July 9, 2026 • 18 mins
Sky has a college student renting out her ADU currently. Usually when she goes on vacation or leaves for an extended amount of time, she let's Sky know. Well this time she didn't and Sky wants to know what she should to to see if her tenant is ok...
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Well, I'm sure you've heard Sky claim before that she
is a helper, right, She's a Karen, She's a neighborhood busybody.
She's always going around getting in people's business and like that.
But that's what she thinks. She's saying she's helping, when
really she's not. She's just getting in your business. Well,
what happens when you have a renter on your property?
(00:25):
Sky does? She's got this a du and so somebody
is renting it, and now Sky is weirdly gonna get
involved in a situation with that person.
Speaker 2 (00:37):
We ain't done yet.
Speaker 3 (00:40):
For the podcast year, completely uncensored and unacting filtered except
for that part the show's after show starts now?
Speaker 1 (00:55):
Or is Sky involved in a true crime situation?
Speaker 2 (01:01):
I don't want to be in no Netflix stock.
Speaker 1 (01:02):
You might be.
Speaker 2 (01:03):
I don't want it, but I don't want.
Speaker 1 (01:04):
You've inserted yourself. I don't into one. I mean, have
you seen the new social media trend where people sit
down like they're being interviewed for their Netflix special or whatever?
Speaker 3 (01:13):
This is?
Speaker 4 (01:13):
Scott, this IS's funny the first like one time I
saw it. It's like everyone's doing everyone's doing exactly the same.
Speaker 5 (01:20):
Thing, right, yeah, and they go like this, they don't
know that. Yeah, where do I start?
Speaker 1 (01:26):
Oh my god, sorry about it.
Speaker 5 (01:28):
Honestly, it's like my algorithms.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
Okay, okay, we got it.
Speaker 4 (01:31):
You don't like it. It was funny once I heard
you say that everyone doing the same thing. I do
something else. You said that five times already. I'm sorry
I brought it up.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
Wow, anywhere to go?
Speaker 5 (01:42):
Oh god, anyway, and then they pretend to cry, dude,
we've moved.
Speaker 6 (01:46):
On and we've seen it. So Scott, Yes, hi, guys, yes, me.
Speaker 1 (01:51):
Has this situation going on with her rent. You know,
when you have a landlord, you don't really want to
hear from the landlord, right, never mean, yeah, you pay
your rent and then that's if it's something wrong, you
let them know and that's about it. I think for
the most part. That's what's going on with you, right
or do you have any sort of relationship with your renter.
(02:12):
It's weird because they're in your backyard.
Speaker 6 (02:15):
Yeah, so in my backyard completely fenced off, so it's
very private for them. But to get in and out
to the a du they have to walk through the
front courtyard.
Speaker 7 (02:26):
The front court, yeah, not the other court, which courtyard
do you have it's part of the front the.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
Guest quarters, man.
Speaker 5 (02:44):
Servants courtyard.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
Servant courtyard is the courtyard in front of the moat
that you have. There's no moat.
Speaker 1 (02:50):
Where do you park your rules royce in the back
of the courtyard or where it displayed? Okay? Really?
Speaker 6 (02:59):
Uh so because of that, honestly our tenant, she has
more of a relationship with my husband.
Speaker 1 (03:09):
Good right now?
Speaker 5 (03:10):
Okay, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (03:11):
She's twenty four again, not like that? Look, not like that?
Speaker 4 (03:18):
What does she does?
Speaker 5 (03:18):
She Jow's exit.
Speaker 2 (03:21):
I don't know what that they just got made. I
didn't watch Jersey Shore twenty four.
Speaker 5 (03:25):
Yeah, she got married to twenty four.
Speaker 1 (03:27):
Yeah, I think he's happy couple.
Speaker 5 (03:30):
Who is the other guy of Roger?
Speaker 1 (03:32):
Roger Roger?
Speaker 6 (03:34):
Okay, just got like weirdly sentimental for Roger.
Speaker 4 (03:38):
Think about him every day the day I go Rogers
up to that's weird.
Speaker 6 (03:46):
So, uh you know, we'll see her, but specifically more
my husband will see her because he's always tinkering with something,
a tinker and lots of times.
Speaker 5 (03:55):
His hands in his pants and something.
Speaker 6 (04:00):
No, he's working on front veggie bus. He's doing the
other night when he didn't come to bed till I
don't know.
Speaker 1 (04:07):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
I don't think we're tinkering with balls.
Speaker 6 (04:11):
So yeah, so he sees her a lot lots of hello, goodbyes, whatever.
But here's the kind of I don't know if it's
cool or what, because the first time it happened, it
was unexpected. Didn't see it coming because she's been there
for about a year now August will be a year
and she's been living there in our adu and the
(04:32):
first time she ever went out of town, she sent
us a text and was like, Hey, just want to
let you know I'm going out of town for three
days a week whatever. I'll be back on Wednesday. And
I was like, oh, okay, didn't ask. It's not required,
but that's I guess that's nice for you.
Speaker 2 (04:52):
To let us know.
Speaker 6 (04:53):
Okay, cool, thanks, which has kind of been great because
it gives us an opportunity to go on the other
side of the fence kind of take care of the
landscape property. Well, so it turns out she's not into
pulling weeds, so.
Speaker 1 (05:07):
Likely and you are.
Speaker 6 (05:08):
Yeah, I love you, I love gardening. So yeah, so
whenever she goes on vacation.
Speaker 1 (05:13):
Fucking nuts. I would never pull weeds if I didn't
own the place.
Speaker 2 (05:17):
But you'll you'll.
Speaker 6 (05:18):
Walk by a weed that's like as tall as your
chest and just keep walking.
Speaker 1 (05:21):
I absolutely don't care it's as tall as her chest.
Speaker 2 (05:24):
Like there's yeah, it's crazy.
Speaker 1 (05:26):
I absolutely would not care.
Speaker 6 (05:27):
And it's not like it's hard in there. You can
just like pull it bam my our yard.
Speaker 4 (05:32):
Because we have a big backyard. My wife takes care
of it, and it gets out of it. It's a big backyard,
so it's hard for one person to do. Yeah, and
she'll she'll be like, don't you care? But you want
to get in there?
Speaker 5 (05:41):
And I go, fuck no, not bad looks.
Speaker 1 (05:45):
I have this kind of overgrown tree, it's like this whatever.
It's right before my front door. And instead of like
trimming it because it's overgrown so I have to duck
through it and do it every single day. And instead
of just trimming a branch, which it would be not
that difficult snip, I refuse to do.
Speaker 5 (06:08):
Is fucking hate it.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
It's the worst.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
Clearly I hate it.
Speaker 1 (06:10):
But you don't have a yard anymore. I mean I
hate it that.
Speaker 2 (06:16):
I want to come to your house.
Speaker 5 (06:18):
Our land first time you over clip a bush. Our landlord.
Speaker 4 (06:23):
Our landlord has a car as gardeners, but they only
do half of the backyard. The other half of My
wife has like the chickens and stuff she does, and
there's it's a disaster, but I don't give a fuck.
Speaker 1 (06:33):
Yeah, I would hope that you, as the landlords, are
taking care of that.
Speaker 5 (06:37):
Yeah, yeah, you don't have to wait for her to
leave this.
Speaker 6 (06:39):
He's not a plan like, hey, the first Tuesday of
every month, we're gonna.
Speaker 1 (06:42):
Get our landscapers are coming to guess.
Speaker 4 (06:45):
It's probably such a scene though, the two of them
sky with her hat on the boo the boot, trying
to decide where he wants to start for forty five minutes,
which week should I pull any youtubes?
Speaker 5 (06:57):
Which we need to pull?
Speaker 3 (06:58):
First?
Speaker 6 (06:59):
Well, here's the thing, Like most of it it's like turf,
and then there's weed block with like rock on top
of it.
Speaker 2 (07:05):
So there honestly shouldn't.
Speaker 6 (07:06):
Be any weeds, but occasionally, like yeah, like one will
pop through and then so it'll shock us when we
go back there.
Speaker 5 (07:13):
And it's no round up because.
Speaker 6 (07:16):
No, fuck no, I'm not using that ship in my yard. Bro,
What do I need a tumor. Come on, give me
a break. Do I need my dog? I?
Speaker 2 (07:27):
Okay, Miss Monsanto.
Speaker 6 (07:29):
So so that's the company that owns Yes, you guys
know that the whole GMO thing.
Speaker 2 (07:36):
Where have you guys fucking been so anyway?
Speaker 6 (07:39):
So yeah, So it's kind of nice when she lets
us know, because we don't want to get in her
space or bug her. We want her to feel like
that's her space. But it kind of turns out good
when she lets us know she's gone, and then in turn,
we've kind of then let her know when we're gone
because she's nice enough that, like say, if we're gone
on a trash day, she'll pull the cans out to
the curve herb and then after they're picked up, she'll
(08:01):
pull them.
Speaker 1 (08:02):
Back when you're gone. Do you let her use the pool?
Speaker 5 (08:04):
I was just gonna ask that.
Speaker 1 (08:05):
No, Well, Wed, she's doing your work for you.
Speaker 2 (08:10):
We don't not let her use the pool.
Speaker 6 (08:13):
When she first moved in, we kind of made the
offer like, hey, if there's ever like an occasion you
like want to, you know whatever, let us know. And
she's never said anything or brought it up or asked.
Speaker 7 (08:25):
So I don't every day for the night swim.
Speaker 6 (08:36):
Yeah, she goes to the beach like all the time,
you know, but but has never asked to use the pool.
So I don't know.
Speaker 2 (08:43):
Okay, I'm not going to beg you to use the pool.
You know, whatever.
Speaker 1 (08:46):
Jamie House said, you wouldn't let him in the house.
Speaker 6 (08:47):
Okay, stay in the had everything a full kitchen, in
a full bath, laundry. I mean he didn't.
Speaker 2 (08:54):
He didn't mean anything.
Speaker 6 (08:56):
Uh So anyway, so that's just been the thing. So
it's high and by, and then when she goes on vacation,
she sends us a text and then.
Speaker 1 (09:05):
We go oka surprising. As awkward and weird as you
are with having to have conversations with people that you
don't talk.
Speaker 6 (09:11):
To her more, well, I just don't see her, Like
I literally don't see her. So I mean, unless I'm a.
Speaker 1 (09:17):
Lobby feel like you'd be like Wilson from Home Improvement
and peeking your head over what's going on?
Speaker 5 (09:23):
Brow or a head you can stick it through like
I don't.
Speaker 2 (09:27):
It doesn't I can't stick it through the fen.
Speaker 3 (09:32):
No.
Speaker 6 (09:32):
No, But like I said, my husband's talk to her
more like one time, what time her dad came to town?
Speaker 2 (09:38):
So he met the dad and her dad came.
Speaker 4 (09:41):
Down him because she was like this creepy guy, and
Cargo Shorts keeps coming.
Speaker 1 (09:44):
Around and stop talking.
Speaker 2 (09:46):
They just passed each other from the courtyard.
Speaker 1 (09:48):
That's it.
Speaker 2 (09:48):
So here's the dilemma, guys.
Speaker 6 (09:51):
And I'm not really asking should I do this, because
I know there's going to come a point where I
am gonna do this. I just don't know how long
to wait till.
Speaker 2 (10:01):
I do this.
Speaker 6 (10:02):
So, like I said, has always texted us when she
goes out of town. There's been a couple of nights
where she's stayed the night places judge judging.
Speaker 2 (10:12):
She's twenty four single, she's twenty four.
Speaker 6 (10:16):
You know, there's been a couple of nights that people
have come and spent the night in the ADU.
Speaker 1 (10:21):
That's fine, you really are that because if did you
not hear about the courtyard?
Speaker 6 (10:25):
Yeah, and we have ring cameras in the front gate
and the courtyard. So if it goes off, especially at
like two in the morning, and I saw.
Speaker 2 (10:37):
There, what the hell, who's that dude? So good for
her living her best life San Diego, twenty four years old,
you know, good for.
Speaker 1 (10:47):
Her, girl.
Speaker 6 (10:49):
So here's the thing. I have not seen her in
a couple of days. And the reason it stood out
to me is she got some packages delivered on Monday,
and so what she does. What we do is if
we ever get mail for her, we have a little
mailbox and we just stick it in there for her.
(11:10):
But if she gets packages, we kind of just pile
them inside the gate right there. Well, there's been two
packages for her that have been sitting there since Monday,
and so every day I come home from work and
the packages are still there and her car is not there.
I'm kind of like, huh. And so the first thing,
I'm like, oh, she's spending the night somewhere. The second night,
(11:32):
I'm like, oh, okay, maybe she spent it two nights somewhere.
You know, Okay, good for her, We've found somebody we
enjoy whatever. But now it has been so long that
I decided to look back on the rink cam and
be like, when was the last time she was actually here,
because because honestly I'm getting concerned. Well, no, I don't
(11:57):
know how many days it is, right because we.
Speaker 1 (12:00):
How you said Monday, Well that's when.
Speaker 6 (12:01):
The packages arrived, But I don't know exactly the last
time she was there. Okay, so I looked back at
the rink ham and the last time she left.
Speaker 1 (12:11):
Real investigation going on.
Speaker 6 (12:13):
He oh yeah, oh yeah, I was scrolling for a while, guys,
scroll in. My last time she left the house was
Saturday morning, kind of early in the morning.
Speaker 2 (12:24):
It was the fourth of July days ago, right, But
like I.
Speaker 6 (12:30):
Said, anytime she's gone out of town, she's let us know.
And so so my thought is, we're now what you said,
five days, we're five days that she hasn't been home.
Speaker 2 (12:44):
Do I love when how many days?
Speaker 1 (12:49):
It's none of your business.
Speaker 2 (12:50):
Yeah, But here's the thing.
Speaker 6 (12:51):
If my twenty four year old, because we've talked to
her dad, like before she moved in, her dad talked
to us, you know, so I feel like in a
way he entrusted her to us. Not that we need
to parent her, not eighteen, I know, but if my
daughter was twenty four and was living out of the
house for the first time and was living in a
(13:13):
different town because he's up in norcl like, I think
he kind of likes the fact that we kind of
have an eye on her, you know what I mean,
Like that we're there, like if she needs something in
an emergency, where there so it's now been five days.
She didn't let us know she left? How long till
I love her?
Speaker 2 (13:33):
A text? How many days and go, hey, notice you
haven't been home.
Speaker 6 (13:38):
Just want to make sure you're ow're asking me, yeah,
all of it asking me.
Speaker 1 (13:43):
I'm not. I'm waiting until the rent check doesn't show up. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (13:46):
Oh so you're waiting till the first of the month.
Speaker 1 (13:48):
It's none in my business. Well, you can do whatever
you want.
Speaker 6 (13:51):
Well, of course you can, but it's it's out of character.
And she's a twenty four year old girl.
Speaker 1 (13:56):
Yeah, what does that mean? So if you're just automatically murdered.
Speaker 6 (14:00):
No, I'm just saying, if you're if your daughter wasn't
seen for five days at twenty four years old, but.
Speaker 4 (14:05):
You're assuming the dad doesn't know where she you're assuming
all negative assumption.
Speaker 1 (14:10):
She might be with the dad. Yeah, no, I know.
Speaker 6 (14:12):
But the but the only big difference is every time
she has left town for more than like one night,
she's let us know.
Speaker 1 (14:20):
So clearly, I'm assuming this time she just didn't.
Speaker 6 (14:23):
Clearly she could have just forgot and like like whatever,
it just slipped her mind. Of course, a million percent,
I'm sure that's the scenario, But I feel like there's
a certain amount of days where I should follow up
with her and just make sure she's over.
Speaker 5 (14:37):
If something was actually up, the dad would have hit
you up by now.
Speaker 1 (14:40):
Look, I haven't heard from my daughter in five.
Speaker 5 (14:42):
Yeah, hey have you heard?
Speaker 1 (14:43):
I ever heard?
Speaker 6 (14:43):
But I know when I went away to college, I
only talked to my parents like once a week, so
that could have been a full seven days.
Speaker 4 (14:49):
Now you're tuning two different things, though, because now you're
saying the dad met you guys, and you guys are
trusting him. So clearly this guy talks to his daughter
more than once every since.
Speaker 2 (14:58):
Maybe I have no idea what relationship.
Speaker 4 (15:00):
If you're gonna take that route, then you can't take
the route of something's happened.
Speaker 5 (15:04):
I can't like two different things.
Speaker 6 (15:05):
The fact that he doesn't want her living with psychos
doesn't guarantee that.
Speaker 2 (15:11):
It doesn't guarantee he talks to her every day.
Speaker 5 (15:13):
Like doesn't guarantee he talks to her once every seven day.
Speaker 6 (15:15):
No, I have no idea how many how often they talk.
They could talk every day, they could talk once a month.
I like, literally have no idea, but I feel a
tiny bit of responsibility to make sure she's okay, and
so I'm I, I don't know how many days is appropriate.
And then here's the other fucked up thing, like say,
(15:37):
because she's kind of granola, like, say she's camping somewhere
without cell service, and then I do text her and
then I hear nothing back.
Speaker 2 (15:45):
That's gonna spin me the fuck out, you know what
I mean?
Speaker 6 (15:49):
I so, I I get this feeling, and I think
it's totally appropriate to text her, and it's not.
Speaker 5 (15:54):
You're not asking for infer, you're not saying where the
fuck are you? All this other stuff.
Speaker 1 (15:57):
I would give it a week Saturday to Saturday.
Speaker 5 (15:59):
This Saturday.
Speaker 2 (16:00):
If you don't hear people just say hey, just checking
to see whatever you were going to say, right.
Speaker 5 (16:03):
I think that that's totally fine.
Speaker 6 (16:04):
And I don't know if that's like the moms and
us that one of I think that's the right thing
to do.
Speaker 1 (16:08):
Maybe dads are pieces of ship.
Speaker 2 (16:15):
That I get what you're saying, d.
Speaker 5 (16:19):
Like, I don't like, I wouldn't give a ship because
I'm a die.
Speaker 2 (16:22):
I don't think she's saying that.
Speaker 1 (16:23):
I think it was as I think you absolutely are.
I think you are.
Speaker 6 (16:30):
I don't think that I think dads are a little
bit more uh, letting their kids be independent, whereas moms
are a little it's.
Speaker 5 (16:39):
You over protective mom.
Speaker 2 (16:40):
You don't say that's a that's another great point and.
Speaker 5 (16:43):
Also also talking about somebody that's not your kid. Yeah, so.
Speaker 4 (16:49):
At twenty four years old, me and my sister were
both living out of the state and nobody was watching
over us NonStop at twenty four years old, So I
don't know, you're.
Speaker 1 (16:59):
Piece You're a piece of shit male, So you know
nobody cares about you. Nobody cares about you.
Speaker 5 (17:05):
This was if this was if this was a dude,
would you feel the same way.
Speaker 1 (17:08):
Absolutely not.
Speaker 6 (17:09):
Yes, absolutely if he told me every time he went
on vacation and then he was gone for five days
dead again.
Speaker 2 (17:18):
I'm not saying that. I don't want to say that.
Speaker 6 (17:20):
I just I just it's it's broken a pattern of
behavior to the point where it's making me a lot
of us maybe like once every three four months, you know,
it's normally like holidays like Thanksgiving, Christmas. She already went
out town once for summer, and.
Speaker 1 (17:39):
Let us know. I guess, I don't know. For me,
I would feel like, oh, I guess I have to
let them know, you know, like you're my mom now.
Speaker 6 (17:48):
But she started it, She's the one who started letting
us know she went outtown. We never could be, could
totally be.
Speaker 2 (17:56):
It just slipped her mind.
Speaker 7 (17:57):
But please
Well, I'm sure you've heard Sky claim before that she
is a helper, right, She's a Karen, She's a neighborhood busybody.
She's always going around getting in people's business and like that.
But that's what she thinks. She's saying she's helping, when
really she's not. She's just getting in your business. Well,
what happens when you have a renter on your property?
(00:25):
Sky does? She's got this a du and so somebody
is renting it, and now Sky is weirdly gonna get
involved in a situation with that person.
Speaker 2 (00:37):
We ain't done yet.
Speaker 3 (00:40):
For the podcast year, completely uncensored and unacting filtered except
for that part the show's after show starts now?
Speaker 1 (00:55):
Or is Sky involved in a true crime situation?
Speaker 2 (01:01):
I don't want to be in no Netflix stock.
Speaker 1 (01:02):
You might be.
Speaker 2 (01:03):
I don't want it, but I don't want.
Speaker 1 (01:04):
You've inserted yourself. I don't into one. I mean, have
you seen the new social media trend where people sit
down like they're being interviewed for their Netflix special or whatever?
Speaker 3 (01:13):
This is?
Speaker 4 (01:13):
Scott, this IS's funny the first like one time I
saw it. It's like everyone's doing everyone's doing exactly the same.
Speaker 5 (01:20):
Thing, right, yeah, and they go like this, they don't
know that. Yeah, where do I start?
Speaker 1 (01:26):
Oh my god, sorry about it.
Speaker 5 (01:28):
Honestly, it's like my algorithms.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
Okay, okay, we got it.
Speaker 4 (01:31):
You don't like it. It was funny once I heard
you say that everyone doing the same thing. I do
something else. You said that five times already. I'm sorry
I brought it up.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
Wow, anywhere to go?
Speaker 5 (01:42):
Oh god, anyway, and then they pretend to cry, dude,
we've moved.
Speaker 6 (01:46):
On and we've seen it. So Scott, Yes, hi, guys, yes, me.
Speaker 1 (01:51):
Has this situation going on with her rent. You know,
when you have a landlord, you don't really want to
hear from the landlord, right, never mean, yeah, you pay
your rent and then that's if it's something wrong, you
let them know and that's about it. I think for
the most part. That's what's going on with you, right
or do you have any sort of relationship with your renter.
(02:12):
It's weird because they're in your backyard.
Speaker 6 (02:15):
Yeah, so in my backyard completely fenced off, so it's
very private for them. But to get in and out
to the a du they have to walk through the
front courtyard.
Speaker 7 (02:26):
The front court, yeah, not the other court, which courtyard
do you have it's part of the front the.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
Guest quarters, man.
Speaker 5 (02:44):
Servants courtyard.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
Servant courtyard is the courtyard in front of the moat
that you have. There's no moat.
Speaker 1 (02:50):
Where do you park your rules royce in the back
of the courtyard or where it displayed? Okay? Really?
Speaker 6 (02:59):
Uh so because of that, honestly our tenant, she has
more of a relationship with my husband.
Speaker 1 (03:09):
Good right now?
Speaker 5 (03:10):
Okay, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (03:11):
She's twenty four again, not like that? Look, not like that?
Speaker 4 (03:18):
What does she does?
Speaker 5 (03:18):
She Jow's exit.
Speaker 2 (03:21):
I don't know what that they just got made. I
didn't watch Jersey Shore twenty four.
Speaker 5 (03:25):
Yeah, she got married to twenty four.
Speaker 1 (03:27):
Yeah, I think he's happy couple.
Speaker 5 (03:30):
Who is the other guy of Roger?
Speaker 1 (03:32):
Roger Roger?
Speaker 6 (03:34):
Okay, just got like weirdly sentimental for Roger.
Speaker 4 (03:38):
Think about him every day the day I go Rogers
up to that's weird.
Speaker 6 (03:46):
So, uh you know, we'll see her, but specifically more
my husband will see her because he's always tinkering with something,
a tinker and lots of times.
Speaker 5 (03:55):
His hands in his pants and something.
Speaker 6 (04:00):
No, he's working on front veggie bus. He's doing the
other night when he didn't come to bed till I
don't know.
Speaker 1 (04:07):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
I don't think we're tinkering with balls.
Speaker 6 (04:11):
So yeah, so he sees her a lot lots of hello, goodbyes, whatever.
But here's the kind of I don't know if it's
cool or what, because the first time it happened, it
was unexpected. Didn't see it coming because she's been there
for about a year now August will be a year
and she's been living there in our adu and the
(04:32):
first time she ever went out of town, she sent
us a text and was like, Hey, just want to
let you know I'm going out of town for three
days a week whatever. I'll be back on Wednesday. And
I was like, oh, okay, didn't ask. It's not required,
but that's I guess that's nice for you.
Speaker 2 (04:52):
To let us know.
Speaker 6 (04:53):
Okay, cool, thanks, which has kind of been great because
it gives us an opportunity to go on the other
side of the fence kind of take care of the
landscape property. Well, so it turns out she's not into
pulling weeds, so.
Speaker 1 (05:07):
Likely and you are.
Speaker 6 (05:08):
Yeah, I love you, I love gardening. So yeah, so
whenever she goes on vacation.
Speaker 1 (05:13):
Fucking nuts. I would never pull weeds if I didn't
own the place.
Speaker 2 (05:17):
But you'll you'll.
Speaker 6 (05:18):
Walk by a weed that's like as tall as your
chest and just keep walking.
Speaker 1 (05:21):
I absolutely don't care it's as tall as her chest.
Speaker 2 (05:24):
Like there's yeah, it's crazy.
Speaker 1 (05:26):
I absolutely would not care.
Speaker 6 (05:27):
And it's not like it's hard in there. You can
just like pull it bam my our yard.
Speaker 4 (05:32):
Because we have a big backyard. My wife takes care
of it, and it gets out of it. It's a big backyard,
so it's hard for one person to do. Yeah, and
she'll she'll be like, don't you care? But you want
to get in there?
Speaker 5 (05:41):
And I go, fuck no, not bad looks.
Speaker 1 (05:45):
I have this kind of overgrown tree, it's like this whatever.
It's right before my front door. And instead of like
trimming it because it's overgrown so I have to duck
through it and do it every single day. And instead
of just trimming a branch, which it would be not
that difficult snip, I refuse to do.
Speaker 5 (06:08):
Is fucking hate it.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
It's the worst.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
Clearly I hate it.
Speaker 1 (06:10):
But you don't have a yard anymore. I mean I
hate it that.
Speaker 2 (06:16):
I want to come to your house.
Speaker 5 (06:18):
Our land first time you over clip a bush. Our landlord.
Speaker 4 (06:23):
Our landlord has a car as gardeners, but they only
do half of the backyard. The other half of My
wife has like the chickens and stuff she does, and
there's it's a disaster, but I don't give a fuck.
Speaker 1 (06:33):
Yeah, I would hope that you, as the landlords, are
taking care of that.
Speaker 5 (06:37):
Yeah, yeah, you don't have to wait for her to
leave this.
Speaker 6 (06:39):
He's not a plan like, hey, the first Tuesday of
every month, we're gonna.
Speaker 1 (06:42):
Get our landscapers are coming to guess.
Speaker 4 (06:45):
It's probably such a scene though, the two of them
sky with her hat on the boo the boot, trying
to decide where he wants to start for forty five minutes,
which week should I pull any youtubes?
Speaker 5 (06:57):
Which we need to pull?
Speaker 3 (06:58):
First?
Speaker 6 (06:59):
Well, here's the thing, Like most of it it's like turf,
and then there's weed block with like rock on top
of it.
Speaker 2 (07:05):
So there honestly shouldn't.
Speaker 6 (07:06):
Be any weeds, but occasionally, like yeah, like one will
pop through and then so it'll shock us when we
go back there.
Speaker 5 (07:13):
And it's no round up because.
Speaker 6 (07:16):
No, fuck no, I'm not using that ship in my yard. Bro,
What do I need a tumor. Come on, give me
a break. Do I need my dog? I?
Speaker 2 (07:27):
Okay, Miss Monsanto.
Speaker 6 (07:29):
So so that's the company that owns Yes, you guys
know that the whole GMO thing.
Speaker 2 (07:36):
Where have you guys fucking been so anyway?
Speaker 6 (07:39):
So yeah, So it's kind of nice when she lets
us know, because we don't want to get in her
space or bug her. We want her to feel like
that's her space. But it kind of turns out good
when she lets us know she's gone, and then in turn,
we've kind of then let her know when we're gone
because she's nice enough that, like say, if we're gone
on a trash day, she'll pull the cans out to
the curve herb and then after they're picked up, she'll
(08:01):
pull them.
Speaker 1 (08:02):
Back when you're gone. Do you let her use the pool?
Speaker 5 (08:04):
I was just gonna ask that.
Speaker 1 (08:05):
No, Well, Wed, she's doing your work for you.
Speaker 2 (08:10):
We don't not let her use the pool.
Speaker 6 (08:13):
When she first moved in, we kind of made the
offer like, hey, if there's ever like an occasion you
like want to, you know whatever, let us know. And
she's never said anything or brought it up or asked.
Speaker 7 (08:25):
So I don't every day for the night swim.
Speaker 6 (08:36):
Yeah, she goes to the beach like all the time,
you know, but but has never asked to use the pool.
So I don't know.
Speaker 2 (08:43):
Okay, I'm not going to beg you to use the pool.
You know, whatever.
Speaker 1 (08:46):
Jamie House said, you wouldn't let him in the house.
Speaker 6 (08:47):
Okay, stay in the had everything a full kitchen, in
a full bath, laundry. I mean he didn't.
Speaker 2 (08:54):
He didn't mean anything.
Speaker 6 (08:56):
Uh So anyway, so that's just been the thing. So
it's high and by, and then when she goes on vacation,
she sends us a text and then.
Speaker 1 (09:05):
We go oka surprising. As awkward and weird as you
are with having to have conversations with people that you
don't talk.
Speaker 6 (09:11):
To her more, well, I just don't see her, Like
I literally don't see her. So I mean, unless I'm a.
Speaker 1 (09:17):
Lobby feel like you'd be like Wilson from Home Improvement
and peeking your head over what's going on?
Speaker 5 (09:23):
Brow or a head you can stick it through like
I don't.
Speaker 2 (09:27):
It doesn't I can't stick it through the fen.
Speaker 3 (09:32):
No.
Speaker 6 (09:32):
No, But like I said, my husband's talk to her
more like one time, what time her dad came to town?
Speaker 2 (09:38):
So he met the dad and her dad came.
Speaker 4 (09:41):
Down him because she was like this creepy guy, and
Cargo Shorts keeps coming.
Speaker 1 (09:44):
Around and stop talking.
Speaker 2 (09:46):
They just passed each other from the courtyard.
Speaker 1 (09:48):
That's it.
Speaker 2 (09:48):
So here's the dilemma, guys.
Speaker 6 (09:51):
And I'm not really asking should I do this, because
I know there's going to come a point where I
am gonna do this. I just don't know how long
to wait till.
Speaker 2 (10:01):
I do this.
Speaker 6 (10:02):
So, like I said, has always texted us when she
goes out of town. There's been a couple of nights
where she's stayed the night places judge judging.
Speaker 2 (10:12):
She's twenty four single, she's twenty four.
Speaker 6 (10:16):
You know, there's been a couple of nights that people
have come and spent the night in the ADU.
Speaker 1 (10:21):
That's fine, you really are that because if did you
not hear about the courtyard?
Speaker 6 (10:25):
Yeah, and we have ring cameras in the front gate
and the courtyard. So if it goes off, especially at
like two in the morning, and I saw.
Speaker 2 (10:37):
There, what the hell, who's that dude? So good for
her living her best life San Diego, twenty four years old,
you know, good for.
Speaker 1 (10:47):
Her, girl.
Speaker 6 (10:49):
So here's the thing. I have not seen her in
a couple of days. And the reason it stood out
to me is she got some packages delivered on Monday,
and so what she does. What we do is if
we ever get mail for her, we have a little
mailbox and we just stick it in there for her.
(11:10):
But if she gets packages, we kind of just pile
them inside the gate right there. Well, there's been two
packages for her that have been sitting there since Monday,
and so every day I come home from work and
the packages are still there and her car is not there.
I'm kind of like, huh. And so the first thing,
I'm like, oh, she's spending the night somewhere. The second night,
(11:32):
I'm like, oh, okay, maybe she spent it two nights somewhere.
You know, Okay, good for her, We've found somebody we
enjoy whatever. But now it has been so long that
I decided to look back on the rink cam and
be like, when was the last time she was actually here,
because because honestly I'm getting concerned. Well, no, I don't
(11:57):
know how many days it is, right because we.
Speaker 1 (12:00):
How you said Monday, Well that's when.
Speaker 6 (12:01):
The packages arrived, But I don't know exactly the last
time she was there. Okay, so I looked back at
the rink ham and the last time she left.
Speaker 1 (12:11):
Real investigation going on.
Speaker 6 (12:13):
He oh yeah, oh yeah, I was scrolling for a while, guys,
scroll in. My last time she left the house was
Saturday morning, kind of early in the morning.
Speaker 2 (12:24):
It was the fourth of July days ago, right, But
like I.
Speaker 6 (12:30):
Said, anytime she's gone out of town, she's let us know.
And so so my thought is, we're now what you said,
five days, we're five days that she hasn't been home.
Speaker 2 (12:44):
Do I love when how many days?
Speaker 1 (12:49):
It's none of your business.
Speaker 2 (12:50):
Yeah, But here's the thing.
Speaker 6 (12:51):
If my twenty four year old, because we've talked to
her dad, like before she moved in, her dad talked
to us, you know, so I feel like in a
way he entrusted her to us. Not that we need
to parent her, not eighteen, I know, but if my
daughter was twenty four and was living out of the
house for the first time and was living in a
(13:13):
different town because he's up in norcl like, I think
he kind of likes the fact that we kind of
have an eye on her, you know what I mean,
Like that we're there, like if she needs something in
an emergency, where there so it's now been five days.
She didn't let us know she left? How long till
I love her?
Speaker 2 (13:33):
A text? How many days and go, hey, notice you
haven't been home.
Speaker 6 (13:38):
Just want to make sure you're ow're asking me, yeah,
all of it asking me.
Speaker 1 (13:43):
I'm not. I'm waiting until the rent check doesn't show up. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (13:46):
Oh so you're waiting till the first of the month.
Speaker 1 (13:48):
It's none in my business. Well, you can do whatever
you want.
Speaker 6 (13:51):
Well, of course you can, but it's it's out of character.
And she's a twenty four year old girl.
Speaker 1 (13:56):
Yeah, what does that mean? So if you're just automatically murdered.
Speaker 6 (14:00):
No, I'm just saying, if you're if your daughter wasn't
seen for five days at twenty four years old, but.
Speaker 4 (14:05):
You're assuming the dad doesn't know where she you're assuming
all negative assumption.
Speaker 1 (14:10):
She might be with the dad. Yeah, no, I know.
Speaker 6 (14:12):
But the but the only big difference is every time
she has left town for more than like one night,
she's let us know.
Speaker 1 (14:20):
So clearly, I'm assuming this time she just didn't.
Speaker 6 (14:23):
Clearly she could have just forgot and like like whatever,
it just slipped her mind. Of course, a million percent,
I'm sure that's the scenario, But I feel like there's
a certain amount of days where I should follow up
with her and just make sure she's over.
Speaker 5 (14:37):
If something was actually up, the dad would have hit
you up by now.
Speaker 1 (14:40):
Look, I haven't heard from my daughter in five.
Speaker 5 (14:42):
Yeah, hey have you heard?
Speaker 1 (14:43):
I ever heard?
Speaker 6 (14:43):
But I know when I went away to college, I
only talked to my parents like once a week, so
that could have been a full seven days.
Speaker 4 (14:49):
Now you're tuning two different things, though, because now you're
saying the dad met you guys, and you guys are
trusting him. So clearly this guy talks to his daughter
more than once every since.
Speaker 2 (14:58):
Maybe I have no idea what relationship.
Speaker 4 (15:00):
If you're gonna take that route, then you can't take
the route of something's happened.
Speaker 5 (15:04):
I can't like two different things.
Speaker 6 (15:05):
The fact that he doesn't want her living with psychos
doesn't guarantee that.
Speaker 2 (15:11):
It doesn't guarantee he talks to her every day.
Speaker 5 (15:13):
Like doesn't guarantee he talks to her once every seven day.
Speaker 6 (15:15):
No, I have no idea how many how often they talk.
They could talk every day, they could talk once a month.
I like, literally have no idea, but I feel a
tiny bit of responsibility to make sure she's okay, and
so I'm I, I don't know how many days is appropriate.
And then here's the other fucked up thing, like say,
(15:37):
because she's kind of granola, like, say she's camping somewhere
without cell service, and then I do text her and
then I hear nothing back.
Speaker 2 (15:45):
That's gonna spin me the fuck out, you know what
I mean?
Speaker 6 (15:49):
I so, I I get this feeling, and I think
it's totally appropriate to text her, and it's not.
Speaker 5 (15:54):
You're not asking for infer, you're not saying where the
fuck are you? All this other stuff.
Speaker 1 (15:57):
I would give it a week Saturday to Saturday.
Speaker 5 (15:59):
This Saturday.
Speaker 2 (16:00):
If you don't hear people just say hey, just checking
to see whatever you were going to say, right.
Speaker 5 (16:03):
I think that that's totally fine.
Speaker 6 (16:04):
And I don't know if that's like the moms and
us that one of I think that's the right thing
to do.
Speaker 1 (16:08):
Maybe dads are pieces of ship.
Speaker 2 (16:15):
That I get what you're saying, d.
Speaker 5 (16:19):
Like, I don't like, I wouldn't give a ship because
I'm a die.
Speaker 2 (16:22):
I don't think she's saying that.
Speaker 1 (16:23):
I think it was as I think you absolutely are.
I think you are.
Speaker 6 (16:30):
I don't think that I think dads are a little
bit more uh, letting their kids be independent, whereas moms
are a little it's.
Speaker 5 (16:39):
You over protective mom.
Speaker 2 (16:40):
You don't say that's a that's another great point and.
Speaker 5 (16:43):
Also also talking about somebody that's not your kid. Yeah, so.
Speaker 4 (16:49):
At twenty four years old, me and my sister were
both living out of the state and nobody was watching
over us NonStop at twenty four years old, So I
don't know, you're.
Speaker 1 (16:59):
Piece You're a piece of shit male, So you know
nobody cares about you. Nobody cares about you.
Speaker 5 (17:05):
This was if this was if this was a dude,
would you feel the same way.
Speaker 1 (17:08):
Absolutely not.
Speaker 6 (17:09):
Yes, absolutely if he told me every time he went
on vacation and then he was gone for five days
dead again.
Speaker 2 (17:18):
I'm not saying that. I don't want to say that.
Speaker 6 (17:20):
I just I just it's it's broken a pattern of
behavior to the point where it's making me a lot
of us maybe like once every three four months, you know,
it's normally like holidays like Thanksgiving, Christmas. She already went
out town once for summer, and.
Speaker 1 (17:39):
Let us know. I guess, I don't know. For me,
I would feel like, oh, I guess I have to
let them know, you know, like you're my mom now.
Speaker 6 (17:48):
But she started it, She's the one who started letting
us know she went outtown. We never could be, could
totally be.
Speaker 2 (17:56):
It just slipped her mind.
Speaker 7 (17:57):
But please
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