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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It is Mojo in the morning show. So this weekend
I was out and was hanging out with a guy
friend of mine, and when we were sitting there at
the bar just kind of talking, the bartender comes up
and says, Hey, I have a drink care for you.
And I'm like, oh, I don't drink drinks from people
(00:21):
that I don't know. He goes, No, I made it,
he goes, but it's from that gentleman over in the corner.
And I'm like, okay, I'm okay with the fact that
another guy wants to buy me a drink. I'm fine
with that.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
I have no.
Speaker 3 (00:34):
Problem, did you know, said gentleman.
Speaker 1 (00:37):
I didn't look over yet at said gentleman to see
if I knew him. But I was like, hum, it's
the same thing I'm drinking right now. It was an
old fashioned probably yeah. So I grabbed the drink, looked
over in the corner, and of course realized that the
man was not my type. I looked over in the
(00:57):
corner and it was a very nice guy. It was
a nice Caldean guy. Bianca good good Kaldy. And guy
sitting there at the table by yourself is looking at you.
He looked I grabbed the glass and I looked and
I put it up in the air, and the guy
did one of these things, like like a quick little
palm wave, and then I put it down. And the
guy that I was with was our buddy Will. Will said,
(01:19):
should you go over and just like say something to him?
And I said, I don't know what's the etiquette. So
I didn't know what the etiquette was because I'll be
honest with you, as a guy, I don't get a
drink spot for me. You know, it doesn't happen. And
I know you women get drink spot for you all
the time. And I don't think as a woman, you
should get up and go over and talk to the person,
because I think that safety in mind, it might just
(01:41):
be a quick little nod wave or type thing, okay,
or blow kisses.
Speaker 2 (01:46):
Don't do that, you know. So I was thinking to myself,
maybe put your tongue in your ken. So took me
a second, but I just got it. So we were
having these conversations.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
So so Will and I were having this conversation, which
by the way, he bought Will a drink too, which
is that's very nice. I mean, that's a that's a
mench right there. Man, that's a guy that cares. So
Will's like, I think you should get up and say something.
And I said to him like, well, I already got
the wave, so if I go over there, then you
know whatever. So I stayed for a little bit and
just kind of like, all right, I'm just gonna like
stay here. And then at the end of the time
(02:24):
that we were there, he was still at that table.
I then made it a point to walk over towards
him and say thank you to him, and you know,
kind of introduce myself.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
Basically he's a listener of the show.
Speaker 1 (02:34):
But he also was a guy that had common friends,
you know what I mean, Like we know the same people.
And it brought up like an etiquette of what do
you do and if you're somebody that's ever had somebody
buy drinks for you, do you get up and go
over and say something like I have a couple of
different questions that I wrote down here. If you accept
a drink, are you obligated to actually talk to the
(02:56):
person's number one? What if you in a relationship and
you accept a drink, Like if that's a woman sending
me over a drink, am I cheating?
Speaker 2 (03:07):
On my wife Chelsea.
Speaker 1 (03:08):
If I accept a drink from another woman that's standing there,
like there's a couple of women that are standing there,
is that wrong?
Speaker 2 (03:13):
Or women? Is it weird?
Speaker 1 (03:15):
Like if Shannon gets a drink sent over to her
by a couple of guys sitting at a table, is
it wrong for her to drink that drink?
Speaker 2 (03:22):
Have you ever?
Speaker 1 (03:24):
Have you ever sent a drink over to someone and
they sent it back?
Speaker 3 (03:28):
You cannot do that.
Speaker 1 (03:29):
I would love to know if that's the case. And
is sending drinks even a thing anymore? Like is that
a thing still?
Speaker 4 (03:36):
Like?
Speaker 1 (03:36):
Are you still sending drinks to people in this day
and age of rufieing?
Speaker 2 (03:40):
You know, these are all great questions.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
Okay, here's what I hate. I don't do shots. You
guys know this, very very rarely will I take a shot,
And sometimes like somebody will send especially if I'm with girlfriends,
like shots over and I have to figure out a
way because you don't want to be rude, and I
always feel like they're looking like, oh, these girls going
to take it. I have to give my shot slyly
to somebody else to drink because I don't want it.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
Shots are a tough one.
Speaker 4 (04:04):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
Shots I don't like because I'll be honest with you,
they knock me on my ass.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
Like I just you know, I know, But I don't like.
Speaker 1 (04:13):
And I don't send shots because I feel like shots
are very specific, like the idea that you go to
a bartender and say, what are they drinking? I would
like to buy them another drink, Like you're choosing my drink.
I don't want you to choose my drink.
Speaker 2 (04:25):
You know what I mean?
Speaker 5 (04:25):
How do you know that I am not allergic? That's
the safe bit of buying them what they're already drinking. Yeah,
which is why you got the old fashion. I think
that delayed gratitude is disrespect.
Speaker 2 (04:40):
Really.
Speaker 5 (04:40):
I think there is something to you receiving a gift
and immediately showing how great.
Speaker 1 (04:46):
So I should have done what Will said and got
up and said.
Speaker 2 (04:48):
I feel like I feel like a wave is so impersonal.
It's like thank you.
Speaker 5 (04:53):
It's kind of like like going up and be like,
hey man, thank you so much. I got my friend
over here. I got to get back to it. I
just want to say thank you really quick. That can
be awkward, but I feel like that's the best way
to do it. Would be too much to walk over
and give them the reach around, or.
Speaker 2 (05:08):
How good was ever sent a drink back? Like, oh, thanks,
here's one for you.
Speaker 1 (05:11):
Well that you know what, that's an interesting one. Anna,
maybe that's the thank you is. Maybe we're dual lying drinks.
Got Yeah, that's an interesting one. What's up, Courtney? How
you doing eight four to four Mojo Live? Or if
you understand what we're talking about and have a comment,
you can text call me and Lydia will call you.
Speaker 2 (05:29):
Hi. Courtney, Hi, I was.
Speaker 6 (05:32):
Just calling you to say that my husband and I
actually went to like a restaurant bar and some guy
had bought me a drink.
Speaker 4 (05:41):
We were sitting at the bar and it.
Speaker 6 (05:43):
Was like no problem at all for my husband because
he was like, well, that's one last drink I have
to buy for you. So and I was like, well
what do we do? And we end up, you know,
cheersing the people. It was like a couple across from us.
Speaker 1 (05:55):
Wait a second, you know what they you know what
they were doing. They were trying. They were trying to
god a little swinging action going.
Speaker 6 (06:01):
Cortney did not go anywhere.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
I'm going to tell you, I have this must be
the the decade of swinging. I have never in my
life seen so much where other couples are trying to
bang other couples.
Speaker 2 (06:14):
It's crazy, very possible, Courtney, Would you ever consider that?
Speaker 6 (06:20):
No?
Speaker 5 (06:20):
No?
Speaker 1 (06:21):
Yeah, how many shots? How many drinks would it take
for us to figure this thing out? So all right,
thank you for the call. I appreciate you so much,
h Alyssa. What's happening? It's Mojo in the morning.
Speaker 4 (06:36):
Hey, I'm a bartender, and whenever someone buys someone to drink,
I always go over to that person let them know
I made it, it's safe, and if they're hesitant on
taking in, I always tell them, like, just take it
as a free drink. You don't have to talk to them.
And then if someone orders them a specific drink, I
always go over there first and be like, they want
(06:56):
to order you out lemon drop shots? Do you want
that or do you want something else? For whatever the
person bought them?
Speaker 1 (07:03):
No, that's that's actually very good. Let me ask you, Alyssa.
As the bartender, you know all the etiquette of how
to say thank you. Should I have gotten up and
gone over and said something to him or was my
wave enough?
Speaker 4 (07:15):
I think your wave was enough. You don't really owe
that person anything. It was on them to buy you
a drink.
Speaker 1 (07:20):
Well, my problem, my problem, Melissa, is I don't know
when to stop, like I don't know when to say goodbye.
And Will would have been sitting there at that table
completely by himself and he would never have gotten me
back to the table.
Speaker 2 (07:34):
So, Uh, Claudia, what's up. It's Mojo in the morning.
Speaker 7 (07:37):
Hi, module Yes, take a drink, Take a drink, drink.
Speaker 4 (07:47):
Y.
Speaker 7 (07:50):
My comment is that I just barely will up, like
I think ten minutes ago. I just brust my teeth
and I turned you guys on, and just I'm getting
in my morning started. But I heard that Shannon like
she says she doesn't like to take shots.
Speaker 2 (08:05):
Yes, Shannon, Yes, be.
Speaker 7 (08:10):
Prepared, baby, be prepared and tell everybody you know I'm
a wine.
Speaker 2 (08:16):
No like announce it when I come in.
Speaker 1 (08:21):
Jannon, actually would rather instead of shots, somebody sent a
bottle of wine.
Speaker 2 (08:25):
Oh my god, it would make my Saday day.
Speaker 5 (08:28):
Yes, ma'am Claudia, I love you, Alaudia, talk to you later.
Speaker 2 (08:32):
We'll see. Uh.
Speaker 1 (08:33):
Theodore is on the phone with us right now. Hi Theodore, Hi,
guys doing great now?
Speaker 2 (08:38):
How old are you? Theodore a name like Theodore twenty two?
That is a great name. THEO.
Speaker 8 (08:45):
Yeah, I go by THEO and Ted.
Speaker 2 (08:47):
What's happening, pal Okay?
Speaker 8 (08:49):
So my twenty first birthday, I was going on. We
got to my first bar and my chance was with
me and I go and order some shots and I
go and sit back down and the bar he comes
up to me and it's a female and she's offered
me three shots of different stuff, like flirting me real hard,
and yeah, my fiance kind of stood up like ten
(09:11):
minutes later after the fifth shot because she's just eating
me free shots, and uh, She's like you stay.
Speaker 2 (09:16):
Away from We had to leave. We got to go out.
Speaker 1 (09:20):
Wait, so your girl got a little jealous of the
fact that you were getting drinks sent over to you.
Speaker 8 (09:27):
Oh yeah, yeah she was. She was coming up to
me and she was like, smooth right, you like that bunch.
Speaker 1 (09:33):
I ain't gonna lie. I like when my wife gets jealous.
Did you like when she got jealous?
Speaker 8 (09:38):
Oh yeah, I was like, stand up for me, girl.
Speaker 2 (09:40):
Yeah, there was. There's something about that is great.
Speaker 1 (09:43):
Actually, I may actually have people just send me drinks
just for that reason, Like I'll go walk over and
say that, like I'm going to the bathroom and say, hey,
here's money, will you send me drinks?
Speaker 2 (09:54):
Made my wife jealous. Yeah, that's awesome all right.
Speaker 8 (09:58):
Love you guys, love you too.
Speaker 2 (10:00):
I love you too.
It is Mojo in the morning show. So this weekend
I was out and was hanging out with a guy
friend of mine, and when we were sitting there at
the bar just kind of talking, the bartender comes up
and says, Hey, I have a drink care for you.
And I'm like, oh, I don't drink drinks from people
(00:21):
that I don't know. He goes, No, I made it,
he goes, but it's from that gentleman over in the corner.
And I'm like, okay, I'm okay with the fact that
another guy wants to buy me a drink. I'm fine
with that.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
I have no.
Speaker 3 (00:34):
Problem, did you know, said gentleman.
Speaker 1 (00:37):
I didn't look over yet at said gentleman to see
if I knew him. But I was like, hum, it's
the same thing I'm drinking right now. It was an
old fashioned probably yeah. So I grabbed the drink, looked
over in the corner, and of course realized that the
man was not my type. I looked over in the
(00:57):
corner and it was a very nice guy. It was
a nice Caldean guy. Bianca good good Kaldy. And guy
sitting there at the table by yourself is looking at you.
He looked I grabbed the glass and I looked and
I put it up in the air, and the guy
did one of these things, like like a quick little
palm wave, and then I put it down. And the
guy that I was with was our buddy Will. Will said,
(01:19):
should you go over and just like say something to him?
And I said, I don't know what's the etiquette. So
I didn't know what the etiquette was because I'll be
honest with you, as a guy, I don't get a
drink spot for me. You know, it doesn't happen. And
I know you women get drink spot for you all
the time. And I don't think as a woman, you
should get up and go over and talk to the person,
because I think that safety in mind, it might just
(01:41):
be a quick little nod wave or type thing, okay,
or blow kisses.
Speaker 2 (01:46):
Don't do that, you know. So I was thinking to myself,
maybe put your tongue in your ken. So took me
a second, but I just got it. So we were
having these conversations.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
So so Will and I were having this conversation, which
by the way, he bought Will a drink too, which
is that's very nice. I mean, that's a that's a
mench right there. Man, that's a guy that cares. So
Will's like, I think you should get up and say something.
And I said to him like, well, I already got
the wave, so if I go over there, then you
know whatever. So I stayed for a little bit and
just kind of like, all right, I'm just gonna like
stay here. And then at the end of the time
(02:24):
that we were there, he was still at that table.
I then made it a point to walk over towards
him and say thank you to him, and you know,
kind of introduce myself.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
Basically he's a listener of the show.
Speaker 1 (02:34):
But he also was a guy that had common friends,
you know what I mean, Like we know the same people.
And it brought up like an etiquette of what do
you do and if you're somebody that's ever had somebody
buy drinks for you, do you get up and go
over and say something like I have a couple of
different questions that I wrote down here. If you accept
a drink, are you obligated to actually talk to the
(02:56):
person's number one? What if you in a relationship and
you accept a drink, Like if that's a woman sending
me over a drink, am I cheating?
Speaker 2 (03:07):
On my wife Chelsea.
Speaker 1 (03:08):
If I accept a drink from another woman that's standing there,
like there's a couple of women that are standing there,
is that wrong?
Speaker 2 (03:13):
Or women? Is it weird?
Speaker 1 (03:15):
Like if Shannon gets a drink sent over to her
by a couple of guys sitting at a table, is
it wrong for her to drink that drink?
Speaker 2 (03:22):
Have you ever?
Speaker 1 (03:24):
Have you ever sent a drink over to someone and
they sent it back?
Speaker 3 (03:28):
You cannot do that.
Speaker 1 (03:29):
I would love to know if that's the case. And
is sending drinks even a thing anymore? Like is that
a thing still?
Speaker 4 (03:36):
Like?
Speaker 1 (03:36):
Are you still sending drinks to people in this day
and age of rufieing?
Speaker 2 (03:40):
You know, these are all great questions.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
Okay, here's what I hate. I don't do shots. You
guys know this, very very rarely will I take a shot,
And sometimes like somebody will send especially if I'm with girlfriends,
like shots over and I have to figure out a
way because you don't want to be rude, and I
always feel like they're looking like, oh, these girls going
to take it. I have to give my shot slyly
to somebody else to drink because I don't want it.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
Shots are a tough one.
Speaker 4 (04:04):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
Shots I don't like because I'll be honest with you,
they knock me on my ass.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
Like I just you know, I know, But I don't like.
Speaker 1 (04:13):
And I don't send shots because I feel like shots
are very specific, like the idea that you go to
a bartender and say, what are they drinking? I would
like to buy them another drink, Like you're choosing my drink.
I don't want you to choose my drink.
Speaker 2 (04:25):
You know what I mean?
Speaker 5 (04:25):
How do you know that I am not allergic? That's
the safe bit of buying them what they're already drinking. Yeah,
which is why you got the old fashion. I think
that delayed gratitude is disrespect.
Speaker 2 (04:40):
Really.
Speaker 5 (04:40):
I think there is something to you receiving a gift
and immediately showing how great.
Speaker 1 (04:46):
So I should have done what Will said and got
up and said.
Speaker 2 (04:48):
I feel like I feel like a wave is so impersonal.
It's like thank you.
Speaker 5 (04:53):
It's kind of like like going up and be like,
hey man, thank you so much. I got my friend
over here. I got to get back to it. I
just want to say thank you really quick. That can
be awkward, but I feel like that's the best way
to do it. Would be too much to walk over
and give them the reach around, or.
Speaker 2 (05:08):
How good was ever sent a drink back? Like, oh, thanks,
here's one for you.
Speaker 1 (05:11):
Well that you know what, that's an interesting one. Anna,
maybe that's the thank you is. Maybe we're dual lying drinks.
Got Yeah, that's an interesting one. What's up, Courtney? How
you doing eight four to four Mojo Live? Or if
you understand what we're talking about and have a comment,
you can text call me and Lydia will call you.
Speaker 2 (05:29):
Hi. Courtney, Hi, I was.
Speaker 6 (05:32):
Just calling you to say that my husband and I
actually went to like a restaurant bar and some guy
had bought me a drink.
Speaker 4 (05:41):
We were sitting at the bar and it.
Speaker 6 (05:43):
Was like no problem at all for my husband because
he was like, well, that's one last drink I have
to buy for you. So and I was like, well
what do we do? And we end up, you know,
cheersing the people. It was like a couple across from us.
Speaker 1 (05:55):
Wait a second, you know what they you know what
they were doing. They were trying. They were trying to
god a little swinging action going.
Speaker 6 (06:01):
Cortney did not go anywhere.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
I'm going to tell you, I have this must be
the the decade of swinging. I have never in my
life seen so much where other couples are trying to
bang other couples.
Speaker 2 (06:14):
It's crazy, very possible, Courtney, Would you ever consider that?
Speaker 6 (06:20):
No?
Speaker 5 (06:20):
No?
Speaker 1 (06:21):
Yeah, how many shots? How many drinks would it take
for us to figure this thing out? So all right,
thank you for the call. I appreciate you so much,
h Alyssa. What's happening? It's Mojo in the morning.
Speaker 4 (06:36):
Hey, I'm a bartender, and whenever someone buys someone to drink,
I always go over to that person let them know
I made it, it's safe, and if they're hesitant on
taking in, I always tell them, like, just take it
as a free drink. You don't have to talk to them.
And then if someone orders them a specific drink, I
always go over there first and be like, they want
(06:56):
to order you out lemon drop shots? Do you want
that or do you want something else? For whatever the
person bought them?
Speaker 1 (07:03):
No, that's that's actually very good. Let me ask you, Alyssa.
As the bartender, you know all the etiquette of how
to say thank you. Should I have gotten up and
gone over and said something to him or was my
wave enough?
Speaker 4 (07:15):
I think your wave was enough. You don't really owe
that person anything. It was on them to buy you
a drink.
Speaker 1 (07:20):
Well, my problem, my problem, Melissa, is I don't know
when to stop, like I don't know when to say goodbye.
And Will would have been sitting there at that table
completely by himself and he would never have gotten me
back to the table.
Speaker 2 (07:34):
So, Uh, Claudia, what's up. It's Mojo in the morning.
Speaker 7 (07:37):
Hi, module Yes, take a drink, Take a drink, drink.
Speaker 4 (07:47):
Y.
Speaker 7 (07:50):
My comment is that I just barely will up, like
I think ten minutes ago. I just brust my teeth
and I turned you guys on, and just I'm getting
in my morning started. But I heard that Shannon like
she says she doesn't like to take shots.
Speaker 2 (08:05):
Yes, Shannon, Yes, be.
Speaker 7 (08:10):
Prepared, baby, be prepared and tell everybody you know I'm
a wine.
Speaker 2 (08:16):
No like announce it when I come in.
Speaker 1 (08:21):
Jannon, actually would rather instead of shots, somebody sent a
bottle of wine.
Speaker 2 (08:25):
Oh my god, it would make my Saday day.
Speaker 5 (08:28):
Yes, ma'am Claudia, I love you, Alaudia, talk to you later.
Speaker 2 (08:32):
We'll see. Uh.
Speaker 1 (08:33):
Theodore is on the phone with us right now. Hi Theodore, Hi,
guys doing great now?
Speaker 2 (08:38):
How old are you? Theodore a name like Theodore twenty two?
That is a great name. THEO.
Speaker 8 (08:45):
Yeah, I go by THEO and Ted.
Speaker 2 (08:47):
What's happening, pal Okay?
Speaker 8 (08:49):
So my twenty first birthday, I was going on. We
got to my first bar and my chance was with
me and I go and order some shots and I
go and sit back down and the bar he comes
up to me and it's a female and she's offered
me three shots of different stuff, like flirting me real hard,
and yeah, my fiance kind of stood up like ten
(09:11):
minutes later after the fifth shot because she's just eating
me free shots, and uh, She's like you stay.
Speaker 2 (09:16):
Away from We had to leave. We got to go out.
Speaker 1 (09:20):
Wait, so your girl got a little jealous of the
fact that you were getting drinks sent over to you.
Speaker 8 (09:27):
Oh yeah, yeah she was. She was coming up to
me and she was like, smooth right, you like that bunch.
Speaker 1 (09:33):
I ain't gonna lie. I like when my wife gets jealous.
Did you like when she got jealous?
Speaker 8 (09:38):
Oh yeah, I was like, stand up for me, girl.
Speaker 2 (09:40):
Yeah, there was. There's something about that is great.
Speaker 1 (09:43):
Actually, I may actually have people just send me drinks
just for that reason, Like I'll go walk over and
say that, like I'm going to the bathroom and say, hey,
here's money, will you send me drinks?
Speaker 2 (09:54):
Made my wife jealous. Yeah, that's awesome all right.
Speaker 8 (09:58):
Love you guys, love you too.
Speaker 2 (10:00):
I love you too.
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