March 4, 2026 • 20 mins
Sky went through the ringer the past few days with preparation for her colonoscopy. Well after it was all over she just wanted to relax for the rest of the day. Turns out her husband, The Boo, had plans to go out with his brother for dinner which led Sky to be worried because she didn't want to take care of him when he comes home drunk...
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Well, Sky had a doozy of a day yesterday. You
know when you have a colonoscopy.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
Oh, it's a lot, Yeah, goes into that. You know.
Speaker 1 (00:08):
So Sky was under anesthesia, you know, she was all
cleaned out, you know, the whole thing.
Speaker 2 (00:14):
Uh, and then you get home and you're out of it, right.
Speaker 3 (00:18):
Yeah, definitely still tired still, you know, the brain not working.
Speaker 2 (00:22):
Out of it today.
Speaker 3 (00:23):
I heard earlier this morning, I was I was doing
some weird stuff.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
That's weird stuff. I just think it was business as usual.
To be honest, this.
Speaker 3 (00:31):
As usual is me misspelling a ton of words. But
this I was just like writing two sentence to words
and then not finishing sentences.
Speaker 4 (00:39):
I did it multiple times this morning.
Speaker 2 (00:41):
You did.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
So, you know, when you're kind of out of it,
you were under anesthesia all that stuff, you sort of
need your partner to kind of take care of you,
right like Emily would for her man.
Speaker 2 (00:52):
Robert, you did that what you did recently, right.
Speaker 5 (00:54):
When he could cannot be I did take care of him.
I made him some you know, some super I mean
I didn't.
Speaker 2 (01:02):
Eat it.
Speaker 5 (01:03):
What he's coming out of I could see it.
Speaker 4 (01:07):
That's wild.
Speaker 1 (01:09):
So it was a little bit concerning for Sky last
night when the Boo decided to hit the bar.
Speaker 2 (01:17):
We ain't done yet.
Speaker 6 (01:18):
It's time podcast completely uncensored and unacting filtered except for
that part.
Speaker 7 (01:29):
The show's after show starts.
Speaker 2 (01:33):
Now the man doesn't leave the house.
Speaker 4 (01:36):
That's weird, right, what are you talking about?
Speaker 2 (01:38):
I don't know one time he leaves the houses when
you need him. That doesn't make any sense.
Speaker 4 (01:46):
It's pretty wild what happened. So here's pretty wild. Here's
my take on siblings.
Speaker 3 (01:53):
Siblings are either very similar or they're like that movie
you know what Bruce willis, was it Glass or Unbreakable
or whatever, where they're polar opposites where literally one gets
one hundred percent of a trade and the other sibling
gets zero percent of a trait. And that is my
husband and his brother. Okay, my husband, as we've covered
(02:17):
many times, like a kind of a social shut in,
socially awkward, social anxiety, would prefer to stay home overdoing
anything in the entire world. And his brother the complete opposite,
social butterfly, chatting up strangers at the bar, like wanting
to always go out, wanting to always be around.
Speaker 2 (02:38):
Love this guy, Okay.
Speaker 3 (02:43):
He has always you know that's not that crazy.
Speaker 1 (02:47):
Like Thor and his sister complete opposites. Me and my
sister complete opposites. Like people would say to me, like,
you guys came from the same parents. That doesn't make sense.
Speaker 6 (02:56):
Yeah, me and my sister became a lot closer as
we got older, Like now we're yeah, but you're diff
We're very, very different.
Speaker 2 (03:01):
She's book women smart. And then there's you wouldn't say,
you know what I mean? You know what I mean,
you know what I mean. She has a book work.
Speaker 6 (03:07):
Well, you got Emily and Aunt.
Speaker 2 (03:08):
We all love it. She's great. I think we're very great.
Speaker 5 (03:13):
Shouldn't be more similar, Like like guy was saying, there
are similar.
Speaker 4 (03:19):
I love her, but I mean.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
Wa whoa, So that's like that, Okay, keep my girl's
name at your motherfucking mouse flat.
Speaker 2 (03:27):
I'm thinking about it, thinking about it.
Speaker 3 (03:31):
So it turns out that, uh, the same week of
my colonoscopy.
Speaker 4 (03:36):
My husband decides she was like a holiday right for.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
Me, Well, at the part when I'm under on the
sea shore, it was a holiday, but the rest of
it I don't know. So my husband decides that's the
week his brother is going to come visit and stay
with us now, I kind of you know, normally I
would have really fought that, but my brother in law
is in between jobs and his new job starts on Monday,
(04:02):
So like, if if it didn't happen now, it wasn't
going to happen for a long time.
Speaker 4 (04:07):
So okay, fine, whatever.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
So you're staying with you guys.
Speaker 3 (04:11):
Staying at our house, and we don't have a guest room.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
So he's but you do, but you just don't.
Speaker 4 (04:16):
We have a guest room full of craft. So no bed,
no bed in said guest room.
Speaker 3 (04:21):
So the brother in law, no bed, no guest right, Yeah.
Speaker 4 (04:26):
I don't.
Speaker 3 (04:27):
I guess clearly not because if there's a couch, then
there's a guest. And so my brother in law has
been sleeping on the couch in are living living room. Yeah,
and basically the way our house.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
Emily hates guests on the level. On another level she does.
Speaker 6 (04:44):
But like having guests sleep on the in the living room.
That's brutally because that literally is like where do you go.
Speaker 4 (04:51):
You're you're a prisoner, to your room, you're prisoner.
Speaker 2 (04:54):
I mean it's family. That's brutal.
Speaker 3 (04:58):
Has an eighty U Yeah, but it's right right now
it's we got a college student in there, So I
don't think that's what it's for.
Speaker 4 (05:03):
I don't think she was there, No, I don't think.
Speaker 7 (05:08):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (05:08):
Right, So he's.
Speaker 3 (05:10):
On the couch, which is kind of wild because basically
the way our house is is it's like one open space.
Speaker 2 (05:19):
Use us.
Speaker 3 (05:21):
So like this morning, when I'm doing my my little okay,
I'm gonna get my water bottles, my ninja sneak out.
Speaker 4 (05:27):
I'm gonna put on my shoes.
Speaker 3 (05:28):
Blah blah blah blah blah, he's right there snoring.
Speaker 4 (05:32):
He's like literally right there snoring. I don't know.
Speaker 3 (05:36):
I don't know what's going on under that blank I'm
looking over the little couch.
Speaker 2 (05:40):
I'm not I'm not.
Speaker 3 (05:41):
Turning on no light. I don't I don't want anything
to do with that. So okay, great, he's in town.
Told the husband like, hey, like, let your brother know.
I'm not going to try and be rude. But I
got this colonoscy, I got the prep, I got the recovery.
So like there's probably gonna be a good two days
where I'm just gonna lock myself in the room and
bathroom and you eyes do your own thing right, and
(06:02):
their play on was like, Oh, we're just going to
be in the garage the whole time working on the
v W because growing up double yep, the double ugly.
Growing up, both of them worked on v w's together.
He has a classic v W bugs.
Speaker 7 (06:17):
I mean, that's a motorcycle. That's not the fry analogy.
Speaker 2 (06:27):
Walking leather jackets.
Speaker 6 (06:28):
They're both rocking of the jackets there there they're ones
under the ones under the hood and the other ones like,
you know, the get the.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
Go getter, he he The other one is using his
elbow to turn on the juke box.
Speaker 2 (06:41):
Yeah, they got jukebox.
Speaker 4 (06:43):
You get it with your elbow. And then nobody at
my house.
Speaker 2 (06:55):
So king comes Ralph mouth.
Speaker 4 (07:00):
Now I don't know Ralph malthew sucker. I'm a sister whatever, Ralph, Ralph, you.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
Can't come up with joy?
Speaker 4 (07:10):
Thank you? Can you shout up anyway? Love the love
these relevant.
Speaker 2 (07:19):
I don't know what that was. You don't know Happy Days?
Speaker 7 (07:22):
No?
Speaker 5 (07:22):
I don't watch Okay, so you don't know watch happy I.
Speaker 1 (07:29):
Feel like you would want to be in that Who's
potsy all your but I don't live there.
Speaker 4 (07:36):
Curly hair.
Speaker 2 (07:39):
That is to a t com.
Speaker 6 (07:42):
Yeah, this guy's houses.
Speaker 4 (07:50):
Okay, my house isn't happy.
Speaker 3 (07:51):
So so he tells me, no problem, we're gonna be
in the garage working on the v W the whole time.
Speaker 4 (07:56):
We'll be out of your way, no problem.
Speaker 2 (07:58):
Okay, great for seven working on this thing.
Speaker 4 (08:01):
Oh yeah, they were like, that's what you do.
Speaker 5 (08:05):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (08:05):
No.
Speaker 3 (08:05):
The first night about my brother in law arrived, they
were out in the garage probably till like midnight, one
in the morning, tinkering. Yeah, yeah, yeah, Well they're both
night owls. You know, my husband the booth stays up
till that time most of the night.
Speaker 4 (08:21):
Well he's alone normally, so yeah, he's greased up in
other ways, definitely other ways.
Speaker 3 (08:27):
Uh So, okay, great, I'm cool with that planned. You know,
I can text him if I need anything, but probably
I'll just be happy wandering out to the kitchen by
myself and thankful that nobody's in the house seeing me
in my beautiful state that I'm in at that point.
So I get home from the colonoscopy and I'm talking
to the hobby and that's when he lets me know
(08:47):
that him and his brother will be going out to
dinner to meet a friend of his brothers. Oh I
guess his brother has a friend who now works here
in San Dieg for the women's soccer team, the Wave.
I guess he's like women's pro soccer something and he
(09:08):
used to do it up in the Bay Area and
now he's down here.
Speaker 4 (09:11):
So they're all going to go out to dinner and socialize.
Speaker 2 (09:15):
And I'm like, Okay, that is so unboo like.
Speaker 4 (09:19):
But it's without Sky leaving the house out Sky. Yeah, Ralph.
Speaker 3 (09:26):
Okay, my name's not Ralph. We've already covered this. So
in the back of my mind, I'm like, oh, kind
of thought you'd stick closer to home, you know, just
in case I.
Speaker 2 (09:36):
Need something, but take care of his girl.
Speaker 5 (09:38):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (09:38):
But at this point I realized I'm fine, I can
make my own dinner, Like, I'll work it out whatever.
Speaker 4 (09:44):
You know.
Speaker 3 (09:44):
Okay, great, go you don't leave very much, so so
go go go.
Speaker 2 (09:49):
Okay, such a cool one.
Speaker 3 (09:52):
So encouraging, so great, they leave, do dinner, taking a shower,
and then mid shower, thought hits me.
Speaker 4 (10:02):
You guys know.
Speaker 3 (10:03):
My again talking about siblings being completely different. Uh, you know,
my husband isn't the best hold in his alcohol.
Speaker 2 (10:11):
Oh wheelchair, wheelchair we heard condition and.
Speaker 3 (10:15):
There has been multiple, multiple incidents in the past where
my husband has drinken a little too much and he
knows he has this condition where if he gets nauseous
from anything, whether it's emotion, sickness, being on a roller coaster,
drinking too much, if he starts throwing up, he gets incapacitated,
(10:36):
literally to the point where he.
Speaker 4 (10:38):
Is dead weight on the floor. Eddie and Thor have
seen it.
Speaker 3 (10:41):
He turns the craziest white collars and then and then
from sweats everywhere, like sweats.
Speaker 4 (10:53):
He was in Vietnam, he was on the lawn of
the luxe or go and leave me if we.
Speaker 2 (10:58):
Were walking by, going get it broke.
Speaker 6 (11:01):
I was so embarrassed.
Speaker 3 (11:02):
Yeah, and even with Thor, like we couldn't really get up.
Speaker 2 (11:05):
He said leave me, and I went all.
Speaker 6 (11:06):
Right, Yeah, I hit the table, Yeah I was.
Speaker 2 (11:11):
And I wasn't sober, Yeah I was.
Speaker 6 (11:14):
We were so drunk, and I didn't want to touch
him because he was so sweaty.
Speaker 2 (11:18):
Yeah, it's so part of the condition.
Speaker 4 (11:20):
It is.
Speaker 3 (11:20):
He literally sweats through his clothes like I've never seen
a human do out before. So security ended up having
to come and put him in a wheelchair, hence the name.
Speaker 2 (11:30):
Wheelchair but to get him to the room.
Speaker 3 (11:32):
So this is this has happened many times, right, not
drinking so much, bro Well, I mean granted, maybe it's
happened like five times due to drinking over the last
thirty years, but still that's enough, right, And so I
realized he is out with his brother, who again is
the polar opposite and could probably drink, you know, under
(11:56):
the table. This guy, Emily can drink Emily under the table.
Speaker 2 (12:02):
Nobody can.
Speaker 4 (12:02):
It's wild. It's wild how much? Which is because you
own it.
Speaker 2 (12:06):
You got an iron stomach, kid, I do.
Speaker 4 (12:08):
It's incredible. Fact, it's impressive.
Speaker 3 (12:11):
If we could like bottle her iron stomach and give
it to them, that would be amazing.
Speaker 4 (12:16):
Yeah, mix and everything.
Speaker 3 (12:19):
Yeah, So mid shower, I realize the booze leaving the house.
He's going out with his brother and someone he's never
met before, so he's gonna be uncomfortable, like and so
you know, lots of people like drink a little bit
more when they're uncomfortable. And then on top of it,
he's going out with his brother, who I think can
drink anyone under the table. And I don't know if
(12:40):
this is like a stereotype or not. But the other
guy's from New Zealand, so I'm just assuming he can
drink anyone under the table as well.
Speaker 4 (12:48):
I don't know, but I.
Speaker 2 (12:49):
Feel like people are from does a shoey.
Speaker 3 (12:52):
Yeah, I feel like people from New Zealand and Australia
can drink you under the table.
Speaker 4 (12:55):
I kind of feel like that.
Speaker 2 (12:57):
I don't know's.
Speaker 3 (12:57):
I don't know why, Like this guy could be stone
cold sober. I have no idea, but in my mind,
you know, sometimes I build scenarios.
Speaker 2 (13:04):
You do that.
Speaker 3 (13:05):
I like seeing it happen. And so I'm like, i
am not feeling well. I have to get up for
work at three am the next morning. I've just been
under anesthesia, and then I'm like, the last thing I
want to do is go to bed and then be
woken up at like midnight. Because we got wheelchair boo
(13:25):
on the bathroom floor. I'm having to try and take
his shirt off. I'm putting cold wet towels on him,
I'm cleaning up.
Speaker 6 (13:32):
Why would you do any of that if he if
he's if he comes back that drunk, yeah he's not
gonna die.
Speaker 2 (13:39):
Make sure he's not sleeping on his back and they'll
choke on the bottom have fine. I wouldn't do any
of that.
Speaker 6 (13:45):
My wife got that drunk a couple of times, and
I gave her some No, I gave her some water.
I gave her some water, and I walked in home.
I walked into the bathroom and as she wore on
the ground and she was throwing up a ton, the
water was on the ground, her top was off, and
she was using the bath man as a pillow, and
I just left her there, but she had already finished
(14:07):
throwing out.
Speaker 3 (14:12):
So. Yeah, So whenever I see my husband in that condition,
whether it's his own fault or not, I.
Speaker 4 (14:18):
Feel I feel so bad. Yeah, Like this poor guy's
looking like he's gonna fucking.
Speaker 2 (14:22):
Die like the side of the road. Yeah. Sorry.
Speaker 3 (14:31):
Well, and the other thing is he doesn't even have
to get that drunk. If he has one drink without
having food first, that's gonna.
Speaker 4 (14:41):
I swear to god.
Speaker 3 (14:42):
We went to dinner once in Oregon and it took
forever to get our food. He had half of an
old fashion and we had to leave because he started
to sweat and turn white.
Speaker 4 (14:53):
It's wild. His body chemistry is with the fucking bread.
I know. Well, it was.
Speaker 3 (14:57):
It was a Japanese restaurant. I don't know if they
serve a I don't know if there's anything you can get. Yeah,
you think my daughter's gonna share her mom mae with him?
Speaker 2 (15:06):
Come on?
Speaker 3 (15:08):
So anyway, So like, so, all I want to do
is make sure I don't have to get up at
midnight one in the morning and deal with wheelchair boo.
Speaker 4 (15:17):
So I'm having a dilemma. Man is about.
Speaker 3 (15:20):
To turn forty nine years old, his birthday's coming up. No,
I do because I do now because of cakes and eggs. Okay,
So this guy clearly should know how to handle his
business at this age, right, we're all adults. But I
(15:41):
don't want to deal with it if for some reason
he doesn't handle his business. So I wanted to text
him and send a message basically saying, hey, make sure
you don't overdrink, don't drink too much, mix water in.
But like, but I felt like, as I'm thinking of
sending this text message, like, is this naggy.
Speaker 1 (16:01):
Hey mom wife? Yes, yes, the guy never does anything.
So the fact that he's going on having a good
time leave alone.
Speaker 3 (16:09):
But I want him to be careful having a good time,
so I don't have to deal with the consequences after
what I've already been through and the fact that I
am the one who works and go to work in
the morning.
Speaker 5 (16:21):
I get this, Robert has done stupid shore it if
he's going out with somebody that he's been ridiculous. If
you please that he'll just like not come home like
he's done that before we get Oh my god, I
absolutely said text like this, don't.
Speaker 2 (16:41):
Like guys have fun.
Speaker 4 (16:42):
They really don't.
Speaker 2 (16:46):
Don't like guys have fun. You're having fun, boys girls
get annoyed.
Speaker 4 (16:51):
Its not true.
Speaker 6 (16:52):
That's not true because the roles are reversed and Robert said, hey,
keep it cool.
Speaker 2 (16:59):
She'd be so fucking tell me what to do. Piece
of ship. Yeah, I'll never come home to be careful.
I don't think be careful. I was gonna do math.
Speaker 4 (17:17):
Now I'm doing math. I don't think.
Speaker 3 (17:22):
So these are the concerns going through my head that
I'm gonna be the naggy, bitchy mom.
Speaker 4 (17:28):
What okay, that's what I'm saying. That's rude.
Speaker 3 (17:33):
So but then at the same time, I don't want
to deal with it, and I feel.
Speaker 2 (17:37):
It's it's no okay.
Speaker 4 (17:41):
For me to law a text and just be like.
Speaker 2 (17:45):
Do it, stop it?
Speaker 4 (17:46):
So I guy's gonna do.
Speaker 1 (17:48):
Listen, Robert would go out way more times than the
Boo ever would, so I understand what you're saying. Boo
goes out once every fucking lunar, New Year or whatever,
every time there's a red moon. I mean honestly, he
never goes out.
Speaker 2 (18:02):
So get that. Let the guy have a thing, come home.
But she's no, but have a good time.
Speaker 5 (18:08):
She's just reminding.
Speaker 3 (18:09):
So I had to reword this text like twelve times
because I didn't. You didn't I sentenced sky seven fifty
six pm.
Speaker 2 (18:17):
It's not even eight.
Speaker 4 (18:18):
No, they're certain early, they are certain early.
Speaker 6 (18:21):
Well there, they've had a whole long day of working
on the wye.
Speaker 2 (18:26):
The guy, I get out two right out.
Speaker 3 (18:30):
I put hope you were having fun to see how
cool I am. Guys, See, I I've land with that.
Just wanted to remind you to keep mixing in lots
of water. I'm going to be passed out tonight and
I don't want to worry about you getting sick.
Speaker 4 (18:48):
Love you.
Speaker 2 (18:51):
And mom, signed mom.
Speaker 4 (18:54):
And if you ever.
Speaker 3 (18:55):
Text with my husband, which very few people do, because
again very antisocial.
Speaker 2 (18:59):
Uh.
Speaker 3 (18:59):
He is the King of thumbs up like that's all
you yeah, or or he'll put yeah, or he'll put okay,
Like I mean, he is.
Speaker 4 (19:09):
A animal texture minimal texture.
Speaker 3 (19:12):
So I get back L O L crying emoji, laughing face,
thank you good night, kissy emoji. First off, I didn't
say good night. I'm for like at least another hour.
(19:32):
So immediately I know dudes already, dudes already fucking track
chair chair dude's already done. So he Yeah, I really
wanted to write back based on your response.
Speaker 4 (19:50):
I know you've already.
Speaker 3 (19:51):
Had too much sun, but I'm like, Okay, I think
I've already said enough. If he chooses to turn into
wheelchair boo later.
Speaker 1 (20:00):
Then the next thing, you know, thors over there having
to pick him up in the chair again.
Speaker 2 (20:07):
It's brutal.
Speaker 3 (20:08):
Yeah, so I thought you guys would not appreciate me
sending the text.
Speaker 1 (20:12):
That's awful. Okay, Yeah, that's again not surprising. So when
he got home, did he keep it cool?
Speaker 4 (20:20):
I don't know how drunk he was. What time did
they get home? I don't know because I was already asleep. Yeah,
but I do know
Speaker 2 (20:30):
That escort
Well, Sky had a doozy of a day yesterday. You
know when you have a colonoscopy.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
Oh, it's a lot, Yeah, goes into that. You know.
Speaker 1 (00:08):
So Sky was under anesthesia, you know, she was all
cleaned out, you know, the whole thing.
Speaker 2 (00:14):
Uh, and then you get home and you're out of it, right.
Speaker 3 (00:18):
Yeah, definitely still tired still, you know, the brain not working.
Speaker 2 (00:22):
Out of it today.
Speaker 3 (00:23):
I heard earlier this morning, I was I was doing
some weird stuff.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
That's weird stuff. I just think it was business as usual.
To be honest, this.
Speaker 3 (00:31):
As usual is me misspelling a ton of words. But
this I was just like writing two sentence to words
and then not finishing sentences.
Speaker 4 (00:39):
I did it multiple times this morning.
Speaker 2 (00:41):
You did.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
So, you know, when you're kind of out of it,
you were under anesthesia all that stuff, you sort of
need your partner to kind of take care of you,
right like Emily would for her man.
Speaker 2 (00:52):
Robert, you did that what you did recently, right.
Speaker 5 (00:54):
When he could cannot be I did take care of him.
I made him some you know, some super I mean
I didn't.
Speaker 2 (01:02):
Eat it.
Speaker 5 (01:03):
What he's coming out of I could see it.
Speaker 4 (01:07):
That's wild.
Speaker 1 (01:09):
So it was a little bit concerning for Sky last
night when the Boo decided to hit the bar.
Speaker 2 (01:17):
We ain't done yet.
Speaker 6 (01:18):
It's time podcast completely uncensored and unacting filtered except for
that part.
Speaker 7 (01:29):
The show's after show starts.
Speaker 2 (01:33):
Now the man doesn't leave the house.
Speaker 4 (01:36):
That's weird, right, what are you talking about?
Speaker 2 (01:38):
I don't know one time he leaves the houses when
you need him. That doesn't make any sense.
Speaker 4 (01:46):
It's pretty wild what happened. So here's pretty wild. Here's
my take on siblings.
Speaker 3 (01:53):
Siblings are either very similar or they're like that movie
you know what Bruce willis, was it Glass or Unbreakable
or whatever, where they're polar opposites where literally one gets
one hundred percent of a trade and the other sibling
gets zero percent of a trait. And that is my
husband and his brother. Okay, my husband, as we've covered
(02:17):
many times, like a kind of a social shut in,
socially awkward, social anxiety, would prefer to stay home overdoing
anything in the entire world. And his brother the complete opposite,
social butterfly, chatting up strangers at the bar, like wanting
to always go out, wanting to always be around.
Speaker 2 (02:38):
Love this guy, Okay.
Speaker 3 (02:43):
He has always you know that's not that crazy.
Speaker 1 (02:47):
Like Thor and his sister complete opposites. Me and my
sister complete opposites. Like people would say to me, like,
you guys came from the same parents. That doesn't make sense.
Speaker 6 (02:56):
Yeah, me and my sister became a lot closer as
we got older, Like now we're yeah, but you're diff
We're very, very different.
Speaker 2 (03:01):
She's book women smart. And then there's you wouldn't say,
you know what I mean? You know what I mean,
you know what I mean. She has a book work.
Speaker 6 (03:07):
Well, you got Emily and Aunt.
Speaker 2 (03:08):
We all love it. She's great. I think we're very great.
Speaker 5 (03:13):
Shouldn't be more similar, Like like guy was saying, there
are similar.
Speaker 4 (03:19):
I love her, but I mean.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
Wa whoa, So that's like that, Okay, keep my girl's
name at your motherfucking mouse flat.
Speaker 2 (03:27):
I'm thinking about it, thinking about it.
Speaker 3 (03:31):
So it turns out that, uh, the same week of
my colonoscopy.
Speaker 4 (03:36):
My husband decides she was like a holiday right for.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
Me, Well, at the part when I'm under on the
sea shore, it was a holiday, but the rest of
it I don't know. So my husband decides that's the
week his brother is going to come visit and stay
with us now, I kind of you know, normally I
would have really fought that, but my brother in law
is in between jobs and his new job starts on Monday,
(04:02):
So like, if if it didn't happen now, it wasn't
going to happen for a long time.
Speaker 4 (04:07):
So okay, fine, whatever.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
So you're staying with you guys.
Speaker 3 (04:11):
Staying at our house, and we don't have a guest room.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
So he's but you do, but you just don't.
Speaker 4 (04:16):
We have a guest room full of craft. So no bed,
no bed in said guest room.
Speaker 3 (04:21):
So the brother in law, no bed, no guest right, Yeah.
Speaker 4 (04:26):
I don't.
Speaker 3 (04:27):
I guess clearly not because if there's a couch, then
there's a guest. And so my brother in law has
been sleeping on the couch in are living living room. Yeah,
and basically the way our house.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
Emily hates guests on the level. On another level she does.
Speaker 6 (04:44):
But like having guests sleep on the in the living room.
That's brutally because that literally is like where do you go.
Speaker 4 (04:51):
You're you're a prisoner, to your room, you're prisoner.
Speaker 2 (04:54):
I mean it's family. That's brutal.
Speaker 3 (04:58):
Has an eighty U Yeah, but it's right right now
it's we got a college student in there, So I
don't think that's what it's for.
Speaker 4 (05:03):
I don't think she was there, No, I don't think.
Speaker 7 (05:08):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (05:08):
Right, So he's.
Speaker 3 (05:10):
On the couch, which is kind of wild because basically
the way our house is is it's like one open space.
Speaker 2 (05:19):
Use us.
Speaker 3 (05:21):
So like this morning, when I'm doing my my little okay,
I'm gonna get my water bottles, my ninja sneak out.
Speaker 4 (05:27):
I'm gonna put on my shoes.
Speaker 3 (05:28):
Blah blah blah blah blah, he's right there snoring.
Speaker 4 (05:32):
He's like literally right there snoring. I don't know.
Speaker 3 (05:36):
I don't know what's going on under that blank I'm
looking over the little couch.
Speaker 2 (05:40):
I'm not I'm not.
Speaker 3 (05:41):
Turning on no light. I don't I don't want anything
to do with that. So okay, great, he's in town.
Told the husband like, hey, like, let your brother know.
I'm not going to try and be rude. But I
got this colonoscy, I got the prep, I got the recovery.
So like there's probably gonna be a good two days
where I'm just gonna lock myself in the room and
bathroom and you eyes do your own thing right, and
(06:02):
their play on was like, Oh, we're just going to
be in the garage the whole time working on the
v W because growing up double yep, the double ugly.
Growing up, both of them worked on v w's together.
He has a classic v W bugs.
Speaker 7 (06:17):
I mean, that's a motorcycle. That's not the fry analogy.
Speaker 2 (06:27):
Walking leather jackets.
Speaker 6 (06:28):
They're both rocking of the jackets there there they're ones
under the ones under the hood and the other ones like,
you know, the get the.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
Go getter, he he The other one is using his
elbow to turn on the juke box.
Speaker 2 (06:41):
Yeah, they got jukebox.
Speaker 4 (06:43):
You get it with your elbow. And then nobody at
my house.
Speaker 2 (06:55):
So king comes Ralph mouth.
Speaker 4 (07:00):
Now I don't know Ralph malthew sucker. I'm a sister whatever, Ralph, Ralph, you.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
Can't come up with joy?
Speaker 4 (07:10):
Thank you? Can you shout up anyway? Love the love
these relevant.
Speaker 2 (07:19):
I don't know what that was. You don't know Happy Days?
Speaker 7 (07:22):
No?
Speaker 5 (07:22):
I don't watch Okay, so you don't know watch happy I.
Speaker 1 (07:29):
Feel like you would want to be in that Who's
potsy all your but I don't live there.
Speaker 4 (07:36):
Curly hair.
Speaker 2 (07:39):
That is to a t com.
Speaker 6 (07:42):
Yeah, this guy's houses.
Speaker 4 (07:50):
Okay, my house isn't happy.
Speaker 3 (07:51):
So so he tells me, no problem, we're gonna be
in the garage working on the v W the whole time.
Speaker 4 (07:56):
We'll be out of your way, no problem.
Speaker 2 (07:58):
Okay, great for seven working on this thing.
Speaker 4 (08:01):
Oh yeah, they were like, that's what you do.
Speaker 5 (08:05):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (08:05):
No.
Speaker 3 (08:05):
The first night about my brother in law arrived, they
were out in the garage probably till like midnight, one
in the morning, tinkering. Yeah, yeah, yeah, Well they're both
night owls. You know, my husband the booth stays up
till that time most of the night.
Speaker 4 (08:21):
Well he's alone normally, so yeah, he's greased up in
other ways, definitely other ways.
Speaker 3 (08:27):
Uh So, okay, great, I'm cool with that planned. You know,
I can text him if I need anything, but probably
I'll just be happy wandering out to the kitchen by
myself and thankful that nobody's in the house seeing me
in my beautiful state that I'm in at that point.
So I get home from the colonoscopy and I'm talking
to the hobby and that's when he lets me know
(08:47):
that him and his brother will be going out to
dinner to meet a friend of his brothers. Oh I
guess his brother has a friend who now works here
in San Dieg for the women's soccer team, the Wave.
I guess he's like women's pro soccer something and he
(09:08):
used to do it up in the Bay Area and
now he's down here.
Speaker 4 (09:11):
So they're all going to go out to dinner and socialize.
Speaker 2 (09:15):
And I'm like, Okay, that is so unboo like.
Speaker 4 (09:19):
But it's without Sky leaving the house out Sky. Yeah, Ralph.
Speaker 3 (09:26):
Okay, my name's not Ralph. We've already covered this. So
in the back of my mind, I'm like, oh, kind
of thought you'd stick closer to home, you know, just
in case I.
Speaker 2 (09:36):
Need something, but take care of his girl.
Speaker 5 (09:38):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (09:38):
But at this point I realized I'm fine, I can
make my own dinner, Like, I'll work it out whatever.
Speaker 4 (09:44):
You know.
Speaker 3 (09:44):
Okay, great, go you don't leave very much, so so
go go go.
Speaker 2 (09:49):
Okay, such a cool one.
Speaker 3 (09:52):
So encouraging, so great, they leave, do dinner, taking a shower,
and then mid shower, thought hits me.
Speaker 4 (10:02):
You guys know.
Speaker 3 (10:03):
My again talking about siblings being completely different. Uh, you know,
my husband isn't the best hold in his alcohol.
Speaker 2 (10:11):
Oh wheelchair, wheelchair we heard condition and.
Speaker 3 (10:15):
There has been multiple, multiple incidents in the past where
my husband has drinken a little too much and he
knows he has this condition where if he gets nauseous
from anything, whether it's emotion, sickness, being on a roller coaster,
drinking too much, if he starts throwing up, he gets incapacitated,
(10:36):
literally to the point where he.
Speaker 4 (10:38):
Is dead weight on the floor. Eddie and Thor have
seen it.
Speaker 3 (10:41):
He turns the craziest white collars and then and then
from sweats everywhere, like sweats.
Speaker 4 (10:53):
He was in Vietnam, he was on the lawn of
the luxe or go and leave me if we.
Speaker 2 (10:58):
Were walking by, going get it broke.
Speaker 6 (11:01):
I was so embarrassed.
Speaker 3 (11:02):
Yeah, and even with Thor, like we couldn't really get up.
Speaker 2 (11:05):
He said leave me, and I went all.
Speaker 6 (11:06):
Right, Yeah, I hit the table, Yeah I was.
Speaker 2 (11:11):
And I wasn't sober, Yeah I was.
Speaker 6 (11:14):
We were so drunk, and I didn't want to touch
him because he was so sweaty.
Speaker 2 (11:18):
Yeah, it's so part of the condition.
Speaker 4 (11:20):
It is.
Speaker 3 (11:20):
He literally sweats through his clothes like I've never seen
a human do out before. So security ended up having
to come and put him in a wheelchair, hence the name.
Speaker 2 (11:30):
Wheelchair but to get him to the room.
Speaker 3 (11:32):
So this is this has happened many times, right, not
drinking so much, bro Well, I mean granted, maybe it's
happened like five times due to drinking over the last
thirty years, but still that's enough, right, And so I
realized he is out with his brother, who again is
the polar opposite and could probably drink, you know, under
(11:56):
the table. This guy, Emily can drink Emily under the table.
Speaker 2 (12:02):
Nobody can.
Speaker 4 (12:02):
It's wild. It's wild how much? Which is because you
own it.
Speaker 2 (12:06):
You got an iron stomach, kid, I do.
Speaker 4 (12:08):
It's incredible. Fact, it's impressive.
Speaker 3 (12:11):
If we could like bottle her iron stomach and give
it to them, that would be amazing.
Speaker 4 (12:16):
Yeah, mix and everything.
Speaker 3 (12:19):
Yeah, So mid shower, I realize the booze leaving the house.
He's going out with his brother and someone he's never
met before, so he's gonna be uncomfortable, like and so
you know, lots of people like drink a little bit
more when they're uncomfortable. And then on top of it,
he's going out with his brother, who I think can
drink anyone under the table. And I don't know if
(12:40):
this is like a stereotype or not. But the other
guy's from New Zealand, so I'm just assuming he can
drink anyone under the table as well.
Speaker 4 (12:48):
I don't know, but I.
Speaker 2 (12:49):
Feel like people are from does a shoey.
Speaker 3 (12:52):
Yeah, I feel like people from New Zealand and Australia
can drink you under the table.
Speaker 4 (12:55):
I kind of feel like that.
Speaker 2 (12:57):
I don't know's.
Speaker 3 (12:57):
I don't know why, Like this guy could be stone
cold sober. I have no idea, but in my mind,
you know, sometimes I build scenarios.
Speaker 2 (13:04):
You do that.
Speaker 3 (13:05):
I like seeing it happen. And so I'm like, i
am not feeling well. I have to get up for
work at three am the next morning. I've just been
under anesthesia, and then I'm like, the last thing I
want to do is go to bed and then be
woken up at like midnight. Because we got wheelchair boo
(13:25):
on the bathroom floor. I'm having to try and take
his shirt off. I'm putting cold wet towels on him,
I'm cleaning up.
Speaker 6 (13:32):
Why would you do any of that if he if
he's if he comes back that drunk, yeah he's not
gonna die.
Speaker 2 (13:39):
Make sure he's not sleeping on his back and they'll
choke on the bottom have fine. I wouldn't do any
of that.
Speaker 6 (13:45):
My wife got that drunk a couple of times, and
I gave her some No, I gave her some water.
I gave her some water, and I walked in home.
I walked into the bathroom and as she wore on
the ground and she was throwing up a ton, the
water was on the ground, her top was off, and
she was using the bath man as a pillow, and
I just left her there, but she had already finished
(14:07):
throwing out.
Speaker 3 (14:12):
So. Yeah, So whenever I see my husband in that condition,
whether it's his own fault or not, I.
Speaker 4 (14:18):
Feel I feel so bad. Yeah, Like this poor guy's
looking like he's gonna fucking.
Speaker 2 (14:22):
Die like the side of the road. Yeah. Sorry.
Speaker 3 (14:31):
Well, and the other thing is he doesn't even have
to get that drunk. If he has one drink without
having food first, that's gonna.
Speaker 4 (14:41):
I swear to god.
Speaker 3 (14:42):
We went to dinner once in Oregon and it took
forever to get our food. He had half of an
old fashion and we had to leave because he started
to sweat and turn white.
Speaker 4 (14:53):
It's wild. His body chemistry is with the fucking bread.
I know. Well, it was.
Speaker 3 (14:57):
It was a Japanese restaurant. I don't know if they
serve a I don't know if there's anything you can get. Yeah,
you think my daughter's gonna share her mom mae with him?
Speaker 2 (15:06):
Come on?
Speaker 3 (15:08):
So anyway, So like, so, all I want to do
is make sure I don't have to get up at
midnight one in the morning and deal with wheelchair boo.
Speaker 4 (15:17):
So I'm having a dilemma. Man is about.
Speaker 3 (15:20):
To turn forty nine years old, his birthday's coming up. No,
I do because I do now because of cakes and eggs. Okay,
So this guy clearly should know how to handle his
business at this age, right, we're all adults. But I
(15:41):
don't want to deal with it if for some reason
he doesn't handle his business. So I wanted to text
him and send a message basically saying, hey, make sure
you don't overdrink, don't drink too much, mix water in.
But like, but I felt like, as I'm thinking of
sending this text message, like, is this naggy.
Speaker 1 (16:01):
Hey mom wife? Yes, yes, the guy never does anything.
So the fact that he's going on having a good
time leave alone.
Speaker 3 (16:09):
But I want him to be careful having a good time,
so I don't have to deal with the consequences after
what I've already been through and the fact that I
am the one who works and go to work in
the morning.
Speaker 5 (16:21):
I get this, Robert has done stupid shore it if
he's going out with somebody that he's been ridiculous. If
you please that he'll just like not come home like
he's done that before we get Oh my god, I
absolutely said text like this, don't.
Speaker 2 (16:41):
Like guys have fun.
Speaker 4 (16:42):
They really don't.
Speaker 2 (16:46):
Don't like guys have fun. You're having fun, boys girls
get annoyed.
Speaker 4 (16:51):
Its not true.
Speaker 6 (16:52):
That's not true because the roles are reversed and Robert said, hey,
keep it cool.
Speaker 2 (16:59):
She'd be so fucking tell me what to do. Piece
of ship. Yeah, I'll never come home to be careful.
I don't think be careful. I was gonna do math.
Speaker 4 (17:17):
Now I'm doing math. I don't think.
Speaker 3 (17:22):
So these are the concerns going through my head that
I'm gonna be the naggy, bitchy mom.
Speaker 4 (17:28):
What okay, that's what I'm saying. That's rude.
Speaker 3 (17:33):
So but then at the same time, I don't want
to deal with it, and I feel.
Speaker 2 (17:37):
It's it's no okay.
Speaker 4 (17:41):
For me to law a text and just be like.
Speaker 2 (17:45):
Do it, stop it?
Speaker 4 (17:46):
So I guy's gonna do.
Speaker 1 (17:48):
Listen, Robert would go out way more times than the
Boo ever would, so I understand what you're saying. Boo
goes out once every fucking lunar, New Year or whatever,
every time there's a red moon. I mean honestly, he
never goes out.
Speaker 2 (18:02):
So get that. Let the guy have a thing, come home.
But she's no, but have a good time.
Speaker 5 (18:08):
She's just reminding.
Speaker 3 (18:09):
So I had to reword this text like twelve times
because I didn't. You didn't I sentenced sky seven fifty
six pm.
Speaker 2 (18:17):
It's not even eight.
Speaker 4 (18:18):
No, they're certain early, they are certain early.
Speaker 6 (18:21):
Well there, they've had a whole long day of working
on the wye.
Speaker 2 (18:26):
The guy, I get out two right out.
Speaker 3 (18:30):
I put hope you were having fun to see how
cool I am. Guys, See, I I've land with that.
Just wanted to remind you to keep mixing in lots
of water. I'm going to be passed out tonight and
I don't want to worry about you getting sick.
Speaker 4 (18:48):
Love you.
Speaker 2 (18:51):
And mom, signed mom.
Speaker 4 (18:54):
And if you ever.
Speaker 3 (18:55):
Text with my husband, which very few people do, because
again very antisocial.
Speaker 2 (18:59):
Uh.
Speaker 3 (18:59):
He is the King of thumbs up like that's all
you yeah, or or he'll put yeah, or he'll put okay,
Like I mean, he is.
Speaker 4 (19:09):
A animal texture minimal texture.
Speaker 3 (19:12):
So I get back L O L crying emoji, laughing face,
thank you good night, kissy emoji. First off, I didn't
say good night. I'm for like at least another hour.
(19:32):
So immediately I know dudes already, dudes already fucking track
chair chair dude's already done. So he Yeah, I really
wanted to write back based on your response.
Speaker 4 (19:50):
I know you've already.
Speaker 3 (19:51):
Had too much sun, but I'm like, Okay, I think
I've already said enough. If he chooses to turn into
wheelchair boo later.
Speaker 1 (20:00):
Then the next thing, you know, thors over there having
to pick him up in the chair again.
Speaker 2 (20:07):
It's brutal.
Speaker 3 (20:08):
Yeah, so I thought you guys would not appreciate me
sending the text.
Speaker 1 (20:12):
That's awful. Okay, Yeah, that's again not surprising. So when
he got home, did he keep it cool?
Speaker 4 (20:20):
I don't know how drunk he was. What time did
they get home? I don't know because I was already asleep. Yeah,
but I do know
Speaker 2 (20:30):
That escort
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