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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It's Mojo in the Morning show Phone numbers eight four
four Mojoe Live. The text is nine five to five
zero zero. If you hear something that you want to
comment on, text to Lydia call me and she will
call you and get you on the air. Anna has
been invited out for drinks, but she says you shouldn't
invite her for drinks because you don't drink.
Speaker 2 (00:21):
Yeah. Well, so, I don't know if I've ever talked
about my relationship with alcohol, but I do not have
a good relationship with alcohol. Okay, I do drink, but
I don't know how to drink. And this is what
I mean by that. I either get plastered like I'm
the life of the party, I'm probably blacking out, or
(00:41):
I can't drink it all. There's no middle ground for me,
and I'm still trying to learn that. So I have
gone through periods, actually years, where I don't drink at all,
and this New Year, I was like, you know what,
I need to take a break. It got a little
crazy toward the end of the year, my birthday, things
like that. So I have been taking a break from drinking.
I'm not completely sober, Like I went out to dinner.
(01:04):
I had a glass of wine. That's fine. But there's
this guy that I know that I communicate with. He
knows that I'm not a big drinker, and he continuously
is asking me out. But he's asked me out. Let
me just tell you some of the places. Love in Tequila,
which if you're not familiar, is like a bar club
in Detroit, not my scene as I'm not drinking. I
(01:25):
was like, you know what, that's really not me right now.
So then he asked me out again, Bad Luck Bar.
Ever heard of that place? It they only do drinks,
zero food. I'm sitting here.
Speaker 1 (01:35):
Like, amazing loving Tequila, Bad Luck Bar.
Speaker 2 (01:40):
Yeah, but I'm sitting here thinking this is like asking
a vegetarian to go to a steakhouse. Like are you
not listening to what I'm saying? Or what is the
disconnect here?
Speaker 1 (01:50):
So do you get to ever get afraid that you
say I don't drink because you're afraid that they'll think
that you're an alcoholic or.
Speaker 3 (01:59):
It's not something's not registering, or he doesn't care, or
he's just being selfish and he's like, I want to drink,
so I want to go to one of these places.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
Are you sure that he doesn't just see you though
with a drink sometimes and since you're a casual drinker, right,
maybe he thinks, okay, well this is kind of fun.
Also the other thing, too, is you can't. Can you
go to Love in Tequila or Bad Luck Bar and
just have one and nurse it all night?
Speaker 2 (02:21):
I told you I.
Speaker 3 (02:22):
Cannot, but you just sometimes you'll just have a glass
of wine somewhere.
Speaker 2 (02:25):
If I'm like out to dinner, I got you. But
if I'm kind of club, I'm going to be sober,
or I'm going to be taking shots of forty two.
Speaker 1 (02:34):
So you're your favorite. I like that. Take it? Yeah,
what is forty two? Is that tequila?
Speaker 2 (02:39):
Or in nineteen forty two?
Speaker 1 (02:40):
Oh nineteen forty two?
Speaker 2 (02:41):
Okay, yeah, I just that's just But I also have
communicated this with him, like we are friends. So I've
told him, yeah, I'm taking a break from drinking, and
now you want me to go to love in Tequila
with you?
Speaker 3 (02:53):
What?
Speaker 1 (02:54):
So I find this interesting because his next game has
to be he has to take you somewhere that has
like good mocktails or something.
Speaker 2 (03:05):
You know, I mean, maybe Bad Luck Bar does. I
didn't really look, but I'm stay in my head. I'm
just like you want to take me somewhere where they
literally have no food only drinks?
Speaker 1 (03:14):
Yeah, can I tell you something that bothers me on
a totally different note, But I'm going to get to you. No,
it has nothing to do with you, but it might
if I because I'd love to take you out for
you know, we haven't gone out in a little bit,
but we took some friends out and I was planning
on paying the bill. Those mother f and mocktails are
(03:34):
more expensive than.
Speaker 3 (03:35):
The drinks the same price.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
Yeah, it's no, no, no, and it shouldn't be the cake.
That shouldn't be the case at the same price. We went.
I'm not going to say where we went because my
friend owns the restaurant. We go to this restaurant, this
a friend of ours orders two mocktails. Yeah, these mocktails
come and I know they're pretty looking. There's no alcohol
in there. Guess what's in that thing? Syrup?
Speaker 4 (03:58):
Ye?
Speaker 1 (03:58):
Syrup costs you that much exactly. I felt like I was,
you know, in Disney, in buying my kids candy in
the candy store Disney. It's expensive stuff. So now back
to you, Annah and this whole thing, So we go out,
limit your mocktail consumption eight four four Mojo Live eight
four four six sixty five six fy four eight. If
(04:20):
you're somebody that doesn't drink, do you tell the person
ahead of time or do you give him like a
fore warning ahead of time that hey, you know what
I'm not.
Speaker 3 (04:28):
This is a friend of yours that is very very aware.
So it comes off to me as just really doesn't
care about disrespectful yeeah too.
Speaker 1 (04:37):
Yeah, man, I will tell you that I don't know
how to make you happy. Trying to figure out what
they did? You know where he should take you? What's
the guy's name? What's his first name?
Speaker 2 (04:50):
I don't want to say, come on, no, it starts
with the initial.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
J Jay, Jerry, Hey, Jerry or jag Off. Somebody just said,
in my ears, Jerry or whatever your name is, take
her to Red Robin. We can't go with.
Speaker 3 (05:10):
I just feel like, now, if you want to spend
time with him, you need to be the one to make.
Speaker 2 (05:16):
I don't really okay, so I'm just over it. I'm like,
I'm not even gonna try. But if if I were trying,
like you need to do better, sir.
Speaker 1 (05:25):
If he really cared he would do would do better?
Can you can you be the if you're the the
person being asked on the day, can you say I'll
pick the place? Like if somebody asked you, Hey, I
want to take you out, can you right away go
only if I pick the place? Or is that too
(05:45):
forward to do?
Speaker 3 (05:46):
I think there's a better way of saying that, Just say, Hey,
there's this place that I've been really wanting to try,
or I've really been craving Red Robin can we go there?
Speaker 1 (05:56):
You know, I think I was just joking about red robes.
Well okay, but I'm using it because what's up Megan.
Speaker 5 (06:02):
Hey guys, good morning.
Speaker 1 (06:03):
Good morning. So I love I love being the bad
influence of my friends.
Speaker 5 (06:10):
I I'm always trying to push the line, but I
will be there, like the second things go overboard, I'm
the first person there to like hold your hair back
or carry you to your car and make sure you
get home. So I totally feel this for Anna, like
it's bad to not to do that to your friends,
considering that your friend.
Speaker 1 (06:26):
But at the same time, if if he's a good
friend to you.
Speaker 5 (06:30):
I'm pretty sure he would be careful with you, make
sure you're good. The only problem that I would have
with that is that I don't. It makes me wonder
if does he have other intentions and that's why he
wants to get you.
Speaker 2 (06:41):
That's a great, great point because I have been a
little tipsy around him and I think that's when I'm
most flirty with.
Speaker 1 (06:47):
Him, and he loves them.
Speaker 5 (06:48):
Yeah, so that's what I'm thinking that he might be like. Yeah,
So I'm just kind of thinking like, maybe he's got
other intentions and that's why he's trying to take you,
especially if you've been pretty firm in the fact that
you don't. You're in this period of life you just
don't want to drink like that.
Speaker 1 (07:01):
So I don't know.
Speaker 5 (07:03):
I would be very leary about that, just because it
makes me wonder, like what his other intentions are. But
I love being the bad influence of my girlfriends. But
it's just not guy friends. But I'm the one that
pushes the envelope. But I will be there to make
sure you get home safely, make sure you're you got
water and food and all their stuff. So that's the
kind of girlfriend I am.
Speaker 3 (07:22):
But with a guy, it just thank you.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
It just makes me wonder, like what his other intentions are,
so just be careful. That's a great point. That's a
really good point. Thanks Megan kristin What's up?
Speaker 3 (07:34):
Hi.
Speaker 4 (07:34):
I'm a non drinker, but just because I choose not to,
so I don't really have like the pressure when I
go out with my friends. We go out dancing all
the time, but I never have the pressure like maybe
because Anna maybe has done that and likes it and
enjoy drinks, you know, certain drinks, it might be different.
I do agree that the guy maybe thinks she is
(07:54):
a little flirtier or looser when she's drinking, more fun.
But you can be fun without drinking. I make up
my own moxtails, even if they don't serve mocktails. I'll
just order something and make something up.
Speaker 1 (08:10):
Whatever happens, Whatever happened to good old fashioned Shirley Temple.
That's the first mocktail ever, ginger Ale.
Speaker 4 (08:22):
And just call it a day, I know, I mean,
it doesn't. Once you're there and you do it a
few times, you learn what you can. You know different
things you can order. But I think that he probably
sounds like he probably is thinking, yeah, let's go a
little tipsy.
Speaker 1 (08:39):
Whatever the guy's thinking, how can I roofy her if
she doesn't drink wear And.
Speaker 4 (08:45):
I want to say, good for you Anna for holding
out and you know, doing what you need to do
for yourself.
Speaker 1 (08:52):
Thank you very happy. We're very we are proud that
she stands up for you know, and this is kind
of the year where she's being very well. You turn thirty,
so you you were okay to do that. It was
okay to have a good thirty. You're dirty thirty. What
are you gonna drink this?
Speaker 2 (09:07):
You can for you got to figure out like four, like,
am I gonna drink? Because I feel like Mojo wants
me to drink?
Speaker 1 (09:15):
I do no, no, no, don't put it on me.
Speaker 2 (09:16):
Probably push it Ladi because we're the only ones that
can drink.
Speaker 1 (09:20):
Because I'm drinking, I'm drinking Lydia has prayed for me
time hereat like do I need to turn off cavil?
Say no until I bring out a big, nice bottle
at tequila. I bring a nice, expensive bottle. We'll pour
it down his throat. What's going on, Kim, I say, be.
Speaker 4 (09:40):
True to yourself and right up front and just say it.
When I first met my husband and went out to eat,
I told him I said, if you think I'm a
salad and water girl, that's not happening.
Speaker 3 (09:50):
I say, I.
Speaker 4 (09:51):
I've been married for twenty years.
Speaker 1 (09:53):
So can I tell you something. There's nothing worse than
when you take a girl on a date and she
just eat salad and water. And I also hate when
we go on dates with people like I. Actually I
went out to lunch with KP last week. I had
a date with KP. Which shout out to KP because
she's had some very horribly tragic things, you know, happened
(10:17):
to her, and she's really handling things amazingly considering what
she's gone through. But we went to eat at the
taco place down the street, and she does not eat
because I sit there and do the normal. No, I
do the normal, all right, tell me what's going on?
And then I start doing like the questions, and then
(10:39):
she's has to answer my question. Anybody who goes out
to eat with you. I got to figure this out,
so I understand that piece. I think we need, you
know what we need to do. We need to have it.
Like remember in grade school when you would sit down
and they would make you eat, They would force you
to eat before you could go play, Like I feel
like when you go out with me, we have to
have a middle school or grade school teacher there to
(11:01):
say we need to eat before we talk, because the
problem is I eat like I'm finished with my food
in five seconds because I'm asking like a question that
requires like a five minute or six minute answer to it. Right, So,
but but that happens to me all the time. And
then I'm sitting there going, okay, all right, we'll see
you guys. Let's get up and go right now. But no,
she took her food home with her because of we
(11:24):
were just sitting there. Yeah,
It's Mojo in the Morning show Phone numbers eight four
four Mojoe Live. The text is nine five to five
zero zero. If you hear something that you want to
comment on, text to Lydia call me and she will
call you and get you on the air. Anna has
been invited out for drinks, but she says you shouldn't
invite her for drinks because you don't drink.
Speaker 2 (00:21):
Yeah. Well, so, I don't know if I've ever talked
about my relationship with alcohol, but I do not have
a good relationship with alcohol. Okay, I do drink, but
I don't know how to drink. And this is what
I mean by that. I either get plastered like I'm
the life of the party, I'm probably blacking out, or
(00:41):
I can't drink it all. There's no middle ground for me,
and I'm still trying to learn that. So I have
gone through periods, actually years, where I don't drink at all,
and this New Year, I was like, you know what,
I need to take a break. It got a little
crazy toward the end of the year, my birthday, things
like that. So I have been taking a break from drinking.
I'm not completely sober, Like I went out to dinner.
(01:04):
I had a glass of wine. That's fine. But there's
this guy that I know that I communicate with. He
knows that I'm not a big drinker, and he continuously
is asking me out. But he's asked me out. Let
me just tell you some of the places. Love in Tequila,
which if you're not familiar, is like a bar club
in Detroit, not my scene as I'm not drinking. I
(01:25):
was like, you know what, that's really not me right now.
So then he asked me out again, Bad Luck Bar.
Ever heard of that place? It they only do drinks,
zero food. I'm sitting here.
Speaker 1 (01:35):
Like, amazing loving Tequila, Bad Luck Bar.
Speaker 2 (01:40):
Yeah, but I'm sitting here thinking this is like asking
a vegetarian to go to a steakhouse. Like are you
not listening to what I'm saying? Or what is the
disconnect here?
Speaker 1 (01:50):
So do you get to ever get afraid that you
say I don't drink because you're afraid that they'll think
that you're an alcoholic or.
Speaker 3 (01:59):
It's not something's not registering, or he doesn't care, or
he's just being selfish and he's like, I want to drink,
so I want to go to one of these places.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
Are you sure that he doesn't just see you though
with a drink sometimes and since you're a casual drinker, right,
maybe he thinks, okay, well this is kind of fun.
Also the other thing, too, is you can't. Can you
go to Love in Tequila or Bad Luck Bar and
just have one and nurse it all night?
Speaker 2 (02:21):
I told you I.
Speaker 3 (02:22):
Cannot, but you just sometimes you'll just have a glass
of wine somewhere.
Speaker 2 (02:25):
If I'm like out to dinner, I got you. But
if I'm kind of club, I'm going to be sober,
or I'm going to be taking shots of forty two.
Speaker 1 (02:34):
So you're your favorite. I like that. Take it? Yeah,
what is forty two? Is that tequila?
Speaker 2 (02:39):
Or in nineteen forty two?
Speaker 1 (02:40):
Oh nineteen forty two?
Speaker 2 (02:41):
Okay, yeah, I just that's just But I also have
communicated this with him, like we are friends. So I've
told him, yeah, I'm taking a break from drinking, and
now you want me to go to love in Tequila
with you?
Speaker 3 (02:53):
What?
Speaker 1 (02:54):
So I find this interesting because his next game has
to be he has to take you somewhere that has
like good mocktails or something.
Speaker 2 (03:05):
You know, I mean, maybe Bad Luck Bar does. I
didn't really look, but I'm stay in my head. I'm
just like you want to take me somewhere where they
literally have no food only drinks?
Speaker 1 (03:14):
Yeah, can I tell you something that bothers me on
a totally different note, But I'm going to get to you. No,
it has nothing to do with you, but it might
if I because I'd love to take you out for
you know, we haven't gone out in a little bit,
but we took some friends out and I was planning
on paying the bill. Those mother f and mocktails are
(03:34):
more expensive than.
Speaker 3 (03:35):
The drinks the same price.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
Yeah, it's no, no, no, and it shouldn't be the cake.
That shouldn't be the case at the same price. We went.
I'm not going to say where we went because my
friend owns the restaurant. We go to this restaurant, this
a friend of ours orders two mocktails. Yeah, these mocktails
come and I know they're pretty looking. There's no alcohol
in there. Guess what's in that thing? Syrup?
Speaker 4 (03:58):
Ye?
Speaker 1 (03:58):
Syrup costs you that much exactly. I felt like I was,
you know, in Disney, in buying my kids candy in
the candy store Disney. It's expensive stuff. So now back
to you, Annah and this whole thing, So we go out,
limit your mocktail consumption eight four four Mojo Live eight
four four six sixty five six fy four eight. If
(04:20):
you're somebody that doesn't drink, do you tell the person
ahead of time or do you give him like a
fore warning ahead of time that hey, you know what
I'm not.
Speaker 3 (04:28):
This is a friend of yours that is very very aware.
So it comes off to me as just really doesn't
care about disrespectful yeeah too.
Speaker 1 (04:37):
Yeah, man, I will tell you that I don't know
how to make you happy. Trying to figure out what
they did? You know where he should take you? What's
the guy's name? What's his first name?
Speaker 2 (04:50):
I don't want to say, come on, no, it starts
with the initial.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
J Jay, Jerry, Hey, Jerry or jag Off. Somebody just said,
in my ears, Jerry or whatever your name is, take
her to Red Robin. We can't go with.
Speaker 3 (05:10):
I just feel like, now, if you want to spend
time with him, you need to be the one to make.
Speaker 2 (05:16):
I don't really okay, so I'm just over it. I'm like,
I'm not even gonna try. But if if I were trying,
like you need to do better, sir.
Speaker 1 (05:25):
If he really cared he would do would do better?
Can you can you be the if you're the the
person being asked on the day, can you say I'll
pick the place? Like if somebody asked you, Hey, I
want to take you out, can you right away go
only if I pick the place? Or is that too
(05:45):
forward to do?
Speaker 3 (05:46):
I think there's a better way of saying that, Just say, Hey,
there's this place that I've been really wanting to try,
or I've really been craving Red Robin can we go there?
Speaker 1 (05:56):
You know, I think I was just joking about red robes.
Well okay, but I'm using it because what's up Megan.
Speaker 5 (06:02):
Hey guys, good morning.
Speaker 1 (06:03):
Good morning. So I love I love being the bad
influence of my friends.
Speaker 5 (06:10):
I I'm always trying to push the line, but I
will be there, like the second things go overboard, I'm
the first person there to like hold your hair back
or carry you to your car and make sure you
get home. So I totally feel this for Anna, like
it's bad to not to do that to your friends,
considering that your friend.
Speaker 1 (06:26):
But at the same time, if if he's a good
friend to you.
Speaker 5 (06:30):
I'm pretty sure he would be careful with you, make
sure you're good. The only problem that I would have
with that is that I don't. It makes me wonder
if does he have other intentions and that's why he
wants to get you.
Speaker 2 (06:41):
That's a great, great point because I have been a
little tipsy around him and I think that's when I'm
most flirty with.
Speaker 1 (06:47):
Him, and he loves them.
Speaker 5 (06:48):
Yeah, so that's what I'm thinking that he might be like. Yeah,
So I'm just kind of thinking like, maybe he's got
other intentions and that's why he's trying to take you,
especially if you've been pretty firm in the fact that
you don't. You're in this period of life you just
don't want to drink like that.
Speaker 1 (07:01):
So I don't know.
Speaker 5 (07:03):
I would be very leary about that, just because it
makes me wonder, like what his other intentions are. But
I love being the bad influence of my girlfriends. But
it's just not guy friends. But I'm the one that
pushes the envelope. But I will be there to make
sure you get home safely, make sure you're you got
water and food and all their stuff. So that's the
kind of girlfriend I am.
Speaker 3 (07:22):
But with a guy, it just thank you.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
It just makes me wonder, like what his other intentions are,
so just be careful. That's a great point. That's a
really good point. Thanks Megan kristin What's up?
Speaker 3 (07:34):
Hi.
Speaker 4 (07:34):
I'm a non drinker, but just because I choose not to,
so I don't really have like the pressure when I
go out with my friends. We go out dancing all
the time, but I never have the pressure like maybe
because Anna maybe has done that and likes it and
enjoy drinks, you know, certain drinks, it might be different.
I do agree that the guy maybe thinks she is
(07:54):
a little flirtier or looser when she's drinking, more fun.
But you can be fun without drinking. I make up
my own moxtails, even if they don't serve mocktails. I'll
just order something and make something up.
Speaker 1 (08:10):
Whatever happens, Whatever happened to good old fashioned Shirley Temple.
That's the first mocktail ever, ginger Ale.
Speaker 4 (08:22):
And just call it a day, I know, I mean,
it doesn't. Once you're there and you do it a
few times, you learn what you can. You know different
things you can order. But I think that he probably
sounds like he probably is thinking, yeah, let's go a
little tipsy.
Speaker 1 (08:39):
Whatever the guy's thinking, how can I roofy her if
she doesn't drink wear And.
Speaker 4 (08:45):
I want to say, good for you Anna for holding
out and you know, doing what you need to do
for yourself.
Speaker 1 (08:52):
Thank you very happy. We're very we are proud that
she stands up for you know, and this is kind
of the year where she's being very well. You turn thirty,
so you you were okay to do that. It was
okay to have a good thirty. You're dirty thirty. What
are you gonna drink this?
Speaker 2 (09:07):
You can for you got to figure out like four, like,
am I gonna drink? Because I feel like Mojo wants
me to drink?
Speaker 1 (09:15):
I do no, no, no, don't put it on me.
Speaker 2 (09:16):
Probably push it Ladi because we're the only ones that
can drink.
Speaker 1 (09:20):
Because I'm drinking, I'm drinking Lydia has prayed for me
time hereat like do I need to turn off cavil?
Say no until I bring out a big, nice bottle
at tequila. I bring a nice, expensive bottle. We'll pour
it down his throat. What's going on, Kim, I say, be.
Speaker 4 (09:40):
True to yourself and right up front and just say it.
When I first met my husband and went out to eat,
I told him I said, if you think I'm a
salad and water girl, that's not happening.
Speaker 3 (09:50):
I say, I.
Speaker 4 (09:51):
I've been married for twenty years.
Speaker 1 (09:53):
So can I tell you something. There's nothing worse than
when you take a girl on a date and she
just eat salad and water. And I also hate when
we go on dates with people like I. Actually I
went out to lunch with KP last week. I had
a date with KP. Which shout out to KP because
she's had some very horribly tragic things, you know, happened
(10:17):
to her, and she's really handling things amazingly considering what
she's gone through. But we went to eat at the
taco place down the street, and she does not eat
because I sit there and do the normal. No, I
do the normal, all right, tell me what's going on?
And then I start doing like the questions, and then
(10:39):
she's has to answer my question. Anybody who goes out
to eat with you. I got to figure this out,
so I understand that piece. I think we need, you
know what we need to do. We need to have it.
Like remember in grade school when you would sit down
and they would make you eat, They would force you
to eat before you could go play, Like I feel
like when you go out with me, we have to
have a middle school or grade school teacher there to
(11:01):
say we need to eat before we talk, because the
problem is I eat like I'm finished with my food
in five seconds because I'm asking like a question that
requires like a five minute or six minute answer to it. Right, So,
but but that happens to me all the time. And
then I'm sitting there going, okay, all right, we'll see
you guys. Let's get up and go right now. But no,
she took her food home with her because of we
(11:24):
were just sitting there. Yeah,
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UConn basketball star Azzi Fudd brings her championship swag to iHeart Women’s Sports with Fudd Around and Find Out, a weekly podcast that takes fans along for the ride as Azzi spends her final year of college trying to reclaim the National Championship and prepare to be a first round WNBA draft pick. Ever wonder what it’s like to be a world-class athlete in the public spotlight while still managing schoolwork, friendships and family time? It’s time to Fudd Around and Find Out!