April 28, 2026 • 19 mins
We know that Sky is going through a forced health journey and part of that is cutting back on the weed. Well what we didn't know is that she quit cold turkey and it is effecting her life in many ways... especially her sex life...
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
So Sky kind of dropped a mini bombshell on us
during the show this morning. I wasn't aware. We knew
she's going through these health things and that she may
try to wean herself off of the weed, the daily
smoking of the weed that she's been doing, she says,
since she was.
Speaker 2 (00:17):
Thirteen mile every day.
Speaker 1 (00:22):
So we knew that that was sort of going to
be happening, but she let us know that today. She
told us that she has quit hold Turkey and that
was a stunning development. And so because of that, she's
going through some stuff, including it's affecting the sex life.
(00:43):
We ain't done yet.
Speaker 2 (00:46):
Podcast over a year, completely uncensored and unacting filtered except
for that part the show's after show starts.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
Now, let's just say Sky's a mess. Sky has been
a mess for a little while now, and so's she's
she's trying trying to figure things out, and you know,
one of the things that she has decided again, this
is sort of on her own. There's not a lot
of doctors that are telling her what's up. Hopefully you're
gonna get those answers, but on her own, she's like, well,
(01:22):
smoking weed every day is probably not the best for
you anymore. Yeah, you know, you're you're approaching the big five,
oh soon, and so you know, I mean, what's we doing?
Speaker 2 (01:33):
We still have forty nine first to get to.
Speaker 1 (01:35):
What's we doing? Okay, and we ain't a kid anymore?
Sky eight and a half No, no, thank you. It's
even further.
Speaker 2 (01:43):
Than that now, okay, and like a couple of like
a week hids okay.
Speaker 1 (01:47):
So yes, So that's one of the things you said.
All right, well, I got to start weaning myself off
of this because clearly this may affect my health or whatever.
Speaker 2 (01:55):
Well, yeah, like I mean, I've been eating like a
college student, like pretty much all of twenty twenty six,
I've been eating like a college student. I haven't been
working out at all except for like a walk around
the block.
Speaker 3 (02:08):
And yeah.
Speaker 2 (02:09):
The weed, the weed, the weed, the weed. The weed
started when I was thirteen, and you know it was
it was daily, but a lot weed.
Speaker 1 (02:19):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (02:20):
Look, I think I smoked when I was like fifteen.
Speaker 4 (02:22):
How did you get money for it?
Speaker 3 (02:23):
It was once it was like a couple of times
a week.
Speaker 2 (02:25):
Oh really, Like that was that's a wild Yeah, I
don't know, Like I honestly never had to buy it.
Like a lot of like, okay, I didn't whoa low
jobs for we this isn't New Jack City, bro, because
it was really.
Speaker 4 (02:40):
Expensive to say, you didn't have to buy it? How
fuck were you getting it?
Speaker 2 (02:44):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (02:45):
Okay, no, I I know Feen, she seemed like she
was a little PROMI.
Speaker 4 (02:52):
Didn't you lose your didn't you lose your Virginia twelteen
fifty twelve fifteen?
Speaker 2 (02:56):
So why dim bag back?
Speaker 1 (03:02):
No?
Speaker 2 (03:02):
Like my girlfriends, a lot of them had older brothers
and they always had weeds.
Speaker 4 (03:08):
Yes, so yeah, crazy. I would never and I would
never share our weed with.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
Our sisters friends. Yeah.
Speaker 4 (03:18):
Yeah, we would never do that.
Speaker 2 (03:21):
Yeah, and it was wide yeah.
Speaker 1 (03:25):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (03:26):
And I remember the early days of improvising because like
we would even like cut like god, so stupid as
a fucking kid. So I'm a cheerleader or maybe I'm
on dance team at this point, I don't really know,
but either way, I'm wearing a full on fucking school
uniform that has the name of the school. I'm in
the little skirt. And we would cut school and go
(03:47):
behind the taco bell around the corner and then if
somebody forgot their pipe, you know, you'd have to improvise.
First choice would be an apple or a pizza shirt.
But if you don't have anything like that, then we'd
go coke hand or something like that. And looking like
that's so fucking gross, like smoking out of a coke.
Speaker 3 (04:05):
Can do what you got to do.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
But I guess, yeah, you're you're a kid. You don't
know any different. But yeah, all my.
Speaker 4 (04:09):
Friendsader yeah, nothing was going on, guys.
Speaker 2 (04:14):
So yeah, all my friends always had it. And then
like right when I turned fifteen, I started dating this
guy who was a total fucking burnout alcoholic. I know,
really really good, good good call on me. Yeah, sounds
like I'm sure my parents were you guys, I'll remember
my gangbanger face show and so yeah, So he would
(04:35):
always have it, and then he would like buy it
for me too, like when it got to the point
where I wanted my own, then he would go and
he'd buy like two eighths and give me one, and
then he would so many. And then when I came
down to go to college and I was part of
the first freshman class at Hell State San Marcos. Thank
(04:56):
you very much, thank you very so cougars, very prestigious. Yeah,
my one of my friends had and this is also
really gross and something I regret had a hook up
in TJ and because Emily, the people in TJ wear
has mad suits to pick the weed, which I would
(05:17):
then smoke and put directly into my lungs, like if
it's covered in so much fucking shit, Like I eat
organic fruit now right, like I won't even eat non
organic fruit, and thinking that, I'm like, no, it doesn't.
But yeah, I remember one time my freshman year in college,
my girlfriend was able to score a pound and that
(05:38):
was fucking crazy. Like we literally were so proud and
we covered our entire dining table in our apartment and
we're like taking pictures with it, like.
Speaker 1 (05:48):
Like those don't get released.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
Right, like we're fucking cool or something like looking back
on it.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
Is so Carl, what is going on?
Speaker 2 (05:55):
Oh my god, the amount of seeds and stems that
were in our like like well, you'd vacuum the carpet
and it would be like you were vacuuming a carpet
full of marbles because there were so many seeds and stems.
I know. Yeah, time bunk ship, so yeah, So I
(06:19):
mean I.
Speaker 1 (06:21):
Going on for a long time. Yeah, And so to
hear you've quit cold turkey is actually kind of crazy.
Speaker 2 (06:27):
Yeah, that's kind of because I've only like really quit once.
I've like kicked back for a while, being like, Okay,
if you're waking up in the middle of the night
and hitting a bowl, that's probably a bad idea. So
occasionally I would like kick back and try and dial
it back a little bit. But the only other time
I've quit is when I was trying to get pregnant,
and then you know, when I was pregnant, and that's
(06:50):
just kind of yeah, bummer, I can't say the boos.
Speaker 1 (07:00):
Because that was.
Speaker 2 (07:00):
Blow I was when I was pregnant. You said that
you did it, that was you.
Speaker 3 (07:08):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (07:09):
So so that's kind of the only way I know
how to do it because I feel like and I
feel like it's the same way with you know, desserts
and sugar and things like that. If I allow myself
a taste, then I'll start making excuses. And so just
the way I roll, I just got to go cold
turkey or I know it's not going to stick and
(07:29):
it sucks and it's really hard.
Speaker 1 (07:31):
But I'm like you were you were like death today.
Speaker 4 (07:34):
Yeah, you were brutal. I mean, it was you in
the breakroom hard. I've known you for fifteen years. I've
never seen Sky in the break room.
Speaker 1 (07:43):
Laying down, laying down.
Speaker 2 (07:44):
This is what I shook, what I looked like, walked by.
Speaker 1 (07:49):
That's not good, Sky, that's not good. I stopped.
Speaker 4 (07:51):
Hey, Okay, head back then.
Speaker 1 (07:56):
You know it's bad.
Speaker 4 (07:57):
You usually wouldn't care.
Speaker 2 (07:58):
But I honestly feel like I've been better today compared
to like lately talked.
Speaker 4 (08:02):
About the time.
Speaker 1 (08:03):
Okay, yeah, I don't know about that. I didn't notice
you're in rough shape.
Speaker 2 (08:08):
Oh yeah, yeah, I felt like yesterday was it was
the worst of it all. But I thought I did
pretty well on the air today. Oh yeah, No, I
thought my energy was okay. Off the air not so much,
but so so yeah. So I wasn't planning not quitting
smoking weed, but it just turned out that once I
got all this like blood work back, I felt like, like,
(08:31):
don't be stupid. You know too equals plus two?
Speaker 1 (08:34):
No, see what I mean? It's definitely affected.
Speaker 2 (08:40):
Yeah yeah, so the jump food the weed. Clearly if
you're having problems with your heart, with your blood with
like I mean, I think we know where we need
to start.
Speaker 4 (08:50):
So yeah, about okay, what about alcohol.
Speaker 1 (08:53):
She hasn't been drinking.
Speaker 4 (08:54):
I'm just wondering, like, are you gonna are you gonna
not drink? I'm not saying ever again, but are you
gonna not drink for a little while until body like
levels out with some of the stuff you have going on.
Speaker 2 (09:02):
I haven't been because it makes me feel sick and
I can't and I can't sleep, and I get like.
Speaker 4 (09:07):
So you're so you're so you're sober sober right now?
Speaker 2 (09:10):
Yeah, I haven't had a drink from California. I mean, okay,
it doesn't think that's so cool.
Speaker 4 (09:23):
So yeah, what yeah, guys, stone cold sober.
Speaker 2 (09:29):
Yeah. And when I tried to get pregnant and quit
smoking back then that was like my go to because
I've never really been a big drinker except for COVID
that turned me into a drinker for a year or so.
But yeah, so back when I was trying to get pregnant,
I stopped smoking, but I would have like a glass
of wine at night.
Speaker 4 (09:46):
Switching addiction.
Speaker 2 (09:47):
Yeah, exactly exactly. And then once I like got the
positive pregnancy testage, then yeah yeah, and then then but
this time, like, yeah, alcohol, which is sad. I'm sorry
to say this. Emily, I'll call it makes me feel sick, like.
Speaker 4 (10:04):
It makes Emily feel sick too, but usually are at
like two am. It's a different different, different times different
if you don't got it about to sack if I
don't have alcohol.
Speaker 1 (10:14):
Alright, sorry, yeah, so yes, this is a big change, obviously.
Speaker 2 (10:18):
And I thought you guys knew I was doing this,
so either you do.
Speaker 1 (10:21):
You said you were weaning off. Yeah, I believe you.
Speaker 2 (10:24):
Yeah, that's what I that's it. This morning when I
said it and saw all your shocked faces, I'm like,
these motherfuckers didn't believe me.
Speaker 4 (10:32):
No, maybe.
Speaker 1 (10:35):
That's all, which which is kind of what you said.
You said you were gonna cut down and you were
going to try to maybe wean yourself off and slowly whatever,
and that was the last we had heard.
Speaker 4 (10:45):
And you've said this before, like, well.
Speaker 2 (10:48):
I said I would cut back back before, which I have,
but I've never said I got to give it up.
Speaker 1 (10:52):
And so I was cutting back though for you was
like five times a day.
Speaker 4 (10:55):
It was like you're cutting back to like twice a week.
You're still spoke every so that's not cutting back in
my eyes. So this is crazy.
Speaker 2 (11:03):
Yeah, And I had hoped I could go to gummies,
but hum may. Yeah, it turns out, based on research,
gummies jack up your heart just as yeah, she's not good.
Speaker 3 (11:14):
For your I mean, I just thought it was the
smoking part.
Speaker 2 (11:16):
I did too. I honestly did too. And in my mind,
I'm like, oh, I'll just become an edibles bitch, you know,
I'll just be one of those I take the edibles.
Speaker 1 (11:24):
What do you have to say it like that?
Speaker 2 (11:25):
I don't know, because I feel like, because I know
a lot of.
Speaker 1 (11:27):
People who do edibles act like that.
Speaker 2 (11:29):
All the women in La Joya, you do want an edible?
Speaker 1 (11:32):
That's how they talk.
Speaker 2 (11:33):
Yeah, that's how I feel it because they've already had
a bottle of wine when we're offering it. So so yeah,
so I kind of thought that was going to be
like my in between thing, but it turns out no,
not that either. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (11:46):
Well, because of these big changes, and obviously because you
haven't been feeling good, this has affected the sex life.
Oh like, we haven't heard about any of your romps
or anything like that in a really long time. Yeah.
I was assuming it was still going on, but no, no, no,
what's this man doing?
Speaker 2 (12:07):
A poor bastard, like his hands must be raw.
Speaker 1 (12:11):
I hope it's his hand. Geek is it? Is it
sneaking and geeking? And if if you know you have
if we've talked about this before that if you're if
your loved one is like in a coma, you know,
if they're in a coma and they're they're basically brain dead.
(12:32):
I mean you heard the two plus two. Okay, they're
basically brain dead. You're still taking care of them, you know,
I'm still doing. But I mean I got needs to like,
am I not allowed to still? You know, to go
out there and maybe have a good time. No, you're married,
she's like your wife is brain dead? Okay, this is worse,
(12:54):
Like I don't know what. She's dead all over the place,
so you know.
Speaker 2 (12:57):
I might as well vas not dead. Well, it has
gone numb recently, but that was just from sitting too long.
I got I got a lower back thing and a
lot of information undercarriage. Please stop, I'll bring it up
to the doctor. It's on my notes. It's on my
notes to bring up to the doctor.
Speaker 1 (13:17):
Weird.
Speaker 2 (13:17):
Uh yeah, so no, well, and no, he's not you know,
sneaking and geekon Well we know, well, I mean normally
I guess you don't know if someone it's in the
name sneaking. Yeah, I hope not. But yeah, this is
pretty fucking wild for us because, as we've has been
well documented, the boos a horny pervert.
Speaker 1 (13:38):
Okay, you know, does just make it perfect? Well, well
he has some tendencies, some perfect just like like sex.
Speaker 4 (13:47):
Well, yeah, he likes sex, but sober sky sex, that's
the thing. Maybe he's out on.
Speaker 2 (13:53):
That, dude. I'm not seriously, I'm not disagreeing.
Speaker 4 (13:59):
Last time you had sex sober?
Speaker 1 (14:01):
Who ever?
Speaker 4 (14:03):
That that can't be true? Ever, give me one time pregnant.
Speaker 2 (14:11):
Like do you count we eat a sober Oh okay?
Then then when I was pregnant, Wow, because I just
smoke weed everything.
Speaker 4 (14:20):
You were to have sex now with your husband sober,
how would this go down?
Speaker 1 (14:25):
Look at her? Look at a face.
Speaker 4 (14:28):
So you walk into a room, there's an outfit laid
out for you.
Speaker 2 (14:31):
And sober boy on yeah around Yeah, because normally I
don't know, because normally I'm so drunk that it's like
like there's you know, time isn't a thing. Time isn't
it When you're sober, It's like, God, got sober, We're
still doing this what's happening? So yeah, So I just
(14:53):
slowly kind of started feeling worse and worse, and and
then on top of it, we didn't really have many opportunities.
And then I knew, like we hit a new spot
in our relationship that I don't know if it's like
a more mature thing that I should be thankful for,
or if it's just sad or if this is driving
my husband to cheat. But last Friday, my daughter was
(15:17):
gone all day, so from when I got home from work,
she didn't get home till ten pm that night, so
we had the house to our usually it's a Friday. Yeah,
I come home, the spas warmed up. He's got a
tail in the shaker, like he's oh yeah, yeah, banana hammock.
(15:38):
He's probably like gone to the club and bought like
some high end like joints or something.
Speaker 1 (15:43):
Remember we heard like she wears lingerie in the spat
of times bizarre in the middle.
Speaker 4 (15:49):
Of the day, so worried that the laing.
Speaker 2 (15:54):
You only go with some of the older stuff that's
been washed multiple times. Yeah, I'm yeah, I feel the
same way.
Speaker 4 (16:01):
Get what's the club to get high end joints? Is
that like a weed place, yeah.
Speaker 2 (16:05):
Like a weed club, like a like a dispensary.
Speaker 1 (16:09):
Theom okay, it's not whatever.
Speaker 2 (16:12):
No, Yeah, so he would go and buy like the
like top shelf stuff that they like roll in Keith
on the outside. Yeah. Yeah, that's like the goal because
he knows that's when he gets the good set.
Speaker 1 (16:24):
But now.
Speaker 2 (16:26):
The good good. So that so last Friday, dude and
I came home and in my head, I'm like, I
feel like death. All I want to do is put
on my pajamas and lay in bed like literally till
I fall asleep tonight. And I'm like, but this is
this would be a clear sign that this is party day.
This is party day. And he didn't even broach the
(16:48):
subject because he knows what I'm going.
Speaker 4 (16:51):
Maybe he's disappointed in you for stopping smoking weed.
Speaker 3 (16:55):
Now he's alone down.
Speaker 4 (16:56):
Yeah, he rehabs for quitters.
Speaker 1 (16:58):
Guy, did that kind of affect you in a certain way,
like like like you know, like obviously you didn't want it,
but also does it make you feel like why doesn't
he want it?
Speaker 2 (17:09):
It's it was mixed feelings because it was partially that
being you know, just me.
Speaker 1 (17:14):
And be normally he wouldn't care he didn't care if
you were sick. Oh, he didn't care. I mean, he
wanted it no matter what.
Speaker 2 (17:20):
Yeah, Like I would actually have to be like vomiting
for him to be like and even then we've heard
there was.
Speaker 1 (17:25):
Some vomit sex going on, remember that.
Speaker 2 (17:26):
After after Yeah, so, so it was a mix between
being like, oh, he's not even into me anymore. But
then I kind of took the turn of like, wow,
maybe we're maturing hashtag old to the point where like
he now gets that if your partner's not feeling well,
(17:48):
like you just gotta suck it up. Do you really
think that I'm hoping? I mean, because what's the other option,
you know what I mean? Like I I don't. I
don't know.
Speaker 1 (17:57):
But maybe Gladys is giving it up at the old
foe she's smoking with him.
Speaker 3 (18:08):
Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (18:12):
Oh my god, that fucked up. Yeah. So yeah, so
I and we didn't really speak of it, honestly, because
I know I.
Speaker 3 (18:21):
Was just gonna say and then I didn't say it
because it's so stupid to say. I was gonna say,
why don't you guys just talk about it?
Speaker 2 (18:26):
You know?
Speaker 3 (18:27):
But I didn't say that.
Speaker 2 (18:28):
Well, no, because we don't talk about things, so you're right,
it wouldn't be a conversation. But I'm just surprised he
didn't even broach the subject and be like, hey, are
you feeling up to it today? And then I'd have
to be like, no, I'm sorry, like I know this sucks,
blah blah blah blah. But that didn't even happen. He
like didn't even try so, so I don't know. I
don't know, like are we maturing? Is he like going
(18:51):
through low tee? Maybe maybe he's changing to you, maybe
anore that that would be the dream, that would be
the dream.
Speaker 1 (19:00):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (19:01):
So it's it's a weird time. But I'm seeing the
doctor today. I've made two pages of notes for real
of like everything that's been going on like the last
like three years, like like and even like a random
ship from like that weird fucking toenail that fell off
to this like bump I have behind my ear?
Speaker 3 (19:20):
Can you imagine?
Speaker 1 (19:21):
I like it?
Speaker 2 (19:22):
I was thinking on my drive in this morning, I
should have told them to like clear his schedule for
the day. This is going to be a lot for him.
But but I am proud.
Speaker 1 (19:32):
You know, when you have an old dog and you
just put it down, make it easier.
Speaker 2 (19:36):
I don't know what that has, what
So Sky kind of dropped a mini bombshell on us
during the show this morning. I wasn't aware. We knew
she's going through these health things and that she may
try to wean herself off of the weed, the daily
smoking of the weed that she's been doing, she says,
since she was.
Speaker 2 (00:17):
Thirteen mile every day.
Speaker 1 (00:22):
So we knew that that was sort of going to
be happening, but she let us know that today. She
told us that she has quit hold Turkey and that
was a stunning development. And so because of that, she's
going through some stuff, including it's affecting the sex life.
(00:43):
We ain't done yet.
Speaker 2 (00:46):
Podcast over a year, completely uncensored and unacting filtered except
for that part the show's after show starts.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
Now, let's just say Sky's a mess. Sky has been
a mess for a little while now, and so's she's
she's trying trying to figure things out, and you know,
one of the things that she has decided again, this
is sort of on her own. There's not a lot
of doctors that are telling her what's up. Hopefully you're
gonna get those answers, but on her own, she's like, well,
(01:22):
smoking weed every day is probably not the best for
you anymore. Yeah, you know, you're you're approaching the big five,
oh soon, and so you know, I mean, what's we doing?
Speaker 2 (01:33):
We still have forty nine first to get to.
Speaker 1 (01:35):
What's we doing? Okay, and we ain't a kid anymore?
Sky eight and a half No, no, thank you. It's
even further.
Speaker 2 (01:43):
Than that now, okay, and like a couple of like
a week hids okay.
Speaker 1 (01:47):
So yes, So that's one of the things you said.
All right, well, I got to start weaning myself off
of this because clearly this may affect my health or whatever.
Speaker 2 (01:55):
Well, yeah, like I mean, I've been eating like a
college student, like pretty much all of twenty twenty six,
I've been eating like a college student. I haven't been
working out at all except for like a walk around
the block.
Speaker 3 (02:08):
And yeah.
Speaker 2 (02:09):
The weed, the weed, the weed, the weed. The weed
started when I was thirteen, and you know it was
it was daily, but a lot weed.
Speaker 1 (02:19):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (02:20):
Look, I think I smoked when I was like fifteen.
Speaker 4 (02:22):
How did you get money for it?
Speaker 3 (02:23):
It was once it was like a couple of times
a week.
Speaker 2 (02:25):
Oh really, Like that was that's a wild Yeah, I
don't know, Like I honestly never had to buy it.
Like a lot of like, okay, I didn't whoa low
jobs for we this isn't New Jack City, bro, because
it was really.
Speaker 4 (02:40):
Expensive to say, you didn't have to buy it? How
fuck were you getting it?
Speaker 2 (02:44):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (02:45):
Okay, no, I I know Feen, she seemed like she
was a little PROMI.
Speaker 4 (02:52):
Didn't you lose your didn't you lose your Virginia twelteen
fifty twelve fifteen?
Speaker 2 (02:56):
So why dim bag back?
Speaker 1 (03:02):
No?
Speaker 2 (03:02):
Like my girlfriends, a lot of them had older brothers
and they always had weeds.
Speaker 4 (03:08):
Yes, so yeah, crazy. I would never and I would
never share our weed with.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
Our sisters friends. Yeah.
Speaker 4 (03:18):
Yeah, we would never do that.
Speaker 2 (03:21):
Yeah, and it was wide yeah.
Speaker 1 (03:25):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (03:26):
And I remember the early days of improvising because like
we would even like cut like god, so stupid as
a fucking kid. So I'm a cheerleader or maybe I'm
on dance team at this point, I don't really know,
but either way, I'm wearing a full on fucking school
uniform that has the name of the school. I'm in
the little skirt. And we would cut school and go
(03:47):
behind the taco bell around the corner and then if
somebody forgot their pipe, you know, you'd have to improvise.
First choice would be an apple or a pizza shirt.
But if you don't have anything like that, then we'd
go coke hand or something like that. And looking like
that's so fucking gross, like smoking out of a coke.
Speaker 3 (04:05):
Can do what you got to do.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
But I guess, yeah, you're you're a kid. You don't
know any different. But yeah, all my.
Speaker 4 (04:09):
Friendsader yeah, nothing was going on, guys.
Speaker 2 (04:14):
So yeah, all my friends always had it. And then
like right when I turned fifteen, I started dating this
guy who was a total fucking burnout alcoholic. I know,
really really good, good good call on me. Yeah, sounds
like I'm sure my parents were you guys, I'll remember
my gangbanger face show and so yeah, So he would
(04:35):
always have it, and then he would like buy it
for me too, like when it got to the point
where I wanted my own, then he would go and
he'd buy like two eighths and give me one, and
then he would so many. And then when I came
down to go to college and I was part of
the first freshman class at Hell State San Marcos. Thank
(04:56):
you very much, thank you very so cougars, very prestigious. Yeah,
my one of my friends had and this is also
really gross and something I regret had a hook up
in TJ and because Emily, the people in TJ wear
has mad suits to pick the weed, which I would
(05:17):
then smoke and put directly into my lungs, like if
it's covered in so much fucking shit, Like I eat
organic fruit now right, like I won't even eat non
organic fruit, and thinking that, I'm like, no, it doesn't.
But yeah, I remember one time my freshman year in college,
my girlfriend was able to score a pound and that
(05:38):
was fucking crazy. Like we literally were so proud and
we covered our entire dining table in our apartment and
we're like taking pictures with it, like.
Speaker 1 (05:48):
Like those don't get released.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
Right, like we're fucking cool or something like looking back
on it.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
Is so Carl, what is going on?
Speaker 2 (05:55):
Oh my god, the amount of seeds and stems that
were in our like like well, you'd vacuum the carpet
and it would be like you were vacuuming a carpet
full of marbles because there were so many seeds and stems.
I know. Yeah, time bunk ship, so yeah, So I
(06:19):
mean I.
Speaker 1 (06:21):
Going on for a long time. Yeah, And so to
hear you've quit cold turkey is actually kind of crazy.
Speaker 2 (06:27):
Yeah, that's kind of because I've only like really quit once.
I've like kicked back for a while, being like, Okay,
if you're waking up in the middle of the night
and hitting a bowl, that's probably a bad idea. So
occasionally I would like kick back and try and dial
it back a little bit. But the only other time
I've quit is when I was trying to get pregnant,
and then you know, when I was pregnant, and that's
(06:50):
just kind of yeah, bummer, I can't say the boos.
Speaker 1 (07:00):
Because that was.
Speaker 2 (07:00):
Blow I was when I was pregnant. You said that
you did it, that was you.
Speaker 3 (07:08):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (07:09):
So so that's kind of the only way I know
how to do it because I feel like and I
feel like it's the same way with you know, desserts
and sugar and things like that. If I allow myself
a taste, then I'll start making excuses. And so just
the way I roll, I just got to go cold
turkey or I know it's not going to stick and
(07:29):
it sucks and it's really hard.
Speaker 1 (07:31):
But I'm like you were you were like death today.
Speaker 4 (07:34):
Yeah, you were brutal. I mean, it was you in
the breakroom hard. I've known you for fifteen years. I've
never seen Sky in the break room.
Speaker 1 (07:43):
Laying down, laying down.
Speaker 2 (07:44):
This is what I shook, what I looked like, walked by.
Speaker 1 (07:49):
That's not good, Sky, that's not good. I stopped.
Speaker 4 (07:51):
Hey, Okay, head back then.
Speaker 1 (07:56):
You know it's bad.
Speaker 4 (07:57):
You usually wouldn't care.
Speaker 2 (07:58):
But I honestly feel like I've been better today compared
to like lately talked.
Speaker 4 (08:02):
About the time.
Speaker 1 (08:03):
Okay, yeah, I don't know about that. I didn't notice
you're in rough shape.
Speaker 2 (08:08):
Oh yeah, yeah, I felt like yesterday was it was
the worst of it all. But I thought I did
pretty well on the air today. Oh yeah, No, I
thought my energy was okay. Off the air not so much,
but so so yeah. So I wasn't planning not quitting
smoking weed, but it just turned out that once I
got all this like blood work back, I felt like, like,
(08:31):
don't be stupid. You know too equals plus two?
Speaker 1 (08:34):
No, see what I mean? It's definitely affected.
Speaker 2 (08:40):
Yeah yeah, so the jump food the weed. Clearly if
you're having problems with your heart, with your blood with
like I mean, I think we know where we need
to start.
Speaker 4 (08:50):
So yeah, about okay, what about alcohol.
Speaker 1 (08:53):
She hasn't been drinking.
Speaker 4 (08:54):
I'm just wondering, like, are you gonna are you gonna
not drink? I'm not saying ever again, but are you
gonna not drink for a little while until body like
levels out with some of the stuff you have going on.
Speaker 2 (09:02):
I haven't been because it makes me feel sick and
I can't and I can't sleep, and I get like.
Speaker 4 (09:07):
So you're so you're so you're sober sober right now?
Speaker 2 (09:10):
Yeah, I haven't had a drink from California. I mean, okay,
it doesn't think that's so cool.
Speaker 4 (09:23):
So yeah, what yeah, guys, stone cold sober.
Speaker 2 (09:29):
Yeah. And when I tried to get pregnant and quit
smoking back then that was like my go to because
I've never really been a big drinker except for COVID
that turned me into a drinker for a year or so.
But yeah, so back when I was trying to get pregnant,
I stopped smoking, but I would have like a glass
of wine at night.
Speaker 4 (09:46):
Switching addiction.
Speaker 2 (09:47):
Yeah, exactly exactly. And then once I like got the
positive pregnancy testage, then yeah yeah, and then then but
this time, like, yeah, alcohol, which is sad. I'm sorry
to say this. Emily, I'll call it makes me feel sick, like.
Speaker 4 (10:04):
It makes Emily feel sick too, but usually are at
like two am. It's a different different, different times different
if you don't got it about to sack if I
don't have alcohol.
Speaker 1 (10:14):
Alright, sorry, yeah, so yes, this is a big change, obviously.
Speaker 2 (10:18):
And I thought you guys knew I was doing this,
so either you do.
Speaker 1 (10:21):
You said you were weaning off. Yeah, I believe you.
Speaker 2 (10:24):
Yeah, that's what I that's it. This morning when I
said it and saw all your shocked faces, I'm like,
these motherfuckers didn't believe me.
Speaker 4 (10:32):
No, maybe.
Speaker 1 (10:35):
That's all, which which is kind of what you said.
You said you were gonna cut down and you were
going to try to maybe wean yourself off and slowly whatever,
and that was the last we had heard.
Speaker 4 (10:45):
And you've said this before, like, well.
Speaker 2 (10:48):
I said I would cut back back before, which I have,
but I've never said I got to give it up.
Speaker 1 (10:52):
And so I was cutting back though for you was
like five times a day.
Speaker 4 (10:55):
It was like you're cutting back to like twice a week.
You're still spoke every so that's not cutting back in
my eyes. So this is crazy.
Speaker 2 (11:03):
Yeah, And I had hoped I could go to gummies,
but hum may. Yeah, it turns out, based on research,
gummies jack up your heart just as yeah, she's not good.
Speaker 3 (11:14):
For your I mean, I just thought it was the
smoking part.
Speaker 2 (11:16):
I did too. I honestly did too. And in my mind,
I'm like, oh, I'll just become an edibles bitch, you know,
I'll just be one of those I take the edibles.
Speaker 1 (11:24):
What do you have to say it like that?
Speaker 2 (11:25):
I don't know, because I feel like, because I know
a lot of.
Speaker 1 (11:27):
People who do edibles act like that.
Speaker 2 (11:29):
All the women in La Joya, you do want an edible?
Speaker 1 (11:32):
That's how they talk.
Speaker 2 (11:33):
Yeah, that's how I feel it because they've already had
a bottle of wine when we're offering it. So so yeah,
so I kind of thought that was going to be
like my in between thing, but it turns out no,
not that either. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (11:46):
Well, because of these big changes, and obviously because you
haven't been feeling good, this has affected the sex life.
Oh like, we haven't heard about any of your romps
or anything like that in a really long time. Yeah.
I was assuming it was still going on, but no, no, no,
what's this man doing?
Speaker 2 (12:07):
A poor bastard, like his hands must be raw.
Speaker 1 (12:11):
I hope it's his hand. Geek is it? Is it
sneaking and geeking? And if if you know you have
if we've talked about this before that if you're if
your loved one is like in a coma, you know,
if they're in a coma and they're they're basically brain dead.
(12:32):
I mean you heard the two plus two. Okay, they're
basically brain dead. You're still taking care of them, you know,
I'm still doing. But I mean I got needs to like,
am I not allowed to still? You know, to go
out there and maybe have a good time. No, you're married,
she's like your wife is brain dead? Okay, this is worse,
(12:54):
Like I don't know what. She's dead all over the place,
so you know.
Speaker 2 (12:57):
I might as well vas not dead. Well, it has
gone numb recently, but that was just from sitting too long.
I got I got a lower back thing and a
lot of information undercarriage. Please stop, I'll bring it up
to the doctor. It's on my notes. It's on my
notes to bring up to the doctor.
Speaker 1 (13:17):
Weird.
Speaker 2 (13:17):
Uh yeah, so no, well, and no, he's not you know,
sneaking and geekon Well we know, well, I mean normally
I guess you don't know if someone it's in the
name sneaking. Yeah, I hope not. But yeah, this is
pretty fucking wild for us because, as we've has been
well documented, the boos a horny pervert.
Speaker 1 (13:38):
Okay, you know, does just make it perfect? Well, well
he has some tendencies, some perfect just like like sex.
Speaker 4 (13:47):
Well, yeah, he likes sex, but sober sky sex, that's
the thing. Maybe he's out on.
Speaker 2 (13:53):
That, dude. I'm not seriously, I'm not disagreeing.
Speaker 4 (13:59):
Last time you had sex sober?
Speaker 1 (14:01):
Who ever?
Speaker 4 (14:03):
That that can't be true? Ever, give me one time pregnant.
Speaker 2 (14:11):
Like do you count we eat a sober Oh okay?
Then then when I was pregnant, Wow, because I just
smoke weed everything.
Speaker 4 (14:20):
You were to have sex now with your husband sober,
how would this go down?
Speaker 1 (14:25):
Look at her? Look at a face.
Speaker 4 (14:28):
So you walk into a room, there's an outfit laid
out for you.
Speaker 2 (14:31):
And sober boy on yeah around Yeah, because normally I
don't know, because normally I'm so drunk that it's like
like there's you know, time isn't a thing. Time isn't
it When you're sober, It's like, God, got sober, We're
still doing this what's happening? So yeah, So I just
(14:53):
slowly kind of started feeling worse and worse, and and
then on top of it, we didn't really have many opportunities.
And then I knew, like we hit a new spot
in our relationship that I don't know if it's like
a more mature thing that I should be thankful for,
or if it's just sad or if this is driving
my husband to cheat. But last Friday, my daughter was
(15:17):
gone all day, so from when I got home from work,
she didn't get home till ten pm that night, so
we had the house to our usually it's a Friday. Yeah,
I come home, the spas warmed up. He's got a
tail in the shaker, like he's oh yeah, yeah, banana hammock.
(15:38):
He's probably like gone to the club and bought like
some high end like joints or something.
Speaker 1 (15:43):
Remember we heard like she wears lingerie in the spat
of times bizarre in the middle.
Speaker 4 (15:49):
Of the day, so worried that the laing.
Speaker 2 (15:54):
You only go with some of the older stuff that's
been washed multiple times. Yeah, I'm yeah, I feel the
same way.
Speaker 4 (16:01):
Get what's the club to get high end joints? Is
that like a weed place, yeah.
Speaker 2 (16:05):
Like a weed club, like a like a dispensary.
Speaker 1 (16:09):
Theom okay, it's not whatever.
Speaker 2 (16:12):
No, Yeah, so he would go and buy like the
like top shelf stuff that they like roll in Keith
on the outside. Yeah. Yeah, that's like the goal because
he knows that's when he gets the good set.
Speaker 1 (16:24):
But now.
Speaker 2 (16:26):
The good good. So that so last Friday, dude and
I came home and in my head, I'm like, I
feel like death. All I want to do is put
on my pajamas and lay in bed like literally till
I fall asleep tonight. And I'm like, but this is
this would be a clear sign that this is party day.
This is party day. And he didn't even broach the
(16:48):
subject because he knows what I'm going.
Speaker 4 (16:51):
Maybe he's disappointed in you for stopping smoking weed.
Speaker 3 (16:55):
Now he's alone down.
Speaker 4 (16:56):
Yeah, he rehabs for quitters.
Speaker 1 (16:58):
Guy, did that kind of affect you in a certain way,
like like like you know, like obviously you didn't want it,
but also does it make you feel like why doesn't
he want it?
Speaker 2 (17:09):
It's it was mixed feelings because it was partially that
being you know, just me.
Speaker 1 (17:14):
And be normally he wouldn't care he didn't care if
you were sick. Oh, he didn't care. I mean, he
wanted it no matter what.
Speaker 2 (17:20):
Yeah, Like I would actually have to be like vomiting
for him to be like and even then we've heard
there was.
Speaker 1 (17:25):
Some vomit sex going on, remember that.
Speaker 2 (17:26):
After after Yeah, so, so it was a mix between
being like, oh, he's not even into me anymore. But
then I kind of took the turn of like, wow,
maybe we're maturing hashtag old to the point where like
he now gets that if your partner's not feeling well,
(17:48):
like you just gotta suck it up. Do you really
think that I'm hoping? I mean, because what's the other option,
you know what I mean? Like I I don't. I
don't know.
Speaker 1 (17:57):
But maybe Gladys is giving it up at the old
foe she's smoking with him.
Speaker 3 (18:08):
Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (18:12):
Oh my god, that fucked up. Yeah. So yeah, so
I and we didn't really speak of it, honestly, because
I know I.
Speaker 3 (18:21):
Was just gonna say and then I didn't say it
because it's so stupid to say. I was gonna say,
why don't you guys just talk about it?
Speaker 2 (18:26):
You know?
Speaker 3 (18:27):
But I didn't say that.
Speaker 2 (18:28):
Well, no, because we don't talk about things, so you're right,
it wouldn't be a conversation. But I'm just surprised he
didn't even broach the subject and be like, hey, are
you feeling up to it today? And then I'd have
to be like, no, I'm sorry, like I know this sucks,
blah blah blah blah. But that didn't even happen. He
like didn't even try so, so I don't know. I
don't know, like are we maturing? Is he like going
(18:51):
through low tee? Maybe maybe he's changing to you, maybe
anore that that would be the dream, that would be
the dream.
Speaker 1 (19:00):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (19:01):
So it's it's a weird time. But I'm seeing the
doctor today. I've made two pages of notes for real
of like everything that's been going on like the last
like three years, like like and even like a random
ship from like that weird fucking toenail that fell off
to this like bump I have behind my ear?
Speaker 3 (19:20):
Can you imagine?
Speaker 1 (19:21):
I like it?
Speaker 2 (19:22):
I was thinking on my drive in this morning, I
should have told them to like clear his schedule for
the day. This is going to be a lot for him.
But but I am proud.
Speaker 1 (19:32):
You know, when you have an old dog and you
just put it down, make it easier.
Speaker 2 (19:36):
I don't know what that has, what
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