November 4, 2025 • 8 mins
Joe had an interesting situation that he heard from his brother over the weekend... what would you do if you were caught in this situation?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
At the end of the day, I want to be
the best me possible. I'm gonna tell you a story. Okay,
this is a real life thing. When you hear it,
when you listen to it, I want to know if
you would have done anything different. Please, That's what I
want to know. In eight hundred and four, nine, ninety three,
ninety three, I genuinely want to know from you what
(00:21):
you think about this. Maybe you'd do exactly what my
brother did, maybe you'd switch up a couple of things.
We're live on ninety three three FLZ. By the way,
we're back. We're live Ashley Terry jed myself. I was
on vacation though, hanging out with my brother who just
became a doctor, which is sick and I'm so excited
for him. He is a doctor, he got his doctorate
(00:44):
in psychology, and he has, you know, a group of
friends and they're taking pictures. And after they did all that,
after the graduation, we went to lunch and he was like, yeah,
I was kind of awkward. I was taking pictures with
(01:06):
someone who used to be my friend. We got into
a pretty big fight. She got really mad at me
about something, and you know, it looks as though she's
not mad at me anymore, which is nice.
Speaker 2 (01:19):
And I said, well, what happened now?
Speaker 1 (01:21):
I want to know when you listen to this, if
you would have done exactly what he did or if
you would have changed something up.
Speaker 2 (01:30):
He said.
Speaker 1 (01:33):
That he had this group of friends they called themselves
the Core four. Okay, and he was playing video games
with one of the people. All right, another friend calls him,
(01:53):
let's put this in our group, Ashley, you and I
are playing video games. You can hear everything going on
in my apartment. Jed calls me. I pick up, and
you happen to hear the conversation because I put him
on speakerphone.
Speaker 2 (02:12):
You can hear it. Okay.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
Now, what this girl told my brother was is that
she cheated on her husband.
Speaker 2 (02:21):
Pretty crazy stuff.
Speaker 1 (02:24):
He hears her out on everything, and then he goes, hey,
before I say anything, I do need to tell you
I had you on speakerphone. You know so and so
heard you. She freaked out, She hangs up, doesn't talk
to him. Okay, Now, he said, he said, I shouldn't
have had you know her on speakerphone. I didn't expect
(02:46):
her to say something like that. But at the end
of the day, he did. That wasn't my issue. I mean,
that was a messed up part, but he agreed that.
I said, I wouldn't have said anything thing. I would
have just listened and been like, holy crap and then
hung up.
Speaker 3 (03:05):
I think he did the right thing only because it
is such major news, and if he hadn't done that,
and that person goes and tells someone else, she's gonna
be like, well, how do they know? And then she's
gonna think Jacob told this friend. Well, no, you told
them because you were on speaker and I told you
were on speaker.
Speaker 1 (03:21):
Yeah, but if you're all in a close friend group,
you should just be able to tell that friend. Hey,
keep your mouth shut, act like this never happened.
Speaker 3 (03:27):
Yeah, but everybody knows in friend groups. Yeah, they probably
had their core four. But out of those core four,
two of them are probably closer to each other than
the other two.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
Sure that bad of.
Speaker 1 (03:36):
A person that I because I said, when he says
all of this, he tells the whole story. I immediately
I was like, well, why did you tell her? You
shouldn't have told her. And my fiance got so mad
at me. She's like, do you keep things from me?
Why would you keep things from her? That's horrible. I
don't even know this lady and she just happened to
cheat on her husband, so I already don't think she's
(03:57):
that great.
Speaker 2 (03:58):
So I would keep a secret.
Speaker 3 (04:00):
No, you just got to tell it because it's going
to come back on you. I do think it's going
to eventually come back on you.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
Really, Yeah, I know you do, Bud.
Speaker 4 (04:07):
I know Joe that if we ran into this situation
where we were playing video games, right, this is part
of the hypothetical, and we were on speakerphone, we were
playing with Colbe and jewels, and you drop the knowledge
bomb on me like that, I would have to disclose
it to you. Yeah, because that's not something that you
that I want. I would keep it between you and
I obviously, but if they hurt it, I have to
(04:29):
be like, hey, they also heard it, because then you
don't want to Yes.
Speaker 3 (04:33):
Because what happens if once at one day you find
out they know, and then you're gonna be mad at
Jed and I'm like, whoa, well you told them my
business and then Jack like, well you were on speaker,
Like why don't you tell me? I was on speaker?
Speaker 1 (04:44):
Yeah, but why can't I get them too, like I,
why can't I? I would try to convince them to tell.
I'd say, hey, that's a lot of weight for me
to just know. Maybe we should talk about this as
a full friend. Do you think you're ready to tell
these people? I would kind of you to tell.
Speaker 4 (05:01):
And if it's a core four, you would assume that
it would be a point.
Speaker 5 (05:05):
Lauren, Hey, good morning.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
Hi, good morning. I'm a little bit worried. I have
anxiety that I didn't explain this correctly. Do you understand
everything I'm talking about right now?
Speaker 5 (05:17):
I mean yes. And my first thought was, if she
didn't cheat on her husband in the first place, nobody
would know anything because it wouldn't have happened. So if
she didn't cheat, then she wouldn't have said, hey, I.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
Cheated on my husband, and then nobody would have found out.
Speaker 4 (05:33):
So I blame it on her fully, all.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
Right, then I don't feel that bad for my response.
I'm telling you, Lauren, I got shamed at the table,
absolutely shamed.
Speaker 5 (05:46):
Yeah, we need to shame her.
Speaker 2 (05:50):
You cheated on your husband exactly nobody else's fault but yours. Yeah,
it's some accountability.
Speaker 1 (05:56):
Does Clockett apply to that? Statement, I'm trying to figure
out what to properly use clockett. I'm talking no, okay,
I'll continue to work out that.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
In the recycled bent with six to sevens.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
What one more time? My brother in a friend group.
One of the friends not talking to any of them
because she called my brother to tell him that she
cheated on her husband. Crazy stuff. He happened to pick
up and put her on speakerphone. When he did that,
(06:28):
one of their other friends could hear the whole conversation.
He then fessed up and said, listen, I'm so sorry
you were on speakerphone. This person heard that you did
that as well. She's super mad.
Speaker 2 (06:42):
Collette.
Speaker 5 (06:44):
Yeah, Joe, it's Collette. I don't know if you can
hear me. I'm getting over Brontie.
Speaker 1 (06:49):
Oh you sound still absolutely fantastic. You sound elegant.
Speaker 5 (06:55):
Who loves your baby, who loves your baby?
Speaker 2 (06:58):
Thank you?
Speaker 5 (06:58):
All right, Well, she's one hundred percent right. She got
it right on the nose, because it would go round
and round and it'll come back the person who was
the girl have the phone with the speaker. She'll she'll
blame him that he's the one that spread the rumor.
She she shouldn't do that to somebody but your husband,
and she shouldn't be talking about it. So she deserves
(07:21):
everything she got.
Speaker 2 (07:22):
You guys want to know even more. Yeah, he stayed
with her. There's still you already know.
Speaker 1 (07:29):
I asked that and then I got kind of like
That're like, well, why is that your my my next questioner?
Speaker 2 (07:36):
I guess my first question was what does she look like?
I hadn't know what you guys weren't thinking the same thing. No,
I'm thinking it's Herny. They're still together.
Speaker 1 (07:48):
And then the other thing for off the air, you
know something crazy Jed knows the guy?
Speaker 2 (07:53):
No way, Yeah you do. Wow, Yeah, I'll tell you later.
You'll know.
Speaker 1 (07:58):
Yeah, I didn't even know him though. You know, I'm
completely on it from a side venture, sidequest. Okay, yeah,
all right, collect we'll talk to you. Uh, we'll talk
to you later. We gotta move. We're getting a bunch
of people calling in, and uh, I knew I only
had time for six or seven minutes.
At the end of the day, I want to be
the best me possible. I'm gonna tell you a story. Okay,
this is a real life thing. When you hear it,
when you listen to it, I want to know if
you would have done anything different. Please, That's what I
want to know. In eight hundred and four, nine, ninety three,
ninety three, I genuinely want to know from you what
(00:21):
you think about this. Maybe you'd do exactly what my
brother did, maybe you'd switch up a couple of things.
We're live on ninety three three FLZ. By the way,
we're back. We're live Ashley Terry jed myself. I was
on vacation though, hanging out with my brother who just
became a doctor, which is sick and I'm so excited
for him. He is a doctor, he got his doctorate
(00:44):
in psychology, and he has, you know, a group of
friends and they're taking pictures. And after they did all that,
after the graduation, we went to lunch and he was like, yeah,
I was kind of awkward. I was taking pictures with
(01:06):
someone who used to be my friend. We got into
a pretty big fight. She got really mad at me
about something, and you know, it looks as though she's
not mad at me anymore, which is nice.
Speaker 2 (01:19):
And I said, well, what happened now?
Speaker 1 (01:21):
I want to know when you listen to this, if
you would have done exactly what he did or if
you would have changed something up.
Speaker 2 (01:30):
He said.
Speaker 1 (01:33):
That he had this group of friends they called themselves
the Core four. Okay, and he was playing video games
with one of the people. All right, another friend calls him,
(01:53):
let's put this in our group, Ashley, you and I
are playing video games. You can hear everything going on
in my apartment. Jed calls me. I pick up, and
you happen to hear the conversation because I put him
on speakerphone.
Speaker 2 (02:12):
You can hear it. Okay.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
Now, what this girl told my brother was is that
she cheated on her husband.
Speaker 2 (02:21):
Pretty crazy stuff.
Speaker 1 (02:24):
He hears her out on everything, and then he goes, hey,
before I say anything, I do need to tell you
I had you on speakerphone. You know so and so
heard you. She freaked out, She hangs up, doesn't talk
to him. Okay, Now, he said, he said, I shouldn't
have had you know her on speakerphone. I didn't expect
(02:46):
her to say something like that. But at the end
of the day, he did. That wasn't my issue. I mean,
that was a messed up part, but he agreed that.
I said, I wouldn't have said anything thing. I would
have just listened and been like, holy crap and then
hung up.
Speaker 3 (03:05):
I think he did the right thing only because it
is such major news, and if he hadn't done that,
and that person goes and tells someone else, she's gonna
be like, well, how do they know? And then she's
gonna think Jacob told this friend. Well, no, you told
them because you were on speaker and I told you
were on speaker.
Speaker 1 (03:21):
Yeah, but if you're all in a close friend group,
you should just be able to tell that friend. Hey,
keep your mouth shut, act like this never happened.
Speaker 3 (03:27):
Yeah, but everybody knows in friend groups. Yeah, they probably
had their core four. But out of those core four,
two of them are probably closer to each other than
the other two.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
Sure that bad of.
Speaker 1 (03:36):
A person that I because I said, when he says
all of this, he tells the whole story. I immediately
I was like, well, why did you tell her? You
shouldn't have told her. And my fiance got so mad
at me. She's like, do you keep things from me?
Why would you keep things from her? That's horrible. I
don't even know this lady and she just happened to
cheat on her husband, so I already don't think she's
(03:57):
that great.
Speaker 2 (03:58):
So I would keep a secret.
Speaker 3 (04:00):
No, you just got to tell it because it's going
to come back on you. I do think it's going
to eventually come back on you.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
Really, Yeah, I know you do, Bud.
Speaker 4 (04:07):
I know Joe that if we ran into this situation
where we were playing video games, right, this is part
of the hypothetical, and we were on speakerphone, we were
playing with Colbe and jewels, and you drop the knowledge
bomb on me like that, I would have to disclose
it to you. Yeah, because that's not something that you
that I want. I would keep it between you and
I obviously, but if they hurt it, I have to
(04:29):
be like, hey, they also heard it, because then you
don't want to Yes.
Speaker 3 (04:33):
Because what happens if once at one day you find
out they know, and then you're gonna be mad at
Jed and I'm like, whoa, well you told them my
business and then Jack like, well you were on speaker,
Like why don't you tell me? I was on speaker?
Speaker 1 (04:44):
Yeah, but why can't I get them too, like I,
why can't I? I would try to convince them to tell.
I'd say, hey, that's a lot of weight for me
to just know. Maybe we should talk about this as
a full friend. Do you think you're ready to tell
these people? I would kind of you to tell.
Speaker 4 (05:01):
And if it's a core four, you would assume that
it would be a point.
Speaker 5 (05:05):
Lauren, Hey, good morning.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
Hi, good morning. I'm a little bit worried. I have
anxiety that I didn't explain this correctly. Do you understand
everything I'm talking about right now?
Speaker 5 (05:17):
I mean yes. And my first thought was, if she
didn't cheat on her husband in the first place, nobody
would know anything because it wouldn't have happened. So if
she didn't cheat, then she wouldn't have said, hey, I.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
Cheated on my husband, and then nobody would have found out.
Speaker 4 (05:33):
So I blame it on her fully, all.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
Right, then I don't feel that bad for my response.
I'm telling you, Lauren, I got shamed at the table,
absolutely shamed.
Speaker 5 (05:46):
Yeah, we need to shame her.
Speaker 2 (05:50):
You cheated on your husband exactly nobody else's fault but yours. Yeah,
it's some accountability.
Speaker 1 (05:56):
Does Clockett apply to that? Statement, I'm trying to figure
out what to properly use clockett. I'm talking no, okay,
I'll continue to work out that.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
In the recycled bent with six to sevens.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
What one more time? My brother in a friend group.
One of the friends not talking to any of them
because she called my brother to tell him that she
cheated on her husband. Crazy stuff. He happened to pick
up and put her on speakerphone. When he did that,
(06:28):
one of their other friends could hear the whole conversation.
He then fessed up and said, listen, I'm so sorry
you were on speakerphone. This person heard that you did
that as well. She's super mad.
Speaker 2 (06:42):
Collette.
Speaker 5 (06:44):
Yeah, Joe, it's Collette. I don't know if you can
hear me. I'm getting over Brontie.
Speaker 1 (06:49):
Oh you sound still absolutely fantastic. You sound elegant.
Speaker 5 (06:55):
Who loves your baby, who loves your baby?
Speaker 2 (06:58):
Thank you?
Speaker 5 (06:58):
All right, Well, she's one hundred percent right. She got
it right on the nose, because it would go round
and round and it'll come back the person who was
the girl have the phone with the speaker. She'll she'll
blame him that he's the one that spread the rumor.
She she shouldn't do that to somebody but your husband,
and she shouldn't be talking about it. So she deserves
(07:21):
everything she got.
Speaker 2 (07:22):
You guys want to know even more. Yeah, he stayed
with her. There's still you already know.
Speaker 1 (07:29):
I asked that and then I got kind of like
That're like, well, why is that your my my next questioner?
Speaker 2 (07:36):
I guess my first question was what does she look like?
I hadn't know what you guys weren't thinking the same thing. No,
I'm thinking it's Herny. They're still together.
Speaker 1 (07:48):
And then the other thing for off the air, you
know something crazy Jed knows the guy?
Speaker 2 (07:53):
No way, Yeah you do. Wow, Yeah, I'll tell you later.
You'll know.
Speaker 1 (07:58):
Yeah, I didn't even know him though. You know, I'm
completely on it from a side venture, sidequest. Okay, yeah,
all right, collect we'll talk to you. Uh, we'll talk
to you later. We gotta move. We're getting a bunch
of people calling in, and uh, I knew I only
had time for six or seven minutes.
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