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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Welcome to Beyond Mindset Limits with Tisha Marie Kine. Here
we explore how unlocking your mindset can pave the way
for unlimited success. Discover how to create opportunities through legal
challenges and transform your business and life with effective public
relations strategies. Get ready to elevate your journey and maximize

(00:25):
your potential. Now let's welcome your host, Tisha Marie Cain.

Speaker 2 (00:35):
Hi, you guys, Welcome to Beyond Mindset Limits. I am
your host, Tisha Marie Cain. I am an executive counsel, expert,
mediator and communicator, breakthrough mindset coach, clinical hypnote therapists, and
I am a multiple number one best selling international author

(00:56):
and artist. I'm recognized for my work all around the
world helping Fortune five hundred executives, helping visionary leaders and
high performing entrepreneurs, guiding them to unlock influence, align with purpose,
and create lasting impact. I have a unique blend of
legal expertise, leadership strategy and transformational coaching, and I help

(01:22):
individuals and organizations rewire the subconscious, release emotional weight, and
elevate their relationship with money, power and self worth. And
thank you and welcome to this show. I'm really excited
today because we're going to be talking about becoming unforgettable.

(01:43):
I understand this concept until a few years ago, and
then more recently it has come up several times. So
I thought i'd bring this topic to the show today
and hopes to help you live in your big, authentic expression.
So people may forget what you've said, but you've always

(02:03):
heard them say they've never forgot how you made them feel,
or they've never forgot how you made them feel about themselves.
So that's what we're going to be talking about today.
And I'm really excited to be able to teach you
this concept because I am a preacher and I am
a teacher, and I'm so glad to be here today.

(02:24):
So if you're traveling down the highway and you are
turned into today's show, I'm going to give you tips
and tricks on how to become unforgettable, how to become
unforgettable in your presence and your influence and in your identity.
And let me start with this. I know I didn't
know this until probably a couple years ago. And someone says,

(02:50):
you know what, Tisha, when you walk into the room,
we feel you before you even open up. Your mouth.
Your aura has negotiated your worth. And when someone told
me that, I was like, what they said, Yeah, we know,
like we feel your presence when you walk into the room,

(03:10):
and it's something that it's undeniable, it's something that we
can't really pinpoint. But what is it that you do?
And I had to take a step back and really
look at that from a deep inter perspective value and say, okay,
what's happening? And then I broke it down into little nuggets. Right,

(03:31):
So I broke it down to say, Okay, here's what
I know. I know who the f I am right, like,
I know, beyond a shadow of a doubt, who I
am at the fibers of my soul.

Speaker 3 (03:47):
Right.

Speaker 2 (03:48):
I'm an expert communicator. I know how to communicate, and
in fact, every time I communicate, I'll probably be the
one to lead first, because that's who I am. I
want to get all the puzzle pieces out on the table.
I want to get everything out so then we can
discuss and really navigate these times here on planet Earth.

(04:10):
That's what I like to do. And so becoming unforgettable
is just showing up authentically. So why is it that
some people walk into a room and instantly shift the
atmosphere like I do, while others, no matter how successful,
they disappear the moment that they leave. Why is that
so today I'm beyond beyond mindset limits. We're talking about

(04:33):
what it really takes to become unforgettable, not online, not
in a performance, but unforgettable in business and in leadership
and in relationships and in lives. And you know what,
I currently work with high level executives, and I tell
you there is a common denominator that I see as

(04:55):
I work with these high level executives and as the
conscience business of the planet continues to rise, I'm finding
more leaders are really becoming heart centered. They're really leading
with their heart. Now. I get it, they have a
business to run, they have, you know, they have to
keep their lights on. They have people to feed, they

(05:18):
have people to help within their business, and they have
a business. But what I'm finding is that they're really
authentic and they're bringing down the decisions into their heart space,
which is so fascinating for me as a coach to
watch because I coach these leaders too. Because they've climbed
the ladder, They've they've made the money, they're they're wearing

(05:39):
the Rolex Watch, they're in their identity, and yet they're
still unfulfilled. How do they become unforgettable? And I already
see that common thread is that they're leading with their
heart and they're showing up embodied in in full embodied space, right,

(06:00):
And so what do I mean about being body? Being
who you truly are? When they show up? They cannot
become unforgettable when they're hiding pieces of themselves, and so
they bring their full self to the table. And interesting,
I just had an amazing conversation yesterday with a leader

(06:20):
and I led first because I know what he was
thinking was I was thinking, we were both thinking the
same thing. And I'm like, Okay, let me just get
all the puzzle pieces out onto the table and let's
talk about each little aspect of the business and how
it runs. This makes sense, but this doesn't make sense.
This makes sense, but this doesn't make sense. And you

(06:41):
know what he told me, as an executive, as a
high power president of a company with three hundred and
fifty people, he said, Wow, Tish, I'm so thankful and
so grateful that you brought this to the table first.
And I said, yes, you know why Because I am
very congruent, I am very authentic and who I am

(07:03):
and what I stand up for. Right I pride myself
and being a woman of my word of showing up.
Sometimes I get to show up messy too. Sometimes I
don't know what to do or what to say. And
in those moments right before the meetings, I just sit
in prayer and meditation, and I believe prayer is talking

(07:25):
to God and meditation is listening to God. So if
I don't know what to say for the executive business
meeting right before, I just pray about it. And I'm like,
you know what, Gus. My family is so funny. My
family we pray to Gus, God, Universe and Spirit, and
so whatever God means to you, I pray and I say, okay,

(07:46):
I'm just wrapping this conversation up in a white light
that whatever this conversation is going to happen and whatever
unfolds today, it's for the best for all concerned. And
I start before I even get to the meeting by
putting that intention, I have a clear destination for our conversation.

(08:08):
And I want to have precision in my language and
I want to be focused. But it's really understanding and
comprehending rather the defined goals before that meeting, because I
know at the end of the day, I want to
leave people better than what I found them, and that's

(08:29):
what I stand for. And when things don't make sense,
I want to talk about it. And the more we
talk about things, the better things get to become. And
I watch how people shy away from hard conversations. That's
why they hired me. They hire me to as their
private mediator because somewhere things got lost in translation and

(08:49):
somewhere things just didn't make sense or add up, and
they didn't know how to approach it from the side,
from the front, from the back. They're just like, oh, Okay,
I'm in a hard situation. I don't know what to do,
and I get to have this conversation and I don't
know where to start. And what I'm finding that common

(09:10):
denominator as these top executive leaders start operating from a
place of authenticity. What I'm finding is they're bringing it
down in their heart and they're leading with their heart.
And it's so exquisite to watch because in the past
I think, okay, here's here's a multi billionaire who could

(09:33):
give two cents on how they're making me feel. And
I'm finding evidence of that belief system to be the
opposite now as the times are changing and you know,
we're really stepping into our own and knowing who we
are leading with and an authentic voice and leading with

(09:55):
our hearts. It's really beautiful to watch and I'm finding
evidence of that. So people remember certainty, they remember congruence,
and they remember people who know who they are. Right.
So this is what I try to do, is like, hey,
you know what, we're going to have a hard conversation today,

(10:16):
and for me, for someone like Tisha Marie Kane, there's
no conversation that's hard. I want you to lead. Just
get it off your chest. You know that cliche. It's
sitting on my chest because you couldn't breathe, right, your
chest feels so heavy and you can't breathe. Just get
it off your chest. No, just lead with that, lead
with you know. I don't care about feelings, I don't

(10:38):
care about all the stuff. Just what's on your heart,
what's on your chest? What do you want to talk
about today? Let's just open this up. Are what's our
clear destination? Right? And I get really congruent on those goals.
So and a lot of these high performers and personal
development coaches like Tony Robbin and Joe Despenza and Bob Proctor,

(11:02):
they teach that identity creates the reality. So if you
show up in your authentic space, you're going to create
that reality. Like, hey, we're going to be authentic here.
And you know, there's no you know, beating around the bush,
that cliche, right, let's not beat around the bush. I
don't even say those cliches in conversations anymore because I

(11:25):
just lead with my heart. And I'm watching high level
executives lead this way too, which is so fascinating. So
I'm teaching you. And of course we have noise out
the you know, back of my office building right now,
trying to lower the congruence here in the radio show.

(11:45):
So if you hear that, I apologize, but we're just
going to keep on going because here's what I know,
it doesn't really matter. Maya Angelou speaks about becoming unforgettable
with emotional residents. Right, you guys know what I'm talking about.
I don't even have to say a whole lot of
stuff when I walk into the room because you can

(12:06):
feel me It's about knowing that you're going to be
safe in my presence and that I see you. I'm
not gonna lee, I'm not just gonna say things to
hurt your feelings because I'm highly in integrity and highly
incongruence that I want to make you feel safe when
you're in my presence and I want to see you

(12:28):
and in that that empowers people to speak from their heart.
So I have become unforgettable because I just show up
in authenticity, and I really believe that authenticity these days
is the new currency. You know, if you're wild and
crazy and goofy.

Speaker 4 (12:50):
And nerdy, let that out live in your big self
because that right there, people will pay because they resonate
with who you are being right unforgettable people leave people
feeling more alive after the interaction.

Speaker 2 (13:09):
So I've had very deep conversations. I don't even want
to say tough conversations, because no conversation I have these
days is ever tough. But I've had deep, deep, meaningful conversations,
and at the end people feel more alive than what
they did when they started, and they probably felt like
the conversation was going to be hard. I'm just like,

(13:31):
no let's just talk about it all because the moment
we talk about at all, we just feel lighter. We
get it off our chest and we feel lighter. And
I'm telling you right now, Gary Vee, he would say
that visibility without authenticity fails every time. Being loud is

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not the same as being memorable. And I used to
be that way. My mom was loud. She was loud
and proud. You know, it was in the moments where
she spoke like this that we were hanging on every
word because she showed up in her authority as our mom.
You know, like, oh goodness, Mom is really coming in

(14:15):
hard right now. And we could feel the presence of
this woman step into the room. And so she was unforgettable,
not only unforgettable to me and my sisters, but unforgettable
to her community because she would just say, Hey, we're
gonna have this conversation. And I think I think that's
why today I'm I'm an expert communicator because I'm willing

(14:39):
to say the things that people won't, or say the
things that people can't, or say the things that people
want to say but can't. But whoat right, it's so funny,
I'm like, I'll say it who wants to say it? Like, Hey,
I walked into a HOA meeting a few months back
and I'm like, you could cut that tension with knife.

(15:00):
And I was like, whoa, what's going on here? I
could feel it? And everybody's eyes and ears and heads
turned to me. They're like, oh, miss Tisha Marie Kane
just said said everything we wanted to say and we couldn't.
I will. I'll say it because I feel it first,
and because I'm congruent, and because I want to show

(15:21):
up authentically. So what do people experience when they experience you? Right?
Because your energy and your aura is going to introduce
yourself before you do. How are you energetically showing up?
And this is what I teach. It's like first time,

(15:42):
if you feel like crap, why don't you go put
some do your hair, put on your best outfit and
put on your makeup straight, you know, put on your
lips strick straight, straight, and that right there, just because
you feel good, you look good, you feel good, and
then you show up differently where your best outfit, where
your best to watch? You know, people used to say
in the past, I'm saving this perfume for a special occasion.

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Or I only wear those shoes for a special occasion.
Or I'm only going to wear my good watch tonight
because we're going out to an event. Oh no, you
know what. I wear my good watch all the time.
I wear my most expensive perfume all the time. I
wear my most expensive lip gloss all the time because

(16:27):
how I feel when I wear those. And sometimes I
don't feel all that great. Sometimes I'm tired, sometimes I'm fatigued.
But the moment I put on my best watch and
the moment I put on my best perfume, I instantly
step into that next, best embodied version of myself. So
it's kind of playing a little mind game with your mind. Right.

(16:52):
Something I want to teach you today is the law.
I'm a girl of laws. I love laws, and I
often wonder about this too, Right, I wonder if I
love laws because I want to know everything about the laws,
because I'm a disruptor and I'm a rebel, and I
want to, like, I want to get so close to
breaking the laws that we don't break the laws, but

(17:12):
we're so on the line that it could almost be perceived.
And then I have the conversation, and then you know,
it gets better. But I want to teach you about
the law of reversibility. I don't know if you guys
have ever heard about this, but if you haven't heard
about this, go to the platforms and look this up.

(17:33):
It's the law of reversibility. And what it teaches is
that you have we have many states, but the objective
state and the subjective state. And so the law of
reversibility is the objective state, like, hey, I just won
the lottery, and the subjective state is I felt good

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or I feel good because I just won the lottery. Right,
So if that is true, then the opposite must be
true in the law of reversibility. So if we artificially
create this subjective state, hey, I feel great, then we

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could potentially win the lottery. Okay, I know it sounds
pretty woo woo, and I know that's why you guys
are here. It is beyond mindset limits. This is going
beyond the mind beyond mindset limits to talk today about
becoming unforgettable. And so if you use the law of reversibility,

(18:38):
it's just saying artificially create the subjective state to get
the objective state. So, you know, I had this conversation
with a client in the past, and he's a fitness coach,
and he said, Okay, I don't I don't know if
my business is going to kick off, going don't. I
don't know if it's going to take off. But I

(18:59):
know oh that you know, I've been trained in the
fitness realm. I you know, work out in the gym
every day. I have all the certificates, I'm a coach.
How you do all this? But I just don't know
if I could do my business? And I'm like okay.
So basically what I did did is I taught him
the law of reversibility, creating that artificial state, of that

(19:20):
subjective state. How would you feel if you were the
number one fitness coach in the nation? How would you feel?
And he goes, WHOA, Okay, he goes, well, I would
probably wear my good clothes to the gym. When I
got to the gym, i'd probably switch out out the

(19:40):
gym workout, and then after I was done, I would
take a shower, switch into my new my business clothes
or whatever, and then go out and drive a new car.
I'm like, great, can you do that tomorrow? And he goes, yeah,
I think I can. So he did that. So we
put it into play. We put this subjective state, this
artific initial subjective state into play in order to kick

(20:05):
off his business, to keep his business on the up
and up, and grow his business. I have you know
it worked? It worked, right. They say, if you want
to be a billionaire, you got to act like one. Well,
what does a billionaire act like? They certainly don't walk
to the grocery mart in their pajamas, right, They get

(20:26):
dressed up, they put their leather shoes on, they put
their good watch on, they're good perfume on. They artificially
create that subjective state in order to create the objective state.
So I hope that lands for you because it's it's huge.
And when I learned this, and we talked about this
before on my other show a few weeks ago, you know,

(20:47):
the game of life and the power of manifestation, manifestation
one oh one, my guidebook to that. It's really simple,
but you gotta I try to on this radio show
break it down for you so you get little nuggets
so they're digestible, because I could just like unload on
you like a fire hose and you're like, wait, wait,
this is a lot of information, but what I seek

(21:08):
to do on this show is break it down so
that you can put it into place. So just take
this one concept today, we're talking about becoming unforgettable and
getting very clear on the destination that you want to
go on, Where do you want to go? What does
that look like? Right, and then using the law of

(21:29):
reversibility to create your reality. So this is so good
because it is the cheat code, and I love in
my life. I'm going to be Tisha five point zero
this year, Tish a five point Oh. I'm gonna be
fifty in August. And here's what I know. As I
talk about all things. I talk about things because no

(21:50):
one has any crap on me. I am what I am,
I am who I am. I show up authentically, I
show up messity, I show up aligned, I show up
congruent every single time, So you know what you're getting
because I talk about the hard things, and I'll always
talk about the things that matter most because I believe
in growth and I believe in connection, and I believe

(22:10):
in leaving people better than I found them. And that's
just who I am. So I can get on my bandwagon.
That's why I think it's so funny. My human my
human is sitting here on my band wagon looking at
all of the things that I have accomplished in my life,
such as this radio show, Like no wonder why I'm
a radio show just makes sense. It just makes sense.

(22:34):
In the beginning, I would say, oh, my goodness, I
have a radio show, Like wow, I have a radio show,
and I couldn't believe it until I was like, Okay, yeah,
I believe it. It just made sense. And then now
next week we're getting like the best people on here
to be coming on as guests, to be able to

(22:57):
share their medicine and their magic with the world too.
So this is where to be exciting. So let's break
it down for you. Is we are going to talk
about the law of reversibility. You're going to artificially create
the subjective state first, meaning how would I feel if

(23:18):
I got the thing? How would I feel if I
was the thing? How would I feel? Get the feeling?
And then that will create the subjective or I'm sorry,
that would create the objective state. Go backwards, reengineer this
in order to create the reality of your dreams, and

(23:39):
you will become unforgettable. And how do I know because
I put this into play. This is the cheek code,
this is where we're at. So we're going to pause
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Speaker 2 (26:53):
And we are back with beyond mindset limits. I am
your host, tish Amory. Can you can find me on
all platforms. Go to Tishemricane dot com. You guys have
full access to my calendar. You can jump on there
for a free discovery call. There isn't anything that you
have going on in your life that I know that
I can't help you solve. That's not from an egotistical space,

(27:18):
but that is from a space of, you know what,
to be very vulnerable. In the past, I really had
to hustle for my worth. I never felt good enough.
I always had to, you know, try to earn the
extra certificate and get the alphabets at the end of
my name. I wanted all the alphabets at the end

(27:39):
of my name. And then I mapped out my husband
and I took a whiteboard and mapped out all of
my accomplishments. It's actually quite funny. And then it comes
from a deep space, a deep wounded space of you know,
never feeling good enough or always finding fault or something
like that. And it's fine, It's all perfect because what

(28:01):
I also know is that right underneath the roof that
you live, that's your biggest coach. Look around, look around
your spaces, look around your home, and just take note
of what's there. I did that once and I do
it often. And what I noticed was I love pins.

(28:23):
I have my own hot pink pins of course that
say Tisha Marie Kane beyond mindset limits. With my email
address and my website in case I leave a pin behind,
which I typically don't, but at least I have a
way to leave a pin behind so someone else can write.
And then I'm looking around. I'm like, oh, I have

(28:45):
all these little books, and I have all these little
notepads and all these little tablets, and I just stopped
for a moment and I looked, and I'm like, Okay,
if my biggest coach is under the roof in my
office or in my home, what am I trying to say?
That was it? That was it? Like, Oh my gosh,
I have all of these pens and all of these

(29:06):
notebooks because I have something to say. And so I'm
wondering if you have something to say? Because everyone has
a story. Everyone has a story, And so here's the
teaching point. Stories transform people, right, So the more you

(29:28):
can tell a story about where you've come from and
where you're going and where you've been, people relate to that.
The vulnerability creates the magnetism. The more vulnerable I am
with you guys. You know, there was one time I
was facing fourteen years in prison and I had four

(29:48):
felony charges. No one's got anybody anything on me. I'll
tell you just how it is because I know that
the people run Schmeer campaigns and people are sitting in
jail today who are not guilty, who are in fact innocent,
And I want to tell you that I'm really excited
and I want to celebrate with you today because this

(30:11):
show is called Becoming Unforgettable. So I just launched my
sixth book on Monday, and it's called wait for it,
wait for it, Beyond Mindset Limits. Yep, yep, you got
that right. The book is called Beyond Mindset Limits. And
this is a standard that I wrote for executives, for CEOs,

(30:36):
for top leaders. I wrote this standard so they too
could follow along if they were struggling in their business
or struggling at home. It's the standard for CEOs and
executives who refuse to be overlooked, undervalued, or forgotten. And
this book, I'm really excited because this is a new

(30:59):
level of expansion that I put out. I'm like, okay,
just telling you a minute ago that it my accolades
and all the little letters at the end of my
name stem from, you know, a deep wound of not
feeling good enough. So of course I'm a six times
author of course I have something to say. Of course

(31:21):
I have all these old notebooks and pens all around
my house, right because I have got to get my
voice to the world. And the more I do that,
the more I write permission slips for you guys, to
get your voice to the world. And that's what I am.
I'm a publicist, I'm a publisher. I do this for
a living. I do this because I have a voice,

(31:44):
and I want to turn on the microphone to your voice. Right.
You were never lacking discipline, you were never missing strategy,
you were never the problem. You were operating inside a
system that was never designed for your bigness. And so
this is what my book is. And I want to
celebrate with you today because this is my sixth book

(32:07):
and I just found out yesterday I went three times
best selling author. Who does this three times? Like I
was like, oh my gosh, I took I can't remember exactly,
but it was something best seller and women and Business
bestseller and motivational speaking best seller and women and coaching

(32:31):
or something like that. I got to really hone in
on what exactly it says. But you know what the
reality is, It don't matter. The reality is every single day,
I help you transform your life so that you can
become unforgettable through a story, through showing up, you know,
with authenticity, and the vulnerability creates that relatability. The more

(32:56):
vulnerable I get with you guys, the more people come
out of the word works and say, tish of me too,
me too, that happened to me too. Can you believe it?
And I'm like, yeah, you know, I can believe it.
So stories create that bridge between you know where you
want to go and where you've been, So embrace that journey.

(33:19):
Embrace who you are, all the quirkiness weirdness about you.
You never know if that's going to transform someone's life.
So today, one of my clients we had a discovery
call this morning and she was saying, I want to
publish my poetry book and I want to see if
you can help. I'm like, great, let's talk about all that.
And she goes, I'm having a hard time, and I said,

(33:41):
well why is that? She goes, my poem My poems
are my soul and I don't know if I want
to put my soul up for sale. And I'm like, ooh, okay, okay,
let's have this discussion, right, I love discussions like this
because I'm like, ooh, but what if and she goes,
can I read you a poem? I'm like, yeah, she
read me this poem. It was gorgeous, It was beautiful,

(34:03):
and I felt it. It was a visceral feeling inside
of my body. And I'm thinking to myself, you know,
I've got four children, Cameron, Karnn, Lily Landon. I have
a legacy to leave behind. Of course I want to
bear my soul. I want to bear my soul to

(34:23):
the world because I have something to say, because I
have a legacy to leave behind for these four children,
who can pick up the nuggets or not right. And
that's where the transformation came. Was when I was going
through the family court, I'm like, these are my children,
you know. It was this power struggle between me and
their dad. You know, family court is ugly and I

(34:46):
wasn't educated, right, you know better, you do better, And
it was this power struggle like, oh, these kids are mine.
But the awakening came from no, they're not. And I
was wrong. I've been wrong more times than I can count.
And I saw this on one of those little memes
that said you know, yeah, you think you're jealous of me. Yeah,

(35:07):
I've failed more times than you have ever known, right,
and I was wrong then, And I was wrong because
these children aren't mine to keep. God entrusted these children
with me to raise. They entrusted me to do the
right thing. I have always honored my children. I've always
done the right thing. And it got to be unraveled,

(35:29):
all that frenetic energy got to be unraveled because I
knew that God entrusted these children with me, and I
have a legacy to leave behind. And so when I'm
mapping this back to my client, just know, if you're listening,
I probably follow this squirrel, but I promise you I
will always come back to the point. Let's come back

(35:50):
to the point. My client has this poetry book and
she doesn't know if she wants to publish it because
in her poems is her soul, and in my heart,
I just looked her in the eye. I'm like, why
would you ever want to hold those poems back if
you knew for a moment they could change your child's life,
or you knew for a moment it could change someone

(36:12):
else's lives. Please, you don't have to use me as
the publisher although I'm really good. Just so you guys know,
you don't have to use me as a publisher, but
please just publish those poems because the world gets to
feel you, and you never know what that poem just
might save someone's life. I've I've had many successful people

(36:39):
who have not committed suicide because I shared where I
was in the past. I think I know, off the
top of my head, at least three because I was
very vulnerable showing up in my authentic expression, like I
don't care no one pays my bills, no one pays
my bills. I show up who I am, beyond the

(37:00):
beyond the limits, because all of this stuff is all fake.
It's a game of life. It's all an illusion. And
once you start realizing that, you get to create the
reality of your dreams. And I talk about this almost
that nausy because I laugh. We get to create the
reality of our dreams. And I want to shout this

(37:22):
on the top of a mountain. Once you feel it,
you feel it, you know it's the truth. You know
what I'm putting down right now is the truth. I
even had a friend. Typically, my clients become my friends
because I've transformed their lives and I've really helped them

(37:43):
move beyond the walls and the boundaries they put up
on themselves. And one client, now friend, she texted me
last night. She says, Hey, Tisha, I need to understand
more your money manifestation ability. Like actually, and so I
texted her back. It was so great. I texted and

(38:05):
I said, when the student is ready, the teacher appears.
And here we're just going to talk about that today
because we're talking about becoming unforgettable and how money manifestation
abilities these are so simple, so simple. If you're not
making an f ton of money, why not. Money's the

(38:26):
easiest thing to get. Once you realize that, or if
you can't realize that, please borrow my belief. Borrow my belief,
because money is the easiest thing to get. It's just frequency,
it's just energy. Once you realize that, and you embody
that and you use what we talked about right before

(38:47):
the commercial break about the law of reversibility really artificially
creating that subjective state. Like my client who's a fitness coach,
and he's like, Okay, what do I do? And I'm like, okay,
show up like you would show up if you were
already making the millions, and he did and then da
da right all the things. It's like, it's almost it's

(39:07):
almost like and I hate to say this word because
I think this word is overused, but I really want
to help illustrate this to all of you listeners today.
It's almost like you ever met a narcissist, right, And
a narcist has a false sense of reality and they have,
you know, these narcissistic tendencies. It's almost like you got

(39:29):
to be a little bit like that, like, Okay, money
comes to me easily and effortlessly, and you keep repeating that,
and then you believe that, and then so it is
it's almost like you have to embody like these little
these little cheat codes to reverse engineer your life, to
reverse engineer it. And so this is what I've done.

(39:51):
I'm like, Okay, I've broken things down for nuggets to
be able to tell you a story so that you
can pick up what I'm putting down right as we
go beyond the mind we go beyond the limits. If
you haven't got my book, the platform I used was Amazon,
Go to Amazon and get my book Beyond mindset Limits.

(40:11):
It's phenomenal. My heart is in this I move at
lightning speed, and that's one of my geniuses and that's
why I help people. Who said it as zig Ziggler
said something to the lines that don't quote me exactly
because of a lot going on in my brain, but
he said, if you help people get what they want,
you'll always get what you want. And I thought, okay.

(40:33):
One of my genius zones is I publish books at
lightning speed, and they're accurate and they're precise, and they're
great bodies of work. Right. So when it came to
my book, Beyond Mindset Limits, I published this and I
put it out and my heart was in it. It's
like I channeled the message from God themselves, the creators themselves.

(40:55):
I've channeled this message into this book. And chapter eight
speaks about harmony over balance. I hate balance, like I
don't want no work life balance. Oh no, uh uh,
I want harmony. Work life balance is half play half work. No,
thank you, I don't do that. I want to play
more than I work, and I do. But the caveat

(41:18):
to this is what I have created for myself, and
this is what I seek to help you create, is
to create a life where you never have to take
a vacation from I never have to go like, oh,
I'm going on vacation. I'm off the clock now. I'm
always on my phone, I'm always on my laptop, I'm
working by the pool. I'm doing things to help people
get what they want, so I'll always get what I want.

(41:39):
So I hope that helps. If you tell the story
and you make it relatable and you bring it back
to something that empowers you, like you know, I have
let's talk about this. I have a lot of clients
come to me and they're like, oh, I'm so sad,
I'm so depressed, or I'm mad. That one seems to
be the one coming up here recently is I'm so mad.

(42:02):
I'm like great, and I never play in it. I'm
like cool. I'm just like cool, right, I harness those
shadow emotions. And so when they come to me and
I'm like, Okay, what do you got going on? And
where do you want to go? What do you want
to see? What do you want to create? I don't
really care. I do, but I don't really care all
the stuff that happened in the past. I mean, we

(42:24):
all come from trauma. You know, if you grew up
in the seventies and eighties and nineties all trauma, right.
Wayne Dyer says, the quickest way for you to get
to where you're going is to erase your personal history story.
If you can erase your personal history and just like
forget about it and move on, that's the fastest cheek code.

(42:45):
And I actually believe that. But what I typically tell
my clients to come and they you know, they sit
on my chaise lounge and they're like, tsha, I have
all of this trash and I just want to talk
about it. I'm like, no, you know what, No, let
me stop you right there. You know what, I'm intrigued
what you know what intrigues me? Do you know what
I'm fascinated with? And they're like, what, I don't really

(43:06):
care about all the stuff that happened in the past.
I want to know your comebackstory. What got you here
because obviously you made it, and what got you here
today to finally take back your power, to finally live
in your bigness, to finally say I need help and

(43:28):
you are finally receiving and not doing it all by yourself.
To throw your hand up into the air and say, okay, God,
I cannot do this alone, and I need help and
anybody and everybody who can help me just let them
drop out of the sky right now, and then they do.
I want to know your comeback story. Tell me that story,

(43:48):
and that's where it gets good. And then I'm like,
oh yeah, that comeback story, how you made it. That's
what people want to know. That's relatable, that's authentic, that's congruent,
that's what people want to know. Right. It's the moments
that shaped your life, the moments that you personally reinvented yourself.

(44:10):
I have reinvented myself one hundred thousand times. You know why,
because I'm a multi passionate creative, let's be true, and
I get bored to tears, life, kids to be boring
for me. So I'm constantly creating something. And you know,

(44:31):
as a unicorn, I went from this was my story,
and I'm hoping if you're on this radio show today,
this show is meant for you, so lean in for this,
lean in for this. I remember a time where I
was like, I'm a victim of domestic violence and that's
all I said, right right, and everybody in California played

(44:52):
into that, like Okay, yeah, you're a victim, let's talk
about it. And I'm like no, it's just like, oh
my gosh, it's too much. I can't believe I'm a
victim of domestic violence. And that was my story over
and over and over again until one day I woke
up and I was like, oh no, that's not going
to be my story. I reinvented myself. I'm like, oh no,

(45:13):
I'm a survivor. Like I survived that, I didn't die. Yes.
Was it traumatic? Yes? Ten years ago? Was it the
hardest part of my whole entire life. Yes? Did I
want to commit it and get out of here? Did
I want to leave the peopl in it? Yes? Did
I know? Did I stay? Yes? I knew that I
was a fighter, right. And so my story becomes I'm

(45:35):
a survivor of domestic violence. I'm a survivor, right. And
I had to tell that story into the story got
old and I'm like, you know what. And I also
remember the one moment that I was like, Okay, I'm done.
I am so done with I'm a victim of domestic violence.
Now I'm a survivor of domestic violence. How can I help?

(45:58):
And I remember the day that it was like, how
can I help others? And I went down to the
Women's Haven. Actually, I was just at the Women's Haven
yesterday donating about ten of my books to any woman
who's going through it. Like I can help you beyond
mindset limits because once you decide, you decide to live
in your bigness and to show up differently by reinventing yourself. Ooh,

(46:26):
that's where it gets so good. Like I hear the
angels swirling in a vortex right now above my head.
Because once you decide I'm going to reinvent myself, this
is no longer my story. Yep, that happened, and you
move to the effect of your life into the cause

(46:46):
of your life. Man, turn up the speakers, turn up
the microphones, turn up the music. It is time to go.
People don't connect to perfection. They connect to the truth.
And that's why you guys are here, and that's why

(47:07):
you guys are listening to beyond mindset limits right now.
Because I speak the truth. I'm congruent, I'm aligned. I
will always tell the truth. I have always told the truth,
and my truth is my truth. And that's why I
show up here, is because I help get your voice
out to the world to speak your truth. Everybody has
a story and people can relate to stories, and that's

(47:30):
what they remember. Unforgettable leaders create expansion and that's what
I help you do. John C. Maxwell talks about this.
Robin Sharma talks about this. The highest level leaders do
not dominate rooms. They expand the people inside of them. Right,

(47:51):
That's why people come back to me and I'm like, Tisia,
you changed my life. No, I didn't. I was just
a helper in your life story. I was just a helper.
You change your life because you decided one day that
that story that you were telling yourself in the past
wasn't good enough and you deserve more. So I had.

(48:13):
I had a little funny you know. I gotta tell
you this because I'm a woman of a thousand stories.
I had a conversation with my aunt. This is past weekend.
Love her and my aunt and my sister. They're over
in Texas, and my aunt was saying, hey, you know,
when you get older something I can't quote her exactly,
but something to the effect that you know, live your
life now, tissue because you could be fifty years old

(48:35):
when you get sixty seventy. Things start falling apart, and
you better just live your life. Now. I'm like, oh no.
And I looked my aunt straight in the eye, and
I'm like, I reject that from my story. Heck, no,
I don't believe that. Right, she believes that, and that's okay.
Her truth gets to be her truth. My truth gets

(48:56):
to be my truth. I'm like, no, no, no, no, no, no,
I'm gonna do yoga. I'm gonna be so fit and
so limber that no one is ever going to help
me out of bed or to the bathroom. No, I
reject that from my hologram. And I gave her in
my mind a big red X and said, no. I
wasn't disrespectful, of course, because she's my aunt and I

(49:16):
love her, but sure beliefs are not my beliefs. And
I'm looking at that now. You know, I'm gonna be
fifty and and in the past, she said, hey, I
wasn't getting I didn't have any hardship with my age,
she said. But what I had a hardship was was
when I went to the doctor and I used to
measure five ten, and now I was measuring five eight.
She goes, I went home, and I cried I cried

(49:38):
because I never thought I'd be shorter, because I was
always this tall woman. And interesting, I'm five. I don't
even know how I think I'm five ten, I don't
even remember. But interesting how she brought that perspective because
she brings the old perspective and what she was taught.
She doesn't have this mindset like I have now. Right,
she doesn't teach people about mindset, and in fact, she's

(50:01):
operating with the old mindset. You get old, you break down,
your body breaks down. Oh no, there are plenty studies
of science today. The older you know, people are even
fitter now at fifty than they were at thirty because
they're choosing to eat healthier and exercise and do yoga
and breath work and all the beautiful things. Right, So

(50:22):
that's a lot, And I'm so glad you guys are
still there because this is important work, becoming unforgettable, being
able to share your medicine to the world. People can
feel your energy, you guys feel my energy. Right, Healing matters.
We've got to go back and do the healing work.

(50:43):
Emotional mastery matters, self awareness matters, shadow work matters. And
I just recently went back and looked at the shadow
work like, I'm like, okay. You know, people don't like
to talk about the shadow work. And I was like, okay,
why am I here? Why am i six times international

(51:06):
best selling published author and artist, all the accolades that
I repeated, you know at the start of the show.
Why And I thought, who, girl? That stems from deep
childhood wounds, And I'm okay with it. I'm totally okay
with it because you know what, me living in my

(51:26):
bigness today really helps the world. All that stuff, all
that stuff that I came from, that shadow work, that
the stuff that helped me get to where I am today.
I'm at peace with it all. I just feel so
free and so light because I just share my story
in hopes to write a permission slip to you to

(51:50):
share your story. You cannot deeply impact others while being
disconnected from yourself. So I was just telling my carpet
cleaner guide today. You know, you got to do all
the diets. If you want to get to next level,
you got to do all the diets. You got to

(52:10):
be careful what you put in your mouth, what you
put in your ears, what you put in your eyes,
all the diets to really come online. Don't be disconnected
for yourself. This is how you become unforgettable. Tune into
the fibers of your soul. Really understand who you are,

(52:32):
Understand the destination, Understand your goals and where you want
to go with precision. And if you cannot do that alone,
that's why I'm here to help you. My name is
Tisha Marie Kane and this is beyond mindset Limits. And
if you're not there yet, that's why I'm here. Please
reach out to me. I'm here to help you. I'm

(52:54):
here to grow your businesses. I'm here to grow you personally, individually,
all the things, and I'm just here to serve on
a bigger scale. So thank you for tuning in today
and until next time, I'm out.

Speaker 1 (53:12):
Thank you for joining Tisha Marie Kine for Beyond Mindset Limits.
Tune in every Wednesday at four pm as the conversation
continues around mindset, legal insight, and publishing as a strategic
tool for business positioning. Visit Tishamrie Caine dot com or
Kane's Legal Support dot com for more information or to

(53:33):
schedule your private appointment.
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