The Breakfast Club BEST OF - Dr. Cheyenne Interview, Plus Caller Topic (Can Men be Golddiggers)

Best of 2026 - Dr. Cheyenne Interview, Plus Caller Topic (Can Men be Golddiggers). Recorded 2026. 

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Speaker 1 (00:01):
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Speaker 2 (00:03):
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Speaker 1 (00:07):
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to hear from you on the breakfast Blossom. Hello, who's this?

Speaker 3 (00:20):
Good morning? All Bridge?

Speaker 4 (00:24):
This is Bridget Hey Bridge, Bridget Oh you today?

Speaker 1 (00:28):
Why you sound like that?

Speaker 5 (00:29):
Bridgie?

Speaker 1 (00:30):
You sound like giant?

Speaker 6 (00:32):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (00:32):
Bridge.

Speaker 7 (00:33):
The only reason, the only reason I sound like this
is because I had to stop and get donuts from
my employees. So I came through the door carrying a
lot of stuff.

Speaker 2 (00:43):
Oh okay, okay, you have a lot of employees of
size Oh no.

Speaker 7 (00:48):
Just forty one. I'm the safety.

Speaker 8 (00:49):
Manager, so I like to bring donuts.

Speaker 7 (00:52):
And you know, we celebrate eight years safe. Oh congrass,
I work, thank you. I worked for a company that
manufactor the catalysts for all the gasoline vehicles, so we
do some good work over here in Taylor, Michigan, which
is really Detroit.

Speaker 9 (01:08):
What though?

Speaker 7 (01:09):
All right, Bridget So my reason for Colin is I
love y'all show. I called in last week and when
I say you, Jail King is amazing for her relationship
with her ex and all that good stuff. I love that,
but companies, right, I've been working for about forty six
years now, and I've been a grunt worker. I got
a master's degree in HR. I worked at Ford Chrysler

(01:32):
supervisor safety doing all that stuff. And I say grunt
worker because we keep on the bottom keep the people
up top.

Speaker 10 (01:39):
Rich.

Speaker 7 (01:40):
So having this conversation over the last six months, rich
people are getting richer US grunt workers. Thirty seven, forty
two years ago, my first job out of college, they
started me off at fifty five thousand, forty two years ago.
Today they are still starting people off at fifty and
sixty thousand. Where the economy has increased, increased, increased in

(02:03):
order to make a decent living out here, okay, one
hundred thousand dollars. They may not start everybody off in
college coming out of college at one hundred thousand, but
at least a decent living but wage. And then another
thing that goes along with that, right, is the wage increases.
And I don't know, you know, in you guys's career
where you've been, but you know a lot of times

(02:24):
I'll come in, oh, well, Bridget, you got to get
one percent this time even though.

Speaker 8 (02:28):
You were a star worker.

Speaker 7 (02:29):
But we had to bring the person on the bottom up,
so they had to get.

Speaker 8 (02:33):
To three percent.

Speaker 7 (02:34):
So this template of giving people raises, it's fifty years old,
so the template needs to be increased from one to
four percent, from one to ten percent. So just say,
for instance, I'll make one hundred thousand dollars and my
employee says, bridget, you did a great job this year.

Speaker 8 (02:51):
We're giving you a one percent raise.

Speaker 7 (02:53):
What's one percent of one hundred thousand dollars. That's nothing, right,
that's one thousand dollars I can not going to get.
I'm not going to get a washing dryer. But if
you tell me I did such a great job and
you getting ten percent, I can do more with ten
thousand dollars a year than I can one thousand dollars
a year. So one of these rich, ultra rich companies

(03:13):
are going to change the template for us grunt workers
so we can try to at least have a decent lessons.

Speaker 5 (03:20):
Incentive is more incentive, is what you say, exactly.

Speaker 7 (03:24):
So nobody's talked about that. And I have a meeting
this Friday with our big boss here, and that's some
of the things I'm gonna talk about because even though
our country is from the UK, we we do so
much stuff that people don't even know that we do.
And they don't pay us like they pay the Big
three in this area. So because our company is UK,

(03:44):
they say, oh, well, we're gonna pay y'all like this.
But y'all stockholders and y'all board of directors, they stay
getting rich beyond rich, and we in here on Saturdays
and Sundays keeping people safe for eight years doing that.
They don't get it, dying about us. So the middle
class and never come back up. And you know, like
somebody said, Bridge, you should get a podcast.

Speaker 8 (04:04):
I am now because you.

Speaker 1 (04:05):
Can talk, Moore, you can talk, Bridget, I mean you
can talk.

Speaker 6 (04:08):
You can talk.

Speaker 2 (04:09):
You might need to do that. That might help you
get some extra income because you can talk.

Speaker 1 (04:13):
He me four minutes. We don't say yeah, you're right,
you're right three times and you still going. But Bridget, Bridge,
we got to go in the second.

Speaker 2 (04:23):
I will say that, Bridget, if you going there with
your boss and you have this and you lay it
down quite clear and plane, you probably just gonna wear
him down and he might just go ahead and give
you the yeah he might.

Speaker 1 (04:32):
That's if he has the power to do it. But
you're alright. I was reading I was reading this story
the other day.

Speaker 2 (04:37):
You know, I'm from South Carolina, and I was reading
this story and one of the local papers down there,
called the Posting Corea, and it was saying how sixty
thousand dollars is officially classified as low income depending on
your household size. And Charleston and like Berkeley County and
you know the areas around there, and.

Speaker 1 (04:52):
I was like, damn, six thousand dollars that was there.

Speaker 5 (04:56):
Used to be a lot of money.

Speaker 7 (04:57):
I know, sixty dollars used to be a of money.
And like I said, I make over one hundred. I
drive good, you know, I take care of my.

Speaker 8 (05:05):
Granddaughters and stuff good and things of that nature.

Speaker 7 (05:07):
But I'm also in the stores, you know, in the
dollar stores and then progers and stuff like that. And
you see you see seniors counting pennies and stuff like that.
So what do I do. I pay for their stuff,
and then they want to give me their pennies, and
I tell them, I said, nope, you guys keep it.

Speaker 10 (05:25):
You know.

Speaker 1 (05:27):
When all these things we love.

Speaker 7 (05:30):
Companies, well, I love you guys too. And you know
they want us to donate, right like uh these uh
these charities and stuff on the charity. My charity is
I take care of people in person. My money is going.

Speaker 1 (05:44):
I'm talking, but y'ad.

Speaker 7 (05:50):
The reason why I called y'all because solicit to y'all,
I work in a facility where everybody is trumpers. But
why don't you you they listening to your radio, so
best conversation needs to be had, yell. Need to somehow
work it into y'all show and ask the question.

Speaker 2 (06:11):
I don't think that's a that's a conversation that needs
to be worked in that people need more money in
these corporations need to be paying a Liverpool wage. I
think that's a pretty common conversation nowadays. Bridget, But thank
you that you appreciate your Bridget.

Speaker 7 (06:24):
Okay, love you guys, and love you y'all.

Speaker 8 (06:29):
Have a great safe day.

Speaker 1 (06:30):
Okay.

Speaker 5 (06:31):
Wow.

Speaker 1 (06:32):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (06:33):
How come people that talk for a long time when
they finally finished, then they want to try to rush.

Speaker 6 (06:39):
I thought she was when I thought she was done,
she was like.

Speaker 1 (06:42):
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(07:03):
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We want to hear from you on the Breakfast Clovello.

Speaker 11 (07:08):
Who's this?

Speaker 3 (07:09):
What's going on? I'm just Lamar from New.

Speaker 2 (07:10):
York's Law York, Lamar, We'll part of New York.

Speaker 5 (07:13):
You're be from Buffalo or something.

Speaker 2 (07:14):
Because you said New York, you ain't say You ain't
say Brooklyn from Buffalo.

Speaker 3 (07:20):
I'm from New York City.

Speaker 4 (07:21):
I'm I'm from I'm from Harlem.

Speaker 3 (07:22):
I'm from Harlem.

Speaker 1 (07:23):
Okay.

Speaker 3 (07:24):
I just wanted to get off my chest.

Speaker 1 (07:26):
Man.

Speaker 10 (07:26):
I have a YouTube channel called Boiler Heroes, and because
I've been doing well, I basically go around New York
City giving people heat and hot water all over and
I've been doing it for like two and a half years.
You know, I got an Instagram Boiler Heroes, follow me
if you can. But because of it, I've been offered
one of the most prestigious jobs in the country with
the biggest boiler company in the country.

Speaker 1 (07:48):
Amazing.

Speaker 10 (07:49):
I appreciate that man, I've just been trying to inspire
the youth that you know, the traders are where to go,
especially being.

Speaker 3 (07:56):
A boiler man.

Speaker 10 (07:57):
I just gave the company I worked for my two
weeks and they've been very supportive on this new adventure
that I'm about to embark on.

Speaker 2 (08:04):
Let me ask that question, sir. Tell me exactly what
it is that you do, because it sounds very interesting.

Speaker 1 (08:09):
What do you do?

Speaker 5 (08:09):
How do you give people heat? Exactly?

Speaker 10 (08:11):
So, first of all, I'm a real life superhero because
I'm in New York City helping all the supers out here.

Speaker 3 (08:15):
I'm the hero to all the supers. So I'm a
real life superhero. That's one.

Speaker 10 (08:19):
And what I do is every building has a boiler
and they get heat from and heat and hot water
from the boiler.

Speaker 3 (08:25):
So if the boiler goes.

Speaker 10 (08:26):
Down where the buildings don't have heat or how water
no more, they call us and I fly over.

Speaker 3 (08:32):
There and I get that boiler running. For example, if something.

Speaker 10 (08:35):
Happens where the frame goes out because of a part
or whatever, I got to figure it out.

Speaker 3 (08:39):
I got a troubleshoot it. I got to go through
the wires. I gotta go through all the chemistry. I'm
a flame chemist out here. I do real frame chemistry.

Speaker 10 (08:47):
I balance the OIU or the gas with the air
mixture and all this other stuff.

Speaker 3 (08:52):
And to be a boiler man, you got to be
all the trades in one.

Speaker 10 (08:55):
You gotta have electrical experience, you got to have plumbing experience,
you got to have carpet carpentry experience. All the trades
are one. That's why being a boiler man is special.
It's very special. And I just want to inspire the
youth that if you want to get into the trades,
being a boiler man.

Speaker 3 (09:09):
Is word of that because you got to have all
the trades under your belt. I actually applied.

Speaker 10 (09:14):
I actually applied for Streaming University as a professor because
I want to because I do content, that's what I do,
and I want to be able to, like I said,
inspire the youth. And right now, I just I'm honored
to have this opportunity, and I'm honored at the company
I'm with, supportive of it, and I just wanted to
give give this news to the world and all my
audience because my audience listens to you guys.

Speaker 6 (09:33):
I appreciate you.

Speaker 2 (09:34):
Yeah, that would be dope. If some of them screamers
decided to learn the trade. But that's they want to
be screamers because they don't want to exactly.

Speaker 1 (09:42):
But that's that's dope though.

Speaker 12 (09:43):
So if you need hot wood and you in New
York City, called Boilerman.

Speaker 1 (09:46):
Men, men, men, men, get it off your chest eight
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Now.

Speaker 1 (09:52):
It's the Breakfast Club, Go Morning. Everybody is DJ n V,
Jess Hilarious, Charlamage and the guy. We are the Breakfast Club.
If you're just joining us, we open up the phone
lines eight hundred and five eighty five one five one.
I guess the question we're asking, can men be gold diggers? Now,
this conversation comes from me and who's doing front page
news and saying that a new study is showing that
more and more men are dating for money, I mean broke, yeah, yeah.

Speaker 2 (10:17):
And there's there's a huge difference between a gold digger
and a person who wants somebody financially well off. I
don't fault anyone for wanting someone who's financially well off.
But I'm also a person who's still believes people are
with folks because they actually loved them, you know what
I mean. But there's a between a gold digger and
just somebody who wants somebody who's financially well off.

Speaker 5 (10:34):
So the answer the question, can men be gold diggers?

Speaker 2 (10:36):
Yes, all of these men that's out here dating, you know,
these fat white women or these old these old you know.

Speaker 5 (10:43):
Seventy year old, eighty year old white women. You know
what I mean.

Speaker 1 (10:47):
They doing it for the check, They're doing it for
room and board. Yeah, I think it's crazy. I think
people have been doing it for a long time. More
and more people are doing it now, probably because of
the situation with the economy. But yeah, I think people can.
I don't think it's right because what is that What
is that relationship? Because it's built off of nothing. It's
built off of finances. Right, if if I lose my
job or I lose the finances, then.

Speaker 2 (11:07):
You out what's the transaction, and and that that old
person of that fat woman will just pay for somebody else.

Speaker 1 (11:13):
You did something for some chicken wings one time.

Speaker 5 (11:14):
I ain't do nothing, no goddamn chicken wing.

Speaker 1 (11:16):
Chicken wings is crazy. So you said that the lady
left chicken wings on your put the counter first of Allea.

Speaker 5 (11:21):
Okay, in much much, much, much younger years.

Speaker 2 (11:24):
When I was in my twenties, it was a forty something,
damn near fifty something. And yes, she gave me three
thousand dollars and some fried.

Speaker 1 (11:31):
Chicken wings in some twenties and a car and a
concert service. Respect your respect, that little pp hey man, Hey.

Speaker 2 (11:40):
Yeah, I made it feel I made her feel young
again when I was younger.

Speaker 1 (11:44):
Your ass. The chicken.

Speaker 2 (11:51):
I came up. I don't know about bath, you know
what I'm saying. One day I might tell that story.

Speaker 5 (11:56):
Maybe not.

Speaker 1 (11:56):
But she went in the paper town when she gave
it to you, unless.

Speaker 5 (11:59):
You put it in a bag.

Speaker 2 (11:59):
It was the ziplock bag, so the sandwich bag, so
the twinkies and the prochecken and the sandwich bag and
the three thousand dollars.

Speaker 1 (12:06):
And she was like, oh, and I got your car service.
She was older, like, well, there's a lot of people
on the line that want to discuss eight hundred five
eight five one oh five one. You didn't feel away like,
oh my gosh, thousand dollars between me some chicken wings.

Speaker 10 (12:22):
Man.

Speaker 1 (12:22):
She wanted him about the house. I don't know if
you realize that.

Speaker 2 (12:25):
Damn now and what want to be grind on Instagram?

Speaker 1 (12:32):
Hello? Is this?

Speaker 3 (12:34):
This is Courtney Cony.

Speaker 1 (12:37):
You calling them from Courtney?

Speaker 8 (12:38):
Good morning.

Speaker 4 (12:41):
I'm calling from Georgetown.

Speaker 5 (12:44):
A A four three. What's happening in Georgetown?

Speaker 1 (12:47):
So we talk about can men be gold bigg as Mama?

Speaker 13 (12:50):
Yes they can.

Speaker 7 (12:51):
So.

Speaker 9 (12:52):
I am thirty two years old and I am single
and dating. I've had several guys asked me for money.

Speaker 1 (13:00):
Did you give it to them?

Speaker 8 (13:02):
No, I am a single mother.

Speaker 4 (13:05):
I'm not giving them anything.

Speaker 9 (13:06):
And it was only within like several months of me
knowing them.

Speaker 1 (13:10):
But did they supply the penis?

Speaker 9 (13:12):
No, we're not.

Speaker 8 (13:13):
We're not doing that.

Speaker 5 (13:15):
What do you do for a living man? How do
you know you got money?

Speaker 4 (13:17):
I work at the doctor's office.

Speaker 9 (13:20):
I don't know why they assume that I would just
randomly send them money with us just knowing in each other.
That's weird, and I've heard it's very calming now for me.

Speaker 2 (13:30):
I mean, listen, times are hard out here. You know,
men gotta do what they gotta do, and times are.

Speaker 4 (13:34):
Hard for us too.

Speaker 14 (13:35):
That is why would we just send them random money?

Speaker 5 (13:37):
That is very true.

Speaker 1 (13:38):
He picked the wrong one. He probably should have picked
somebody who does make a little more that that would
have no problem giving it to them. That's what he
should have did that.

Speaker 9 (13:44):
Yeah, maybe, yeah, he needs to go pick the one
that's making that type of salary.

Speaker 5 (13:49):
Respectfully, how how much do you respectful?

Speaker 1 (13:51):
Boy o?

Speaker 6 (13:52):
God?

Speaker 1 (13:52):
Oh boy?

Speaker 14 (13:53):
How much.

Speaker 9 (13:56):
Like one sixty five?

Speaker 1 (13:58):
I toll you?

Speaker 9 (13:59):
I am fine.

Speaker 5 (14:03):
I don't know what.

Speaker 1 (14:03):
Ye that's not bad? Thank you, mama. That's not that bad.

Speaker 3 (14:06):
Hello?

Speaker 1 (14:07):
Who is.

Speaker 15 (14:11):
Who? Name?

Speaker 3 (14:12):
Steph?

Speaker 1 (14:13):
Steph from talk to us? What's your thoughts? Brother?

Speaker 3 (14:16):
Hold hold up?

Speaker 8 (14:17):
Drop the bomber my first time getting through.

Speaker 1 (14:20):
Let's not the bomb, that's not that's not clue bomb
warby sir. We don't even know.

Speaker 2 (14:23):
We don't know what you're saying yet, Sir, drop these
for me because that's my first time through.

Speaker 5 (14:28):
No, that's not cluth bomb warbing, sir.

Speaker 13 (14:30):
You go digger sir, No, no, no. But I believe
makeup egs bigger, especially in this this this this era
that we're living in.

Speaker 1 (14:41):
Yes.

Speaker 13 (14:42):
Uh, I feel like that's another reason why I'm aware
of people that ever started line. You know, I'm not
saying he was, but you know how he got bad?

Speaker 2 (14:52):
Absolutely or he was a dancer for Brittany. I think
they actually liked each other. I think that, you know,
a gold digger is a person who's literally strictly with
a person for financial gain and nothing else.

Speaker 12 (15:04):
Kevin was big playing with Brittany though, start get what
you're saying. But even they got married, but like he
just I ain't think they was married. What about j
Lo's dancing because jay Loo's dancer. It feels like he
was never gonna be a husband. He was just always gonna.

Speaker 6 (15:18):
Be Jaylo maryna dancer want her danswers no.

Speaker 1 (15:20):
But she was with the dancer at one time. Her
name married.

Speaker 5 (15:24):
Kevin and Brittany got married.

Speaker 1 (15:26):
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (15:26):
But first of all, if you got just talk about
jay Loo for second, if're getting with jay Loo, it
don't matter about no goddamn money.

Speaker 1 (15:33):
That's jay Loo. That's she's beautiful, the money. Hello, who's this?

Speaker 4 (15:42):
Hello?

Speaker 2 (15:42):
Good morning all the rocking rock star and heard from.

Speaker 1 (15:46):
You in a minute.

Speaker 5 (15:47):
I mean, I see you on.

Speaker 16 (15:48):
Instagram around how y'all doing, Good morning Charlotte.

Speaker 1 (15:51):
Just what's up y'all? Talk to us? What's your thoughts?

Speaker 2 (15:55):
You don't know nothing about no men being gold because
you're a whole stud hold on, but let me tell.

Speaker 4 (16:00):
Y'all something real quick. Medy can absolutely be stud And
I'm gonna tell y'all why.

Speaker 17 (16:05):
Men asked me all the time to.

Speaker 4 (16:08):
Hook him up with women, specifically women that have money,
no one that they don't get it.

Speaker 2 (16:14):
Got you got you said, I was confused.

Speaker 4 (16:21):
That's a matter of stop, y'all. Let me tell y'all.
Unswer right, shut up to Aunt Justine. I saw just
and her husband, Me and my cousin were standing next
to you in the in the front row.

Speaker 1 (16:33):
My cousin had on the all white Where where were
we Tyre's concert?

Speaker 4 (16:37):
The R and B concert?

Speaker 1 (16:39):
Yeah, yes, absolutely.

Speaker 16 (16:42):
So during the intermission, I'm going to the bathroom, this
dude stops me.

Speaker 7 (16:47):
He's like, yoa, this is hey.

Speaker 13 (16:48):
I'm having a good time.

Speaker 4 (16:49):
So I'm like, yeah, okay.

Speaker 17 (16:51):
He's like, yeah, sure, he paid for everything.

Speaker 4 (16:54):
I'm I'm only here because she she be paid for everything.

Speaker 16 (16:57):
So I'm like, okay, that's that's what stopped ying.

Speaker 4 (17:00):
Yah to mention absolutely the gold niggers, and I feel
like men be more gold niggas than the women.

Speaker 1 (17:06):
What was you doing in the men's bathroom talking to him? Though?

Speaker 4 (17:10):
No, no, she just I ain't say I was in
the men's bathroom.

Speaker 1 (17:12):
She was on her way to the bathroom. You just
her she was in the bathroom.

Speaker 6 (17:19):
Like that.

Speaker 1 (17:19):
You'll stand up. You think you'd be walking around with
your scrabbling.

Speaker 4 (17:26):
I'm not I'm not one of those.

Speaker 13 (17:28):
I'm not one of those clown though.

Speaker 12 (17:30):
He is a clown, all right, But that nigga was
a clown because he didn't even know her, and he
just straight up told her that out.

Speaker 1 (17:37):
Of know it's two dudes talking like he felt.

Speaker 5 (17:40):
Like, you know what, I wish you didn't hang up
on her.

Speaker 2 (17:44):
I guarantee you she looked at them and they probably
looked like a couple that don't need to be together.

Speaker 1 (17:49):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (17:50):
It's always you can always tell you always it's usually
a fat white girl, okay with a with a pretty
decent looking black guy.

Speaker 5 (18:00):
What's going on that?

Speaker 2 (18:01):
A little white woman, like really older, like seventy something, yo,
you know what, you know, with a younger black.

Speaker 1 (18:06):
Man and you're like, what the hell is going on him?

Speaker 12 (18:08):
It was definitely a little bit of everybody in that
show too, like the bus running everywhere, you know what,
because you tell at the comedy show sitting in front row.

Speaker 1 (18:16):
There was a younger brother. He looked like he was
like twenty four to twenty five, and he had like
a seventy sixty five year old white woman and it
just didn't look right to the toy that we put
him on the screen and was like, what's something he said?
He was like, Yo, this is my sugar mom. He
was like, she takes care of me and I take
care of her.

Speaker 5 (18:31):
You see what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (18:32):
And he said that clearly, but she was right.

Speaker 12 (18:34):
There's a lot of them little couples in the front
on VIPC, like right there at the front of the stage, and.

Speaker 5 (18:41):
You're gonna see a lot more of that. Man, Grand
Theft Auto is coming out this year.

Speaker 2 (18:46):
There's a lot of these concert tickets like these young
boys got young boys trying to come up.

Speaker 1 (18:50):
Man, if you're just joining us, we're talking about can
guys be gold diggers?

Speaker 11 (18:55):
Right?

Speaker 1 (18:55):
That means guys dating for money, not for love for money,
because it's so effed up out there.

Speaker 2 (18:59):
Have you ever a look up the definition of what
a gold digger is or do we just know what
it is? Because I looked it up this morning and
I just thought it was interesting a person typically described
as in popular culture as a woman who forms romantic
relationships with a wealthy person, usually a man, solely for money.
Gifts are financial gain rather than affection. Men can absolutely

(19:21):
be gold diggers. And as I've been saying all morning,
you see them all the time, especially those fat white
women that be with them young you know, black brothers sometimes,
you know, even grown black brothers. Are the older white
women with the younger black brothers.

Speaker 1 (19:37):
It's get these guys. This is getting bad out there.
People need to pay their bills, they need to pay
their mortgage, they need to pay there to eat all
those six coming out this fall. Bro talk about the guys.

Speaker 12 (19:48):
It's a whole bunch of guys that liked the handicapped
girls too.

Speaker 1 (19:53):
I have never seen that. I ain't never seen they
get a check for.

Speaker 2 (19:56):
Real that you did that? You did you dated a
handicap guy. I don't try to put that on though, but.

Speaker 1 (20:03):
You know they do.

Speaker 6 (20:05):
Yo.

Speaker 1 (20:06):
But do you think it'll ever get bad with people?
Be like, you know what, I'm just gonna be gay
for money, like you know what I mean? Like you
did that in the nineties and not now because everybody
know now I didn't do that. I didn't do that.

Speaker 5 (20:17):
You know what you talking?

Speaker 15 (20:19):
Hello?

Speaker 1 (20:20):
Who's this?

Speaker 9 (20:22):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (20:23):
Man? Made he feel so good?

Speaker 5 (20:27):
Remembered this.

Speaker 1 (20:28):
Hello, who's this? Chuck?

Speaker 8 (20:29):
Helt me man, It's Chuck from Detroit.

Speaker 1 (20:31):
Man, Chuck. Now behind the sugar mamas. You a gold digger, Chuck?

Speaker 11 (20:35):
I was down a gold digging man. I just like
sugar mamas. Man, Since they changed the rate of paying
and it's equal for a woman, why not. I've been
pumping in money for years, the woman, taking the.

Speaker 1 (20:44):
Woman on the trips for what?

Speaker 3 (20:46):
But it's just to change up and get something else.

Speaker 8 (20:48):
So sugar, I got a sugar.

Speaker 11 (20:50):
Mama, not gold digging. I don't think I say gold digging.
I think gold digging is somebody just looking for money?

Speaker 5 (20:56):
Are you?

Speaker 1 (20:56):
That's what? That's what you do? You like your sugar mama?

Speaker 5 (21:00):
Do you actually like her? Do you have feelings for her?

Speaker 8 (21:02):
I actually do?

Speaker 6 (21:03):
Okay?

Speaker 1 (21:03):
Okay?

Speaker 5 (21:03):
How old is she?

Speaker 8 (21:04):
I'm thirty, I'm sorry, I'm forty one.

Speaker 5 (21:06):
How old is she?

Speaker 7 (21:08):
Fifty seven?

Speaker 5 (21:09):
Fifty seven? Okay?

Speaker 1 (21:10):
Yeah, yeah, you out here, you're out here.

Speaker 5 (21:11):
With the older woman for sure.

Speaker 1 (21:13):
What's the what's the what's the time?

Speaker 12 (21:14):
Man?

Speaker 1 (21:14):
Man? Does she but does she look good though?

Speaker 8 (21:17):
No, she together.

Speaker 1 (21:22):
What's the biggest thing she brought you?

Speaker 11 (21:23):
By she's about to put money in herself to get
her body done.

Speaker 3 (21:26):
I ain't you know all that?

Speaker 2 (21:27):
No, tell tell tell her keep that old school Chevy
the way it is. Man, What's what's the biggest thing
she bought you?

Speaker 10 (21:33):
Brother?

Speaker 1 (21:33):
What's the biggest thing she brought you? Chuck?

Speaker 11 (21:35):
Uh hey, vacations Jamaica, Bahamas and uh pairents bro.

Speaker 1 (21:41):
You seeing in the Caribbean, you see it all the time,
you do.

Speaker 2 (21:44):
That's what That's what the young boys trying to go
duck off with the older sugar mama is Is she white?

Speaker 1 (21:50):
Oh?

Speaker 5 (21:50):
You a legend?

Speaker 2 (21:52):
No, because when you fifty seven year old black woman
is that's that's amazing.

Speaker 1 (21:56):
That's what I know. She still looks good. Back gonna
curt baby, See, yeah.

Speaker 5 (22:02):
This is different. I'm not mad at you because you
said you like her too, so I can't say that.

Speaker 6 (22:05):
You gotta own it though.

Speaker 1 (22:06):
He is a gold digging. He's a gold digging. Yeah
they do.

Speaker 13 (22:11):
If you like her about the gall.

Speaker 1 (22:13):
No, but look this is how you know.

Speaker 12 (22:15):
Look, look if all that went away, right, she lost whatever,
all the money said she wasn't.

Speaker 5 (22:18):
Able to do for you anymore?

Speaker 1 (22:19):
Would you still like her? Would you be with him?

Speaker 11 (22:21):
Just like the same thing with a man, things will
change you feel me all his money and could provise
the same way.

Speaker 1 (22:31):
Hello, who's this? Get the body done for him? And
all that?

Speaker 4 (22:35):
This morning to all of you. I am the Selle. Hello,
beautiful people.

Speaker 1 (22:40):
Miche Michelle. We talked about gold.

Speaker 4 (22:43):
Diggings, opportunities or gold diggers, right correct?

Speaker 1 (22:46):
Man?

Speaker 4 (22:46):
As women in this day and age, and y'all I'm five,
you have to really pay attention to the spine and
they're there. So I saved The men were all my
cars in the shop. You never how to cast I
vatd the men that came over. I don't have any
money for this. Can you give me money for that?

(23:07):
And I'm not gonna say I never paid for anything,
because I absolutely did. You know, I'm one of those
independent women. You pay one day, I pay the next.
But when it gets to the point where that all
you're doing is paying, I'm over the potential.

Speaker 11 (23:22):
Men.

Speaker 4 (23:23):
Either we're going to be equally yoked and where you
need to be in life, or just keep walking. There's
no reason for us to even have anything to talk about.
I do have a twenty three year old daughter that
I'm trying to get to understand the same thing. She
is an amazing job, but the negro that she's with
is just, oh my god, like I don't know where

(23:44):
she founds them. I think she wants to the swamp
for something. You just have to be careful about what
you're doing. And I'm not going to bash the men
and be like all men is out looking for something.
But at my age, men are looking for koger and
at my daughter's age, men are looking for somebody to
take care of them. And it's just unfortunate. But this

(24:06):
is the day and age that we live in. Yeah,
so I've been there, done that, and I'm not going
back again. So he's men, but get you got two hands,
you got two feet, get your butt up and go
get a job and work for it. On that note,
and I did my amazing son and shout out real quick.
He's about to be a senior next year. His name

(24:28):
is Christopher Beckett. He goes to Kip High School in
Saint Louis, Missouri, And y'all, when I tell you, this
young man is just nothing short of amazing. My son
is just amazing, four point two gpa, amazing, come out
on top of that job. He is a timpting. So

(24:49):
if you're hearing me, do not let nobody tell you
what your baby can't do. Because my son since elementary
all he's ever had his age, he's super smart. He
knows what he wants and writs, and y'all, I'm just
a proud right now.

Speaker 1 (25:04):
Congratulations you raising legend.

Speaker 4 (25:08):
Congratulations mama, thank you, and I appreciate all of you.
Then you're doing what you're doing. We need you and
we need your boy.

Speaker 5 (25:15):
Thank you so much. What's the moral of the story, guys,
or the moral of the story?

Speaker 2 (25:19):
This, this whole conversation reminds me of this quote that
that I always hear, and it's like we were made
to love people and use things. What the reason the
world is in chaos is because things are being loved
and people are being used. So you remember that this
morning when you tonguekissing your fat white woman, dam all,
your seventy year old white sugar mama, Young black men.

Speaker 1 (25:40):
All right, Well, the breakfast Club, good morning, j MV
jes hilarious, Charlamagne the God. We are the Breakfast Club.
Law on the roastes here as well. We got special
guests in the building. Her new book is out right
now Live your promise. Ladies and gentlemen, Doctor Cheyenne Briant,
welcome back.

Speaker 6 (25:56):
Listens back to stuff, fam. I love I love being here.
I'd see seeing you out at the Diddy Trial, seeing
you out at the Boosy gz up. Let me tell
you there was music playing and then there was music playing.

Speaker 1 (26:10):
Can you tell to people he really be DJing?

Speaker 6 (26:12):
No?

Speaker 18 (26:12):
No, I go out when he go plaices. I go
because I always have a good time. But they be
trying to play with him up here, like he don't
be doing what he's doing.

Speaker 6 (26:18):
Ivy did I not come behind that stage to say, listen,
the entire party concert was jumping because he was on
fire at the DJO. I looked like, who is that?
And I was like, ah, DJ.

Speaker 1 (26:33):
I think you need a new name, right you doctor
Shy and Brian here, but you need like a shy shot.
But she was shot shot that weekend. No, no, you
don't understand every Boosy verse and record she knew from head.

Speaker 6 (26:44):
Talking too much.

Speaker 1 (26:45):
Every Jesus every you have to stay. Don't just start
off there right, So you know I'm the realistic, Like
I'm the real doctor in here, You're already.

Speaker 6 (27:00):
That's why you got to have everybody sign of ndia.
You know, it's kind of hybrid. I gotta be able
to have a good time. I gotta be able to
be relatable to people.

Speaker 18 (27:11):
Why don't people be mad when you are out having
a good time? Because that made me think of when
you went to Jz's concert and it was a whole
discourse about your outfit at the concert.

Speaker 6 (27:19):
So, Jez, they weren't mad because the doc was having
a good time. They were mad because of what I wore.
It was black tied to me, it wasn't black tied
to some other people. And you know, this is the thing.
I have agency over a couple of things. One of
those happened to be me and what I wear. And
so I'm gonna always wear what I want to wear.
And again, you know, my client, my doc squad, my

(27:43):
fan base, those are my people, Those are my village.
My goal is not to sit up here and try
to convince folks who have already made up their mind
to either misunderstand me or dislike me, to like me.
I will spend my entire life having to continuously convince
them to like understand. And that's just a responsibility that
I'm not going to take on. I don't think anybody

(28:04):
should do that. We all have our village and our
job is to cater, to, love and nurture our village.
Once you start going outside of that, then you have
to spend your whole life trying to make sure these
people continuously like you, and then you live in dogma,
and dogma would eat your ass up alive. And it's
just not worth it. It's just it's a bill that
you don't want to ever have to pay.

Speaker 1 (28:25):
Does it bother you at all? Which part the way
do people attack you? Because you get attacked.

Speaker 6 (28:31):
A lot, It doesn't bother me. It comes with the territory.
And I think that any of us who are either
in the industry and media, a celebrity who has a
certain level of fame, or even just came from the
inner city right and knows what it is to be
an attractive woman in the hood. In the inner city,
you get a lot of rhetoric, and you understand that

(28:52):
the outside chatter is a part of being successful. And
then I said this with humility, but to truth, and
you add on beauty, you add on being ourticulated or educated,
and you know, beating a lot of the statistics and
the odds that come from being an inner city. You know,
little girl boy, it comes with the territory. So I
always say that, you know, Jesus served the church, died

(29:15):
for the church, and the church Judas his disciple, set
him up, the people he loved and he serves set
him up to be crucified. So why do we personalize
when people I eat our disciples, our folks who are
never our disciples, and our people have an issue with us,
try to take us down or set us up for failure.
That is a part of being great. That is a

(29:37):
part of people witnessing you be in your lane and
do what you do and them saying I either don't
have the capacity to do so I would love to
do it. And what I've learned, y'all is that people
don't always want to occupy your space. They want your territory.
And if you understand that, then you occupy the territory

(29:58):
that God has given you. Because no one can take
what God has given. You can't miss what's yours. And
if your faith, which is an action where stands on that?
Then what are you personalizing when people have an issue
with you? One number two, people literally pay for the
kind of Internet attention that I get. They create storylines
for the headlines, and the blog attention and the virility

(30:22):
that I get. I don't pay for any of it.
I just show up and be me and so no,
it doesn't bother me. What I will say is there's
times where doctor Brian has to check Chyanne on some
of my clapbacks, cause some of my clapbacks be like
you know, well your mama and I said, you can't
say that, But then I'm like, you can't, but I'm like, don't.

(30:42):
So it has stretched my bandwidth. It has really shown
me how emotionally intelligent I am. And it also has
shown me where I have some growth in the emotional
maturity space. When I'm thinking of clapping back or or
or saying something that could really gut people.

Speaker 1 (31:02):
A lot of the backlash come from people in your field,
right among other doctors, therapists, life coaches. And what I
say is they say, the reason that you don't get
questioned or tested as much is because of your quote
unquote looks.

Speaker 6 (31:15):
You know what Ivy. I said this last time I
was on you might be my alter ego, brother, because
some of the stuff you say is just right up
the alley of what needs to be addressed. So there's
pretty privilege, and I've learned that there's pretty punishment. And
I didn't really understand that term until I got into
my field. And I want to say this, I didn't
get it. I've been in my field for eighteen years.

(31:37):
I didn't get into this field to become famous, to
become a celebrity. I got in this field because I
was a little girl from the inner city who was
tenations determined to make it out. And I had a
lot of broken pieces in abandonment. And when God provided
me tools that helped me take my broken pieces and
make peace from it, go from my wilderness into my
promised land, which I talk about in my book, Live
Your Promise, I thought, wait a minute, I got to

(31:59):
make sure I give everybody to come in contact with
these principles because everyone deserves that freedom and that healing
that I'm experiencing what I call God's peace, all right,
And so with that, people got a whiff of it,
and you know, the fam base, the folks made me famous,
made me a celebrity. I did not grow up and say, hey,

(32:20):
I want to just listen. I'm a good looking woman.
I've had access to the industry for my entire life.
If I wanted to be famous, I would have went
maybe the actress route or the modeling route. Easy call
for me. It would have been so easy. I've never
had an agent, I've never had a manager. So what
I'm saying is this came to me and I had
to continuously remind people. I'm in a field where I

(32:44):
am taking on people's luggage, I am unpacking it, and
I am helping them process through their stuff so they
can have a better quality of life, they can have
mental health, and they can actually have tool to sustain
their well being. So none of that. No, no one
goes to college and gets multiple degrees to say I
want to be famous. Now do I love it here?

Speaker 15 (33:06):
Yeah?

Speaker 6 (33:06):
I love it. I'm grateful for it. I appreciate it.
And the other thing is, you know, I created my
own lane as a psychology X for life coach. So
when people see that, they went into a group that
wasn't a lane. They just fell into being a part
of a group and they're looking at this other woman
who they're like, wait a minute, you know she created

(33:27):
her own lane and she's totally killing it. It's like, Yo,
there's only room for me in the lane that I created.
And I would like if y'all put your blinker on
when you're trying to get over, because a lot of
times they're trying to just get over in my lane.
It's like, what doesn't work? Like that? If folks would
concentrate on either asking, buying books, looking at my videos,

(33:48):
booking a session to say, doc, how did you do it?
I'm not a gatekeeper. I love putting people on the
quickest way to walk this through serving people. I'm in
a service position as a psychologist for life coach. I
am serving people all day long. As president of NAACP,
the biggest civil rights organization in Los Angeles for fourteen years.

(34:08):
That is a service position. We don't get paid to
run a civil rights organization. That is volunteer work I've
done for fourteen years. And so if folks would focus on, doc,
how did you create your own lane? I would give
them the tools like I'm doing in my book, live
your promise about how I did it, how I went

(34:30):
from the hood to the hills. Was it hard? Yeah?
Is it possible? Absolutely? Am I the only one that
can do it?

Speaker 1 (34:36):
Hell?

Speaker 11 (34:36):
No?

Speaker 6 (34:37):
The tools I use, if you apply it, you would
get the same result, just like baking a cake.

Speaker 1 (34:42):
Thing I see online is she doesn't do this under
her license. She's not a quote unquote real doctor. She
has an honorary degree. She didn't earn it. So let's
talk about what you do as far as being a
life coach and a doctor. Do you have a license
a for what you do?

Speaker 12 (35:00):
So?

Speaker 1 (35:00):
What is a license needed?

Speaker 6 (35:01):
I love that what I do a license is not required.
Number two. When I was in my undergrad which is
a degree in psychology, My master's is a degree in marriage,
Family and Child therapy. My doctorate is in counseling psychology.
Those are all academic. I have four academic degrees. The
other one is in Pan African studies. There's two honorary doctorates.

(35:22):
One is in behavioral science.

Speaker 1 (35:23):
So you have an earned doctorate.

Speaker 6 (35:24):
Yes, and the other ones is in humanitaris. Honorary doctorates
are to praise you and give you your flowers for
your body of work. Okay, they're not academic, but it
shows your body of work is effective enough for them
to honor you with an honorary doctorate. Now, going back
when I said I worked under a license, see all
of this is terminology. The people would open up their

(35:46):
ears and do what school teaches therapists to do. I'm
not a therapist, but the group of licensed professionals who
have an issue with this, they teach you all something
called active listening. None of y'all seem to be actively listening.
Working under a license means I'm working under a supervisor's license.

(36:08):
If anyone went to school for therapy, psychiatrists, psychologists, you
have to accumulate practicum. You have to accumulate hours before
you can graduate. It's not an option. So I accumulated
thousands of hours underneath the supervisor's license working as a marriage,

(36:29):
family and child therapists. So an MFT is what I
was not, an l MFT. LMFT is licensed marriage and
Family Therapists. MFT is marriage and family therapists. As I
worked under that license, I did diagnose, I did treatment plans,
and I seen clients regularly. My goal was never ever

(36:50):
to obtain licensing. Ever, I did not go to college
and say I want to become a licensed therapist. Let
me put disclaimer out there. A licensed therapist, there's nothing
wrong with that. There are absolutely effective, amazing therapists, counselor psychiatrists, psychologists,
and life coaches, absolutely amazing. It's all subjective. What works

(37:13):
for where you are in your life, what works best
for the season you're in, What is it that you need,
and what clinician or coach is best fit for what
you have going on the season you're in, and whose
tools and principles will most be effective for where you're
trying to be and for your healing. That's what it
boils down to. Neither is better. One's license and one's not.

(37:35):
For me, I have all of the training, and I
have the academia, and I have the education. I'm gonna
say it one last time, i had zero desire to
ever become licensed. As a young girl. I've always created
my own lane. I'm a destructor, y'all can't see that
by now. I've always been the woman that said, Hey,
if everyone's doing left, then I want to go create right.

(37:58):
If everyone's doing black, I want to go create white.
I'm doing it now. It worked for me, so my
goal was to be able to create a huge platform
and be able to heal people, bless people at a
large level. Not to be licensed or bill insurance, diagnosed,
or treat or have patients. I don't do or have

(38:19):
any of those. I provide effective tools, principles, and I
have clients and I have sessions, and that is exactly
what I do.

Speaker 18 (38:27):
Why did you start off not wanting to be licensed
where most people would be licensed in it. I have
friends who've gotten license, have experienced some things with what
you have to do want your license, and have said
I'm okay with not renewing, you're not going forward or whatever.

Speaker 6 (38:38):
Right, but wait, say that again, I'll run that back.

Speaker 18 (38:40):
So I have friends who've been licensed that have said,
you know what, I'd rather do it the other way
because their battle with insurances and how they're paid is
a conversation. But most people start off wanting to be licensed.
Why did you start off not wanting to be licensed?

Speaker 6 (38:53):
Because I knew that it would create barriers for me
in the way that I want to be able to
approach my clients. I knew that. For example, when I
was working under a license, a supervision license as an MFT,
not an LMFT, I had a client that came in

(39:15):
a young woman who experienced sexual abuse, and because I'm
working under a license, I had to make sure that
I followed those licenser ethics and laws in the sense
of not confidentiality. I do that now as a life
coach and not as boundaries. But there were moments where

(39:35):
she needed a hug because she was having a lot
of triggers and she was experiencing a lot of her
sexual abuse in a way that she needed to be supported.
And of course I asked, you know, is it okay
if I hug you in this moment? Is that okay?
I would ask my clients now, and she said, I'm

(39:56):
not ready for that hug. No problem. A few months
when I and I asked her again, Hey, you know,
is it okay if I hug you? Was our last
session we were actually ending our term together, and she
was like, yeah, like I'm actually ready for that hug. Now,
as a licensed clinician, you are taught in school ethically

(40:18):
that you do not hug embrace your clients at all.
If y'all have ever experienced therapy I have, that's something
that's a no no. It's just something you don't do
unless she of course, acts, but it's a very very
thin line. My approach as a life coach. I'm very loving,
I'm very nurturing. I hug, I say I love you,
have a good day at the end of our sessions.

(40:38):
And those small things that I'm able to do as
a life coach have been life changing for my clients.
I've had clients after giving them a hug, stay in
my office for twenty more minutes just crying and bond
their eyes out, saying, you have no idea how much
I needed that hug. Doc. I've had clients that I've
said I love you, I'm proud of you, website. My mother,
my father has never said those words to me, and

(41:01):
that has been the catalyst to their healing. Some folks
don't need to just come and just talk. Some people do.
Some people that talk therapy is their breakthrough, and I
completely advocate for that if that's what you need. For
some people, they do just need to be nurtured and
love through their pain. Some folks trauma has completely broken
them and has callous them to where only love is

(41:24):
what can break down those barriers of callous of their
heart being hardened because they've never experienced that type of
nurturing and love, and so again, everybody has different things
that they need. It's about us not focusing on who
is better or worse, or titled or not titled. It's
how can we serve the people that we all are

(41:46):
collectively trying to make sure it gets tools, gets healing,
gets therapy. If you're a therapist, gets coaching, if you're
a coach, how can we make sure those people get
what they need? And let's take the focus away from
the practitioners. Are the coaches? Are you effective? Are you
changing and healing lives? If so, run those plays. If not,

(42:06):
get more training, get more practice, or get up under
somebody who can teach you how to do it effectively.
Because really, at the end of the day, that's all
that we all are trying to do. And I want
people to know. I want them to choose what works
best for you, not just only as the patient or
the client, but as the clinician or the coach, which
lane works best for you. I don't want my hands

(42:27):
tied behind my back. I'll land on this. As a
little girl, I didn't need to just talk, y'all. I
needed love. I needed someone to see me. I needed
someone to hold my hand. I needed someone to pat
me on the back. I wanted someone to sit with me,
grab my little cheeks and say, listen, I love you
with your hurt self, with your pain self, which you
trauma self, with your abandoned self. I got you so

(42:48):
I can provide those same principles that work for me.
I'm able to do in my lane that I've created
and in my capacity, and I've been doing it eighteen
years effective and it has made me the most sout
out psychology expert life coach in the world today.

Speaker 1 (43:06):
What do you say to those people like you told
us what you studied and what you did in the
schooling that you got and the classes that you take.
But you know, when I said, I did a deep dive,
so people were like, well, how can she tell me
about my marriage when she hasn't been married, or how
can she tell me about my family or my kids
when she hasn't been through that even though you studied
it and you got your degree in it. So what
do you say to those people?

Speaker 6 (43:26):
So you's gonna cook the whole the whole interview, just
gonna cook all your.

Speaker 1 (43:29):
Questions because you know what, because.

Speaker 6 (43:32):
The town that we talked about this pre.

Speaker 1 (43:36):
But when I say with like you know, and I
looked at it wasn't like you know two years ago.
This is like a week ago to like Jesus Christ,
y'all trying to stomp out the shy shye Ryan like
my knicks did the Philly Sixers.

Speaker 6 (43:44):
But God, yeah, and we know the Philadelphia and we
know that's not gonna happen. You know, that's just not
gonna have. You can't have what God has given me.
It don't work like that. And you can't be in
my lane. You couldn't ride in this lane if I
gave it the opportunity to. So whatever star you wishing on, baby,
wish a little bigger, because that's not going to happen.
But your question was what do I think about people

(44:05):
who say I'm not married? So how can I teach folks?
So this is the thing. I do not teach people
how to be married. Marriage is between you and your partner.
That's your agreement, that's your covenant, and however you to
decide to create and curate your marriage. I can't teach
you that. What I teach people is how to get
out of their own way. Because happy healed people make
happy healed marriages. Miserable. Unhappy people create miserable marriages. Trauma

(44:31):
out folks create trauma bonds. Healed people create healed bonds.
I teach you, Envy, how do you process through your
trauma so you don't bleed on your wife? I teach you, Lauren,
how do you get out of your daddy issues and
not saying you have them? Your daddy issues, cuential issues? Okay,
well your dob, I'm on point today, out of your
daddy issues, right, so that you don't point and project

(44:51):
your pain onto this man who is loving the hell
out of you and doesn't deserve that. If I could
teach you how to heal those and how to get
out of your way with that, then I have helped
you become a better woman for yourself, which in return
is going to do what benefit the collective of that marriage.
No one can teach people how to be married. We
teach you how to get out of your own way

(45:12):
so you and your partner can be healthy. That's it,
Because no matter how much we teach you the proper
tools of marriage, if you are traumaed out and your
abandonment as sabotaging this thing, those tools will not be
effective until I help you get out of your way.

Speaker 18 (45:28):
There are another conversation in your community of work is
with people feel like you don't have the educational background
that they're like out here searching for or whatever. Right,
the biggest thing is is like, in a normal situation,
if because I've heard you say that you're dealing with
your own wounds of like being abandoned, and like, how
you will self sabotage in certain situations?

Speaker 6 (45:47):
How I have I used to? Yeah?

Speaker 18 (45:50):
Yeah, So a lot of people who are in your lane,
they're like, Okay, if I know that personally about myself,
I depend on my education to be able to put
that to the side and give you the tools. And
I know some people are upset because they're like, well,
they're trying to say you don't have the education, but
then you also have this your own issues in your
real life. So how are you separating the two of
one thing? Is their legend is not there?

Speaker 6 (46:11):
Yeah? I got you, I hear the question. So the
work that I've done on my abandonment that has created
a healing in me and really allowed me to identify
my pain pockets right so to where I don't sabotage anymore.
I'm able to have emotional intelligence, high functionality and communicate
with you even as a friend, to say, look, you

(46:31):
know how you show up in this relationship, Lauren. It's
triggering me. And in the past I would have sabotage,
are just left or not even had a conversation. But
I want to talk about this because I honor and
I love our friendship. And so when you do X,
Y and Z, this is how it makes me feel
identifying my emotion and these are the things that I
need from you as my best friend. Can you commit

(46:53):
to those things? That's a healing person who's talking. That
is where I am now, Okay. Sabotaging was something I
did as a young girl because I didn't even understand
that I was sabotaging, because I was still trying to
get in contact with my pain. I was still trying
to figure out how abandon it was impacting me. So
the tools that I used to be able to get
myself from self sabotaging to communicating and being high functioning

(47:16):
and having emotional intelligence and mending this relationship and letting
you know what I need, because now I have awareness
of who I am as a woman. I'm aware of
my pain pod because I'm aware of my triggers. Those
are all the tools that I teach. Those are all
the tools that are in my book, Live Your Promise.
And so I'm teaching folks how to get out of
their own way because there was a time where I

(47:37):
was in my way. And what made it challenging for
me to hear y'all, was I was in relationships with
people who enabled it because they weren't leaving me. They
were still putting rings on my finger, they were still
wanting to marry me, they were still loving the hell
out of me. And that enabling mechanism doesn't give folks
an excuse to still show up trauma out, to still

(47:57):
show up in your dysfunction. You still have a responsibilit
to love yourself enough, respect yourself enough to say, let
me identify what is going on in me, even though
this person's allowing it that I know is not effective
for the collective of the relationship or myself.

Speaker 18 (48:13):
You think that that was like them still coming back,
was that their ego of like, you know, men want
to be able to conquer it, to be able to
change and sit you down, and you know, all those
things that come with like when you're a strong or.

Speaker 1 (48:24):
Could it because he was just trying to love you
through your problems?

Speaker 18 (48:26):
I mean I was gonna say, or was it the opposite?
Like what did you discover more?

Speaker 6 (48:30):
You know what? I think that God just really blessed
me with amazing people in my life. Like I've had
some amazing parents, I've had amazing partners who I've been
in relationship with. I've had friends that just love me down.
And I'd like to say that that's a reflection of
who I am and how I love. I love to eve,
I love hard. I will love you out of your

(48:53):
I will love you out of your I'm like that
with my clients. And so I just had men who
they just had the bandwidth to love me through my
And that taught me that you can have all the tools,
you can have the best therapist, the best coach, but
if you don't have love, healing is nearly impossible. I

(49:15):
don't care what anyone says. You would be a highly
functioning transactional person with like an encyclopedia with all the
tools and the effectiveness and this is how it works
and the principles, but but internally homeless as hell because
you won't have the ability to attach to love to

(49:35):
securely attached, not anxiously attached or avoidantly attached. You would
be imagine that's homeless. And so you know, people just
really loved me through my trauma and that was amazing.
What were you doing because the first time they weren't
setting boundaries? You know, folks, some people bless you. Some

(49:57):
people fall so deep in love and be that they
start loving the person more than themselves, which puts any
clips up from them realizing that there needs to be
a boundary st right now.

Speaker 1 (50:09):
Don't most women want that? Don't most women want somebody
that's gonna love them damn more than themselves.

Speaker 6 (50:13):
Absolutely I do. I do, so let me speak for myself.
I do. But as that man is loving me more
than he loves himself, I want there to be a
healthy balance of him loving himself enough to say, baby,
I'm not gonna leave you, but this is right here.
There's gonna be a boundary put up here, because see,
I do respect myself. Even though I love you, I

(50:34):
love myself too as a man. And you just can't
talk to me like that because that emasculates me and
I'm vertical and who I am, and the reason why
you love me so much and the reason why I
can carry you is because of the fact that I
respect myself and that I'm vertical, and so you cannot
emasculate me. We need shrink me and expect me to

(50:56):
be big enough to carry you. That is a man
who has boundaries. He's not sabotage and he's not abandoning you.
But it takes a heel to woman to say, you
know what you're right, Let me work on this. Show
me how to work on this, Teach me what that
looks like, because maybe I've never done that, maybe I've
never had a father. It takes a certain woman, women

(51:19):
who don't have the bandwidth, the awareness to healing, to respect.
That kind of man should have enough respect for themself
to leave, not sabotage, but leave that relationship because she
will emasculate him. But a man who was functioning at
that high level won't tolerate that, at least for not long.

Speaker 1 (51:39):
There you have it, new book is out right. Now
live your promise. We appreciate you for joining us a
being so open. Anytime you see up here or out
and about, we appreciate love definitely.

Speaker 18 (51:49):
Do you know I'm gonna come here and bring the
truth and congratulations on the book.

Speaker 6 (51:52):
It's good. I appreciate it.

Speaker 1 (51:53):
Thank you, doctorne Bryant. She's coming back at this club.
Can your execution.

Speaker 6 (52:03):
On the Donkey of the day is something to gold
to you? The reason he gave me donkey other day?
And I deserve that.

Speaker 1 (52:09):
You need to know.

Speaker 6 (52:10):
You need to tell them, I am, you have tell.

Speaker 1 (52:13):
Them it's time for Donkey of the Day.

Speaker 7 (52:17):
It's a read.

Speaker 1 (52:18):
But you're so good at your charlamagne. He wants charlamage.

Speaker 7 (52:24):
Damn solomame?

Speaker 1 (52:25):
Who do you giving dusk the other day too? Now?

Speaker 2 (52:31):
Don't get to day for Wednesday, March twenty fifth, goes
to a Manhattan real estate attorney named Brian McKinnon.

Speaker 1 (52:36):
Now Brian is going to prison, ladies and gettlemen.

Speaker 2 (52:38):
Okay, that's why the New York Posts referred to him
as disgraced real estate attorney Brian McKenna. He's sixty two
years old and he's going to prison for up to
six years.

Speaker 1 (52:47):
Why what the man usually risk it all for that
boom boom?

Speaker 2 (52:51):
Okay, that kitty, that undercarriage, that cookie, that penis fly trap.

Speaker 1 (52:56):
Yes, Brian McKenna is being.

Speaker 2 (52:58):
Accused of stealing four point four million dollars intended for
COVID protective gear, allegedly the funder romance with his then girlfriend.
Oh the power of the pus. I can't spell the rest. Now,
there's so many things that discussed me about this story.
Number one, you stole all this money from people who
needed it. Okay, Folks needed that COVID protective gear during

(53:19):
COVID and you just stole it.

Speaker 1 (53:20):
Okay, you just stole the money for it, all right,
a man who didn't need it. Okay, you're a lawyer.

Speaker 2 (53:25):
You sixty two years old, Brian, So you were in
your fifties when you came up with this game.

Speaker 1 (53:29):
Because what COVID was, COVID was six years ago. Okay.

Speaker 2 (53:32):
I don't understand people who literally have the world in
their hands. You have worked hard to become an attorney
in this country. Okay, You, more than a lot of people,
understand the process of life.

Speaker 1 (53:43):
You understand life is a process. Okay.

Speaker 2 (53:45):
Becoming a lawyer takes at least seven years of full
time higher education in this country, all right.

Speaker 1 (53:51):
Four years for a bachelor's degree, three years of law school.

Speaker 2 (53:54):
You have to pass the bar exam. They get. They
got a baby bar and the big bar. My point is,
it's not, and nothing in life worth having ever is.
But for some reason, you thought you could cut the line.
You thought you could take a four point four million
dollars short cut, all to impress a woman who already
has her own money. He was dating the then CEO

(54:16):
of Aston's group. Her name was Donye Zina. Okay, that's
according to the New York Post. I don't know how
much she was making, but if she was the CEO
of a company, she was touching some paper. So I
don't know why you went out of your way, Brian,
to impress her. And I don't even like that phrase.
Fund the romance. You don't fund the romance. Romance happens

(54:37):
because of physical attraction, emotional connection, situational factors.

Speaker 1 (54:42):
Okay, y'all might just match energies, you like the.

Speaker 2 (54:44):
Same things, share the same beliefs, and let's not forget
the most important part, reciprocal liking.

Speaker 1 (54:51):
Okay, you like me, I like you. Romance can't be funded.

Speaker 2 (54:55):
Now, you can go buy some pink taco with some money,
all right, go to the bottle pull up in certain case,
he's at a brothel and you can purchase as much as.

Speaker 1 (55:02):
That Harry Potter as you want. But the funding a romance, No.

Speaker 2 (55:07):
I don't even want no romance. That's funny, because there's
no such thing. You can't buy a love fool. Now,
Brian was in the courtroom crying his ass off. I
want you to hear this again. Man, just listen.

Speaker 7 (55:16):
I understand, and.

Speaker 12 (55:25):
I really appreciated.

Speaker 15 (55:28):
But ultimately, sir, right, ultimately what, ultimately what he is
going to jail for six years.

Speaker 2 (55:39):
I respect that he's holding himself accountable. Okay, he said
he did these crimes. He said he deserves to go
to jail.

Speaker 3 (55:44):
Now.

Speaker 2 (55:45):
His defense lawyer Eric Franz, claimed to the court that
Brian had run into financial struggles and that he was
just trying to help his family with the stolen funds.
With assistant da Jonathan Boroff alleged that Brian stole the
money to spend on himself and his galpal doing hes
in they listen, neither one of those valid reasons. So
many people are having financial struggles, and sadly they don't
have the luxury of resorting the crime to get it.

Speaker 1 (56:07):
Okay, and you, Brian, were in.

Speaker 2 (56:09):
A privileged position already, not just the privileged position to
get money because you were a lawyer, you know what
I'm saying, but also a Manhattan real estate attorney should
be able to get his hands on some happy clamp
but nope, Instead you gotta guard your balloon. Not for
the next six years in somebody's prison. Okay, probably get
ass warts and for what. The moral of the story is,

(56:32):
life is a matter of choices, and every choice you
make makes you please give a sweet sounds of the Hamiltons.

Speaker 1 (56:38):
Oh no, you are the doggee, damn the dog gee.
Oh the day yee everybody, it's dj n V jess hilarious.
Charlamage the guy. We are the breakfast club nowphew, just

(57:00):
joining us. Charlemagne gave Donkey of the day the whole.

Speaker 2 (57:02):
There's a landlord in Westland, Michigan who owned the house,
got called over to do some repair, but decided to
bring some cheeks over and was smashing this young woman.
I don't even know if she was young, but smashing
the girl on the floor, and uh, he got recorded
by the house's ring camera or whatever it was.

Speaker 1 (57:19):
Right, So the question is eight hundred and five five one,
five to one. Is this against the law? That's what
you're asking, is this.

Speaker 2 (57:25):
They're saying that they don't know if it is against
the law. They're saying they don't know if he committed
a crime, because they said it's possible it could be
trust bathing, but it's probably more likely a civil issue
for violating.

Speaker 5 (57:35):
Portions of the lease a ringing.

Speaker 1 (57:37):
It wasn't really trustpassing because they invited him in to
fix something. No, it's his house, he owns the property. Yeah,
but I'm still leasing it from You just can't walk
in my house.

Speaker 5 (57:45):
I owned the property. Can you really trust bath on
something you own?

Speaker 1 (57:48):
Property you own from.

Speaker 12 (57:52):
Charlomagne?

Speaker 1 (57:54):
Yes, can't walk in somebody's house if I'm renting it,
if I'm leasing it.

Speaker 5 (57:57):
I don't know about that.

Speaker 1 (57:58):
You can't just walk in somebody out about he didn't
just walk in. First of all, he didn't just walk invited.

Speaker 2 (58:03):
He was invited to do repairs and he owns the property.

Speaker 1 (58:07):
Right, it's not because he was invited in.

Speaker 12 (58:11):
But what what about that girl that Yeah, like like
he just bought her in there and just started smashing.

Speaker 1 (58:18):
Her for an hour. That's crazy.

Speaker 6 (58:21):
And then it was probably all funky in there.

Speaker 5 (58:23):
When he came down, he said, that's what.

Speaker 2 (58:24):
That's what the jabon who owns the house said. He
you know, they had to do the for breeze and
all of that.

Speaker 1 (58:28):
Yeah, read, hour was a long time on the floor.
Your needs be hurting. But anyway, let's go to the
phone lines eight hundred five eight five one O five one?
Who because it what's your name?

Speaker 8 (58:43):
Ashley talked to us.

Speaker 1 (58:45):
Do you know who his landlord was?

Speaker 10 (58:47):
No?

Speaker 7 (58:47):
I don't.

Speaker 14 (58:49):
But the initial reaction that I had was that man
was cheating because why couldn't he just take the chick
to his house, his.

Speaker 1 (58:55):
Own house, that's right.

Speaker 14 (58:57):
So while he has to take her to somewhere else
as if all, babe, I'm working, I'm not to go
work on the resident house and you have a whole
lady in there and smashing her.

Speaker 5 (59:05):
Well, I think he was cheating too, but technically that
is his house too, though.

Speaker 7 (59:09):
Yeah right, I.

Speaker 1 (59:15):
Hello, who's this?

Speaker 10 (59:16):
What's up?

Speaker 3 (59:16):
What's up? Good morning?

Speaker 7 (59:17):
This?

Speaker 3 (59:17):
Now? What's good?

Speaker 1 (59:20):
Man?

Speaker 17 (59:20):
That that on that shub, But that happens all the time.
I got a famous friends from Miami, you know, entertainer
and you know, after the show you know, Groopy is
four five in the morning and a part of his
management team, you know what I mean. He was there
and the group people was there, and make a long
story short, he all property on South people somewhere. So

(59:42):
after the club, you know, early in the morning, and
you know, okay, let's go over here. So we're going
over here. So I'm looking at this type to do
his statue and the place we're going there, I'm like, damn,
what you doing over here? He said, Oh, I break
this out. This is my property dependants out of town.
So everybody went in, went inside. They then he locked up,
cleaned up, and walked out like nothing happened. But that

(01:00:02):
was back then when there wasn't too many cameras around
and stuff like that.

Speaker 10 (01:00:06):
Damn okay, yeah, I stood on the show.

Speaker 17 (01:00:09):
Have a flash forwarder, man, So what did you just
say he said.

Speaker 5 (01:00:13):
To gud Be taking people to other people's place.

Speaker 1 (01:00:14):
Yeah, oh okay, yeah, that's what he said.

Speaker 2 (01:00:16):
But that's that what happened here. This man owns this
house he's laying doesn't.

Speaker 1 (01:00:20):
Matter you rented out. Just because you own it and
you rented out, you're not supposed to be back in
this house. It's like Airbnb. If I rent your Airbnb,
you just can't pull up on me on Saturday. This
is normal behavior for him.

Speaker 12 (01:00:30):
He'd be smashing and cheating on his wife or girlfriend
and all of his properties.

Speaker 1 (01:00:35):
I bet Charlemagne gave donkey to day to who.

Speaker 2 (01:00:37):
There's a Michigan and uh, there's a land there's a
landlord in Westland, Michigan who was called over to a
house that he owns to do some repairs. He was
supposed to remove some dead birds, but he ended up
bringing the chick over and smashing, and the cameras in
the house, you know, got him on camera.

Speaker 1 (01:00:52):
All right, So we're asking eight hundred and five eight
five one oh five one is this criminal? I think
it has to be some type of criminal. You just
can't do what you one in my house.

Speaker 2 (01:01:00):
What they're saying is not because number one, he owns
the place. And then I shure if what he did
is illegal, because like I said, he owns the house,
and and uh, it's probably more of a civil issue
for violating portions of his least agreement.

Speaker 5 (01:01:13):
They're saying they don't even they don't even don't even
know if.

Speaker 1 (01:01:14):
It's trustpassing because it's his house.

Speaker 2 (01:01:17):
But what about the girl he got called ver well
and she ain't got nothing to do with it.

Speaker 1 (01:01:20):
She trustpasses he brought in there.

Speaker 2 (01:01:23):
Don't nobody cared about who. You can watch the video.
You see them legs up and they don't even care
who that is. It's all about the lands he went for.

Speaker 1 (01:01:28):
An Now that's a long time he built, Is he right? Yeah? Definitely?

Speaker 6 (01:01:32):
What fink?

Speaker 1 (01:01:33):
I ain't see his cheeks? They had it blurred.

Speaker 5 (01:01:35):
You want see the video?

Speaker 1 (01:01:36):
Yeah, I ain't see the video. Hello, who's this fil
what's up? Talk to us? What's your thoughts?

Speaker 8 (01:01:42):
Feel yo? Book buddy and the buddy in the road,
they don't You're wrong. What what's crazy is they don't
know what the crime is. I know what the crime is.
Crime crime is solicitation, question mark.

Speaker 4 (01:01:58):
He track old girl down to find out how much
he paid for that. He ain't having any like that.

Speaker 1 (01:02:03):
You think it was a prostitute. He just got wiggled in.

Speaker 2 (01:02:08):
How you figure he having his way? That man owned property.
That man got some money in his.

Speaker 3 (01:02:12):
Pocket exactly, that's how he got it.

Speaker 2 (01:02:16):
Yeah, but that don't mean it. He might be though,
You might be right, that might be prostitutions.

Speaker 8 (01:02:20):
Right, he feel like a little beat.

Speaker 1 (01:02:24):
Oh you've seen the video? Yeah, hold look seeing right there?

Speaker 5 (01:02:29):
Just look thank you?

Speaker 1 (01:02:31):
Brother? Look hello, who's.

Speaker 8 (01:02:33):
This breakfast the morning? It's Tony Up.

Speaker 1 (01:02:37):
He talked to us. What's your thoughts on? Hey?

Speaker 8 (01:02:39):
Look, obviously dudes like crazy and that's the cool and
and I'm not arguing that. All I need to know
is dead broke. But his bare ask of my furniture
because it still you got to replace that.

Speaker 1 (01:02:48):
Brother. Well, yeah, now he's in the furniture. He in
the furniture.

Speaker 2 (01:02:51):
But now now he was actually I don't know what
on the couch.

Speaker 1 (01:02:57):
My couch got crashed.

Speaker 8 (01:02:58):
Talking about dude built like the mute creature from the commercials.

Speaker 1 (01:03:02):
He is built like the music man.

Speaker 8 (01:03:03):
Nasty and sweaty, all over my furniture. Completely.

Speaker 1 (01:03:07):
I don't think. I don't think there's no problect to either.

Speaker 5 (01:03:08):
Because she had a bondit, she had a bonnet on.

Speaker 1 (01:03:10):
Oh my god. Yeah that's different. Now it might have
been a process with the bonnet.

Speaker 8 (01:03:16):
He's doing something. He's going outside of his house to
do it. Yeah, he might be hiding something.

Speaker 5 (01:03:20):
I'm gonna tell you what I.

Speaker 1 (01:03:22):
Could be.

Speaker 2 (01:03:23):
The more I put together these little context clues. I'm
figuring this out. She had a bonnet on. She must
live in that neighborhood. Yes, she live in that neighborhood
from before she know them.

Speaker 6 (01:03:34):
I'm telling you this is the first This think the
first time they got together.

Speaker 1 (01:03:37):
So he probably married.

Speaker 8 (01:03:39):
Knock to my house and knockdown the old thing. I
don't care if you want to get off my couch
like that.

Speaker 2 (01:03:43):
I bet you he probably married, and she probably married.
He hit her up real quickly, like I'm over here
doing some repairs. She came out the house in.

Speaker 1 (01:03:48):
A bonnet real quickly.

Speaker 5 (01:03:50):
He tossed up.

Speaker 1 (01:03:52):
Hell, yo, that is so nasty. Damn all right, well,
thank you, brother, Yeah, will take some more calls. Eight
hundred and five five five When Charlamagne gave donkey of
the day uh to this landlord and he's we're trying
to figure out is a criminal? I think it's criminal.
You just can't be just doing whatever you want in
the house that I'm riding from you, especially if my
rent on time.

Speaker 2 (01:04:11):
I tell her, this landlord walk like he's down with
O P P. Bro Yes, other people's property for real,
Because you know what I'm saying. You walk in the
room Backstreet, arms out to the side, swinging, act like
it was his crib.

Speaker 1 (01:04:24):
He acts like it was Hello, who's this I need
I know where a back door needs to be installed.

Speaker 16 (01:04:40):
I'm thinking you're a little jealous of me and his relationships,
even though we don't even have a related But no,
technically that was crazy.

Speaker 1 (01:04:50):
Was crazy holding outside crazy. I'm jealous. I'm sorry we're
on the radio line, but we don't have relationship. Stay
ain't no.

Speaker 16 (01:05:03):
No, Charlemagne, no, just like yo, just like just saying
Charlamagne has j here.

Speaker 2 (01:05:09):
I think Charlamagne was like, yeah, you'd be pressure washing
Envy's deck.

Speaker 9 (01:05:15):
Guy.

Speaker 16 (01:05:18):
Very cool dude who just supports a black owned business.

Speaker 8 (01:05:23):
Stop doing that.

Speaker 1 (01:05:24):
He's working on your foundation. I ain't got nothing to
do with that, brother, Okay. Jealous, he's definitely jealous that
what you were saying.

Speaker 16 (01:05:37):
No, morally, I think it's very wrong, especially when you
built like that. You understand technically, I don't know if
I don't know if he can get in trouble, but
morally that is not right. You should not just be
slinging your meat wherever you want because you own own
the property.

Speaker 1 (01:05:54):
It doesn't Yeah, right, Yeah, that's the crazy part about
this story, the fact that he's built the way that
he's building. He was hitting it for an hour. I
still need to you need to see this.

Speaker 16 (01:06:04):
You should at least be a little second like I'm
on now what I mean.

Speaker 8 (01:06:09):
I guess morally you're wrong.

Speaker 16 (01:06:13):
I don't know if he can get.

Speaker 8 (01:06:14):
In trouble though.

Speaker 5 (01:06:17):
Everyone you'll have a good day. If he said come
over later, he want to want you to help him.

Speaker 4 (01:06:24):
Wait a minute, let me just make a point real quick,
and I'm making.

Speaker 8 (01:06:28):
In trouble for it.

Speaker 16 (01:06:30):
Stacey, you are trapped at each other's number, Me and him,
be just your straight business.

Speaker 1 (01:06:35):
That's what I'm talking about. I'm talking about. That's what
I'm talking about.

Speaker 5 (01:06:40):
It should just be business when you're a married man.

Speaker 1 (01:06:43):
Envy, No, he said business said you are y'all more personal,
right and drive?

Speaker 5 (01:06:50):
Actually for business.

Speaker 14 (01:06:51):
People be asking yo, people be asking to yo.

Speaker 3 (01:06:54):
You give me a contact with Charlavage.

Speaker 8 (01:06:55):
I'm like, you gotta call them radio. I don't got
their numbers.

Speaker 2 (01:06:58):
You God damn right, Stacy, I see you at the
cart show, Stacey, know you will.

Speaker 6 (01:07:05):
Sure will?

Speaker 1 (01:07:08):
I hate this play.

Speaker 2 (01:07:12):
Oh my goodness, it's damn the moiler story is landlords,
don't abuse your power.

Speaker 5 (01:07:18):
Police.

Speaker 1 (01:07:19):
That's all right. Well the breakfast clogan morning everybody is
DJ env just hilarious, Charlamagne, the gud we are the
breakfast club. Charlemagne. You got a positive note.

Speaker 2 (01:07:30):
Uh, ask for what you want people, Okay, that's the
positive note. Find the courage to ask for what you want.
Others have the right to tell you yes and no,
but you always have the right to ask. Likewise, everybody
has the right to ask you for what they want,
and you have the right to say yes and no.

Speaker 1 (01:07:47):
But just always find the courage to ask for what
you want. Have a breakfast club. You're finished for y'all done.