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July 22, 2026 • 27 mins
The Light Up the Shadows book tour begins. On the road to the first stop, why I choose a flashlight, not a spotlight.
Calling Out the Shadows: A Clarity Over Comfort Podcast, Episode 12, with Neal Winsomer.
I recorded this driving to the first stop of the tour. For me it is less about signing books than sitting with people where they are, hearing their stories, and sharing what I have learned. I talk about seeing narcissism as a wide range instead of one label, answering a hard moment with a pause instead of a reaction, and lighting up the shadows carefully, with a flashlight, not a spotlight.


In this episode:
- Why this book tour is personal, not promotional
- Meeting people where they are, and learning as much as I share
- Seeing narcissism as a range, not a label
- Answering a hard moment with a pause
- Lighting up the shadows with a flashlight, not a spotlight
- Writing through a hard health year, and hope on the road
I share this as a father, not an authority. No claims and no diagnoses. What you take from it is yours.


Calling Out the Shadows with Neal Winsomer.
A Clarity Over Comfort Podcast.

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