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June 5, 2026 11 mins
Relationship Therapists Say to Never Answer These Three Questions. . They Are Questions, Women Typically Ask Men. One of Them Being, Do You Think She is Pretrty? Maverick agrees with the Therapists. Lulu sin't so sure. Lost of Womensa dn a few Men, wanted to talk about it, LISTEN HERE

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
You know, if we can ever help in life with
advice in a variety of areas, we always want to
try to do that. So I just stumbled upon advice
that may be helpful if you're in a relationship. Okay,
doesn't matter if you're dating, engaged, married, if you want
to get in a relationship. This is advice for men
and women. It's kind of specifically geared toward men, but

(00:21):
also kind of women at the same time, and it
is a relationship coaches and they say for men to
never answer these three questions. Okay, if your woman ask
them of you.

Speaker 2 (00:34):
Wow, all right, I'm on the edge of my seat.

Speaker 1 (00:37):
Do I look fat in this? Do you think she's pretty?
Notice anything different about me? Never answer those questions.

Speaker 2 (00:46):
You got to answer them. You got to answer smart.

Speaker 1 (00:49):
These questions are trap questions, and that's why they're saying
don't answer them.

Speaker 2 (00:54):
I'll be honest with you. I don't like those questions either.

Speaker 1 (00:57):
I know you've asked them though casually before.

Speaker 2 (01:00):
I've never said do you think she's prettier than me?

Speaker 1 (01:02):
Or how do I look in this?

Speaker 2 (01:03):
I've never asked because I don't care.

Speaker 1 (01:05):
Most women say the do I look fat in this?
Do you think she's pretty? They ask both of those,
but they don't always ask them in that direct to fashion.
Sometimes on the dwelling famness, how do I look in this?

Speaker 3 (01:18):
No?

Speaker 1 (01:18):
I never asked, Okay, And then the do you think
she's pretty? What do you think of her? That's another
way to say. That's a little softer and more subtle.
I would say ninety five percent of women say that,
So I guarantee you've said that. If you said that
to me, what is to her?

Speaker 2 (01:34):
Because I'm looking for women for you, I'm like, I
I get it. I get those are I don't like
those questions either, and I get it. But however, what
are you going to do? Just ignore the question and
say I'm not answering that.

Speaker 1 (01:45):
What do you do? Well? The advice I guess here
is in terms of a do I look fat in this?
You look great?

Speaker 2 (01:52):
That's a good answer.

Speaker 1 (01:53):
In terms of do you think she's pretty? Yeah, the
advice is do you think she's pretty? Do you think
she's prettier than me? That whole thing so they yeah,
either way is a lot of times they'll say not
as nice as you or not as good as you.
That's the answer to that question. They say, do you
think she's pretty? Nowhere near you? Like something like that

(02:14):
is the response, and then number three notice anything different
about me? And then this is the response that the
relationship Sarah, I love that. This is the best one,
you mean, aside from how amazing you always look? Oh wow?

Speaker 2 (02:29):
They do kind of sound like, here's the thing.

Speaker 1 (02:31):
Ask a stupid question, get a stupid reply. Yeah right, yeah,
there's no winning. That's why you have to come up
with those answers. Yeah, do you ever ask these questions?

Speaker 2 (02:41):
I don't know why we ask those questions.

Speaker 1 (02:44):
Oh, they're asked now, ma'am. You want to respond to
do you think she's pretty? Or hot? But you're putting
this in the context of like a friend, Is that
right now?

Speaker 4 (02:54):
If your friend's hot thing?

Speaker 1 (02:56):
Yeah, all right.

Speaker 2 (02:57):
I have to agree with.

Speaker 4 (02:58):
Maverick, you do not. And if you're asking that, you
obviously know your girl for your friend's hot and he's
going to say no because he's smart.

Speaker 1 (03:07):
He says yes, he's stupid.

Speaker 2 (03:08):
Yes, but don't you think you already know if he
thinks she's hot, so he's lying to you, well, that's
fine as long as he's like, oh, honey, you are
so gorgeous.

Speaker 1 (03:17):
There is not a woman in the world that's prettier
than you. Why do women ask that question start an argument?

Speaker 2 (03:22):
I assume because we're letting you know we saw you
check her out and look on your face, and we're
letting you.

Speaker 1 (03:29):
Know we know. But if we're checking her out, everybody
else he has too.

Speaker 2 (03:33):
So we're letting you know we know you are checking
their heads. Just don't just don't check her out.

Speaker 4 (03:40):
Just don't look at it. And if you do, it's like,
don't even acknowledge it.

Speaker 2 (03:43):
Because I google I guys too.

Speaker 1 (03:46):
I mean, we're just as guilty. Well, I will give
every guy a trick here. This is this trade secret.
But I'm off on this. This is free of charge.
Oh well, boy, can't wait. So you get caught looking
at her friend and her friend's hot and she says,
what are you doing? Like can you believe she's wearing
that color? Oh you are really busted? Exactly?

Speaker 2 (04:10):
Really that works.

Speaker 1 (04:11):
No, thank you, ma'am. You got a thought on this.
And I'm going to just state for every guy, whether
it's a friend or a stranger, just because we look
in somebody's direction doesn't mean we're quote checking them out.
We're just glancing and looking around.

Speaker 2 (04:29):
Uh huh.

Speaker 1 (04:30):
Now we're getting a lot of conversation, specifically when it's
referencing somebody that the woman knows, a friend, a coworker,
and acquaintance. And you had something on this one, sir,
you wanted to give advice on I don't think there's
a right.

Speaker 3 (04:43):
Answer, but I think the best answer would be yes, hot.

Speaker 1 (04:47):
But not as hot.

Speaker 3 (04:48):
Ashue.

Speaker 2 (04:49):
You guys gotta be you don't like that lose it's
we know that you're not telling the truth.

Speaker 1 (04:54):
We know it. I don't think you can use the
word hot. I think you have to diminish her in
some way. I think you either have to pick out
a flaw or say she's cute. That's just terrible. What
are you talking about? Diminish her?

Speaker 2 (05:06):
No, No, it's our friend.

Speaker 1 (05:07):
So we just know that we caught you looking at her.
So she's your friend. You want to know you're hotter
than her, just by a little bit.

Speaker 2 (05:15):
We always want to be hotter. But just tell the truth.

Speaker 1 (05:18):
Yeah, so then you tell her, okay, hot with your horn.

Speaker 3 (05:22):
No hot, sir, I love you gentlemen.

Speaker 1 (05:35):
Don't say that.

Speaker 2 (05:38):
Exactly. Add that that line to the it's not a question,
but had that as a bad answer.

Speaker 1 (05:46):
You have a thought on any of these questions that
women typically ask men. Do I leave fat in this?
Do you think she's pretty or hot? Notice anything different
about me? Why do you ask him? What's the appropriate response?
You had something on this? Ma'am Hi, I'm.

Speaker 4 (06:02):
Calling to comment on the question about asking if your
girlfriend's hot to your husband.

Speaker 1 (06:07):
Yeah, who's this is Tarah Tara? Where are you calling
from Sarasota? And what do you think?

Speaker 4 (06:13):
Well, first of all, I think you put the shoe
on the other foot. Did our husband sit there and
ask us that question about their friends because they don't?

Speaker 1 (06:22):
Yeah, we don't, So why do you?

Speaker 4 (06:24):
I don't. I've never asked my husband that question in
eleven years.

Speaker 1 (06:28):
I mean you've heard it ask, though I haven't.

Speaker 4 (06:30):
Really heard it ask because I think couples ask maybe
in the privacy of their own car when they leave
and stuff. But I do know what happens. But I
feel like it's an intercure question that people, as you
know when they ask it, because why would you ask?
You know who's pretty? We know who's not pretty?

Speaker 2 (06:48):
Well, I guess if you're out and you're talking and
recapping the night too. You might go, I don't I
thought she looked really hot tonight? You think she's hot?

Speaker 1 (06:55):
Why would you do that?

Speaker 4 (06:56):
Yeah, it's conversation.

Speaker 1 (06:58):
Yeah, but you're asking for a reply.

Speaker 4 (07:00):
So what's a reply you can get in trouble with?
And that's the problem. It shouldn't be a question where
you can get into trouble.

Speaker 2 (07:07):
Well, the problem is if the guy's going to get
in trouble for his answer, then the problemship asking the question.
I'm saying it's part of the conversation at the end
of the night.

Speaker 1 (07:19):
So she's saying it's a conversation. You say, why even
ask See I love this.

Speaker 4 (07:24):
Yeah, because I've never, at once in eleven years, left
the party or something and gone, hey, do you think
that girl's hot? Or do you think she looks hot tonight?
First of all, that's making your husband think about the
other woman, which is just.

Speaker 1 (07:37):
Kind of dumb.

Speaker 2 (07:39):
You're recapping the night. There's nothing wrong with that.

Speaker 4 (07:41):
I don't think there is something wrong though when the
answer they can always get into trouble with. So why
are you starting a fight maybe possibly on the way home,
because that's not fun.

Speaker 1 (07:51):
No, it's not And it's happened to me.

Speaker 2 (07:56):
Oops, wrong answer.

Speaker 1 (07:58):
We don't need to recap the night, enjoy. You don't
need a postgame show.

Speaker 2 (08:01):
Oh, you're telling me that you never want to talk
about what happens.

Speaker 1 (08:04):
You don't need a postgame No, I don't. I don't
need to. Okay, I'm gonna check the scores from the
night missed. I don't need a recap, sir. You had
a response on this if it comes up, Yes, good
morning morning.

Speaker 2 (08:18):
Who's this?

Speaker 1 (08:19):
Don don Where are you calling from? You know she
was hot? Okay, So if you run into somebody that's
got tattoos and your significanther doesn't, you could probably use that.

Speaker 2 (08:36):
Yeah, that's believable if you're not in a tattoos exact.

Speaker 1 (08:40):
Some people think the tattoos make somebody HP. Have you
ever been asked that? And what do you say?

Speaker 4 (08:46):
I don't care for him?

Speaker 1 (08:49):
You know what? How about that? I don't care for her?
Do you like that as an answer? Do you think
she's hot? I don't care for her? Would that be
a good answer for you? What's the matter? Why are
you thinking? I mean that sounds pretty honest. Do you
think she's hot? I don't care for her?

Speaker 2 (09:04):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (09:05):
I mean, that's kind of off the cuff.

Speaker 2 (09:07):
Yeah, that's a pretty good one. I gotta give it
to you.

Speaker 1 (09:09):
That's pretty good. I could hear a woman saying that
I don't care for him. Yeah, I mean it's a
little rough.

Speaker 2 (09:18):
It's a little rough. That's why I hesitated, because it's like.

Speaker 1 (09:21):
It's honest.

Speaker 2 (09:22):
Yeah, I get it, I.

Speaker 1 (09:23):
Don't care for her. That is so kind of terse
would be the way I would describe it. That it's
hard to not believe that. Yeah, do you know what
I mean? Yeah?

Speaker 2 (09:35):
Yeah, yeah, I get it.

Speaker 1 (09:37):
The friend angle has been popular to discuss, and that's
where you want to go, sir. Every once in a while,
what do you say?

Speaker 2 (09:45):
I say, you know, your friend's que.

Speaker 4 (09:47):
But she's not as hot as you.

Speaker 1 (09:51):
You know, cute is perfect because it acknowledges she's attractive.
But cute is kind of like what your niece or
nephew is not another woman, So that's perfect, sir.

Speaker 2 (10:03):
Right, look at you guys really thinking hard about this.
Why can't why can't you just say the truth.

Speaker 1 (10:09):
Yeah, she's hot, so you cannot say the truth. Right,
you're not really saying the truth. But you're not really uh,
I mean putting it all out there.

Speaker 2 (10:18):
Well, you know you are really dancing around.

Speaker 1 (10:22):
Gotta be careful with that question.

Speaker 2 (10:23):
Yeah, I get it. I do get it. So if
a woman asks you these things inside of your eyes
rolling around your head, of course.

Speaker 1 (10:30):
And then you're like if you if you didn't catch it,
like sometimes we're not totally paying attention. Yeah, then you're like, well,
wait a second. You needed to repeat because you need
to stall so you can compose, because if you say
the wrong thing.

Speaker 2 (10:43):
Yeah, you know, there could be an issue.

Speaker 1 (10:45):
Courtney's on the line, And what did you want to say?
Do you ask this question? Courtney? I mean, well, what's
on your mind here?

Speaker 4 (10:52):
No?

Speaker 2 (10:52):
I don't think I.

Speaker 4 (10:53):
Ever personally asked the question. I mean because us as women, yes, and.

Speaker 1 (11:00):
You guys are looking to see what we're doing.

Speaker 2 (11:02):
Yeah, we can see, and typically that's why we do
ask the question because we notice that you're looking.

Speaker 3 (11:09):
You know.

Speaker 1 (11:10):
You know that guys do the same thing when there's
a good looking guy around too, right, you know that
that we're watching you. You're laughing, Courtney, Yeah.

Speaker 4 (11:17):
I am laughing. I'm very but I'm not fine.

Speaker 1 (11:24):
Maybe that's what the guy should say. Works both ways
here now, let's keep that in mind everybody
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