Gender Warz World Wide Episode 17-"Who Is More Delusional In Dating?"

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Speaker 1 (00:01):
The fuck is wrong with you niggas. Hold on, man,
we get the four hundred side in this bitch. Fuck
is wrong with you niggas in this bitch. Fucking clown
ass niggas. Man, we're going up again. Nobody's Mardy Nigga.
Fuck is wrong with y'all, bitch as. No, Nigga, don't.
Nobody's coming on stage Nigga, No Ron, No, nobody's getting
Marty Nigga.

Speaker 2 (00:21):
Nobody.

Speaker 1 (00:22):
I don't give a fuck.

Speaker 3 (00:22):
Who's cool with chat?

Speaker 1 (00:23):
Nigga. We are dressing that ship right now, Nigga Home
Team only. Nigga fuck is wrong with your niggas. You
stupid fuck is wrong with you ship. Yeah, Nigga, we
are dressing that ship now. Nigga fuck is wrong with
you niggas. I'm ad too many niggas in this bitch
that's the problem. Yeah, y'all niggas feel comfortable coming to
the four hundred side and boom and shit, Yo, we're

(00:45):
gonna talk about it. Nigga fuck is wrong with y'all. Hey,
I I don't doctor b Who the fuck boom in

(01:05):
my room?

Speaker 4 (01:07):
I got I got kicked yo.

Speaker 1 (01:10):
First of all, I told y'all I fuck with Bee, right.
I told y'all I fuck with Bee. Don't block, don't throw.
I don't care how much he triggered you. I don't
care who triggers you on the app. I don't give
a fuck who the fuck it is. It don't matter
who it is. Don't move nobody to the Google. I

(01:31):
don't give a fuck who you are.

Speaker 5 (01:32):
Bro.

Speaker 1 (01:34):
And I tell y'all me and Yea tell y'all this
ship all the time. Don't come to the room and
remove people. Y'all want to say, Fuck me, nigga, I
never disrespect the chat, nigga. You want to come in
here talking about some fuck stack? Nigga, What is wrong
with niggas?

Speaker 2 (01:51):
Bro?

Speaker 1 (01:51):
Fuck me because you're being rude and you're throwing people
down to the bottom. Are you fucking crazy? I already, bro,
I'm already going check. I'm already gonna check motherfuckers about
playing with my girl and on my girl's top and
playing with me. But you want to boom my ship.
I'm already handling some ship in the background, but you

(02:12):
niggas want to come on my ship and boom it. Nah, nigga,
Now we're gonna address it. Stop playing with the motherfucking
room in this side. Why do y'all feel comfortable? Will
come into our room right and we yo. Yeah, how
many mars we be having on the stage, varn Stunner
will have a lot of. I have too many, and

(02:35):
I fuck with all y'all. I rock with all y'all
on the stage. As soon as somebody don't feel right
or feel like a mother is going their way, they
want to boom it. If I tell you to be quiet,
be quiet, what.

Speaker 4 (02:47):
Are you doing?

Speaker 1 (02:49):
It's it's over. After that, you're gonna get in chest
saying fuck me, and then you're gonna move. Doctor be down. Nah,
that's not what we're doing. That's not because I don't
go to your space to do it. Doctor Beatle, I
don't hear come to my space and move the roof.

Speaker 6 (03:02):
I was at the holloway screaming like hell.

Speaker 1 (03:04):
You understand so so so so if you shot.

Speaker 7 (03:06):
You from the shot yeah, bro yo y'all y'all okay,
Ron said he didn't he Ron said didn't need to
do it.

Speaker 1 (03:15):
We're gonna check the replay.

Speaker 7 (03:17):
And see who the fuck we're not gonna fuck with,
because y'all real dis respectful.

Speaker 4 (03:22):
If we checked for Sean for doing some dumb ship.

Speaker 7 (03:25):
Y'all, y'all are not above ship. If that come off
with his mic and stay shut up, shut the fuck
up because it was if it was about somebody else,
guess what, y'all gonna be quiet? So why not have
that same respectful he trying to control his room. Why
not have the same fucking respect But y'all booming ship now,
and y'are not gonna up to it. I guarantee you, y'all,

(03:48):
y'all not y'all not above brother. Y'all are not above reproach.
Nobody gets a funk who y'all are. We got respect
for y'all. We funck with y'all, but y'all, even y'all
not even a fucking home team the fuck growing y'all,
we give you. Y'all are a guest on this fucking
on the stage with us.

Speaker 8 (04:05):
So we want to give you a being given a
key to the criby.

Speaker 7 (04:07):
That don't mean you can fucking lock the door on
the motherfucker that owns the goddamn house.

Speaker 4 (04:13):
We've been the only motherfucker for too long.

Speaker 7 (04:15):
And I told my brother bro, it's not gonna be
disrespectful now. I will, and for a while it was
gone good. But soon motherfuckers think that they biggert they
bigger than with the goddamn program that want to boom
the room. Didn't nobody tell y'all to put down doctor B.
You don't you know how much as motherfucker get on
my nerves. I don't put him down the wall floor.

(04:37):
It's the wall floor. If you can't handle.

Speaker 6 (04:40):
It, say the fuck out our rooms, bro, what the fuck?

Speaker 9 (04:47):
I'm gonna just say this real quick, doctor, being that
we've had our issues, can't say current unless we don't
talk with each other.

Speaker 4 (04:55):
Because you called me the N word. Y'all know how
I feel about that.

Speaker 9 (04:57):
And my only thing with him was, hey, since you
know I don't fuck with you, then there's nothing for
us to talk about.

Speaker 4 (05:02):
That was our little discourse for like a minute.

Speaker 9 (05:04):
I don't want to escalate that in those spaces no more,
because it's like, well, if we see each other person
and if it's on site, then it's on site. But
until we get to that point, then there's just nothing
to say. I didn't go on I didn't even know.

Speaker 1 (05:16):
Yo, bro, listen, listen, run. If I didn't somebody hold up.
If I tell somebody to be quiet, and y'all want
to say fuck me in the chat. Nigga, Fuck you, nigga,
don't come to.

Speaker 10 (05:24):
This shit there.

Speaker 1 (05:25):
I agree, fuck you talking fuck me, nigga. Fuck you, nigga,
you coming to my shit talking about some fuck me.
I burn your shit down. Nigga, Fuck you too? What
you coming here for it in chat? Get the fuck
out of here? Fuck me cause you want to throw
doctor beat out something. Bit just like Rico said. Bitch,
how about that fuck you talking about you don't put
no money in my pocket either, bitch, Now you're getting
removed to block. Fuck you fucking auntie ass.

Speaker 2 (05:49):
Bitch, you done too?

Speaker 1 (05:50):
How about that nigga talking about some fucking me. You're
still coming here talking about some fuck fat nigga? Fuck
you too, nigga, you playing you come on my ship
being disrespectful, throwing niggas down, Come about some fuck me
like you like you're charging my ship. Ain't you so
fucking classy woman?

Speaker 2 (06:04):
Bitch?

Speaker 1 (06:04):
Ain't you saying don't you portray to be this motherfucking
classy motherfucker on this app? What the fuck are you doing?
You coming in this hold?

Speaker 4 (06:13):
What are you doing?

Speaker 2 (06:13):
Fuck me? Bitch, fuck you.

Speaker 1 (06:15):
I don't even know you. You ain't never put bread in
my pocket? Nigga, I been up.

Speaker 11 (06:20):
What do you telling you?

Speaker 4 (06:20):
Come on this time?

Speaker 1 (06:21):
Fuck me on on the four hundred times?

Speaker 4 (06:23):
Bitch, fuck you?

Speaker 1 (06:24):
What are you doing?

Speaker 4 (06:33):
I can't get mad, bro, I can't.

Speaker 7 (06:36):
I can't get mad, yo, Bro, the nigga minds of
thirty people in this room or more because you fuck
with everybody.

Speaker 12 (06:44):
Mad love showing mad love y'all disrespectful as hell.

Speaker 4 (06:49):
Y'all have been boomed before before that one has it?

Speaker 6 (06:52):
Nah?

Speaker 1 (06:52):
Nah has it? Because we keep it's an easy process
of elimination. Who is doing the ship? I mean, if
we're gonna be honest.

Speaker 4 (06:59):
About man, I don heard five people say Ron didn't
Ron did it? Oh No, I did not do Man.

Speaker 13 (07:15):
Were about to send an email at the club house.

Speaker 14 (07:18):
Yeah no, not Ron would have. Ron would admit to
the niggas. He would admit to it like, no, I'm sorry,
I'm not talking. I'm not talking to you, I'm talking
to this.

Speaker 1 (07:32):
Yeah, real quick, stunning doctor b am. I bugging for
her saying fuck me, brock.

Speaker 10 (07:37):
Me for what.

Speaker 4 (07:37):
I didn't even know she said it because somebody kicked me.
Out the room, doctor B. Yeah, I should not, Doug B.

Speaker 1 (07:42):
I got mad love for chack doctor B, me and
a man to respect her so fucking much. But she
come in. This's been saying fuck stack after she threw
you down, doctor B. What kind of make it make
sense for two sacs?

Speaker 15 (07:53):
Let me.

Speaker 1 (07:54):
I'm trying to just evaluate it. Want to say this
emotion like that. But but doctor B, I'm trying to see,
is it is?

Speaker 4 (08:00):
Is it period?

Speaker 10 (08:00):
Month?

Speaker 2 (08:01):
Are they?

Speaker 4 (08:01):
Are they on the cycle? Tell me what?

Speaker 1 (08:03):
I don't know what's going on though decisions One of them
look at and be like, but but yeay, but but
doctor B. Fuck me. Though I didn't do nothing, I'm
trying to get doctor B. She came back and said
it again.

Speaker 6 (08:16):
I didn't even figure it over.

Speaker 16 (08:17):
Shooting me down because I knew they was gonna bring
me back up, Like shoot me out of the room
was wild.

Speaker 6 (08:21):
Whoever did that? I think it was ryme, but we
can't prove it, uh doctor.

Speaker 1 (08:27):
Doctor doctor look even doctored out the doctor.

Speaker 17 (08:36):
I ain't even even.

Speaker 1 (08:40):
I didn't even say nothing when she said it the
first time, I said, all right, whatever, please nobody remove
nobody right like how we usually do you in the
chat steady streaming fucked you and acting like you're going
d BO B and my ship. No, this ain't chat
space chat. No wuck with her. She know we come
from the business side, so I don't know why she
come in here talking about she would never do that

(09:00):
on the real estate side, she would never do that.
And another, so why you coming over here acting like
you a d BO, like you're gonna take over my
ship and throw doctor be down, like you this motherfucking
ruler of this gender warship?

Speaker 4 (09:09):
You want you that crip?

Speaker 1 (09:10):
You didn't ain't on my side to be throwing Doctor
Buck with be.

Speaker 2 (09:14):
I told you this.

Speaker 1 (09:16):
If you don't do that type of ship and then
you want to get in the chat being disrespectful to me.
It's me you talking to chat. You ain't talking to
nobody else. I'm trying to get control of the room.
If you ain't got respect for me, you ain't got
respect for nobody.

Speaker 9 (09:26):
Fuck you too, So stat it probably wouldn't be wise
to mod me because anybody that's called me the N
word intention.

Speaker 4 (09:41):
I feel like you wonder you might have had.

Speaker 18 (09:43):
Boom No no, no, no no, no, I didn't boom,
but I do have people blocking, So if you want
people in the space.

Speaker 9 (09:55):
I can either be unmoded or move down or whatever
the case to be.

Speaker 4 (09:59):
Because I have to a blocked to call me the
N word, That's just what I do. And I'm being honest.

Speaker 9 (10:03):
And if I get blocked back, I understand I can't
see a space and can't get in.

Speaker 4 (10:06):
It is what it is. I stand on.

Speaker 19 (10:08):
I stand on that if I would have the hard
e R or just doesn't matter.

Speaker 20 (10:15):
Okay, I don't like either or okay.

Speaker 4 (10:18):
Yeah, So I'm just being honest.

Speaker 9 (10:20):
So Stack, maybe it's not wise to me if you
want certain people to come into spaces, because you can
actually unblock them. And I'll do that because other people
have in other spaces and I've unblocked them so that
they can get in.

Speaker 4 (10:31):
But outside of that, it's blocked.

Speaker 1 (10:34):
Hey, I want to know from I want to know
from y'all personally, because me, I always think about ship
before I do it. Tell me if I was motherfucking wrong. No, yeah,
doctor stunt, because you know my girl make me think
about ship. She hold me to a high was kind

(10:54):
of wild.

Speaker 10 (10:55):
Doctor b.

Speaker 1 (10:56):
Just let me know if I didn't. Corey, you too,
let me know if that was too much.

Speaker 21 (11:02):
For this one, I'm gonna say, bro, you know we've
been rocking a long time and I respect you from
the business space.

Speaker 3 (11:09):
You're a young gun. You get into it.

Speaker 21 (11:12):
I don't think you let nobody take you out of
your bag to where you stoop to the level. She
was out of pocket, but you let them be out
of pocket, and you don't jump out of pocket just
like them, because if you got it. You know, I
said this is somebody last night. If you're a man
speaking to a brick wall, you dig what I'm saying.
Who's the idiot the wall of the nigga talking to it?

Speaker 6 (11:32):
You know what I'm saying, saying that ship but he
was ready to fight, said.

Speaker 3 (11:36):
Yeah, but see it's yeh. But Hollywood, I don't.

Speaker 21 (11:39):
I don't play with I don't, I don't play with
Hold on a second, be Hollywood, I don't play with niggas.
I will fight niggas. I just I'm not gonna disrespect
no woman. So just be understood. If a nigga got
out of pocket, then I'm with all of the smoke.
But as far as talking to a woman like that, steak.

Speaker 6 (11:54):
Just one disrespecting him. You shouldn't be able.

Speaker 10 (11:59):
To do it.

Speaker 21 (12:00):
Yeah, it be broke, but bro go the deal. I'm
talking to stack man, y'all, look at your name, to y'all.

Speaker 6 (12:04):
All of that.

Speaker 7 (12:09):
If the rules is this, man, anybody down into.

Speaker 10 (12:13):
The good, that's what it is. Do not throw nobody
what's so hard? And not doing that? You're on the
war floor.

Speaker 4 (12:19):
Do you understand what the fucking war floor is?

Speaker 22 (12:21):
We think it's coom by y'all, my lord, shake your hand.

Speaker 10 (12:23):
That's not what it's about. Bro.

Speaker 7 (12:25):
We're out here to have fun, and so when you
go against the rules, you get. You get what the
fuck is coming? What's so hard about? Nobody's above it.
I'm not even above the ship. Yeah, I respect it.

Speaker 13 (12:37):
So why is it that he's still talking?

Speaker 7 (12:41):
Why why is it that somebody that's not a part
of our group and we're forming ship. You can go
out there and do what the fuck they want to do.
You see how much bullshit I take from you all
on the stage, I'll be staying some crazy ship and
I still just be laughing at all. And if I get,
if I have, if I'm thinking I have to take
too much of it, I'm getting the out of the road.

Speaker 23 (12:59):
I'm going I'm not.

Speaker 7 (13:00):
Gonna disrespect his room. He ain't gon disrespect my room either,
because we have that understanding. Bro, I don't give a
fuck what nobody say, not throwing nobody. Yeut, we had
a problem one person already, that person.

Speaker 24 (13:13):
Okay, Yeah, the war on y'all.

Speaker 13 (13:16):
Y'all too scared, y'all can't play, just stay out.

Speaker 25 (13:19):
Yeah.

Speaker 24 (13:19):
I came off on mic because I thought Yant.

Speaker 26 (13:21):
Was done because he paused a couple of times. So yeah,
so that's why no day. And we know where we are.
We know where we are. I do think it was
very disrespectful to I don't believe in people disrespecting anybody's
space in their rooms exactly.

Speaker 24 (13:37):
That's that's where I'm coming from.

Speaker 26 (13:38):
But let me say this, I hold you to a
high regards, right, So, yeah, you should have told her
about ourselves like you tell about ourselves. If you chose
to do it that way, brother, that's that's on you.
But I think you said that you the two of
you had a report with one another, so you know,
maybe it shouldn't have been Maybe when she said fuck you
took it to another level.

Speaker 24 (13:59):
I don't know, but yeah, she was white.

Speaker 4 (14:01):
Not just once, Andrea twice.

Speaker 26 (14:03):
I wasn't even looking at the floor I was.

Speaker 1 (14:07):
Before the last one got said fuck me when I
tried to come off the mic. Why are you saying
fuck me?

Speaker 4 (14:11):
And it's my room? What are you doing it? Three times?

Speaker 1 (14:15):
So if you that's what I'm trying to tell y'all, like,
what's going on? What I do?

Speaker 27 (14:26):
That's why I'm tels.

Speaker 19 (14:27):
Don't why everybody keeps trying to act like stag this around.
But all he was doing was implementing his ruise. He
literally was only talking about don't kick nobody out the stage.
The only time he ever even said anything to her
was when she kept saying fuck you, so don't I
don't need nobody in her acting like he was just
calling her a bitch, and he was just no.

Speaker 4 (14:44):
He literally said, I.

Speaker 19 (14:45):
Don't go in your room and do this and don't
do that in my room. So for people even in
the chat to be acting like you don't treat a
woman like that, then women need to stop doing ship
to me. And that that was literally the point of
the last one, the last time that we had. Y'all
always want to do shiit to men and then when
they react y'all act like they just wanted to act
like everything dandy.

Speaker 28 (15:02):
No, she said three times, that's what I read.

Speaker 23 (15:04):
I'm with you.

Speaker 28 (15:05):
I read it three times.

Speaker 4 (15:07):
Jazz real smart, and Jazz is smart. He pay attention
to everything in.

Speaker 19 (15:12):
The world, so he did not he his hitchens were
only a reaction to literally somebody that he had respect
for to say, fuck you three times.

Speaker 29 (15:21):
You're not.

Speaker 4 (15:23):
Look everybody crazy sta.

Speaker 6 (15:25):
First off, Jesus, grown adults.

Speaker 4 (15:29):
Fuck the holes.

Speaker 6 (15:30):
They want to act like they God damn children, don't
want to cry. The bitches want to call you bitch
and disrespect you. Fuck them forget what they're not gonna send.
They imagine they nigga to come do nothing to nobody.
They don't want to be disrespected. Tell them not to
disrespect them.

Speaker 10 (15:46):
I needed that.

Speaker 6 (15:47):
Fuck the holes and the bitch ass niggas that be
blocking niggasut because the niggas say the n't word.

Speaker 30 (15:52):
Damn hollywoods and ship by niggas ain't gonnas great back
yard you gonna ask so tough on the phone and
ship Man talk about the topic of move around.

Speaker 31 (16:08):
I just want to don't question it, don't just real quick,
not wrong, don't ever question it. Don't second guess yourself, nigga.
You you self correct, you are accountable for self and
your self. Well you have a question if you grownig
don't ever do those ship like that. And I don't
need a mind, baby, I don't need a mind.

Speaker 15 (16:28):
I don't need it.

Speaker 22 (16:29):
I could be a commoner. It's okay, No, not lucky
that I should not.

Speaker 1 (16:34):
I feel that No Lucky for real though, you know
what I'm saying, because it's like, Yo, I don't go
to nobody's face disrespecting nobody. I rock with everybody on
the app. But then when you come through disrespecting me.
How many times we've been in a space with chat Lucky,
We've always been the hustle right Lucky her.

Speaker 10 (16:51):
Body never.

Speaker 31 (16:56):
I'm still over here. I'm fucking shocked. I was just
utterly shocked. But at the end of the day, right
is right and wrong is wrong. Don't don't do no
ship like that to a motherfucker that you you you
y'all usually have respect for it. She that she went
that it shouldn't even win like that. She should have
been like, damn my brother, yeah he on my ass.

Speaker 23 (17:15):
Let me she went to fucking far.

Speaker 31 (17:17):
Don't whoever, motherfucking question any motherfucking body and ask nobody
if you was wrong, because nigga, you you you, you
ignored it. First, you let it slide, and then when
she took it to part that's what you got on
her ask and then you didn't block her out the
room that got boomed.

Speaker 22 (17:31):
She came over here and did it again, and then
you blocked her.

Speaker 31 (17:34):
Maybe you're not wrong, don't have a question, don't don't No,
you ain't wrong at all.

Speaker 4 (17:41):
Well because just as much as.

Speaker 7 (17:47):
Just as much the respect that you have for a
person that had the same fucking amount of respect.

Speaker 1 (17:54):
Wrong moved out of the room. I speak, Please, what
do you?

Speaker 2 (17:59):
Who's that? Who's that?

Speaker 10 (18:03):
You're about to get removed again, Nigga, don't.

Speaker 2 (18:06):
Kick me again.

Speaker 4 (18:07):
Ron already kicked me once as well.

Speaker 6 (18:09):
But anyway, so.

Speaker 4 (18:13):
That don't do that to me. Man, I know we
don't get along, but don't do that. I ain't hear
what Corey said.

Speaker 16 (18:18):
I know, but like I'm cool with chat, Corey cool
with chat. Like I wasn't tripping like on the shooting
because you I knew You're not gonna bring me back up.
Like that's cool. Like all I said anyway, was like
you can't touch nobody in school. And then she bugged out,
which I knew she was frustrated anyway, which was what
I was trying to say to everybody.

Speaker 6 (18:35):
Well, if we got a big stage like.

Speaker 16 (18:37):
This and it's eighteen mods of us, you can either
talk a lot or you can talk long.

Speaker 6 (18:42):
You can't do both.

Speaker 16 (18:44):
So if you talk a lot and long, the stage
is gonna get chaotic because nobody wants to keep hearing
the same voices. So you either got to get in
a jab jab jab or get your one long submission
out to stay on mute let everybody else get their
shit in. That's why jab jab jab when it's big stages,
because I don't want to talk long, want to talk
a lot. So I was trying to get that there.
Chest snapped on me iron tripping, and Cory got the relationship.

(19:06):
I don't know how the fuck you was all started,
Like I was still trying to figure out who shot
me out the room.

Speaker 6 (19:11):
I don't trip on like ch that's who she is.

Speaker 16 (19:15):
She just bugs out and then tomorrow to act like
nothing's happened, like that's I'm used to.

Speaker 1 (19:22):
Be.

Speaker 4 (19:24):
I thought she didn't.

Speaker 27 (19:25):
Cuss, what happened all that.

Speaker 23 (19:28):
I'm so surprised.

Speaker 31 (19:29):
I'm so surprised because I spoke on that.

Speaker 6 (19:32):
John not letting her ask one of her many million
questions because you know, y'all let her ask some questions
get a little hostile.

Speaker 10 (19:41):
She kept trying to play lawyer for Missy crazy ass,
instead of letting the conversation your role. And that's where
and she wanted to start. That's another And that's another thing,
like people got to stop with this free how you
a lawyer for free?

Speaker 4 (19:56):
On club?

Speaker 10 (19:57):
Let people speak for theirself, Miss Andrew. He was talking
some bugged out ship as per usual. And then motherfuckers
want to do this lawyer ship today, Like let me
step in and try to advocate for them. I think
they're trying to say that we got what they're saying.
You don't gotta be their lawyer. And that's what happened.
Me and doctor B was getting on ass. She tried

(20:17):
to shut us both trying to be a lawyer and
wanted to start dropping niggas to the goule. And that
ship was corny.

Speaker 4 (20:23):
So who boomed the room because she was in the
gool By the time.

Speaker 31 (20:25):
The room boom exactly, it was somebody heavy, you fuck
with her heavy?

Speaker 22 (20:33):
I love her, but maybe at the end of the day.

Speaker 7 (20:35):
I like that, Well, no, we gotta we gotta rule
it out.

Speaker 29 (20:40):
Or whoever wrong.

Speaker 6 (20:42):
I didn't want to say.

Speaker 22 (20:44):
Don't do don't don't do too much, because baby.

Speaker 25 (20:46):
I'm gonna do it.

Speaker 4 (20:46):
I'm gonna do it nothing.

Speaker 7 (20:48):
This is my this is my this is my own team,
right and so if I don't know who did it,
I'm gonna go down the list and find out who the.

Speaker 23 (20:58):
Hold on.

Speaker 22 (20:59):
Yay, I said, I don't need a mind.

Speaker 32 (21:02):
I just asking to go ahead email and find out
who boomed the motherfucking room. I don't play like that.
If I shoot the motherfucker, I'm my own my set.
I ain't got no problem with accountability. So you're right,
but please don't direct that me, my baby, because I
don't need a mind.

Speaker 23 (21:17):
I could be a commoner.

Speaker 6 (21:19):
I just well, I just want to say thank you
to whoever boon that bitch, because I was blocked out
like a mollfucker. So now that I'm backing the roll,
what's conversation man? What's on the floor?

Speaker 10 (21:29):
Man?

Speaker 4 (21:29):
What who went in the war?

Speaker 10 (21:31):
Man? What we got going on?

Speaker 3 (21:32):
I just talking about this talk to Memphis niggas.

Speaker 6 (21:35):
Grandfather, can you please tell me your grandchildren to talk
about it? Got that day A wig gonna want to
talk about meth and niggas.

Speaker 3 (21:42):
Hey, bro, y'all gotta feel man, y'all get to chill.

Speaker 21 (21:45):
It was hey, listen, I did the research clubhouse just
hit me back. It was actually yay. They boomed the
room stacked, It was yay. I just want to let
you know who it was, Brother one, Mic gonna stack.

Speaker 4 (21:54):
Hey, stack you there. I want to ask you a question.

Speaker 1 (22:01):
But if you go back, yo, yo, yo, yo, y'all,
what's up Roger?

Speaker 4 (22:06):
Other than doctor B?

Speaker 9 (22:07):
Because other people have asked me to unblock him so
he can into spaces as well.

Speaker 4 (22:12):
Other than doctor B, and I can I can get
along with. I just really don't have to.

Speaker 3 (22:15):
Say conversation, run conversation.

Speaker 4 (22:18):
I got it.

Speaker 9 (22:19):
He's actually cool. I just don't like what he did.
Other than doctor B. Who else do you have on
your list that you rock with like that that you
would prefer for me to not have.

Speaker 1 (22:28):
I prefer anybody to come in my room. But I
don't know who you got blocked. We just let's just
have I'm looking I.

Speaker 3 (22:34):
Have run, run run. This is why you call.

Speaker 10 (22:42):
Me the N word.

Speaker 4 (22:44):
Put the damn raise off. But I can't call you crazy.
Listen listen. I know with him and what I know
pose like I did, niggas. So what you're gonna do
about court?

Speaker 10 (22:59):
Court?

Speaker 4 (23:00):
I mean what you want to do?

Speaker 10 (23:01):
Hold on?

Speaker 4 (23:01):
So how how about this? Let's stop all the bullship,
Let's stop biggas and keep talking in the room. Emotional Listen, listen, listen, listen. No,
I'm not gonna unblock you.

Speaker 10 (23:11):
I don't know.

Speaker 4 (23:12):
If I don't be a mon especially go to maybe
you don't stop. I try to.

Speaker 10 (23:18):
I tried.

Speaker 9 (23:18):
I tried, even even in our last exchange with doctor emotional.

Speaker 4 (23:24):
You know. See, here's the thing.

Speaker 9 (23:25):
Respect people then they then when they respond, they're emotional.

Speaker 6 (23:29):
But you want to be you here crying on the stage.
You got blocked your emotions.

Speaker 9 (23:35):
To me, you're the bitch because you don't want to
have respect the word and I get that, and I
get that. Well, how about this? If you want to
really be intentional with disrespectful, would you like to take
this off the app and discuss it as.

Speaker 6 (23:51):
Ron if you want to meet up and fight roun
I'm a halfway point that, get in my car right now,
like you not get your doing this for nothing? I'm
asking you right now, I say, chatte where you want to?

Speaker 2 (24:07):
Where you at?

Speaker 9 (24:08):
Okay? So how about this? How about this? I'm gonna
put my number in the chat. I live in Philly.
Did you go right there?

Speaker 4 (24:18):
Then you go right there?

Speaker 1 (24:22):
Nigga?

Speaker 10 (24:27):
Hold on, you.

Speaker 4 (24:30):
Say did you say me halfway?

Speaker 6 (24:32):
Halfway?

Speaker 4 (24:32):
Is fucking Kentucky? Okay, You're gonna get in your car,
go to Kentucky right now? Wrong, I will fly there,
all will fly to chat Nigga. Let me know you
at the airport. I'll come back.

Speaker 6 (24:42):
You bess up and you listen, you got my number,
but see you don't. You're not willing to have your number.
Nigga talking about matter of fact, I'm gonna message you
to you. We're gonna solve this right now. I'm gonna
see how about beating your ass up?

Speaker 2 (25:00):
You can't?

Speaker 10 (25:01):
How about that?

Speaker 4 (25:03):
How about this?

Speaker 2 (25:03):
Right?

Speaker 10 (25:04):
I know?

Speaker 4 (25:04):
How about this.

Speaker 6 (25:06):
Feeling about the fucking words?

Speaker 9 (25:12):
I know, I know, But when I called you a
fagot in the other room, you got hight Nigga.

Speaker 4 (25:17):
I didn't like that first off. Wrong, I'm not No,
that's not married.

Speaker 6 (25:22):
I don't have a problem like your old lasses whole
right now in Philadelphia, man, because.

Speaker 4 (25:30):
Yeah, you're right, I didn't call you a niggirl. Nigga
calls you don't.

Speaker 6 (25:34):
You got your feeling conversation that way, and I'm going
to stay that way.

Speaker 4 (25:40):
And there's nothing you can do that.

Speaker 1 (25:41):
You know what.

Speaker 4 (25:43):
I guess what. You still gonna be a nigga. So
what was the conversation?

Speaker 10 (25:47):
Bro?

Speaker 5 (25:49):
Kind of talk later?

Speaker 2 (25:51):
Can we get me into the conversation.

Speaker 4 (25:54):
This nigga ain't talking about? You cannot. We cannot because
all you want to do is be a degenerate. I
call you a nigga. I'm ana genera guess what?

Speaker 6 (26:07):
And I know and I know that's where you're comfortable at.
You're not used to high vibrational comment you you ain't
never saying that ro I understand.

Speaker 4 (26:17):
That about Ron. Why do you not anything smart? What
nigga said?

Speaker 6 (26:21):
Damn a nigga?

Speaker 25 (26:22):
Wrong?

Speaker 4 (26:22):
Cook people, you got a lot of people not getting wrong.

Speaker 10 (26:25):
Let's do this.

Speaker 6 (26:26):
You just remember, tell me one thing out no no, no, no, no,
tell me one thing that provoking that you have ever said.

Speaker 10 (26:33):
Ron?

Speaker 4 (26:33):
When I called your mom and Henry person, how about that.

Speaker 6 (26:36):
Yeah, that wasn't thought provoking. Tell me one thing that's
that you ever said it was? Because listen, you're degenerate.
Why waste my pearls on swine. You're a degenerate.

Speaker 29 (26:46):
Tell the rest of the room.

Speaker 4 (26:48):
I'm telling you. I'm telling you.

Speaker 10 (26:50):
Let's do this.

Speaker 4 (26:50):
Let's take a poll right now.

Speaker 6 (26:52):
Anybody in this room tell me one thing you've ever
heard Ron said that made you say, damn that smart.

Speaker 4 (26:57):
That's up to them. I don't care about that.

Speaker 6 (27:00):
Anybody whose can anybody tell me one day Ron said
that was smart?

Speaker 3 (27:05):
Put it into you're the one.

Speaker 6 (27:06):
You're the one that's asking for help.

Speaker 10 (27:09):
I got you.

Speaker 4 (27:11):
You're the one that's asking.

Speaker 33 (27:12):
For a way airport. The midway airport is RALEYH, North Carolina,
or y'all can meet in lichg.

Speaker 3 (27:18):
You've got to chill, drummers.

Speaker 9 (27:19):
Hold on, look up to Raleigh, North Carolina airway code.

Speaker 6 (27:22):
Hold on for a second, because as a medical carry
that just sound right up.

Speaker 2 (27:26):
My alley medical care. Nigga.

Speaker 6 (27:28):
We don't give a fault what you do.

Speaker 4 (27:35):
Nigga. Nigga was so cool. The old.

Speaker 11 (27:41):
Box at the airport is stupid. Big y'all don't know
why do you niggas come in and do this. Listen,
nobody on the app nigga call him twenty twenty.

Speaker 4 (27:54):
I know listen, you don't want to resolve it though
you just want to No, no, no, I do want
to resolve it.

Speaker 6 (27:59):
I want you to stop being mad and we call
you a bitch ass nigga and we get back to
the conversation.

Speaker 9 (28:05):
So what no, no, no, we cannot because there's my
number right there in the you.

Speaker 6 (28:09):
How about I'm going to call six nine seven three
three six four a nigga to your face.

Speaker 9 (28:16):
But see, that's the thing. You don't want to take
it to that level. That's the thing you want to.

Speaker 10 (28:23):
Know.

Speaker 4 (28:24):
No, you want to be. You want me to go
to Roland, North Carolina? Want to be?

Speaker 5 (28:31):
Is that what you want?

Speaker 10 (28:31):
Wrong?

Speaker 6 (28:32):
You want to be performative. I'm not mad perform that's
all you want to do. I'm trying to have a
conversation in the water.

Speaker 9 (28:39):
You're mad about being if you want right, Because here's
the thing, if you really want to have a conversation, you.

Speaker 4 (28:45):
Don't want to talk to you.

Speaker 13 (28:46):
I want to talk to the rest of the room.

Speaker 9 (28:47):
Stop telling me to watch this. You brought me up
I was. We did not bring you on to you.

Speaker 6 (28:54):
You you came in here and said, hey, hey down,
hold on stat I wanted to ask ask your questions question.

Speaker 4 (29:05):
You bought it up.

Speaker 6 (29:06):
You would say, hey, stack all.

Speaker 23 (29:14):
In the room.

Speaker 6 (29:14):
If you don't want people out of your rooms, don't
moderate all right?

Speaker 1 (29:18):
Listen, listen, listen, listen, listen. What we're gonna do? We
want to get back to what we had this have
a question I got I got you cat question real quick.
Let me get the cat's question, and I'm gonna.

Speaker 27 (29:31):
Come to ask for.

Speaker 5 (29:38):
It.

Speaker 1 (29:39):
He's god cat. He disrespected, treacherous. We we addressed the
cat already. You feel me. We felt disrespected. And you
know he was threatened to remove somebody from the room.
He was supposed to call me like a real man
does call me on the phone when you in my
room and you got a problem with somebody and you

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threatening to remove them, and then you leave after I'm
checking the room. You're supposed to hit my line. I'm
not calling you. Who the fuck are you to call me?
So he tried to put it back in my court
like I was supposed to call him. Nah, I don't
call you, bro, You're supposed.

Speaker 2 (30:13):
To call me.

Speaker 1 (30:14):
You threatened to remove people out of my shit. I
don't come to your ship and do that. I don't
even I don't even go. I don't even go to
your rooms to dude, I don't do that. So you
know he felt some type of way. We said what
we said on the stage and that was it. It's
no hard feelings towards the brother Doude. Do what you do,
do what I do. But you're not gonna come over
here acting like you run shit and this is your room,
you know what I mean. So thank you, you know

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for asking that cat clear in the edge, just in
case you guys want to wonder. But yeah, not not
not feeling the rhetoric, not feeling the vibe, and we
only gonna keep shit that's solid within the team on
the four hundred side, and we definitely fuck with irl
Cat and sen Yoda and everybody that come through and
all of that, right, But the point of this room
real quick, I know Ron and DJ Hollo was having

(30:55):
some words. The point of this room was to show
you guys like it respected everything. I don't go to
d space, I don't go to Corey Space. I don't
go threatening to remove people and I don't do dumb
shit like Boom in the room just because I feel
some type of way.

Speaker 10 (31:10):
The gender war is.

Speaker 1 (31:11):
Worldwide is a podcast. When you guys, come on, this
shit is monetized. Y hey, this shit it's already doing numbers,
you understand. So when we come on here, we want
to have fun. But once y'all start saying fuck you
and removing people from and not having respect for people,
that's holding the space. That's when shit gets left. That's
when shit gets real, Like all right, we ain't playing

(31:31):
no more. This ain't no this ain't no game because
we don't come to disrespect and step on anybody's toes.
So that's the whole point of this room in the
first place. What's to let y'all know, Like, yo, y'all
see what happened. I rock with Chat, rock with are hard,
but I'm not gonna let you disrespect me. You know,
I don't know what type of day you're having, but
you're not gonna move doctor B down and you're not
gonna say fuck me. It's no tolerance. You're not my mama,

(31:53):
you're not my auntie. You're not in control of me.
You don't pay me, you don't put no money in
my pocket, and come on, I don't even have your number,
So for you to say fuck me, it's crazy. You understand.
Three times I let it go and and people on
the stage can witness I let it go. You said
fuck me, so it's fuck stacked And okay, fuck you too.

(32:14):
You know what I mean what you want me to say,
and just lay down and just let you disrespect the
room and remove people and boom and boom shit and
act like y'all coming in here and debo and shit. No,
this was supposed to be fun for the four hundred side,
and have you guys come in here and come have
fun with us. I started collabing with ya. You understand.
So when y'all come in here, have some respect. Don't
boom the room. Don't threaten to remove people.

Speaker 4 (32:34):
Even if you win.

Speaker 1 (32:34):
If you losing the argument, pay to pop the motherfucker it.
If you losing the argument you want the person gone
and they making too much sense for you, do stuff
about it.

Speaker 4 (32:41):
Then nigga, how much?

Speaker 2 (32:44):
But that's it. That was the point.

Speaker 20 (32:46):
How much is it to pop somebody?

Speaker 1 (32:48):
I'll share the link after.

Speaker 4 (32:49):
I want to depend on depending on who it.

Speaker 34 (32:52):
Is hallow run.

Speaker 33 (32:54):
Did y'all want me to look up flight times? Because
I'm in my computer now I'm all.

Speaker 10 (32:58):
For what.

Speaker 6 (33:04):
That nigga had five years to fight a nigga for
calling somebody nigga?

Speaker 5 (33:07):
He ain't diddyot.

Speaker 4 (33:08):
You really think I believe you don't want to get
on the plane so nobody has agreed to meet up.

Speaker 10 (33:13):
Then you got n I t who.

Speaker 4 (33:14):
Is the police in the chance saying my name?

Speaker 29 (33:16):
Bro?

Speaker 6 (33:16):
I don't fock with college. Bro, I don't fo the
police nor this nigga ain't ron. So can y'all both
leave my lab my time out?

Speaker 4 (33:23):
Did I call stop talking about me? To stop calling
me the N word?

Speaker 2 (33:25):
That nigga?

Speaker 9 (33:27):
Okay, then I'm not gonna stop sucking with you, bitch ass.

Speaker 6 (33:30):
You're not gonna do ship roun You're not. Your name
is entrepreneur, Bro, like you talking about my mama. She
know you wouldn't never talk about you, man.

Speaker 4 (33:43):
I know, I know, I know because you got a
cocage you call you. She ain't never call me. She
would call you a nigga?

Speaker 2 (33:50):
Yes she did.

Speaker 10 (33:51):
She sure did.

Speaker 4 (33:52):
She told me, come on, bro.

Speaker 6 (33:55):
I'm gonna call you a nigga.

Speaker 2 (33:56):
You wanted to be in.

Speaker 4 (33:57):
But you want to fight that back to the conversations.
Your called you a N word.

Speaker 9 (34:05):
Your mama didn' you mad about that, so now you
want to protect that on other people look at you
because you hurt.

Speaker 4 (34:11):
You wound them.

Speaker 6 (34:12):
Now hurt you the man you feel like you feel.

Speaker 11 (34:16):
Like this ship?

Speaker 6 (34:17):
Hell boy, can we give a man into the conversation,
like a.

Speaker 4 (34:20):
Real African American or black? You the one that feel
that you the only.

Speaker 6 (34:24):
One mad about the new word. Hey, welcome the gender
Wars the Hollywood. Right now, we have the topic on
the floor.

Speaker 9 (34:31):
You're showing you how it is to be disrespectful. Since
you want to be disrespectful, I'm showing.

Speaker 4 (34:35):
You how it is. Just like in the other you
think this, you can't you I'm talking.

Speaker 6 (34:40):
About so like I was saying, welcome wars. Right now,
we have a lot of people in here. Got the
body'll following the mad Hey many room down in the
bottom arrow coming out of it. Make sure you hit
that button and pain people into the space. Man shut
his face. Tell your friend to tell friends we're in

(35:00):
gender wars. We have the gender Warriors. Make sure you
go ahead and hit the link up top and join
the gender Wars official Telegram. One button to gets right
in the way you need to be to be a
with all the latest information and all the greatest So
check this out. Man, We're gonna move along. We're gonna
not worry about these bitch ass niggas, and we're gonna
talk about the topic.

Speaker 4 (35:16):
Go ahead, stat kick the information to.

Speaker 34 (35:21):
I don't know what happened around Ron.

Speaker 33 (35:23):
We don't know what happened to you, but there is
a there's an Amtrak station in Salem, Virginia as.

Speaker 4 (35:29):
Well, and a Graham.

Speaker 10 (35:33):
I'm all for it.

Speaker 4 (35:35):
We'll let us know when you book your ticket, nigga,
then we'll talk. See, here's the thing.

Speaker 10 (35:39):
We can run.

Speaker 21 (35:40):
One hundred and seventy five dollars will get you on
the megabus to North Carolina.

Speaker 8 (35:46):
Hold on, hold talking and could be booked or I'm not.

Speaker 4 (35:50):
Willing to make that agreement.

Speaker 10 (35:51):
I agree, I talked.

Speaker 6 (35:52):
I don't meet you in round and bro' gonna book
your ticket as soon as you book your ticket on.

Speaker 10 (35:56):
A book mine.

Speaker 4 (35:57):
Why why can't we talk? Don't want to talk to you?

Speaker 6 (36:03):
You want I ain't want to have a conversation and
squash the bees. Get your big asshole.

Speaker 4 (36:10):
You want to be performed, and you think you're fucking
your mom. You want to be performed.

Speaker 6 (36:14):
Like your jokes ain't funny enough to go back and forth, bro, Like,
come on, at least s I t and bensass nigga
with funny jokes. Even though he the police, I can
see going back and forth him. But you you are
beneath me.

Speaker 2 (36:27):
Bro.

Speaker 4 (36:27):
Now, just to show you I'm in complete control.

Speaker 21 (36:31):
The damage prices for airbnbs in that area is one.

Speaker 4 (36:35):
I can do what I need to do.

Speaker 10 (36:37):
You don't have that ride.

Speaker 6 (36:39):
He's gonna have to get someplace, you know what I'm saying.
Rest his head and ship getting beat up from again
called a niggas gonna really fuck with his mind.

Speaker 10 (36:47):
Back to the conversation, it's not.

Speaker 4 (36:50):
It's just the fact that you don't. You're not the
type of dude that has the calm and respect. You
just don't. It's not in your DNA. And that's okay.

Speaker 6 (36:58):
Well, you want to be actually very very much respectful,
to have a lot of decorum for the break people
and good acting brothers and sisters on this app.

Speaker 4 (37:07):
You just a nigga that we don't stare about. Ron
took part about you, No one.

Speaker 6 (37:12):
Feels anyway about anything you say because your miniscule nigga
very polite.

Speaker 35 (37:17):
The second and third time say hey, don't call me that,
don't call me that, please, then you got indignant.

Speaker 4 (37:22):
And this is where we all like nig.

Speaker 34 (37:28):
Staying in the same airbn.

Speaker 6 (37:30):
First off, I am not gay jobs, so please start
with the try and have me stay with another nigga
ship like if so does that nigga peech y'all picking
to a train playing automobile, Bro, I would go boost
mine a little meet in Raleigh. Other than that, I'm
not conversing with this bitch ass nigga on this ship. Bro,
we can't even hear.

Speaker 21 (37:48):
The nigga no more, understand. Just go fighting the Parkers.
I think they wanted to airport.

Speaker 6 (37:59):
No, no, I want to fly the airport. Stupid light
at the airport.

Speaker 36 (38:09):
Man.

Speaker 37 (38:09):
I ain't on nobody's side, but man, you're fifty old man.
When is the last time you got oh, you ain't
got no win, bro, You when it's the last time
you got in to a fight?

Speaker 10 (38:19):
Ryn, be real.

Speaker 4 (38:21):
Energy like that for her. For really, you don't have.

Speaker 1 (38:26):
You got gray in your bid. And it's not me
trying to get.

Speaker 10 (38:28):
At you.

Speaker 21 (38:30):
Ers as a m c A in the center of
the city. They have a gym, y'all.

Speaker 10 (38:35):
Looks like, here's the thing.

Speaker 1 (38:39):
Or do you have a membership for two minutes?

Speaker 10 (38:42):
That's just having a disagreement.

Speaker 35 (38:43):
And I'm saying, all right, instead of us going through
all of this, let's just have a conversation. Let's just
have a conversation. Let's see how it goes in person.
If you win, you win. If you lose, you lose.
How about that. But the thing is, are you really
willing to do that?

Speaker 34 (38:56):
You don't know but kle up boxing in the fitness
center on.

Speaker 3 (39:01):
Seventy that I'm gonna call him right now, very.

Speaker 4 (39:06):
Back about it. I'm being a gentleman about it. We
can actually meet at more Square Park.

Speaker 6 (39:13):
It's off of Morgan Street in the downtown area.

Speaker 4 (39:17):
There won't be a lot of police there.

Speaker 6 (39:19):
They're normally not at the parks in downtown more Let
me look.

Speaker 34 (39:22):
Let me look for the lunch options in the area.

Speaker 1 (39:24):
But if not, there's.

Speaker 6 (39:25):
A I'm going to Charlotte from beating him up. I
got some people in Charlotte I'm gonna pick it with.

Speaker 21 (39:31):
Okay, they Jervis just for safety mechanism. There is a
twenty four hour clinic two blocks away.

Speaker 3 (39:38):
Just in case he gets I gotcha.

Speaker 34 (39:41):
Did you see y'all break a boxing on fifteen or five?

Speaker 1 (39:43):
Capitalbility.

Speaker 21 (39:44):
I did see that, but they closed at five, so
that's not gonna work.

Speaker 38 (39:49):
Okay, okay, okay.

Speaker 25 (39:56):
Wow, you guys have been holding that shit it for a.

Speaker 1 (39:58):
Very long time. Hey, hey, hold on, hold on, hold on, hey,
hold on, I got you. Let me get a talk.
But there's you know, there's a there's more people DM
and me saying they're being removed from my room. You
know what I'm saying, My brothers listen. You see also
at the bottom, I'm just now checking my messages, my

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brother also saying that he was removing him from what
I can't.

Speaker 4 (40:26):
Wait to talk to. Oh so yeah, oh so I'll
have you up here really shot.

Speaker 1 (40:32):
In another gender War episode to figure out.

Speaker 4 (40:35):
What's going on.

Speaker 1 (40:36):
So you can hold on so we can dive in
a little further. So Olso, just seeing your message, Bro,
I'm reading it, just not even know you said, I
don't even know Bro sent me the message and he
was getting removed from my room. Bro. That's how much
busy we be ripping and running. Bro Bro already sent him.
He sent me a whole voice chat thirty six seconds.
I'm going to listen to that very shortly to see

(40:58):
why he's being removed from the room and what is
wrong with oh soo? And what's wrong with this good
clean brother?

Speaker 4 (41:05):
What what's going on? I want to I want to.

Speaker 10 (41:06):
Dig into that.

Speaker 4 (41:07):
You know what I'm saying, like why you're removing him?

Speaker 1 (41:10):
He don't even come on my stage, he don't even
talk m I'll be done.

Speaker 4 (41:14):
I'll be doing I'll be doing some.

Speaker 1 (41:16):
Real digging on that oldso situation, and I'll be doing
some really dressing on that ast into.

Speaker 4 (41:22):
A message, send me your numbers. I can call you.
And you know what's crazy.

Speaker 35 (41:26):
I was attempting to try to find some way to
be peaceful, like hey, Stack, who you want me to
unblock or whatever the case may be, And motherfuckers can't
even see that. I'm just just this is your space.
I don't give a fuck what nobody else got to say.
This is I guess you in your space, and it's like,
you know what, let me.

Speaker 9 (41:42):
At least be be have some sembilance of the carm
on my end to show some type of level of
respect to you as a creator, to you, and yet
tell me who you want me to unblock. Let's talk
about it offline and I'll do that for the sake
of your space, to show you respect. And motherfuckers still
can't even understand that.

Speaker 4 (41:59):
But then when I.

Speaker 35 (42:00):
Don't unblock him, and then let's say, if you do money,
and now they can't get in the space. Now they
look stupid ship and crying about it like bitches.

Speaker 4 (42:07):
Come on, well, I ain't.

Speaker 6 (42:10):
Gonna lie staking if I can't get any help. But
you got a nigga like him, Mardy, I just don't
desire to be in this space.

Speaker 23 (42:16):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (42:25):
That serious.

Speaker 4 (42:27):
Take it on the chat.

Speaker 21 (42:30):
It he got and we're gonna be ordering boxing gloves
or is this gonna enough?

Speaker 2 (42:35):
We ain't doing no gloves.

Speaker 6 (42:36):
I'mna bring my pistol too, because that nigga can food
and shoot. His motherfucker ain't gonna be a dead nigga. No,
he's from member, even member. Let please let him instigate it.
Make the ship funny, because we know Ryan ain't funny.
He a non funny nigga.

Speaker 4 (42:57):
He's talking about bringing the pistol.

Speaker 6 (42:58):
You're not even a man, Bro, just like I'm gonna
be a man and shot a nigga in the parking Raleigh.

Speaker 10 (43:04):
What you think?

Speaker 4 (43:05):
What you think?

Speaker 6 (43:06):
I ain't you riding in the plumber not bring your
gun on the plane? Run We didn't Ron, you said
you were flying. You know I'm driving, Ron, I'm not
gonna fly so I can shoot your bitch as niggas Jervis.

Speaker 3 (43:19):
I know a pastor there just in case.

Speaker 10 (43:22):
Ship.

Speaker 6 (43:22):
I forgot Ryan one singing Ron the police, No, no, no, no,
for Rial. The police is in here. S r T
is a cop. He got a different name in here
right now. But the nigga in the chat right now
that the real l Polo. That nigga is the police.
Let's stop talking about this ship. If we both go
to jail, because I don't wish jail on nobody like that.

Speaker 4 (43:43):
Call me if we could have talked about this, I'm here,
I'm gonnahit your.

Speaker 6 (43:46):
Line, so that way we ain't gotta talking about.

Speaker 39 (43:49):
I got you.

Speaker 2 (43:49):
I ain't gonna call.

Speaker 10 (43:52):
Ron.

Speaker 29 (43:52):
I don't want to talk to.

Speaker 10 (43:53):
You, Bro.

Speaker 6 (43:54):
I don't really give a we ever talked to each.

Speaker 4 (43:57):
I don't give a I don't want to be you
want to make up and be friends and ship.

Speaker 6 (44:03):
I just want to call you a nigga and laugh.

Speaker 2 (44:05):
Bro.

Speaker 4 (44:06):
I can exist in the same space with you and
not talk to you or with you. Ron, Listen, this
is what we're gonna do.

Speaker 40 (44:11):
Ry.

Speaker 10 (44:15):
Give you that same energy back, Ryan.

Speaker 6 (44:18):
Listen to then what we're gonna do, Ryan, Right, We're
gonna coexist. Hear me out, Bro, We ain't got on
the fire.

Speaker 10 (44:24):
We can do this right here.

Speaker 6 (44:25):
We're gonna co exist. What we're gonna do is when
we come into a space, I might call you a
nigga and you're gonna forget forward, Bro, and guess what.
And I might act the food and that's cool, brother,
and we know that's what niggas do.

Speaker 10 (44:38):
And we ain't trigger right move along.

Speaker 4 (44:41):
Me acting a fool. It's just showing you a mirror
of yourself. And another thing.

Speaker 35 (44:49):
I'm willing to meet up in person without nobody else's address,
just you and me meeting somewhere.

Speaker 4 (44:55):
They't got nothing to do with nobody else in the clubhouse.
If we can dissolve it, right, Ron, we just dissolved.

Speaker 6 (45:00):
If you said you're gonna be a nigga, to show
me that I'm a nigga, and I told you I'm
gonna call you a nigga and we're gonna coin doing that.

Speaker 10 (45:08):
Do why not just get it off. We're doing a duel.

Speaker 1 (45:12):
Now they're introducing guns. So I'm looking at Woody s Rifle.

Speaker 4 (45:17):
Club Boy. No biggas ain't wood.

Speaker 3 (45:21):
I just reached out to the Pyramidics. They will be
on stand.

Speaker 4 (45:24):
But can y'all can.

Speaker 6 (45:26):
Y'all calm down because the police is in the building.
I don't know if y'all know he is a cop.
He has a badge that he used to be to y'all.
He gonna get all us locked up. He's gonna get
y'all be the ain'd in the bedding of a murder.
Please stop advertising that ship, y'all paranoid.

Speaker 10 (45:44):
You said you was bringing a gun.

Speaker 4 (45:46):
I said that until the police got in here.

Speaker 24 (45:47):
Run.

Speaker 4 (45:50):
Isn't that a bitch? Moved pra and not talking about
guns in front of the police. That's been a bit.
I can bring my gun. I'm gonna cop. We both
legit carriers. He's a cop.

Speaker 10 (46:01):
Run, I don't care. I know how to use my gun.

Speaker 4 (46:05):
League, you want to go to jail? Okay, Well, you
was talking about your gun in front of police. I'ma
go on you. I'm not going to go to jail.

Speaker 9 (46:13):
You're the one that's acting like a bitch. You the
one with your face that listen read the cat.

Speaker 4 (46:18):
He told me to go back to my cell. Okay,
when you want me to go to jail.

Speaker 10 (46:24):
Wrong?

Speaker 4 (46:25):
You want to, oh nigga, want to wish jail on
the nigga in here?

Speaker 41 (46:29):
This is crazy.

Speaker 6 (46:29):
You still want to suck your mom whatever I do.
Why would I want to do that wrong? I'm a
Mary black man. Come on you, nigga here, ain't got
no hose.

Speaker 4 (46:38):
You right, I don't. I ain't got no wife, he
ain't got no kids nothing. You the old nigga in here.
You are absolutely right and wrong and writing wrong.

Speaker 10 (46:46):
Say I was right.

Speaker 4 (46:47):
I was like I told you. I'm literally trying to
show you something that you don't even understand. I don't
care what you trying to show. We're really waiting on
Stack to get the topic so we can move your ass.

Speaker 10 (46:59):
Out the.

Speaker 1 (47:02):
Listen. Listen, listen, listen, listen, listen. If you guys are
just joined Gender Wars, real quick, we in Gender Waves.
It's been the war all day. Right podcast has been
going real good. If you guys are taking this ship
to heart, and then I don't know what you I
don't know what you're doing. We are having conversation, who
regrets losing good love? More men or women? We're having
a new conversation, pinging the room out, share the room

(47:25):
out to the whole thing. But we're getting into some
new conversation on the war floor. Appreciate you, Corey, Lucky Jazz, Rosie,
Amber von Diego. Let's continue to, you know, have this conversation. Prince,
thank you for coming up on the stage. Ron Big
Eye shape, Yo. Let's continue this. Who regrets losing good love?

(47:48):
More men or women? I'm just gonna give my submission.
I feel like men regret losing good love. We always
fuck up, we always don't learn from our mistakes. Maybe
we're dealing with too many women entertaining too many situations right,
and then you will lose the women of your dreams
because you was being an asshole. You was out there

(48:11):
doing whatever you wanted to do, entertaining everyone but the
one that was going to hold you down. I see
the same thing for the women too. Write you'd be
loose in the city doing your thing, thinking you a
city girl, right, but then you lose the man that
was you know, always in your corner or you know,
wanted to settle down or put a ring on your fingers.
So it can go either way. That's why I make

(48:33):
these topics for men and women, so that way we
can come from both sides. Sometimes they lean on one side,
sometimes they lean on the other side, but you take
your stance. Anybody that's on the wall floor, they know
that this is an interactive audio app that I've turned
into a podcast that I've already had for two years,
so now we have over fifteen episodes. I appreciate you

(48:54):
guys for you know, chiming in getting the baits to
heat up. Are you in with people standing in your
stand and long as it's respectful. Soon as it starts
getting disrespectful, then that's when you know it's human nature
for us to get serious. Right, So I appreciate you.
Make sure you join the Telegram and let's tap into
this new topic and get some new vibes and some
new energy on the stage. Who regrets losing good love?

(49:17):
More men or women? You can come from any stance
in the opinion. Don't attack the person, attack the points,
who is next? Who's coming? In popcorn style for now,
let's go stot.

Speaker 42 (49:31):
Do you think that women are too delusional to admit
that they actually messed up.

Speaker 1 (49:40):
Women?

Speaker 2 (49:41):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (49:41):
I feel like women don't want to be let's talk
about it, come on conversation.

Speaker 20 (49:46):
I can say who asked that?

Speaker 1 (49:48):
I'm sorry, that was Leila. She asked that on Unicorn
right here with the Green people.

Speaker 20 (49:54):
Yeah, that was a good question because I was gonna
speak to that. I do think.

Speaker 43 (49:59):
I'll say for myself, I definitely regret losing like a
relationship with somebody who I would have done like and
who would have done any and everything for me, who
like literally loved me to death. And I was just
like mentally immature. I was stuck on.

Speaker 20 (50:23):
You know, like, oh, I'm pretty, he's gonna always be there, YadA, YadA, YadA.

Speaker 43 (50:28):
So I had to grow and learn that it's definitely
not about your looks, it's about your character, and I
had to work on my character and all that good stuff.
So from my personal experience, I think women regret losing
like a good man because there aren't obviously that many

(50:50):
out there. So if you had a really good one
who would have done whatever, for you, you definitely regret that.
So I want to chime in you guys, so to
the topic, I think who grets who regrets it more
is men. And the reason why I say that is

(51:13):
because like it's really really hard to find a woman
that is down through whatever. Like even when we're talking
about how like women are superficial.

Speaker 44 (51:24):
They only want you for your money. If you ain't
got it all going on, they not gonna stick around.
They not gonna be with you through thick and thin,
like when you really plage your heart to somebody and
then they break it. Like, I don't think that women
bounce back that quick like men might bounce back or whatever.
But I just think that men regret it more. And
that's kind of like maybe to the times I'm not sure,

(51:47):
but maybe to the times of like I'm pretty sure
everybody in this room has had a good person. But
who's crying the most?

Speaker 43 (52:00):
I mean, I think women cry the most obviously, because
like you know, they tend to want, like seek attention
to a certain extent sometimes, So yeah, you'll have them crying,
But are they genuinely hurt or are they attention seeking?

(52:20):
Are they trying to manipulate you? Know the situation. So yeah,
women tend to cry the most, but we cry for everything,
so it's not every tear that's actually genuine.

Speaker 44 (52:34):
You know, Kattie, I'm gonna leave you with this if
it ain't no way, I ain't lost nothing, Okay, like
some people, you actually just dodged the bullet on and
it's better that it happens sooner than later. But I
think that men like they regretted the most because it's
hard to find a ride or die girl's side of

(52:54):
die in too. They on their thirteenth candlelight visual.

Speaker 10 (53:02):
Damn must say a woman regretted more. I feel like
a nigga, he probably had a good one, but for
the he'll acknowledge it and then keep it pushing. It's
not he's not gonna really doge on the whole thing.
A woman, she her stomach won't be able to fathomim.
Like Damn had a good nigga and I just I
just fucked it all up. Like that's gonna fuck with

(53:24):
her conscience, Like she might start going to therapy. She
might cut her hair off, you know what I'm saying,
She might start gaining weight, like she gonna her conscience
is not gonna be able to eat that, like, damn,
this is a good nigga and I just fumbled and
she ain't. It's gonna take some time for her to
really like shit with that. Like a dude will be like, yeah,

(53:45):
I fucked that up, But what is what it is?
Life going? Like, we're not gonna really sit in there.
A woman gonna really sit in that have with her
girlfriends like, girl, Damn, I fucked up. I fucked up.
I had to go with a good one and I
just killed it.

Speaker 45 (53:58):
Like I think women tend to regret it a little
bit more, but that's because men don't reflect on it, right,
So yeah.

Speaker 27 (54:11):
They're like, oh, I fucked it up, and then.

Speaker 45 (54:14):
They'll make every single woman that comes after pay for
whatever fuck up that he was a part of. I
think because women can regret their relationships and reflect on
they have an opportunity for some of the future, but
men not so much. Not so much, especially when it

(54:35):
comes like closer to the end of life. We see
all these hospice husbands, which I find incredibly amusing. But yeah,
I think, why is that funny?

Speaker 2 (54:48):
I'm not even going to entertain it. Oh that's absolute,
that's that's absolute nonsense, Lena, absolute nonsense. Literally, Lena, we
live in a world where it literally only tastes we live.
We live in the world where it literally only takes
one of your homegirls to tell your girl fuck that
nigga was his faulty and y'all is gonna go go
dancing later on that week, like we're not finna do

(55:10):
this niggas. First off, the whole myth right that there's
just a whole bunch of really air quotes good women
out here, and like not so many men, nigga, I
ain't gonna lie most niggas and most women really ain't
that fucking good or great or like anything around that.
A lot of niggas are really like the way that
niggas self identify is like as good men and good

(55:32):
women is laughable. It's a really like it's a really
big joe because a lot of niggas are a lot
of niggas are incredibly selfish. Right the minutes niggas, the
minute niggas could when everything's good, niggas are talking about
all the sweet things they gonna do for each other.
The minute they start getting upset, respect's flown off the window.
The minute they start getting upset. Consideration is gone. Whatever
that should I committed to out of here until I

(55:53):
feel better. Go back on you, go back on, you,
go back on you. Niggas is juster specific. It's not
just yes yes niggas like niggas are men and women, right,
and even on here, we see people in one room, right,
and they talking about like if you, they talking about
all the good things and all I am the table,
but nigga ain't nothing on the table. It's just a

(56:16):
slab of wood. And then niggas is out here talking
about something what you bring to the table, like nigga,
you you ain't even got no fucking cutlery.

Speaker 4 (56:24):
You ain't got place, nigga.

Speaker 2 (56:25):
But niggas, because we live in this self identifying age, right,
people could just come on the internet and proclaim themselves
to be whatever the fuck they want, and if they're
cute enough, niggas just go with it. I don't know,
it's just done with. I think, to be honest with you,
I think, honestly, niggas probably sweated more because if you
the rarity of finding a woman with some type of class, right,

(56:47):
with some type of self accountability, but I can actually
good women right, that actually is not that selfish. That's
the true rarity out here.

Speaker 1 (56:57):
It's not even closes.

Speaker 46 (56:58):
The statistics and that on this as men like men
coming out of divorces, they jump off the bridges, they
have a high alcohol abuse rate, they go into substance abuse.
Like men when they come out of marriages, they really
they go through it. Women, you come out of a
marriage and you fill voids with pets. You know, you'll

(57:19):
go meet a guy at brunch with a big d
and forget about your husband of ten years. You know,
you'll go hook up with a guy in Jamaica and
forget about your husband of twenty years.

Speaker 2 (57:27):
But men, on the other.

Speaker 46 (57:28):
Hand, we see the statistics in the alcohol abuse, substance abuse,
men jumping off of bridges and stuff like that, like
it's not even a conversation to be had. Like we
see what women do coming out of marriages. You go
back to living like you're nineteen, going to the bars,
happy hours, having casual sex.

Speaker 4 (57:46):
That's how you feel your void.

Speaker 1 (57:48):
Fucking everybody, bo loo.

Speaker 13 (57:56):
Whatever was a mic dropt like do you want.

Speaker 10 (57:59):
To bus.

Speaker 38 (58:02):
What?

Speaker 2 (58:05):
At the end of the day's point was this point.
It is what it is, whether you believe the extra
antics or not.

Speaker 45 (58:17):
Like, if I'm in a miserable marriage or if I'm
in a fucked up situation, why do I need to
be sad when I've left it?

Speaker 4 (58:26):
Why do I gotta do that?

Speaker 25 (58:27):
You don't regret love because you don't love.

Speaker 46 (58:29):
I mean, when the first come around, you're gonna regret
that because the resources are not there no more. You're
gonna regret the resources being going. But love Now, like
I said, you'll meet a guy and hook up with
him and forget about your husband. You missing the resources,
the financial aspect of it, the stability that your husband
brought you.

Speaker 20 (58:48):
I see, this is where it gets brand.

Speaker 31 (58:50):
Did you want to go?

Speaker 4 (58:53):
I'm gonna go right after you my bed.

Speaker 44 (58:56):
Thank you though, But I think I think that that's
the problem. We always base people in what they bring
to a table, the proverbial table off of just resources.
When we're all getting money and we're all doing things outside,
we all come into something, hopefully being adults that can take.

Speaker 28 (59:16):
Care of themselves.

Speaker 44 (59:18):
So I think that when it comes to the intangibles,
I don't know if it's the way that we deal
with loss as women like we cry it out like
men they kind of hold that in. They suppress it
and then it comes out and maybe expresses in unhealthy ways.
But I really think that it's men that take it harder.

(59:42):
It's just like women have this weird, strange ability.

Speaker 4 (59:47):
I know, he cheated for.

Speaker 44 (59:49):
The eighteenth time, But if my man say he's sorry,
he's sorry, whereas men it's like, uh uh, my woman
is tainted. I can't ever ever like the when when
a man loves a woman, he puts her in a
certain place in his heart, in his life, like that's
he takes a bigger all.

Speaker 29 (01:00:09):
In my personal opinion, I.

Speaker 43 (01:00:11):
Mean, I actually do agree with you, but I think
it has to do with the fact that I think
a lot of women are just searching for whoever can
provide love, so regardless of the fact, like they're searching
for just what looks like love, what looks like a relationship.
They're chasing like the marriage, they're chasing the engagement, but

(01:00:37):
you know, not saying that it's not they're not chasing
like the person's character. But when it comes to men,
I think when they fall in love like it's not
they can't fall in love every year. A lot of
women can fall in love with different people every year
because they're chasing just oh I want to I want
to experience that that emotion of love. So does the

(01:01:00):
matter if love comes from Jack or Jill or John
or Tom or DeAndre or.

Speaker 27 (01:01:07):
Whoever the hell.

Speaker 43 (01:01:09):
So it's like, you know, and this is coming from
a woman, like I know how it feels like I
you know, I have to sometimes like.

Speaker 20 (01:01:19):
Put my mind in check.

Speaker 43 (01:01:21):
But the reality is, majority of women are literally they're
just chasing the emotion they love, the idea of you know,
the image of being a wife, the image of being
in a relationship, but not necessarily the work that it
takes to keep that relationship.

Speaker 20 (01:01:37):
Together or that marriage together or you know.

Speaker 45 (01:01:41):
So yeah, So wouldn't that mean that we don't really
be falling in love like that?

Speaker 27 (01:01:47):
Like I think a lot of us, like some.

Speaker 43 (01:01:49):
Of us know we do we fall in love, but
we a lot of us will fall in love with
whoever can provide We're gonna watch.

Speaker 4 (01:01:57):
This, weena.

Speaker 43 (01:02:03):
For they I wouldn't if it doesn't, No, it's the majority.
If it doesn't pertain to you, that's you, Good for you.
But for the majority of women, if you can provide
certain you know, tangible items in their life, they'll fall
in love with you.

Speaker 47 (01:02:21):
I'm just like, if you can make them.

Speaker 43 (01:02:23):
Look a certain type of way where they, you know,
can show off in front of their other girls and
be like, oh, I'm a wife, he got me this,
he got me that, they'll fall in love with you. So,
but men don't necessarily go around it is. Men don't
necessarily go around giving their heart away.

Speaker 28 (01:02:42):
But that's not love.

Speaker 41 (01:02:44):
It's not Come on now, I can't say that.

Speaker 43 (01:02:49):
Whether it's still in love or not, it's still it's
still you know, whether it's genuine or not.

Speaker 20 (01:02:56):
They're still portraying love.

Speaker 13 (01:02:58):
But that's not love.

Speaker 42 (01:03:00):
Wherever you can to find the problem is you can
to find love for another human being, right, That's part
of the problem with some of these conversations, Like I
have to respect the fact that some people to some people,
however unfortunate, that is right for the people that are
involved to her, that is love because she doesn't know
anything else. So unfortunately, a lot of these people are

(01:03:22):
out here looking for the fantasy of what love looks like,
and they don't really understand what it means to be
interdependent with another human being to stand by them when
things get difficult.

Speaker 29 (01:03:34):
Because love is a selfless thing, right.

Speaker 42 (01:03:36):
Love isn't about how you feel, It's about how the
other person feels when they're with you.

Speaker 29 (01:03:41):
So if you really love someone, that's the focus.

Speaker 42 (01:03:45):
And I think people are being trained up in this
transactional environment where it's like if he gives me this,
it's love, or I can love him if he does this.
I'm speaking from a woman's perspective because I'm just not
a man.

Speaker 29 (01:03:59):
I don't how they.

Speaker 2 (01:04:00):
Think about it, not, but even from a man's perspective,
right when a dude, when a man chooses, like I
want somebody allude to this earlier, when a man chooses
a woman, like a woman to be his woman, as
far as like putting her on the forefront, like this
is the woman that's in my air quotes PTR in
real life, right when you see me, you see her
when she's out, like she might be in my car.

(01:04:21):
You get what I'm saying, Like she might have my
hoodie on that you always see me with. You get
what I'm saying, Like I'm this is the one that's
that's for me, And like I'm putting that out because
dudes are have women that they you know, they struck
and junck with and that'll just be what it is.
They won't really give a fuck about it. But see
when dudes start bringing you around for real, start introducing
you to like keep people that are important and like that,
that's not something that a lot some dudes, most dudes

(01:04:43):
easily do. You get what I'm saying, Like, I'm not
bringing I'm not bringing niggas around to meet up with
fucking doctor being stack Like, it's just I'm not bringing
just any old shorter to come meet with my brother Mike.
You get what I'm saying. I'm not doing that, right,
It's not not just any old you know what I'm saying.
So when a dude does start investing in that starts
incorporating you into the plans that he's making in the future.

(01:05:05):
Like someone said, that's not something that dudes do with
a lot of women in their lives, right So now
and to a lady made the point that women can
kind of just fall in and out of love like
every other year. And I don't disagree with that, right,
men are not wired that way. Like that type of
emotional elasticity is not something that a lot of straight
men possess. Right, So when we do get into it.
Right when we do get to that point where the

(01:05:27):
woman like, yeah, I ain't gonna lie, we do kind
of put you on a pedestal to an extent, to
an extent, right, so when something happens and that shit
is kind of fucked up, we kind of just fucked
up the next five year plan, ten year plan. Like
I really had plans to fuck with you on a
major level, and now I got to rescrap and go
back to doing this shit alone, you know, which is
maybe not necessarily a problem, but it is kind of
like an investment loss, if that makes sense.

Speaker 29 (01:05:50):
Chag, I have a question for you real quick.

Speaker 42 (01:05:52):
I'm sorry if you don't mind Prince Jake when you
feel like that about a woman, because I know that's
a big deal for men when he starts or you
around the people he knows, sort of letting you into
the circle. And do you like check to make she's
doing the same, Like she's kind of like letting you
into your life. Because I think that's like, where's the imbalance.

Speaker 29 (01:06:15):
To be honest all the part, you know.

Speaker 2 (01:06:18):
To be honest with you. I don't think I ever
really cared about meeting like her, Like, you know, the
rest of her friends, Like if he got this best
friend or two or three, I'm gonna probably meet them regardless.
If I'm not meeting them, then it's probably not you know,
we must we probably just not there if I ain't
seen on the face time or nothing like I'm you know,
I know it's not about shit, not meeting all the
homies and shit like bringing in to the games and shit.

(01:06:39):
You know, I don't know what activities y'all do that
y'all would bring y'all do to, but you know what
I'm saying, Like it's just a little different for me
from a dude's perspective.

Speaker 10 (01:06:47):
The picnic, I don't want to say everything Katie said
with facts, you know, I'm saying a lot of women
or fall in love with a man's hand and not
his heart, Like you don't love his character. You like
what he's giving, you know, you like the fact that
he cash after every day and pay your bills every day,
got you a Ben's burkings. That's what you're in love with.

(01:07:08):
Not in love with him because the nigga. We all know,
a nigga could be a dickhead character wise, it could
be a mean ass more fucker. But if he given something,
she gonna fall in love with that, you know what
I'm saying. And even that she'll regret that because now
you done this nigga was beneficial to you. It's like, Damn,
I had a nigga that was paying my bills, buying

(01:07:28):
me burkings, taking me on chips first class every other month,
and now that that's gone, that was what her love
is based on. And now she's regretting that because she
don't have that type of dude said that's beneficial to
her no more. You know what I'm saying, Like she
done lost that and that a lot of them will
regret that, Like you had it good. You had it
so good. You had a nigga literally on auto pay

(01:07:50):
first of the month. That's the nigga she was calling
when she wanted a burkin. That's the nigga she would
call when she wanted. Now that that's gone, she might
regret that, Like, Damn, I don't got a nigga doing
that for me.

Speaker 4 (01:08:02):
No more.

Speaker 10 (01:08:03):
I don't fucked it up.

Speaker 9 (01:08:05):
But do you think that's an emotional thing or a
mental thing with a lot of women in that position,
Because when I look at the question. The question said,
it talks about the regret, and as a man and
being on this planet for fifty one years, I've seen
men take it hard when they lose a good woman
women because remember we're talking about regret losing a good

(01:08:28):
love more right, women do go through that process that
men go through when men lose a good woman, right,
But they go through that process when they loved that
man hard oftentimes, rather when they love that man heard
and that man cheats on them or does something to
cause a relationship to go where they reached the breaking
point and they can't be in it no more, and

(01:08:49):
now they're going through that because of what the man
is doing. That happens more on the men's side on
the breakup.

Speaker 35 (01:08:57):
But for the women that are doing exactly what you said, bro,
they in my opinion, based upon what I've seen them,
how they move, it's more of a just a regret
from a mental aspect, but not that emotional side where
men who lose a good woman they really feel it
because they know that they've lost her and there's no
getting her back.

Speaker 2 (01:09:17):
You know how fucked up of it? You know how
fucked up for this line? Like how you know how
fucked up. This shit is fellas, think about this right,
even when niggas and even if it's not being you right,
because we all know somebody a dude that was in
a fucked off relationship right with a shorty for a
period of time and she was busting his ass and
he still loved her. Bro, even when niggas like how
the shorty said earlier, when women get out of a

(01:09:38):
great a bad relationship, isn't she supposed to celebrate. Isn't
she supposed to be happy and you live her life
and bro, that niggas still be tore up. It's missing
the motherfucker who was kicking his ass because the nigga
he loved it regardless even though she was you know
what I'm saying, metaphorically literally whooping.

Speaker 48 (01:09:57):
His ass, nigga metaphorically sweet heart, but she was metaphorically
busting his ass right like disrespect, like you know, the
other off ship, and niggas still be sad after he
get out the relationship because damn you know it was
fucked up, but she was mine like I did love her,
You get what I'm saying, Like, that's how niggas love works,

(01:10:17):
even when we were getting are asking how crazy do
you have to love a person to still be one
of them?

Speaker 2 (01:10:23):
To die for this nigga, whether or not they really
still show you love or not. Niggas do this shit
every day.

Speaker 10 (01:10:28):
I say the reason why I say a woman more
because for two reasons. For one, don't let don't let
you be a dude that's a mister right, Because I
was speaking about this earlier, like if she she done
met so many fuck niggas in her life and she
finally met her mister right, and that ship is going
now like he just walks out on her. She ain't

(01:10:48):
gonna recover from that ship too easy because she's like
her mom's like, damn, I finally thought I met the
one and that ship did not. She gonna regret that
and then too. You know, I'm looking that their behavior
patterns after the break up. I done seen this woman
out here turning gay and lesbian. Now that's how her
broken shit. She don't even want to deal with niggas

(01:11:09):
no more. I don't see women cut their heel just
because of the last, Like she just cut the whole
new person that I want to just re She want
to reinvent herself. She can't sit in that Like it's like,
I don't seen I've never seen a nigga do that.

Speaker 43 (01:11:23):
Friend's house saw already I'll say, I'll say women will
do that over like a man who was like, excuse
my language, a fuck boy.

Speaker 13 (01:11:36):
So like he.

Speaker 43 (01:11:38):
Literally cheets on you all day every day, doesn't bring
crap to the table, doesn't pump your gas, doesn't open
your door, it's not doesn't do anything. But because her
level of self esteem, she allows that, you know, type
of man in her life, and she would think that
that is what she deserves. So that's why I was

(01:11:58):
saying earlier, because as women are like so emotional, they're
gonna constantly fall in love with just whoever the hell
they you know, are with. So whether he's actually a
good man who actually makes a difference in her life,
or he's like a bum like I've seen women cut

(01:12:19):
the hair off because a bum broke their heart.

Speaker 29 (01:12:21):
Like what wait.

Speaker 20 (01:12:22):
But this is my whole question.

Speaker 44 (01:12:24):
Why do we keep on saying that women are so emotional,
but in divorce they cold blooded killers?

Speaker 27 (01:12:32):
Calculated which sexism?

Speaker 28 (01:12:34):
They're so emotional? Or are they just taking these.

Speaker 4 (01:12:38):
Men's lives and just doing them.

Speaker 43 (01:12:40):
Emotional doesn't have anything to do with being good though.

Speaker 44 (01:12:44):
But I'm saying because you're saying emotion, and usually when
we have these conversations regarding emotion, then the opposite is logical.
You don't get wrapped up in your emotions. So which
one is it? Are women so hyper emotional? But when
it's in the they just become, you know, the most
logical people that stop and take a man for everything

(01:13:05):
that they got or what what?

Speaker 29 (01:13:06):
Which one is it?

Speaker 44 (01:13:07):
Because I think that we like to play both sides
of the defense here.

Speaker 2 (01:13:11):
So there's a difference, right between being logical and then
being been vedictive? Okay, right, So, like you wanted to
use that word logical, from what I've seen of niggas
and women going through divorce, is not it not? It
actually goes way beyond types of life. It's definitely vindictiveness.
Like I want everything. I want that nigga to feel
me even after I'm gone. I want that nigga to

(01:13:33):
cry at night thinking about what he lost. Like it's
not logical. It's like even when like even when the
guy's like, look take this and that's you know, that's
more than what you brought in. Yeah, Ever, it makes sense.
The lawyers like, all right, that sounds good. You're like, nah,
fuck that, I want the yacht.

Speaker 49 (01:13:48):
Too, real quick, real quick, real quick, chick, real quick, everybody, yo,
real quick, real quick. My brother also came up right
told y'all when this room first opened that I was
going to have a conversation with him, right. He don't
want to be in the middle of no drama, but

(01:14:08):
he definitely wants to explain why he's.

Speaker 1 (01:14:11):
Been removed from the rooms. He's been kind of he's
been trying to come rock with stag Yan and he's
just been getting removed from the room, removed from the room,
and he said he gets Tee the Goddess. So I
want him to see if he's around real quick so
we can address this shit and air it out. And
then so, oh so if you're around, bro, you can

(01:14:32):
just kind of explain to us what's going on, because
I know you, you know, you probably don't get a
space to do it in different spaces or people don't
bring you up and be like yo, going on because
you didn't really want to mix. But if you can
respectfully tell us what's happening, we'll make sure that you're
not blocked or removed out of any room so you
can respectfully have a good clubhouse experience. So oh so

(01:14:52):
if you're there, bro, are you are you available for
us right now?

Speaker 2 (01:14:56):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (01:14:58):
Nah?

Speaker 5 (01:14:58):
You good.

Speaker 1 (01:14:59):
So I just kind of I want you to explain
what's going on, bro, so we can just play at
the air appreciate you.

Speaker 2 (01:15:05):
Yeah.

Speaker 50 (01:15:05):
So, basically in one of the rooms, there was a
discussion about how women on the app have crushes certain
guys that speak, and you know, they have a.

Speaker 38 (01:15:17):
Certain infatuation with those people, and Leah and she were
basically and no, that's not me. I'm not that, I'm
not that chick. I'm not her. And then it made
me kind of go back to other times.

Speaker 50 (01:15:31):
That I've heard he kind of other herself and took
me back to her whole situation with like Medie. So
I'm like, there's definitely been people on the app that
she was crushing on or that you liked that was
speakers or whatever like that. So I typed in the
chat and I was like, I was like, y'all got
to stop lying to other yourself, you know what I'm
saying to like, elevate yourself to this make the league status.

Speaker 38 (01:15:56):
Or whatever you have in your head or whatever.

Speaker 50 (01:15:58):
So next thing, I know, I'm out the room now,
mind you. Like I've been on an app pretty much
from since the beginning of.

Speaker 38 (01:16:03):
It, I don't really rock with a lot of people.

Speaker 50 (01:16:08):
My friend count low feel reason. You know what I'm saying,
It's certain people that I gravitate to. So I'm already
knowing like Leah Leah don't care enough about what's being
said about her in the chat to like kick nobody,
and for what I seen by Tea over the years,
I'm like, I know she peavy enough to do something
like that. So, you know, I went to Irail after
that and I started basically airing it out, but I

(01:16:31):
was leaving it kind of ambiguous. And next thing I know,
she she's like.

Speaker 38 (01:16:36):
Oh, Sean or also who did it? Who did it?

Speaker 50 (01:16:39):
And these are the little types of things that she
does to like pope and antagonize people, you know what
I'm saying, because she knows she did it. And I
was like, so I basically said, I was like, you
know you did it the timing of it what.

Speaker 38 (01:16:52):
I said in the chat, because I was like, the.

Speaker 50 (01:16:53):
Only thing I said in the chat the whole day,
I know you did it because you felt like what
I said was about you, and it was, and so
she asked Leah. She was like, Leah, did you kick
this dude? Also because he's saying basically, only one of
us would have done it, because what I said was
referring to the two people that said that they that

(01:17:14):
were basically.

Speaker 38 (01:17:14):
Other thing themselves.

Speaker 50 (01:17:16):
And Leah was like who, And then he's like, yeah,
that's what I'm saying, you know, basically trying to say
I'm an unknown, like I'm going to fuck about like
popularity on this app.

Speaker 38 (01:17:26):
Like the people I'm interested.

Speaker 50 (01:17:28):
In are cool with you know, they know me, they
cooled enough with me. So Leah was like, she ain't
do it, and he's like, oh, I didn't do it.
She swore up and down and she ain't do it.
It's like, no, you're fucking lying. So next thing I know,
we go to doctor Bee's room and I think this
might have actually all gone down in doctor Bee's room,

(01:17:49):
but she paid to kick me out because I was
basically exposing it.

Speaker 38 (01:17:53):
So I talked to a couple of people.

Speaker 50 (01:17:54):
In the back end you know what I'm saying that
I know, and they were like saying that they've also
seen certain timing with situations with her when she came
in the rooms and certain things started happening where there
was no confusion in the fact that, like, it's not
a coincidence the shit started happening, but she got in
the room. So fast forward to today, the whole thing

(01:18:16):
was going down with Rico in the other room. You
know what I'm saying, And I see other people in
the room are recognizing that she's antagonizing.

Speaker 38 (01:18:24):
She lying about what she said, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 50 (01:18:27):
And then I put in the chat. I was like, yeah,
there's a pattern, you know what I'm saying, Like, there's
a there's a certain things that happen at certain times
because she's involved. And then as soon as I said that,
I got put out the room again. So I'm like,
it's not it's not a coincidence. She doing the ship
and she got an issue.

Speaker 43 (01:18:45):
He is not here, He is not here to defund herself.

Speaker 29 (01:18:49):
So if she's not here, why don't you just move
on and stop?

Speaker 50 (01:18:53):
Because I was asking come up on the stage and
say what another one in the right, Oh, so we
want him to tell his story, You tell his story.

Speaker 51 (01:19:04):
Listen, stop, stop, listen, let me tell you right now
don't make me.

Speaker 47 (01:19:11):
Don't make me start a PCR party.

Speaker 17 (01:19:14):
You not coming up on here trying to kick no one.
Bye bye you in the hallway, Now, don't come up
here caping for nobody. Also wanted the space for him
to speak, not for you to protect anymore. He's getting silent,
he's getting removed. This is his first time speaking. Oh, so,

(01:19:36):
would you like the floor again so I could uh continue?

Speaker 1 (01:19:40):
Thank you?

Speaker 38 (01:19:41):
Oh no, I've said.

Speaker 50 (01:19:42):
What I have to do is basically get the truth
out because you know, lives are being told the underhand.

Speaker 38 (01:19:48):
This ship is going on.

Speaker 50 (01:19:49):
And again I'm not the only one that sees it
should happening. So and I want to stop being put
out the room because I asked to say it like,
that's all I want is the truth to be out
and to stop being put out of rooms.

Speaker 25 (01:20:04):
That's it.

Speaker 1 (01:20:05):
Also, I guess I don't.

Speaker 7 (01:20:09):
Know it was Wow, I've never heard her voice rage
that that happened before.

Speaker 4 (01:20:15):
What's going on today?

Speaker 1 (01:20:16):
You anyway, we can get back to the conversation. I
just had a you know, a message from old soldier
saying he was getting silenced. He just wanted to get
that clear to air.

Speaker 2 (01:20:27):
That was it.

Speaker 1 (01:20:29):
Who regrets losing love more men or women.

Speaker 27 (01:20:34):
Everything chick says is wrong.

Speaker 20 (01:20:37):
Yeah, I'm following this room. Y'all are fucking craziest. Oh
my god, Lord.

Speaker 19 (01:20:59):
Well to the topic, and ladies, we might be down
a thousand somehow.

Speaker 38 (01:21:04):
Women just keep going it for us today.

Speaker 27 (01:21:07):
I think we lost today.

Speaker 24 (01:21:08):
Maybe we'll take it tomorrow.

Speaker 19 (01:21:09):
But I do think that unfortunately, I do think men
regretted more, and only because you will see that, Like.

Speaker 43 (01:21:20):
Women will get married like eight times.

Speaker 24 (01:21:23):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 19 (01:21:23):
They're just man after man after man, whoever proposed there
there they're taking away there, not all y'all.

Speaker 29 (01:21:28):
Some of y'all.

Speaker 19 (01:21:28):
Right, so you get divorced by one maybe like the
next five years you be married.

Speaker 39 (01:21:32):
Hello.

Speaker 43 (01:21:33):
Most men they may marry once or white.

Speaker 19 (01:21:35):
Now I'm not saying we know some men they repeat
defenders too, but I will say I see women getting
married more than I see men, like you know, in
the aspect of remarry right, So I don't know, I
don't know. And then we got Cory up here who
wants to marry white women too, So we know for
a fact that they may just repeat if they can

(01:21:56):
find a white women.

Speaker 24 (01:21:57):
And that's the only.

Speaker 19 (01:21:58):
Way I might have to say, I might just have
to say that, Yeah, I think the men regret it
because the women can just move on.

Speaker 11 (01:22:08):
Want to.

Speaker 7 (01:22:11):
Do you think that the women regretted more because when
they go to the next man, they get treated worse.
All a few men, a few men they had to
get ran through by.

Speaker 2 (01:22:24):
You don't get treated Who gets treated worse?

Speaker 4 (01:22:27):
Well, you don't get no commitment, just get dick and bubble.

Speaker 25 (01:22:31):
People people you get treated said, because.

Speaker 2 (01:22:36):
I mean, we have been listening to y'all for a while.

Speaker 10 (01:22:38):
A woman to say she's not gonna settle for a lesson,
and she ended up going through some ship that's worse.

Speaker 4 (01:22:46):
You know what that proved? That's just non prince.

Speaker 7 (01:22:51):
That when they get cut loose, they want to funk
just as much as men want to funk.

Speaker 1 (01:22:55):
So that that's off that.

Speaker 27 (01:22:58):
But we've always wanted to do that.

Speaker 4 (01:23:00):
Thank you for who is we?

Speaker 27 (01:23:03):
I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry.

Speaker 10 (01:23:05):
No, you stand on it. You always wanted to give
a party.

Speaker 45 (01:23:12):
As much as men do. You're gonna stop being surprised
by this.

Speaker 7 (01:23:17):
So you was in a relationship and you got tired
of that deck, but you didn't want to get looked
back because the community WHI said, why are you going
from dick to dick? And so you got cut off
and was like, oh yeah, cocks everywhere this time?

Speaker 10 (01:23:28):
Is that?

Speaker 4 (01:23:28):
Is that how I look?

Speaker 10 (01:23:31):
Wow?

Speaker 44 (01:23:31):
But most men, most women like so they don't get
an extra body. I don't know if you've ever heard
of this.

Speaker 13 (01:23:37):
They circle the block. They literally will go back and.

Speaker 44 (01:23:41):
Mess with somebody in their past, even though they know
it's not gonna.

Speaker 24 (01:23:45):
Go nowhere, the relationship already.

Speaker 44 (01:23:47):
Failed, but to fulfill a sexual pleasure, I'm gonna.

Speaker 28 (01:23:50):
Go back to.

Speaker 20 (01:23:53):
This is why.

Speaker 19 (01:23:53):
This is why, because y'all spend the block for dicking
bubble gum. So y'all gotta stop proving these me in
points when we be trying to say that they wrong truth.

Speaker 28 (01:24:05):
We gotta start lying.

Speaker 10 (01:24:05):
I don't never tell, Just get out of the car.

Speaker 42 (01:24:09):
The women are down by today, and the women are
down by today.

Speaker 10 (01:24:12):
Every niggas out, every time niggas call it out. Where
these where are y'all finding these women? Find my friends? Don't?
That's why we never get because the truth be left up.

Speaker 44 (01:24:26):
I mean, I'm not gonna lie for nobody on clubhouse.

Speaker 5 (01:24:29):
I don't know y'all.

Speaker 10 (01:24:30):
You know a woman that we.

Speaker 4 (01:24:31):
Be yourself gotta lie.

Speaker 10 (01:24:35):
Most of them block for some dick, you know one
in your life.

Speaker 46 (01:24:41):
They ain't spending the block like that. They pride is
in a way. She's gonna put on a she's gonna
put on a tight dress. She's gonna go to an
event and get validation from steps. That's what they resort to.
When women come out of long term relationships, they turn
the holes. They start dressing like holes. They posted all
over there, and that they out at every social event,
and they having a lot of sex. We've seen it

(01:25:02):
time man and time out. You're gonna run up your bodies,
that's all. You're gonna check this ship out there.

Speaker 52 (01:25:06):
Meanwhile, y'all are doing the same thing, if not worse.

Speaker 10 (01:25:11):
Well, well you should.

Speaker 4 (01:25:12):
Why do you want to do it? Why do you
want to do it?

Speaker 22 (01:25:16):
Why do you want to do a man?

Speaker 45 (01:25:19):
So every single woman gotta pay for what it is
that y'all do. Right, like some people still not over somebody,
y'all still not over that girl in high school who
broke your heart?

Speaker 10 (01:25:28):
Man, Fuck these hoodes, I don't even remember.

Speaker 27 (01:25:30):
Let's be real about that.

Speaker 10 (01:25:32):
I got to talk to the boy, education about you
and every woman everything.

Speaker 52 (01:25:35):
They shut it down.

Speaker 10 (01:25:36):
Every every woman got their favorite eater and that that
nigga called right now because that's your favorite eater, You're gonna, you're.

Speaker 7 (01:25:44):
Gonna and you don't even have favorites.

Speaker 52 (01:25:47):
And you don't even have favorite.

Speaker 10 (01:25:49):
It's just onto the next one, top five?

Speaker 27 (01:25:52):
Okay, fine?

Speaker 10 (01:25:54):
You are you?

Speaker 4 (01:25:54):
Are you arguing for wanting to catch more bodies? Is crazy?
Case in point. Yes, the men like yesterday, hold on,
hold on.

Speaker 7 (01:26:03):
And hold yesterday. We had a woman in hair that
she just broke with her man about two three weeks ago.
She was with a nigga for about two months or
some ship like that, and here she goes and even
worse as our booty up in the air. Fuck me,
somebody do something to me?

Speaker 1 (01:26:20):
Yes?

Speaker 4 (01:26:21):
Did that?

Speaker 10 (01:26:21):
Did that?

Speaker 2 (01:26:22):
Happy?

Speaker 25 (01:26:22):
Ada?

Speaker 38 (01:26:22):
What?

Speaker 22 (01:26:24):
Okay?

Speaker 10 (01:26:26):
Andy? Y'all not?

Speaker 4 (01:26:28):
Why do you want to be a man so bad?

Speaker 53 (01:26:29):
We want to talk ship about men, don't you, But.

Speaker 45 (01:26:32):
We don't want to be men. That's not the point.
The fact, no, it's not, the fact of the matter
is like y'all came up with these ridiculous notions about
how women are and how women should be when at
the end of the day. We're human being just like you.
We just sometimes you just feel like a nut. Sometimes

(01:26:52):
all you want is a nut. Sometimes the guy is
just get a toy. We do, but okay, but you
can get it to all right, you get it to
it too, and then you have to.

Speaker 52 (01:27:06):
And then you'll complain about that took. These roses are
destroying your vaginas when.

Speaker 45 (01:27:12):
Y'all just can't keep up like y'all gotta the struggle, yo,
what man.

Speaker 2 (01:27:17):
Man Listen, fellas, fellas, y'all gotta stop doing this thing right, Well,
y'all be trying to coach these women into being the
women that y'all want them to be. Let the women
tell you exactly who they are. It's not all but
letting like dad, they are exactly these women. I know
the I know these niggas just like short Like he said,
Shorty was in here the other day. I forgot her names,

(01:27:37):
like bro in here with the ass tu that nigga
that isn't advertisedment. She gave us the whole little story
about the two years and the nigga who wasn't shit
got it and she was out here looking for you
know what I'm saying entertainment, dick, that's fine, that's shorty life.
She ain't the only one, niggas. She ain't no unicorn.
If you've been outside, you know that like this, this
should not be something that's moving you. Niggas off the square.

(01:27:57):
You get know what I'm saying, Like it is what
it is these and to the point, a lot of
these sisters been wanting to move like niggas, but they
want to move like the worst of niggas. They don't
want to move like the upstanding niggas who like want
to you know, no, that's not fun. They want to
be the They want to be future niche. Let future
niche rock like it's not hurting you. If you want

(01:28:17):
to clap, this is your moment, nigga, clap them ships.

Speaker 7 (01:28:21):
You're down bad women today, y'are fucking down, bad bro.

Speaker 10 (01:28:28):
I take it as like flattery that a woman instead
of her wanting to be a woman, she wants to
be like like me, as a man like I take
it as flattery because they say copy copy behavior is
like the next form of flattery, like imitation. It's like
the next form of flattery like that.

Speaker 4 (01:28:46):
Why that's why I go to those white boys because
they were like, yeah, let's go.

Speaker 45 (01:28:50):
For Wait a minute, wait, so are we saying that
women don't like sex as much.

Speaker 4 (01:28:59):
As guys won't?

Speaker 46 (01:29:02):
We won't that women on love their husbands.

Speaker 4 (01:29:10):
You become dependent on them and his resources.

Speaker 46 (01:29:13):
If you want to know if a woman love you,
stop buying us ship and paying that bill, stop taking
on vacations, do the bare minimum and survival and watch
how she act out. This is boring. I need to
go somewhere. I'm tired of being in the house. Watch
how she fall out and act like a toddler. Just
do the bare minimum, pay them rent on the mortgage,
and put gas in the car and food on the stove,
and watch how she get miserable.

Speaker 4 (01:29:34):
I'm telling you, they.

Speaker 11 (01:29:35):
Love the.

Speaker 4 (01:29:37):
Shoulder an only man.

Speaker 6 (01:29:40):
I'm playing right here.

Speaker 4 (01:29:42):
I'm a land right here.

Speaker 46 (01:29:43):
The only man that experiences love from these women is inmates.
Because the roles are reversed. He's actually in prison. He
has nothing to offer you but conversation. And they'll go
hard for that nigga. They'll put money on his books.
They'll be there every Saturday for visitation. They'll write ten
page letters with perfume them on the on the front.

Speaker 4 (01:30:01):
Of the envelope.

Speaker 46 (01:30:02):
Those the niggas that experience unconditional love, The niggas behind
the wall, You niggas that's paying bills.

Speaker 4 (01:30:07):
You don't love, she don't love you.

Speaker 27 (01:30:09):
Take your shoulder, my guy, Jesus right.

Speaker 10 (01:30:15):
How many poker chips you got on your shoulder?

Speaker 25 (01:30:17):
Going around telling girls body after bodies.

Speaker 4 (01:30:19):
Knowing that knowing them.

Speaker 45 (01:30:21):
Well, I'm saying.

Speaker 27 (01:30:22):
If you want to have sex.

Speaker 52 (01:30:24):
I'm saying, if you want to have sex and you
like sex, sex.

Speaker 1 (01:30:28):
Right, we can problems.

Speaker 27 (01:30:31):
That's all that I care about.

Speaker 4 (01:30:34):
Problem give us y'all.

Speaker 39 (01:30:35):
Problem with y'all complaints, We step up to the motherfucking plate, Like,
how does that even make?

Speaker 27 (01:30:39):
Don't though if that.

Speaker 52 (01:30:40):
Were if y'all didn't, everybody in the.

Speaker 27 (01:30:44):
Rates wouldn't be what they are. So there's their speaker.

Speaker 2 (01:30:48):
Let me ask you a question. No, I'm gonna go ahead.

Speaker 12 (01:30:53):
No, I'm just saying, if she's speaking for the women today,
I identify as a zebra.

Speaker 4 (01:30:57):
Because what.

Speaker 2 (01:30:59):
A love? So I got questions right because I don't.
I don't think niggas understand Lena, I got a question
for you since no, no, no, yeah, it's your space. I'm
just you know, so so, Lena, based on your whatever,
then doesn't that if women like sex so much, then
doesn't that kind of disprove this whole rhetoric that niggas
don't be knowing what they're doing and only ten percent

(01:31:21):
of women of ever orgasm or whatever it is that
you'll be peddling out here.

Speaker 10 (01:31:25):
It doesn't.

Speaker 45 (01:31:25):
It's just and if you're even if there are guys
out there who are bad at sex, right, that doesn't
that doesn't mean that you don't get with the guy
that's good at it.

Speaker 2 (01:31:38):
Okay, So then okay, if.

Speaker 45 (01:31:40):
You like at the end of the I'm just talking
about pleasure, I'm just talking about getting it that. I'm
talking about doing whatever it is that you need to
do to get off. And I'm saying, as far as
women are concerned, we're not that different from men.

Speaker 52 (01:31:52):
When it comes to that got it comments.

Speaker 45 (01:31:55):
Folks believe that we are because you know, patriarchy and
sexism and all of that nonsense, but that's all got it.

Speaker 2 (01:32:02):
So So with that being said, then right, so when
these dudes say that y'all are a lot of y'all
are sucking the very same dudes and y'all be screaming
from the rooftops that you're not. You just kind of
you just kind of prove that you are. Because if
y'all love having sex so much and y'all just all
go to the few niggas who know how to make
y'all get reached val Halla, then.

Speaker 1 (01:32:23):
That means that's the same small group of niggas that
y'all be fun I think.

Speaker 52 (01:32:26):
But that was never the conversation that I was having though.

Speaker 45 (01:32:32):
Now, like if women are if women are going and
having Look, if women are going and having sex with
the same men, I think that that kind of sucks.

Speaker 52 (01:32:38):
I do personally, but that that's never been my point.

Speaker 45 (01:32:41):
I don't care who you have sex with it well,
as long as it's not somebody's husband, and as long
as you do it safely, like do your thing, as
long as you're safe and you you're being responsible with
it with how you have all I'm saying right right, So, like,
I don't think I definitely disagree with like women who
go out and like have sex and let like a
guy shoot up the club, like you know, that's my

(01:33:03):
you know, but that's one of my personal stuff. But
I'm just talking about the act of sex in and
of itself. If you want to have it, by all means,
go out and have it, and it doesn't make you.

Speaker 52 (01:33:12):
Like a man. Because human beings like sex. That is
all that I'm saying.

Speaker 27 (01:33:17):
That's it.

Speaker 4 (01:33:18):
I don't know human beings.

Speaker 2 (01:33:19):
I don't like sex.

Speaker 46 (01:33:21):
Human beings don't like sex. You are hyper sex. All
sex is a bondage. Sex is a bondage between a
wife and a husband. The fact that you're promoting prostitution
is frightening.

Speaker 27 (01:33:37):
That prostitution because.

Speaker 10 (01:33:43):
This is why there is that on it.

Speaker 46 (01:33:45):
The high, the highest your bodies is right as a woman,
the less likely you're gonna settle down you hypo sexual.

Speaker 1 (01:33:53):
You can't bond with a man.

Speaker 27 (01:33:54):
Oh dear, he's talking about my too.

Speaker 31 (01:34:01):
Prostitutions because she said she just women like the fuck,
women like to get paid.

Speaker 4 (01:34:07):
The study is.

Speaker 37 (01:34:11):
She wants to be a product.

Speaker 2 (01:34:14):
High it is different.

Speaker 46 (01:34:16):
The higher woman's bodies is, the less likely you're going
to settle down with one man.

Speaker 10 (01:34:21):
Studies on it. Understand what you're saying, but the data
on it.

Speaker 46 (01:34:25):
You can't speak the data.

Speaker 6 (01:34:29):
You can't.

Speaker 22 (01:34:31):
Either refute your data. That may be correct.

Speaker 31 (01:34:34):
However, what I'm saying is, how do you get that
and say that it's we promote that promote prostitutions because
a prostitute get paid, a prostitute everything that she's given
a number two.

Speaker 46 (01:34:48):
Because you're not, because you're not just having sex with men.
By by majority, women are going to have sex with
the men that provide an experience. You're no, no, no, no, no,
you ever heard of hobo sexuals?

Speaker 5 (01:35:05):
No?

Speaker 46 (01:35:05):
No, You're going to have sex with the guy who's
providing the best experience, the lab right, with the nice car,
the lavish dates, right, the guy who's spending the most
money making.

Speaker 52 (01:35:18):
There are women out there who are letting men drive their.

Speaker 4 (01:35:21):
Cars because they.

Speaker 52 (01:35:25):
Like their penis. It's not about lifestyle, not that. Come on, now,
have you ever heard.

Speaker 27 (01:35:30):
Of a hobo sexual? You ever heard of those? They exist?

Speaker 22 (01:35:35):
He said nothing about getting paid for I'm trying.

Speaker 52 (01:35:37):
To figure it has nothing to do with anything.

Speaker 45 (01:35:41):
It has nothing. Because they get words mixed up. I
think that that's all that happens. Women like sex, that's all.

Speaker 4 (01:35:50):
We just like sex. That's to be done between a
husband and a wife.

Speaker 2 (01:35:55):
Approcreation person.

Speaker 52 (01:35:57):
Yeah, but even that's a new idea.

Speaker 46 (01:36:00):
I'm not hyper people. I don't get excited. I don't
I don't get excited off of U's box.

Speaker 4 (01:36:07):
If the other dudes had that.

Speaker 10 (01:36:09):
Don't excite me.

Speaker 52 (01:36:10):
He's not getting that.

Speaker 22 (01:36:14):
Most women, most women have had fifty dicks.

Speaker 52 (01:36:17):
You wouldn't even be able to tell the difference, my guy.

Speaker 44 (01:36:25):
I wanted to say, if y'all don't mind, I just
think that personally, yeah, you can go out and just
spread it from east to west, and that goes for
men and women. Just because you can doesn't mean you should.
And like, is what kind of horny do you gotta

(01:36:46):
be that you're just gonna go outside, like, oh, I'm
just looking for a nut, Like that's just not that's
just not realistic, honestly.

Speaker 41 (01:36:58):
But if that's what y'all like to do, that's what
I like to do.

Speaker 44 (01:37:01):
I don't kin shame, but I think that, you know,
just to your point, miss Andrews, like, yes, women like sex,
but don't you like sex with the person you like
it with, not the person.

Speaker 2 (01:37:12):
You don't know?

Speaker 28 (01:37:13):
I don't that's strange.

Speaker 20 (01:37:14):
Ship that's well, sure, of course, that's really strange, of.

Speaker 27 (01:37:20):
Course, of course, But like also it's.

Speaker 45 (01:37:23):
Important to remember like a recreational that's because creational.

Speaker 13 (01:37:30):
But I mean, I will say that.

Speaker 10 (01:37:32):
I was not in a relationship with everybody. I don't
act like that.

Speaker 21 (01:37:36):
No, I.

Speaker 41 (01:37:40):
Shut up, Let me say that.

Speaker 4 (01:37:44):
Let me just say that.

Speaker 43 (01:37:47):
There are, contrary to you know, popular belief, there are
people who actually both men and women, who actually want
to have like an emotional connection with someone, but for
either their dick can get hard or their vagina can
get wet. Right, So it's like there are people literally

(01:38:07):
who were not having casual sex. I've never had like
casual sex or one night stand or any of that.
I know that sounds really strange in twenty twenty five
with what you know people are doing.

Speaker 13 (01:38:21):
I get it.

Speaker 43 (01:38:22):
But you know, if you've never encountered anyone who lives
like that, you probably need to do everybody.

Speaker 41 (01:38:30):
Don't reflection, hold on.

Speaker 43 (01:38:33):
Let me just say this, you probably just need to
look at like the types of women or men.

Speaker 20 (01:38:37):
That you're attracting.

Speaker 6 (01:38:40):
That's not strange at all.

Speaker 10 (01:38:41):
My thing is this, at some point, whether y'all as
a teen, your early twenties or thirties, don't act like
every person y'all laid down with with somebody you had
an emotional way.

Speaker 13 (01:38:53):
I can act like that, I got it.

Speaker 43 (01:38:57):
I can hold definitely like that in relationship with so Prince.

Speaker 47 (01:39:03):
Sure, of course I'll say this.

Speaker 41 (01:39:06):
Since you're starting, I'm me, let me let.

Speaker 43 (01:39:10):
Me respond to him, because he was responding to me, breezy.

Speaker 20 (01:39:13):
Hold on one second.

Speaker 43 (01:39:15):
So just based off of what like, I got married
when I was twenty one years old, so my husband
was my first, right, so I can act like that
because I wasn't getting fucked when I was fifteen or
sixteen or seventeen or eighteen or any of that so
hot girl summer. That wasn't really something I partaked in.

(01:39:36):
So with that being said, not everyone has that same
experience of just you know, fucking at an early age
and doing all of that extra stuff. Not everyone shares
that same experience.

Speaker 10 (01:39:52):
I wanted to say, like stop, stop, stop everybody that
has sex with somebody partner period that ship.

Speaker 42 (01:40:01):
That's like friends, Trint Prince, real quick, Can I just
say something to you real quick.

Speaker 10 (01:40:07):
Let me finish. That's like me saying every woman was
my wife or girlfriend. That's cat. So a woman is
saying a woman saying acting like every dude she gave
her body to she was in a relationship with his supers.

Speaker 13 (01:40:22):
Let me get it in here real quick, let.

Speaker 29 (01:40:24):
Me get it.

Speaker 2 (01:40:24):
If it doesn't apply to the fly caddy, I get you.

Speaker 42 (01:40:27):
There's something, there's something.

Speaker 48 (01:40:31):
Right.

Speaker 42 (01:40:33):
So there are actually people in the world who don't
do that. It's a small percentage because demisexuals are like
very very very small percentage, but they do exist and
they can't. They can't without a deeper emotional connection with
the person, so that they're just they don't. They're not
out having I mean, you can look it up. It's googleable.

(01:40:54):
The informations out there. Like I said, they're rare, but
they do exist.

Speaker 4 (01:41:00):
And I don't think that.

Speaker 19 (01:41:03):
She said a very small percentage because we do got
to remember, ladies, that these men are fucking these women,
so they're out there.

Speaker 22 (01:41:11):
It just may not.

Speaker 44 (01:41:13):
This is what I wanted to add. This is why
I made that point. This is why I made that statement.
I did that before. It was unfulfilling. I didn't like it.
So in that experience, I was like, Yeah, this ain't
for me, and I'm not gonna hold you listen, I'm
not saying out here it is what it is. But

(01:41:35):
like even in that experience, I was like, yeah, this
shit ain't for me because it for me, So like
when people are literally saying like here, everybody can't move
like that. It's because if you move like that, you
might have the type of experience that I had and
just be like I rather thind fuck it. They ain't

(01:41:57):
even worth it.

Speaker 4 (01:41:59):
It happened.

Speaker 10 (01:42:00):
Now. I remember that Tom, like I remember being little
like I guess this time is not a thing no more.
I remember when you was a kid, like you would
get in trouble if you didn't tell the truth. And
I feel like now we've got to an age now
where like this cap in and lion is rewarded. You

(01:42:20):
don't have to be honest no more. You used to
get spade for not telling the truth. And it's like
now it's like, what the fuck? How's the world going to?
Where it's the opposite. If you, if you if a
lion cap you're praised, tell the truth some other ship.
We have to get it back. But can I say something?

Speaker 2 (01:42:41):
Can I say something to you?

Speaker 10 (01:42:42):
Brother?

Speaker 4 (01:42:43):
Can I say something to you? To the very same
people that would beat.

Speaker 9 (01:42:46):
The children for not telling the truth, They was lying
to them and telling them that Santa Claus existence. They
were lying to them and telling them telling them about
tooth Fairy. Yeah, the tooth fairy going to come and
put a quarter or a nickel or something underneath your pillowcase.

Speaker 4 (01:42:59):
There was lying to them about where babies come from,
things of that nature.

Speaker 10 (01:43:03):
And but I get with you.

Speaker 4 (01:43:04):
I'm not you know, I'm not against you.

Speaker 9 (01:43:06):
I'm just saying to that point that you nigga, the
same people that were beating the children from not till
the truth were still lying to them.

Speaker 2 (01:43:13):
You get what I'm saying.

Speaker 10 (01:43:14):
The whole thing is it was a penalty if you
didn't tell the truth. Now if you lie and don't
tell the truth, it's rewarded. That Why why is it
so hard to just keep it be honest? Well, we can't.
We can't.

Speaker 46 (01:43:27):
You can't just blame the women because there's a lot
of niggas that are hyper sexuals that are fucking with
our commitment. Since nineteen seventy three, there's been a recorded
twenty million Black babies aborted that we know our community
is hyper sexual by majority. There's a lot of casual
sex going on. We see it in the abortion race.
And we can't just keep pointing out the women because
a lot of you niggas is hyper sexual.

Speaker 10 (01:43:47):
That's the point. That's the point I made when I
said reverse, if I sat up here on this stage
and as a man made it seem like every woman
I've had sex with, I had an emotional connection with,
I was in a relationship with, that would be bullshit.
So if I can admit that, why is a woman
gonna sit up there and act like every woman the
dude they gave they body to they was in a relationship.

Speaker 1 (01:44:08):
That's because.

Speaker 35 (01:44:10):
Hold on, chick, let me say this real quick, chick, please,
because some women and men actually do operate the way
that the young lady was saying when she was saying
that it's googleable.

Speaker 4 (01:44:21):
There are some Yeah, there are some people that actually
move like that.

Speaker 35 (01:44:27):
And I gotta say this to you, prince, and there's
no disrespect to you, so please don't take it that way.
Just because you perceive things a certain way doesn't mean
that it's one hundred percent that way in every situation
that occurs.

Speaker 4 (01:44:39):
It's not. And I had to learn that about myself.

Speaker 35 (01:44:42):
Oftentimes, we build these narratives, these concepts because maybe we
don't experience it or don't see the experiences within our
approximate approximate.

Speaker 9 (01:44:51):
I can't even get the word of approximate. Yeah, proximity,
thank you, because we may not see that. But just
because we may not have seen it or heard of
it doesn't mean that it doesn't exist. And I know
for a fact that it does based upon what people
have told me. How they move to that woman's point
that said that she put the statistical information into the

(01:45:12):
into the chat, It's like I said, it's very small,
but it actually does exist.

Speaker 35 (01:45:17):
So this woman that said that, I forget who she is.
But to the woman that said that, she's just part
of that small percentage. Even though most of us did
not have that experience. And I'm a land by saying this,
I grew into that experience. You might not have heard
me say it is, but other people have.

Speaker 9 (01:45:36):
I don't work downstairs if it ain't a woman that
I'm in alignment with such and such, a wain in
a relationship or not. Because I've grown past that just
wanting to slide into every woman and being fit.

Speaker 4 (01:45:47):
I'm gonna keep it a being.

Speaker 35 (01:45:48):
And you might call it cat not not being with
the woman in a relationship and engaging the sex.

Speaker 4 (01:45:54):
It's almost like a disgusting thought.

Speaker 35 (01:45:56):
Notice how I said almost, because when I look at
DNA by the sweat liquids and all of that stuff
being touched in exchange.

Speaker 4 (01:46:03):
I don't want to have that experience with just any
old woman. And I learned this about twenty years ago.

Speaker 2 (01:46:11):
Alan, Right, So the truth of the matter is that
we just hear so much from a due standpoint, we
hear so many lies, right that, like I get where
Prince is coming from. Like bro, we hear so many
lies on a regular basis, and then like when the
truth comes out, niggas is like, see fucking do it,
you fucking know it, And then it kind of pushes you,

(01:46:33):
you know, to believe that this shit is like not
out there, but it is, right, Like, you just gotta
understand that, like Ryan said, your proximity is your proximity.
That's a certain group of people that move a certain
kind of way. But just like right, how even if
the majority of people out here are sliding this way,
we gotta know that a lot of us are in
our thirties, big forties, fifties, like we know people who

(01:46:54):
kind of grew up in our older era, right, and
there was still a stigma attached right to a woman
just being out there, Like yeah, nigg I like to
get it in fuck it. Like a dude can say that, Okay,
here's a dude. That's what it's expected throughout human history.
That's always been the case. But when a woman says that,
it's looks at a certain kind of way. So do
I fault them for lying? Yeah, but only a little bit,
because I know society. If she comes out here like yeah,

(01:47:17):
I'm throwing that motherfucker whoever I find a track of
the night, nigga's gonna be like, huh.

Speaker 4 (01:47:21):
The woman's gonna be like whoa. That's the problem for you.
That's lying about.

Speaker 1 (01:47:30):
It though, real quick, real quick, real quick, real real quick. Look, yo, Prince,
are you there, bro?

Speaker 48 (01:47:37):
Yo?

Speaker 1 (01:47:38):
Prince Yo? So I got a question for you. I
want you to kick this off, and I'm gonna chime
in too. But just being friendly with women means you
want them, Like, just because you're being nice or just
because you do a couple of friendly gestures, does that
mean you automatically want to be with them or find
any interest in that woman? Just becase because you're being

(01:48:00):
nice or you're being a gentleman. Prince kicked this off
on check anybody that's on the stage. But being friendly
with the women means you want them. Hmmm, news to me.
I want to know, Prince talk to me. Everybody's let's
continue this conversation. But does being friendly mean with a
women mean you want them?

Speaker 4 (01:48:19):
All?

Speaker 10 (01:48:19):
Men?

Speaker 1 (01:48:20):
Women? What do y'all thinks? Have this conversation.

Speaker 10 (01:48:22):
I'm gonna keep it a hundred. I'm gonna speak for me.
The people not gonna agree. But I might be on
the aisle on my own, but because I got sisters,
and I tell my sister the same thing. If I
never I'm gonna go to the grade with this. I'm never,
in my mind gonna believe that a man that's just
being friendly and doing all these nice justice for a
woman is because it's nothing like he's just doing this

(01:48:45):
to be nice. It's something about that woman that he
wants or is attracted to. Its leading to all these
nice justice. That's my opinion. You know what I'm saying.
It's something near I'm never gonna believe that a man
is just cash apping a woman lunch every day, or
buying her gifts and getting her flowers. He's just doing
all that. And I'm not talking about he just did

(01:49:06):
this one time. I'm talking about he's doing this consistently,
he doing this every time he see this woman. Flowers,
Cash apts all types of nice justice. Can't nobody convinced
me that that man is he does not want that one.
It's something about her. It is an attraction there, whether
it's her looks or her personality, it's something about that

(01:49:28):
woman that that man wants to. Like, I'm never gonna
believe he's just doing all that just to be con
that's just my well, that's.

Speaker 45 (01:49:35):
Obvious, right, like of course, like if you're going that
extra mild. But the way it was positive a moment ago,
y'all made it sound like a guy just being like
a good dude and nice.

Speaker 1 (01:49:50):
Prince took it anything, but you you ran with it
printed from doing nice justice.

Speaker 4 (01:49:56):
That's a different angle.

Speaker 1 (01:49:58):
I want to you tell me too, what you thought
we meant, miss Andrew. Go ahead.

Speaker 45 (01:50:04):
I thought that you meant just acts of kindness that
you know, you give to people in general, like you know,
like if you're cold or something, he gives you his
coat or whatever, or if you need some advice, he
shares some advice or whatever. Nice things that people do,

(01:50:26):
like because like y'all als would be thinking that if
a woman is nice to y'all or smiles that y'all.

Speaker 4 (01:50:31):
Oh, she must want me and all of that. I'm
glad you brought that up. I'm glad you.

Speaker 10 (01:50:37):
Let's go.

Speaker 1 (01:50:38):
I'm glad you brought that. Expanding that a little jazz,
I want you to come into but I'm glad you
brought that up. Can you expand more of that before
I have the ladies come in, Lucky and Jazz. Expand
on that a little bit more. She must be in
the matrix, Lucky Jazz. Let's continue this conversation, Laila, whoever,
let's go.

Speaker 10 (01:50:53):
Yeah.

Speaker 42 (01:50:54):
I worked at Starbucks for a long time years ago,
and like you had to literally explain that the girls
were being paid to be nice to customers, like they
weren't blurted.

Speaker 29 (01:51:05):
But it was weird.

Speaker 19 (01:51:07):
But I also think that I think everybody interprets being
friendly different, right, because you got women who dealt with jackasses.

Speaker 2 (01:51:16):
Ooh yeah, if she.

Speaker 19 (01:51:17):
Was cold outside, she was just cold shivering, and that
man never gave her a coat. So when a man
finally gives her a coat, it can't be perceived as that.
And I kind of agree with Prince to a small extent,
right because he did go more on the gesture wave
instead of just something friendly like holding open the door.

Speaker 10 (01:51:36):
Right.

Speaker 28 (01:51:36):
So I do think that it just depends on how far.

Speaker 19 (01:51:40):
But I can kind of agree with Prince when he
says there's usually not all the time. There's usually some
motive behind why somebody's being super friendly with you, right.
I mean it, even if a woman to a woman
is being friendly, she may actually want to be friends
with you.

Speaker 2 (01:51:57):
Right.

Speaker 4 (01:51:58):
Hell, it's so many gay women, ow she may she
wants you.

Speaker 19 (01:52:01):
So I think it just depends on how far the
friendliness is going. Like I said, just hold the door
open doesn't really matter. But if you hold the door
open and then you keep eye bolling me in a
grocery store, I want to think you want me, so, uh,
it just depends on how you take it.

Speaker 2 (01:52:17):
Yeah, bro, I ain't gonna lie tell you, Prince. You know,
most of the time we kind of be thinking like
the same shit. But I got too many homegirls who
I didn't you know whatever about that. I never thought
about sliding on in that way. You get what I'm saying. Like,
but I grew up with women too though, you get
what I'm saying, So for me, it's a little different.
I just I can't stand on the side of like yo,

(01:52:38):
just because I helped Shorty with her rent or whatever
the fuck was going on that. I'm low key like
biding my time to see what's in with them yams, Like, nah,
I just fuck with you how I fuck with you.
That's just my first one thing.

Speaker 10 (01:52:51):
I'm gonna say it like this, like I'm thirty three
and I've been outside for a long timece I was
like twelve, I've been off the porch. It's a little kid,
and I've always been around. I never hung out with
dudes in my age group. I've been around like I
was fifteen, hanging out with grown ash men. I don't
seen this my whole life, and I'm just nobody gotta
agree with this. I'm just going to what I've seen.
I guess maybe y'all experiences of life, y'all probably seen

(01:53:15):
something different than me. But my whole life, I done
seen niggas killed for pushy. I don't see niggas die
for pushy. When they come to getting that cookie, a
nigga will do anything he gotta do to get to it,
including if he got to pretend to be a gentleman
and do nice justice and play that role to get it.
He'll do that, and I don't seen that. I never

(01:53:36):
seen a man in my life just consistently doing nice
justice for this same woman and he didn't want nothing
from her, like he just doing this. I never seen that.
Maybe y'all seen that. I never seen that.

Speaker 2 (01:53:49):
Chang.

Speaker 43 (01:53:50):
Is there attractive differends.

Speaker 2 (01:53:53):
Chick? Yeah, I was definitely gonna wait till I heard
my names, right, But yeah, now fucking with you. But yeah,
some of them, shaid, I think probably most of my
homegirls are, you know, attractive.

Speaker 10 (01:54:09):
See that.

Speaker 4 (01:54:09):
What I'm saying this fed a trip man.

Speaker 12 (01:54:14):
Are these long term homegirls that he's maybe been around
for years and years.

Speaker 13 (01:54:19):
Is like, you know, high school type stuff?

Speaker 12 (01:54:21):
Or is this like, oh we just made at work
and then you know, now I'm just doing all this
nice stuff for you, bringing you lunch all the time,
sending you a little money because I heard because we
were talking and you said something about some bills and
your kids school coming up. I'm gonna send you a
few dollars for school clothes. Like it just depends on
the dynamic. Some people been friends since middle school, high school,
and they just know how to keep that relationship or
even college.

Speaker 13 (01:54:41):
They just know how to move like that.

Speaker 2 (01:54:43):
Right, Stun.

Speaker 4 (01:54:43):
I'm so glad you said that because when.

Speaker 9 (01:54:46):
I spoke a little while ago and I said to Prince,
I said, I said, I talked about his proximity, right,
And I like what he just said because he said
the men that he's been around and what he's seen, said, Hey,
you know, y'all may not agree with me, but he's
he's he's looking at the world right, which he's not
wrong for looking at the world the way he's looking

(01:55:09):
at it because of his.

Speaker 4 (01:55:11):
Environment or his exposure.

Speaker 35 (01:55:13):
But I just want to reiterate to the brother that
what we're all exposed to, does it mean that that's
the end all be all, Because there are different realities
out there in the same world or the same different
and different regions of the country that have different experiences
than you. And that's why there's some pushback in what

(01:55:34):
you're saying, because what you're saying, what you're saying is
your observation, but it doesn't mean that it's one hundred percent.

Speaker 9 (01:55:41):
Factual across the board, across the country, across the world.

Speaker 4 (01:55:46):
You see what I mean?

Speaker 2 (01:55:48):
Yeah, I mean, bro, if we're going to keep it
a band.

Speaker 10 (01:55:50):
Right.

Speaker 2 (01:55:51):
Wait, and I say you want to say something because
I spoke correctly, go ahead? Do you think, bro?

Speaker 4 (01:55:56):
All right?

Speaker 2 (01:55:56):
For sure?

Speaker 4 (01:55:57):
You know?

Speaker 2 (01:55:58):
But I mean we just got to keep it on that.
Like some of y'all that know me, I know, I
got God daughters right in a God's so all like
all of them through their moms. You you know what
I'm saying. Like some of them I met when I
was fresh out of college. Some of them I met,
you know, like a little bit before, some of them
I met after. It Just I just I'm just not
a dude that's up the mindset that just because I
can admit I guess that a woman is physically attractive,

(01:56:18):
that I got to like door on my move and
see what it's about. Sometimes it's like, nah, we better
off as friends, like we cool? How we cool? You
get what I'm saying, And that's that's all right. Like
you can't fuck I don't care what mac Maine said, right,
you can't fuck every bad chick in the world, Like
you just can't. You can try, can you not gonna
get there?

Speaker 10 (01:56:35):
Bro?

Speaker 2 (01:56:36):
Like I think dudes do themselves a disservice when they
say that they can't just have silent relationships with women,
you know what I'm saying, and then not ever be
sexual like you can. Like I'm sure some of the.

Speaker 1 (01:56:47):
Homegirls can admit, like some of the girls in here,
they can admit that.

Speaker 10 (01:56:49):
Yo. I know something.

Speaker 2 (01:56:50):
Some of my bros like they you know, they have
some dudes, they taller, They sure they they got whatever
going for, Like they attractive, however they attractive, I just
don't want them. I just don't want a nigga.

Speaker 19 (01:57:00):
And that's why when y'all saying that, like even in
the chat just listenings, it's like y'all want to blame
women for saying like that's why men don't be polite,
But there are so many men that are polite because
they want something right, So it's kind of hard to
gauge when you do have these men that are only
doing something strictly off wanting something from you. But y'all

(01:57:21):
are acting like some of the women. And I'm not
saying everybody hear just some of the comments I heard
d but I just think that we gotta be mindful
of that because women don't just run around acting like
y'all can't be polite because I think every woman in
here probably has a friend, but they also have run
into men where it seemed like it was just a
nice gesture and then it turned out he blew it right,

(01:57:41):
because everybody don't think that they can just We hear
men say that they cannot just be friends with women.
So I do think it's just one of those things
where some women are tainted by the fact that some
men have not just been polite, they were only polite
because they wanted something out of situation.

Speaker 7 (01:57:55):
Yes, that's not that's not our problem comes down to
that you feel that's not the man's problem. Hold on
principle I'll give, I'll give right back. That is that
is not the man's problem. That you can't see through
that bullshit. If men once you, they're gonna're gonna see
niggas looking up, down, up and down. They're gonna see them,

(01:58:16):
hear them say certain things, they're gonna act a certain way.
But a man that's just trying to be nice, respectful,
and the gentleman, you're not gonna get all of that.
But you're gonna end up doing is visualizing ship yourself.
And that's where you go fucking wrong, guy, Because every
man that's nice to you do not want to fuck you.
I'm nice to a lot of women. I get compliments
and everything. I'm not trying to pop every pussy. I

(01:58:37):
said hello too.

Speaker 4 (01:58:39):
It's real the thing.

Speaker 1 (01:58:41):
That's that's missing here, man, because.

Speaker 10 (01:58:44):
Can you hear me good? Real life?

Speaker 1 (01:58:46):
Like, look, can you hit me good? I know a
lot of Hey, but you're gonna you're gonna let me
go after your dog, or you're gonna just go.

Speaker 4 (01:58:55):
I gave him because I because I told him hold
on for a second.

Speaker 10 (01:58:59):
Ye'all gonna say to another thing too. It ain't just
from what I've seen, like I've met not on clubhouse,
in real life. I can't count how many stories I
don't heard where I done met women where they've expressed
a story where they had a dude that she thought
was like a brother or a bro and on one
of them, nice nigga done try to she had to
cut the friendship off because she thought that was a

(01:59:21):
friend and then he done tried to bush and move on.
I didn't heard stories like that, and my mom like,
so some of these niggas, they just be out here
pretending like and this is real life. This is not
me getting this off clubhouse. I'm hearing this in real life,
these type of stories, so me seeing it growing up,
dudes moving like that, and I'm I'm dating women, I'm
telling me stories about they quote unquote bro trying to

(01:59:43):
bush a move on them all of that. Yeah, that's
why I'm looking at like, oh so niggas don't really
be genuine for real? And then I do feel like
attraction plays a part, you know what I'm saying. But
I feel like if y'all not attracted to each other,
then maybe, but if that attraction is there, like I
feel at some point when are y'all gonna cross that line?
In my opinion, because it's like, I'll take what's her name,

(02:00:07):
Precious for example, we're gonna use her, would y'all be
would y'all be sending paying a chick that looked like Precious?
You're gonna pay her rent and send her cash aps
every day to be nice?

Speaker 2 (02:00:20):
Not every day? Bro? But I use an example here
and not bring no names up on here. There's there's
a women I met on here bro that like, you know,
we got cool or whatever whatever, life fucked around and
what's happening and was doing what they were you know,
it did what they did. You know, I'm running it
with Shorty on the phone from Josing like you know,
blah blah dah, and she just kind of ramm me
her in her situation, just you know, frustration venting, and
I just said that, brother, fuck that ship. Look here,

(02:00:42):
I'm about to cash up you this whole lot.

Speaker 10 (02:00:44):
Like you know, you cool?

Speaker 2 (02:00:46):
You know what I'm saying, Like I guess when she
was like, I'm gonna pay you back whatever whenever you
get it, do it. If not, fuck it. You get
what I'm saying. And it's cool. I ain't never asked
about the ship since we're still cool to this day.
You know what I'm saying, Like.

Speaker 10 (02:00:56):
If if you got a girl, right, and I'm I'm
I'm a because this is I'm gonna put it like
this thing. You got a girl and I'm a nigga
sending your girl cash as all the time and blunch
and all that. I'm just doing nice gestures. I'm just
being a nice guy. But this is your lady though,
How would you view that? How are you gonna look
at me?

Speaker 2 (02:01:16):
That's different though, bro, Like, yeah, now you cash up
when a nigga you knows girl, no I don't know you.

Speaker 50 (02:01:25):
Me and you.

Speaker 10 (02:01:25):
I know her, I don't know you, but this is
your girl, though. If you see I'm doing all these
nice justice for your girl, are you gonna take it
ouse he's trying to be trying to funck my girl,
or he just being a nice guy.

Speaker 5 (02:01:42):
Even that.

Speaker 4 (02:01:45):
I don't need to be said.

Speaker 10 (02:01:49):
You're I'm trying to just be a nice dude. You're
gonna think I'm trying to do something with your lady.

Speaker 1 (02:01:55):
Bro.

Speaker 2 (02:01:55):
It really depends though, nigga like because they think about it.
If you are I suppose it right, Let's appose I'm
a nigga that's not on the app right. Let's just
say Shaniga is my girl. You and Shanika got cool
on clubhouse out of out, out of out of you know,
and I just I find out somehow, you know, then
she you know somehow it was like boom, I know
that y'all be talking. Y'all cool or whatever.

Speaker 5 (02:02:14):
Whatever.

Speaker 2 (02:02:14):
Bro, I'm not really gonna give a fuck personally because.

Speaker 10 (02:02:18):
I'm a type.

Speaker 2 (02:02:18):
This is only a meat thing. This is a met
thing though. This is a meat thing though. Gee, this
is a me thing.

Speaker 13 (02:02:24):
He's doing it all the time.

Speaker 10 (02:02:27):
Y'all gotta keep it a buck in these conversations.

Speaker 38 (02:02:29):
Bro.

Speaker 2 (02:02:29):
I'm telling you, Bro, I don't been here before. Nigga.
I'm the nigga that used to bring Shorty to the club. Nigga.
And if niggas, niggas will buy her drinks and I
be like, niggas, she know what I drink, She'll bring
me a drink too, Nigga. Like you will say, like nigga,
I don't give a fun I'm not that type of nigga.

Speaker 10 (02:02:44):
I'm just a nigga in the club buying a chick
twenty over a honey shots and bottles. You think he
doing all that because he's being nice.

Speaker 2 (02:02:52):
Bro, I don't give a fuck.

Speaker 10 (02:02:53):
Why doing that?

Speaker 2 (02:02:54):
But I get to your front though that.

Speaker 9 (02:03:00):
As a person that used to promote at the nightclubs,
I've seen it happen where dudes was just losting because
they have money. As a person that has quite a
few celebrity friends, I've seen people.

Speaker 4 (02:03:10):
In my circle they just do things for women just because.

Speaker 28 (02:03:14):
They can celebrities.

Speaker 4 (02:03:17):
Well, I'm talking about the people that love the celebrities.

Speaker 9 (02:03:19):
Yeah that's not yeah, bro, hold on Reelectually I'm around
these people.

Speaker 35 (02:03:25):
Yeah, my bad, chick. I'm around these people a lot,
and so I see it quite often.

Speaker 9 (02:03:30):
Where like, let's say, if I'm around X y Z
celebrity and the people that are within the circle, sometimes
they just like to do it just because it's their
way to flex, it's their way to flaws.

Speaker 4 (02:03:40):
They don't want nothing from the chick. They just want
to do it just.

Speaker 35 (02:03:43):
Because, yeah, I'm buying bottles, I'm popping bottles, whatever they say,
or whatever the case may be.

Speaker 4 (02:03:47):
But then you have some people, to Princess point, that
do it because they have a motive and a reason.

Speaker 35 (02:03:54):
So I think that it's just a matter of the
intent and the attend and motive of the individual that's
doing it.

Speaker 4 (02:04:02):
I don't think it's all just what you're saying, Prince.

Speaker 35 (02:04:04):
I literally think that everybody that's giving you the feedback
is because multiple truths are existing at the same time.

Speaker 43 (02:04:13):
Can I give up something?

Speaker 1 (02:04:15):
Light?

Speaker 13 (02:04:16):
Ladies?

Speaker 20 (02:04:17):
Redress up?

Speaker 43 (02:04:18):
We go to the grocery store, everybody and they fall.
They're trying to carry the back to the car, trying
to open the doors. Everything going here the next day
with a scarf over your head, you're gonador sump to
your face.

Speaker 1 (02:04:31):
So I'm with Prince.

Speaker 54 (02:04:33):
I will say I will say this. I think it's
several things can be true at one time.

Speaker 4 (02:04:38):
I think that.

Speaker 54 (02:04:41):
You rarely hear those scenarios told by women where they
pushed up on a nigga who they was cool with
and he was.

Speaker 6 (02:04:48):
Like, girl, what the fuck is wrong with you?

Speaker 1 (02:04:51):
Absolutely not?

Speaker 6 (02:04:54):
I mean when do women ever tell them stories?

Speaker 54 (02:04:56):
Because they happen a lot, not because because she's not
fine as hell, not because she does she's not six.

Speaker 8 (02:05:03):
See, he just do not want to fuck with her.

Speaker 54 (02:05:05):
It ain't necessarily nothing wrong with her quote unquote per se,
he just ain't thinking about her for whatever damn reason.

Speaker 2 (02:05:12):
Yep.

Speaker 54 (02:05:12):
I don't think that they tell them stories. So if
they're not telling those stories, which I think happens more
often than not, that means that it's some ship happening
that's not really being talked about.

Speaker 2 (02:05:25):
Do you think it is for a woman to come
on here and tell niggas that she got rejected?

Speaker 4 (02:05:30):
I mean, that's what that's.

Speaker 8 (02:05:38):
Right, That's what I'm saying, Prince is.

Speaker 54 (02:05:39):
But Ron was talking about he worked, if you frequent nightlife,
if you are propired her, if you're a patriot, if
you manage. Man, that shit happened all the time. And
then women were walking around. You know what I'm saying,
Niggas be like, what's wrong with her? Because the two
of the niggas that she's been eyeing, you know what
I'm saying, in the club last few weeks, both of
them niggas told her no, that's why she got the
boo boo face, you know what I'm saying. But that

(02:06:02):
then some women are strong enough to be like, Okay,
that is what it is. I guess you know what
I'm saying. But especially if she fine, Lord Jesus.

Speaker 5 (02:06:10):
It's just it's just hard.

Speaker 1 (02:06:11):
Hold up, hold up, run, It's just hard, man.

Speaker 37 (02:06:17):
It's just it's just hard for me to come to
the understanding that y'all saying that y'all have female friends.
I mean, like, yeah, if she she's around you sometimes
every now and again, but if she's around you all
the time, you a man, You're gonna want to smash.

Speaker 1 (02:06:30):
You're gonna eventually smashing.

Speaker 4 (02:06:32):
That's just what it is.

Speaker 1 (02:06:34):
And I understand you know, yes, you are.

Speaker 10 (02:06:37):
You a man.

Speaker 6 (02:06:38):
So you're telling me.

Speaker 23 (02:06:40):
She ain't nothing to a nigga.

Speaker 10 (02:06:43):
What I want to hold up?

Speaker 39 (02:06:44):
But I'm gonna tell you.

Speaker 37 (02:06:45):
Okay, let's say you locked up, right, you locked up,
you get out, and she right in front of you
telling me you ain't gonna knock your down dog.

Speaker 27 (02:06:52):
Come okay.

Speaker 4 (02:06:55):
I don't understand y'all.

Speaker 37 (02:06:56):
Y'all gonna lie about everything. But it's cool, Bro, what
I'm telling you is bro all that like what what
you call it? What Bro Prince was saying. He was
talking about, Yeah, niggas be polite in that ship. I'm
just saying me as me personally, I'm not gonna be nice.
I'm gonna tell you, hey, baby, I want to fuck,
and that's just gonna be that. We ain't gonna get
to no friends type situation. That's that's all I'm saying.

(02:07:17):
But I think, y'all men they are the way being honest,
That's all I'm saying.

Speaker 31 (02:07:21):
They not because they admit all the time that they
lie of women, because if they told us the truth,
it's either they're gonna get a negative backlash or they're
not gonna get what they want.

Speaker 23 (02:07:29):
So they steal a lot of women because women.

Speaker 4 (02:07:32):
How am I speaking.

Speaker 10 (02:07:34):
I'm speaking because I gotta just like you.

Speaker 1 (02:07:38):
That's why I got a dick I got a hard
ass dick, just like you doog And.

Speaker 2 (02:07:45):
When I listen, listen, check this out right, It's gonna
make sense when I say this, Bro, listen, just like right,
what I said is true from me right, my homegirls, right,
the folk girls that my folk god daughters, they mamas maro,

(02:08:06):
three of them. I can admit a like attractive.

Speaker 10 (02:08:08):
Bro.

Speaker 2 (02:08:08):
I'm not fucking them, never having We've been friends for
over ten years. I got pictures with all their children.
I've been at every birthday. Hell out of probably finance
a couple of them motherfuckers while he was coming up.
You get what I'm saying, Bro, Never will it come
to a situation. I don't care if I'm drunk, as
we don't have been drunk together. I don't care what
it is, bro, Like it's not happening that way, and
that's just what it is. But I can say that

(02:08:29):
with that truth being true, I can also sit a
what Prince said. It's more likely than my situation, right,
because if a nigga more often than not, if I'm
really being honest, more often than not, if a niggas
is doing a lot of nice things to you, he's
trying to test the waters. So that is true, but
this mindset that it's gotta be black or white is nonsense.

(02:08:49):
Niggas is not monolists like nigga. All niggas don't think
the same. I fuck when I said he cool, he
made good points. I fuck with Prince. We just don't
agree all the way on this, and that's, oh hey,
the same way some women go outside and they just
very very sexily right, but they don't want nothing from niggas.
They just wanted to feel sexy. And that's just kind
of how they do when they go outside. And some

(02:09:10):
women go outside intentionally trying to recruit niggas, and they
both dressed the same, walk the same, and talk the same.
I'm bad.

Speaker 10 (02:09:20):
And I feel that I agree to that. Like, well,
then I'm gonna say, then if you that type of
dude or y'all in his room, all the dudes that
could just do nice justice and don't you're not attracted
the herd, you don't want nothing from y'all, y'all like
two or three percent of America, then I'm gonna just
shait it, you know what I mean, because I done
seen I don't seen it all like, and I got
sistered I tell my own sisters. Just's like, don't think

(02:09:42):
because the nigga calling you his bro or his brother
that he don't want to like, don't be stupid. You
can have meal friends, but have your third hour open
because a nigga would do anything he gotta do to
get to that push and if he got to play
a role like yay, this is my best And even
with that, that's something I can never do, Like I
can't look at a woman and be like, oh this
this is like my sister and we were just fucking

(02:10:04):
last week, or I'm attracted to you and I know
I'm attracted to you, but I'm going around telling everybody
you like my sister. And I know in the back
of my mind, if you ever throw that ass at me,
I'm gonna be with this ship that ain't no, ain't
no brother sister relationship like he ain't friends like I Rather,
if I want you, when I'm attracted to you, I'm
straight out right, I'd rather let you know that. Listen,

(02:10:24):
It's how I'm moving. I don't want to manipulate. That's
why I tell a woman, do not call me your brother,
don't call me your uncle, your cousin, none of that
we are not blood. I'll be cool. I respect you
as a woman, but I do not call me your
brother because I don't already seen your cities nudes.

Speaker 1 (02:10:41):
A question, I'm gonna say this on top of what
he's saying.

Speaker 4 (02:10:44):
Hold up, I'm say you know, like.

Speaker 10 (02:10:52):
I know, like on a good night, like if she
throw it at me'm I know what I'm gonna do.
I'm not gonna sit up here a lout on myself
like nah, like that's why I The only way I
could see this really going to how y'all saying is
if the men and woman have no attraction at all,
Like there's no attraction, y'all just cool cool, but a
baddi and the nigga and the nigga just it's just

(02:11:13):
strictly platonic.

Speaker 1 (02:11:16):
It don't even gotta be that. Look, the girl don't
even have to be fine.

Speaker 37 (02:11:19):
The thing about it is, you stay around a woman
too long, her femininity is gonna show, and you gonna
want that that.

Speaker 4 (02:11:25):
I just don't.

Speaker 37 (02:11:27):
She don't even have to look that good. She don't
even have to look she could be below basic. You
gonna end up hitting it because.

Speaker 2 (02:11:35):
I have a question what it is.

Speaker 13 (02:11:38):
A question.

Speaker 1 (02:11:41):
Go ahead, go ahead to the ladies, go ahead.

Speaker 29 (02:11:44):
Real quick. What you're saying now serious?

Speaker 42 (02:11:47):
Sounds like men have no honor, right, Like one of
my friends said, if I tell a woman that I'm
her friend, what do I look like sneaking around trying
to sweep with her.

Speaker 29 (02:11:56):
It's about how the standard you hold to yourself about
your words.

Speaker 42 (02:12:00):
So if you tell a woman you're her friend, then
you shouldn't be trying to sleep with her like It's
just not like that shows lack of honor on the
band's part because she's operating in a space where she
thinks you're her friend.

Speaker 43 (02:12:15):
I never think.

Speaker 4 (02:12:18):
Like that.

Speaker 43 (02:12:19):
I never think of my friend, no matter if he's
saying he my friend or not. I want to hear
from some of the ladies where a man talked to
him and he was just doing it out of kindness
of his heart, because a man has never done anything
from the kind of stuff.

Speaker 25 (02:12:31):
It's hard for me.

Speaker 4 (02:12:34):
Look, I just just.

Speaker 31 (02:12:36):
Experienced some ship where I had a nigga that's been
my friend for ten years, never made a pass at me,
and just recently he was trying to leverage and pussy out.

Speaker 22 (02:12:44):
Of me because he knew I had my backup against
the fucking wall.

Speaker 31 (02:12:47):
So with me having that history with him, my kids
calling him uncle, he never made a sexual pass at me.

Speaker 22 (02:12:53):
He's always had a girlfriend, and for him to do
it when in my most vulnerable moment, dad threw it
out the window.

Speaker 31 (02:13:00):
I don't think a man could ever have a platonic
relationship with a woman and in no circumstance.

Speaker 22 (02:13:05):
I'm sorry, that's just me. It's always you sad. So
it may be true for other people, so I'm not
gonna negate that.

Speaker 43 (02:13:12):
However, for me, no chick female friends must really be
like one of their bros if she feminine. Yeah, no,
it's going no, I will say, but.

Speaker 28 (02:13:26):
I'm sorry, I get your way.

Speaker 19 (02:13:28):
I do think to what I think Stunner made a
good point earlier when she was saying kind of it
just depends on how long y'all been cool.

Speaker 28 (02:13:36):
Because don't get me wrong, does every man wants to fuck?

Speaker 6 (02:13:40):
Yes?

Speaker 19 (02:13:40):
That, So when I say my next statement, just know
that I notice already. But I do think that depending
on how long y'all have been friends, y'all, motherfucker's not
even willing to ruin that type of shit, You know
what I'm saying?

Speaker 4 (02:13:53):
I have a homeboy right now that.

Speaker 28 (02:13:56):
Has a whole girlfriend.

Speaker 4 (02:13:57):
I know the girlfriend.

Speaker 19 (02:13:58):
We are super Me and a girlfriend can go hang
out without this mess, you know what I'm saying. But
if I ever, like God forbid, if something happened I
got libbed and I needed five hundred dollars or something,
he would come through. We've also been friends since kindergarten,
so that's why I say you have to take into account.
But don't get me wrong, do I also understand the
back of my head. If times got hard, every woman

(02:14:20):
dropped dead, even his girlfriend, and I offered up a
piece of pussy when he take it. Guess that's a
natural man, right. But I also just understand that you
know that type of factor. So I didn't want to
say maybe to what Stuna was saying, it does depend
on how long you know things like that, but be at.

Speaker 4 (02:14:39):
I don't know. I'm gonna just say that I just
agree with you a little bit.

Speaker 48 (02:14:42):
And jazz and.

Speaker 12 (02:14:43):
Jazz, even with the time that you have been friends,
it's all about how y'all hang, how much y'all hang.

Speaker 13 (02:14:50):
That's that's when that line gets crossed.

Speaker 12 (02:14:52):
I have friends from middle school, but hell, we can
go two years without even speaking, not talking to each other.
I made shoot an email, Hey do something real, quip
bla blah blah. We're gonna We're gonna handle that. Like
that's just known, the fact that we're these friends and
we'll always be friends.

Speaker 13 (02:15:05):
But we're not talking every day. We're not hanging every day.

Speaker 12 (02:15:08):
We may come to a birthday party of somebody's and
don't talk for another seven or eight months.

Speaker 13 (02:15:13):
And it's been like that since like middle school or
high school.

Speaker 12 (02:15:15):
But that that hanging every day and come take me
over here and come with me shopping with a homeboy?

Speaker 5 (02:15:21):
No, never that.

Speaker 13 (02:15:23):
No, you get at You get a man for that,
not a homeboy.

Speaker 10 (02:15:28):
So I have a question.

Speaker 37 (02:15:29):
So I think attraction does play a big role in it.
Like have we all not just been around people of
the opposite sex and just not had that urge to
want to fuck them, whether they were attractive or not,
whether it be like whether it be like coworkers, or
I can think of a plethoro of women I've been
around that I'm not attracted to, or if some that

(02:15:51):
are just attractive.

Speaker 4 (02:15:52):
I don't think every man has made.

Speaker 55 (02:15:53):
A pass at every attractive woman that they've been around, Like,
I've been around plenty of attractive women, and I just
didn't think about sucking them. I could, I could literally
admit that that's an attractive woman, but I don't have
to make a pass at them, like I just I'm
a bit confused.

Speaker 1 (02:16:08):
With some of the some of the responses.

Speaker 43 (02:16:12):
Are you being friendly is a question? Are you doing things?

Speaker 5 (02:16:17):
Like?

Speaker 55 (02:16:18):
Okay, so are we we're talking about like real close
homies like we're talking about I.

Speaker 12 (02:16:22):
Was just about to say, we kind of titled a
little bit because we're speaking like close friends, long term friends,
but the title is just being friendly with the woman.

Speaker 13 (02:16:32):
Does that mean you want her? I would say absolutely, Okay, you.

Speaker 4 (02:16:37):
Just want a woman.

Speaker 6 (02:16:38):
But in these.

Speaker 12 (02:16:38):
Friendships where y'all like click tight and families and all
of that, yeah you're not.

Speaker 2 (02:16:43):
I don't know.

Speaker 13 (02:16:44):
I'm gonna leave that up to y'all.

Speaker 25 (02:16:45):
But listen, I was really go, bro, you ready, no
get rid of that ticket.

Speaker 4 (02:16:59):
I can have you up here, the peank ticket.

Speaker 7 (02:17:01):
But I'm saying, though, my thing is this, right, Okay,
what if you're on clubhouse right and you have people
that come through that know you and stuff like that,
and at times you know you'll compliment them or be
nice to them, and sometimes they might even pull you
in the back to have a conversation, but you're not
really showing no interest where to the point you're trying

(02:17:23):
to smash. And then they take that conversation and they
interpreted as you try to holler at them and said
that you just being nice being cool?

Speaker 10 (02:17:34):
Is that a you?

Speaker 25 (02:17:35):
Is that a herd problem or you problem? Does that
not happen off problem?

Speaker 2 (02:17:40):
I mean, it depends if it's a one off right off.
It's just like if you always coming like that, or
if it's like you know, you just happen to stumble
upon Shorty whatever whatever you're talking about. The Yeah, I
love you deserve a world queen. I just want you
to know that nigga saying if a nigga just pop
off and whatever, y'all have like a pre existent relationship
with y'all, the friendship and you know, Shorty, come on this,

(02:18:02):
you know you can tell her she kind of going
through some shit. Hey, look, you know, I hope you.
I hope tomorrow treat you better than the day. Like,
you know, you are a good person. You deserve that
type of ship. No, that does not me not want you.
I'm just trying to uplift you because I feel like,
you know, you might have needed that at that moment
you get you know what I'm saying. So this is
it's contextual. If we're gonna be for real good, I'm.

Speaker 10 (02:18:19):
Gonna keep it a buck like we if we going off.

Speaker 2 (02:18:24):
On this app, they definitely want to fuck on here.

Speaker 10 (02:18:29):
Every woman that have been in my back shad waved
at me into private. They was not trying to be
a buddy your friend.

Speaker 25 (02:18:39):
Oh god, that's that sucked.

Speaker 10 (02:18:42):
That that sucked. I don't maybe I'm just.

Speaker 2 (02:18:44):
I don't know, but I got a question though. Yeah,
So my question is this right for like the women
that say like niggas have never done nothing nice for
them ever without wanting some coaching, I'm tempting to ask, like, Yo,
what does that say about like your personality?

Speaker 25 (02:19:08):
Yeah?

Speaker 13 (02:19:10):
Hmm, I think I think all women have had Oh
go ahead, jazz.

Speaker 4 (02:19:16):
We also.

Speaker 23 (02:19:19):
We give it to each other.

Speaker 38 (02:19:20):
Now.

Speaker 19 (02:19:21):
I was gonna say that too earlier, chick, because I
was just thinking, like, some of y'all fail to realize
that just because you're pretty, your personality is ship so
he won't ever.

Speaker 23 (02:19:31):
Want to fuck you.

Speaker 19 (02:19:32):
But he could still be nice to you, you know
what I'm saying, Or it could be the vice versa
with a man too, like as hell, but the way
you think turns me to fuck off. But we could
be cool though, Like you know what I'm saying. We
out and I bought on some shots like that's being
friendly right like, but I would never fuck you on,
like you would be the last nigga. Literally everybody would

(02:19:52):
have to drop dead. You know, some people don't think
about that. So I do think we're chick is going
to the personality thing. I think some of us don't
think that. Some of y'all think that just because you'll
find your personality.

Speaker 10 (02:20:02):
I don't agree. I don't agree with that either with
the person hold On, hold on, I don't know this
whole time, you're not saying nothing relevant to the top
to the top. You just asking random questions like it's shiit, friends,
attractive and all that. Like you're not saying that that's relevant.
My thing is, I don't I don't agree with the

(02:20:24):
personality thing though, because and this applies to me to
I haven't been the most gentleman like dude on this
app I don't been toxic and been a dog. The
niggas with the with the shitty personalities be the ones
they be reading the fuck that's to God, so you
can't say that either. It's yo, I swear to God,

(02:20:45):
and I'm not saying it's the brag. It's on everything
I love. It's a woman on here. I done cursed
out like a motherfucking dog. She was everything with a
child of God. And then a week two, three days
later we in the room again, she flarting with being
nice to me, like I just cursed you out like
a dog the other day and you being nice.

Speaker 25 (02:21:04):
Because they ship.

Speaker 10 (02:21:06):
That's why it sounds good to say because he got
a shitty And I agree you could. You could, You
could look attractive and your personality can be shitty. But
what I'm saying is like there's people with shitty personalities
and people still be wanting to they be wanting to
fuck them still, Like I don't know, wa.

Speaker 31 (02:21:32):
Use to gain clarity because I probably I think I
heard it wrong. You said you wanted to ask a
question to the women who has never How do you
how you gonna blame how You're gonna say it's something
with that woman personality when me and have never did nothing,
just trying to be genuine nice to her. How that's

(02:21:52):
gotta be something about the woman that causes men to
only do ship and only want to do things nice for.

Speaker 22 (02:22:01):
And to get some pussy.

Speaker 31 (02:22:03):
That How's that the woman's fault is these niggas only
doing shit nice to get some pussy.

Speaker 22 (02:22:09):
That's that's some nigga. That's what niggas do. How did they?

Speaker 52 (02:22:14):
How did that? What?

Speaker 28 (02:22:15):
How did that say something about her?

Speaker 22 (02:22:16):
I'm just trying to gain clarity.

Speaker 4 (02:22:17):
How did that say something about her?

Speaker 10 (02:22:19):
Her personality?

Speaker 12 (02:22:20):
He's saying, if a man has never did anything polite
for you without trying to have sex with you, then
it must be a youth thing.

Speaker 5 (02:22:28):
Like what what?

Speaker 10 (02:22:29):
What area are you in?

Speaker 13 (02:22:30):
Like it's the youth thing?

Speaker 10 (02:22:31):
Where are you?

Speaker 13 (02:22:32):
Where are you normally at?

Speaker 12 (02:22:33):
Like I can I can be getting ready to pump
my gas a man to get out of his truck.

Speaker 13 (02:22:36):
I got that for you. Love, Thank you so much, sir,
have a great day.

Speaker 5 (02:22:39):
I don't know you.

Speaker 13 (02:22:39):
I will never see you again. And that's it.

Speaker 12 (02:22:41):
So that's what he's saying, like do if a man
has never done something that simple? Are you at the
gas station looking me like I cut your nigga on
come speak to me.

Speaker 13 (02:22:50):
Definitely, he says the personality thing, he's.

Speaker 43 (02:22:53):
Funny out of his household to give to other women.
What does that say about him?

Speaker 10 (02:22:59):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (02:23:00):
I think the thing that the.

Speaker 56 (02:23:01):
Thing that people just man don't want to admit a
lot of times. Man, just like you got scrub dudes
out there, you got scrub ass women out here too,
And you got women, scrub ass women insecure.

Speaker 2 (02:23:14):
And it's not a function of how women looks.

Speaker 13 (02:23:18):
You know what I'm saying, The woman is a scrub
because no, listen to what I'm saying.

Speaker 56 (02:23:25):
To see you gotta you gotta let me finish my
thought before you respond. You see what I mean. What
I'm saying is you have women out there just like
you have brothers out here, right, you know, insecure, shutting
ends man, and uh you know all this type of shit,
don't have a high view of themselves, et cetera, et cetera.

(02:23:47):
You got women out there here like that too. You
know what I'm saying, Who man, hell man? You you
don't even hell man? You say hi to the woman, man,
the woman ready to give you a motherfucking both of
our arms and our firstborn kids. You got women out
there out here like that that goddamn insecure, just like

(02:24:09):
these brothers and so you you would do or you know,
for whatever reason you have. You know, hell, man, you
ain't gotta be nice to certain women for them to
give you everything. Yeah, they trying to. They trying to
gain favor with you. They're trying to, you know what
I'm saying, validate themselves through you, through doing shit for you.

(02:24:31):
You got women out there like that only on clubhouse.
That kind of shit doesn't exist, you know, and everybody
on here, I would say most people know people like that,
men and women like that. You can have a man,
a man, you know, like shit, a woman out here.

Speaker 2 (02:24:54):
Who will look you know, anybody else.

Speaker 56 (02:24:55):
She's so attractive man, And all she knows, man is
motherfucker's dragging through the mud, That's all she knows. Fucker
than just every every dude that she's really ever dealt
with as a drug or through the mud. Usually that's
an effect of her not having a father, a strong
father figure in her life, maybe not even a mother figure.

Speaker 2 (02:25:20):
You got.

Speaker 56 (02:25:20):
You got people out here that were abandoned man when
they were kids, man were young, never loved man, and
they spend the rest of their lives in an unresolved state,
searching for love man. And many times those are the
people that get drug without with our people being nice
to them. You know, they're always looking to validate themselves
to other people. And I could tell every time we

(02:25:43):
had these conversations. And I'm not talking about everyone, and
I'm before this dude comes in here and tries to
save everybody, but you could tell who has been outside
and beyond.

Speaker 41 (02:25:55):
I don't believe it.

Speaker 56 (02:26:00):
Can always tell who had been outside who hasn't. I'm
not advocating, no condoning what you got, but you got,
but you got people out here like that.

Speaker 11 (02:26:09):
Men ain't women ain't no version of what you're doing.

Speaker 43 (02:26:16):
Okay, so men don't want you being nice to these
women because they ain't got no parents.

Speaker 5 (02:26:23):
It's not that that is not without That was not
the point.

Speaker 37 (02:26:30):
Some of you moreuers bands, they got fans, they got
short You gotta say it real quick.

Speaker 20 (02:26:38):
Damn. He just said that people got not what I said.

Speaker 56 (02:26:42):
I said, you have insecure, broken people out of here.
Silly woman that will go down?

Speaker 23 (02:26:55):
Can I say so real quick?

Speaker 10 (02:26:58):
Yeah? What's good? Yeah?

Speaker 4 (02:27:01):
Paulie was good?

Speaker 36 (02:27:01):
Brody And then ship I'm gonna speak to it, but Ogi, Fred,
go ahead.

Speaker 23 (02:27:06):
I'll make it quick. And I said the check.

Speaker 15 (02:27:10):
You got more pussy on clubhouse, since it's since it's
been out, more than you got in real life.

Speaker 2 (02:27:17):
You got this reject.

Speaker 23 (02:27:20):
That's all I'm saying. That's a fact.

Speaker 4 (02:27:27):
Man.

Speaker 37 (02:27:27):
They set the standard for these suckers. Man, and then
they get mad about it. They get mad.

Speaker 25 (02:27:33):
Hold on, he wanted to go off the ochie he
just got on the stage, Tue.

Speaker 4 (02:27:36):
Yeah, Paul, Oh nah, it's good. Old JP was good.

Speaker 5 (02:27:42):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (02:27:42):
Nah, you know you know my ship on this.

Speaker 36 (02:27:45):
Yeah, I'm gonna be honest.

Speaker 4 (02:27:47):
I'm married.

Speaker 36 (02:27:49):
I'm not nice to women, bro, I'm keeping it one
hundred just off the shrunks. Being nice can turning to
guests who tried to holler at me today. Nah, Bro,
I got a brand and a maverage to protect my
wife knows.

Speaker 4 (02:28:01):
I'm mean.

Speaker 36 (02:28:02):
I get off me nigga energy at all times, bro,
because it really being nice will turn into that.

Speaker 23 (02:28:09):
I'm coming to you woman, a woman.

Speaker 36 (02:28:11):
Guess what Paul and what I said, yo, Bro, Nah,
I mean at all times one hundred percent. Like one
time I seen an X amount true story, I didn't
have my glasses on, so I was fake blonde and
I just see somebody waving me across the street and
I'm like, what the fuck is this.

Speaker 4 (02:28:30):
I get across the street and.

Speaker 36 (02:28:31):
I see it tough. I'm like, oh shit, she's talking.
I'm trying not to be rude.

Speaker 4 (02:28:37):
She's talking, and.

Speaker 36 (02:28:38):
Shit, I ain't painting. And she's like, oh, do I
look the same since high school. I'm like, yo, you're
still fat?

Speaker 4 (02:28:42):
Like what up?

Speaker 36 (02:28:42):
She's like, oh, You're still an asshole.

Speaker 4 (02:28:44):
I'm like, all right, what up?

Speaker 36 (02:28:45):
Like what she talked, I'm like, yo, bro, look I
gotta go like if you need to tie at me,
like reach out on Facebook and some shit, that's what
I said, bro life. She like throw a hand up,
like sorry, bobo, I've been married six years. That kind
of made me feel because I'm like, yo, one already
spun you to you fat, Like let's keep it one
hundred gang like look at me, look at true. I

(02:29:06):
did you a favor off the brip, like even stop
and talk to you now, it's just up. I'm mean, bro,
I can't help it because being nice, they they'll take
the wrong energy. And even after telling them like yo, bro,
I got a wife. Yeah, but I'm saying I could
do something your wife can't do, and I just start
saying crazy shit like you can do shit, my wife
can't do the world. My wife got me a Bugatti Sharon,

(02:29:29):
you will give me another one. I start saying dumb
shit to you, like don't don't play with me. Then
it just makes me get wild, disrespectful, and shit starts happening.
So Noah, bro, you gotta stay mean, especially if you
got a wife, stay stay mean. I advise after all
the brothers you care about your relationship.

Speaker 4 (02:29:45):
Stay mean.

Speaker 36 (02:29:45):
I don't gotta keep no woman happy about my wife,
So fuck them, Like fuck, I'm being nice to any
of y'all for That's how I feel.

Speaker 10 (02:29:52):
I'm landing right.

Speaker 43 (02:29:53):
The guys could be taking money out of their household
to give to the woman. Yeah, we're chickering.

Speaker 2 (02:30:00):
I want to know you go wave.

Speaker 10 (02:30:02):
Him in a private You keep calling chick chick, you
must like him. Speak to the topic.

Speaker 43 (02:30:16):
Write in the comments.

Speaker 25 (02:30:21):
What just happened.

Speaker 10 (02:30:22):
She's looking for chick.

Speaker 25 (02:30:24):
Want to be hurt.

Speaker 10 (02:30:29):
Too, Yeah, she's looking for somebody. But shit, I felt
with Homie said, you know what I'm saying, you got
to give off me. You know what I'm saying. That's
why I like mean chicks too. Like I was talking
about this stunner room when we had this conversation. I
don't like friendly chicks because I feel like friendly chicks
as holes because I never met her that I never

(02:30:49):
I never met a hole that was me. You ever
made a hole?

Speaker 1 (02:30:52):
Is she?

Speaker 10 (02:30:52):
She's revery friendly, she's easily accessible, she's smiley, died like.
I don't want that. I want the mean chick that's
curving all the niggas. She she like a princess to me,
But she mean everybody, like give me your or that
friendly shit, that really poly ship, keep that over there street.

Speaker 1 (02:31:09):
It's that New York ship. Man, I don't know what
you're talking about.

Speaker 4 (02:31:12):
It's just it's a it's an up North thing.

Speaker 7 (02:31:15):
Telling the truth because I don't want my chick being
friendly with everybody fucking either.

Speaker 10 (02:31:20):
That's just just what it is, man.

Speaker 25 (02:31:21):
I don't. I don't.

Speaker 7 (02:31:22):
I don't expect y'all to understand it. But once we
see somebody really friendly, oh no, we can fuck. That's
how we think. Yep, that's the truth. And guess what happens.
Nine times out of ten topics we just said pop that.

Speaker 23 (02:31:37):
Yeah, I don't want to.

Speaker 57 (02:31:38):
I thought y'all wanted fit, family and friendly women. Y'all
don't want feminine.

Speaker 10 (02:31:44):
And friendly with us.

Speaker 36 (02:31:45):
We don't need you feminine friendly with everybody, and the
same goals for a man. You don't want a man
that's nice to all these women? Oh yeah, you know,
look at you giving out compliments and.

Speaker 4 (02:31:55):
All that ship.

Speaker 36 (02:31:56):
Nah, bro, be mean again. I got a wife. I'm
gonna you fucking mean. I don't even funk about none
of y'all. I'm not holding doors, I'm not doing ship.
Our only woman i'm worried about keeping happy is my
fucking wife. Why I need to be friendly with all
these women out here? Why the funk would you want
to a man being friendly with these women out here? Gangster, Yeah,

(02:32:16):
we like feminine women with us. My wife fucking be mean.
All these fucking niggas. Fuck these niggas, Like, what what
you mean? Like that's just common?

Speaker 58 (02:32:26):
Can I ask so?

Speaker 10 (02:32:28):
Like? Can I get added to the Q?

Speaker 29 (02:32:30):
So?

Speaker 57 (02:32:30):
How does that work with you being able to get
the woman's attention if she's not essentially nice to begin
with her, to be approachable like grabbing woman's attention then yeah.

Speaker 4 (02:32:44):
Wait, wait, hold on, the questions is fucking crazy.

Speaker 25 (02:32:48):
Okay, listen, what's that giant that just asked that question.

Speaker 10 (02:32:55):
Question?

Speaker 7 (02:32:57):
If you're single, a single woman, you can do it
the fuck you wanted to. What we just gave you
example of you being a man's girl and you're being
friendly with other men, it's a problem. If you don't
have a man, you're friendly, you're trying to catch some
type of attention. But if that lady has a man,
you shouldn't be all friendly with niggas.

Speaker 25 (02:33:19):
So I don't.

Speaker 11 (02:33:19):
I don't.

Speaker 54 (02:33:23):
Yes, I think it's an environment thing too, or maybe
a disposition, because well, the definition of.

Speaker 6 (02:33:28):
Cordial is warm and friendly, right, so yeah, there, I don't.

Speaker 54 (02:33:33):
Maybe this is one of the things men don't tell them,
these stories about how they misinterpret a woman being cordial.

Speaker 8 (02:33:39):
Then you got you might have some actions.

Speaker 54 (02:33:41):
A lot of women out here that got a man
that's cordial and you ain't never had a chance.

Speaker 6 (02:33:46):
The nigga don't tell that story though, right, they just don't,
because I guess.

Speaker 54 (02:33:51):
Every nigga on the clubhouse beginning pussy all the pussy
they want us to, they was in the third grade,
But in reality it's a whole lot of women like that.

Speaker 1 (02:34:00):
It's not rare.

Speaker 42 (02:34:05):
Without funds be like flirting or being correctly doing too much.
You can work a room, you can be polite, you
can network, but you don't have to be overly friendly
with anybody.

Speaker 4 (02:34:17):
Correct.

Speaker 10 (02:34:17):
Exactly that was That was exactly.

Speaker 59 (02:34:25):
Yeah, that was exactly what I was going to say.
I agree with the sentiment that we shouldn't be friendly,
but I disagree that you have to somehow be mean
as a resort to not being friendly. There isn't a
range in between these kind of extreme dichotomies that exist,
And that's that's kind of the problem that I've been
hearing with the conversation. Absolutely agree, don't be friendly, So

(02:34:45):
I don't want to be miscon construed in the point
that I'm making. But why do we have to leap
all the way to being mean as a resort to
not being friendly? Like men, we don't have no type
of range about ourselves as a resort to As a
as a result, as a result to not being friendly,
we still don't know.

Speaker 4 (02:35:04):
How to sayeries. We don't know how to I just
like to finish.

Speaker 3 (02:35:08):
Can I just finish my submission?

Speaker 59 (02:35:11):
We don't we don't know how to still set boundaries.
We don't know how to still be like austere as men.
We still don't know how to still be respectful in
the space of not being friendly. Why do we have
to jump to this like this extremism which we lose
a lot of respect. By the way, when we start
talking about we got to be mean to the world,
they're still like, there's still some type of space to

(02:35:32):
having a connective community. But I know that's a that's
a buzzword for a lot of people, because people don't
believe in community, and people don't believe in like this
wide connectivity amongst people that look like us, which is
why we at the bottom in the first place, and
which is why also why men aren't really leaders or
have an obfuscated their role to being leaders being black,
because we don't really want to We don't want to

(02:35:53):
respect that, so we only see we only see women
through like the lens of like sex, which most of
the conversations been about. But my ending of this somewhat
long submission is that I actually don't think it's about
sex for a lot of men with this kind of
friendly thing. I think that a lot of men are
pivoting to where they want social capital that women have

(02:36:13):
because a lot of women, especially on clubhouse, but a.

Speaker 4 (02:36:16):
Lot of men aren't really even trying to seek sex
for women.

Speaker 59 (02:36:19):
They just want to seek clubhouse cloud or social capital
that comes with being in proximity women. And I think
that's what you're dealing with now in this kind of
nuanced lens of relationships between black men and black women,
especially along the social economic a ladder that exists in
the disparities between educated and successful and non successful black

(02:36:40):
men and the educated black women and a successful black women.

Speaker 2 (02:36:44):
I yield.

Speaker 25 (02:36:46):
I don't know, hold on, Prince, this was crazy.

Speaker 5 (02:36:48):
That was crazy.

Speaker 25 (02:36:49):
I don't know how you got that whole, what you
came with that a whole?

Speaker 4 (02:36:55):
What do you call that shit?

Speaker 25 (02:36:56):
What we say soliloquy about special I don't know. We're
gonna we're gonna tackle your.

Speaker 7 (02:37:05):
Point, sir, okay, And you just had to just bash
the black men, Like, where the fuck did that come
from the context that we're talking about. If you like
for your woman to be friends with everybody said, and
you got that cuck mentality, Uh, we understand that ship,
but I.

Speaker 25 (02:37:27):
Do not want my lady being too friends with every
fucking body, bro.

Speaker 4 (02:37:31):
It just doesn't make any sense. I didn't say she
didn't have to have manners. Guys said hello hello.

Speaker 7 (02:37:37):
Now sitting there saying hello, Hey, how you doing when
you're from now, what are you doing? That's that's too
far at this point. Now, if it's someone that she
already knows that she grew up with or something something
like that, we're not saying be mean to them, but
don't give them a whole arm reach and then they
just pull you all the way in the ain't no
comp Listen, we comprehend.

Speaker 4 (02:37:58):
Well, I don't know why you niggas that. Why do
I think y'all better than us?

Speaker 10 (02:38:01):
You piece of ship?

Speaker 4 (02:38:03):
Love down, hyena face, motherfucking niggas.

Speaker 10 (02:38:08):
Yeah, that whole statement, that long speech you gave, it
sounded good. I just couldn't rock with it because it
just seemed realistic. For at least from my reality.

Speaker 4 (02:38:24):
It sound good, sound good.

Speaker 10 (02:38:29):
I'm a finished chalking. He sounded so like, my thing
is like, oh my god, shut up, Prince.

Speaker 13 (02:38:37):
That's the last time you got to tell me to
shut up for real?

Speaker 10 (02:38:42):
Okay, my thing is whatever.

Speaker 1 (02:38:44):
She sounded like an angry ass wife.

Speaker 60 (02:38:46):
Man.

Speaker 10 (02:38:46):
My thing is what you said is for one, we
was giving a like preference. I like my woman, mean,
that's my preference. So I got to write to and
I'm not changing my opinion. I don't like friendly six,
that's for one. For two question you ask as far
as us like being the mean thing, like being a
friendly guy, like you're just too nice and too friendly.

(02:39:09):
This just saying that nice guys finished last. And that's
a real life saying. Like the gentleman friendly, mister friendly,
he usually get overlooked. And I see that my whole life.
And I always told myself I wasn't gonna play myself.
I'm not gonna be looking stupid being the friendly guy
who getting played and overlook the mister friendly guy. He
gonna get friends zone. That's you're gonna be the bro.

(02:39:31):
And then she gonna talk to the dude she really
like while you over here being friends, mister friendly, she
gonna go fucking choke to the niggas she likes for real,
like you play the saloon. You know what I'm saying,
like and being mean like believe it or not, whether
you want to agree with this or not, because this
ain't even an opinion. This is just a fact, Like
the mean dudes is the ones that get picked the most,

(02:39:52):
Like the ones that they say ain't shit and toxic
and mean, those are the ones they usually talk to.
That your type of caliber, being the friendly guy, you're
gonna be like Brose like you the friend you know,
she gonna call your phone and talk to you about
the dude she likes for real, the mean guy that
she picked as a nigga. You know what I'm saying.

(02:40:12):
So being a friendly dude that never really was a
route I wanted to take, Like being mean and aggressive.
A lot of times, it's kind of worked. I got
picked more so that the friendly route you might get
played being too nice and friendly. You know, you don't
have no type of authority, no sternness, you have no background.

Speaker 44 (02:40:31):
How do you know this?

Speaker 10 (02:40:32):
Like, I just want to know, hyphens.

Speaker 1 (02:40:35):
How do you know this for a fact because I
lived there, I've been no, no, no, I'm talking about
I'm talking about. How do you know you got picked
more than the other guy?

Speaker 4 (02:40:42):
How do you know this for a fact?

Speaker 29 (02:40:44):
Me?

Speaker 10 (02:40:44):
How I know this for a fact because I've been
in the situation. You know, how do you do life?
You asking me a question? You don't want to hear
the answer.

Speaker 1 (02:40:52):
No, I'm here to answer that.

Speaker 10 (02:40:53):
You. I've been in real life scenarios, in real life
scenarios where you got the dude over here as being
friendly and you got the mean dude, which is me,
where she went home with me and not him. Okay, but.

Speaker 1 (02:41:09):
That's that's cool, you though.

Speaker 37 (02:41:11):
What I'm telling you is that how do you know
that she ain't go back to the zooke that was
being quote unquote friendly with her?

Speaker 10 (02:41:18):
But I'm gonna became her. Bro, he's the friends. But
how you know that?

Speaker 5 (02:41:22):
What you think?

Speaker 10 (02:41:23):
Because that's the dude. What what I'm trying to work,
that's the dude that's holding the door for me and
in the spot. Okay, that's what you think, Bro, what
I'm set, I'm gonna get you.

Speaker 37 (02:41:37):
I'm gonna give you both sides of it. What you're
saying has validity to validity to it. It's it's some
truth to it. But that's the other.

Speaker 1 (02:41:44):
Side to it. A lot of guys don't want to
come to this realization.

Speaker 37 (02:41:47):
Suckers get a lot of pussy because they suck us,
and especially in this day and era, because they're gonna
acquiesce to what the woman wants. So yeah, they're gonna
trick off and do sucking ship and they're gonna get
as much pussy a more pussy than you, and you
thinking that you're getting all the push.

Speaker 1 (02:42:03):
It's not that way, bro, These these women fuck everybody.
That's why I.

Speaker 4 (02:42:09):
Just told you what everything was.

Speaker 5 (02:42:11):
I said that what you said is true.

Speaker 4 (02:42:14):
Okay, cool, okay, cool, It was cool.

Speaker 10 (02:42:16):
Being it wasn't for being friendly. I say that, so,
but you're saying that apply to somebody else, know, it.

Speaker 25 (02:42:25):
Is crazy.

Speaker 4 (02:42:26):
Friendly guys getting it is crazy.

Speaker 5 (02:42:29):
They always get put.

Speaker 10 (02:42:33):
And I think in the mean nigga, that's absolutely Also.

Speaker 54 (02:42:40):
I also think of this, and I think it's anecdotal too,
Like I mean, I don't know what. I'm just gonna
say this, and I don't mean infend nobody I said
in the chat. These definitions of these works friendly mean
kind and pleasant, So I don't know what world nigga. Well,
I'm not gonna say that because that is anecdotal. So
maybe that's some people's, you know, for perspective based on

(02:43:01):
their environment or their experiences, and that's fine. But a
dude being friendly right now, if you're looking at it
like that, well, he got some pussy, and I got
some pussy, and he didn't. He probably wasn't even thinking
about getting a pussy from that girl. Maybe he don't
care one way or the other. Right, So, if that's
the the metrics that you're using, I mean, I guess
that's fine. But the whole nice guys finished last thing

(02:43:23):
is most definitely a cliche.

Speaker 6 (02:43:24):
It's been.

Speaker 54 (02:43:24):
It's always been a cliche, right because we like to
So if he not friendly, then he got to be
a sucker or he got to be a simp.

Speaker 10 (02:43:32):
Like nah saying friendly niggas get more pussy than toxic niggas.

Speaker 8 (02:43:37):
No, I'm saying I don't have.

Speaker 54 (02:43:38):
What I'm saying is I don't have conversations about no
niggas getting no pussy.

Speaker 8 (02:43:42):
I'm a grown ass man, got kids.

Speaker 10 (02:43:44):
Question, Thank you? I'm giving The reality is the friendly
dudes that y'all are talking about, but y'all saying telling
me is that they're winning and getting more pushy than
the toxic niggas.

Speaker 1 (02:43:58):
A lot of cases, get in there a little bit,
Can I get it? There?

Speaker 61 (02:44:02):
You got prince, you got I'm answer this question. Yeah,
I got him, Yeah, I got him. Yeah, hold on,
hold on, yeah, hold on, I want to speak, I.

Speaker 5 (02:44:14):
Know, but he but he was so yeah, now he
didn't ask you a question.

Speaker 34 (02:44:19):
Me.

Speaker 5 (02:44:19):
So yeah, in general, what I'm saying is, yeah, what
I'm saying, I.

Speaker 8 (02:44:24):
Think this experience. But in my experience, uh yeah, I
mean I'm the friendly.

Speaker 54 (02:44:34):
I'm friendly, right, I'm pleasant, I'm you know, when I'm
in the spot, I'm you know, I'm dressed apart you
know what i mean, I'm you know, looking like a
million dollars all that kind of ship. So yeah, I
have a lot of action because of that, a whole
lot of action, right, And I know niggas that was
just fucking that wasn't having that kind of action.

Speaker 5 (02:44:51):
Nigga.

Speaker 54 (02:44:51):
Your girls was curving him. This nigga got a reputation,
you know what I'm saying. So all of that stuff
is anecdotal, but I think there is not one without
the other. So like in a social environment, women get
to pick who they who they fucked with. And I'm
gonna say, based on my experience, y'all can say this
Antho that those quote unquote friendly guys.

Speaker 8 (02:45:08):
Yeah, they they I think that they get more they
having more action.

Speaker 10 (02:45:12):
Yes, they is.

Speaker 8 (02:45:12):
And they also get a lot of the getting women
doing more ship for them too.

Speaker 10 (02:45:15):
Wow.

Speaker 5 (02:45:20):
No, I think everybody laying is cut evenly.

Speaker 61 (02:45:23):
You got women that like underdogs, You got women that
like gamers, you got nerds, everybody got they laying man,
everybody getting pussy. Handicap niggas getting pussy. Niggas with no
arms and legs is getting pussy. So when y'all get
to talking about blowing me my nigga, I don't understand it.

Speaker 5 (02:45:38):
It's weird, That's.

Speaker 1 (02:45:42):
What I was just trying to explain, but nobody was
trying to listen to it.

Speaker 10 (02:45:46):
Women love women gonna pick a toxic nigga before she
picked the gentleman nigga. Okay, you said that because it's
a fact any who.

Speaker 41 (02:45:56):
But I see when I'm talking, hold on, I'm talking.

Speaker 10 (02:46:01):
You don't have to get like that though, baby.

Speaker 1 (02:46:03):
But you don't have to get like that though.

Speaker 5 (02:46:05):
Baby.

Speaker 37 (02:46:05):
I never got like that with nobody on the stand. Okay, No,
it's no pipe down. It's just, you know, just handle
your business as a woman and talk property. That's all
you gotta do. Talk proper.

Speaker 13 (02:46:19):
You relationship out of it.

Speaker 43 (02:46:23):
Just everybody in general is if somebody being over friendly
to you, they want something.

Speaker 10 (02:46:30):
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Speaker 56 (02:46:35):
So the point is, man, you know what people not saying. Man,
It depends on the woman. Every woman, you know, everyone
one going for the same thing the same way. It
depends that there are a lot of different factors involved.
And there's a lot of motherfuckers out here, motherfuckers that
are gained up. Yeah, man, they you know, their presentation

(02:46:58):
or their approach is gonna change from women women.

Speaker 2 (02:47:02):

Speaker 56 (02:47:03):
You know, with this woman, gonna be a little more dishway,
with a little dish woman, you're gonna be a little
more that way.

Speaker 11 (02:47:08):
I'm not talking about being other than himself.

Speaker 56 (02:47:11):
But you know that shit changes, man, because every woman
because one thing that a lot would one thing that
many women do not all women.

Speaker 11 (02:47:18):
Hell, but they they wear they wear that bullshit on
their sleeve.

Speaker 5 (02:47:24):
Man.

Speaker 56 (02:47:25):
It ain't hard to read most of these women, man,
because that you know, in there, in there, in there, uh,
and I'm talking about some women in there.

Speaker 5 (02:47:35):
Uh.

Speaker 56 (02:47:37):
You know, while they're trying to be hard to read,
they're making themselves easier to read. While they're trying to
sidestep game and trying not to get played, they're making
themselves easy to get played, and so you got you know,
dudes out here many hell they'll read the on the system, man,
and then and then Taylor, they'll approach to whatever she's on.

(02:47:58):
There used to be a saying back in the day.
Give y'all something a saying back in the day that
that used to be. He said, man, you teacher, you
know what I'm saying, treat a hook him like a
queen and treat a queen like a hooker.

Speaker 11 (02:48:08):
Y'all ain't never heard that? Yeah, yeah, y'all ain't been outside.

Speaker 2 (02:48:16):
If y'all ain't never heard of that one.

Speaker 28 (02:48:19):
A different way, give us another one that you said.

Speaker 2 (02:48:23):
That that was that was a provallege?

Speaker 4 (02:48:26):
What you say?

Speaker 2 (02:48:26):
What'd you say? What you said?

Speaker 56 (02:48:29):
It used to be a saying, man back, and then
you say, treat a hook he like a queen and
a queen like a hook.

Speaker 25 (02:48:36):
I've heard that.

Speaker 10 (02:48:39):
Mm hmm.

Speaker 1 (02:48:41):
You know, you know exactly.

Speaker 7 (02:48:44):
Took my chicken on my people's right, and she's you know,
she's bubbly, she's fun, she's she's not fun, she's cool,
you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (02:48:51):
Like, she's not a rude person.

Speaker 7 (02:48:54):
I took her to the hood right, and no, no,
And so she was saying hello and she smiled and
stuff like that. People, so you know, I'll drop off whatever.
So some time go by and one of the dudes
go and say we talking, and they just stick to
his chest out like yeah, man, your girl was sitting

(02:49:15):
here laughing and smiling at me.

Speaker 23 (02:49:17):
I said, nigga, she don't want.

Speaker 4 (02:49:19):
Your ugly ass niggas just a nice person. But her
being nice to people, that's what happened.

Speaker 10 (02:49:25):
This nigga.

Speaker 7 (02:49:28):
My face say not somebody was my chick was being
nice to him basically, and now his head blowing up.
But the alleviate all of that bullshit, say hello, smile,
keep it moving, don't even smile at the nigga, don't
even laugh at the nigga jokes, because it's different how
a lot of men perceive it.

Speaker 1 (02:49:44):
Even if the woman is just being genuinely nice.

Speaker 43 (02:49:49):
That's a fact.

Speaker 20 (02:49:50):
That is a freaking fact. Fat Like literally, guys think
I was interested because I laughed at their jokes, like hello.

Speaker 10 (02:50:06):
Yeah, it's true.

Speaker 60 (02:50:07):
I never used to understand that until my man was like, yeah,
I don't need you to be a friendly bitch out here.
I don't need you to be laughing in nigga's face,
be mean, and he's right like he know what he's
talking about.

Speaker 47 (02:50:20):
He know why because he's a nigga himself.

Speaker 1 (02:50:26):
A lot of guys don't be understanding. Like real quick,
real quick, real quick. I want to know what it's
the point where because I I hear y'all saying that
be mean, be mean, be mean, be mean. But y'all
know that advising that ship is not always safe for
the person sometimes to be mean, to be mean, you

(02:50:48):
know what I mean? You know how some people take
ship when females reject or no, yeah, you know, reject
against males and ship. Right, and y'all telling him be mean,
be mean, be mean. Most men will see a woman
by themselves and make that a target point for them. Right,
and this is real ship. I'm not talking, this is

(02:51:08):
real ship and make it a target for them. So
I hear y'all me, I got you. Wait an wait
a minute, I'm not done. So where's the point where
you got to have common decency for people and respect.

(02:51:29):
I understand, be mean, shut them down, whatever, But isn't
there a way you do ship when it comes to
this certain ship? Yeah, because a lot of y'all just
be me, and then that's why you don't say that
smacked off a minute, smacked off for being mean or
not giving up your number, because you see some men

(02:51:49):
do this.

Speaker 5 (02:51:55):
They're supposed to.

Speaker 2 (02:51:59):
Yeah, I.

Speaker 1 (02:52:01):
Hold on, you're not even letting me finish. He get
where I'm coming from. Rad I'm not done while you
cutting me off. I'm gonna I'm gonna yield to all
your stunner if she comes up to like again, please
move right down.

Speaker 13 (02:52:13):
I'm already waiting.

Speaker 1 (02:52:15):
Please all, I'm just trying to get where I'm just
trying to get it. She gets where I'm coming from.

Speaker 4 (02:52:19):
Yeah, he get it.

Speaker 1 (02:52:20):
Where's the point where y'all gotta be like? I can't
be mean to everyone because not every nigga's gonna take
that for what it is. He might you know what
I'm saying, Like, what if ain't you know what I'm saying?

Speaker 10 (02:52:29):
Are you on that ship?

Speaker 1 (02:52:30):
Do you are you gonna protect yourself if shit goes sour?
Y'all ain't thinking about the next?

Speaker 4 (02:52:34):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (02:52:34):
You feel me what I'm saying. Yeah, because if shit
goes south south for you being mean, stand on being mean,
then when it's time when shit gets shit hits the
fin you know what I'm saying. So I just I
just want to know when the time where y'all got
to like, you know, I'm gonna just be a regular person. No,
thank you, It's okay, I'll pass. Like, just talk to
me a little bit about that, Like, what's what's wrong
with that? Having some respect but still respectfully decline? Where's

(02:52:57):
the whole TVB bean ship? When shit gets south? Niggas
ain't gonna be always dead for the lady.

Speaker 7 (02:53:04):
I think that y'all taking it. Y'all keep taking this
ship out of contact for some reason. I'm not telling
you to go, you know, stick your chest out and
say get.

Speaker 4 (02:53:12):
The fuck out of here. The nikkel. We ain't doing
that that, y'all.

Speaker 53 (02:53:16):
Yeah, that's not what we're saying. We're saying, Okay, Like
if somebody I don't, I don't. I'm from Jersey, right
and it's times I'm standing out there and the girl
were like one of the homies, just try to holler
at them, and they were like, nah, I'm good I
got a boyfriend.

Speaker 7 (02:53:32):
Well fuck you, bit you ain't cute anyway. She was
nice about it. Nig best believe nigga got checked for that.
But it is from there that just take that situation.
She was nice, she was in disrespectful, she wasn't nothing.
But then if you have another one that's gonna keep walking,
she'll get the same type of treatment. You try and say, bro,

(02:53:52):
But if we in this setting, well we're all chilling
and you whip me and you know, I bring you
around my peeps or whatever. I'm not telling you you
can't like you be cool, all that stuff like that,
But sitting there like overdoing it is what we're talking about.
You being You're being you, but they see you as

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flirting at this point, and everybody, listen, niggas is gonna
come to you like, yo, man, your girls smiling, Yo,
Tell your girls how I smile? Everybody before nigga start
thinking niggas trying to fuck it. Like maybe because we're
not in the same environment, haven't been in the same environment.
Probably see, I don't really understand where I'm coming from
right now. But we're not telling the lady to be
disrespectful to the point she's gonna have to sit there

(02:54:32):
and pull out her gun and some ship like that.

Speaker 1 (02:54:33):

Speaker 12 (02:54:34):
Yeah, if you're not it's like this if I'm in
if I'm in a relationship, right once I say I
have a man, I don't think another man will ever
see my teeth. I'm not smiling, I'm hardly speaking. If
you say good morning, I'm like, hmmm, you you hardly
gonna see my teeth.

Speaker 4 (02:54:52):
Do your lady have teeth?

Speaker 13 (02:54:53):
Bruh, I've been around out for a five yere. Do
she have teeth? No, I don't have none. Like that's
that's just a giving. That's just normal to me. That's
just normal.

Speaker 12 (02:55:00):
I don't I don't know who don't think that's normal
to just not be so friendly when you're in a relationship.

Speaker 13 (02:55:06):
But when you're single, of course you can. You can
smile and be friendly or whatever.

Speaker 12 (02:55:10):
But if you're not, if you're not on that type
of time, I just keep a me mug on my
face so I don't even look approachable a man. It'd
be like, dang, mama, smile while you look like that, Nah, bitch,
I'm grinning and looking horrible, so you don't come over
here and bother me Like that's that's my protection.

Speaker 13 (02:55:24):
I'm looking like I'm in a hurry. I'm in a rush.
I'm frustrated and I'm mad, so.

Speaker 12 (02:55:27):
They gonna look me like damn yeah nah she she'll
turn around and cuss me out, like that's how I'm
gonna walk around looking she lied, but it cuts me out,
Like if I'm single, I don't want to be bothered.

Speaker 29 (02:55:36):
I'm not trying to be in a relationship.

Speaker 13 (02:55:38):
I don't want no man approaching me. I'm looking stink face, aggravated.

Speaker 24 (02:55:41):
Mad.

Speaker 12 (02:55:41):
I got twenty six kids. My baby dad ain't gave
me no money. That's how I look, don't.

Speaker 10 (02:55:47):
That's what I'm with you like, I'd rather I like
my girl being mean because it ain't. It really ain't
gonna make a difference a woman being nice and polite.
She could get slapped cursed out. So if I got
to pick the lesser two evils, I'd rather that like.
And then if it's gonna be a bad day for
that nigga, because ain't gonna be no wrong my man
with my lady and the nigga viol and my shirt,

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you like them, think it's just gonna be conversation, it's
gonna be a bad day. And if I'm not there
because you say my nigga not gonna be around. If
I'm not around. I would prefer to know like I
even though she rejected the dudes, like she really like
be mean, like I don't want I don't want no
inclination when when I see my lady, I want niggas
to have that to know her aura, like not like her.

(02:56:32):
I can't even talk to her because she if I
go over here, she shutting it down. Over rip. I
want my lady to have that aura. But before you
even open your mouth to her, you don't got a shot.
She already shutting it down.

Speaker 42 (02:56:44):
But y'all understand that these are two different environments, right,
Like when you're out with your man, it's one thing.

Speaker 29 (02:56:49):
When you're out by yourself, you have to be more.

Speaker 4 (02:56:52):
Mindful of, you know, like how you move exactly.

Speaker 42 (02:56:54):
That's what I think I was gonna say Stack, Like,
I think a big part of it is literally carrying
yourself like you're not available, like no one can access
you like you like what Stunning was saying, Like I'm
not I'm not even like I'm not even on the
same plane as you. I can't hear you, like you
don't exist to me. But so like, just keep it
moving like I don't even see that other people, and

(02:57:16):
I can thank someone for holding the door for me.
And if I walk into a store, I can be polite.
I can do all of those things without ever granting
access to anyone. So what we do is women have
to be careful when we're alone.

Speaker 13 (02:57:30):
That's not gonna work everywhere in New York.

Speaker 43 (02:57:32):
You know, drug Philly, they don't care.

Speaker 29 (02:57:34):
They don't I live in Philly like that, Yeah you cat, Yeah,
I live in Philly.

Speaker 58 (02:57:42):
You probably inhouse.

Speaker 60 (02:57:44):
You probably just in house and you stay there because
your cap because and Philly, even if you got a
ring on your finger, they're still talking shit like like
you could be like, I'm married. They'd be like, oh,
that's all he got you. That's the only rock he
got you. Like they so disrespectful, disrespecting.

Speaker 61 (02:58:01):
Yeah, but you don't have to hold on, hold on honestly, ladies. Y'all,
y'all don't gotta respond to.

Speaker 10 (02:58:08):
Respond.

Speaker 60 (02:58:10):
That's like they'll say things like, oh, what your man
gotta do with me? Or you can't have friends? Oh
you oh like what you're like? You know, they just
disrespectful to your nigga. And I'll be like, Okay, So
if I bring him up here, I.

Speaker 61 (02:58:22):
Hope you have that same Why are you having a
whole conversation with this man for him to say all
of that.

Speaker 60 (02:58:27):
No, you could be signing and they still talking. That's
how that's how crazy men are.

Speaker 5 (02:58:32):
You could be, and that's how it should be. That's
what you should learn. Silent, that's it.

Speaker 10 (02:58:36):
You keep moving.

Speaker 58 (02:58:37):
You could be signing, buying your thing.

Speaker 61 (02:58:39):
I got a daughter. I ain't listening to nothing. Y'all
talking about many sound great?

Speaker 60 (02:58:43):
Yeah, they'd be like, oh, well, oh your man, you
can't have friends like and you just dead signing like
you dead sign of ignoring the nigga.

Speaker 41 (02:58:50):
He's still talking, talking to.

Speaker 60 (02:58:52):
The part where it's like, Okay, now I gotta get
out my pepper spray because I'm being dead. I'm ignoring
you and you're still going and going. Now I gotta
get vining for real right now?

Speaker 31 (02:59:01):
You know I think that.

Speaker 28 (02:59:02):
I think that to what people are saying.

Speaker 19 (02:59:04):
Well, you know, do y'all know when y'all walk into
the grocery store or you know, out the grocery store,
or you walk out the club, or you walk out
of anywhere, and y'all see that crackhead that's talking to
yourself That's how I like to make a nigga look
uh huh. I like to make it look like you
are literally talking to yourself.

Speaker 13 (02:59:20):
You know, to me, I don't I if.

Speaker 19 (02:59:26):
The only time that I think that I am ever
even polite, and I think that's different from being friendly,
is if somebody holds the door.

Speaker 28 (02:59:32):
I have no problem saying thank you.

Speaker 47 (02:59:34):
I'm not turning around smiling all it.

Speaker 52 (02:59:36):
Oh thank you.

Speaker 19 (02:59:38):
Uh No, it's just thank you, and I keep walking right.
So I do think that I can get with some
of the men are saying. When it's like the prolonging
of the conversation, you don't even got to tell him
you don't got no man. The thing is, I want
a nigga to think I'm deaf right. I want you
to think my ears don't work like I want you.
You know, I don't even care if you call me

(02:59:58):
out my name. I don't don't care. Women, I'm not
paying you any mind. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (03:00:04):
So I do think that I do.

Speaker 19 (03:00:06):
I do think that I can totally understand what men
are saying, because I would hate for my man to
be out and he up there like, yeah.

Speaker 13 (03:00:14):
Surety, you ain't gonna say thank you.

Speaker 19 (03:00:16):
I would hate for my man to be looking like
the crack kid that's talking to a woman that ain't.

Speaker 4 (03:00:19):
That's what I'm saying.

Speaker 13 (03:00:20):
So sometimes, lady, just cut the conversation short.

Speaker 6 (03:00:22):
If you don't talk to.

Speaker 19 (03:00:23):
Them, they usually go bother somebody else anyway. But kind
of like what they used to say doing to your
bullying school, you know, just ignore them.

Speaker 56 (03:00:28):
A lot of that shit depends on the environment. It
depends on you know, there's a lot of factors that
go into that shit. Man, how you respond and this
and that, because like if you at the grocery store
and shit, you know, there may be one way depends
on where you are, you know, and people act like
every environment is like you at the club or some shit,

(03:00:50):
or at the bar. It depends on if motherfuckers are drunk.
You know what I'm saying, motherfucker's getting high, you know,
whatever the fuck is going on, man, because you're walking
into the uh you know, I don't know, uh, the
post office and some shit that ain't the same as
you hanging out in the motherfucker's bar where motherfucker's getting drunk,
being at the gym.

Speaker 2 (03:01:11):

Speaker 56 (03:01:11):
The way you you know what I'm saying, respond to
a to a to something at the gym is not
like how you respond hell man, if you at the
motherfucking corner store in the neighborhood type shit.

Speaker 2 (03:01:24):
I mean it.

Speaker 56 (03:01:25):
It's that shit depends on environment and people have to
be able to kind of read, uh, you know, read
the situation. You know what I'm saying. You have to
be able to make a quick read of that. And
that goes the same thing when when when you know,
when men, you know, approach women, when we approach women,
you know, uh uh, you know, it's it's different depending

(03:01:46):
on depending on where you are, what you know, what
time it is, depending on the way. A lot of
different factors that go into that kind of shit, man,
you know what I mean. And I think people are
just kind of negating all that kind of shit or
disregarding all that shit and just saying and like, this
shit is one way.

Speaker 2 (03:02:01):
It ain't one way.

Speaker 37 (03:02:02):
Y'all trying to cuff for women. That ain't y'all y'all
insecure about it.

Speaker 2 (03:02:05):
That's what it is.

Speaker 1 (03:02:06):
That's why y'all wanted to smile, talk or do none
of this shit. And then on the other end of it.

Speaker 37 (03:02:11):
When y'all keep talking about y'all don't want to smile,
then y'all gonna be having rooms talking about, oh, these women,
you approach these women, they don't smile, They just mean
and all this shit. That's what y'all gonna be saying.
So I just think just a bunch of crock of bullshit,
you know what I'm talking about.

Speaker 1 (03:02:23):
But they man that shit.

Speaker 12 (03:02:25):
They're talking about being in a relationship, because that's more
like protection men. Some men are very weird, like women
know something like even me being single, sometimes I just
have to walk around looking stink, aggravated, stressed out. That's
my way a protection. A man can feel their or
and be like, yeah, I ain't gonna say nothing to her.
She like she's gonna cuss me out. I'm gonna walk
around looking like that for protection for one. But when

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you're in a relationship, it's all about how other men
take you.

Speaker 13 (03:02:50):
So it's not that the men are insecure and don't
want the woman.

Speaker 12 (03:02:54):
You know what I'm saying to be gone, it's just
a protection level because those other men are thinking crazy
and certain.

Speaker 37 (03:03:00):
I'm still gonna approach, you know, because I know that's
what you're doing. I know that other men know that too.

Speaker 10 (03:03:07):
When your lady, the one that was.

Speaker 43 (03:03:13):
Like exactly what you did and somebody threw a orange
at her, damn head.

Speaker 10 (03:03:17):
That lady, When your lady respect you like and once
you like this right here, what we're talking about, it
ain't even gonna be a conversation. When a woman wants you,
she ain't about to even play with you like this.
Can't nobody even a woman that's moving like that as
a woman that don't really fuck with you for real,
Because any woman that wanted me, I didn't have this problem,
so she not she that that access that should be

(03:03:41):
giving to that ship. That is this is my nig
like if you if I got to have a conversation
with you about you even being friendly and accessible, that
that alone is a reflat because why am I even
having this conversation with you about this? I shouldn't even
be having this talk with you. You know, it's like
that alone. And then you gotta understand this too. I
always say this, it's two type of singles out here.

(03:04:03):
You got a woman that single single, and then you
got a woman that's mad at they nigga single. That
right there is the friendly sh I'm talking about because
she might have had an argument with her nigga last
week and today she might entertain another nigga. Oh I
got a nigga, but you can take my Instagram. No,
I got a nigga, but you can take my face.
That's see all that friendly that right there? Playing games.

(03:04:25):
You gotta be.

Speaker 2 (03:04:27):
That's different.

Speaker 23 (03:04:31):
Nothing. She's gonna get hit on mad times. She don't
gotta do nothing for men to flock on her. With
these niggas these days, it's crazy out here. My daughter,
my daughter, Hay's walking in the street in New York.
How niggas be out here?

Speaker 15 (03:04:43):
Man, They don't gotta do nothing, and they'll get hit
on a hundred times going to the store.

Speaker 23 (03:04:48):
No, I know, ain't that shit could be. It's not
gonna do it. You know what I'm saying. It's gonna
happen anyway without It's it's crazy, man.

Speaker 2 (03:04:57):
I think the mean ship too, you know, the so
called mean ship.

Speaker 56 (03:05:01):
Yeah, man, you know, depends on what type of dude
she she's around, what type of environment she's in, and
that could be put putting blood in the fucking water
if you are around sharks, and that'll make moch Some
motherfuckers go harder, you know what I'm saying, and they
put their chasing shoes on. It's just kind of like

(03:05:22):
the Peing sisters have to be situationally aware, and there's
there's a difference between a woman entertaining some ship, you know,
getting you know, and you know, changing numbers and all
that ship and and and and if motherucker, hey, you know,
thank you, you know that there's levels to that ship.
I don't think man, that that old. I don't think
a woman should walk around this motherfucker's screw face and

(03:05:45):
don't talk to me and ship yell, man, that make
a motherfucker that makes some of these crazy motherfuckers go
harder on the system.

Speaker 13 (03:05:53):
I realize it depends on where you live and where
you stay.

Speaker 12 (03:05:56):
I you know what works because the way G was saying,
and Biggie like, yeah, I don't see that. Where I'm at,
ain't nobody chasing, ain't nobody running. It's like, hey, she
looks stank face. I ain't got time, but there's too
many women around here for me to be chasing stank face.

Speaker 13 (03:06:10):
So it works where I'm at.

Speaker 58 (03:06:12):
You let me tell you, let me tell you. It's
so bad in New York.

Speaker 60 (03:06:16):
Like you know how men used to have ye, man
used to have respect. Yeah, when men used to have
respect when you was when you was with your mother.
Now it's so bad that they don't care that if
you're walking with your mom, like niggas is going to
bag you in front of your mom and be.

Speaker 20 (03:06:36):
So disrespectful about it, like it's so disgusting.

Speaker 60 (03:06:39):
I remember I was walking my mom one time and
this guy trying to bag me in front of my mom,
and I'm trying to give him the eye like I'm
you know what I'm saying. I'm trying to give him
the eye like yo, my mom is right to me,
Like my mom is right next to me. He's like yo,
I could rub your feet like you look mad, gus,
let me get you. And I'm looking at him like, bro,
my mom is right here, like chill the fuck out.

Speaker 43 (03:07:02):
No, I was that inherently disrespect I don't care.

Speaker 29 (03:07:05):
I'm confused.

Speaker 13 (03:07:06):
Then I can't my cousin.

Speaker 4 (03:07:09):
If she telling the man, if she's telling the man that.

Speaker 40 (03:07:12):
She has a man, that she had a man, said
she was with her mother, how is that inherently disrespectful
for someone?

Speaker 10 (03:07:20):
Yeah?

Speaker 13 (03:07:20):
Because if your mother.

Speaker 4 (03:07:25):
Is hold on, hold on is disrespectful?

Speaker 7 (03:07:30):
Wait wait, wait a man should a man shouldn't try
to push while you with your moms anyway, or your father.

Speaker 28 (03:07:40):
Liked you, That's what I'm saying.

Speaker 38 (03:07:42):
Like.

Speaker 10 (03:07:44):
Like you, it depends on the mother, because on God,
this ain't no club. I've seen this in real life.
If you walk up to her while she with her
moms and shot and how mother kind of like you?
Or you the mother already approved, the mother gonna let you.

(03:08:05):
The mothers be entertaining that ship. Yeah, here she gonna
talking about like.

Speaker 41 (03:08:12):
The mother like you disrespect It's not about the mom
liking you.

Speaker 40 (03:08:17):
If your parents hold on time out, If your parents,
your family is involved in you securing a you know,
healthy relationship and making sure that you're around the right person.

Speaker 29 (03:08:29):
That's most likely ideal.

Speaker 40 (03:08:31):
You're approaching me in front of my mother, so she
gets a first man of who you are as a person.
I don't understand this idea that you got to approach
me by myself and assume that any older woman that
I'm with is my mother.

Speaker 13 (03:08:44):
That makes no sense.

Speaker 43 (03:08:45):
How would he have known that that was your brother?

Speaker 29 (03:08:48):
Right?

Speaker 5 (03:08:48):
It's more disrespectful approaching woman.

Speaker 1 (03:08:54):
We black folks, but we are already differently.

Speaker 25 (03:08:56):
Hold on, hold on my mind, you've been talking. To
give it a second.

Speaker 7 (03:08:58):
We are black folks or whatever you wanted to Spanish,
because where I'm from, a Spanish and black polfep all
live amongst each other.

Speaker 25 (03:09:06):
But we raised different. So you mean to tell me
if the girl is with her father, it should be
the same rules or what.

Speaker 40 (03:09:13):
Yes, if you're if you're bold enough where I'm from
I'm from Middle Georgia in the country, if you are
bold enough to approach a young woman in front of
her father.

Speaker 4 (03:09:24):
To that father.

Speaker 40 (03:09:25):
In my experience, not my daddy, because my daddy was crazy.
You couldn't even look in my direction.

Speaker 43 (03:09:29):
But for other father.

Speaker 40 (03:09:33):
No, my dad, my dad was a whole lot different,
a whole lot different.

Speaker 58 (03:09:37):
But for other fathers that I've seen, Okay, you got to.

Speaker 43 (03:09:41):
Go to the dad anyway, That's what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (03:09:43):
It's not making sense.

Speaker 43 (03:09:45):
You gotta go to the dad anyway.

Speaker 27 (03:09:47):
So why not make your intentions known?

Speaker 61 (03:09:50):
Because the father, my grandfather, my grandfather picked my mother's
husband and all her his.

Speaker 13 (03:10:01):
Yeah, but we're.

Speaker 60 (03:10:02):
Talking, we're talking about a stranger in the street and
he didn't even he didn't do it respectfully. The first
thing that came out his mouth, but my parents is
old school, traditional is not happening.

Speaker 41 (03:10:14):
The first thing that came out his mouth was like, Yo,
you look good. Let me rub your feet. I have
a whole elder right next to me, like.

Speaker 10 (03:10:28):
Like have did.

Speaker 41 (03:10:30):
Was like, hey, ma'am, I'm really interested in your daughter.
That would have been a better approach. But you over here,
Oh you look good.

Speaker 60 (03:10:40):
Father listen, And if my father was dead and he
said that I kick you out my father's he would
have got slapped, right.

Speaker 47 (03:10:48):
I don't think he would have said it with your
father there.

Speaker 10 (03:10:51):
I don't know.

Speaker 43 (03:10:51):
It's kind of hard to have niggas respect when most
women portray themselves like hours.

Speaker 61 (03:11:03):
So it's like, I mean, yeah, and then y'all be
thinking your father's prayers shouts.

Speaker 10 (03:11:08):
And they're not definitely not Yeah, they're not.

Speaker 4 (03:11:13):
Pops.

Speaker 23 (03:11:13):
You know you're different, chick. He's not gonna compression with.

Speaker 1 (03:11:16):
Your Yeah, how long you're keeping this room over?

Speaker 10 (03:11:18):
On?

Speaker 38 (03:11:19):
Bro?

Speaker 4 (03:11:20):
This is your room in this ship. I got ship
to do.

Speaker 25 (03:11:24):
It's on you.

Speaker 1 (03:11:24):
Love, Thanks for coming through gender world.

Speaker 4 (03:11:26):
Wait, hold on, hold on, hold on.

Speaker 7 (03:11:29):
Talking on the end this is the hold hold on,
hold on stack unless you want stunner to run it.

Speaker 4 (03:11:35):
You want you want to want you want to.

Speaker 13 (03:11:38):
I'm here for a minute.

Speaker 1 (03:11:40):
Huh, I'm here for yo. Yeah, go ahead, and yeah
you already know what we do. Transferred over.

Speaker 4 (03:11:51):
We're in your domain right now.

Speaker 25 (03:11:52):
Bro, It's all good, Doctor vine Hm.

Speaker 24 (03:11:57):
Back channel.

Speaker 25 (03:11:57):
Okay, how was going?

Speaker 6 (03:12:00):
And because people start getting out of hand as the
great don't matter, I was gonna say it.

Speaker 10 (03:12:09):
Depends on how the moms look. Because the mother looking good,
I ain't even coming to talk to you. I'm gonna
see what mom's talking. Sometimes the mother's looking better than
the daughters anyway.

Speaker 47 (03:12:18):
I mean, what are you all about to do with
the mom? Like I'm a little confused. I mean, I
don't listen.

Speaker 10 (03:12:25):
And that's the thing. It's like.

Speaker 47 (03:12:28):
Niggas who lead what they did, just just don't. I mean,
but no, I mean, but that's the thing. It's like,
what are you about to do?

Speaker 43 (03:12:42):
Like, I mean, even if you're approaching a girl like
the guy who bad disrespected her and her mom, like,
it'd be like, what the fuck do you want?

Speaker 10 (03:12:52):
You want? What do you want?

Speaker 47 (03:12:54):
I want my I want all my bills paid.

Speaker 43 (03:12:56):
I want all my bills paid, and I want to
sit in a chair all day and that's what I want.

Speaker 47 (03:13:01):
That's what I want. No, I'm just saying. I mean
I'm not That's what I'm saying, Like, that's what I want.
Are you gonna provide that?

Speaker 29 (03:13:08):
Like?

Speaker 47 (03:13:08):
Are you providing provisions? Yes, I'm mother, that's you know.

Speaker 10 (03:13:13):
That's what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (03:13:17):
What are y'all doing?

Speaker 10 (03:13:18):
Like what are you coming?

Speaker 1 (03:13:19):
Like?

Speaker 4 (03:13:19):
What are you coming at?

Speaker 47 (03:13:20):
When you talk to women? Like are you just looking
for I prefer niggas to see here and go and
date that.

Speaker 56 (03:13:29):
I'm gonna tell you the reality, just the port that
people not saying. Right, and when the people talk about
the mothers, all mothers just read in in reality are
not the same.

Speaker 29 (03:13:42):
Mama.

Speaker 56 (03:13:43):
You get what I'm saying. You got some mothers out there,
many mothers right, respectful, uh you know, older women and respectable.
But you got some of these sisters got mothers in
the mother biggest skeezer.

Speaker 10 (03:13:57):
That she is. That's a fact.

Speaker 2 (03:13:59):
You got that.

Speaker 56 (03:14:00):
And so and so, Now listen to what I'm saying
before you fight, because this is this is this is
the fact of it, right man, Like, Like you'll see
you'll see mothers out there. I'm not saying this is
most women are all women. I'm not saying that. But
you'll see sisters out there. Yeah, with the with where
it's hard to tell the difference between the mother and

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the daughter by the way they dress.

Speaker 4 (03:14:23):
Both of them.

Speaker 11 (03:14:24):
Be happ there out there, got on hook of cloth, man,
And you are you are you sitting there?

Speaker 29 (03:14:30):
Hey?

Speaker 2 (03:14:30):
You the brother be looking at the mama.

Speaker 56 (03:14:33):
Be moving with your the you know, the mama be
moving just like the daughter and the mama be moving
the same way. And so right, like you gotta add
that party in that. You know, all mothers weren't created equal.
But we need to stop back and like that's the case.

Speaker 43 (03:14:50):
Man, No, I mean even if you even if we
say that, that still goes back to the point.

Speaker 13 (03:14:55):
What do you hear.

Speaker 56 (03:14:56):
A lot of a lot of these A lot of
these dudes they looking the fuck something, you know what
I'm saying, looking to get something. But check us out
on the other side of that, and a lot of
these women are looking to get fucked. So but we
always want to make it making make that sound like
that's a one way. No, listen to what I'm saying,

(03:15:17):
because I'm not talking about all women.

Speaker 2 (03:15:19):
I'm not talking about all women. I'm not talking about
most women.

Speaker 56 (03:15:23):
But do sit up here and try to act like
ain't no, ain't no freak nasty ass women out here
who are going at the drop of a dime, and
all these women are are you know, chasting and and
uh oh, she's looking at us, she's she's like a nun.

Speaker 2 (03:15:40):
That is bullshit.

Speaker 56 (03:15:42):
You got you women out there, man freaking hard, and
the motherfucker and you got dudes out here looking looking
for a freak. They looking for each other and the
sister mama might be a freak too. So long was
gonna stop acting like that kind of ship doesn't exist
out here.

Speaker 4 (03:16:04):
It's a little it's a little.

Speaker 7 (03:16:05):
Motherfucker walk up to me. I want my daughter try
to kick it to him. It's gonna be kick it
to It's gonna be some ship. I don't know how
motherfuckers is raised. That ship is not cute. Nigga, don't
talk to my daughter. I don't want none of you
fucking niggas around my daughter. That that's fine, And then
I'm going then if the little nigga want to go

(03:16:25):
talk to my daughter, I'm gonna meet your motherucking mother
and father period.

Speaker 1 (03:16:29):
That's how I'm moving.

Speaker 7 (03:16:30):
It's not gonna be any old little little piece of ship,
little Whyian nigga that's ready to come out here and
be the next game banger.

Speaker 25 (03:16:37):
It's gonna sit there and talk with my daughter.

Speaker 4 (03:16:39):
Bro, you ain't gotama I'm talking about.

Speaker 2 (03:16:44):
Yeah, but I know, but that's you. But that's not
when I'm I'm not talking.

Speaker 4 (03:16:48):
To your point, Bro, I'm talking about talked about earlier.
You know what I'm saying. Earlier they mentioned it, but
I was just mute.

Speaker 10 (03:16:58):
I'm not talking.

Speaker 4 (03:17:00):
I said to y'all earlier, would the same thing go
for the father? Y'all said, yes?

Speaker 25 (03:17:04):
Do you remember that party?

Speaker 23 (03:17:05):
Oh no, they're not approaching the woman with her pots?

Speaker 4 (03:17:08):
I remember, do y'all remember me mentioning that? And somebody
was like, yeah, you know some people think that. You know,
some men think that. I think Vaughn said some shit
about that.

Speaker 5 (03:17:17):
Hell hold on, can we be clear? What age are
we speaking from?

Speaker 2 (03:17:23):
Like age?

Speaker 5 (03:17:24):
Are y'all scared of.

Speaker 61 (03:17:24):
Approaching women with their father around? I'm thirty nine years old.
I don't give a fuck if she well father, But
what are we talking about No, that is no, I'm
asking no, I'm asking what. Yeah, I got a daughter
as well, And if a little Wyian nigga right, Let's
say I'm outside and the little Wyian nigga come up

(03:17:45):
to me to talk to my daughter in front of me.

Speaker 5 (03:17:47):
Guess what before I flick him off left?

Speaker 61 (03:17:50):
Maybe because I got a little bit more sense and
I understand women this a little bit better if she
looked like she's taking a liking to this nigga while
he talking, I ain't gonna flee. I'm gonna let him talk.
You feel mean, I'm gonaut. I'm gonna put him under
the wing. I'm gonna put him under the wing. I'm
gonna put him under the wing and put it take
him in the direction I want him to be in
versus try to do something where your daughter's gonna be

(03:18:11):
behind your back talking to the nigga anyway, Like, I
don't know what y'all thinking. We all dealt with y'all
women growing up. We know what the fuck y'all do.
Sneak out of windows, all types of ship. We know
what y'all get into. I mean, y'all's coming to my
house that night, you understand, like we gotta make this
ship make sense. I'm just saying like, don't push it.
Make a situation gotta be left for nothing. I'm open

(03:18:31):
to that. I'm not I'm not one of those people.
But I'm not gonna lie.

Speaker 5 (03:18:36):
No, I'm not knocking you. I'm not knocking you. Yeah, yeah,
I'm not knocking you.

Speaker 4 (03:18:39):
Yeah, I'm not.

Speaker 2 (03:18:43):
Baby.

Speaker 4 (03:18:43):
You're gonna move the way you're gonna move, and that's cool.
But yay, you know I'm not.

Speaker 7 (03:18:48):
I'm just not. You cannot convince me. I know the
type of nigga I am right, and I know the
influence that I have on other women. So it's my
job to make sure my my daughter don't deal with
certain people. And if you want to deal with them,
I'm going.

Speaker 25 (03:18:59):
To holler at they perish if I find no I agree.

Speaker 61 (03:19:02):
With you that I'm with you were on the same page.
I'm just talking about him walking up to me in
front of her to talk to her. I'm not opposed
to that. I'm not gonna be like, why are you
talking to my daughter? Nigga like that's clown ship.

Speaker 10 (03:19:13):
I'm a something.

Speaker 61 (03:19:15):
Look like I'm not gonna come to a little boy.
You understand what I'm saying. I'm not gonna come to
a little boy's level, like.

Speaker 15 (03:19:20):
That's what.

Speaker 4 (03:19:23):
My daughter. If I want my daughter and nigga walk up,
I'm like, Yo, little bro, don't even do it.

Speaker 7 (03:19:28):
I'm not that type of friendly as dad. You gotta
catch that next time. And if I happened, happened to
kick it the next time, say what, I take that.

Speaker 4 (03:19:35):
I take that.

Speaker 23 (03:19:36):
That's my daughter.

Speaker 2 (03:19:37):
That's it.

Speaker 40 (03:19:38):
What matter of fact, is your daughter under the age
of twenty one?

Speaker 10 (03:19:43):
Is she.

Speaker 40 (03:19:44):
Nobody else trying to have a conversation. If is under
the age of twenty one, We're not talking about that
dynamic in this conversation were talking about.

Speaker 4 (03:19:55):
We were just talking to people, even a conversation.

Speaker 58 (03:20:00):
That's what I said.

Speaker 10 (03:20:01):
That's why.

Speaker 29 (03:20:04):
I don't.

Speaker 10 (03:20:04):
I don't know.

Speaker 43 (03:20:06):
That's why I said, how is that disrespectful?

Speaker 25 (03:20:09):
You are grown ass?

Speaker 43 (03:20:11):
Said she was sixteen?

Speaker 4 (03:20:12):
She was sixteen?

Speaker 43 (03:20:15):
Now, yeah, saying with age, y'all was talking about where
you are trying to get clear, she is twenty three
years old. That's a grown ass woman.

Speaker 2 (03:20:27):
You don't have.

Speaker 45 (03:20:29):
Parents.

Speaker 5 (03:20:30):
Yeah I knew I wasn't.

Speaker 10 (03:20:31):
Yes, I knew I knew it.

Speaker 43 (03:20:33):
Yeah, can I can I respond, I don't want.

Speaker 5 (03:20:38):
You gotta stop screaming.

Speaker 43 (03:20:40):
Come on, because even if you're talking about even if
you're talking about, you know, a sixteen year old girl,
if we go back to that, like because you said
you wanted to know the parents and stuff like that,
I think you should just go hit it and establish
more of a range situation if you're trying to avoid

(03:21:01):
the y N because that's not I mean, it's not
going to be avoidable if you are leaving it up to.

Speaker 47 (03:21:08):
Chance at all.

Speaker 43 (03:21:11):
Like if if you are trying to actually abstain some
type of family structure and you know, networking and ship
like that, you're gonna have to go to arrange Like
all this chance ship niggas just fucking with niggas and
taking a crapshoot. Motherfuckers don't come from ship Like I
don't know, I'm not doing that. We're doing arranged marriages.
Like if you're a millennial, you need to be looking

(03:21:33):
into that.

Speaker 7 (03:21:34):
Well, that's but that's your opinion, right, that's for you
for you to think. That's how you think. That's not
how I'm thinking. That's how I'm not. That's not how
I'm moving case son anything. Even even happened to my daughter.
I know where the fuck this person live at. I
know y'all be dealing.

Speaker 19 (03:21:49):
I don't.

Speaker 7 (03:21:50):
It's listen, I don't even know what to say. I'm
about done talking about this ship. I'm a whole different nigga.
Then then I talk to you guys on this app
especially when to come down to my kids. I'm going
to send a lot of boys to your crib. I'm
gonna do it. I'm just gonna do it. You're not me,
I'm not you, and that's fine, But I'm gonna make
sure my daughter are right.

Speaker 10 (03:22:08):
That's it.

Speaker 4 (03:22:09):
What's she doing out this bitch?

Speaker 25 (03:22:12):
I'm a father.

Speaker 4 (03:22:13):
You hear my daughter? My kids in the background right now,
they live with me.

Speaker 1 (03:22:16):
I'm overprotective. So guess what.

Speaker 4 (03:22:18):
I'm gonna send some niggas to you your crib.

Speaker 25 (03:22:20):
You're gonna find out who you are.

Speaker 4 (03:22:22):
We're gonna have a.

Speaker 56 (03:22:22):
Composation, YEA, A couple of why, A couple of different conversations.

Speaker 10 (03:22:34):
I think it's this like we talk about grown ass swiming, right,
and I know we're not. If I see a grown
woman I'm attracted to and she will have pops, I'm
going to talk to her right now. Let's say you,
you're the old ass father with you and you want
some don't pull through our daughter. Let's let's just say
you do that, nigga. She already gave me the number,

(03:22:57):
so your little rent is not gonna stop her from
on me anyway. She a grown ass woman, and I
think that I'm not going to fuck said with some
real ship. A lot of fathers be thinking they can
they can stop their daughter for fun with the more
you telling the fun with them, she's gonna find a
way to go fuck with her. That is a fact
of life. That's ain't even an opinion. So a grown

(03:23:18):
woman now somewhere with her father, what you're really gonna do?
She already showing showing interest, she liking me. You're gonna
be the old ass bitter father.

Speaker 4 (03:23:29):
Press What is she show interest?

Speaker 10 (03:23:32):
What you want?

Speaker 2 (03:23:33):
Hello?

Speaker 10 (03:23:34):
Hold on?

Speaker 4 (03:23:34):
Hold on?

Speaker 10 (03:23:34):
And then it's like that because you if you already
show what if what if your daughter initiated the conversations,
still ain't getting what you're gonna do?

Speaker 1 (03:23:45):
That?

Speaker 4 (03:23:46):
Did you just do?

Speaker 10 (03:23:46):
Did you know I'm talking about a grown woman out
with her father now.

Speaker 7 (03:23:50):
So we're not grown out? If you was talking at
the same time, we're not gonna be able to hear
each other. I'm trying to have a conversation with you,
and I'm trying to converse. So we're talking about from
her uh story, or he's just making up one.

Speaker 10 (03:24:01):
Right now, I'm talking about in general, a grown woman
out in public with her father, moll or whatever, and
I see her and I go up and talk to her.
She's a grown ass for me. So if her father
coming out of pockets, don't young man, don't talk to one,
you're gonna look stupid because she already gave me your number.

(03:24:21):
You don't still be talking after anyway. That's what I'm saying. Yeah, Like.

Speaker 47 (03:24:33):
What ye ain't said is true.

Speaker 60 (03:24:35):
Everybody's raised different, like if because I know how I
was raised with my parents. If I'm even if I'm grown,
some parents don't give a fuck you grown, right, even
if I'm grown.

Speaker 41 (03:24:44):
The fact that my father's gonna look like number one.

Speaker 60 (03:24:47):
The nigga didn't address me, He didn't even approach you
with manners, and you out here talking to him, you know,
after the conversation is done and I go in that
car with my dad, he like, so I'm raising a
hole now, Like you are, so.

Speaker 10 (03:25:00):
You still don't call the niggas. You missing the point, Yeah,
you missing the point.

Speaker 5 (03:25:04):
None of that matters.

Speaker 13 (03:25:10):
Kind of to what Vin was saying.

Speaker 19 (03:25:12):
I think the conversation is swaying back and forth because
we're talking about different age rangers, right. I think anything
under twenty one is very understandable to what Yay is saying.
But I also think that if I'm thirty, I don't Yeah,
I think you approach it with respect. You know, of
course you speak to my father, then you speak to me.
I couldn't see where I would even you know, where
a man should be scared to approach me at thirty

(03:25:34):
plus years old with respect, right and say that he
would like to have a conversation with his daughter. I
don't see that being a problem now. Like I said,
we're just talking about ages. So anything under twenty one
I totally understand, you know, being more protective and still
being you know, a high alert. But if I'm thirty plus,
you haven't honestly, you haven't negated none of my other decisions.

Speaker 2 (03:25:57):
God damn it.

Speaker 19 (03:25:58):
So you know, I just think if you approach it
with respect then at that older age, and I wouldn't
see where that's a problem. So I can give with
vine Sam. But I also understand yay in the younger perspective, right,
if it's.

Speaker 47 (03:26:09):
A younger person.

Speaker 40 (03:26:11):
If it's a younger person, absolutely we're talking about teenagers.
Jay was talking about sixteen. At sixteen, absolutely I get that.
But she said at her big grown age, like I can,
I can get it. If you're approaching and you're being
disrespectful in any manner, that's not gonna fly. But if
somebody is respectfully approaching with your parents, that in itself

(03:26:32):
is not inherently disrespectful.

Speaker 13 (03:26:34):
That's all I was saying.

Speaker 23 (03:26:39):
That might be his wife's older I was gonna say,
if I am Bugget, that might be his wife.

Speaker 2 (03:26:48):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (03:26:48):
Yeah, If i'm my father, you're a great man.

Speaker 23 (03:26:53):
I'm sorry, a great for age. Then you feel like
a dick walking away.

Speaker 4 (03:26:59):
What it out?

Speaker 61 (03:27:00):
You're all out here missing yourr blessings because they walking
around with their flowers.

Speaker 28 (03:27:08):
You can't approach people like that.

Speaker 7 (03:27:09):
You never know just which is not problem because you
know niggas down days there was day the fall.

Speaker 5 (03:27:20):
The worst case they say is I ain't never really
seen that in real time.

Speaker 4 (03:27:23):
None of y'all.

Speaker 5 (03:27:25):
Come on, now, we in Jersey.

Speaker 61 (03:27:29):
You already know that ship out here, but still like,
don't miss your blessing man. All you can do is say, damn,
you got something. Give him his pops. That's it, give
them his props.

Speaker 19 (03:27:41):
Were saying people with the opposite six six, very very noticeable,
like she's twenty and.

Speaker 13 (03:27:46):
He looking seventy nine. You don't walk up to nobody.

Speaker 28 (03:27:50):
I'm almost forty.

Speaker 13 (03:27:52):
My dad is sixty.

Speaker 4 (03:27:53):
Don't don't walk up, Tom, don't don't do that.

Speaker 47 (03:27:55):
You don't know what's going on.

Speaker 28 (03:27:56):
And if you do walk up to us, you better
greet my dad. You better say hey, Hi.

Speaker 10 (03:28:00):
I agree ship.

Speaker 4 (03:28:01):
Let me let me speak.

Speaker 61 (03:28:02):
This is weird because y'all, woman's perception of their fathers
be sometimes few.

Speaker 5 (03:28:08):
Like I'm being honest with your y'all. Fathers ain't throwing
no punches, they not.

Speaker 61 (03:28:11):
They not like that for real. And y'all just think
your daddy's little girls. And I understand that, but y'all
gotta stop thinking like this. Man, this is bad dope.

Speaker 10 (03:28:23):
Ain't no, this is not real.

Speaker 61 (03:28:25):
Anybody with something to lose, ain't snapping on somebody for
walking up talking to like this ain't real.

Speaker 5 (03:28:29):
What are y'all talking about like this is crazy.

Speaker 62 (03:28:33):
Real Quick's point to Ya's point earlier, right, I know,
I don't know how it went from twenty one all
the way over to thirty. But to your point earlier,
if that it's all about the relationship between the daughter
and the and the and the father.

Speaker 6 (03:28:51):
So and even if you come disrespectfully.

Speaker 54 (03:28:53):
If they got that kind of relationship and I got
a door too, and if he say no, like, if
they that kind of relationship, nigga, it's gonna be no.
It don't matter what the fuck you said, how good
you think you look, how much dick you could think
you got coming, it's gonna be a no. Right now,
I said this earlier. I think that men, just like women,
don't be telling that side. Men don't be telling them

(03:29:15):
that side. Maybe I've been through it before as a
young man, like you know, a couple of times, right,
I never heard from the girl again because you know, whoa, whoa.
I did find out one of them. Here's because I
was in the military, so he wasn't fucking with it,
and that was it, you know what I'm saying. So,
like I got I know, men are sometimes hubris and

(03:29:36):
we just think, like you know, I got the sauce,
I'm gonna be able to fuck whoever with Like no
if they got I have an auntie, my mom's older sister.

Speaker 1 (03:29:43):
She ran everything through my grandfather.

Speaker 62 (03:29:45):
Every fucking single thing she ran through him, including the
dude she married, my uncle, Dwayne.

Speaker 1 (03:29:50):
She runs everything through him. Not mad for the make
So some men do have that relationship with their daughters.

Speaker 5 (03:29:57):
Man, Oh, you're absolutely right, but she's still gonna try it.

Speaker 10 (03:30:00):
So let me say this, right, all of that, all
of this, all this, somebody approached the whole thing is
this like all this ship is like cap you know,
it don't matter what relationship a woman got, well, father,
rather she's seventeen or thirty two. One thing is a

(03:30:21):
fact is when a woman want a nigga, she does
matter when she let.

Speaker 5 (03:30:26):
Me really don't. She's gonna try you until you get
a red flag.

Speaker 10 (03:30:30):
Let me say this, let me finish soilk. It don't
matter what she can think. She could think her father
is superman when she a man she went for real,
can't her father? Can't nobody in her family stop her
for fucking with that man, because if that was the case,
every woman would be with men. That's the complete same
as their father. And we all know that's.

Speaker 25 (03:30:52):
Nothing to do what I said.

Speaker 10 (03:30:54):
They're gonna bring home a nigga that ain't nothing like
their father. They fucking ghetto.

Speaker 4 (03:31:01):
Stop.

Speaker 10 (03:31:02):
You sat a bunch of no.

Speaker 5 (03:31:03):
Let him finish so I can get in there, y'all.

Speaker 10 (03:31:05):
You set a bunch of cap and we let you too.
When a woman want a man, her father having an
opinion about it, or yo, you're not good enough for
my daughter, I don't want. That is not gonna stop
an eighteen year old a thirty two year old, her
father is not gonna stop her from dealing with.

Speaker 63 (03:31:24):
Nah.

Speaker 61 (03:31:25):
He hold on, hold on both of y'all. Right, two
things could be right at once, man, two things will
be right.

Speaker 10 (03:31:30):
Wait much, No matter how much your father tell her
to not talk to this nigga, I don't approve of
this nigga. He could say that ship a hundred times,
so he turned fucking blue. If she want that nigga,
she gonna go right behind her father back and go anyway.
That's not even in the no with JP.

Speaker 61 (03:31:47):
Hold on, hold on, with JP is talking about JP
is talking about that father, that this is what's gonna happen.

Speaker 2 (03:31:53):
JP.

Speaker 5 (03:31:53):
I got you. I'm with you, right, I hear what
you're saying.

Speaker 61 (03:31:56):
What's gonna happen is the father's gonna say, don't fuck
with him, and guess what, She's still gonna fuck with
him JP until he shows a red flag. Now, Daddy's right. Now,
she's gonna leave him alone. That's what's gonna happen. So
she's still gonna try him. You understand what I'm saying.
So I'm with I hear what you're saying. He's saying,
she's not going. No, she's gonna go. But if she
see a red flag that her father told her about,
that she's cutting it and that's how it's gonna go down.

Speaker 5 (03:32:18):
That's how it happens. So she still tries.

Speaker 61 (03:32:20):
So both of y'all right, you know what I mean
about her father tell us she's gonna fuck with that
guy regardless because she she wanted.

Speaker 47 (03:32:27):
Yeah, I mean, that's not I mean, but what I mean,
but it's the way he is like saying it.

Speaker 43 (03:32:32):
It sounds more like bitches who don't got that, like
or the niggas who got stepdaddy, And it's like, yeah,
that's what it's not. I mean to me personally, it
sounds that's what it sounds like to me.

Speaker 10 (03:32:45):
But women, Yeah, it's a woman that grew up with
their fathers and they bring home niggas.

Speaker 5 (03:32:51):
Now it do sound like the women that hate their
fathers that don't like what.

Speaker 43 (03:32:55):
I'm saying, Like, it don't sound like because I know
women who actually honor their fucking father and it would
be that nigga.

Speaker 47 (03:33:02):
It would never happen, That's what I'm saying. So it's like,
I hear what you're saying.

Speaker 43 (03:33:05):
I understand that maybe your lived exparents that has happened,
that have happened, But.

Speaker 47 (03:33:11):
I'm just saying I don't necessarily feel.

Speaker 10 (03:33:15):
I'm sorry this woman. It's women that grew up with
their fathers in and look at the niggas she's in
a relationship with. Nigga ain't nothing like her father.

Speaker 47 (03:33:22):
I mean, sometimes you got to understand that.

Speaker 10 (03:33:27):
You acting like everything.

Speaker 43 (03:33:30):
No, I mean, but I'm gonna be honest with you
just because you may not think like looking at the
outset like that, that his personality and certain times some
trying some trade.

Speaker 47 (03:33:41):
Or whatever is like her father.

Speaker 43 (03:33:43):
Like just because just because she got just because she
has a daddy, doesn't mean he ain't an ancient nigga either.

Speaker 10 (03:33:48):
My point is, when she wants a man, her father
can't stop her. She's not gonna let her father's opinion
or feeling stop her from being with that man. Her
father could not like the men she's with and speak
about how he don't like him, She's gonna still funk
with him. It's my point.

Speaker 58 (03:34:06):
Not every count is like that's.

Speaker 5 (03:34:11):
Yea, we know it, yo.

Speaker 61 (03:34:12):
Come on, y'all, we know it's a percentage that's gonna
do it. We're gonna keep going back and forth with
this year.

Speaker 23 (03:34:20):
My father don't like, come on, she wanted man that
got something to do.

Speaker 5 (03:34:24):
Don't say that because your father don't like none of
the niggas you did.

Speaker 13 (03:34:28):
He never said that to.

Speaker 60 (03:34:29):
Me, but I can never said listen, I still got
the fear of my father, and I still honor my father.
And then I still got that like, oh, I don't
want to disappoint my dad because I carry his last name.
So if my father say no, it's clip for you.
I can't disappoint my father. I carry his last name.

Speaker 5 (03:34:47):
Like I'm sorry, the majority of you don't carry his
last name.

Speaker 10 (03:34:51):
What are y'all?

Speaker 5 (03:34:52):
What is happening here?

Speaker 2 (03:34:54):
You're a female.

Speaker 10 (03:34:55):
You ain't carrying ship? Are you talking about.

Speaker 13 (03:35:00):
His last name?

Speaker 10 (03:35:01):
The dudes you've been with the majority of life? Was
they like your father?

Speaker 41 (03:35:05):
Was they like my father?

Speaker 2 (03:35:06):
Yeah?

Speaker 10 (03:35:07):
My mom my?

Speaker 58 (03:35:07):
Mom My mom was the one I told me like, yeah,
you they niggas.

Speaker 10 (03:35:11):
Are like your did you did you? Did you view
them as like, oh you like like my father, you
were a mommy and my dad?

Speaker 22 (03:35:18):
Or was it?

Speaker 10 (03:35:19):
Yeah?

Speaker 58 (03:35:19):
Sometimes?

Speaker 48 (03:35:20):
Yeah?

Speaker 10 (03:35:21):
Where they still here?

Speaker 58 (03:35:23):
One of them is still here, still.

Speaker 10 (03:35:27):
One of them, one of them, one of them is crazy,
you know what I mean?

Speaker 43 (03:35:31):
But y'all, I don't know, like, not everybody wants to
get married, Like, I'm gonna be honest because married people
don't make marriage seem like. I ain't gonna lie. So
if you're if you're looking for a lit situation like
marriage is not going to be it, I'm gonna be honest.
It's not that the ship lit about responsibilities.

Speaker 25 (03:35:53):
You you you're around the wrong married people then, so
let me let me understand this career.

Speaker 10 (03:36:00):
Yeah, if y'all meet a dude that y'all win and
y'all really liked, and y'all bring him around, y'all father
and your father gives an opinion that he just don't
like the dude. You already don't caught feelings for this
guy nor and your father said he don't like him
or don't approve, and y'all just y'all gonna break up
with to do that? After that, keep it a butt.

Speaker 28 (03:36:19):
I want to tell my story, but I'm gonna I'm
not gonna lie.

Speaker 51 (03:36:22):
If y'all cut me off or try to sound dumb,
I'm firing your niggas up on the stage. So I
got married very young. When I came to America. I
was like seventeen turning eighteen, and I got married young.
I got married at twenty, so I was a virgin,
didn't know anything, blah blah blah. Were married for eleven years,
we got divorced, and so when we got divorced, I

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was thirty one years old.

Speaker 28 (03:36:46):
So I started dating the suy and I really really,
really really liked the guy.

Speaker 25 (03:36:52):
So we've we.

Speaker 51 (03:36:55):
Started dating and he said, listen, I don't want to
play games.

Speaker 4 (03:37:00):
We need you know.

Speaker 43 (03:37:01):
He wanted to get married.

Speaker 51 (03:37:03):
Took him to my father. And when I tell you,
the guy is a great guy, heartwreaking man. He had
two children by the same woman, great father showed up
for his children in every way imaginable. Met with my father,
had a conversation. They talked, they talk they talked, they talked.
I excuse myself from the room. Let men discuss men things.

(03:37:23):
That's kind of how we do it in my culture.
At the end of the conversation, when it was time
for the guy to leave, so he left, my father
shook his hand. He was like, yeah, you know, it
was nice meeting you.

Speaker 28 (03:37:34):
This is great. And I'm talking like four or five hours.

Speaker 38 (03:37:37):
Right he left.

Speaker 51 (03:37:39):
My father looked at me, he said, is it drugs
that you can schuon that allow you to bring that
man that has two children out of wedlock in my face?

Speaker 28 (03:37:48):
When I tell you, my father did not approve.

Speaker 51 (03:37:51):
And it was one of the most gut wrenching feelings,
right because I you and lead like this guy. I
thought he was a great guy, said that he had
two kids out of wedlock, but he showed up as
he was a great father overall, great dude.

Speaker 28 (03:38:07):
My father thought I was a crackhead.

Speaker 51 (03:38:10):
For considering marrying a man that had two children out
of wedlock, regardless of I showed up, and because my
father did not give.

Speaker 28 (03:38:17):
Me his blessing.

Speaker 11 (03:38:19):
It was clipped.

Speaker 28 (03:38:21):
Okay, I immediately went to the guy and I was
like listen, and he looked at me and he was like,
your father.

Speaker 51 (03:38:30):
Your father said no, And I was like yeah, and
he understood because he knew how much I valued my
father's opinion.

Speaker 29 (03:38:38):
It was a rap.

Speaker 51 (03:38:39):
So the man I'm married to now, my father absolutely approved.
And if my father didn't approve of him, I wouldn't
have married him either. So I'm just sharing my personal story.

Speaker 28 (03:38:49):
I know I'm not the norm. I know I'm not
the majority, but this is just my own personal story.

Speaker 43 (03:38:54):
Okay, what happened to the guy that you Dedni?

Speaker 27 (03:38:57):
Where he at now?

Speaker 28 (03:38:58):
He's I guess, living his life.

Speaker 58 (03:39:02):
What's her bad?

Speaker 39 (03:39:03):
Guy?

Speaker 4 (03:39:03):
I'm trying to find out if your father was right.

Speaker 28 (03:39:08):
I mean, he's not married, he didn't have any more children.

Speaker 51 (03:39:12):
His children now are like I think one is eighteen,
one is sixteen, so he didn't get married and he
didn't have any more children.

Speaker 23 (03:39:21):
I don't know, you know, so I don't.

Speaker 28 (03:39:23):
Know how you would classified it.

Speaker 54 (03:39:27):
Yeah, I mean, I don't know who said it, but
so I think it was Kim said that if they
word honor, like some women and some they just honored
their father or honored at what they were fact they
family got going on. It don't matter if he necessarily
like to do or not. I mean sometimes the god
will be like, hey, I really like dude, I just
don't think you should marry him, simple as that or

(03:39:47):
whatever reason.

Speaker 5 (03:39:49):
Either one of my children mothers.

Speaker 10 (03:39:51):
So emotional emotional point that was said in that statement
was that she's done nominally, that was the key fact.

Speaker 8 (03:40:00):
Maybe that's what that's what That's what we've been saying
the whole time.

Speaker 4 (03:40:04):
We've been saying this stuff all the time.

Speaker 10 (03:40:06):
Women out here honoring with their father, telling them who.

Speaker 1 (03:40:10):
No nobody said that, No, no, no, no, nobody said that.

Speaker 54 (03:40:13):
We said there are women out or I said, there
are women out here who honor their father, and there
are men out here who got that kind of relationship
with their daughter. Nobody said it was the majority. Nobody
said it was gave a percentage. We just said, that's
that's a thing, and we know it's a thing.

Speaker 15 (03:40:30):
That's the goal of having a daughter. That's the goal
that should be. Yeah, yeah, not anybody coming between that bond.
That's the father's dream to die with that. I want
to die with that when I die, I'm not the
number one man in your life.

Speaker 43 (03:40:47):
That's all.

Speaker 61 (03:40:50):
What father's to give you away to a man that's
the father's y'all don here, man, Yes.

Speaker 15 (03:40:59):
Don't move because yeah, real nigga gonna ask your father
to give his hand. Of course he's gonna give his
daughter away. But if your daughter's like, come on, you're
not breaking the bond from a real father and daughter.

Speaker 23 (03:41:12):
It's now. I don't care how real you think you are.
It ain't happening, Jack, It ain't happen.

Speaker 5 (03:41:16):
There's a lot of daughters.

Speaker 63 (03:41:19):
But but you said it's a goal for you to
die being the number one man, and your daughter's absolutely
you know what I mean.

Speaker 23 (03:41:30):
What I mean by that?

Speaker 1 (03:41:32):
He made a mistake.

Speaker 15 (03:41:33):
Me lett tell you what I mean by that, because
you got let me ask you a question, let me please,
let me finish.

Speaker 23 (03:41:41):
Please, you got out.

Speaker 4 (03:41:42):
Hands, you got let that man talk to you.

Speaker 23 (03:41:47):
I'm not done talking yet.

Speaker 4 (03:41:49):
One more point he cut you off.

Speaker 23 (03:41:52):
You got dudes manipulated? Can I talk really with as well?

Speaker 2 (03:42:01):
You got dudes?

Speaker 23 (03:42:03):
You got dudes.

Speaker 15 (03:42:05):
That to be a relationship with your daughter and beating
your daughter's ass, right, and she keeping that from you?
Where she If she had that bond with you, you
could have got had the funk out of it. But
when they're not, when they when they're not telling you
something because they're scared of him knowing that you're the
only nigga that have died for her.

Speaker 23 (03:42:27):
Fuck out of here, man. Hell know that's what I mean.
My nigga. Ain't nobody in the world gonna tell me
all right?

Speaker 5 (03:42:34):
And I'm thinking me, I think the father is gonna
be like, nah, we fathers.

Speaker 63 (03:42:41):
I wanted to ask you, so if you're if your
daughter marries your man, you still want to be the
number one man in her.

Speaker 15 (03:42:48):
Life, Like I just said, you until she gatheries me,
until she me, yeah, I'm the one. I'm the one
who brought it into this world. Brother, So number one

(03:43:10):
man in her life.

Speaker 10 (03:43:10):
That's crazy.

Speaker 4 (03:43:11):
I hate I hate it when you niggas don't got
no kids like I talk.

Speaker 58 (03:43:16):
I love their kids.

Speaker 10 (03:43:19):
I love that you don't. Yeah, so you don't see.

Speaker 5 (03:43:28):
A man want to marry your daughter with me?

Speaker 10 (03:43:31):
What?

Speaker 4 (03:43:31):
Then?

Speaker 39 (03:43:31):
I said, Bro, that's my daughter. She came out of
my questions, he came blood, she came out of my dick.
I'm raising her. That's my daughter, no matter if you're
gonna be around the lot, you ask my daughter.

Speaker 63 (03:43:49):
One life, a specific, a specific question. If a man comes,
you can't like this. If a man comes, if a
man comes and makes your daughter his wife, are you
still the number one man life brow?

Speaker 5 (03:44:08):
Once you give your daughter away, you're not the number
one man.

Speaker 4 (03:44:12):
Number one. B.

Speaker 10 (03:44:13):
Guess what. I'm never gonna leave.

Speaker 4 (03:44:15):
I'm never gonna leave my daughter, but I'm not gonna
interfere in the ship.

Speaker 10 (03:44:18):
If you are just the father at that point, I'm
the number one nigga at that point. That's the fact
I'm saying.

Speaker 25 (03:44:25):
And that's that's how.

Speaker 5 (03:44:29):
That's how you know the successful marriages. That's the way
it is.

Speaker 10 (03:44:35):
A nigga like you.

Speaker 4 (03:44:43):
Say that you hockey bro and my boys to bring
you home. Bro, it's gonna be.

Speaker 10 (03:44:51):
Nigga.

Speaker 5 (03:44:55):
Listen they raiders.

Speaker 10 (03:45:02):
Listen to that. Oh my father is the number one.
Go marry that nigga because I'm the one that's Now
you shound like these Now you shound like these females. Bro.

Speaker 4 (03:45:15):
Now you saw like these female?

Speaker 10 (03:45:16):
Do you got your daughter in your life? Is your
mother in your life?

Speaker 31 (03:45:19):
Bro?

Speaker 10 (03:45:19):
You know? Is your brother and your life?

Speaker 15 (03:45:21):
Bro?

Speaker 4 (03:45:22):
Who's in your life?

Speaker 31 (03:45:23):
Bro?

Speaker 10 (03:45:23):
You know what I'm gonna do. Father, put down, push
your dad way way wait. You got a daughter right,
all that you're gonna keep talking, Just keep talking. Number
the number one nigga like that.

Speaker 4 (03:45:36):
His damn He just trying to trigger niggas off.

Speaker 10 (03:45:40):
Y'all, The number one nigga. When she got her husband,
do y'all hear yourself. Ye're talking about, Ask that nigga.
Ask that nigga.

Speaker 4 (03:45:46):
He gonna fill when she keeps coming to me, when
she keep coming to day accent you.

Speaker 2 (03:45:52):
A check out check? Is your daughter.

Speaker 4 (03:46:00):
Daughter is married?

Speaker 11 (03:46:01):
If someone's daughter is married, right, you know what I'm saying.
I'm not gonna say.

Speaker 4 (03:46:06):
I'm not gonna get it business like.

Speaker 2 (03:46:08):
No, No, listen to what I'm saying. Don't listen to
what I'm saying though.

Speaker 56 (03:46:10):
In the marriage I'm talking about if your daughter is
married to a man, I ain't talking about no bullshit poop.
But motherfucker, Hey, man, if my daughter, if my my
wife goes to her father before she comes to me,
that's gonna be a fucking problem.

Speaker 2 (03:46:29):
You get know what I'm saying.

Speaker 11 (03:46:30):
What I'm talking about, what I'm talking about is no no, listen,
listen to what I'm saying to you. Listen to what
I'm saying. That's the reason why. Hell, when you when
you you know what I'm talking about for present fathers,
I'm not talking about fathers that haven't been present in
the lives of their daughters and all this kind of thing.

Speaker 2 (03:46:48):
Right yo, Yo, you give your daughter away, man in
the me in the wedding.

Speaker 56 (03:46:57):
So check this out. Right, when my my sister husband, right,
hey man, he had to sit before my father, he
had to prove him, he had to show himself worthy
to my father. And if my father had to said,
hey man, now it's a no, hey man, man, if
my sister probably wouldn't have married that dude. And if

(03:47:17):
she had, she would have been flying in. She would
have been, you know, creating a wedge between her and
the family. You get what I'm saying. But that wasn't
the case, of course. But this is the thing. Hell,
that brother is responsible for my sister, and if.

Speaker 11 (03:47:32):
He drops the ball, then he's accountable to my father
and us.

Speaker 2 (03:47:37):
And me and my brother exactly like you say. For instance, right,
and I landed right here, I'm landing right here. I
want to talk to you okay, go aheada god.

Speaker 4 (03:47:46):
Damn ahead, no, no, no finish.

Speaker 56 (03:47:48):
But what I'm saying is, say, for instance, because with
me and somebody where I think in one of these rooms,
maybe we were having to talk about this the other day, man,
say something happens to my sister, say this dude, call
hey man, we got robbed.

Speaker 11 (03:48:02):
Somebody broke in the house, right and he's there.

Speaker 56 (03:48:07):
Man, Hey man, if my sister has an intel, there
has one strand of hell on her head.

Speaker 2 (03:48:13):
Fucked up.

Speaker 56 (03:48:13):
He better be fucked up too, because now, because hey man,
you charge with the protection of my sister, motherfucker. And
if you drop the ball on that, you ain't got
an answer to my sister. You gotta answer to my
father and the men in this family, because that's your responsibility. Motherfucker.

Speaker 11 (03:48:33):
She's under your protection, she's under your provision.

Speaker 2 (03:48:37):

Speaker 11 (03:48:38):
You came and sat in front of my father, and
that's what you asked for, motherfucker, and that's what you
were granted, motherfucker.

Speaker 56 (03:48:45):
And now you better handle your business, motherfucker. So no,
my father is not in that sense the number one
man in her life, her husband is my father is
still her father though. But she but she but she
she is a uh you know in that relationship. Yeah
she doesn't.

Speaker 2 (03:49:03):
Uh you know, hell man, that man is responsible for
her and she is. You know, they are accountable to
that marriage.

Speaker 56 (03:49:09):
But if anything falls apart, yeah, you accountable to the
whole goddamn family.

Speaker 4 (03:49:14):
Family.

Speaker 7 (03:49:14):
Okay, So we basically saying the same thing, bro I said,
I said already for you even said that. I said,
at the end of the day, if someone was to
go on between those two, I'm not gonna get in between.
Long time nigga ain't disrespecting and putting his hands. I
ain't got gonna do that. If she come to me
with a problem and help instead of going to her husband,

(03:49:34):
I'm gonna tell her, listen, baby, go to your husband.

Speaker 1 (03:49:37):
And talk to him.

Speaker 2 (03:49:38):
I don't hear the most depths, but.

Speaker 7 (03:49:41):
That's my she's that's my daughter. You know what I'm saying.
And I'm gonna be to me. I'm number one of
her life, the man of her life.

Speaker 10 (03:49:49):
You're not.

Speaker 7 (03:49:50):
I'm not gonna over Just hold the funk on. I'm
not gonna step over step my boundary. Once I give
give her away to a man for him being being
being a husban, But if you disrespect minds, I would
smoke your and I'm coming for you.

Speaker 56 (03:50:07):
Imagine your wife telling you you if you married, your
wife telling you. You know what I'm saying, Hey man,
you second in line to my father. Hell no, Yeah,
imagine your wife telling you that you ain't gonna have
a problem with that. No, I'm just saying I understand
what you're saying. But what I'm saying, it's that number

(03:50:28):
one thing. It's that number one thing. Imagine you know,
your wife telling you and you can you you say
you ain't gonna never uh you and you can always
be second, play second fiddle.

Speaker 10 (03:50:39):
To my father.

Speaker 56 (03:50:40):
Hey man, you'll sit that cave man, you put that
sister in the car with up bad and send those
right back to your father.

Speaker 10 (03:50:46):
Yeah, I do.

Speaker 53 (03:50:48):
I do think.

Speaker 43 (03:50:50):
It's not the perspective you have is really the daughter
like because I think y'all don't see what it looks like.
On the other hand, like women who idolized their fathers,
and it's like my daddy, my daddy, my daddy, like
the super dad girls don't care about the nigga like
he likes his nigga. But I'm going to call my

(03:51:10):
daddy first, Like, Okay, something happens, I'm calling him first,
not your husband, and that becomes a problem in a relationship.

Speaker 29 (03:51:17):
Yeah, that's that's respectful.

Speaker 10 (03:51:19):
My thing is when I become your husband, your old
ass father number two. Now, nigga, you're back in the line.
I'm number one. I'm her husband.

Speaker 23 (03:51:35):
Put your hands on my daughter and she gets harmed.
I'm the first nigga coming to.

Speaker 10 (03:51:40):
You for ye.

Speaker 4 (03:51:49):
My father hate everybody leve niggas daughter's places.

Speaker 10 (03:51:54):
Plus think that he's gonna leave niggas daughter places.

Speaker 4 (03:51:56):
They're not gonna have.

Speaker 1 (03:51:57):
It to him.

Speaker 4 (03:51:57):
You ain't come for no community man, your friend.

Speaker 52 (03:52:00):
About like.

Speaker 4 (03:52:03):
You think the problem like you leave my daughter.

Speaker 10 (03:52:07):
That's what I want. How the whole thing is. My
thing is with y'all. Y'all y'all think, y'all think y'all
gonna be number one. I'm the husband. Nigga. You're not
number one and ship no more. You number two, three
and four. Nigga, I'm her husband.

Speaker 2 (03:52:23):
Is your mother?

Speaker 4 (03:52:24):
Is your your mother?

Speaker 10 (03:52:27):
Is your mother? Number one nigga in this ship is
your mother?

Speaker 4 (03:52:32):
The number two? This is he.

Speaker 10 (03:52:34):
That's why I don't like fathers that nigga want to
tro yo.

Speaker 15 (03:52:39):
Y'all.

Speaker 10 (03:52:40):
Y'all, girl, girl, watch your t.

Speaker 4 (03:52:44):
You're the same age as rich.

Speaker 2 (03:52:46):
What are you talking about?

Speaker 4 (03:52:47):
Girls?

Speaker 60 (03:52:48):
Drinking?

Speaker 10 (03:52:48):
Is sure?

Speaker 4 (03:52:49):
You old?

Speaker 60 (03:52:52):
Also a lot of Number one, A lot of men
don't like girls that have their fathers because it's too
much for They like the girls. They like the girls
I don't have fathers because they could do whatever they want.
My father, my father will tell you straight up, if
you don't want my daughter, bring her back intact and

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bring And my father always says, if I don't like
my relationship, I could always go to his house. I
could always come back home, so protection baby.

Speaker 58 (03:53:21):
And a lot of men do not like that.

Speaker 13 (03:53:22):
They don't know.

Speaker 10 (03:53:24):
You know what makes me laugh at y'all. Y'all y'all
be claiming how much y'all honor and respect and love
y'all father so much. But the niggas y'all bring home
and be fucking don't be nothing like them. That's what's
so funny to me.

Speaker 58 (03:53:36):
I don't know.

Speaker 10 (03:53:37):
I think.

Speaker 1 (03:53:38):
I don't just what I think.

Speaker 4 (03:53:40):
Oh, I think that. Uh, I think that.

Speaker 45 (03:53:42):
Uh.

Speaker 54 (03:53:44):
When I heard that, I understood it, right, I understood it.
I got my mom and a bunch of women in
my family, and they kind of think the same way.
But when somebody said number one, some men in their
mind put themselves as the husband as number two.

Speaker 6 (03:53:57):
I don't know why, because how works out.

Speaker 54 (03:54:00):
Is that's your husband, that's your main for that show,
that show, principal priority, right and outside of that, the
father is the number one person in her life.

Speaker 1 (03:54:08):
I don't know why that's complicated.

Speaker 10 (03:54:10):
That's what I said.

Speaker 54 (03:54:10):
It's two different So people who come up and there,
they will never be confused about it because it's two
different relationships.

Speaker 4 (03:54:20):
Right.

Speaker 54 (03:54:21):
A man can wake up one day and be like,
I don't want to be with her no more, and
your father ain't gonna do.

Speaker 29 (03:54:27):
That because.

Speaker 58 (03:54:32):
I could run to day any time.

Speaker 4 (03:54:36):
But yeah, I've heard listen, listen, bro, he bro, I've heard.
I've heard niggas. I've heard niggas say ship.

Speaker 54 (03:54:43):
Like that, right, and and I'd be like, I mean,
that's that's fucking weird. But it's like, okay, so you see,
I'm lost for words.

Speaker 62 (03:54:52):
I don't even understand that ship. But what I'm saying,
what I'm saying is like my my girl, right, we
and her together?

Speaker 54 (03:54:58):
I'm heard numeroal oh no, right, her she is crazy
about her motherfucking daddy, right, he don't. We don't necessarily
get along much because, like she like when he was younger,
he was, you know, a dude like me, like he
was at a player or whatever the fuck right, So
it's kind of like some hypocritical shit going on.

Speaker 6 (03:55:16):
But I don't get in away of that.

Speaker 1 (03:55:17):
That's her and her dad.

Speaker 54 (03:55:18):
I championed them, you know, which they have reconciled that
them doing their thing right. But I'm her man by
never what I would be thinking, like, Yeah, I'm the
number one nigga in your life, a bitch, and yeah,
you better figure that out until your daddy Like, na,
it's a certain level of respect there, you know what
I mean that that can't be. I can be like,
I don't even want to do this with you though,
Mo'm gonna take my daughter and I'm gonna go do

(03:55:39):
my thing.

Speaker 8 (03:55:40):
Her dad ain't gonna never do that. It's never in
a million years. And he's seventy one years old, you
know what I'm saying, Uh, it's never in a million
years that I can't see it. And even if she
does something crazy. Niggas is breaking up with chicks because
they getting fat, not having enough sex that.

Speaker 10 (03:55:58):
Man or ship. When a woman love you and she
views you, y'all walk down the aisle and y'all exchange vows,
then at that point you are the number one man
in her life and a woman who values marriage and
as a wife for real, she's gonna put you as
number one man in her life. That's not even gonna
be a back and forth because it's like Biggie said,

(03:56:19):
if if if a woman come and talk about, oh
my daddy, is you number two? There ain't no nigga
about to go for that ship. You know what I'm saying.
I'm the number we married. Now you have a relationship
with your father, and that's a beautiful thing. Shout out
to you.

Speaker 5 (03:56:32):
And but.

Speaker 4 (03:56:37):
That's you think that's gonna happen until you get the
name your daughter.

Speaker 28 (03:56:44):
I'm gonna prince, I'm gonna tell you this, Prince.

Speaker 10 (03:56:48):
Do you about prince? About this?

Speaker 4 (03:56:52):
Prince?

Speaker 31 (03:56:52):
Do you feel the same way about men with their mothers?
Do you find that the wife, the husband and the
wife should put each other first? Or do you still
believe that a man should put his mother not? Like
is that only for women?

Speaker 10 (03:57:04):
You're not coming before my mother.

Speaker 4 (03:57:08):
Think you're coming exactly.

Speaker 10 (03:57:10):
That's why he want to answer. That's why he want
to answer that question question.

Speaker 4 (03:57:14):
When I asked him earlier when we were talking, he
didn't want to answer that question. So you're stinking ass.
Your stinking ass can have your mother before her, but
she's not gonna be MA. Get your punk ass out here.

Speaker 10 (03:57:25):
Different, different, get your shot boy, different.

Speaker 4 (03:57:30):
Talking about your daddy.

Speaker 10 (03:57:33):
Now, what y'all said? Your mouth, y'all set out your
mouth that you're going to death, y'all gonna be the
number one man in her life. You just said the
right said your mother in your life?

Speaker 45 (03:57:44):
That I say?

Speaker 10 (03:57:45):
Did I say? I'm gonna be my mother's number one man? Y'all?
Number one?

Speaker 1 (03:57:50):
You what?

Speaker 38 (03:57:52):
No?

Speaker 10 (03:57:53):
What you what you did?

Speaker 4 (03:57:56):
What you did say?

Speaker 6 (03:57:58):
My girl and my wife will never come up for
my mother.

Speaker 25 (03:58:00):
That's what you did say.

Speaker 10 (03:58:01):
Said, that's what you said.

Speaker 8 (03:58:04):
No, no, no, no, no, no no, don't try to
walk it back.

Speaker 10 (03:58:07):
Now what you said, get this conversation.

Speaker 6 (03:58:11):
No, don't try to walk it back.

Speaker 10 (03:58:13):
That's what you said. And with you what you said,
My niggas said that y'all gonna be the number one men,
and you'r doingter's lives when she got a husband.

Speaker 4 (03:58:23):
That's what That's exactly what you just said.

Speaker 6 (03:58:27):
That's so based on no how it started.

Speaker 2 (03:58:30):
So based on what you said.

Speaker 64 (03:58:34):
So based on what you said, based on what you said,
based on what you based on what you said, you
have to go based on what you We heard what
you saidady, So based on what you said.

Speaker 6 (03:58:45):
Who's with your wife and your and your mother? Who's
number one?

Speaker 10 (03:58:48):
And who's number two? You spoke already, who's number one?

Speaker 6 (03:58:53):
Number two?

Speaker 10 (03:58:53):
Based on what you said? My whole point to you,
and I thought, so you and O G Fred check
the South, y'all are fathers, and y'all sound like some
great fathers. And I respect the fact. How y'all y'all
do this. This is what I want you to walk
away with this conversation. I want you to learn from
this conversation.

Speaker 65 (03:59:12):
Nigga, she walked down out of here, She walked down
there the number one nigga, the.

Speaker 10 (03:59:23):
Number one niggas.

Speaker 41 (03:59:25):
You don't like father that will fight herd.

Speaker 10 (03:59:33):
I'm the number one nigga.

Speaker 53 (03:59:35):
Nah, he's the.

Speaker 58 (03:59:36):
Type that will fight your father.

Speaker 13 (03:59:37):
I don't like that.

Speaker 10 (03:59:38):
I could nobody old ass father with the king. Ain't
nobody thinking about that nigga like you're talking about fight
their father. You're talking about man niggas. Niggas gotta take
a fucking machine to go to sleep and take drinking

(03:59:58):
and shure there I ain't ain't that old.

Speaker 4 (04:00:01):
Seventy year olds that do thirty.

Speaker 10 (04:00:09):
Now you say this reference to some girls father, crazy,
how you're trying to put your father before your husband.

Speaker 58 (04:00:20):
Talk to her father correctly. I don't care for you,
the husband.

Speaker 2 (04:00:28):
Her father.

Speaker 4 (04:00:29):
She'll never love you more than her father.

Speaker 58 (04:00:33):
Talking to my father, special.

Speaker 56 (04:00:35):
Man talking about disrespecting anyone. The point, the point of
the matter is the same thing like the mother.

Speaker 2 (04:00:44):
Okay, check this out.

Speaker 56 (04:00:45):
Like once you're in a marriage, right, hell, you shouldn't
be going to just say the man right switching around.
Man shouldn't be going uh telling his you know, confiding
about the intimate details of their marriage with her with
his mother. Because now have a situation where the mother,
you know what I'm saying, is looking at the at

(04:01:06):
the at the wife in a crazy way based on
a temporary thing y'all are going through. Hey, man, that's
rule number one because because there is a there is
a very different relationship between husband and.

Speaker 2 (04:01:18):
Wife and and and and mother and child or father
in child.

Speaker 56 (04:01:23):
Right, the parents become hell the elders of the relationship,
so in case something goes awry and in other ways.

Speaker 2 (04:01:33):
But you don't, man, Hell, man, it ain't no way
in hell.

Speaker 56 (04:01:36):
Like like you say, tell you you and your wife
are having a conversation right about, say moving out of state. Right,
this is something that that is specific to your family.
And then you say, well, I don't know yet. I
need to ask my father first. Hey, man, if that's
not gonna create conflict in the house, I don't know

(04:01:57):
what the fuck will the fuck you mean?

Speaker 11 (04:01:59):
You gotta ask your father. You can't know what I'm saying.
That's not the father's that's not the father's.

Speaker 2 (04:02:06):
Role, that's not the mother's role in a marriage.

Speaker 56 (04:02:11):
And that's what happened, you know what I'm saying because
all these women, the sister that got the biggest.

Speaker 4 (04:02:15):
Mouth in there, got my five that did the back.

Speaker 56 (04:02:18):
What if you married to a dude and the dude
tell you you know what I'm saying, Hey, sister, I
don't know what you're talking about. I can't give you
an asser. I gotta ask my mama first. Hell, you're
gonna be in that motherfucker raised in head.

Speaker 11 (04:02:29):
What the fuck you mean?

Speaker 2 (04:02:30):
You gotta ask your mama.

Speaker 4 (04:02:33):
Hey, biggie.

Speaker 54 (04:02:34):
That made me think of if anybody watched their Godfather
books and if if you're if you're watched Gover, but
read the books.

Speaker 1 (04:02:40):
Uh.

Speaker 54 (04:02:41):
That scene when Connie used to be arguing with her husband,
the mother and don Vito used to tell the boys
to stay out their business, principally Sonny because Sonny used
to hear hot head and all that kind of shit,
he'd be flying off the handle. In the book, it
goes into detail about how don Vito was having a meeting.
He was coming out to meeting and heard them arguing, uh,

(04:03:01):
and he was telling Fredo and Sonny like, you gotta
let them stay after, you know, stay out the way
and all that.

Speaker 6 (04:03:07):
Fast forward to the movie part of it.

Speaker 54 (04:03:09):
Sonny ended up getting killed like that, right, Connie was
started shitting in the house, right. I forgot that nigga
name in the movie, its character name, but uh, yeah,
he was you know, she called him he he he
was he doing this?

Speaker 4 (04:03:21):
Hes doing that?

Speaker 8 (04:03:22):
He got in there and they was in the middle
of a war, ran to the damn told thing and
got shot.

Speaker 4 (04:03:28):
The fuck up.

Speaker 54 (04:03:28):
And I'm not saying that's gonna happen. I'm just saying
it was a it's a like what he is saying.
It's a principle, right, just stay out their business, you
know what I mean. If you're gonna deal with them,
you deal with them, you know, one on one, but
you stay out of that, even if they arguing in
front of you.

Speaker 1 (04:03:42):
That's why I was just using their references. I think
it's relevant.

Speaker 4 (04:03:45):
But yeah, I told my sister.

Speaker 56 (04:03:47):
I told my sister one time, right this before her
and her husband got married. He and my sister riding
in the car years ago, and uh, she was talking
a little Chris to the brother on the phone, right
and when she you know, it was something she was
upset about something. I don't know what the details were
when we got off. When she got off the phone
with him, you know, they were engaged at the time.

(04:04:07):
I told my sister, I said, hey, don't talk to
that man like that. I said, you know, you wasn't
raising no house where you where that type of shit
was acceptable, I said, And I said, don't, don't don't, uh,
don't don't browbeat or or or denigrate that man talking

(04:04:28):
to him. I said, you communicate whatever you need to communicate.
Without that, that's gonna cause conflict. But see checked this
out though, and he's not. He a real good brother.
But I'm saying, though, what the fuck she looked like
coming to the family talking about some shit that's going
You work that out with your husband. Unless it's some
ship where my sister is in danger or being dishonored

(04:04:51):
or disrespected, that's a different story. But I'm talking about
the regular, the everyday marital thing. But see, this is
the thing about it. Hell, if you're a press and
father and doing your job, hell, the woman your hell, yo,
your daughter shouldn't even be LinkedIn matrimony with no motherfucker
that's gonna dishonor her, disrespect her, put his hands on

(04:05:11):
an etcetera, etcetera.

Speaker 2 (04:05:13):
If that's the.

Speaker 56 (04:05:14):
Case, Hell man, that was something that was that was
missing in your vetting of the brother in the first place.

Speaker 11 (04:05:20):
Got a brother that my sister's man, your good brother.
He ain't man that brother, but and he knows he
etn he knows man every brother. He's a good brother.

Speaker 10 (04:05:29):
Man.

Speaker 56 (04:05:29):
He takes good care of my sister. And they they
have a they have a beautiful relationship, beautiful marriage.

Speaker 2 (04:05:35):
Right, No, I'm done.

Speaker 11 (04:05:38):
Go ahead.

Speaker 66 (04:05:38):
I was just gonna say, as a mother, if my
son don't put his wife before me, then I haven't
done my job properly. When he get married, his wife
comes before me and I take second place. That's how
it should be with a mother or a father.

Speaker 10 (04:05:58):
That's right, I'm the number one one.

Speaker 13 (04:06:01):
Go drink some water.

Speaker 9 (04:06:05):
I was just gonna say, what's the point of having
a husband and wife if they're not number one?

Speaker 10 (04:06:11):
That's a fact.

Speaker 4 (04:06:13):
Can anybody answer that on topic and answer that question?

Speaker 35 (04:06:19):
Yeah, because Diego Diego had spoke her story, and I
hope she's still here listening.

Speaker 4 (04:06:24):
I believe Diego. If I'm wrong, you know, correct me, sirs.

Speaker 35 (04:06:29):
The reason why her father said no to the first
guy because whatever was going on with him, her father
did not trust for him to lead his daughter. Her
father did not trust to turn over the responsibility of
his daughter too.

Speaker 25 (04:06:52):
The matrix.

Speaker 13 (04:06:57):
Is it me or.

Speaker 10 (04:06:59):
Not.

Speaker 4 (04:07:01):
I was like, y'all, okay, well till you come back.

Speaker 10 (04:07:08):
Ran.

Speaker 19 (04:07:09):
When you come back, I will say if my well, well, Grannie,
he can't say nothing now, Ran.

Speaker 27 (04:07:17):
Just I hate when y'all can't hear that y'all in
a matrix.

Speaker 19 (04:07:20):
Yeah, Roan, just hip back in as soon as you
out the matrix, I was gonna say, because I had
been listening for a while, but I think everybody was pretty.

Speaker 13 (04:07:27):
Much in it on the nose.

Speaker 19 (04:07:28):
I think that's one of my biggest things that I
want that I'm sad that I won't be able to
like do now because I know earlier we were talking about,
you know, introducing people to our parents, you know, taking
our parents into consideration when we're dating and stuff like that,
but that would be like a big thing to me.
I always wanted approval from my dad, Like I felt
like that was like ultimately so freaking important, like knowing

(04:07:53):
that this man will come before my dad and like
my dad approving of it would have been like a maze.

Speaker 13 (04:08:00):
Then he passed already, so.

Speaker 4 (04:08:02):
I won't get that.

Speaker 19 (04:08:03):
But I still have uncles who will still be able to, like,
you know, step in and be that word, you know,
that that word for him. But it would be crazy
for y'all to be getting married and y'all, like, y'all.

Speaker 27 (04:08:15):
Parents and stuff come first.

Speaker 19 (04:08:16):
Because the first thing I'm gonna say, well, I hope
y'all mama have your kids because I know that, I
know that's gonna hit the soul, because what do you mean,
y'r mama still come before me? You know, she can't
make decisions in our house, she can't do that. She
can't make decisions for our children unless she's babysitting. So
it would just be utter blasphemy to think that your
mama come before me and we married. But yeah, my

(04:08:36):
dad's approval or my uncles would be like super important.
And that's crazy if y'all putting your parents before y'all
y'all partners.

Speaker 24 (04:08:46):
Married.

Speaker 19 (04:08:48):
But the reason why, like I do tell, I'm sorry,
it's gonna be very clear. This is part of the
reason why I think it's I personally tell women like,
if you come from a two parent home, you should
not be dating men that are.

Speaker 28 (04:09:08):
Raised by single mothers because.

Speaker 51 (04:09:11):
Them mama's who don't got no man, there's no husband,
looking like those uncovered mothers become an issue in my opinion,
later on down the road, right because they don't have
a man, so now they're looking for their son to
kind of fill that role, and that becomes very problematic,
like extremely problematic.

Speaker 10 (04:09:33):
I agree with with animal.

Speaker 42 (04:09:37):
Here real quick a lot of these men have husband
relationships with their mothers already, which is it's a dangerous
situation for a woman to be in.

Speaker 10 (04:09:50):
I agree with with animal putting the chat. A lot
of women is not raised to be wise for real,
as a real woman that have values marriage for her,
She's not gonna put her before a husband. That's just insane,
insanity to.

Speaker 5 (04:10:03):
Me, right.

Speaker 42 (04:10:05):
But a man who values being a husband isn't going
to put his mother over his wife either. I agree
with you, Prince. I'm saying it's a two way street though,
Like I don't disagree with you. The husband always comes first,
hands down, no question about it. Absolutely I agree, But
it's a two way street. Like a man has to

(04:10:28):
also know how to be a husband. And you don't
put your mother over your wife.

Speaker 10 (04:10:34):
We know that already because we was raised to be husband.

Speaker 50 (04:10:41):
Earlier.

Speaker 29 (04:10:41):
Because you sure did say that.

Speaker 10 (04:10:44):
I think if I'm married, do you know my wife?
You are? You didn't become No, Yes, that's what I
wanted to hear.

Speaker 63 (04:10:55):
Thank you.

Speaker 10 (04:11:01):
This is what y'all have to understand when when when
i'm your husband, I'm the number one nigga. Now I'm
over your father, your cousin, yore talking about same ship.

Speaker 19 (04:11:18):
I mean, y'all, y'all can't be mad at prince because
we also got read talking about the only way her
husband come before her dady is.

Speaker 31 (04:11:25):
If he died.

Speaker 19 (04:11:26):
I mean, I guess we can't be mad at prince
when that's what he's talking about, y'all.

Speaker 10 (04:11:33):
Okay, I know a dude, and is.

Speaker 1 (04:11:37):
What it was.

Speaker 2 (04:11:39):
Living together. They have four children together. Check this out.

Speaker 56 (04:11:43):
And this this is on the mother end of it, right,
the sister would allow her mother and her her mother
and her sister to come in the house and disrespect
and disregard the brothers, rue the brothers desires for his
children like like like say, he said, okay, the children

(04:12:04):
have to just for instance, they need to be in
bed by you know, eight thirty nine o'clock. They need
to have their homework done, you know, whatever it may be. Hell,
the mother and the sister were come in there, and
if he wasn't there or if he you know, and
kid ain't gotta be in a be infit?

Speaker 4 (04:12:20):
Fuck? Was he talking?

Speaker 2 (04:12:21):
You know that kind of shit? Right?

Speaker 11 (04:12:22):
I told that brother. I told him he was running
it down to me when you know it's years ago.

Speaker 56 (04:12:27):
I said, Hey, man, you need to put her mother
and her sister out of your house and ban them
from coming to your fucking house. And I said, if this, if, if,
and if your woman got a problem with it, you
need to tell her that she can go with them.

Speaker 4 (04:12:45):
Yeah.

Speaker 56 (04:12:45):
Well no, Now listen to what I'm saying, because hell right,
what in the fuck those are his and her children?

Speaker 11 (04:12:53):
How the fuck did you allow your mother to come in.

Speaker 56 (04:12:56):
The house right and completely disregard the father's wishes for
his own children. And but but check this out for
that brother, he was stuck. He was he was he
was weak to the point where he couldn't stand up
to those ones. I said, man, I put those women
the fuck out my house and tell hey, man, you

(04:13:17):
can't come in this motherfucker. You know what I'm saying.
If you don't honor and respect my rules, the rules
of my motherfucking house, I don't give a fuck mother's
sister whatever, Get the fuck out my house. And that
and that's real, man, because you have you have some parents.
And I think that this may happen on both sides.
It happens more with women though, right coming in there

(04:13:42):
like pressing the line because they may be bitter and
all fucked up, and they want to press their own
line in someone else's house. And and a lot of
times that'll happen with you know what I'm saying with
the You know, if they don't like the dude, it
happened like that. But if but on the other side,
if they don't like if it's the mother of the dude,

(04:14:03):
and they don't like the woman, hell man woman. And
you know, some of these women to come in your house,
it'll be your mother, I mean, it'll be his mother
coming in the house disrespecting you, talking about you ain't
a good enough mother, you ain't a good enough wife,
you don't know how to do what the fuck you're doing.
And a lot of these women know what I'm talking about.
And no one should allow that ship in a marriage.

(04:14:23):
And if you do, that's gonna fuck your marriage up
every motherfucking time.

Speaker 19 (04:14:31):
Yeah, and the nursest way possible. Your mama can't even
come in and change the decore of our house.

Speaker 4 (04:14:37):
What do we what?

Speaker 19 (04:14:38):
So for your mama to come in and think that
how we discipline our children, think she's better walk in
her and do anything different?

Speaker 52 (04:14:46):
Is out.

Speaker 19 (04:14:47):
When I say outrageous, I want to throw something across
my house right now, because that is who way being
our whole hearted.

Speaker 58 (04:14:55):
Can she cleanse?

Speaker 43 (04:14:58):
That's why clean any time?

Speaker 4 (04:15:00):
But what is that exactly?

Speaker 19 (04:15:01):
While I if she's clean up, she would literally have
to be babysitting in my home, or she may be
clean up behind my kids if I'm not there. There's
nothing that your mother has to do in my house,
well our house. I won't even say mine, but I'm
saying mine one. It's just mother to wife, right.

Speaker 29 (04:15:18):
She has her home.

Speaker 28 (04:15:19):
She can dictate whatever she wants.

Speaker 19 (04:15:21):
She can move the pottery around, she can move her
dishes around, she can even flip the couch upside down
and hang it out the window if she wants to.

Speaker 29 (04:15:28):
She can't come to me and my husband's.

Speaker 19 (04:15:31):
House and think that anything is going to change without
me and my husband's permission, right, That would be blast
for me. The same way for the father. The father
couldn't come in to you as a grown man and
tell you what to do in your house.

Speaker 4 (04:15:45):
It's just it's.

Speaker 19 (04:15:46):
Literally just respect factors at that point when you're in
a marriage. Now, if you just a girlfriend and you
sleep there three times a week, I mean his mom
might be able.

Speaker 47 (04:15:53):
To walk in and tell you something I don't know.

Speaker 54 (04:15:56):
Hey, Jazz, No, hey, even if you're so, I'm not
legally married, right, but we just had a baby eight
months ago, and my Candy's mama is real, like you know, traditional,
I guess like that. So when she sat down with me,
she invited me to dinner just to ask me, and
she said, listen, I want to come and help clean up.

Speaker 8 (04:16:17):
I'm asking you. Would it be okay if I come
over every other week and clean up?

Speaker 10 (04:16:22):
She was She asked me.

Speaker 54 (04:16:23):
She didn't say I'm coming over there. And just so
you know, she asked me, is that appropriate? What time
is going to be good? And blah blah blah blah blah.

Speaker 62 (04:16:31):
Right, And so then I told her, I said, listen,
I grew up in a nigga family, So do you
need them four five, six hours by yourself because I
can go to the damn cigar lounge to have me
a cigar get my work done.

Speaker 8 (04:16:41):
She was like, yeah, that'll be cool, Like okay, too easy.
But she asked me, asked me. She didn't tell me,
she didn't make a suggestion. She asked me, So, yeah,
I understand exactly what you're talking.

Speaker 19 (04:16:54):
About and that, and JP, that makes sense especially to
a new mother, right and a new father.

Speaker 28 (04:16:59):
I know, y'all his spinning with a new born.

Speaker 23 (04:17:01):

Speaker 19 (04:17:02):
So that's very appropriate too, you know what I'm saying.
So that's helpful. That's where the village steps seeing. But
imagine she just said, you know what, JP, you.

Speaker 28 (04:17:10):
Know, fuck me, I'll be over there Friday.

Speaker 19 (04:17:13):
You know, you can't tell me nothing.

Speaker 1 (04:17:16):
Right, Yeah, and just check this out.

Speaker 54 (04:17:21):
So, so her mama and my auntie they go to
the same church like they now, they go to the
same church for they've been going to the same church
for a minute. So my auntie, which is like one
of my best friends, my favorite auntie, they was having
a conversation and she was like, yeah, I'm gonna have
to i'mna go see that baby. I'm miss Tanya. That's
can't de mamination.

Speaker 1 (04:17:39):
She was like, hold on, Pam, you can't.

Speaker 4 (04:17:41):
You can't just be going over there, Like, well, he
didn't tell me. He acts like he don't want nobody
to see the baby.

Speaker 10 (04:17:47):
He don't want to.

Speaker 54 (04:17:47):
He was like, was like, paying, well, he told me
he only won't his sister, me, his mama, and my daughter,
which is Candy sister over there for right now, for
the first few months. He don't want nobody over there.
I think she you know what I'm saying. So she
kind of put the word out for me, like let
him do his thing, let him be clingy and do
all that kind of shit he gotta do, right, So
I owe that, and it's not my my auntie Pam

(04:18:09):
ain't disrespectful like that. And I think she was probably
kind of playing, but she and Katy Mama held the
line like no, we infinite just be popping up over
there now.

Speaker 1 (04:18:17):
That ain't not That is not okay.

Speaker 2 (04:18:19):
So yeah, I was.

Speaker 56 (04:18:30):
Gonna say, I think like, like, uh, it's more problematic.
I'm not saying that this is the default, but I'm saying,
like the mother of the son that the sister is marrying,
you know, it's more problematic. Usually fathers don't really get

(04:18:50):
to get involved like that in another man's household because
they understand the hell they ain't don't let nobody and
no one dictate policy in their household.

Speaker 2 (04:19:00):
Yeah yeah, women, but women women, man.

Speaker 56 (04:19:04):
Hell, And I'm not saying all women do this, but man,
a lot of you know, they're they're a significant number
of women that don't understand that they feel like if
they don't and especially like this to what Diego said,
there's a lot of women who are single and don't
have don't have a man in their lives and know
that they're not used to that because usually like say,

(04:19:25):
for instance, if my mother was still alive and my
mother was to try to do something like that with
my sister, my dad gonna check it. Hey, hold on,
since they wait a minute, No, no, hey, get get
out of that business. That ain't that's not your business.
So it's it's it's a lot of you know what

(04:19:45):
I'm saying, single women that do that to their sons. Man,
they'll be all in the business disrespecting the sister that
he'd have married, and all kinds of ship. Try to
be funny, try to you know, he can't tell me
I'm a she don't know what she do. I need
to all that kind of shit. That's really really most
for the most part, where you see that kind of shit,

(04:20:09):
you know from what I've.

Speaker 54 (04:20:09):
Seen, Yeah, no, it got to be reinforced, It got
to be it most definitely got to be reinforced. Like
my cousin, she stay in my grandfather bought that house
in sixty one, I think so. My my besides the
oldest two, my uncle, my uncle, auntie, everybody else was

(04:20:30):
born in my and then raised in the house, includes
my mama. So he got the house now, right her husband.

Speaker 5 (04:20:36):
Uh.

Speaker 54 (04:20:36):
And when I came back from my last the point,
he wanted to change the patty. So my father built
this patio with his with his bare hands.

Speaker 5 (04:20:42):
Right, it was a slab.

Speaker 54 (04:20:43):
He you know, wrote the THEMN blueprint and build a patio.
He was like, man, I want to turn this and
like into like a little where we just sit at
and kick it or whatever.

Speaker 2 (04:20:51):
But the family don't.

Speaker 8 (04:20:52):
I say, listen, bro, let me tell you something. This
is your house now. It's your house.

Speaker 1 (04:20:58):
It ain't my auntie house, it ain't my mama house,
it ain't my house. It's not the family house.

Speaker 3 (04:21:02):
It is your house.

Speaker 54 (04:21:04):
So until you sell it or whatever, maybe sell it
to somebody in the family because we planning on keeping
in the family or whatever, then that's gonna be be
that as a may bro, this is your house, you
know what I mean.

Speaker 1 (04:21:14):
And I had to explain that to you.

Speaker 54 (04:21:16):
Know, my mama and my aunties and grandma and hey, listen,
I understand that, yeah, if y'all cared about that, But
y'all she just kept it.

Speaker 1 (04:21:23):
But it's his house now, So.

Speaker 2 (04:21:26):
We got to be hell with that kind of ship.

Speaker 63 (04:21:28):
Man.

Speaker 56 (04:21:28):
If she go and checked my brother man back in
the day, right, my sister's day, this dude this way,
this back in the nineties, right, she would fall in
love with the dude. The bullshit ass dude. I'm telling
you what my brother told me and me and one
of the home she was doing serious when she said it.

Speaker 11 (04:21:47):
So the dude was he was, you know, he was
trying to get my sister to do go down me
and stay with him.

Speaker 56 (04:21:55):
She she she was going to go into college with
the Arkansas right University, Rokinshaw Pine Bluff, right, and so
she met the dude down there.

Speaker 11 (04:22:03):
He was like a local dude or whatever. Oh bullshit,
asked dude.

Speaker 56 (04:22:06):
And so he tried to get my sister to kind
of move down there when she didn't come home for
the summers and all this whole kind of ship. And
my mother called a sine to you know what my
mother said. My mother told me an army.

Speaker 11 (04:22:19):
She said, I want that motherfucker dead, she said, she said,
I trying to kill that motherfucker.

Speaker 1 (04:22:26):
He ain't taking my baby nowhere.

Speaker 2 (04:22:28):
My brother was dead.

Speaker 56 (04:22:29):
Goddamn serious too. And my father then, you know, and
that ship man, because my mother mother was serious.

Speaker 10 (04:22:42):
That's how.

Speaker 4 (04:22:45):
You know she was.

Speaker 3 (04:22:46):
She was.

Speaker 56 (04:22:47):
My mother calls the scene because he tried to get
my sister to catch a bus down there. My mother
mother calls a goddamn scene at the bus station.

Speaker 43 (04:22:54):
Man, what you say that your mother was putting out
hits on people?

Speaker 56 (04:23:02):
Hey, man, but but she but you know, the dude
was a bullshit dude, and and she but you know,
in her mind, you know, like like uh, you know,
and her mind, you ain't taking my baby. Shit, motherfucker,
I'd rather see you dead, man, and you take my
baby away from me. You ain't taking my baby down
you know, the barefoot bread you know, she eventually got you.

Speaker 11 (04:23:22):
Know, left the dude alone or whatever. But my mother
wanted ship my mother.

Speaker 1 (04:23:27):
Man, say, this is all the topic.

Speaker 4 (04:23:31):
How many of y'all have.

Speaker 2 (04:23:33):
You say? You say, what happens?

Speaker 4 (04:23:35):
I'm your mama in form.

Speaker 56 (04:23:37):
But but what I'm saying is is like the thing
was is hell, it wasn't nothing, you know other than
that that was gonna get my sister.

Speaker 5 (04:23:46):
Leave that dude.

Speaker 1 (04:23:47):
She was, she was, you know, she was.

Speaker 2 (04:23:49):
She fell, you know, head over hels for the dude.

Speaker 5 (04:23:51):
Man.

Speaker 56 (04:23:52):
And you know, and what I'm what I'm saying is
like even though you know, of course, my father wasn't
going for it, but my father understood that that's just
something she gotta.

Speaker 4 (04:24:01):
Go through, right of course, you know, because she was
you know, she.

Speaker 56 (04:24:04):
Was twenty twenty one or whatever at the time. And
and but my mother didn't understand. And my mother mother,
she wasn't trying to hear that ship. And my father
had had to really you know, you know, intervened to
check my many.

Speaker 2 (04:24:17):
Hey, hey, just.

Speaker 56 (04:24:18):
Now because she told me it always just ain't kill him.
I want to tell you to kill him. Y'all kill
that mother, but he won't take it bout back. She
just said it like she was serious. I was like, yeah,
but you know what I say, women get sometimes.

Speaker 2 (04:24:32):
Man.

Speaker 54 (04:24:33):
It's a little off topic, but I was just curious
about how many Grandmama was on the motherboard and uh
carried her pistol in her personal church.

Speaker 1 (04:24:41):
It's just a random question.

Speaker 4 (04:24:44):
Mind, you said on the mother on the motherboard. Hey,
you know, said mine.

Speaker 29 (04:24:54):
A pistol.

Speaker 8 (04:24:56):
Hey, my grandma wall Big Laura. The last she just
passed away about three weeks, three or four weeks ago.

Speaker 54 (04:25:03):
She the last time she died when she was eighty one.
The last time she shot had some people was three
years ago. That's that's how she get out, you know
what I mean. She she been playing with them pistols
ever since.

Speaker 8 (04:25:17):
You know she'll sell the woman too. You know, some
other women be hearing the pistols.

Speaker 1 (04:25:21):
But yeah that she yeah, hell yeah, she with all
of that, you know what I mean.

Speaker 54 (04:25:25):
You you make her think something weird going on. She
was gonna pop your ass. My father told me that
when I was young. I was like, what, I don't
understand what we get this? You know, uncles, you done
been locked up and shit.

Speaker 8 (04:25:36):
She was like, man, we get that pistol play shit
from Grandma.

Speaker 1 (04:25:38):
I'm like from who I'm like seventeen when he telling
me this shit right, And I'm like, oh man.

Speaker 54 (04:25:44):
So when she passed away, my cousin was sending me
all kind of videos about them going down there. She's
showing them all the pistols that she had. You know,
she's showing them the two pistols. My granddaddy had on
him in nineteen seventy five when he got killed. How
she got them pistols, I don't know, but she's still
got him, you know what I mean, them biggie, You
remember them snubbed those thirty eighth.

Speaker 2 (04:26:04):
Yeah, my grandmother slept with two chron thirty.

Speaker 56 (04:26:09):
Pearl handle. She slept with my grandman. My father told me,
he told me when you know, when they were younger, said,
my grandmother could shoot a cigarette out of a man's
mouth to twenty five yards.

Speaker 10 (04:26:20):
No, my grandmama.

Speaker 2 (04:26:21):
But it wasn't just her.

Speaker 56 (04:26:23):
It was her, my great grandmother, her sister's all man,
all them women told it, told it, uh firearms man.
And my grandmother, my father's mother, was born in nineteen seventeen.
And yeah she she Yeah, those women told it pistols
and would kill you.

Speaker 1 (04:26:40):
Yeah, my head.

Speaker 54 (04:26:41):
My grandmama to say, I got yeah, I can still
shoot a wing off of a fly and skin him
on his ass and too.

Speaker 4 (04:26:49):
But I was like, man, this lady is fucking the
wild ship.

Speaker 56 (04:26:52):
My grandfather, you know, my grandmother and him, this my
father's mother, uh and father and uh, you know they
got a divorce sometime back in the sixties. Right, But
anyway said, you know they they had a you know,
violent relationship. You know, my grandfather will put his hands
on my grandmother said when they were younger, right, they
heard the ruckies in the back. They were arguing in

(04:27:14):
the back, and all of a sudden they saw my
grandfather man bust a dead sprint through the house out
the front door.

Speaker 2 (04:27:22):
Said.

Speaker 11 (04:27:22):
As soon as he hit the front door, boom, and
she bust her double bells, shotgun took half the door off. S.
You know, want's back there. Man, I don't know where
this shit that that these women, the timid man, the
women to kill you man. But then my father said, man, man,
you know she was a crack shot.

Speaker 2 (04:27:39):
She said. She wasn't trying to kill him, but she
got She scared the shit out.

Speaker 4 (04:27:44):
Of him, though, But I love it.

Speaker 8 (04:27:47):
That's what I was thinking, what I understood what Principle
was saying, But ain't in my mind.

Speaker 54 (04:27:50):
I'm thinking, like, hey, man, so these other women and
these men, a lot of these Midwestern women, they grandmama
some and shit, yeah you ain't finna just be talking
crazy to them and you prenching up on them about.

Speaker 4 (04:27:59):
The hey them chick, hey, didn't I tell you what
what you know what I'm saying, what the draw draw
out on her?

Speaker 29 (04:28:06):
Did?

Speaker 4 (04:28:06):
I just tell you to get your ass away from me?
You know what I'm saying. They wasn't fucking playing.

Speaker 11 (04:28:13):
He wasn't wasn't playing, man. And uh and my grandmother
was a little woman.

Speaker 10 (04:28:17):
This was one.

Speaker 56 (04:28:17):
But my mother's mother wasn't playing like you know, man.
He women would kind of on the tough end of things. Man,
I'm not saying that they but yeah, like my.

Speaker 2 (04:28:28):
My father's mother was a little woman.

Speaker 4 (04:28:30):
She was, man.

Speaker 11 (04:28:30):
My grandmother is.

Speaker 56 (04:28:31):
Probably five one at the most small frame all the life.
Man told them, goddamn pistols, man, you told it, told
it those pistols.

Speaker 4 (04:28:45):
But her mother told it.

Speaker 56 (04:28:46):
Told the pistols my great grandmother and her sister said
one of her sisters, her aunts, one of my grandmother's aunts,
used to run a road house back in the day
in uh in rural Oklahoma before this was before Oklahoma
became a state. And uh, you know she ran wrong
with outs man and all that shit. Man Whoman told
the guns it was a little on the tough end

(04:29:08):
the ship man, Yeah.

Speaker 5 (04:29:12):
Bro, check this out.

Speaker 1 (04:29:13):
This is a true story. So when my grandfather got killed.

Speaker 54 (04:29:16):
The story behind that was he was running with some
niggas who robbed uh, who was robbing banks and jewel
stores and ship.

Speaker 8 (04:29:22):
So anyway, this dude, it was a place that in Milwaukee.

Speaker 54 (04:29:26):
Where all of the well, everybody used to meet up.
So this is like all the ballplayers and everybody.

Speaker 8 (04:29:31):
Used to you know, the hustlers, the record, Hey mama.

Speaker 1 (04:29:34):
Everybody used to meet up right and kick it right.

Speaker 8 (04:29:38):
So he was pressing my grandaddy about this motherfucker.

Speaker 6 (04:29:40):
I guess his wife is jewel.

Speaker 54 (04:29:41):
His wife's ring was getting clean and shit, and uh,
he was pressing them about the ship.

Speaker 1 (04:29:47):
He was pressing them about the ship.

Speaker 10 (04:29:49):
Right.

Speaker 8 (04:29:49):
So my granddaddy telling them and not mind you, biggie.

Speaker 54 (04:29:53):
My grandfather and all four of his brothers was in
the in the bar that night. So he pressed in
the nigga.

Speaker 4 (04:29:58):
He's like, hey, man, like, oh, you.

Speaker 54 (04:30:00):
Know about that bank robbery. He like, man, I don't
know nothing about no bank robbery. Hey man, you know,
just you know, quit asking me about that shit. He said, Hey,
will you're gonna, hey, listen, You're gonna have to tell
me abou I know you know something, he said, I'm
gonna tell you one more time and you listen, We're
gonna have to move some furniture around this motherfucker.

Speaker 1 (04:30:16):
He was known for doing shit like that.

Speaker 54 (04:30:19):
Right, he goes out in the back, have a cigarette
to duke, shot him six times in the back.

Speaker 6 (04:30:24):
He dies.

Speaker 1 (04:30:25):
Whatever.

Speaker 8 (04:30:26):
So my grandmamnna find out. She didn't know that at first,
like the day before the funeral, like all his brothers
was there that night. Because she asked the questions and
she ain't getting no answers.

Speaker 54 (04:30:36):
So she, my father said, she told them if they
come to the funeral, she was gonna shoot they ass
one by one coming in the duck.

Speaker 4 (04:30:44):
She ain't gonna kill him, but she.

Speaker 54 (04:30:46):
Felt like that they should have did something to that niggah.
They should have dragged his body in the house or something. So, yeah,
that was a whole thing. So they didn't talk to
each other for years and year. I mean, I still
have not seen my great uncles and they, you know,
they in the city in Chicago. Did Dray be moving around?
But I ain't seen them, you know what I'm saying.
At all, my grandmama was not playing none of that shit.
She felt like y'all should have handled that business, you

(04:31:09):
know what I mean. So a lot of them madea
the Medea archetype.

Speaker 1 (04:31:12):
That is a real thing.

Speaker 56 (04:31:14):
Like I'm gonna get that's my grandmother right there in
the ptr and the black and all the way to
the to the right and black shoe on my grandmother.
She was about twenty or something then you know she was,
you know, small woman, Protect us out. I will tell
you this, man. But you know, in these families, man,
like in my family, right you know, uh, hey, you

(04:31:38):
know you know this this brother, this is my cousin.
This is my blood cousin. The dude named Priest home.

Speaker 2 (04:31:43):
You know what I'm trying. I used to play for
Kansas City. He used to be a receiver for Kansas City.

Speaker 4 (04:31:50):
Huh.

Speaker 56 (04:31:52):
But I'm gonna tell you how his name became. Why
his name is Priest though, because his father was a gangster.
So his father named him after after Superfly.

Speaker 8 (04:32:03):
Oh wow.

Speaker 2 (04:32:05):
Their father was Gates.

Speaker 10 (04:32:07):
His father, his father.

Speaker 56 (04:32:09):
You'll never see him really talk about his father in
this But but and I ain't gonna get into the
details of that, but his.

Speaker 2 (04:32:14):
Father was murdered. Motherfucker shot.

Speaker 1 (04:32:16):
You know.

Speaker 56 (04:32:17):
Father came to the came to the door, looked through
the uh you know, the people. Somebody shot him through
the people shot him in his face. His name was
Fox and then you know it was my blood cousins.
Man ain't know, like uh uh, that's how he got
the name preach. But he doesn't talk about this is
the mother shit in frod. I ain't gonna say this's
a recorded rule. But but yeah, man, a lot of

(04:32:37):
them folks man like. But I don't know where people
get this. Man and women growing up back in the day,
especially in the South, was soft. Man wasn't more soft.
You couldn't be soft. So they just stayed at home
and cook cakes and by his ship. Ain't no version
of that shit, true, Man.

Speaker 54 (04:32:56):
No, I guess I guess maybe that's why you had
to grow up with him, you know what I mean
kind of thing, because yeah, that's how I mean, you
learned to respect women because of those experiences and them
sit downs you had and them you know, uh you
know watching you well, at least my Grandmama's and them,
both of them used to play cards and tunk and
you know, all that kind of shit, play Domino's and
all that kind of shit. You know what I mean,

(04:33:17):
they had, They did have a certain respect for me.
And but they was doing their thing, and and and
and and Papa Big Daddy, Papa Bear, whatever you want
to call him. He knew his wife wasn't no motherfucking punk,
so he wasn't worried about it. So she can be
you know, it's you know, quote unquote friendly as she
wanted to be. You better not step out of line.
She ain't having that none of that ship.

Speaker 2 (04:33:41):
Yeah.

Speaker 56 (04:33:42):
I think a lot of people got a fantasy view
about history man, black kid, you know now you know
his black folks are concerned in this country.

Speaker 11 (04:33:50):
A lot of people just a just a fantasy view
of that ship.

Speaker 5 (04:33:54):
Man.

Speaker 43 (04:33:59):
Mm So you do talk, you just don't like you
just don't like to jumping over people.

Speaker 2 (04:34:06):
Say that again, out In said, he said, I do talk.

Speaker 43 (04:34:13):
Yeah, you don't like to jumping over people.

Speaker 11 (04:34:16):
Yeah, yeah, I talk. Know, I talked ship. I'm talking
talking ship just like everybody else.

Speaker 1 (04:34:27):
Hey, biggie, did you catch that?

Speaker 8 (04:34:28):
This is like the Third Live, the Third Live, the
Third Room.

Speaker 54 (04:34:32):
In the last two or three weeks, the nigga's been
trying to debate what the tricking is, like, what's going on,
what's in the water.

Speaker 11 (04:34:39):
I don't know what's going on that I haven't figured that.

Speaker 56 (04:34:43):
I think a lot of you know, it's like, in
my opinion, I think it's like, you know, a lot
of folks, a lot of brothers trick, but they want
to kind of like put a brother in that boat
like because they because they because they've been tricking and
you know, trick throughout you know, and they just want
to put everybody in their boat. Like yeah, man, it's

(04:35:04):
all tricking now we are. There ain't no tricks, man.
I think it's I think it's.

Speaker 54 (04:35:09):
That guy dating is tricking and you can't you know
what I mean, Like, what the fuck you take a
woman out just to be taking her out?

Speaker 1 (04:35:18):
You gotta be fucking and you gotta be tricking.

Speaker 4 (04:35:20):
I'm like, God, damn.

Speaker 2 (04:35:21):
Mother, motherfucker.

Speaker 56 (04:35:22):
You know what is Yeah, but you know, folks, a
lot of folks can't see the world, man, you know,
they can't.

Speaker 2 (04:35:33):
They don't see women.

Speaker 56 (04:35:35):
Like, man, if somebody said this before, I'm gonna say
it like this, and I'm not saying but you know,
a lot you know, you know what I've really kind
of come to think about a lot of these a
lot of talking points on it, A lot of these
dudes don't really like women. Man, I'm not They just
like you know, maybe you know, just just you know,

(04:35:57):
fucking women. But they don't really like women, y'all know,
y'all know you get what I'm saying. Like they don't
they don't like they don't think that they think that
women just you know what I'm saying, a bunch of
holes and and and you know, for there for the pleasure,
you know, just just something that you know, they jack
off with women. You get what I mean by that is,

(04:36:20):
you know, they just get off for you know these
you know, she just a collection of holes, man. And
you know the woman ain't The woman has no value
other than that. I think I think that. And so
you know dude that you know, like man, she spend time,
you know, talk to a woman for what the women ain't.

Speaker 2 (04:36:38):
You know I've heard that. I've heard a brother actually
say that.

Speaker 56 (04:36:41):
You know what I'm saying, Like brother said, man, Uh,
he said, man ship, he doesn't he doesn't find women
uh you know really Uh what's the word he used?
He said interesting other than he did.

Speaker 11 (04:36:59):
The only the way he finds women interesting is if
he's looking at him, looking at the sister from the back,
you know, looking at her ass or something other than
that ship. The women ain't interested. Brother actually said that.

Speaker 56 (04:37:12):
Man he stood order say he like socializing with men,
this particular brother.

Speaker 1 (04:37:19):
Yeah, that's crazy what he said.

Speaker 6 (04:37:24):
Yeah, I mean, but but I think the only the
rub is that.

Speaker 54 (04:37:29):
Then you know, a lot of a lot of the
same dudes are trying to portray themselves as ladies men.

Speaker 6 (04:37:36):
It's like, we know you ain't no ladies.

Speaker 4 (04:37:38):
Man.

Speaker 6 (04:37:38):
All you talk about is fucking like where I come from.
They call him cockounds, Like that's all you want to do,
is like that's not you.

Speaker 10 (04:37:47):
Know what I mean.

Speaker 54 (04:37:47):
Like I mean, I remember, I know you a little
bit older than me, but I remember like niggas to
get like ghost on like on his friends and ship.

Speaker 10 (04:37:57):
To the club. You can't.

Speaker 54 (04:37:59):
You can't you like Nigga to be outside of the
car talking to her. That nigga be outside in the
front of the bar talking to her. He didn't, he
didn't already took the girl, you know what I'm saying,
to the lake or something.

Speaker 1 (04:38:08):
Now he walking and talking with her. Niggas call him,
what happened to you?

Speaker 10 (04:38:11):
Nigga?

Speaker 4 (04:38:11):
Don't worry about it. I'm alive. I'll see you niggas
at the at the gym tomorrow bye.

Speaker 10 (04:38:15):
Like you know what I mean.

Speaker 2 (04:38:17):
Yeah, we used to call it.

Speaker 11 (04:38:18):
We used to call it like your fruit looping, man,
do get my fruit. Shit, I'm gonna go over man.

Speaker 10 (04:38:28):
You know shit, it was.

Speaker 56 (04:38:29):
It was, you know, just to you know, instill, like
just just enjoying the company of a woman. Man, you
know what I'm saying, Like, you know the all of that.
A lot of these dudes, man, you know, yeah, man,
that is.

Speaker 2 (04:38:43):
But you see it in the in the club. I remember, Man,
we used to go to the club back in the day.

Speaker 4 (04:38:47):
You know.

Speaker 56 (04:38:48):
Hell, Man, you hit the door, you tell the homie
ship Man, Ship, I holler at you man, Uh shit.

Speaker 2 (04:38:54):
Meet me buy a car.

Speaker 48 (04:38:55):
Man.

Speaker 1 (04:38:56):
At the end of the night, you feel me.

Speaker 2 (04:38:58):
You out there and get your You ain't hanging around
the homies and ship in the club.

Speaker 56 (04:39:05):
You getting out there? You shooting the ship? You you
you mixing immanly? You know you might you you you know,
catch you something that you like and she like you.
Hey man, y'all sitting up talking all night. Hey man,
let's tell the sister. You know, don't get something need
you know what I'm saying the Eye Hop or the

(04:39:26):
waffle house or whatever.

Speaker 4 (04:39:28):
You know, Yeah, you up all night?

Speaker 1 (04:39:32):
Donald all that ship?

Speaker 2 (04:39:34):
Can't you know that Prince song?

Speaker 52 (04:39:36):
Uh?

Speaker 2 (04:39:37):
What's that song? Adoor?

Speaker 10 (04:39:39):
Yeah?

Speaker 11 (04:39:40):
When he said when he said, man, I was rapping till.

Speaker 2 (04:39:43):
The sun came up, telling you just how fine you was?

Speaker 10 (04:39:47):
You know what?

Speaker 56 (04:39:48):
I'm Yeah, all these dudes just I don't know, man,
I don't know what. I don't know what school of
thalt these dudes come from.

Speaker 2 (04:39:56):
My own.

Speaker 11 (04:39:57):
That ship is weird to me, man.

Speaker 8 (04:39:59):
And they it's gonna be like, hey, what happened with
you and Jenna last night?

Speaker 54 (04:40:02):
Like you, man, don't worry about it, man, like because
you know you what, You've been kicking with her all
motherfucker night.

Speaker 10 (04:40:07):
You know what I mean?

Speaker 8 (04:40:07):
You took her almost six thirty in the morning and ship, Hey.

Speaker 4 (04:40:11):
Man, what happened to y'all? To man, don't worry about it.
To worry about what? You didn't talk about that last night, nigga?

Speaker 2 (04:40:17):
Like you know what I mean? Your hell, Yeah, you
didn't talk talk on your piece back then.

Speaker 56 (04:40:21):
Man, that was considered burning somebody up if you know
what the fuck you was doing, motherfucker.

Speaker 4 (04:40:29):
Yeah, that's a thing you just understood.

Speaker 56 (04:40:31):
Yeah, but hey, man, I'm finna go man ship where
you man ship Man? I got me girl, Man, I'm
finished member old girl last year, I'm finna.

Speaker 4 (04:40:39):
Go kill you.

Speaker 2 (04:40:40):
Man.

Speaker 56 (04:40:41):
I'm gone, man, I'll let you all to mom. And
you couldn't wait get out of there. I can't wait
to see this.

Speaker 54 (04:40:47):
I also say, biggie, I don't think and I don't
know ron and Doll say the same thing. But we
wasn't really tripping about a women a woman women like
being a little bit provocated. Like we weren't tripping about
that they was women and we'd like to see it
like it wasn't, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 10 (04:41:03):
Like I don't know.

Speaker 56 (04:41:05):
We just wasn't tripping like it was unless unless she
was just a stone cold even you know, stronge cold,
like known for this and known.

Speaker 10 (04:41:13):
For that, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 56 (04:41:14):
But but nah, you would because the thinking was, yeah,
she gonna be that way with me because I'm that motherfucker.

Speaker 10 (04:41:21):
Yeah, yeah, you feel me.

Speaker 2 (04:41:25):
You wasn't thinking that that's how she is.

Speaker 56 (04:41:27):
It's like, yeah, ship, yeah, she she she going because
there you know, ship she you know, I'm gonna I'm
a factory.

Speaker 2 (04:41:35):
I'm gonna win her out of here. So yeah, she
going especially that was the thinking.

Speaker 4 (04:41:39):
Yeah, especially it was hot.

Speaker 54 (04:41:41):
Niggas wasn't like, oh my god, bro, you see that
girl with them Daisy Dukes on like with the you
know what I mean, Like what's wrong with these bitches?

Speaker 56 (04:41:48):
Like you know what I mean?

Speaker 1 (04:41:49):
They not they they why they acting like that?

Speaker 4 (04:41:51):
They's some hoes?

Speaker 1 (04:41:52):
Like no, that was not nigga.

Speaker 2 (04:41:55):
You get you get man, you you get a labeled
as some type of man talking talking that.

Speaker 56 (04:42:03):
But yeah, like what you mean I was saying, Yeah,
I was saying in the room one time, I said, man,
check this out. I said, like when these dudes like okay,
like okay, we'll be real right like like check this
out and you'll know what I'm saying. Like you say
a woman that you know is a stone cold, uh,

(04:42:27):
stone cold freak, And what I mean by that is
she been around around, around, around around in the neighborhood, right,
but say she, but say she a nice looking, system,
nice body, you know, pretty because you know on this
app women like that ain't ain't stone cold and that
ain't true, you know, so so so right, even though

(04:42:51):
you might say in your mind, no, this ain't.

Speaker 2 (04:42:55):
No woman that I'm gonna really get too much.

Speaker 11 (04:42:57):
Involved in with.

Speaker 56 (04:42:58):
I ain't gonna get involved within, no relationship, have no kids,
buying stuff like that. But that don't mean she don't
look good. Yeah, yeah, she still look good. Then the
motherfucker see that. I watched it, motherfucker fucking weather, because
she look good. So what I'm what I'm saying is
I see a lot of dudes they'll try to say, oh,

(04:43:21):
look at her, she's filthy.

Speaker 29 (04:43:22):
She says.

Speaker 2 (04:43:23):
Man, Hey, man, the sister is not is not unattractive.

Speaker 56 (04:43:28):
You just understand that whatever her mindset is, that that's
not something you want to really attach yourself to in
that way, you know what I'm saying. But but that
doesn't mean that the sister is all of a sudden hell,
she's unattractive and filthy and you know, the scum of
the your I don't mean, you know, but and when
dudes talk like that, I hear a bunch of a

(04:43:49):
bunch of you know what I'm saying, a bunch of uh,
fake ass preachers, jacking off preachers. You know how our
motherfucker the preacher be talking talking the Holy roller.

Speaker 2 (04:43:58):
And then behind it.

Speaker 56 (04:44:00):
God damn, when you go back into the behind the scenes,
he'd be looking at the woman from behind the corner
jacket off.

Speaker 11 (04:44:05):
That's what you got a lot of these kind of
motherfuckers on it, you know, fake, right, yeah, you know.

Speaker 1 (04:44:11):
And I will say this with no self control, right,
I will say this too.

Speaker 54 (04:44:17):
People like to compare, you know, white people and black
people with marriages and all that kind of shit, which
I think is kind of retarded. But hey, listen, them
white dudes be marrying them chicks and they know them mitches.

Speaker 6 (04:44:26):
Was getting around in motherfucking college.

Speaker 1 (04:44:30):
They know, they know they just you know what I'm saying,
where he liked the girl or you know what I mean?
And she listen, I'm sure you've had this.

Speaker 10 (04:44:39):
I'm ron.

Speaker 54 (04:44:40):
Maybe maybe not, but I've been around married couples and
been cool with him and kicking it with him, and
they getting a little drunk and they be telling their
little college stories like when I met when I met Steven,
oh my god, I was just having my fun and
oh my I was getting a little wild back then.

Speaker 1 (04:44:54):
But but like we went, we kicked it and everything
was cool. Like I just liked him and my family
liked him, so we got married.

Speaker 4 (04:45:00):
We've been there every for twenty years.

Speaker 56 (04:45:01):
I said on this app, man, I ain't never seen uh,
I ain't never seen a woman's past keep.

Speaker 2 (04:45:07):
Her from getting married. Oh hell, keep her from.

Speaker 11 (04:45:10):
Being somebody's girlfriend or whatever the case may be. I
ain't never seen that happen. Hell, these dudes don't give it.

Speaker 45 (04:45:17):
Man.

Speaker 56 (04:45:17):
If the dude likes the woman, man, however he likes
her for whatever reason. Hey, man, all that shit don't matter.

Speaker 2 (04:45:25):
I just seen dudes. Man, I just seen dudes white
fuck the neighborhood. Uh you feel me?

Speaker 11 (04:45:33):
Shee didn win you know what I'm saying, Dude, the
wife st up? Man, shit don't don't uh Man.

Speaker 56 (04:45:41):
If a dude dude like the woman, man, because motherfucker's
on this to think that it's just one dimensional, like
a woman is one dimensional, right, And I'm not sitting here,
you know, giving my judgment on it.

Speaker 2 (04:45:53):
But the thing is is this hell.

Speaker 56 (04:45:55):
Just because that sister may have been a promiscuous sister,
don't mean hey, that this brother didn't like talking to
her and she didn't have other qualities and shit like
that that attracted the brother to the system.

Speaker 5 (04:46:08):
Man.

Speaker 56 (04:46:09):
So motherfuckers act like it's just one thing. And I'm
not saying that's for me, but where I Man, I've
seen that shit go down on man. Motherfuckers don't give
a fuck. Man, I haven't seen motherfucker women get wiped up.

Speaker 1 (04:46:21):
Man that with noan.

Speaker 11 (04:46:26):
The non busted down in the neighborhood. Man, let me
say it like that.

Speaker 6 (04:46:30):
Hey, bro, we watched that play out with Cardi b.

Speaker 1 (04:46:33):
That's what Charleston White was somenight.

Speaker 4 (04:46:34):
We watched this play out. That goddamn girl was mother.

Speaker 8 (04:46:37):
You know, she wasn't torn as much, and she was
married and she was, you know, doing her thing and.

Speaker 54 (04:46:42):
Cooking chicken and all that old kind of shit like
you know what I mean. Naw, people might not want
to say that that's what that is. But it wasn't
no scandal. It wasn't no, It wasn't no smile on
her name when she was married to that nigga. It
wasn't no you know what I mean.

Speaker 56 (04:46:56):
I know I know a woman right well, I know
I got a part of from the neighborhood. Right pimp
his skin. You know he retired, you feel me his
bottom the bottom he had back in the day, right, Hell,
man she married with.

Speaker 4 (04:47:13):
Two kids.

Speaker 11 (04:47:16):
Because the dude, because the dude that married her.

Speaker 56 (04:47:20):
Yeah, man, I don't I don't know the dude, but whatever,
but you know, he don't know, he don't he he
might even know. I don't know whether the dude know
or not. Hey, man, but man, you you married a
woman was a hooker for for for over decade.

Speaker 4 (04:47:35):
But he didn't know he was.

Speaker 56 (04:47:37):
He was excuse, a square dude, the working dude. He
only he ain't so by the time, you know, he not,
he not. He ain't looking at that through the lens
of a pimp. He looking at that through the lens
of a dude who just like a woman for whatever reason.

Speaker 11 (04:47:57):
You know, I'm not saying that. I'm not saying I
condone it.

Speaker 56 (04:48:01):
But I remember I remember scared you say all the
time back in the day, right like like back you know,
years ago, when he was out there, right you know,
I would ad I say, hey, man, uh you know
when all your when your thing runs his course? Man,
what you gonna do with Deve whiteby Hey, you know
what he used to say, He said, all though man
might set it down, let her have a trick baby

(04:48:22):
or something.

Speaker 2 (04:48:27):
And I didn't understand what he was saying.

Speaker 56 (04:48:29):
You know, I didn't fully really get what he was
saying back then, Wade, because he been he was going
for a long time.

Speaker 2 (04:48:35):
But I know, JB, you understand.

Speaker 62 (04:48:38):
Andre Taylor. He had he has three kids. He had
three of his kids when he was in the game.
Them first to uh, the Filipino chick and then the
white chick.

Speaker 5 (04:48:50):
Right.

Speaker 54 (04:48:50):
So his oldest son, the light skinned one. I think
he ended up going to Columbia or something like that.
He got two daughters that graduated. One't graduated from Harvard,
the other graduated from I want to say UC Berkeley.
So but he stick them women that he had in
the game. This is right before he got locked up.
If you remember when when American Pim came out when
he was locked up. So he ended up marrying what's

(04:49:13):
her name, Dove. But them other women and mother, three women,
they all married, been married for years. He's still you
know what I'm saying, and you know he's out there
with it.

Speaker 10 (04:49:21):
So you know what I mean.

Speaker 1 (04:49:23):
If you know, then you know.

Speaker 54 (04:49:24):
But yeah, from what he said, they got a great
relationship and he respect their marriage, and you know what
I mean, I think one of them is a one
of them chicks is a minister in the church, you
know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (04:49:37):
So she living the square life now and doing her things.
So yeah, man, I don't know. I guess you gotta
be outside to know.

Speaker 4 (04:49:44):
I guess that's one of them things.

Speaker 8 (04:49:46):
My cousin, my little cousin always tell me, like these
niggas don't be outside or something.

Speaker 56 (04:49:49):
Yeah, they don't be, man, they don't because like even
when you talk about stuff like that, folks act like
these are foreign concepts. Man. That shit going on a
million miles a minute, man out here, and it's different
levels of it. This dude, you got like like the
home girl, what one of the home girls? Now, she
wasn't never out there? Well, I don't know.

Speaker 10 (04:50:12):
She wasn't.

Speaker 11 (04:50:14):
She wasn't to quote unquote a prostitute, you feel me.
And she was she was you know, she was the
d boy.

Speaker 2 (04:50:21):
You know that she fuck with d boys back then, right,
you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 56 (04:50:24):
And she even was out there you know herself, you
know what I'm saying, doing doing, you know, involved in
the in the game, in the dope game right right now.
You know, she married, got a daughter. You know what
I'm saying, going to going to her daughter's uh, going
to Texas a and them she live a hole and
the and the dude she married to don't know. He

(04:50:46):
don't know none of none of that ship. You don't
know he fucking with you know what I'm saying. She's
down with the gang and she she owned the gang
and everything.

Speaker 2 (04:50:54):
He don't know that part of her.

Speaker 41 (04:50:58):
We know cause we we was all y'all.

Speaker 11 (04:51:01):
Came up together. But the dude she mad, you don't
even know. He don't he don't know her like that.
But that's not who she is now either though. Yeah,
she woman damn near she and I, uh, what's she forty?

Speaker 6 (04:51:14):
Uh?

Speaker 2 (04:51:16):
She'll be fifty this year.

Speaker 56 (04:51:19):
You know, you're talking about shit when she was you
know what I'm saying, seventeen eighteen, nineteen.

Speaker 11 (04:51:23):
Twenty twenty one. You know what I'm saying, Like shit,
more than thirty.

Speaker 2 (04:51:26):
You don't know that part of her.

Speaker 54 (04:51:28):
And there's a paradigm shit because the young ladies that's
doing their thing nowadays, they don't they don't even give
a fuck about the stigma no.

Speaker 1 (04:51:35):
More, cause I get they and I you know, I'm
still like connected that like they like, well, these niggas
gonna call you a hold any guy.

Speaker 10 (04:51:42):
Damn.

Speaker 54 (04:51:42):
Wait, no matter what the fuck you do, you know
what I mean? So and you can call me whatever
the fuck you want to call me. Uh, you're gonna
call me everything but a child of God. So just
give me that money and don't be blowing up my phone.
And when I get ready to get married, and and
like this whole thing where oh yeah, you know if
a woman thirty forty fifty, ain't nobody gonna want her?

Speaker 4 (04:52:01):
Bullshit?

Speaker 8 (04:52:04):
These women that out here getting fucking married, Yes.

Speaker 2 (04:52:07):
They tell you somebody and she from what now the
thing is on.

Speaker 56 (04:52:12):
There's a lot of you know, a lot of celebrities, man,
Folks don't know that the history on a lot of
these celebrities either.

Speaker 2 (04:52:18):
They just look at them.

Speaker 11 (04:52:19):
Now, you know she like this, you know back in
the day, boy, she was she was out there, you
know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (04:52:26):
And even and even two and two that uh like man.

Speaker 11 (04:52:32):
A lot of these folks that say been outside many
don't know, but I don't.

Speaker 56 (04:52:36):
This is what I was about to say. And I
know you hear it because I hear it all the time,
Like when I'm in these rooms like listening, you know,
depending on the room. Hey man, there's a lot of
ex prostitutes on here, and I can and I can
hear it, like they ain't all out there prostitute, you know.

Speaker 4 (04:52:58):
Let me tell you, I don't know you ever heard
that chick bunny.

Speaker 54 (04:53:01):
And I'm only I'm only I'm only saying this because
she didne said this shit openly on in rooms and shit,
the chick bunny she married now.

Speaker 1 (04:53:09):
But she was saying that we was having a conversation,
and I'm.

Speaker 54 (04:53:12):
Like, damn, I wasn't finna say it because she said
her story in the smaller room, like it was a
room smaller like this, right, and she was like, I'm.

Speaker 10 (04:53:20):
Married right now.

Speaker 1 (04:53:20):
And somebody was like, how many bodies you had? She said, yeah,
I got triple digit bodies.

Speaker 2 (04:53:26):
Bro.

Speaker 54 (04:53:26):
Do you think that them niggas up there arguing with
her saying all that shit that they'd be saying to
other women? Hell on all, I was like, this is amazing.
So now you got a woman up here that you know,
she used to shoot. I think she was a stripper
escort for like twelve years or something like that. She
was like, yeah, I got I got about one hundred bodies,
probably like one hundred and ten hundred and fifteen.

Speaker 4 (04:53:46):
Them niggas was acting like they didn't even know what
they was.

Speaker 6 (04:53:48):
Frozen bro frozen.

Speaker 2 (04:53:50):
Lot these dudes be green, man told me.

Speaker 56 (04:53:52):
And she was twenty eight at the time when she
told me this, twenty seven or twenty eight, right. She
was telling me like her and the own girl got
into it, right and all, you know whatever, they were
arguing about it. She said, she said, you know how
some my body cap came up. Now, this one was
twenty seven to twenty eight at the time, and she said,

(04:54:15):
she talking about like like I've been out there, I
only got fifty bodies. Shit yet, fifty bodies and twenty
seven twenty eight and she said it like matter of fact,
like that ain't a lot. Yeah, A lot of these dudes, man,

(04:54:40):
A lot of these dudes, man, I said all the time, man,
and on another kind of pushing it on another. And
I mean I said, it's a million times. I said,
a lot of these dudes got dick in their house.
They don't even know it. They just don't know it.
A lot of these dudes, man, fucking what was fucking
off on them right now? They don't even know it.
I'd have seen too many mad women go to not

(04:55:01):
the know they ain't out of here going And you
know a lot of these dudes be naive to that.

Speaker 25 (04:55:07):
Man, I think too.

Speaker 54 (04:55:09):
Another thing is so you know that's layer right, So
it's women out here that's that's that's doing that, and
they man don't know. And it's a lot of niggas
on the other side they feel like they getting over
because they fucking a man wife.

Speaker 1 (04:55:21):
You the whole thing is nigga, he know everything about you.

Speaker 4 (04:55:24):
You know what kind of car he drive?

Speaker 8 (04:55:26):
He oh when you drive that nigga know where you
that nigga know what you look like. The nigga know
where you work at.

Speaker 54 (04:55:31):
You know what I'm saying because him and his wife
gotta understanding that you like it, and you're silly ass
up that igga like, oh man, yeah, I'm.

Speaker 1 (04:55:36):
Getting down on this nigga.

Speaker 6 (04:55:37):
She ain't never leaving that nigga.

Speaker 4 (04:55:40):
He know everything.

Speaker 5 (04:55:42):
Dude.

Speaker 2 (04:55:42):
These dudes don't know the game. They think it go
one way. Man, it's all kind of ways.

Speaker 54 (04:55:47):
You say that all the time and they ain't know
one way about another. You say that ship all the time.

Speaker 56 (04:55:55):
Make him blind, But you can tell the folk were
talking who've been outside and.

Speaker 2 (04:55:59):
They ain't been out. But I think a lot of
it too, though.

Speaker 56 (04:56:01):
I I have to always remember, you know shit, man,
I'm been and I you know shit, man, I was,
I was off the portrait a lot of these due
before some of these folk, you know, were even born. Man,
you know what I'm saying. They I think about that too,
cause you know, I'm I'm uh. I turned fifty three
this year, and I've seen I ain't seen all of it,
but I've.

Speaker 2 (04:56:21):
Just seen a lot of it. You feel me so shit.

Speaker 56 (04:56:26):
I think a lot of it is just lack of experience, man,
lack of lack of exposure to certain shit. Cause it's
it's it's raw out here, man. It's it's people doing
all kind of shit, man and women

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