WHY IS Frankie's friend MAD at him asking for help

While literally pumping gas, Frankie's friend sent venmo request for half of the tank. Is Frankie out of pocket for his response?

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Talked to one of my buddies in about forty eight hours.
A little bit I've said about it, But was I
wrong for what I did? Gina Frankie General nine three three.
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argument we're having. I we went to the San Diego
County Fair. Okay, this was a couple of days ago,
and my buddy like, hey, you want to go? Yeah,
of course I had some tickets. We went to the
San Diego County Fair. As we're driving to the fair,
I live in Hotei Ranch to del Mar. I mean

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it's kind of far as far, but I mean it's
still within the county. It's not like crazy far. And
as we're driving there, he realized that he hadn't filled
up his gas tank. Cool whatever, we pull over to
get some gas that gas station right off the five
North took that little exit, and all of a sudden,
as he's filling up, I heard my phone go did
ding and I looked down notification. As he was pumping gas,
he sent me a notification to split the cost of

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the gas via Venmo. Oh okay. Caught me off guard.
I was like, wait, TIMEA did you just venmo me
while I'm pumping gas. I said nothing until he came
into the car and he kind of looked at me,
and I'm like, broh, I don't mean to be rude,
but you sent me a Venmo for fifteen dollars as
you're pumping gas. He just put thirty bucks in And
it wasn't that I was being cheap. And I'm like,
you expect me to pay for your gas like you're

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driving us to the fair. I get it, but you
know what I'm saying, Sometimes I drive, sometimes you drive,
sometimes we all drive. Who knows whatever it is, Why
do I have to pay you for your gas? And
he got mad at me, like literally, I haven't really
talked to forty eight hours. He was saying I was
being cheap, But it wasn't being cheap. It was like
the principle of the fact, Like, why would I pay
your gas money when we're going together and you chose
to drive? Well, I mean that is the principle of it.

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You guys are both going you should how you should
be paying half for the gas? I mean, gas is
so so expected. I don't disagree. I hear you complaining
about gas all the time. Yeah, and so you catch
just give him fifteen dollars. The Venmo request is actually easy.
He did you a favor because if you wouldn't have
sent you the request, you would have forgotten to give
it to him. All you have to do is press
out button and send it right to him while he

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was pumping his gas. Yeh, Meg, Meg's with us and
carls back. Thank you for listening in this morning. Am
I wrong for not wanting to get my buddy gas
money when he sent me a damn Venmo ask he
was pumping that gas. We were not wrong at all.
Thank you. My coworker did that to me. She was
asking a bunch of us for twenty dollars. No, thank you.
I feel better about myself because we literally have barely
talked since, and it's like, I feel like everybody's word're

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being cheap. You should have given the money. But it's
not about being cheap. It's like it's the logistics, it's
it's the reason for it. Like you don't just shoot
me a venmo while you're pumping a damn gas. Don't
even give me the heads up. Yeah, Hello, give a greeting. Hello,
how you doing, Let's get together? You know what I'm saying? Yo,
all right, thank you. I appreciate you chiming in all right.
I love our listeners. Narrissa one of our big listeners,

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and Julivisus says, oh hell, no, no way. I would
never ask for gas money for a trip from Hotep
Ranch to Del mar. I feel bad that my friend
is mad at me, but I'm the say man, I
don't feel like I did anything incorrect. I don't think
you should be asking for gas money. He's not like
he's super hard up. He was the one that was
being cheap, not me,