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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It's time to Catch a Cheater.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Only on the Jubile Show. Ashley is on the phone
today for to Catch a Cheater. She's been with her
boyfriend Ryan for four years, but now she thinks something
might be going on, so we'll see if we can
to help her out. Ashley, thanks for coming on the show.
Sorry it has to be this way. What's going on?
Speaker 1 (00:18):
Yeah, I mean, honestly, I've heard this so many times
and never thought that I would call it, but here
I am. So we've yeah, we've been together four years,
you know, ups and down like anybody else. I mean,
not what you see on Instagram a couples. But I
kind of just feel like he's done with the relationship.
(00:41):
So it's just kind of like heavy on my heart
right now. So I just want to test it. I
want to test it. And so basically, what's going on.
I used to travel a lot for work, but now
I'm not, and he's been traveling for his job. But
it just keeps kind of picking up. Mike. He'll he'll
(01:01):
fly off somewhere for a week, and then he comes
home for a couple of days, and then he leaves again.
Speaker 3 (01:08):
And then when he.
Speaker 1 (01:10):
Does come home, which has been like, you know, increasing
over the last couple of months, Like when he's going away,
so when he's coming home, he always seems like he
has something better to do.
Speaker 3 (01:22):
So it's starting to be kind of it feels like
he doesn't want to be at home anymore, and I
feel like I deserve better when he's home, she's not
wanting to be intimate anymore, which is ever?
Speaker 4 (01:36):
And what does he say? How does he start that?
Speaker 1 (01:39):
He kind of like when he comes home now, she's
always hiding off in his office for hours. It's like
he makes it seem like he's reading an emails, but
as soon as I walk away, his messenger notification kind
of pings over and over and over.
Speaker 3 (01:55):
Like there's a conversation going on, and we're always like really.
Speaker 1 (01:59):
Open with each other about like oh I'm talking.
Speaker 3 (02:01):
To I'm don gone so like they're so funny and you.
Speaker 1 (02:05):
Know it's women's intuition.
Speaker 3 (02:07):
You just kind of feel like he's he's not sitting
with someone. Like we know each other's friends, we know
each other's so so.
Speaker 1 (02:15):
For me, like we're really good friends with each other.
Speaker 3 (02:19):
You know, like I care about him and so I
did comfort him about it, you know, I'm like, you've
been going more, you haven't really been wanting.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
To touch me, and you're hiding away in your office.
He legit just shrugged it off.
Speaker 3 (02:35):
He said he has a new assistant in his office
and he's been showing her the rope, so that's kind
of been taking a lot of time.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
But I've seen I've seen her, and I'm really not
the jealous type, but she's legit his type, So so.
Speaker 5 (02:53):
You think it might actually be the assistant that he's
talking to.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
I do. It's like this horrible feeling in my stomach,
like I just want to believe that he would never
shoat on me because we're really not like we've talked
about that in the past, like how we wouldn't do it.
I hope it's all them in my head, I really do.
I just don't know.
Speaker 3 (03:10):
I don't know how a world we're feeling so here
I am.
Speaker 5 (03:13):
I just don't like how he handled you. Confronting him
about the time spent shrugging it off and not taking
the time to make you feel better is really unsettling.
Speaker 4 (03:22):
I know a lot of people do that.
Speaker 2 (03:24):
You know, it sucks because I think they think about themselves,
like how I'm not whatever, and then they it's like,
but you're someone else's talking to you that you care about,
like it's about them at that moment, and that's fine. Yeah,
you know, like so anyway, yeah, that sucks the way
that was handled. All right, Well, you told us what
a grocery store he's a rewards card member at.
Speaker 4 (03:42):
So we'll do the usual.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
We'll call and pretend to be from the grocery store
and say that every single month, we choose one rewards
card member at random who gets free flowers delivered from
our floral department, and we'll see if he sends those
to you or to somebody else. Okay, all right, we'll play,
so don't come back.
Speaker 4 (03:59):
You're to catch to here.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
Next, it's time to Catch a Cheater, only on the
Jubile Show and only on the New Hits one oh
six point one.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
Right in the middle of to Catch a Cheater if
you're just joining us, Ashley is on the phone. She's
been with her boyfriend Ryan for four years and now
she thinks that he might be cheating. So in a second,
we're going to call him and pretend to be from
the grocery store that he's a rewards car remember at
and say that he's this month's big winner of flowers
delivered to anybody that he wants from our floral department.
And we'll see if he believes that first of all,
(04:29):
and then if he sends those flowers to Ashley or
to somebody else. But before we do that, Ashley, why
don't you catch everybody up on your situation.
Speaker 3 (04:36):
So we've been together four years. I used to travel
a bunch for work.
Speaker 1 (04:41):
He's the one that's traveling now in his time away
just keeps increasing.
Speaker 3 (04:45):
And then when he is home, he's been kind of
avoiding me.
Speaker 1 (04:50):
He's been working in his office and you know, big
red flag for me and not wanting to be in it, which.
Speaker 3 (04:57):
No one should ever feel.
Speaker 4 (04:58):
Yeah, I've had that happen to me a lot.
Speaker 1 (05:01):
It's humiliating and like it's you know, I'm talking to
him about it, like it's not like I'm like, he
did you take up the trash? Like I brought it
up to him, like this is a really big deal.
I'm feeling like this and he said, nothing's going on,
But I still feel like there is.
Speaker 4 (05:17):
With his assistant too, is who you think it is?
Speaker 1 (05:20):
Yes, total opposite looking of me. Totally his previous type
before me.
Speaker 4 (05:26):
Okay, all right, well you ready for us to call him?
I guess Okay, here we go.
Speaker 1 (05:42):
Hi.
Speaker 2 (05:43):
Hello, Hi, this is shorttle calling from I was looking
for our rewards card member named Ryan.
Speaker 4 (05:49):
Uh yeah, that's me Ryan.
Speaker 5 (05:51):
Hi.
Speaker 4 (05:51):
Please don't hang up. This is not a marketing phone call.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
I'm actually calling to say congratulations and thank you for
your business.
Speaker 4 (05:56):
Here. This mon's big winner.
Speaker 1 (05:58):
Uh? Where did I win?
Speaker 4 (06:02):
The flowers?
Speaker 6 (06:04):
The flowers?
Speaker 2 (06:05):
Every single month, we choose one rewards card member who
gets free flowers delivered from our brand new floral apartment
to anybody that they want in the entire United States.
It's absolutely free. You've won thirty six long stem red roses,
a box of candy or chocolates, and a card to
be delivered to anybody that you want. It's actually a
three hundred and eighty two dollars value.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
Thank you.
Speaker 4 (06:26):
Yeah, congratulations, thank you.
Speaker 6 (06:29):
Okay, so you'll send flowers anywhere?
Speaker 4 (06:35):
Yes?
Speaker 6 (06:36):
Okay, cool? Great.
Speaker 2 (06:37):
Let me let me just give it to tell you
how it works. Then I can take the information over
the phone. In a matter of minutes, I can call
you back. If you don't know who you want to
send them to right now.
Speaker 6 (06:50):
Yeah, no, no, no, we can do it on the phone. Okay,
let's send these flowers to Dana.
Speaker 4 (06:58):
Okay, and do you want to send a card along
with this?
Speaker 6 (07:02):
Uh? Yeah, yeah, say something like, uh, I cannot.
Speaker 1 (07:07):
Wait to hold you again.
Speaker 6 (07:10):
And uh the thought of your arms gives me strikes.
Speaker 4 (07:16):
Okay, got that.
Speaker 2 (07:18):
And now at this point, I would like to tell
you that my name is actually Jubel, and I'm calling
from a radio show that's called The Jebel Show, and
your girlfriend Ashley is actually on the phone listening.
Speaker 3 (07:32):
No, yeah, hold on.
Speaker 4 (07:36):
Yeah, and that's what this is.
Speaker 6 (07:41):
Oh my god, Hi, Hi, you said, actually there, Yeah, yep.
Speaker 1 (07:47):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, I am you know, like I asked
you this and you told me nothing was going on.
Speaker 3 (07:53):
But I can't believe it.
Speaker 1 (07:55):
I mean I I asked you about this and you
told me I know, and now it's your assistance. Like
I just knew it. I knew it, and I asked
you and you denied it. Why would you do this?
But I can't believe it. Actually, I asked you this
and you did this.
Speaker 6 (08:15):
Look, it's not it's not an easy thing to say.
It's not it's not something I'm happy about it's Look, Ashley,
I'm I'm sorry.
Speaker 1 (08:26):
It's just you're not happy. You're so disrespectful, you're not
happy about Like, what are you even thoughting about?
Speaker 3 (08:33):
It sounds like you you said you can't wait to
be in.
Speaker 1 (08:36):
Her arms again. It sounds like if you want us
to happen, Like, what are you even thinking?
Speaker 6 (08:42):
Look, it's just it's I don't I don't know. It's
it's it's an escape, it's a I mean, I mean,
you know, things haven't felt good with us for a
long time, and and you know, with with me traveling
more and and she has to travel with me a lot.
So like it's just we have things we connect on,
(09:04):
the lifestyle, the travel, the work, the loneliness. It just
made sense and with us sort of feeling like there
was a distance outside of it, I.
Speaker 3 (09:13):
Just I'm sorry.
Speaker 1 (09:16):
Well, you should have broken up with me, then you
should have told me, and you should have broken up
with me. And we've been together long enough that you
could have told me, and we could have broken up,
and then you can do whatever you want.
Speaker 3 (09:29):
Love with her.
Speaker 6 (09:32):
I don't know, I don't know, I don't know I
want us to be broken up.
Speaker 1 (09:36):
I just I don't know.
Speaker 6 (09:38):
I'm just trying to figure things out, and it's something
I just kind of fell into and I should have.
Speaker 1 (09:45):
How am I ever been going on like four or
five months?
Speaker 4 (09:49):
Whoa?
Speaker 1 (09:51):
I thought that this is legit only like two months
and I asked you so long ago, like you're so
disrespctful to be doing that, mean this slum and I
don't even know anything about her, you know what I mean?
Speaker 3 (10:05):
Like you've been.
Speaker 1 (10:06):
Taking intimacy away from me, which is so disrespectful to
do to another human being. But you're disrespecting my body too.
Does she know that you have a girlfriend for the song?
Speaker 6 (10:20):
Yes, of course she does. It didn't start off this way.
I mean, I told her about my life, she told
me about her life, her husband, all that, and then
we just sort of fell into.
Speaker 1 (10:28):
This her husband, her husband, Oh.
Speaker 3 (10:32):
My gosh, what are you doing?
Speaker 1 (10:34):
Her husband? She's married. You're in a relationship, You're not
like in some fantasy land.
Speaker 3 (10:41):
She's married.
Speaker 2 (10:42):
Wow, I'm sure her husband would like to know what
she's been doing on her business trips.
Speaker 4 (10:47):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (10:48):
Now, I just feel like I should retout to her
husband and let him know so that he's not being disrespected.
Speaker 6 (10:53):
As well as ash come on, come on, you're already
doing this on the radio. You don't look.
Speaker 1 (11:00):
I get.
Speaker 6 (11:01):
I get while you're there, and I and I care
about you, but I but if you're going to be
vindictive about it, you.
Speaker 1 (11:08):
Know, I'm done.
Speaker 3 (11:09):
I'm done.
Speaker 1 (11:10):
I'm done.
Speaker 3 (11:10):
I can't.
Speaker 1 (11:11):
I deserve, I deserve better than this. I am a
good person and I.
Speaker 3 (11:16):
Have treated them so well for four years. I've always
been there for you, and I don't deserve to be
treated like this.
Speaker 1 (11:23):
I deserve to be loved by a good partner and
you should be humiliated by what you've done.
Speaker 6 (11:30):
Okay, actually, okay, okay, okay, this thank you for four
years of treating me well and one nightmare of a
phone call that you're blasting to the world. So get
the better that you deserve.
Speaker 4 (11:43):
And he hung up. Ashley, I'm really sorry, so sorry.
Speaker 3 (11:49):
I am too. I mean, I was on our list
that would end up this way and it did. So
I just need to go for a walk and clear
my head right now.
Speaker 5 (11:57):
Yeah, I'm sure you need to do whatever you got
to do, but just know this was a two for
you did your good deed, two for one, two for have.
Speaker 1 (12:05):
Was the rest of the day. I'm gonna go on
a walk in Google her husband now that I have.
Speaker 3 (12:10):
Her Latin name, okay, so I can let him know
Speaker 1 (12:15):
The jewel shows to catch a cheater