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Speaker 1 (00:06):
Welcome to Beyond Mindset Limits with Tisha Marie Kine, where
we explore how unlocking your mindset can pave the way
for unlimited success, learn to create opportunities for legal challenges,
and transform your business and life through the power of
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publishing as a brand building tool. And now your host,
Tisha Marie Kine.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
Hello you guys. We are back for another week of
Beyond Mindset Limits. This is my radio show with Tisha
Marie Kane. You can find me at www dot Tisha
Marie kain ciai dot com. So a little bit about me.
I am an executive counsel, expert mediator, I'm an expert communicator,
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I'm a mindset coach, I'm a clinical hypnotherapist, and i
am a multiple number one best selling international author and artist.
I'm recognized for my work with Fortune five hundred executives,
visionary leaders, and high performing entrepreneurs, guiding them to unlock
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their influence, align with purpose, and create lasting impact. With
my unique blend of legal expertise, leadership strategy, and transformational coaching,
I help individuals and high power organizations rewire the subconscious brain,
release emotional weight, and elevate their relationship with money, power
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and self worth. And this is beyond mindset limits, where
clarity meets confidence and transformation becomes actionable. And I'm really
excited about today's show. I'm always really excited because life
is lifeing me and life gets to be so joyous
and I have gone from happiness to joy to bliss
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and now I'm operating at glee And do you know why?
Because I choose it. I simply make a decision to
live out my waking dream. And with that being said,
today we're talking about dream, the power of dreams and
dream interpretation, and why can't I speak about this today?
I can speak about this because I spent two years
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getting my certificate. Yes, I have all of the letters
behind my name. I have all the certificates. It's quite
annoying from someone looking on the outside, but it dives
deep into my inner child and not feeling worthy and
not feeling good enough, and so I had to hustle
for my worth most of my life until finally, at
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age forty nine, I'm really in stepping into who I
am and I don't need all that anymore. But what
I do want you to understand and know is I
am deeply qualified in a lot of things, and dream
interpretation is one of them. And I studied dreams for
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two years straight to get my certificate, my certificate and
to become a dream work practitioner coach, so I help
people coach with their dreams. So starting with this, the
power of dreams are are It's huge. Even the dark
ones are here to guide us. So I just want
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to walk you through the first half of the show.
I want to walk you through all the things dreams,
and then the second half of the show. What I'd
like you to do is follow me as I interpret
one of my own dreams, and so you can help
interpret your own dreams, whether it be your waking dreams
or your sleeping dreams, they are all here to guide us.
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So I'm wondering, have you ever woken up from a
dream that shook you and wondered, what was this trying
to tell me? What if I told you your dreams
are not random, but they're actually communication. Even your nightmares
are not here to harm you, They're here to help you.
So I have proven authority in this. I have done
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thousands of hours of dream interpretation, I have read hundreds
of books and did you know so historically. I just
want to talk about this for a second. Did you
know that dreams are in the Holy Bibles, the Holy Books?
And specifically I wanted to cover one of the dreams
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in the Holy Books. And this I read the Scriptures.
You can read King James version, you can read other
Holy Bibles. I personally like the Scriptures, the two thousand
and nine edition. And so Daniel too talks about the
dream that ever Knezer had. So dreams are even in
the Bible, right, And so ever Canezer has this dream
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and he says, you know what it's. It's the spirit
is troubling me at night and my sleep is being disrupted,
and I need to have someone help me interpret these dreams.
And so he called Evercanzar calls out to the magicians.
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He calls out to the astrologers, he calls out to
the practicers of witchcraft. This is all in the Bible, folks,
I'm not making it up. So ever Canzer calls out
to the Kasdim. And I don't really know where that
where what the Kasdim is, But who cares at this
point because I'm just talking about dreams. But Ever calls
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out them to the magicians, the astrologers, the practicers of witchcraft,
and the kasdim to help him interpret his dreams, and
nobody could help him. And so he goes, guess what
I'm going to be killing everybody if if people cannot
help me interpret this dream because it's affecting my sleep.
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And so they come upon Daniel out in some little
village or something. I don't know, that's not so funny,
but they come to Daniel and he's out there away
from Ebercanezzer, and Daniel says, hey, wait, you know I
think that I can I can be able to interpret
this dream for you, Ebercanezer, or he tells the whatever
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it was like, the the guy on the horse. He
tells the guy on the horse to go back to
Ebercnezzer and say, hey, stop killing people, and I want
to help him interpret this dream. Well what happened was
Daniel goes to sleep and then he gets a premonition
from God or an angel or whatever you want to
interpret that to be. And he says, you know, take
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me to Eberkenezer because I'm going to be able to
help him. And so Daniel ells ever Canezer that you
should not interpret this dream, and you should know the
thoughts of your heart. So when it comes to dream
work and interpreting dreams, it's really an internal process, right.
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And this is what I have a lot of trouble with.
When I go and I read the Holy books, and
I read all of them. I don't need anyone to
interpret the word of God for me. Those codes are
laid and it's from a felt sense. Right. So Daniel
and Daniel two in the Bible, goes and tells ever
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Canezer that you should know the thoughts of your heart
with this dream. It should not be keeping you awake.
But you know what, let me see what I could do.
So then Daniel goes to sleep and he gets this
premonition and he says, okay, you know, God or the
Angel they spoke to me, and so now I need
to speak to you. And so he goes down and
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he interprets the dream that ever Canezer has. And what's
interesting is the dream And just to give you like
a summary, ever Canezer he dreams of this statue and
it was a large statue, and it was a head
of gold, It had a chest in arms of silver,
it had belly. The belly and the thighs were bronze,
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and the legs of iron, and the feet of this
statue were mixed with clay and iron together. And so
he has this dream of this statue and all these
different parts of gold and silver and bronze and iron
and clay, and this is what's been disrupting him for nights,
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and he's killing people in the Roman Empire to be
able to interpret the dreams. But what I want to
tell you today on Beyond Mindset Limits is the dream
interpretation is an inside game. It's an inside game. And
I'm going to give you on the second half of
our show, the framework, because there are frameworks for everything.
I'm going to give you the framework in order to
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interpret your own dreams and then take you down through
a dream analysis so you can have this so play
it back and then you could get out all the
nuggets here to help with your dreams. So dreams, you know,
they are a process. Dreams are messages from the subconscious mind.
That's why as a clinical hypnotherapist, I love working with
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the subconscious mind because I've been able to rewire all
those negative aspects of my thinking and what I made
meaning of by rewiring the subconscious mind, and dreams are
messages from the subconscious mind. Dreams process emotions that we suppress.
They process experiences that we haven't integrated, and they process
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desires that we haven't owned. The subconscious speaks and symbols
in metaphors, in emotion and not logic. So dreams come
here to help us. So even in the Holy books
they're talking about dreams and how important dreams are. But
again taking you back to it being an inside process.
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Your mind speaks in words when you're awake, but in
symbols when you're asleep. And some people come to me
and they're like, Titha, I don't dream. Everybody dreams. I
just need to let you know everybody dreams. And so
we're going to set the scene on the second half
on how to be more aware of your dreams and
what frameworks I can help you with. But I want
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you to know that I've read all the books. One
of the best dream coaches out there is Kelly Sullivan
Walden out in the La Basin. She wrote a book
called Dreamifesting. I studied under her for two and a
half years. There's a book by Walter Barry, Drawn Into
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a Dream that helps with dream interpretation. There's this fantastic
book by Patricia Garfield. She's a PhD. She's the author
of the Healing Power of Dreams. But she did a
book called Creative Dreaming. And what was special about this
book and special about the dreams here is she talks
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about how the Native Americans use and interpret dreams, and
they said that the dreamer was to contact the supernatural
spirits and gain power from their dreams. And there was
one story that she talked about where the Native American
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people there was a boy coming of age and he
was like sixteen or whatever, and the elder said, Okay,
you're going to go into the woods and you're going
to stay in the woods with no food and no
drink for what however long it's going to take, and
we are going to wait for you to have a dream,
a premonition. It was kind of like a primitive psychotherapy
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that then Native Americans practiced, And we're going to wait
there and you are not to come out until you
have a dream there. And this the book tells about
this one particular story how the boy was sixteen and
he stayed there for like twenty three nights and he
didn't drink or he didn't eat, which was fasting. Right,
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there's a lot of power in fasting as well. But
the boy fast and he finally, after some odd nights,
I think it was like twenty three nights, gets a
premonition from his dream that he was to go back
and he was to build whatever. Right. But Patricia Garfield,
she's a doctor in dreams and creative dreaming and the
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healing power of dreams. Her book is fantastic, so so
looking at those books. There's also a book by Jeff
Nielsen Dreaming in Church, right, because I thought, wow, how
is it related to church? How is it related to scriptures?
Dreams are everywhere? What are you doing your are are
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you in your waking dream? Or are you in your
sleeping dream? You know? They go We go back in
psychotherapy and we look at the different stages of going
in and down through dreams. And the first stage is
like the drift off dream dream state, where you're just
drifting off your your body and your mind travel in
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and out of consciousness. You slowly start beginning to unwind
and wind down from the day, and something inside you
starts to drift off dreaming, and then suddenly you jerk
yourself back to awake. That's like the drift off state.
Then the second stage is you go into a light
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step sleep, and that's about fifty percent of sleeping hours
or in this light sleep. The third stage is you
go into deep sleep. That's the slow wave or the
delta sleep. So we move from fada consciousness to a
delta consciousness. And this is when our body is restored.
It's when our cells start to repair. That's why deep
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sleep and sleeping is so important for health and rejuvenation.
And then the fourth stage of sleep and dreams is
the rapid eye movement rem and we have four to
five RIM cycles per night, right, so we go down.
Babies spend about fifty percent of their time in RIM sleep,
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and adults spend about twenty to twenty five percent of
their sleeping in that RIM sleep. Our our em dreams
are vivid and story like, and this is when most
of our remembered dreams occurred, is in this stage four,
this deep deep rim sleep. So during rim sleep, our
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breath and our heart ray rises. Our brain resembles an
awake type brain if we were under some side of
testing equipment. So the first RIM cycle lasts about ten
minutes and takes about ninety minutes after falling asleep, and
then each rim stage is longer, and finally you go
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into it and once you're into sleep for about an hour.
So what are dreams? What are they really? That's what
you need to know. What are dreams? And so Kelly
Sullivan Walden speaks about dreams being the royal road to
the unconscious mind, and that's according to Freud too, but
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she speaks about it. It's a visual representation of what
we are feeling. That's what your dreams are. Dreams are
equal part psychological and equal part neurological. Dreams are a
reflection of our waking circumstances. Dreams are acting out our
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innermost desires, our struggles, our deepest desires, and our deepest,
deepest wishes. They're dreams sharpened problem solving skills, and they
respond to heighten activity in the cortex of the brain.
The cortex is the outer layer of the brain that
does the brain's processing. Mystisia Mariy Kane has a dual
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processor because it's it's off the hook. I can think
very quickly and process and get it out, and I
have very vivid lucid dreams every single night, so the
cortex creates a conscious like experience, simulates familiar people and
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circumstances with your life. These experience can translate to images, thoughts, emotions,
and even sensation. And so why do we dream? What's
the psychology behind it? Dreams are brain's way of sorting
through information. So dreams are huge. The power of dreams
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are huge because you're sorting through this information. They help
the body rest and refreshed. They dreams help you feel emotions.
It helps you feel those emotions that you're suppressing. They
help with memory consolidation. They sort through what information to
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keep you active and not forgetting. They're the ultimate stimulator,
like a virtual reality going on in the brain, like
a flight simulator or something like that. And it's a
rehearsal for real life in the dream state. Dreams offer
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a consequence free zone for the brain to practice social
and behavioral strategies. This is interesting, right. The brain through
dreams simulates our social reality so that we can better
navigate interactions, situations, navigate through threats, navigate our relationships in
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our waking life. And so it's important that we do dream.
And if you want to be a better dreamer. We
can help you with that too. Everybody dreams, So let's
talk real quick about the history of dreams. It goes
way back like it goes way back, way back to
Plato and four twenty seven BC, and he said, even
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good men dream of uncontrolled actions, which could be about
crime or guilt, or committing things that you're not supposed
to be doing. Even good men dream about that. Plato
said that Aristotle talked about dreams being able to predict
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your future events. Goes back to Greece and how dreams
are medicine for you. Sigmund Freud and Carl Jung, they
pioneered the modern approach to use dreams in therapy. Sigmund
Freud characterized dreams and desires all the time like they
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they said that dreaming was so so important. And Carl
Jung followed in Sigmund Freud's footsteps, but he broke away from,
you know, the erogenist type thinking in dreams and went
off and said that dreams are more individualized and they're
more from an exploration type of mindset. So why did
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dreams matter? Right? Nightmares often represent fear that needs to
be acknowledged. Trauma seeking release, boundaries being violated, and the
truth you're avoiding dreams. Dreams show us things. The intensity
of a dream is the importance of a message. So
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if you wake up and they're like, oh my gosh,
this dream was, it's it's never going to leave. It's
like replaying in my mind like Abercanazzer, like he went
out and started killing people because this dream disrupted his sleep,
night in and night out. That is importance of the message.
There is a message there, and you reach out to me.
Because I'm a dream work practitioner coach, I can take
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you down through the framework to be able to interpret
these dreams. What's for you? I am just facilitating. I'm
just facilitating you down through your dream helping you interpret
your dreams. I don't, but that's why there's coaches, right,
That's why coaches need coaches. I have a coach, right
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because sometimes my anybody crappy committee gets in the way
and my mind is like, okay, what if it doesn't
work out? But what if it does? Right, So my
coach like reframes things for me. So it's important to
know that dreams are here to help us. Dreams are huge,
Dreams are are even the bad ones are good for you, right,
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Even the bad ones are here to teach you or
show you what you need to know or what you're
missing in your life. And throughout history there's been tons
of famous dreams, right, famous famous dreams. People have had
dreams that like Thomas Edison, he dreamed of an electricity
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powered lamp. He had a dream and then guess what,
now we have light bulbs. Right. Albert Einstein ascribed the
theory of relativity in a dream that he had as
a boy. It's crazy when we go back. People have
got these premonitions and everything from dreams, and it relates
back to history and how dreams help us. Bob Dylan
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composed to music from his dreams. Was that great? And
then Paul McCarty praised his dreams for the song Yesterday.
He said, I wrote this song from my dream. This
is so good. So dreams are here to help us,
even the negative ones. The intensity of the dream equals
the importance of the message. The darker the dream, the
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louder your soul is trying to get your attention. So
if you're deeply affected by the dream, then you need
to find a dream work practitioner coach like me. If
you're deeply affected by that, right examples like being chased,
then you're avoiding something in your waking life. Losing a child,
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We'll talk about that, fear, a loss of control, falling,
lack of stability, lack of trust, all of those. So
when we come back, we're going to come back soon
from the break, and I'm gonna go down through to
how to help you interpret your dreams and we'll all
give you step by step on what that looks like.
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But dreams come from way back when in the Bible times, right,
And so I'm gonna teach you ten techniques to enhance
your dream Recall people say I don't dream, Yes, you do.
Everybody dreams. So we're gonna get ready to go to break.
And this is Tisha Marie Kane. I'm with Beyond Mindset Limits.
Today we're talking about the power of your dreams and
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how dreams can help you in your waking life. So
stay tuned. We're going to go to break right now.
I'll see you back in here in a few minutes.
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And we are back with Beyond mindset Limits. I am
Tisha Marie kin I do all things, and today we're
talking about the power of dreams. You can go to
my website www. Dot Tisha Marie kinecai in dot com
and you can look at all the things I have there.
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You can schedule an appointment with me. If you have
a dream that needs to be interpreted and it's just
been driving you absolutely cuckoo for cocoa puffs, I would
love to be able to help you interpret it and
go down through this framework. I'm a dreamwork practitioner coach.
I help you interpret your dreams, and so I'm a
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coach to stand by the sidelines and walk you through
the framework in order to get what you need to
get out of these dreams. So, if the dream is
so intense, like we talked about before the break, the
intensity of the dream is the importance of the message.
The darker the dream, the louder your soul is trying
to get your attention. So dreams don't come to confuse you.
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They come to reveal things to you, so know that.
So I want to talk about a dream that I
had last year, and one of the frameworks, one of
the techniques that I use. I'll take you down so
you can quickly jot these down. But one of the
techniques that I use is I don't move a single
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muscle when I wake up, and I'm like, okay, did
I have a dream? Right? And then I have a
dream journal, And I want to take you down through
this framework. But first I'm going to tell you about
this dream that I had. So I was Innesta, and
I was there with my husband and my baby, and
we were all ready to get on a whitewater rapids raft.
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My husband and I had our own canoe, and my
son had his own canoe, and he had that canoe
tied to the dock, and he proceeded to get in.
And as he was getting in his canoe, my husband
and I were getting settled into our own canoe and
waiting for the sun to rise before we took off.
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Canoeing down this whitewater river. And as I sat down,
I looked back over my shoulder to check on my son,
and he was already in his canoe in the water,
swimming in the water, in his canoe in the water,
and he let go of the dock, and then all
of a sudden, he jumped over the side of the
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canoe and it was swimming next to it, and he
had his life jacket on, and I in the dream,
I asked, why are you in the water, because we're
waiting for the sun to come up before we start
canoeing down this white water. Why Son, are you in
the water already? And he said, well, you were getting
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ready to go canoeing, and I was just waiting for
the sun too, But I wanted to go swimming. So
just as he said that, he goes, I wanted to
go swimming. And just as he said that, he slipped
under the water with his life jacket, and he was
under the water, and I hesitated for a moment, and
then I reached for him because I was waiting for
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him to come back up because of his life jacket,
and I could see him under the water, and I
reached in and once I realized he wasn't coming back up.
I reached in to grab him and I couldn't find
him under the white, rushy water. And I woke up.
And I tell you, when I woke up, I was deeply,
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deeply affected by this dream because I thought that my
son had died in this dream. And so what I
did was I went down through this framework. And the
framework is very very simple, is I looked at just
the facts. Okay, we my little son was in his
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own canoe. I was in my own canoe. My husband
and I were getting in our own canoe. He was
getting in the sun, was getting in his canoe. He
had a life jacket on. I looked at the facts.
I looked like he, you know, his own personal power.
He wanted to go swimming. I looked at all the
facts there, and then I looked at the emotions upon waking.
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So I looked at the facts. That's number one, and
I looked at the emotions upon waking, and the emotions
I was frantic. I was like, my baby's son, he's
my last born. I have four children. He's my last
born and he just drowned in this dream. I was
so affected, like this baby can't die. Right, So I
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was so effective. I'm like, what is this dream trying
to tell me? I looked at those emotions. The emotions
were sadness and fear and phrenetic energy wrapped around that.
And then if I could give this dream a title,
what could I give this dream a title? And I
looked at the title would be the white Water Rapids
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going on my own. So I was like, okay, going
on my own. And then if I could give this
dream a subtitle, what what would I give it? So,
white water rapids. So if I give this dream a
title and a subtitle like a movie white Rapid, White
Rapids going on my own, I'll see you on the
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other side or something like that. Right, So I gave
the dream a title, and then I looked at the
symbols and what symbols were most important in this dream.
The symbols was the canoe. The symbols was the life jacket.
The symbol was me reaching in in the white rapids
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and then not being able to grab my son. These
are all symbols that had a strong charge to them
as I went and looked back over the dream. Right,
So when I'm looking at these symbols, I'm like, okay,
the canoe, the life jacket. And so what I did,
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and what's most important is I started to go down
that symbol. So I embodied. I chose one dream symbol.
And I recommend that you choose a symbol that is
confusing or difficult or bizarre, and allow your thinking mine
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to take a back seat, and your intuition and your
feeling sensibilities to take a front seat. And I want
you to feel into the energy of that symbol and
so allow yourself to breathe in. So what I did
is I allowed myself the symbol was this life jacket?
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Why would this life jacket not save my son? Right?
And then I looked at my son, and so I
stepped down, and I breathed in and dropped into the
life jacket. And when I connected to it, I started
to journal out what that life jacket wanted me to see,
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what that life jacket wanted me to feel. Wanted that
life jacket, what did it wanted me to notice? And
so I started asking the question, what is the message
here for me? What do you want me to know?
And my gosh, it changed my whole entire perspective. And
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so I took that symbol and I embodied it. And
then I embodied the symbol what life, So the life jacket.
So I stepped inside the life jacket and what I'm
trying to tell you? So for a moment, I became
the life jacket. Okay, what do you need me to know?
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What are you here to tell me? And so the
life jacket said to me. And it's kind of delusional
and cuckoo, but this is how we interpret dreams. We
step into it, right, So I think ever Canezer did
himself a disservice by having Daniel interpret the dream for us.
We can interpret these dreams on our own. Step into
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the symbol, the symbol that's highly charged within your dream,
and embody it. So I stepped into this life jacket,
and I tell you this dream, the Whitewater Rapid dream
deeply affected me, but as a dream work practitioner coach,
it only affected me for about two hours until I
can work through the dream and pull these symbols apart
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and embody it. And of course we can. We can
spend hours on a dream, right, We can spend hours
going through each symbol and embodying it and telling telling
us what the dream, what the symbol really means to us.
And so what I did was this, Okay, I am
the life jacket. What do you want me to know? Okay,
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I'm always going to keep you safe. Life jackets never fail.
You put me on your son to keep him safe.
I will pop up at the end of the whitewater rapids.
I will pop up. I'm there to keep you safe.
You're the parent. You did the best you could. He
was on his own canoe because he's a strong willed
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child and he didn't want to go with you on
your own canoe with your husband. He wanted his own
canoe because he was old enough and he could do
it on his own because he had practiced before. And
so as the life jacket, you know me, You know
I was going to keep your son safe. And he
will pop up at the end. He will pop up
at the end of this river. Just give me a chance.
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Where else are you not giving yourself a chance? And
right there in the middle of that dream unfolded everything
at my life at that moment in time, because I
Tisha Marie Kane, I was getting ready to kick off
another business and I was like, Okay, what if it
doesn't work? What if all this negative talk, and this
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dream was like, give yourself a chance? What if it does?
What if it does work out? And that's why I
practice NLP in my everyday, waking life, my sleeping life,
NLP neuro linguistic programming using the right words, what if
it does work out? Why aren't you giving me a
chance to pop up at the end of this white rapids?
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And so I got all of that information from the dream,
from that moment in time where I embodied that dream
symbol of that life jacket, And so the life jacket
became a metaphor for my life. Where are you not
giving yourself a chance? Where are you not allowing yourself
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to pop up at the end. Why don't you just
let it take its course? Oh? Interesting, right, Why don't
you just let it take its course and see what unfolds.
It might be so beautiful on the other end, but
you're not even giving me a chance. You've already committed
your son to drowning, and you've done the best you
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could with what you know. You put a life jacket,
You put me on your son to protect him, to
set him up for success, and you're not even giving
me a chance to pop up at the end of
this river. I was like, holy Moly, mine blown. This
whole dream unraveled. And then guess what. Then? What I
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did is I took myself and I embodied the canoe.
So I pulled out another dream symbol. What does the
canoe represent? Okay, So here I was. My son was
already getting in his canoe. I am the canoe. I'm
here holding your son another safety measure. Right, You just
didn't throw your son into the rapids. You gave him
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a canoe. Great, and you gave him a life jacket. Great.
And then I started unweaving that in my life, like, okay, great.
So I just didn't throw my son in the white
rapids in this dream. I gave him a canoe. I
set him up for success. I gave him a life jacket.
I set him up for success. And then, if you
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remember my dream, my son in my dream jumped out
of the canoe, which is relevant to him being a
very strong willed child. He's ordered off of a menu
in a restaurant by himself since he was four years old.
This child knows exactly what he wants at every given
part of the day. And interesting from a mother who's
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a stern, disciplinarian, and very regimented in my daily practices.
I have a son who is strong willed and wants
to do life on his own terms. And it's great.
It's me learning to give him the freedom to go
ahead and do that. So this dream, okay, cool. The
symbol was the canoe. I set him up another safety measure, canoe,
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tell me what do you want me to know? Hey,
I'm always there tied to the doc anytime you need
solstice or you need a place to go, I'm here
for you. I'm here for your son, I'm here for
your family. You love canoeing, and I do. Right. So
the canoe started talking to me, and I started embodying
this dream symbol. Do you want me to know? What
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is your message for me?
Speaker 1 (40:03):
Right?
Speaker 2 (40:04):
And so I looked at each part of that, and
then I took it a step further because I really
was affected by this dream. I took it a step
further and I embodied my son. So I'm like, okay,
I am landing inside this dream. What does Landon want
me to know? And he goes like this in my
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dream and I stood there and this was a meditative practice, right,
So it's getting quiet understanding. Label this out, journal it
out all your dream symbols, the ones that have the
high charge. So for me, the life jacket was a
high charge. The canoe was a high charge. Then my
son being in there was a high charge. Interesting, my
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husband wasn't a high charge because it's like he's always
with me, and I expected that he would be there,
so there wasn't any phrenetic energy around that. Just the
fact that I always have support was a blessing. You
know that I could see in my dream that my
husband again, he's there in my waking life supporting me,
and he obviously shows up in my dream life to
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support me. So I thought that was fantastic to know, right,
And so I embodied landing. I'm like, Okay, if I'm
landing in this dream, I have this canoe, I have
this life jacket, but I just want to go swimming, Mommy,
I just want to go swimming. And so I jump
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into the water and I'm bobbing there with my laught
life jacket, and then I jumped and swam under the water. Mommy,
I can see your hand reaching to me. I didn't
grab your hand because I knew that you would catch
up with me at the end of this white rapids.
You would be at the end and we could catch
up over there. I didn't drown, mom, I was just
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swimming doing my own thing. And I thought, Holy Molly,
this dream really had some messages for me. My son
wants to do things on his own way, on his
own terms, in his own play of this game of life. Right,
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and a couple shows ago, I talked about the game
of life. We're just in a game. We're playing this game.
So I really had some comprehension around my son and
him wanting to do life on his own terms in
this dream. So what seemingly would have been a dark
dream that would have affected me for weeks once I
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pulled it apart, had some really good nuggets for me
to transform my life. And then mss Tisha Marie Kane style,
I took it a step further. And I'm an artist.
I'm a published art artist. I work in my artistry
every night. If I'm not doing art, I'm mad and
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I'm mean, and I'm great. So I'm an artist, right,
And so I wanted to paint this stream. I wanted
to paint the right white rapids, but this time I
wanted to paint landing inside the canoe. So I spent
hours painting this canvas where the trees were there and
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the white rapids were rushing over the water, and my
husband and I were in a canoe and I painted
landing in the freaking canoe because I was like, my
son is not going to be drowning on my watch,
you know, because I guess any normal person would say,
oh my god, you had you had a dream about
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your son drowning. You better not let him swim ever again, right,
I think I would have said that about ten years ago,
like this stream was a premonition, we better not go swimming.
And that was further from the truth. Once you get
education and you and you learn up what you need
to know about dream interpretation, and there's many there's the
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there's dream societies and dream work festivals and things like
that that you can attend because you can work a
dream forever. And so luckily I for this particular dream,
I just work those three symbols, and then I was
able to soothe my mommy heart because I was like,
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oh my gosh, like my mommy heart could never let
my son drown, right, Like, why did this dream show
itself to me, and so I was able to go
back through and go down through the framework to embody
those symbols. And then the last thing is what could
I do to honor this dream? Right, so part of
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the framework is how do I honor this stream in
my waking life where it could have been something that
I would have in the past maybe not allowed him
to ever or going to white rapids in a canoe?
But what can I do to honor this dream? Well
the dream, what did the life jacket tell me? What
did the canoe tell me? What did my son tell
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me in the dream? In my waking life? And so
we get to we get to finish out. Even though
our dream stopped and I woke up because he had
drowned in our dream state, in our waking state, we
can finish the dream. Just like I often talk about
my office in Las Vegas. I have an office in California.
I have a quantum healing clinical hypnotherapy office in Las Vegas,
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And I often talk about going back and forth, and
I just lost my train of thought, but talk about
finishing up our dream and finishing that out and seeing
it to its end in our waking life, we can
continue on with what we want that to be, with
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what we think we want it to be, and really
bring up that scene and that picture life. Okay, my
office in both states are going to be thriving, and
that's what my waking dream is about. Right, So looking
at this, and how can I honor the dream? Okay?
My son wanted to tell me, Mommy, I wanted to
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do life on my own terms. Okay, cool. So then
how I honored this dream in the next two weeks
was okay, Okay, I don't want to finish all of
my peas on my plate. Okay, cool. Guess what, buddy,
You're not going to have to finish all your peas
on your plate, right, not tonight, because I'm honoring the
dream that I had about him just really stepping up
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in his own sovereignty and his own way of being
in his life. Right. So that's how I worked out
the dream. First the facts, and then what were the
emotions coming out of the dream. And then if you
can give the dream a title or a subtitle, and
then you pull out the symbols of a dream, and
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then you embody those symbols in your waking life and
really go in deep and embody, each of the symbols
that have those high phrenetic energy, and the last things
is tangible. How do you take it to the streets
and honor this dream? What can you do in your
waking life to honor the dream? And dream work? Practitioner
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work and dream interpretation is a real thing. I mean,
this changed my life. So let me give you some
ten techniques to enhance your dream. Recall one. Before you
go to bed, set a strong intention. Hey, I want
to dream tonight. I'm hoping to have some amazing dreams.
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I want a permonition. I want you God, Universe, Spirit, Allah, Jesus, Christ, Buddha, Krishna,
all the descended masters. I want a premonition on how
I'd like to know grow my business, whatever that is.
So set a strong intention and then you know, you
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could take some some enhancement vitamins. B six is very
good for dream dream Recall B six. And this is
not medical advice because I am not I don't have MD.
I don't have MD. At the end of my name,
I'm not that kind of doctor. Of my juris doctor JD.
But I'm not that kind of doctor. But B six
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is really good. I know that enhanced my recall on
dream dreams. Meditation, prayer is really good to close the
gap and then ask the right questions. Often people don't
remember their dreams because the first question out of their
mind is what do I have to do today? Or
the moment they wake up right, and so that leads
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to your brain waves going from theta to delta and
then beta, and then you're awake, and then you don't
even get any resolution like did I even have a dream?
So I ask the right questions like what was I
just dreaming about? And then the next thing is don't
move a muscle when you wake up in the morning.
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Just simply open up your eyes and come into the
room and come all of your consciousness back into your
body and open up your eyes and say did I
have a dream? And then go down. Don't move a muscle.
And so as you lie on that bridge between a
sleep and awake after a night spent journaling throughout the
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multi dimensional dreamscape, don't move at all. Remain in the
position that you were in while you were dreaming. Your
body's position that the blanket right, how your pillow was.
Don't move and if you move, your dreams will likely evaporate,
so don't move and then rewind, replay, and review. So
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before getting out of bed, press the rewind button in
your mind and replay your dream at least three times
before you get out of bed. Don't assume that just
because you've been able to recall your dream while laying
down in your sleep position, that you'll recall it once
you move your body, because you sometimes I don't. Your
dreams take place in the part of the brain where
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short term memory is located. So within that five minutes
after the end of your last dream, half the context
is gone, and after only ten minutes, ninety percent is lost.
So you need to transfer your dream from your short
term to your long term memory. So you have to
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review it several times in your mind's eye before making
that journey from horizontal to vertical. Right, I love to
get horizontal because I love my dream states. I have
the best dreams, and I really believe that I'm living
out my waking dream every day. And why because I
set that intention. I set the intention every day to
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live out my waking and sleeping dreams. Is so beautiful,
except a few years ago when I had this dream
about the Whitewater Rapids and my son, you know, going
under the water. And I've even changed my language now
before too, right, because I just said my son going
under the water, And if you would have heard me
tell the dream, I would have said he died, right,
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and looking at that dream differently now because that dream
changed my life. Snooze moves, and yeah, the snooze is huge.
If the alarm goes off, Snooze is your best friend.
Snooze it go back into dream state. And then if
you want, like I held, I had a dream journal
right next to my bed, I would journal. Or you
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can even use your phone and you can push record
and just talk into your phone tell me your dreams.
And I did this for like two months straight. I
recorded all of my dreams in my phone. I just
talked him out before I even got out of bed.
And then I took all of those dreams and I
threw them into AI and said, give me the common
denominator of what my dreams are trying to tell me.
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And my dreams revealed so many magical things for me.
So I hope this dream interpretation has really helped you.
Your dreams are not random. Your unconscious is always working
for you, not against you. Even your darkest dreams are
guiding you back to your light. You don't need to
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fear your inner world, you need to learn how to
listen to it. I am Tisha Marie Kane. This is
beyond mindset Limits. Today we were talking about the power
of dreams and I hope that I helped. So go
to my website www dot Tishamrie Kine c ai In
dot com and scheduled an appointment with me today. I'd
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love to be able to help you interpret your dreams.
You guys have a good day.
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Speaker 2 (00:38):
Hello you guys. We are back for another week of
Beyond Mindset Limits. This is my radio show with Tisha
Marie Kane. You can find me at www dot Tisha
Marie kain ciai dot com. So a little bit about me.
I am an executive counsel, expert mediator, I'm an expert communicator,
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I'm a mindset coach, I'm a clinical hypnotherapist, and i
am a multiple number one best selling international author and artist.
I'm recognized for my work with Fortune five hundred executives,
visionary leaders, and high performing entrepreneurs, guiding them to unlock
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their influence, align with purpose, and create lasting impact. With
my unique blend of legal expertise, leadership strategy, and transformational coaching,
I help individuals and high power organizations rewire the subconscious brain,
release emotional weight, and elevate their relationship with money, power
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and self worth. And this is beyond mindset limits, where
clarity meets confidence and transformation becomes actionable. And I'm really
excited about today's show. I'm always really excited because life
is lifeing me and life gets to be so joyous
and I have gone from happiness to joy to bliss
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and now I'm operating at glee And do you know why?
Because I choose it. I simply make a decision to
live out my waking dream. And with that being said,
today we're talking about dream, the power of dreams and
dream interpretation, and why can't I speak about this today?
I can speak about this because I spent two years
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getting my certificate. Yes, I have all of the letters
behind my name. I have all the certificates. It's quite
annoying from someone looking on the outside, but it dives
deep into my inner child and not feeling worthy and
not feeling good enough, and so I had to hustle
for my worth most of my life until finally, at
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age forty nine, I'm really in stepping into who I
am and I don't need all that anymore. But what
I do want you to understand and know is I
am deeply qualified in a lot of things, and dream
interpretation is one of them. And I studied dreams for
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two years straight to get my certificate, my certificate and
to become a dream work practitioner coach, so I help
people coach with their dreams. So starting with this, the
power of dreams are are It's huge. Even the dark
ones are here to guide us. So I just want
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to walk you through the first half of the show.
I want to walk you through all the things dreams,
and then the second half of the show. What I'd
like you to do is follow me as I interpret
one of my own dreams, and so you can help
interpret your own dreams, whether it be your waking dreams
or your sleeping dreams, they are all here to guide us.
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So I'm wondering, have you ever woken up from a
dream that shook you and wondered, what was this trying
to tell me? What if I told you your dreams
are not random, but they're actually communication. Even your nightmares
are not here to harm you, They're here to help you.
So I have proven authority in this. I have done
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thousands of hours of dream interpretation, I have read hundreds
of books and did you know so historically. I just
want to talk about this for a second. Did you
know that dreams are in the Holy Bibles, the Holy Books?
And specifically I wanted to cover one of the dreams
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in the Holy Books. And this I read the Scriptures.
You can read King James version, you can read other
Holy Bibles. I personally like the Scriptures, the two thousand
and nine edition. And so Daniel too talks about the
dream that ever Knezer had. So dreams are even in
the Bible, right, And so ever Canezer has this dream
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and he says, you know what it's. It's the spirit
is troubling me at night and my sleep is being disrupted,
and I need to have someone help me interpret these dreams.
And so he called Evercanzar calls out to the magicians.
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He calls out to the astrologers, he calls out to
the practicers of witchcraft. This is all in the Bible, folks,
I'm not making it up. So ever Canzer calls out
to the Kasdim. And I don't really know where that
where what the Kasdim is, But who cares at this
point because I'm just talking about dreams. But Ever calls
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out them to the magicians, the astrologers, the practicers of witchcraft,
and the kasdim to help him interpret his dreams, and
nobody could help him. And so he goes, guess what
I'm going to be killing everybody if if people cannot
help me interpret this dream because it's affecting my sleep.
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And so they come upon Daniel out in some little
village or something. I don't know, that's not so funny,
but they come to Daniel and he's out there away
from Ebercanezzer, and Daniel says, hey, wait, you know I
think that I can I can be able to interpret
this dream for you, Ebercanezer, or he tells the whatever
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it was like, the the guy on the horse. He
tells the guy on the horse to go back to
Ebercnezzer and say, hey, stop killing people, and I want
to help him interpret this dream. Well what happened was
Daniel goes to sleep and then he gets a premonition
from God or an angel or whatever you want to
interpret that to be. And he says, you know, take
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me to Eberkenezer because I'm going to be able to
help him. And so Daniel ells ever Canezer that you
should not interpret this dream, and you should know the
thoughts of your heart. So when it comes to dream
work and interpreting dreams, it's really an internal process, right.
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And this is what I have a lot of trouble with.
When I go and I read the Holy books, and
I read all of them. I don't need anyone to
interpret the word of God for me. Those codes are
laid and it's from a felt sense. Right. So Daniel
and Daniel two in the Bible, goes and tells ever
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Canezer that you should know the thoughts of your heart
with this dream. It should not be keeping you awake.
But you know what, let me see what I could do.
So then Daniel goes to sleep and he gets this
premonition and he says, okay, you know, God or the
Angel they spoke to me, and so now I need
to speak to you. And so he goes down and
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he interprets the dream that ever Canezer has. And what's
interesting is the dream And just to give you like
a summary, ever Canezer he dreams of this statue and
it was a large statue, and it was a head
of gold, It had a chest in arms of silver,
it had belly. The belly and the thighs were bronze,
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and the legs of iron, and the feet of this
statue were mixed with clay and iron together. And so
he has this dream of this statue and all these
different parts of gold and silver and bronze and iron
and clay, and this is what's been disrupting him for nights,
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and he's killing people in the Roman Empire to be
able to interpret the dreams. But what I want to
tell you today on Beyond Mindset Limits is the dream
interpretation is an inside game. It's an inside game. And
I'm going to give you on the second half of
our show, the framework, because there are frameworks for everything.
I'm going to give you the framework in order to
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interpret your own dreams and then take you down through
a dream analysis so you can have this so play
it back and then you could get out all the
nuggets here to help with your dreams. So dreams, you know,
they are a process. Dreams are messages from the subconscious mind.
That's why as a clinical hypnotherapist, I love working with
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the subconscious mind because I've been able to rewire all
those negative aspects of my thinking and what I made
meaning of by rewiring the subconscious mind, and dreams are
messages from the subconscious mind. Dreams process emotions that we suppress.
They process experiences that we haven't integrated, and they process
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desires that we haven't owned. The subconscious speaks and symbols
in metaphors, in emotion and not logic. So dreams come
here to help us. So even in the Holy books
they're talking about dreams and how important dreams are. But
again taking you back to it being an inside process.
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Your mind speaks in words when you're awake, but in
symbols when you're asleep. And some people come to me
and they're like, Titha, I don't dream. Everybody dreams. I
just need to let you know everybody dreams. And so
we're going to set the scene on the second half
on how to be more aware of your dreams and
what frameworks I can help you with. But I want
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you to know that I've read all the books. One
of the best dream coaches out there is Kelly Sullivan
Walden out in the La Basin. She wrote a book
called Dreamifesting. I studied under her for two and a
half years. There's a book by Walter Barry, Drawn Into
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a Dream that helps with dream interpretation. There's this fantastic
book by Patricia Garfield. She's a PhD. She's the author
of the Healing Power of Dreams. But she did a
book called Creative Dreaming. And what was special about this
book and special about the dreams here is she talks
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about how the Native Americans use and interpret dreams, and
they said that the dreamer was to contact the supernatural
spirits and gain power from their dreams. And there was
one story that she talked about where the Native American
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people there was a boy coming of age and he
was like sixteen or whatever, and the elder said, Okay,
you're going to go into the woods and you're going
to stay in the woods with no food and no
drink for what however long it's going to take, and
we are going to wait for you to have a dream,
a premonition. It was kind of like a primitive psychotherapy
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that then Native Americans practiced, And we're going to wait
there and you are not to come out until you
have a dream there. And this the book tells about
this one particular story how the boy was sixteen and
he stayed there for like twenty three nights and he
didn't drink or he didn't eat, which was fasting. Right,
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there's a lot of power in fasting as well. But
the boy fast and he finally, after some odd nights,
I think it was like twenty three nights, gets a
premonition from his dream that he was to go back
and he was to build whatever. Right. But Patricia Garfield,
she's a doctor in dreams and creative dreaming and the
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healing power of dreams. Her book is fantastic, so so
looking at those books. There's also a book by Jeff
Nielsen Dreaming in Church, right, because I thought, wow, how
is it related to church? How is it related to scriptures?
Dreams are everywhere? What are you doing your are are
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you in your waking dream? Or are you in your
sleeping dream? You know? They go We go back in
psychotherapy and we look at the different stages of going
in and down through dreams. And the first stage is
like the drift off dream dream state, where you're just
drifting off your your body and your mind travel in
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and out of consciousness. You slowly start beginning to unwind
and wind down from the day, and something inside you
starts to drift off dreaming, and then suddenly you jerk
yourself back to awake. That's like the drift off state.
Then the second stage is you go into a light
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step sleep, and that's about fifty percent of sleeping hours
or in this light sleep. The third stage is you
go into deep sleep. That's the slow wave or the
delta sleep. So we move from fada consciousness to a
delta consciousness. And this is when our body is restored.
It's when our cells start to repair. That's why deep
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sleep and sleeping is so important for health and rejuvenation.
And then the fourth stage of sleep and dreams is
the rapid eye movement rem and we have four to
five RIM cycles per night, right, so we go down.
Babies spend about fifty percent of their time in RIM sleep,
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and adults spend about twenty to twenty five percent of
their sleeping in that RIM sleep. Our our em dreams
are vivid and story like, and this is when most
of our remembered dreams occurred, is in this stage four,
this deep deep rim sleep. So during rim sleep, our
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breath and our heart ray rises. Our brain resembles an
awake type brain if we were under some side of
testing equipment. So the first RIM cycle lasts about ten
minutes and takes about ninety minutes after falling asleep, and
then each rim stage is longer, and finally you go
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into it and once you're into sleep for about an hour.
So what are dreams? What are they really? That's what
you need to know. What are dreams? And so Kelly
Sullivan Walden speaks about dreams being the royal road to
the unconscious mind, and that's according to Freud too, but
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she speaks about it. It's a visual representation of what
we are feeling. That's what your dreams are. Dreams are
equal part psychological and equal part neurological. Dreams are a
reflection of our waking circumstances. Dreams are acting out our
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innermost desires, our struggles, our deepest desires, and our deepest,
deepest wishes. They're dreams sharpened problem solving skills, and they
respond to heighten activity in the cortex of the brain.
The cortex is the outer layer of the brain that
does the brain's processing. Mystisia Mariy Kane has a dual
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processor because it's it's off the hook. I can think
very quickly and process and get it out, and I
have very vivid lucid dreams every single night, so the
cortex creates a conscious like experience, simulates familiar people and
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circumstances with your life. These experience can translate to images, thoughts, emotions,
and even sensation. And so why do we dream? What's
the psychology behind it? Dreams are brain's way of sorting
through information. So dreams are huge. The power of dreams
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are huge because you're sorting through this information. They help
the body rest and refreshed. They dreams help you feel emotions.
It helps you feel those emotions that you're suppressing. They
help with memory consolidation. They sort through what information to
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keep you active and not forgetting. They're the ultimate stimulator,
like a virtual reality going on in the brain, like
a flight simulator or something like that. And it's a
rehearsal for real life in the dream state. Dreams offer
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a consequence free zone for the brain to practice social
and behavioral strategies. This is interesting, right. The brain through
dreams simulates our social reality so that we can better
navigate interactions, situations, navigate through threats, navigate our relationships in
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our waking life. And so it's important that we do dream.
And if you want to be a better dreamer. We
can help you with that too. Everybody dreams, So let's
talk real quick about the history of dreams. It goes
way back like it goes way back, way back to
Plato and four twenty seven BC, and he said, even
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good men dream of uncontrolled actions, which could be about
crime or guilt, or committing things that you're not supposed
to be doing. Even good men dream about that. Plato
said that Aristotle talked about dreams being able to predict
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your future events. Goes back to Greece and how dreams
are medicine for you. Sigmund Freud and Carl Jung, they
pioneered the modern approach to use dreams in therapy. Sigmund
Freud characterized dreams and desires all the time like they
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they said that dreaming was so so important. And Carl
Jung followed in Sigmund Freud's footsteps, but he broke away from,
you know, the erogenist type thinking in dreams and went
off and said that dreams are more individualized and they're
more from an exploration type of mindset. So why did
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dreams matter? Right? Nightmares often represent fear that needs to
be acknowledged. Trauma seeking release, boundaries being violated, and the
truth you're avoiding dreams. Dreams show us things. The intensity
of a dream is the importance of a message. So
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if you wake up and they're like, oh my gosh,
this dream was, it's it's never going to leave. It's
like replaying in my mind like Abercanazzer, like he went
out and started killing people because this dream disrupted his sleep,
night in and night out. That is importance of the message.
There is a message there, and you reach out to me.
Because I'm a dream work practitioner coach, I can take
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you down through the framework to be able to interpret
these dreams. What's for you? I am just facilitating. I'm
just facilitating you down through your dream helping you interpret
your dreams. I don't, but that's why there's coaches, right,
That's why coaches need coaches. I have a coach, right
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because sometimes my anybody crappy committee gets in the way
and my mind is like, okay, what if it doesn't
work out? But what if it does? Right, So my
coach like reframes things for me. So it's important to
know that dreams are here to help us. Dreams are huge,
Dreams are are even the bad ones are good for you, right,
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Even the bad ones are here to teach you or
show you what you need to know or what you're
missing in your life. And throughout history there's been tons
of famous dreams, right, famous famous dreams. People have had
dreams that like Thomas Edison, he dreamed of an electricity
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powered lamp. He had a dream and then guess what,
now we have light bulbs. Right. Albert Einstein ascribed the
theory of relativity in a dream that he had as
a boy. It's crazy when we go back. People have
got these premonitions and everything from dreams, and it relates
back to history and how dreams help us. Bob Dylan
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composed to music from his dreams. Was that great? And
then Paul McCarty praised his dreams for the song Yesterday.
He said, I wrote this song from my dream. This
is so good. So dreams are here to help us,
even the negative ones. The intensity of the dream equals
the importance of the message. The darker the dream, the
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louder your soul is trying to get your attention. So
if you're deeply affected by the dream, then you need
to find a dream work practitioner coach like me. If
you're deeply affected by that, right examples like being chased,
then you're avoiding something in your waking life. Losing a child,
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We'll talk about that, fear, a loss of control, falling,
lack of stability, lack of trust, all of those. So
when we come back, we're going to come back soon
from the break, and I'm gonna go down through to
how to help you interpret your dreams and we'll all
give you step by step on what that looks like.
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But dreams come from way back when in the Bible times, right,
And so I'm gonna teach you ten techniques to enhance
your dream Recall people say I don't dream, Yes, you do.
Everybody dreams. So we're gonna get ready to go to break.
And this is Tisha Marie Kane. I'm with Beyond Mindset Limits.
Today we're talking about the power of your dreams and
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how dreams can help you in your waking life. So
stay tuned. We're going to go to break right now.
I'll see you back in here in a few minutes.
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And we are back with Beyond mindset Limits. I am
Tisha Marie kin I do all things, and today we're
talking about the power of dreams. You can go to
my website www. Dot Tisha Marie kinecai in dot com
and you can look at all the things I have there.
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You can schedule an appointment with me. If you have
a dream that needs to be interpreted and it's just
been driving you absolutely cuckoo for cocoa puffs, I would
love to be able to help you interpret it and
go down through this framework. I'm a dreamwork practitioner coach.
I help you interpret your dreams, and so I'm a
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coach to stand by the sidelines and walk you through
the framework in order to get what you need to
get out of these dreams. So, if the dream is
so intense, like we talked about before the break, the
intensity of the dream is the importance of the message.
The darker the dream, the louder your soul is trying
to get your attention. So dreams don't come to confuse you.
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They come to reveal things to you, so know that.
So I want to talk about a dream that I
had last year, and one of the frameworks, one of
the techniques that I use. I'll take you down so
you can quickly jot these down. But one of the
techniques that I use is I don't move a single
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muscle when I wake up, and I'm like, okay, did
I have a dream? Right? And then I have a
dream journal, And I want to take you down through
this framework. But first I'm going to tell you about
this dream that I had. So I was Innesta, and
I was there with my husband and my baby, and
we were all ready to get on a whitewater rapids raft.
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My husband and I had our own canoe, and my
son had his own canoe, and he had that canoe
tied to the dock, and he proceeded to get in.
And as he was getting in his canoe, my husband
and I were getting settled into our own canoe and
waiting for the sun to rise before we took off.
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Canoeing down this whitewater river. And as I sat down,
I looked back over my shoulder to check on my son,
and he was already in his canoe in the water,
swimming in the water, in his canoe in the water,
and he let go of the dock, and then all
of a sudden, he jumped over the side of the
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canoe and it was swimming next to it, and he
had his life jacket on, and I in the dream,
I asked, why are you in the water, because we're
waiting for the sun to come up before we start
canoeing down this white water. Why Son, are you in
the water already? And he said, well, you were getting
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ready to go canoeing, and I was just waiting for
the sun too, But I wanted to go swimming. So
just as he said that, he goes, I wanted to
go swimming. And just as he said that, he slipped
under the water with his life jacket, and he was
under the water, and I hesitated for a moment, and
then I reached for him because I was waiting for
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him to come back up because of his life jacket,
and I could see him under the water, and I
reached in and once I realized he wasn't coming back up.
I reached in to grab him and I couldn't find
him under the white, rushy water. And I woke up.
And I tell you, when I woke up, I was deeply,
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deeply affected by this dream because I thought that my
son had died in this dream. And so what I
did was I went down through this framework. And the
framework is very very simple, is I looked at just
the facts. Okay, we my little son was in his
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own canoe. I was in my own canoe. My husband
and I were getting in our own canoe. He was
getting in the sun, was getting in his canoe. He
had a life jacket on. I looked at the facts.
I looked like he, you know, his own personal power.
He wanted to go swimming. I looked at all the
facts there, and then I looked at the emotions upon waking.
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So I looked at the facts. That's number one, and
I looked at the emotions upon waking, and the emotions
I was frantic. I was like, my baby's son, he's
my last born. I have four children. He's my last
born and he just drowned in this dream. I was
so affected, like this baby can't die. Right, So I
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was so effective. I'm like, what is this dream trying
to tell me? I looked at those emotions. The emotions
were sadness and fear and phrenetic energy wrapped around that.
And then if I could give this dream a title,
what could I give this dream a title? And I
looked at the title would be the white Water Rapids
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going on my own. So I was like, okay, going
on my own. And then if I could give this
dream a subtitle, what what would I give it? So,
white water rapids. So if I give this dream a
title and a subtitle like a movie white Rapid, White
Rapids going on my own, I'll see you on the
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other side or something like that. Right, So I gave
the dream a title, and then I looked at the
symbols and what symbols were most important in this dream.
The symbols was the canoe. The symbols was the life jacket.
The symbol was me reaching in in the white rapids
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and then not being able to grab my son. These
are all symbols that had a strong charge to them
as I went and looked back over the dream. Right,
So when I'm looking at these symbols, I'm like, okay,
the canoe, the life jacket. And so what I did,
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and what's most important is I started to go down
that symbol. So I embodied. I chose one dream symbol.
And I recommend that you choose a symbol that is
confusing or difficult or bizarre, and allow your thinking mine
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to take a back seat, and your intuition and your
feeling sensibilities to take a front seat. And I want
you to feel into the energy of that symbol and
so allow yourself to breathe in. So what I did
is I allowed myself the symbol was this life jacket?
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Why would this life jacket not save my son? Right?
And then I looked at my son, and so I
stepped down, and I breathed in and dropped into the
life jacket. And when I connected to it, I started
to journal out what that life jacket wanted me to see,
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what that life jacket wanted me to feel. Wanted that
life jacket, what did it wanted me to notice? And
so I started asking the question, what is the message
here for me? What do you want me to know?
And my gosh, it changed my whole entire perspective. And
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so I took that symbol and I embodied it. And
then I embodied the symbol what life, So the life jacket.
So I stepped inside the life jacket and what I'm
trying to tell you? So for a moment, I became
the life jacket. Okay, what do you need me to know?
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What are you here to tell me? And so the
life jacket said to me. And it's kind of delusional
and cuckoo, but this is how we interpret dreams. We
step into it, right, So I think ever Canezer did
himself a disservice by having Daniel interpret the dream for us.
We can interpret these dreams on our own. Step into
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the symbol, the symbol that's highly charged within your dream,
and embody it. So I stepped into this life jacket,
and I tell you this dream, the Whitewater Rapid dream
deeply affected me, but as a dream work practitioner coach,
it only affected me for about two hours until I
can work through the dream and pull these symbols apart
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and embody it. And of course we can. We can
spend hours on a dream, right, We can spend hours
going through each symbol and embodying it and telling telling
us what the dream, what the symbol really means to us.
And so what I did was this, Okay, I am
the life jacket. What do you want me to know? Okay,
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I'm always going to keep you safe. Life jackets never fail.
You put me on your son to keep him safe.
I will pop up at the end of the whitewater rapids.
I will pop up. I'm there to keep you safe.
You're the parent. You did the best you could. He
was on his own canoe because he's a strong willed
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child and he didn't want to go with you on
your own canoe with your husband. He wanted his own
canoe because he was old enough and he could do
it on his own because he had practiced before. And
so as the life jacket, you know me, You know
I was going to keep your son safe. And he
will pop up at the end. He will pop up
at the end of this river. Just give me a chance.
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Where else are you not giving yourself a chance? And
right there in the middle of that dream unfolded everything
at my life at that moment in time, because I
Tisha Marie Kane, I was getting ready to kick off
another business and I was like, Okay, what if it
doesn't work? What if all this negative talk, and this
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dream was like, give yourself a chance? What if it does?
What if it does work out? And that's why I
practice NLP in my everyday, waking life, my sleeping life,
NLP neuro linguistic programming using the right words, what if
it does work out? Why aren't you giving me a
chance to pop up at the end of this white rapids?
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And so I got all of that information from the dream,
from that moment in time where I embodied that dream
symbol of that life jacket, And so the life jacket
became a metaphor for my life. Where are you not
giving yourself a chance? Where are you not allowing yourself
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to pop up at the end. Why don't you just
let it take its course? Oh? Interesting, right, Why don't
you just let it take its course and see what unfolds.
It might be so beautiful on the other end, but
you're not even giving me a chance. You've already committed
your son to drowning, and you've done the best you
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could with what you know. You put a life jacket,
You put me on your son to protect him, to
set him up for success, and you're not even giving
me a chance to pop up at the end of
this river. I was like, holy Moly, mine blown. This
whole dream unraveled. And then guess what. Then? What I
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did is I took myself and I embodied the canoe.
So I pulled out another dream symbol. What does the
canoe represent? Okay, So here I was. My son was
already getting in his canoe. I am the canoe. I'm
here holding your son another safety measure. Right, You just
didn't throw your son into the rapids. You gave him
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a canoe. Great, and you gave him a life jacket. Great.
And then I started unweaving that in my life, like, okay, great.
So I just didn't throw my son in the white
rapids in this dream. I gave him a canoe. I
set him up for success. I gave him a life jacket.
I set him up for success. And then, if you
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remember my dream, my son in my dream jumped out
of the canoe, which is relevant to him being a
very strong willed child. He's ordered off of a menu
in a restaurant by himself since he was four years old.
This child knows exactly what he wants at every given
part of the day. And interesting from a mother who's
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a stern, disciplinarian, and very regimented in my daily practices.
I have a son who is strong willed and wants
to do life on his own terms. And it's great.
It's me learning to give him the freedom to go
ahead and do that. So this dream, okay, cool. The
symbol was the canoe. I set him up another safety measure, canoe,
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tell me what do you want me to know? Hey,
I'm always there tied to the doc anytime you need
solstice or you need a place to go, I'm here
for you. I'm here for your son, I'm here for
your family. You love canoeing, and I do. Right. So
the canoe started talking to me, and I started embodying
this dream symbol. Do you want me to know? What
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is your message for me?
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Right?
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And so I looked at each part of that, and
then I took it a step further because I really
was affected by this dream. I took it a step
further and I embodied my son. So I'm like, okay,
I am landing inside this dream. What does Landon want
me to know? And he goes like this in my
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dream and I stood there and this was a meditative practice, right,
So it's getting quiet understanding. Label this out, journal it
out all your dream symbols, the ones that have the
high charge. So for me, the life jacket was a
high charge. The canoe was a high charge. Then my
son being in there was a high charge. Interesting, my
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husband wasn't a high charge because it's like he's always
with me, and I expected that he would be there,
so there wasn't any phrenetic energy around that. Just the
fact that I always have support was a blessing. You
know that I could see in my dream that my
husband again, he's there in my waking life supporting me,
and he obviously shows up in my dream life to
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support me. So I thought that was fantastic to know, right,
And so I embodied landing. I'm like, Okay, if I'm
landing in this dream, I have this canoe, I have
this life jacket, but I just want to go swimming, Mommy,
I just want to go swimming. And so I jump
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into the water and I'm bobbing there with my laught
life jacket, and then I jumped and swam under the water. Mommy,
I can see your hand reaching to me. I didn't
grab your hand because I knew that you would catch
up with me at the end of this white rapids.
You would be at the end and we could catch
up over there. I didn't drown, mom, I was just
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swimming doing my own thing. And I thought, Holy Molly,
this dream really had some messages for me. My son
wants to do things on his own way, on his
own terms, in his own play of this game of life. Right,
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and a couple shows ago, I talked about the game
of life. We're just in a game. We're playing this game.
So I really had some comprehension around my son and
him wanting to do life on his own terms in
this dream. So what seemingly would have been a dark
dream that would have affected me for weeks once I
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pulled it apart, had some really good nuggets for me
to transform my life. And then mss Tisha Marie Kane style,
I took it a step further. And I'm an artist.
I'm a published art artist. I work in my artistry
every night. If I'm not doing art, I'm mad and
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I'm mean, and I'm great. So I'm an artist, right,
And so I wanted to paint this stream. I wanted
to paint the right white rapids, but this time I
wanted to paint landing inside the canoe. So I spent
hours painting this canvas where the trees were there and
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the white rapids were rushing over the water, and my
husband and I were in a canoe and I painted
landing in the freaking canoe because I was like, my
son is not going to be drowning on my watch,
you know, because I guess any normal person would say,
oh my god, you had you had a dream about
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your son drowning. You better not let him swim ever again, right,
I think I would have said that about ten years ago,
like this stream was a premonition, we better not go swimming.
And that was further from the truth. Once you get
education and you and you learn up what you need
to know about dream interpretation, and there's many there's the
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there's dream societies and dream work festivals and things like
that that you can attend because you can work a
dream forever. And so luckily I for this particular dream,
I just work those three symbols, and then I was
able to soothe my mommy heart because I was like,
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oh my gosh, like my mommy heart could never let
my son drown, right, Like, why did this dream show
itself to me, and so I was able to go
back through and go down through the framework to embody
those symbols. And then the last thing is what could
I do to honor this dream? Right, so part of
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the framework is how do I honor this stream in
my waking life where it could have been something that
I would have in the past maybe not allowed him
to ever or going to white rapids in a canoe?
But what can I do to honor this dream? Well
the dream, what did the life jacket tell me? What
did the canoe tell me? What did my son tell
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me in the dream? In my waking life? And so
we get to we get to finish out. Even though
our dream stopped and I woke up because he had
drowned in our dream state, in our waking state, we
can finish the dream. Just like I often talk about
my office in Las Vegas. I have an office in California.
I have a quantum healing clinical hypnotherapy office in Las Vegas,
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And I often talk about going back and forth, and
I just lost my train of thought, but talk about
finishing up our dream and finishing that out and seeing
it to its end in our waking life, we can
continue on with what we want that to be, with
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what we think we want it to be, and really
bring up that scene and that picture life. Okay, my
office in both states are going to be thriving, and
that's what my waking dream is about. Right, So looking
at this, and how can I honor the dream? Okay?
My son wanted to tell me, Mommy, I wanted to
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do life on my own terms. Okay, cool. So then
how I honored this dream in the next two weeks
was okay, Okay, I don't want to finish all of
my peas on my plate. Okay, cool. Guess what, buddy,
You're not going to have to finish all your peas
on your plate, right, not tonight, because I'm honoring the
dream that I had about him just really stepping up
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in his own sovereignty and his own way of being
in his life. Right. So that's how I worked out
the dream. First the facts, and then what were the
emotions coming out of the dream. And then if you
can give the dream a title or a subtitle, and
then you pull out the symbols of a dream, and
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then you embody those symbols in your waking life and
really go in deep and embody, each of the symbols
that have those high phrenetic energy, and the last things
is tangible. How do you take it to the streets
and honor this dream? What can you do in your
waking life to honor the dream? And dream work? Practitioner
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work and dream interpretation is a real thing. I mean,
this changed my life. So let me give you some
ten techniques to enhance your dream. Recall one. Before you
go to bed, set a strong intention. Hey, I want
to dream tonight. I'm hoping to have some amazing dreams.
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I want a permonition. I want you God, Universe, Spirit, Allah, Jesus, Christ, Buddha, Krishna,
all the descended masters. I want a premonition on how
I'd like to know grow my business, whatever that is.
So set a strong intention and then you know, you
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could take some some enhancement vitamins. B six is very
good for dream dream Recall B six. And this is
not medical advice because I am not I don't have MD.
I don't have MD. At the end of my name,
I'm not that kind of doctor. Of my juris doctor JD.
But I'm not that kind of doctor. But B six
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is really good. I know that enhanced my recall on
dream dreams. Meditation, prayer is really good to close the
gap and then ask the right questions. Often people don't
remember their dreams because the first question out of their
mind is what do I have to do today? Or
the moment they wake up right, and so that leads
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to your brain waves going from theta to delta and
then beta, and then you're awake, and then you don't
even get any resolution like did I even have a dream?
So I ask the right questions like what was I
just dreaming about? And then the next thing is don't
move a muscle when you wake up in the morning.
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Just simply open up your eyes and come into the
room and come all of your consciousness back into your
body and open up your eyes and say did I
have a dream? And then go down. Don't move a muscle.
And so as you lie on that bridge between a
sleep and awake after a night spent journaling throughout the
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multi dimensional dreamscape, don't move at all. Remain in the
position that you were in while you were dreaming. Your
body's position that the blanket right, how your pillow was.
Don't move and if you move, your dreams will likely evaporate,
so don't move and then rewind, replay, and review. So
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before getting out of bed, press the rewind button in
your mind and replay your dream at least three times
before you get out of bed. Don't assume that just
because you've been able to recall your dream while laying
down in your sleep position, that you'll recall it once
you move your body, because you sometimes I don't. Your
dreams take place in the part of the brain where
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short term memory is located. So within that five minutes
after the end of your last dream, half the context
is gone, and after only ten minutes, ninety percent is lost.
So you need to transfer your dream from your short
term to your long term memory. So you have to
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review it several times in your mind's eye before making
that journey from horizontal to vertical. Right, I love to
get horizontal because I love my dream states. I have
the best dreams, and I really believe that I'm living
out my waking dream every day. And why because I
set that intention. I set the intention every day to
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live out my waking and sleeping dreams. Is so beautiful,
except a few years ago when I had this dream
about the Whitewater Rapids and my son, you know, going
under the water. And I've even changed my language now
before too, right, because I just said my son going
under the water, And if you would have heard me
tell the dream, I would have said he died, right,
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and looking at that dream differently now because that dream
changed my life. Snooze moves, and yeah, the snooze is huge.
If the alarm goes off, Snooze is your best friend.
Snooze it go back into dream state. And then if
you want, like I held, I had a dream journal
right next to my bed, I would journal. Or you
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can even use your phone and you can push record
and just talk into your phone tell me your dreams.
And I did this for like two months straight. I
recorded all of my dreams in my phone. I just
talked him out before I even got out of bed.
And then I took all of those dreams and I
threw them into AI and said, give me the common
denominator of what my dreams are trying to tell me.
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And my dreams revealed so many magical things for me.
So I hope this dream interpretation has really helped you.
Your dreams are not random. Your unconscious is always working
for you, not against you. Even your darkest dreams are
guiding you back to your light. You don't need to
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fear your inner world, you need to learn how to
listen to it. I am Tisha Marie Kane. This is
beyond mindset Limits. Today we were talking about the power
of dreams and I hope that I helped. So go
to my website www dot Tishamrie Kine c ai In
dot com and scheduled an appointment with me today. I'd
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love to be able to help you interpret your dreams.
You guys have a good day.
Speaker 1 (53:00):
Thank you for joining tisham Marie Kane for Beyond mindset Limits.
Tune in every Wednesday at four pm as a conversation
continues around mindset, legal insight, and publishing as a strategic
tool for business positioning. Visit Tishamricane dot com or Caine's
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