June 11, 2026 • 9 mins
Do You Know a Fast Talker? Do Women Talk Fast Sometimes? Maverick says that they do. Even Lulu does. However Lulu diasagrees. She says, "if" it happens, it's becuase Men don't listen. Women and Men, wanmted to talk about Fast-Talking. LISTEN HERE
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Yesterday was Talk Slow Day, a day when everyone around
you just needs to slow down a little bit. Sometimes
we have trouble keeping up with what you're saying, so
Talk Slow Day was initiated to just slow down a
bit when you have a conversation with somebody.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
As I was reading this about talk Slow Day.
Speaker 3 (00:19):
Yeah, what do you have to say about that? And
I can't wait.
Speaker 1 (00:24):
Typically women, sometimes we'll talk a little too fast, like
you have that tendency on occasion, and I'm like, what
was that? And then you're like, well, you weren't listening.
I'm like, no, I was listening, but you said it
so fast I couldn't pick up on it. And You're
not the only one. I think I've heard this happen
here in the office. I remember my mom and dad
(00:46):
when I was a kid. Sometimes he's to be like,
what was it?
Speaker 3 (00:49):
You know what it is. I don't think that we
initially talk fast, but we know that you have short
attention spans and tune us out, so we're like, so
maybe you could get it. We don't start off that way,
and they're like, I can tell sometimes when you have
totally tuned me out totally, And I'm like and then
you go, well, some word might have caught your ear,
(01:11):
like would you say.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
Mm hmm, But you admit that you talk fast sometimes.
Speaker 3 (01:17):
I know, well, I don't think that I talked fast initially. No,
I don't think women talk fast.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
I think there are times when you're not totally aware
and you're talking and I can't understand what you're saying
because it's going too fast.
Speaker 2 (01:31):
That happened with somebody here at work the other day.
Speaker 1 (01:33):
Yeah, I'm like, you got to slow down. I didn't
understand any of that.
Speaker 3 (01:37):
It must have been because we know that you don't
are going to listen.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
We got somebody that wants to talk about this, all right,
as long as it's slow, ma'am. Hello, I had a.
Speaker 4 (01:48):
Thought as far as how the women talk too fast.
It's not a matter of that we talk too fast
what we kind of do, but we want to get
our idea out before the guy loses the attention span.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
That's it.
Speaker 5 (02:00):
You guys don't want to hear everything that we're saying
because we give a lot of the details.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
So it's never your fault. It's never something you've done.
It's always our fault. Now you have it, yes, all right,
because it was talk slow day yesterday.
Speaker 2 (02:16):
It's kind of interesting. I want you to think about this.
Speaker 1 (02:18):
Do you have somebody in your life that tends to
talk too fast? Not all the time, but occasionally, because
I feel like women do it occasionally rarely? Do you
have a guide talking too fast that rarely happens?
Speaker 3 (02:31):
You just got an explanation, so.
Speaker 2 (02:34):
You're agreeing that it happens.
Speaker 3 (02:36):
It doesn't happen until we know we lost you, Okay,
So it's our fault. It's not our choice to talk fast,
and I don't think we That's why I'm defending it.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
You talk fast occasionally. I don't know that I talk fast.
Speaker 3 (02:49):
You say that, but I'm not so sure that I do.
Speaker 2 (02:52):
You do it on the radio sometimes. Now, mem you
comment on miss.
Speaker 3 (03:00):
Hey, I was just listening and about women talking fast. Yeah,
and I am constantly accused of talking.
Speaker 4 (03:07):
Too fast, and I admit it.
Speaker 3 (03:09):
I do well.
Speaker 5 (03:12):
Right now, you weren't talking Thank you, ma'am.
Speaker 3 (03:14):
I appreciate you're not talking fast now.
Speaker 2 (03:17):
She didn't say no, I'm not well.
Speaker 3 (03:19):
Thank you. I do.
Speaker 4 (03:22):
When I get excited or nervous, I'll speak one hundred
miles a minute.
Speaker 5 (03:25):
I will well.
Speaker 3 (03:27):
Now, I have no defense for you, if you're going
to fully admit.
Speaker 4 (03:32):
No, no, no, I will say men do talk fast too.
Where I work, I do tell people you talk faster
than I do. I need to slow down, So men
do talk fast too.
Speaker 2 (03:43):
I've never heard a guy talk fast. Really, I've never
heard a woman tell a guy slow down, you're talking
too fast.
Speaker 3 (03:49):
We pay attention.
Speaker 2 (03:56):
Here.
Speaker 1 (03:58):
I'm so serious.
Speaker 2 (03:59):
Yeah, I can't even say anything. That's so ridiculous.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
It's true.
Speaker 2 (04:12):
I love you, Thank you for calling. Thank you well.
Speaker 5 (04:19):
I love you too.
Speaker 3 (04:20):
Thanks guys, you too.
Speaker 2 (04:23):
You got a thought on this.
Speaker 3 (04:24):
The only time I do it is if I feel
I've lost your attention.
Speaker 1 (04:27):
I think you do it sometimes you don't even know
you're doing it, like you do it on the radio.
Speaker 2 (04:31):
Sometimes.
Speaker 3 (04:31):
Oh, I certainly do not.
Speaker 1 (04:35):
Now, I have a couple of people that wanted to
comment on this, including you, ma'am.
Speaker 4 (04:39):
So I just wanted to say that I do talk
a lot, but guys should still listen to everything that
we have to say because one day it could actually
help them out.
Speaker 1 (04:48):
Right, But it's how fast you guys need to slow down?
Speaker 4 (04:51):
Yeah, But at the same time, you got to think
we have a lot going on and our schedule also
incorporates what you guys are doing.
Speaker 2 (04:59):
You don't have a lot going on, not as much
as us.
Speaker 4 (05:03):
Exactly.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
All right, what about you, ma'am? You had something on
this as well? Is that right?
Speaker 1 (05:10):
Yes?
Speaker 4 (05:10):
My boyfriend always tells me this lot now when I talk.
Speaker 5 (05:13):
So there you go, Lulu, right there, you're saying things
he doesn't want to hear then, and you're giving him
too much information.
Speaker 1 (05:19):
Guys either get excited or passionate, and you guys go
another level.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (05:24):
I talk like an auctioneer most of the time.
Speaker 2 (05:26):
So what was that?
Speaker 4 (05:28):
I talk like an oor most of the time.
Speaker 2 (05:30):
That's part point.
Speaker 3 (05:38):
I don't hear what she said.
Speaker 1 (05:39):
Exactly because she said I'm gonna I talk like an
auctioneer so fast you couldn't even understand it.
Speaker 2 (05:44):
No, no, no, that wasn't it. Thank you, ma'am. Youse
has proved our points.
Speaker 3 (05:54):
Whatever.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
You or somebody you know talk fast, all right?
Speaker 1 (05:57):
So, April, you talk fast occasionally too, Is that right?
Speaker 4 (06:01):
I think sometimes I do talk faster, but I think
that the man just say they listen slower. They don't understand.
Speaker 3 (06:08):
Is that.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
All around of seconds time out ahead?
Speaker 1 (06:15):
I don't listen to this, so you talk fast, but
we also listen slow.
Speaker 4 (06:21):
Exactly exactly. It's like your brain can't keep up.
Speaker 3 (06:26):
Is that what it is?
Speaker 1 (06:27):
Wait a second, So you're admitting you talk fast, so
us just listening at a normal pace, you'd already be
going fast, but you think we're behind you even more.
Speaker 5 (06:38):
Yeah, that's a good way to look at Like.
Speaker 3 (06:40):
I feel like you just tune me out and you're like, wait, what,
Oh you're talking fast? Would you say?
Speaker 4 (06:44):
Or you're talking to me?
Speaker 3 (06:45):
Yeah, you're talking to me. Something's up with this.
Speaker 1 (06:49):
Something doesn't know right people, Has anybody ever said to
you you talk fast?
Speaker 4 (06:54):
Yees? So I do admit I do talk faster time,
But I think that people.
Speaker 1 (06:59):
Just listen slow.
Speaker 4 (06:59):
I think it gets like a it's like training. I
think you have to train your brain to listen past
or looks like you have to train to run or
trying to do anything else.
Speaker 2 (07:06):
I feel like my ears are struggling to keep up.
Right now. I got you, Apel, Love you, April, have
a great day.
Speaker 3 (07:17):
Yeah, detail bye bye.
Speaker 1 (07:21):
Anybody that talks fast blames the other person, not that
they need to slow down.
Speaker 2 (07:27):
Do you notice that.
Speaker 3 (07:29):
Did you notice that the person blaming the person talking fast,
doesn't admit that they might not be listening.
Speaker 2 (07:34):
What that. See.
Speaker 1 (07:37):
I got a few people that want to talk about this,
hopefully not too fast, be right.
Speaker 2 (07:41):
Hello, Hey, I.
Speaker 4 (07:43):
Think I know why it is that women talk fast.
Speaker 3 (07:45):
Because they do talk fast.
Speaker 4 (07:47):
It's because they know we're only going to listen to
them for a few short seconds and they got to
get all that information in.
Speaker 2 (07:55):
So you only give us so much attention.
Speaker 1 (07:58):
Love you many, CTQ.
Speaker 4 (08:02):
Hello. I hate to admit it, but I have to
agree with Lulu.
Speaker 1 (08:07):
Okay, you guys do talk fast. I'm telling you.
Speaker 4 (08:10):
No, I'm sorry, but I have to admit what. I
have to agree with her.
Speaker 2 (08:14):
You just don't want to hear what we have to say.
Speaker 3 (08:16):
It's too much information.
Speaker 2 (08:17):
Thing to do with that. It's like you, guys, it's
like but that's.
Speaker 3 (08:21):
How it sounds to you.
Speaker 4 (08:22):
I know.
Speaker 2 (08:22):
It's like that Charlie Brown thing.
Speaker 3 (08:28):
Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2 (08:29):
Hello, you had a thought on this.
Speaker 4 (08:32):
The women talking fast.
Speaker 2 (08:33):
They do talk fast, and.
Speaker 4 (08:35):
It works just the opposite. They want us to hear everything,
but they talk so fast that we can't hear everything
or understand everything exactly.
Speaker 3 (08:43):
Blow down, that's an excuse.
Speaker 4 (08:46):
It's not Oh no, no, no, no, No, it's not an excuse.
Speaker 2 (08:49):
I think it is.
Speaker 5 (08:50):
You don't want to hear what we're saying.
Speaker 4 (08:52):
I'd love to hear what you're saying, but you got
to say it so that we can hear it.
Speaker 1 (08:56):
Sure. The funny thing is they don't even realize they're
doing it.
Speaker 2 (08:58):
They're all in Denialul is in denial. She doesn't here
on the radio some morning.
Speaker 4 (09:04):
I agree with you. Oh slow down, take a breath.
Speaker 2 (09:08):
You're killing me. Take a breath, lu lu.
Speaker 3 (09:14):
Killing me. You guys, what was that man?
Speaker 2 (09:16):
You heard a breath?
Speaker 3 (09:17):
Tell me to take a breath. It was a very
aggravated breath, wasn't it.
Yesterday was Talk Slow Day, a day when everyone around
you just needs to slow down a little bit. Sometimes
we have trouble keeping up with what you're saying, so
Talk Slow Day was initiated to just slow down a
bit when you have a conversation with somebody.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
As I was reading this about talk Slow Day.
Speaker 3 (00:19):
Yeah, what do you have to say about that? And
I can't wait.
Speaker 1 (00:24):
Typically women, sometimes we'll talk a little too fast, like
you have that tendency on occasion, and I'm like, what
was that? And then you're like, well, you weren't listening.
I'm like, no, I was listening, but you said it
so fast I couldn't pick up on it. And You're
not the only one. I think I've heard this happen
here in the office. I remember my mom and dad
(00:46):
when I was a kid. Sometimes he's to be like,
what was it?
Speaker 3 (00:49):
You know what it is. I don't think that we
initially talk fast, but we know that you have short
attention spans and tune us out, so we're like, so
maybe you could get it. We don't start off that way,
and they're like, I can tell sometimes when you have
totally tuned me out totally, And I'm like and then
you go, well, some word might have caught your ear,
(01:11):
like would you say.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
Mm hmm, But you admit that you talk fast sometimes.
Speaker 3 (01:17):
I know, well, I don't think that I talked fast initially. No,
I don't think women talk fast.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
I think there are times when you're not totally aware
and you're talking and I can't understand what you're saying
because it's going too fast.
Speaker 2 (01:31):
That happened with somebody here at work the other day.
Speaker 1 (01:33):
Yeah, I'm like, you got to slow down. I didn't
understand any of that.
Speaker 3 (01:37):
It must have been because we know that you don't
are going to listen.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
We got somebody that wants to talk about this, all right,
as long as it's slow, ma'am. Hello, I had a.
Speaker 4 (01:48):
Thought as far as how the women talk too fast.
It's not a matter of that we talk too fast
what we kind of do, but we want to get
our idea out before the guy loses the attention span.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
That's it.
Speaker 5 (02:00):
You guys don't want to hear everything that we're saying
because we give a lot of the details.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
So it's never your fault. It's never something you've done.
It's always our fault. Now you have it, yes, all right,
because it was talk slow day yesterday.
Speaker 2 (02:16):
It's kind of interesting. I want you to think about this.
Speaker 1 (02:18):
Do you have somebody in your life that tends to
talk too fast? Not all the time, but occasionally, because
I feel like women do it occasionally rarely? Do you
have a guide talking too fast that rarely happens?
Speaker 3 (02:31):
You just got an explanation, so.
Speaker 2 (02:34):
You're agreeing that it happens.
Speaker 3 (02:36):
It doesn't happen until we know we lost you, Okay,
So it's our fault. It's not our choice to talk fast,
and I don't think we That's why I'm defending it.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
You talk fast occasionally. I don't know that I talk fast.
Speaker 3 (02:49):
You say that, but I'm not so sure that I do.
Speaker 2 (02:52):
You do it on the radio sometimes. Now, mem you
comment on miss.
Speaker 3 (03:00):
Hey, I was just listening and about women talking fast. Yeah,
and I am constantly accused of talking.
Speaker 4 (03:07):
Too fast, and I admit it.
Speaker 3 (03:09):
I do well.
Speaker 5 (03:12):
Right now, you weren't talking Thank you, ma'am.
Speaker 3 (03:14):
I appreciate you're not talking fast now.
Speaker 2 (03:17):
She didn't say no, I'm not well.
Speaker 3 (03:19):
Thank you. I do.
Speaker 4 (03:22):
When I get excited or nervous, I'll speak one hundred
miles a minute.
Speaker 5 (03:25):
I will well.
Speaker 3 (03:27):
Now, I have no defense for you, if you're going
to fully admit.
Speaker 4 (03:32):
No, no, no, I will say men do talk fast too.
Where I work, I do tell people you talk faster
than I do. I need to slow down, So men
do talk fast too.
Speaker 2 (03:43):
I've never heard a guy talk fast. Really, I've never
heard a woman tell a guy slow down, you're talking
too fast.
Speaker 3 (03:49):
We pay attention.
Speaker 2 (03:56):
Here.
Speaker 1 (03:58):
I'm so serious.
Speaker 2 (03:59):
Yeah, I can't even say anything. That's so ridiculous.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
It's true.
Speaker 2 (04:12):
I love you, Thank you for calling. Thank you well.
Speaker 5 (04:19):
I love you too.
Speaker 3 (04:20):
Thanks guys, you too.
Speaker 2 (04:23):
You got a thought on this.
Speaker 3 (04:24):
The only time I do it is if I feel
I've lost your attention.
Speaker 1 (04:27):
I think you do it sometimes you don't even know
you're doing it, like you do it on the radio.
Speaker 2 (04:31):
Sometimes.
Speaker 3 (04:31):
Oh, I certainly do not.
Speaker 1 (04:35):
Now, I have a couple of people that wanted to
comment on this, including you, ma'am.
Speaker 4 (04:39):
So I just wanted to say that I do talk
a lot, but guys should still listen to everything that
we have to say because one day it could actually
help them out.
Speaker 1 (04:48):
Right, But it's how fast you guys need to slow down?
Speaker 4 (04:51):
Yeah, But at the same time, you got to think
we have a lot going on and our schedule also
incorporates what you guys are doing.
Speaker 2 (04:59):
You don't have a lot going on, not as much
as us.
Speaker 4 (05:03):
Exactly.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
All right, what about you, ma'am? You had something on
this as well? Is that right?
Speaker 1 (05:10):
Yes?
Speaker 4 (05:10):
My boyfriend always tells me this lot now when I talk.
Speaker 5 (05:13):
So there you go, Lulu, right there, you're saying things
he doesn't want to hear then, and you're giving him
too much information.
Speaker 1 (05:19):
Guys either get excited or passionate, and you guys go
another level.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (05:24):
I talk like an auctioneer most of the time.
Speaker 2 (05:26):
So what was that?
Speaker 4 (05:28):
I talk like an oor most of the time.
Speaker 2 (05:30):
That's part point.
Speaker 3 (05:38):
I don't hear what she said.
Speaker 1 (05:39):
Exactly because she said I'm gonna I talk like an
auctioneer so fast you couldn't even understand it.
Speaker 2 (05:44):
No, no, no, that wasn't it. Thank you, ma'am. Youse
has proved our points.
Speaker 3 (05:54):
Whatever.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
You or somebody you know talk fast, all right?
Speaker 1 (05:57):
So, April, you talk fast occasionally too, Is that right?
Speaker 4 (06:01):
I think sometimes I do talk faster, but I think
that the man just say they listen slower. They don't understand.
Speaker 3 (06:08):
Is that.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
All around of seconds time out ahead?
Speaker 1 (06:15):
I don't listen to this, so you talk fast, but
we also listen slow.
Speaker 4 (06:21):
Exactly exactly. It's like your brain can't keep up.
Speaker 3 (06:26):
Is that what it is?
Speaker 1 (06:27):
Wait a second, So you're admitting you talk fast, so
us just listening at a normal pace, you'd already be
going fast, but you think we're behind you even more.
Speaker 5 (06:38):
Yeah, that's a good way to look at Like.
Speaker 3 (06:40):
I feel like you just tune me out and you're like, wait, what,
Oh you're talking fast? Would you say?
Speaker 4 (06:44):
Or you're talking to me?
Speaker 3 (06:45):
Yeah, you're talking to me. Something's up with this.
Speaker 1 (06:49):
Something doesn't know right people, Has anybody ever said to
you you talk fast?
Speaker 4 (06:54):
Yees? So I do admit I do talk faster time,
But I think that people.
Speaker 1 (06:59):
Just listen slow.
Speaker 4 (06:59):
I think it gets like a it's like training. I
think you have to train your brain to listen past
or looks like you have to train to run or
trying to do anything else.
Speaker 2 (07:06):
I feel like my ears are struggling to keep up.
Right now. I got you, Apel, Love you, April, have
a great day.
Speaker 3 (07:17):
Yeah, detail bye bye.
Speaker 1 (07:21):
Anybody that talks fast blames the other person, not that
they need to slow down.
Speaker 2 (07:27):
Do you notice that.
Speaker 3 (07:29):
Did you notice that the person blaming the person talking fast,
doesn't admit that they might not be listening.
Speaker 2 (07:34):
What that. See.
Speaker 1 (07:37):
I got a few people that want to talk about this,
hopefully not too fast, be right.
Speaker 2 (07:41):
Hello, Hey, I.
Speaker 4 (07:43):
Think I know why it is that women talk fast.
Speaker 3 (07:45):
Because they do talk fast.
Speaker 4 (07:47):
It's because they know we're only going to listen to
them for a few short seconds and they got to
get all that information in.
Speaker 2 (07:55):
So you only give us so much attention.
Speaker 1 (07:58):
Love you many, CTQ.
Speaker 4 (08:02):
Hello. I hate to admit it, but I have to
agree with Lulu.
Speaker 1 (08:07):
Okay, you guys do talk fast. I'm telling you.
Speaker 4 (08:10):
No, I'm sorry, but I have to admit what. I
have to agree with her.
Speaker 2 (08:14):
You just don't want to hear what we have to say.
Speaker 3 (08:16):
It's too much information.
Speaker 2 (08:17):
Thing to do with that. It's like you, guys, it's
like but that's.
Speaker 3 (08:21):
How it sounds to you.
Speaker 4 (08:22):
I know.
Speaker 2 (08:22):
It's like that Charlie Brown thing.
Speaker 3 (08:28):
Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2 (08:29):
Hello, you had a thought on this.
Speaker 4 (08:32):
The women talking fast.
Speaker 2 (08:33):
They do talk fast, and.
Speaker 4 (08:35):
It works just the opposite. They want us to hear everything,
but they talk so fast that we can't hear everything
or understand everything exactly.
Speaker 3 (08:43):
Blow down, that's an excuse.
Speaker 4 (08:46):
It's not Oh no, no, no, no, No, it's not an excuse.
Speaker 2 (08:49):
I think it is.
Speaker 5 (08:50):
You don't want to hear what we're saying.
Speaker 4 (08:52):
I'd love to hear what you're saying, but you got
to say it so that we can hear it.
Speaker 1 (08:56):
Sure. The funny thing is they don't even realize they're
doing it.
Speaker 2 (08:58):
They're all in Denialul is in denial. She doesn't here
on the radio some morning.
Speaker 4 (09:04):
I agree with you. Oh slow down, take a breath.
Speaker 2 (09:08):
You're killing me. Take a breath, lu lu.
Speaker 3 (09:14):
Killing me. You guys, what was that man?
Speaker 2 (09:16):
You heard a breath?
Speaker 3 (09:17):
Tell me to take a breath. It was a very
aggravated breath, wasn't it.
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