We Got Your Hot Nuts

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Really Hi you guys, doing today? Good Thursday. Until about
a minute ago, what happened well?

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You can't move forward.

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Yeah, yeah, okay, so you're not able to log onto
the texting service either.

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Okay.

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Good.

Speaker 7 (02:06):
I was wondering because then I tried to reopen my
email and I'm like.

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Oh no, no, no, no, no, no, no.

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No no, send the email all right? Now does it
log out on you guys the way it does me?
It doesn't log us out. But I'm not even getting
the verification code. I just closed out my email and thought,
all right, let's try this over.

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Yeah, Jack, I think I told you about it. Still happening,
and it's not the it's not the thing we thought
it was. All right for seven nine six four one. Again,
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three one. Have you guys had to get Thursday today?

Speaker 5 (02:34):
It's you know, I'm a little sore spent.

Speaker 4 (02:37):
Really what happened? Oh no, yeah, it was a shower
talk yesterday. Yeah no, no, I wish what kind of sore?
All right, off, brit let's go.

Speaker 7 (02:48):
If you're watching us on our YouTube channel, what happened?
Might be able to see some of the did you fall?
Gaping wounds on the ice no ice, Now what did
you do?

Speaker 4 (02:58):
Did you find a bobcat? A cat?

Speaker 5 (03:01):
You got the cat part right?

Speaker 7 (03:03):
Tangled with the new cat this morning, new new Remember
the new cat Christopher that we adopted.

Speaker 4 (03:10):
Yeah, because you name your cats after real people names.

Speaker 5 (03:12):
Dog when he came to us with that name, the.

Speaker 6 (03:14):
Real people name is Fine, a real person who currently
lives with.

Speaker 5 (03:18):
You, Warrior who shares the same name.

Speaker 7 (03:21):
It's hard to yellow Christopher without them both responding.

Speaker 5 (03:24):
Yeah.

Speaker 7 (03:25):
So, uh, you know, third morning in a row, waking
us up before five am?

Speaker 5 (03:29):
And uh yeah me, no, Lakey.

Speaker 4 (03:31):
No like. So what happened to take a swing at
him and he swung back?

Speaker 7 (03:34):
Oh no, I went to go pick him up, to
go put him in the guest bathroom. And I don't
think he's been held a lot before, because again keep
in mind, he's only a year and a half old,
and he spent pretty much his first year in a
shelter or a pet store, So he may have been petted,
but I don't think he was ever really held. So
he gets real squirrely or real quick. The thing is,
I can't show you all the scratches.

Speaker 4 (03:56):
Oh, because you sleep naked.

Speaker 7 (03:58):
Wait, I was wearing his shirt. But that doesn't stop
cat nails. Let's just say it's a it's a perfect outline.

Speaker 4 (04:06):
Are you serious?

Speaker 5 (04:07):
I am totally serious.

Speaker 4 (04:08):
Booed up.

Speaker 5 (04:09):
Humph, he boomed me up.

Speaker 3 (04:10):
Damn dude, I will not have a I will not
voluntarily have an animal that can scratch my fudge.

Speaker 7 (04:19):
Got to protect him, right, protect you gotta protect those fudgies.

Speaker 3 (04:22):
Yeah, Lord of Mercy, that's crazy. You had a much
different morning than I did.

Speaker 4 (04:25):
I spent my.

Speaker 5 (04:26):
Morning cat scratched fever at your house.

Speaker 3 (04:27):
I spent my morning warning people to live up in
the uh up north about this storm coming.

Speaker 7 (04:32):
Oh yeah, well you've got family and your wife is traveling.

Speaker 3 (04:35):
Yeah, man, you know I got some Uh, I got
some family up in northern Mississippi. When I say northern Mississippi,
it is a driver seven iron to Memphis. It is
literally five miles from the from the line there to
Horn Lake, Mississippi. And uh my my in laws, my
wife's parents are actually moving up there. My father in
law is already up there.

Speaker 8 (04:54):
Now.

Speaker 3 (04:54):
My father in law is not a news guy. He's
not like a he's not like a media guy. He
doesn't really watched he or anything like that. He just
reads and stuff. He just doesn't read a whole I mean,
he reads all the time. It doesn't really watch a
lot of TV. So I, you know, to be honest
with you, I called, I text my mother in law
and I said, hey, look, you need to let John
know that you know, there's a gnarly storm coming that way.

Speaker 5 (05:15):
And it's kind of scary, isn't it.

Speaker 3 (05:16):
Yeah, it's a gnarly storm coming that way. It needs
to be very careful. And I looked at the Uh,
I didn't really know how bad it was going to
be there.

Speaker 4 (05:24):
Just in Memphis. We're not talking that's just at the
very edge of the bad stuff.

Speaker 3 (05:29):
Anything north of that is really bad, right, And I said, yeah,
they're expecting uh, you know, maybe a you know, a
quarter inch of ice almost over everything, and temperatures it's
not going to get.

Speaker 4 (05:38):
Above freezing up there for like three straight.

Speaker 7 (05:40):
Days, which means if you lose power because of all
that heavy ice, you're not going to be getting it back.

Speaker 4 (05:45):
For quite a while.

Speaker 3 (05:46):
That's what I'm saying, is like, if he has a fireplace,
I'm like, you know, you need to load up on
wood and stuff and make sure that you're going to
be able to stay warm and all my other families
up there. I warned him as well, because I just
don't know how much they pay attention. They're all very
busy people, and although it is in the southern part
of them, they are gonna get hit.

Speaker 4 (06:01):
What a hero you are? Not a hero?

Speaker 8 (06:03):
Jack?

Speaker 4 (06:03):
Yeah? Do you talk to your family up there. They're
gonna get kicked there. You have a.

Speaker 3 (06:08):
Kid, you have a daughter or a sister of New York.
They're expecting more snow in New York than they've seen
in years.

Speaker 4 (06:15):
Dude him, Okay, dude, this guy. They're grown up. This guy.

Speaker 3 (06:22):
If there was a hurricane coming your way, and if
they didn't think that you paid attention and they made
a call, you'd appreciate that.

Speaker 4 (06:29):
Yeah, they call it. Oh by the way, I hear
there's it's like, yeah.

Speaker 5 (06:32):
We're fine, Jersey love man.

Speaker 9 (06:37):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (06:37):
With a friend like Jack exactly, don't enemies all right?

Speaker 3 (06:42):
Four oh seven nine one six one four one Again,
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Bonus is your keyword? Collect fair coming in today? You
guys have actually talked Collette?

Speaker 4 (06:51):
Oh yeah, yeah, so this is my first first experience
with her.

Speaker 3 (06:54):
I'm not I'm not really I'm not met her before anything.
I know that she has that podcast she started with
Tom and Dan, or an association with Tom and Dan
called Love Thy Neighbor.

Speaker 8 (07:04):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (07:04):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (07:05):
She is a couple's therapist and a relationship expert.

Speaker 3 (07:08):
She wrote a book that I think is is really
really applicable for sure.

Speaker 7 (07:13):
Yeah, no, without a doubt, you know, still one of
my proudest. Brought broadcasting moments to Gank, one of Tom
and Dan's guests, live on the.

Speaker 4 (07:22):
Air in front of Tom and Dad.

Speaker 5 (07:24):
It felt pretty good. Yeah, hey, you don't mind if
we buirow word.

Speaker 4 (07:26):
Yeah, you know.

Speaker 5 (07:27):
The funny thing is and a lot of people don't
know here, so cool about it.

Speaker 3 (07:30):
A lot of people don't do this anymore. But you know,
I don't know her. We would have only met her
through Tom and Dan. So I felt it necessary when
I invited her to come back on and possibly make
this kind of a segment where she comes back, you know,
maybe once a month or something like that. I called,
you know, text Daniel as a hey, are you guys
cool with this?

Speaker 10 (07:46):
Mean?

Speaker 5 (07:47):
Oh yeah?

Speaker 4 (07:47):
And uh I just felt like, yeah, yeah, absolutely, that's
why you're a hero. Oh my god, this guy.

Speaker 5 (07:56):
Don't give him the nerve that he knows to.

Speaker 4 (07:58):
It's three h nine. It's three to nine and twice
already we have a theme.

Speaker 5 (08:04):
I could give you my cat scratch.

Speaker 4 (08:06):
We won't do that.

Speaker 3 (08:07):
Got a good case today from Glenn Clausman for Corbert Court.
Danny will be in for Date Night done right. We
do have the Froggers football forecast. Had Froggers lunch today.
I tried their Cuban sandwich. Was absolutely wonderful.

Speaker 4 (08:17):
Oh yeah, I think they make their pickles in the house.
I may have to try that next week.

Speaker 3 (08:21):
I'm serious running out of football games. I think for lunch,
I think we've hit the entire menu. I think next
week will be the last part of the menu.

Speaker 7 (08:27):
I'm had but to follow your lead and try the
Cuban sandwich.

Speaker 5 (08:31):
That looked quite goos.

Speaker 4 (08:32):
Real roast pork.

Speaker 3 (08:33):
It was delicious, man, really good numbs. We do have
a bunch of stuff to talk about today. I did
want to kind of hit something real quick first, because
I find this kind of amazing everything from the healthiest
fast food burger today most most satisfying convenience store experiences.
Disney's got some stuff coming up as well we'll be.

Speaker 5 (08:50):
Talking about I'm glad I didn't put that in the No, no, no,
I mean it's.

Speaker 4 (08:53):
The Oscar noms are coming up as well.

Speaker 3 (08:54):
But so I think most people think they know what
the number one selling album of all time is, right,
I believe.

Speaker 4 (09:04):
So what do you think it is? Jackson Thriller? Yeah,
Michael Jackson's Thriller. No, it's not.

Speaker 5 (09:09):
I thought it was Bob Marley Legends.

Speaker 4 (09:11):
Yeah, not anymore.

Speaker 3 (09:12):
One of a big news story today was finally something
surpassed Michael Jackson's album Thriller, that, since nineteen eighty two,
has been the best selling album in US recorded music history.

Speaker 4 (09:26):
It is now not that another band has taken that over.
That's a low key Toto album. It is not a
low key Toto album.

Speaker 3 (09:33):
It is Michael Jackson's Thriller is Oh, yeah, you're right,
but a new album took it over forty million units.
This album has sold. I think Michael Jackson sold thirty
seven million.

Speaker 4 (09:45):
Or something like that.

Speaker 5 (09:47):
Is it a Taylor Swift thing?

Speaker 4 (09:48):
It is not a.

Speaker 3 (09:49):
Taylor Swift record, and it makes it makes perfect sense.

Speaker 4 (09:55):
Oh oh, Demon Hunters.

Speaker 3 (09:57):
No, and I can't even tell you what kind of
album it is, it'll give it away immediately, believe specifically
to Jack soundtrack.

Speaker 5 (10:04):
Oh, Bruce Springsteen.

Speaker 4 (10:06):
No, is it a movie soundtrack. It's not a movie soundtrack,
you know.

Speaker 3 (10:12):
And that's a fair guess because Saturday Night Fever and
what we've learned about, you know, you know, just the
streaming world is at any given moment, a song that
hasn't been on the air for thirty years can all
of a sudden top the Billboard charts because it gets
hit with stranger things or OK, yeah, right, some other
movie or show will bop it up there.

Speaker 6 (10:33):
It's not, oh gosh, it's because of a recent movie
or show that used the music.

Speaker 4 (10:39):
You know what.

Speaker 3 (10:39):
It doesn't say that that is, but I will tell you,
I know this album has been a solid top one
hundred sellar for a very long time.

Speaker 4 (10:48):
So I think it's just a matter of fact. Fifty years,
fifty years, seventy six, seventy five, seventy six, not Queen
Eagles Greatest Hits.

Speaker 3 (11:02):
From nineteen seventy one to nineteen seventy five is the answer.

Speaker 4 (11:06):
Yeah, Eagles.

Speaker 3 (11:06):
The Eagles Greatest Hits is now the greatest selling American
album ever, over forty million units. And that's a new
certification from the Recording Industry Association of America.

Speaker 4 (11:18):
Aka the r IAA.

Speaker 3 (11:21):
Everybody knows that Hotel California on that out on that album,
of course, But and you think about how impressed it
of that. That's just four years. So what's that like
three albums or something like that, three or four albums
for those guys they pulled.

Speaker 4 (11:32):
These hits from.

Speaker 3 (11:33):
Yeah, and on top of that, when you factor in
just Hotel California as as a song, when it comes
to the album, it has outsold like almost every other
single in the world. Like, it's crazy how much this
record has done considering how long it's been out. Uh,
and they're doing shows that the sphere. I guess they

(11:58):
launched that residency at September twentieth.

Speaker 4 (12:00):
On twenty twenty four.

Speaker 3 (12:02):
But yeah, man, they were all inducted in the Hall
of Fame in ninety eight and their hits include everything
from you know, Hotel California to Take It Easy. Just
so many great songs on that album and it is
now the number one best selling record of all time.
I had that CD back in the age. Oh yeah,
it was just perfect. And you know what's really Jack,

(12:26):
you asked how it got up there, and this is
what it is now. I don't know if this is new.
You can actually tell me. You probably know more about
this than I do. How many how many streams of
an album do they do? They call an album sale? Oh,
this is where this happened. I believe you asked a
very good question, Jack, and this is exactly what happened.

(12:46):
So I guess on YouTube, Spotify of course, our iHeartRadio app.
You know all of that stuff. Right when you play
that album, if it gets played, for every fifteen hundred
times that album gets streamed, they give that album credit
for selling one record. Fifteen hundred streams is the answer.
Oh wow, So for every fifteen hundred streams that equals

(13:08):
one album sell And I believe that's how they wound
up getting above it. Ah, there you go. What's got news?
What you got for news?

Speaker 7 (13:15):
Well, outside of the winter weather, we're going to talk
about earthquakes, Keep rocking Utah, Florida's fire Marshall hands out
checks to battle firefighter cancer and PTSD and a real
life catch me if you can. We'll talk about that
and more coming up next during JCS News.

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Speaker 10 (13:53):
Just wanted to let you know that my sister has
been bugging me about going to see BTS for a year,
and this morning from Detroit, she got online and she
got a sicket to the Tampa show, so we're actually
gonna go. I know nothing about BTS, so I have
two weeks to learn Spanish to see Bad Bunny and understand,
and now I've got two months to figure out K pop.

Speaker 4 (14:15):
So we're going. Yay, Ran, Good for you. That's exciting. Yeah.

Speaker 7 (14:21):
I went to a Taylor Swift show without really knowing
any of her music.

Speaker 4 (14:25):
Great Joe, but you understood the language.

Speaker 5 (14:27):
Yeah, I did, absolutely. That is a big difference.

Speaker 3 (14:29):
All right, won't be an issue for BT's but the
Bad Bunny maybe a little bit.

Speaker 5 (14:33):
I don't worry about it.

Speaker 4 (14:34):
Just move your hips, all right.

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Speaker 2 (14:50):
It's time for JCS news.

Speaker 9 (14:54):
Wow.

Speaker 1 (14:54):
This this guy gotta put his name on everything.

Speaker 4 (14:56):
It's in my contract ed.

Speaker 1 (14:57):
Here's the news on the Jim Colber.

Speaker 7 (15:00):
Show and JCS News is brought to you by that
mortgage guy don. A sprawling snowstorm is set to slam
millions of Americans from Texas to New York this weekend.
Local and state leaders like Georgia Governor Brian Kemp are
taking this very seriously, with Kemp declaring a state of emergency.

Speaker 11 (15:19):
As always, our state team will be pre treating and
prepared for the worst and hoping for the best.

Speaker 7 (15:25):
People in the path of this potentially historic storm are
being worn to prep for snow, ice, and freezing rain,
which could all lead to deadly road conditions along with
prolonged power outages. Heavy snow or ice is forecast. Do
you know for how many states?

Speaker 5 (15:39):
Jimmy twenty jack nineteen thirty three.

Speaker 7 (15:46):
Damn thirty three states, and that number could grow.

Speaker 3 (15:50):
I saw the They have a blob, a map that's
got a big blog that shows you where the cold
air is, basically the entire middle of the US.

Speaker 4 (15:57):
Yeah, is going to get its ass kicked.

Speaker 7 (15:59):
And even though we're going to be enjoying like literally
near record warmth this weekend with highs potentially in the
mid to upper eighties, next week the bottom drops out
for us again. Like I think Wednesday the high is
going to be fifty nine.

Speaker 4 (16:12):
No room for gloating, room for floating. Absolutely, I think
it's colder than that. I think the house supposed to
be like fifty one.

Speaker 3 (16:17):
Oh no, Yeah, it's really chilly next week, well, thank you.

Speaker 7 (16:20):
This storm all begins tomorrow, when snow, sleet, and freezing
rain is expected to hit the planes, including parts of
Kansas where my brother lives, Oklahoma, and Texas. Storm expected
to linger Monday throughout much of the northeast. The ground
keeps shaking in Utah after yet another earthquake struck this
morning near the Wyoming state line. The United States Geological

(16:42):
Survey reports this latest quake registered a four point seven
magnitude with a eight point five mile depth, so eight
and a half miles down. It's struck about twenty five
miles south of Everston, Wyoming. What number earthquake. Is this
in Utah and the last five days?

Speaker 3 (17:00):
God, I know they've had a bunch of them. I'll go, uh,
it's like forty five or something, isn't it.

Speaker 7 (17:05):
Oh it's not that, Craig Cray, No, because this is
just the last five days.

Speaker 4 (17:08):
Oh, I'll get forty four.

Speaker 5 (17:12):
It's six it is.

Speaker 8 (17:14):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (17:14):
Wait, what did they hear? There's a lot of maybe
it may be trimmers or something. I don't know. I
read a bigger number than that.

Speaker 7 (17:19):
Yeah, well, this is just earthquakes over the last five days.
But this is the first one that has reached a
magnitude over three.

Speaker 3 (17:27):
Check threw's hands. Yes, by the way, Jack threw's hands
in the air for that game. Literally like you ran
a marathon, like.

Speaker 4 (17:34):
You broke the tape. Unbearable today already, oh sweet, unbearable.
Not even on drugs, all right.

Speaker 7 (17:43):
Orlando International Airport quick, someone get them some is launching
a major expansion project. Plans include two multi story garage
expansions at Terminals A and C, which are set to
be complete within the next year or so. The airport
also wants to convert fifteen hundred parking spaces in the

(18:04):
terminal top parking garage.

Speaker 5 (18:05):
To reserved parking.

Speaker 7 (18:07):
Really, yeah, a small parking guidance system will be installed
in all four garages.

Speaker 4 (18:13):
You charge them, they will pay, they won't pay. Here's
the thing.

Speaker 3 (18:16):
I mean, they can build that garage and it'll be
paid off by the next weekend. Because I mean, my
White parks, there's like fifty six dollars a day or
something like that when you park on the damn thing. Now, look,
the convenience is unbelievable. She parked next to an elevator
last time, she said, I legit, walked out of the elevator,
hit my button, and I have my stuff in my
car and I was on the road within like six minutes.

Speaker 4 (18:35):
I was gone.

Speaker 5 (18:36):
But you pay for that, Yeah, you do pay for that,
you do.

Speaker 7 (18:40):
But when you're doing that kind of traveling, that kind
of convenience kind of you know, explains itself.

Speaker 4 (18:44):
Especially if you can force a company to pay for it.
And that's exactly what you said.

Speaker 5 (18:48):
Oh yeah.

Speaker 7 (18:49):
Details about the project can be found online at flymco
dot com slash elevating Mco. In the meantime, Winter Garden
commissioners are going to vote on a new retail and
dining destination today. If approved, the historic Citrus Packing Plant
would be transformed into a major shopping hub called the

(19:10):
Old Packing House.

Speaker 4 (19:11):
In winter Garden.

Speaker 5 (19:12):
In Winter Garden, I know exactly where that is.

Speaker 7 (19:14):
Yeah, the building would be repurposed into art and retail shops, restaurants,
and business offices. I think that's like one of the
last historic buildings really in Winter Garden, isn't that.

Speaker 3 (19:23):
I believe that's part of the complex where I used
to do business. You know that the guy had the
continuous form shop. I think it's a whole brick building.
It's just a storage where house are centrius if I
remember right.

Speaker 7 (19:32):
While a natural history museum is also a part of
the plan, which I think is really cool as well.
Construction could wrap up by the summertime.

Speaker 5 (19:40):
Now.

Speaker 7 (19:40):
On the flip side, Daytona Beach officials are asking questions
about the city's plans to spend millions of dollars. City
Commission met yesterday to discuss buying the Cruising Cafe at
Main Street and a NA for almost four and a
half million dollars.

Speaker 8 (19:55):
Nothing.

Speaker 4 (19:55):
He's been there forever, hasn't it.

Speaker 7 (19:57):
Yeah, And then the building would be demolished as part
of this city's plans to then build an entertainment district.
City Commissioner Stacey Canto says her research shows that property
is only worth about half of what the city is
offering to pay for it.

Speaker 4 (20:11):
Really, yeah, interesting, So.

Speaker 7 (20:13):
The commission voted to get the property appraised again and
to get the city to release more details on its plans.
You know, with FAFO running around the state of Florida,
you want to watch your p's and q's.

Speaker 3 (20:26):
That's a desired effect, right, Hey, yeah, you better double check.

Speaker 4 (20:30):
Yeah, absolutely, you know, yeah.

Speaker 5 (20:32):
Absolutely absolutely all right.

Speaker 7 (20:34):
A man hurt in a murder suicide in Orange County
is marking a milestone in his recovery. This is the
only bit of good news out of this story. But
he was released from the hospital yesterday after he was
stabbed Monday in Winter Park and an office building on
Lee Road. The Sheriff's office says Michael Smith, who had
spent several years in prison for rape and for using
a knight, stabbed his former therapist, Rebecca White and a

(20:58):
patient of hers ten times before taking his own life.
White died unfortunately, but her patient did survive and is
now home recovering. His father tells New Six his son
feels bad because he couldn't do more to save White.

Speaker 5 (21:12):
Yeah, awful, It is awful.

Speaker 7 (21:14):
But in that story, I learned about the different levels
of therapy and how some like Ms White, you know,
literally gave her life to work with troubled offenders. She
was specialty, one of her specialties, so she worked with
the court system. She worked with defendants in court cases.
And I believe from what I heard on local news

(21:35):
stations her website described her work as as a no
judgment zone, like she because she worked with a troubled individuals.

Speaker 5 (21:43):
Absolutely, Man, I don't know about that.

Speaker 3 (21:45):
That's like, could you imagine being married to a woman
who is doing that, like, you know, every single day
or every other day in their office there's a violent
offender in could be?

Speaker 7 (21:54):
I mean, they do normally have some safety you know, uh,
steps in play, there's a doorbell you have to ring,
the business goal you look through this right. Yeah, And
this guy had just finished his therapy session and was
leaving when this whole altercation ensued. All right, Florida Democrats
are once again trying to restore abortion access by launching

(22:16):
the Reproductive Freedom Act in both the State House and Senate.
On this fifty third anniversary of the Supreme Court's Row
versus Way decision.

Speaker 12 (22:26):
Restrictions are dangerous when a woman, a family, or you know,
each pregnancy requires a different type of care, all of
which should be decided between a woman in consultation with
her physician, her faith, and her family, not politicians.

Speaker 7 (22:40):
House Democratic Leader Fantries Driscoll calls the current six week
abortion ban dangerous. Along with abortion access, the bills would
ensure access to birth control and IVF and protect those
who help people receiving reproductive care. All right, well, we
know over in Bivard County, or actually in Orange County,
they're planning to close possible up to seven schools. Yes,

(23:01):
Bervard County they've closed the only school over in Cape Canaveral.
Duval County is also looking at closing at least six schools.
And now you can add Broward County, which also plans
to close six schools. This is going on all over
in the state of Florida.

Speaker 5 (23:16):
It really, really is.

Speaker 7 (23:17):
The school board in Broward voted yesterday to close four
elementary schools, a middle school, and a high school due
to low enrollment. You wouldn't think that would be the case, really,
anywhere in Florida when you see all the construction going
under right, right, you.

Speaker 6 (23:31):
Know, unless it's all migrat school choice, school choice, charter
charter schools, Yep, exactly, they're defunding public education and they
can't keep buildings open if it's under what FI enrollment
or yeah, believe is the number.

Speaker 7 (23:46):
Exactly, which is what specifically is going on in Bervardel.
These changes will go into effect for the twenty twenty
six twenty seven school year and the district.

Speaker 6 (23:55):
And don't let it be a surprise. This is a
desired outcome for so oh well, they want to privatize. Say,
they've been trying to privatize the public school system for
a while. So, yes, that's the end, that's that's what
they're trying to do.

Speaker 7 (24:06):
Well, the district expects to save how much money a
year by closing these these six schools three million?

Speaker 4 (24:13):
Seven eight?

Speaker 7 (24:15):
Oh wow, yeah, eight million. But still, yeah, what we
save today we might lose in tomorrow.

Speaker 5 (24:20):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (24:22):
Go find yourself an employee with an education bill.

Speaker 5 (24:24):
Oh yeah, good luck with that.

Speaker 7 (24:26):
Florida firefighters face more than flames when they battle a blaze.
Florida CFO and State Fire Marshall Blaze and Golia. What
a cool name when you're the fire marshal Right, Blaze,
Blaze and Golia in Hialea today to combat cancer among
firefighters with a one and a half million dollar grants.

Speaker 5 (24:45):
They breathe it in, they're contaminating their lungs.

Speaker 1 (24:48):
It is much much different.

Speaker 4 (24:50):
We have found links between certain cancers and specifically fighting
the fires because of those chemicals and those carcinogens.

Speaker 7 (24:57):
So he says, the money is going to go to
purchase equipm and to decontaminate firefighters who are exposed to
chemicals and plastics. Because keep in mind, you know, they say,
you know, part of what makes fighting home fires so
much more dangerous now is because of all of the
treated fabrics on our couches, the treated woods that burn.

Speaker 5 (25:15):
I mean, it's so much.

Speaker 7 (25:16):
More dangerous to fight a house fire these days than
it was in the past. And unfortunately, all of those
carcinogens cling to their gear and their trucks which they've
been bring back to the firehouse and everyone gets exposed
to it. So and we hear a lot of cases
of firefighters being diagnosed with cancers from fighting the fires
on the job.

Speaker 4 (25:35):
Yeah for sure.

Speaker 7 (25:36):
So while also he says PTSD and suicide are just
as destructive for those first responders as cancer. I believe,
like down in Brower County they've lost their third active
firefighter in seventeen months.

Speaker 5 (25:48):
Due to suicide.

Speaker 4 (25:48):
Am damn.

Speaker 7 (25:49):
Yeah, I did not realize in the fire fighting field
that suicide was so prevalent.

Speaker 4 (25:54):
Yeah, me either. I knew in the you know, obviously
with police officers, we have known of that because you know,
you know, talking to Detective Barb for so many years
and her saying that you just simply don't understand what
cops have to take home every single day. You just
see a couple couple stories on TV, but you don't
see ninety eight percent of them. And you know it
was specially to handle it. Even if we did well,
all first responders are exposed to that.

Speaker 5 (26:15):
Paramedic Yeah, yeah, exactly.

Speaker 4 (26:18):
Of course.

Speaker 7 (26:18):
Military, Yeah, so I mean talk about the stressors of
the job.

Speaker 5 (26:22):
Yeah, all right.

Speaker 9 (26:24):
Uh.

Speaker 7 (26:24):
And NASA astronaut Sonny Williams is retiring after a twenty
seven year career. According to an announcement from NASA, Williams's
retirementic effect at the end of December, and it follows
a career filled with record setting achievements, even if she
didn't plan to make some of them. Because do you
remember the name Sonny Williams.

Speaker 4 (26:42):
Oh, yeah, she was the she's the diaper lady. No,
she was the diaper lady. Okay, Sonny Williams was stuck.
Sonny and Butch were oh yeah, yeah, yeah, ye station yeah.

Speaker 7 (26:53):
Imagine going to college, becoming an astronaut, making it to space,
and then you're known as the diaper lady.

Speaker 5 (26:59):
Yeah yeah, yeah, some stars, how they fall?

Speaker 3 (27:02):
Well now, I mean no, I mean lisaid noahk. I
mean she kind of earned the tes she did. Yeah, yeah,
she cuckoo for cocoa puffs.

Speaker 4 (27:09):
As a matter of fact, that ABC, they're doing a
documentary about it. They really and they interviewed Russ this
week for it. Oh did they really? Yeah? Yeah? For
what though? That's interesting. They were going back.

Speaker 6 (27:20):
They wanted, Uh the director of it was a UCS
student and he remembers hearing about okay, yeah, that's being
discussed on real radio, and so he wanted to kind
of get some uh let's.

Speaker 4 (27:31):
Kind of be back. That's bad. Ask you for him?

Speaker 7 (27:34):
Well, Williams has logged six hundred and eight days in
space since joining NASA in nineteen ninety eight, which is
the second most by a NASA astronaut, and she holds
the record for the most spacewalk time by a woman,
with sixty two hours across nine spacewalks. Her final mission
with the agency was on that test flight of Boeing Starliner,
which also showcased the astronaut's resilience as it was only

(27:56):
intended to last over a week and was extended to
more than nine months due to technical issues.

Speaker 5 (28:02):
Unbelievable, man, I know.

Speaker 7 (28:03):
And then finally, real quick, A Canadian man accused of
posing as a pilot or flight attendant to get hundreds
of free flights is pleading not guilty because honestly, that
just takes Cojon's. Thirty three year old Dallas Perkrnick was
in court Tuesday in Honolulu on federal criminal charges. Prosecutors
say he managed to lie his way onto flights managed

(28:26):
by Hawaiian Airlines, United Airlines, American Airlines, and Air Canada
over the course of how long.

Speaker 4 (28:35):
I think I saw a blurb on this, like seven
years or something, maybe maybe even longer than I'll go
seven years.

Speaker 7 (28:42):
Oh Jack shot him the wrong way, Jacke. It was
over the course of about four years, four years.

Speaker 3 (28:52):
Still, I wonder if they're gonna they're trying to if
they're going to try to get him for restitution. I
don't like every one of those flights hitting for like
that four eight hundred dollars or whatever.

Speaker 7 (29:00):
It's amazing because these aren't like low cost airlines that
you think would make the mistake of not noticing a
pilot was credentialed or a flight attendant for four years unreal.
If convicted, he faces up to twenty years in prison.

Speaker 3 (29:13):
Shocking when you think, no, well, I think somebody's gonna
lie their way on an airplane like I'm a pilot,
Like I guess you got me?

Speaker 4 (29:20):
Okay, come on board. You want to send first class
free drink.

Speaker 7 (29:25):
And he's the one flying your plane just so he
can get on for free.

Speaker 8 (29:29):
Almighty damn.

Speaker 5 (29:31):
And that makes it think twice, doesn't it?

Speaker 7 (29:33):
And either way that concludes your JCS news.

Speaker 4 (29:38):
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Speaker 4 (30:43):
Thanks for lunch today.

Speaker 5 (30:44):
Yeah, yeah, it was great.

Speaker 4 (30:45):
I had that Cuban sandwich which was absolutely delicious. I did.

Speaker 6 (30:48):
I got ross and you got me onto these boneless
chicken wings and you just they're like popper, Yes.

Speaker 4 (30:54):
You know, you're like, this is so easy, yeah yeah,
yeah yeah, and they're tasty as well. So thanks again,
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Speaker 5 (31:00):
Yeah, I got a tub of it today.

Speaker 4 (31:03):
Yeah.

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I could actually eat it with a spoon today.

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That bas for ext revolutes.

Speaker 3 (31:08):
All right, So we are going to do it a
little bit differently this week because we do have we
only have the two games that we're trying to pick.
So not only are we going to pick the winners
and losers, we're also going to pick the total points
for each game as well.

Speaker 6 (31:20):
Yeah, and we'll see who's closer. We'll take it all,
not just for diebreaker. We'll just added all up and
then we'll see who's closest with the point differential. And
I have Ross's picks. He has sent them to me,
so he is now log I have made my picks.

Speaker 4 (31:36):
But there's only two games.

Speaker 6 (31:37):
You got Patriots taken on the Denver Broncos in Denver, Denver,
and then you have Seattle Seahawks hosting your Los Angeles.

Speaker 3 (31:50):
All right, let's go with the Denver Patriots game first.
Remember Denver's quarterback is out.

Speaker 5 (31:55):
Yeah, point Patriots, Yeah, they're.

Speaker 3 (31:57):
Going with the backup quarterback. It is going to be
I don't know how the weather's going to be up there
this Sunday.

Speaker 8 (32:01):
It can't be.

Speaker 5 (32:02):
Great, no, but Patriots are used to that.

Speaker 7 (32:04):
Yeah, yeah, whether it won't be a factor for them,
You're right, altitude could be.

Speaker 4 (32:08):
Yeah.

Speaker 7 (32:10):
What what's been the uh what's been their history with
Denver this season?

Speaker 4 (32:14):
Well?

Speaker 3 (32:15):
I do the Patriots have a real weird thing with
Denver at if I remember right, Brady went in there
twice during the playoffs during his run, like in that
last and he lost. I think he's only one for
three against the Broncos. So the Patriots have a weird
thing with the Broncos. I don't know what it is,
but they do. All Right, weather should not be a factor.
We are looking at high around forty nine the day.

Speaker 4 (32:35):
That's piece cake. Yeah, all right, very good.

Speaker 5 (32:37):
Who'd you go with? Jack?

Speaker 4 (32:38):
I have Patriots. Yeah, I'm also taking the Patriots.

Speaker 3 (32:41):
I think if bo Nix was in the game, it
would probably make this decision a little harder. I'm not
saying this guy stid him as any bad is not good.
Matter of fact, everything I've heard about him, he's supposed
to be a pretty good player. But this is the
you know, this is the championship game, and you know,
guy hasn't played a snap in a while, so you
can't expect him to go out there and run the
full blown off and deal with this team, the Patriots

(33:02):
that are on one a little bit.

Speaker 4 (33:03):
I like the Pats.

Speaker 3 (33:04):
Yeah scores, what do you think deb total points?

Speaker 4 (33:09):
Thirty eight? Ooh lo, that's a low scoring game, right
The line is forty two and a half. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Oh,
it just means you're under It's a big deal. Yeah yeah, I'm.

Speaker 5 (33:19):
Gonna going between forty three and thirty eight.

Speaker 4 (33:22):
I'm gonna go fifty four.

Speaker 7 (33:23):
Jack, I'm gonna go forty three. I'm changing for my
thirty all right.

Speaker 3 (33:27):
I'm going fifty four. Debs going forty three, copy me, right, alright,
Let's go to the other game, the Rams and the Seahawks.
I'm taking the Seahawks. It's not even close. I think
they are going to absolutely blow the Rams completely out
of that place. I think it's gonna be gross. Yes,
the Seahawks are unbelievably good. That defense is crazy in

(33:50):
The Rams literally stumbled through both of their games in
the playoffs, to get to where they are now. Yeah,
so I think the I think the Seahawks are going
to beat the complete hell out of them. I think Seahawks.
I'll go, I'll go, uh, I'll go. I'll go fifty
four in that game as well.

Speaker 7 (34:07):
Nice, I am going Seahawks and I will go fifty two.

Speaker 9 (34:11):
Nice.

Speaker 5 (34:12):
What's the line on that game.

Speaker 4 (34:14):
That is forty six and a half.

Speaker 5 (34:16):
Oh okay, I'm feeling comfortable.

Speaker 6 (34:18):
And I will say, between me and Ross, one of
us as the Seahawks.

Speaker 4 (34:22):
The other one took the rams no way.

Speaker 5 (34:25):
Really really really he took the Rams? Didn't he did?

Speaker 4 (34:29):
Why would he take the Rams against that team? Did
you see them play?

Speaker 10 (34:32):
No?

Speaker 5 (34:32):
The Vegas. He always goes with those Vegas odds.

Speaker 4 (34:36):
It's in Seattle, is it not? It is there. They
can't be a dog at home against this football team.
Not a dog.

Speaker 5 (34:43):
Do we know what the what Vegas is saying about
the game.

Speaker 4 (34:46):
It's gonna be like three and a half or something
and a half.

Speaker 5 (34:48):
Yeah, yeah, Seattle, obviously it's gotta be.

Speaker 6 (34:51):
Now, Patriots are minus four and a half and Seattle's
minus two and a half.

Speaker 3 (34:55):
Okay, Wow, that's crazy that that don't that spread is
only like that.

Speaker 9 (35:00):
God.

Speaker 4 (35:00):
Did anybody says he I'll play.

Speaker 3 (35:03):
God, Oh, Budy Maybe they said Sean McVay and the
Rams will have their number.

Speaker 4 (35:08):
Yeah, maybe, so I guess. Well, there you go. That's
all picked up.

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can choose the member of the show that not only
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correctly as well.

Speaker 4 (35:25):
Yeah, crazy business man.

Speaker 7 (35:27):
Thanks don't follow my lead from last week when it
comes to points.

Speaker 4 (35:30):
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Danny Meering in next from Orlando Date Night Guide to
find out what's going on in Orlando this weekend.

Speaker 5 (35:53):
She's already downstairs working. That's working, Shoure.

Speaker 3 (35:56):
We had a meeting with her today one o'clock. Here,
we get done in the meeting, We're like, we'll see
you into and a half hours. We'll see a few minutes, and.

Speaker 5 (36:02):
She's probably been downstairs working the whole time.

Speaker 4 (36:04):
Jack, you have plans to watch games anywhere? Just at
the house. Oh yeah, Sunday Championship Sunday.

Speaker 3 (36:10):
I'm usually right on my couch and it's a it's
a late game in the night game, right.

Speaker 4 (36:13):
Yeah, it at the three o'clock and then the six
or whatever. Yeah, yeah, for sure.

Speaker 5 (36:18):
Where are you going?

Speaker 3 (36:19):
I'll be at home. I mean, I'm not gonna I'll
be at home watching football. I think some of the
kids are coming over and we're gonna just pile up
and watch football.

Speaker 4 (36:26):
That's what I think. Probably gonna cook playing golf that morning.

Speaker 5 (36:29):
This is the second to last weekend.

Speaker 4 (36:31):
I can't wait.

Speaker 5 (36:32):
Heart's already breaking for you.

Speaker 7 (36:33):
Guys, except for you Jack, because you're going to be
hearing the crack of a bat soon.

Speaker 4 (36:37):
Yeah. So oh when the spring printing.

Speaker 5 (36:39):
Start February, pitchers are called in.

Speaker 4 (36:42):
Wow, really already? God it's it's always late February.

Speaker 3 (36:45):
The catchers report, Yeah, yeah, there you go, all right
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I'm Jim. There's Deba. Hello, Jack's here as well. Let's
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Speaker 3 (38:07):
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Speaker 4 (38:12):
Good morning, good afternoon. How are you, young lady.

Speaker 14 (38:15):
I am, I'm wonderful, I'm happy. Whatever time it is.

Speaker 4 (38:18):
Yeah, it's in a whole bunch of you today.

Speaker 14 (38:21):
Ah, yes, yeah, thirty extra minutes.

Speaker 3 (38:24):
Yeah, I got a meeting a little bit earlier for
a gig. Possibly coming up is we're gonna collab with
some stuff this year, which is kind of cool. Danny
drops by every Thursday around four o'clock. Let us know
some cool things happening in the city. And this is
everything from nice dinners to just family gathering stuff and again,
everything we say here you can find in the pages
of Orlando Date Night Guide. And if you didn't hear
something you like, just go over to the site. Plenty plenty,

(38:45):
plenty of choices. We're just highlighting some stuff that Danny
likes herself. What you got for us this week?

Speaker 14 (38:49):
Yeah, So it is an exciting time in Orlando as
we get ready to kick off Orlando Beer Week. So
that kicks off this weekend and then goes all the
way into next week and and so different breweries are
doing all kinds of things. So it's a cool social time.
I guess it's time to throw dry January out the
windows last week of January.

Speaker 15 (39:08):
Scirit.

Speaker 3 (39:09):
That's so interesting seen the news on social. On social,
I have seen a lot of breweries, like their presence
has been a lot bigger. I didn't know that there
was quote an Orlando Beer Week, but I know ten
ten has been very active. They have their their rib
fest like a couple of weeks ago, but they've been
on doing a lot of stuff on social. So and
that's a legit og like Orlando Brewery, you know, and
the hottest spot in town.

Speaker 14 (39:30):
Like yeah, yeah, that's definitely a good one, one one
of our favorites. So one of the things that's happening
is Saturday from six pm to eight pm is the
Orlando Beer Week meet up at Zymerium Metery. So this
is Orlando's first metory. They've been around two or three
years now. Such a cool, cool place and if you
haven't tried mead, it's not like just sipping on honey,

(39:54):
Like there's different flavors, different nuances, and it's gluten free.
So of people that can't do gluten appreciate this option.
So Saturday six pm to eight pm an evening of conversation,
connection and craft beverages and just kind of sets the
tone for the full beer week that'll be coming up

(40:16):
and kicking off. We do have a plethora of events.
We'll talk about some when I'm on next week, but
you can go to Orlando Date nightguide dot com and
and you can check out this month's guide so you
can see some of the upcoming stuff happening. Also, Saturday,
eleven am to eight thirty pm is Starry Starry Night,

(40:38):
a celebration of art and science at Bachtower Gardens. You know,
I love mentioning Backtower Gardens. It is a heck of
a drive, but once you get there, it's it is
paradise on Earth.

Speaker 4 (40:50):
Yes, corgeous and the Santas just mentioned building they're about
to build a build something new at Bog Tower, Like
they're building like a two hundred and fifty year memorial
for the US or something out there.

Speaker 14 (41:00):
Good yeah, yeah, okay, you were going to mention a
toll road.

Speaker 4 (41:02):
No no, no, no, no, no, it's they're adding stuff
to Bock Tower. And again, if you haven't been there.

Speaker 5 (41:10):
It is gorgeous.

Speaker 3 (41:11):
Everybody I know there's ever been out there says it's great.
They do luncheons out there sometimes there's all kinds of
cool events going on, and of course it's just a
beautiful spot to begin with.

Speaker 14 (41:18):
Yeah, So this particular event, it starts off at eleven,
but the key highlight is that they're going to be
open till eight thirty pm, which is rare. They're going
to have telescopes and so when you're out there, you know,
even with the urban sprawl, it's still one of the
best places with a nice dark sky, So you're gonna
have astronomers there. They're going to have space themed presentations,

(41:40):
which is pretty cool considering we've got Artemis two on
the horizon. So it's a neat time to kind of
get your nerd on and be into that space stuff. Happening.
Also Saturday at noon is Science on Tap at the
Orlando Science Center. So this is their huge annual craft
beer nomenon helps raise money for the Orlando Science Center itself.

(42:05):
VIP if you get that is at noon. If you
do general admission, it's from one pm to four pm.
They're gonna have lawn games and food trucks. Thirty different
breweries are participating again, another cool way to sort of
kick off Orlando Beer Week. They do say miners sixteen
years or older must have a valid designated driver, no
alcohol ticket, and b with a paying twenty one in

(42:28):
up guest to enter. Sounds like they might have something
go down.

Speaker 5 (42:35):
One way to keep the kids away.

Speaker 4 (42:37):
That sounds like we learned a lesson rules old.

Speaker 16 (42:45):
Let's see.

Speaker 14 (42:45):
So another Saturday event seven pm to two am is
the Electric Dog Carnival. So this is eedc with dogs
at bark Haven, which is near Mills and Ivanhoe area.

Speaker 4 (43:01):
Yeah, what are they doing.

Speaker 14 (43:04):
It's like a dog race.

Speaker 5 (43:06):
So that's all you need is your dog tripping.

Speaker 4 (43:09):
So we're just gonna see dogs with pasties and jean shorts.

Speaker 14 (43:13):
You might they might be a matching dog and owner
costume situation.

Speaker 5 (43:18):
That's scary.

Speaker 14 (43:20):
So they describe it as an ed M fueled dog
friendly carnival, high energy, electric treknonic music, electronic music. Let
me try that again, immersive lights and a foam filled
atmosphere for a one of a kN I can't do it.
I'm losing it. A one of a kind night built

(43:41):
for dogs and they're humans with a live DJ set
by Chasten Space.

Speaker 4 (43:47):
Okay, so there you go, all right. That sounds yeah,
it sounds lonely sounds.

Speaker 8 (43:59):
You know.

Speaker 3 (44:01):
Maybe I'll go up there and take my dog and
get him a doctor Seus's had or something amazon.

Speaker 4 (44:08):
A glow necklace and let him rip it. Someone getting
Apollo out of the foam pit.

Speaker 14 (44:17):
You might want to wear long sleeves and long pants
for this.

Speaker 7 (44:19):
When that's all yeah, I can't imagine putting a foam
covered dog back in your car.

Speaker 14 (44:27):
All right, moving right along the I want to go
just to watch, don't.

Speaker 4 (44:32):
I want to go as well a little bit.

Speaker 14 (44:35):
I hope they have a webcam or something. Happening. Saturday
and Sunday is the Orange City Blue Spring Manatee Festival.
So last weekend Crystal River had their huge Manatee festival.
We're having our own, smaller one Saturday and Sunday in
Orange City. This is at Valentine Park, which I think

(44:56):
is a cute name considering the time of year. Yeah,
it is twelve dollar for adults, three dollars for kids,
and obviously family friendly stuff happening there. Wildlife education, environmental exhibits,
local vendors, food and live entertainment, and then something for
wellness or for you know, happy wife, happy life situation.

(45:18):
Or Lando Girls Walk Club is happening on Sunday at
nine a m. At Harbor Park in Baldwin Park.

Speaker 4 (45:25):
Okay, that's cool.

Speaker 14 (45:26):
So this will be a two point five mile walk
around the lake.

Speaker 16 (45:31):
It's free.

Speaker 14 (45:32):
It's just a great option for you know, girls to
have a moment, to have some time. You know, I
always am a better wife when I get a little
bit of self care time. So this is a good
suggestion for that.

Speaker 4 (45:45):
Cool walk too.

Speaker 3 (45:46):
By the way, I mean that we live there, you
shed walk around that lake all the time. It's a
really nice stroll, to be honest with you. Yeah, the
last part of it, if you start right there at
that park and go right the last part of it.

Speaker 4 (45:56):
Kind of goes through these trees.

Speaker 3 (45:58):
It's almost like a tunnel of trees, which is actually
very cool, but it is. It's really nice out there,
and of course there are plenty of places once you're
done you can pop in for some food or drink
whatever you want to do.

Speaker 14 (46:07):
Yeah, I'm a sucker for a good tree cannic.

Speaker 4 (46:09):
Oh, Yeah, for.

Speaker 14 (46:10):
Sure, I'm an old lady in that regard.

Speaker 5 (46:12):
I'm with you, total tree hugger right over here.

Speaker 14 (46:16):
And lastly, I want to mention something that my husband
and I did earlier this month, a little bit of
a day trip. So we went to the Marine Science
Center and pons And yeah, that'll be a later segment
maybe sometime, maybe I'll partner with its Collette is.

Speaker 4 (46:37):
Yeah, yeah, there you go, will collab.

Speaker 5 (46:39):
Yeah, that's a collab.

Speaker 14 (46:42):
So the Marine Science Center and ponts Inlet is is
a really cool place. I don't know if you guys
have heard of it. It's near the lighthouse.

Speaker 16 (46:49):
That's out there.

Speaker 4 (46:50):
Yeah, I haven't heard that.

Speaker 14 (46:51):
And it's a real like community kind of spot. But
you included in your admission, which is like I don't know,
ten bucks, you can feed stingray.

Speaker 9 (47:00):
Uh.

Speaker 14 (47:00):
There's sea turtle rescues, so you can see like the
cool things that they're doing to help the sea turtles
out there. They have a birds of prey area and
a water birds area like with rescued pelicans and stuff.
And then what we did is we went to Tiki
Ducks in Port Orange, which is it's not like traditional
tiki's like Beach Florida tiki double decker building with kind

(47:24):
of a rooftop vibe on the water, So definitely recommend
that if somebody is looking for kind of a one
two punch nice.

Speaker 4 (47:31):
Little good man.

Speaker 3 (47:32):
Kids love animals like that. I mean anytime you go
to like my kids used to love to feed the
stingrays at Sea World. That was like their thing. They
loved it.

Speaker 16 (47:41):
Kids at heart, Yeah exactly.

Speaker 14 (47:46):
Yeah, I mean it's pretty great that it's included in
a mission and it's a small, you know, intimate spot
so you're not like overwhelmed with crowds. And we put
a reel up on Orlando Date Night Guides Instagram with
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Uh and if you comment uh Waterfront on that one,
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(48:08):
good weekend to eat out all.

Speaker 9 (48:10):
Yeah.

Speaker 14 (48:10):
Yeah, we're going to be the envia of the rest
of the country.

Speaker 3 (48:12):
Yes, it's actually me very warm this weekend. Yeah, I
mean I'm sposed to I'm playing golf a Sunday and
I think it's supposed to get to like eighty three
degrees this weekend, and then of course we dive right
back down next week. We're the high I think Tuesdays
like fifty one degree, so we'll go from eighty three
to fifty one and forty eight hours.

Speaker 5 (48:30):
Yep, that's Lura, Yeah right, exactly.

Speaker 4 (48:33):
Well, good job man, this is awesome stuff.

Speaker 3 (48:35):
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That includes a lot of family friendly stuff that you
can enjoy and make that a normal part of your
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Thank you guys.

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Guys, good luck get it. I'm Jim. There's dead Hello,
Jack is here as well. Yeah. I talk to my
wife this morning. How she faring well.

Speaker 3 (51:32):
She's doing all right. She's trying to get the hell
out of Dallas as quickly as possible. She doesn't want
to get stuck there because they are anticipating some pretty
nasty weather up there, and she's trying to get out
as quickly as possible. She tried to get even a
red eye Thursday night tonight because her business is really
done today. She's up there for a thing called WISA,
which is a Western ware kind of what are they

(51:53):
called convention, So that's what her company does, or part
of what her company does with a company called Legendary
White Tails, and they're up there trying to sell into
different vendors all throughout the US and stuff. So that's
kind of what her job is out there. But she's
just trying to get the hell out of Dodge because
she doesn't want to get stuck in Dallas. She even
told her boss, she goes, if if our flight gets canceled,
we're renting a car and we're driving. Her boss actually said,

(52:16):
just rent the car and let's go, Like, let's just
drive through the night and go. And I told her,
I said, Tori, I said, driving maybe just as dangerous
as fine.

Speaker 5 (52:23):
Oh yeah, I said, I.

Speaker 3 (52:24):
Mean, I don't know if you understand it's supposed to
be like really really really bad, and.

Speaker 5 (52:29):
Especially if you've never driven in snow.

Speaker 4 (52:31):
Or ice.

Speaker 7 (52:32):
You can't underestimate just how dangerous that can be.

Speaker 4 (52:36):
It's brutal.

Speaker 5 (52:36):
Man.

Speaker 3 (52:36):
When we live in West Virginia, even for that short
period of time that I lived up there, I was
old enough to be cognizant enough to know that. You know,
it's dangerous. And it's so funny because the storm that's
soppos to be coming through, or it will be coming through.

Speaker 4 (52:48):
They're worried because it's ice. It's not that it's just snow.
It's ice.

Speaker 3 (52:52):
And of course it's gonna put a they said, if
it could put a quarter to a half an inch,
you know, coat of ice over everything. I've actually experienced
a small version of that when I lived in West Virginia.
We did have an ice storm. Now it only put
like an eighth of an ench, just to barely a codium,
but it's over everything, like loose gravel. It doesn't matter
if it has a surface yep, and rain can get

(53:14):
to it. It has a coating of ice over it.
And it's a nightmare. I mean, we even with I
remember what we had to go do something that day
and my dad had the spikes in the in the tires, right, yeah,
not the chains, but the tires actually had these little
spikes like golf shoes. Even with that, we as we

(53:34):
were going up this one hill that the truck just
gave loose and just slid down sideways down the hill
until it came to the bottom.

Speaker 4 (53:40):
It just would not stop it.

Speaker 3 (53:42):
And imagine that over a swath of you know what,
nine ten twenty five states. Actually, yeah, I don't know
if it's gonna get that bad in all thirty three though, But.

Speaker 7 (53:51):
I mean, it doesn't have to get that bad, especially
those states that aren't used to right, dealing with that
kind of winter weather. You know, they don't have the snowplows,
they don't have this s machines, they don't have this
stuff to even get the first responders back out on
the roads.

Speaker 3 (54:05):
And it's already a fifteen hour drive. And I said,
at fifteen hours at highway speeds, tour, you're not gonna
be able to go highway speeds with all that.

Speaker 4 (54:12):
Mess out there. So I'm praying to God that she
doesn't do that.

Speaker 3 (54:14):
I begged her last night not doing She ain't having it.
I don't know if you guy, I don't know if
you guys know anything. She didn't listen to me, we know, yeah,
she she just wasn't having it. But anyway, I called
to talk about this yesterday. We talked about the sleep divorce, yes,
because I text her and I was like, I was like,
I just sleep, and she's a oh god, so good
all exclamation points, and then I said away from you, yeah,

(54:36):
yeah yeah. Then I said, oh my god, you know
we're gonna wind up getting two different beds. Lol, you know, joking,
Joki joke she and she typed back the lowercase.

Speaker 5 (54:44):
Lol, right, the equivalent of huh.

Speaker 3 (54:47):
Yeah, exactly. This morning, asked her first thing, It's like,
how'd you sleep last night? And I almost stopped myself
because I didn't want to hear the answer before I
even got the damn question outt great all. Didn't want
to get up, head, hit the pillow, fell straight asleep.
Why don't you I'm gonna tell you, buddy, if she

(55:08):
comes home and she starts pitching this thing.

Speaker 4 (55:11):
Before you go to that extreme, unless it's something you want,
it might be a good thing, But why don't you
investigate the pillows and the blankets, have her take pictures
of the tags.

Speaker 3 (55:24):
Maybe it's the betting, Oh wow, maybe it's the mattress.
But we have a really nice mattress.

Speaker 4 (55:30):
Sure you do, we do that. Apparently she's not sleeping
as well. It's got nothing to do with the mattress.

Speaker 9 (55:34):
I know what it is.

Speaker 4 (55:35):
It's me or the dog.

Speaker 3 (55:36):
And I told her the dog is the worst because
when the when she leaves, of course the dog, dog said,
you're the worst.

Speaker 4 (55:42):
The dog.

Speaker 3 (55:42):
The dog, because you have to understand, the dog is
imprinted on her. It's I mean, if my wife had
a pouch, the dog would never come out of it.
It's it's like that, right, very clingy. And when she sleeps,
the dog cramms herself like in the crease that she
creates between her body and the and the man. Well,
it's a pain in the ass. And I tell her,
I said, one of the reasons you probably don't sleep

(56:04):
well here at the house is because of this damn dog.
So you know she's been gone and I'm sleeping with
this dog, and let me tell you it sucks. The
dog does not have boundaries, dude. The dog does not understand.
Get the blank away from me, because your body took
dog's temperatures already hotter than us covered in fur. So
I wake up and I've got this sweat patch on
my side from when she's sleeping next to me, and

(56:25):
she doesn't understand go away.

Speaker 4 (56:28):
She thinks you're playing.

Speaker 3 (56:29):
So in the middle of the night, when I grab
her by her stomach and I push her to the
other side of the bed, that's a game, like I
can see her playing around, then jumping back in and
doing the same thing.

Speaker 4 (56:37):
So then now it's two forty am and I'm fighting
with my dog. She thinks I'm playing. I'm not playing.
I just wanted to get away from me. She ain't
having it, you know, eh, cat scratch you.

Speaker 6 (56:49):
I can't put her on the grate that you can
run a household and not pay for it, and just.

Speaker 4 (56:53):
You know, kind of a game. I'd just be the
one in charge. We'll just do everything you want. I'm
microwave for food. What her in another room?

Speaker 8 (57:02):
Dude?

Speaker 4 (57:03):
She would glued.

Speaker 3 (57:06):
I told Tory before this all started, I said, we're
not letting the dogs sleep in the bed with us.
And the reason why it is because once the dog
gets a taste of sleeping in the bed with us,
it's never going to want to sleep anywhere else. Right,
I said, let's make the dog sleep in a kennel,
just like everybody else. Put her in the kennel, go
to sleep. Once she gets used to it, she'll actually
want to go in the kennel. She lets the dog
sleep with us one time as a puppy. Done done, done, dude.

(57:33):
I guess what you said at the start of the
segment is true. What my wife doesn't listen to me,
the dog doesn't either, all right, four seven nine one six.
It's funny because there was a hotel once. It's when
we went to back in two thousand and one trip
to Los Angeles.

Speaker 4 (57:51):
I remember we stated at an hotel. I had a
pillow in that hotel, and this is our rage trip.
I had a pillow and I've been thinking about that
pillow for the next twenty years. I finally found the
pillow I like, but I would always think of all
that pillow.

Speaker 3 (58:04):
Jack and I wondered what these people did to make money,
because they put us up at one of the nicest
hotels in downtown LA. And by the way, downtown La sucks.
It is it is crazy, and it's actually not much
bigger than Orlando's downtown, which is kind of wild. It
really isn't. But we got a really nice hotel in there,
and Jackie one hundred percent right. The sheets and the
pillows in the bed were like next level.

Speaker 7 (58:25):
It's like staying at a Ritz Carlton, between the carpet
and the robes on the mattress and the sheets and
the duvet.

Speaker 5 (58:31):
Yeah, you just don't want to leave.

Speaker 3 (58:33):
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Speaker 19 (58:54):
So here I am again, at least in Maldora. We're
gonna be toasty warm, with the highs in the eighties.
By Monday morning, we're looking around thirty eight, which isn't
quite freezing. You don't need to worry about your plants
because the wind will be about twenty miles an hour.
You'll be fine. And then we get past that and

(59:17):
it starts going up again. We're gonna be good. Everybody
north of us that's screwed.

Speaker 3 (59:25):
Yeah, I did lose a couple of flowering plants during
the cold. No, nothing bad, nothing, expensive, easy to replace.

Speaker 6 (59:33):
I had a win. All the weeds in my yard.
It cooked down?

Speaker 4 (59:38):
Did it really?

Speaker 10 (59:39):
Oh?

Speaker 4 (59:39):
Yeah, yeah, so it was good. I guess I can
wait another month before I have to kinda.

Speaker 3 (59:43):
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Speaker 4 (59:55):
I'm Jim. There's deb Hello, Jack is here as well.
Let's do Cobra Court.

Speaker 1 (59:59):
When you are listening to is real? Well sort of?

Speaker 2 (01:00:02):
The participants are not actors as a fact. This is, however,
a real case that will be decided here in our forum.

Speaker 1 (01:00:10):
It's not cole mart Court.

Speaker 17 (01:00:11):
Nober Court.

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Brought to you by were good Friend, Glynn Closman and
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Speaker 4 (01:00:25):
They're my man. You're all dressed up today at court
stuff today.

Speaker 8 (01:00:31):
What do you got, No, but I've got We've got
an event with judges and lawyers after this, so I
dress up for it.

Speaker 4 (01:00:37):
That's interesting to me.

Speaker 3 (01:00:38):
You know, every time that we've had a personal conversation
about relationships with judges, I would think that that would
be heavily discouraged because of the the idea of bias
that would every time that we talk about this alike,
that's wild that judges would have conversations and dinners and
social time with attorneys that they'll have cases in front of.

Speaker 8 (01:00:58):
That's true, that's true. It's groups. It's a group of
judges and a group of lawyers. And I mean I
have lunch every now and then with certain judges that
I know. Not a problem.

Speaker 3 (01:01:09):
Yeah, And that's never brought up in the in the
sense that it's never used like, hey, this guy has
lunch with this judge. How can we guarantee this judge
isn't you know, looking on him favorably?

Speaker 8 (01:01:22):
Well hopefully, hopefully here she.

Speaker 3 (01:01:23):
Is stuff playing the game right, all right?

Speaker 9 (01:01:30):
All right?

Speaker 3 (01:01:30):
Glenn is a personal injurytorney here in Central Forida and
has been for years. Actually we were just talking practicing
in this area for over fifty years.

Speaker 4 (01:01:37):
Not yet fifty quite though close.

Speaker 8 (01:01:39):
But you know, I am what's called the judicial liaison,
so I do have an obligation to be able to
meet with judges every now and then for the organization
that Central Fund of Trial or so.

Speaker 4 (01:01:49):
And you just got another accommodation, did you.

Speaker 8 (01:01:51):
Know, accommodation like where I stay?

Speaker 4 (01:01:54):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (01:01:54):
No, no, no, like you got another aimation a commendation
there you can I say it wrong?

Speaker 8 (01:02:00):
Yeah I did?

Speaker 4 (01:02:01):
Yeah, what'd you get?

Speaker 8 (01:02:03):
I got a notification again? Am a super lawyer?

Speaker 4 (01:02:06):
Nice? That means it can fly.

Speaker 8 (01:02:09):
It's better than not. Ye put it that way. It's reviewed,
so it's a good thing.

Speaker 4 (01:02:14):
Yeah.

Speaker 8 (01:02:14):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (01:02:14):
Do that stuff work out? I mean when you tell
clients that, do they you know, do they give it weight?

Speaker 8 (01:02:19):
I don't know. You know, I have it on my website.
Maybe they look at it, maybe they don't. I give
them a copy in my resume. But they never say,
you know, what kind of super lawyer stuff can you do?

Speaker 3 (01:02:29):
Yeah, but you don't. You don't apply for this, right,
it's just to apply for it. They just apply for
They just nominate you, and you're in.

Speaker 8 (01:02:35):
They nominate you. They question other lawyers they question judges,
and that's how they claim that they come up with
who's going to be a super lawyer?

Speaker 4 (01:02:43):
Very nice?

Speaker 3 (01:02:44):
Well, congratulations again, congratulations. Glenn always brings a case in.
That's part of the bit that we do here. We'll
read this case. It's usually a case that Glenn is
either arguing or is considering arguing. We will kind of
go around the room trying to figure out exactly what
we think should happen, and then Glenn can give us
an idea of what actually does happen. One of the
reasons we do this segment is just so you can
get a better idea of how things actually work when

(01:03:06):
it comes to the legal nature of arguing cases. Sometimes
you think you've got a case, and maybe you don't.
Sometimes you think you're innocent, maybe you aren't. And sometimes
it works out really well in your favor if you
just pay.

Speaker 4 (01:03:18):
Attention to the facts and stuff. So you guys, ready, yeah,
here we go.

Speaker 3 (01:03:22):
Jeff and Susie are friends and two months ago were
in Jeff's car when another car blew through a stop
sign and t boned Jeff's car. Jeff and Susie are
both injured and both went to an emergency room, and
both are continuing to get medical treatment from doctors for
their neck and back injuries from the crash. Both hired
lawyer X. So they both hired the same attorney.

Speaker 5 (01:03:44):
Okay, all right.

Speaker 3 (01:03:45):
Two passengers that were in the other car were also
injured and have made claims. The driver of the vehicle
that ran the stop sign has insurance with a limit
to pay twenty thousand dollars for all of the injuries
he caused. Lawyer X is telling Jeff and Susie they
should each agree to accept five thousand dollars as their
final settlement. Susie wants another option. What would you advise

(01:04:08):
her to do? So there's twenty k for the injuries
and for some reason, this all you're saying you should
abcept five each? Was only ten total?

Speaker 8 (01:04:16):
Yeah, because there's four claimings. So she wanted a second
opinion as to what you know. That's the question. She
wants the second opinion. What do you suggest for.

Speaker 3 (01:04:24):
Okay, So, hold on, Does Jeff have insurance on his car?

Speaker 8 (01:04:28):
Jeff has insurance on his car with no uninsured motors, car.

Speaker 4 (01:04:31):
With no uninsured motor. Does she have uninsured motors?

Speaker 8 (01:04:34):
She does not have an inture motive, she doesn't own
a car. They're both college kids, are they really? Yeah?

Speaker 5 (01:04:39):
I was going to say, how deep into this case
are they?

Speaker 8 (01:04:42):
Because not much the action happened two months ago.

Speaker 7 (01:04:45):
Then I say, hire another attorney. That's what I would say.
This is one of those cases where folks don't need
to believe they need to stick with someone just because
they've started the paperwork necessarily.

Speaker 4 (01:04:57):
And that's interesting.

Speaker 3 (01:04:58):
I don't know that we've had a case where it
mentioned in the case that the two people involved or
two the people involved hired the same attorney.

Speaker 4 (01:05:04):
And this is even more unique because it was the
two people that were in the same vehicle. Is that rare?
And do you recommend that?

Speaker 8 (01:05:11):
It just depends? And that's a real good question. That's
where you know this case is kind of going. I
don't know, if you want to want me to expound
on an hour, let Jack jump in, Well.

Speaker 4 (01:05:19):
No, yeah, we let Jack jump in.

Speaker 3 (01:05:20):
But I just wanted to kind of make it around
like I don't remember us ever experiencing a situation like
that where both people in the car hired the same
exact attorney, And I don't know if that's an advantage
or not.

Speaker 4 (01:05:29):
Jack, what do you think?

Speaker 6 (01:05:30):
Yeah, we've done this so many times. I don't remember
if we've done it before or not like this specific scenario.
But I do believe you have to look for alternate
ways to get money, and you also don't have to settle.
You can go for a bigger piece of the twenty
thousand dollars. You don't have to agree to split it
with the two shlubs in the other car. You know

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what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (01:05:52):
Yeah, that's the other thing is like, you know, the
two passengers in the other car, the guy caused the accident.

Speaker 4 (01:05:57):
But they didn't. They were passengers. Yeah, yeah, they're also victims. Yeah, yep,
they're also victims in this. But I think you also
have to look at where else can you get money?
Where is he coming from, what's a relationship, who owns
the car? And see if there's another opportunity out there
more than the twenty k that's on the table. Do

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we know that? Do we know? How?

Speaker 8 (01:06:21):
I mean?

Speaker 4 (01:06:21):
How much Jeff and Suzie's medical bills are right now?
I mean the emergency root trip alone is like fifteen hundred,
isn't it.

Speaker 8 (01:06:28):
Well, you know they've got ten thousand dollars each to
pay towards their own medical bills. I don't know that
they've used ten thousand dollars each. This was a call
I got where I didn't delve deep into it at
this point because I saw there was other problems I
needed to talk to this young lady about who called,
and I didn't delve deep into it yet.

Speaker 4 (01:06:46):
Hmmm. So they have the opportunity to split the other
ten as well, the people who are who were run into.

Speaker 8 (01:06:53):
Yeah, here's the way it works. They have their Jeff
has his car insurance that will pay ten thousand dollars
towards his medical bills. Susie doesn't have any car insurance,
doesn't live with a relative, she's not on appearance policy,
but she gets ten thousand dollars in medical bills paid
for under Jeff's insurance. Also. So then there are two

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of them and the two passengers in the other car,
the four victims. There's twenty thousand dollars to pay all
four claims. And the insurance company is saying we'll get
the twenty thousand dollars. You all figure out how to
split it up, and Susie saying, I want another opinion.

Speaker 3 (01:07:30):
Okay, do we know if the other people. It says
the other people were also injured and have made claims.
Do we know the depth of the injuries for the
other two We do not. Yeah, but they're only entitled.
So if they did these split evenly four ways, each
of those people would get the five where it would
be fifteen in Susie's car for both people.

Speaker 4 (01:07:51):
Right, exactly. That's what I was saying earlier, his insurance
that the driver who was not at fun.

Speaker 3 (01:07:55):
But it leads me to believe the way the question
is asked, though, is that there's a possibility that Susie
and Jeff are actually that they should get more of
the other money, Because I mean, if Susie's looking for
an option, this wouldn't even be a question if there
was no problem. So what they're basically saying is they
don't think the twenty should be split evenly.

Speaker 6 (01:08:14):
You can negotiate that based on the injuries and say, listen,
you know they were in the other vehicle, they were
with the person, And I don't know if it makes
one that the people in the other cart more of
a victim because they had no connection with the person. Again,
I don't know if there was any where they were
coming from, or any other factors of other sources of income. Yeah,

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with money available would be playing.

Speaker 8 (01:08:40):
Yeah, it's always good to look at other sources of income.
And Susie did not know whether the other people went
to the emergency room and ambulance didn't come for any
of them. But you know, she doesn't know. She just
thinks that she's getting the short end of it. She's
still hurting, and she doesn't think she should have to
take five grand and walk away.

Speaker 4 (01:08:58):
Yeah, the lawyer X could say, I'm sorry Susie and
the other prey, they're more injured and deserve more of
that twenty thousand. It's not an even split. They weren't
injured evenly. Yeah, that's that's kind of what I would say.

Speaker 3 (01:09:10):
I mean, I'm serious, That's kind of what I was
thinking that initially, is like I think they just needed
to renegotiate the split because maybe the other two aren't
injured as bad because they were.

Speaker 6 (01:09:18):
You know, and was the t boning on the passenger
side on susie side.

Speaker 3 (01:09:22):
T bone was on a passenger side sushi. Yeah, so
she took the brunt of it. Hey, Yeah, that's what
I say. I say that you you know, obviously Susie
needs to renegotiate the twenty thousand dollars split and use
the severity of her injuries to negotiate a bigger cut
of that pie because she was the one that had
took the brunt of the crash.

Speaker 8 (01:09:41):
That's what I think, right right, And here a lawyer
is saying, the insurance company says, here's the twenty thousand
dollars pot. You four people, split it up. We don't
have anything else to do with it. And Susie's saying,
I want another opinion from the other than what lawyer
Rex is telling me that I need to take five
grand and walk away, because of course she doesn't get
five grands, she's got to pay it. Lawyer right, yeah, yeah,
one third? And you know, right right right.

Speaker 4 (01:10:03):
What do you deb or what's your final answer on this?

Speaker 7 (01:10:06):
Well, I go back to, you know, the example of Patrick,
a client that Glenn had, you know, a listener to
the show, you know, had gone to someone else who
had said, Yep, nope, your policy doesn't cover this. We're
so sorry, you're not going to be able to have
any restitution. Patrick brings the case to Glenn. Glenn knows
you need to look here, here, and here in someone's

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insurance policy and ended up finding that place for his
injuries to be covered. So I think, to me, it
sounds like lawyer X is just taking the easiest way out. Yeah, yeah,
there should be and probably is. More money is available,
They just don't have the legal representation to know where
to look. So I say, fire lawyer X, go to
Glenn Clausman and get the money that you need.

Speaker 4 (01:10:49):
Plot twist. What if Glenn was lawyer X.

Speaker 5 (01:10:51):
Not possible? Not possible, and you would do too much work.
He wouldn't do this.

Speaker 3 (01:10:57):
And haven't we heard arguments that that when this does happened,
that there is like a sliding scale that the person
that received the most injuries does get most of the
money out of it.

Speaker 4 (01:11:07):
I mean even after the fact.

Speaker 8 (01:11:09):
Yeah, well the person with the most damages should get it.
And you know, another factor we don't know is the
two people in the other card that A heard is
their uninsured MOTI strategies that can fall back on. Right,
So she doesn't know or it didn't give her all
that information. She doesn't know.

Speaker 5 (01:11:22):
Layer X isn't interested in finding it out.

Speaker 3 (01:11:24):
Yeah, so obviously you would advise her to at least
get another returney and to get another opinion because you
think there's money being left on the table.

Speaker 8 (01:11:30):
Here's what I would advise, This is what I said
to her. First of all, when two people are in
an accident and you're going after someone else, if it's
husband and wife, there's no problem. They don't have a
conflict with each other. Here. As soon as the other
lawyer found out. As soon as lawyer finds out, there's
only one pot of money. And now I've got two
clients that potentially are fighting over the same pot of money.

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At that point, that lawyer's got a conflict. And unless
he has Susie and Jeff agreeing under standing, there's a conflict.
Both of us are going after the same pot. Jeff's
interests and Susie's interest don't necessary are not necessarily the same.
Jeff may not be willing to say Susie gets more
money than me, and Susie's not going to say Jeff
gets more money than Susie. So at that point, the

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lawyer's got a problem. He's representing two clients that have
a he's got a conflict of interest with both.

Speaker 3 (01:12:21):
They're trying to get money out of the same pot
and one thinks they deserve more than the other, and
there's no way he could represent both of them equally
and be fair, right.

Speaker 8 (01:12:27):
Right, I mean, how are you going to zealously represent
Jeff and jealously represent Susie when they're both going after
the same pot of money. So at that point, that
lawyer's got a problem. And if Susie and Jeff had
not agreed once they knew that there's one pot of
money that they've got to go after and it's limited,
then he's got a problem continuing to represent both of them.

Speaker 4 (01:12:47):
Wow.

Speaker 8 (01:12:48):
So you know, I explain to her, you know the situation.
You know, I don't know very much about it, but
I explained, you know, you need to have a discussion
with him about this. And I think the lawyers at
the point where he's got to say, you know, if
Jeff and Susie don't agree, I'm gonna have to get
out of this skyah yeah. Yeah.

Speaker 3 (01:13:07):
And they called you after the fact, so they already
knew this was the case. So they've already talked to.

Speaker 8 (01:13:12):
One lawyer about this, right right, So well, they hired
this guy, they hired him, Yeah, they hired him.

Speaker 3 (01:13:16):
Oh, Wow, so this is just not an opinion. They
actually they hired him.

Speaker 8 (01:13:21):
Yeaheah, they hired him in The insurance company saw, there's
only twenty grand ago around. We got four people that
are injured. They too went to the emergency room. I
don't know what the others did, but here's the twenty
thousand dollars. The insurance company's position is, we're done with it,
don't We only have to pay twenty here it is
you four split it up.

Speaker 3 (01:13:36):
So Susie should just lawyer up and go for the
entire thing then, or go for the biggest chunk of
it and there because you're right, we don't know that
that's the only money, because we don't know that the
other passengers have auto insurance that includes uninsured, which would
also up the pot as well.

Speaker 8 (01:13:48):
Well, it wouldn't up to the pot for Susie, but they
may not need to get the five grand if they
got one hundred thousand dollars in under Sure motors coverage
and are not hurt that bad.

Speaker 4 (01:13:56):
Right, Yes, Susie could have it all at that point.

Speaker 8 (01:13:58):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (01:13:58):
Are Susi and Jeff Susie and Jeff sure? Yeah? Yeah?
Are they romantically involved?

Speaker 10 (01:14:01):
No?

Speaker 8 (01:14:02):
Just college kids that were going downtown and you know,
had an accident.

Speaker 4 (01:14:06):
Wow, yeah, how big? I mean how fast were they
going to the impact?

Speaker 8 (01:14:09):
I mean, you know what, her airbags did not deploy
on the side, so I don't know, if you know,
she didn't know the car whether it had a side
airbag or not. It was a side on her side,
but more toward the front right fender.

Speaker 4 (01:14:22):
Oh I see, so yeah, yeah, so she just got
jostled around quite a bit.

Speaker 8 (01:14:26):
Yeah, she good neck and back problems. And you know
she's young. Yeah, absolutely, college kid. Yeah, yeah, went to
the emergency room. Most college kids when you get an
action that they're not going to the emergency room, that's
it hurt pretty bad?

Speaker 4 (01:14:35):
No, no, no, yeah.

Speaker 8 (01:14:36):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (01:14:36):
And what does this stop sign runner have to say
for himself? Glenn who knows?

Speaker 8 (01:14:41):
Who knows, probably say, I'm sorry, I didn't notice that
stop signed well.

Speaker 4 (01:14:44):
Kind of vigor theian, uh like a little car or something.

Speaker 8 (01:14:49):
Yeah, I didn't go into if she told me, I
didn't make a difference.

Speaker 4 (01:14:52):
Is this where you went down today?

Speaker 8 (01:14:53):
Is this the no? No, yeah, it's just that's another accident.
I went and looked at the sequence of the lights.

Speaker 3 (01:14:57):
That's kind of wild, right that you have to do
all that stuff. You have to go and look at
lights to make sure the timing is changes at the
same time so.

Speaker 4 (01:15:04):
It matches up with it.

Speaker 8 (01:15:05):
In this other case, I got person saying I turned
on a green arrow, and the other person says I
had a solid green. So my thinking is probably the
person that turned in front of the person with the
solid green also had a solid green, didn't realize it
and turned in front of the person with the solid green.
So I was looking at a timing sequence on the
You know when it turns green arrow, when it stops
the green arrow, how much of a pause there is

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before the other car comes.

Speaker 6 (01:15:30):
You would have to do it at the same time
in the day, I presume, because they glare.

Speaker 4 (01:15:35):
Well, no, like at night.

Speaker 6 (01:15:37):
It might be a different timing power the congestion level.

Speaker 8 (01:15:41):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, you do. It's not much different daytime.
At night it might be different, but ere was, they're
not much difference.

Speaker 3 (01:15:51):
It's funny because I thought you were going to say
the glare there are a number of lights out by
where I live. The right time of day, you can't
see it at all. I mean when I say you
can't see it at all. Even if you put your
hand up and try to block the sun, you cannot
see the light. Yeah, you have to wait for the
other vehicles to move and just hope they got it right.

Speaker 8 (01:16:08):
I've had plenty of cases where someone turns in front
of someone and they said the sun was in my eyes.
I couldn't see the light. You know, I turned in
front of them, and you know I didn't see the
light because of the sun. To blame the sun, Yeah,
blame the sun.

Speaker 3 (01:16:19):
You have to go back and look at it, though,
I mean, you have to go back and see them.
Does that hold up in court?

Speaker 8 (01:16:23):
Yeah? Well no, I had one not that long ago
where this that exact thing happened downtown on a church street,
on a little bit on the west side, and I
went and took a look at it, and yeah, you know, yeah,
and at that time of morning, the sun was in
the person's eyes. But you don't turn when you don't
see you don't turn, do you see you oncoming car?

Speaker 3 (01:16:39):
And also in rural areas that happened sometimes. I believe
there's at least one of these out where we live.
That vegetation can grow in front of a sign, whether
it be a speed speed limit sign and a stop sign,
whatever the case may be, and of course it's the
county's responsibility to keep that clear.

Speaker 4 (01:16:54):
Do those cases hold up?

Speaker 3 (01:16:55):
Like if you were to go through a stop sign
and say, well, man, I didn't even see the thing.
The vegetation for from the from the you know, the
road covered up the sign and I didn't see it
at all.

Speaker 8 (01:17:04):
I don't know where you live, I don't. I've never
seen that. I've never serious. I've never seen vegetation covering
up stop signs.

Speaker 3 (01:17:09):
Overhanging trees that's in a four stock corner, overhanging trees,
limb grows too far and grows down and grows in
front of the sign.

Speaker 8 (01:17:17):
Maybe. I mean, I just haven't had a case like that.
I mean, you know, it's uh, I just have an
ad a case that I've had cases where, of course,
the vegetation We've talked about this before. Somebody will have
shrubs or vegetation where you pull up to turn and
you can't see what's going on because all the hedges
are vegetation.

Speaker 3 (01:17:34):
Yeah, we had that little thing in publics that happened
there where you pull out there you had to stuck.
You have to stick your car so far out in
the intersection to see from MAT's coming because the vegetation.
And then somebody hit you on their bicycle on the
on the on the on the bike trail.

Speaker 8 (01:17:47):
Yep, yep. And I remember Sean when he was over
on the you know, the public's on seventy ninety two.
He said they were accidents there all the time because
the shrubs are too high and you can't see. Didn't see.

Speaker 3 (01:17:55):
You have to pull out too far to be able
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Speaker 4 (01:18:05):
Call that man right there, mister Glenn Clausman. Good loud guys,
yay allrybody. We will see you next week. Good job,
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Speaker 4 (01:20:01):
So quick question.

Speaker 5 (01:20:03):
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Speaker 4 (01:20:15):
Shoot, Google tab, Google tab, three Google tabs. So we
all occasionally will imbibe in a fast for fast food burger,
will we not?

Speaker 10 (01:20:26):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (01:20:26):
Now, do you have your favorite fast food burger? Is
its Culver's? Yeah?

Speaker 5 (01:20:31):
I do like a Culver.

Speaker 4 (01:20:32):
You get the butter burger like a true Wisconsin girl.
You need to ask some cheese kurts to go along.

Speaker 5 (01:20:38):
No, all right, No, I like my cheese kurts fresh jack.

Speaker 4 (01:20:41):
What is your go to when you're gonna cheat? You're
gonna have that that fast food burger. Who is it
for you? It would probably be a big Mac. A
big Mac.

Speaker 8 (01:20:49):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (01:20:50):
I mean there's places I'll go for a burger that
you know that I have a really good bugger.

Speaker 4 (01:20:56):
But you couldn't call I couldn't call them fast food.

Speaker 3 (01:20:58):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, man, I gotta tell you, it's a
couple for me. I actually did not have any relationship
with the Culver's Burger until they built one, not even
two miles from my house. And the Culvers Burger is
a good burger. But to me, the Culver's experience, it
really does kind of hinge on the fact of how
they cook their fries, because sometimes you can get the

(01:21:20):
fries and are cooked a lot, so they're real crispy,
and sometimes they're not that crispy, and that does change
the texture of that entire experience.

Speaker 5 (01:21:27):
To me, without a doubt, it used to be.

Speaker 3 (01:21:30):
It used to be Steak and Shake. The problem with
Steak and Jay burgers is the flavor is great. I
can eat one in three bites because they're not they're
really not that big, but they're so good. Here's the
question of the burgers that we like. I would say
that my my guilty pleasure burger is probably a quarter pounder,
which I get one about every two weeks. I'll get
a quarter pounder with cheese and a ten piece nugget,

(01:21:51):
and that is my you. You are a terrible person meal.
And I'm not saying because the food's bad. It's just
because it 't the best for you. But I love
the taste of a quarter pound when I do that.
And occasionally Wendy's right, I'll do like a Wendy's dollar.

Speaker 7 (01:22:03):
Yeah, And sometimes there is that burger hangar that only
a McDonald's product can.

Speaker 5 (01:22:09):
Tell you, or the quarter pounds or.

Speaker 4 (01:22:11):
Something about that.

Speaker 8 (01:22:12):
All right, yep.

Speaker 3 (01:22:13):
Now, the reason I asked this is who do you
think makes the most healthy fast food hamburger? And by
the way, some of the ones mentioned today are definitely
on the list. There are seven burgers they tried, and
I'll give them to you real quick, and you can
tell me which one you think.

Speaker 9 (01:22:29):
This is, in no.

Speaker 3 (01:22:29):
Particular order, all right, the Wopper Junior, right, Wendy's Junior, Hamburger, Classic,
McDonald's Burger in and Out Burger, Culver's Burger, what Burger Junior,
or the shake check Hamburger not cheeseburger Hamburger because we're
going for healthy here, so we're trying to cut the
calories as much as possible, so they nicked the cheese.

Speaker 4 (01:22:52):
I guess. Seeing I think there are two on the
list that I think are near the front end.

Speaker 3 (01:22:57):
It would be Culver's and Wendy'sing Culvers, I'll go Burger
King very interesting.

Speaker 4 (01:23:07):
Culvers is next to last.

Speaker 3 (01:23:09):
Really, Culver's, out of seven burgers, comes in number six,
but their butter.

Speaker 4 (01:23:13):
Burger butter but burger.

Speaker 5 (01:23:16):
But this stuff of life.

Speaker 3 (01:23:18):
The highest calorie count without extra toppings is the is
the Culver's Butterburger at almost four hundred calories without any
cheese or any extra toppings.

Speaker 5 (01:23:27):
Explains why I'm a butter ball.

Speaker 3 (01:23:28):
The shake check Hamburger is the worst, really, it says,
piled with toppings, special sauce, it isn't your best option
to change. Classic Hamburger is a healthier choice for a
fast food burger. We're talking twenty four grams of carbs,
eight grams of saturated fat, eight hundred and fifty milligrams
of sodium.

Speaker 9 (01:23:49):
Not good.

Speaker 3 (01:23:50):
The number one burger, the healthiest burger out there, is
the Wendy's Junior Hamburger. Really, Yeah, that's right. The Wendy's
Junior Hamburger had a two hundred and thirty count calories,
low salt, four grams of saturated fat, twelve grams of protein,
and just twenty four grams of carbs. So, if you're
getting a fast food burger and you want to keep

(01:24:12):
it as healthy as possible, the Wendy's Junior Hamburger is
the best one.

Speaker 5 (01:24:16):
Well, it's probably just you know, ketchup mustard and pickles.

Speaker 4 (01:24:19):
And you picked out the number two. The Burger King
Wopper Junior is the second healthiest burger.

Speaker 5 (01:24:24):
That's the meal I get as a Whopper Junior meal.

Speaker 4 (01:24:26):
That's funny. My wife a little My wife only eats
kids meals well, same year, Yeah, because she can't eat
the whole thing, and she can tell you she barely
finishes the kids meal. Yeah.

Speaker 3 (01:24:36):
The classic McDonald's burger is the third healthiest. The In
and Out Burger is the fourth, Waburger Junior is the fifth,
and then of course going into the Butterburger and then
into the shake check Hamburger.

Speaker 4 (01:24:48):
I think you just say shake check and it's automatically
bad for you.

Speaker 3 (01:24:52):
That way, I don't need to I don't think you
could be the shake check napkin is his worst for you.

Speaker 4 (01:24:58):
And anytime you walk asked a like a, what's the
really five guys?

Speaker 8 (01:25:04):
Oh?

Speaker 3 (01:25:04):
Yeah, man, there's a five guys on an end cap
in that in a shopping center that we have near
us Jack. And when you drive by that thing, you
just drive by it and you're like, how do people
even go inside? Like it just smell just because the
frying oil of the fries and everything, it just and
it smells unbelievable. I mean, but you just know when
you walk in there what you're getting. Yeah, because I

(01:25:25):
think that triple burger or whatever is one of the
worst ones for you, right, one of the worst fat.

Speaker 5 (01:25:29):
Ones, which means it's the most delicious.

Speaker 4 (01:25:31):
It is the most delicious.

Speaker 3 (01:25:32):
I haven't had a five guy since I lived in
Baldwin Park. Yeah, it's one hundred calories just the park.
And it's funny, Like I read this list, I was like, man,
I gotta tell you, I think every one of these
burgers holds up. They don't none of them have cheese, Like, well,
there's not cheese, and they're all hamburgers, and I don't
eat hamburgers.

Speaker 7 (01:25:52):
Well that and that lends itself to the question, if
you're gonna cheat with a burger, a fast food burger
in the first place, just get the cheeseburger and skip
the other toppings. But I don't if it's not really
that healthy for you in the end, then just have
a little bit of fun with it.

Speaker 3 (01:26:10):
What is your what is your your fast food experience?
Like when when you guys do crave something, is it?
Do you have a favorite fast food?

Speaker 14 (01:26:17):
Is?

Speaker 4 (01:26:18):
Is it always the Big mac Jack if I'm going
to McDon no, it's not.

Speaker 6 (01:26:22):
Sometimes I mean like my uh my daughter turns me
onto some of the special meals where it's like these
five dollars specials, or you can do like hey, it's
a burger. It's like four nuggets and a drink and stuff,
and it's like it's like, ah, I never would have
looked at that.

Speaker 4 (01:26:39):
Really, she speaks, well, you always, I always, you know,
you get what you know.

Speaker 6 (01:26:45):
And they when they change around those value I don't
delve into the value menu so much. And I know
that's one of the things that the fast food places
have been focusing on, is trying to get more attention
back to their value meal because they it kind of
went away.

Speaker 4 (01:27:03):
They used to have, like I think they did away
with it, the dollar stuff, right.

Speaker 5 (01:27:07):
They did. Now they're bringing it back.

Speaker 4 (01:27:09):
Yeah, but because they saw that drop off.

Speaker 3 (01:27:11):
Well, one of the things that happened, like about three
or four months ago is people started kind of posting
the cost of eating at fast food restaurants when we
are feeling this crunch of you know, food costs, and
people are like, you know, it just cost me seventeen
dollars for a number two at McDonald's people were like,
what for burger and fries and to drink seventeen bucks
or whatever? And that was when the big blowback, and
then all the fast food places started kind of catching

(01:27:33):
on that that, you know, sales were down because their
their food prices were expensive. And I believe McDonald's was
the first company to kind of reach out and do
a ten dollars meal or eight nine ninety nine or whatever.
That's what brought Chili's back to life, by the way, Yeah,
was it Chili's not Chili's, No, it was Chili's. Chili's
did that nine to ninety nine burger deal right, drink

(01:27:53):
for nine and they turned that entire franchise around with
a damn Hamburger because it was such a good deal
and you couldn't even get a.

Speaker 4 (01:28:00):
Better deal at a at a drive through.

Speaker 6 (01:28:01):
Yeah, to go in and sit down at a you know,
a restaurant, what fast casual? Yeah right, yeah, yeah, get
a meal for under ten buns and some service. Only
problem is you have to tip it. Don't tip it
drive throughs. I mean that's the only thing.

Speaker 4 (01:28:14):
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Speaker 4 (01:28:59):
There's deb Hello. Jack is here as well.

Speaker 9 (01:29:01):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (01:29:02):
Uh, this young lady came in to talk to you
guys when I wasn't around, and I think that was
the reason, because I wasn't around. Yeah, that happens for sure,
you guys give it up. Good laugh for Collette Fair.

Speaker 4 (01:29:11):
What do you say, couples therapist and relationship expert.

Speaker 16 (01:29:18):
Here to do therapy on you, to know expert?

Speaker 5 (01:29:21):
She says, Wow, she can spot a case from a blocker.

Speaker 4 (01:29:24):
Yeah, she is.

Speaker 3 (01:29:25):
She's one of these people when you say her name
and then you there, you know, you get the comma
and then there's just letters. Right, It's just so many letters.
It's like your name, comma alphabet. Can you explain some
of the professional accolades that you have so we can
kind of justify you being here, young lady.

Speaker 16 (01:29:41):
Sure to prove myself.

Speaker 18 (01:29:43):
It's so true though, and it means nothing to other people,
but you work so hard for these damn letters.

Speaker 9 (01:29:48):
Right.

Speaker 4 (01:29:48):
Yeah.

Speaker 18 (01:29:49):
So, in Florida, the typical licenses for mental health counselors
or people who practice therapy. You can be a psychologist,
you can be a social worker, you can be a
licensed mental health counselor you can be a licensed marriage
and family therapist. I am the two latter, okay, And
all of those things allow you to sit with clients
the privilege and honor, and I really do believe that

(01:30:10):
it's very much a mission driven career. I think of
sitting with people and helping them with whatever they're going through.

Speaker 4 (01:30:17):
Yeah, you know, it's interesting. I do want to ask
you a quick question.

Speaker 3 (01:30:20):
This has nothing to do what we're going to talk about,
but I do find your opinion of it interesting. Here recently,
there was a therapist that had an unfortunate encounter with
a former client of hers, and it was you know,
it was a tragic story in your job because you
do deal with so many volatile situations between couples, between
you know, anybody that has a relationship issue like that.

(01:30:42):
I mean, do you ever run into situations where it
gets so heated you have to kind of like do
something to kind of cool the room a bit.

Speaker 18 (01:30:48):
Yes, absolutely, And I used to have more of that
earlier in my career. I don't know if like I've
just gotten more seasoned or my client population has changed,
but I definitely have had some difficult situations early on
where even something kind of explosive, remember anything where I
feared for my life. But I have had clients that

(01:31:10):
I've worried about safety a little bit in the past
and not wanted to work at night or be alone
in the building. Wow, yeah, not so much anymore. But
your point is valid. It is a really fraught situation.
I work mostly with couples, so sometimes someone is there
to end a relationship and people get very upset and

(01:31:31):
it's triggering and anything can happen.

Speaker 3 (01:31:33):
And can you tell immediately when a couple comes in
and the entire goal of at least one part of
the couple is to use you as a tool as
a tool to I.

Speaker 18 (01:31:44):
Think most people think their partner is more a fault
than they are. I know I did in my first marriage.

Speaker 16 (01:31:50):
Actually I do even now in.

Speaker 4 (01:31:51):
My current marriage.

Speaker 16 (01:31:54):
I think that's how we work and nature.

Speaker 18 (01:31:58):
But I do think a lot of people come in
with this, even if they wouldn't say it so explicitly.

Speaker 16 (01:32:04):
Can you fix my partner?

Speaker 18 (01:32:06):
And part of my job is to help people realize
that they can only turn the lens around and look
at and work on themselves, because no matter what, even
if your partner's ninety percent. Let's just say of the problem,
there's always something, it's a system, and there's always.

Speaker 16 (01:32:21):
Something you're contributing, and you can do better at.

Speaker 4 (01:32:23):
Right right right now. I know that you wrote a book,
and I do find it fascinating. What's the name of
your book?

Speaker 16 (01:32:28):
The Cost of Quiet?

Speaker 18 (01:32:30):
How to have the hard conversations that create secure, lasting love.

Speaker 9 (01:32:34):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (01:32:34):
Now, I have a little bit of experience in a
situation of this nature, you know, from past relationships, and
my whole thing is this. I am not You're probably
gonna find this little odd, guys, but I'm not really
a confrontational person.

Speaker 4 (01:32:46):
I do not enjoy it at all. And I do
know people who are very good at it and they
lean into it. I do not.

Speaker 3 (01:32:52):
If I have to do it, I will, but it
is not my favorite thing to do. I am a
person who likes to placate for the sake of peace,
and that is a real date I learned that is
a very very dangerous trait to have. And the thought
process is, well, if I bring up this very difficult scenario,
it's going to cause a giant argument that's going to

(01:33:14):
cause a rift in my relationship. That's going to be
irrepaarable when the whole time, it's the quiet that's causing
the rift that winds up being irreparable.

Speaker 16 (01:33:22):
You hit the nail on the head.

Speaker 18 (01:33:24):
That's really the central thesis of my whole book. I
use quiet as a euphemism for avoiding conflict. And what's
interesting I've noticed over my career. I mean, I have
a lot of clients who are trial attorneys and in
these jobs that are let's say, the most confrontational job
you could have, and they still don't want to address
conflict at home. And it's because our primary romantic partner

(01:33:45):
in adulthood, that is our closest attachment bond, and exactly
what you said, we're reluctant to do anything that could
jeopardize that bond. But at the same time we have
to deal with those issues because that's where emotional intimacy
comes from a deeper connection. Otherwise, you either have a
surface marriage and all this quiet quitting where people passively
disengage because they don't know each other anymore, or you

(01:34:09):
have this rise of gray divorce now in particular that
people are just a strange for years, that there's no
connection left anymore. And the reason I wrote the book,
is that most people are not fighting and yelling. They're
really not Most people are not saying much at all, right,
and they're filled with resentment or they're passive aggressive. So
I'm really giving an actionable roadmap for how to do

(01:34:30):
it diplomatically and constructively.

Speaker 3 (01:34:33):
And would you agree that, Like, I think maybe the
other guys can chime in here with their parents and
stuff and their own relationships. But it is kind of
a it's a unique thing because you don't want to
upset that person. But in the same sense, what you're
doing is is actually making the issue bigger because you're not.
And again it's culturally. I think we've been programmed to think, well,

(01:34:56):
that couple fights all the time, got it, They're they're
probably on the verge of de as opposed to seeing
a couple go into church every day, blah blah blah.
But you watch them at dinner and they don't talk,
they don't engage.

Speaker 16 (01:35:05):
The dining dead.

Speaker 4 (01:35:06):
They look great, the dining dead.

Speaker 16 (01:35:09):
That's not my own term, that comes from Eternal Sunshine.

Speaker 4 (01:35:13):
Yeah, but you look at them and you go, oh,
look at them, They're so cute.

Speaker 3 (01:35:17):
But in reality, their relationships and shambles, and the people
who are arguing are actually learning more about each other
and they're hashing those issues out. Therefore the relationships are
actually stronger, even though it doesn't seem that way.

Speaker 16 (01:35:28):
You are spot on.

Speaker 18 (01:35:29):
This is so true, and I think we confuse conflict
with contentiousness and arguing and yelling and blaming and all
this kind of stuff that isn't really great.

Speaker 5 (01:35:39):
That just means you're not Italian.

Speaker 7 (01:35:41):
Well, so you know, a loud arguing household is I mean,
that's a sign of love.

Speaker 16 (01:35:47):
Exactly, and the sign that you're engaged.

Speaker 18 (01:35:49):
I will say, when people are arguing, it does mean
they're invested. But we've got to really come from the
place of getting that internal clarity first about what you're
actually feeling, why matters, what's bothering you, and then you
can come forward when you're emotionally regulated and actually say
the truth. This is just about revealing more of your

(01:36:09):
inner world to somebody. It's scary, we're all scared to
be vulnerable, but it does. It does sap the relationship
of all of its strength if you don't do it,
and it's a matter of learning how it really is
an emotional muscle.

Speaker 4 (01:36:22):
Talking to call it fair. She is a relationship expert
here in Central Florida. Deb Yeah, clete.

Speaker 7 (01:36:26):
I wanted to ask how much does differing styles of
communication way in on helping couples find their way back
to each other, because you know, I'm a strong personality,
my fiance is not, and it's finding that balance where
I'm not that overpowering perfume in the room, you know
what I'm saying, and taking all of the all of

(01:36:48):
the air out of the room, you know, from him.
So how do you how do you help couples balance
just being two different weirdos?

Speaker 16 (01:36:58):
And you're right, that should be my tagline.

Speaker 18 (01:37:01):
This is where you could be happiest to different weirdos
because it's so true.

Speaker 16 (01:37:05):
So I'm more like you, which side note is also why.

Speaker 18 (01:37:08):
It's so interesting that I was so conflict avoidant in
such a people pleaser, like I'll say a lot, I'm Italian,
I'm outspoken. It's ironic that my book is called anything
with Quiet in it because I'm never quiet. But when
I'd get a signal that someone wasn't happy with me,
or that it could really take the relationship into a
bad place, then all of a sudden, I wanted to
play Kate and appease. So I think we can still

(01:37:30):
have that forceful personality but represent both sides. Now, I
don't think there's anything wrong with being that way. You're
probably with your partner in part, you too, are attracted
to one another because of that oppositeness. So I would
be more curious, you know, does he feel like you're
taking all the oxygen in the room. He might not,
you know, he might be perfectly content with that balance

(01:37:54):
and the dynamic. Now if he feels like he can't
get a word in edgewise, and that would be really
up to him, then that's something we would talk about
in therapy to make sure that there's space for both
people to be heard. But a lot of times, like
my husband doesn't talk and he's perfectly happy that way,
I am too.

Speaker 6 (01:38:13):
Collect Do you ever have a couple in therapy and
the husband, for you know, just to pick one makes
a really good point and you kind of give him
credit and you just see it on his face.

Speaker 4 (01:38:24):
So that was the first time in its relationship he
might have just won an argument.

Speaker 16 (01:38:28):
Yes, yes, And you know it's funny.

Speaker 18 (01:38:31):
Some people don't like this, but the type of therapy
I do, which is called emotionally focused couples therapy, and
it is the gold standard and evidence space treatment for couples,
so it's got the highest efficacy rates and it's all
based on attachment science, meaning that we really do need people,
we need relationships to feel safe and secure, and that
most of the time, what we're skipping over in conflict

(01:38:53):
and why it goes bad is that we get dysregulated,
we get signals of danger and we go into fight
or fly and we forget to address the need for
reassurance and comfort. Right, most things aren't so much about
the issues as that, and in this type of therapy,
we do not take side.

Speaker 16 (01:39:10):
So I really validate peop. That was a long way
to answer, I don't take that.

Speaker 18 (01:39:18):
But it's more like I'm putting myself in your shoes
and helping to get at what's important about what you're
trying to say and that it doesn't come out in
a way that's destructive, because if you're blaming or criticizing,
or what most people do is they'll say, well, I
feel like you don't care, I feel like you don't
listen to me, I feel like you don't do anything

(01:39:40):
that's really your interpretation, those are not your feelings. If
you say I'm hurt, and the story I tell myself
is that you don't care, right, and then there you
leave room for that other person to hear you more
easily and then to say, you know what, I really
do care.

Speaker 16 (01:39:56):
I can see why you thought that, but that's not true.
And now we've got to discussion.

Speaker 3 (01:40:00):
And I think that's super important because a lot of
time it is just a perception. And you know, deb
made a very good point, like if you have somebody
and they're very quiet, they don't really share a lot.
You know, you can perceive what you think they're thinking
because they're not really sharing that with you, and then
you build a perception of that of him being upset
or being in you know, you're constantly hey, are you okay?

Speaker 9 (01:40:18):
Oh?

Speaker 4 (01:40:18):
You are okay? And that drives people crazy. I've been there.
It's good.

Speaker 16 (01:40:21):
Like nine percent of what goes wrong. I call it
the negative partner story.

Speaker 18 (01:40:26):
You will the brain's and meaning making machines, so you
will interpret and the brain runs negative, right, yea, yeah,
so you're exactly right, and.

Speaker 4 (01:40:33):
You never go to the best case scenario.

Speaker 11 (01:40:34):
Never.

Speaker 3 (01:40:35):
For the record, you will never, ever, ever go you
know what, I bet, I bet she just loves me
so much. She just caught up in it and it's
got her tongue tied. You can't tell me at all
how she loves me. That's got to be it one
of the four agreements. Don't assume yeah, yeah, yeah, you
always go negative.

Speaker 4 (01:40:47):
Yeah.

Speaker 18 (01:40:48):
It's so true, and it applies to all things in life, right,
which is why it's one of the four agreements, which
I love, by the way, But it really comes up
in our romantic relationships a lot, because there's so much
at stake, they're so important to us.

Speaker 16 (01:41:02):
We get a signal of danger so easily. All it
takes is a ton of voice.

Speaker 18 (01:41:06):
To change an expression to harden right, and all of
a sudden, you're off to the races.

Speaker 3 (01:41:11):
And especially if you need the if you have the need,
like you know, to be loved and liked, like you know,
my need for my wife is like you.

Speaker 4 (01:41:19):
I need you to desire me.

Speaker 3 (01:41:20):
I need you to look at me like you know,
like I'm the only dude out there. And I don't
mean that superficially.

Speaker 4 (01:41:25):
I need to feel it. I don't need you to
pawn all over me and everything like I just need.

Speaker 3 (01:41:29):
To feel in the house that you know, true, that
I that you know, I got you, you know, and
sometimes we you know, we've lost a couple of times
around relationship, We've lost that vision and had to kind
of readjust to get back in there. The one thing
I answer I wanted to ask you is this, when
you go into relationship issues, how.

Speaker 4 (01:41:45):
Deep do you go?

Speaker 3 (01:41:46):
Because I kind of believe that one of the reasons
I'm the way I am is because how my dad was.
My dad was an incredibly overbearing, borderline kind of abusive
personality where he was just so dominant in there no
ever the way to say it without getting real deep overbearing,
and it was constant contact or conflict in our house.
There was never a good moment. There was never like

(01:42:08):
every time he walked through the door, it was immediate
tension and anxiety because he was never in a good mood,
never had anything good to say, never was positive about anything.
It was perpetually negative. And then he was like that
toward my mother as well. So I think maybe my
defense mechanism is I don't want to be that way.
I don't want to ever be perceived that way that
I'm that that person and I think that drove some

(01:42:31):
of the issues I had in my former relationship and
some of the ones that we would have sprinkled into
the one I am in now.

Speaker 18 (01:42:37):
Absolutely, I relate to that so much because these childhood
patterns are so formative. You know, my parents are wonderful people,
but they fought a lot before they got divorced. And
I remember lying there listening to them argue and thinking,
I am going to grow up and have the happiest
marriage and we're never gonna ark right, right, right.

Speaker 16 (01:42:56):
And my first marriage was like that. I mean, I
it does condition to say, uh oh, people are getting upset.
What can I do?

Speaker 18 (01:43:03):
I was that played that role in the family, which
no surprise, I'm a therapist of trying to okay mom's upset,
Let me make her feel better, let me help dad
understand what mom really meant. You know, I was doing
that as a child, right right. And I was a
child in some cases, I was nine years.

Speaker 16 (01:43:18):
Old doing this. So you know, it's not ideas I
was born for this or I was made into it.

Speaker 18 (01:43:26):
But in my first marriage I picked somebody who really
we never argued, I mean we never Everybody thought we
were the perfect couple. We had a great what I
call surface marriage. It's wonderful from the outside. We had
a nice life, lifestyle, friends, the kiss, the whole thing,
but there was no connection.

Speaker 4 (01:43:44):
None I felt.

Speaker 3 (01:43:44):
That is exactly when we told her mom that we
were getting divorced, she did not believe us. She thought
it was a joke because we had never showed a
fisher in a relationship at all.

Speaker 4 (01:43:56):
No one saw us get at each other. All they
saw was the good stuff. We never argued. There was
never any strife, none of that. It was completely fake.
The entire thing was completely.

Speaker 16 (01:44:04):
Fake, exactly exactly.

Speaker 18 (01:44:06):
And you know, now I don't have a flawless relationship,
but I have a real relationship.

Speaker 4 (01:44:10):
I'm in it.

Speaker 16 (01:44:11):
I say how I feel. My husband has come a
long way.

Speaker 18 (01:44:15):
I mean, he's an accountant, CPA, he works as a CFO, so.

Speaker 16 (01:44:18):
This is like way out of his comfort zone.

Speaker 18 (01:44:20):
But he's done so much work to learn to communicate
and share more about what he feels, be more vulnerable.

Speaker 16 (01:44:27):
It's really hard for.

Speaker 18 (01:44:28):
Men too, because society has not done men any favor,
and how we've conditioned men to be strong and silent.

Speaker 16 (01:44:35):
We have to change that. Men feel just as much
as women.

Speaker 9 (01:44:38):
And what you.

Speaker 18 (01:44:39):
Described about being desired and knowing your wife loves you,
that felt sense.

Speaker 16 (01:44:44):
That's an attachment need. We do need to feel that.
We need to feel safe. We need to feel secure, loved, valued, accepted, desired.

Speaker 18 (01:44:52):
When those things are good, the little arguments, the little stuff,
it gets figured out. Sixty nine percent of a couple's
problems are not even solvable, meaning you'll argue about the
same for.

Speaker 4 (01:45:03):
The remainder of your life.

Speaker 16 (01:45:04):
Yes, and that's.

Speaker 18 (01:45:04):
Research based, longitudinal research from the Gotmans, who are at
the top of the food chain in couples therapy. So
it's really more about having a conversation about your feelings,
feeling heard, feeling accepted and understood, and then the solvable
problems will get addressed and they'll get worked out.

Speaker 3 (01:45:21):
Col A Fair here with us. We'll tell you more
about her book in a second, so stay tuned. We'll
tell you where you can get it. It actually hasn't
even dropped yet, so people are asking about the book.

Speaker 4 (01:45:29):
Uh, you can pre order. Yeah, the release is coming
up soon and you can pre order real quick.

Speaker 8 (01:45:33):
Jack.

Speaker 3 (01:45:33):
People in the Texan service are asking you, know you
being in a relationship as a therapist is that a
unique thing. You've already mentioned your husband, you know, not
being such a you know, not chiming in a whole bunch.
Do you do you find that you analyze your own
relationship too much to be in your own relationship.

Speaker 16 (01:45:51):
I would not say too much.

Speaker 4 (01:45:52):
I think it's just right.

Speaker 18 (01:45:54):
But I mean this is like I live and breathe
this stuff, so I am definitely always thinking about it.
But I also own my own stuff, and I try
to be really real about the fact that I also
can be reactive or say the wrong thing, and this
is why we have repair.

Speaker 3 (01:46:08):
Yeah, that's beyond your education, right, that's who you are
as a person. That's beyond your education, and.

Speaker 16 (01:46:12):
It's being human.

Speaker 4 (01:46:13):
Yeah, that was my question. Oh are you serious?

Speaker 6 (01:46:18):
I was like in conversation with your husband there you
get to a point where it's like, that's what the
therapists would say.

Speaker 4 (01:46:26):
I have to not do that.

Speaker 16 (01:46:28):
I don't do that. I really try not to do that.

Speaker 4 (01:46:30):
Well, does your husband say that to you?

Speaker 3 (01:46:32):
That's the thing, like you saying to yourself is one thing,
but your husband going, hey, you're getting all therapy on me.

Speaker 18 (01:46:37):
I don't think so, it's interesting he's listening, right, now
I think from work, so I wonder what.

Speaker 16 (01:46:42):
He would say.

Speaker 18 (01:46:43):
But I think for the most part, maybe at the beginning,
when I first became a therapist, I was really into
always trotting out everything I learned.

Speaker 16 (01:46:52):
But I think now I'm sure it permeates because it is.

Speaker 9 (01:46:55):
What I do.

Speaker 18 (01:46:56):
But for the most part, I'm bringing my own vulnerability.
I have my own in securities, my own fears, my
own doubts.

Speaker 16 (01:47:03):
So I'm just reacting like a human being.

Speaker 18 (01:47:05):
And this is where and why I wrote the book
to give you a process because it's not.

Speaker 16 (01:47:10):
But this is not fixed how you communicate.

Speaker 18 (01:47:13):
You have your personality and you'll have your instinctive reaction
based on your personality. But then overriding that and being
more evolved and being more emotionally mature, everyone can do.

Speaker 16 (01:47:24):
I mean, I am a New York Italian. I used
to throw things and scream.

Speaker 1 (01:47:27):
I don't do that.

Speaker 4 (01:47:29):
I should start it again. That's a different angle for therapy.

Speaker 5 (01:47:32):
I got the next book that's screen therapy.

Speaker 3 (01:47:35):
Have you ever had a couple in and while the
session is going on, you know for a fact it's
not going to work, Like you know for a fact
that there's so far apart that just the ideology that
they have as people is so far apart. There's really
no shared space where they can have enough room in
there for a relationship.

Speaker 4 (01:47:53):
And if so, what do you do?

Speaker 16 (01:47:55):
Oh, it's such a good question.

Speaker 18 (01:47:56):
So the way I really approach it, and I think
most good therapists approach it, is I will definitely have
my own kind of instinctive opinion about, well, maybe this
one's not going to work, or this is tough, or.

Speaker 16 (01:48:07):
There's so many issues. But if a couple, if both.

Speaker 18 (01:48:10):
Parties want it and they're willing to work at it,
to me, that's where the hope lies. I have seen
situations where there's so much damage, there's been so many
betrayals and injuries, but both people want it. In fact,
I got a text message last night from a former
client saying, it's our ten year anniversary. They've moved out
of state. We're renewing our vals. Thank you so much

(01:48:32):
for what you did. You saved our marriage. We were
on the brink of divorce, and of course I didn't
do it. They did the work I facilitated. But there
are times when I think this is a hot mess,
and then it comes back what I cannot do anything
with is when one person is really really checked out
and they're kind of dragged to therapy because they think
they should or their partners made them come and this.

Speaker 4 (01:48:54):
Happened, or they just want to be able to say
they did it yes.

Speaker 7 (01:48:58):
Or even worse, they're just going because they're waiting for
you to get fixed because it's not me.

Speaker 5 (01:49:05):
I'm not the problem, right, And that doesn't work.

Speaker 16 (01:49:07):
That doesn't work.

Speaker 18 (01:49:08):
Both people have to really say, Okay, I think you're
the problem, but okay, I'm willing to look at me,
but no, you're the Probably it's a messy process, but
if you're not really wanting the really you don't have
to be sure it will work.

Speaker 16 (01:49:18):
I think most people feel some ambivalence, but you have
to be willing to really try. And I think you
still have to love your spouse.

Speaker 18 (01:49:25):
This is why emotional connection and why I'm saying lean
into conflict, but do it well, because that's what creates
the emotional connection. When the connection's gone, it's very hard
to resuscitate.

Speaker 4 (01:49:37):
What's your schedule like today? My schedule yea, yea yeah.

Speaker 16 (01:49:40):
Oh I only saw one client today.

Speaker 3 (01:49:42):
Yeah, okay, are you open for a little bit I mean,
what I'm saying is we have trivia, but I would
love to keep you around for another segment because we're
we're out of the time that we have allotted for you.

Speaker 9 (01:49:49):
Yeah.

Speaker 16 (01:49:49):
Yeah, I thought you meant am I going back to therapy?

Speaker 2 (01:49:52):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (01:49:52):
No, if you can you stick around little bit totally okay,
So we do trivia and then we come back at
the top of the hourard six o'clock and we can
do a little bit more.

Speaker 4 (01:49:58):
Are you okay with that? Thanks for hanging out.

Speaker 3 (01:50:00):
I appreciate that. Call up fair here with us. She's
gonna do another segment at the top of the hour.
If you have a question, man, shoot it over seven
seven zero three one. That's our texting service. We're getting
tons of them, so I'm gonna review these during the
break and then we'll ask call it some questions. Because
I want to get into sex, okay, all right, And
I mean, you know, not with anybody in the room,
but I want to get into the physical nature relationships
and the impact of that when it's there too much

(01:50:22):
and they're not enough. And if you, as a therapist,
can tell if somebody still has a physical relationship, if
their emotional relationship, can make it through and vice versa.

Speaker 4 (01:50:31):
I love it all right, we'll do that in just
twenty minutes. Load them up.

Speaker 3 (01:50:33):
Thugh Trivia's next. All right, welcome back to the Jim
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(01:51:46):
are you really?

Speaker 4 (01:51:47):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (01:51:47):
Oh yeah, it's gonna be a lot of fun, dude.
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Speaker 5 (01:52:15):
That's what's in the Jackie sacks. So back to you,
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Speaker 4 (01:52:19):
Let's go. One One is Harold, Harold. How you doing hey?
Pretty good?

Speaker 9 (01:52:25):
How you guys doing doing good?

Speaker 4 (01:52:26):
Boss? Want to play a little game with us? Let's
do it a game, all right, Harold? This is a
real easy game.

Speaker 3 (01:52:35):
Boss got a question here for you. Four answers. One
of these answers is not true. What trying to fool you, buddy?
But if you can find it, I will send you
over to see Jack and he's got something nice. You
can pick something out for yourself.

Speaker 4 (01:52:45):
Are you ready? Here we go, buddy.

Speaker 3 (01:52:48):
On this day in nineteen sixty eight, celebrity chef, author,
television personality and.

Speaker 5 (01:52:56):
Host Guy Fieria has his own.

Speaker 4 (01:52:58):
Distinct look and he's the mayor of Flavor Town. Guy
Fieri was born on this day. Here are three fun
facts about Guy and one triple fried lie. All right,
so we're talking about Guy Fieri. Which one of these
is not true?

Speaker 3 (01:53:10):
Number one, he used to raise peacocks on his California
ranch to handle the rattlesnak population. Number two, guy Fieri
used to compete in the rodeo. He actually broke his
arm after being thrown off of a bowl. Number three,
his first shot at the food business was a pretzel cart.
He started at just ten years old. Or lastly, he
does not eat eggs or sushie, which of those is

(01:53:33):
a lie? Number three, No, that's absolutely true. He did
take the first shot of his food business. At ten
years old, he had his very own pretzel cart, smart
and did.

Speaker 4 (01:53:46):
Quite well with it. I'll tell you more about that
a little bit later. All right, One or excuse me, two?
Three or five? Let's go to two. Is John John
How you doing, Buddy good? Jim good, buddy.

Speaker 3 (01:53:57):
We're talking about Guy Fieri here. Which one of these
is not true? Route number one?

Speaker 4 (01:54:00):
He used to raise peacocks on his California ranch to
handle the rattlestink population.

Speaker 3 (01:54:04):
Number two, Guy Faery used to compete in rodeos. He
actually broke his arm after being thrown off a bull.
Or lastly, he does not eat eggs or sushi.

Speaker 20 (01:54:13):
Let's go number two.

Speaker 3 (01:54:15):
No, that's absolutely true. As a kid, he rode in
the rodeo and actually defied his parents to do it
because he wanted to do it. And when he went
to the rodeo, he wrote a bull, the bull throw
him off, and it broke his arm. And then he
hid the broken arm from his parents for as long
as he could.

Speaker 5 (01:54:28):
He gonna say, don't want to tell mom and dad
about that.

Speaker 4 (01:54:30):
He showed them. Yeah, all right, deb three or five?

Speaker 5 (01:54:34):
Let's go three.

Speaker 4 (01:54:35):
Three is Chris Chris how you doing.

Speaker 3 (01:54:38):
Man, good, buddy, you got a fifty to fifty shot
here going to the Jackie Sack.

Speaker 4 (01:54:42):
We're talking about Guy Fieri. Which one of these isn't true?

Speaker 3 (01:54:46):
Number one he used to raise peacocks on his California
ranch to handle the rattlestink population.

Speaker 4 (01:54:51):
Or lastly, he doesn't eat eggs or sushi.

Speaker 8 (01:54:56):
Was first one.

Speaker 3 (01:54:57):
No, that's absolutely true. Yeah, yeah, So that means, Lynnette,
how you doing.

Speaker 12 (01:55:03):
I'm doing great.

Speaker 4 (01:55:04):
You're doing great. Now tell me if it's true he
does not eat eggs or sushi.

Speaker 5 (01:55:10):
That's a lot.

Speaker 17 (01:55:11):
That is a lot.

Speaker 4 (01:55:14):
It's funny. That's a bit of a swerve. But for
years that was part of his thing. He did not
eat eggs.

Speaker 3 (01:55:19):
He actually does eat egs occasionally now, and he eats
sushi all the time, so it's definitely not true. A
couple other things you may not know about Guy Faery
before we get at the top of the hour and
a little bit more time with Collette Fair Here, he
saved all of his money from the pretzel cart for
six years so that he could pay for his own
trip to Paris, France.

Speaker 4 (01:55:38):
To go to cooking school at sixteen years old.

Speaker 5 (01:55:42):
Wow, that's when you know, you know your life's passion.

Speaker 3 (01:55:44):
If anybody ever crashes on Guy Faery in front of you,
you let him know. Yeah, he may be a little goofy,
but that dude has got mad respect in the food business.

Speaker 4 (01:55:52):
It didn't start out that way though, but.

Speaker 3 (01:55:54):
A bunch of people came around on him and realized
what a good person he was and then really kind
of doubled down on, you know, helping him out. Guy
owns and operates how many restaurants worldwide?

Speaker 5 (01:56:05):
Eighty six, one hundred and twenty four?

Speaker 8 (01:56:08):
What do you think?

Speaker 16 (01:56:09):
What like twenty two?

Speaker 4 (01:56:11):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (01:56:11):
Yeah, Jackson closest ninety what Yeah, he's actually got a
bunch on cruise ships.

Speaker 4 (01:56:15):
Wow.

Speaker 16 (01:56:15):
Okay, see I didn't even think that.

Speaker 3 (01:56:17):
And the funny thing is Carnival wanted him as part
of their brand so bad. They wanted to do a
barbecue restaurant. But that's where he started. Actually, he's a
championship barbecue guy, right, And he said, I won't do
it because you're not gonna be able to do it
the way it's supposed to be done. So they say, well,
we'll build a smoker on our boat, something we've never
done before.

Speaker 4 (01:56:35):
He goes, well, now, I'm interested.

Speaker 3 (01:56:36):
Toured out there with him, met with Carnival, told him
exactly what they should do, and they built a smoker
on a cruise ship so that Guy Fiery could have
actual smoke food in.

Speaker 4 (01:56:45):
His cruise ship barbecue joint. How about that and keep
it real?

Speaker 3 (01:56:48):
And then lastly here his name is not Guy Fieri, really,
his name is Guy Ramsey Ferry.

Speaker 4 (01:56:55):
Fe r r Y.

Speaker 5 (01:56:57):
I see why he changed He changed.

Speaker 9 (01:56:58):
It to.

Speaker 4 (01:57:00):
To honor his grandfather's Italian heritage.

Speaker 5 (01:57:03):
I'm just sure that was why.

Speaker 12 (01:57:06):
I like it.

Speaker 9 (01:57:06):
I like it.

Speaker 3 (01:57:07):
I've heard it pronounce it's actually d if you read
how he says it, it's fetti.

Speaker 4 (01:57:12):
Yeah, it's pronounced like.

Speaker 11 (01:57:13):
F E D d y.

Speaker 7 (01:57:15):
Why don't we ask the Italian New Yorker in the
room how it should be pronounced.

Speaker 4 (01:57:19):
We got her name, right, Well, yeah you did.

Speaker 18 (01:57:22):
And I have my husband's German name, but my maiden
name was Yako Bellis with an I, and people don't
even believe it's Italian, but it's one hundred percent Italian.
I mean, I think once if you really were to
say it with the Italian accent there, it would be
more like that, right, But we tend to americanize everything.

Speaker 4 (01:57:41):
Yeah, change the names.

Speaker 3 (01:57:43):
Yeah, all right for seven nine, I got another keyword
for for you now and a little bit more time
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Speaker 4 (01:57:49):
We'll do that next.

Speaker 5 (01:57:54):
How do you get a cyclone name Harry to wipe
out her?

Speaker 8 (01:57:59):
Damn it?

Speaker 4 (01:58:00):
Sicily?

Speaker 8 (01:58:01):
You know?

Speaker 13 (01:58:02):
Does I don't know anything about Harry being Italian?

Speaker 1 (01:58:06):
You know?

Speaker 5 (01:58:06):
Maybe a anthony?

Speaker 8 (01:58:07):
Why you why?

Speaker 4 (01:58:08):
Why you want to? Why you want to mess with Sicily?

Speaker 5 (01:58:11):
Forget about it.

Speaker 4 (01:58:12):
You're doing the wrong thing there, but Harry, forget it.

Speaker 5 (01:58:21):
That's a little taste of weird for you on a Thursday.

Speaker 3 (01:58:23):
Read the news that cyclone name Harry, and that's it
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Speaker 4 (01:58:34):
Happy is the word? Oh, come mind, you guys, get
up on your carn event.

Speaker 7 (01:58:40):
I'm trying my best to avoid Welcome back on Jen,
there's deb Hello.

Speaker 4 (01:58:44):
Jack is here as well.

Speaker 3 (01:58:45):
Yeh and Collette Farris stuck around kindly for another segment.
As we hang out, a couple's therapists and relationship expert
talk about your book Real Quick.

Speaker 5 (01:58:55):
The Cost of Quiet Cost of Quiet.

Speaker 3 (01:58:58):
Yeah, if you go to the real radio slash watch,
I have it up right now. It's called the Cost
of Quiet. And the entire idea of this is how
to have hard conversations to create secure, lasting love. I
can tell you from experience that is absolutely the truth.
The easy path is never the right one.

Speaker 20 (01:59:16):
Yep.

Speaker 16 (01:59:16):
Short term discomfort for long term gain.

Speaker 8 (01:59:19):
Yeah.

Speaker 18 (01:59:19):
And the whole mission with the book is really to
show people that we're all kind of conflict avoid at
most of us, right, even if we're like hot tempered
when it comes to it, we don't really want to
be vulnerable because it's scary, it's uncomfortable.

Speaker 16 (01:59:32):
We're not used to it.

Speaker 18 (01:59:33):
Almost nobody grew up with parents who modeled healthy, constructive
conflict right right. But it would either sweeping under the
rug and avoid it, or like lose your temper and
then not talk for three days. So I really want
to make this easy for people and for people to
realize that once you start to learn the formula for how,
and it starts with your internal connection to yourself, I

(01:59:54):
call it self connected communication. You need that clarity about
what you're actually to name your emotions, not your story,
not your projection.

Speaker 16 (02:00:04):
And really get clear about what you.

Speaker 18 (02:00:05):
Might need in the moment, often comfort, reassurance, to know
that your value, to know that you're desired, to know
that you're loved. Then you can come forward to your
partner in a way that feels safe, that creates connection
instead of more problems.

Speaker 3 (02:00:18):
So let me ask then, because that all sounds great,
and I agree it does, right, Yeah, but what happens
when that instant doesn't work out? Like the book reads?
Like you read the book, you go, you know what,
this is hundred percent right, and by the way, it
is okay. And then I take all the things I've
learned from the book and I approach my loved one
and I go, hey, listen in and talk for a second.

(02:00:40):
You know, I've read this book and it's opened my eyes.
I have been quiet about some things that you do
that have really caused some problems with me that I
think you need to know. It's not fair for me
to keep quiet because I think this is going to
cause a long term issue.

Speaker 4 (02:00:52):
And I want you to know this.

Speaker 3 (02:00:54):
That person shares and then the other person does not
take it well, they react what we call a versely.

Speaker 8 (02:01:01):
What do you do?

Speaker 20 (02:01:02):
Then?

Speaker 18 (02:01:02):
Yeah, tell you, well, I do address this very thoroughly
in the book, because this is the reality. You know,
you can't guarantee even if you tee it up really
well and you're saying, hey, I'm coming to you because
I really care about the relations the world. Yes, and
your your tone of voices even and you're talking about
your own feelings. People are complicated, right they We all
have triggers. You might say something that inflames the other person. Yes,

(02:01:25):
I call it the bad communication report card in the book.
The most common responses that derail communication defensiveness, dismissiveness, distancing
and fixing, three d's and an F. That's why I
call it a bad orport card. Right, it's the most
common thing. You try to share something immediately the person
gets defensive.

Speaker 16 (02:01:45):
So this is going to happen right now. What I
will say is that if.

Speaker 18 (02:01:49):
You're really vulnerable and clear, you have a much better chance.
Because vulnerability does invite vulnerability.

Speaker 16 (02:01:55):
We have mirror neurons.

Speaker 18 (02:01:57):
So if you're really coming to someone without any armor
and saying, you know, this hurt my feelings, it's a
lot harder to be like F you and right, it's
just not natural. But if your partner gets triggered right.
First of all, that's their responsibility. It doesn't feel good,
it's not ideal, and it is part of mature adult life.
And in that case, you would say to your partner,

(02:02:17):
you know, you might take a pause if they're triggered,
and I don't mean triggered like a big trauma, I
just mean activated in the moment, and say, you know, listen,
I'm really trying to express this very clearly, but it
seems like I've hit a nerve. Let's take a break
and we'll try again. And if you're repeatedly this is
part of the mission of the book too. If you
are repeatedly doing everything on your side of the street,
to be clear, to be fair, to be honest, you're

(02:02:40):
not blaming, you're not criticizing, and your partner cannot or
will not meet you there, then that's valuable information with
which to make decisions.

Speaker 16 (02:02:48):
Yeah, it's not going to be any different if you
don't say it.

Speaker 4 (02:02:50):
Right, it won't change it all.

Speaker 3 (02:02:52):
That's the one thing that's kind of I think that
maybe is the hardest lesson to learn is either way,
it's going to wind up in the same spot. So
you might as well go ahead and take your shot,
because you know where that road ends to begin with. Yeah,
this is the only opportunity to create a fork that
one of you, you know, that you can take and
you know, and move toward a different path.

Speaker 16 (02:03:10):
I believe exactly.

Speaker 18 (02:03:11):
And you know, it's really hard to face that reality
if somebody just isn't emotionally available at all. Some people
aren't they've been too wounded. You know, there are personality factors.
Some people are so scared of conflict. They just you know,
no matter what you say or how you say it,
they don't feel good about themselves.

Speaker 3 (02:03:31):
And let me tell you something else too. What I've noticed,
and you know we're not talking about the reciprocal action
that happens with that. Here, this is what I've learned.
Like women like strong men. I know that women do
like men that are decisive and they have and they're strong, right,
And I think what happens is this is because this
has happened to me before.

Speaker 4 (02:03:49):
And I'll tell you that.

Speaker 3 (02:03:50):
And obviously in my life I've done things that you
can look at and go okay, well, relatively decisive, can
make decisions, can move through in life, can do the
things that need to be done to get the job done.
Blah blah blah blah. Right, I've got I've got the
receipts to show that I can do that.

Speaker 9 (02:04:02):
Right.

Speaker 3 (02:04:02):
But in that same sense, if I don't want conflict
with my wife and she's doing something that I don't
care for, the more that I don't say it and
I and then I simp to it, the less respect
you get from that woman because she kind of feels
that something isn't right, but she wants you to say it.
If you don't say it, she's going to lose respect
for you. She was not going to look at you

(02:04:23):
the same way if you don't do that.

Speaker 16 (02:04:25):
I love that. It's so true. It is one You
feel it instinctively.

Speaker 4 (02:04:28):
You know it for a fact.

Speaker 3 (02:04:29):
I could, and every dude out there listening to me
knows it. You ignore it, you know it for a fact.
It's the way she talks to you as she looks
at you, the way she reacts when when something happens
in the house that it doesn't it isn't the way
it's supposed to be, and what's happening is is the
more that you ginflect to that mindset of not being
confrontational for the sake of peace. What you're doing is

(02:04:52):
is you're showing a great weakness that women can't stand.

Speaker 18 (02:04:55):
It's so true, and it builds resentment. It does all sides,
which is poison. It's drinking poison and expecting someone else
to die. I mean one thing that I would say,
I see in therapy that men really don't believe until
they experience it. But every time, even if it's a criticism,
a complaint, and dissatisfaction, every time, in fourteen years I've

(02:05:15):
been doing this a man, I can help someone get
underneath all the stuff, the thoughts that the surface stuff,
and get into their feelings and they actually turn to
their partner, let's say their wife, and share what they're feeling,
and they're vulnerable.

Speaker 16 (02:05:30):
Every time.

Speaker 18 (02:05:31):
The wife loves it, even if it's a criticism of
her or something they're upset.

Speaker 16 (02:05:36):
They are like, oh my god, I've been waiting for
this my whole life.

Speaker 4 (02:05:39):
You actually told me something.

Speaker 16 (02:05:42):
About your inner world.

Speaker 4 (02:05:43):
They're so excited, you can't imagine.

Speaker 3 (02:05:46):
I've had a couple of epiphanies like that over the
last couple of years in my relationship. As you know,
as you get together and you've been at it, for
twenty years, you grow and learn. Mixed Mixed families aren't
easy either. So all of these things create stress points
that you have to deal with. And again, you you
you're I think your nature sometimes is to run and
hide and protect yourself. Yes, you know, and and of

(02:06:07):
course you can't do head in a marriage.

Speaker 4 (02:06:09):
And if you want to, where are you gonna run
and hide?

Speaker 3 (02:06:12):
You're in a marriage. Man, you know you've made the commitment.
So yeah, all that stuff is completely valid, one hundred percent.
I've experienced most of it.

Speaker 16 (02:06:19):
So me too, Me too.

Speaker 18 (02:06:20):
You know, I lived this myself, and my first marriage
was a disaster. And I looked at the role I played,
which is that I didn't communicate. I didn't do my part.

Speaker 16 (02:06:29):
And that's why I became a couple therapist to help people.
And really this is why I wrote the book.

Speaker 3 (02:06:33):
Well, I did want to get into the physical aspect
of relationships, and we do get We did get a
bunch of questions.

Speaker 4 (02:06:37):
When you ask me, careful because you will receive it.
Says here.

Speaker 3 (02:06:40):
My husband and I've been married for five years. We
haven't been intimate. We've only been intimate for about three
times since then. He says, he just hasn't.

Speaker 4 (02:06:49):
Really have a libido.

Speaker 3 (02:06:50):
I've asked him to go the doctor and get his
testosterone check and it was very low. He's been trying
some stuff, but it isn't really working, and it's very,
very frustrating. Do you want to break it to her?

Speaker 16 (02:07:00):
What were you going to break to her?

Speaker 4 (02:07:02):
What would she say to that? I don't I don't
know if it's a libido thing. Like I think what
happens is this.

Speaker 3 (02:07:12):
I know that you can get into a relationship that
gets so dysfunctional that you don't find the person attractive anymore.

Speaker 16 (02:07:19):
That's very true, and I can happen, and I.

Speaker 3 (02:07:22):
Think it can happen to the severity of being incapable
of physically having a physical relationship that you are so
turned out or off by your loved one because of whatever.

Speaker 4 (02:07:33):
It doesn't matter.

Speaker 3 (02:07:34):
Maybe you fell out of love, maybe you just found
something you don't care for, maybe you have stresses. But
sometimes it does happen that way.

Speaker 16 (02:07:41):
Oh, absolutely that does happen.

Speaker 18 (02:07:43):
But I will say this might not be that, like,
it really could be a physical issue. I mean, one
thing I've learned is that there's so many factors to
every unique situation.

Speaker 16 (02:07:54):
So we don't know enough about what's going on with
this guy. The low tea could be a thing. He
could be depressed, he could be a low libido individual
in general. He could have fallen out of love.

Speaker 18 (02:08:04):
He could be dissatisfied, he could be having an affair, right,
I mean, we could go on and on, but I
do think what I'd want to know is like, how
this poor person is coping with this, because it's really
hard to be on the other side of that.

Speaker 4 (02:08:16):
She says, she's very frustrated.

Speaker 3 (02:08:17):
Of course, you imagine in five years you love a person,
you've had sex with him three times in five years. Yeah,
I mean that's I mean, that's infrequent, even in the
world of infrequencies.

Speaker 6 (02:08:27):
Collect How would you rate Jimmy as a counselor immediately
going to the worst case scenario?

Speaker 4 (02:08:33):
Well, let me, I didn't think of that.

Speaker 9 (02:08:40):
Jack.

Speaker 4 (02:08:42):
Jack's better therapist than I am. He figured it out.

Speaker 18 (02:08:44):
But actually it's probably not that because when that happens,
there's usually still sad.

Speaker 9 (02:08:47):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (02:08:48):
But the reason I say that is this Jack, and
you know what, you make a good point, and you're right.
I probably went I probably came in a little hot
on that.

Speaker 4 (02:08:54):
Here's my thing. It's five years, dude.

Speaker 3 (02:08:56):
Yeah, it's just a five year old relationship and they've
only sex three times in five years. That means even
in the first year of their relationship, they've had it
maybe once, right.

Speaker 16 (02:09:06):
But that's pretty extreme.

Speaker 18 (02:09:08):
So this is where there could be a lot going
on with this guy physically, mentally, and emotionally that might
have nothing to do with the partner.

Speaker 16 (02:09:15):
Okay, also not having I mean that's what we call.

Speaker 18 (02:09:17):
A hyposexual relationship, which is technically defined as like less
than ten times a year. But I hate to pathologize
these things because one thing that I have discovered from
doing so much couples therapy is that a lot of
people aren't having sex. Now, it's a very important part
of a relationship. I have had a few couples where
they're not sexual for a variety of reasons, and they're

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both content with it.

Speaker 16 (02:09:40):
Sometimes there's a lot of trauma on both sides.

Speaker 18 (02:09:42):
There's so many complications, But for the most part, most couples,
more than eighty five percent, are mismatched libido. One person
wants it a lot more than the other, and it's
not always the man. Sometimes it's the woman. So whether
it's five times in a year or twenty five times.
Usually partners are not oh wit, not usually, but often

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partners are not so aligned. And this is something that
back to communicating. The pathway to figuring out a robust
physically intimate life is really starting to be able to
talk about it, talk about your desires, talk about how
how it's making you feel about yourself. Like what happens
to most couples is they slowly stop having sex, where

(02:10:26):
they have it less often, they don't talk about it.
Then even the muscle for having sex atrophies, and then
it becomes like weird after a while, we haven't had
sex for six months. Now, nobody's approaching anyone. No one
wants to get rejected, and you can get frozen in
that place where you're not having sex at all, and
it can become and it doesn't sound like that's the

(02:10:47):
case here because they weren't having sex at the beginning,
but this is a huge problem.

Speaker 3 (02:10:51):
You also start asking yourself question, you know, what's going
on with me? Are you having an affair? Are you
attracting somebody else? And then you start really having you
know again the worst case thoughts.

Speaker 16 (02:11:01):
Yes, and can accept your confidence because.

Speaker 3 (02:11:03):
As a man, obviously you know the idea that that's
part of a part of a relationship is being physical.
And if you, as a man, are trying to have
relationship with your wife and your wife doesn't seem to
be into it, you're not gonna go. Well, I guess
maybe her past is coming back to haunt a little bit.
The first thing you think is, oh, I'm a fat
piece of s and she doesn't want.

Speaker 4 (02:11:21):
To sleep with me anymore. I mean, it's never anything else.
For dudes, Jack, are you on me? Are you with
me on this one?

Speaker 9 (02:11:27):
Or no? Yes?

Speaker 4 (02:11:30):
He doesn't even know what I'm saying now I do.

Speaker 3 (02:11:33):
And yes to a guy, if you are getting it
less than you desire, you internalize it.

Speaker 4 (02:11:41):
Yeah, it makes a blow to your ear.

Speaker 5 (02:11:43):
And the same thing as that, the same thing as
said for women.

Speaker 4 (02:11:46):
Is it really? Is it really that way?

Speaker 16 (02:11:48):
I don't know time, I mean, if.

Speaker 5 (02:11:51):
The sex that's desired and Chase staff right, So if.

Speaker 18 (02:11:54):
Your partner is a man and you're a woman and
your partner's not trying to have sex with you, it
really blows your mind because we're used to like the
man always wants sex, right right, Like you could wake
them up at.

Speaker 16 (02:12:03):
Four in the morning and he's sick, and he'd still
be like, no, no, I'm good.

Speaker 4 (02:12:07):
Ye.

Speaker 18 (02:12:08):
Right, So if that's not happening and it makes you
feel to what you said earlier, the attachment needs to
feel desired. This is a huge part of a relationship,
whether you're not even if you're not having sex. You know,
three times a week you want to feel like your
partner desires you. And when you don't feel that, it
really affects you.

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It's sold out? No, I know, which is a great
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You know when when she came on when I was
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Speaker 4 (02:17:14):
I want to make sure I get this topic right now.
All right, very good. Where do you guys, because this
is our question of today, where do you guys go
to your what's your favorite convenience store? And the reason
I asked that is there was a study they did.

Speaker 3 (02:17:25):
It says the most satisfying convenience store in Florida. And
I almost don't know what they mean by satisfying. I
could just say that maybe every aspect of your visit
is good.

Speaker 7 (02:17:36):
Jack, tell them what's the most satisfying there? You go,
you think Wawa is I mean their breakfast sandwiches. I
don't actually go to wahwas very you know, very often. Yeah,
but it's an experience.

Speaker 4 (02:17:49):
That case say.

Speaker 6 (02:17:51):
They just I mean, the quality of the food for
a convenience store is fantastic. If you are one of
the reasons it's so loved.

Speaker 3 (02:17:58):
If you were to ask me, I would say I
would say probably my favorite. And I guess say it's weird.
It's it's favorite. Is always odd with convenience stores because
it's in the name. It's like, what's there? You know,
I'm not going to drive an extra seven miles to
have a racetrack experience, not because I don't have anything
against racetrack.

Speaker 4 (02:18:15):
It's just that most convenience stores are the same.

Speaker 3 (02:18:18):
But I will tell you what you guys are saying
about wah Wah is exactly the case, because if I
need gas and I'm a little hungry, I will drive
past other stores and go straight to wah Wah because
I do believe, like you guys say that their food
is the absolute best.

Speaker 4 (02:18:30):
I mean, it's like a little restaurant there. It is.

Speaker 6 (02:18:32):
I always color you know that destination dining. It is
like you could go there just for food. You don't
need gas. It's not that you need a convenience store.
You can go there just to get something easy.

Speaker 3 (02:18:45):
And I've seen that happen, the one that's right up
here off seventeen ninety two Jack on the way to
your house. I've seen people on those tables outside, like
show up for dinner time, get a sub and sit
there and have dinner like kids doing homework, just like
they're at somewhere else.

Speaker 6 (02:18:58):
Plus they're coffee their whole coffee situation. Yeah, it's pretty
good at a reasonable price.

Speaker 4 (02:19:04):
If you have the app.

Speaker 3 (02:19:05):
They usually have perks and stuff where you can get deals.
It's uh, it's good.

Speaker 5 (02:19:10):
I like it.

Speaker 8 (02:19:11):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (02:19:11):
The American Customer Satisfaction Index has released the latest scores
for customer satisfaction and convenience stores nationwide. Uh, and and
a lot of people say, you guys are missing one
that's not even come up now. It said nationwide. But
the funny thing is it says, uh it said the
most in Florida. But it's kind of funny because the
list actually is, I believe the national list. And the

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reason why I say that is because I'm not familiar
with Like, I'm not familiar with the one that won, Like,
I've not heard of it before. Can't tell you until
you tell you, Yeah, I don't. Have you ever heard
a Quick Trip?

Speaker 5 (02:19:45):
Oh that does sound.

Speaker 4 (02:19:48):
Yeah, quick Trip.

Speaker 3 (02:19:49):
Apparently is the winner. Quick Trip with eighty they had
the eighty four score out of one hundred. Have you
ever heard of a company called Sheets? Yes, ag Etz,
I just I went to one in Pennsylvania and it
was yeah, next level.

Speaker 4 (02:20:05):
They like hot nuts, Yeah, bar you can buy that.
It was great.

Speaker 3 (02:20:08):
Yeah, Wala comes in number three nationally she does yeah,
yeah she So it's Wallac comes in number three. Now
they tied with Sheets with the overall score.

Speaker 9 (02:20:24):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (02:20:24):
But the one that really shocked everybody that wasn't at
the top was seven eleven BUCkies. Oh dude, everybody was
freaking out that BUCkies didn't make it. Seven eleven is
so far down on the.

Speaker 4 (02:20:35):
List, dude.

Speaker 6 (02:20:36):
It's the oldest, I think, right, I don't know, but
so is BUCkies. It's a convenience store on steroids. But
are they prevalent enough and are they.

Speaker 7 (02:20:50):
Con I mean they're satisfying to the traveler who wants
a wall of jerky yeah and beaver nuts.

Speaker 6 (02:20:56):
It seems like more than the convenience store is like
quick off the road, you know, it's it's convenient.

Speaker 4 (02:21:01):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (02:21:02):
In other words, you gotta get on a highway to
go to a BUCkies, right yeah, or get off the highway, yeah,
get one of the you know.

Speaker 6 (02:21:08):
It's just when you pull into a BUCkies you're doing
a little driving because you got to get around one
hundred gas pumps, right exactly, you know, and then you're
gonna walk.

Speaker 4 (02:21:17):
A little from the car. It just seems more like
you're going to a Walmart, yeah, than you are seven Elive.

Speaker 3 (02:21:22):
Because it's like a home goods with gas and food.
Because I mean it's got They got clothing, They.

Speaker 4 (02:21:27):
Have like Christmas ornaments, they have all kinds of stuff,
public cressrooms you're gonna find oh yeah, it's crazy loves
is up there.

Speaker 3 (02:21:34):
Now that's a truck stop. Yeah, that's not a convenience store.
That's kind of weird. And the ones that I think
you'll recognize here. Racetrack tied for number seven. Yeah, and
I think Racetrack does a good job.

Speaker 4 (02:21:44):
Yeah. Ex on mobile stations they came, they tied for seventh.
And the thing that kills me the most is, man,
how does how does seven eleven come in seventeenth?

Speaker 7 (02:21:55):
I think, like Jack said, because they're the oldest the least.
I mean, the only thing really that seven eleven is
kind of up their game on in the last several
years has been the coffee that they offer. And it's
still not coffee like you go to a I mean,
you can get a really great breakfast sandwich at Wah
Wah that isn't rolling on rollers.

Speaker 4 (02:22:13):
Yeah. I think that's where.

Speaker 3 (02:22:14):
I think that is where seven eleven has fallen behind,
because they're still kind of relying on that small food
bar thing that they have and everybody else is just
kind of diving into the full blown experiences of you know,
fresh soup, salads, you know, homemade subs, hot or cold.
I mean, all of that's there in the same footprint.
That's the crazy part. Like in the same exact like
square footage. Other stores are turning out fresh food and

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seven eleven is doing like, you know, pizza's been sitting
there for a while, and you know, hot dog rollers.

Speaker 5 (02:22:41):
Hey, landscapers like to eat something, you know, the tiqitos.

Speaker 3 (02:22:44):
And I'm not even slamming it because I'll tell you
I lived on seven eleven hot dogs for a while.
But the problem is is they just got lapped, like
the game just lapped them. You know, when they when
they brought wabah in to town. My wife had experienced
a wah wah while traveling before, and I said, and
I remember the story because I was going to talk
about it, and I'm like, have you ever heard of
wah wah? And dude, she snapped around like Linda Blair.

(02:23:05):
She's like, where are they coming? And I'm like, well,
they're building a wah wah And I forget where it was.
I want to say it was the one they built
on Lee Road and Silver Star. That thing's been there forever.

Speaker 6 (02:23:13):
There's one a little further their south because I was
there for their ten year annivers Oh really, yeah, I
got to do that. So it's been a little over
ten years that you know, they've been around twelve thirteen years. Yeah,
And she told me, she goes, she says, wait till
you go into one of these things, you're not going
to believe how good the food is.

Speaker 4 (02:23:32):
I literally mocked her. She goes.

Speaker 3 (02:23:34):
And by the way, their atm doesn't charge charges. Like
that's another thing for them. If you go to their atm,
there is no there can't get cash back there. So
their atm does not charge you a fee, so you
can get you can get money with no fee.

Speaker 7 (02:23:47):
I know that when people in the northeast heard that
wahwas were opening, it was like a new Chick fil A.

Speaker 8 (02:23:53):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (02:23:53):
People would be sleeping out in front and they're real lying.

Speaker 4 (02:23:56):
Oh yeah.

Speaker 7 (02:23:56):
Because that was a huge deal up in the northeast,
Wahwah started moving down south.

Speaker 5 (02:24:02):
All of the transplants were like, yes.

Speaker 4 (02:24:04):
Real wah Wah. Yeah.

Speaker 3 (02:24:06):
And Cumberland Farms is even lower than seven eleven. But
I think they're owned by the same company, aren't they.
I thought seven eleven and Cumberland Farms were owned by
the same company at Southland at one point I believe
owned seven eleven. I don't know if they still own them. Yeah,
I'm not using the NAP to order food at either
one of those two joints, but I will do it
at Wahwah. Yeah, yeah, for sure, that's crazy. Marathon is

(02:24:26):
down there as well. Shell stations, but those are all
like gas stations that had to kind of acclimate to
offering some food products after the fact. I mean, they
weren't really built on the concept of, hey, we're going
to do both of these equally.

Speaker 6 (02:24:38):
Well, my first experience with convenience stores, it was just
a convenience store. It didn't have gas. Oh really gas garden.
It's just you know, it was a seven eleven. You
pull in and you know, like a Garden State was
one we used to have up there in New Jersey,
which was the Garden State.

Speaker 4 (02:24:55):
Was like a convenience store. You'd go there to get
your milk or or whatever. Ice.

Speaker 3 (02:25:00):
Yeah, there was a locally owned chain up in North Florida,
either called Handyway or Jiffy I think it's both of those,
and it was the same thing.

Speaker 4 (02:25:09):
They did not have gas.

Speaker 3 (02:25:10):
They actually added the gas after the fact because all
the other stores started offering gasoline and it was more
than just a convenience store. And I also heard that
one of the reasons while I started doing this is
because the margin on gas is so low that even
if you have like thirty thirty pumps or whatever, you're
not really making as much money as you can make
inside the store when you're selling a soda for three

(02:25:31):
and a half dollars and it's costing you a nickel.

Speaker 6 (02:25:33):
So one of my early jobs as I was a
petroleum dispersial engineer, I pump gas in New Jersey. Yeah,
because you have to right at a golf station. But
it was a garage, you know, it was a three
bay garage, and you know, we were a gas station.

Speaker 13 (02:25:49):
That was it.

Speaker 4 (02:25:50):
We weren't a convenience star.

Speaker 6 (02:25:52):
We didn't sell anything else except I was trying to
sell you a quota oil for your car.

Speaker 3 (02:25:56):
That's yeah, you were selling oil or anti freeze or
anything like that, right wiper blades.

Speaker 4 (02:26:00):
Yeah, Yeah, that was it.

Speaker 3 (02:26:02):
It's you know, and nowadays, where do you get gas
where it's not connected to a store where you can
buy just about everything else. Yeah, and even the small
stores like the one that we have up there where
it's that little shotgun store where you walk in it
just offers like sodas, water coffee, and it's really the footpt.
It's really small, like even those have you know, they're
offering that. But I remember Jack is right, there's a

(02:26:23):
company in there called Highway Oil I think.

Speaker 4 (02:26:25):
And it was a full.

Speaker 3 (02:26:26):
Service gas station and they didn't offer you could even
buy gum, and I had nothing else.

Speaker 4 (02:26:31):
Nothing. It was just gas oil and stuff for your car.
That was it.

Speaker 3 (02:26:34):
It was always full service. Yeah, convenience stores have come
a long way. Yeah, overall, Bucketing number five seventy nine
points tiling when Midwater a Midwestern gas giant loves, which
is kind of weird. They even throw Loves in there
because it's I mean, it is a convenience store, gas place,
but primarily built for truckers, is it not.

Speaker 4 (02:26:55):
Yeah, that and Flying Jay and Pilot.

Speaker 6 (02:26:57):
Yeah, but it's also I mean you could almost say
this saying for BUCkies.

Speaker 3 (02:27:01):
Yeah, I guess you could, but I mean, you know,
it's just they got the you know, bat with showers,
but the wall of jerky. Yeah, but they also have
sometimes they have restaurants in them, like just you know,
small versions of other restaurants.

Speaker 4 (02:27:17):
Or is pizza is seven eleven the only one that
offers pizza, like Wawa doesn't offer pizza, do they do?

Speaker 5 (02:27:24):
They really?

Speaker 8 (02:27:25):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (02:27:25):
Oh I didn't know that. I've never seen a pizza
and woah oh we did a whole campaign on its.

Speaker 4 (02:27:29):
Yeah did we really? Couple years ago. I do not
remember it.

Speaker 3 (02:27:32):
Even going in and getting subs. I always get their
Italian sub is like so good, and their bread is good.

Speaker 6 (02:27:38):
Not every wah wah has pizza, has the pizza oven,
but they may have changed that because they've been go
through a process and the two around me they've just
finished is they've been renovating them where they close the
inside that you can still get gas, but they've changed
the you know, the kitchen and drink area and stuff.
So they've been like redoing these wah wahs.

Speaker 4 (02:27:59):
And they have soup too, right they do.

Speaker 3 (02:28:01):
Oh my god, I'm it's the corn chowder, baby, I'm
gonna stopping at a soup and sandwich thing. I think
I love their corn chowder, dude, it's so good, all right?
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Speaker 4 (02:28:13):
Not a sponsor. They didn't sponsor this segment. Go get them, Jah,
I just love them.

Speaker 5 (02:28:18):
I did I did.

Speaker 4 (02:28:19):
I did commercials for their pizza on this show.

Speaker 5 (02:28:22):
Yeah, that's right.

Speaker 4 (02:28:24):
Uh news.

Speaker 7 (02:28:25):
Yeah, Families react after a former Uvaldi officer is found
not guilty. Jeff Bezos's Blue Origin takes on Starlink and
this city approves a drone first responder program. We'll talk
about that next during You heard it here first, all.

Speaker 4 (02:28:40):
Right, the table break, We'll come back and get Deb's
news and get the hell out of here.

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Speaker 8 (02:29:30):
Hey guys, happy day.

Speaker 20 (02:29:31):
Talking about fast food prices. My fiancee and I stopped
at Taco build the other night, it was late, we
were hungry, didn't play cooking, bought seven items, one of
which was chips and cheese.

Speaker 16 (02:29:44):
Twenty three damn dollars.

Speaker 20 (02:29:46):
In the bitches, I was still hungry when we got
done eating. YEA, Luckily my fiance eats like a bird,
so I had half of one of her things. But
twenty three dollars for two people to leave hungry at
Taco Bell is ridiculous.

Speaker 4 (02:29:57):
That is ridiculous.

Speaker 5 (02:30:00):
I agree.

Speaker 4 (02:30:01):
Welcome back to the Jim Colbert Show. We're already one
to four point one.

Speaker 8 (02:30:04):
I'm Jim.

Speaker 3 (02:30:05):
There's deb Hello. Jack is here as well. Yeah, I'm
another keyword for you. At the top of the hour.
Jack and I like to urinate together. It happens we
do it a lot.

Speaker 4 (02:30:16):
You did work with someone for long enough you end
up on the same cycle. Are you familiar with that?

Speaker 5 (02:30:20):
Who looks first?

Speaker 4 (02:30:22):
Nobody looks.

Speaker 8 (02:30:22):
We don't need to look. We're men.

Speaker 4 (02:30:24):
We do have good conversations there.

Speaker 5 (02:30:26):
Your men, which means you obviously look. You got that
a little flipped around.

Speaker 4 (02:30:30):
I do like the new watches. Worry though, thank you
appreciate that. A all right, so I want to do
this real quick before we get to news because we
didn't get it to it today and we probably won't
cover it tomorrow.

Speaker 3 (02:30:39):
Epcot's Garden Rocks Concert. You know, this is the season,
the festivals, the concert season. So we talked about the
Sea World Ones. I was like, that's a pretty impressive lineup.
Disney's like, hold my beer real quick. The music of Abba,
which is going to be a cover band doing Abba songs,
simple plan. Remember those guys, Jack, Yes, Billy Ocean is

(02:31:02):
going to be a wow. Hermans, Hermott's thirty eight special,
Chubby Checker, Sugar Ray Information Society.

Speaker 4 (02:31:08):
Remember those guys, Jack. I want to know.

Speaker 3 (02:31:11):
Rick Springfield, Berlin, the Commodores Air Supply, Flock of Seagulls,
Plain White Tea's the Spinners, Queen's Rich is gonna be
there as well. I mean, it is a pretty crazy lineup. Man,
if you like music and you want to get close,
the one good thing I say one, there's a bunch
of them. But the really cool thing about a lot

(02:31:33):
of these smaller shows is you really get close.

Speaker 8 (02:31:36):
To the artists.

Speaker 3 (02:31:37):
So if you've been a fan of these artists and
when they were hot, you can only go to the
big arena shows and not get close. This allows you
to pay way less and get real close. And they
mix these shows perfectly. By the way, the sound systems
at these parts are as good as touring sound systems.
So you're gonna see them in their full regalia.

Speaker 5 (02:31:53):
Nothing says Disney to me like Queen's right.

Speaker 3 (02:31:55):
Oh yeah, man, yeah, yeah, yeah man. It's some cool stuff.

Speaker 6 (02:32:00):
White the lineup from all three Disney Universal and see
what unbelievable this year.

Speaker 4 (02:32:05):
They're saying, here's something to listen though.

Speaker 3 (02:32:07):
Listen to this Eighties run right here, Rick Springfield, Berlin,
the Commodores. Yeah, like boom boom boom, three weeks in
a row. You can really live your entire eighties life
right there.

Speaker 5 (02:32:16):
And still be home by ten, and.

Speaker 4 (02:32:17):
Still be home by ten. You're right, Yeah, Sugar Ray
would be a good show.

Speaker 3 (02:32:22):
They got a lot of good songs, and back when
they were like a punk man, I wonderf they're gonna
do any of that stuff like I mean.

Speaker 4 (02:32:27):
They used to have.

Speaker 3 (02:32:28):
I mean they were really hard before they kind of
turned pop and started doing Disney tunes. Firehouse is going
to be there as well. Very cool, all right, four
seven nine one six four one dead.

Speaker 4 (02:32:39):
Let's get some news.

Speaker 1 (02:32:42):
Good time for You heard it here first on The
Jim Colbert Show.

Speaker 7 (02:32:47):
Former Uvaldi, Texas school police officer Adrian Gonzalez has been
found not guilty of failing to protect students during the
deadly twenty twenty two mass shooting at rob Elementary School.

Speaker 5 (02:32:58):
Brett Cross, who's.

Speaker 7 (02:32:59):
Ten year old son died in the shooting, says the
verdict is a slap in the face to families.

Speaker 19 (02:33:04):
I thought, for us, that's with a second, maybe maybe
we might have just a little little bit of justice,
maybe just a touch of accountability.

Speaker 1 (02:33:13):
Yeah, but that went away is as fast as a.

Speaker 7 (02:33:17):
Game now it In all, the shooting left nineteen students
and two teachers dead. Yesterday's verdict followed about seven hours
of jury deliberations, capping a two week trial.

Speaker 4 (02:33:27):
Yeah. I mean, he wonted the courtroom, but we know
where he really lost.

Speaker 8 (02:33:30):
Well.

Speaker 7 (02:33:30):
You know again, the only thing I could think when
I saw this headline is why are we spending money
on school resource officers? At the end of the day,
the ones with the gun didn't stop the bad guy
with the gun. That is money our school districts can't afford.

Speaker 4 (02:33:45):
What are you there for it?

Speaker 5 (02:33:46):
And if at the end you're going to be acquitted.
Then why why are you there?

Speaker 4 (02:33:49):
Unbelievable.

Speaker 7 (02:33:50):
This is a second case. First Parkland and now you've aaldi.
I don't understand it all right. Blue Origin is starting
a satellite communications network to rival Starline.

Speaker 5 (02:34:00):
I guess they just want to cover all the sky.

Speaker 4 (02:34:02):
Good look.

Speaker 7 (02:34:03):
The space company founded by Amazon's Jeff Bezos, announced that
it will deploy over fifty four hundred satellites into Earth's
orbit for a communications network that will serve data centers, businesses,
and governments. Blue Origin says the satellite deployment will begin
in the last quarter of twenty twenty seven. And get this,
the new network will have quote data speeds of up

(02:34:23):
to six terabytes per second anywhere on Earth end quote.
The Jeff Bezos network, called Tero Wave, will compete with
Elon Musk's Starlink, which currently has about ten thousand satellites.

Speaker 4 (02:34:38):
Yeah in low Earth orbit, I mean six terabytes a second.

Speaker 5 (02:34:43):
Wow, that sounds like almost undoable, right.

Speaker 6 (02:34:46):
And it's so they have to be replaced, right, So
with Starlink it's ten thousand now, but since they started,
they know.

Speaker 3 (02:34:54):
They've replaced some because they only have like an eight
year cycle or something like that, and they fall out.

Speaker 6 (02:34:58):
Then if they now funk, then they burn up and
they so they just keep putting them out there.

Speaker 4 (02:35:04):
It's amazing to me that this is making money.

Speaker 3 (02:35:08):
Yeah, well the Starling should I mean, the subscriptions will
definitely do that. But I mean, obviously they they must
be money makers, because why would you build an entire
business and launch more against the company that's already established, right.

Speaker 6 (02:35:19):
Or you want to be in control, to have that
level of control. Like so the power right now that
Starlink has anywhere in the world. Oh, they're fighting in
Ukraine and they cut the power. Well, now I can
give you internet. Oh yeah, how valuable. Oh my god,
get out of here to any So what a terrible
thought just to be able to provide internet to anyone

(02:35:43):
in the world at your whim.

Speaker 4 (02:35:44):
Unbelievable.

Speaker 8 (02:35:45):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (02:35:45):
Yeah.

Speaker 7 (02:35:46):
And the other thing too is it's you know, getting
in the way of astronomers watching out for things that
are you know, could be coming for the plant by
the time you get the download.

Speaker 5 (02:35:55):
The whole time, exactly, all right.

Speaker 7 (02:35:58):
Sterling Heights, Michigan City Leader are approving a program to
use drones as first responders Sterling Heights Police Captain Mario
Bastianelli says they'll be able to send a drone to
the location of an emergency to use the cameras as
an eye in the sky. So City Council approved the
five years, six hundred seventy nine thousand dollars program. They're
going to have three drone docking stations throughout the city

(02:36:20):
and an officer at the station will fly the drone
from a computer depending on where the emergency is.

Speaker 5 (02:36:26):
Wow, and you heard it here first on the Jim
Colbert Show.

Speaker 11 (02:36:29):
Thank you.

Speaker 4 (02:36:31):
Who do we have to think today?

Speaker 7 (02:36:32):
Well, we want to thank Frogger's Girl in Barr once
again for our delicious lunch.

Speaker 5 (02:36:36):
Thank you so much.

Speaker 7 (02:36:37):
Froggers also want to thank Danny Myering with Orlando Date
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Collect Fair. Don't forget her new book, The Cost of Quiet.
By the way, if you miss Danny's Date Night Recommendations,
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Are you too?

Speaker 15 (02:37:00):
Chat?

Speaker 4 (02:37:01):
Thank you guys appreciate that very much.

Speaker 8 (02:37:02):
Jack.

Speaker 4 (02:37:02):
Question of the day.

Speaker 6 (02:37:03):
Uh yeah, a little different than you asked. So I
threw up which burgers do you prefer? Because we were
talking about burgers. Yeah, time, it's fine, okay, McDonald's, Burger King,
Wendy's are culvers.

Speaker 4 (02:37:17):
Oh is a clear winner, win a clear loser, and
then the other two were you know, win Wendy's.

Speaker 6 (02:37:23):
Wendy's has twenty four percent and they tie with Burger
King Culvers.

Speaker 4 (02:37:28):
Culver's had thirty seven percent. Yeah, it's a good burger.
Donald's last place at sixteen.

Speaker 9 (02:37:32):
Wow.

Speaker 4 (02:37:33):
Yeahs a great burger.

Speaker 5 (02:37:34):
It is all right.

Speaker 3 (02:37:35):
Coming up tomorrow, we'll have a sinker sale Embers only,
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kinds of fun stuff tomorrow PLUSU youre calls, text and
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We follow the new Shoggie. They followed the monsters in

(02:37:55):
the morning after us. It's tom Ya'm of the corporate time.
Love thy neighbor.

Speaker 4 (02:37:59):
Yeah, tonight, there you go tonight at eight.

Speaker 3 (02:38:02):
Eight o'clock and then of course our friends at real Laps.
We'll see tomorrow three for more than Jim Colbert Show.
Until then, enjoy yourself on a Thursday evening.

Speaker 5 (02:38:08):
Have a great night.

Speaker 4 (02:38:09):
Bye oh lord.

Speaker 2 (02:38:16):
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