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Speaker 1 (00:00):
War the Roses and Jennifer suspecting that her husband is
cheating on their daughter's play dates, an awful situation that
got even worse after the three way call happened. In
not a great situation for these guys, but even worse
that it now involves kids and people with their school too.
(00:25):
The War the Roses sometimes is one of those things
where it's like you don't understand what you're doing when
you're affecting other people in this situation, obviously affecting two marriages,
but also now affecting then relationships with friends and friends
beinging the kids that are friends with each other. The
(00:46):
idea that he didn't think that he was going to
get caught or she didn't think that she was going
to get caught in this other woman, what's going on, Jessica?
How you doing good? What's happening? You had a question
to asking I want to answer because I got the
answer for you.
Speaker 2 (01:03):
Yeah. So the ways that Aubrey like kind of hung
out on the phone, it was like she was kind
of in shock. So did she know that he was
marrying or was it like he okay?
Speaker 1 (01:14):
Yeah, because because Jen would always be the one according
to what she told us, uh, in you know, the
conversations that we had. She would always be the one
that would normally do the play dates, and then all
of a sudden he wanted to be the one that started.
Speaker 2 (01:27):
Taking in itself.
Speaker 1 (01:29):
To me, is so glaringly obvious that something's up.
Speaker 2 (01:33):
Oh yeah, yeah, because I was like thinking, as he
using the kids, it's like I'm a single dad thing.
Speaker 3 (01:39):
But yeah, I guess that makes sense.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
Yeah, it's crazy. What's uh, what's going on? Casey experienced
this as a kid. You were the kid in this situation,
Is that right, Casey?
Speaker 3 (01:50):
Yes, I was. I first of all, well first time
call a long time was. But my mom and my
dad I used to be really close with this girl,
and my dad would do the play dates because my
mom was always working during the day and my dad
was a tow truck driver. And the uh, my mom
(02:12):
thought that something was going on because they had a
threesome with this lady. I didn't find this out so
a few years ago.
Speaker 1 (02:18):
Wow old, how old are you right now?
Speaker 3 (02:21):
I'm twenty five.
Speaker 1 (02:22):
And how old were you at the time that your
parents had a threesome with your friend's parents?
Speaker 3 (02:26):
Probably like five or six?
Speaker 1 (02:28):
Oh my god.
Speaker 3 (02:28):
What made my mom found out about them at like eight?
Speaker 4 (02:31):
Wait?
Speaker 2 (02:31):
So what?
Speaker 1 (02:32):
So so let's go back here saying what made your
mom finally mess up and tell you that that they
had they had this happened.
Speaker 3 (02:39):
It was my dad, It was my dad told me,
oh crazy, Yeah, Wow, have memories from when you were
younger of like weird things going on? Yeah, I remember
all of it. I was aware of, like completely aware
of everything that was going on. My dad was taking
me over there and they were kissing, hanging out all that.
My sister come over there one time, because my sister
(02:59):
is a lot older than me, she came over there
and tried to fight the lady one time. And then
after that, my mom and dad kind of like split
a little bit. My dad was still lying about seeing
the lady, and my mom came over the house one
time and was fighting with my dad, and I told
my mom where all the lady stuff was in my
dad's closet, and my dad was really mad at me.
(03:20):
I told Autum.
Speaker 5 (03:21):
And then a few weeks later, fast forward, my I'm
sitting on my dad's back while watching TV and this
lady's folding our laundry and my mom still he's still
lying to my mom about this lady.
Speaker 3 (03:32):
And my mom comes in our front windows really really
really big, and she comes and looks through the window
and sees the lady sitting folding our laundry and pops
my dad's tire hops back in her car, and the
police come and the police let my mom go.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
This lady, though, was she like a stranger, like a
random person, or was this.
Speaker 2 (03:53):
Like she was my she was?
Speaker 3 (03:56):
I went to preschool with her daughter, and I think
like for the first few mon to preschool, me and
her daughter were like best friends until that, Wow, and
me and that girl don't talk anymore.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
It's to me, it's crazy to think that you're looking
over and you see your dad kissing another person other
than your mom.
Speaker 5 (04:11):
You know, it feld so.
Speaker 3 (04:13):
Normal to me because I was so little and I
didn't understand any of it, but I knew like that
she was doing it, and my mom said that she
didn't like it. I told my mom so bad.
Speaker 1 (04:21):
It's so these kids in this situation are seven years old.
They have to know something's going on, right.
Speaker 3 (04:26):
Yeah, they know. They're not stupid. They know they know
mom when mommy or daddy's kissing someone else. Our momm
is kissing someone else.
Speaker 4 (04:31):
They know they're not stupid.
Speaker 1 (04:33):
Yeah, wow, grandma kissing Casey. Thank you for the call.
I appreciate you. Jenny, same situation almost am I guessing?
Were you around the same age or you're a little older.
Speaker 2 (04:44):
Me?
Speaker 4 (04:44):
Yeah, I was ten, you're ten.
Speaker 1 (04:46):
So you were ten? And what was the situation? Was
it your dad cheating with another person? Yeah?
Speaker 4 (04:52):
So my dad cheated with my best friend mom, so
we would go on playdates or we would accidentally run
into her mom with the kid at the drive in theater,
and it was always just me and my dad that
would run into them.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
How did that affect your relationship with your friend?
Speaker 4 (05:10):
We couldn't see each other anymore. We weren't allowed to
see each other once they Once my mom found out
because I'd come home from the time we went to
the drive in theater where we accidentally ran into them
at the theater and she's like, how was the movie?
And I'm like, oh, we ran into, you know, my
friend and her mom. And my mom's like, oh, I
think she was putting the two and two together. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (05:31):
Wow, it's wild. Now you're a grown woman and you're
hearing a war of the Roses. That's so similar to
your situation. Has to give you a little PTSDs on that.
Speaker 4 (05:40):
Yeah, yeah, because you know she was like my best friend.
You lod over it.
Speaker 1 (05:46):
So you know, thanks Dad, it's horrible man. Thanks for
sharing with us. I appreciate you.
Speaker 5 (05:50):
Jenny.
Speaker 4 (05:52):
Yeah, you're welcome and first time on a PHOW.
Speaker 1 (05:57):
Love you, Jane, Thank you. Yeah, what's up, Lindsay High Hi.
Speaker 2 (06:04):
My story is similar to the previous. Yeah, I think
it's more common than people think. So my brother had
met a friend through the sport that they did together,
and eventually it led my dad and his mom, who
was also married and my dad was married as well,
to have about a four year affair and we all knew.
(06:25):
I think even my mom knew. She just didn't want
to accept it. But it caused a lot of you know,
picking sides because at the same time, like we would
let my mom know like what we were seeing, and
she didn't want to believe it, and then we were
at the same time get in trouble you know by
my dad because he wanted to deny, deny, deny. So yeah,
it led to a really rough time for my family
(06:47):
for the same you know, the same thing my dad,
you know, outside of his marriage with my brother's friend's
mom who was also married, and yeah.
Speaker 4 (07:00):
So it's really messed up.
Speaker 2 (07:02):
So like because the sport had a lot of traveling
in it and stuff like that. So we would go
and stay the night at her house and while us
kids like would sleep like you know, in the basement
or whatever. We never saw my dad specifically sleep in
her room, but we knew, like that's where he was, right,
So it was just things or she there's a lot
(07:23):
of things. We would find her things like in our
vehicle and I'll bring it to my mom and say,
hey this, you know, this lipstick's not yours, and you know,
she would confront him and and I think my brother,
because he was more with my dad a lot of
that time, he probably saw a lot more than what
I did. And in the middle at all or no,
(07:45):
really it was I mean it was a it was
a really long affair, right four years of the long
time I think it ended. Yeah, and it started like
when I was twelve and then ended maybe I was
like sixteen or seventeen.
Speaker 1 (07:59):
Trauma.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
Yeah, I mean we knew the whole time though, right,
But no, they did not d together luckily. I I
don't think I could ever accept that my parents have
since then separated and they're both doing a lot better,
and they're both you know, better people. It just sucks
like that happened.
Speaker 1 (08:15):
Yeah, how did that affect your relationship with your father?
Speaker 2 (08:19):
It's still a little complicated. It's a lot better now.
We've had a lot of good conversations about things. He's
never really openly admitted to any of that, even though
we all are well aware of the situation that had happened.
I think he's remarried now. And I absolutely adore my stepmom,
and I think if he were to ever do something
(08:41):
like that to her, we would all cut ties with him.
Speaker 4 (08:43):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (08:44):
Yeah, you give him a little forgiveness the first time,
but you're not going to give it to him the second.
Speaker 2 (08:48):
I get it. Yeah, and I know it's like harsh,
but again.
Speaker 1 (08:51):
It's wild that we had three grown women on the phone.
Twenty five year old. I don't know how old the
other caller was. How old are you, lindsay, I am
thirty three, So you're thirty three, And you guys can
remember this stories like they were yesterday, Like, you know,
tell me that you're not you know you're not you
know ingraining this in your children and this situation. I
(09:14):
feel horrible for Jennifer and I feel really bad more
worse for the kids, those two kids selfish. War the
Roses here on Mojo in the Morning Show. Text cheater
to nine five five zero zero if you want to
be on a Mojo in the Morning War the Roses.
This is the home of the second Date Up Days,
War of the Roses, the Throwback fro Down, and the thirty.
Speaker 2 (09:38):
This is Mojo in the Morning
War the Roses and Jennifer suspecting that her husband is
cheating on their daughter's play dates, an awful situation that
got even worse after the three way call happened. In
not a great situation for these guys, but even worse
that it now involves kids and people with their school too.
(00:25):
The War the Roses sometimes is one of those things
where it's like you don't understand what you're doing when
you're affecting other people in this situation, obviously affecting two marriages,
but also now affecting then relationships with friends and friends
beinging the kids that are friends with each other. The
(00:46):
idea that he didn't think that he was going to
get caught or she didn't think that she was going
to get caught in this other woman, what's going on, Jessica?
How you doing good? What's happening? You had a question
to asking I want to answer because I got the
answer for you.
Speaker 2 (01:03):
Yeah. So the ways that Aubrey like kind of hung
out on the phone, it was like she was kind
of in shock. So did she know that he was
marrying or was it like he okay?
Speaker 1 (01:14):
Yeah, because because Jen would always be the one according
to what she told us, uh, in you know, the
conversations that we had. She would always be the one
that would normally do the play dates, and then all
of a sudden he wanted to be the one that started.
Speaker 2 (01:27):
Taking in itself.
Speaker 1 (01:29):
To me, is so glaringly obvious that something's up.
Speaker 2 (01:33):
Oh yeah, yeah, because I was like thinking, as he
using the kids, it's like I'm a single dad thing.
Speaker 3 (01:39):
But yeah, I guess that makes sense.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
Yeah, it's crazy. What's uh, what's going on? Casey experienced
this as a kid. You were the kid in this situation,
Is that right, Casey?
Speaker 3 (01:50):
Yes, I was. I first of all, well first time
call a long time was. But my mom and my
dad I used to be really close with this girl,
and my dad would do the play dates because my
mom was always working during the day and my dad
was a tow truck driver. And the uh, my mom
(02:12):
thought that something was going on because they had a
threesome with this lady. I didn't find this out so
a few years ago.
Speaker 1 (02:18):
Wow old, how old are you right now?
Speaker 3 (02:21):
I'm twenty five.
Speaker 1 (02:22):
And how old were you at the time that your
parents had a threesome with your friend's parents?
Speaker 3 (02:26):
Probably like five or six?
Speaker 1 (02:28):
Oh my god.
Speaker 3 (02:28):
What made my mom found out about them at like eight?
Speaker 4 (02:31):
Wait?
Speaker 2 (02:31):
So what?
Speaker 1 (02:32):
So so let's go back here saying what made your
mom finally mess up and tell you that that they
had they had this happened.
Speaker 3 (02:39):
It was my dad, It was my dad told me,
oh crazy, Yeah, Wow, have memories from when you were
younger of like weird things going on? Yeah, I remember
all of it. I was aware of, like completely aware
of everything that was going on. My dad was taking
me over there and they were kissing, hanging out all that.
My sister come over there one time, because my sister
(02:59):
is a lot older than me, she came over there
and tried to fight the lady one time. And then
after that, my mom and dad kind of like split
a little bit. My dad was still lying about seeing
the lady, and my mom came over the house one
time and was fighting with my dad, and I told
my mom where all the lady stuff was in my
dad's closet, and my dad was really mad at me.
(03:20):
I told Autum.
Speaker 5 (03:21):
And then a few weeks later, fast forward, my I'm
sitting on my dad's back while watching TV and this
lady's folding our laundry and my mom still he's still
lying to my mom about this lady.
Speaker 3 (03:32):
And my mom comes in our front windows really really
really big, and she comes and looks through the window
and sees the lady sitting folding our laundry and pops
my dad's tire hops back in her car, and the
police come and the police let my mom go.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
This lady, though, was she like a stranger, like a
random person, or was this.
Speaker 2 (03:53):
Like she was my she was?
Speaker 3 (03:56):
I went to preschool with her daughter, and I think
like for the first few mon to preschool, me and
her daughter were like best friends until that, Wow, and
me and that girl don't talk anymore.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
It's to me, it's crazy to think that you're looking
over and you see your dad kissing another person other
than your mom.
Speaker 5 (04:11):
You know, it feld so.
Speaker 3 (04:13):
Normal to me because I was so little and I
didn't understand any of it, but I knew like that
she was doing it, and my mom said that she
didn't like it. I told my mom so bad.
Speaker 1 (04:21):
It's so these kids in this situation are seven years old.
They have to know something's going on, right.
Speaker 3 (04:26):
Yeah, they know. They're not stupid. They know they know
mom when mommy or daddy's kissing someone else. Our momm
is kissing someone else.
Speaker 4 (04:31):
They know they're not stupid.
Speaker 1 (04:33):
Yeah, wow, grandma kissing Casey. Thank you for the call.
I appreciate you. Jenny, same situation almost am I guessing?
Were you around the same age or you're a little older.
Speaker 2 (04:44):
Me?
Speaker 4 (04:44):
Yeah, I was ten, you're ten.
Speaker 1 (04:46):
So you were ten? And what was the situation? Was
it your dad cheating with another person? Yeah?
Speaker 4 (04:52):
So my dad cheated with my best friend mom, so
we would go on playdates or we would accidentally run
into her mom with the kid at the drive in theater,
and it was always just me and my dad that
would run into them.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
How did that affect your relationship with your friend?
Speaker 4 (05:10):
We couldn't see each other anymore. We weren't allowed to
see each other once they Once my mom found out
because I'd come home from the time we went to
the drive in theater where we accidentally ran into them
at the theater and she's like, how was the movie?
And I'm like, oh, we ran into, you know, my
friend and her mom. And my mom's like, oh, I
think she was putting the two and two together. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (05:31):
Wow, it's wild. Now you're a grown woman and you're
hearing a war of the Roses. That's so similar to
your situation. Has to give you a little PTSDs on that.
Speaker 4 (05:40):
Yeah, yeah, because you know she was like my best friend.
You lod over it.
Speaker 1 (05:46):
So you know, thanks Dad, it's horrible man. Thanks for
sharing with us. I appreciate you.
Speaker 5 (05:50):
Jenny.
Speaker 4 (05:52):
Yeah, you're welcome and first time on a PHOW.
Speaker 1 (05:57):
Love you, Jane, Thank you. Yeah, what's up, Lindsay High Hi.
Speaker 2 (06:04):
My story is similar to the previous. Yeah, I think
it's more common than people think. So my brother had
met a friend through the sport that they did together,
and eventually it led my dad and his mom, who
was also married and my dad was married as well,
to have about a four year affair and we all knew.
(06:25):
I think even my mom knew. She just didn't want
to accept it. But it caused a lot of you know,
picking sides because at the same time, like we would
let my mom know like what we were seeing, and
she didn't want to believe it, and then we were
at the same time get in trouble you know by
my dad because he wanted to deny, deny, deny. So yeah,
it led to a really rough time for my family
(06:47):
for the same you know, the same thing my dad,
you know, outside of his marriage with my brother's friend's
mom who was also married, and yeah.
Speaker 4 (07:00):
So it's really messed up.
Speaker 2 (07:02):
So like because the sport had a lot of traveling
in it and stuff like that. So we would go
and stay the night at her house and while us
kids like would sleep like you know, in the basement
or whatever. We never saw my dad specifically sleep in
her room, but we knew, like that's where he was, right,
So it was just things or she there's a lot
(07:23):
of things. We would find her things like in our
vehicle and I'll bring it to my mom and say,
hey this, you know, this lipstick's not yours, and you know,
she would confront him and and I think my brother,
because he was more with my dad a lot of
that time, he probably saw a lot more than what
I did. And in the middle at all or no,
(07:45):
really it was I mean it was a it was
a really long affair, right four years of the long
time I think it ended. Yeah, and it started like
when I was twelve and then ended maybe I was
like sixteen or seventeen.
Speaker 1 (07:59):
Trauma.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
Yeah, I mean we knew the whole time though, right,
But no, they did not d together luckily. I I
don't think I could ever accept that my parents have
since then separated and they're both doing a lot better,
and they're both you know, better people. It just sucks
like that happened.
Speaker 1 (08:15):
Yeah, how did that affect your relationship with your father?
Speaker 2 (08:19):
It's still a little complicated. It's a lot better now.
We've had a lot of good conversations about things. He's
never really openly admitted to any of that, even though
we all are well aware of the situation that had happened.
I think he's remarried now. And I absolutely adore my stepmom,
and I think if he were to ever do something
(08:41):
like that to her, we would all cut ties with him.
Speaker 4 (08:43):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (08:44):
Yeah, you give him a little forgiveness the first time,
but you're not going to give it to him the second.
Speaker 2 (08:48):
I get it. Yeah, and I know it's like harsh,
but again.
Speaker 1 (08:51):
It's wild that we had three grown women on the phone.
Twenty five year old. I don't know how old the
other caller was. How old are you, lindsay, I am
thirty three, So you're thirty three, And you guys can
remember this stories like they were yesterday, Like, you know,
tell me that you're not you know you're not you
know ingraining this in your children and this situation. I
(09:14):
feel horrible for Jennifer and I feel really bad more
worse for the kids, those two kids selfish. War the
Roses here on Mojo in the Morning Show. Text cheater
to nine five five zero zero if you want to
be on a Mojo in the Morning War the Roses.
This is the home of the second Date Up Days,
War of the Roses, the Throwback fro Down, and the thirty.
Speaker 2 (09:38):
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