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Speaker 1 (00:00):
To me, Okay, all right, yeah, uh so it's been
it's been good. But I will say that we had
like his intentions are not clear to me. Based on
the conversations that we've had, the questions that I've asked,
and the answers that he's given me, I cannot tell
like what he's looking for out of this, and I
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don't know how to bring it up to him. But
it's getting to a point where there's some chemistry between us,
and I could see the next time we hang out
he tries to do something maybe not making but like
I could see it getting to a physical point soon. Now,
this is something for me that I do not I
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know exactly what I want, and I know that that's
something that I don't want to do with someone until
I know that there's like a potential future with them.
That's just where I'm at in my life. I know
what I'm looking for, So I need to talk to him,
but I don't know how to bring it up. And
I don't know if it's too soon, like we've all
hung out twice, but I just know I can see
it moving in that direction.
Speaker 2 (01:03):
What do you want to talk to him about? What
do you want to say.
Speaker 1 (01:05):
I need to know, like, what is he I don't want?
A situationship is my thing? Like I'm not just hooking
up with you and you're running around hooking up with
other people Like I'm being intentional. I'm dating intentionally. I
want to find a boyfriend, a fiance, a husband, and
I need to know if that's what you're looking for,
because I don't want to be intimate with someone who's
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also being intimate with other people and not seriously just
dating me.
Speaker 3 (01:31):
You said that you've already asked him questions and heard
his answers. Not like that though, Well, what what type
of conversations are you'll having?
Speaker 2 (01:38):
Though? Do you believe you to this point?
Speaker 4 (01:41):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (01:41):
I can just tell by like I don't even know
an example. I can just tell like I still feel
like he wants to be outside, like hanging out with
his friends, partying. Uh, He's told me that he just
got out of a situationship, Like I just based on
all of that, I don't feel like he's ready to
like be committed to someone.
Speaker 5 (02:02):
I always think it's funny when you label them situationships,
because what is the difference between we're going to date
for a little bit, and what is a situationship?
Speaker 1 (02:11):
That situationship like they're not taking you seriously. They're having
fun with you and they're hooking up with you, but
it's not like a serious thing.
Speaker 5 (02:18):
Olthough this guy didn't come run into you like with
stuff like he's had some issues.
Speaker 1 (02:22):
I know, That's what I'm saying. Like his behaviors up
until point confuse me.
Speaker 2 (02:27):
Yeah, he had other things going on, though I think
he extended did you have other people going on? Exactly? Think?
Speaker 1 (02:33):
But is it too soon to talk to me?
Speaker 3 (02:36):
If you feel like the next time you two are
together it could potentially lead somewhere. They know it's not
too soon. We bet asks the question before it goes there? Dude,
can I ask you have that talk before it goes there?
I think goes there, but I don't.
Speaker 4 (02:51):
Like.
Speaker 2 (02:51):
I think the conversation takes out the fun of it.
Speaker 6 (02:54):
But agree, I think I don't know that I would say, like,
I'm looking for a fiance our husband. Yeah, I think
if you say I'm I'm looking to date intentionally, I
just don't want to be hooking up with a bunch
of people.
Speaker 2 (03:07):
I would hope that he would be.
Speaker 6 (03:11):
Smart enough to go Okay, maybe this is not honestly selfish.
Speaker 3 (03:16):
No, I ain't gonna care. Yeah, really, I'm gonna hear
you say that, and I'm just be honest. I'm gonna
hear you say that. I might just play in your
face like, oh, I understand completely, and then that kind
of be the end of the conversation because we're gonna
continue our night and then if it don't happen this time,
it might happen the next time.
Speaker 6 (03:34):
But I'm like, I'm just and if you don't want
to play games, I agree with what keV said before that,
then just have the conversation, if that is, if it
is so important.
Speaker 2 (03:42):
To you, and have the conversation.
Speaker 1 (03:45):
I don't know. I feel like I've been like, don't.
Speaker 6 (03:48):
Lower your standard because you want to make him feel comfortable.
Speaker 3 (03:52):
But when you have the conversation, you also got to
stand on it. Don't just have the conversation checking off
a box and then you operate different with your mouth
then the words that came out of it.
Speaker 1 (04:03):
You know what I mean, This is tough.
Speaker 5 (04:07):
I uh, I think that this is uh interesting and
I want to know what the listeners think of this, Like,
what do you think Anna should do? Eight four four
Mojoe Live eight four four sixty six five sixty five
four eight. I do think that there's a level of
overthinking it though. I like, I think that you have
those conversations of what you're looking for in a relationship.
But I think that if the timing seems right to you,
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just go with it without having this longnation.
Speaker 1 (04:33):
For me, if I do that with him, like things
get intimate, I'm getting more attached and wanting more out
of him, and I don't want to get more attached.
Speaker 2 (04:41):
If like this what you yeah, you see you get Joe,
You're gonna love it?
Speaker 4 (04:47):
Is me?
Speaker 2 (04:48):
Yeah? Sure my line.
Speaker 1 (04:51):
I don't know. I haven't been in a relationship in
a long time.
Speaker 2 (04:54):
What has been your guys level of like and all
that stuff?
Speaker 1 (05:01):
If you got like falling around a little bit.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
Well, what is the level of that though, like just
kissing or is it more than that a little bit
of hand stuff? Okay, so this is escalating.
Speaker 1 (05:15):
That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 5 (05:16):
Yeah, I don't know, I think at that point right there, Yeah,
you can't.
Speaker 3 (05:20):
You can't look once the fishing line, once the bait
is in the water. I mean absolutely, you can do
whatever you want but he can't be You can't be
mad if he has an expectation the bait in the water.
Speaker 2 (05:30):
We already finish it. Now you're trying to reel it in.
Speaker 6 (05:32):
Yeah, but she could say hey, before we move forward, like,
I just want to let you know where my head
is at.
Speaker 2 (05:37):
What's up, sir?
Speaker 7 (05:39):
Good morning?
Speaker 8 (05:40):
How's everybody?
Speaker 2 (05:41):
We're good? What's going on? What are your thoughts?
Speaker 7 (05:44):
I grew up around a lot of men. My best
friend is a guy. I have six brothers, no sisters,
and I'm married.
Speaker 8 (05:50):
My husband asked me an hour after.
Speaker 7 (05:54):
I met him how I felt about marriage and if
I wanted kids.
Speaker 2 (05:57):
Oh, man, and I thought it.
Speaker 7 (05:59):
Was a little But here we are.
Speaker 2 (06:02):
You're married. Yeah, we are.
Speaker 7 (06:04):
Married six months after I met him.
Speaker 2 (06:07):
Hey, what do you think? I don't know if that's
that weird?
Speaker 6 (06:10):
Like if you're going out with somebody and you want
to talk about like, hey, what are you looking for?
I don't want to waste your time. I am I'm
thirty years old. I'm speaking as Anna. I'm thirty years old.
I want to date intentionally, Like I don't know if
I want to get married or have kids, but like
I don't want to be dating somebody that's dating ten
other people at the same time. Okay, that's what she's
looking for.
Speaker 9 (06:29):
Hey, well, I just think adult relationships require adult conversations,
and sometimes they're.
Speaker 5 (06:35):
Difficult, and she needs to have the difficult conversation with him.
Speaker 2 (06:41):
I agree.
Speaker 5 (06:41):
Should she do it in person or over the phone?
Which one would be a better way of doing it?
Speaker 2 (06:46):
I think in person because.
Speaker 9 (06:47):
Words I mean and words also don't mean anything actions.
She's also talked about his actions in the past, so
I would keep those in mind as well.
Speaker 2 (06:54):
Have you heard about his actions in the past.
Speaker 5 (06:56):
He had to he had to cancel a couple of
times because he had a mom issue. That's why she
calls him mama's boy.
Speaker 9 (07:03):
I'm not against him loving his mama, but so.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
His actions have not been for other women.
Speaker 5 (07:09):
They've been for that Or you don't trusts Okay, then
here's the deal. If you don't know that, you don't
trust him enough to have sex. You don't trust, don't
then don't have sex with him and move on. Then
I think they move on. Yeah, then I'm number Now
you'll call it, you'll you'll call it or in a
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week you'll have another topic about how you guys did
have sex and now he's not calling you back?
Speaker 2 (07:36):
What's up? And Vaughan, how you doing?
Speaker 3 (07:39):
Hi?
Speaker 2 (07:40):
Hi? What's going on?
Speaker 10 (07:41):
I was saying that he should he she should.
Speaker 8 (07:43):
Definitely have that conversation with him and then watch how
he moves afterwards.
Speaker 7 (07:48):
And that will let her know if he's really into
her as far as wanting to go further with her,
or if he's about to go mess with somebody else.
Speaker 6 (07:56):
According to Cavi, it doesn't matter.
Speaker 2 (07:58):
Yeah, like that.
Speaker 6 (07:59):
No, No, I appreciate your your transparency.
Speaker 3 (08:02):
I'm going to hear you say that, but just like
we said, your actions have to line up with that.
You have to stand on saying that I'm not gonna
move in that way. Because if you say that, but
you still feeling everything and we're still doing everything, well
we can go further. What would you do if this
was you in this case, I'm still gonna go further.
I'm gona roll my eyes. I'm gonna accept what you're saying.
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Are you still gonna go out and have a good time.
We're gonna drink, We're gonna eat, You're gonna come back
to the crib?
Speaker 5 (08:26):
Were gonna Are you gonna tell her what you want?
Speaker 2 (08:29):
Her to hear or are you gonna tell her?
Speaker 3 (08:30):
I'm just say I respect I respect that, and let's
have another drink.
Speaker 2 (08:36):
Like it's not gonna be a long conversation, like I hear.
Speaker 5 (08:38):
What you're saying, move on, but are you going to
abide by No, you're gonna just tell her whatever she
wants say.
Speaker 3 (08:45):
And in my mind, it's not like I'm trying to
be devious, like I'm not gonna present myself as someone
that wants to do exactly what it is you're saying.
I understand where you're coming from. We're going to still
continue to enjoy ourselves and whatever happens is gonna happen.
It's up to you to start, like, protect yourself. Don't
rely on me to do the protection for you. What's up,
Kristin Hi.
Speaker 8 (09:07):
Hi? I was just gonna say, Anna needs to not
put herself in situations where the temptation is there. Go
out on real dates. Don't be rolling around on the
couch because it sounds like she's not even sure exactly
where it's going in her mind. So if you spend
more time outside of that, you really do get to
know the person on a more intimate level without rolling
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around on the couch, and I think that once you
do that, it kind of clouds over your future, well
what your future desires are, because you do I mean,
everyone wants to bake cookies. But I feel like if
he really wants to be in that same situation that
she does, that he will like that part of just dating.
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Just go out, have fun, do fun things together, get
to know each other outside of the family room couch.
Speaker 5 (09:58):
The having him over does send a message, don't you
think It's like you It's like you're letting him into
your your world, your space. So that is interesting.
Speaker 8 (10:11):
But Anna's tempting herself.
Speaker 2 (10:13):
It's like, well, that's true.
Speaker 8 (10:15):
She's testing herself, you know, And don't put yourself in
that situation.
Speaker 10 (10:19):
Anna, just know that because you.
Speaker 8 (10:21):
Probably will go ahead and then I know exactly how
you feel when you say, once you get intimate that
emotional connection, it's so hard to step.
Speaker 4 (10:31):
Back from yep, you have a good day.
Speaker 2 (10:39):
Dinner at Gillies instead of Danielle, what's up, Hi, good morning,
good morning.
Speaker 10 (10:48):
I just wanted to say something really quick. Kevin's response
to Anna trying to set very healthy and realistic boundaries
of if we're not going to be in a relationship.
I don't want to be intimate with you.
Speaker 4 (11:01):
It really highlights my apologies, Kevin, I love you.
Speaker 10 (11:04):
Really highlights how sometimes men are really emotionally unintelligent.
Speaker 2 (11:09):
My apologies. Really, I think Kevin's please please advise.
Speaker 10 (11:12):
How by when a woman says to you, this is
what I want. I'm dating intentionally, I don't want to
be intimate with you unless this is going somewhere, and
your response was I might just play in your face.
Speaker 3 (11:25):
No no, no, I said no, no, no. I never said
I will play in your face. What I said was,
if that's what you're communicating, your actions need to line
up with the words that are coming out of your mouth.
You can't just say something and rely on me to
operate in a different way when you won't do it
for your own safety.
Speaker 2 (11:42):
That's what I'm I agree with that.
Speaker 10 (11:44):
I agree with that statement. But if you roll it back,
you did kind of say I might I might be
like okay and then just go about my night. Or
I might be like okay and playing your face, implying
that you would let it go further.
Speaker 2 (11:56):
No.
Speaker 5 (11:57):
But I do think Kevin answers very honestly for what
men think. He does he does I love Yeah, I
don't think I love you too, and I don't And
I think maybe and I think that's and I think
that maybe I am the most. And to go back
to what Kristen said, I think if you're doing this
on the couch, I guarantee you he's instantly thinking you
guys are going for it too?
Speaker 2 (12:16):
What's going on? Sheridan?
Speaker 5 (12:20):
All right?
Speaker 7 (12:20):
So I kind of a line with what she said.
To be honest, first off, I like that Kevin is
always transparent. He's just gonna tell you exactly how he feels.
I respect that. But if a woman was to say, hey,
this is a boundary that I'm setting for myself, the
response shouldn't be let's have another drink and see what happens.
Speaker 10 (12:39):
Should be like, we're gonna we're gonna see if she's okay?
Speaker 2 (12:42):
What should I do? What should I say? What should
I say?
Speaker 7 (12:46):
I think that regardless of what happens, you just understand
already that in her right mind, in her present mind,
and something that she wants to stand by is to
not take it to that level or to do that
for her own for her own self respect. And then
I mean, you just have a good time with her,
and it doesn't have to lead to anything out there exactly.
Speaker 3 (13:09):
That's not that's no, no, no, what I'm saying and
what's what's okay? Maybe I know exactly what I mean,
and maybe when I communicate it isn't translated in that way.
What I'm saying is if Anna communicates to me, she's like, keV,
you know, I'm joining ourselves. I don't want anything to
go further than this. I'm looking for something more serious,
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and I say okay, and then I continue with my night.
Speaker 2 (13:35):
It is not up to me to then change the
way that I operate.
Speaker 3 (13:39):
It is on Anna to stay consistent in what she
sees for herself. I'm not saying forget what you're saying,
we gonna do this and do that. No, I'm just
going to do what I'm doing. It is on Anna
to protect herself. That's what I'm communicating. And everybody want
to go after the dude like she told you what
it was. Why are you moving forward? Respect her bound
to no, expect your own boundaries. Have enough respect for
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yourself to say I'm not going further. Don't look at
me like I'm supposed to say.
Speaker 5 (14:05):
You well and Also, after having that conversation, you can't
show him mixed signals by all of a sudden then
you know, getting closer to him and trying to you know,
do more h with them.
Speaker 2 (14:16):
That's the big one. Yeah, real quick, last call Brooke.
What's up, Hi, everybody?
Speaker 4 (14:23):
How are you guys doing this morning?
Speaker 2 (14:24):
Good Brooke, I'm fired up, Brooke.
Speaker 4 (14:30):
I think I think you bring up a really good point. Actually,
so speaking from experience, I think, you know, she should
have a conversation with him, But at the end of
the day, you know, somebody is going to say whatever
they want. You know, she's going to say, you know,
I want to you know, date intentionally the through that,
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and you know they might say no. I totally understand
that kind of what she says, like he's not necessarily
going to.
Speaker 8 (14:57):
Change the way that she moves.
Speaker 4 (14:59):
And he expects her to, you know, set her own
boundaries and kind of stick to them. But I think
living in like the real world, it gets very easy
where a girl gets confused depending on the man's actions.
And I think at the end of the day, what
I'm trying to say is always trust your intuition, Like
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you've got feeling, like you know, if she says that,
you know, yeah, I do want to take you serious.
I want to see where it goes. And you know,
maybe she you know, you know, tries it out think
of that, oh maybe this can go somewhere. But at
the same time, he's probably still doing what he wants
to do, you know, while he's exploring other people. And
that's kind of where she brings in, like, oh, well,
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you know, you kind of have to like stick to
your own boundaries.
Speaker 5 (15:45):
There also is a chance that she brings about it,
she brings us up to this guy, and this guy
may be like, this is not where I.
Speaker 2 (15:53):
Thought this was going to go. You know, yeah, we'll
be right back. You sort of relationship being the other woman.
You'll never be the only woman under the world.
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To me, Okay, all right, yeah, uh so it's been
it's been good. But I will say that we had
like his intentions are not clear to me. Based on
the conversations that we've had, the questions that I've asked,
and the answers that he's given me, I cannot tell
like what he's looking for out of this, and I
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don't know how to bring it up to him. But
it's getting to a point where there's some chemistry between us,
and I could see the next time we hang out
he tries to do something maybe not making but like
I could see it getting to a physical point soon. Now,
this is something for me that I do not I
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know exactly what I want, and I know that that's
something that I don't want to do with someone until
I know that there's like a potential future with them.
That's just where I'm at in my life. I know
what I'm looking for, So I need to talk to him,
but I don't know how to bring it up. And
I don't know if it's too soon, like we've all
hung out twice, but I just know I can see
it moving in that direction.
Speaker 2 (01:03):
What do you want to talk to him about? What
do you want to say.
Speaker 1 (01:05):
I need to know, like, what is he I don't want?
A situationship is my thing? Like I'm not just hooking
up with you and you're running around hooking up with
other people Like I'm being intentional. I'm dating intentionally. I
want to find a boyfriend, a fiance, a husband, and
I need to know if that's what you're looking for,
because I don't want to be intimate with someone who's
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also being intimate with other people and not seriously just
dating me.
Speaker 3 (01:31):
You said that you've already asked him questions and heard
his answers. Not like that though, Well, what what type
of conversations are you'll having?
Speaker 2 (01:38):
Though? Do you believe you to this point?
Speaker 4 (01:41):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (01:41):
I can just tell by like I don't even know
an example. I can just tell like I still feel
like he wants to be outside, like hanging out with
his friends, partying. Uh, He's told me that he just
got out of a situationship, Like I just based on
all of that, I don't feel like he's ready to
like be committed to someone.
Speaker 5 (02:02):
I always think it's funny when you label them situationships,
because what is the difference between we're going to date
for a little bit, and what is a situationship?
Speaker 1 (02:11):
That situationship like they're not taking you seriously. They're having
fun with you and they're hooking up with you, but
it's not like a serious thing.
Speaker 5 (02:18):
Olthough this guy didn't come run into you like with
stuff like he's had some issues.
Speaker 1 (02:22):
I know, That's what I'm saying. Like his behaviors up
until point confuse me.
Speaker 2 (02:27):
Yeah, he had other things going on, though I think
he extended did you have other people going on? Exactly? Think?
Speaker 1 (02:33):
But is it too soon to talk to me?
Speaker 3 (02:36):
If you feel like the next time you two are
together it could potentially lead somewhere. They know it's not
too soon. We bet asks the question before it goes there? Dude,
can I ask you have that talk before it goes there?
I think goes there, but I don't.
Speaker 4 (02:51):
Like.
Speaker 2 (02:51):
I think the conversation takes out the fun of it.
Speaker 6 (02:54):
But agree, I think I don't know that I would say, like,
I'm looking for a fiance our husband. Yeah, I think
if you say I'm I'm looking to date intentionally, I
just don't want to be hooking up with a bunch
of people.
Speaker 2 (03:07):
I would hope that he would be.
Speaker 6 (03:11):
Smart enough to go Okay, maybe this is not honestly selfish.
Speaker 3 (03:16):
No, I ain't gonna care. Yeah, really, I'm gonna hear
you say that, and I'm just be honest. I'm gonna
hear you say that. I might just play in your
face like, oh, I understand completely, and then that kind
of be the end of the conversation because we're gonna
continue our night and then if it don't happen this time,
it might happen the next time.
Speaker 6 (03:34):
But I'm like, I'm just and if you don't want
to play games, I agree with what keV said before that,
then just have the conversation, if that is, if it
is so important.
Speaker 2 (03:42):
To you, and have the conversation.
Speaker 1 (03:45):
I don't know. I feel like I've been like, don't.
Speaker 6 (03:48):
Lower your standard because you want to make him feel comfortable.
Speaker 3 (03:52):
But when you have the conversation, you also got to
stand on it. Don't just have the conversation checking off
a box and then you operate different with your mouth
then the words that came out of it.
Speaker 1 (04:03):
You know what I mean, This is tough.
Speaker 5 (04:07):
I uh, I think that this is uh interesting and
I want to know what the listeners think of this, Like,
what do you think Anna should do? Eight four four
Mojoe Live eight four four sixty six five sixty five
four eight. I do think that there's a level of
overthinking it though. I like, I think that you have
those conversations of what you're looking for in a relationship.
But I think that if the timing seems right to you,
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just go with it without having this longnation.
Speaker 1 (04:33):
For me, if I do that with him, like things
get intimate, I'm getting more attached and wanting more out
of him, and I don't want to get more attached.
Speaker 2 (04:41):
If like this what you yeah, you see you get Joe,
You're gonna love it?
Speaker 4 (04:47):
Is me?
Speaker 2 (04:48):
Yeah? Sure my line.
Speaker 1 (04:51):
I don't know. I haven't been in a relationship in
a long time.
Speaker 2 (04:54):
What has been your guys level of like and all
that stuff?
Speaker 1 (05:01):
If you got like falling around a little bit.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
Well, what is the level of that though, like just
kissing or is it more than that a little bit
of hand stuff? Okay, so this is escalating.
Speaker 1 (05:15):
That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 5 (05:16):
Yeah, I don't know, I think at that point right there, Yeah,
you can't.
Speaker 3 (05:20):
You can't look once the fishing line, once the bait
is in the water. I mean absolutely, you can do
whatever you want but he can't be You can't be
mad if he has an expectation the bait in the water.
Speaker 2 (05:30):
We already finish it. Now you're trying to reel it in.
Speaker 6 (05:32):
Yeah, but she could say hey, before we move forward, like,
I just want to let you know where my head
is at.
Speaker 2 (05:37):
What's up, sir?
Speaker 7 (05:39):
Good morning?
Speaker 8 (05:40):
How's everybody?
Speaker 2 (05:41):
We're good? What's going on? What are your thoughts?
Speaker 7 (05:44):
I grew up around a lot of men. My best
friend is a guy. I have six brothers, no sisters,
and I'm married.
Speaker 8 (05:50):
My husband asked me an hour after.
Speaker 7 (05:54):
I met him how I felt about marriage and if
I wanted kids.
Speaker 2 (05:57):
Oh, man, and I thought it.
Speaker 7 (05:59):
Was a little But here we are.
Speaker 2 (06:02):
You're married. Yeah, we are.
Speaker 7 (06:04):
Married six months after I met him.
Speaker 2 (06:07):
Hey, what do you think? I don't know if that's
that weird?
Speaker 6 (06:10):
Like if you're going out with somebody and you want
to talk about like, hey, what are you looking for?
I don't want to waste your time. I am I'm
thirty years old. I'm speaking as Anna. I'm thirty years old.
I want to date intentionally, Like I don't know if
I want to get married or have kids, but like
I don't want to be dating somebody that's dating ten
other people at the same time. Okay, that's what she's
looking for.
Speaker 9 (06:29):
Hey, well, I just think adult relationships require adult conversations,
and sometimes they're.
Speaker 5 (06:35):
Difficult, and she needs to have the difficult conversation with him.
Speaker 2 (06:41):
I agree.
Speaker 5 (06:41):
Should she do it in person or over the phone?
Which one would be a better way of doing it?
Speaker 2 (06:46):
I think in person because.
Speaker 9 (06:47):
Words I mean and words also don't mean anything actions.
She's also talked about his actions in the past, so
I would keep those in mind as well.
Speaker 2 (06:54):
Have you heard about his actions in the past.
Speaker 5 (06:56):
He had to he had to cancel a couple of
times because he had a mom issue. That's why she
calls him mama's boy.
Speaker 9 (07:03):
I'm not against him loving his mama, but so.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
His actions have not been for other women.
Speaker 5 (07:09):
They've been for that Or you don't trusts Okay, then
here's the deal. If you don't know that, you don't
trust him enough to have sex. You don't trust, don't
then don't have sex with him and move on. Then
I think they move on. Yeah, then I'm number Now
you'll call it, you'll you'll call it or in a
(07:32):
week you'll have another topic about how you guys did
have sex and now he's not calling you back?
Speaker 2 (07:36):
What's up? And Vaughan, how you doing?
Speaker 3 (07:39):
Hi?
Speaker 2 (07:40):
Hi? What's going on?
Speaker 10 (07:41):
I was saying that he should he she should.
Speaker 8 (07:43):
Definitely have that conversation with him and then watch how
he moves afterwards.
Speaker 7 (07:48):
And that will let her know if he's really into
her as far as wanting to go further with her,
or if he's about to go mess with somebody else.
Speaker 6 (07:56):
According to Cavi, it doesn't matter.
Speaker 2 (07:58):
Yeah, like that.
Speaker 6 (07:59):
No, No, I appreciate your your transparency.
Speaker 3 (08:02):
I'm going to hear you say that, but just like
we said, your actions have to line up with that.
You have to stand on saying that I'm not gonna
move in that way. Because if you say that, but
you still feeling everything and we're still doing everything, well
we can go further. What would you do if this
was you in this case, I'm still gonna go further.
I'm gona roll my eyes. I'm gonna accept what you're saying.
(08:22):
Are you still gonna go out and have a good time.
We're gonna drink, We're gonna eat, You're gonna come back
to the crib?
Speaker 5 (08:26):
Were gonna Are you gonna tell her what you want?
Speaker 2 (08:29):
Her to hear or are you gonna tell her?
Speaker 3 (08:30):
I'm just say I respect I respect that, and let's
have another drink.
Speaker 2 (08:36):
Like it's not gonna be a long conversation, like I hear.
Speaker 5 (08:38):
What you're saying, move on, but are you going to
abide by No, you're gonna just tell her whatever she
wants say.
Speaker 3 (08:45):
And in my mind, it's not like I'm trying to
be devious, like I'm not gonna present myself as someone
that wants to do exactly what it is you're saying.
I understand where you're coming from. We're going to still
continue to enjoy ourselves and whatever happens is gonna happen.
It's up to you to start, like, protect yourself. Don't
rely on me to do the protection for you. What's up,
Kristin Hi.
Speaker 8 (09:07):
Hi? I was just gonna say, Anna needs to not
put herself in situations where the temptation is there. Go
out on real dates. Don't be rolling around on the
couch because it sounds like she's not even sure exactly
where it's going in her mind. So if you spend
more time outside of that, you really do get to
know the person on a more intimate level without rolling
(09:31):
around on the couch, and I think that once you
do that, it kind of clouds over your future, well
what your future desires are, because you do I mean,
everyone wants to bake cookies. But I feel like if
he really wants to be in that same situation that
she does, that he will like that part of just dating.
(09:52):
Just go out, have fun, do fun things together, get
to know each other outside of the family room couch.
Speaker 5 (09:58):
The having him over does send a message, don't you
think It's like you It's like you're letting him into
your your world, your space. So that is interesting.
Speaker 8 (10:11):
But Anna's tempting herself.
Speaker 2 (10:13):
It's like, well, that's true.
Speaker 8 (10:15):
She's testing herself, you know, And don't put yourself in
that situation.
Speaker 10 (10:19):
Anna, just know that because you.
Speaker 8 (10:21):
Probably will go ahead and then I know exactly how
you feel when you say, once you get intimate that
emotional connection, it's so hard to step.
Speaker 4 (10:31):
Back from yep, you have a good day.
Speaker 2 (10:39):
Dinner at Gillies instead of Danielle, what's up, Hi, good morning,
good morning.
Speaker 10 (10:48):
I just wanted to say something really quick. Kevin's response
to Anna trying to set very healthy and realistic boundaries
of if we're not going to be in a relationship.
I don't want to be intimate with you.
Speaker 4 (11:01):
It really highlights my apologies, Kevin, I love you.
Speaker 10 (11:04):
Really highlights how sometimes men are really emotionally unintelligent.
Speaker 2 (11:09):
My apologies. Really, I think Kevin's please please advise.
Speaker 10 (11:12):
How by when a woman says to you, this is
what I want. I'm dating intentionally, I don't want to
be intimate with you unless this is going somewhere, and
your response was I might just play in your face.
Speaker 3 (11:25):
No no, no, I said no, no, no. I never said
I will play in your face. What I said was,
if that's what you're communicating, your actions need to line
up with the words that are coming out of your mouth.
You can't just say something and rely on me to
operate in a different way when you won't do it
for your own safety.
Speaker 2 (11:42):
That's what I'm I agree with that.
Speaker 10 (11:44):
I agree with that statement. But if you roll it back,
you did kind of say I might I might be
like okay and then just go about my night. Or
I might be like okay and playing your face, implying
that you would let it go further.
Speaker 2 (11:56):
No.
Speaker 5 (11:57):
But I do think Kevin answers very honestly for what
men think. He does he does I love Yeah, I
don't think I love you too, and I don't And
I think maybe and I think that's and I think
that maybe I am the most. And to go back
to what Kristen said, I think if you're doing this
on the couch, I guarantee you he's instantly thinking you
guys are going for it too?
Speaker 2 (12:16):
What's going on? Sheridan?
Speaker 5 (12:20):
All right?
Speaker 7 (12:20):
So I kind of a line with what she said.
To be honest, first off, I like that Kevin is
always transparent. He's just gonna tell you exactly how he feels.
I respect that. But if a woman was to say, hey,
this is a boundary that I'm setting for myself, the
response shouldn't be let's have another drink and see what happens.
Speaker 10 (12:39):
Should be like, we're gonna we're gonna see if she's okay?
Speaker 2 (12:42):
What should I do? What should I say? What should
I say?
Speaker 7 (12:46):
I think that regardless of what happens, you just understand
already that in her right mind, in her present mind,
and something that she wants to stand by is to
not take it to that level or to do that
for her own for her own self respect. And then
I mean, you just have a good time with her,
and it doesn't have to lead to anything out there exactly.
Speaker 3 (13:09):
That's not that's no, no, no, what I'm saying and
what's what's okay? Maybe I know exactly what I mean,
and maybe when I communicate it isn't translated in that way.
What I'm saying is if Anna communicates to me, she's like, keV,
you know, I'm joining ourselves. I don't want anything to
go further than this. I'm looking for something more serious,
(13:30):
and I say okay, and then I continue with my night.
Speaker 2 (13:35):
It is not up to me to then change the
way that I operate.
Speaker 3 (13:39):
It is on Anna to stay consistent in what she
sees for herself. I'm not saying forget what you're saying,
we gonna do this and do that. No, I'm just
going to do what I'm doing. It is on Anna
to protect herself. That's what I'm communicating. And everybody want
to go after the dude like she told you what
it was. Why are you moving forward? Respect her bound
to no, expect your own boundaries. Have enough respect for
(14:02):
yourself to say I'm not going further. Don't look at
me like I'm supposed to say.
Speaker 5 (14:05):
You well and Also, after having that conversation, you can't
show him mixed signals by all of a sudden then
you know, getting closer to him and trying to you know,
do more h with them.
Speaker 2 (14:16):
That's the big one. Yeah, real quick, last call Brooke.
What's up, Hi, everybody?
Speaker 4 (14:23):
How are you guys doing this morning?
Speaker 2 (14:24):
Good Brooke, I'm fired up, Brooke.
Speaker 4 (14:30):
I think I think you bring up a really good point. Actually,
so speaking from experience, I think, you know, she should
have a conversation with him, But at the end of
the day, you know, somebody is going to say whatever
they want. You know, she's going to say, you know,
I want to you know, date intentionally the through that,
(14:52):
and you know they might say no. I totally understand
that kind of what she says, like he's not necessarily
going to.
Speaker 8 (14:57):
Change the way that she moves.
Speaker 4 (14:59):
And he expects her to, you know, set her own
boundaries and kind of stick to them. But I think
living in like the real world, it gets very easy
where a girl gets confused depending on the man's actions.
And I think at the end of the day, what
I'm trying to say is always trust your intuition, Like
(15:19):
you've got feeling, like you know, if she says that,
you know, yeah, I do want to take you serious.
I want to see where it goes. And you know,
maybe she you know, you know, tries it out think
of that, oh maybe this can go somewhere. But at
the same time, he's probably still doing what he wants
to do, you know, while he's exploring other people. And
that's kind of where she brings in, like, oh, well,
(15:41):
you know, you kind of have to like stick to
your own boundaries.
Speaker 5 (15:45):
There also is a chance that she brings about it,
she brings us up to this guy, and this guy
may be like, this is not where I.
Speaker 2 (15:53):
Thought this was going to go. You know, yeah, we'll
be right back. You sort of relationship being the other woman.
You'll never be the only woman under the world.
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