Never date someone with THESE jobs

Angie and Frankie tell us what jobs titles you should avoid in a significant other. From DJ's to photographers, someone's work may be their biggest red flag.

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
I'm married.

Speaker 2 (00:01):
Yes, you're in a committed relationship. Gina's in a long
time relationship as well. And we don't always talk to
the single people of San Diego. So this is for
the single people listening in right now. And even if
you're not single, think about this as well from when
you were dating. But I know a lot of people
go onto the dating apps. I mean, it's twenty twenty six,
that's what we do. It sucks sometimes that we don't
have the old school let me sit at a bar

(00:22):
and say, hey, my name is Frankie. Nice to meet, Yeah,
who are you. We don't have those conversations anymore. We
are Hey, let's get on Tinder and swipe until we
find somebody that's attractive to us, or let me swipe
till I find somebody in a certain profession that makes
me want to explore more. And that's where we come
to this little issue because people do look for that.
Let's be honest. You look for maybe professions that make

(00:42):
a lot of money or people that might have some
pockets on them. And oftentimes these certain professions people have
gone on dates with them in a false flat it
turns terrible. They're called profession red flags, yes, and if
you have one to add to the list eight five, five,
five seven or one nine thirty three. But Angie, you
found a list of what's considered I guess a red
flag when it comes to their professions.

Speaker 3 (01:01):
I did, and the list is long, so I'm just
going to read a couple of them. But DJ or
nightclub promoter, oh, influencer, content creator, okay, musician, Yeah, bouncer,
a lawyer, lawyer, tattoo artist, actor, radio DJ, casino dealer,
used card dealer, and there's like a million more.

Speaker 2 (01:23):
What's so funny is as you're hearing these, you know,
rockles back, there is a DJ on the nightclubs and whatnot.
It's night scene type people for the early part of this,
like you know bouncers, you know DJs and all that,
So obviously their lifestyle is a little bit different. It's
also jobs that you're meeting a lot of people. At
a casino, if you're dealing cards, you meet a lot
of different people. Even lawyers are in constant meetings with

(01:43):
lots of different people. So are you saying these professions
are jobs that line up people to cheats.

Speaker 1 (01:49):
I think so. I think so.

Speaker 3 (01:52):
My personal one are police officers, and I am.

Speaker 4 (01:55):
Speaking from experience.

Speaker 3 (01:56):
I know not all you guys are the same, but
uh we what the cop chase.

Speaker 1 (02:01):
So that's like when you know the cop chase me.
But first off, yeah, red.

Speaker 3 (02:08):
Flag because you know when you put that uniform on,
you already know the eyes are going to be glued
to you, like that is a magnet in itself, right,
And then their job is to look for evidence and
to dig it up. And if you could look for
it and dig it up, I.

Speaker 1 (02:21):
Know you can hide it.

Speaker 3 (02:22):
So red flag please.

Speaker 2 (02:25):
And add to the list of professions that are red flags.

Speaker 4 (02:28):
Okay for me, it's a male photographer, the one that
takes the pictures of the girls trying to be models,
you know, in the bikini photos or the ones abouteer leader. Yes,
that one. I can't date you if you're taking sexy
pictures of girls.

Speaker 3 (02:45):
That's kind of true. I'm with you on that one,
because yeah, I don't want you looking at another girl
take pictures of me.

Speaker 1 (02:50):
You know.

Speaker 2 (02:50):
It's so funny about this is if you ask a
lot of these guys to have friends that are photographers.
Oh no, I just take photos at the concerts, and
I you know I do. I do uh pictures of
trees and then all of a sudden you go to
the little prof on Instagram those trees, Yeah, those are
recording making women that you're taking photos of. So male
photographers on the list pretty much. Thank thank you for
adding to the list. We appreciate it.

Speaker 1 (03:09):
You're welcome over to Michelle.

Speaker 2 (03:12):
I know you're hanging right now in Chrula Vista. We're
looking for for jobs that are red.

Speaker 4 (03:16):
Flags an entrepreneur.

Speaker 5 (03:18):
If I ever see somebody on a dating profile say
that they're an entrepreneur, that just means they're unemployed.

Speaker 1 (03:25):
Okay, he sounds like you're speaking from first and experience.

Speaker 4 (03:27):
Yes, absolutely, Dan, So what do they do?

Speaker 1 (03:29):
What do they do during the week while you go
to work?

Speaker 5 (03:32):
They go to coffee shops and sit on their laptop
and pretend that they're doing something.

Speaker 2 (03:38):
So so this is obviously talking about a guy that
you've dated in the past. I can tell by the
way you're saying this. So this is this happened to
you and then what happened with the relationship, Oh, it.

Speaker 4 (03:45):
Went absolutely nowhere.

Speaker 5 (03:47):
There's euro goal, fake gold, no way, you can't just
you can't live like that.

Speaker 1 (03:52):
Entrepreneurs are on the list. I don't think we get
down in a list.

Speaker 2 (03:54):
I know, right, job, career red flags, Thank you for sharing,
have a wonderful.

Speaker 5 (03:58):
Day, no problem.

Speaker 1 (04:00):
I'm enjoy its.

Speaker 2 (04:01):
Entrepreneurs. It's funny. I'm going back to the cop chaser things.
So I feel like my wife was one at one
point where she was like, I'm intrigued by police officers.

Speaker 3 (04:07):
I mean, it's just something about that shiny badge.

Speaker 1 (04:09):
It's just like when you see them, like, oh, look
a press officer.

Speaker 2 (04:12):
I saw a police officer coming up behind me driving
to work today on the eight or five and the
lights are on, and I was not saying, oh, I.

Speaker 1 (04:18):
Bet he's cute. I was saying, I hope as hell
he does not pull me over. Oh I always wanted
to get pulled on