Episode 260- The Truth About Marriage 2

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Speaker 1 (01:32):
Dutch.

Speaker 2 (01:33):
What's up? What's going on in the matrix today? Dutch?

Speaker 1 (01:38):
Shit, what's going on to day? I don't know what's
going on a day necessarily, But the super Bowl happened,
you know, the super Bowl did happen. That whole ritual
was its own thing, you know, the kinnything. I ain't

(02:01):
gonna fry. I got inspired to do own your struggle,
remember my own your struggle with Uncle Sam. So, for
those who don't know, I had a design when I
first started, one of my first designs, I was ver
popular as we took Uncle Sam. The propaganda from Uncle
Sam and you know, I want you to join the

(02:22):
army from way back in the sixties and seventies. I
was like a big deal. We had took that picture
and we had reworded in put I want you to struggle,
and that was like a big hit with like it
resonated with a lot of people, you know what I'm saying,
for whatever political reason it did, which was the intentions
of it, because we know Uncle Sam, Uncle Sam wants
you to struggle. Literally, even niggas talk about losing money

(02:44):
to the government, they so Uncle Sam, Uncle Sam, you
know what I mean. So obviously I want you to struggle.
It just made sense, right, little hitters. Anyway, God inspired
to do the Samuel Jackson version, Black Uncle Sam. I
want you to struggle because after watching the super Bowl,
like I didn't watch the whole like you only watched

(03:07):
it one time, like that whole thing, we saw it
the first time, right, which was something we probably shouldn't
have to, you know, partake in watching the ritual, but
I like to watch these things for to point out
the bullshit. Right anyway, just from that glance from the
first watch, from the one watch that I had, So
if anybody out there broke it down, pretty sure there's

(03:28):
mad YouTubers that probably don't broke it down in detail,
shout out to them. This is just my little quick
one two three of what I saw right. Samuel Jackson
was giving the Django Samuel Jackson character. If y'all saw Django,
that was actually a really good watch. Jango. You know

(03:49):
the Django, Yeah, Samuel L. Jackson character. You know, he
was the nigga running the fucking slaves, you know what
I mean, the worst type of nigga, the uncle rock,
you know what I mean? Yes, But and that's why
Jamie Fox's character and his wife was like such a
glitchen it because it's, oh my god, it's a nigga

(04:09):
here that was raised on his plantation. But he done.
He's a free slave now and he's just moving a
certain type of way, you know what I mean. And
going back into Samu L. Jackson's character at the super Bowl,
it gave me jangle. Samuel L. Jackson vibs right. Something
about him acting as Uncle Sam was so genius, by

(04:29):
the way, by the matrix, by the people who control media,
that was that was that was genius. I'll give them
they you know, whoop when it's due because of what
the message was. But then I'm looking at it like
it's they really mocking us in our face. On another level,
like they mocking all conspiracy theorists, you know what I mean,
They mocked they they they're listening to everything and folks,

(04:52):
and I say listening. I want you to know how
this listening game go. It's not just one person sitting
behind a computer desk on somewhere that's listening to our conversations.
They have artificially intelligent devices implanted in all these different apps,

(05:15):
these different websites, these different things that we use right,
they easily transcribe the audio that we're using, and the
AI will come to a general collective or answer as
to what was said or was being said among all

(05:35):
people within the matrix. And how you know that's true
because look at Google. Now, niggas ain't even going past
the first page on Google. Niggas is settling for what
that AI tells them on Google because the AI is
just giving you a general answer on some shit. Go ahead.

Speaker 2 (05:57):
Another example is Amazon. So at my job, I use
this website that kind of like tracks like high ranking products,
like you know what I'm saying, gives you detail as
far as like what the net revenue is amongst sellers,
you know how many units are sold monthly. Things that
we use so we can decide like what type of

(06:19):
products we should like, you know, get into what's like
moving good, what's the trends these days? Right with this website,
they have it like you just said, where the AI
will generalize all the comments as to like what the
pros and the cons are with a particular product. So,
like you said, they have the actual technology to just summarize,

(06:41):
like Dutch said, so everything that we say and they
keeping like digital tabs on all of us. Like, Okay,
this individual, like you said, looks up this, researches this,
they talk about this. They're connected to this, right, so
they do know that, but go ahead. I just wanted
to chime in and say, like, there's a particular websites
called Jungle Scout. You know, it's called Jungle Scout, but

(07:03):
you have to have a membership and you have to pay.

Speaker 1 (07:06):
Go ahead, right, So, anyway, going back into what I
was saying, they are listening on another capacity where that
AI would get them a generic response or maybe a
real response from chat GBT type dialogue detail to just

(07:28):
a regular AI response on Google to the answer to
something simple. Right, they're mocking us in our face. They're
mocking they're making fun of us on another level, and
they're flexing their capability to do it all the time
on another level. And outside of you know, the mockery,
like you said, you got the Samuel L. Jackson playing

(07:49):
Uncle Sam. You got uh Ken Drake with the you
know the wild you know he took his time out
to do all this performing and whatever got the tryang,
you got the circles saw us off with the x's
and the o's the black and white symbolism with these
guys jumping out of a car for the first lie
thirty seconds or whatever. Then you know, Sissa wearing an

(08:13):
all red suit because you know how it is when
they're wearing that all red, she's the next little witchy whatever,
you know what I'm saying. Yeah, but she's it's her
chance for her for it right now. And then the red,
white and blue symbolism for America. That's why you had
the Eagle bird versus the Red Chiefs and what everything like.
It was an easy see that it was easy to

(08:34):
see that the Eagles was going to win just due
to the outside of the extra promotion that was going on.
They had certain characters and this on the media matrix
no pretty much promoting that the Eagles was going to win.
You know, they was hanging the Eagles banner from like
Capitol Hill and shit, like I never seen them do
certain things this year, but it was clearly showing their
support for the Eagles. Eagles before the Super Bowl. But

(09:00):
it's going in. You know, the egle is also the uh,
you know, symbol of the American bird, you know, symbol
of you know whatever, freedom and shit. It's like the
Eagle is a big deal. The ball ego to Lamb,
I'm playing though all that symbolism and theatrics, the whole ritual.

(09:22):
They are just blatantly again just telling us what's going on.
They're playing in our faces, they're listening to what we're saying,
and they're doing exactly what we're asking them to do
for quote unquote distraction and entertainment purposes.

Speaker 2 (09:40):
To me, it symbolize the collapse. Like I said earlier,
you know we did twenty twenty five, the year the collapse.
They had the game over that was significant towards the
end of the performance, not towards Drake. It was just
like the whole America theme. Like Dars said, it's like
game over, right, this shit is going to collapse this year.
And other YouTubers even went into details for certain like

(10:04):
I guess scenes were like actual like Tarort Carr depictions.

Speaker 1 (10:09):
And I'm glad you brought that up, right, I got
Terrort Carr, you got Terror Carr shit. They also had
like the a the minor thing they're blatantly showing us
and telling us that they are definitely child trafficking, all
of them. They're all in the same group doing it.
They had a minor flags, Yes they had they like

(10:32):
like like you took your time off, Like think about it, folks,
like for promotional purposes. I said to myself that I'm
gonna make a design with a minor on it to
joke on this nigga allegedly, uh, you know, fucking with
miners and make a flag out of it. I ain't
never see. And why is that? Why is the minor

(10:54):
part the highlighted part of the song? You know what
I mean? It's deeper than the double ot triple entandre
of a minor being the music note and him saying
he's fucking with a minor. The whole world like it
is dick rodding this part of the song. And I
think it is a very strange moment in music and

(11:17):
hip hop. And it's a different type of ultra u
MK ultra micratral ritual that's being displaced here. And they're
using you know that this is the this is what
they're doing. They're using these catapults, these juggernauts, these warlocks,
these these these these dragons, you know, I mean of rappers,

(11:38):
you know, little demons, Kendrick and Drake as the forefront
to push this new like desensitized, weird narrative of like
fucking with minors.

Speaker 2 (11:51):
Well, also, he had the A necklace which was the Amazon.

Speaker 1 (11:55):
No No No. As I found out that wasn't.

Speaker 2 (11:57):
That's the Amazon logo. I don't care what the is
it double on, Candra. Things can have dual meeting.

Speaker 1 (12:02):
And that's what I felt. That's how I felt.

Speaker 2 (12:05):
Anybody trying to dismiss.

Speaker 1 (12:06):
They were saying, oh, the A was really the A
minor thing, and I'm just like, I think it's the
Amazon logo. And I think they're telling us that Amazon
paid for this ship, and why wouldn't wow? And I'm like,
the secondly, why wouldn't it not be the Amazon logo?
Because Amazon was the one who first aired that whole
little West Coast concert that he had when he first

(12:27):
had the song. These companies make iced out chains and
put it on rappers for promotional purposes. If I'm Jeff
Bezos W and I got billions of dollars, I wouldn't
give them an iced out Amazon logo change. I might
not like this shit because you know what I'm saying,
but that nothing could have this ship and promote my
shit off fucking day. But anyway, the fact of the
matter is they're putting the spell out there all crazy

(12:50):
and the whole world is at a weird time right now.
Will come on to that one, little wolf.

Speaker 2 (12:56):
I would also say that the Super Bowl had symbolism
of the Netflix show with the Koreans. What's the fuck
that one? Yes, because again x's and o's XS and
o's ain't no PlayStation ship. It's not no controller like
oh the sticks. No, it's telling you that they are playing.
It's the elite. This is the elite's game.

Speaker 1 (13:17):
The niggas think that was some PlayStation ship.

Speaker 2 (13:19):
I don't know. I'm just saying I thought, no, some
people are thinking like the games. No, it's literally the
reason why the squid game characters, like the people that
make the you know, the contestants, do all these gruesome
games that might end up in their death. It's like
the elite. They are the controllers, get it, the controllers.

(13:42):
So that's what it is. Somebody can probably go into
more detail, but don't think as simple as to you know, oh,
it's some PlayStation Yeah, some you know, it's a game
game symbolism or whatever, because I know, like with the
football when they their place. They use ex'es and o's
and shit like that. So, yeah, you're right, it's crazy.

(14:08):
They always want to chant a minor, like everybody wants
to keep chanting that it's a chance. It's literally a chant.
And we all know that they do the pedophilia and
the sex trafficking of children, so it just makes it
even more diabolical. It's the same thing, like people want
to play in people's faces. Oh, you know, it was
just Diddy. Don't try to involve jay Z. Don't try

(14:31):
to involve Beyonce, don't try to involve Kendrick Lamar. No,
it's just Drake. Drake is the one that's suspicious. Him
and his camp. They're all doing the same shit. They're
all being controlled by the controllers, the exes, the o's
niggas who are set in the place. It's the world stage.
And I hate the simple minded black people because you

(14:52):
have a whole bunch of coon kuh Kintay niggas on
social media talking about, Oh the black people who didn't
like this before, they just not woke. They just don't
understand he like put on such an amazing performance representing us,
Like y'all y'all. I can't. It's just so frustrating. Y'all
are so fucking slow. Oh my gosh. It's the same

(15:15):
people that want to make excuses for beyond st jay
Z talking about oh because I guess jay Z he's
beating that case because you know, they want to say
that the girl lied or whatever. It looked sketchy. They're like,
I knew he didn't do it. Y'all just want to
keep pulling everybody into diddy shit. They all do the
same fucking thing. A lot of y'all deserve to be destroyed.

(15:38):
I'm gonna be honest. I'm not even trying to be heartless.
Y'all just so fucking retarded. Y'all are fucking retarded. Ugh,
make my skin crawl with some of the shit that
I'll be reading on social media. Y'all just didn't get it.
He's doing this for the black people. Shut the fuck up. Anyways,
Outside of the Super Bowl, did you have anything else? Nah?

Speaker 1 (16:05):
Not really. I mean, you know, like I said, social
media got people cooked. I got like another side conversation
about social media having people cooked. You know, I think
that we spoke about it before in the past, but
the illusion not the illusion but the perception of what
success is and that really is going to depend on

(16:29):
what you consider success. But the perception of success with
people it's really uh jaded through social media. It's really
it's really a fuck up time, you know for people
who actually did try on coming around to creating things
in their lifetime or you know, putting a lot of

(16:51):
money into doing things for people or just doing things
in general and maybe never never quote unquote god their
big break, you know what I mean. And when I
say big break, that's really just going to depend on
how people look at what a big break is business wise.
I guess people will feel like a big break is when, oh,

(17:12):
you know, you made a product and a lot of
people bought into it, and you sold a lot of
that product, you digit thing it, maybe you have a
bunch of other products that keeps you steady and the flowing.
Now you just constantly make products and people's always buying it,
that's your big break where you know, it doesn't matter
what you make, people want to buy it. Right But
in this field at least when me will come on

(17:33):
to clothing, you know, I understand that clothing is something
that it's not a necessity. I mean, it's a necessity,
but it's not a necessity. You know. It's more of
a luxury to have something that's good quality that costs
a lot of money, you know what I mean. Clothing
to me matters but don't matter at the same time

(17:55):
on a reality aspect, because people have tons of clothes
for the most part, you're go anywhere and getsople clothing,
you know what I mean. But again, like I said,
the perception of success when it comes to social media
is just jaded. People will feel like you didn't If
you started something and you didn't, it didn't go as

(18:18):
far as the next person thought it would go. They
try to say it failed or you know, it didn't work.
But on the back end, you know how much time
and effort you don't put in to something and how
far it has gotten you throughout your own life because
of whatever it is that you donet created. Let's say

(18:39):
you're just a person who draws things. You never got
your big break to have your piece of art in
a you know, art gallery and sell it for thousands
of dollars. But because you drew things, it catch you
out of trouble and it brought you all types of
opportunities to work for different companies and do different types
of things, even though you never got that opportunity to
make a piece of art of your own that for

(19:00):
thousands of dollars, because that was like your goal in life,
you know what I mean. So you know, they say
it comes to me with some going back into with
the clothing brand, my definition of success is different from others.
I feel like my clothing brand was very successful for
somebody who didn't have a lot but had a decent
ability to make things happen. I probably had some bumps

(19:22):
in the road. Are probably certain things I could have
did differently. Of course, it's always something you could have
done differently, So it's a route you could have gone.
You know what I'm saying. There's always something there that
you could think back on, like, damn, I should have
did this instead of doing that. But I've done done
so much shit that the average person literally cannot say
they done you know. So it's like they said, sure
people could say they had a person do certain things

(19:44):
for them, but it's like the story that I have.
It's like the average person can't say that that's how
they shit went, you know what I mean? And it's
still going to continue, the brand is still going to
continue to go and grow. I don't think we should
we should continue to put a Tomson samp on what
success is or how long it should take you to

(20:05):
become quote unquote successful. There's people who've been in real
estate for thirty years and probably just just got to
like a quote unquote rich point in their life, you
know what I mean. But they had to du this
ship for thirty years and go through all kinds of
trials and ship relations to get to this point where
they're finally making six figures, you know what I mean?
Does that mean that they wasn't successful? It took them
thirty years to get there, you know? So I think

(20:30):
I think my rant was pretty much like just so
against social media having people cooked in regards to what
against success is defined as, I know, people who purchased
like when I was like doing like before way back
when I said, like twenty fourteen twenty fifteen, dudes was
copping followers left and right. Y'all. Remember when Instagram had

(20:51):
that point where if you was a person who had
a bunch of faith followers, just washing your followers away,
you assuming people who had ten fifteen k dropped down
like seven six k followers, right because instagrams wiping those
followers away. But it was fucked up because it was
ready too late. Those people's those people who was able
to fake it till they make it and put that
perception of quote unquote success because at the time, having

(21:14):
a lot of followers quote unquote was successful. You know
what I mean, it's.

Speaker 2 (21:17):
Still saying, it's still the same, nothing has changed. People
will quit like having a whole bunch of followers or
things like that as success.

Speaker 1 (21:26):
That's this level of as a level of success. Right,
And then, like I said, the game is fucked up
because it's like damn those people who again, who's out
there who really put into work to dirt the grime.
You know, they may not have accumulated a lot of followers,
but they cumulate a lot of sales, a lot of connections,
a lot of help in their life, a lot of
certain other things in their life that those things will
never be quote unquote you know, put out there on

(21:48):
social media. But these other people who are faking it
are gaining all these extra little whoops that they didn't
really do much for it. And I'm not mad, but
it's like it's it's a cat And I feel like, again,
people's perception gotta change on how they're doing success.

Speaker 2 (22:07):
Yeah, we's in an entire episode dedicating this breaking down
like success as far as like even like what is
successful with like living a life according to y'all versus
how satans people would like deem success And I feel
like it goes along the lines of what you're saying.
And that's episode two thirty six, by the way, if
you guys are interested, it's a mind versus matter show.

(22:29):
But yeah, I mean, the thing is that a lot
of people who you look at are successful and it's
not hating things. They did a lot of evil shit
to get to where they are and the algorithm works
for them because they're evil. Like I'm not even trying
to be funny, Like they really do rituals where they
pray over products, all kinds of products, hair products, you know,

(22:51):
beauty products, medicine, like you know what I'm saying, like
FDA shit, Like it's it's literally Satan's kingdom. So if
you're not doing the rituals, if you're not selling out,
you could you could be successful and comfortable. Like the
most high will take care of you, but you're not
gonna be to what. I guess the world looks at

(23:13):
success like rich or famous, like for instance, with the
Kai see that and you know, I'm not gonna be diddy.
But like I always bring up Kai because I think
he is kind of pathetic, like because I seen the
transition from when he was just you know, starting out
to like how far DP is in with all these
celebrities in the industry. So people are gonna look at

(23:35):
Kai and be like, oh, he's such a great personality, Like, oh,
he's so successful. He does so much evil shit that
he is like consistently spewing to the children on a
day to day basis with his streams bringing all kinds
of porn stars doing all prison types. It shows, you
know what I'm saying, Like it is what it is.
People will say, oh, you're a hater, or you're broke
or X Y and Z, but no, it's it's just

(23:57):
really the truth. You know. Even with our podcast we're
doing it for a few years, we was able to
manage to get over one hundred thousand downloads. But you
know there's people who got millions and downloads, people who
get a hundred thousand dollars in a month and that's
like consistently, so you know, success is gonna be different
towards everybody. But yeah, anything else are you going to

(24:21):
get straight into the episode even though we're already in
the episode. So this is episode two sixty and the
title of this show is called The Truth about Marriage Too.
So we have an episode called The Truth about Marriage
which is episode one twenty six, and we kind of
just discuss, you know, the differences between the actual spiritual

(24:47):
covenant versus like this legal covenant. And in this episode,
I want to focus on the hypocrisy on the world.
And I feel like social media ties to this too
as well Dutch as far as how people like view
marriage and how much the certificate in the license is

(25:07):
placed or such high elevation. When these quote unquote Christians, right,
they don't really know the truth about scriptures and a
lot of people are doing shit outside of the laws
of the most High, whether you're in a fucking homosexual
relationship or whether you're into an interracial one. Because we're
gonna talk about it all right, because people be like, oh,

(25:28):
you know, they say certain things and it's like, you
really don't even know the Bible that you want to
say here and quote you know what I'm saying. So
you know, the first episode we focus more so on
breaking down the differences between civil you know, marriages, religious marriages,
common law marriages. We're not gonna do that. I want

(25:49):
to focus more so on what it is actually stating
in scripture because even you'll have like different Israelites teach
different things, but for the most part, a lot of
Israelites we'll teach the same thing as far as you
don't need to get a government sanction like marriage licensed
certificate or have a government sanctioned wedding like how people

(26:13):
are doing in modern times. So I wanted to focus
on that, and then even just talk about even with
the polygamy and how you know, people you know might
practice that or talk about it, but how there's a
lot of drama regarding that. And we even have proof,
you know, in the scripture. So just to kind of
like start it off, right, that's marriage, So according to

(26:41):
scripture as far as the process for marriage, just in
case anybody wants to know, because if they feel like
they have to get pressured into getting a government piece
of paper, right, and I'll reiterate why people shouldn't go
that direction. But we're gonna focus here on the actual

(27:03):
just biblical steps. The first step, right, a man has
to go to a father and he has to ask
that father, I'm interested in your daughter. I want her
as my wife. Right, So comparing it to modern times,
people are gonna be like, oh, you know the same

(27:24):
thing as if a man asks, you know, the hand
in marriage. I mean, yeah, technically it is, but let's
continue going, right, because the father, he is the guardian
of his daughter's virginity. See, back in the ancient days,
it wasn't like bitches today just running around, you know,

(27:45):
hopping from dick to dick things like that. It wasn't
like that. Like the father, if he was there, or
if the older brother, uncle, whoever, the somebody, the man
of the family. Even if the father wasn't around, he
protected you know, the daughters. It didn't matter how old
they were, like that was the tradition. So then the

(28:06):
second thing, right, that father has to give consent for
that man to marry his daughter, and in some cases
a dowry might be required, so that's like a fee. Like, oh,
we'll break down certain instances when it comes to like
Jacob having to work for Rachel even though he was

(28:26):
tricked into getting Leah first. Things like that. So it's
like an offer of a marriage, right, maybe some money,
whatever type of things are involved, the dowry whatever, right,
But still a marriage could not take place if the
woman wasn't interested. So it ain't just like oh, daddy

(28:48):
and this guy you know arranges this shit like she
ain't fucking with it. It's still not gonna happen. Secondly
after that, right, so you have a man he's interested
in Shorty, Right, he can go to shortiest daddy. Daddy said, Okay,
you seem like you a fitting young man for my daughter,

(29:09):
for my baby girl. Right, you can have her. This
is the terms. These are the terms. Right, they make
a covenant like, okay, I'm going to have you know
his daughter now. Consummation, which is the act of sex,
that is the completion of marriage. Marriage is not complete

(29:35):
unless sexual intercourse is involved, even if we compare it
to modern times. Right, one of the ways that you
can get a marriage and all the quick is if
you state that you didn't even have sex with the person.
So why does that matter? It matters because people run
around thinking that a fucking government, an evil government, right

(29:59):
piece of pay means that they're married. That is not
the case at all. And you have like all kinds
of religious people, even Israeliites, some Israelites that might even
teach against the saying no, that doesn't make any sense,
nigga read just scriptures. Just like how I'm reading my scriptures.

(30:19):
There's nowhere in the Bible that says go to the
government court, right, do x y and Z fill this
shit out. Marriage was between the family. It was like
a custom like it was. It was determined by the family,
not no damn government or not even the priests. They

(30:41):
don't even talk about going to the livitical priests, none
of that shit. It was literally like, okay, I'm interested
in your daughter, the daughter and the I mean the husband,
the husband to be and the father. They make an
arrangement and then the daughter still has to agree to that.
Where do where are we get and oh they had

(31:01):
to go to like a plytical priests and they had
to fill this out, and then they had to go
to the governors of the land and da da da
da da. That's like for example, right that mm hm,
that's like oh if people when we was in captivity
in Babylon, right with Nimrod. Oh, we gotta go to Nimrod,
this evil fucker that got us in captivity, right to

(31:23):
get fucking married. Like there's nowhere in scripture that says that.
Yet everybody keeps talking about the government being involved, and
it's like they just pull it out of the ass
because you know, we're all indoctrinated with a certain way.
And then even when it comes to the whole festivities
of weddings, right with the black and white duality, pagan

(31:48):
with the rings, all these different ceremonies, it's ritualistic and
it has nothing to do with our history as far
as black people Hebrews. So it's interesting how it was
so so media even playing a part. When women will
say certain things, everybody wants to like look at things differently,
even the most high in scripture, right when he told

(32:10):
that the Samaritan women, oh, go and get your husband,
and she was like, I don't have a husband. He
was like, you're right, you don't have a husband, for
you have five husbands. You don't got one husband, you
got five husbands. You know what that means? She fucked
five niggas. That's exactly what it means, all right, and
you can find that in John chapter four, verses thirteen

(32:33):
through eighteen. So sex constitutes marriage. So everybody, if you
have multiple sex partners, you were married multiple times under
the most highs eyes. You have to ask y'all to
break those covenants that you made, right to break those
soul ties. People don't seem to believe in soul ties.

(32:59):
And this shit works for men and women. Let's start
giving examples that of how real the soul ties are.
You'll have like, say, for instance, a man, say, you know,
he may have messed with shorty couple of times, but
that ain't really his main thing. Like, that's just like
a little size shit, right as soon as the side

(33:21):
shit is off him, not on his shit no more,
and going and messing with somebody else. How many nine
times at a ten a nigga getting jealous, getting possessive.

Speaker 1 (33:32):
All the time. Why is that?

Speaker 2 (33:35):
I thought he didn't like the bitch. It's because of
the soul tie. Same thing. Here's another example. Say a woman, right,
I don't know, she could be in an abusive relationship.
She can't. She cannot let that nigga go, right, she
cannot let that nigga go. People will say, oh, Stockholm syndrome,

(33:56):
but that that plays a part, right, But it also
plays up part as far as the soul connection. As
soul tie, you're spiritually bound to one another, so it's
hard to separate. It's like a knitting together. That's why
the most high what is the two become one? It's
two become one when you have sexual intercourse. It's like

(34:17):
a it's like the spirits like they intertwine with each other.
So it'd be like it'd be that's why I'd be
so hard for people to leave. People be like, well,
why you leave, Why you ain't leave this person, why
you ain't doing this person? Or why do you accept that?
What do you mean? They are sexually involved with each other,
they have a spiritual tie, they have a covenant of marriage,

(34:39):
even though they didn't go the way of like okay,
the man asking the daddy and things like that. Right,
and then even when it comes to the word fornication,
because you know, Christianity loves to throw that around again,
fornication that's like a new term all right, and actually

(35:00):
means prostitution idolatry. So fornication is outside of just sex.
It's like, oh, you could be fornicating by you know,
worshiping idols, worshiping money, things like that. That's fornication. So
and it also can you know, break down in the
Greek word of parnia. So it's just like sexual immorality.

(35:21):
We're just doing all kinds of crazy shit, incests, fucking animals.
That's like, all these things are foreignication, not sex before marriage.
But yet Christianity teaches it sex before marriage. They should
have been teaching it sex is marriage. And I think
that if they would have taught it the right way,
I think a lot more people would have been more
what's the word cautious on who they lay with. So

(35:49):
going back right, as far as the steps, just to reiterate,
man has to go after daddy, Daddy has to sent
for the man. Right, they make the covenant, they make
the arrangement, whether it's some payments, whatever, the bride has
to accept, and then consummation happens. That's the completion of

(36:13):
the marriage, bisexual intercourse. After after that whole process, I
just told y'all, right, no matter how long it takes,
it looks different for everybody because remember it's about the families,
determining what the terms are, not the government or the
rulers of the land back in the day. So then
after they would have a feast or celebration after the consummation,

(36:37):
not oh, we're gonna have this whole luxurious pagan wedding
that costs fifty thousand dollars and be fucking divorced two
years later and in debt, you know what I'm saying. Like,
it wasn't like, oh, we're going to have this crazy
arrangement and celebrate. No, it actually happened after the intercourse,

(36:59):
after the man took the woman into his quarters, the bedchambers, whatever,
the tent. We're up and back in the days after that,
then there was like a fez of celebration, like, Okay,
y'all are official. Now it's official because he laid with
that woman. Not oh, it's official because they went to
the political priests or they went to fucking the like

(37:20):
they're in babylons and nimrods, governors and whatever signed some paperwork.
Now it's official. That's not the case at all. You know.
It cringes me, like Christians just cringe me, you know,
I don't know. Anyways, on top of that, marriage wasn't
just about like romance. It's about maintaining the tribal name,

(37:43):
the land associated with the name. That's why it's like,
daughter's supposed to marry, you know, a man of your
father's tribe. It was we're tribal where this is black
people right, even Africa. This is still going on today
when it comes to these things, when it comes to
the dowry and the tribal and keeping everything within the bloodlines.

(38:04):
And we're gonna talk about insirationial. I know that cringes
a lot of people. They butt holes get tight when
we talk about that shit. But I don't care. But anyways,
just to take a break because I know I've been
chatting dush. What's your thoughts on how people view like
marriage today.

Speaker 1 (38:23):
I feel like people I don't know. I feel like people,
at least in our age group. I think they take
marriage a little more serious. But I do feel like
they approach it more in a beneficial business aspect some
of us, at least I speak for at least I'm
gonna speak for my friends. But for my few friends

(38:43):
I know that are married, I know.

Speaker 2 (38:45):
That they you're saying married as far as paper.

Speaker 1 (38:50):
Yeah, on paper, Okay, you know, like they're on paper married.
You know, they they take their relationship serious and everything.
You know, they love they love they wives and everything.
But I know that it's I could tell that some
of it is more financially beneficial for both parties. That's
so why they did what they did, you know what

(39:11):
I mean.

Speaker 2 (39:12):
They say that now until something something.

Speaker 1 (39:16):
And you know things have happened already, but where they
showed strength within both sides and you know, the marriage
stay together, where they let, you know, a job falling off,
you know, stop something from happening, or whatever the case
might be. You know. But for the most part, though,
you know, it seems like it's to me, like I said,
it's like a it's like quarters. Ex fact, it was

(39:36):
like it was like four subjects of marriage financial, love, responsibility,
and I'm trying to think of just another like fourth
one there. That's how I look at it, Like twenty
five percent each, and it's either you got all four
quarters in the machine or just three, you know what
I mean. Yeah, But now in REGARDSS of marriage, on

(39:59):
another level, you're saying, what these people just sleeping with
a bunch of people, Is that what you wanted? Me
to talk about like how I view that.

Speaker 2 (40:07):
Well as far as like, well, there's a difference because
like like even you saying, oh, my friends who are married,
but y'all are, It's just they're not. Maybe some of
them are not with the their their last partner that
they slept with. You get what I'm saying, Like, maybe
they're not in a committed relationship with the last person
they slept with, but technically they all are married because

(40:32):
they all had sex with somebody or multiple people. Right,
So that's what I'm saying, Like we'll we'll just acknowledge
it as far as like committed relationships. Let's just do
that because some people, uh, they're they're real sensitive about it.
Like again, see like you even separating it. It's as

(40:53):
far as oh the government say, so that's not separated.

Speaker 1 (40:58):
I'm talking about that aspect. Okay, Yeah, that's why I
asked you if you wanted me to speak about the
other aspect.

Speaker 2 (41:05):
Well, yeah, I speak about both aspects.

Speaker 1 (41:08):
Niggas is freaky frogs and if people don't realize that
every person that you sleep with you're married. But it's
funny because there's people who are who are knowledgeable of
what we're saying, and they'll joke with it, saying, what, oh,
we fuck we married? You know what I mean? So

(41:31):
nonchalantly I just said it. That could be a nigga
running game on a chick, right, just like girl, you're
already talking to Ready, Like, let's say you got her number,
you want, have been flirting for a couple of days.
Now y'all get into a spicy part, Oh we fuck
we married. You knew that consciously, you meant that, you
know what I mean?

Speaker 2 (41:49):
Yeah, but she's.

Speaker 1 (41:50):
Taking it like, oh, you know, ye're both just taking
it like, oh but endeavoring over ya. Ty. It's like,
oh no, that asks and maybe I might get together
and really not try to take it serious. But in
all reality, that's what happened.

Speaker 2 (42:02):
I think it's utterly disgusting that you'll have people right
like I was watching an episode of Hoarders, and you
had these people who've been together thirty forty years, child
and everything, right, they just never went to the government,
and you can't you It discussed me that the world
can't even give that woman or that man that honor

(42:22):
to say that's their husband, that's their wife because they
didn't go to the daddy government to get the paper.
That doesn't make any sense. And I'll towards the end
I'll get into why the government forces people to do
it their way. I'll say that to last, and we
really covered it in the first episode, but I'll reiterate
it towards the end. But you get what I'm saying

(42:43):
that she's like the niggas been together thirty forty years.
You have people who went and got the paper and
they fucking end up divorcing a year or two later,
and they can get the title of a wife according
to the worldly standards, right, But the person that's been
with their partner for thirty forty years have a child,
they got, they shit together, everything intertwined and we know

(43:06):
what it is spiritually and biblically, but the world won't
acknowledge that woman as his wife. I think that's disgusting,
Like even for horders to not even get that lady
the proper title. I think that's gross. How are you
gonna be with somebody for fucking thirty forty years just
because they didn't go to the government, whatever reason they
chose not to do that, right, they could be up

(43:28):
on game. And then sometimes it has to do with
protecting each other's assets. Like here's an example, a worldly example,
Asap Rocky and Rihanna. We all know they're evil, they
all say all Satan dick Sevigers. They all sold. They sold, right,
let's get that out the way. But surface level, Rihanna

(43:51):
is worth a billion dollars Asap. He ain't got that
type of money she got. They have two children together, Rihanna.
Fuck you know, I can't even It's so hard to
just try to keep it surface up with the industry people,
because you know they do they fucking wild parties. They
didn'y freak alls. They all fucking each other anyway, right,
so it's all in swing. It's just a whole nasty

(44:12):
sexual immorality mess. We're just gonna keep it in a
in a world where oh, you know this is her
her partner, right, well, it is her partner, you know
what I'm saying, Like she ain't involved in no other
kind of weird shit that they're together, they're married, but
social media wants to play the game like, oh, they're
just boyfriend and girlfriend. Right, he's going through court issues

(44:35):
right now.

Speaker 1 (44:36):
Mm hmm.

Speaker 2 (44:37):
It's actually fucking smart that they didn't go and get
nothing in our paper because this nigga get hemmed up,
which it looks like he's going to and if saved,
there's any type of fees or if he's getting sued
or I don't know what the court. I don't give
a fuck because I'm not following it. I just know
that he's in and out of court. I know we
mentioned it briefs, but I don't know what it is
again either way, right H, if they were on paper married,

(45:03):
they will be able to come after her assets HM
for whatever the fuck he did, and she has a
billion dollars, you get what I'm saying, or vice versus.
There's women that are that are stuck paying another woman's
child support their man's child support because they are on

(45:24):
paper marriage. Now that's dues are real facts, right like
it is. If they can't say if they can't go
after the husband or they can't like Garnish it is
nothing from his check, they're going to tap into the
white's check, which is fucked up because she's like she
ain't got nothing to do with that. But because of
how the government sets up things, you know what I'm saying,

(45:48):
Like that's how they have even beyond this because it's
not just marriage. It's all the certificates that we have,
social Security numbers, per certificates, all of that shit. It's
not just the marriage certificates. We're just focusing on that.
They're all fucked up, right, and people know that, you know,
all of our certificates and social Security or social Security
is a routing number. It's just all tied to the

(46:08):
damn stock right, right. But even when it comes to
that paternity court Dutch, how many times because a man
signed that damn birth certificate, the DNA comes back that's
not even his child, right, and he has to go
through hoops and hurls with the fucking government to try

(46:30):
to even get money back that he was paying for
fifteen fucking years because a bitch told him that was
his baby. And then I'm trying to understand. Do you
know any cases where a man actually was able to
get his money back. Not really, I've never heard of it.
It's like they had to pay, you know, even even

(46:52):
if say it wasn't that many years and they just
found out, But because they signed that birth certificate, it's
gonna take it's such a long process for him to
get that name off that birth certificate and for him
to stop paying child support. And even if he does
find out like he does a DNA test, oh this
baby is not mine. It ain't gonna be just like, oh,

(47:14):
magically we're gonna stop taking you know you, magically you
can stop paying child support. No. So this, this is
an example of how the government does all these little evil,
wicked gangs with their pieces of paper. Because if y'all
can't see the connection with a nigga signed his name
on a birth certificate and that child's not even his
and he's responsible for the child, why y'all not understanding

(47:36):
the connection I'm trying to make with these marriage certificates,
you know what I'm saying, right, So, just an example
of like the stages that broke down as far as
like a man, you know, going to a father, we
can look at Jacob. So originally, right Jacob, he had
to go to Laban, which is the father of Leah

(47:58):
and Rachel, and he wanted Rachel. First of all. I
want to talk about too, like the different hierarchies when
it comes to multiple wives and polygamy and shit like that,
but we'll get into that. So he wanted Rachel and Lavin.
He said, Okay, you can have Rachel, but before you
marry Rachel, right, you gotta work seven years for me,
so everybody should know the story. Blah blah blah. He

(48:21):
worked the seven years. When it comes to the night
when he's supposed to have sex, right to make it official,
he gets tricked into getting the older sister because he
really wanted to. The father really wanted to give away
the older sister because he's like, it's better to give
away my older sister than the younger, Like it looks crazy,
I'm getting with my my younger or with my older.

(48:41):
So she And it's kind of funny because I was
like reading this with my mom the other day and
we was like, how the hell did he get tricked?
It must have been real dark in that room, just
like I know sometimes they be covering their faces and
stuff like that. I don't maybe she had a veil on,
but it's just like, how fuck you get tricked? You
know what I'm saying. And in the way the scriptures

(49:02):
describe Leah like they they to him, at least she
wasn't fucking cute, So I don't know. Maybe they like
the same stature, right, maybe similar body types. I don't know,
but for him to get tricked I think that shit
is interesting. Either way, he actually ends up sleeping with her, right,
so then he ends up actually getting Leah as his

(49:26):
wife because he slept with her and he didn't even
want Leah. So then he got stuck working for Laban
another seven years to get Rachel. So he had to
work a total of fourteen years for two wives and
he didn't even want the He didn't even want Leah.
And then the scriptures talk about how there was like
a celebration for like a week. I think they did

(49:48):
like a seven day celebration after the fact after like
he slept with Lea or whatever. So that's just one example.
Also some more examples as far as says constitute in
marriage or consummation equals marriage, is like every time in
scripture they always talk about go unto her, go in

(50:13):
unto her right. This is like the language that's being
used or give to wife, then go into her things
like that that means have sex with her. So for example,
with Abraham and Sarah, when Sarah was barren at the time,
she may she maye Abram go unto Hagar, her handmaid
to bear a child because back in those days, I

(50:34):
don't know, some weirdship, but you know, back in those days,
if the woman felt like she couldn't have a child,
she'd be like, Okay, sleep with my handmaid. That would
be technically kind of like our child, even though I
ain't got no relations to her at all. Right, So
the language was always you know, oh, I'm gonna give
Hagar to my husband to be his wife. Go in

(50:55):
unto her that sex right there. Rachel and Lee, Yeah,
Rachel and Leah. They was going back and forth like
they was beefing. And I'm talking about the beefs too,
like they was really beefing because they had to share
a husband. Y'all think this polygamy shit is just all
kumbaya shit. Actually, even with Abraham and Sarah, she wasn't

(51:16):
fucking with Hagar afterwards, right, he actually had Hagar actually
had to leave with her child. Packed the shit up
because there's a hierarchy when it comes to the whites
and the concubines. Even though the concubines are wives too,
they're just lower level. So y'all be acting like, oh,
it's all peachy and cream and like women don't have
feelings that are not jealous when you see it in
the scriptures that these women were jealous. So either way,

(51:39):
with Rachel and Leah, they was going back and forth
because they was jealous of each other and one was
having shell Leah was having a lot of his kids,
and Rachel was barren for a while. So then Rachel,
you know, makes Jacob's sleep with her handmaids, take her
as a wife, go in unto her again, that language,
go in unto her, that sex, the and you know,

(52:02):
then he ends up having that one as a wife.
And then Leah does the same thing with her hand
made So that's where you get the four wives of Jacob.
But there's a hierarchy when it comes to even that
when it comes to the wives. Another example, too, is
the story of Tobit in the Apocrypha, And it's funny

(52:23):
because people try to break this shit down to and
they don't even do the whole scriptures. It's just like
people want to cherry pick this topic for some reason.
But either way, even with Tobit, right, I ain't gonna
go through the whole backstory of that, y'all supposed to
read read read read, I'm just gonna focus on chapter

(52:44):
seven and eight. So Tobias he ends up marrying Sarah.
Sarah she was having this issue where every time a
man actually slept with her, they died. So I forgot
the backstory as far as him going to marry her next,
which is actually lay with her right, But he ends

(53:04):
up marrying Sarah. And what he had to do is
he had to go into her bedchamber and they were
all nervous to see, you know, was he gonna die
next too? But he had an angel with him, and
his angel told him, you know, what to do as
far as to get rid of all the demons and
the evil spirits that's causing this this act to happen.
So either way, the next day, after they had sex

(53:26):
and the family everybody realized that he was still alive.
They were all happy, like her father was praising Yah,
and then they made a wedding feast. The wedding feast
happened after he had sex with his daughter, And no
one sounds weird how I'm saying it, but it's just
what it is. This is just another example of the consummation.
And when it came to Sarah, she had seven husbands,

(53:49):
like seven men, and it goes back to even like
I told you with the Messiah when he was talking
to the Samaritan women talking about go get your husband. Now,
I ain't got a husband. Yeah, you have five husbands.
But everybody want to ignore these scriptures Christians mainly and
even some Hebrews or whatever like and pretend like you
gotta go to Daddy government to be considered married. And

(54:09):
it's like, who are you following? You following y'all? Are
you following the government? The evil government. People gotta decide
who they following. You can't serve two masters, right that.
So it's just like people want to pick and choose
that shit. So one thing too when it comes to

(54:31):
like polygamy, Uh, that's lawful, but I feel like it
shit is messy. And I feel like it worked at
a certain time when it came to growing the nation,
but I feel like in these day and age and
even back then, it just was a messy situation. Because
Jacob I said it before in Countless Shows, he really

(54:52):
loved Rachel, he didn't want Leah, and then when it
came to the Handmaids, it was just a mental game
that le and Rachel were playing with one another, like oh, Oh,
I'm gonna give him my handmade so that they can
he can have more children with her and pretend it's
my kids and X, Y and Z. You know what
I'm saying. So it's really kind of like the main

(55:15):
wife and then like three side side sidelines. It's that
is that wrong to say? Like, but as a man, right,
just why don't you express as far as how it
is in your mind? Because men, I feel like naturally
have done this. You know the joke, Oh this is
my main chick, all these are my side chicks. This

(55:36):
is really this is really a thing that men have done.

Speaker 1 (55:38):
Yeah, So, like what would.

Speaker 2 (55:41):
You be your perspective? Do you feel like a man
could genuinely love multiple women or there's always just gonna
be that one that's always above the others.

Speaker 1 (55:51):
I feel like with most niggas is always it's always
going to be one. Niggas just be saying that they
want a bunch. I mean, I feel like thiggas are
able to not love more than women. Sure you have
love for multiple women. I feel like, you know, have
love for them, try them nice, to do things for them.
That's not the same as actually being but there's always
gonna be one that you're willing to crash out over

(56:13):
like you were in love with it. And the granted
this niggas to a possessive over multiple women. But that's
just all the that's that spiritual connection and ship, you
know what I mean that they can't help. That's that
pool throughout, like that's the one now. But you know they,
like you said, they got the toxic relationships where damn
the niggas keep doing each other dirty, but they can't
stop fucking with each other for some reason on her

(56:36):
and they still don't going on and they keep on.
It's a toxic they can get let over each other,
you know. But yeah, that's just that's how I feel
like it's always gonna be one.

Speaker 2 (56:46):
So women probably not gonna like this even I can.
We don't like it. I don't like it myself. But
it really does come down to a man being made
differently from us, right, well, you guys are made differently,
So this was a thing back then when it comes
to like multiple women, a man is not wrong for

(57:07):
wanting to have multiple women. We just don't like it.
And even in this day, with the story of Jacob Rachel,
Leah Belha and Zelpa they I mean, Belha and Zelpa,
they don't really mention much and I would have to
go back to the apocrypher to see if they really
had some jealousy issues. But they seem to play the
role right, you know how there's like certain side chicks

(57:31):
that will play the role like they know that, oh
there's one that you know, like you said, the one
that he really loves and elevates overall. But I'm gonna
just play this part and get them when I can.
M that's kind of that's kind of what they give me.
And then when it came to the higher ranking wives,
which was Lee and Rachel, like they had an issue

(57:53):
with each other, like they were really like jealous of
the you know what it is, and I feel like
most women would be and I'm trying to really understand
what women really would be like not jealous, like you
love this one individual and like you gotta share him.
It's that's just me being real. But you know, the
truth is the truth. That's why we're talking about it.

(58:15):
But going back to the point as far as a
man elevating one woman over the other, even when it
came to Jacob, this is this is a real harsh example,
but I found I found it kind of funny, even
if it's not funny. Right, So, when Jacob had to
I guess, enter the land of Syra or whatever, something
happened where he had to meet Esau, and it was
kind of like you know, y'all know the story of

(58:36):
Jacob and Esau. They were at you know, pretty much
like odds with each other. Like Esau hated him all
the story as far as you know, him not getting
his blessing, YadA YadA, YadA YadA. So either way, when
he knew he had to go into that nigga's lamb,
he was like, they might attack us, right, so I'm
gonna have to divide up my my wives and children

(58:58):
in a certain type of way.

Speaker 1 (58:59):
You know.

Speaker 2 (59:00):
He did that. He put the two handmaids, which is
like the two concubines, the lower wives, which is the
you know, Belha and Zelpa. He put them first, and
their children first. Mind you, these are his kids and
these are his wives. Right then he put Leah. Mind you,
I told you again, he didn't really want Leah. He

(59:22):
just got tricked into getting her as a wife. And
niggas ain't Nigga's not gonna turn down though, but right Dutch,
like they're gonna just take whatever, okay, Like, yeah, that's
why people always compare a man quote unquote cheating right
to a woman cheating like a man. It's not like
an emotional connection thing, right versus a woman. So anyways,

(59:47):
he so, yeah, he put the two handmaids and their
children first, then Leah and her children, and then lastly
Rachel and Joseph. Benjamin wasn't born at the time. You
know why he put Rachel last because he didn't want
her to fucking get killed first if something was to
go down. And that's kind of fucked up, right. He
literally ordered who he cared about. He's like, the two handmaids. Yeah,

(01:00:13):
I hasts with them, I have some kids with them. Yeah,
my little concubine wis. I don't really like not saying
that he didn't care about them, but it was just
like he literally ordered it, and it's just in scripture.
I know, people probably like, what, Yeah, read your Bible,
read your different books, read the Apographer, read the first
second book out of me, read all these different books. Yes,

(01:00:33):
this is what happened. What do you think about it?
I thought that was really fucked up, Like h something
was to pop off. At least they get killed first,
and my true love Rachel and her son, our son
will survive. That's fucked up. But even even like fast forward,

(01:00:54):
when it came to the kids, he favored Joseph and
he loved Benjamin too, like he favored Li's, I mean
Rachel's children. Why he fabled Rachel's children because he loved
her the most, He really loved her. The others were
just yeah, like you said, so you so you're saying
that the men they can, you know, have love for

(01:01:15):
somebody and care for them, but there is that one individual. Yeah,
I've heard stories from older men saying, what, it's kind
of sad too, Like they'll be married and they'll just
talk about the one that got away, like the one
that they really loved, and that's kind of like, that's
really hurtful. That's like to me, it's hurtful as a

(01:01:36):
woman knowing that there's certain men that are really living
their lives like that, like they're just with this thing
one bitch, but they really thinking about somebody twenty years ago.
That's kind of sad.

Speaker 1 (01:01:46):
Yeah, I mean I think that's happening on both both parties.
You think so, oh, yeah, that woman sitting there just
dwelling about, Oh I could have been with this nigga
that I was with one time. He's probably doing X,
Y and Z and I'm sitting here with it this nigga.

Speaker 2 (01:02:02):
That's just that's sad. That's really sad people.

Speaker 1 (01:02:05):
Do you feel like that?

Speaker 2 (01:02:06):
Of course not. Why are you asking me this? Yeah?

Speaker 1 (01:02:10):
You better?

Speaker 2 (01:02:11):
Do you feel like that? No, I'm so confident that
I know that I am the one I am.

Speaker 1 (01:02:16):
You're the one that almost got away.

Speaker 2 (01:02:18):
I am the Rachel in this situation.

Speaker 1 (01:02:20):
You're the one I was like, Oh no, no, no, back
over here you go. You're what are you doing? Why
are you trying?

Speaker 2 (01:02:29):
No? No, no, no, no, of course not. But I
think that is kind of sad though.

Speaker 1 (01:02:34):
Yeah, there's people out there living just like that. For sure.
That's really gretting.

Speaker 2 (01:02:40):
No, like thinking about that one woman and you're already
like you you're married, you've got kids with this other person,
and you're still thinking about the last.

Speaker 1 (01:02:49):
Couple of years. If I was, if I ever had
to go through, I would just I would not be.
I just want to be with the person, just leave,
you know what I mean? And I feel like the
older they get, the worst it gets because you start
going through more people. You know what I mean, I
feel like in your thirties, not your thirty, but no,
all through your twenties ran through enough people you get
into your thirties. Let's say he's one of them girls

(01:03:09):
who was always in a relationship. There's some girls who
ain never not been in a relationship, right, They sixteen,
had a boy for five years, ten years, and they
get twenty something to get another boyfriend for another ten years.

Speaker 2 (01:03:20):
You know what I mean collects, I mean not.

Speaker 1 (01:03:22):
Even that, but they got like two or three masks
collect but they never I ain't gonna say they never
settled down, but they don't have what other girls would have,
which is like forty fifties sixty niggas they done slept with,
and then here they are and they thirty, trying to
settle down at the two different baby daddies. You know
what I'm saying, the old kind of shit. Yeah, Like
it's just it's a hot mess worth of things versus

(01:03:45):
the girl who you know, she just had long ass relationships,
she never was outside like that, but then she got
to deal with all the extra baggage that other niggas
is coming with because they done ran through all kind
of chakes trying to figure out the one and then
realize ten chicks to go down that have been the one,
you know what I mean. But maybe they caught them
at a bad time in their life. And that's another
thing going back into social media. It's going to keep

(01:04:08):
having people cooked because you know, they have the stupid
shit that's going on. It's spilling over into the world,
and that's the dangers of it, you know, the stupid narratives,
you know, like like again like for me, like the
narrative not for me, but just the narrative of tall
versus short, the narrative of light skin versus dark skin,

(01:04:31):
the narrative of girls with the wigs and without, the
black versus the white, the Spanish versus this, the the interracial,
the oldest stupid narratives spilling over into the real world
where people are just cooked and they will probably never
find that one. And granted the Internet was made, Facebook

(01:04:52):
was a dating appall, but not just the pop the
Boon narrative. These are real narratives that's been there for whatever.
Papa Balloon is just putting more on a on a
on a grand scale of things, because you're really seeing
people come out their mouths really saying the ignorant shit,
you know what I mean.

Speaker 2 (01:05:08):
Yes, it's really cringe, but.

Speaker 1 (01:05:09):
It's been that that narratives has been there for millennial
you know what I mean.

Speaker 2 (01:05:14):
Women though, in my opinion, and y'all stupid bitches can
call me male identified and all this other shit. I
hate when women like feel like they can't just ride
another woman, like you know how there's certain women like, oh,
she's not always on a women's side. She's male identified
and she's a misogynistic shut the fuck up, you know. Anyways,

(01:05:36):
most of the women on those shows like they're airheads,
like they really just be saying anything like they'll they'll
there'll be bitches that are like four to eleven calling
somebody six foot short, and that shit's happened, and it's
just like some weird shit. They just really superficial shit,
you know, and they're just gonna keep getting ran through
and not have somebody who's actually committed to them. And

(01:05:59):
the same same with some men who want to think
that they hot shit and they want to be petty
talking about you got hair on your arm, you know,
what I'm saying, you ain't qualified all the other all
that other shit or whatever. But since you brought up
the interracial shit, because I know y'all hate when we
talk about this, but that's against the most high too.

(01:06:21):
It is what it is, all right. And even way
before Moses, this was kind of already established, like like Abraham,
you know, he would tell his servant, do not take
a wife unto my son from the daughters of the Canines.
You make sure you go to my country and get
my kindred to my type, you know what I'm saying,

(01:06:41):
Like it was kind of already established. That was for Isaac.
And then even when like Esau, when he started to
take on strange wives and stuff, including like the ca
and I women and other women hit bite and all
that other stuff, Isaac and Rebecca his parents they were
read like they were very displeased that he was taking

(01:07:02):
on these these gentile strange bitches, like it really is
not something we're supposed to do. Israelites was supposed to
marry other Israelites, like and even in the Book of
Tobit and the Apocrypha, it talks about it, like Tobit
four twelve through thirteen beware of all wore dumb, my son,
and chiefly take a wife of the seed of thy fathers,

(01:07:22):
and not take and not and take not a strange
woman to wife strange meaning like these other like a
white bitch or you know what I'm saying. That's like
things like that, whatever which is not of thy father's tribe.
For we are the children of the prophets Noah, Abraham, Isaac,
and Jacob. Remember, my son, that our fathers from the beginning,

(01:07:43):
even they all married wives of their own kindred. Like
I was saying, it was kind of already something established,
even before the law of Moses and their seeds shall
inherit the land a right. It was always like why
there was people like Ezrara. I think that's when you
started killing niggas who was stepping outside of the Hebrew

(01:08:05):
of the black women or the you know what I'm saying,
because they was taking on these strange bitches like y'all
be teeter tottering with that too, Right, I want to
sit here and you'll have it like, oh, it's just
you know, as long as the children or what the
father are, it goes both for the sons and the daughters.
Just countless scriptures.

Speaker 1 (01:08:27):
Gotta being outside seeing these white ladies with these sea
my chocolate kids, clearing some black dude that knocked up
in these bitches just shopping tie scene man.

Speaker 2 (01:08:35):
A lot of them. Child. Why you don't get the
cute white girls? You don't know, they don't never get
no bad white chip. It'd be the fat, it'd be
the fucking ugly, right, I'm not even trying to be funny.

Speaker 1 (01:08:46):
Sometimes I can see exactly why Nigga might have did it.
I'd be like, all right, she got a fucking country
ass ass on her. That's it. Though I can I
can't nothing out to see mad mayonnaise, You annoying. That's
always back to I just see blobber mayonnaise, because after
you knock her up, blober mayonnaise for real. Before she probably

(01:09:08):
just had wild ass. She probably trying to get in
it that you went dumped in it. You ain't throw
no rubber on you, just dumping it. And now she's
pregnant you put your ass. Probably wanted the miskid anyway,
I thought that she was gonna be cute, and then you
realize your mama hates your ass, and your daddy tired
and you your whole family pissed off at you. He
got the white girl pregnant and your whole shit getting
off fuck like.

Speaker 2 (01:09:26):
Oh, it's y'all, it's y'all. People, y'all are just racist,
really know, if you would have caught me when I
was really young, like a child, I would have been like, yeah,
this is racist, like people should love who they love.
But now that I know the truth, As far as scriptures,
like no, sorry, That's why it was funny as hell
when Kennic's Owens was talking to Don Lemon and they
was talking about gay marriage, and then he hit her
with a but you're in an interracial marriage, so you

(01:09:47):
ain't doing the right thing either according to the Bible,
and the bitch was she didn't. I don't even know
what her response was, you know what I'm saying. But
they don't want to accept the truth. They don't want
to accept that shit, even even when it came to
the establishment of this right. As far as like Dina,
the one daughter of Jacob. So if y'all don't know

(01:10:07):
the story of Dina, she ends up getting raped by
this man named Shechham, right, and so after that situation,
like he became obsessed with her after he raped her,
and he was like, I want to have her to
be a wife. So y'all probably like, wait, I thought
you said sex little let me get to it, and motherfucker,
let me wait. We're gonna get to this point. I'm
gonna lay on MinC plane ready. So after Heymar, right,

(01:10:31):
that's because that's the father of Shechham. He tried to
commune with Jacob and say like, okay, you know, my
son really wants to have Dina as his wife. I
already broke down the process. A man is supposed to
go and ask what did he do? He just raped her,
you know what I'm saying. He wasn't like, no, no
consensual nothing. He just raped his daughter. So the sex

(01:10:53):
did not count as a marriage for the following reasons.
For one, he never got the content, like I said,
he defiled her, he raped her. Number two, he was
a gentile, interracial no good all. Right after the raping

(01:11:14):
of Dina, y'all established the laws of marriage regarding that
you are not to marry these gentiles, you are not
to lay with these gentiles. And even when it came
to Jacob considering whatever Haymar was saying, because Jacob didn't
want to have this out war, which eventually did happen,
because her brothers was not going down for this shit.
They even in the apocrypha, it's funny because they was

(01:11:36):
questioning Jacob, like, yo, why are you like so lax
about these this nigga raping our you know, our sister,
this is your daughter. We gotta go and kill these niggas.
And I think it was Simeon, it was one of
the two of the brothers. They went and killed these
niggas anyway, and then the whole war happened. It was
just slaughtering all these people because of them raping the sister. Anyway.
It's a good read. But going back into it, you

(01:11:59):
know when he was it's like considering giving Dina to
Schechem or whatever, and the brother was like, we can't
do this thing. Why would we give our sister to
this uncircumcised nigga And like uncircumcised, yes, literally, but it's
also meaning that this person is not of Them's the gentile,
you know what I'm saying. And it's side note going
back to the Kendrick thing, we ain't really talk about

(01:12:20):
as far as as far as his character, right, because
he he made an album where he had a song
with y'a as the title, right, and him making little
little I want to be a Hebrew Israelite, right, Like,
he had a whole album playing off of that shit.
But y'all don't want to talk about that. So he's

(01:12:43):
just playing that duality shit. And that's why they that's
another part of the symbolism when it came to that
Super Bowl performance. All right, you know, cocaine white, but
he looked like gentiles anyways. Lastly, when it in regards
to divorce, right cause I know we talk about marriage,

(01:13:04):
we ain't really talk about div divorce. When it comes
to the scripture, divorce is initiated by a man, and
according to the Bible, woman really don't have no say,
and it has to be like a reason, like something's
wrong with her like and he will write her a
bill of divorcement and tend her out of the house.

(01:13:25):
So that's the only paperwork as far as just like
I'm done with you, you good, pack up you, you
out of here or whatever. And then when she is
departed out of the house. Uh. According to Deuteronomy twenty
four one through verses one through four, she may go
and be another man's wife, right mm. And if the

(01:13:47):
latter husband hate her and write her a divorce man,
a bill of divorcement and give it, then you know
she can't never go back to that other one.

Speaker 1 (01:13:55):
Then she'll just be defiled.

Speaker 2 (01:13:56):
And it's like an abomination and all this other stuff,
YadA YadA. But one thing I wanted to point out
when it comes to social media and the hypocrisy and
even just how people operate. They have the paper, right,
and once the relationship is done, the certificate no longer matters.
It's like it's invisible. It's fucking invisible to them. How

(01:14:18):
many people do you know who are legally married and
they never got a divorce, but they're living in separate
lives and they moved on because they they poor. They're poor,
I know people like that.

Speaker 1 (01:14:31):
So the other person just never signed the papers. Yep,
the male signed up, The male no put the papers
in place, the woman never signed it. At that point,
it's like, hey, and then when you got when you
married and from are you married? From different states? It's
the excuse me, there's different rules if you get married,
like I say, like Louisiana for example, Glue, we could

(01:14:54):
get married in Louisiana. Again, I think the divorce rules
in New York or when you follow in Louisian the
other person has to sign, you know what I mean,
and the other person. I think only in New York
where it's like one person could push forward the divorce
and then you know, lawyers started hitting you with papers
and shit like that and try to get it going.

Speaker 2 (01:15:11):
But but everybody still has to sign.

Speaker 1 (01:15:14):
Yeah, everybody, right, niggas gotta sign, drag drag it out
and just not sign.

Speaker 2 (01:15:20):
So how many people you.

Speaker 1 (01:15:21):
Know, it's sign the fucking papers, I can let you go.
And she's just the girls just never signed.

Speaker 2 (01:15:27):
The pair or the man. There's many people who are
still legally married, but they're not together. They're not together
at all.

Speaker 1 (01:15:34):
People are there will be dating just like yeah, I'm
still legally married, but me and my husband world the
way divorce and.

Speaker 2 (01:15:40):
There's people who fuck with these people. Another example, and then.

Speaker 1 (01:15:42):
They're gonna try to get married on the side again.

Speaker 2 (01:15:44):
Another example, another service level of evil people. Examples polmer
me Ma. I don't know y'all seen the ships because
it's all of social media. It come to her whatever
I think that Shi is all ritualistic scandals, promotion, their
their contract was up, whatever, but we don't keep a
surface level. Again, She's supposed to be married to Pat Pools, right,

(01:16:05):
They have this stupid ass story that she fucking with
this battle rapper and then fast forward, you know, so
they're still legally on paper. He now is with a
new situation with Clarissa Shills. Everybody cheering on per Pap
and Clarissa because they think Remy's a dog and all
kind of whatever. Patpoos is probably gay anyways, I'm not

(01:16:30):
sticking up for Remy Ma. She's a I think Remy
could be a tranny for all we know. She kind
of has that voice to her, Like I'm not even
trying to be funny, like you know what I'm talking about,
Like that that little hinge of you could have been
a man type of voice. Am I reaching? No, I'm
just saying, you know, and I think, you know, I

(01:16:51):
think if she, if she is a woman, I think
that Remy mine is a very pretty woman. But I'm
not trying to be funny. It's just something about the voice,
certain little characteristics right outside of that. I'm just using
them as an example because you have people now cheering
on Clarissa for being with Pat poofs right, but these

(01:17:12):
people are still legally married. And then on top of that,
one thing that women have to realize you can't move
the same way as a man. Can You can't sit
here and have multiple partners. I seen another day tool.
It was like an episode when a bitch was introducing
her husband's to her new man, her boyfriend. I was like,
what in the fucking weordness and shit? I've seen a

(01:17:34):
clip or the YouTube, but somewhere I said, what is
this shit? Yo? This is really Babylon. This don't even
make no sense. But anyways, women cannot move the same
way as a man. You cannot do these type of things.
You just cannot. All right, once you had a man
and you're gonna try to hop on Inda, you are
the one that's gonna look like the war, right, you

(01:17:55):
just are a man can technically have multiple women's. It's
not like we'm not saying that we like it. I
don't like it either, but it just is what it is,
you know what I'm saying. So that's just a surface
of example when it comes to the really mind pat
Pool shit. So I feel like people they just they

(01:18:17):
just put emphasis on the paperwork for like the wedding
and for the to impress people. But then as soon
as a relationship, if it don't work out, they want
to act like that paper don't fucking exist. Like Dusch said,
ten years still fucking Mary legally married, but they done
moved on, had new relationship, new children, all kinds of stuff, right,

(01:18:38):
so to end, because I know, I said I was
gonna say it. As far as when it comes to
the government, it is a contractual relationship between the husband
and wife and the state, So it's really a business
license like Dutch says, all right, it's a maritime corporation.
You're enter into a contract with a third party. So

(01:19:01):
now all the things as far as like mortgages, dads, carloans,
all this stuff is cool, like all together, as far
as in the name of marriage, all right, So and
back in the day like this, it's like it's like
a new type of thing. Like even when it comes
to just we know, the gay marriage, Obama did that shit,

(01:19:24):
even the interracial marriage, you know what I'm saying. So
I find it like funny how people want to cry
out to the government when it comes to their PaperWorks.
It just it doesn't make any sense. And then on
top of that, it's the contract bearing fruit. So in
the nineteen thirties there were two doctrines. The first is

(01:19:44):
the doctrine of parents patria right, and the second is
the doctrine of local parentis. So parents patria means literally
the parent of the country. So the state is the
true parent of a child. When I'm married, couple has
and they signed that birth certificate. That's what you know
what I'm saying. So like parents raise their children and

(01:20:10):
maintain custody of their children until the state decides whether
or not they want to take their children, you know,
take your children away from you. M that's when it
comes to the you know, the social work and all
that other stuff or whatever. So yeah, when you do this,
you're making a covenant with the actual state. Same as
like how our names when it comes to you know

(01:20:32):
it being capital letters is a corporation, things like that.
It's the same thing when it comes to marriage. You're
taking the two corporations. Because I said, it's deeper than
just the marriage. It's all the certificates that are sucked up.
So you're combining that. You're making a Marriedtime Corporation. So
that's why, you know, choose to do it if you
want to. That's all. I'm gonna sit here and say,
you know the truth. Don't let people shame you into

(01:20:52):
your you know, your relationship and your marriage and what
you guys got going on. You know what it is biblically.
Don't sit here and let these worldly peo people convince
you otherwise. That's all I have to say. Did you
want anything that you wanted to end with Dutch?

Speaker 1 (01:21:09):
No?

Speaker 2 (01:21:10):
All right, I hope you all enjoyed that show. Love
y'all much peace out, Barracuda

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