April 29, 2026 • 16 mins
We all know Sky's past with her husband and being a mistress... We we found a study about the top safe words that they may have used because they are the top safe words used by the BDSM community
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Do you guys remember when Sky was a mistress? Can
I forget what a time? Well?
Speaker 2 (00:05):
That probably caused of her help.
Speaker 1 (00:07):
Do you think so? Like can you get allergic to leather?
Speaker 3 (00:11):
That?
Speaker 1 (00:12):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (00:14):
All the pills that he used to pour.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
Drinks, the ball gag, Yeah.
Speaker 1 (00:18):
Everything used to put in there get you. It finally
caught through her body.
Speaker 2 (00:22):
Wow, okay, it could only be cosy so many times
I think dark times, dark times.
Speaker 1 (00:30):
Yes, Sky, weirdly enough, was really into B D s M.
Speaker 2 (00:35):
I was not.
Speaker 1 (00:37):
Her husband was. This was this is what he's into.
And so Sky dabbled for a minute, tried to get
in there. Remember there was other ways doing flip pain.
So this was a time. This was a time in
our lives, which is hard to believe. So I guess
we now. Sky, I don't know if you were pulled
in this, but they have come out with what are
(00:57):
the top safe words for people who were into torture? O?
Speaker 3 (01:01):
God, we ain't done yet.
Speaker 1 (01:04):
It's time for the podcast.
Speaker 2 (01:08):
Year completely uncensored and unacting, filtered except for that part.
Speaker 3 (01:14):
The the show's after show starts.
Speaker 1 (01:19):
Now the Sky, can't you take us back to this time?
Speaker 3 (01:22):
I don't want it?
Speaker 1 (01:23):
You were supposed to be Catwoman.
Speaker 3 (01:27):
This is where it all started. This is where my
husband not true.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
Not true, But it's has been a attempt by your
husband for years.
Speaker 3 (01:36):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
Remember he bought to nipple clamps before, and there was
there's been some like him trying to dabble in there
for a while, but this was the first time you
kind of participated.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
But just freaky lauingderie too, the years ago, years and
years ago lingerie.
Speaker 3 (01:53):
It's basically just strings. It's not even like lingerie.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
Pretty like lacy launch show, like the like the used
stuff that Emily buys.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
No, that was pretty, that was on it.
Speaker 2 (02:05):
Was pretty and lacy. It's just like it used. Yeah,
it was black. It did get it from good.
Speaker 3 (02:14):
Yeah. But but it was that birthday catwoman request that
really amped things up because I think because when he
got the nipple clamps when we were at a Disney
resort for Valentine.
Speaker 2 (02:28):
Day, is that Tooky Mouselnie.
Speaker 3 (02:31):
Yeah, we were at Lonnie.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
They were Mickey and Goofy.
Speaker 3 (02:34):
They were they were pinching, they were Disney characters. They
were like they were like butters.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
Every time you pinched it. Every time you pinched it, it
would say, oh, boy.
Speaker 2 (02:44):
It wouldn't.
Speaker 3 (02:44):
It wouldn't give a little pinch. Was absolutely creepy. Okay,
I don't like vickey goofy things.
Speaker 2 (02:56):
Yeah the pinch, Yeah, that was bother. Okay, can you stop?
Speaker 3 (03:03):
That was a wild Valentine's snake gift. I didn't see coming,
nor did I appreciate nor use Did you try him out?
Speaker 1 (03:10):
No?
Speaker 2 (03:12):
I don't got to sit right there. You don't give
him a clamp. I'd be interested to see what it
felt like.
Speaker 1 (03:17):
Well, you would up a little bit before you can.
Speaker 2 (03:20):
Want nipple clamps because when I pinched this nipple, my
left nipple is an inverted nipple from breastfeeding, and I
have to pinch it to get it to come out,
And so I would kind of like that. Maybe I
should just walk around with the constant. That's weird, to
be honest. But you still have those I.
Speaker 3 (03:36):
Don't know, I might like he may have kept them
thinking someday. Of course, they're probably in some fucking drawer somewhere,
so if I if I dig them out, I'll send them.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
Your way, thank you.
Speaker 3 (03:46):
So yeah, but catwoman for the birthday, because it was
like a birthday at a hotel. And then I was
like Okay, you know, I'm gonna like buy some special lingerie.
Is there anything any And that's when he dropped cat Woman,
which uh, these guys here on the show translated for
me really means like leather dominatrix type because.
Speaker 1 (04:08):
You didn't really get like a catwoman outfit, you got
a catwoman adjacent outfit.
Speaker 2 (04:14):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (04:14):
Yeah, it wasn't like a costume that said like Catwoman.
It was like a pleathar fucking suit.
Speaker 1 (04:21):
Whips changed the whole thing.
Speaker 3 (04:23):
Well, and other ways to inflict pain.
Speaker 1 (04:26):
Is that that night or was that a different night?
I think that was a.
Speaker 2 (04:28):
Different I think that was sure that was that.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
I think it was a different night because that was
the beginning, and then it got crazier and crazier, and
then finally it ended up with Sky grinding her heel
in other ways.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
To inflict pain.
Speaker 1 (04:40):
Ball Sack, which as if like she was into it, Yeah,
like she was proud of her Yeah.
Speaker 3 (04:47):
Yeah, she was sitting in front of her bush showing
showing there's a lot.
Speaker 1 (04:56):
Of pleasuah and she was like she, for me, that
clip is as cool as her guns n' roses, cool as.
Speaker 3 (05:08):
It's very cool. Yeah, So that that really opened the
door to him, then slowly every time, trying to amp
it up a little bit. I remember one occasion, I
don't know which it was, but again, these are always
hotel stays when this happened.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
Is that why you guys can't do any Uh?
Speaker 3 (05:30):
Yeah, can't?
Speaker 2 (05:31):
It gets too crazy, He gets insane. I can't.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
That doesn't have an organ right, No.
Speaker 3 (05:35):
No, you haven't even have sex in the organ house.
What but our daughter's there the rooms organ house. They
don't shower, they don't shave.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
We do shower, so you don't shave.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
Well, I don't shave here really normally I'm going to
like the beach or something. So so yeah, so that
really opened the door. And then you know, there were
times he tried to push it a little too much.
I remember one hotel stay where he laid out like
I think it's it's called a flogger, a little like
horse whipper thing.
Speaker 2 (06:13):
I don't know. It's like a little paddle with the fringe.
Speaker 3 (06:17):
No no, no, friend, Like.
Speaker 1 (06:20):
It's like spikes on it.
Speaker 3 (06:22):
There's spikes. It's just like a stick with like a
little paddle on the end. Okay, I don't know, all right,
And so he put that and I got uh uh no.
Speaker 2 (06:31):
Can't give a little spake.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
No, Scott, he's the bad boy. Yeah he has. He
called you mistress that one.
Speaker 2 (06:41):
Okay, yes, I'd rather get the.
Speaker 1 (06:42):
Spank, but she's the domination.
Speaker 2 (06:45):
Okay, you you don't have to do it hard. You
could just do a little one.
Speaker 1 (06:54):
Just to get your you know, but then he won't
want that.
Speaker 2 (06:58):
He wants it.
Speaker 1 (06:58):
You just do it harder. I've been very bad, that creepy.
Speaker 3 (07:04):
That's what was going on, I know, but I haven't
like it, had.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
A bottle of Vodkas. It's a while and it's been.
Speaker 1 (07:10):
A while, so going to this dark time.
Speaker 3 (07:12):
Yeah, I'm very sober right now for this conversation. So yeah,
so I wasn't an introduce. I can't be the aggressor.
I can't be the instigator. I'm the passive sexual one
in this relationship. So so for him to think I
could ever tie him up or use that little paddle
thing like no, like where like me grinding the heel,
(07:36):
that's fucking insane.
Speaker 1 (07:37):
It really was.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
That's like to comment, is less aggressive than riding my heels?
Speaker 1 (07:43):
I would I don't know. Somebody kicking me in the
balls is way worse. Than getting a spank.
Speaker 2 (07:48):
I don't I know, that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (07:49):
I think.
Speaker 3 (07:52):
Than just a little like spak yet and for a
little uh bts. Behind the scenes, the heel grind happened accidentally.
Speaker 1 (08:02):
We know you kind of explained your foot was there,
and then there was you didn't realize, and then the heel.
Speaker 3 (08:10):
So it's so so again I'm the passive one, like
you've got to move my heel to the mall, sat
but me spanking, me, tying up me putting.
Speaker 1 (08:21):
Can you just put the paddle out and him move
his butt, tape.
Speaker 3 (08:28):
It to a door, jay.
Speaker 2 (08:31):
Back into Okay, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (08:32):
This isn't what he's looking for, definitely. So there was
some dabbling of Sky in the b D s M world,
which is crazy, Like if you've known Sky over the years,
that's the last thing you would have ever expected. You
kind of opened up a little bit. She was asexual
a million percent. So that was the apex. And now
(08:53):
we are in.
Speaker 2 (08:54):
Death felty, he speaks about it.
Speaker 1 (08:57):
It's gone at that time. Can you imagine putting on
enough right now?
Speaker 3 (09:02):
Like right now it it crosses me out. Back then
I kind of felt a little sexy and maybe a
tiny bit empowered, a little bad bitch. Yeah, but like
now I'm just like i'd be creeped out, like I
can't do too much.
Speaker 1 (09:14):
I don't know. Boo's listening to this right now and
part of him.
Speaker 2 (09:18):
Died probably coming down.
Speaker 1 (09:21):
Sorry dude, Sorry you were almost there.
Speaker 3 (09:23):
Yefent different times in our life.
Speaker 1 (09:26):
So yeah, much baby oil wasted. So when I hear
that there is a pull out of the top safe
words used by people in this world, I have to ask,
was there ever some sort of safe word that you
had with the Boo where it was like, all right,
(09:47):
this is too much Instead of yeo bro, gotta stamp
or whatever you know, that was yo broad.
Speaker 3 (10:00):
No, just the word no, no, thank you.
Speaker 1 (10:04):
That's not happening to bt s M. That no means
yes it does.
Speaker 2 (10:08):
Yeah, I know, I don't really know.
Speaker 1 (10:10):
I don't really know how no no more, what is
yo bro mean? It's immediately you know, penis is.
Speaker 3 (10:19):
So No, we never had a need for a safe
word because, like I.
Speaker 1 (10:24):
Said, just stop.
Speaker 3 (10:25):
Yeah. Well, and also it's never gotten to the point
where like one of us I feel like you need
a safe word when you're tied up or like bound
or something.
Speaker 1 (10:34):
I think that's part of it. But part of it
is if you're going too far, if you're hitting too hard,
if you're if you're a little too hard of a choke.
You know what I'm saying, conscious is a little bit
you know, start to go out and you're gonna go sorry,
what you know, get back in your senses. So those
that's you can use it for a lot of different ways.
Speaker 3 (10:54):
Okay, Yeah, I'm not into choking, so never been choking.
Speaker 2 (10:58):
Yeah, he good choke choke.
Speaker 3 (11:01):
He tried to hair pull once.
Speaker 2 (11:03):
Not too hard of a choke though, No, you could
choke too hard and it's not Yeah, I don't want
any choke. I don't hand light choke.
Speaker 1 (11:09):
I don't think you tried the hair put I think
he probably went to grab your hair and then it
got stuck.
Speaker 3 (11:14):
I don't think it's hand hank it out.
Speaker 2 (11:17):
He's running around the house, man, okay, with my head.
Speaker 3 (11:22):
Ripped, my head off my body and he's running.
Speaker 2 (11:24):
Around the house.
Speaker 1 (11:25):
Give my head back, row can not and.
Speaker 3 (11:28):
It's still there, Like what is going on on? Bro
Okay again, I don't sound like that. No, that never happened.
Speaker 1 (11:39):
Sure, pineapple bro okay.
Speaker 3 (11:45):
And pineapple from because I have the pineapple reference.
Speaker 2 (11:49):
I don't know the first thing I thought about.
Speaker 3 (11:51):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (11:51):
That's always like the go to safe for it. I think,
I don't know if it's from something.
Speaker 2 (11:55):
I think it was from something.
Speaker 1 (11:57):
It might be, it might be I I don't know.
I just always know and that that's like the go
to safe fork. Yeah, pineapple, pineapple, pineapple?
Speaker 2 (12:03):
Totally.
Speaker 3 (12:04):
Do you have to say it three times?
Speaker 1 (12:06):
That's how you know, like we're being serious here? You
say it once, a little bit more choked, a little bit.
Speaker 3 (12:13):
More choked, like stop it. Okay, okay, yeah, pretty pretty wild.
But no, we've never had the need nor the discussion
of a safe work.
Speaker 1 (12:26):
If you had to pick one, what would your go
to safe word be?
Speaker 2 (12:31):
I mean, I guess pineapple.
Speaker 3 (12:32):
You can't be pineapple, be a little bit more creative
apple peaches?
Speaker 2 (12:38):
Are we doing?
Speaker 1 (12:39):
We are really doing? For sweet potato?
Speaker 3 (12:46):
Bro? Stop, I'm like March Simpson after she's been smoking.
Speaker 1 (12:53):
You're one of her sisters.
Speaker 3 (12:55):
You're one of the sisters and express bro that's a
safe one.
Speaker 1 (13:01):
Wow.
Speaker 3 (13:02):
Okay, yeah, No, I don't I don't even know where
to go with that because I just I mean, yeah, whatever,
it could be anything, but it's never going to be
in play, so it does.
Speaker 1 (13:10):
Well, maybe this will help. Then you can listen to
the top safe words and then maybe pick one.
Speaker 2 (13:15):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (13:16):
So they did a poll of the what is it
b DSM community and I don't know where they find
these people a website or whatever, a convention, and they
came up with the top ten safe words that people use,
and they're all fucking over the place. Really, it's not
just fruit. No, it's not just fruits, you guys. Contrary
(13:37):
to what we icorn.
Speaker 2 (13:39):
That's a good one.
Speaker 3 (13:41):
I don't know why, because it should probably be a
word that you don't.
Speaker 1 (13:44):
You don't normally use, and why would you say it
in that spot unless you need help?
Speaker 3 (13:48):
Yeah, okay, help, that's weird.
Speaker 2 (13:51):
Okay.
Speaker 3 (13:52):
So here are people's top ten safe words. Number ten, ukulele.
Speaker 1 (13:57):
There you go.
Speaker 2 (13:58):
That's a long need to be quicker and.
Speaker 3 (14:01):
I'm drunk, like I'm slurring the ship?
Speaker 2 (14:05):
Did you say?
Speaker 1 (14:06):
And I can't say too much?
Speaker 2 (14:09):
Too much?
Speaker 3 (14:10):
Number nine, I guess is it a fruit? No? Avocado?
Speaker 1 (14:15):
Oh, that's a fruit. It's a fruit.
Speaker 3 (14:18):
Fruit there, okay, avocado, you guys.
Speaker 2 (14:21):
I feel like that's something I might yell out when
I'm having sex? Is I like so much.
Speaker 1 (14:27):
In my mouth?
Speaker 3 (14:30):
What? Number eight most common safe word eddie obi wan kenoby.
Speaker 1 (14:36):
Oh my god, that would turn me on. Like, okay,
every time you finishes out a Star Wars, you really
do you.
Speaker 2 (14:57):
Yell that out?
Speaker 3 (14:58):
Okay? Okay, we're number seven. Top safe word submarine.
Speaker 1 (15:04):
Okay.
Speaker 3 (15:05):
Number six Afghanistan.
Speaker 1 (15:08):
That's gross, not yelling that out. Okay.
Speaker 3 (15:16):
Number five speak at you.
Speaker 1 (15:19):
It's too cute. It's too cute, like we got some
weird ship going on right now. Like I'm not yelling
at Pikachu. It's too weird, too weird, too close to
like children? Yeah, great, find them all?
Speaker 2 (15:31):
Okay.
Speaker 3 (15:32):
Number four safe word abra, cadabra.
Speaker 1 (15:36):
This is bizarre.
Speaker 2 (15:37):
Serious about the people that.
Speaker 1 (15:42):
You well for? My husband a creepzoid?
Speaker 2 (15:46):
That's true, that's true.
Speaker 1 (15:49):
Okay.
Speaker 3 (15:50):
Number three Jumanji.
Speaker 1 (15:52):
That's not bad. Three times you screw could be in trouble.
Speaker 3 (15:57):
Okay, so be careful with that one. Number two safe
word Oklahoma.
Speaker 1 (16:03):
All right, that one makes sense because again, why would
you ever yell out Oklahoma unless you're in a drill
or you know, football. Yeah, if you're paying ment, well
then that's good. I'm stopping.
Speaker 3 (16:12):
Okay, your brain go somewhere else, okay, all right, And
according to the b D s M community, the number
one top safe word out there is trust.
Speaker 1 (16:23):
Nosy, you're making this weird. Trust. Trust.
Speaker 2 (16:28):
Trust.
Speaker 1 (16:31):
So here's what we should do. Let's tie up Sky
right now and see which one fits.
Speaker 2 (16:35):
Let's do it.
Speaker 1 (16:36):
No, do it. Okay,
Do you guys remember when Sky was a mistress? Can
I forget what a time? Well?
Speaker 2 (00:05):
That probably caused of her help.
Speaker 1 (00:07):
Do you think so? Like can you get allergic to leather?
Speaker 3 (00:11):
That?
Speaker 1 (00:12):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (00:14):
All the pills that he used to pour.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
Drinks, the ball gag, Yeah.
Speaker 1 (00:18):
Everything used to put in there get you. It finally
caught through her body.
Speaker 2 (00:22):
Wow, okay, it could only be cosy so many times
I think dark times, dark times.
Speaker 1 (00:30):
Yes, Sky, weirdly enough, was really into B D s M.
Speaker 2 (00:35):
I was not.
Speaker 1 (00:37):
Her husband was. This was this is what he's into.
And so Sky dabbled for a minute, tried to get
in there. Remember there was other ways doing flip pain.
So this was a time. This was a time in
our lives, which is hard to believe. So I guess
we now. Sky, I don't know if you were pulled
in this, but they have come out with what are
(00:57):
the top safe words for people who were into torture? O?
Speaker 3 (01:01):
God, we ain't done yet.
Speaker 1 (01:04):
It's time for the podcast.
Speaker 2 (01:08):
Year completely uncensored and unacting, filtered except for that part.
Speaker 3 (01:14):
The the show's after show starts.
Speaker 1 (01:19):
Now the Sky, can't you take us back to this time?
Speaker 3 (01:22):
I don't want it?
Speaker 1 (01:23):
You were supposed to be Catwoman.
Speaker 3 (01:27):
This is where it all started. This is where my
husband not true.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
Not true, But it's has been a attempt by your
husband for years.
Speaker 3 (01:36):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
Remember he bought to nipple clamps before, and there was
there's been some like him trying to dabble in there
for a while, but this was the first time you
kind of participated.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
But just freaky lauingderie too, the years ago, years and
years ago lingerie.
Speaker 3 (01:53):
It's basically just strings. It's not even like lingerie.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
Pretty like lacy launch show, like the like the used
stuff that Emily buys.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
No, that was pretty, that was on it.
Speaker 2 (02:05):
Was pretty and lacy. It's just like it used. Yeah,
it was black. It did get it from good.
Speaker 3 (02:14):
Yeah. But but it was that birthday catwoman request that
really amped things up because I think because when he
got the nipple clamps when we were at a Disney
resort for Valentine.
Speaker 2 (02:28):
Day, is that Tooky Mouselnie.
Speaker 3 (02:31):
Yeah, we were at Lonnie.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
They were Mickey and Goofy.
Speaker 3 (02:34):
They were they were pinching, they were Disney characters. They
were like they were like butters.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
Every time you pinched it. Every time you pinched it, it
would say, oh, boy.
Speaker 2 (02:44):
It wouldn't.
Speaker 3 (02:44):
It wouldn't give a little pinch. Was absolutely creepy. Okay,
I don't like vickey goofy things.
Speaker 2 (02:56):
Yeah the pinch, Yeah, that was bother. Okay, can you stop?
Speaker 3 (03:03):
That was a wild Valentine's snake gift. I didn't see coming,
nor did I appreciate nor use Did you try him out?
Speaker 1 (03:10):
No?
Speaker 2 (03:12):
I don't got to sit right there. You don't give
him a clamp. I'd be interested to see what it
felt like.
Speaker 1 (03:17):
Well, you would up a little bit before you can.
Speaker 2 (03:20):
Want nipple clamps because when I pinched this nipple, my
left nipple is an inverted nipple from breastfeeding, and I
have to pinch it to get it to come out,
And so I would kind of like that. Maybe I
should just walk around with the constant. That's weird, to
be honest. But you still have those I.
Speaker 3 (03:36):
Don't know, I might like he may have kept them
thinking someday. Of course, they're probably in some fucking drawer somewhere,
so if I if I dig them out, I'll send them.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
Your way, thank you.
Speaker 3 (03:46):
So yeah, but catwoman for the birthday, because it was
like a birthday at a hotel. And then I was
like Okay, you know, I'm gonna like buy some special lingerie.
Is there anything any And that's when he dropped cat Woman,
which uh, these guys here on the show translated for
me really means like leather dominatrix type because.
Speaker 1 (04:08):
You didn't really get like a catwoman outfit, you got
a catwoman adjacent outfit.
Speaker 2 (04:14):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (04:14):
Yeah, it wasn't like a costume that said like Catwoman.
It was like a pleathar fucking suit.
Speaker 1 (04:21):
Whips changed the whole thing.
Speaker 3 (04:23):
Well, and other ways to inflict pain.
Speaker 1 (04:26):
Is that that night or was that a different night?
I think that was a.
Speaker 2 (04:28):
Different I think that was sure that was that.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
I think it was a different night because that was
the beginning, and then it got crazier and crazier, and
then finally it ended up with Sky grinding her heel
in other ways.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
To inflict pain.
Speaker 1 (04:40):
Ball Sack, which as if like she was into it, Yeah,
like she was proud of her Yeah.
Speaker 3 (04:47):
Yeah, she was sitting in front of her bush showing
showing there's a lot.
Speaker 1 (04:56):
Of pleasuah and she was like she, for me, that
clip is as cool as her guns n' roses, cool as.
Speaker 3 (05:08):
It's very cool. Yeah, So that that really opened the
door to him, then slowly every time, trying to amp
it up a little bit. I remember one occasion, I
don't know which it was, but again, these are always
hotel stays when this happened.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
Is that why you guys can't do any Uh?
Speaker 3 (05:30):
Yeah, can't?
Speaker 2 (05:31):
It gets too crazy, He gets insane. I can't.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
That doesn't have an organ right, No.
Speaker 3 (05:35):
No, you haven't even have sex in the organ house.
What but our daughter's there the rooms organ house. They
don't shower, they don't shave.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
We do shower, so you don't shave.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
Well, I don't shave here really normally I'm going to
like the beach or something. So so yeah, so that
really opened the door. And then you know, there were
times he tried to push it a little too much.
I remember one hotel stay where he laid out like
I think it's it's called a flogger, a little like
horse whipper thing.
Speaker 2 (06:13):
I don't know. It's like a little paddle with the fringe.
Speaker 3 (06:17):
No no, no, friend, Like.
Speaker 1 (06:20):
It's like spikes on it.
Speaker 3 (06:22):
There's spikes. It's just like a stick with like a
little paddle on the end. Okay, I don't know, all right,
And so he put that and I got uh uh no.
Speaker 2 (06:31):
Can't give a little spake.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
No, Scott, he's the bad boy. Yeah he has. He
called you mistress that one.
Speaker 2 (06:41):
Okay, yes, I'd rather get the.
Speaker 1 (06:42):
Spank, but she's the domination.
Speaker 2 (06:45):
Okay, you you don't have to do it hard. You
could just do a little one.
Speaker 1 (06:54):
Just to get your you know, but then he won't
want that.
Speaker 2 (06:58):
He wants it.
Speaker 1 (06:58):
You just do it harder. I've been very bad, that creepy.
Speaker 3 (07:04):
That's what was going on, I know, but I haven't
like it, had.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
A bottle of Vodkas. It's a while and it's been.
Speaker 1 (07:10):
A while, so going to this dark time.
Speaker 3 (07:12):
Yeah, I'm very sober right now for this conversation. So yeah,
so I wasn't an introduce. I can't be the aggressor.
I can't be the instigator. I'm the passive sexual one
in this relationship. So so for him to think I
could ever tie him up or use that little paddle
thing like no, like where like me grinding the heel,
(07:36):
that's fucking insane.
Speaker 1 (07:37):
It really was.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
That's like to comment, is less aggressive than riding my heels?
Speaker 1 (07:43):
I would I don't know. Somebody kicking me in the
balls is way worse. Than getting a spank.
Speaker 2 (07:48):
I don't I know, that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (07:49):
I think.
Speaker 3 (07:52):
Than just a little like spak yet and for a
little uh bts. Behind the scenes, the heel grind happened accidentally.
Speaker 1 (08:02):
We know you kind of explained your foot was there,
and then there was you didn't realize, and then the heel.
Speaker 3 (08:10):
So it's so so again I'm the passive one, like
you've got to move my heel to the mall, sat
but me spanking, me, tying up me putting.
Speaker 1 (08:21):
Can you just put the paddle out and him move
his butt, tape.
Speaker 3 (08:28):
It to a door, jay.
Speaker 2 (08:31):
Back into Okay, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (08:32):
This isn't what he's looking for, definitely. So there was
some dabbling of Sky in the b D s M world,
which is crazy, Like if you've known Sky over the years,
that's the last thing you would have ever expected. You
kind of opened up a little bit. She was asexual
a million percent. So that was the apex. And now
(08:53):
we are in.
Speaker 2 (08:54):
Death felty, he speaks about it.
Speaker 1 (08:57):
It's gone at that time. Can you imagine putting on
enough right now?
Speaker 3 (09:02):
Like right now it it crosses me out. Back then
I kind of felt a little sexy and maybe a
tiny bit empowered, a little bad bitch. Yeah, but like
now I'm just like i'd be creeped out, like I
can't do too much.
Speaker 1 (09:14):
I don't know. Boo's listening to this right now and
part of him.
Speaker 2 (09:18):
Died probably coming down.
Speaker 1 (09:21):
Sorry dude, Sorry you were almost there.
Speaker 3 (09:23):
Yefent different times in our life.
Speaker 1 (09:26):
So yeah, much baby oil wasted. So when I hear
that there is a pull out of the top safe
words used by people in this world, I have to ask,
was there ever some sort of safe word that you
had with the Boo where it was like, all right,
(09:47):
this is too much Instead of yeo bro, gotta stamp
or whatever you know, that was yo broad.
Speaker 3 (10:00):
No, just the word no, no, thank you.
Speaker 1 (10:04):
That's not happening to bt s M. That no means
yes it does.
Speaker 2 (10:08):
Yeah, I know, I don't really know.
Speaker 1 (10:10):
I don't really know how no no more, what is
yo bro mean? It's immediately you know, penis is.
Speaker 3 (10:19):
So No, we never had a need for a safe
word because, like I.
Speaker 1 (10:24):
Said, just stop.
Speaker 3 (10:25):
Yeah. Well, and also it's never gotten to the point
where like one of us I feel like you need
a safe word when you're tied up or like bound
or something.
Speaker 1 (10:34):
I think that's part of it. But part of it
is if you're going too far, if you're hitting too hard,
if you're if you're a little too hard of a choke.
You know what I'm saying, conscious is a little bit
you know, start to go out and you're gonna go sorry,
what you know, get back in your senses. So those
that's you can use it for a lot of different ways.
Speaker 3 (10:54):
Okay, Yeah, I'm not into choking, so never been choking.
Speaker 2 (10:58):
Yeah, he good choke choke.
Speaker 3 (11:01):
He tried to hair pull once.
Speaker 2 (11:03):
Not too hard of a choke though, No, you could
choke too hard and it's not Yeah, I don't want
any choke. I don't hand light choke.
Speaker 1 (11:09):
I don't think you tried the hair put I think
he probably went to grab your hair and then it
got stuck.
Speaker 3 (11:14):
I don't think it's hand hank it out.
Speaker 2 (11:17):
He's running around the house, man, okay, with my head.
Speaker 3 (11:22):
Ripped, my head off my body and he's running.
Speaker 2 (11:24):
Around the house.
Speaker 1 (11:25):
Give my head back, row can not and.
Speaker 3 (11:28):
It's still there, Like what is going on on? Bro
Okay again, I don't sound like that. No, that never happened.
Speaker 1 (11:39):
Sure, pineapple bro okay.
Speaker 3 (11:45):
And pineapple from because I have the pineapple reference.
Speaker 2 (11:49):
I don't know the first thing I thought about.
Speaker 3 (11:51):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (11:51):
That's always like the go to safe for it. I think,
I don't know if it's from something.
Speaker 2 (11:55):
I think it was from something.
Speaker 1 (11:57):
It might be, it might be I I don't know.
I just always know and that that's like the go
to safe fork. Yeah, pineapple, pineapple, pineapple?
Speaker 2 (12:03):
Totally.
Speaker 3 (12:04):
Do you have to say it three times?
Speaker 1 (12:06):
That's how you know, like we're being serious here? You
say it once, a little bit more choked, a little bit.
Speaker 3 (12:13):
More choked, like stop it. Okay, okay, yeah, pretty pretty wild.
But no, we've never had the need nor the discussion
of a safe work.
Speaker 1 (12:26):
If you had to pick one, what would your go
to safe word be?
Speaker 2 (12:31):
I mean, I guess pineapple.
Speaker 3 (12:32):
You can't be pineapple, be a little bit more creative
apple peaches?
Speaker 2 (12:38):
Are we doing?
Speaker 1 (12:39):
We are really doing? For sweet potato?
Speaker 3 (12:46):
Bro? Stop, I'm like March Simpson after she's been smoking.
Speaker 1 (12:53):
You're one of her sisters.
Speaker 3 (12:55):
You're one of the sisters and express bro that's a
safe one.
Speaker 1 (13:01):
Wow.
Speaker 3 (13:02):
Okay, yeah, No, I don't I don't even know where
to go with that because I just I mean, yeah, whatever,
it could be anything, but it's never going to be
in play, so it does.
Speaker 1 (13:10):
Well, maybe this will help. Then you can listen to
the top safe words and then maybe pick one.
Speaker 2 (13:15):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (13:16):
So they did a poll of the what is it
b DSM community and I don't know where they find
these people a website or whatever, a convention, and they
came up with the top ten safe words that people use,
and they're all fucking over the place. Really, it's not
just fruit. No, it's not just fruits, you guys. Contrary
(13:37):
to what we icorn.
Speaker 2 (13:39):
That's a good one.
Speaker 3 (13:41):
I don't know why, because it should probably be a
word that you don't.
Speaker 1 (13:44):
You don't normally use, and why would you say it
in that spot unless you need help?
Speaker 3 (13:48):
Yeah, okay, help, that's weird.
Speaker 2 (13:51):
Okay.
Speaker 3 (13:52):
So here are people's top ten safe words. Number ten, ukulele.
Speaker 1 (13:57):
There you go.
Speaker 2 (13:58):
That's a long need to be quicker and.
Speaker 3 (14:01):
I'm drunk, like I'm slurring the ship?
Speaker 2 (14:05):
Did you say?
Speaker 1 (14:06):
And I can't say too much?
Speaker 2 (14:09):
Too much?
Speaker 3 (14:10):
Number nine, I guess is it a fruit? No? Avocado?
Speaker 1 (14:15):
Oh, that's a fruit. It's a fruit.
Speaker 3 (14:18):
Fruit there, okay, avocado, you guys.
Speaker 2 (14:21):
I feel like that's something I might yell out when
I'm having sex? Is I like so much.
Speaker 1 (14:27):
In my mouth?
Speaker 3 (14:30):
What? Number eight most common safe word eddie obi wan kenoby.
Speaker 1 (14:36):
Oh my god, that would turn me on. Like, okay,
every time you finishes out a Star Wars, you really
do you.
Speaker 2 (14:57):
Yell that out?
Speaker 3 (14:58):
Okay? Okay, we're number seven. Top safe word submarine.
Speaker 1 (15:04):
Okay.
Speaker 3 (15:05):
Number six Afghanistan.
Speaker 1 (15:08):
That's gross, not yelling that out. Okay.
Speaker 3 (15:16):
Number five speak at you.
Speaker 1 (15:19):
It's too cute. It's too cute, like we got some
weird ship going on right now. Like I'm not yelling
at Pikachu. It's too weird, too weird, too close to
like children? Yeah, great, find them all?
Speaker 2 (15:31):
Okay.
Speaker 3 (15:32):
Number four safe word abra, cadabra.
Speaker 1 (15:36):
This is bizarre.
Speaker 2 (15:37):
Serious about the people that.
Speaker 1 (15:42):
You well for? My husband a creepzoid?
Speaker 2 (15:46):
That's true, that's true.
Speaker 1 (15:49):
Okay.
Speaker 3 (15:50):
Number three Jumanji.
Speaker 1 (15:52):
That's not bad. Three times you screw could be in trouble.
Speaker 3 (15:57):
Okay, so be careful with that one. Number two safe
word Oklahoma.
Speaker 1 (16:03):
All right, that one makes sense because again, why would
you ever yell out Oklahoma unless you're in a drill
or you know, football. Yeah, if you're paying ment, well
then that's good. I'm stopping.
Speaker 3 (16:12):
Okay, your brain go somewhere else, okay, all right, And
according to the b D s M community, the number
one top safe word out there is trust.
Speaker 1 (16:23):
Nosy, you're making this weird. Trust. Trust.
Speaker 2 (16:28):
Trust.
Speaker 1 (16:31):
So here's what we should do. Let's tie up Sky
right now and see which one fits.
Speaker 2 (16:35):
Let's do it.
Speaker 1 (16:36):
No, do it. Okay,
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