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Speaker 1 (00:01):
It's the second date update in the morning.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
All right, why are you not getting a call back
after you went on a date? Stacy is getting ghosted?
What's up, Stacy?
Speaker 1 (00:10):
Hi, good morning. How you doing.
Speaker 2 (00:14):
I'm okay, okay, Stacey. You guys went on a date
to Shannon's favorite place. Shannon, do you have any idea
what she's going to say?
Speaker 3 (00:21):
My favorite place?
Speaker 1 (00:22):
Yeah? Tell her where you went on a date.
Speaker 4 (00:26):
We went to Davenbusters.
Speaker 1 (00:27):
Oh God, hates that place. I hate and the day
I loved it, the day you said was good.
Speaker 2 (00:36):
He's cute. You like him, but he's not calling you back.
We got to figure out what's going on here. You
sound like a nice person.
Speaker 4 (00:44):
Everything went on, I mean, nothing weird happened. I thought
we had a good time, and I never heard from him.
Speaker 2 (00:53):
All right, he's on the phone with us right now, Stacy.
Say hello to Phillip. I feel right, okay, Stacey.
Speaker 1 (01:03):
What's the what's the deal here, Philip? How you doing, buddy?
I'm doing great, mil Joe, I'm doing good. Shannon.
Speaker 2 (01:10):
By the way, for those that don't know why she
hates david Busters, and I'll tell I'll tell you. Guys
both this we would have show outings there.
Speaker 3 (01:18):
They were like team building, team building activities.
Speaker 2 (01:22):
And Shannon would always look and go, this is the
dumbest thing ever that we're going here, like Papa shot. Yeah,
she was not into it, but Philip, is everything okay?
Like did you enjoy the date?
Speaker 5 (01:36):
No? I didn't have a good time.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
Oh wow, what what was it?
Speaker 5 (01:41):
I mean we got to David Busters and everything was cool.
But she brought her kids with her and I wasn't
there to babysitter.
Speaker 3 (01:48):
Wait did you know that she was planning on bringing
her kids to the date.
Speaker 5 (01:53):
I had no idea.
Speaker 6 (01:55):
What first off, you guys just met there, I'm assuming,
and she had her kids there.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
Yes, what when was this? When was this date? Stacey?
Speaker 3 (02:06):
Sorry?
Speaker 1 (02:06):
When was this date? Like a couple of weeks ago?
Speaker 3 (02:09):
Yeah, last Saturday?
Speaker 2 (02:11):
So last Saturday? Was it in night or when was it?
Speaker 4 (02:18):
I don't know, in the afternoon.
Speaker 1 (02:20):
So it was in the afternoon.
Speaker 4 (02:21):
I had a babysitter and she canceled.
Speaker 1 (02:25):
And but like he.
Speaker 4 (02:27):
Knows, I have kids, so I didn't think that was
a big deal.
Speaker 5 (02:31):
Like, obviously they're a.
Speaker 6 (02:32):
Huge part of my life for sure, and I understand
that I put you in a Buynes but why didn't
you instead just say, Hey, my babysitter canceled, can we reschedule?
Speaker 1 (02:43):
I thought that would be rude to do that. So Philip,
what were you thinking when you're there? You guys? Did
you guys meet at David Busters?
Speaker 5 (02:53):
Yeah, we met up at David Buss.
Speaker 2 (02:55):
What did you think when you saw Stacy walk in?
And how many kids did she bring with her?
Speaker 7 (03:00):
Two?
Speaker 1 (03:01):
So she brings her two kids in with her? Were
you like shocked by that?
Speaker 5 (03:07):
I wasn't necessarily shocked, but I wasn't like like happy
about it.
Speaker 1 (03:13):
Did you have to pay for them to play games?
Speaker 4 (03:15):
Too?
Speaker 5 (03:17):
I mean, I only thought that would be the right
thing to do, since you know, we were on a date.
Speaker 1 (03:21):
Nice.
Speaker 2 (03:23):
I have to be honest, I don't think that Stacy's
bringing the kids on the date is the right thing
to do. But I also think that at least the
date was kind of appropriate, like you know what I mean, Like,
if the date was somewhere I don't know where I
needed to actually add to a reservation, well, the strip
(03:45):
club obviously not going to do it, but if it was,
and also it was a daytime date. But I think
that her just showing up and bringing the kids is
a little off.
Speaker 6 (03:56):
Especially since she didn't say anything beforehand.
Speaker 3 (04:00):
It was very unexpected, Lydia.
Speaker 4 (04:01):
I want to ask I didn't think it was a
big deal.
Speaker 2 (04:05):
I want to ask the listeners this Lydia and see
if you can find calls on this. I would like
to ask the listeners to call us up in a
give some advice here and comments on what do you
think about Stacy doing this bringing her kids on the date?
Speaker 7 (04:16):
Then?
Speaker 2 (04:16):
I also want to ask this question. You went on
a date and they brought blank with you? Who else
has gone on a date with somebody and they brought others?
Speaker 5 (04:26):
Like?
Speaker 1 (04:27):
Did anybody else bring a kid or kids or friends
or any of this stuff? Mom? I was in your mom, Hey,
this is my mom coming on the data? Is that
one where the mom was at the bar? Yes? Eight
four to four Mojo Live or text nine five to
five zero zero.
Speaker 2 (04:41):
Stacy, you understand that that's probably an awkward thing for
him when he sees that you bring your kids with you.
Speaker 4 (04:48):
I mean, we talked so much and he didn't seem
bothered by it on the date. So that's why I
don't know why he didn't so say something.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
Or because he's letting me know, like let's go out
on another date.
Speaker 4 (05:02):
Like I thought i'd see him again, and I was,
you know, in a situation. I'm really good kids, and
my kids are really well behaved.
Speaker 1 (05:10):
Let me ask Philip where they behaved.
Speaker 5 (05:13):
I mean they were pretty behaved. They just kept coming
back to the table asking for you know, reloading their
cards and stuff. I really get a chance to really
get to know her, right, and.
Speaker 3 (05:23):
I think more so for you Stacy too.
Speaker 6 (05:25):
Like when when I'm with my kids, I am not
one hundred percent focused on anything else because I'm worried.
Speaker 3 (05:33):
Like do they need something? Is somebody being creepy around?
Speaker 6 (05:37):
Like especially in a place like that, Like my focus
is on them.
Speaker 3 (05:40):
I'm not focused. I could not focus on a date.
Speaker 2 (05:43):
Stacy wants to say something about I'm sorry, Sarah wants
to say something about Stacy and bringing in her kids.
What did you want to say, Sarah?
Speaker 8 (05:51):
Hi?
Speaker 1 (05:52):
Sorry, my name's actually oh it's Alyssa.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
How do we get I don't know how we got
Sarah out of that, but hi, Alyssa, I'm.
Speaker 9 (05:59):
Actually in the car with kid on the way to school.
Speaker 1 (06:01):
So okay, what's going on?
Speaker 7 (06:04):
In my opinion?
Speaker 9 (06:05):
When dating and you have kids is kind of a sense,
like a really sensitive situation just because you guys are
still getting to know each other and if it doesn't
work out, now the kids are kind of like, you know,
maybe they did like, oh, hey, what happened is so
and so or you know, like you got to give
it a chance, like you said, to kind of mold
and get to know each other before you bring the
kids in distress.
Speaker 2 (06:27):
I didn't even think about that, But that's the truth.
You don't introduce your kids, Stacy. Is it weird for
your kids to see you out?
Speaker 4 (06:36):
I just told them it was a friend, but you know,
it wasn't a.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
Big Okay, Megan wants to comment. What's up, Megan? Hey,
good morning, Good morning.
Speaker 7 (06:48):
Okay. So I'm married and I wouldn't even bring my
children on like a date night that I would have
like with my husband. He's let alone, like dating somebody,
and so I don't blame him for not calling her back.
He might have, you know, been a little immature about it.
He could have brought it up maybe and they could
(07:09):
have talked about it and she could have maybe explained
her side, you know, with the whole babysitter situation. But
I feel like it's a very slippery slope when you're
introducing your children to new people that you're dating. I
didn't get introduced to my steps on until a year
into our relationship. So, like the previous caller said, it's
(07:33):
like the kids, you know, like the kids are gonna
be like, oh, well, what happened to so and so?
And then you have to be the one to explain that.
And then it's like, you know, it doesn't look.
Speaker 2 (07:42):
Good that that seems to be where everybody's going right now.
The idea that she would bring her kids was probably
not the right thing.
Speaker 1 (07:50):
But Sierra, you on to comment on this.
Speaker 8 (07:53):
Yes, I also say you should not be leg on
my birthday. Don't even there, man, you don't know what
nothing about him?
Speaker 1 (08:04):
Yeah, weird.
Speaker 2 (08:07):
A lot of people, a lot of people saying the
same exact thing. Let me ask you this though, Does
it make him look good though? Because I would think
that this guy is a good guy to date, that
he actually played it off fine, and like this guy
seems like a winner.
Speaker 1 (08:26):
Yeah, guy, that was nice to him.
Speaker 8 (08:28):
I'm like, if he could have just walked out like.
Speaker 1 (08:33):
The other thing. The other thing, I will say this
too with the kids.
Speaker 2 (08:36):
If the kids weren't bad kids, that might show that
she's a pretty good mom. I don't know how you
felt about that, Philip. Would you ever think about doing
another date, like a redo date?
Speaker 1 (08:47):
Oh?
Speaker 5 (08:47):
Absolutely, I'll do a redo date.
Speaker 3 (08:49):
I mean, this is a good guy.
Speaker 2 (08:53):
What do you think about that? Stacey? Will you redo it?
But you got to get a babysitter. You can't be
bringing the kids with you.
Speaker 4 (08:59):
Yeah, I mean that's that's what I wanted.
Speaker 1 (09:01):
Okay, I like that. That makes me. That makes me
feel good.
Speaker 2 (09:05):
Hold on, Rob wants to say something, and I was
kind of going here, but I'm gonna let you go
through with it.
Speaker 1 (09:10):
Rob, would you want to say I was going to
say that at first, I was shocked about, you know,
for the safety of the kids bringing them on a
first date.
Speaker 5 (09:17):
But what a great opportunity for him to see how
she is with their children.
Speaker 1 (09:22):
If you're going to be with this woman, Yeah, you
want to know how she, you know.
Speaker 8 (09:26):
Works with their kids, whether she's good with them or.
Speaker 2 (09:28):
You know, you can judge somebody off of when you
see their kids or how they are with their kids.
And I think that right there might be the greatest
telltale sign of okay, she might actually have her stuff together.
A couple of Texters here said they can't go on
the air, but they all said that they've gone out
(09:48):
on dates where girls will bring their girlfriends with like
groups because they want it to be a group date,
but not tell them, so the girls their friends are
sitting at a different table. And another person said went
on a date and the girl brought her dog with
which was not a great situation because the dog made
him really feel uncomfortable. Like that actually is interesting, like
(10:14):
depending on how the dog is. All of a sudden,
she's got her pit bull hanging out with you, all right,
your home of one of the
Speaker 3 (10:21):
Roses if I've lied to tell your mom, Phone scams
and Shannon's dirty on the thirty in the morning,
It's the second date update in the morning.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
All right, why are you not getting a call back
after you went on a date? Stacy is getting ghosted?
What's up, Stacy?
Speaker 1 (00:10):
Hi, good morning. How you doing.
Speaker 2 (00:14):
I'm okay, okay, Stacey. You guys went on a date
to Shannon's favorite place. Shannon, do you have any idea
what she's going to say?
Speaker 3 (00:21):
My favorite place?
Speaker 1 (00:22):
Yeah? Tell her where you went on a date.
Speaker 4 (00:26):
We went to Davenbusters.
Speaker 1 (00:27):
Oh God, hates that place. I hate and the day
I loved it, the day you said was good.
Speaker 2 (00:36):
He's cute. You like him, but he's not calling you back.
We got to figure out what's going on here. You
sound like a nice person.
Speaker 4 (00:44):
Everything went on, I mean, nothing weird happened. I thought
we had a good time, and I never heard from him.
Speaker 2 (00:53):
All right, he's on the phone with us right now, Stacy.
Say hello to Phillip. I feel right, okay, Stacey.
Speaker 1 (01:03):
What's the what's the deal here, Philip? How you doing, buddy?
I'm doing great, mil Joe, I'm doing good. Shannon.
Speaker 2 (01:10):
By the way, for those that don't know why she
hates david Busters, and I'll tell I'll tell you. Guys
both this we would have show outings there.
Speaker 3 (01:18):
They were like team building, team building activities.
Speaker 2 (01:22):
And Shannon would always look and go, this is the
dumbest thing ever that we're going here, like Papa shot. Yeah,
she was not into it, but Philip, is everything okay?
Like did you enjoy the date?
Speaker 5 (01:36):
No? I didn't have a good time.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
Oh wow, what what was it?
Speaker 5 (01:41):
I mean we got to David Busters and everything was cool.
But she brought her kids with her and I wasn't
there to babysitter.
Speaker 3 (01:48):
Wait did you know that she was planning on bringing
her kids to the date.
Speaker 5 (01:53):
I had no idea.
Speaker 6 (01:55):
What first off, you guys just met there, I'm assuming,
and she had her kids there.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
Yes, what when was this? When was this date? Stacey?
Speaker 3 (02:06):
Sorry?
Speaker 1 (02:06):
When was this date? Like a couple of weeks ago?
Speaker 3 (02:09):
Yeah, last Saturday?
Speaker 2 (02:11):
So last Saturday? Was it in night or when was it?
Speaker 4 (02:18):
I don't know, in the afternoon.
Speaker 1 (02:20):
So it was in the afternoon.
Speaker 4 (02:21):
I had a babysitter and she canceled.
Speaker 1 (02:25):
And but like he.
Speaker 4 (02:27):
Knows, I have kids, so I didn't think that was
a big deal.
Speaker 5 (02:31):
Like, obviously they're a.
Speaker 6 (02:32):
Huge part of my life for sure, and I understand
that I put you in a Buynes but why didn't
you instead just say, Hey, my babysitter canceled, can we reschedule?
Speaker 1 (02:43):
I thought that would be rude to do that. So Philip,
what were you thinking when you're there? You guys? Did
you guys meet at David Busters?
Speaker 5 (02:53):
Yeah, we met up at David Buss.
Speaker 2 (02:55):
What did you think when you saw Stacy walk in?
And how many kids did she bring with her?
Speaker 7 (03:00):
Two?
Speaker 1 (03:01):
So she brings her two kids in with her? Were
you like shocked by that?
Speaker 5 (03:07):
I wasn't necessarily shocked, but I wasn't like like happy
about it.
Speaker 1 (03:13):
Did you have to pay for them to play games?
Speaker 4 (03:15):
Too?
Speaker 5 (03:17):
I mean, I only thought that would be the right
thing to do, since you know, we were on a date.
Speaker 1 (03:21):
Nice.
Speaker 2 (03:23):
I have to be honest, I don't think that Stacy's
bringing the kids on the date is the right thing
to do. But I also think that at least the
date was kind of appropriate, like you know what I mean, Like,
if the date was somewhere I don't know where I
needed to actually add to a reservation, well, the strip
(03:45):
club obviously not going to do it, but if it was,
and also it was a daytime date. But I think
that her just showing up and bringing the kids is
a little off.
Speaker 6 (03:56):
Especially since she didn't say anything beforehand.
Speaker 3 (04:00):
It was very unexpected, Lydia.
Speaker 4 (04:01):
I want to ask I didn't think it was a
big deal.
Speaker 2 (04:05):
I want to ask the listeners this Lydia and see
if you can find calls on this. I would like
to ask the listeners to call us up in a
give some advice here and comments on what do you
think about Stacy doing this bringing her kids on the date?
Speaker 7 (04:16):
Then?
Speaker 2 (04:16):
I also want to ask this question. You went on
a date and they brought blank with you? Who else
has gone on a date with somebody and they brought others?
Speaker 5 (04:26):
Like?
Speaker 1 (04:27):
Did anybody else bring a kid or kids or friends
or any of this stuff? Mom? I was in your mom, Hey,
this is my mom coming on the data? Is that
one where the mom was at the bar? Yes? Eight
four to four Mojo Live or text nine five to
five zero zero.
Speaker 2 (04:41):
Stacy, you understand that that's probably an awkward thing for
him when he sees that you bring your kids with you.
Speaker 4 (04:48):
I mean, we talked so much and he didn't seem
bothered by it on the date. So that's why I
don't know why he didn't so say something.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
Or because he's letting me know, like let's go out
on another date.
Speaker 4 (05:02):
Like I thought i'd see him again, and I was,
you know, in a situation. I'm really good kids, and
my kids are really well behaved.
Speaker 1 (05:10):
Let me ask Philip where they behaved.
Speaker 5 (05:13):
I mean they were pretty behaved. They just kept coming
back to the table asking for you know, reloading their
cards and stuff. I really get a chance to really
get to know her, right, and.
Speaker 3 (05:23):
I think more so for you Stacy too.
Speaker 6 (05:25):
Like when when I'm with my kids, I am not
one hundred percent focused on anything else because I'm worried.
Speaker 3 (05:33):
Like do they need something? Is somebody being creepy around?
Speaker 6 (05:37):
Like especially in a place like that, Like my focus
is on them.
Speaker 3 (05:40):
I'm not focused. I could not focus on a date.
Speaker 2 (05:43):
Stacy wants to say something about I'm sorry, Sarah wants
to say something about Stacy and bringing in her kids.
What did you want to say, Sarah?
Speaker 8 (05:51):
Hi?
Speaker 1 (05:52):
Sorry, my name's actually oh it's Alyssa.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
How do we get I don't know how we got
Sarah out of that, but hi, Alyssa, I'm.
Speaker 9 (05:59):
Actually in the car with kid on the way to school.
Speaker 1 (06:01):
So okay, what's going on?
Speaker 7 (06:04):
In my opinion?
Speaker 9 (06:05):
When dating and you have kids is kind of a sense,
like a really sensitive situation just because you guys are
still getting to know each other and if it doesn't
work out, now the kids are kind of like, you know,
maybe they did like, oh, hey, what happened is so
and so or you know, like you got to give
it a chance, like you said, to kind of mold
and get to know each other before you bring the
kids in distress.
Speaker 2 (06:27):
I didn't even think about that, But that's the truth.
You don't introduce your kids, Stacy. Is it weird for
your kids to see you out?
Speaker 4 (06:36):
I just told them it was a friend, but you know,
it wasn't a.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
Big Okay, Megan wants to comment. What's up, Megan? Hey,
good morning, Good morning.
Speaker 7 (06:48):
Okay. So I'm married and I wouldn't even bring my
children on like a date night that I would have
like with my husband. He's let alone, like dating somebody,
and so I don't blame him for not calling her back.
He might have, you know, been a little immature about it.
He could have brought it up maybe and they could
(07:09):
have talked about it and she could have maybe explained
her side, you know, with the whole babysitter situation. But
I feel like it's a very slippery slope when you're
introducing your children to new people that you're dating. I
didn't get introduced to my steps on until a year
into our relationship. So, like the previous caller said, it's
(07:33):
like the kids, you know, like the kids are gonna
be like, oh, well, what happened to so and so?
And then you have to be the one to explain that.
And then it's like, you know, it doesn't look.
Speaker 2 (07:42):
Good that that seems to be where everybody's going right now.
The idea that she would bring her kids was probably
not the right thing.
Speaker 1 (07:50):
But Sierra, you on to comment on this.
Speaker 8 (07:53):
Yes, I also say you should not be leg on
my birthday. Don't even there, man, you don't know what
nothing about him?
Speaker 1 (08:04):
Yeah, weird.
Speaker 2 (08:07):
A lot of people, a lot of people saying the
same exact thing. Let me ask you this though, Does
it make him look good though? Because I would think
that this guy is a good guy to date, that
he actually played it off fine, and like this guy
seems like a winner.
Speaker 1 (08:26):
Yeah, guy, that was nice to him.
Speaker 8 (08:28):
I'm like, if he could have just walked out like.
Speaker 1 (08:33):
The other thing. The other thing, I will say this
too with the kids.
Speaker 2 (08:36):
If the kids weren't bad kids, that might show that
she's a pretty good mom. I don't know how you
felt about that, Philip. Would you ever think about doing
another date, like a redo date?
Speaker 1 (08:47):
Oh?
Speaker 5 (08:47):
Absolutely, I'll do a redo date.
Speaker 3 (08:49):
I mean, this is a good guy.
Speaker 2 (08:53):
What do you think about that? Stacey? Will you redo it?
But you got to get a babysitter. You can't be
bringing the kids with you.
Speaker 4 (08:59):
Yeah, I mean that's that's what I wanted.
Speaker 1 (09:01):
Okay, I like that. That makes me. That makes me
feel good.
Speaker 2 (09:05):
Hold on, Rob wants to say something, and I was
kind of going here, but I'm gonna let you go
through with it.
Speaker 1 (09:10):
Rob, would you want to say I was going to
say that at first, I was shocked about, you know,
for the safety of the kids bringing them on a
first date.
Speaker 5 (09:17):
But what a great opportunity for him to see how
she is with their children.
Speaker 1 (09:22):
If you're going to be with this woman, Yeah, you
want to know how she, you know.
Speaker 8 (09:26):
Works with their kids, whether she's good with them or.
Speaker 2 (09:28):
You know, you can judge somebody off of when you
see their kids or how they are with their kids.
And I think that right there might be the greatest
telltale sign of okay, she might actually have her stuff together.
A couple of Texters here said they can't go on
the air, but they all said that they've gone out
(09:48):
on dates where girls will bring their girlfriends with like
groups because they want it to be a group date,
but not tell them, so the girls their friends are
sitting at a different table. And another person said went
on a date and the girl brought her dog with
which was not a great situation because the dog made
him really feel uncomfortable. Like that actually is interesting, like
(10:14):
depending on how the dog is. All of a sudden,
she's got her pit bull hanging out with you, all right,
your home of one of the
Speaker 3 (10:21):
Roses if I've lied to tell your mom, Phone scams
and Shannon's dirty on the thirty in the morning,
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