deep with me,
anything you can think of that might be the problem.
Oh well, maybe it's our age gap. What's the age gap?
He said, a dozen ish or more? A dozen ish,
It could be twenty years when you say something like that.
That's what I'm thinking. All right, So Alex, hold on, Alex.
We got her to come on the line. You're gonna
listen in to everything. Don't say anything. We wanna try
(16:41):
and find out. Okay, okay, Hey Liz, thanks for joining.
Speaker 1 (16:44):
Us this morning.
Speaker 2 (16:45):
You're on erics writing seacrest TONI in siciny. How you
doing I'm all right, we're great. So we're calling you
about this guy named Alex. Remember going out with Alex Alix?
Speaker 10 (16:57):
Oh okay, yeah, really?
Speaker 2 (16:59):
How is Alex? How was Alex? What'd you think of Alex?
Speaker 10 (17:04):
He was, he was really nice, But it was just
the dates we went on. We're just a reminder not
to date divorced guys.
Speaker 2 (17:15):
But then why go out with him a few tures?
Like why keep going on dates with him?
Speaker 10 (17:19):
Well, he was, he was really nice. I was having
fun with him, but the time, the date when we
went back to his place, that kind of became more clear.
But like I've been out with divorced guys before, I've
been out with guys who have never been married, guys
have never been married, who are older than me, Like,
they definitely have their issues too, but the energy with
(17:40):
divorced guys is really different. Like I feel like they're
just like they're just trying to replace their wife in
a way.
Speaker 6 (17:48):
Talk to us about dating older guys who never been
married before?
Speaker 1 (17:52):
What are those what are those flags?
Speaker 5 (17:56):
Well, just like.
Speaker 10 (18:05):
Are they older? Are they still like in college? That's
kind of the vibe. It's like they they haven't grown up?
Speaker 1 (18:11):
Is the vibe? That.
Speaker 10 (18:13):
But then but then some divorced guys are too are
too grown, and it's hard to find the right balance.
Speaker 2 (18:21):
So why older guys? Then sounds like the older guy's
path is not your path?
Speaker 10 (18:24):
Yes, well no, no, I mean, I mean I older guys.
I don't know. I'm just open to whoever is like
nice and cool and and Alex seems really nice and cool.
Like there's there's nothing, so they're bad.
Speaker 2 (18:38):
So just trying to wrap my head around for our
own benefit here just to understand. So there are little
signs Alex not the guy for you. Then you go
home with him and you realize he's definitely not the guy.
What was it that made you decide that when you
went back to his good question?
Speaker 10 (18:54):
Okay, well there weren't even that many times that he
wasn't the guy for me before going back to his house.
So like, I go back to his house and it's
totally it's not like messy, it's not bad, it's just.
Speaker 7 (19:06):
He was like.
Speaker 10 (19:08):
He would be like, oh, what do you what do
you think of? Like my outfits in my closet or
like what should what clothes should I put together? Like
what curtains in this living room?
Speaker 9 (19:19):
Would look good. Like it was weird.
Speaker 10 (19:20):
I was like auditioning to become his wife or something.
Speaker 2 (19:24):
You know.
Speaker 10 (19:24):
He was like asking me about like my you know,
like my advice about his life and like how he lives.
And that's just like I'm not trying to do that.
I'm twenty four. Like I'm just trying to have fun.
I'm not trying to take on the role of someone's wife.
I felt bad though, because like it's definitely clear he's lonely.
(19:44):
But I mean, yeah, I'm just like not up for
all that right now at my age.
Speaker 9 (19:49):
That's all.
Speaker 1 (19:50):
Yeah, I hear you.
Speaker 2 (19:51):
Okay, Well, we have Alex on the phone and I
want to bring him in Alis. Does this make any
sense to you?
Speaker 5 (19:56):
Oh?
Speaker 9 (19:57):
A whole ouch number one? I mean is that really?
Oh how I come off? It's a bummer.
Speaker 10 (20:08):
Okay, I did not know you on the line.
Speaker 2 (20:12):
But that's good because we may not have gotten the truth.
And I think everybody's happy.
Speaker 1 (20:16):
Alex. This is very constructive, Christian.
Speaker 4 (20:18):
Yeah, this is the most constructive you have done, crystal
clear position on this, So this is actually really good.
Speaker 10 (20:25):
Yeah, Like I just like being more interested in me
as opposed to like how I would help benefit, your life,
your apartment, your your look, whatever it might be. But anyway,
you're really nice.
Speaker 2 (20:39):
I'm sorry, but this is the best kind of it
didn't work out scenario. Everybody gets everybody, and everybody's a
nice person. It's just that it's not for me. And
I like you, and you're a good person. You're a
good guy, and you're a good wiz.
Speaker 1 (20:55):
You know. So Look, that's what we knew. We learned.
Speaker 9 (20:58):
I didn't know. I can't. I didn't know. I can't
even off that way, you know. I guess I appreciate
hearing it. I am divorced, and I thought maybe I'm
less over that than I thought. But you know, it's
good to hear it. Good here and she rocks and
I'm sorry, you know whatever. I think she's really cool
and thank you you good good, good to hear, good
and bad to hear at the same times.
Speaker 1 (21:19):
What's your age gap between the two of you.
Speaker 10 (21:23):
Well, I'm twenty four.
Speaker 1 (21:26):
And he got the legs.
Speaker 9 (21:29):
I'm thirty seven.
Speaker 4 (21:33):
I can't about thirteen.
Speaker 1 (21:34):
Yeah, he was right, he was not wrong.
Speaker 9 (21:37):
All right.
Speaker 2 (21:38):
Well, hey, guys, thank you, We appreciate both of you,
and good luck on your search for the right person.
Speaker 9 (21:42):
All right, thanks guys, thank you.
Speaker 8 (21:47):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (21:50):
On air with Ryan Seacret.
Speaker 2 (21:54):
All right, this is Kiss FM. Now some of the
things that social media can be good, some of them
not so good. This is actually deductive. This one here
a productive trend on social media. It's called the admin night.
Admin is something that is a word. Admin is a
word that makes I get afraid of admin. Yeah, it
(22:14):
makes me nervous, it gives me anxiety. But admin night
is something where you make social and admin project right exactly.
Speaker 4 (22:24):
So think about all the admin stuff that we have
to do sometimes maybe it's our to do list. I mean,
it's like those emails that you need to respond to,
dentist appointments, all the stuff that you're just like, I'll
get to it eventually. Well, they're saying, have like an
admin night party with your friends. So everyone comes over
and everyone kind of kind of like handles that to
do list together. But you're like drinking, eating, having fun.
Speaker 2 (22:45):
No, it doesn't work, You're not going to get it done.
The admin is you want to get all those tasks
like cleaning up my closet, cleaning up the clutter my
glove compartment, cleaning up my desk, Stroyers. You want to
get all of that done as fast and as efficiently
as possible by having people over, It's only going to
distract me. I'm a not going to do a good job.
(23:07):
I'm be not going to get through it. And see,
I'm not going to be focused. So I think it's
actually a terrible idea.
Speaker 4 (23:12):
No, it is not a terrible idea at all. Think
about like all the random emails that you want to
unsubscribe to.
Speaker 1 (23:18):
It's just I need to focus.
Speaker 2 (23:19):
I can't do that and also listen to you talk
about whatever you're talking about. It's not I can't do that,
And I don't want to mix the two, like admin
needs to be torture and social needs to be pleasure.
Speaker 1 (23:30):
Like otherwise I wouldn't know what's pleasure what's torture.
Speaker 4 (23:32):
Sometimes you have so much stuff on your to do
list that you don't get to have the social fund.
Speaker 1 (23:36):
So why not just on a Sunday, Git.
Speaker 2 (23:38):
Get up early on a Saturday, get this stuff done
in the morning with coffee.
Speaker 1 (23:41):
It's the best way to do it.
Speaker 4 (23:42):
Well, this is taking over for twenty twenty six. You'll
see you're going to be invited to my admin night
and you better come.
Speaker 1 (23:47):
No kiss FM Sophia.
Speaker 2 (23:51):
Here, the situation is you're you're kind of seeing the
sky skeletor I don't kind of, but you haven't made
it official yet.
Speaker 1 (23:57):
So but you've been seeing him.
Speaker 2 (23:58):
Regularly skeletor wow three years your senior the scout or
an older guy. Yes, and your friend has asked you
to wing with her and you don't know if you can.
Speaker 8 (24:08):
Yeah, so she wants to go out and actually, like
run a two man. And when you run a two man,
it's basically that you and your best friend you go
after two best friends. So you go, fine, two like
guys who are together as friends, and your friend takes
one and you take the other one.
Speaker 2 (24:25):
Well, hold, hold, hold, but who takes one for the
team if you're not into one? Do you have to
take one for the team? Or they have vice versa?
Like what if the guys aren't equally as attractive? Like
do you go into the two men saying, okay, whoever
gets a cute one gets a cute one, and the
other one's got to take one for the two man team?
Speaker 5 (24:45):
Yeah?
Speaker 8 (24:45):
You just sometimes you got to suck it up. But thankfully,
my best friend and I have opposite tastes, so usually
it works out in our favor.
Speaker 2 (24:52):
Well, my opinion is, you can't run a two man
and go out with another man of the two men. Why,
you've got a boyfriend a boyfriend, but she wants it
to be and if you do this, it's gonna for
sure screwed up if he finds out.
Speaker 8 (25:04):
That's what I'm thinking, Like, I feel like it's so disrespectful.
But then my friend she's like, well, you guys aren't
in a relationship and you're not official, and he hasn't
asked you, and this and that.
Speaker 2 (25:13):
So, but your friend has the motive to want to
get you to do this because she wants to meet
the other man of the two man, so she's got
an agenda here.
Speaker 1 (25:21):
This could really screw up your situation.
Speaker 2 (25:24):
And your intention is probably to go out and kind
of pretend to be after this OA, but not really.
Speaker 1 (25:30):
So I think it's a bad idea.
Speaker 4 (25:31):
No, I say, keep your options open. This guy is
not making an official with you, and you know what,
it's fair game.
Speaker 2 (25:37):
And to you, skeletor if you're listening, she's being offered
to go out and have a run.
Speaker 1 (25:41):
A two man, so get on it. Bro get on.
It sounds intense.
Speaker 8 (25:46):
He is listening, Thank you, Ryan.
Speaker 1 (25:48):
Clock is ticking turned twenty one too. Things are going
to change.
Speaker 2 (25:52):
Skeletor m sweating during this show. I actually perspire now,
Oh yeah, it's kiss FM. Yeah. I have those moments
where you have they call egg on your face. You
don't like get egg on your face. It's a moment
where you you ask somebody something and they don't answer
you back, or it's a form of rejection in a way. Actually,
I went to extend my hand to shake my hand
(26:14):
to somebody just yesterday, and they didn't see it, and
so I tried to slowly, casually bring it back down
to my hip pocket as if I didn't extend it.
But third party people saw me extend it knew that
I was blown off. Now, they didn't bring it up
and make it awkward. I didn't bring it up and
make it awkward, but we all knew it happened. Bekayla,
This is what you can relate to, right, this just
(26:35):
happened to you. What was the moment you had egg?
The expression egg on your face?
Speaker 1 (26:39):
What happened?
Speaker 11 (26:40):
So I was at a friend's birthday party, and so
we had a lot of mutual friends there and he
waved at me, or so I thought, and I waved back,
and he was waving at the person that was next
to me, and I was so embarrassed because he walked
over and he walked over to the other person.
Speaker 1 (26:57):
No matter what it.
Speaker 2 (27:00):
Says about you, is your polite person waving to strangers.
So at the end of the day, you're a good person.
How about you at the restaurant and they say, enjoy
your meal before they can finish, you go you two?
Speaker 1 (27:11):
Yeah, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (27:13):
I say, have a nice day, you too. Anyway, it's
egg on our face. We've all had it happen. But
it says you're a good person. You're polite, you're courteous.
You know what. You went out of your way not
to have that person feel bad. You didn't know who
they were waving to you, that's true, but out of
being kind and generous, you waved back and they didn't care.
Speaker 1 (27:32):
Way I look at it.
Speaker 10 (27:33):
Thank you.
Speaker 2 (27:34):
One on two point seven kiss FM. I was gonna
do it for us this morning. One more thing before
we go. What's your favorite piece of equipment at the playground, Tanya?
Speaker 1 (27:46):
I like a swing, me too. Because I pumped my legs. Yeah,
I'm going to pump. What about you?
Speaker 2 (27:52):
Isn't he the slide? You guys have a favorite playground
piece of equipment. Mikayla in the back.
Speaker 1 (27:57):
Room, being too, How about Druby. I like the teeter totter,
of course you do. My kids always get hurt on
that thing. Be careful of the teeter totter.
Speaker 6 (28:07):
But you can't do teeter totter alone.
Speaker 1 (28:11):
I thought it was called a seesaw.
Speaker 2 (28:13):
Is it not.
Speaker 1 (28:14):
We're out of time this teater it's a sea saw
the same thing? Is it the same thing?
Speaker 2 (28:22):
With me?
Speaker 1 (28:23):
We'll come back tomorrow. I always called it a teeter totter.
But stay too, you guys confused, she said y
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