Amber Kasic – Does Life Go On? - Perfect Life Awakening

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Hello everyone, Thank you so much for being here. Very
excited as always to have an amazing guest today who's
going to talk about all kinds of fascinating things and
she'll talk about how she got where she got. But
before I even introduce her, I want to tell everybody
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that it is. It's the most incredible tool that I've
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All right, Enough about me, I want to introduce my guest,
Amber Kasik, and what I love about her biography that
she sent me is this little quote she said she

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lives a life of endless possibilities and curiosity. I think
that's great. So she is I don't know if she
is or was, an educational consultant. And she had a
transcendent experience during and after her father's passing, and that
gave her clear proof which all of us need at

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least I do, and signs and physical events with no
other possible explanation proving that life continues after death. So
this inspired her journey of spiritual seeking and eventually it
led to accepting her gift of evidential mediumship, and now

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she helps others connect with their own spiritual journey as
well as channeling love and nudges. I like that word
nudges kicks in the butt from those living beyond physical
visible sight. And her greatest desire, which I really love
and I'm sure she's going to get into this is
to serve, inspire and open hearts as a medium and

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end of life coach, which I think is so wonderful.
I'm going to ask a lot of questions about that.
So welcome Amber. I'm so glad you're here.

Speaker 4 (04:17):
Thank you so much. I'm so glad to be here
with you today, Royce and all of your listeners.

Speaker 3 (04:22):
Thanks, And I'm glad we got past all those technical difficulties.
It seems like every week there's something. So tell us
a little bit about how you got started. Tell us
the whole story of what happened in your dad's passing
and all of that so people can understand where you
come from with this. Sure.

Speaker 4 (04:42):
Well, I'm just a very everyday normal person, probably like
many of your listeners who Well, I spent fifteen years
as a classroom teacher, and I'm also a wife and
a mom to a nine year old son. Uh And
it transitioned out of the classroom into more of the

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educational consulting world, but still working with schools, and for me,
teaching and education has always been in my life something
that for me feels like a part of my identity
and not just a job. But all of that really changed.
I was thrown into just lots of transformation during the

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time of my dad's passing. He died of cancer on
November first of twenty twenty on one point one one,
which I know is no accident. And also he passed
during daylight savings time change, so we actually he actually
took his last breath, if you will, during daylight savings
time change, and so we actually weren't sure even what

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time to write on the death certificate. And I only
share that because I find it not only ironic but
also sort of just destined to be, if you will,
written in the stars that it was a way of
just beginning to show me, you know, time is not

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not only how we see it, I'll say. And so
shortly before you passed, about twelve hours before he actually
took his last breath, I experienced a shared death experience
with my dad. I did not know that term. I've,
of course, just as a person, have heard of, you know,

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things like lights going on and off around people's passing
and things like that, But there's actually a research term
called the shared death experience. I'm sure many of your
listeniers have heard of near death experiences. Shared death experiences
are also researched. I'm actually currently a research intern with
a Shared Crossing project because it has been so transformative

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for me, and I want to learn more and support
other people that are finding themselves in these experiences. And basically,
it is an experience that is very profound to an individual,
is often evidential in its own way, but comes with
this feeling of being with someone on their journey of passing,

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and not just because we're at bedside, but because one
is experiencing either what seems like transcendental communication or you're
experiencing things that are beyond logic in our typical five senses,
if you will. And so I had that experience with
my dad but couldn't name it until about a year after.

(07:45):
Would you like me to go into that now, I
know I've been talking about it.

Speaker 3 (07:48):
Definitely, I'd love to hear all the details about that. Definitely.

Speaker 4 (07:52):
All right, Well, he passed it home. We were still
lucky in hospice. I had just had no idea why
an angel gift hospice carriers. So he was at home,
we had a hospice bed in the living room, and
I had really been spending that entire week of his
passing at my parents' house. And it was in the
middle of the afternoon, you know, three o'clockish, and I

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was laying next to him in the recliner and he
and his hospice bed, and I was holding his hand,
of course, and he had already been unconscious for two days,
so I had already had my last conversation with my dad,
you know. But at these times, time really slows down,
and anyone that has been in that journey with someone
will understand that time becomes so different in the world

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as just getting smaller and smaller, both for the person
passing but also the people that are there. And I
remember noticing every TikTok of the clock on the wall
and realizing that now we're down into minutes and hours
and that sort of thing of my dad's life. And
in that moment, it was just a moment of great pain,

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because of course I was having all the thoughts of
what I just described, also that you know, I would
never hear my dad's voice again, he would never see
his grandson, you know, as he gets older and playing
sports and all of this kind of thing. I was
thinking about things that were just left unsaid and undone,

(09:21):
even though I really gave my whole heart toward his passing.
Around just forgiveness and shared love and all of that.
And in that moment of pain, I don't even think
it was a choice. Fully, I just sort of stopped
thinking because thinking was painful, but in full presence, being

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fully present in the now, he was still my dead
In the now, there's just all this beauty and love,
and even though we're not communicating, I know and I
feel that I'm with him. And so I was becoming
fully present and just focused on unconditional love. And in

(10:06):
that state of surrender and unconditional love, I experienced something
that I could only describe as not of me and
nothing that I have ever in my life even kind
of experienced before. And that began with, of course, my
eyes were closed, I'm holding my father's hand. I've sort

(10:28):
of just seen purples, swirls of purple in my mind's
vision all of a sudden, and that's not something I've
ever seen before. But I didn't think that much of it,
other than just noticing it. And then I felt this
warmth sort of start at the crown of my head
and slowly go down my body fully all the way
to my toes, and sort of this tingly warmth that

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was slowly moving through me, which I noticed, and I
remember thinking, Oh, that must be the sun coming in
the window and just kind of playing tricks on me.
But then I felt with full clarity what I can
only describe as a force, And it was sort of

(11:10):
like a whoosh, this wind, but not wind, because it
wasn't against my skin. It was internal. And this force,
this whoosh, came directly in my upper back, and I
felt it. It was right here in my being, in
my body, in the center of my chest, and it

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was doing slow circles like this, right around the center
of my chest, which I would now call my heart center.
But at that time I would have never used a
word like that before. And the experience was so new
and so unlike anything I had ever experienced that I
had nothing to judge it against. There was no opportunity

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to even say, like I did with the warmth of
the colors, you know, a logical explanation, because I've never
felt something like this in my life. And that energy
or that force was doing these slow motions here, almost
like are you aware? Are you noticing? And then it
moved and traveled to my shoulder and paused, and then

(12:18):
that force went slowly down my arm, but again I'm
the inside of my body into my hand, and then
I just knew. I knew it, like knowing the sky
is blue, that that force, whatever it was, went into
my dad too.

Speaker 3 (12:36):
I knew it.

Speaker 4 (12:37):
And I had this overwhelming feeling of love, and I
had this overwhelming feeling of all as well, everything is fine.
And I was overwhelmed with just this joy and love.
And I gave him this huge hug, like physically I

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gave I got and I gave my dad a big hug,
and I said, Dad, I don't know what that was,
but I know you felt it too, and you take
all that love and light in your core with you
and it's okay. If you go, it's fine. And I
just had this soul knowing that we are eternally bonded.

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I had no idea what that meant why I felt
that way. It didn't matter. I didn't even need to
make sense of it, because it was the truest truth, again,
like knowing that the sky is blue. And I had
to go home. I had an event with my family
that I had to attend to for a few hours.

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And on my way home, I was blasting music in
the car and singing, and I remember thinking, what is
wrong with me? What's wrong with me? This isn't Not
only is it not normal, but it's weird. Why am
I There was no logical explanation to why I would
feel that way. I almost didn't even want to go

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back to the house in the evening because my dad
technically was still breathing, because I wanted that to be
my last moment with my dad. I didn't know what
it was, but I just knew that it was beyond
me and that we are eternally bonded. But I did
go back to his home later that evening, and the
second I held his hand, I just knew it doesn't

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matter that he's breathing, He's gone. I could feel it.
He was gone. And I now know in my own
truth that when I had that moment with my dad
in the middle of the afternoon, that's when his soul passed.
I now know as an evidential medium, it has been
clear as day to me through evidence and how some

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of these connections work, that there is so much more
happening at death than we understand. There is a lot
of transitioning happening, and just because someone is still breathing,
does not mean that they are not already sort of
on the other side. I know that now, and in reflection,
I know that that was when my dad left, and

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that was him giving me that feeling of we are
eternally bonded and you don't have to worry about anything,
and I'm fine.

Speaker 3 (15:26):
But that.

Speaker 4 (15:28):
Transcendent experience didn't really end there. He did pass in
the middle of the night, like I said, meaning took
his last breath during that daylight savings time change, and
just later in the morning, I just drove to the park,
a place I like to walk, just to kind of decompress.
It was obviously a very emotional week, and I parked

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the car and I finally started letting some tears go.
And they weren't even full grief actually, because I was
still holding on all this love and joy, but it
was more of complete My heart had been broken open
in vulnerability, is the way I would describe it, and

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it was feeling that and it was a release. And
as I cried just a little bit lightly, I heard
my dad's voice in my actual mind, so not outside
of me, in my mind, like right in my head,
and that voice said, get out of the car. Amby
he called me, Amby is nickname, You've cried enough tears

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over me in your life, And I remember thinking, Gee,
that's true. I have cried enough tears over my dad
in my life because while we had a really we
had a good relationship, and I love my dad very much,
but we also had some yucky stuff, some pretty yucky stuff.
And I thought in that moment, like, clearly I'm making

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that up. Of course I'm inventing my dad's voice in
my mind. But how funny that that's true. I have
cried enough tears over my dad. And so I got
out of the car and I started walking, and as
I was walking, I just said to myself, not even aloud,
like in my own head, but I didn't. I wasn't
thinking I'm communicating with my dad. I just said to myself, gee, Dad,

(17:23):
I hope you're all right. And what was wrapped up
in that was, you know, at that point in my
life journey, I grew up in a pretty traditional kind
of Christian religious faith, and as I moved into adulthood,
there were certain things about that that just stopped making
sense to my heart, mostly the idea of some people

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kind of being worthy and belonging one place and other
people in the world not. And so at this time
of my life, it's not that I had let all
that go, but I also felt intuitively that there is
so much more beyond than our brain can comprehend. And
so that G Dad, I hope you're all right was me.
You know, I don't really have a set determination of

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exactly what is our experience beyond passing, and instantaneously, without
even one second of hesitation, as I said that, G Dad,
I hope you're all right, his voice was right there
again in my mind, and that voice said, I'm just fine, Amby.
I'm going to stick around here a while and help

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some people.

Speaker 3 (18:28):
I'm not happy about it.

Speaker 4 (18:31):
And in that moment I did stop walking because I
knew that I as Amber. It's not that I fully believe,
but I had this inkling. I wouldn't have said that.
If I were making on my dad's voice in my mind,
I as Amber, would have said, I'm fine, having so beautiful,
I'm with my dog again, and I got to see

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my parents, and you're going to see your dog Bailey
one day too. If Amber myself is Amber, were making
my dad's voice, that's what I would have said, I
would have never come up with I'm going to stick
around here a while and help some people. And so
it was like a little inkling. It's not that I
believed it, but it sparked a curiosity. And I share

(19:17):
that with you, not only because it's important to the story,
but because for listeners, I can guarantee you, even when
it's not a voice that is in your own, not
all your thoughts are your own. I promise you, promise you,
not all your thoughts are your own. And one way

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that you can start to dip into and sort of
start to recognize when sometimes you might be being guided is
by just being aware of what might what maybe seems
like it didn't come from me, like I wouldn't normally
have that trajectory of thinking. So that sparked a curiosity

(19:59):
for me. I would say, it sparked a little bit
of an openness in me. And I wouldn't hear my
dad's voice again for quite some time in my mind,
but that did return. But it was that that shared
death experience and that what I what I now know
is called direct post death communication began a journey of

(20:22):
being immersed into what I call the essence of the
energy of life. And I often felt in those first
couple of months like I was walking around in a
near death experience, except it wasn't. But I was having
so many experiences that didn't make sense to my mind.

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Also physical experiences like being in nature. I've always loved nature,
but I was experiencing it viscerally, so colors were heightened,
sometimes not all the time, and I would just sort
of feel, for example, this sounds so silly, but this

(21:06):
tree is alive, but I felt it. It wasn't just
a thought. I was feeling it, and I was feeling
this unity and connection with everything. And so this began
a spiritual awakening journey for me that I'd never heard
that term before. I did not sign up for this.
I thought it in many ways because I like science

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and I like to understand how the world works, and
we have no scientific construct to really explain these types
of experiences, but they are very real. And I have
this phrase that I use now that is, we experience

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reality in whatever way our biology allows. And that's true
of every living thing on this planet. It doesn't mean
that's all there is. We're limited by how our biology works,
and that helps shape how we're experiencing reality. It doesn't
mean that's all there is.

Speaker 3 (22:15):
Wow, what a great story. So that was your very
first experience like that. Ever, I mean you never had
any you know, transcendent or woo woo experiences as a
young child or anything like that.

Speaker 4 (22:31):
As a young child. No, No, never, I would. I
maybe had two. I always consider myself very intuitive, so
I would definitely. And this is where those again, those
kind of thoughts that aren't your own come into play.
There were some times in my life where I felt

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like I had a thought that had no reason why
I should be thinking that, but it actually led to
something that is very true, and thank goodness I had
that thought, or I might have been in danger. I've
had some moments like that, a handful of them. And
the only other thing that really happened to me that
was transcendent, but I dismissed it totally is a few

(23:17):
years before this, and I'll be brief in the story.
I was really upset in the middle of the night
one night at the kitchen table, and I was just
kind of crying and having my own moment, and all
of a sudden, it's almost like in my mind's eyes
so not in my actual physical space, but my mind
is seeing it as if it's in my physical space.

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I was seeing this little circle with my grandparents passed
on their faces in the circle, and they just kind
of said this, go back to bed, Everything's going to
be okay. And I recognized it, and so it was
so weird that I stopped crying. And then I saw
my grandmother do this and she she can hear us.

(24:02):
She was really excited, and it was so for lack
of better word, weird that I stopped crying because it
felt so disruptive to my emotional experience and I didn't
think that that was them. But also I didn't have

(24:24):
an explanation for why I would see that. I wasn't
thinking about my grandparents. I don't feel like a lean
on them and support for in spirit for support, you know,
that wasn't something I did. So it was very odd,
but I just I went back to bed, but it
stayed with me. And again for listeners, when we have
those experiences where maybe we are feeling, experiencing, seeing, hearing

(24:53):
something that we just there's a difference between what our
heart knows and what our brain is trying to talk
us out of yeah, And a part of this spiritual
journey is to discern what's true, because your body is
telling you it's true versus what the ego, which is

(25:14):
a beautiful thing. It helps us through our everyday life
and keep us alive, and we need that. But the
ego doesn't like loss of control. It doesn't like loss
of control. It doesn't like thinking that it can't predict
everything and know how everything works. And there is more
than meets the eye to our reality.

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Speaker 3 (28:42):
Oh technology. Somehow I froze. I don't know what you
guys saw, but I'm that we're both back, so hopefully
this will stick. I don't know what's going on, but anyway,
I'm talking with Amber Kasik. We're talking about all kinds
of things, channeling, near death experiences, shared death experiences, which

(29:07):
is so fascinating, and I think I was starting to say,
I don't know when I got cut off, but I
was starting to say that I've done channeling. I was
trained as a channel or a million years ago, and
I've had all kinds of interesting experiences. But to me,
it's really funny in kind of a strange way that
I've never had one of those huge dramatic moments like

(29:28):
you're describing. And for me being a skeptic, I skeptic
is my middle was my middle name. I needed some
of those dramatic experiences and I never received them. So
I just think it's a very interesting statement about maybe
I don't need a dramatic experience. And I'm finding I've

(29:51):
interviewed a lot of people that have had some very
dramatic either near death experiences or awakenings like you were describing,
and it's it aims to me that it's happening a
lot lately, and I think maybe the world needs to
really be wakened, shake to wake, as I say, shaken
to waken. So what is your feeling about that?

Speaker 4 (30:13):
Yeah, I've thought about this a lot, and I'll have
to I'll tell you that there was a time for
a while when I know many ways, felt a lot
of guilt because these experiences and I had so many
of them. I mean, even beyond that, I began to
have an actual kind of communicative relationship with my dad

(30:36):
in spirit that became very direct and was very highly evidential,
like he would tell me things directly that I could
not possibly know and I could confirm them with people.
So not only was that dramatic, but then some of
the spiritual experiences I was having was very dramatic. Fanciful

(30:58):
is a good word for them. And I felt guilty
for a while because I even not remember thinking, you know,
I mean, I have experienced some hard stuff in life
and with my dad, and it did leave an impact
on me as an adult. But yet I'm functioning. I
have a great job, I'm you know, I'm a mom
and doing life. I'm okay. By general standards, and I

(31:21):
would think to myself, why me, There's a lot of
people that need this and a lot of people that
are hurting, and I felt bad about it. But a
part of my awakening journey also came to the understanding
of our inherent worthiness, all of us. We are all worthy.

(31:47):
I like to say, if I could sum up my
entire experiences into a learning statement, it is that we
are already divined, already whole, be worthy. And it took
me a while to accept in a way that I

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can allow these experiences that are beautiful for myself without
guilt because I am worthy of them, as is everybody else,
and we can all have our moments of connection with
the essence of life in our own way. On a
bigger picture level, to kind of more direct your question,

(32:29):
I think in all of humanity we need to be
shaken up. Yeah, in some ways I think that, you know,
as humans, we're probably in the greater, greatest space of
collaboration and understanding amongst diverse groups than we've ever been
in all of human history. May not always seem like that,

(32:51):
but if you look at the historical events, I think
we're probably in the best shape as ever and At
the same time, I think that lends it self too
allowing more people to have felt experiences because we're more
ready for them. We're simply more ready for them, is
my thought as a personal opinion, and that to me

(33:14):
is why more of this is happening. Because our individual consciousness,
which means the way that we interact with think, and
feel the world and our reality, influences the collective consciousness
how we feel and think as a human species about

(33:38):
our world, each other, you know, the greater beyond if
you will.

Speaker 3 (33:44):
Yeah, yeah, And back to what you said about how
we all deserve that, we have to believe that. You know,
I work with people for forty years and that's always
the core issue, that they don't believe they deserve. Everything
boils down to that.

Speaker 4 (34:00):
So yeah, I think the human I don't know why,
but I really believe that is true for every single
human pretty.

Speaker 3 (34:08):
Much, pretty much.

Speaker 4 (34:09):
And it might it might come out in different ways,
but in some sense it feels like we all struggle
with self work, which is different to me than self esteem.

Speaker 3 (34:19):
Yes, absolutely, yeah, it's it's our big one. So okay,
So tell us you are now an end of life coach.
Tell us what that means and some of the experiences
that you've had with that, because I'm sure that the
one that you had with your dad sounds like it

(34:40):
really opened you to be doing something like that, But
what does that really look like? What does that mean?

Speaker 4 (34:45):
Yeah, well, the entire experience with my dad, of course,
the awakening process, but even outside of that, just in
the very human way of accompanying someone on the on
a dying journey totally transformed my way of thinking about
death and dying. That was enhanced by all of the

(35:06):
awakened experiences because I now know without a doubt that
we do not die, we just move on to a
new state. But internally and intuitively, throughout that process, I
felt very intuitively like I was there to support and
guide my dad through something that was sacred, and that

(35:30):
is very much how I treated it. And I also
reflect on the months before his passing. I was suffering.
I was suffering because while he knew he was going
to pass, his illness was terminal. He didn't want to
talk about it. We didn't talk about it in our family,

(35:51):
and I needed to be with all of those emotions
and have explicit closure, and so it was really hard
to know your love and it is going to pass
and not be able to talk about it, and not
be able to talk about your relationship and all kinds
of things. And because of all the experiences, I walked
away so transformed instead of fearing. I mean, I used

(36:15):
to be up in the middle of the night till
two in the morning. I'd be reading horoscopes. I didn't
even believe in horoscopes, but I would be reading them
because I just wanted to know how and when was
my dad going to die? And was there going to
be suffering? And I was suffering. And I now know
that we don't need to suffer through the dying process.

(36:37):
We don't, but in our culture it's such a scary
thing because we view it as a true end, and
it is not an end. It is a transition, just
like birth. And I feel internally so much that I

(36:57):
want to support others through their holistic wellness is the
best way to put it. I think, through their holistic
wellness and peace around death and dying. So as an
end of life coach, there's of course sitting with people

(37:17):
you know when they pass, but actually there's a whole
lot that needs to happen well before that. That is
not even just about the moment of passing, which is
learning how to honor your life, make peace with your life,
determine your wants and needs in how you want your
life to be honored, and supporting your family and friends

(37:41):
with all of that. And so I work with people
across five domains of wellness at death and dying, practical, physical,
and those two are really around what do I want
around my death and dying, helping people determine their desires, wishes,
how to communicate those all of that. But then there's spiritual, mental,

(38:02):
and emotional wellness. How do we honor and celebrate and
make peace with ourselves and make meaning from all of
our lives events and bring that with us and to
us through our passing experience. So I've been working with
clients to help them through that process. It's about a

(38:23):
ten week process. Every two weeks we meet for a
different domain that can be changed, you know, three weeks
from people that want more time to process less for
people that are looking to do this a little bit
more quickly. But it's to give someone a holistic sense
of wellness and peace as they're preparing for passing. But

(38:43):
I've even done this with people that are young and
nowhere near the end of passing, and so in that way,
it also just affirms who we are now in our
life journey and where we're going.

Speaker 3 (38:57):
I was going to say, I've done weekend retreats with
some of my students that the focus is on death.
I used to call it the death retreat, but nobody
ever wanted to sign up for that. I call it
the Transfer Transformational. I forget what I even call it
transf whatever, but changed that name. But one of the

(39:20):
things that we did is we would sit in a
circle and we would eulogize each person at the retreat,
and you know, they would lay there pretending they were dead,
and we would all share our love and our experience
and our whatever that we needed to share with them.
And it was so powerful, so amazing. And then I
actually had them write their own obituary, which was very

(39:43):
interesting to do. So it might be fun to do
with your clients as well.

Speaker 4 (39:48):
I love that I thought that I had during my
dad's passing is why do we not celebrate people before
they pass? Yeah, in order to contribute to their wellness,
sense of beauty about their life and love and all
those we need that when we pass. But that's not

(40:08):
a part of our culture. It doesn't mean we can't
do that, but it's not a part of our culture.
But I agree with you, I think finding other ways
to do that. For example, with my own dad, I
reached out to pretty much everyone he could possibly know,
and we gathered photos and just quotes and small memories
or a funny moment, a moment of appreciation. We put

(40:29):
them all together in a book so that we were
able to give that to him as a gift before
we passed. So we need to find ways to celebrate
our wellness and our love and our lives before we pass.

Speaker 3 (40:42):
Do you ever, you might have said this, do you
ever help them to resolve old stuff together, like, gee,
I'm still resenting you for when you did this, or
I'd really like to forgive you for you know, do
that kind of stuff as well.

Speaker 4 (40:57):
Yes, to the extent that they desire. Some people just
want that result in the in a personal space like
between myself and them and being able to talk through that.
Some want to make a plan to actually go and
make amends with someone or share some words with someone.
And so I'll support people through that, and in some cases,

(41:22):
especially when there are making peace with people in spirit,
but you know it might be something that they've held
on to their whole life. Then we can bring in
evidential mediumship to help support that as well.

Speaker 3 (41:39):
Oh that's great. Yeah, So what about people? I know
when my mother was passing, she would have been the
last person in the world that would want to do
anything that you're discussing. How do you Is there some
way that you can bridge that with people or you
just kind of not even try?

Speaker 4 (42:01):
Great question. Well, that's in part why I'm here with
you today is to help open people's ideas, if you will,
or maybe better word as hearts, open people's hearts to
consider seeing themselves in the way that they relay to

(42:25):
life differently. At the same time, I feel out of ethics.
It's my job to respect people with where they are,
and so I would never force my ideas about life
and what's next on someone. My job is to meet
people where they are and help them through that journey

(42:47):
in the way that best suits them, and that includes
their religious path. If that's their path, I'm going to
support them in whatever way that they are desiring that support.

Speaker 3 (43:00):
Have you ever tried to just be it sounds kind
of like I do this, that you're the safe person.
You're the safe middle person that maybe can kind of
support that, so to speak. So in other words, with
my mom, if I had suggested it to her, she
would have gone no. But if I had brought you

(43:22):
into the room that here the person that's going to
help us with this, you might have been more open
to it.

Speaker 4 (43:28):
Yeah. Possibly, that definitely happens at times for sure. And
you know, and I think about hospice care, it was
so amazing having hospice there to help. They also have
many patients. They're very medically focused, while they also have
ways that they're supporting the personhood and they I remember
them asking my dad, you know, do you have any

(43:51):
spiritual needs for your passing? Do you want us to
help you with X, Y or Z? But it kind
of stops there. I see my role as really building
more because I'm able of a relationship with this person.
I am not focused really at all on medical needs,
and I'm focused on you and your personhood and your

(44:11):
wellness and your holisticness. And my job is to find
out who you are where you are. I might ask
you questions that probe some thinking, but at the end
of the day. I'm here to meet you where you are,
but ultimately bring you to a sense of greater peace
around your passing. And I believe that those things actually

(44:35):
help us pass and have an easier transition into the
next beyond.

Speaker 1 (44:41):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (44:41):
Yeah, And so somebody that absolutely doesn't believe in any
of this, what would you do with them?

Speaker 4 (44:51):
Well, it's not necessarily about If someone is atheist and
believes this is the very end, that's okay, I want
to honor you where you are. At the same time,
I'm sure that person would still like to create peace
around their passing. My job is not to help you
see what's going to happen next. My job is to
help you bring peace and wellness to your passing. So

(45:15):
we want to honor who you are, find out how
you want to honor your life, help you think about
what you want to celebrate, any amends that you might
want to make, and or just things to share in
a health space like we have right now. And that again,
I'm going to meet everyone where they are.

Speaker 3 (45:39):
So is there one amazing story that you'd like to
share about something you experienced doing that with someone? Oh?

Speaker 4 (45:50):
How about if I take it in a little bit
of a different trajectory and share amazing moment that solidified
why this is my path so outside of end of
life coaching, I developed as a part of this awakening

(46:13):
experience really truly spontaneous mediumship abilities. I did not want
to be a medium. I've never wanted to be a medium.
I didn't even really believe in mediumship. I didn't totally
totally write it off, but nah, probably not was kind
of my stance. It happened to me, yes, And this

(46:35):
is the moment that solidified my path not only to
help people with passing, but also a mediumship. Once I
kind of believed that the experiences I was having with
mediumship were real, they started with my dad, but then
started moving toward other people spontaneously, and so once I

(46:56):
moved through some of those experiences and believed they were real,
but I wasn't ready to accept and call myself a medium.
I did not want that label for all of the
connotations that it brings. However, all of these experiences were
so beautiful and helpful that it kept me curious and open,

(47:18):
and in one moment, I wasn't even serving as a medium,
but I just sort of wanted to practice with someone,
but it was so random. I didn't know this person.
It's a long story of how I was arranged. All
I knew was her first name before we met on
the zoom and as we got together and I, you know,
she knew I was wanting to practice mediumship and kind

(47:40):
of discover this. And as I sat in that connection
with spirit, I felt this woman step in and she
showed me because I could literally see her in my
mind's eye. She was very petite, and she had little
tiny heels on and always wore dresses and skirts. And
she was showing me a Virgin Mary's statue with art

(48:04):
utensils at its feet, and then she kept going like this,
like I could feel it in my head. I'm old
and then young, and then I'm old and then I'm young.
And I don't know what that meant. So I just
described it that way, and the client, the woman across
from me, said, everything you are describing is literally to
a team. My aunt. She's very petite, she has Alzheimer's.

(48:27):
That's that old and the young and the old and
the young. And she paints Virgin Mary's statues as a
hobby and gives them away. But she isn't passed. She's
in a care facility because she has Alzheimer's and she's
not passed away. I don't see her, but I have
a relative who is kind of her caretaker and you know,

(48:48):
keeps in touch with her. And I was so taken aback.
What do you mean? How would I know this information?
And she's not passed away. This is a whole other
realm of kind of mediumship. But I said, well, if
you're okay, I would like to just keep going because
this is really fascinating to me. So we agreed, and

(49:09):
as I continued, she showed me I'm missing my things.
She kept doing this and was pulling up a blanket
and I knew she's missing her blanket, and she was
showing me a stuffed bear and kept making me feel
internally like it was missing. And then this man stepped in.
And this man I could and this is how mediumship works.

(49:31):
I feel it in my body. He was really masculine,
and he had a deep voice, and I could tell
he had a broad chest because I feel this, and
he was laughing and I said, I don't know why
I'm saying this, but he's got a dress on and
high heels and he's parading around with bags. He's holding

(49:53):
shopping bags going ha ha ha ha ha ha. She
started laughing, and she said, that is my uncle. He
is in spirit and he imitated my aunt at the
last family party right before he died. He put on
a skirt and high heels and went got all the

(50:15):
shopping bags because he was imitating her. Oh wow, this
gentleman was here and started communicating me, telling me that
he's here to help his sister. The woman with Alzheimer's
pass So when we got off this meeting, she took

(50:36):
my number. We got off the meeting, she called her family.
That family called the care facility. In the care facility
said we were just about to call you. We think
your relative is passing real soon. You should come here.
So the family went and you know what, her blanket
was missing, her stuffed animal was missing. But she was

(51:00):
communicating that to me in spirit already, so her soul
was already transitioning. Now, it's why was she communicating that
to me? Does she need the blanket in the stuffed
animal in order to pass? No, but we all want
more peace, more comfort, more wellness at our passing. They

(51:23):
went and found her blanket for her, They went and
found her stuff there, for it was God had got
washed and was folded in the rice and stuck in
a random closet. And because of that, all of her
family was able to be with her at her passing.
This woman that I did that session with told this
story at her funeral. Oh and she sent me pictures after.

(51:48):
She sent me a picture of the Virgin Mary's statutes
her aunt always painted. She sent me a picture of
the man in the moment when he was parading around
with the outfits and the high heels, teasing his sister.
I have a picture of that. I had to take
the next day off of work. I took a personal
day because this was so transformative for me. Not only

(52:12):
did it remind me of how much we need peace
and comfort and wellness at are passing and how important
it is to have loved ones with us and to
have that comfort and peace, but it made me go,
I have to offer this to people. This is so beautiful.
I cannot keep this to myself. It's beautiful. And that

(52:39):
day I really accepted as a service to others my
mediumship abilities as well as my passion to support people
at the end of their life because we all deserve it,
and I know in my internal being that we are
just transitioning to something that's next. We are not dying,

(53:03):
not in the way that we think we are, and
I want to bring more of that to people's passing
so that they can pass with wellness and peace, wholeness
and love.

Speaker 3 (53:17):
What an amazing story. Oh my gosh. So there's a
new class that you're offering. Tell everybody about that.

Speaker 4 (53:25):
Yes, Starting at the end of September, I am offering
a class called Discover Your Divine Soul Self tagline kind
of for it is four months to Freedom. It's not
about mediumship, It's about getting to knowull your soul self
because it will transform your life. My dad's gift to

(53:46):
me was getting to feel who I am as a soul.
That was his gift to me in spirit. It has
brought me more peace in my life, less anxiety, more
strength to be able to and resilience to be able
to just deal with all of life's challenges that it brings.
And I feel more connected to childlike wonder, to the

(54:11):
essence of life, to guidance for my own life. And
I want to help people deal with that because it
is our birthright. We are a spiritual being having a
human experience. We think we're a human and maybe we
could find the spirit thing out here somewhere. No, you
already are the spirit and you can get to feel

(54:35):
and know that for yourself. So once a month for
an hour and a half on Zoom September, October, and
November and December, we're going to meet and I'm going
to guide everybody through that process, step by step of
really coming to feel and know your soul self so
that you can use it in a way that is

(54:55):
transformative and brings more again wholeness and wellness to your life.

Speaker 3 (55:00):
And how do people get in touch with you too?

Speaker 4 (55:03):
The best way to do that is through my website
www dot Nature's Wayopen dot com. And you'll see there
my healing offerings of mediumship. You'll see there my end
of life coaching options. And then also you'll see a
little tab that says your awakening experience, and that's where

(55:27):
you can find this class and other support to just
help you in your journey. There's also lots of free
stuff on my website, not only a little guide to
help you think about the ways your own loved ones
might be communicating with you that you don't recognize. So
that's a free downloadable piece. And I created a little
reflection journey for those that might want to have their

(55:49):
own spiritual awakening, especially in nature. Using nature as a guide.
I took my experiences and sort of created a digital
journal with some action steps to take to support you
on your own path. And that is there for your
download too.

Speaker 3 (56:06):
Wow. Thank you so much, Amber, This was delightful. Keep
up the good work, the important work. You know, what
you're saying is so important for people. And thank you.
Thank you for allowing your father to awaken you and
take you on this amazing journey for other people.

Speaker 4 (56:25):
Thank you, thank you so much. Thanks for having me.
Thank you for those of you that have listened and
just hearing my story. I appreciate you all.

Speaker 3 (56:35):
Thank you all right, see everybody next Wednesday.

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