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Speaker 1 (00:00):
All right, it's Mojo in the morning.
Speaker 2 (00:01):
I actually have a question and stay Crystal in the
studio so you can participate in this one. Here, I
have a buddy of mine that just started dating a
girl within like the last week, week and a half
or so, and we were all having a group conversation
in our guys group text about him now having a
girlfriend and how this is like the worst time to
(00:23):
actually pick up a new relationship because now you have
to make a decision do you buy that person a
Christmas gift? So here's the question to ask. We're within
the month period of Christmas, right, so we're within that
or closing in on that. If you start a relationship
within a month of Christmas, do you buy them a
(00:45):
Christmas gift? And if so, how big do you go
in Christmas gifts?
Speaker 3 (00:51):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (00:52):
Yeah, so you buy it.
Speaker 4 (00:53):
But it cannot it's such a fine line. It cannot
be over the top. It has to just be like
a good little something thoughtful.
Speaker 1 (01:02):
Yeah, it's got to be intentional. Yeah, you got it.
Speaker 2 (01:05):
What what is what is an intentional thoughtful gift that's
not over the top.
Speaker 5 (01:09):
It depends on I mean, you got to know your
person is going to be different for everybody.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
What would you get me? Kuv? I don't like you
like that, but I mean I probably.
Speaker 5 (01:17):
I mean, it's give the only the only reason, the
only reason I said I wasn't trying to holl you.
And the only reason I say that is because I
would have to see you in that light to be
able to pick up on certain things about you that
would speak to who you.
Speaker 1 (01:29):
Are if I know a little bit about it. I mean, yeah,
but I'm saying.
Speaker 5 (01:33):
Not in that way though, Like I would just be
thinking about something the social media related.
Speaker 1 (01:36):
Take it off.
Speaker 5 (01:37):
Well, I'm just saying I would be thinking about some
social media related but that probably wouldn't like speak to you, like.
Speaker 1 (01:41):
Would you buy for him?
Speaker 2 (01:43):
You know he he does good or he does well
whatever the word is good or well, uh, he does that?
And would you buy her? Would you buy her clothing?
Would you buy her a piece of jewelry but a
small piece of jewelry, don't go would you buy her
Apple air pods?
Speaker 3 (01:59):
Like?
Speaker 1 (01:59):
Would you wouldn't even do anything like that? What would
you get her?
Speaker 3 (02:01):
Like?
Speaker 1 (02:01):
What would you What would you guys want? Like a
massage or something?
Speaker 2 (02:05):
I feel really yeah, it's a massage. Sending a message
I wouldn't exact.
Speaker 5 (02:10):
Yeah, I'm gonna say like honestly, so when I first
started dating a girl, she it was real.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
So I'm first started dating Scherill.
Speaker 5 (02:17):
We started dating, like I think we officially got together
in like November and Christmas was right there, and now I
do think I may have done. But I bought her
like some ug boots because it was winter outside, so
I bought her some boots. And then she really enjoyed whiteboarding,
like that was something that she really enjoyed to do,
not only for work butlack for her personal goals and stuff.
So I bought her a bunch of whiteboard stuff white
but whiteboarding, like extra markers and stuff like that. But
(02:43):
I'm saying this is for her, that's like the least romantic.
But I'm saying for you is probably some what would
you like some gluten pretzels, like like I went to
Staples and I got you to her though she lit
up for And that's what you got to do. You
gotta find you a person what they like.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
Uh, when did you guys start to You and your
husband start dating?
Speaker 4 (03:06):
So Wes and I started dating, I mean going out,
you know in September.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
Okay, what was the first Christmas gift? You remember?
Speaker 4 (03:13):
He gave me a really really super nice bracelet for Christmas?
Speaker 1 (03:18):
Oh yeah, Pandora.
Speaker 4 (03:20):
No it was I know it was really nice.
Speaker 1 (03:29):
I guess. I mean I wasn't. I wasn't giving it
back or saying no, what did you get him? You remember?
I don't remember. I hope he remembered. I don't remember.
Speaker 2 (03:41):
Yeah, Natasha, I want some advice for this. What do
you think.
Speaker 6 (03:46):
I think that you could get her tickets for like
something you guys could do together, like maybe like the
Holiday Light or like maybe if she's in the like,
you know, concerts, maybe you could like go see Detroit
Symphony Orchestra or something like a fun date that's not.
Speaker 4 (04:02):
Like Actually that's a really good idea, like an experienced
gift of something that you guys could do together. I
love that idea.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
If you give that gift, hold on to the tickets
because if you're not together and when the event happened, like,
don't let her have the actual tickets because I've seen
guys get screwed that way.
Speaker 1 (04:19):
Juliana, what's up?
Speaker 7 (04:21):
Hey, guys, good morning, good morning. So my birthday's right
before Christmas and my boyfriend and I when we first
started dating. For my birthday he got me a shower
brush and for Christmas. For Christmas he got me one
(04:41):
single bottle of Dial body Walks.
Speaker 1 (04:50):
He was just c.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
Check out, Juliana, tell me that you're not with this
guy still, are you?
Speaker 7 (05:06):
Oh we're going on seven years?
Speaker 6 (05:08):
Wow?
Speaker 1 (05:09):
What did he get you last year?
Speaker 7 (05:13):
So now he lets me pick my gifts. So he
gets me a massage every year, and then he gets
me like clothes or concert tickets or whatever I ask
for this year. It's an iPad.
Speaker 2 (05:25):
Okay that is Yeah, that's nice. He's elevated, he's moved
up in this world. I love though this. He didn't
even get you in the same year. Brush and the soap,
Like you had to actually wash yourself with that brush
for one year with no soap with it.
Speaker 7 (05:42):
No, it was only a week. My birthday is a
week before Christmas.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
Oh, okay, all right. He bought him at the same time.
It just gave him separate Alison, what's going on?
Speaker 3 (05:52):
I just feel like that's how people end up in
situationships because after a month of knowing somebody, I don't
think you should be getting them anything for Christmas.
Speaker 2 (06:02):
I agree on that, and I said this, I said,
you got to be careful. And here's the reason why
you got to be careful that you give something you
I think you should do something for her.
Speaker 1 (06:14):
But I think you got to be careful because I.
Speaker 2 (06:15):
Think it's going to set a precedent that she's only
dating you for gifts. And also you're putting pressure on
her on what she's going to do.
Speaker 1 (06:22):
I don't like holding back my love though, Yeah, and
that's what is your love monetarily done?
Speaker 5 (06:28):
No, But I mean, like, I think one of my
love language is give given. Yeah, I appreciate giving.
Speaker 4 (06:34):
If you see something that really speaks to you.
Speaker 2 (06:42):
Do you have a scrub brush? All right, Alison, you
take care of yourself. Okay. My favorite I should let
you guys read this grip text these guys, because these
guys are vicious to the single guy in the group text.
Like the single guys in the group text, we all
(07:02):
kind of live vicariously through them. And half these guys
pick up these girls at what's that place in Birmingham Market? No,
it's usually market Friday. Friday at market. If you're a
girl that wants to meet some of these goofy friends
of mine go to go Friday to market and just hang.
Speaker 4 (07:21):
Out to any single friends that are like, I think
they're good guys. I have my single friend that I
got it. Uh, well, I guess we're friends with him.
I would say this, you know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (07:36):
Yeah, you know, they're good guys. They probably all live
by each other. That's the many problems.
Speaker 4 (07:39):
Let me see pictures.
Speaker 2 (07:41):
Here's the problem with the guys that I know that
are single. They so they're single, they do well. They
live in Birmingham and they've already dated every single girl
that probably.
Speaker 1 (07:50):
Is in that town too. It sounds like you know
what I mean, But.
Speaker 2 (07:55):
No, seriously, and that's the problem. You guys have a bubble.
There's like a bubble over there, so everybody's in that
same bubble.
All right, it's Mojo in the morning.
Speaker 2 (00:01):
I actually have a question and stay Crystal in the
studio so you can participate in this one. Here, I
have a buddy of mine that just started dating a
girl within like the last week, week and a half
or so, and we were all having a group conversation
in our guys group text about him now having a
girlfriend and how this is like the worst time to
(00:23):
actually pick up a new relationship because now you have
to make a decision do you buy that person a
Christmas gift? So here's the question to ask. We're within
the month period of Christmas, right, so we're within that
or closing in on that. If you start a relationship
within a month of Christmas, do you buy them a
(00:45):
Christmas gift? And if so, how big do you go
in Christmas gifts?
Speaker 3 (00:51):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (00:52):
Yeah, so you buy it.
Speaker 4 (00:53):
But it cannot it's such a fine line. It cannot
be over the top. It has to just be like
a good little something thoughtful.
Speaker 1 (01:02):
Yeah, it's got to be intentional. Yeah, you got it.
Speaker 2 (01:05):
What what is what is an intentional thoughtful gift that's
not over the top.
Speaker 5 (01:09):
It depends on I mean, you got to know your
person is going to be different for everybody.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
What would you get me? Kuv? I don't like you
like that, but I mean I probably.
Speaker 5 (01:17):
I mean, it's give the only the only reason, the
only reason I said I wasn't trying to holl you.
And the only reason I say that is because I
would have to see you in that light to be
able to pick up on certain things about you that
would speak to who you.
Speaker 1 (01:29):
Are if I know a little bit about it. I mean, yeah,
but I'm saying.
Speaker 5 (01:33):
Not in that way though, Like I would just be
thinking about something the social media related.
Speaker 1 (01:36):
Take it off.
Speaker 5 (01:37):
Well, I'm just saying I would be thinking about some
social media related but that probably wouldn't like speak to you, like.
Speaker 1 (01:41):
Would you buy for him?
Speaker 2 (01:43):
You know he he does good or he does well
whatever the word is good or well, uh, he does that?
And would you buy her? Would you buy her clothing?
Would you buy her a piece of jewelry but a
small piece of jewelry, don't go would you buy her
Apple air pods?
Speaker 3 (01:59):
Like?
Speaker 1 (01:59):
Would you wouldn't even do anything like that? What would
you get her?
Speaker 3 (02:01):
Like?
Speaker 1 (02:01):
What would you What would you guys want? Like a
massage or something?
Speaker 2 (02:05):
I feel really yeah, it's a massage. Sending a message
I wouldn't exact.
Speaker 5 (02:10):
Yeah, I'm gonna say like honestly, so when I first
started dating a girl, she it was real.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
So I'm first started dating Scherill.
Speaker 5 (02:17):
We started dating, like I think we officially got together
in like November and Christmas was right there, and now I
do think I may have done. But I bought her
like some ug boots because it was winter outside, so
I bought her some boots. And then she really enjoyed whiteboarding,
like that was something that she really enjoyed to do,
not only for work butlack for her personal goals and stuff.
So I bought her a bunch of whiteboard stuff white
but whiteboarding, like extra markers and stuff like that. But
(02:43):
I'm saying this is for her, that's like the least romantic.
But I'm saying for you is probably some what would
you like some gluten pretzels, like like I went to
Staples and I got you to her though she lit
up for And that's what you got to do. You
gotta find you a person what they like.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
Uh, when did you guys start to You and your
husband start dating?
Speaker 4 (03:06):
So Wes and I started dating, I mean going out,
you know in September.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
Okay, what was the first Christmas gift? You remember?
Speaker 4 (03:13):
He gave me a really really super nice bracelet for Christmas?
Speaker 1 (03:18):
Oh yeah, Pandora.
Speaker 4 (03:20):
No it was I know it was really nice.
Speaker 1 (03:29):
I guess. I mean I wasn't. I wasn't giving it
back or saying no, what did you get him? You remember?
I don't remember. I hope he remembered. I don't remember.
Speaker 2 (03:41):
Yeah, Natasha, I want some advice for this. What do
you think.
Speaker 6 (03:46):
I think that you could get her tickets for like
something you guys could do together, like maybe like the
Holiday Light or like maybe if she's in the like,
you know, concerts, maybe you could like go see Detroit
Symphony Orchestra or something like a fun date that's not.
Speaker 4 (04:02):
Like Actually that's a really good idea, like an experienced
gift of something that you guys could do together. I
love that idea.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
If you give that gift, hold on to the tickets
because if you're not together and when the event happened, like,
don't let her have the actual tickets because I've seen
guys get screwed that way.
Speaker 1 (04:19):
Juliana, what's up?
Speaker 7 (04:21):
Hey, guys, good morning, good morning. So my birthday's right
before Christmas and my boyfriend and I when we first
started dating. For my birthday he got me a shower
brush and for Christmas. For Christmas he got me one
(04:41):
single bottle of Dial body Walks.
Speaker 1 (04:50):
He was just c.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
Check out, Juliana, tell me that you're not with this
guy still, are you?
Speaker 7 (05:06):
Oh we're going on seven years?
Speaker 6 (05:08):
Wow?
Speaker 1 (05:09):
What did he get you last year?
Speaker 7 (05:13):
So now he lets me pick my gifts. So he
gets me a massage every year, and then he gets
me like clothes or concert tickets or whatever I ask
for this year. It's an iPad.
Speaker 2 (05:25):
Okay that is Yeah, that's nice. He's elevated, he's moved
up in this world. I love though this. He didn't
even get you in the same year. Brush and the soap,
Like you had to actually wash yourself with that brush
for one year with no soap with it.
Speaker 7 (05:42):
No, it was only a week. My birthday is a
week before Christmas.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
Oh, okay, all right. He bought him at the same time.
It just gave him separate Alison, what's going on?
Speaker 3 (05:52):
I just feel like that's how people end up in
situationships because after a month of knowing somebody, I don't
think you should be getting them anything for Christmas.
Speaker 2 (06:02):
I agree on that, and I said this, I said,
you got to be careful. And here's the reason why
you got to be careful that you give something you
I think you should do something for her.
Speaker 1 (06:14):
But I think you got to be careful because I.
Speaker 2 (06:15):
Think it's going to set a precedent that she's only
dating you for gifts. And also you're putting pressure on
her on what she's going to do.
Speaker 1 (06:22):
I don't like holding back my love though, Yeah, and
that's what is your love monetarily done?
Speaker 5 (06:28):
No, But I mean, like, I think one of my
love language is give given. Yeah, I appreciate giving.
Speaker 4 (06:34):
If you see something that really speaks to you.
Speaker 2 (06:42):
Do you have a scrub brush? All right, Alison, you
take care of yourself. Okay. My favorite I should let
you guys read this grip text these guys, because these
guys are vicious to the single guy in the group text.
Like the single guys in the group text, we all
(07:02):
kind of live vicariously through them. And half these guys
pick up these girls at what's that place in Birmingham Market? No,
it's usually market Friday. Friday at market. If you're a
girl that wants to meet some of these goofy friends
of mine go to go Friday to market and just hang.
Speaker 4 (07:21):
Out to any single friends that are like, I think
they're good guys. I have my single friend that I
got it. Uh, well, I guess we're friends with him.
I would say this, you know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (07:36):
Yeah, you know, they're good guys. They probably all live
by each other. That's the many problems.
Speaker 4 (07:39):
Let me see pictures.
Speaker 2 (07:41):
Here's the problem with the guys that I know that
are single. They so they're single, they do well. They
live in Birmingham and they've already dated every single girl
that probably.
Speaker 1 (07:50):
Is in that town too. It sounds like you know
what I mean, But.
Speaker 2 (07:55):
No, seriously, and that's the problem. You guys have a bubble.
There's like a bubble over there, so everybody's in that
same bubble.
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