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So they did a study and thenew study came out that almost two thirds
of people who use Tinder are actuallyin a relationship, and almost half of
the users aren't even interested in findinga date. I believe it. Two
thirds, Yeah, you know muchthat is that's a that's a high percentage.
So does that mean all they wantis sex? Or did they want
(00:22):
to treat or they just want toego boost? They want Yeah, that's
exactly they want confidence, they wantattention. I've met multiple men that have
girlfriends or something on there. Andthen also you have the ones that it's
weird. Guys will ask you areyou single? And I'm like, yeah,
obviously that's why I'm on the app. So I'm like, are you
asking that because you're not single?Because why would you ask me that.
I'm just going to assume we're allsingle here because that's the point. Or
(00:45):
you also have people that are polyamorousthat I'm looking for a third person.
It's it's called a situationship. That'soh really, that's a new word.
I like that. Yeah, it'slike not having to commit. It's like
an open release. The situationships likeyou have sex and you don't so the
situationship is not if you're looking fora third No, a situationship, you're
just looking for a situation with someone. It's yeah, it's it's a casual,
(01:08):
undefined commitment free relationship. You're basicallyhanging out and having sex, but
you're not committed. Now, howis it that your girlfriend or significant other
would not know that you're on tender? Uh? I mean you could go
on vacation and start an account.You could. You can hide it so
you could use it for like tenminutes, get your little ego boots,
(01:30):
and then you can hide it.And then because you can literally go on
like on ghost mode on it,really you can erase it. You can
hide the communication on Tinder, noraise, you can literally hide yourself from
anyone discovering you. Yeah. Ihad a person that I know that went
on vacation from his wife and usedyou know, downloaded Tinder, got on
there, hooked up with a girl. After it was over, he left
(01:53):
and went home and didn't you know, you're kind of weird about it.
Didn't want to give the girl youhooked up with his phone number. Yeah,
and so when the girl was obviouslycould tell that something was up,
so she tracked him down on socialmedia, found out he had a wife,
contacted the wife yeah, and said, hey, you know, and
exposed him. Exposed him. Ijust hooked up with your husband. What
happened to the relationship. I thinkthey're still together, I believe, But
(02:16):
it wasn't you know, it wasn'tpretty. By the way, how do
you come on vacation without your wife? Guys trip? Oh you just build
it as a guy's trip, theguys trip. Yeah, okay, yeah,
seems okay. You've never been ona guy's trip. You used to
do guys get away a weekend.Okay, so guy, it was in
(02:38):
guy's weekend. Needy, he alwaysneeds to be with somebody. You're very
needy. You're like, well,a lot of these golf a lot of
these trips are golf trips. Ihave to say, golf getaway, guy
trips. You see them, yousee him all the time. Wow.
Yeah, I think it's I'm notthat shocked. I mean, I wish
(02:59):
it was a little bit less.It seems like a really big number,
But I mean, there's so manyreasons people want to now entertainment. They
go on it. They just thinkit's oh, can I get it?
How many girls can I get togive me to think I'm hot, to
match with me? Like it's anego boost. It's it's need to be
seen and to have someone say Ithink you're hot. Yeah, what's the
(03:21):
entertainment? Oh, you're adding uphow many women? Like? Imagine if
you and then all these women wereswiping on you be like, look at
that least? Yeah, or Ijust had one hundred and fifty women.
Can I understand me? You know, an naked picture? Can I get
it? Meet up with me?Can I get you? I mean,
it's just like guys are like usingit as a competition. Sometimes they go
on a guy's trip, who canget more girls? All least? Do
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you think for one minute if Iwere sneaking around on Tinder, I would
share that with you. Yeah,no, I'm just one of my only
friends. Just like that. You'regonna say what, No, but I
think but it's just an example andthat what a guy would do. Yeah,
any guy, he'd be like,look at look at that, look
at how many people think I'm hot? Yeah, it's an ego boost.
(04:05):
They don't do anything with it,and that's what the study saying. But
they like use it as a wayto like make themselves feel better. If
you need your self esteem boost,tenders a way to go. It's instagraphfication.
Yeah, you get a little swiperight when we matched. Okay,
they think I'm pretty too, theythink I'm hot. There's something else I
want to write down. It's asituationship. Yeah, I love that work.
(04:26):
That's what But that's what's wearing relationships. Wow, because everyone gets in
these situationships and no one defines anythingand no one commits, and then we
all just have a bunch of situationshipsthat are hard to get over if they
feel like a real relationship, butthey're not. And that's what's going on
a lot with the younger people rightwhere they're just all hanging out in groups
and they all have situationships. Thenyeah, they're all creating their jobs and
they're all not getting in relationships.They're just kind of you know, they're
(04:50):
just all going places as a groupand it's a situation Hypeah. I just
feel bad for the other one thirdthat are on there trying to find lovey,
you know, trying to really meetsomebody. Yeah, yeah, go
ahead, answer your question. Ican ask this. Yeah, like anything
I ask your question, So haveyou found your Do you specifically go on
(05:16):
Tinder specifically for sex? No?Okay, no, I don't need to
go on Tender. Yeah that's adate. Yeah, it's a date.
Yeah. But didn't Tinder start outas the app for strictly hookups? Yeah?
I mean it definitely was one ofthe first apps, dating apps,
(05:36):
sex, whatever you want to callit, but it's really what you make
it. Like if you if youdon't want to have sex, you don't
want to have sex on Tender.If you if you feel the need or
you feel the want to engage inany sexual activity with someone from Hinder,
there's no problem with that. Ijust think dating has changed in so many
ways in the last ten years.Like that, people adapt and it's easier
to hook up because you know itcan be more incognitio. You swipe on
(05:59):
it app, you don't tell anybody, you meet up, you hook up,
and then that's it. So you'retelling me that if I wake up
some morning and I want to feelgood about myself, I should be on
Tinder. Helps. But then again, it could backfire. It can make
it feel bad. Nothing like whatif there's no interest at all? Yeah,
it goes either way. They'll beinteresting. Thing is, the funny
(06:20):
thing is in Billy is you're alreadyon tender basically because so many people use
their the picture of you with them, yeah, and get girls to swipe
on them. No, that's reallytrue. Really, I've never seen it.
Yeah, you mean people are ontender with their profile picture of me
with them. Yeah, so they'llthey'll meet you in public and take a
(06:42):
picture with you, and then they'lluse that picture as their tender picture because
people see it in it gives theminstant credibility. Oh my god, this
is why I'm not fighting love.I have no pictures of Billy on my
Tinder. Oh my god, Ineed to post. I'll post our headshots
from the morning show for incredibility.Wait a minute, So do you think
(07:05):
when people see the picture of theperson with me they think we're looking for
a threesome. No, oh mygod, I'm so confused.
So they did a study and thenew study came out that almost two thirds
of people who use Tinder are actuallyin a relationship, and almost half of
the users aren't even interested in findinga date. I believe it. Two
thirds, Yeah, you know muchthat is that's a that's a high percentage.
So does that mean all they wantis sex? Or did they want
(00:22):
to treat or they just want toego boost? They want Yeah, that's
exactly they want confidence, they wantattention. I've met multiple men that have
girlfriends or something on there. Andthen also you have the ones that it's
weird. Guys will ask you areyou single? And I'm like, yeah,
obviously that's why I'm on the app. So I'm like, are you
asking that because you're not single?Because why would you ask me that.
I'm just going to assume we're allsingle here because that's the point. Or
(00:45):
you also have people that are polyamorousthat I'm looking for a third person.
It's it's called a situationship. That'soh really, that's a new word.
I like that. Yeah, it'slike not having to commit. It's like
an open release. The situationships likeyou have sex and you don't so the
situationship is not if you're looking fora third No, a situationship, you're
just looking for a situation with someone. It's yeah, it's it's a casual,
(01:08):
undefined commitment free relationship. You're basicallyhanging out and having sex, but
you're not committed. Now, howis it that your girlfriend or significant other
would not know that you're on tender? Uh? I mean you could go
on vacation and start an account.You could. You can hide it so
you could use it for like tenminutes, get your little ego boots,
(01:30):
and then you can hide it.And then because you can literally go on
like on ghost mode on it,really you can erase it. You can
hide the communication on Tinder, noraise, you can literally hide yourself from
anyone discovering you. Yeah. Ihad a person that I know that went
on vacation from his wife and usedyou know, downloaded Tinder, got on
there, hooked up with a girl. After it was over, he left
(01:53):
and went home and didn't you know, you're kind of weird about it.
Didn't want to give the girl youhooked up with his phone number. Yeah,
and so when the girl was obviouslycould tell that something was up,
so she tracked him down on socialmedia, found out he had a wife,
contacted the wife yeah, and said, hey, you know, and
exposed him. Exposed him. Ijust hooked up with your husband. What
happened to the relationship. I thinkthey're still together, I believe, But
(02:16):
it wasn't you know, it wasn'tpretty. By the way, how do
you come on vacation without your wife? Guys trip? Oh you just build
it as a guy's trip, theguys trip. Yeah, okay, yeah,
seems okay. You've never been ona guy's trip. You used to
do guys get away a weekend.Okay, so guy, it was in
(02:38):
guy's weekend. Needy, he alwaysneeds to be with somebody. You're very
needy. You're like, well,a lot of these golf a lot of
these trips are golf trips. Ihave to say, golf getaway, guy
trips. You see them, yousee him all the time. Wow.
Yeah, I think it's I'm notthat shocked. I mean, I wish
(02:59):
it was a little bit less.It seems like a really big number,
But I mean, there's so manyreasons people want to now entertainment. They
go on it. They just thinkit's oh, can I get it?
How many girls can I get togive me to think I'm hot, to
match with me? Like it's anego boost. It's it's need to be
seen and to have someone say Ithink you're hot. Yeah, what's the
(03:21):
entertainment? Oh, you're adding uphow many women? Like? Imagine if
you and then all these women wereswiping on you be like, look at
that least? Yeah, or Ijust had one hundred and fifty women.
Can I understand me? You know, an naked picture? Can I get
it? Meet up with me?Can I get you? I mean,
it's just like guys are like usingit as a competition. Sometimes they go
on a guy's trip, who canget more girls? All least? Do
(03:45):
you think for one minute if Iwere sneaking around on Tinder, I would
share that with you. Yeah,no, I'm just one of my only
friends. Just like that. You'regonna say what, No, but I
think but it's just an example andthat what a guy would do. Yeah,
any guy, he'd be like,look at look at that, look
at how many people think I'm hot? Yeah, it's an ego boost.
(04:05):
They don't do anything with it,and that's what the study saying. But
they like use it as a wayto like make themselves feel better. If
you need your self esteem boost,tenders a way to go. It's instagraphfication.
Yeah, you get a little swiperight when we matched. Okay,
they think I'm pretty too, theythink I'm hot. There's something else I
want to write down. It's asituationship. Yeah, I love that work.
(04:26):
That's what But that's what's wearing relationships. Wow, because everyone gets in
these situationships and no one defines anythingand no one commits, and then we
all just have a bunch of situationshipsthat are hard to get over if they
feel like a real relationship, butthey're not. And that's what's going on
a lot with the younger people rightwhere they're just all hanging out in groups
and they all have situationships. Thenyeah, they're all creating their jobs and
they're all not getting in relationships.They're just kind of you know, they're
(04:50):
just all going places as a groupand it's a situation Hypeah. I just
feel bad for the other one thirdthat are on there trying to find lovey,
you know, trying to really meetsomebody. Yeah, yeah, go
ahead, answer your question. Ican ask this. Yeah, like anything
I ask your question, So haveyou found your Do you specifically go on
(05:16):
Tinder specifically for sex? No?Okay, no, I don't need to
go on Tender. Yeah that's adate. Yeah, it's a date.
Yeah. But didn't Tinder start outas the app for strictly hookups? Yeah?
I mean it definitely was one ofthe first apps, dating apps,
(05:36):
sex, whatever you want to callit, but it's really what you make
it. Like if you if youdon't want to have sex, you don't
want to have sex on Tender.If you if you feel the need or
you feel the want to engage inany sexual activity with someone from Hinder,
there's no problem with that. Ijust think dating has changed in so many
ways in the last ten years.Like that, people adapt and it's easier
to hook up because you know itcan be more incognitio. You swipe on
(05:59):
it app, you don't tell anybody, you meet up, you hook up,
and then that's it. So you'retelling me that if I wake up
some morning and I want to feelgood about myself, I should be on
Tinder. Helps. But then again, it could backfire. It can make
it feel bad. Nothing like whatif there's no interest at all? Yeah,
it goes either way. They'll beinteresting. Thing is, the funny
(06:20):
thing is in Billy is you're alreadyon tender basically because so many people use
their the picture of you with them, yeah, and get girls to swipe
on them. No, that's reallytrue. Really, I've never seen it.
Yeah, you mean people are ontender with their profile picture of me
with them. Yeah, so they'llthey'll meet you in public and take a
(06:42):
picture with you, and then they'lluse that picture as their tender picture because
people see it in it gives theminstant credibility. Oh my god, this
is why I'm not fighting love.I have no pictures of Billy on my
Tinder. Oh my god, Ineed to post. I'll post our headshots
from the morning show for incredibility.Wait a minute, So do you think
(07:05):
when people see the picture of theperson with me they think we're looking for
a threesome. No, oh mygod, I'm so confused.
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