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Speaker 1 (00:00):
All right, it is time now for am I the
A Hole on the Mojo in the morning show. If
you would like to give a little piece of advice
to a listener on this on the phone here Actually Madison,
she sent us this on our talkback, which is on
the iHeartRadio app. Go to our station on the iHeart
Radio app, hits the talkback, send us your am I
(00:20):
the A Hole and you could be on with us
next week.
Speaker 2 (00:23):
So, my boyfriend's been arrested before, and my friends think
I should break up with him, but I don't really
want to.
Speaker 1 (00:32):
So am I the A hole? If I stay with them?
So she said that her boyfriend's been arrested. And Madison,
what was he arrested for?
Speaker 3 (00:45):
So he was arrested like ten years ago.
Speaker 4 (00:48):
He robbed a party store after.
Speaker 3 (00:50):
He got out of high school.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
Okay, so hate me and he got arrested. And how
did and how did you guys find out about this
now ten years later? How did he bring that up
to you and just share it with you?
Speaker 3 (01:03):
Yeah, it was one of the first Yeah, it was
one of the first things he brought up when when
we met.
Speaker 1 (01:08):
Yeah. Respect, Yeah, he was forthcoming. And your friends know
about this. And your friends think that it's weird that
you're still dating this guy.
Speaker 3 (01:18):
Yeah, they think it's like a big red flag or something.
Speaker 1 (01:20):
Has there been any other red flags aside from this?
Speaker 5 (01:26):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (01:27):
I think he's I mean he's a really good guy
to me. I think he's changed.
Speaker 4 (01:30):
I mean it was ten years ago, so I don't
have any issue.
Speaker 1 (01:34):
So I'm guessing, what are you guys like thirty years old?
Speaker 6 (01:38):
I mean, yeah, almost, he's twenty nine.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
So when he was just out of high school, you
said in your talkback, he was arrested, and your friends
think it's crazy that you're still dating a guy that
had been arrested. Did he have to do did he
have to do time or did he get himself in
trouble more than that?
Speaker 7 (01:59):
I mean he got charged for a criminal sense.
Speaker 3 (02:03):
But but like, yeah, I just don't see the issue.
Speaker 2 (02:09):
Yeah, in terms of your relationship with your friends. Is
it a situation where in order for you to take
him seriously, he has to get along with your friends.
Speaker 4 (02:22):
I guess I don't really know what their issue is.
Speaker 6 (02:25):
That he's just been arrested before, But he was honest.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
With me about it, So I don't want to break
up with him. And it seems like he's a pretty
decent guy. Now, yeah, because something, Yeah, I have no.
Speaker 2 (02:39):
Some people really lean on their friends in these situations
and they have such deep rooted friendships that if the
person doesn't get along with him, then you must not
be my person. I wonder if that's kind of a situation.
Speaker 1 (02:53):
I think if it was ten years ago and it's
not something that is still following him where you can't
do certain things because of you know, I don't know
what potentially could like you still. I don't know if
you're in probation ten years later. I don't know the
law or anything like that. I think it's fine. I
wouldn't break up with him.
Speaker 3 (03:11):
Have they met him, Yeah, they've met him, But to
them it just doesn't really matter.
Speaker 1 (03:17):
I think there's certain things your friends should know about,
and there's certain things they should know about, you know
what I mean. And I think the idea that they
know so much information about this guy unless you look
up the information and he google.
Speaker 5 (03:29):
It like there's more of the story or yeah, you know.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
Eight four to four Mojo Live eight four four six
six five six five four eight Ashland wants to make
a comment, am ib a hole what do you think
Ashlin is Madison and a hole? She stays with him.
Speaker 4 (03:45):
For wanting to stay with him, No, but if she
wants to break up with him, yes, because like people
make stupid mistakes in high school, like right after too,
and usually like if he has changed and improved than
that he has in fact changed from, then it shouldn't matter.
(04:06):
Let your friends think for this.
Speaker 1 (04:08):
Yeah, so if she broke up with him, she's an
a whole. Staying with him, she's not an a whole.
I get it. Yeah, yeah, that makes sense. Text her
here says you should learn more to the story, find
out exactly what happened and what the charges were. What's up,
Sarah high, Good morning.
Speaker 3 (04:28):
I do think it's weird that her friend cares so
much about his criminal background, Like, one, how did they
find out about it?
Speaker 4 (04:36):
Two?
Speaker 3 (04:38):
What does it matter what he did ten years ago?
People changed? Like when I got out of high school,
I wasn't the smartest person and I'm a slow learner.
I've done things probably multiple times. But why does it
matter what he did ten years ago to them?
Speaker 1 (04:52):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (04:53):
That's why I'm like, I'm wondering if there's more to
the story, and you know, if they like did a
deep dive on him and found out something.
Speaker 1 (05:00):
Because what's up? Zena?
Speaker 3 (05:04):
Hi?
Speaker 1 (05:05):
Hi? Xena is Madison an a hole? She stays with
her boyfriend with a criminal past.
Speaker 7 (05:12):
No, truthfully, you can't fold some of these tests against them,
especially something that they did ten years.
Speaker 4 (05:18):
Ago as a child.
Speaker 7 (05:19):
I mean, you move on and truthfully, if they're not
being supportive, then she sounds like she should probably get
some new friends.
Speaker 1 (05:28):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (05:29):
That's what actually makes me super concerned, is that you
think you would be an a hole if you didn't
listen to what your friends told you to do.
Speaker 1 (05:35):
Yeah, in Madison, this is an interesting text. Are your
friends single? If so, they want you to be single too?
Are they? Are they single friends or are they in
relationship friends?
Speaker 3 (05:47):
Some of them are single, some of them aren't.
Speaker 1 (05:49):
Okay, so it doesn't Yeah, so it's a fifty fue.
What's up? Michelle? Hi? I'm okay, Michelle? What's going on?
Where you calling us?
Speaker 4 (06:00):
Well?
Speaker 3 (06:00):
I just say where my talent from?
Speaker 1 (06:02):
You sound like you're either in a distance or or yeah,
like where are you? Okay? What's going on? What are
your thoughts on? Am I the a hole?
Speaker 7 (06:12):
So?
Speaker 3 (06:12):
I think her friends are to a whole for expecting
her to break off with someone that did something ten
years ago.
Speaker 4 (06:18):
Yeah, because you know, we all be stupid stuff.
Speaker 3 (06:21):
When we're young. Shoe labors that are I feel like
you know hasdemen themselves?
Speaker 1 (06:27):
Have you, Michelle or any of you guys ever told
a friend that they should break up with somebody? Oh?
Yeah you have? Yeah? And what was the reasoning? Do
you remember?
Speaker 5 (06:34):
And I didn't do it soon enough. I wish I
would have done it sooner. And she says she wished
I would have done it sooner.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
What was wrong with him?
Speaker 5 (06:40):
I could I he was so disrespectful to myself and
her other friends. And the way that he treated her
closest friends to me was such a huge red flag
because I thought, if he's treating us this way, it
scares me how he's treating her when other people aren't around.
He was just really it was it was a really
(07:01):
strange situation.
Speaker 1 (07:02):
How long was she in the relationship before she finally
woke up?
Speaker 5 (07:06):
Uh? After that, like after we all witnessed how he
was to us? Yeah, maybe like three or four months.
And I can't remember.
Speaker 2 (07:14):
It was a while ago back why she broke up
because he was sitting her back.
Speaker 1 (07:17):
Oh yes, yep, Yeah, what's up? Mark, it's am iv
a hole? What's going on? Not?
Speaker 4 (07:24):
How you doing to day?
Speaker 1 (07:25):
Mojo? I'm okay, Bud. You wanted to make a comment
on Madison's boyfriend. Yeah, first time, long time though, on
the phone. All right, So my comment is, if you're
in high school and Susie sleeps with you know, let's say,
fifteen twenty year classmates ten years later, is that still
makes Susie a slut? Well? No, I mean, I mean
(07:47):
if she changes their ways and she's got a boyfriend
and you know, she's not sleeping her out no more?
I mean, does her fast still stick with her moss? Yeah?
But what if the crime was murder? Huh? Okay, what
if the crime? What if the crime was maybe uh
not murder, maybe if it was, I don't know, something
else on a level. Well, if the guy robbed the
(08:09):
party store, what if it was aggravated assault and he
beat the hell out of the party store work. Yeah,
Like that's the question is like, what was the crime?
I want to know, Stephanie, what's going on? Hi?
Speaker 3 (08:22):
Hi, I'm just curious as how violent?
Speaker 1 (08:26):
That's what I wondered. Madison have you looked to see
like it was? It was? It was it with a gun?
Was it? Uh? Do you even know violent? Do you
have any idea? Uh?
Speaker 3 (08:38):
Yeah, I know, And no it wasn't. It was just
a high school kid stealing some stuff.
Speaker 7 (08:44):
You know.
Speaker 1 (08:44):
Oh well then that's okay because we all steal stuff.
I stole something yesterday. But you know what I mean,
I know I'm no. But but but if it was
if it was more violent, or if there was a
you know, violent aspect to the whole thing. Yeah, you
know that matters a little bit. Yeah, what do you
think Jordan's I'll say, I mean, from a man standpoint,
I'd rather date someone that knocked off a liquor store
(09:06):
than some chick has been knocked off by twenty dudes
fair enough to throw a stone from a glasshouse. I
think you said it all. Thank you, Jordan. I appreciate it.
He said, three letters. I'm concerned with? Ain't FBI is stdah? Alison?
What's up? Allison?
Speaker 7 (09:27):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (09:27):
Hold on, Alison, I got you there? You are high?
Or Ace? I'm sorry? Ace? I lost Allison? What's up?
Speaker 6 (09:37):
Not much now? Much so as the as the resident
X con over here right, okays. I think it's for me.
It's one of the things I bring up very early
with dating someone because it's not for everybody. Right, you
have your your choice to say I want to deal
(09:58):
with that or I don't want to deal with it.
But if her friends, if she's okay with it, and
her friends are the one that's like, don't do it,
then you know she's like, he's not dating a friends,
she's not dating friends at dave each other. So defriend's opinion,
it should't matter what's.
Speaker 1 (10:14):
Been your experience when you have brought it up.
Speaker 6 (10:18):
So I've had some people to be like, no, I
don't you know, I'm okay, I don't want to deal
with that, And I've had some people that's okay with it,
I mean obviously, but yeah, it's it's it's definitely I
learned very early that I should bring it up sooner
rather than later.
Speaker 1 (10:34):
Yeah, And you don't want them to find out about
it on their own, right, Oh?
Speaker 6 (10:38):
Absolutely not.
Speaker 1 (10:40):
If I googled you Ace, if we were on a
date with each other, would it come up?
Speaker 4 (10:48):
Maybe? Maybe not?
Speaker 6 (10:49):
Like my name is very common what you do?
Speaker 5 (10:54):
Yeah, back in the day arm robbery.
Speaker 1 (10:59):
Yep, M, did you kill anybody?
Speaker 6 (11:01):
Yep, And a lot of things are circumstantial too, right,
Like you don't the reasons the people do bad things?
Did you?
Speaker 1 (11:08):
Did you kill anybody?
Speaker 6 (11:09):
Someone's in a position and asked him if he killed anybody?
Speaker 5 (11:13):
Did you kill anybody?
Speaker 6 (11:15):
When I was in prison, I did you?
Speaker 1 (11:18):
Just like that were the circumstance. I can't like, how
do you g
All right, it is time now for am I the
A Hole on the Mojo in the morning show. If
you would like to give a little piece of advice
to a listener on this on the phone here Actually Madison,
she sent us this on our talkback, which is on
the iHeartRadio app. Go to our station on the iHeart
Radio app, hits the talkback, send us your am I
(00:20):
the A Hole and you could be on with us
next week.
Speaker 2 (00:23):
So, my boyfriend's been arrested before, and my friends think
I should break up with him, but I don't really
want to.
Speaker 1 (00:32):
So am I the A hole? If I stay with them?
So she said that her boyfriend's been arrested. And Madison,
what was he arrested for?
Speaker 3 (00:45):
So he was arrested like ten years ago.
Speaker 4 (00:48):
He robbed a party store after.
Speaker 3 (00:50):
He got out of high school.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
Okay, so hate me and he got arrested. And how
did and how did you guys find out about this
now ten years later? How did he bring that up
to you and just share it with you?
Speaker 3 (01:03):
Yeah, it was one of the first Yeah, it was
one of the first things he brought up when when
we met.
Speaker 1 (01:08):
Yeah. Respect, Yeah, he was forthcoming. And your friends know
about this. And your friends think that it's weird that
you're still dating this guy.
Speaker 3 (01:18):
Yeah, they think it's like a big red flag or something.
Speaker 1 (01:20):
Has there been any other red flags aside from this?
Speaker 5 (01:26):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (01:27):
I think he's I mean he's a really good guy
to me. I think he's changed.
Speaker 4 (01:30):
I mean it was ten years ago, so I don't
have any issue.
Speaker 1 (01:34):
So I'm guessing, what are you guys like thirty years old?
Speaker 6 (01:38):
I mean, yeah, almost, he's twenty nine.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
So when he was just out of high school, you
said in your talkback, he was arrested, and your friends
think it's crazy that you're still dating a guy that
had been arrested. Did he have to do did he
have to do time or did he get himself in
trouble more than that?
Speaker 7 (01:59):
I mean he got charged for a criminal sense.
Speaker 3 (02:03):
But but like, yeah, I just don't see the issue.
Speaker 2 (02:09):
Yeah, in terms of your relationship with your friends. Is
it a situation where in order for you to take
him seriously, he has to get along with your friends.
Speaker 4 (02:22):
I guess I don't really know what their issue is.
Speaker 6 (02:25):
That he's just been arrested before, But he was honest.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
With me about it, So I don't want to break
up with him. And it seems like he's a pretty
decent guy. Now, yeah, because something, Yeah, I have no.
Speaker 2 (02:39):
Some people really lean on their friends in these situations
and they have such deep rooted friendships that if the
person doesn't get along with him, then you must not
be my person. I wonder if that's kind of a situation.
Speaker 1 (02:53):
I think if it was ten years ago and it's
not something that is still following him where you can't
do certain things because of you know, I don't know
what potentially could like you still. I don't know if
you're in probation ten years later. I don't know the
law or anything like that. I think it's fine. I
wouldn't break up with him.
Speaker 3 (03:11):
Have they met him, Yeah, they've met him, But to
them it just doesn't really matter.
Speaker 1 (03:17):
I think there's certain things your friends should know about,
and there's certain things they should know about, you know
what I mean. And I think the idea that they
know so much information about this guy unless you look
up the information and he google.
Speaker 5 (03:29):
It like there's more of the story or yeah, you know.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
Eight four to four Mojo Live eight four four six
six five six five four eight Ashland wants to make
a comment, am ib a hole what do you think
Ashlin is Madison and a hole? She stays with him.
Speaker 4 (03:45):
For wanting to stay with him, No, but if she
wants to break up with him, yes, because like people
make stupid mistakes in high school, like right after too,
and usually like if he has changed and improved than
that he has in fact changed from, then it shouldn't matter.
(04:06):
Let your friends think for this.
Speaker 1 (04:08):
Yeah, so if she broke up with him, she's an
a whole. Staying with him, she's not an a whole.
I get it. Yeah, yeah, that makes sense. Text her
here says you should learn more to the story, find
out exactly what happened and what the charges were. What's up,
Sarah high, Good morning.
Speaker 3 (04:28):
I do think it's weird that her friend cares so
much about his criminal background, Like, one, how did they
find out about it?
Speaker 4 (04:36):
Two?
Speaker 3 (04:38):
What does it matter what he did ten years ago?
People changed? Like when I got out of high school,
I wasn't the smartest person and I'm a slow learner.
I've done things probably multiple times. But why does it
matter what he did ten years ago to them?
Speaker 1 (04:52):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (04:53):
That's why I'm like, I'm wondering if there's more to
the story, and you know, if they like did a
deep dive on him and found out something.
Speaker 1 (05:00):
Because what's up? Zena?
Speaker 3 (05:04):
Hi?
Speaker 1 (05:05):
Hi? Xena is Madison an a hole? She stays with
her boyfriend with a criminal past.
Speaker 7 (05:12):
No, truthfully, you can't fold some of these tests against them,
especially something that they did ten years.
Speaker 4 (05:18):
Ago as a child.
Speaker 7 (05:19):
I mean, you move on and truthfully, if they're not
being supportive, then she sounds like she should probably get
some new friends.
Speaker 1 (05:28):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (05:29):
That's what actually makes me super concerned, is that you
think you would be an a hole if you didn't
listen to what your friends told you to do.
Speaker 1 (05:35):
Yeah, in Madison, this is an interesting text. Are your
friends single? If so, they want you to be single too?
Are they? Are they single friends or are they in
relationship friends?
Speaker 3 (05:47):
Some of them are single, some of them aren't.
Speaker 1 (05:49):
Okay, so it doesn't Yeah, so it's a fifty fue.
What's up? Michelle? Hi? I'm okay, Michelle? What's going on?
Where you calling us?
Speaker 4 (06:00):
Well?
Speaker 3 (06:00):
I just say where my talent from?
Speaker 1 (06:02):
You sound like you're either in a distance or or yeah,
like where are you? Okay? What's going on? What are
your thoughts on? Am I the a hole?
Speaker 7 (06:12):
So?
Speaker 3 (06:12):
I think her friends are to a whole for expecting
her to break off with someone that did something ten
years ago.
Speaker 4 (06:18):
Yeah, because you know, we all be stupid stuff.
Speaker 3 (06:21):
When we're young. Shoe labors that are I feel like
you know hasdemen themselves?
Speaker 1 (06:27):
Have you, Michelle or any of you guys ever told
a friend that they should break up with somebody? Oh?
Yeah you have? Yeah? And what was the reasoning? Do
you remember?
Speaker 5 (06:34):
And I didn't do it soon enough. I wish I
would have done it sooner. And she says she wished
I would have done it sooner.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
What was wrong with him?
Speaker 5 (06:40):
I could I he was so disrespectful to myself and
her other friends. And the way that he treated her
closest friends to me was such a huge red flag
because I thought, if he's treating us this way, it
scares me how he's treating her when other people aren't around.
He was just really it was it was a really
(07:01):
strange situation.
Speaker 1 (07:02):
How long was she in the relationship before she finally
woke up?
Speaker 5 (07:06):
Uh? After that, like after we all witnessed how he
was to us? Yeah, maybe like three or four months.
And I can't remember.
Speaker 2 (07:14):
It was a while ago back why she broke up
because he was sitting her back.
Speaker 1 (07:17):
Oh yes, yep, Yeah, what's up? Mark, it's am iv
a hole? What's going on? Not?
Speaker 4 (07:24):
How you doing to day?
Speaker 1 (07:25):
Mojo? I'm okay, Bud. You wanted to make a comment
on Madison's boyfriend. Yeah, first time, long time though, on
the phone. All right, So my comment is, if you're
in high school and Susie sleeps with you know, let's say,
fifteen twenty year classmates ten years later, is that still
makes Susie a slut? Well? No, I mean, I mean
(07:47):
if she changes their ways and she's got a boyfriend
and you know, she's not sleeping her out no more?
I mean, does her fast still stick with her moss? Yeah?
But what if the crime was murder? Huh? Okay, what
if the crime? What if the crime was maybe uh
not murder, maybe if it was, I don't know, something
else on a level. Well, if the guy robbed the
(08:09):
party store, what if it was aggravated assault and he
beat the hell out of the party store work. Yeah,
Like that's the question is like, what was the crime?
I want to know, Stephanie, what's going on? Hi?
Speaker 3 (08:22):
Hi, I'm just curious as how violent?
Speaker 1 (08:26):
That's what I wondered. Madison have you looked to see
like it was? It was? It was it with a gun?
Was it? Uh? Do you even know violent? Do you
have any idea? Uh?
Speaker 3 (08:38):
Yeah, I know, And no it wasn't. It was just
a high school kid stealing some stuff.
Speaker 7 (08:44):
You know.
Speaker 1 (08:44):
Oh well then that's okay because we all steal stuff.
I stole something yesterday. But you know what I mean,
I know I'm no. But but but if it was
if it was more violent, or if there was a
you know, violent aspect to the whole thing. Yeah, you
know that matters a little bit. Yeah, what do you
think Jordan's I'll say, I mean, from a man standpoint,
I'd rather date someone that knocked off a liquor store
(09:06):
than some chick has been knocked off by twenty dudes
fair enough to throw a stone from a glasshouse. I
think you said it all. Thank you, Jordan. I appreciate it.
He said, three letters. I'm concerned with? Ain't FBI is stdah? Alison?
What's up? Allison?
Speaker 7 (09:27):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (09:27):
Hold on, Alison, I got you there? You are high?
Or Ace? I'm sorry? Ace? I lost Allison? What's up?
Speaker 6 (09:37):
Not much now? Much so as the as the resident
X con over here right, okays. I think it's for me.
It's one of the things I bring up very early
with dating someone because it's not for everybody. Right, you
have your your choice to say I want to deal
(09:58):
with that or I don't want to deal with it.
But if her friends, if she's okay with it, and
her friends are the one that's like, don't do it,
then you know she's like, he's not dating a friends,
she's not dating friends at dave each other. So defriend's opinion,
it should't matter what's.
Speaker 1 (10:14):
Been your experience when you have brought it up.
Speaker 6 (10:18):
So I've had some people to be like, no, I
don't you know, I'm okay, I don't want to deal
with that, And I've had some people that's okay with it,
I mean obviously, but yeah, it's it's it's definitely I
learned very early that I should bring it up sooner
rather than later.
Speaker 1 (10:34):
Yeah, And you don't want them to find out about
it on their own, right, Oh?
Speaker 6 (10:38):
Absolutely not.
Speaker 1 (10:40):
If I googled you Ace, if we were on a
date with each other, would it come up?
Speaker 4 (10:48):
Maybe? Maybe not?
Speaker 6 (10:49):
Like my name is very common what you do?
Speaker 5 (10:54):
Yeah, back in the day arm robbery.
Speaker 1 (10:59):
Yep, M, did you kill anybody?
Speaker 6 (11:01):
Yep, And a lot of things are circumstantial too, right,
Like you don't the reasons the people do bad things?
Did you?
Speaker 1 (11:08):
Did you kill anybody?
Speaker 6 (11:09):
Someone's in a position and asked him if he killed anybody?
Speaker 5 (11:13):
Did you kill anybody?
Speaker 6 (11:15):
When I was in prison, I did you?
Speaker 1 (11:18):
Just like that were the circumstance. I can't like, how
do you g
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In 1997, actress Kristin Davis’ life was forever changed when she took on the role of Charlotte York in Sex and the City. As we watched Carrie, Samantha, Miranda and Charlotte navigate relationships in NYC, the show helped push once unacceptable conversation topics out of the shadows and altered the narrative around women and sex. We all saw ourselves in them as they searched for fulfillment in life, sex and friendships. Now, Kristin Davis wants to connect with you, the fans, and share untold stories and all the behind the scenes. Together, with Kristin and special guests, what will begin with Sex and the City will evolve into talks about themes that are still so relevant today. "Are you a Charlotte?" is much more than just rewatching this beloved show, it brings the past and the present together as we talk with heart, humor and of course some optimism.