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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Welcome to Beyond Mindset Limits with Tisha Marie Kine. Here
we explore how unlocking your mindset can pave the way
for unlimited success. Discover how to create opportunities through legal
challenges and transform your business and life with effective public
relations strategies. Get ready to elevate your journey and maximize

(00:25):
your potential. Now let's welcome your host, Tisha Marie Caine.

Speaker 2 (00:33):
Oh my goodness, we are back with Beyond Mindset Limits.
I am your host, Tisha Marie Caine, and I am
with Beyond Mindset Limits.

Speaker 3 (00:44):
I am an executive counsel, expert, mediator and communicator. I'm
a breakthrough mindset coach, clinical hypnotherapist, and I'm a multiple
number one international best selling author and artist. I'm recognized
for my work all around the world and working with
Fortune five hundred executives, visionary leaders, and high performing entrepreneurs,

(01:10):
guiding them to unlock the influence, align with purpose, and
create lasting impact. With a unique blend of legal expertise,
leadership strategy, and transformational coaching, I help individuals and big
organizations rewire the subconscious mind, release emotional weight, and elevate

(01:35):
their relationship with money with power and self worth. And
this is beyond mindset limits, where clarity meets confidence and
transformation becomes actionable. And today we're talking about reality creation.
And this is a sexy show today because I just
want to empower you to know that you get to

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create the reality of your dreams if you want to,
you know, I mean, it's totally up to you. But
I know how this works. I know that energy and vibration.
With knowing the backstory on how energy and vibration works,

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you get to become the author of your life. So
I have a question for you today when we start
this show. The question is, and I don't want you
to answer it quickly, so take a deep breath and
I want you to feel it. So here's the question.
Are you actually creating your life or are you just
participating in someone else's version of what your life should

(02:43):
look like? Because if we're honest here, a lot of
us have been living inside realities we didn't consciously choose.
And we're showing up investing our energy, giving our time,
pouring out our hearts into things that don't pour back
into us. And we've normalized it. We've called it love,

(03:06):
we've called it loyalty, and we've called it responsibility, But
what if it's not. What if you've been participating in
a reality that was never designed to elevate you. You see,
every single day there are realities being created all around you,
in relationships and conversations and workplaces, in your families. And

(03:30):
some of those realities are built on growth, expansion, truth,
on alignment, and others they're built on chaos and control
and dysfunction and survival. And here's the truth most people
don't realize. Every reality needs energy to survive. It needs

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your attention, it needs emotional investment, it needs participation. So
what happens Someone creates a problem, a pattern, a story,
and then unconsciously they start looking for investors. But you
know what, they don't call it that. Of course, it
sounds like, can you help me with this? Why are

(04:15):
you doing this to me? You need to fix this?

Speaker 4 (04:19):
You always and you never have you guys heard that before,
And before you know it, you're in it and you're
thinking about it, you're feeling it, you're carrying it, and
you're reacting to it.

Speaker 3 (04:33):
And just like that, your energy is now funding a
reality that isn't yours. Why do you think I know.
I've done this for years until now I am the
creator of my own reality. And somewhere after snap, you're
in it. You go deeper and it's almost like the

(04:56):
energy says, thank you. You belong to me now. And
here's the shift. You don't belong to anything that drains you.
You don't own your energy to a reality that diminishes you.
And this is where awareness begins. Once you start being aware,

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consciously aware, pausing, looking deeper, watching things unfold in your life.
This is the moment you say, this is not my reality,
this is not my reality, and then things start changing. Now,
let's get real for a second, because miss Tishamary Kane

(05:37):
likes to be real. Ah, real, real, Okay, let's get real.
How many times have you stayed too long at a party?
How many times have you stayed too long in a conversation?
How many times have you stayed too long in a relationship,
in a dynamic trying to fix something that was never
yours to fix, trying to prove something, explain something, heal something,

(06:05):
while slowly draining yourself in the process. And at some
point you feel it, the heaviness, the exhaustion, the quiet
voice inside that says, this isn't it. My energy went
into a pile, this is not of my highest creation.

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And that's your truth speaking, that's your higher self saying
it's time to stop participating in someone else's reality, because
here's the reality. You don't have to keep showing up
for people, for situations, for environments that don't fill you up.
You don't and I know that you start to feel

(06:49):
uncomfortable because we've been programmed. Sorry, guys, I got to
tell you the truth. I'm a truther or we have
been programmed from the moment we born to stay, to endure,
to sacrifice, to prove our word through how much we
can handle. But that's not power, it's programming, and we

(07:13):
need to undo that. We need to deprogram the belief
that our value is tied to how much we tolerate.
We need to release the idea that walking away seems
like failure. You know, they say what do you have
a hard time doing? And ask yourself this question. If
you're traveling down the roadway, I want you to take

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a deep breath in with me. I want you to
ask yourself this question, what do you really have a
hard time doing? Starting things, changing things, or ending things.
So when I took a moment this morning in my

(07:55):
prayer and meditation, prayers talking to God. Meditation is listening
to God. And again, whatever you think God is or
God of your own understanding, when you really ask yourself,
what do I have a hard time doing? Starting things,
changing things, or stopping things, you often wonder what that is.

(08:18):
And for me in the past, I had a hard
time stopping things. So you can interchange those words and
it's be do have. So if you have a hard
time starting things, who are you not being? If you
have a hard time changing things, what are you not doing?
And if you have a hard time stopping things, what

(08:42):
don't you have? And So I have experienced loss at
all levels, at the deepest, the deepest loss. And I
know if you guys are hearing this, I I can
really relate to those who have lost lot. I've lost people,
I've lost jobs, I've lost money. I've been robbed on

(09:05):
all fronts. And that's why my throat chakra is right blown,
wide open, and that's why I have this radio show,
and that's why I have these little pins and these
little notebooks all over my house because I have something
to say and I'm here to help you create your reality.
This is reality creation at your best, when you stop

(09:29):
subscribing to someone else's bullcrap. The moment I decided to
take my power back and say, uh uh, that's not
my life. Uh oh, I'm not doing that was the
moment my whole life changed. When we release the idea
and we start walking away from things that don't fill

(09:52):
our cup. Walking away is the most powerful act of
self respect you can ever make. So what do we do.
We need to sanitize, we need to clear, we need
to reclaim. You pull your energy back, pull your energy
back from conversations, from people, from patterns. You stop engaging,

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you stop reacting, and you stop feeding it. And at
first it might feel strange, because it did for me,
because you're used to being in it. You're used to
fixing things and responding and managing. And this is where
your power returns. Because the moment you withdraw your energy,

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that reality starts to lose its grip on you. And
I know this, and something incredible starts to happen. You
start to remember, You start to remember you are not
just a participant in this life. You are a creator
of it. So what are you creating. I triggered a
friend this week and one of those water signs, you know,

(11:02):
Pisc's energy who just kind of floats and flows through
the world and kind of beats to her own drum.
And I voice texted her right because I wanted her
to feel my energy in the voice and I said, Hey, buddy,
what's going on? What are you creating these days? I
haven't heard from you in a few months. What's what
are you creating? And who? She took a minute and

(11:25):
didn't respond back to my text. But when she did,
she said, Hey, Tsha, I had to be completely transparent
with you, and we don't We don't use the word
honest because we're always honest, right, getting really clear, crystal
clear on our words. She goes, uh, you know, I
have to be completely transparent with you. You triggered me

(11:45):
because when you said what are you creating? Or asked
that question, I thought I had to be doing something
and right now I don't want to be doing anything.
So we had this very exquisite conversation about creating your reality,
and for her it was healing. She just had a surgery.
Right now, she's creating a softness in her life. A subtleness,

(12:08):
a suppleness, and she really got to own that. And
if you get triggered by anything, it's an unhealed part
of you. And she knew that, and we had that
conversation and kind of just lacked right. So calling your
power back to you. And this is where it's so powerful.
You don't have to fight low frequency realities. You don't

(12:31):
have to argue with them, you don't have to convince them,
you don't have to fix them. You simply just outgrow them.
You become a stronger magnet. I used to say this,
I have a ten year old and he's really finding
his footing in his world, in this world, and it's
my job is as his mommy, to grow a strong, independent,
productive member of today's society. And so he wouldn't like

(12:55):
the you know, the directives that I was given him.
He wouldn't like it, and he would melt down and
have a fit and throw himself on the ground. And
I would in the past melt down. I'm like, why
are you.

Speaker 2 (13:07):
Doing this to me?

Speaker 3 (13:09):
Why are you making me you know whatever? Right? And
I realized just because he was having a fit didn't
mean that I didn't I didn't have to melt down either.
So I just simply pulled my energy back and I said, Okay,
I know you're unhappy that we're needing to get ready.
You're required to brush your teeth and you know, do
your hair and look appropriate. So we can go to

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the grocery store and you can melt down, but guess
why you're still going to do it, and I'll just
meet you in the car. So I left and went
out and waited in the car, and he simply came
down the stairs and we went to the car. And
it was fine. But I thought, who wow, I called
my energy in my power back to me. I created
the reality where I didn't have to argue with this
little chicken nugget. You know, I really harnessed my energy.

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So I started to level up, right, I started to
choose the reality that I wanted, and I didn't have
to react to them. To him, I didn't have to react.
I was just responding. I'm like, okay, you can melt down,
but I don't have the energy for that. I'll just
simply wait for you in the car. So I started

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to get in aligned with what I wanted to see
in my reality, and I was grounded in wanting the
peace and the calm, and I got clear that I
didn't want to participate in the chaos. I didn't want
to participate in the noise. So I stopped getting pulled

(14:35):
into things that drained me, and I started attracting things
that expanded me. And this becomes my new standard, and
it becomes your new standard once you choose to create
the reality that you want. I do not invest in
realities that do not support me. I do not participate

(14:57):
in games that I do not create. I do not
give my energy where it is not honored. And when
something shows up that isn't till line, I don't fight it.
I don't overanalyze it anymore, and I don't stay stuck
in it. I simply say I get the lesson and
I move on. Right. So I had over the weekend,

(15:22):
we had a family outing. We went over to we
were in Las Vegas, and we went over to the
Hoover Dam and took the damn tour and got the
damn hat and the damn socks right. And while I
was over there, I was kind of out of my
element because we have friends visiting, and we went as
a group and I went to the Gas station, and

(15:43):
I left my wallet inside the gas station bathroom and
I was like, oh my gosh. And I didn't realize
that I had left my wallet until like two hours later.
I had gotten out of my routines and left my
wallet there. And soon as I realized that I had
left my wallet there, I'm like, Okay, I know about

(16:05):
reality creation. I know how this works. I'm like, okay, great.
Either one someone's going to find the wallet and turn
it in, or two, I'm going to move quickly enough
that I can shut down all the cards and make
sure no one gets any of my Federal Reserve notes. Right.
So I moved quickly, and I'm like, Okay, I get
to create this reality. I can be so bummed out.

(16:28):
I can have it ruined my whole day, or I
can say, Nope, we're going to quickly move through this.
I made a bonehead move, and now I'm going to
shore this all up and make sure that I'm okay.
And I called my husband. He goes, well, I hope
you're going to shut down those cards quickly. And I'm like, well,
let me just run back to the gas station first
and see if anybody a kind person turned in my wallet.

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And you know, see if someone turned it in, because
I have all the things set up on my phone
that if someone were to use a card, it would
quickly ring my phone. So none of that happened over
the two hours that I didn't have my wallet. And
I'm like, Okay, I am the author of my life.
I'm creating this reality. I've had been harmed and robbed

(17:12):
in the past. There's no lessons I need to learn here.
I'm a very good steward of money. I've always been
a good steward of all the things that are entrusted
in me from God and in life itself. So I said,
oh no, uhuh, I'm just going to quickly shut these
things down and I'm going to go back to the
gas station and figure out. While I went back to

(17:33):
the gas station, unfortunately, no one had turned in my wallet.
And what was amazing and magical was I just simply
shut everything down and no one got my money. I mean,
I just I have to go through the hardship of
replacing my ID and credit cards. But one of the

(17:54):
credit card companies fedexed my credit card to me overnight,
so I wasn't without. So I seriously went like seventeen
hours without access to my money, and that was it.
That was great. But I knew in that moment it
could have been stressful and it could have leveled me
and it could have ruined me for weeks and stressed

(18:16):
me out. No, my goodness, and they could have got
all my money. But I knew in that moment I
just had to maintain zero point, not dip down, not anything,
just maintain the elevated state that it's all going to
work out. It's all going to work out. And it
simply did. And it's great because I didn't overanalyze it.

(18:38):
I didn't stay stuck into it. I was like, Okay,
what is the lesson here? Right? This presented itself to
me for a reason for me to get the lesson,
and so I'm very introspective. I'm looking at this like,
all right, miss Tisha Marie Kane, what is the lesson here? Well,
a few years back, I started saying, you know what,

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why am I going to carry myself security card? Why
am I going to carry my medical card with me
every single day wherever I go? I don't even use
those things. I'm just going to leave them at home,
leave them in the safe, right, and so I stopped
carrying those. And the lesson here for me is why
do I have to carry all my credit cards with me?
Why do I have to carry every card? Just take

(19:19):
you know, my ID, and then just take the one
card that I need for whatever I need that with
and then I can have a backup on my phone
or whatever. Right, So there was a bigger lesson, like
why are you carrying around all of these things when
you don't need to? So I took back my power.
That's the power, that's the clarity, that's the creation. So

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today I want you to ask yourself where am I
investing my energy? And this is not giving life, This
is not giving life back everything else. This is really
understanding where you're investing your energy. Where are you participating
instead of creating? Right, I could have participated in the

(20:02):
nonsense of like you matter, shut down all the cards,
Someone's gonna get your money. No, I'm not going to
participate in that. Whoever found my wallet? Great? Cool? Okay,
guess what, I'm a good steward of money. I'm gonna
shut all that down. And everything was going to be great.
They didn't even get a single Federal Reserve note, a
single sense or anything, because I stayed in that elevated

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energy of creating. So where are you participating instead of creating?
And what would happen if you choose differently? Because the
moment you stop funding what drained you is the moment
you true, the true reality begins to rise. You are

(20:45):
not You're not here to know. You're not here to
survive someone else's story. You are here to create your own.
And it starts with taking back here energy. Whatever you
subscribe to, whatever you subscribe to. Like I even say this,

(21:05):
like I'll see some negative things happen in my reality
and I'm like, oh no, uh, shutting that down. I
am not subscribing to that. Nope, that's not my reality.
And it's weird. How I behave and I walk through
the world these days is because I don't really see
you know, the Bible talks about living heaven on Earth,

(21:26):
and I really feel like I'm there. It's like, wow,
I don't see all the nonsense, Like, Wow, what a
crazy world we're living in right now. I'm like, really,
because I'm living in an amazing world because I know
about reality creation, I know about where your focus goes,
your energy flows. You know these are for someone like me.

(21:48):
These are very basic concepts, and so I'm just basically
trying to get this out to you so that you're
aware of it. If you haven't heard of this before,
there's tons of content out on it. I'm not the
first one saying this, right, And uh, I'm reminded of
a who was it? Like zig Ziggler said something about

(22:09):
creating energy and wherever your energy flows, creation grows or something.
I don't know, don't quote me on it, but something
like that. Just I don't give my power over to
just anything. I'm like, nope, nope, I don't want to
see that in my reality. I am shutting that off.
That's not where I live. It's like I could I

(22:32):
put up a glass wall. I can see it sometimes,
but I don't participate, right, I call all my energy
back to me. This is what I do. And so
I'm really hoping that this lands for you, that you're
you can understand that you get to choose in this
beautiful world. You get to choose the reality of your dreams.
And we're going to take a break here for a moment,

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and when we come back, we're going to talk about
parallel realities and selection and what that looks like, because
all I know is you get to be the author
of your life. And that's what I want to teach
you today is really choose to be your own author
and don't subscribe to the bull crap that you're seeing.

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And you can simply say, I don't subscribe and that's it.
Cut it off. So we're going to go to break
and I'll see you in a few minutes.

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Speaker 3 (26:26):
And we are back with Beyond Mindset Limits. This is
Tisha Marie Kine. I am a clinical hypnotherapist. I do
all things. I am a unicorn energy. If you guys
want to reach out to do a session with me,
go to my website at www dot Tishamrie Kine c
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(26:50):
make an appointment. You can get on there. We have
our publishing company, we have our pr company, we have
our black line security. We can get you married and divorce.
This is what we do. This is what a unicorn
energy is, and this is the reason why I decided
to do this radio show Beyond Mindset Limits, because I

(27:10):
wanted to get out to you that you get to
create the reality of your dreams. And I know it
sounds cliche, but it really is true. Right, I'm a truther.
I want to tell you the truth and I want
to take you now. I want to take you a
little deeper because what I told you before is about

(27:31):
reality creation and what that looks like, and I want
to go deeper with you. You're not just choosing what
to participate in. You're actually shifting between different versions of
reality all the time. And I know, I know it
sounds kind of woo woo, and I'm kind of woo woo,
kind of spiritual, I'm kind of all the things. And

(27:53):
you are going in between different versions of reality all
the time. There's a concept that says, every version of
you already exist. They empowered you, they exhausted you. The
version of you who stays, the version of you who
walks away, they're all available. They're all available to you

(28:19):
right now. And if you don't believe me, please borrow
my belief. Borrow my belief. They're all available. The abundance you,
the wealthy, the healthy. I know, I used to have
that fiber myalgia, right, so it stems from I was
a victim of domestic violence. I could know. I mean

(28:39):
every day I my muscles and my bones ached every day.
And so I went to the doctor's and they labeled
me with this stuff that you got fiber myalgia, and
you're going to need to take this medicinees forever. And
then they'd say take it Monday, or take it morning,

(29:00):
noon and night. And they started me off on one
hundred milligrams. And then you know, after four weeks, I
went back. I'm still hurty, and I got fiber mialgia.
My fibermialgia. I was calling it mine. Who does that? Like?

Speaker 6 (29:15):
People?

Speaker 3 (29:16):
People talk to me, they're like, my anxiety, my depression. No,
no way, we don't call any of that mine. It's
not yours. To keep the fiber miolgia, the anxiety, the depression,
you push that outside of yourself. And once I realized,
I'm like, okay. So I went back and they're like, here,

(29:37):
just take more, just take more. Take two hundred milligrams morning,
noon and night. So after four more weeks, they'll take
three hundred milligrams morning noon. I'm like, am I experiment?
Or do you guys know what the heck you're doing
over there? They didn't know. They didn't know, nor did
I know. I just knew that I was sad. I
was going through the family court. I was getting divorced,

(29:59):
I was breaking up with everybody. I was losing everything.
And I tell you, I was in a world of hurt.
I was subscribing to this fibermyalgia thing, right, and I
didn't know that I could rewire and reorganize my DNA.

(30:20):
Ten years now, from that moment, it's been ten years.
I don't have it anymore. I don't take anything and
I'm very very conscious not to take. If I have
a headache, I normally drink more water, or I normally
go out for a walk, or we have this. My
husband gets me this lavender bag. He puts it in
the microwave and heats it up and then puts it

(30:41):
on my forehead for like three minutes, and then I'm done.
I do all the natural homeopathic things where I don't
subscribe to all that other stuff, because I know how
reality creation works, Like my body is a well organized
machine that obviously I need to pay more attention to it.
The headache is something like hello to yourself. Pay attention

(31:01):
to yourself, right and so I create this reality. It's
all available to us now, right now. So the question
isn't how do I become someone new? The real question
is what version of myself am I choosing to align

(31:22):
with today? Because every time you say yes to something
that drains you, you're stepping into a version of yourself
that tolerates it. Every time you stay in a reality
that diminishes you, you're reinforcing that identity. But the moment
you choose differently, you're not just making a decision, you're

(31:45):
shifting realities. You're stepping into a version of yourself who
no longer participates in that frequency, who no longer invests
in that story, who no longer needs to prove or
fix or carry what isn't theirs. And here's the truth

(32:06):
most people miss. You don't have to force your way
into a better life. Trust me. I had a friend
who gave me a gift and she said, Tisha, you
have this proving energy. I was just forcing my way
through life. And yes, I have a lot to prove,
because I've overcome a lot and I still have a
proven energy I will. I love competition, you know. When

(32:28):
I was in law school, they would say, hey, Tisha,
argue your point right, and I would argue, and they
would pit us against our cohorts, like, oh oh, Tisha
gave the best argument on imminent, don't maine tonight? Look
at her, you know, and then the other cohorts would
like h and then that would pit them against me,
and then they would go back to the drawing board

(32:49):
and they'd get their arguments ready for next class, and
then they'd be on top of the winning board. It
was disgusting, actually, because we're not in competition with anyone
like I can recognize and look at these magical beings
that I surround myself with and I'm not in competition.
I just really value them and appreciate them and see

(33:10):
them for who they are. And then they say that,
you know, jealousy is a good thing because if you're
jealous of someone, that's something that you're longing for that
you want to get, right. So I love it when
one of my best friends out of the UK, she
does the daily Dance and she's a fabulous, magical fairy bean.

(33:31):
I tell you, this woman she can dance, and I
tell you, when I look at her, I'm just like wow,
she's so sunk up and has the coordination and I
do not have coordination, and so I just look at
her and I'm like, wow, you're so magical. I just
appreciate her, and I'm like, wow, She's gonna teach me

(33:52):
to be a better dancer. And I am because I
am constantly creating that reality. And then I tell myself
I'm going to be a better dancer, and then I do,
and then she gives me tips and tricks and you know,
on how to be a better answer, and so I am.
So I'm choosing a reality that I'm aligned with. Okay,

(34:14):
So I want you to choose a reality that you're
aligned with, because your reality doesn't change when others change.
Your reality changes when you stop matching what no longer
serves you. So instead of asking why is this happening
to me? Like you know, I could have said why

(34:35):
did I lose my wallet? Right? Why did that happen
to me? And I'm like, no, okay, what's the lesson here?
I turn it around? What do I need to learn?
I'm like, okay, I'm already a good steward of money.
I'm good there. I quickly shut down all the cards.
I'm good there. The lesson is why do I have
to carry all that nonsense with me? My purse? Is

(34:56):
I even had to go get a bigger purse because
I carry all the lotions and lip losses and notebooks
and pins. And I'm ready. You're right, I'm always ready,
so I don't have to get ready. Be ready, so
you don't have to get ready. That's what I say. Right,
So I stop shifting from why is this happening to me?
To what version of me is this reality reflecting? And

(35:19):
then ask yourself, is this who I choose to be
because the moment you answer that with clarity, you unlock
something powerful. You realize that you're not stuck. You are selecting,
and you can select again and again and again until
your reality finally matches your truth. And this is why

(35:43):
protecting your energy matters so much, because your energy is
what determines which reality you are stepping into next. Okay,
so I even had I don't consume a whole lot
of social media, but today I got on social media.
I don't do a whole lot of scrolling because my

(36:04):
time is valuable. Girl, I tell you, I don't do
a lot of scrolling. But my friend Jessica Talon, she's
out there. She's a manifesting coach. She does the EFT tapping,
she does a whole certificate program. And her little real
today was like, hey, networking is a scam. And I
looked to her and I watched it, and what she

(36:25):
was saying is that someone had reached out to her
and said, hey, can I pick your brain?

Speaker 7 (36:32):
And she goes, no, this is the most disrespectful thing
anybody could ever say, is can I pick your brain
and sit with you over coffee and take you on
a coffee date.

Speaker 3 (36:43):
Because they're going to spend ten dollars for coffee, give
you a free coffee, and then you're gonna get three
hours for free. Right. So Jessica was like, this networking scam,
just be aware of it. And so she had tons
of comments in there because she's, you know, a social
media influencer. So I was there for the comments for
a minute and one of the comments said, is there

(37:06):
a problem with giving someone your time and sharing knowledge?
Does everything have to be about transaction? Are you shallow?
And I was just like, huh wow, Okay, So Jessica.
I know Jessica. She's a go getter, she's a manifesting generator.
She's calling in her biggest dreams. She knows about reality creation.

(37:27):
She is the author of her life.

Speaker 2 (37:30):
Right.

Speaker 6 (37:31):
And what I said was wow, go you go you
And I said, no, Jessica is not, you know, having
any problem with.

Speaker 3 (37:47):
You know, giving of her time and it's not all
about transaction. She is creating her This was a fine
example of creating your reality. At her best, her value
is wealth. One of her values is wealth.

Speaker 6 (38:02):
I know.

Speaker 3 (38:02):
Another value is health, wealth, health, travel. I know those
about her and those are my same values. So I
resonate with other people who value wealth, health, and travel
because that's my value system, right, and so I'm just like, no,
she's uh, she's creating the reality of her dream. She

(38:23):
is a reality creator. She's doing this and it's it
was like, I looked at her for a minute. I'm like,
she's got haters in her inbox, and I just kind
of laughed, because if you got haters in your inbox,
you're doing it right. You're actually doing it right. And
I had another one in box me myself this last

(38:45):
week and she's like, Hey, Tisha, you know, will you
sit with me. I want to show you how I
can help people, but I want to hear you about
your thought processes. And I'm like, immediately when when I
read that, I was like, I just don't be sitting
with people. And I love people, right, but I just said,

(39:05):
you know what, Hey, I hope you're doing well. I
really appreciate you thinking about me, but right now, I'm
deeply focused on my business and time is pretty limited.
I'm only available to engage in things that directly contribute
to my work and finances at the moment. Because I'm
very transparent, wealth and health and fitness and travel and

(39:29):
family and impact are my five points of light? And
I talked about this on my other show a couple
of weeks ago. Is having that north star, right, there's
a north star and the star has five points and
what are your five values? And getting really clear on
what you value in this life? And so what Jessica

(39:51):
is doing is she is a reality creator at best.
And she's like, uh uh, there's a networking scam. I'm
not going to be networking with you right now. I'm
focused in growing my business seven figures. I'm focused on
that and I'm not going to let anything get in
the way. And I was like, yes, that's sexy the

(40:11):
hustle and she's doing She's transformed her whole entire life.
This girl, she's powerful, and so I'm I'm in that
same same realm. It's because I know this reality creation.
I know how life gets to be. I know how
exquisite this life gets to be. If you're very intentional

(40:33):
and you're very directional and you're doing something, it's in
the doing. Healing is in the doing. What are you
doing in the direction of your dreams? What are you
doing in the direction of your reality?

Speaker 1 (40:46):
Right?

Speaker 3 (40:47):
What are you doing so when I look at creating
my reality and what I want to call in right,
I want to impact MILLI and I want to make
millions right and being really clear, like we talked about
this also is about linguistically. We need to be very

(41:09):
clear with our words. That's why if you haven't taken
an NLP class, I would prescribe that to you in
a minute. Neuro Linguistic programming because it teaches you how
to strategically place words in your sentences to create the
life that you want. So you don't say I have
to go to work. Now, you say I get to

(41:29):
go to work. Because there's some people out there who
would really like to have a job, and there's some
people who would really like to go to work. You
get to go to work. I don't have to go
to work, right. And if I'm calling in millions right,
I'm not calling an abundance life because who Brischard talks
about this as well. Abundance is having what you need
when you need it.

Speaker 7 (41:49):
Right.

Speaker 3 (41:50):
Do you have water? Do you have food? Do you
have all the things that you need it? When you do,
then yes, you're living in a do a fuel in
your car, You're living in abundance lifestyles. So I'm not
calling in an abundance. I'm calling in more money. You
know why I'm calling in more money for Tishan Mary
King because I make the squeaky Will go go round.
I pay into or not pay, but I invest into

(42:12):
the services. I invest into all these other people who
help me grow my empire. I'm deeply rooting and growing
in my empire and changing the world for the New Earth.
Right And I heard it say it said, hey, all
you creators out there, please just keep creating right now,
because as we move to the New Earth and we

(42:34):
leave these systems behind gone, are all these medicine and
religion and public school and these systems that no longer service? Gone?
Is that? And we move to the New Earth, the
creator energy has to come online for us to create,
to be in our authentic expression, to be in your

(42:57):
you bring your whole self to the tea, well, not
just half of you, you know, I mean, how many
times do you go out to supper with someone and
their freaking phones on the table. You're like, put the
phone away, please, I just want to connect and I
want to engage with you, like our work emails that
or in no, like, if you don't have a laptop business,

(43:18):
then you don't need to be on your phone every
freaking minute, right, Or if you don't have a you know,
managing fifty thousand people, and then if you don't answer
your phone, the whole business is going to shut down.
Put your phone away, be engaged, Be be who you
are when you're there. And I think one of my
major professors when I was in college, I spent seventeen

(43:43):
years in college, what the heck like? What the heck right?
One of my professors was saying, you know, be who
you are when you're there. Right now, I'm a radio
show host. I host beyond mindset limits. Can I take
you beyond the mind today and be who I am
when I'm here. I'm not scrolling on my phone. I'm

(44:04):
not flipping through papers or reading a book. If you're
in your car right now, you're traveling in your automobile
up the highway, you're a driver listening to the radio,
You're not on your phone right when you go in.
I used to do this when I worked in corporate America.
The moment I hit the front door, I go right
in my bedroom, change out of my business suit and
put on my pajamas because that was like a physical,

(44:28):
felt sense of me saying, Okay, I'm home. Now I'm
switching from CEO to mom and what does moms do? Okay, great,
we're gonna hook and we're going to change the bed sheets,
and we're going to get our homework ready. We're going
to set ourself up for success tomorrow. Right be who
you are when you're there, and that is essential to

(44:49):
creating reality. Like right now, I'm such in the flow
of things, just like oooh, I see you, but I
don't got to participate. I'm not going to participate that
and then I carefully construct it moment by moment to
create what I want. So I want to go into
There were a few write ins. I got five people

(45:12):
who wrote in, which is great. Thank you so much.
So John, he writes in from Los Angeles. He goes, Hey, Tish,
I'm surrounded by chaos, the traffic, the pressure, the competition.
It feels like I don't have control over my reality.
How do I create something different when my environment feels
so intense? And I love this. I was like, ooh, John, here,

(45:34):
this is such a beautiful question because this is where
people give their power away the most. Your environment is real,
but it's not final, Okay, John, You don't create your
reality by controlling everything around you. You create it by
choosing what you agree with internally. Right, Like when I

(45:54):
lost my wallet, I did not subscribe to the fact
that someone is going to rob me again. I've been
robbed on all fronts already. No one's going to rob
me again. I didn't subscribe to that, and no one
even got anything. It was great, Right. So two people
can live in the same city, the same traffic, the
same pressure, and live completely different realities. Why because one's

(46:18):
reacting and one's creating. So the shift is this, Instead
of asking how do I change my environment, ask what
am I choosing to match within it? Because the moment
you stop internally matching that chaos, you begin to experience

(46:39):
a different version of the same world. So that's what
I would say to you, John, and I hope that helps.
We had Rebecca writing in from Santa Monica. How do
I know if I'm truly creating my reality or am
I just avoiding hard situations? That's really good, Rebecca, That's

(47:00):
such an honest question. Avoidance feels like distraction. Creation feels
like the expansion. Avoidance is driven by fear, like I
don't want to deal with this, and creation is driven
by truth. There is no this no longer aligns with
who I am. Right, that's a different kind of energy.

(47:23):
When you're avoiding, you feel tight, and you feel anxious,
and you feel uncertain when you're avoiding things. But when
you're choosing a new reality, you feel clear, even when
it's uncomfortable. So you feel like when I'm choosing something different,
I feel like this expansiveness, this growth, Like whoo okay,

(47:43):
So trust this. If your decision brings you closer to
the truth, your peace, or your power, you're not avoiding it,
You're evolving. Just know that you're creating moment by moment
and how do you want your life to look? How
do you want it to look? Sheila from Long Beach.

(48:04):
I keep ending up in the same types of relationships
that drain me. Am I creating that? Or how do
I change it? That's a really good one. So you
keep ending up in relationships that drain you. Are you
creating it? Or how do you? Yeah? So yes, and
not in a way that like I don't want to

(48:24):
blame you, but in a way that empowers you. You
are not attracting people randomly, you are matching them energetically.
This is a version of you that still believes I
need to overgive to be loved or I need to
stay to prove my worth, and that version keeps selecting

(48:44):
the same reality. So the shift isn't how do I
find better people? It's who do I need to become?
So I no longer match that experience. And when you
no longer tolerate or overgive or bandit yourself, Sheila, those
relationships don't even feel familiar anymore, and that's when everything changes,

(49:09):
it really does. So we have Maria from Pasadea. How
do I stop giving my energy to people who drain me,
especially when I care about them the most. That's a
really good one. Oh gosh. What I would say is
this is where boundaries become spiritual because love doesn't just

(49:29):
require self abandonment. Caring about someone does not mean participating
in their dysfunction. Okay, you can love someone and not
join their reality. You can care and still choose yourself.
And the truth is, when you keep giving your energy
to what drains you, you're teaching people where your limits

(49:50):
don't exist. So here's the practice. Maria right here, I
can love you, and I'm not going to participate this
in this that is power, that's self respect, and that
is reality creation at its best. I can love you,
but I'm gonna I'm not participating in that reality. And
I simply say that. My family laughs at me. I'm like,

(50:12):
oh no, that's not the reality. Like a couple of
weeks ago, yeah, I think it was about a couple
weeks ago. I had like a negative email, and I
had a negative text message, and another negative text message,
and then a negative call, and then we had something
break in the house and like all this like negativity,
and I'm like, oh no, I put the whole world
on pause. I shut everything down. I'm like, nope, we

(50:36):
live in the flow of life. We live in joy,
and I go from happiness, joy to bliss. Now I'm
striving for glee right Like, oh no, we're shutting all
this down. I took out the white sage, I did
my Shama lama over my house. I called out everything.
I said, Oh no, you are to go. This is

(50:57):
not the reality that I'm participating in. I know what
I want. I call my energy back to me and
everything that no longer serves me, you are out of here.
And I took, I took I don't know, like five minutes,
and I was like, uh uh, I call my energy
back to me. All these negative things come in my way.

(51:20):
You guys are you're done. You're done, You're out of here,
You're out of my life. Right, and I said the
little affirmation, I call my energy back to me. I cleanse,
I recharge, I release any energy that no longer serves me,
and I return it to the earth. Right, you can
find those little affirmations. My family was all laughing at me,
thinking I'm a goofball, which I am. But so as

(51:43):
soon as I did that, everything changed, Like okay, cool.
They're like, oh, I went out, I got or I
got some mailbox money. I went out to the mailbox
and They're like, here's a check that you overpaid. I'm like, oh, yeah,
here we go, Here we go. That is what I'm
subscribing to. That is what I'm creating. Right. Melissa from Malibu, Woo,

(52:07):
I love Malibu. I miss the beach. I need to
go to the beach. Okay, Melissa, if there are so
many versions of reality, how do I actually step into
the one I want. If there's so many versions of reality,
how do I step into the one that I want?
Here's the answer. You don't chase it, you align with it.
The version of life you desire already exists, but it

(52:29):
requires a different version of you, A version of you
that doesn't entertain what drains you, doesn't negotiate with your worth,
doesn't stay where you're not expanded. So instead of asking
how do I get there? Ask what would the version
of me who already has this no longer tolerate? And
what would I choose today? That's going to be key,

(52:52):
So start choosing what you're subscribing to. I hope that helps, Melissa.
I hope this has been helpful to all of you.
You guys, get to create your reality. So again for
another week of Beyond Mindset Limits, Thank you so much
for tuning in today. I'm so excited to bring this
knowledge to you. Choose every single day what you get

(53:14):
to participate in. Thanks guys, I'll see you next week.

Speaker 1 (53:22):
Thank you for joining Tisha Marie Kine for Beyond Mindset Limits.
Tune in every Wednesday at four pm as the conversation
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