The Breakfast Club BEST OF - Jess & Rome, Ari Lennox Interview, Work Wife or Husband Topic, & The People’s Donkey

Best of 2026 -  Jess & Rome, Ari Lennox Interview, Work Wife or Husband Topic, & The People’s Donkey. Recorded 2026. 

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Woke up, Wake you up, wake wake that ass up.

Speaker 2 (00:03):
Program your alarm the power one oh five point one
on iHeartRadio.

Speaker 3 (00:08):
I'm telling, I'm telling what.

Speaker 2 (00:12):
Calling you if this is your time to get it
off your chest, whether you're mad or blessed. Eight hundred
and five eight five one oh five one. We want
to hear from you on the Breakfast Club.

Speaker 4 (00:21):
Hello, Hello, Hey, good morning, get it off your chest.

Speaker 5 (00:26):
Just my birthday today, so I just wanted to fall
in good morning as happy born day, happy born day,
where you call them from.

Speaker 6 (00:34):
I love you, guys.

Speaker 7 (00:35):
I love you guys, even though I before to happiness,
but I love you.

Speaker 8 (00:40):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (00:40):
Do you do you just you?

Speaker 9 (00:42):
Just?

Speaker 10 (00:42):
Do you deserve happiness?

Speaker 7 (00:43):
Now?

Speaker 10 (00:43):
I'm me here.

Speaker 3 (00:44):
What's going on in your life?

Speaker 6 (00:45):
Who?

Speaker 10 (00:45):
It's a birthday?

Speaker 8 (00:46):
I still hey.

Speaker 7 (00:47):
I'm going to say I was there for thirteen years,
and I love what he's doing for everybody. They really
don't appreciate it.

Speaker 6 (00:53):
My father is still there, my boy friend is there.

Speaker 7 (00:55):
So shout out.

Speaker 4 (00:57):
They will all be Oh is your your TIS worker?

Speaker 11 (01:00):
Yeah?

Speaker 7 (01:01):
I used to be thirteen years, but I work for
a different.

Speaker 3 (01:04):
Okay, that's dope.

Speaker 12 (01:05):
Let's love to all the TSA workers and hopefully they
can enjoy that that week that American dream is doing
for the TSA agent to give them a little stressfuliever
for with their family and stuff.

Speaker 4 (01:14):
I just think it's dope just to give back.

Speaker 3 (01:16):
What you got planning for your b day.

Speaker 7 (01:17):
I have a lot of things. I have a lady's
night playing my wife. They told me today, just come
home from work, gets dressed. I'm going to work because
I look my job.

Speaker 11 (01:25):
But you said come home from work, gets dressed to
be going out. That's all.

Speaker 3 (01:29):
You're going to work because you got your little work husband.
You won't see what you're gonna get you for your birthday.
That's why you're going to work.

Speaker 13 (01:33):
I love that she left her.

Speaker 3 (01:36):
You hate us a little, laugh little That's why I
say you don't deserve happiness. You see what I'm saying.

Speaker 7 (01:42):
That you don't say.

Speaker 10 (01:43):
Sorry, I don't know.

Speaker 3 (01:45):
Happy born day? Happy?

Speaker 10 (01:46):
I want you the best today.

Speaker 4 (01:48):
Enjoy your day.

Speaker 13 (01:49):
Absolutely, birthday.

Speaker 3 (01:52):
I'm gonna go and move back. Hello, who's this Ohio's dog? Long?

Speaker 14 (02:03):
All right? So this is what I wanted to get
off my chest today. So it's public law now that
if you had a child that's born in this country
last year, and if you have one that's born all
the way up to the year a date of December
thirty first, twenty twenty eight, there's one thousand dollars available

(02:24):
to that child through that parents filing of their income
tax or if you're an adoption foster care system, the
government takes care of before you and it goes into
an index fund that that child can claim at eighteen
years old to do with what they want. And the
reason why I'm bringing it up today is not just
because it's public law, but because this is our route

(02:45):
as African American to make the strongest case that we
can now to get government money for children that are
African American descent and are direct descendants of parents from
the slave trade. And I think we this out here
right now for people to really jump on it. Inside
the population of about three point five million babies that

(03:08):
were born in this country last year, it's about five
hundred thousand African American babies that were born last year
in this country. And inside that population is an unknown
population to me, but I know it's large of babies
that have parents who are parents of parents parents parents
that were slaves in this country. And it seems reasonable

(03:29):
to me that we can make this push to say, hey, yeah,
give them a thousand, but give our people an additional
four as a start for paying us back for this
slave trade. So they five thousand.

Speaker 13 (03:42):
You gave them the best name, tie dog Law.

Speaker 3 (03:44):
Yes, all right, I'm gonna be completely honest with you.

Speaker 4 (03:49):
Don't do it.

Speaker 3 (03:49):
Don't do it. It's Friday, Friday, and I will go
this morning and I'm meditated for ten minutes and y'all
don whound me back up.

Speaker 10 (03:56):
It's too much going on this morning. It's just too much.

Speaker 3 (03:58):
This is I get, but god, damn it too man,
I know this, get it off your chest, but Lord
have mercy.

Speaker 1 (04:03):
Hello, who's this?

Speaker 3 (04:04):
Yeah?

Speaker 15 (04:05):
This is one in short. Uh yeah, I really don't
have no comments or nothing. I'll just slight it on.
Fucking get a picture up off three of y'all together.
How you gonna do that? I mean, I'm just saying,
y'all send me one. You know, some fucking putting on.

Speaker 3 (04:19):
My man, tell you you sounds like you gotta do it.

Speaker 10 (04:21):
Go online.

Speaker 4 (04:22):
There's pictures with all the Google line. Just google it.

Speaker 9 (04:24):
You sound like biggie though, Okay, just google alright, that's
what's up.

Speaker 12 (04:28):
Think we appreciate you wanting us in your man cave though,
but you know you just google it a picture?

Speaker 16 (04:32):
Come up?

Speaker 15 (04:33):
Yeah, oh yes, sir, thank you appreciate it?

Speaker 13 (04:35):
Yes for last yes, yes, yes it is it is gooding?

Speaker 17 (04:38):
Thank you?

Speaker 3 (04:39):
Confused? All right, then let me see make sure. Yeah,
pictures of a shoot.

Speaker 12 (04:44):
Get it off your chest eight hundred five eighty five
one O five one.

Speaker 4 (04:47):
If you need to ben, hit us up now. It's
the Breakfast Club.

Speaker 3 (04:49):
Good morning, it's away.

Speaker 2 (04:51):
Is your time to get it off your chest? Wait up,
whether you're man or blessed.

Speaker 4 (04:56):
Time to get up and get something call up now
eight hundred one O five one.

Speaker 1 (05:01):
We want to hear from you on the Breakfast Club.

Speaker 17 (05:03):
Hello.

Speaker 9 (05:03):
Who is this DJ Envy? Just a Larry and Charlottevina God,
good morning. Now listen, I've been all righty listen listen.
They changed they changed my schedule, man, so it's off
for me to call y'all. Man, say, y'all know I
still got to get that paper your hurt? Yes, sir, listen, Congratulations, God,

(05:24):
bless y'all all, y'all interbut success, individual success and collectively. Man,
I've seen a lot of blessings been going on since
we last four and just make God continue to bless
y'all moving forward.

Speaker 13 (05:37):
Man, absolutely, thank you.

Speaker 17 (05:38):
I received that.

Speaker 9 (05:40):
Yes, yes, listen, y'all know how we do on the
Friday day. Just bard tized, Let's get it, I said, listen.
I told them, ain't no such thing as a quick
flip short cut to snatching that thing could get your
wick split, fashing out, not checking them side angles, get
your cornered off and stretching that rectangle. We chase paper
flow us later custlers leave for that, I'm repping the style.

(06:02):
Do it down. They should come next to bat fifties
and honey clubs. We double let in the bundles, quick
show them how to move in their pressures, except when
the rithmetic. We out in Vegas, walk in the strip,
go through the politics, wrap around, sweets and the cosmo.
What we're dealing with came a long way from me
packing bags and red hook to the ice that I
placed on my wife without a show book, simply the
greatest on far structure with patients. Tell them lames, they

(06:25):
mic is off and them paragraphs can use the maintenance.
I'm in the spaceship and the herd is sister statement,
pull up the mics, wrap me a slice, respect the basics.

Speaker 3 (06:33):
Oh, I got some balls.

Speaker 12 (06:37):
Let's do it, baby, alright, let's go now, you wrapped
the stock.

Speaker 4 (06:41):
The Knicks said bye bye New York.

Speaker 3 (06:44):
All day.

Speaker 4 (06:44):
We all stay and fly. Nicks won last night, and
Shawl is sick.

Speaker 12 (06:50):
The only thing that's gonna make him better is mine.

Speaker 3 (06:55):
All right, all right, Well, since you want to do
it like that, when you do it like this, all right,
all right? Envy used to be scared of the Knicks.
Now he now he throws lips to the Knicks. Handle
it like a real.

Speaker 1 (07:14):
Hey, y'all.

Speaker 3 (07:15):
Yeah, I have a good weekend y'all too.

Speaker 9 (07:19):
I appreciate y'all. Man, blessing to y'all and the family.
Y'all take care, all right, get it off your chest.

Speaker 12 (07:24):
Eight hundred five eighty five one O five one. If
you need to ben hit us up now. It's the
Breakfast Club. Good morning, Everybody's dj n V.

Speaker 4 (07:31):
Just hilarious, Charlamagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club.

Speaker 12 (07:34):
Now if you're just joining us, we're talking about a
call that called in yesterday. Don't get it off your chest.
She was a big stud and she was mad that
her girlfriend.

Speaker 10 (07:43):
How you said, don't disrespect?

Speaker 3 (07:45):
Like that's about He was a big stud. I know you,
a big stud like big stud energy, like big like
big stud energy, big energy, big energy.

Speaker 10 (07:54):
Okay, she was like a big d energy.

Speaker 3 (07:57):
Yeah, yeah, I give you sai. Yeah, big energy is
what you're saying. It was a big deal doo energy.

Speaker 11 (08:02):
Damn.

Speaker 3 (08:03):
I like that. I'm like, I like that, like big
vibrate the energy like that sound.

Speaker 10 (08:08):
Like somebody getting electric.

Speaker 1 (08:11):
Might as well say damn.

Speaker 3 (08:13):
If you want to see what you want to see?
Oh my god, you all gotta go.

Speaker 10 (08:19):
Yeah, play too much?

Speaker 4 (08:21):
All right, listen to the call.

Speaker 11 (08:22):
So I have a girlfriend I've been with for a
year and a half. We lived together. We got a cat,
you know, real.

Speaker 10 (08:28):
Life free cats in the house talk to us.

Speaker 11 (08:33):
So she's a nurse. She's telling me. A few months
ago she started getting close to some girl at work.
The girl is her work wife. I tell her to
knit it in the bus. She don't do it. Then
I go through her phone on Christmas Day, I see
her texting with the girl, and the girl's talking like
what you wearing? I can't wait to see you type today.

(08:56):
We had a big fight. She turned her location off
and she left the CRIS. I got her through her
ear pods. Wow, she has the shorty house.

Speaker 4 (09:07):
Yo, damn crazy.

Speaker 11 (09:08):
I pulled up to the bread. I checked him outside.
She said, you in the wrong place. I'm not here.
I knocked on the front door.

Speaker 6 (09:17):
I'm not and I'm like, no, y'll you know all right?

Speaker 12 (09:21):
So we're asking eight hundred five eight five one oh
five one? Do you mind if your significant other has
a house?

Speaker 4 (09:28):
Said the house work husband, and I want.

Speaker 3 (09:32):
The record to show. But a normal show would have
just said, do you mind if your significant other has
a work wife or work husband? Actually the stud lesbian
aspect of it has.

Speaker 10 (09:40):
Nothing to do with any but that's what the conversations.
Nothing to do with it.

Speaker 1 (09:46):
But you really like that interesting story?

Speaker 10 (09:49):
What's an interesting story?

Speaker 12 (09:50):
But that's where the call came from. She said she
doesn't want her wife to have her girlfriend has that.

Speaker 1 (09:55):
Let's talk with you.

Speaker 4 (09:56):
Would you mind if Chris.

Speaker 18 (09:57):
Had a work wife at absolutely with would mind? Like,
I don't think the label is going too far when
you say wife and husband. Why you just can't have
a work friend, you know what I'm saying, or a
coworker that you're really cool with Like why does it
have to be why does the term have to be
work wife's work husband?

Speaker 4 (10:14):
I don't think it's appropriate.

Speaker 18 (10:16):
I don't like it sometimes now now, a lot of
times it is platonic, you know what I mean.

Speaker 4 (10:19):
But a lot of times it's not right.

Speaker 1 (10:22):
So and you never know, I want you either.

Speaker 4 (10:25):
We all friends, Yeah, yeah, like nah, yeah, I don't
like it.

Speaker 10 (10:31):
I don't like the term.

Speaker 3 (10:32):
Like like I said, like, you shouldn't be calling nobody
else your husband. You shouldn't be calling nobody else your wife.
You know, those are like sacred titles, you know what
I mean, those the titles that you earn, and you
know you can to be calling nobody your work husband
work wife.

Speaker 10 (10:45):
And to me, like it applies other connotations.

Speaker 3 (10:48):
Yes, you know what I'm saying, Like why does that
got to be your work husband a work wife?

Speaker 17 (10:52):
You know what I mean?

Speaker 3 (10:53):
I don't like that.

Speaker 10 (10:54):
I don't like the term. That was funny me and
m me do it, Yeah, like that's my work husband.
But that's a joke exactly.

Speaker 1 (11:01):
Wives know each other, you know, y'all know too much.

Speaker 4 (11:06):
He played with me outside we outside of where he's
still playing. I don't want to play.

Speaker 3 (11:10):
Because the screechs know the streets. Not the streets.

Speaker 10 (11:14):
The screechs know you my work bottom. You're actually my
work bottom, bitch. That's the way I look at what.

Speaker 9 (11:22):
You go to.

Speaker 16 (11:23):
Hello, this from Brooklyn.

Speaker 4 (11:26):
From Brooklyn. Talk to us, Jah, what's your.

Speaker 15 (11:28):
Thoughts going on?

Speaker 8 (11:29):
My thoughts ain't no work wives, ain't no work husbands.

Speaker 4 (11:32):
You know what I mean?

Speaker 8 (11:32):
Because you know, soon he should get.

Speaker 10 (11:34):
A little attitude with me.

Speaker 19 (11:35):
He should go to work, talk about you know, oh
he not doing me right next to.

Speaker 1 (11:39):
The river one day.

Speaker 3 (11:40):
Well, I clicked on one video and then I just
went down the whole thing of videos whereas these girls
talking about this is how you take care of your friend,
and it's like girls giving guys. Hell no, that's what
I'm saying.

Speaker 16 (11:53):
It's like we just got to work from home.

Speaker 8 (11:59):
Matter of fact, Emma, don't gotta leave the package on
the steps.

Speaker 9 (12:02):
Don't even ring the bell?

Speaker 3 (12:03):
Damn you? Hello, what's this?

Speaker 6 (12:06):
Hey?

Speaker 4 (12:06):
No?

Speaker 9 (12:06):
No at off storer man?

Speaker 4 (12:09):
No, No, what's up?

Speaker 1 (12:10):
Talk to us?

Speaker 4 (12:11):
What's your doing?

Speaker 3 (12:11):
Hey man?

Speaker 20 (12:12):
Good morning to y'all.

Speaker 11 (12:13):
Man.

Speaker 20 (12:13):
I listened to y'all live this morning. I want to
start that out. Yeah, yeah, sir, but yeah, I think
these days now, being in a relationship, when you with
a person and they're at at a job site and
they went they see this work for nine, ten, twelve
hours out of the day, you know they tend to
go on lunch date and you know that's that's gonna happen.

(12:35):
And I think you know you just gotta either accept
it or leave it, because really that's what goes on.

Speaker 1 (12:42):
You have a work white bro, No, I.

Speaker 15 (12:44):
Tried trug brother.

Speaker 20 (12:45):
I just started my own business cooler wool leg spress man.

Speaker 10 (12:48):
You gotta you gotta work a lot, lizard.

Speaker 15 (12:53):
No, no, no, hey, most definitely don't.

Speaker 10 (13:00):
Is that is that one restop on the route you
going and you gotta lead that man?

Speaker 4 (13:07):
Hell dion, what's up brother?

Speaker 3 (13:12):
Talk to us?

Speaker 4 (13:12):
What you're doing?

Speaker 19 (13:13):
A good morning? First of all, I love all of y'all.
Everything y'all do. I think y'all are.

Speaker 10 (13:17):
Amazing than we appreciate you man, Thank you.

Speaker 19 (13:21):
Another thing, I think the girl was insane for telling
her girlfriend she got a work wife. I think that
you gotta keep that to yourself. I've had plenty of
work wives that didn't lead to nothing at all. But
it ain't like I told my girl that, Like I
just kept.

Speaker 15 (13:35):
It to me.

Speaker 19 (13:36):
It's were just getting coffee and and doing stuff like that.

Speaker 7 (13:38):
We ain't doing crazy.

Speaker 3 (13:40):
Now.

Speaker 18 (13:40):
That's the thing that the reason why I told her
it wasn't crazy that she told her girlfriend that she
had a work wife. What made it crazy is that
you really effing with your work wife. Like y'all getting intimate, y'all,
y'all flirting and dealing with each other. She went in
the phone, saw messages, and she cheats. She was cheating
on her girlfriend with her work wife. That's where it
went wrong.

Speaker 4 (13:56):
You got crazy.

Speaker 16 (13:57):
That's a whole other conversation.

Speaker 19 (14:00):
Statistically, Hey, you know you're all saying that you came
to yourself. You always off for that.

Speaker 12 (14:05):
I can't ever about for that now, Dion answer answer,
answer the railway right.

Speaker 4 (14:10):
Have you ever flirted with your work wife?

Speaker 19 (14:12):
A little course, That's why I was my work wife.

Speaker 9 (14:14):
But it ain't to happen.

Speaker 11 (14:16):
No.

Speaker 3 (14:17):
But see, you shouldn't be flirting. See you know your
wife would not allow you to be flirting. Would you
tell your wife you was flirting with.

Speaker 10 (14:22):
Your work wife?

Speaker 3 (14:27):
You don't say that, you don't listen, My My rule
is you don't do nothing. You can't tell your wife. Right,
If you can't tell your wife about it, you know
you ain't got no business doing.

Speaker 12 (14:35):
It now if you're just joining us. This conversation actually
came from a woman who called yesterday. Durn and get
it off your chest. Let's listen to the call.

Speaker 15 (14:43):
So.

Speaker 11 (14:43):
I have a girlfriend I've been with for a year
and a half.

Speaker 1 (14:46):
We lived together.

Speaker 8 (14:47):
We got a cat.

Speaker 13 (14:48):
You don't real life yet.

Speaker 4 (14:49):
Cats in the house talk to us.

Speaker 11 (14:53):
So she's a nurse. She's telling me. A few months
ago she started getting close with some girl. That word
the girl is her work wife.

Speaker 6 (15:01):
I tell her to.

Speaker 11 (15:02):
Nip it in the bus. She don't do it. Then
I go through her phone on Christmas Day, I see
her texting with the girl, and the girl's talking like
what you wearing? I can't wait to see you type Today.
We had a big fight. She turned her location off
and she left the cris. I drove her through her

(15:23):
ear pods. My dude, wow, she has the Shorty's house, yo,
Damn crazy. Pulled up to the press.

Speaker 7 (15:30):
I said, come outside.

Speaker 11 (15:32):
She said, you in the wrong place.

Speaker 6 (15:34):
I'm not here. I knock on the front door.

Speaker 11 (15:37):
I'm not tell me they're gonna call the top and
I'm like, no, y'all you know.

Speaker 12 (15:41):
So we're asking eight hundred and five eighty five one
oh five one? Do you mind if your significant other
has a work husband or work wife?

Speaker 9 (15:47):
Hello?

Speaker 1 (15:48):
Who's this?

Speaker 11 (15:48):
Hey?

Speaker 14 (15:49):
This juicy?

Speaker 10 (15:50):
Hey juicy?

Speaker 13 (15:51):
Definitely is my wife?

Speaker 3 (15:52):
You fat?

Speaker 6 (15:54):
I'm I'm yeah. I got caught plenty of fat bases before,
so I guess you're.

Speaker 10 (16:01):
How tall are you?

Speaker 15 (16:02):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (16:02):
My goodness, I'm five to three.

Speaker 6 (16:07):
Two hundred times? So this point, okay, ask me the question.

Speaker 4 (16:16):
Answer the question.

Speaker 10 (16:16):
Mom, I'm sorry you Are you somebody's work wife?

Speaker 6 (16:18):
She is, Oh, I'm the I'm somebody who caught my
uh work wife. Half y'all want to say. Yeah, So
my husband worked somewhere, right, We used to work together.
I quit so I found like some placement that didn't
work out. So, you know, because I know, like I
know how the work wife and stuff is my husband

(16:41):
on drive, I was taking him to work and at
the same time I was taking him the word uh
the work wife. She got a husband too, but I
didn't know this at the time because she just started.
So when I was leaving, I see her, I see
her husband like me, ain't uking a mess out of
my mind. So I wanted to be like, what's up?

(17:05):
Why are you looking at him like that? Like, because
like it was a popthing that didn't sit.

Speaker 7 (17:10):
Right with me.

Speaker 6 (17:11):
So I'm not a middle note of this. So the
next time I went, it was she went with her husband,
was by herself, so she was looking at me rock
car and manstue, I got real stark, so you can't
see in there. I can see her, she can't see me.
So she's just looking ugly at tail.

Speaker 11 (17:29):
That I'm like, damn stup, Oh no, what kind of
car do you have?

Speaker 10 (17:32):
First of all, what kind of call you a truck?

Speaker 6 (17:35):
I'm not good. It's a b m W was uh
pretending winders, but it is small.

Speaker 4 (17:44):
She got, it's a truck.

Speaker 10 (17:47):
It's a big truck.

Speaker 3 (17:48):
It's considered.

Speaker 4 (17:50):
Okay, okay, God, she wanted to make sure it wasn't
the one series dad.

Speaker 6 (17:53):
Go so uh okay. So long story short for the
way she looked at me. I said, oh, I said,
I said, let me go through this phone, because I
go through the phone like maybe every six or seven months,
depending on how I feel like.

Speaker 9 (18:07):
I just go through the phone.

Speaker 6 (18:08):
I normally don't be finding nothing, but so I go
right to her is just the same. I call it
the same day. Only think I'm mad because I want
to see how farthers go go because I feel like
I stopped it because I crashed out right way. Because
when I went through the phone and went to.

Speaker 19 (18:25):
Their message, this person was like regular little work stuff.

Speaker 6 (18:28):
So then I started seeing the more. He kind of corny,
so I know that's this way. I flurish so right,
but he talked a lot, so uh so she goes
send a picture. She said, three pictures and they and
they was like sexy pictures. But she weak. She she
she they would say, some sexy pictures coming about some
eyes contact.

Speaker 3 (18:50):
Ma'am, ma'am, ma'am m man, I need to tell you
something that they don't tell you at dinner. Stop when
you're going too long. Could you get to the point please.

Speaker 6 (19:00):
Make them And you said, okay, okay, I try to.
She an't worked there no more. I beat him on
his fleet because ill him to do this. I told
him to do this. The things he tried to be sneaky.
Ain't tell me like, oh, he ain't tell me you
know what I caught. If he would have been like

(19:21):
oh man, now she's biting back on what you told
me to do. The only reason I told him to
flirt with her so she can work for him and he.

Speaker 7 (19:29):
So he can still be I don't know.

Speaker 3 (19:31):
I don't like any of this. You opened up the door,
you know what I mean? And I don't know why
you opened up Pandora's box like that.

Speaker 10 (19:37):
I do not know why you did that. That's happen.

Speaker 3 (19:40):
She said something, but you gonna beat him up for
telling him to do something that you told him.

Speaker 4 (19:46):
Fall and then you beat him up. What size was
the girl?

Speaker 6 (19:48):
She man, I'm old enough to be her mam man
and I and that's her thing?

Speaker 11 (19:53):
She like, ain't you stiffy bitch?

Speaker 6 (19:55):
But if we put next to each other, you will
be trying to figure out who's fifty she you know
she started. My thing is that he didn't tell me
what she did. Like, I accept everything that she did
that she was going to do, but I had to
I had to go through the phone and side and
he said he was lying about it. Said he's like, no, like,

(20:16):
what where did you lying for?

Speaker 3 (20:17):
I don't know. I don't because you just as messy
to you called you caused a lot of this mess.

Speaker 10 (20:22):
You told that man to flirt with that woman and
there's no limit to flirting. Did you say, did you?
Did you give him a limit?

Speaker 6 (20:29):
Right? But he was supposed to tell Yeah, the limit
was like if she biting back, you let me know, like,
and then when he didn't, and then when I asked
him like, I tried to wake him up, but he
I tried to wake him up, but he trying to
fake sleep when I had that phone in his face.

Speaker 7 (20:51):
That was a lot.

Speaker 10 (20:53):
You are so messy, so messy, I mean juicy, you
are so messy.

Speaker 6 (20:57):
I'm glad I ain't tell you all my real man.

Speaker 3 (21:00):
But yeah, okay, so you picked you picked the song
by Biggie Smalls on perfect Wow, Wow, idiot.

Speaker 7 (21:16):
Ball.

Speaker 8 (21:19):
Did you know?

Speaker 10 (21:21):
We have the breakfast Club?

Speaker 12 (21:23):
Good morning morning, Everybody's dj NV just hilarious, Charlamain the guy.

Speaker 4 (21:28):
We are the breakfast Club. We got a special guest
in the building.

Speaker 3 (21:30):
First of all, make sure the door is locked. And
I'm glad that her phone is in here because she
can't use her phone to get in the room. So
make sure the door is locked. Correct, just hilarious, can't
get in.

Speaker 10 (21:40):
We got our guy Rome Rome here who was Justice
Daby's father.

Speaker 4 (21:43):
That's rights dad.

Speaker 10 (21:46):
And you know, just put out her new book this week,
Tell Death Do We Parent?

Speaker 3 (21:49):
It's available everywhere you buy books now, and it talks
about how they got to a healthy place of co
parenting with each other. That's right. And I haven't even
talked to m I ain't reached out to room. I
wanted to talk the wrong, face to face.

Speaker 1 (22:01):
Wrong.

Speaker 3 (22:01):
What did you think of the book?

Speaker 4 (22:03):
Your first fel, firstnest, honest.

Speaker 3 (22:06):
First fiel. You read the book first chapter.

Speaker 4 (22:09):
I feel like some things wasn't explained.

Speaker 1 (22:12):
The correct way.

Speaker 10 (22:14):
We're not supposed to let her in.

Speaker 4 (22:15):
You're supposed to let her in.

Speaker 10 (22:17):
You're supposed to keep her out for a little bit.

Speaker 3 (22:19):
Okay, let Rome has the floor, the floor down.

Speaker 10 (22:23):
You can sit down, jests, unless you want.

Speaker 3 (22:25):
To leave, you can also leave.

Speaker 10 (22:26):
Okay, yes, kay, we just asked the first question I read.

Speaker 4 (22:33):
It's too late.

Speaker 3 (22:34):
You got nothing. It's too late. Now.

Speaker 4 (22:37):
You thinking the book Death Parents, you said first chapter,
he would saying it was cap honestly, not even cap.
I just think after women read it, it's gonna hate me.
And why because of course, you know men can't go
through that. But when women are going through like postpartum,
those stages and stuff like that. If you read this
the first chapter, it's going to be like I was

(22:57):
a dog, like I did everything going those times when.

Speaker 3 (23:01):
I didn't the dog.

Speaker 4 (23:03):
No, I feel like she fabricated it far as putting
it too early, it was late. It was later than that.
I didn't do any of that doing postpartum. But it
was a dope book. Interesting, very transparent, Uh, to see
that we've grown so much and to share other to
share with other people on you know that coke parns.

Speaker 8 (23:25):
Is not a bad thing.

Speaker 4 (23:26):
I think that that's that's the biggest part in the
goal that we always talked about, and that was for years,
even when we started coke parentry therapy back in it
was COVID. So I want to say the twenty twenty
one when with the shut Down book.

Speaker 3 (23:39):
But see, that's what I got from the book. That's
why I said, I don't think people don't hate you
if they read past the first chapter. You know what
I mean, because you do get to the growth and
the evolutionary of both of y'all. You know what I mean,
not just not just you, both of y'all.

Speaker 4 (23:53):
Yeah, and but you got some people who ain't going
to all right right, They're gonna they're gonna pinpoint and
take out parts and they run with a certain narratives
or see the captures in highlight the same way they
do clips on Instagram or TikTok, whatever the case may be.
It hate you off a clip and didn't even let
you elaborate or.

Speaker 3 (24:09):
Explain yourself your feelings the most, and don't lie because
I know you read it more than one time. The
chap was it?

Speaker 4 (24:15):
None of really hurt me because I'm I'm I own't
know what I do. I ain't never been ashamed of anything,
and tell you why, because I always had a choice.
I decided to make those choices. But what was hot
woman to me was that she's able to talk about
it now because a lot of times she would never
open up about it, and just to share that light
on how much I've grown as a man and as

(24:37):
a father. I just was, you know, Paul, I was,
I was really yeah, I was. I was just excited, man,
I really was excited. You could tell she has a
lot of love for you, regardless, lot always Yah. I'm
just excited because if anybody who really know me truly
and ginguely know me. That's my dog.

Speaker 12 (24:54):
How did you feel when you know she recently exerts
came out of the book and she talked about not
necessarily wanting your first child, but wanted to keep you
more than anything, so to make you happy, she was
willing to do anything for you.

Speaker 4 (25:08):
How did that make you feel? As a father of five? Now,
I understand and I say that because even when I
go back to her and I'd be like, if you're
gonna leave me alone, don't go get another me. It's
one of those things where okay, well, if you having
a child, make sure that you know that this is
going to be a family. And I never wanted a
lot of kids. I always wanted a family, but you know,
I was emotional, I would say, dumb, not thinking, vulnerable

(25:32):
in those moments even as a kid. But I think,
I don't know, I think it just shaped her to
be the wife that she is.

Speaker 12 (25:38):
Now you look back at it and say, I messed
this family up because she talks about she thought that
y'all had a perfect family. Y'all were taking pictures and
y'all were doing things as a family and a couple.
You know, all of a sudden she got a comment
that says, room go here with you. But he played
a house in this other house, and matter of fact,
he got a baby coming. Did you ever look back
at and.

Speaker 4 (25:57):
Be like, damn, I f that up, look back sometimes
and say I wish I did things different. I ain't
never gonna say I wish I because who knows. If
I wouldn't have deal what I did, then we still
would have been together, because it goes both ways, and
a lot of things that I've done it was out
of reaction.

Speaker 15 (26:17):
You know.

Speaker 4 (26:17):
It's three sides of every story, that side your side,
and the truth me, I just wasn't that heartless to
just go out and do these things I didn't even
have access to. So that's why we're gonna dive. We're
gonna dive deeper into those things. But I wouldn't say
I would say I just wish how did things different?
Just to give myself, just to give us a chance,
because I never even gave us a chance. That's a

(26:40):
great question and just a great framing of it.

Speaker 3 (26:43):
Like if there were no kid in bold right, if
there was no action, would y'all still choose each other?

Speaker 4 (26:49):
You think at that moment no, because action was the glue.
Ash was the one that kept it around and me,
I'm low tolerance. And Jessica speaks on that, she'll speak
again on it. We spoke on that on the podcast.
When women don't do and it might sound controlling, it
might sound like I'm a narcissism, you know, at that moment,
not now, because I'm a change man. You know, at

(27:12):
that moment, it may sound like I'm being controlling. But
I felt like at the time, younger days, if women
wasn't in my if they want in compliance, it wasn't
no benefit to me.

Speaker 3 (27:25):
So just just walk back in the room. I want
to want to expound on the question. I just asked you,
what was it about just that would make you not
want to be with her if there was no asking,
because he said he wouldn't.

Speaker 4 (27:35):
Do what you if there wasn't ask that at that
moment at that, like I said, I'm gonna repeat it,
at that moment, we were children, so it wasn't really
it wasn't really nothing to be with our own, especially
after all the things I did. And I say that
to say at that at that time, of course, you
know a lot of men live with women conveniencing and
stuff like that.

Speaker 3 (27:53):
I didn't need any of that.

Speaker 4 (27:54):
I'm living at home my stepmam. So if it's no child,
we'd have went out separate ways because it was easy
to go separate ways with no time. It's easy to
go separate ways when you're not married, right, marriage and
children is the tie on. Okay, let's see, because you
don't really want to start over. It's hard starting over,

(28:15):
not even hard, just too much time. You gotta relying
a person and then you don't even know if that
person won't be the person for you, so it takes time. Now,
you said it was reactional, the fact that you know
you cheated.

Speaker 12 (28:26):
Was it reactional because you didn't want to be in
a family at the time, or you didn't want.

Speaker 4 (28:30):
To be tied down? Or what's hard?

Speaker 3 (28:32):
This was?

Speaker 4 (28:32):
You know what was reactional? No?

Speaker 3 (28:34):
Just yeah, okay, now let's get to it.

Speaker 4 (28:39):
Just just just just did things, and it's something. It's
some things I said I would never speak on. I'm
taking that to the grade with me because yeah.

Speaker 3 (28:47):
That's why you believe that it might not be yours
at one point.

Speaker 4 (28:50):
No, I never I never believe that I've seen him.
He was mind through the son ground at the moment,
at the moment, never really even believed that it was.
More so I was upset because of the heat of
the moment.

Speaker 3 (29:03):
But oh, you just said that off.

Speaker 10 (29:06):
Okay, okay, she said emotional.

Speaker 4 (29:12):
But she and she, but she and I read that
four or five times again on the train to day.

Speaker 3 (29:18):
That particular party. How did you feel when she said that?

Speaker 4 (29:22):
Of course you know it, man, you're hurting the moment
in mind. You you shan't in my face, so I
think it'll be different. She was in my face, but
I did. I never thought ashing was wasn't mine. I
just think she, of all people at that moment, even now,
know how to get under my skin. There's only two
things that really bother me my children.

Speaker 3 (29:41):
In my mind.

Speaker 4 (29:42):
It ain't really nothing else you can really say to
me that were really moving.

Speaker 12 (29:45):
We're still kicking it with Rome. Rome is just's baby daddy.
You know, just just did the new book Till Death.

Speaker 4 (29:50):
Do we pair it? And we're talking to Rome.

Speaker 12 (29:53):
Why didn't you fight for the relationship after you know,
Jess was like it's over. You know, you had another
baby on the way.

Speaker 3 (30:00):
Let's clear that up.

Speaker 4 (30:01):
Okay, it was over before I had a baby on
the way, Jessica that I know.

Speaker 9 (30:05):
Ron.

Speaker 18 (30:06):
I just was trying to like be with you and
give my family like because that's what I wanted ultimately.
I wanted that family dynamic. I wanted to grow up.
I want to ask to grow up in the house
with me and you together, you know.

Speaker 13 (30:19):
And yeah it was over. I had mentally checked out.

Speaker 18 (30:22):
You was like moved like you had moved on and everything,
but like you were still selfish because I couldn't be
with nobody.

Speaker 13 (30:29):
You didn't want me, but I couldn't be with nobody else.

Speaker 4 (30:32):
No, we cleaned it up because in the book it
makes it seem.

Speaker 3 (30:35):
Like I had a baby on you.

Speaker 4 (30:36):
Well you were dealing with it's three number two, it's fourteen,
okay is eleven?

Speaker 3 (30:43):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (30:45):
When did we split?

Speaker 13 (30:47):
When he was like about three?

Speaker 11 (30:48):
Yeah?

Speaker 17 (30:49):
We split?

Speaker 13 (30:49):
We split once and yeah yeah yeah, but I took
you back. I got back with you.

Speaker 18 (30:54):
Remember when I met Yo correct, you know I can't
say his real name, but when I met you, mad you.

Speaker 4 (31:00):
Why wouldn't you say, you know what, I'm cut the
BS out and I'm a fight for music.

Speaker 1 (31:06):
Oh oh yeah that's yeah.

Speaker 3 (31:11):
One thing he said.

Speaker 17 (31:12):
And you can you can curse and say it.

Speaker 4 (31:13):
One thing he said was, uh can do a thousand
and one things once the girl that one person, we
can't take it. So at that moment, and then even
at that time, like you know, still it's pair of
pressure people around you. Oh and then at that time
I really cared about what my friends start. So it
was bac and then it was like a manhood and

(31:34):
you know, like my father ain't really say too much negative,
but you know, he said the things he said. But
you know, I think I was more so heartbroken because
of you know, certain things that she did do.

Speaker 18 (31:47):
Rome overthinks, like he creates these scenarios in his mind,
and he overthinks and he thinks himself out of the relationships.

Speaker 10 (31:55):
He's not wrong for that, even though we should.

Speaker 3 (31:58):
He's not right.

Speaker 4 (31:58):
But when I'm right, I'm right. When I I'm wrong,
I could have been right, but when I'm right, I
was wrong, But I wasn't wrong.

Speaker 5 (32:03):
Okay, Okay, yeah, no, no, you know you you did
some things to me too, Yeah I believe, Okay, all right,
that's fine.

Speaker 3 (32:15):
And you did a lot of things in me.

Speaker 4 (32:18):
I done pulled up on dress skill a couple of
times in her neighborhood. And then that's one thing too.
I don't like you ignore my phone calls. Control don't
ignore my phone calls, and then don't hang up on
me when I'm trying to explain because you're not like me.
Get my point across, because then that means you don't
care about how I feel. And that's one thing about

(32:39):
the society. Nobody cares about how men actually feel. And
then when men try to open up, and I looked
at and it's on the same track that Michael Beasley
and Shannon shop I felt a lot of things Michael
Beezy said when a man tried to open up, your
laugh at until it's too late. I'm just glad he

(33:00):
was able to get the help he needed to be
able to tell his story. But it's a lot of
other men who are shamed to do it. But this book,
and that ties everything to this book. This book is
a great book because his father is out there. It's
hopeless because you got a lot of types of did beats.
You got did beats who they don't do something to

(33:21):
baby mother say it did be You got diabies who
just actually don't give um. You got diadbies who said
up a wild women don't want to allow that.

Speaker 3 (33:30):
They didn't stay there for a second because I asked
m I said, Room, if you had a title for
your book, what would be called? You had a very
interesting title. The second one.

Speaker 4 (33:40):
I got to tell you something with the second one.
Let her father be a father, Not when it's convenient.

Speaker 3 (33:44):
For you, that's that. Not when it's convenient for you
is what got me. Do you feel like she only
wanted you to be a father when it was convenient
for her?

Speaker 11 (33:52):
No?

Speaker 3 (33:53):
Okay, not no.

Speaker 4 (33:54):
Not with her, I got a lot of of course,
you know, I got a line. But no, with men
and Jessica, it was never about you, understand me, And
this would be for the just to be. That's why
it's most genuine, because she didn't keep a child because
of a status or some some money or whatever the
case be. We just was honestly thought we was in love.
And then when I grew up, I didn't grow up
on spending blocks and like that type of music. I

(34:17):
grew up on Bow Wow and Little Rome Yo and Sammy,
so like it was, it was love music and you
just I always just wanted those fairy tales. Like my
favorite show growing up was sweet life and Zach and
Cody because of the family dynamic. So it's like for
a young man or want that and then you see
my life didn't get that. That's one of the things

(34:39):
I'd be like, damn, I don't see. But I'd be like, well, wow,
why I couldn't get what you want? Those cards? And
I show always a lot of my friends. I used
to be jealous of my friends growing up. They had
their mom and dad and I didn't. And I told him, bro, like,
I don't like you, love you, but I don't like
you my friends because they they had what I wanted.

(35:02):
And then I just used to see how they just
never appreciated they mom.

Speaker 12 (35:05):
It was a co parent the way that your co
parent now was that always there or that had to
get there? Like at first was just not letting you
see your son or you didn't want to see your son,
because how did it originally start?

Speaker 4 (35:16):
So it was always co parenting. It's just I was
col parting with my mother with my mother, yeah, with
Mama ribbing just didn't want to see you because Jess
was just I didn't want to see you. Why did
she had to see me? Because she was living at
the daycare, so she was going to see me. But
it's never been a point where I couldn't see my
son or he's keeping away from me because she she

(35:38):
has that family dynamic. Who this ain't that?

Speaker 12 (35:41):
And why just why didn't you? Because most people would
have been like, he did me dirty, he cheated on me,
he did all these things. I'm gonna use my son
to hurt him. A lot of people do that. We
see that a lot of relationships. Why wasn't your mind
for maps her that as you are?

Speaker 13 (35:55):
Couldn't I just yeah, I just couldn't do it.

Speaker 18 (35:57):
I gave Rome a lot of grace because you know
I was doing my issue too, But you know it's
not about who, well, actually it was, it was about
who started it.

Speaker 10 (36:07):
But whatever.

Speaker 18 (36:08):
But once we started going back and forth trying to
hurt each other and trying to make each other feel
the pain that each one of us felt, I got
I got tired of that, and once I wanted to
sit down with Rome and just put everything on the table, like, yo,
are you you that's admit everything things that I did
that I was lying to him about.

Speaker 13 (36:26):
He admitted things to me. Well, he explained things to me.

Speaker 18 (36:29):
Because that's the thing Rome never really told me. Every
day I will find out and I'm going I'm coming
to him like, yo, this is what happened.

Speaker 15 (36:37):
You know.

Speaker 18 (36:38):
Ai Ai was not we It wasn't even that our
favorite TI this bag then so no, but I was
able to give him a lot of grace. And then
also like Kitch trauma, he went through a lot when
he was younger, and I realized, I'm like, yo, I'm
a lot more mature to see that. And my mother
always instilled that in me. Give a person grace. Everybody

(36:58):
comes from different walks of life. You don't know what
he's gone through, and it's hard to operate in this
world without a mother, you know, and then with an
absent father, you know, father who you see, but he
not really there is no really is no real bond.
So I felt the need to be more of a
friend and a confidante, you know, because I think I
was like the only one that you can open up

(37:20):
to about a lot of things that happened in your childhood,
a lot of things that you know, you didn't that
you that you didn't get as a kid after your
mom's passing.

Speaker 4 (37:30):
So I think that's what it was, she said, because
you talk about being vulnerable. Did she ever use it? Oh,
that's what I was going to say next. But the
big umbrella of everything she's saying my mother, because she
wouldn't allow it. You have women, you have men, You
have human beings self who when don't go their way,

(37:50):
they got enablers around them telling them that that's right,
that's right. When my mother, I loved her.

Speaker 3 (37:56):
Mother so much.

Speaker 4 (37:57):
In mind me, her mom used to go through allen
hot water because I was always rebellious. And then as
I got a certain age, I'm already defensive because of
what my dad did. So you can't tell me, but
I had to take myself step back. She's not trying
to hurt you wrong, and yeah she she just you wrong, wrong,
You're wrong. So it wasn't no, oh that's my daughter.

(38:19):
I'm gonna take her side because it was. It was honestly,
like I think because the copyting itself it got it was.
It wasn't bad, but it got great after a while.
It didn't just happened overnight. It really started happening when
I took my feelings out like I stayed in the past,
like when that when that that narrative, Oh, I don't

(38:41):
want this around my kid. I don't want this. I
don't want that. I allowed it to happen, though, because
when I decided to hurt that woman or not want
to be with that woman, that opens up the door
so she can have whoever she want to have around
that child. So the logical part that I went with
was okay, Just long as they ain't trying to hurt
my kid, I'm okay, And I respect my child mom

(39:01):
enough and I trust them enough and even now all
of them to not allow that to happen.

Speaker 3 (39:07):
I want, I want to ask you something wrong because
you said what you wanted growing up with the two
parent household. Yeah, And a lot of people would say,
how can somebody with that mindset end up with five
baby mothers? Because it's impossible to give those kids what
you wanted, So why would you create the same type of.

Speaker 4 (39:24):
So let me, let me elaborate and piggyback. So I
never really that two point household now is near. I
never really cared for a two point household. I just
wanted my mother, so mindra. I was fine with going
with my dad on the weekends, going back to my
mother until that last weekend and get to go back

(39:44):
to my mom. So the two primet household dynamic come from,
like I said, shows and stuff like that, and reality
and the stigma that society put on you. Oh it's
supposed to be like this when two point household produced
some of the most stuffiest people in the world.

Speaker 3 (39:59):
Would you are not a person with high emotional intelligence.
So clearly I know you wanted to be better than you. Yeah.

Speaker 4 (40:06):
Correct, And like I said, I may, I mean, I may.
I made decisions. A lot of decisions I made was
out of vulnerability. A lot of decisions I made was
out of hurt, you know, And I'm not ashamed to
stay that people that, Oh.

Speaker 3 (40:18):
Well that's me.

Speaker 18 (40:20):
Can I ask you and you just tell me if
you agreed that. I feel like you were looking for
maybe your mom and these women. And that's why, you know,
because you had lost at a very young age, and
that nurturing and that you know, all that nurturing and
affection stopped at a very early age. And you went
from that household that's all you knew, love and positivity

(40:44):
and just you know, all of that, to a very
different type of household. You know, it wasn't much affection.
It wasn't nurturing. And I feel like that actually shaped
how you look women in my relationships.

Speaker 13 (40:56):
Yeah, like it affected your love life in a way.

Speaker 10 (40:58):
Do you agree with that?

Speaker 4 (41:00):
Be very transparent. I never looked in my I never
looked for women, and I never looked for my mother
and women. I did look for the love and affection, right,
Why I never looked in I never looked for my
mother and women. Because I'm put it on tape. My
mother wasn't a saint. My mother did like you know,

(41:21):
like but who she was to you, but who she
was to me was she was great. But it was
like once she left, it was just that that the
affection that loved, that holding a person. Because I used
to hold my mother every night. Shit put me up
every night. I used to hold her. It really didn't
affect me until I got older and started dealing with women.
Because why I'm going through school, I'm I'm always busy.

(41:42):
Maybe that's why it didn't affect me. I'm grades baseball, basketball.
I really had no downtown to really think about it.
I know my mom and at the like probably like thirteen,
I'm you know, I'm washing cars. That's that's my mother.
Love Cause So that's where I get that from. So
it's like I don't think that it. I never really say,
oh I want you my mother and this woman because
my mother ain't know how to cook, cleaned up.

Speaker 12 (42:05):
But you know you have five baby moms, right, and
of course just had relationships before she recently recently got married.

Speaker 4 (42:13):
How did you co parent in that situation?

Speaker 3 (42:15):
Right?

Speaker 12 (42:15):
Because asking to be at his house, he has women there,
you know, or you know, just have a guy. Like
how did y'all crazy?

Speaker 3 (42:24):
You just cut that man off talking about his mom.

Speaker 12 (42:25):
No, it's going it's gonna come back now, I see
where you're going at, go ahead forget. So I'm asking,
so how did you deal with that? Because that's what
you've seen with your life?

Speaker 4 (42:35):
So how did I see with my my son there
with her and her man?

Speaker 13 (42:39):
Like, how did we co parent?

Speaker 15 (42:40):
Like?

Speaker 4 (42:41):
How did you you know, like speaking speaking on the
husband now before the husband has totally different my relationships
and Ash will be home with me, but then he
come yeah, Like how was the co parents and relationship
between you and I when that was going on schedule?
You had girlfriends and I ain't gonna hold you. That
took my feelings out of it a couple of men

(43:02):
that won two one and a half. You literally only
liked one and a half. I ain't like the other one,
but you didn't like him first I didn't, but we're going, yeah, yeah,
one and a half because the half, because the half
I ain't really cared for him, but he loved her,
So he loved my he loved my son. So, like

(43:24):
I said, it's times where Rome just taking taken to
the house when them two is, you know, in one household,
and I would drop them off, no problems or none
of that.

Speaker 3 (43:33):
So that that was it.

Speaker 4 (43:33):
That was the only transaction for us that really wasn't
us how by what nohing, I ain't really care for
him because of what he was saying to the other
women who was coming to me.

Speaker 12 (43:43):
If that makes sense, I'm still I'm confused. Gona break
it down a little bit, Okay.

Speaker 4 (43:47):
So he wasn't a sane in this that in that
relationship neither. And we then came across a couple of
the same women. I ain't disclosing anything, but did you
ever tell just that it's not my business, was not
your business, It's not what your son did that's my
But they wasn't in the household. He was doing what
he did on his free time. When he was doing

(44:09):
How I know that because my son was with me
majority of the time when he's throwing it on his
free time.

Speaker 13 (44:14):
Well, cheater was supported cheater anyway.

Speaker 4 (44:16):
I'm not supporting the cheater. You chose him, and that's
on you.

Speaker 17 (44:20):
I didn't know he was cheating.

Speaker 4 (44:21):
Well I didn't either. I didn't either, but it was
no problem. But how did it affect you when she
got married?

Speaker 15 (44:30):
Right?

Speaker 4 (44:30):
Because they said there was boundaries. And the reason I
asked is if I'm marrying somebody, I know y'all might.

Speaker 12 (44:36):
Have a relationship, and I know y'all might be tight,
but you kind of got to find your own personally
on because that's mine.

Speaker 4 (44:41):
You know what I mean that that's my wife, now,
you know what I mean. But y'all was so tight
for so long. How did those new boundaries affect co
parenting in your relationship? Yeah, because somebody had to build
the wall afect nothing shut the guess what it wasn't
It wasn't a wall a man. So when she leap

(45:05):
and in mind, I need to step by step, but
and it wasn't even Overroham. I want you to meet Chris.
It's just a genuine and it wasn't no wall, my man.
I always have respect. How did I deal with uh
not being around them more or talking to it? It
was like your best friend. But I never thought about
that because you're selfish if you don't want your best

(45:27):
friend or you get the person that you love to
be happy. So if this is what makes her happy, Okay,
I got one child. Mom is happy.

Speaker 10 (45:35):
Mm hmmm one Russell Wilson.

Speaker 3 (45:39):
Thank you. This is what you used to say, get
video future. I'm like, yo, you wanted somebody. You wanted
her to get somebody better.

Speaker 4 (45:47):
I want her to get a Russell Wilson. I look
so forward to death. Do we parent to one that
you write in and and honestly that's what it is.

Speaker 19 (45:56):
Uh.

Speaker 4 (45:57):
I ain't gonna say I don't want nobody Patney yet,
but you have to be parent.

Speaker 3 (46:03):
What is it? You know it's too.

Speaker 4 (46:09):
You have to be parent. Brought to you, be your father.

Speaker 13 (46:13):
Yeah, I love it and I love you to you,
I really did.

Speaker 4 (46:18):
The book is out right now.

Speaker 3 (46:20):
Make sure you get my guy room, sending room, healing
energy all the time. Man, eight fellaws, protect your piece
all right.

Speaker 4 (46:27):
It's the breakfast club, It's Big Road. It's your time
to nominate a donkey of your own.

Speaker 3 (46:36):
Remember now, that's it's how they choose.

Speaker 2 (46:40):
Call in now eight hundred five eighty five, one oh
five one.

Speaker 1 (46:43):
Okay.

Speaker 3 (46:44):
I do want to give a donkey of today. Update though,
because earlier this week I gave donkey to a guy
named Dalton ether Lee aka Chug the build it.

Speaker 19 (46:54):
Uh.

Speaker 3 (46:54):
He's the racist who runs up on black people in
the street and provokes them by calling him racial slurs
and then three then with mace.

Speaker 10 (47:01):
When they attempt to put hands on them. Well, you
all will be happy to know.

Speaker 3 (47:05):
He is currently in jail okay, with no bond because
of a shooting that happened during a confrontation outside of
a Montgomery County courthouse in Clarksville, Tennessee.

Speaker 1 (47:14):
UH.

Speaker 3 (47:15):
Both men were shot in this situation. They are both
in stable conditioned. The other man was black. We don't
know how the shooting unfolded or what led up to it,
but chucked the building have been charged with employing a
firearm during dangerous felony, aggravated assault, reckless danger man with
a deadly weapon, and he has not received a bond.
Let for me.

Speaker 10 (47:34):
Mam, give Chuck the building the biggest heahull again.

Speaker 4 (47:36):
Please hee ha hee ha, you stupid mother?

Speaker 3 (47:40):
Are you dumb?

Speaker 11 (47:41):
Now?

Speaker 3 (47:41):
Good morning?

Speaker 6 (47:43):
Good morning Janelle?

Speaker 3 (47:44):
Hey Janell, who you want to get the biggest he.

Speaker 10 (47:45):
Hot to Janelle Donkey?

Speaker 11 (47:47):
Other day goes to these two girls.

Speaker 6 (47:48):
I was walking my own business and then last name
talking to each other, carrying on, and then one and
I looked like side brandom like and then the other
one like a second I'm like After that, I was like,
you know what not today?

Speaker 7 (48:03):
I left.

Speaker 6 (48:05):
I said, walk away because I'm not about to get
that Hanna virus.

Speaker 11 (48:08):
Or less.

Speaker 14 (48:10):
Right.

Speaker 3 (48:11):
So you just walking down the street and you heard
a girl cough little lot and you thought that was
the Hannah first because I.

Speaker 11 (48:19):
Left, you have me left? Yeah, okay?

Speaker 19 (48:23):
And I started walking into my music, my business.

Speaker 6 (48:25):
I'm going to my car, and then she get next
to me like we see It's like.

Speaker 11 (48:30):
I was like, it's say for real.

Speaker 19 (48:31):
I was looked at her.

Speaker 11 (48:32):
I was like and then she was the other.

Speaker 6 (48:35):
One she's talking to was like and I was like, okay,
I'm walking.

Speaker 11 (48:38):
I just started walking and went and I.

Speaker 10 (48:40):
Was like, I'm not mad at you. Listen we at
that point.

Speaker 3 (48:44):
We at that point were you judging were judging you
for sneezing more than twice? We judging you for a
little coughing fits.

Speaker 10 (48:50):
We just don't know. We gotta we gotta take for cautions.

Speaker 3 (48:53):
I understand.

Speaker 10 (48:55):
Thank you for calling. You know, good morning? Who Haley,
Hey Haley, who want to get biggest Hey haull to Haley.

Speaker 6 (49:01):
I want to give the.

Speaker 11 (49:02):
Knkey of the day to Kendrick lamar.

Speaker 16 (49:07):
Iceman.

Speaker 10 (49:08):
I don't I don't think that's the case.

Speaker 20 (49:10):
Man.

Speaker 3 (49:10):
I listen and you see, this is the narrative that
we're not gonna spend. Drake already took his l. It's
okay to take his l. Now he just you know,
screaming about the l he took. You know who Drake is.
You ever seen Minutes of Society when Chauncey got his
ass kicked and Chauncey got the videotape of uh, you
know Caine an old dog and he ready to go
scream and tell it to the police. That's where That's

(49:31):
where Drake is at right now. So don't say he
ate kendridough know he did.

Speaker 11 (49:36):
How you gotta listen to Ice.

Speaker 1 (49:38):
Man, I've listened to it. Nothing.

Speaker 10 (49:40):
I don't care what's on.

Speaker 3 (49:41):
Nothing on Iceman that's gonna change the outcome of what
happened two years ago. It's not funny this morning, I know,
good morning? Who's this?

Speaker 15 (49:50):
Hey?

Speaker 3 (49:50):
Good morning.

Speaker 10 (49:52):
Terrell?

Speaker 3 (49:52):
How are you, sir?

Speaker 10 (49:53):
Who you want to get the biggest?

Speaker 3 (49:54):
Hee Hall too well, I.

Speaker 8 (49:55):
Wanted to get the biggest. I hate the state is
I gotta give it to you, sho man, Okay, why
you should go see a mental health advocate.

Speaker 3 (50:02):
Every time listen to this.

Speaker 8 (50:03):
You show you always trying to pull my man Drake,
and luckily for him strong enough to take it.

Speaker 3 (50:09):
But he's with it.

Speaker 8 (50:10):
He's going to a mental health crisis.

Speaker 10 (50:11):
Like hell. First of all, get this thing for him, Drake.

Speaker 8 (50:14):
I don't be away from the fact that it's the
biggest and most historical thing that has happened in the
last twenty years of music.

Speaker 10 (50:18):
Oh my god, this this is why.

Speaker 3 (50:20):
It's a bunch of grown men covered in seamen, covered
in frozen seamen, posting them on Instagram talking about Iceman
on the way. I don't have a disdain for Drake.
Drake is an artist. Drake puts out music and the
music can be critiqued on once is our for public consumption.
We the consumers, can critique it. That's what I do, sir.

Speaker 8 (50:38):
But what I will say someone that has to work
in an hour, I think three hours listen to that
last night. I'm probably gonna regret it in a few
Try and tell why.

Speaker 3 (50:47):
Would you do this?

Speaker 18 (50:49):
I was just saying it was so I was trying.
I was falling asleep, waking back up, restarting songs that
we are getting old.

Speaker 3 (50:55):
But what's the point of that though? Like the music
is gonna be here when you wake up, Like, why
do you have to listen to it? Why did you
have to binge listen to it?

Speaker 21 (51:01):
It just feels good because it's like everybody, I got caught.

Speaker 3 (51:05):
Up in it.

Speaker 16 (51:06):
Well, I host too much music for you to be
critiquing it this early.

Speaker 17 (51:10):
I haven't.

Speaker 1 (51:12):
I haven't heard it.

Speaker 3 (51:13):
I've listened to Summer Iceman, I haven't critiqued it at
all here.

Speaker 8 (51:16):
Well, well give it, give it a listen over the weekend.
I know you probably got a lot of other things
that you considered better to do. Well, it's music for
the ears, it's music for the soul.

Speaker 3 (51:24):
I'm gonna be honest with your dad. I highly doubt
I'm gonna listen to all three Drake albums. Bro Like
I'm just I'm just not. I got a life, you
know what I mean? I understand for those of you
who like to be covered in frozen semen and post
and say Iceman coming, Iceman, camee? What is it? Now
you're gonna say Iceman Kane? Oh my god, y'all don't
even gotta say iceman coming the morning. Now when y'all post,

(51:45):
y'allselves covered in the frozen seemen, put iceman.

Speaker 10 (51:48):
Good morning?

Speaker 3 (51:48):
Who's this you know what? From?

Speaker 10 (51:51):
Weisan Brandon from Louisiana. Who you want to get the
biggest y'all too?

Speaker 15 (51:55):
Man?

Speaker 16 (51:55):
I want to give it to all the people who'll
give it. Taca Brian just the smoke. And my reason
being like when people don't get their hair done or
go get their hair cut, are y'all asking them barber
and them hairstyle that, Hey, let me see your your certificate,
Like did you go to school? Like, are y'all just
going in there? Because Kiki you know how to do
like a little quick weed. So we're like, oh, let

(52:15):
me just go see Kiki. People who I'm gonna tell
you what. Let me tell you what your argument falls apart.

Speaker 3 (52:21):
When you walk into these barber shops and you walk
into these hair salons, one thing that you will see
most of the time is these people have their certification
plastered on the wall somewhere, like literally right behind they
booed for their station.

Speaker 10 (52:31):
Their certification is right there for the world to see.

Speaker 3 (52:34):
If you're a licensed barber, licensed hairstylars, uh, it's usually
showcased in your facility.

Speaker 16 (52:40):
Charlotte, I'm telling you you will be something. You will
be shocked. You go in there like y'all foods don't
really have y'all stuff up, Like, you will be surprised.
And same thing like people who do all this catering
and stuff. Did they go to school for us for this? Like, hey,
let me see your degree? Are your certificate from cut
to school? Cool air school? Like I think, if we're
gonna give her the smoke, we gotta give everybody the

(53:01):
smoke who do not have their certificate their license all,
let's keep their energy across the board.

Speaker 3 (53:08):
I'm not saying you're wrong, but if you are in
a barber shop, a professional shop, you have to be
a licensed barber to legally cut Aaron Beard for money
you have.

Speaker 10 (53:17):
You're supposed to be so I'm not saying that you're wrong.

Speaker 3 (53:20):
I'm just And I'm also telling you that most of
these people, when you walk into their shops, they have
their certification up for everybody to see.

Speaker 16 (53:28):
You will be shot. But a lot of people don't
do the like you feel. It's a boofy. Let you
just try to get to get this money out the
boofy like you would be shot when you go. But
that's all I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (53:40):
I'm with you, But I don't think that makes it right.
Just because people are doing it don't make it right.

Speaker 10 (53:45):
But have a great day, you don't, All right?

Speaker 3 (53:48):
That was the people's donkey. We do that every Friday.
Every Friday, I allow you, the people to call in
and give somebody the credit they deserve for being stupid.
So make sure you take advantage of that next Friday.
All you can go to the iHeartRadio app, go to
our talk go to the Rekforce club page, go to
the talk back feature, and you can leave us some
message right.

Speaker 12 (54:04):
Warning everybody, it's the j n V. Just hilarious, Charlamagne
the God. We are the Breakfast Club law La Roses
here as well, and we got a special guest in
the building. Ladies and gentlemen, Ari Lenox, welcome back already
failing feeling good energy this morning?

Speaker 17 (54:20):
You good amazing? Yeah, what are you?

Speaker 3 (54:23):
And favored?

Speaker 15 (54:24):
Yes?

Speaker 17 (54:24):
Yes, yes, me too.

Speaker 3 (54:25):
Yes.

Speaker 10 (54:26):
Vacancy is out right now, that's right.

Speaker 3 (54:28):
Yes. Vacancy can mean a lot of things.

Speaker 10 (54:31):
Okay, you can mean emptiness, yep, it can mean opportunity.

Speaker 3 (54:34):
What exactly became vacant in your life that allowed this
version of Ari Lenux exists and create this project.

Speaker 22 (54:42):
I think it's just the repetitiveness of my dating life.

Speaker 9 (54:46):
Yeah.

Speaker 22 (54:47):
The album encompasses avoid that needs to be filled. And
that can be romantic, it can be platonic. It can mean,
you know, in a business way, it's just a metaphor
or whatever that means to you.

Speaker 1 (55:00):
You know, is it platonic?

Speaker 10 (55:02):
We gotta let's forget it.

Speaker 18 (55:06):
Platonic, biopic, biopics, I think depending on how.

Speaker 3 (55:15):
I can be having us the wrong word?

Speaker 17 (55:18):
Is it supposed to be?

Speaker 3 (55:21):
Yes?

Speaker 17 (55:22):
And you're the second person that all right, camera a lot,
a lot that's lovely.

Speaker 18 (55:33):
So on this project, you go in and out of
your space, whether it's your heart your physical space and
maya energy being vacant, then being occupied then not.

Speaker 21 (55:42):
It's all over the place. But it's a good journey
than you so, but so, where are you in real
life after this album in the dating world?

Speaker 15 (55:50):
Like what like?

Speaker 22 (55:52):
I mean, I'm just alone, but it is thirty four
years of like romantic loneliness.

Speaker 17 (56:02):
But it's cool. No, it's all right. I'm doing great.

Speaker 22 (56:05):
I'd rather be by myself than in anything toxic or unhealthy.

Speaker 17 (56:09):
So it is what it is, you know. I'm okay,
though I do turn up, which is.

Speaker 21 (56:18):
How sketch you said you be wanting to and right
here I have this hot water.

Speaker 4 (56:23):
It's I don't know if you have no in the
club that night.

Speaker 17 (56:25):
But years ago, years ago, I was like, what ago?
Last year? Last year? Oh, yeah, I have had my hookah.

Speaker 1 (56:35):
Yeah I stopped.

Speaker 17 (56:36):
I had to stop though. Yeah, I made a pack
with the man. It's okay.

Speaker 22 (56:42):
I mean last year I wasn't singing, but this year
I am. So we got a tour coming up, you know,
the Vacancy tour starts April twelfth, So yeah, I want
to be vocally prepared for it. So no more hookah
for me.

Speaker 18 (56:55):
But so, but you're still on your sobriety journey right
drinking wise. But you said you made a pack with
the man. That's what made you stop the hook?

Speaker 21 (57:01):
Yes, what happened to that made you said.

Speaker 22 (57:02):
He was horrible, he was trifling, he had a secret girlfriend,
or he had a girlfriend.

Speaker 13 (57:07):
I guess I was the secret and I had no idea.

Speaker 17 (57:10):
And I haven't spoke to him since once he told me,
So you don't like her.

Speaker 3 (57:15):
You never liked the escape song You're my little secret.

Speaker 22 (57:17):
You couldn't be a I do love that song. I
love escape, So yeah, I could not be a secret.

Speaker 17 (57:23):
No, but I do love that song.

Speaker 3 (57:24):
They was singing, somebody want to Keep You a Secret.

Speaker 13 (57:29):
I think it just.

Speaker 22 (57:30):
Speaks to the state of dating out here. It's just
incredibly depressing. I feel like for everybody you know, So.

Speaker 18 (57:38):
Are there songs on this project about him? I know
that you've been working on this for some time from him?
Hell no, okay, because Under the Moon talks about somebody
that's a big could be a big toxic. Yeah that
was someone else. Oh that was one of my exes.
And I don't even know if he counts as an ex.
It was like a month long relationship counts, so it
counts really well.

Speaker 13 (57:58):
Well, it depends all right, Now, do you feel that
you had a connection?

Speaker 17 (58:06):
Oh my God Jesus, like, thank you, beautiful in your hair.

Speaker 18 (58:12):
Don't look confusedsed, thank you so much. You know that
that depends, right, Did you have a strong connection with him?
Do you feel like you loved him? Because the month
can you A month could be short to some people,
but that can mean a long time. It's not about
the time, it's about how you connected with him, how
he made you feel.

Speaker 11 (58:33):
Yeah.

Speaker 17 (58:33):
No, I don't feel like I loved him.

Speaker 22 (58:35):
I don't think it was because I think in order
to love someone, you have to accept them for all
that they are, and I feel like we did not
accept each other for our truest selves, And for that reason,
I don't believe it was love at all. Probably just infatuation,
which I said, it's just that repetitive theme. I think
there were a lot of secure energies that entered my

(58:57):
life that I wasn't ready for. And now they're getting married,
all these secure people that I like, I didn't under
I didn't recognize that safety like in them. Then, I
think because there's so much chaos inside of me, but
I'm working through it. I have my therapist and I'm
a lot more aware of it now, those red flags

(59:18):
and things of that nature.

Speaker 1 (59:18):
Do you love fast?

Speaker 4 (59:21):
Do you love fast? Do you like trust fast? When
it comes to dating?

Speaker 17 (59:24):
I do, I do, But I don't think it's love.

Speaker 22 (59:27):
I think it's like trauma or something I think, or
a kink, some type of like love kink.

Speaker 17 (59:33):
I think I have that because I'll.

Speaker 22 (59:35):
Be quick to be like, oh, yeah, I love you,
but it's like we're so it's like, like, of course
I do right now.

Speaker 17 (59:42):
It's nice.

Speaker 22 (59:43):
The sex is really nice, And sometimes that can be
just a little misleading, a little confusing. The emotions are high,
and I think just in general, my emotions run extremely high,
so I tend to romanticize and exaggerate things.

Speaker 10 (59:56):
Why can't you just love sex? To like, if somebody
flips you and fold you and put you in that pressure.

Speaker 17 (01:00:01):
A song, I love it.

Speaker 10 (01:00:03):
Why can't you just love the physical act?

Speaker 3 (01:00:06):
Like why did it have to be anything else?

Speaker 17 (01:00:08):
Yeah, you're right, I can love it.

Speaker 22 (01:00:10):
But I think a part of sex for me is
a very passionate thing, and it's just ironic because a
lot of the times it isn't or it hasn't been
in my past, very passionate and like, yeah, I think.

Speaker 17 (01:00:25):
Yeah, all my relationships were kind of just surfaced for real.

Speaker 6 (01:00:30):
Yeah.

Speaker 10 (01:00:31):
Do you want to be in love?

Speaker 3 (01:00:32):
Clearly? Right? We do.

Speaker 10 (01:00:33):
I do.

Speaker 3 (01:00:33):
Do you think you've ever been?

Speaker 18 (01:00:35):
No?

Speaker 22 (01:00:35):
No, I thought so, but no, I don't think I
have now that I know what it means to be
because it's a choice every day. I don't think I
ever made that choice every day in those relationships.

Speaker 3 (01:00:48):
You're in therapy, right, and yeah, I go to therapy
a lot as well, and your therapist will all often
tell you that your first, last, and best love is
self love, like you can't love anybody else. Yeah, until
you truly love yourself. Do you think that has been
part of the reading?

Speaker 17 (01:01:01):
Absolutely? My therapist is amazing.

Speaker 22 (01:01:04):
She has me doing these exercises every morning where I
have to look at myself in the mirror and that's
like so hard, like I'm speaking to myself and I
like who am I? And so it's been helpful, but
it's definitely been an exercise.

Speaker 17 (01:01:18):
That I avoid.

Speaker 22 (01:01:20):
I think it's just it's hard, honestly to face myself.
But I'm getting closer and it's amazing how long therapy
has happened.

Speaker 17 (01:01:29):
She's been telling me that I need to read this book.

Speaker 22 (01:01:32):
Called The Courage to Trust, and I've been avoiding it,
and it's just I know I could be so much
farther in my journey. It's funny that I'm just prolonging
healing in that way. But yeah, one day I'll read it.
One day I'll be able to breeze through that mirror exercise.
But yeah, so those are ways that.

Speaker 18 (01:01:51):
I'm like practicing self love, slowly facing myself and learning
who I am. You feel like an artist personality is
just as important as their talent. I do, and I
feel like it can be damaging if you're too honest,
too open, too opinionated. Yeah, there are things I wish

(01:02:12):
I never opened up about online, but you know, you
get one life, and I hate to regret anything at
eighty Like I should have said.

Speaker 13 (01:02:20):
This, should have did this?

Speaker 10 (01:02:21):
Should this person?

Speaker 13 (01:02:22):
Should have.

Speaker 10 (01:02:26):
Because they can see it's sexy as hell.

Speaker 21 (01:02:33):
Yeah, it's good sex.

Speaker 22 (01:02:37):
You're a manifesting because I ain't even having sex.

Speaker 17 (01:02:41):
It's been three years, so you're selling.

Speaker 21 (01:02:43):
Yeah, so you're celeb.

Speaker 22 (01:02:47):
Yeah, well, actually I did have a I shouldn't have said,
I didn't want to lie.

Speaker 17 (01:02:52):
Well it was almost three years.

Speaker 21 (01:02:54):
Okay, well no it was three years.

Speaker 13 (01:02:55):
It was it could have been longer, but yeah, no,
I'm not a liar, that's.

Speaker 11 (01:03:03):
You.

Speaker 6 (01:03:03):
I don't want my.

Speaker 17 (01:03:04):
Mom to know how it was just a little moment.

Speaker 21 (01:03:08):
So I want to ask you no more questions about it.

Speaker 17 (01:03:10):
Actually it was all right, she said, she want to.

Speaker 13 (01:03:13):
Ask you no more questions.

Speaker 21 (01:03:15):
Okay, great.

Speaker 18 (01:03:16):
So what because when people will say that they've been
celibate for like three years, five years, I'm like, how
do you not run into like instances of just like
the feeling of like wanting to mastery at all?

Speaker 17 (01:03:28):
Oh no, I do that every night.

Speaker 18 (01:03:32):
But because there are certain levels of celibacy, like I know,
people can sell it to the point where they're not
even trying to know.

Speaker 22 (01:03:38):
I could never go that long without doing that, And
I feel like my whole down there would completely change,
Like you would completely collapsed if I didn't make sure.

Speaker 17 (01:03:49):
She was good.

Speaker 21 (01:03:50):
So what was the running you had that almost like
messed it all up or kind of set you back?

Speaker 17 (01:03:53):
You said, Oh, I don't.

Speaker 22 (01:03:54):
Think it set me back. I feel like I needed
to get that energy off me. I feel like I
was really becoming decrepit a bit, and like.

Speaker 17 (01:04:03):
And just I just was too.

Speaker 22 (01:04:05):
I just felt in my energy, my energy was exuding
prudeness and honestly, there's nothing wrong with that, and I
feel like celibacy is a beautiful thing. But me personally,
I just needed a nice restart of And so yeah,
now we're back.

Speaker 3 (01:04:22):
So yeah, what's the clock at now?

Speaker 10 (01:04:25):
What do you mean in general, mamas watching yours watching?

Speaker 17 (01:04:36):
I don't know.

Speaker 3 (01:04:42):
Now, listen, every time we've had conversations, you know, on
this air, I'm like, yo, she's such a nice person, Like,
she got such a personality, right, but if you just
see what you do online, you think all she does
is complain, Like we can't even watch Martin without her complaining.

Speaker 17 (01:04:57):
Please watch Martin, watch Mark, Yes.

Speaker 3 (01:05:02):
I can. I know.

Speaker 22 (01:05:08):
And it meant the world to me because he was
so gentle in his response, and oh, I I didn't
expect that.

Speaker 17 (01:05:17):
I actually, when I.

Speaker 21 (01:05:20):
Responded to she did.

Speaker 17 (01:05:23):
I did cry.

Speaker 22 (01:05:25):
Yeah, yeah, because you know, he didn't have to respond
so beautifully the way that he did, and I didn't
feel it was invalidating, you know what I'm saying. But
he was also you know, true to himself and I
respect that completely as a big fan of him. It
meant the world to me because he's a legendary comedian.
He could have dragged me to hell, so along with

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the world exactly. It was heartbreaking. It was a heavy
time for me because I felt like I isolated myself
from every black person in the world.

Speaker 17 (01:05:54):
So like I was ruminating heavy.

Speaker 22 (01:05:57):
But luckily the album like pulled me out of the
dumps and therapy and things of that nature.

Speaker 17 (01:06:05):
Yeah at it.

Speaker 10 (01:06:07):
Oh yeah, she coachually confident enough to understand Martin.

Speaker 17 (01:06:10):
Oh yeah, I'm sure she she loves it.

Speaker 3 (01:06:13):
Yeah. Do you have a therapist?

Speaker 22 (01:06:16):
Yeah, therapist. She's lovely, beautiful, beautiful natural hair.

Speaker 17 (01:06:20):
She's great.

Speaker 22 (01:06:21):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (01:06:22):
The most interesting thing that we're gonna witness about you
is how you get better with time. Like I can
see it, like your music is gonna get better with time.
Plus just you as a person, like your levels of
I don't give up going to get better as you
get older, and you're gonna be that rich auntie, you
know what I mean, who may decide to get married,
may not just got to get married, may get married
once or twice, get the boy, but you're going to

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God sixteen.

Speaker 22 (01:06:53):
Freaky husband is going to have a beautiful freaky wife
and we are going to be together a fars and
lamas and camels and kangaroo.

Speaker 17 (01:07:10):
Really, yes, the whole farm life with the.

Speaker 13 (01:07:15):
Black at the same time.

Speaker 17 (01:07:16):
Mexican man, thank you love today six three? It's amazing.
Are you being trifling?

Speaker 5 (01:07:27):
Both of them?

Speaker 4 (01:07:30):
I'm happy about it.

Speaker 10 (01:07:31):
I can't wait to see forty four. You old are
thank you with a Mexican man?

Speaker 3 (01:07:35):
You black?

Speaker 22 (01:07:36):
I would love a Mexican man or Mexican and bla
black man. I mean, but I'm down for it all.
I think Bad Bunny is very handsome. I know he's
Puerto Rican. He's Puerto Rican, but you know, no, not
a butt. But I love Puerto Ricans. Well, I just
Latino people.

Speaker 3 (01:07:57):
You enjoyed the Super Bowls? What you're trying to do?

Speaker 10 (01:07:59):
I did enjoy Okay, have you met him?

Speaker 17 (01:08:00):
Honestly, I didn't watch it.

Speaker 3 (01:08:01):
I'm like.

Speaker 9 (01:08:04):
The d n B.

Speaker 3 (01:08:05):
They loved it, no reason.

Speaker 11 (01:08:07):
I loved it.

Speaker 1 (01:08:11):
Exactly.

Speaker 17 (01:08:13):
You know she wait for get it.

Speaker 4 (01:08:18):
It's the breakfast Club. Good morning. Everybody's d j n
V just hilarious, charlamage the guy.

Speaker 12 (01:08:24):
We are the Breakfast Club law La ROAs is here
as well, and it's time for Pastor Oaks.

Speaker 1 (01:08:41):
Yeah, DJ comes.

Speaker 3 (01:08:42):
Comes Big Nyla n y l A Young nineteen ninety
now live from l A because she got a party.

Speaker 17 (01:08:50):
Yes, how are you?

Speaker 10 (01:08:54):
You're there for BT weekend right?

Speaker 23 (01:08:55):
Yeah, I'm there for b E T. Also I'm doing
a single release party. My first is released in today Friday,
so I'm really excited.

Speaker 3 (01:09:04):
You're saying first single. You don't even tell folks you
got an album coming. I'm what you're doing? Playing like.

Speaker 6 (01:09:13):
Like you know how you like albums?

Speaker 3 (01:09:16):
DJ Drama do albums like how cool we used to
do albums?

Speaker 6 (01:09:20):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (01:09:23):
I hate he hated about it.

Speaker 12 (01:09:24):
I don't remember the NVY album, that whole one album,
you know, do this particular song, but go ahead, y.

Speaker 10 (01:09:30):
Yes, this is like my.

Speaker 23 (01:09:32):
First album that I curated in partnership with Generation Now
and I wonder work with jin Now hence their name
because they're supposed to represent Jim Now. So they let
me curate just all the top m c's out right now,
and I wanted to start with a posse cut to
just kind of show what the vibes are going to be,
you know.

Speaker 3 (01:09:49):
Knowledge That's how you know got a old so she said,
poss cut.

Speaker 10 (01:09:59):
Postic that no, we did back in that day.

Speaker 3 (01:10:03):
What's the modern version of post cut?

Speaker 10 (01:10:05):
Gang Game a song with a bunch of features.

Speaker 13 (01:10:09):
I got this that I got both for you.

Speaker 4 (01:10:11):
Let's get into it.

Speaker 13 (01:10:12):
It's R two D two Hey.

Speaker 10 (01:10:14):
Who that that's a guy I write for. His name
is suave You know I do that right for Save?

Speaker 15 (01:10:22):
No I do.

Speaker 3 (01:10:23):
He does his own production. He did that beat too,
but I write for him. When you see ass line
I do right for Save?

Speaker 9 (01:10:29):
That was that was?

Speaker 4 (01:10:30):
That's the video you showed me right?

Speaker 10 (01:10:31):
Yes, that's hard. Who's all on that record?

Speaker 3 (01:10:34):
Though? Niland?

Speaker 23 (01:10:36):
So it starts off with Suavee on the hook and
he did the beat. It got three beat changes. Then
it goes into Wins. She's from Portland, okig artist Portland
right now Vincent out of Charlotte, North Carolina.

Speaker 13 (01:10:46):
Obviously we got Jordan.

Speaker 23 (01:10:49):
Bell Cash, Nico Brim, Chris Patrick who was on the
XXL freshman class this year, and then we got Ben
Riley and Marco Plus to close it out. I really
got to watch the video because the video shows personality.
You get to see what everybody look like. Yes, it's

(01:11:10):
a whole new regime. You know, like all right, Big
three is dead, but it's a whole new class. You
should be paying attention, y'all.

Speaker 3 (01:11:16):
Shot the video in Atlanta right at Generation Now studio,
in the studio in street not really telling this story
the right way.

Speaker 17 (01:11:26):
Now.

Speaker 3 (01:11:26):
That got all of these young artists that come down
to Atlanta for a weekend, like all of them, like
the Marco plus is the cash is the you know,
Ruben Vincent, the Ben Riley, the Nico Brims.

Speaker 10 (01:11:39):
When she got all of the I'm missing a bunch
of them.

Speaker 3 (01:11:41):
She got all of these artists to come down for
a weekend to record this project.

Speaker 1 (01:11:46):
You know how tough that is, a bunch of artists.

Speaker 21 (01:11:48):
ChRI Patrick booming right now, humble, Well, I'm appreciate you.

Speaker 3 (01:11:56):
I don't think should play nobody else music today. Think
should play that? I think you played on that's on
streaming services today.

Speaker 17 (01:12:02):
You know what I agree?

Speaker 11 (01:12:03):
Let's do it.

Speaker 4 (01:12:04):
Is it a streaming services today?

Speaker 10 (01:12:07):
Go download? Ready it's called ready to Die again, right yeah?
R two D two R two D two watch such
a dark title, ready to die get Well.

Speaker 23 (01:12:15):
It was like a joke in the studio, like we
were just talking about all the struggles that it took
for us to get to this point, and it's like
every time we died, but we're back. It's more like
a rebird all right.

Speaker 3 (01:12:25):
Now, got every dope young artist to get on this project.

Speaker 4 (01:12:29):
That's dope.

Speaker 3 (01:12:30):
She got Who else you got on this project?

Speaker 23 (01:12:31):
I got Louis.

Speaker 17 (01:12:34):
Tough from New Orleans.

Speaker 18 (01:12:37):
We got the song from Detroit, Trapp Diggy, got the
whole double XL Freshman class.

Speaker 21 (01:12:43):
Yeah, we only got you got you got the Yeah,
you got the ones.

Speaker 17 (01:12:49):
Yeah.

Speaker 10 (01:12:49):
What's the name of our honor roll?

Speaker 13 (01:12:51):
Right, well, that's just the collective name.

Speaker 3 (01:12:53):
I like that you haven't put out the title yet.

Speaker 10 (01:12:55):
Yeah, okay, Well the single is out right now, go down.

Speaker 3 (01:13:00):
You just heard this big nihl of nihilis simone.

Speaker 10 (01:13:02):
Coming out with an album.

Speaker 4 (01:13:03):
Congratulations some of the clean Versionloge.

Speaker 23 (01:13:06):
I got you that's your right now?

Speaker 3 (01:13:07):
Well then you have.

Speaker 21 (01:13:10):
Thank you guys.

Speaker 13 (01:13:11):
Download the single.

Speaker 6 (01:13:12):
Yay.

Speaker 21 (01:13:12):
Check out the videos on YouTube.

Speaker 13 (01:13:14):
Now, harol you there, so you're tired, Let's get to
the mix.

Speaker 4 (01:13:18):
It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, good morning, everybody's dj.

Speaker 12 (01:13:21):
NV just hilarious. Charlemagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club.
Charlemagne you got a positive note.

Speaker 10 (01:13:27):
Now the positive note is this, relinquish the need to
change of this.

Speaker 3 (01:13:32):
Okay, Real love is accepting other people the way they
are without trying to change them. If we try to
change them, this means that we don't really like them.
It is easier to find someone who is already the
way you want him or her to beat instead of
trying to change that person.

Speaker 13 (01:13:46):
Have a great day, but with a breakfast club you
don't finish for y'all dumb.

Speaker 1 (01:13:52):
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