Brenda Lee Mattausch – Is the Universe Conspiring with You? - Perfect Life Awakening

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Speaker 1 (00:08):
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Speaker 2 (01:13):
Welcome everyone. I'm so glad you're here, and I'm so
glad that we're going to be talking about something really
important today. I call this particular episode is the universe
conspiring with you? And based on my own experience, yes,
it is there. You go, there's your answer, But what

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does that mean? Does the past and the present and
the future dimensions work together in some way like a script?
You know? Do we have free will? Can we predict things?
There's all kinds of questions that come up from that,
and we're going to, of course, really get into that
with my guest today, and before I introduce her, I

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want to share something that happened to me the other day,
and it was It might not sound profound, but.

Speaker 3 (02:05):
For me it really was.

Speaker 2 (02:06):
Because, as most of you know, I've been teaching and
living this life and the spiritually based life for several
decades probably gosh over four decades, and a lot of
times I look back on my life and I see, wow,
if this didn't happen, then this didn't happen, and I
wouldn't have met this person, et cetera, et cetera. But

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I was driving home. I live in the mountains. I
was driving up the mountain, up these curvy roads, and
all of a sudden, it was kind of like seeing
a family tree, you know how you see the roots
and then you see the branches, and you see people
on each branch, and it gets bigger and bigger. That's
how my life suddenly appeared to me that I literally

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saw how everything interconnected and how literally if I hadn't
done this one little thing, this other little thing wouldn't
have happened, which turned into a big thing, which turned
into a bigger thing, and a bigger thing, and it
just like I said, I know, I've had all these mystical, metaphysical,
spiritual experiences. That's not surprising to me anymore. But being

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able to put them together in that way was so
remarkable and so intriguing. In fact, I wrote a whole
blog about it, so if you're interested, you can read
all the details on my Royce's Ramblings blog. So let
me introduce Brenda Lee Matdish. She calls herself the Heart
Mind Navigator. She's the owner of Attuned Guidance, and she's

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a true spiritual wisdom keeper and mindset coach, and she
uses the heart mind approach, and she's going to talk
about that that really helps individuals feel empowered and break
free from those limiting beliefs and programs and all of
that stuff. And she also helps people receive the lessons
that their stories or their life experiences are trying to

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give them and it's all about embracing a life of conscious,
heart infused coherence. I love those words. She helps integrate
emotional heart aligned intelligence with intentional action, and she helps
people face life's challenges with renewed confidence, deeper insight, and

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meaning because I think we so often miss those meanings.
Like I was just sharing it, you know, I saw
it all, but it was like, wow, this is really important,
this little thing that happened in the seventh grade, you know.
So she helps people unlock peak performance. She is a coach,
and that's one of her specialties as well. And let's

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see what else I can tell you about her. She
helps you rewrite the narrative of your life and transform
your experience. So welcome, Brenda Lee. I'm so glad you're here.

Speaker 3 (04:57):
Oh my gosh, thank you so much. I'm so grateful
to be here with you today. You are very welcome.

Speaker 2 (05:02):
So I always like to ask my guests, tell us
the backstory. How did you start with this was? What
were the experiences that threw you into this whole realm?
I read your bio and it says it started even
as a child, So tell us that story.

Speaker 3 (05:20):
Yeah, So, from a very very young age, I had
the ability to read a room right, and I didn't
understand how I knew what people were feeling. I could
feel when people were lying to each other or to me,
and I just had this sense of knowing when there

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was danger and when it was safe. And so because
I didn't have any direction about this, it ended up
kind of being suppressed. And what I mean by that
is because I didn't have any emotional intelligence attached. Because
nobody was teaching me what it all meant. I kind

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of became a person that thought that I had to
rescue and fix and help everybody that I came in
contact with, and that led to a very exhausting existence.
And I kind of did that throughout my entire life
until I hit around the age forty seven and forty

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seven I started asking some bigger questions as to why
I gave more of myself to others than I did
to myself. Why did I put everybody before my own needs.
I really wanted to understand why I was even programmed
to do that, and so I started asking real big
questions to the universe. I didn't know where else to go,

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and that led me to end up on Maui and
on Maui. Within days, I was on Maui, and on Maui,
I had a beautiful awakening to a part of myself
I had not met, and that person that was within
me was more powerful than I had ever been. And

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I moved to Maui five weeks later, and I started
my healing journey, and I started to unravel why I
had been acting the way I had been acting through
my entire forty seven to forty nine years old. And
I started to dismantle everything that didn't belong to me,
that really didn't align with who I was today. And

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I didn't even know who I was going to become.
I just knew I didn't want to keep experiencing the
person that I had continually experienced that was really over
worker and an overachiever. And found that achievements and money
and all these things that you work hard for, there's
something missing. It's not enough, right. And I wanted more

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depth in my life. I wanted to understand why I
was even you know, here on Earth. Yeah, so I.

Speaker 2 (07:59):
Read in your bio that you literally asked the universe
to tell you who you are? So how did that happen?

Speaker 3 (08:07):
Yes? So on this is after I moved to MAUI.
I had decided on my vacation I was going to
move there, and five weeks later, I just did it
because that's what I do in my life. I go.
I've been that way since I was a little kid.
And one night I was laying in bed and I
was thinking, I just picked up my whole life. I
moved to the Middle Pacific Ocean. I don't know anybody.

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Why did I do that? I feel like I'm supposed to,
And so I just said, Universe, show me, show me
who I really am. Obviously I'm seeing and experiencing things
I've never experienced before, So show me who I am.
And literally, I was taken up into the cosmos and

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I was meeting a cosmic divine light and I thought
it was the light of God. When I first saw it,
I said out loud, is this God? Is that you?
Is that you? And it merged with me and I
remember looking down thinking, how am I laying in bed

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and floating in the cosmos? Is this a dream? No,
it's not a dream. I'm wide awake. And I wiggled
my right big toe to confirm to my mind that
my body was still in bed, and then I went, oh,
wait a minute, I'm not up and out. I'm up
and in. I'm within myself. But the guides that were

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with me were putting me inside the universe to give
me a metaphoric meaning. But I knew that it was
happening inside of me because I was consciously aware that
I was laying in bed having this cosmic experience, right,
and it was so profound. I was never the same
after that moment, and I started doing that almost every
night until I met a Council of twelve that started

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telling me why I was here and what my mission was,
and that I needed to dismantle my program. And they
didn't give me any tools how to do it. They
just told me to go out and get triggered and
do it, and you're going to teach yourself how to
do it, and then you're going to teach others how
to do it themselves. And so that's what I do. Now.

Speaker 2 (10:11):
Wow, So tell us about the Council of twelve. What
is that?

Speaker 3 (10:16):
So the Council of Twelve were twelve beautiful beings that
showed me more love than I had ever felt in
my life, and I felt at home, and they spoke
to me telepathically, and they were so loving, and they
just gathered around me around a conference table and they
just started telling me where I was from, and that

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I was a star seed and that I came to
Earth to help humanity expand through love, and that I
had to experience what it felt like to not be
loved and cared for to come back to loving myself.
And then they showed me why, as a child and
a teenager and an adult, why I was always trying
to love everybody else. I forgot to love myself because

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I didn't think I was worthy. And so they taught
me that I needed to go out and find the
love within and not just to give it without. And
so they were balancing. I was completely, you know, out
of balance and out of alignment. So I did that work.
I did it on Maui. I lived there for seven years,
and then I was the same pole that pulled me

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to MAUI pulled me here to Florida.

Speaker 2 (11:24):
And so you say that you were you worked on
yourself for seven years. It was just all on your own.
There was no besides the council and spirits and all
of that. It was basically just you doing it.

Speaker 3 (11:37):
Yeah, well it was me and all the human beings
on Maui, because you know, for you to truly for
me to truly see myself, I had to witness myself
through others. Because I would just start observing everybody, and

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instead of judging them, I would see that I do
that too, that I also speak that way, that I
do that, And so I started. I started learning very
quickly that everybody was a mirror to me. And before
I arrived to Maui, I had no idea of that
kind of talk, right, But what was happening was at
this point, yes, I would go up and visit the

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Council of twelfth periodically, but the work I was doing
was for my higher self being guided through science and synchronicities,
through connecting, dismantling part of the program in my mind,
and touching my heart coherence, touching the heart mind and
so my higher self. I would get a feeling in
my body that the presence of wisdom was there, and

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that when I would watch something, something would happen in
my body and I would witness it from a higher view,
and I would learn, and I would see how it worked,
and then I'd go home and I would dismantle my habit,
my pattern, and I would take it as a gift
and I would learn by going out and seeing everybody
else what I needed to work on myself. Because when

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you're sitting with yourself all day and you're actually in
the program and in your habits, it's hard for you
to see that you're stuck or that you're you know,
just in a repetitive pattern. You don't see it.

Speaker 2 (13:15):
So how do you dismantle that pattern? You said you
would go home and just dismantle it. What does that
look like for you?

Speaker 3 (13:23):
Yeah, So if someone would trigger me and I would
feel anger or sadness, or if I was like feeling
this pole of weight and I was pointing out and
sitting in judgment of them, I would say, well, that
conflict is within me, because nothing anybody says can affect me.

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If I'm in my power, everybody has the right to
say whatever they want to say at any time without
affecting me. So why does this stranger that I don't know,
Why are they affecting how I'm responding? And I wanted
to know, So I started question first of all, what happened,
what the words and thoughts were coming in my mind?

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And then I'd hear these responses from my mind and
I'd be like, where is that coming from, who's responding,
who's even talking? Who taught me that that's not true?
And I would just start questioning everything. And then when
the words would come and I'm like, who said that?
Who planted that in me? Why do I even speak

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this way? And I started realizing that my whole belief
system never belonged to me in the first place. It
was never mind. It was just embedded in me in
school and in work and my my three decade career
of just trying to do and go and be and
try to prove and have outside validation and can anybody

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see me? And am I doing good enough? Is anybody
proud of me? And I started realizing I don't need
any of that. I need to start being proud of
myself and seeing myself and knowing who I am? Who
am I without the career? Who am I? Without my name,
without my personality, without my past? Who am I? That's

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what I wanted to discover, That's what I found out right,
But it's a self discovery journey. You've got to really
be within and start asking some hard questions. Even when
they're uncomfortable.

Speaker 2 (15:23):
Yeah, when you talk about everything is a mirror, you know,
that's like the core of my teaching. It's every aspect
of my teaching. And it's the hardest thing for people
to get. They understand it logically, but to apply it
and to know it and to be it is always.

Speaker 3 (15:43):
High because.

Speaker 2 (15:46):
Asking people to be fully responsible for their lives.

Speaker 3 (15:49):
Fully fully responsible, right, not every once in a great while, right. No,
it's a really hard thing for people to grasp. And
what I can offer is it's a process, it's an unfolding.
It takes time, and we've got to be patient with ourselves.
Everybody just needs to be kind to themselves and allow

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the evolutionary process of the soul to guide you to
a new way. The very fact that you're even having
a rumble inside for change means that your soul has
learned enough in that situation, learned enough with those habits
and patterns, and so the mirrors are coming up with
the other people showing up to guide you to see

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yourself to clear it. But you know, there's always a
double mirror, and there's two things happening. I'm receiving something
because the conflict was within me and the other person
was projecting onto me because there's a conflict within them,
and so at that moment, we both have an opportunity

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to take our own peace and go off and work
on our own piece. But that's work, and a lot
of people just want to it's your fault. You did this,
You made me feel this way, and you're going to
go through that in the beginning. And I'm going to
let everybody know it's okay if you don't get it
the first two or three triggers, But bring your awareness

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to what is this person trying to help me with?
What are they showing me that's within myself, that's no
longer serving me. Try to take the attention off the
person and realize they are a connected soul to you,
trying to help you get unstuck for your next trajectory

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to open. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (17:39):
I always say that those people that drive you crazy
and trigger you and push your buttons, they are your
best teachers. They are waking you up more than anybody else.

Speaker 3 (17:48):
On the plan. Run towards so that trigger, you run
towards them. I used to avoid people that triggered me,
and then you slide it under the rug and it
festers that person might be gone, but another person's going
to show up a perfect stranger, because that conflict is
within you. And so if you want to start clearing
things that really are not serving you, you don't even
need to know where it came from. Run towards people

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that trigger you and do things that scare you so
that fear can come up and you can validate it.
People just believe what they think. They actually believe the
words they say, and all of this is creating your reality.
You're writing your script all day, every day, unknowingly, subconsciously,

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in the background, it's writing your script, and that script
is automatically playing out. And so people will show up
when your soul's ready to make a transition and just evolve.
People will show up to trigger you to help you
clear it. But people think that person did X y
Z to me, and they miss the gift every time.

Speaker 2 (18:54):
Yeah, definitely, Yeah. I mean even on a global level.
I keep talking about that that we have some interesting
characters that we've attracted going on in the world so
that we can wake up, so that we can see
our own mirrors. And that's really hard, it.

Speaker 3 (19:11):
Really is, because look, the past just repeats itself. It
repeats it in everything right, our past, present, and future
is intertwining simultaneously at all times. There's never been an
ending or a beginning. It's a continuation. It's happening in
the entire world. But people are caught in the web

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in the program that everything is real and they take
it real serious and they don't question anything. And instead
of question it, they just complain about it. And when
you complain about something, you just get more of it, right,
because the universe loves you. It's going to give you
whatever you ask for. You're in control. You know, there's
no oh well, Brenda didn't mean it. I'm no. Whatever

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you speak, whatever you think, whatever you put your attention to,
the universe says, oh she wants more that, so they
give me more of it.

Speaker 2 (20:03):
Yeah, yeah, So talk a little bit about that how
because you know, I find that so many people are
attracting so much stuff right now, you know, so much
of what we have feared. Talk a little bit more
about the intention, because I always say that the intention
is what goes like underneath the words. So I can

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say I hate you, but what I'm really saying is
I love you. So talk about intention and manifesting from words.

Speaker 3 (20:32):
Yeah. So, you know, I hear a lot of people say, oh,
I'm manifesting this, and I'm trying to manifest this, and
I want to manifest this, And in my experience, we're
manifesting one hundred percent of everything that's in our reality,
right and so, but people have the they kind of

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think that if they see something good, they've manifested it.
And I'm here to teach you're manifesting the good, the bad,
the ugly at all times based on your belief system
that's playing subconsciously in the background, and how you think
and how you speak, and what action steps you take
every day to either repeat yesterday or to open up

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a new trajectory today through intention. And so a lot
of people really get excited when they see an angel
number they've manifested a synchronicity. But I tell them that's
just showing you how powerful you are to change your
intention and to be careful of what you're saying. The
field is talking to you, it's communicating with you in

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a new way. But the only way to get through
that is to see all the bad and the negative
in your life that you've created for yourself. And that's
where you were talking about the full hundred percent responsibility
of your own life and your own experience. So the
field is conspiring with you all the time based on
what you're putting out. And when you start to question

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everything you're saying and thinking and you learn a few
action steps and you learn how to rewrite the narrative
with really good affirmations, really good mantras, really good practices,
the field will start showing you that your little beacon
is connecting to a more love positive frequency as opposed

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to a fear based frequency that's keeping everybody you know
trapped in their lives. And you know a lot of
people just don't even know it's possible to have anything
more and they're happy with their lives. And that's fine.
Everybody gets to choose the life that they have. But
I'm just here to show you that it's your birthright.

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It is your birthright to create, unlimited from this entire
universe of anything that you want. And it doesn't matter
where you came from, what your education is, you absolutely
have the power to tap into the quantum and get
on that higher frequency where you can create anything you

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want in your life.

Speaker 2 (23:11):
So I'm sure most everybody watching this knows what the
quantum means, but give a little explanation of what that
means to you.

Speaker 3 (23:19):
Yeah. For me, the quantum field is the entire unified
field of creation itself, where I come from the spark
of the actual source of creation, the light that created
itself and put itself in everything, every living thing on
the planet. And that field is energy in motion. We

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are energy beings, right, We are multi dimensional beings in
a human experience. But people have forgotten that, you know,
they're not just human. They've forgotten that there are a
multi dimensional, powerful, beautiful being of light creation that is
also in that human experience. And that's the piece that

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I try to help people understand, is there's an incredible
wise soul and ancestral line of mystic wisdom that belongs
to you. And when you start tapping into that, the
universe codes are all there. You're just a beacon to
receive it. And so the unified field is just a

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live and it's a cause and effect field that's just
happening around me all the time. And I just feel
when I'm in the flow, I just know, and I'm
in the flow and I'm creating something magical. Energy just
happens because I feel it, Because you know, we're our
whole world's happening within us, and we're seeing what our

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life is by projecting out who we are onto the screen.
That's how you write your script is you'll start seeing
when you're making changes that something will change in your field.
But your name and the grocery store people haven't changed,
But you've changed inside the dynamic that you're sharing that

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energy with them, right, Because look, Rice, we're here to
remember who we are. We're here to use the entire
universal field that created us to remember who we are
to create everything that we want. And the remembering is
so beautiful because then you just let everything fall away

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and you start following your heart. That's where the magic is.

Speaker 2 (25:37):
Yes, that's great. So where does you know a lot
of people are going through physical changes, you know, health issues.
It just seems, you know, starting with a pandemic, there
seems to be a lot of physical awakening that's happening.

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What can you talk about in of that going on?

Speaker 3 (26:01):
Maybe even individuals? Well, yeah, I mean for myself, it's
been a process. It's not like I landed on Maui
and then all of a sudden I knew everything that actually,
landing on MAUI crumbled everything I ever believed in. I
just thought my whole life was just a lie. I

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mean really, I just thought none of it was ever me.
It was just a program, right, and other people's belief
system that they deposited me. And when you come to
the realization that none of it was you and you
were reacting and participating in this story that doesn't even
align with who you are, you start to change your

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life and that you know, it happens in the mind,
it happens in your heart, it happens in your body.
I felt all of it, and I still go through
stages of that where it's like when because we're constant
expanding our conscious awareness of ourselves. See, we're connected to everybody.

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We're all one being of light that's put itself in
everything to experience all that is and ever will be.
But what's happened is the wisdom of each person's been
hijacked with fear, and the fear is fed into the
collective and it hits our bodies. You know, So if
your mind is in a loop of news and politics

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and you're worried about life and money, your body's going
to take the hit because your body goes into fight
or flight. And then if you're worried about getting sick
and you're afraid of everything, you actually manifest that for yourselves.
You attract that energy to yourselves. And people are doing
it unknowingly. A lot of people don't realize they're doing

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it Rice and some people I believe are just on
a journey to experience health problems. That's part of their
wave of evolution experience. For the each endie viual soul,
I feel like we're just here to observe everybody as
if it's us, and hold compassion for them and love

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and allow the planet that's been kind of stuck in
a fear based if you get a lot and most
get none, that needs to crack open and break. And
the only way to do that is for each individual
person to do their own work. Become the change you
want to see. Go inside yourself, stop trying to change

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the world, and change yourself, because you'll become that lighthouse
for the next people around you to be able to
get to the shore. You'll light it up for them.
But if nobody's doing the work and everybody's wondering what
to do, we don't get there, right.

Speaker 2 (28:48):
Yeah, Yeah, I think what you said is Hare's another
aspect to it that I've experienced, and that is that
we're so attached to these physical forms that we can't
really see beyond that, you know. So when we get sick,
it's like, oh, you know, I'm going to die. What's
going to happen if I die?

Speaker 3 (29:08):
You know?

Speaker 2 (29:09):
And it freaks us out because we really believe this
is who we are, you know. And for those of
us like me and you that have had these spiritual
experiences were not as attached to these bodies, but most
everybody is, you know, and it really it impacts every
minute of our life. It's like, oh, what if I
get killed by a car? What if somebody comes in

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and shoots me? You know, we're just living from that
place of attachment to this fold.

Speaker 3 (29:35):
Yeah, that's a collective narrative that's been playing a long time,
and I don't want any part of it. I haven't
been playing in that little game for a long time
because once I started seeing that it's all just a
big show, and that we were granted the power to
change our own reality. But if there's only a few

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doing it, then if you are going to be living
a pretty good life over in the corner. If we
can do it for ourselves first and then teach others
how to do it, we actually can shift consciousness and
we can include the whole and want everybody to experience.
And some people might be like, I just want to

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live over here in my little corner, and that's fine.
They don't have to, but to have the knowing that
it's possible, right, And so yeah, like your script is
being written all day and when you start testing it,
you must be shown whatever you are seeking is seeking you.

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The minute you start asking deep, big questions, the universe
must answer you. But are you sitting still? Are you present?
Are you open to received, no matter if it's good, bad,
or ugly, what you're going to get to that answer
of what you need to do to step forward? Right,
and where a soul in a human experience, don't take

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away the soul's evolutionary process. This soul is wise. It
has an ancestral line of wisdom that can guide you
and open doors you didn't even know could open. But
people want to stay in control, and they don't even
know that the program, the egoic control in the mind
isn't even what they want, it's what they've been taught. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (31:27):
One of my favorite expressions that I tell my students
is the universe is a yes machine. It's required to
say yes to whatever it is you ask it. So
if I say to the universe, oh, I don't deserve
that new job, the universe is yep, you're right, you
won't get it, you know. So it's constantly saying yes

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to whatever it is that we're putting out there. And
it's just so important to you in mind.

Speaker 3 (31:52):
And I think people are afraid of the unknown, whereas
I thrive in the unknown. Since I was a kid,
I just go places, I move where I don't know anybody.
I've been doing that since I was like a teenager. Right,
I get really stagnant, and redundancy is death to me.
So for I'm always forever changing. And that's my soul

(32:14):
doing that. She's pulling me towards here, towards this, and
I just don't get in the way. And a lot
of people are afraid of Well, if I quit my
job and I quit doing this, then what Well that's
the hook that you even need to know. If you
can tune in to who you are and what your
passion is and what you desire, and you can hear

(32:36):
that soft little voice within your heart speaking to you.
It's how your higher self speaks to you. Right the
noise of the world gets so loud you can't even hear.
But when you're tapped into that, there's a trust and
a knowing in that. And when you're dismantling your old
life and you have intentions to go here, there's a

(32:56):
little bit of a void. You've got to be comfortable
in the void. You've got to sit in the unknown
and drop and surrender into control, because the mind can
only take you what you've already experienced or you've read about,
or somebody told you's going to happen ahead. You haven't
been there yet, your experience wouldn't be like anybody else's.

(33:18):
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you've heard books and stories of people doing things, so
you don't try it, And that's the hook to keep
you stuck in the old. And that old is fear based,
and when fear amplifies, it spreads like a fire.

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I saw this whole tree of my life and how
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Welcome back. I'm talking with Brenda Mattish and Brenda Lee Mattish,
and we are talking about all kinds of things, but
I wanted to focus a little bit on the idea
of synchronicity. I've had, Like I said earlier, I've had
so many synchronistic events in my life. But there was

(36:56):
a time when I was first kind of delving into
spear rtuality that I heard about synchronicity, and I tried
really hard to make things appear to be synchronistic. For example,
I was dating a guy and I said, is he
the one? And then I would I would look for
license plates that would give me messages or billboards that

(37:18):
would say, yes, here's the one. I mean, it was
like an obsession with me, and I found that I
could turn those things into the messages that I wanted
them to be. But they weren't real synchronistic events. They were,
you know, because I was manufacturing them. Let's talk a
little bit about that synchronicity.

Speaker 3 (37:38):
Yeah, So how I see synchronicity is that synchronicities are
happening all the time, no matter what frequency you're on. Yes,
and so if you're manifesting your life unconsciously from a
fear based program, then you have negative synchronicities around you

(37:59):
all time. I'm supporting the life you've created for yourself,
and what happens is those negative synchronicities become so natural
to you, you're just it's they're on replay and you
don't even realize that you're seeing them because it's part
of your conscious awareness. Unconscious awareness, right, or with me,

(38:22):
I know when I see a synchronicity that's out of
place with my vibration, that it's me. And what did
I do? I just took a turn, I just had
a thought and I can tune in. So, yeah, everybody
wants fun, yummy, delicious synchronicities, But the universe is conspiring
with you at all times. It's just your conscious awareness

(38:42):
can't see past your current belief system. So whatever you
believe and however you speak and talk, that perception that
is within you is projecting out onto the screen of
life for you to be in this beautiful play. So
your soul can have a role as the main character
of this play. Right. And so when you start to

(39:07):
make changes and you're decoding, dismantling the egoic program that's
keeping you in a loop, new syncreticinis come up to
let you know where you're at, which way to go. Right,
it's just happening automatically, But what else is happening? Royce
is inside of you. Your perception is changed. You now

(39:32):
have a new perspective of what you're going and so
your conscious awareness allows you to see it. Which is
why I could be sitting next to somebody in a
coffee shop talking about what I'm talking to you about
right now, and they could be sitting next to me
and their perception of life is opposite of mine, and
they'll literally think that I'm crazy because there's no way

(39:55):
in their perception that they can even comprehend and what
I'm saying, because they're projecting their life based on their
own belief system. Which is why we can't change everybody.
Each person has to own their own belief system and
decide when to change it. See everybody trying to change

(40:15):
everybody else. They don't even think like you, they don't
see like you. And so the conscious awareness of our
experience happens inside of us. It's kind of like the
blinders come off and each time it opens a little
more and a little more. But it's happening in here.
So I've had friends when I've said, oh my god,
I just had this amazing level up and I see

(40:36):
the world and I see everything, and they kind of
look at me like deer in the headlight, and they're
holding space for me and they love me, but they
literally don't see what I see. And then I go, oh,
I have to point it out to them, and when
I do, they go, oh, I see it because they're
bringing their conscious awareness to a point in time and

(40:58):
space and their own reality that something is there right
in front of them the whole time. So that's why
you're writing your own script. And you're nobody can see
what I see in me. Nobody can see me the
way I see me. So when you own who you
are and you don't care what everybody else thinks, their
opinion doesn't matter. You're not carrying that fear, in that worry,

(41:21):
and so you just start opening up and your soul says,
oh my God, I trust you now, and your body says,
I trust you now. To be fully in the experience
as the creator, unlimited creator, it means, don't put me
in a box, don't label me. Let me fully express
myself authentically in the only way that I can with
nobody else's opinion. Nobody else needs to tell me how

(41:44):
to show up right. So how I see it right,
That's how I experience it. That's how I embody it.

Speaker 2 (41:53):
Yeah, and then it won't matter what people say or
think at all, No, because.

Speaker 3 (41:58):
They can only meet me where they are in their
own belief system and what they're projecting out into their
own world. It's if you you know, you have five
friends and you haven't seen them for a while, right,
and now I'm over here, I'm making all these changes. Well,
in their memory, the energy of me is the way

(42:21):
they saw me the last time they saw me. But
I've been over here in my own timeline changing. But
I live in their timeline energetically, in their mind right.
And so when they run into me and I look
different and I've changed and my energy's changed, some of
them don't like it, and they're like, wait a minute, whoa, whoa,
there's no because they want me to show up the

(42:41):
way I used to because that makes them feel comfortable.
And I don't respond to that anymore, right, because I
know that we were on a trajectory to teach each
other something and now we're no longer a vibrational match.
And so I don't take it personal. But I don't
take steps back to make somebody feel comfortable to be
around me. I keep taking steps forward, and then I

(43:03):
attract new people that are also doing the work that
can honor my authenticity. So, you know, we don't we
attract everything. We're an attractor. We don't chase things that
are in the past. You know, I don't I attract
all new which is unknown, because I don't want to

(43:24):
stay stagnant in the past. I want to evolve. I
want to learn new things.

Speaker 2 (43:29):
Yeah, yeah, I think that's interesting. I just read a
very interesting article about It was a very woo woo
out there energy article that kind of opened a little
space for me to think in terms of energy, how
some of those old people that we used to be
are still energetically floating around and we have to literally

(43:53):
let them go and kind of state in a very firm,
intentional way that that's not who I am anymore.

Speaker 3 (44:03):
And I think you just.

Speaker 2 (44:03):
Said that in your own but it was very out
there in rubu Land. I thought it was fascinating.

Speaker 3 (44:09):
Yeah, when we're in my experience, when we're expanding our
own awareness, right, we are the awareness to the power
that we have to create whatever we want, whenever we want,
how I want, when I want, with who I want.
Right when you're in that power center, and you're the
main character and you're writing your script and you're deciding
who gets a part there. There could be somebody that

(44:32):
was in your past that tries to come back in.
And what's happening in the quantum field is there's a
part of you in that timeline and you've set a
boundary with the universe and you're doing all this work
when you're attracting these new things, but there's a part
of you that's left with that other person, and they'll

(44:53):
try to come back in and pull you back in.
And that's a really good indication of how far you've gone,
because you can witness that going. Oh, I have an
opportunity here to step into an old version of myself
and re experience it with this person. Or I can
give a good boundary, and I don't even respond to that,

(45:15):
because I'm going to keep going up ahead, even though
it's unknown, and even though I love that person and
that person is amazing and I had fun with them,
because I know how it all works. I'm going to
keep going and attracting what my vibration is because that's
how I can climb up highor to what I'm creating
in my own life, and so you will get those
aspects of yourself that will come knocking on the door

(45:36):
because we're all connected on a soul level, and those
people were in your life to teach you how to
get here, and they'll try to pull you back, and
you have the awareness of, oh, they're trying to pull
me back, But I don't go back for anybody, even
if I love them, because now I love myself. And
when you find this self love, you won't give it
up for anybody. You just won't.

Speaker 2 (45:58):
Yeah, And if you find yourself giving it up, there's
still more to learn, and there's.

Speaker 3 (46:02):
Still more to learn. There's more to learn, and then
you're going to go through that and and that's part
of the process, and that's what the soul wants to learn,
right And Yeah, when we start, when we stop giving
so much credit to that we're the mind and the body,
and we give more truth to we are the actual
soul in a human experience. And the mind is a

(46:25):
program and the body is the vessel for the soul
to project onto this beautiful planet what we want to experience.
You just wouldn't be afraid of anything that's true.

Speaker 2 (46:38):
That is true, So I know you work with people
and help them get to these wonderful places that you're
talking about. Tell us a little bit about your work
and how you get people to find the magic, find
the power, find that synchronicity, all of that. What are

(46:58):
the techniques that you use and how can you help
people get there?

Speaker 3 (47:02):
Yeah, so I do one on one sessions with people,
and I have different levels, right. I work with some
people that really want a deep dive, which means I've
done a little bit of work on their own and
they're kind of in the void and they don't know
how to get to the next level. My energy can
really kind of push them to the next level, and
it's all about bringing them back to their own truth, right.

(47:24):
And so I have a really good way of hearing
what people don't say, what they're not revealing, going back
to being a little girl being able to read the room, right.
My gift is I can hear what's not being addressed,
and I can see where they're stuck. And the goal
really is to help people learn to catch themselves what

(47:48):
they're saying and thinking all day, teaching that technique to
question everything and be consciously aware of what's coming out
of your mouth. Even when you're writing your affirmations or
you're writing in your journal. You write in your journal,
oh my gosh, I had I woke up late, and
I was late to work and I had a bad day.
This is amplifying that experience, right, and so teaching them

(48:11):
how to write the opposite of what they experienced, right.
And then you know, I have courses that people can
take online self discovery courses on their own, their lifetime.
They can take it at their own pace. There's no score,
nobody's judging you, nobody's you know, that has action plans
in it, and those are running behind the scenes. And

(48:32):
I also offer gene Key sessions, which is a beautiful
teaching of a soul map that kind of tells you
how you're designed so that you just really drop the
thought that anything was ever wrong with you to begin with.
The problem with most people is they think something's wrong
with them, and there's nothing wrong with you. You're going

(48:52):
through an evolutionary experience. Your soul wanted to experience XYZ, right,
and now you've got to come to the point where
where the soul's learned enough and it's time to move
on and open up and opening up to the unknown
is a practice, but you don't even get there until
you dismantle this program that's playing unconsciously in the background,

(49:13):
that's creating your reality, that makes you feel like there's
no way out. That's what we dismantle first.

Speaker 2 (49:20):
And how do you dismantle that? Can you give us more?

Speaker 3 (49:24):
Well, like I just said, you've got to understand what
are you thinking all day? And whose thoughts are they?
Who said that? Who's thinking that? Where did that thought
come from? Whose belief is it? Is it my belief system?
Did somebody hand it to me? Oh, it came from
great Grandpa? Oh my gosh, Okay, Well, in that day
and age, that belief system may have worked, But in

(49:45):
this day and age, is it serving me? If you
don't start questioning your own belief system, you're not going
to go anywhere other than you are, Which is why
a lot of people just have the same life and
don't move and don't leave and live in the same house.
All that is wonderful, that's amazing. There's some people that
just don't like change, and I honor that right. I'm

(50:07):
a changer, and so I usually attract people that want
to change and go to the next level. And most
of the people that I come across with are going
to the next level for their own life, but also
they have a vision for humanity to spread more wisdom
and compassion and love to humanity to awaken so that

(50:29):
we can all have a new experience in life. The
one where experience is outdated. It doesn't work for anybody.
It keeps people in debt and working in jobs they
don't want. And I teach to follow your passion responsibly, right,
we have to be responsible. But if you don't take
the first step, you're never going to know if you

(50:50):
if you don't try, right. So, yeah, it's a process Royce.
It's not just oh, here's an action plan and you're
going to go do this and then you're going to
be poof. You're going to you're going to be a
new person, because this is full responsibility and free will,
and each person is different, and so we have to

(51:11):
see how they're hooking themselves into this program that's not theirs, right,
And then once we do that, then we start working
with the heart of listening to the whisper and the
voice and trusting it and getting into your body and
fully getting to know your body so that you know
when your body is on Everybody knows when their body's

(51:32):
on fight or flight, but they don't know when it's
on resonance for the next step to follow the path
with love and trust. And so you've got to learn
how to be in your body and breathe in your
body and sit in silence and be comfortable. But a
lot of people got the headphones in they're driving with music,
and you know, I get most of my amazing downloads

(51:54):
driving in a car with no music because my brain
and my body's driving the car. And then I'm just
getting all these great ideas and new things for me
to try and think of. And it's always when I'm
driving my car. Yes too, I'm fully open in the
right brain to receive something new.

Speaker 2 (52:13):
Yeah yeah, So what about in the last couple of minutes.
I know the work that I do with people is yes,
it's awareness, it's consciousness, intention, all of that, but it's
also getting down beyond just Grandpa saying this and I
bought into it. Why did I buy into it?

Speaker 3 (52:34):
Why would I.

Speaker 2 (52:35):
Have even chosen to have a grandfather that would try
to impact my belief system in that way? Where did
that come from? Do you go as deep as past
lives and between lives and that sort of thing.

Speaker 3 (52:47):
No, I feel like in my experience, I don't have
to go that deep into it because most people when
they see the thought. It's funny when people hear themselves
talk for the first time and they hear what they
say when I say, what did you just say? And
I tell them and they deny it, and then when
they do it again and I go, oh, you just

(53:09):
did it again, and then they bring their conscious awareness
to I go, well, imagine if you just said that
twice with me, what you're doing sixty to thousand, sixty
to one hundred thousand thoughts and words a day unconsciously,
And so when you bring your awareness to it, and
you hold yourself accountable for it, you can unravel it
quite quickly, right. And So I don't go into past lives.

(53:30):
I know that's that's not my work. But I know
that people that work with me go to other people
to do that, and I honor all those methods, but
I personally don't go there. I generally work with them
in the present moment, right here and right now, because
in this present moment, your past, present, and future are

(53:51):
playing out at all times, and in this present moment
is the only time you can make a change to
any of that.

Speaker 2 (53:56):
Yeah, what about honoring the emotions they're feeling. Oh gosh,
we have two minutes. Can you talk for one?

Speaker 3 (54:03):
Yeah? Yeah, you have to feel it to heal it, right,
you got to feel it to heal it. So whatever's
coming up in that session, we get to the heart
of the matter, We get to the truth of it.
And sometimes they just need to sit and cry. But
a lot of people don't want to feel the emotions,
so they push them home. They keep pushing them back down,
and so I teach them how to sit with it,

(54:23):
how to be okay with it. And by the way,
the body's only responding to the mind program. So you
want to understand what's happening between the two. And when
you start understand what's happening, you allow whatever needs to
come up come up, and you'll be shown your next step.

(54:44):
The soul has wisdom, it has technology behind the scenes
that's happening energetically that will guide you to your next step. Right,
you don't even need a guru and a teacher to
be with you all day every day. You just need
a couple of tools to bring into your reality to
do it yourself. Yes.

Speaker 2 (55:04):
Amen, So how do people find you? How do they connect?
I know your website is written under your name, but
tell us how do people find you?

Speaker 3 (55:12):
Oh? So yeah, my platform is called a tuned guidance,
So you can go to a tunedoguidance dot com. And
I'm on Facebook and Instagram and LinkedIn by under a
tuned guidance. It's just at a tune guidance.

Speaker 2 (55:28):
Great, well, thank you so much, Brenda Lee. This was
really wonderful than so much.

Speaker 3 (55:33):
I appreciate thank you. It's an honor to be here
with you.

Speaker 2 (55:36):
Yes, I appreciate your work and your wisdom. And everybody
is out there, thank you for joining us. And I
know we're doing this on New Year's Eve, but it'll
probably be aired all kinds of different times. But right
now it's we're on the brink of twenty twenty six,
so let's create it to be an amazing evolutionary year

(55:59):
that we all deserve. I will see everybody next week.
Thank you,

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