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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Uh.
Speaker 2 (00:00):
Shannon has a question to ask involving how relationships handle
certain things, and one of them is when one person's
out of town, how do you.
Speaker 3 (00:10):
How often do you communicate? Like how often do you
call each other? And I asked this question because my husband, Wes,
is back home in Toronto right now visiting some family
and friends. And it's so funny. It made me think
about this yesterday because I went through the whole day
and we had like texted once or twice about like
house stuff, because I have a lot of stuff going
like construction stuff going out at my house right now.
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But it got to be maybe I was making dinner
for the kids and I was like, whoo, I haven't
called them all day.
Speaker 4 (00:36):
I better call.
Speaker 3 (00:38):
And it's so funny because when I'm out of town,
he calls me a ton. But we are so not
balanced when it comes to how we communicate when one
person is out of town over another. For me, it's
just my days are crazy busy and so not that
I'm not thinking about him. I'm always thinking about him,
But like the phone call, I'm like, oh God, you
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need to like call him.
Speaker 2 (00:59):
In whose responsibility is it to call? Because you say
when when you're out of town, he calls you a ton.
Are you supposed to call him or is he supposed
to call you?
Speaker 4 (01:07):
I don't.
Speaker 3 (01:08):
I don't have to be honest.
Speaker 4 (01:10):
I missed calls from him.
Speaker 3 (01:12):
I have not called him yes yesterday.
Speaker 2 (01:14):
Because when if I'm out of town or Chelsea's out
of town, I usually say that the person who's out
of town should be the one checking in because if
they're out of town, you don't know what they're doing,
like especially if they're out for work or something like that.
But it all depends. If I'm out of town and
say I'm doing work in Chicago or Nashville or you
know whatever, then check in once twice a day.
Speaker 4 (01:38):
If I'm in Vegas, it's a totally different story. Time
has changed. Random. Would you make the kids for dinner
last night? Oh my god? What did I make? I
can't even remember what I ate this morning? Why is that?
To get that on my mind? I will say it
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is though I've been that.
Speaker 5 (02:01):
You you text and say landed right immediately say landed,
or you call and say land is safely you might
wait until you check in.
Speaker 4 (02:09):
So I made some old sale room text. I'm talking cool.
Speaker 5 (02:15):
Maybe I would say, maybe at the end of the night,
maybe a little.
Speaker 2 (02:19):
But what if it's but what if it's a time
change thing like where you're on the West coast or
you know what I mean.
Speaker 5 (02:25):
I feel like I feel like the first day you
might need to connect.
Speaker 3 (02:30):
So we just we just talk a lot throughout when
he's home or I'm home, we talk a lot throughout
the day. It's just so different when one of us
is out of town.
Speaker 2 (02:39):
My time is always the drive home from work. I
always check in with Chelsea here, so usually that even
if she is out of town, like you know, if
she's visiting her family or whatever or our family, like,
she'll you know, be available usually for that. But I
and I always call her usually at that time. But
didn't you guys say that our boss, Tony, who travels
a ton for work, because Tony oversees like a bajillion
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markets for this company for iHeart, didn't you guys say
that you were having a conversation with him about just
this too.
Speaker 3 (03:07):
Yeah, So Tony and Tony, if you're listening and I
misheard you, please call and correct me. But I'm pretty
sure Tony said he does not call his wife Brooke
usually a single time.
Speaker 4 (03:19):
If he's up down pill text, he's like that he landed.
He's the only.
Speaker 3 (03:26):
But as far as phone calls go, he's like, it
might be crazy.
Speaker 4 (03:31):
She's busy.
Speaker 2 (03:32):
I'm busy to go three days talking to missing person report.
Speaker 4 (03:38):
That's a she didn't scandal?
Speaker 6 (03:40):
Wait?
Speaker 4 (03:40):
Anppe wore? Are the roses right?
Speaker 7 (03:42):
Uh?
Speaker 4 (03:42):
No contact for days?
Speaker 7 (03:44):
Uh?
Speaker 2 (03:44):
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Speaker 7 (03:50):
Good? I think it's the responsibility of the person.
Speaker 4 (03:53):
That's working, yeah, to call, like when they have.
Speaker 6 (03:57):
Available slots on my lunch clearing.
Speaker 4 (04:00):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
Yeah, But what if it's a leisure thing, Like what
if say, what if it's a guy's golf trip or
it's you know, something like that, Like who's the responsibility on?
Is it on the person that's away or the person
that's at home.
Speaker 6 (04:15):
Well, the person at home probably is still working if
the guys on the golf trip, so she's probably trying
to figure out what to call.
Speaker 1 (04:23):
Yeah, if you're on a golf trip or a boy's trip,
you better be calling me at least.
Speaker 6 (04:28):
See.
Speaker 5 (04:28):
I get annoying though, Like I've been in relationships where
the person is no stop calling you that person being
on a trip.
Speaker 4 (04:34):
You're like, dah, are you having fun? Like leave me alone,
like go live your life. I had a guy too much,
a guy.
Speaker 2 (04:42):
That made a comment to Chelsea that guys on golf
trips hire hookers. And I've been on a couple of
golf trips and Chelsea calls me or on the way home,
goes do you know what so and so I just
said about the golf trips that you guys go on
and what you guys hire hookers. I'm like, can be
honest with you. I'm so ext Austin after golfing, for
you know, sometimes these guys want to play more than
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eighteen holes. There ain't no hooker. They would even get
me excited.
Speaker 3 (05:07):
I love you and would never do that.
Speaker 2 (05:09):
Yeah, well no, and that too, that too, but they
worry about the wrong holes. But it was it was
like he was trying to ruin the golf trip game
for everybody. What's going on, Brian? How you doing.
Speaker 6 (05:21):
Good? How are you this morning?
Speaker 4 (05:22):
Good?
Speaker 6 (05:23):
I I travel often for work, usually three four days
at a time, and I do not call my wife
and kids while I'm on the road. It started out
when the kids were young. I just didn't call because
they got emotional and you.
Speaker 3 (05:37):
Know the rest of it.
Speaker 6 (05:38):
And it's just kind of adapted into like, you know,
I plane landed, boarding the plane on my way home
in the car. Other than that, I don't like that
when I hit the door.
Speaker 4 (05:50):
So who's You're emotional being away from them or they're
emotional that you're away.
Speaker 6 (05:55):
Yeah, I don't. I when they were kids, I didn't
like to be away like the younger you know, I
kind of got emotional. Now now it's them and just
all the extra drama of two teenage girls and the
rest of it. I'll deal with it when I get home.
Speaker 2 (06:09):
Man, you've got a great wife that she's willing to
let you go the entire time that you're away and
not check in at all.
Speaker 4 (06:16):
I think you have to check in. My wife is
absolutely amazing. I have to agree with that. So who
the girls that they're hanging out with when you're on
these trips.
Speaker 6 (06:27):
No, And it's too much, too busy. I got too
much stuff going on at home. It's uh, it's not
I don't know. That's not what I'm there for.
Speaker 4 (06:36):
I have a couple buddies that are in the auto.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
H I don't know if you're an auto but they're
they have to go down to Mexico to plants down there,
and they tell me all the time, They're like, yeah,
I'm down in Mexico, and my wife has this belief
that we're hanging out at Mexican strip clubs. They have
no idea that literally there's nothing in the towns that
our factories are in, like there's you know.
Speaker 4 (06:54):
Sounds like a job. It's open market.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
Yeah, but but they there are certain wives that get
a little bit worried about what these guys are doing.
Speaker 4 (07:04):
What's up? Jersey, Hi, Jersey, Hi? Hey?
Speaker 1 (07:11):
I are we still on the soft topic about who
should call?
Speaker 4 (07:15):
Yes? Yeah, absolutely?
Speaker 3 (07:18):
Okay, So I play a sport in college, and I
think the person that's a way should call because my
boyfriend also plays a sport in college.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
And when you're away, like you.
Speaker 3 (07:30):
You're so busy, so like it's on your time like
kind of thing when you're away to.
Speaker 4 (07:35):
Call what sport do you play? And what sport does
he play?
Speaker 7 (07:39):
I played volleyball and he plays baseball.
Speaker 2 (07:42):
Okay, And so you guys, if you're away, you guys
are way different times of the year, right, because there's
different seasons for both those.
Speaker 7 (07:48):
Sports, correct, and baseball is all year round, so he's
got stuff going on all the time.
Speaker 4 (07:54):
Who's the more jealous type of the two of you?
You are your boyfriend?
Speaker 6 (07:59):
Oh, he definitely is.
Speaker 4 (08:02):
So is he checking in more with you?
Speaker 1 (08:05):
Well?
Speaker 2 (08:05):
Not even just yeah, checking and he's just like.
Speaker 7 (08:07):
What are you gonna call him?
Speaker 6 (08:09):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (08:10):
I think that sometimes that could be the case, especially
in young relationship like yours, where you guys are together.
Speaker 5 (08:16):
I wonder if people are starting to FaceTime a bit
more or does that only happen in, you know, situations
where you feel like there's potential of infidelity.
Speaker 4 (08:23):
Making when you are where you are?
Speaker 2 (08:25):
Yeah, hey, Cheyenne, you're the spouse of a person that
travels a lot.
Speaker 4 (08:29):
Is that right?
Speaker 1 (08:31):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (08:31):
He travels a lot for work.
Speaker 4 (08:33):
And who calls who?
Speaker 7 (08:35):
Oh my god, I call him seven two times here
one day.
Speaker 2 (08:41):
Does it ever become something where he's got to tell you, hey, stop.
Speaker 7 (08:44):
No, no? And if he does, then he's in trouble.
Speaker 2 (08:48):
Do you ever worry about him? Are there any cities
you don't like him to go to?
Speaker 7 (08:52):
I don't love him when he goes to like Mexico.
It's not like like the fun part of Mexico. It's
like the scary part of Mexico.
Speaker 3 (09:00):
Yeah, yeah, So do you call him a ton because
you miss him or you just want to make sure
he's doing what he says he's doing.
Speaker 7 (09:07):
Like I miss him, Like he's my best friend, so
he needs to know what I had for breakfast.
Speaker 2 (09:14):
Yeah, it's crazy's poor bastard guy, Jeanne. You probably also
have fine You're on his phone, don't you?
Speaker 5 (09:22):
Oh?
Speaker 7 (09:22):
Absolutely?
Speaker 4 (09:23):
Yeah? Okay, you're checking out how many times a day?
She said seven thousand? Ye know. That's yeah.
Speaker 2 (09:30):
I was gonna say, that's a totally different number than calling.
Probably those are one sided conversation. Yeah, that you're not
saying anything. Listen to Stephanie's the exact opposite. Stephanie, what's up?
Speaker 5 (09:41):
Hi?
Speaker 1 (09:42):
So my husband and I have been together for twenty
five years, but when we go away, we're going away
for a reason and we do not communicate unless something
obviously like god you mental happens. But it's my boys
that call when mom goes away the most. They want
to know when I'm coming home because Dad does not
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restuck the house.
Speaker 3 (10:05):
That's so funny.
Speaker 4 (10:08):
I like it.
Speaker 2 (10:09):
I like it, but I do think that there is
a point to that that I think early in relationship,
I felt like Chelse and I were always you know,
missing each other and stuff. And now I feel like,
when you're away, you kind of go away and it's
kind of good to be because absence does make the
heart grow fonder.
Speaker 4 (10:26):
It really does, and it's good. Yeah, it really is good.
Speaker 2 (10:29):
I was one that never wanted to be away and
I was never good at that and if Chelsea was away,
like I was thinking something crazy was going on. But
I do think that it makes you realize sometimes how
good your relationship is when you're a okay with them
going away and you have no problem with him and
then b you don't need to check in like every
five minutes. But all right, well we've learned something in
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this one. We learned Tony Travado, our boss is a bastard.
Speaker 4 (10:57):
I mean, even a wait you don't have a wait for.
Speaker 2 (11:02):
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