Microdose Your Magic: Preferences

Day 3 of 30 of MICRODOSE YOUR MAGIC.

Episode Transcript

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Hey, welcome to Day three ofmicrodos Your Magic. Today, I really
want to introduce the embodiment of havingstrong preferences, knowing what you want,
being strong in those preferences, butalso having the ability to flow with them.

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It's so important to know what weactually desire, and it's so important
to be able to hold desire,and desire is a whole other conversation that
we'll have another day, but it'simportant to have a clarity around our preferences
or else we move through the worldlike jello, and we absorb everything and
we don't really take anything in fully. It's just like this gelatinous cube rolling

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around earth. When we know whatwe like and what we want, we
can be a pillar to receive that. But then things can get really really
true when all we want is thethings that we want, and we won't
accept anything that maybe looks a littlebit different or something that might be a

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little bit more aligned for you actually, So having a deep understanding of preferences
but also having a deep trust thatthe things that are showing up in your
life might also serve you, andit might not match perfectly, it might
not be the thing that you ultimatelyhad the preference for but maybe it's close

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and maybe it's more aligned for you, and maybe it's more healing for you,
maybe it's more powerful for you.And so we can hone in on
preferences, But what are you actuallyable to receive when you're two zoomed in?
When you're too zoomed in, doyou lose the ability to actually see

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all the opportunity, all the options, all the magic, all the healing,
whatever it is, and being toozoomed out, we're like casting this
ginormous net and that doesn't really serveus either, because man, we spend
a lot of time having to weedthrough that when we have no preferences or

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no clarity on the things that feelgood for us. So how can you
find middle ground in between that?How can you show up truthfully in your
power and in this empowered state ofbeing where you know what you want,
you have clarity around that, butyou trust enough that you can still receive,
and when things show up in yourworld that might not match your desire

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or your preference perfectly, you'll havethe discernment to say yes or no.
So you're cultivating this sense of empowermentor the sense of clarity for yourself where
you will have discernment when things showup. So it's like, Okay,

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I'm not going out into the worldand I have set preferences, but when
something shows up that's different, I'mlike, Okay, yeah, I trust
that this is it. I stillhave to be rooted in my clear thinking
and my clear knowing. So whatdoes preference mean for you? What do
the things look like that you prefer, What do you prefer, how do

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you prefer to spend your time,who do you prefer to spend your time
with, How do you prefer yourdays to look, how do you prefer
your partners to look? How doyou prefer the expression of yourself to be?
And then outside of those preferences,what do you open to? Because

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I have strong preferences, but Ialso have an understanding that I have to
be open to more. I haveto be open to things showing up that
could potentially broaden my preferences. BecauseI only know what I know, I
only have experience with what I haveexperience with, And because I don't want

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to be a gelatinous cue walking throughlife having everybody else's preferences, I pretty
much have to stick with my own. My own experiences. Up until this
point, you haven't really fully beenin control. You haven't woken up every
morning and mapped out how exactly theday would go, and it go that

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way. Ten years ago you didn'tget a blank paper to write how exactly
the next ten years would go.But you're still here, and yes,
some things have been painful, andyes some things have been wonderful, and
you probably couldn't have mapped out howthey were gonna unfold. You couldn't have

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prepared yourself for for the pain,and you could not have prepared yourself for
the joy. So you could havehad preferences then, but you were open
along the way to receive what youneeded to receive, and you had discernment
to navigate through those experiences. Sothat's what I want for you now,

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is to reset yourself in your preferencesand this space around that for openness and
for trust to sit in and fordiscernment to belong there as well. What
an empowering thought that you can haveclear preference, clear intention as well as

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a really beautiful openness and a reallystrong sense of discernment. That is a
powerful combination. So how can youbring the those beautiful ingredients into the recipe
of your day today. I loveyou, see you tomorrow.