May 14, 2024 • 9 mins
Today on Valentine Overtime: The gang breaks down what they would consider to be their love language.
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(00:01):
Valentine in the Morning presents the showfor the show, Valentine over Time.
All right, get it, what'shappening? Welcome to Valentine Overtime. It's
another Tuesday. We got the wholeteam here. Hey, it's me the
(00:22):
big guy. You know, Ialmost skipped out on doing that today,
but I'm glad you did because nowI'll never skip it again. The big
guy, the big guy in thebig seat, Valentine. It's the same
seat as all of us, actually, but Valentine's here, Jill's here or
on the couch, Brian. Aaronlooks like he's just walking in right now.
No Michael Pullman though, I thinkhe hung up on on team.
(00:43):
Just not feeling so well today,unfortunately. Is Aaron coming? Is something
on the door? No, somebodyelse, somebody else, nothing to do
with you. It was Brian's otherjob as a podcast. So yeah,
that's coming up today. I did. I did want to bring a question
to the table that I've been curiousabout. I think we've touched on it
briefly on the air a couple oftimes, but today we're going to talk
(01:03):
about love languages. I want toknow what your love languages are. Touch
yeah. I think I knew thatabout you because we recently or not recently,
but we have talked about that onthe air. If you don't know
the love languages, Brian, areyou familiar with love languages? Yes,
so the five. Here's this touch, Brian, here's a touch too.
There's no way it's not affirmation.Words of affirmation, words of affirmation.
(01:26):
Never hear from wife, from anyof you. I've said many nice things
about you over the yours. Mywife she's into gifts because I'm not a
gift giver. She's a gift giver, so she likes to receive too.
I am more just you know,touch, just hold me. That's a
hard one to learn giving gifts,it's yeah, because I'm really bad at
(01:46):
that too. Really, it's hardto learn touching. I've noticed as well.
It can be. I think ifit makes you feel unomfortable, I'm
quality time. Quality time. Yeah, every day here I am with you.
Look at that and that nice II don't know why this happens,
but I tend to date quality timethe most. Like almost every major girlfriend
I've had has been quality time,which is such a challenge because, like
I have such a busy life,and I find it very difficult to do
(02:08):
quality time. What's your love language? Touch? For sure. A lot
of guys like touch. It's sointeresting. I think you're right. I
don't know. And it's not necessarilywe're not saying touch like ooh, we're
being you know whatever. Give mea little just touch, like a hand
on my leg, Yeah, justto let you know, like a hand
on the leg, or just likea knee between the thigh. Yeah,
(02:29):
you know, like I told youhow my wife gives me that sign that
she's gonna frisky. He gives mea hug, and her knee just kind
of wanders between my thigh. It'snothing up towards that area, but just
like a little above my kneecap orsomething, and I feel her knee or
whatever. Not only did you tellme you, you showed me you said
touch as well. Yeah. Iwas trying to let you feel the touch.
I just can't imagine it if youdon't touch me, like why why?
(02:50):
Why not? Right? You know, it's we're doing that twenty second
hug thing. It's a big dealat my house. Guys. You got
to try it out. Is itfor you? Is it for her?
As much as it is for you. I think just being held like that
for twenty seconds brings her to center. Sometimes I get that when she could
be having a bad day or whatever, and it's it's for both of us.
I think we're both getting something outof it. You know. I'm
also tied with acts of service.I'm a big act of service guy.
(03:15):
Like, if I see that you'reout of toothpaste, I will make sure
that on my next door trip,I'll grab some toothpaste because I saw that
you were out of it. That'snice to you. Like if I see
you I have closed a fold,like, I'll start folding it because oh
I don't do that. That's away that I show it. I guess
I do. I do sometimes makethe special fold on the toilet paper,
and I think I should get creditfor that. The core the hotel fold
(03:37):
and the toilet paper. Is thatale an active love or do you just
do that because that's for you?I think that's an active love. No,
I've already used the toilet paper.I'm not making it for myself.
That's for the next for the nextperson that goes in. Yeah, whoever
uses that potty next, which ismore than likely my wife that active service.
Yeah, not here, No,I don't do that. I'll start
(03:58):
it here if you want, please, and then i'll know the worst paper
in the world. Yeah, youknow the seed is warm because of me.
Yeah. I don't know if Ilike that, I'm doing it,
Laura. Love language, what isit? I think mine is words of
affirmation. Doing a great job.I appreciate that. Now, how you
give and receive? See, thisis difficult, and I actually believe you
(04:23):
can have multiple love languages. Iknow. No, I think you're probably
right, like my struggle to hornin on one, like I feel like
I'm just a giver. You know, well, you know what it is.
There's I think love languages. Noone's broached this yet, so let
me be the first to broach this. Love language is very in all different
relationships and your environment. My lovelanguage at home is touched. My love
(04:46):
language at work probably would be wordsof affirmation as well, because we're not
getting raises. But words of affirmationwould go a long way here at work,
you know, just that hearty thankyou for a job well done,
or letting people know that they valueyour input into something. And it's not
just white noise. Do you likethat about our boss John Peak. Whenever
we have like going on. Iwas saying that because I don't, oh,
(05:11):
are one on one with some typeof like, hey, good job
with this, or I liked whenyou did this. Really, Yeah,
all we're getting is the touch.We're not getting those words of affirmation from
our boss John Peak. Oh Igot Valentine and little photo of you as
(05:32):
a drum major. Now I knowwhy you didn't go to prom. Yeah,
that did happen. There was aroast in our company meeting this week.
Yeah it was me that was gettinghit. Yeah. Yeah, it
was so whacked, and Jill wasvery sweet. I actually I did take
a little offense to this, tobe quite honest. Uh No, I
mean I get it. It's justhow they view me for some reason.
Uh. And I'm aware this recordingcan be going out somewhere. But Jill
(05:55):
had texted me like everyone else gettingthose anniversary parties and stuf. Yeah,
my date of hire with this company'snineteen ninety three. That's like thirty years
nineteen ninety three, that includes mytime in Texas before I got here,
but same company, So twenty twentythree, it would have been a big
year for you, would have been. Yeah, So then I have seventeen
years I think in Los Angeles Radio, which is a long time. And
(06:18):
or remember it was twenty seven years. I'm sorry, yeah, yeah,
because I texted it to Jill.Yes, because there was a full conversation
going on this this is what itwas. Thirty years with the company.
My time in LA is twenty sevenyears. When I started at kissfl it
was twenty seven years ago, andthen sixteen and a half years hosting this
show, which has gone by ablink eight no parties for us. Other
(06:41):
shows are getting ten year anniversaries anddeservedly because they're great. Yeah, but
these bypassed us. Yeah, youyou would probably have the largest anniversary.
Huh. Well, I'm oldest fora show of my own like this.
Yeah, asides from Big Boy.Yeah, but big Boy wasn't with big
Boy started iHeart like ten years agoor something. He did his thirty year
(07:02):
LA that's what it is. Yeah, but he hasn't been with iHeart that
whole time, So mine is thebiggest with iHeart. And then, to
be honest, you know, Jojoshould be in there as well. Ellen
Cay should be in there. Youknow, her ten year anniversary be coming
up for hosting mornings down the Hallof Coast. So you're at twenty seven
right now, Dude, I don'tknow so old at this point. I
don't know what thirty is the bigone now? But why wait till that?
(07:26):
Because what's wrong with twenty eight years? Yeah, there's not a big
ring to that, you know,well, there was a heck of a
ring to twenty five and twenty andfifteen to ten. I think we just
have to ask for it. Ithink we can't just wait for people to
throw it for us. We gotto ask for it, because I'm sure
that all those guys went in thereand asked for it. Really. Oh,
like, let's plan, like,let's start our anniversaryes coming up with
(07:46):
how long did it take us toget a second chance? Prom We've been
pushing that thing for years, right, So we start valves thirty thirty now
right now, so then by thenext three years we get it in the
works. We could share thirtieth birthdaysbecause I'm you know, what I'm saying
(08:07):
is we can draw the people andwe can say it's a birthday body psych
God, how young are you?Yeah? Yeah? Wow, We're I
legally allowed to hire you I mean, can you work at this age of
yours? I want to get youryour love language. Do you know you
know them a love languages? Sothere is physical touch, words of affirmation,
(08:28):
giving gifts, quality time, andacts of service. I'd say giving
gifts really, I think so.I like to put a lot of thought
in I like to wrap a gift. I like getting a card like they
say, say it without saying itkind of deal. Yeah, so I
think a gift does Is it likethe thought that's inside the gift? Sure?
Yeah, it's not just here's agift card. It's usually it's an
(08:52):
album that we grew up listening to, or photo of a place we used
to spend time at. Stuff likethat. Little more just getting a gift.
Excuse me, the man is talking. We hear all. Ryan is
a podcast that's coming up next andhe needs us to vacate the studio for
it because it's his boss, ourvery big boss. Well all right,
(09:15):
it's Paul Corbino, our boss CEOsyou should know is a podcast that he
does, and Brian is the producerfor that podcast, and it's funny.
On Tuesdays when they tape, Brianruns around the studio in the nine o'clock
hour, Lysol wipes, cleaning theplace up, making it nice and everything.
There's now a fresh thing of cokesin here, some fresh waters.
There might be pastries in a second. Man, you wonder why you're not
(09:39):
getting words of affirmation from us.This place is the bomb. When Paul
comes in, it looks like abomb went off. Tomorrow, we'll see you there
Valentine in the Morning presents the showfor the show, Valentine over Time.
All right, get it, what'shappening? Welcome to Valentine Overtime. It's
another Tuesday. We got the wholeteam here. Hey, it's me the
(00:22):
big guy. You know, Ialmost skipped out on doing that today,
but I'm glad you did because nowI'll never skip it again. The big
guy, the big guy in thebig seat, Valentine. It's the same
seat as all of us, actually, but Valentine's here, Jill's here or
on the couch, Brian. Aaronlooks like he's just walking in right now.
No Michael Pullman though, I thinkhe hung up on on team.
(00:43):
Just not feeling so well today,unfortunately. Is Aaron coming? Is something
on the door? No, somebodyelse, somebody else, nothing to do
with you. It was Brian's otherjob as a podcast. So yeah,
that's coming up today. I did. I did want to bring a question
to the table that I've been curiousabout. I think we've touched on it
briefly on the air a couple oftimes, but today we're going to talk
(01:03):
about love languages. I want toknow what your love languages are. Touch
yeah. I think I knew thatabout you because we recently or not recently,
but we have talked about that onthe air. If you don't know
the love languages, Brian, areyou familiar with love languages? Yes,
so the five. Here's this touch, Brian, here's a touch too.
There's no way it's not affirmation.Words of affirmation, words of affirmation.
(01:26):
Never hear from wife, from anyof you. I've said many nice things
about you over the yours. Mywife she's into gifts because I'm not a
gift giver. She's a gift giver, so she likes to receive too.
I am more just you know,touch, just hold me. That's a
hard one to learn giving gifts,it's yeah, because I'm really bad at
(01:46):
that too. Really, it's hardto learn touching. I've noticed as well.
It can be. I think ifit makes you feel unomfortable, I'm
quality time. Quality time. Yeah, every day here I am with you.
Look at that and that nice II don't know why this happens,
but I tend to date quality timethe most. Like almost every major girlfriend
I've had has been quality time,which is such a challenge because, like
I have such a busy life,and I find it very difficult to do
(02:08):
quality time. What's your love language? Touch? For sure. A lot
of guys like touch. It's sointeresting. I think you're right. I
don't know. And it's not necessarilywe're not saying touch like ooh, we're
being you know whatever. Give mea little just touch, like a hand
on my leg, Yeah, justto let you know, like a hand
on the leg, or just likea knee between the thigh. Yeah,
(02:29):
you know, like I told youhow my wife gives me that sign that
she's gonna frisky. He gives mea hug, and her knee just kind
of wanders between my thigh. It'snothing up towards that area, but just
like a little above my kneecap orsomething, and I feel her knee or
whatever. Not only did you tellme you, you showed me you said
touch as well. Yeah. Iwas trying to let you feel the touch.
I just can't imagine it if youdon't touch me, like why why?
(02:50):
Why not? Right? You know, it's we're doing that twenty second
hug thing. It's a big dealat my house. Guys. You got
to try it out. Is itfor you? Is it for her?
As much as it is for you. I think just being held like that
for twenty seconds brings her to center. Sometimes I get that when she could
be having a bad day or whatever, and it's it's for both of us.
I think we're both getting something outof it. You know. I'm
also tied with acts of service.I'm a big act of service guy.
(03:15):
Like, if I see that you'reout of toothpaste, I will make sure
that on my next door trip,I'll grab some toothpaste because I saw that
you were out of it. That'snice to you. Like if I see
you I have closed a fold,like, I'll start folding it because oh
I don't do that. That's away that I show it. I guess
I do. I do sometimes makethe special fold on the toilet paper,
and I think I should get creditfor that. The core the hotel fold
(03:37):
and the toilet paper. Is thatale an active love or do you just
do that because that's for you?I think that's an active love. No,
I've already used the toilet paper.I'm not making it for myself.
That's for the next for the nextperson that goes in. Yeah, whoever
uses that potty next, which ismore than likely my wife that active service.
Yeah, not here, No,I don't do that. I'll start
(03:58):
it here if you want, please, and then i'll know the worst paper
in the world. Yeah, youknow the seed is warm because of me.
Yeah. I don't know if Ilike that, I'm doing it,
Laura. Love language, what isit? I think mine is words of
affirmation. Doing a great job.I appreciate that. Now, how you
give and receive? See, thisis difficult, and I actually believe you
(04:23):
can have multiple love languages. Iknow. No, I think you're probably
right, like my struggle to hornin on one, like I feel like
I'm just a giver. You know, well, you know what it is.
There's I think love languages. Noone's broached this yet, so let
me be the first to broach this. Love language is very in all different
relationships and your environment. My lovelanguage at home is touched. My love
(04:46):
language at work probably would be wordsof affirmation as well, because we're not
getting raises. But words of affirmationwould go a long way here at work,
you know, just that hearty thankyou for a job well done,
or letting people know that they valueyour input into something. And it's not
just white noise. Do you likethat about our boss John Peak. Whenever
we have like going on. Iwas saying that because I don't, oh,
(05:11):
are one on one with some typeof like, hey, good job
with this, or I liked whenyou did this. Really, Yeah,
all we're getting is the touch.We're not getting those words of affirmation from
our boss John Peak. Oh Igot Valentine and little photo of you as
(05:32):
a drum major. Now I knowwhy you didn't go to prom. Yeah,
that did happen. There was aroast in our company meeting this week.
Yeah it was me that was gettinghit. Yeah. Yeah, it
was so whacked, and Jill wasvery sweet. I actually I did take
a little offense to this, tobe quite honest. Uh No, I
mean I get it. It's justhow they view me for some reason.
Uh. And I'm aware this recordingcan be going out somewhere. But Jill
(05:55):
had texted me like everyone else gettingthose anniversary parties and stuf. Yeah,
my date of hire with this company'snineteen ninety three. That's like thirty years
nineteen ninety three, that includes mytime in Texas before I got here,
but same company, So twenty twentythree, it would have been a big
year for you, would have been. Yeah, So then I have seventeen
years I think in Los Angeles Radio, which is a long time. And
(06:18):
or remember it was twenty seven years. I'm sorry, yeah, yeah,
because I texted it to Jill.Yes, because there was a full conversation
going on this this is what itwas. Thirty years with the company.
My time in LA is twenty sevenyears. When I started at kissfl it
was twenty seven years ago, andthen sixteen and a half years hosting this
show, which has gone by ablink eight no parties for us. Other
(06:41):
shows are getting ten year anniversaries anddeservedly because they're great. Yeah, but
these bypassed us. Yeah, youyou would probably have the largest anniversary.
Huh. Well, I'm oldest fora show of my own like this.
Yeah, asides from Big Boy.Yeah, but big Boy wasn't with big
Boy started iHeart like ten years agoor something. He did his thirty year
(07:02):
LA that's what it is. Yeah, but he hasn't been with iHeart that
whole time, So mine is thebiggest with iHeart. And then, to
be honest, you know, Jojoshould be in there as well. Ellen
Cay should be in there. Youknow, her ten year anniversary be coming
up for hosting mornings down the Hallof Coast. So you're at twenty seven
right now, Dude, I don'tknow so old at this point. I
don't know what thirty is the bigone now? But why wait till that?
(07:26):
Because what's wrong with twenty eight years? Yeah, there's not a big
ring to that, you know,well, there was a heck of a
ring to twenty five and twenty andfifteen to ten. I think we just
have to ask for it. Ithink we can't just wait for people to
throw it for us. We gotto ask for it, because I'm sure
that all those guys went in thereand asked for it. Really. Oh,
like, let's plan, like,let's start our anniversaryes coming up with
(07:46):
how long did it take us toget a second chance? Prom We've been
pushing that thing for years, right, So we start valves thirty thirty now
right now, so then by thenext three years we get it in the
works. We could share thirtieth birthdaysbecause I'm you know, what I'm saying
(08:07):
is we can draw the people andwe can say it's a birthday body psych
God, how young are you?Yeah? Yeah? Wow, We're I
legally allowed to hire you I mean, can you work at this age of
yours? I want to get youryour love language. Do you know you
know them a love languages? Sothere is physical touch, words of affirmation,
(08:28):
giving gifts, quality time, andacts of service. I'd say giving
gifts really, I think so.I like to put a lot of thought
in I like to wrap a gift. I like getting a card like they
say, say it without saying itkind of deal. Yeah, so I
think a gift does Is it likethe thought that's inside the gift? Sure?
Yeah, it's not just here's agift card. It's usually it's an
(08:52):
album that we grew up listening to, or photo of a place we used
to spend time at. Stuff likethat. Little more just getting a gift.
Excuse me, the man is talking. We hear all. Ryan is
a podcast that's coming up next andhe needs us to vacate the studio for
it because it's his boss, ourvery big boss. Well all right,
(09:15):
it's Paul Corbino, our boss CEOsyou should know is a podcast that he
does, and Brian is the producerfor that podcast, and it's funny.
On Tuesdays when they tape, Brianruns around the studio in the nine o'clock
hour, Lysol wipes, cleaning theplace up, making it nice and everything.
There's now a fresh thing of cokesin here, some fresh waters.
There might be pastries in a second. Man, you wonder why you're not
(09:39):
getting words of affirmation from us.This place is the bomb. When Paul
comes in, it looks like abomb went off. Tomorrow, we'll see you there
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