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Speaker 1 (00:00):
All right, it is Mojo in the Morning. That was incredible.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
By the way, that was an incredible, incredible wish. Mojo's
wish dot org to send your wishes into us. All right,
it is the Mojo in the Morning Show. I would
like to bring up something on the air here right now,
but I would like my wife know that I told
you to do this, because if I know, she's gonna
be mad at me for bringing this up as a topic.
(00:24):
But I want you to know I told you to
do this. This is no reflection on you. So I
asked my wife about year and a half or so ago,
to say to me, when I have gotten to a
point where I might be gaining weight back after trying
to lose weight for such a long time, to say, hey,
(00:47):
you may want to like relax a little bit. You
look like you might be gaining weight a little bit.
And I know that sounds weird to say this, but
I told her to do this. Well, she didn't quite
say it like that. She said it actually nicer. She
actually this weekend said to me, hey, have you gotten
on the scale lately? Which way do you think That's nice?
(01:08):
Not as nice as a no, I mean no, I
think That was very nice though, that she did it
that way. She said, hey, have you gotten on the
scale lately? And I go, no, I haven't. And I
go why, and she goes, oh, nothing. And then I realized, uh, oh,
it must be one of those things where you know,
(01:30):
I got to go look at myself in the mirror.
So I go, and we were in the bathroom at
the time, and I go walk in front of the
mirror at that time, and I'm looking and I'm going,
this is this season, look at me. But I I
have a problem.
Speaker 1 (01:48):
Guys. Hi, my name is Mojo, and I have a problem.
Thank you.
Speaker 2 (01:55):
My problem is food and my other problem is inactivity.
And it comes to a point where and I listen,
no joke, I do the jab, you know, I take
the shot and the shot works. But the shot can
only do so much, especially when you got crap all
over the place. You know, you got ham and turkey
and mashed potatos and pies.
Speaker 3 (02:16):
You can't judge yourself after Thanksgiving.
Speaker 4 (02:18):
Week I know, I agree with that.
Speaker 1 (02:21):
You're telling me that that started Thanksgiving weekend. That started
way more Thanksgiving.
Speaker 3 (02:26):
You can you can gain ten to twenty pounds Thanksgiving
weekend if you do it right.
Speaker 2 (02:30):
I listen, I got on the scale and I gained
over ten pounds e And I realized at that particular
moment that I just got a freaking stop. It's enough already,
and a lot of it is not from Thanksgiving. It's pretzels.
You really think that's because it's I buy. I bought
an Amazon. They had my favorite pretzels, which are these
gluten free pretzel rods.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
What is that brand called? There's some.
Speaker 2 (02:55):
I can eat twenty bags of those things, Like I always.
Speaker 4 (02:58):
Say, that's little by Those pretzel ruds are like three
quarters of a normal.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
But I grab a handful of them. I grab like
a fistful, and it's like it started off where I
was like, I'm going to eat three of them, and
then three turns in the thirty.
Speaker 1 (03:09):
You know, I want to ask this question.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
Is it ever okay to call out your spouse's weight?
Speaker 1 (03:18):
Is it ever okay? Now?
Speaker 2 (03:19):
I personally gave Chelsea this as something to do, but
I wonder if there are any people that have ever
done it without getting the permission to do it? Or
do you guys have like a code phrase with each
other like fatty mic fat.
Speaker 4 (03:35):
I think you have your spouse has to be that
person in ability honesty. I ask for honesty and I
get honesty. Sometimes it sucks, but that's what I've asked for,
you know, in my spouse.
Speaker 2 (03:51):
You have you ever if it's not the gaining weight is.
Have you ever had your spouse say hey, you're drinking
too much? Or yeah, like I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (03:59):
Anybody see I actually asked for that, did you?
Speaker 4 (04:02):
Because you guys know, and I love having a glass
wine on the weekends. I love having glasses of wine.
And I've asked West before, like, hey, just remind me
I'm going to my friend Linday's house. I don't need
to sit there and have two glasses of wine before
I come home. Yeah, Like I just like that nudge.
But then he would do it and I'd be like, yeah,
I don't want you to do that anymore.
Speaker 2 (04:22):
I've deemed that my weight issue is this go around
because it's not necessarily just food, because for me, I
can't only eat a certain amount Like I literally I
get sick if I eat too much of the shot
because of the shot. But with alcohol, with having alcohol,
and it seems like I have it on a lot
(04:42):
of nights. It used to be like one night a
week now, it's like you know something I asked, Well.
Speaker 4 (04:48):
Especially this time of year, I'm like, oh, I just
want a glass wines.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
I mean, I make myself feeling like I every day
is a weekend, you know what I mean.
Speaker 3 (04:55):
So you're saying the concern isn't like you got an
alcohol problem. It's just more so like the calie from it,
you're gaining weight. I think the calories from doing stupid stuff.
I'm not a sweets guy, Like, I really don't necessarily
like sweets, even though I will eat them, but I
think that, oh I'll have a drink instead of having
and my drinks are usually old fashions.
Speaker 1 (05:14):
That are sweets. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (05:18):
But eight four to four Mojo Live eight four four
six six five six five four eight What is the
nicest or meanest way that someone has ever told you
that you've gained weight?
Speaker 1 (05:29):
Now?
Speaker 2 (05:30):
I will say this, Kevin looks like he's lost weight. Yeah,
and you look like you've actually done a really nice
job because a year ago you were a fat That's
not true.
Speaker 3 (05:39):
I mean probably was the heaviest I've ever been. Really
last year. Absolutely, I'm not gonna say I was skinny
all my life and I look at some pictures I
look fat as hell. But I was at the Pistons
game shot on my girl Caprice. She worked one of
the bars in the course I club. My badge picture
is from my first season in twenty twenty, and she
was like, damn you a skinny, big dal.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
That's probably not the way to do it.
Speaker 5 (06:01):
You know.
Speaker 1 (06:01):
I agree.
Speaker 4 (06:02):
I Have you ever critiqued yourself, whether it's way or
something else, and you critique yourself out loud and then
somebody agrees with you and you're like.
Speaker 1 (06:10):
What's happened to me?
Speaker 4 (06:12):
So I'm really self conscious about my nose lately, your nose,
my nose growing, your nose, I think it's getting bigger.
And I said that outlid. I was like, I feel
like anytime I look at a picture now, my nose
is like humungo and getting bigger. Both Wes and my
sister jackline it is. It is.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
Something like yep, it is.
Speaker 3 (06:34):
A saying wider or all over.
Speaker 4 (06:37):
I'm getting this at the Italian butt nose that all
the women in my family.
Speaker 1 (06:41):
But I didn't realize that is that a thing? Italians
get button noses. It's a thing. Wow, I did not know.
I'm gonna have to.
Speaker 3 (06:49):
Look are you.
Speaker 1 (06:51):
Have you ever had your thoughts to yourself? Have you
ever thought of using a different filter? No filter? LEXI,
what's up? It's Mojo in the morning.
Speaker 6 (07:02):
Morning.
Speaker 5 (07:03):
I was just gonna say, I think it kind of
is a little bit of your partner's responsibility if you
gain some weight. But I think it's situational, like if
it's a little bit after the holidays, that's one thing.
Or if you're not changing your lifestyle and you just
you know, you get thirty, you get forty, you know,
you end up getting a little bit of weight. But
I think it's your partner's responsibility.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
Were so wait, so I here you go. I can
blame Chelsea for me gaining weight? Is that what you're saying.
Speaker 3 (07:32):
Now?
Speaker 5 (07:32):
Because I love Chelse.
Speaker 4 (07:33):
I'm not gonna blame.
Speaker 5 (07:34):
Her for anything.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
Can I tell you?
Speaker 3 (07:35):
Though?
Speaker 2 (07:36):
There is something to the fact that it has been
a stressful time in our lives, and I think stressful
times bring on eating. But also I think happy times
bring on eating too, Like if you're happy in life,
I think that you end up celebrating a little bit
more and I think that does cause for it. So
thank you I'm gonna blame Chelsea for that. Thank you, Lexi.
(07:56):
What's up, Rachel? How you doing?
Speaker 3 (07:59):
Hi?
Speaker 1 (08:00):
How are you.
Speaker 3 (08:02):
Good?
Speaker 5 (08:03):
My mom used to post my stomach and say, chubb.
Speaker 3 (08:07):
Oh, I've had I've had three kids.
Speaker 2 (08:11):
My youngest was four and uh.
Speaker 5 (08:13):
He used to buy me dresses that were too small,
and she would take them to my husband and say,
this is her gold dress.
Speaker 1 (08:20):
Oh my god, oh my god, that.
Speaker 4 (08:28):
This is her gold dress, gold to get into.
Speaker 2 (08:32):
Yeah, like future you yeah, yeah, look at how fat
you are.
Speaker 1 (08:38):
That's brutal.
Speaker 2 (08:39):
My dad never called me fat, but my dad would
occasionally like push vegetables.
Speaker 1 (08:45):
In front of me, or he would like he would
do certain things.
Speaker 2 (08:48):
And then as I got older, my dad would he
would worry about my weight, you know, because my dad
was a doctor, so my dad always kind of looked
at it is he was also being my doctor.
Speaker 1 (08:57):
At times, and I got resentful towards him.
Speaker 2 (08:59):
But I got what he was doing, you know what
I mean, Like I got the idea that that that
was you know, him being nice. Your mom's just plain
old meme. I hate to say this, Racheldren, that's a
mean spit going on there.
Speaker 3 (09:13):
It is.
Speaker 2 (09:13):
Yeah, yeah, that's that's crazy. Initial B is being voice
disguised right now? What's going on? B? Hi?
Speaker 6 (09:21):
Guys?
Speaker 1 (09:22):
How are you he good? What's up?
Speaker 5 (09:25):
So?
Speaker 1 (09:26):
I have been.
Speaker 6 (09:27):
Dating my boyfriend for about six years now and recently,
about eight months ago, I broke my back and I
gained a lot of weight. Before that, I was gaining
a lot of weight because I was suppressed. My best
friend had passed and he told me a few months
(09:49):
ago that the weight and the depression is a issue
for him and he was debating on breaking up with me.
Speaker 2 (09:55):
Oh my god, that sucks the way to put it.
Not a good guy, that's yeah, No, that sucks. I'm
so sorry about that. Please tell me that that you
lose a lot of weight and lose his ass.
Speaker 1 (10:07):
Get get rid of that guy. That's horrible.
Speaker 6 (10:10):
I'm trying. He uh he bought me a tread meal
like a week ago.
Speaker 3 (10:15):
Oh my god, if you ask for that?
Speaker 1 (10:20):
Yeah, oh you did? Okay, what are you gonna say?
Speaker 2 (10:24):
Ken?
Speaker 3 (10:25):
No, I think it is very I don't think it's
right for you to break break up with someone simply
because of how they look. I would just like to
hear the other side, and if you're in a position
where you're out there working with your partner because you
want to see them healthier.
Speaker 1 (10:40):
Then I think that's okay. But just to there was
a different way to go at it than he did.
Speaker 6 (10:45):
He told me that I'm no longer his type.
Speaker 1 (10:49):
Man's.
Speaker 2 (10:51):
But so, what happens if be gets into an accident
and she has a horrible fire happened or something like
that been to anything?
Speaker 1 (11:00):
You know what I mean, like broke her back. Yeah,
that's what happened. But I mean, how do you how
do you say all of a sudden all this stuff
you know?
Speaker 3 (11:08):
I don't Yeah, I don't think it's right. I don't
think it's right. But don't you know what you got
to do?
Speaker 2 (11:14):
Honestly, And this is me being serious about this whole thing.
I think that you got to do it for yourself
because anytime I tried to do it for others, even
trying to lose weight for Chelsea and my kids, it
never worked. Do it for yourself, and then this is
serious on this one. That is one of those things
that will make you also rethink your relationship of whether
you're even attracted to it.
Speaker 6 (11:36):
And when girls go through breakouts, I don't know how
it is for guys, but we kind of like start
going to the gym more, taking more care of ourselves.
So why not do it now before the relationship ends.
Speaker 1 (11:49):
Yeah, you deserve the best to be.
Speaker 2 (11:51):
I hate to say this, I hate to say, but
you know what, you deserve better than that guy. And
I think that when you're hat, when you're happy too,
and I know, and you get healthy, you'll you will
lose that way.
Speaker 3 (12:03):
This is what I'm saying, though, imagine not in this
particular situation. And you can say it's apples and oranges,
but I think addiction is addiction, no matter what it is.
If you are in a relationship with someone and all
of a sudden they form an alcoholic addiction, and you
realize that, you know what, this isn't the person that
I met, This is the person I want to be with.
I'm gonna separate myself. Do you kind of see that?
The same way if you meet somebody all of a
(12:25):
sudden they develop a food addiction, not they eating all crazy,
And this isn't the person that I met, This isn't
the person I want to be with.
Speaker 2 (12:31):
I can see that, But to be mean, you wouldn't
call that person. You wouldn't sit there and say.
Speaker 1 (12:35):
I'm not saying being mean. Out of my life.
Speaker 3 (12:37):
You alcohol are deciding that the person that you are
now isn't the person.
Speaker 6 (12:41):
I met last is people are going to change. People
that have been married sixty years have changed their personalities
and their bodies billions of times. It's about learning the
new person and falling in love with that new person.
Speaker 1 (12:56):
Yeah, I mean that's Kevin's now. Listen.
Speaker 2 (12:59):
Kevin's analogy makes sense to a certain extent, but also
the way that he's doing it buying a treadmill saying.
Speaker 1 (13:07):
I'm to be fair, But the way that he said
it to her in the first place was, yeah, the
coach was off.
Speaker 3 (13:16):
You just don't agree with me.
Speaker 2 (13:18):
No, listen, I know what it's like to be heavy
and to have people look at you in a way
and all sort of make jokes about yourself and do
all that stuff. And I think that you again, you
got to do it for yourself and that and b
if you do it for yourself, you'll then figure out
that relationship. It will all come into play at the
same time.
Speaker 6 (13:39):
I'm trying. Thank you guys.
Speaker 1 (13:41):
Is your back getting better?
Speaker 6 (13:44):
Yeah, it's took a lot of recovery. But it's still struggle.
But at least I'm back to work. I'm moving around,
I'm working out more, and.
Speaker 3 (13:53):
I like big girls. B So if you leave him,
come to me and we break you back again.
Speaker 1 (13:59):
On you, Kevin, get it be my God. I like
my girls BBDA. Would you imagine if you're that good
you could break break it back? Man, We'll be right
back
All right, it is Mojo in the Morning. That was incredible.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
By the way, that was an incredible, incredible wish. Mojo's
wish dot org to send your wishes into us. All right,
it is the Mojo in the Morning Show. I would
like to bring up something on the air here right now,
but I would like my wife know that I told
you to do this, because if I know, she's gonna
be mad at me for bringing this up as a topic.
(00:24):
But I want you to know I told you to
do this. This is no reflection on you. So I
asked my wife about year and a half or so ago,
to say to me, when I have gotten to a
point where I might be gaining weight back after trying
to lose weight for such a long time, to say, hey,
(00:47):
you may want to like relax a little bit. You
look like you might be gaining weight a little bit.
And I know that sounds weird to say this, but
I told her to do this. Well, she didn't quite
say it like that. She said it actually nicer. She
actually this weekend said to me, hey, have you gotten
on the scale lately? Which way do you think That's nice?
(01:08):
Not as nice as a no, I mean no, I
think That was very nice though, that she did it
that way. She said, hey, have you gotten on the
scale lately? And I go, no, I haven't. And I
go why, and she goes, oh, nothing. And then I realized, uh, oh,
it must be one of those things where you know,
(01:30):
I got to go look at myself in the mirror.
So I go, and we were in the bathroom at
the time, and I go walk in front of the
mirror at that time, and I'm looking and I'm going,
this is this season, look at me. But I I
have a problem.
Speaker 1 (01:48):
Guys. Hi, my name is Mojo, and I have a problem.
Thank you.
Speaker 2 (01:55):
My problem is food and my other problem is inactivity.
And it comes to a point where and I listen,
no joke, I do the jab, you know, I take
the shot and the shot works. But the shot can
only do so much, especially when you got crap all
over the place. You know, you got ham and turkey
and mashed potatos and pies.
Speaker 3 (02:16):
You can't judge yourself after Thanksgiving.
Speaker 4 (02:18):
Week I know, I agree with that.
Speaker 1 (02:21):
You're telling me that that started Thanksgiving weekend. That started
way more Thanksgiving.
Speaker 3 (02:26):
You can you can gain ten to twenty pounds Thanksgiving
weekend if you do it right.
Speaker 2 (02:30):
I listen, I got on the scale and I gained
over ten pounds e And I realized at that particular
moment that I just got a freaking stop. It's enough already,
and a lot of it is not from Thanksgiving. It's pretzels.
You really think that's because it's I buy. I bought
an Amazon. They had my favorite pretzels, which are these
gluten free pretzel rods.
Speaker 1 (02:52):
What is that brand called? There's some.
Speaker 2 (02:55):
I can eat twenty bags of those things, Like I always.
Speaker 4 (02:58):
Say, that's little by Those pretzel ruds are like three
quarters of a normal.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
But I grab a handful of them. I grab like
a fistful, and it's like it started off where I
was like, I'm going to eat three of them, and
then three turns in the thirty.
Speaker 1 (03:09):
You know, I want to ask this question.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
Is it ever okay to call out your spouse's weight?
Speaker 1 (03:18):
Is it ever okay? Now?
Speaker 2 (03:19):
I personally gave Chelsea this as something to do, but
I wonder if there are any people that have ever
done it without getting the permission to do it? Or
do you guys have like a code phrase with each
other like fatty mic fat.
Speaker 4 (03:35):
I think you have your spouse has to be that
person in ability honesty. I ask for honesty and I
get honesty. Sometimes it sucks, but that's what I've asked for,
you know, in my spouse.
Speaker 2 (03:51):
You have you ever if it's not the gaining weight is.
Have you ever had your spouse say hey, you're drinking
too much? Or yeah, like I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (03:59):
Anybody see I actually asked for that, did you?
Speaker 4 (04:02):
Because you guys know, and I love having a glass
wine on the weekends. I love having glasses of wine.
And I've asked West before, like, hey, just remind me
I'm going to my friend Linday's house. I don't need
to sit there and have two glasses of wine before
I come home. Yeah, Like I just like that nudge.
But then he would do it and I'd be like, yeah,
I don't want you to do that anymore.
Speaker 2 (04:22):
I've deemed that my weight issue is this go around
because it's not necessarily just food, because for me, I
can't only eat a certain amount Like I literally I
get sick if I eat too much of the shot
because of the shot. But with alcohol, with having alcohol,
and it seems like I have it on a lot
(04:42):
of nights. It used to be like one night a
week now, it's like you know something I asked, Well.
Speaker 4 (04:48):
Especially this time of year, I'm like, oh, I just
want a glass wines.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
I mean, I make myself feeling like I every day
is a weekend, you know what I mean.
Speaker 3 (04:55):
So you're saying the concern isn't like you got an
alcohol problem. It's just more so like the calie from it,
you're gaining weight. I think the calories from doing stupid stuff.
I'm not a sweets guy, Like, I really don't necessarily
like sweets, even though I will eat them, but I
think that, oh I'll have a drink instead of having
and my drinks are usually old fashions.
Speaker 1 (05:14):
That are sweets. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (05:18):
But eight four to four Mojo Live eight four four
six six five six five four eight What is the
nicest or meanest way that someone has ever told you
that you've gained weight?
Speaker 1 (05:29):
Now?
Speaker 2 (05:30):
I will say this, Kevin looks like he's lost weight. Yeah,
and you look like you've actually done a really nice
job because a year ago you were a fat That's
not true.
Speaker 3 (05:39):
I mean probably was the heaviest I've ever been. Really
last year. Absolutely, I'm not gonna say I was skinny
all my life and I look at some pictures I
look fat as hell. But I was at the Pistons
game shot on my girl Caprice. She worked one of
the bars in the course I club. My badge picture
is from my first season in twenty twenty, and she
was like, damn you a skinny, big dal.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
That's probably not the way to do it.
Speaker 5 (06:01):
You know.
Speaker 1 (06:01):
I agree.
Speaker 4 (06:02):
I Have you ever critiqued yourself, whether it's way or
something else, and you critique yourself out loud and then
somebody agrees with you and you're like.
Speaker 1 (06:10):
What's happened to me?
Speaker 4 (06:12):
So I'm really self conscious about my nose lately, your nose,
my nose growing, your nose, I think it's getting bigger.
And I said that outlid. I was like, I feel
like anytime I look at a picture now, my nose
is like humungo and getting bigger. Both Wes and my
sister jackline it is. It is.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
Something like yep, it is.
Speaker 3 (06:34):
A saying wider or all over.
Speaker 4 (06:37):
I'm getting this at the Italian butt nose that all
the women in my family.
Speaker 1 (06:41):
But I didn't realize that is that a thing? Italians
get button noses. It's a thing. Wow, I did not know.
I'm gonna have to.
Speaker 3 (06:49):
Look are you.
Speaker 1 (06:51):
Have you ever had your thoughts to yourself? Have you
ever thought of using a different filter? No filter? LEXI,
what's up? It's Mojo in the morning.
Speaker 6 (07:02):
Morning.
Speaker 5 (07:03):
I was just gonna say, I think it kind of
is a little bit of your partner's responsibility if you
gain some weight. But I think it's situational, like if
it's a little bit after the holidays, that's one thing.
Or if you're not changing your lifestyle and you just
you know, you get thirty, you get forty, you know,
you end up getting a little bit of weight. But
I think it's your partner's responsibility.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
Were so wait, so I here you go. I can
blame Chelsea for me gaining weight? Is that what you're saying.
Speaker 3 (07:32):
Now?
Speaker 5 (07:32):
Because I love Chelse.
Speaker 4 (07:33):
I'm not gonna blame.
Speaker 5 (07:34):
Her for anything.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
Can I tell you?
Speaker 3 (07:35):
Though?
Speaker 2 (07:36):
There is something to the fact that it has been
a stressful time in our lives, and I think stressful
times bring on eating. But also I think happy times
bring on eating too, Like if you're happy in life,
I think that you end up celebrating a little bit
more and I think that does cause for it. So
thank you I'm gonna blame Chelsea for that. Thank you, Lexi.
(07:56):
What's up, Rachel? How you doing?
Speaker 3 (07:59):
Hi?
Speaker 1 (08:00):
How are you.
Speaker 3 (08:02):
Good?
Speaker 5 (08:03):
My mom used to post my stomach and say, chubb.
Speaker 3 (08:07):
Oh, I've had I've had three kids.
Speaker 2 (08:11):
My youngest was four and uh.
Speaker 5 (08:13):
He used to buy me dresses that were too small,
and she would take them to my husband and say,
this is her gold dress.
Speaker 1 (08:20):
Oh my god, oh my god, that.
Speaker 4 (08:28):
This is her gold dress, gold to get into.
Speaker 2 (08:32):
Yeah, like future you yeah, yeah, look at how fat
you are.
Speaker 1 (08:38):
That's brutal.
Speaker 2 (08:39):
My dad never called me fat, but my dad would
occasionally like push vegetables.
Speaker 1 (08:45):
In front of me, or he would like he would
do certain things.
Speaker 2 (08:48):
And then as I got older, my dad would he
would worry about my weight, you know, because my dad
was a doctor, so my dad always kind of looked
at it is he was also being my doctor.
Speaker 1 (08:57):
At times, and I got resentful towards him.
Speaker 2 (08:59):
But I got what he was doing, you know what
I mean, Like I got the idea that that that
was you know, him being nice. Your mom's just plain
old meme. I hate to say this, Racheldren, that's a
mean spit going on there.
Speaker 3 (09:13):
It is.
Speaker 2 (09:13):
Yeah, yeah, that's that's crazy. Initial B is being voice
disguised right now? What's going on? B? Hi?
Speaker 6 (09:21):
Guys?
Speaker 1 (09:22):
How are you he good? What's up?
Speaker 5 (09:25):
So?
Speaker 1 (09:26):
I have been.
Speaker 6 (09:27):
Dating my boyfriend for about six years now and recently,
about eight months ago, I broke my back and I
gained a lot of weight. Before that, I was gaining
a lot of weight because I was suppressed. My best
friend had passed and he told me a few months
(09:49):
ago that the weight and the depression is a issue
for him and he was debating on breaking up with me.
Speaker 2 (09:55):
Oh my god, that sucks the way to put it.
Not a good guy, that's yeah, No, that sucks. I'm
so sorry about that. Please tell me that that you
lose a lot of weight and lose his ass.
Speaker 1 (10:07):
Get get rid of that guy. That's horrible.
Speaker 6 (10:10):
I'm trying. He uh he bought me a tread meal
like a week ago.
Speaker 3 (10:15):
Oh my god, if you ask for that?
Speaker 1 (10:20):
Yeah, oh you did? Okay, what are you gonna say?
Speaker 2 (10:24):
Ken?
Speaker 3 (10:25):
No, I think it is very I don't think it's
right for you to break break up with someone simply
because of how they look. I would just like to
hear the other side, and if you're in a position
where you're out there working with your partner because you
want to see them healthier.
Speaker 1 (10:40):
Then I think that's okay. But just to there was
a different way to go at it than he did.
Speaker 6 (10:45):
He told me that I'm no longer his type.
Speaker 1 (10:49):
Man's.
Speaker 2 (10:51):
But so, what happens if be gets into an accident
and she has a horrible fire happened or something like
that been to anything?
Speaker 1 (11:00):
You know what I mean, like broke her back. Yeah,
that's what happened. But I mean, how do you how
do you say all of a sudden all this stuff
you know?
Speaker 3 (11:08):
I don't Yeah, I don't think it's right. I don't
think it's right. But don't you know what you got
to do?
Speaker 2 (11:14):
Honestly, And this is me being serious about this whole thing.
I think that you got to do it for yourself
because anytime I tried to do it for others, even
trying to lose weight for Chelsea and my kids, it
never worked. Do it for yourself, and then this is
serious on this one. That is one of those things
that will make you also rethink your relationship of whether
you're even attracted to it.
Speaker 6 (11:36):
And when girls go through breakouts, I don't know how
it is for guys, but we kind of like start
going to the gym more, taking more care of ourselves.
So why not do it now before the relationship ends.
Speaker 1 (11:49):
Yeah, you deserve the best to be.
Speaker 2 (11:51):
I hate to say this, I hate to say, but
you know what, you deserve better than that guy. And
I think that when you're hat, when you're happy too,
and I know, and you get healthy, you'll you will
lose that way.
Speaker 3 (12:03):
This is what I'm saying, though, imagine not in this
particular situation. And you can say it's apples and oranges,
but I think addiction is addiction, no matter what it is.
If you are in a relationship with someone and all
of a sudden they form an alcoholic addiction, and you
realize that, you know what, this isn't the person that
I met, This is the person I want to be with.
I'm gonna separate myself. Do you kind of see that?
The same way if you meet somebody all of a
(12:25):
sudden they develop a food addiction, not they eating all crazy,
And this isn't the person that I met, This isn't
the person I want to be with.
Speaker 2 (12:31):
I can see that, But to be mean, you wouldn't
call that person. You wouldn't sit there and say.
Speaker 1 (12:35):
I'm not saying being mean. Out of my life.
Speaker 3 (12:37):
You alcohol are deciding that the person that you are
now isn't the person.
Speaker 6 (12:41):
I met last is people are going to change. People
that have been married sixty years have changed their personalities
and their bodies billions of times. It's about learning the
new person and falling in love with that new person.
Speaker 1 (12:56):
Yeah, I mean that's Kevin's now. Listen.
Speaker 2 (12:59):
Kevin's analogy makes sense to a certain extent, but also
the way that he's doing it buying a treadmill saying.
Speaker 1 (13:07):
I'm to be fair, But the way that he said
it to her in the first place was, yeah, the
coach was off.
Speaker 3 (13:16):
You just don't agree with me.
Speaker 2 (13:18):
No, listen, I know what it's like to be heavy
and to have people look at you in a way
and all sort of make jokes about yourself and do
all that stuff. And I think that you again, you
got to do it for yourself and that and b
if you do it for yourself, you'll then figure out
that relationship. It will all come into play at the
same time.
Speaker 6 (13:39):
I'm trying. Thank you guys.
Speaker 1 (13:41):
Is your back getting better?
Speaker 6 (13:44):
Yeah, it's took a lot of recovery. But it's still struggle.
But at least I'm back to work. I'm moving around,
I'm working out more, and.
Speaker 3 (13:53):
I like big girls. B So if you leave him,
come to me and we break you back again.
Speaker 1 (13:59):
On you, Kevin, get it be my God. I like
my girls BBDA. Would you imagine if you're that good
you could break break it back? Man, We'll be right
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