Amy is feeling refreshed and Kat is feeling, well, out of breath (because of the baby!) Amy & Kat are fresh off their girls trip to Canyon Ranch ad they have stories. Kat calls out Amy for printing her boarding pass at home before the airport and this leads to a conversation about the most millennial things we do (i.e. peace signs in photos and doing things on our computer vs our phones, etc…)
Do you know the rules of getting off a plane? Kat shares how Amy stood up for her to a man on their flight (he happened to be doing Amy's pet peeve!!!!) and if you didn't know Amy's feelings about deplaning properly, you're about to find out. Speaking of annoying things, Amy breaks down 3 signs you might actually be annoying. Plus, a voicemail from Linda in Kansas reminding Kat that motherhood is going to turn her into an even bigger crier!! Spoiler: Kat gets emotional.
They also go over the difference between being electrocuted and being shocked. This is an important distinction because Kat thought Amy electrocuted her and harmed her baby. Thankfully all is well and the baby is healthy.
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Speaker 1 (00:02):
All right, break it down.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
If you ever have feelings that you just falls home
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(00:26):
feeling things with Amy and Cat.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
Happy Tuesday. Welcome to feeling things. I'm Amy and I'm
Cat and Cat and I are back from our retreat.
So my feeling of the day is refreshed from our
time at Canyon Ranch. After a Cat and I wrote
Canyon Ranch, I flew to Colorado. And while that was
amazing and I was there with family and it filled
up my cup and my niece got engaged in all
the good things. Wasn't as refreshing the Canyon Ranch legit
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was so nice.
Speaker 2 (00:54):
Was the chaos like the not refreshing chaos of just
like going somewhere else or well.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
We were just a lot happy, busy. There was a
lot happening. There's a lot of people at my sister's house,
staying at her house. So I slept in this little
loft which was open over the living room kind of
mean you from the living room, you can't see it,
but I could see other down and there's like railing.
So if people didn't go to bed as early as
I did, I could hear them, and whenever they woke up,
(01:22):
I could hear them.
Speaker 2 (01:23):
Speaking of going to bed as early.
Speaker 1 (01:25):
We went to bed so early on our trip, like
Kat and I were Grandmall's.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
Night, we went to bed at seven o'clock.
Speaker 1 (01:34):
Well, but that was nine o'clock our body clock, right, so,
and we woke up at four in the morning to
travel that day.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
That's true. But every night we would get in bed
by no later than eight, if not earlier. You would
do a little reading and I would go straight to sleep.
Speaker 1 (01:51):
Yeah, I mean Kat was like she was out. I'd
be like, hey, Kat, and I was like, at some
point you got up to do like drink whiter and
I thought you were awake, and I started talking to you,
and you just rolled back over and started snoring again.
We weren't even sharing a bed, well a little bit.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
I don't usually snorin. It's a pregnancy thing, baby, yeah,
it's I do remember that. I was like in and
out of it. But you said, you said, oh, dang it,
cat for gorot you to the show notes, and like
the nice thing to do would be like, oh, let
me help you. I said like, oh no, you were
(02:31):
like that's your problem.
Speaker 1 (02:33):
They at dinner that night, we had a text from
Houston and I was like, oh, yeah, I need to
do the show notes when we get back to the room.
I forgot for the couch talks that day and I
was like, yeah, yeah, we'll remember. And then I was
having trouble falling asleep, so I was reading more, and
it was getting later and later, and it was like
nine forty five, almost ten, and you'd already been asleep
(02:53):
for hours an hour, and I was still reading but
really hoping to just go to sleep. And then I
looked at the clockt like, oh, shoot, show notes. So anyway,
that was fun.
Speaker 2 (03:03):
Sorry I didn't help you.
Speaker 1 (03:04):
That's okay, that's my responsibility.
Speaker 2 (03:06):
But we did get up at like five to five
thirty every.
Speaker 1 (03:09):
Morning and we went hiking, which was awesome. That's when
the weather is really the best in Arizona. It did
get hot, but I loved that there was no humidity.
So if you live in that part of the country, what.
Speaker 2 (03:24):
A gift you got to get up at six am, though, Well,
that's fine.
Speaker 1 (03:29):
They're probably also used to the heat, and when you're
in the shade, it's really not that bad. Just the
humidity is what kills me and my hair.
Speaker 2 (03:38):
Yeah, that's true. Speaking of our hike, I will say today,
my feeling is just out of breath because I feel
like I'm really starting to feel that like pregnancy feeling
of walking up the stairs or just to the bathroom
gets me. And you were so kind on our hikes,
pretending to also be out of breath.
Speaker 1 (04:01):
Well, you asked me to why. You were like, could
you just huff and puffer something because I'm feeling really
out of shape and it's not it's just that you're
carrying a baby. And so I said, sure, no problem.
And so I started just breathing heavily for you.
Speaker 2 (04:22):
And then we were walking up a hill and You're like, look,
if I walk backwards, then we walk at the same
pace as you walking. For so I appreciate that.
Speaker 1 (04:33):
I worked on my I did some agility training. Yeah,
I walked sideways and backwards.
Speaker 3 (04:38):
You did.
Speaker 1 (04:39):
We made it work, and we got our spa treatments.
And Cat and I were both shocked at the amount
of women that get into the whirlpool and the cold
plunge and all of that in the women's locker room naked.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
Shocked, shocked. But what I came to after day two
is we're the weird ones.
Speaker 1 (04:59):
Though yeah it was more normal. Were the outnumber naked
in that stuff than not? And I thought, well, did
they just not want to pack a swimsuit or they
don't feel like they have to, or just did we
grow up differently?
Speaker 2 (05:12):
I could not. I've only ever been to like a
hydrotherapy circuit thing like that at a resort, like a
conclusive type of resort where you are there with other
people and they tell you to bring a swimsuit. So
I've never gone to like a spa spa and gone
(05:32):
into a sauna or steam room or hot tub. So
I've never had the opportunity to see this. I guess
before I did not think that I would ever feel comfortable,
even if I.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
Would never I mean in there with when you were
like I'm going, she kept going back and forth from
the cold plunch to the hot tub, from the cold
punch of the hot tub, and she was naked, and
I was like, why my eyes, my eyes, I don't
want to see you do that naked anymore. And then
we would see her at dinner, and right now I'm like,
(06:06):
because it's like this one place, see dinner, I feel
like that's and I was like, that's that's naked Lady
number one, and it's like naked Lady number two, and like,
right now I know in my mind what they look
like naked, and I shouldn't, but but I do, and
now I'm picturing them.
Speaker 2 (06:22):
But nobody else thought it was well, I guess if
it was not supposed to happen.
Speaker 1 (06:26):
Yeah, I don't think. I think that that's right that
they do totally fine. Other than that, we had a
I mean, that wasn't even that bad, but we had
a fabulous experience. There's cra so nice and kind. Like
we were asking the people at Kenya Ranchry like, so,
is it a requirement to just be really really nice
to work here? And they said, well, people work here
for so long that it's hard to get your foot
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in the door with so if you get in with
an opening, you want to keep your job. So yeah,
you turn on the kindness. Because we met people that
have worked there thirty five, twenty five, twenty years and
one girl gave you a massage. She was like, I've
only been here five years and I'm a newbie. Yeah,
so it just speaks to the the culture there, and
(07:10):
I loved it so much. So if you're ever in
Arizona Canyon Ranch. They're opening a new one in Austin,
which I think we're maybe gonna have to try because
it seems like it's gonna be really, really nice.
Speaker 2 (07:22):
But we can't probably go the same time of year
because this isn't Austin. Not they would have the humidity, right.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
Austin would have the humans, so that would be not
as enjoyable. Yeah. Well, apparently we were there in Arizona
during the the what are they called low season or
was it an off season off? There you go low off.
Speaker 2 (07:42):
But honestly, I think that's the play to go to
a resort or anything like that, any vacation in off season,
because it's more enjoyable when it's nothing was crowded. Yeah,
imagine if it was like full, what it would you'd
have to fight to get a chair at the pool?
You could have any chair you wanted.
Speaker 1 (08:00):
Well, that one pool where aerobics class was pretty full,
though I'm not gonna lie we were. I feel like
we missed out on the pool aerobics. I wish we
would have signed up for that because we went to
the pool that one day and I was like, oh
my gosh, look at all these people taking this class,
and it looked so fun.
Speaker 2 (08:13):
I think a lot of them were family people were
on family vacation time.
Speaker 1 (08:16):
Yeah, there was a lot of like groups doing things.
Speaker 2 (08:17):
Cute.
Speaker 1 (08:19):
Kat was making fun of me on our flight because
I printed out my boarding paths at home and brought
it with me, and I thought, this just makes me
feel comfortable. This is like, maybe that's a millennial thing
that I do, but I really like having it, even
though I know I have access to it on my phone.
I just like having my paper copy.
Speaker 2 (08:39):
I think it is very normal because usually I do, too,
is print my boarding pass when I get to the airport.
What threw me off is that you printed it at
your house with your at home printer, which most people
don't even have printers anymore because nobody prints things anymore.
Speaker 1 (08:57):
I print a lot of things.
Speaker 2 (08:59):
Wow, wait, do you have that baby paperwork? Kids?
Speaker 1 (09:06):
Kids?
Speaker 2 (09:06):
Yeah, there's like all marketing stuff. Don't they just like
a document?
Speaker 1 (09:12):
Now you just there's all there's documents and things that
you're gonna need to press.
Speaker 2 (09:15):
But Amy pulled out her computer paper with her ticket,
and I was like, that is so adorable.
Speaker 1 (09:21):
Okay, I'm going to go sidebar and then we can
go back to some millennial things. But I just thought
of a tip that I saw online and it's genius,
and it's about documents. And when you move into a house,
you create an email address with your address. So say
you move into five O five Star Avenue, you create
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five O five Star Avenue at gmail dot com and
everything associated with that house, all the documents, the warranties,
anything you buy, everything goes to that email address. And
then when it comes time to sell your house and
you're looking for certain documents or you want to transform
to the new owner, it's like a gift you're giving them.
(10:02):
In fact, if I was considering buying your house, you
can be like, you know what, I have five X
five Star Avenue at gmail dot com and I have
everything in there that you're gonna need that's gonna make
your life easier, and they're gonna be like, I want
I want it sold. I'll buy this house. Wait asking
price over you've got five five five star avenue at Gmail.
(10:27):
But I thought that that was so brilliant And it's
just a little tip in case anybody listening. I know
this is random, but the paperwork and documents you have
to keep up with a lot of that, and you
have it printed in a different folder scattered about. Imagine
having it all in one place in that email.
Speaker 2 (10:43):
That is nice. You I feel like, would just print
it all out and put it in a fold.
Speaker 1 (10:48):
This was my tip to make me foler because this
is a way to have everything so you don't have
to have it all printed, but an email you can search, Yeah,
well what are you looking for? Oh the dishwasher warranty?
Dishwasher warranty. Bam, it pops up.
Speaker 2 (11:07):
Do you get that via email?
Speaker 3 (11:09):
No?
Speaker 2 (11:09):
Kat, are you you're.
Speaker 1 (11:11):
Tracking with what I'm saying. Okay, some stuff you might
have to in yeah, okay, some stuff you might have
to scan it. But also yes, I think you can
get digital copies of things and you transfer it to
the email. Or if you're at best Buy, for example,
and they're like, where do you want all your paperwork
(11:31):
to go? Five five five star avenue for the new
washer and dryer or you're at home depot and you
get a new refrigerator, you're like five five five star Avenue.
Speaker 2 (11:41):
And it all just lives there and then you don't
use it for anything else.
Speaker 1 (11:45):
I feel like you're a printer hater.
Speaker 2 (11:48):
I am not a printer hater. We have a home.
Speaker 1 (11:51):
You know what I'm getting you for your baby?
Speaker 2 (11:52):
A printer? Oh, you have a home printer. I just don't.
Speaker 1 (11:58):
Oh, I thought you said people don't have home winters anymore.
Speaker 2 (12:01):
Won't to be bare. It's Patrick's he rot it because
he uses it for work. I don't think I use
it for anything other than I've had to like pronounce
something for my taxes.
Speaker 1 (12:12):
Yeah, you'll probably use it a little more. What's the
most millennial thing you think you do? If I print
out my boarding pass while you think about it, I
can share with you one that I know that I do.
And it's when I call places and I live a
voice smail and I leave my phone number twice.
Speaker 2 (12:25):
What do you mean?
Speaker 1 (12:27):
Well, I might be calling somewhere like my doctor's office,
and they have caller ID or they've got my name
on file. Right, They'll be like, this is Amy Brown,
and then I'll give my phone number, and then I'll say,
like why I'm calling, and I'll say again my number is,
and I give it again.
Speaker 2 (12:42):
If you want to grab a pen. Wait, But I
actually think about that because I always give my number two.
I don't know if I do it twice. I do
it twice just in case twice is crazy, But I
do it too, even though I know caller idea is
a thing. But my thought is I don't know how
to end this like the normal like flow is again,
(13:05):
this is Catherine van Buren. You can reach me at
blank by blank, thank you bye. It feels awkward not
saying that to me. You know how how would you
end it? This is again, this is Kathan.
Speaker 1 (13:18):
Thank you.
Speaker 2 (13:19):
I'm not going to give you my number because I know.
Speaker 1 (13:21):
You have it. Start saying, have that e to have?
Do you have a voice message on your voice mountain?
Speaker 2 (13:27):
He neither, And I should. I should because I use
my number for work, but.
Speaker 1 (13:33):
You don't whoa you use it for a professional thing
and you don't have a Hey, this is Catherine van
Buren with three quarts therapy. I have this is an
emergency call nine one one.
Speaker 2 (13:45):
No, I don't have that. I had it when I
had a Google voice number, because you know how those work.
They like, still call your phone and then I like,
you know, I have ADHD and something went on with
that and I lost that phone number. Still phone number
on the front of our building. So if you call
that phone number, I don't know who you're kidding.
Speaker 1 (14:06):
So you're not trying to get a new business, are you.
I mean, you've got the clients that you.
Speaker 2 (14:14):
I just hope that they mosey their way to the website. Yeah,
but I should. I just hate that all I know?
Do you?
Speaker 1 (14:24):
No, I don't have it. My sister and I were
talking on my trip in Colorado. We were walking home
from dinner with the Night and telling our kids how
well how it started was we started singing the entire
theme song to the Fresh Prince of bel Air and
how we don't know like what we did yesterday, but
we'll see you every line to that TV theme song,
(14:45):
And we were talking about how kids these days don't
have TV theme songs that they memorize and know where
we had so many that we watched and knew, especially
on TGIF like all Full House Family Matters, and then
for sure Fresh Friends was just a very popular one.
And then my home answering machine. I took that beat
(15:05):
and I had put it on the answer machine, and
my sister was talking about how she was so embarrassed
anytime her friends would call because it would be me,
And she was telling my daughter like that, I didn't
even have friends calling me. It was her friends that
were calling. But then it was me being like, hello,
we're the muppets with the story to tell. We're not
home at the moment, so don't have a cow. Just
leave a little message at the sound of the tone,
(15:27):
and we'll call back as soon as possible when we
get home.
Speaker 4 (15:31):
No, nook, your sister could have deleted it or that,
I think eventually, okay, what if I think a cute
boy called in.
Speaker 2 (15:50):
You.
Speaker 1 (15:50):
I used to call my sister's boyfriend's vertenda was my sister,
and I.
Speaker 2 (15:54):
Would say, I love you, I love it. Yeah I
did it.
Speaker 1 (15:59):
Yeah, Yeah. I would call and I would impersonate her.
Speaker 2 (16:02):
You were mad at her?
Speaker 1 (16:03):
No, but I was poored and I would call them
and I would I could sound just like her. We
could do it, and well, I don't know even now,
we still we did that. Actually on this trip, her
son's south was yelling up, Mom, Mom, and I was
like yeah, and he was like, when are we having grapes?
And she she knew what he was talking about. I didn't,
(16:26):
and I was like grapes, and she was looking at
me like trying to mouth because she was up there
with me while he was yelling, and she was like
and she was like tomorrow, tomorrow. I said, we're having
grapes tomorrow, and she's like, no, crapes. He was saying crapes,
but I was hearing grapes, so then he knew. He's like,
this isn't mom, because we're not having grapes. We're having crapes.
(16:46):
And so I messed it up. But we still will
play that game with her kids and try to act
like we're each other. But I used to do it
to her boyfriends and I would professe her love.
Speaker 2 (16:58):
Then they thought it was her yea. And so did
she want to murder you?
Speaker 1 (17:02):
Yes, murder She did not like me. We're best friends now.
Speaker 2 (17:06):
But amy that is mean wait, but also really funny.
How did she find out? Was her boyfriend called back
later and was like, so now that we're.
Speaker 1 (17:14):
In love, yeah, or I know that one time? She
didn't know how many times I had done it. It
was like a running thing that I would do, and
I think it was with this Brad. I won't say
his last name, but I know for sure. And Brad
she walked in on me and yelled and she was
like Amy, and I was like, oh, Brad called, But
(17:37):
that's what would happen. I don't even think I was
actually calling them. I mean they were calling the house
and then I would pick up, like.
Speaker 2 (17:43):
Hello, did Brad say I love you back?
Speaker 1 (17:47):
Well?
Speaker 2 (17:47):
Of course, Oh did she love Brad?
Speaker 1 (17:51):
I think so? Okay, she got bested sneaking out to
see Brad.
Speaker 2 (17:55):
Well, so maybe you did her a favor because she
was like scared to tell him and then you did
it for her.
Speaker 1 (17:59):
Shouldn't like that?
Speaker 2 (18:00):
Oh my gosh, that's funny. I was not the perfect sister.
But I don't think I'd be alive today if I
did that to my sister, to be honest. So thank
god I never thought of that.
Speaker 1 (18:11):
Yeah, anyway, what's the most millennial thing you do? Oh?
Speaker 2 (18:17):
I feel like I do a lot of millennial things
that I don't. Actually, I'm like fine with doing the
one that I think is my like, other than the
fact that I look like I'm in my thirties. That
makes me look like a millennial is the laws, which
we've talked about before. I cannot For the longest time,
(18:37):
I never used lol, and then I started using it
and I can't stop, Like I cannot stop after every
sentence sometimes when I'm like, I'll have the thought to
read this text before I send it, and I'm like,
oh my gosh, I said law multiple times in these
three sentences.
Speaker 1 (18:56):
But I was thrown off by you saying lall, do
not read it lall. I read it as l ol.
Just now you said both the lulls lulls, and I
thought you were saying like a lull like the.
Speaker 2 (19:12):
Or like laws.
Speaker 1 (19:13):
I'm like, you don't.
Speaker 2 (19:16):
The law o lo o l I like, in my
head rita as law like hell. I can't stop. But
that I've learned as a very millennial thing.
Speaker 3 (19:27):
It is.
Speaker 2 (19:28):
It is, but which is crazy because I started doing
that in the last couple of years of my life.
I didn't grow up.
Speaker 1 (19:34):
Lolling, but I do it too, So it's like if
older people are doing it, still makes it millennial.
Speaker 2 (19:39):
Yeah. So I've been working on doing it a little less,
but not totally getting rid of it because it is
part of who I am.
Speaker 1 (19:46):
So I've seen that millennials are love wearing their yoga
pants everywhere or like legging like like, yes, but the
straight leg kind that's what I love. But apparently the
younger people wear more of the flared.
Speaker 2 (20:04):
Okay, I will argue with that. Okay, because I feel
like millennials, I we grew up wearing the leggings, the tights,
and I feel like straight legs are a newer thing.
I don't have any straight legs yoga pants.
Speaker 1 (20:20):
You don't what do you mean?
Speaker 2 (20:22):
What you don't? That's all I have? You don't have
You have leggings. Yeah, I only have leggings.
Speaker 1 (20:29):
I don't have which straight leg do you mean the
kind of flare out at the bottom. Maybe this is
the most millennial conversation we've ever had because we don't
understand each other.
Speaker 2 (20:41):
I have sweatpants, yeah, and then you have leggings.
Speaker 1 (20:45):
Which would be like yoga pants. Like when you see
me come down, I'm going to pilates.
Speaker 2 (20:50):
I'm assuming you're gonn wed leggings, which are which.
Speaker 1 (20:54):
Are yoga pants? Right?
Speaker 2 (20:55):
That's what I like?
Speaker 1 (20:56):
When I when we went to the airport.
Speaker 2 (20:58):
I actually have no idea what we're talking about. I'm
confusing myself. Yoga pants, yoga pants are leggings.
Speaker 1 (21:04):
Okay, they are same thing, right, Yeah.
Speaker 2 (21:10):
All yoga pants are leggings, but not all leggings are
yoga pants. Yes, or maybe it's the roof. Anyway, I
don't have any flares, I will tell you that, so
I'm definitely not a gen z. I did find, though,
a list of things that make you look like a millennial,
and I agree with some of them and disagree with
some of them. What are they? Joggers? Like, are not?
(21:34):
Are we not wearing joggers anymore?
Speaker 1 (21:36):
I love jogs.
Speaker 2 (21:37):
I love a jogger. I have more joggers than I
have straight leg yoga pants, skinny jeans, which like, yeah,
we know, I do hear their coming back, so don't
get rid of them.
Speaker 1 (21:47):
I've heard that a lot, though, and then I still
have yet to see them.
Speaker 2 (21:50):
I also don't know if I want to go back there.
Speaker 1 (21:52):
Yeah, I think I feel like I thought it looked.
Speaker 2 (21:54):
Good at the time, and looking back, I'm like, I
don't know if that was the best look for my shape.
Speaker 1 (21:59):
I like the genes that I have on right now,
which are more of like a straight leg cigarette. I
can think they call it a cigarette cuts like a straight.
Speaker 2 (22:07):
Leg little baggy.
Speaker 1 (22:10):
They're a little they're not like super tight skinny jeans
are skinny at the ankle. They just go like straight down,
but they're not boot cut. They're more just cigarette.
Speaker 5 (22:23):
Got it, Okay, got leggings, Yeah, leggings, Okay, side part
which like, yeah, okay, I've been toying with the idea
of going back to a side park.
Speaker 1 (22:36):
But probably because you're pregnant, you're gonna be you're gonna
be a mom.
Speaker 2 (22:42):
But what's crazy is I'm scared to go back to
the side part. But for a while I was scared
to do a semi middle part. So I just got
to get the courage.
Speaker 1 (22:50):
Sorry, did you say semi middle?
Speaker 2 (22:51):
I think sometimes it's off centered.
Speaker 1 (22:54):
What you call it your your your goal is center though.
Speaker 2 (22:57):
Right, Yeah, but I can never even really get it
quite right.
Speaker 1 (22:59):
You Know what I do is I get a bobby
pin and I put it right in the center of
my nose, and then I take the bobby pin and
I draw a line and then that makes it perfectly centered.
It's not semi.
Speaker 2 (23:12):
I do that with like I have a comb at
the end that's just like, oh fancy, it's like a
I know what you're talking about. Then I do that too,
but then I always feel like I get off a
little bit so semi so I okay, peace signs and
photos totally and I can't stop.
Speaker 1 (23:30):
I'll ever see.
Speaker 2 (23:31):
Yeah, it just is what it is. And I think
gen zs do that too. I see little kids doing
those poses and their snapchats. Little kids I don't see
their snapchats because they don't have Snapchatat's like all the
little kids.
Speaker 1 (23:44):
I snap with they do peace sign.
Speaker 2 (23:52):
I take that back. It's weird, Okay. Downloading physical copies.
Speaker 1 (23:59):
Of things, yes, im printing them up.
Speaker 2 (24:02):
Yeah, doing things on a computer versus a phone, like
shopping or booking a flight or speaking.
Speaker 1 (24:08):
Of me because I can't see on my face.
Speaker 2 (24:11):
It's just and like it looks. It's you can have
the windows and like you can have multiple things if
you're comparing. I just I like that the have you
ever done it? I did a thing? Post you like,
posted a picture and you're like, I did a thing.
Speaker 1 (24:24):
I see other people do it, and I think it's cute,
but I've never done it.
Speaker 2 (24:27):
I don't know that I've ever done it, but I.
Speaker 1 (24:29):
Might have, like, if I get a haircut, I'd be like,
so I did a thing.
Speaker 2 (24:32):
If you but if you like chopped your hair off,
or if you like, I don't know, bought a new
car and wanted to post.
Speaker 1 (24:38):
It, which, speaking of you're probably going to be like Amy, now,
don't I know. I know I'm not going to chop
my hair, but I want to. And I also really
really really really really want bangs.
Speaker 2 (24:49):
You'll get your clippings.
Speaker 1 (24:51):
No, I tried that. They don't stay in clippins. They
don't stay in. And Ella Langley said Banks changed her life,
her whole career.
Speaker 2 (25:01):
You trying to change your career? No, but I mean no, Okay,
this is my thing with you. I think you look
so cute with short hair. You're somebody who really can
pull long, medium short off. I'm not trying to just yes,
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but every time you do it, You've done it multiple
times since I've known you, you get annoyed immediately, like
two weeks later, you're like, I want my hair back.
So I wish there was a way, Like you know
how if you have short hair you can get extensions.
I wish that if you had long hair you could
get and it's old tape or something that I don't know,
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because you like you just want it for like a week.
Speaker 1 (25:46):
I guess I could get a wig and you pull
your hair back and hair to fit into a short week. Yeah,
I see. I mean I think like if I was acting,
or maybe I just do it for whimsy, I get
a wig.
Speaker 2 (25:59):
Or is there a way for you to get extensions
that cut into bangs versus your actual hair?
Speaker 1 (26:04):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (26:05):
Interesting, because I just don't what do you mean, I don't,
I don't know. I still have to cut your actual hair.
Speaker 1 (26:13):
I don't know. I'll ask person. But it's a good question.
And then I feel like you would see the little
extension beads coming down, It wouldn't look it.
Speaker 2 (26:25):
Could be like a decoration thing. If you really want
to do it, go for it. But I'm just telling
you the pattern that I've seen. Okay, calling your husband hubby,
did you ever do that? No? I have never done that.
I would. That feels great. That feels more boomer, not boomer,
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but and not elder millennial, because I think we're elder millennials, but.
Speaker 1 (26:51):
We're ten years apart.
Speaker 2 (26:53):
I'm well, I was just trying to make you feel better.
Speaker 1 (26:57):
Thank you.
Speaker 2 (26:59):
Uh it feels not. Yeah, this one I do relate
to looking at your phone when it rings and not answering. Yeah, well,
what do you mean holding your phone somebody's calling me
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and being like, oh, not going to answer that one.
Speaker 1 (27:24):
Is that a millennial thing or because like the bandwith thing.
Speaker 2 (27:26):
Or like they say millennials are like afraid of phone calls.
Speaker 1 (27:29):
Oh, I think that's the younger people than us that
are afraid of the phone. I mind the phone, it's
just sometimes if I'm over stimulated, I can't.
Speaker 2 (27:39):
Yeah, I may not be able to answered. Tom relate
drinking out of a mason jar?
Speaker 1 (27:45):
Mm hmm.
Speaker 2 (27:46):
Do you that's what you do?
Speaker 1 (27:47):
Don't you ordered new they were too little, everything complaining that.
Speaker 2 (27:54):
Yeah, I's like, do you want a glass of water?
And it's literally like literally a shot of water.
Speaker 1 (28:00):
I love those little tiny mason jars that are like
the diamond shape. I remember and I still have them
in my cabinet. But so many people were like, Okay,
can I have water? So then I ordered glasses that
are at least like twelve ounces.
Speaker 2 (28:17):
And that's why you drink out of a measuring cup.
Speaker 1 (28:20):
Yes, I want to order my measuring cup right now
is eight ounces. But I had an idea the other day,
and now I'm glad I'm reminding myself of it. I
need to go order it. I want to order my
exact measuring cup, but double, so the sixteen ounce version.
I hope they make it where.
Speaker 2 (28:40):
The rim is the same, that feels like a large. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (28:45):
I want to start drinking sixteen ounces at a time.
It's my new thing, okay, because I used to just
like throw back eight ounces and I'm like, you know,
if this were double, I would get more water.
Speaker 2 (28:55):
Look what you're doing. You're scaffolding yourself because you started
with the four ounce cup, then you move to the
eight ounce measuring cup, and now you're gonna go to
a sixteen ounce What I also learned about you on
our trip, which I don't know if I knew this
about you before, but I guess it makes sense now
that I'm thinking about it. You like warm water.
Speaker 1 (29:15):
I do not like cold. I love room temperature. It's
not warm.
Speaker 2 (29:18):
It's a room tip that can feel warm.
Speaker 1 (29:21):
Sometimes temperature the room is oh yeah, I don't ever
want it out of the She.
Speaker 2 (29:27):
Never wants ice, and you don't put ice in your
like every night we would go to bed and would
fill up water cups and I would fill up one
full with ice, and you.
Speaker 1 (29:35):
Just water straight tap or room, not as refreshing.
Speaker 2 (29:40):
Maybe, okay, here's a thought. Maybe that's why I don't
drink as much water because it's not as like, like
I love a good cold crisp, especially in the middle
of the night when you just chug some cold water.
Speaker 1 (29:51):
Because I don't want to get up and have to pee.
I don't know, I've just never really liked it cold.
I mean, yeah, if it's a really hot day, then I'll.
Speaker 2 (30:00):
You'll want it was one hundred and five degrees an
a and not once since you drink a cold drink.
You drink your coffee hot in the morning when we
were outside hiking, Yeah, I you you're like you have
you know how we're warm blooded. I feel like you're
maybe cold blooded and that's why you don't.
Speaker 1 (30:21):
Need But when we would get back, I would have
my eyes. It was cooler in the mornings there, and
I just I was having a little hot cappuccino and
then I was I'm like, and I huffing a puffy
latte after.
Speaker 2 (30:36):
You know what else I do.
Speaker 1 (30:38):
Is I am standing up for people on airplanes that
yes you are, or standing up to people that are
cutting the line, because it's always been one of my
biggest pet peeves. And I don't know that I ever
speak up. And maybe it was traveling with you being pregnant.
I was protective of you. But there were people when
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we landed trying to get up and exit the plane
when it wasn't their turn. There's a process to deplaning.
You get off the plane in the order of which
it trinkles back to you. Except for some people in
the back the plane parks and they get up and
immediately start walking forward and then they cause all these
little traffic jams without realizing it. It's like, do they
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have no self awareness at all? I try to give
them the benefit of doubt and maybe assume this is
the first time they've traveled. Maybe they don't know the rules.
Or if you have a flight to catch, that is
the only exception to the rule. If you have somewhere
to be, then you make that known. Hey, I have
a connection to catch, we're a little behind. I'm cutting
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it close. Do you mind if I go? And yes,
And that's politely. People are gonna let you go. It
wouldn't if they don't then kick them in the ship
and go like that's weird.
Speaker 2 (31:56):
It would be weird. I mean, don't because you could
get like like, don't, don't kick them? But what Who's
why I wouldn't do that?
Speaker 1 (32:05):
Who doesn't let somebody go if they have a flight
to catch. But if you have nowhere to be and
you're just marching your little button down the plane to
get off before everybody else, no, And there was someone
that was trying to actually multiple people trying to pass you,
and these two women I could barely even deal with
that were trying to do it. And then comes this man,
well a big old man.
Speaker 2 (32:26):
I was already standing up because I was trying to
stretch my legs because I was sitting for so long.
I'm afraid of getting blood cloths. So I'm standing up
kind of in the aisle, kind of in my seat halfway.
Then all these people show up and take it away
because you did all the talking.
Speaker 1 (32:42):
Well, And then the women were so annoyed you were blocking.
But then the other people around us were annoyed at
those women too for coming up, and so of course
everyone was exchanging looks, and I was just being protective
of you, and they were not gonna be able to
get by. And then I think they sold their way through.
Asked them, you said yeah, I said to catch.
Speaker 2 (33:03):
And they said yes, and so you you go really nicely.
You said okay, well then go ahead. And as soon
as that happened.
Speaker 1 (33:10):
Okay, you're right, I let They didn't weasele the way through.
I let them through, which saw them in the airport later.
They did not have a flight to catch. No no, no,
no no, but they got through. Then here comes big
old man and he's walking down the aisle and I
put my hand up and I was like you.
Speaker 2 (33:28):
Literally go no no, I go no, no, no, no no.
Speaker 1 (33:32):
And I was like, who am I I don't know why.
I just said had enough And it is a pet
peeve of mine. But again I normally don't speak up,
but I held my ground with that man and I
did not let him pass.
Speaker 2 (33:45):
Well. I just thought it was crazy. I think that's
crazy when people did it in general. What was crazy
is after those two women went, like two other people
then rushed past, and then that guy was coming too,
and I'm visibly pregnant. Yeah, that's what I think. Blows
my mind. I was talking can chanting about this earlier
today that I thought when you're pregnant, people will treat
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you differently, like you live. You wouldn't let me lift
my suitcase, and that was really nice. If I had
to do it, I would have been able to do it,
but it was nice that you that you didn't need to.
So I'm just thinking, like, I'm standing up, I'm pregnant.
You think this guy would just be like, go ahead.
Instead he tried to push me back into my seat,
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and that's when you put the hand up, and I
was like, I feel like you're like my like my
mother bear right now. It was really sweet.
Speaker 1 (34:34):
Oh you're welcome. Yeah, he annoyed me. And then I
saw him wandering through the airport. Later he had nowhere
to be. I when I got off the plane, you
were in the bathroom and these other people that were
near us, they came up and they were like, that
was awesome, good job.
Speaker 2 (34:47):
And I was like, you're like a small hero. I
was like, anytime, no problem. I got you.
Speaker 1 (34:59):
But I just couldn't be I can't. So if you're listening,
and maybe you just don't have this knowledge yet, you
need to wait your turn to deplane. I really just
liked to assume people don't know. But then I'm like,
did they not have any self awareness? Remember that guy
that was on the tram at atl and the Atlanta
airport and and it was abruptly starting and stopping because
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we had already been on the tram, and he got
on with his kids, and I tried to tell the
little kid, I'm like, hold on, hold on, hold on,
and the guy like looked at me like weird, like
stop talking to my kid, and then the tram took
off in the kid. They all fall over, and I
was like, oh my gosh, I was just trying to help.
Speaker 2 (35:37):
The kid looked at you like, dad, she's trying to
steal me, Like it's like stranger danger. But that blew
my mind. Maybe they had never been to that airport
around before.
Speaker 1 (35:48):
Had they never been on a tram before.
Speaker 2 (35:50):
Because if that was me, I'd be like everybody, hold
on kids. Yeah. The guy did a little tumbling.
Speaker 1 (35:57):
Yeah, And I was like, well, sorry, I can only
help you so far.
Speaker 2 (36:00):
You can only help people that want to be helped.
Speaker 1 (36:02):
I can only have people that want to be helped. Yeah,
I do have three signs that you're annoying.
Speaker 2 (36:08):
It's one of them. You run up to the front
of the airplane.
Speaker 1 (36:11):
Yeah, you're deplain before it's your turn. Sign number one.
Speaker 2 (36:15):
No.
Speaker 1 (36:15):
Three signs that you're annoying and no one's going to
tell you about it. Okay, So if you do any
of these three things like you might be annoying. However,
I wonder if people even have the self awareness that
they're doing stuff like this, Like sign number one would be,
you complain all the time. Nothing is ever good enough.
Do you think the complainers know? No?
Speaker 2 (36:36):
I think I mean I become aware when I complain.
But I think that people that are doing it like this,
that's just like their baseline. They're never satisfied. I think
that's how they know.
Speaker 1 (36:47):
What about if you say whatever comes to your mind
and you think you're just being honest, but really you're
being inconsiderate because you're not really thinking through before you
say something that could potentially be hurtful. But you those
people might actually see it as like equality, they have
to speak their mind.
Speaker 2 (37:08):
That reminds me when people are like, I'm not a
bad word, I'm just being honest, or I just say
I just say what's on my mind, or I just
tell people the truth, and I'm like, that's not an it.
That doesn't work that way. Like, you don't always have
to say everything. So I think people that like do
that a lot. Yeah, you're right, think that it's okay.
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They think that like, oh, this is just a quality
of mine.
Speaker 1 (37:34):
I think it is good to speak your mind at
times and be one of those people will just tell
it like it is. But then you have to have
don't be mean awareness, sort of like the plane people
like you, there are appropriate times to deep plane. Yeah, early,
but yeah, you have to have awareness of that. Is
you don't have a flight to catch, you don't do it.
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I tie everything back to getting off the plane early.
Speaker 2 (37:59):
I could find that man and just send this episode
to him and give them a little lesson.
Speaker 1 (38:04):
The third and final sign is you make every conversation
about you, no matter what someone else is saying. You
have this beautiful skill of turning the entire conversation to
something about you.
Speaker 2 (38:20):
Here's a thought I'm having. I do all of these things.
Yeah at times, So would you like to tell me something?
Speaker 1 (38:30):
No, you don't complain about everything, but you know that I.
Speaker 2 (38:35):
Did talk to you recently about how I'm gonna try
to be more positive about things because I can get.
Speaker 1 (38:42):
I can complain too. This is you complain about most everything,
and I don't put you in that category.
Speaker 2 (38:49):
Okay, well I'm just checking in.
Speaker 1 (38:51):
I know, well, I would check in on the one
like I feel like a lot of times something's old.
I love how I'm like a lot of times sometimes
maybe just a little bit can actually talk about myself. Well,
I do that too, and some of that is our
with our we always have a story to tell. Yeah,
you know what they say that that's a that's an
ADHD thing.
Speaker 2 (39:11):
But I also think that's part of that's a finesse too,
Like that's a that's part of conversation. Is Okay, if
you relate to it, you can share your story, but
let's make sure that this person is done with their
like or I'm gonna share my story then come back.
I do think that you do that a lot of times.
You'll share your thing, but then you'll you do come
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back and like check in.
Speaker 1 (39:36):
Well, because I think I'm actively trying. Because I'm shot,
I just say that about me, I better go circle back.
Speaker 2 (39:41):
But it's also how conversation works. Sometimes it's like I
say something and they're like, oh, yeah, this happened to me.
Speaker 1 (39:46):
And I've been doing that finger cross thing, like I'll
either move my ring to another finger or I'll cross
my finger. If I'm like, okay, I do have something
to say, and I don't want to forget, but I
want to let this person finish talking. I don't want
to interrupt up so then and then and then by
the time they get in talking, I'm like, why did
I cross my finger? And I don't remember, And then
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if if I don't remember, then oh well it wasn't
meant to be.
Speaker 2 (40:11):
I don't see you as somebody who does like says
like whatever comes to mind, and then it's just like,
I'm just honest, I don't get that that you don't
do that, But sometimes I I don't Okay.
Speaker 1 (40:22):
No, I don't, No, I know, I know what this is.
Like my daughter has this Okay, she speaks her mind
the word blunt, blunt, yes, and and we're working on
that because she you know, and she'll be like what
just I tell it like it is like, well, I
always have to do that. We need to look at
our company, who we're with. And while I don't want
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to rob her of that, trait, like, because I do
think there is. It can be good, yes, and there
can be some courage in there, and it could be
brave at some points, like you know, to speak up
where others may not. Uh. And there are also are
times where it's just not appropriate. Like we were at
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dinner the other night with a group of people and
she said something and I don't want to say it
because it's she could say it if she wanted to,
but involves other people. And I was like, we got
in the car. I had to say, like, I love
that you speak your mind, and that's great. I just
think that that comment in particular could be hurtful, even
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though that other person wasn't there, and I know you
didn't mean anything bad. It's just not your cup of tea,
and that's okay, But not everybody at the table needs
to know it's not your cup of tea, because then
it made somebody else uncomfortable because maybe it's a little
bit of their cup of tea.
Speaker 2 (41:38):
Yeah, you know.
Speaker 1 (41:40):
And she's like, well, what I don't, I don't it
was about this one particular person. She's like, what, I
don't like that person. I'm like, well, the other people
at the table did, and now it's like you have
every right to not vibe with that person. That's totally great.
But do we need to announce to the whole table.
Speaker 2 (41:58):
No?
Speaker 1 (41:58):
No, And I think I think, yeah, you can talk
to me about it all day long. Tell me more.
Speaker 2 (42:03):
Why don't you.
Speaker 1 (42:04):
Now that we're in the car, let's go, what's up?
Speaker 2 (42:05):
What happened? Who is it? You know what they do?
Speaker 1 (42:09):
So, yeah, there's that. Something else that happened on our
trip was Kat was very emotional leading up to our
trip and then on the trip and maybe even still.
And I don't want to bring it up right now
if you're going to cry that you cried a lot, and.
Speaker 2 (42:30):
I think I did pretty good.
Speaker 1 (42:32):
Like there was a baby crying on the plane and
that was making you cry, yes, And then there was
a mom that maybe we were guessing this is what happened.
We don't know for a fact, but a mom was
in on the flight deck with the pilots also known
as cockpit, and they were coming out. We have no
idea if he was just getting a little tour or
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if you decided, oh, that kid must be anxious and
he's nervous about flying. So the pilots let.
Speaker 2 (43:01):
Him go back there.
Speaker 1 (43:01):
I don't know if that's exactly what happened, but that
was making you emotional.
Speaker 2 (43:05):
I think that is what I think.
Speaker 1 (43:06):
I heard that, Okay, you did.
Speaker 2 (43:07):
I think I heard the kid being like when they
were walking out of it, and I think that he
was like being calmed down, like he got to see
what was going on up there, They got to meet
the pilots, know who's flying the plane. And that got me,
Like that is so I think that got me because
that is so sweet that the pilots would do that.
Speaker 1 (43:28):
Well, you were definitely or you're gonna cry right now,
Oh my gosh, I'm making you cry.
Speaker 2 (43:34):
I it just there's something about flying in kids. And
maybe it's because I have like future anxiety about like
what's it going to be like? And I and I
imagine taking kids on a flight. You don't want to
like annoy people or and you can't control a little
kid or a baby. You can't. You just can't control
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if they have anxiety, they have anxiety, if they are crying,
their crying like baby's ear pressure. I don't know. And
so I think I make up that parents have more
anxiety maybe than they do. And then so I feel
that for them. Does that make sense?
Speaker 1 (44:11):
Yeah, totally.
Speaker 2 (44:13):
I didn't tell you this, but on my flight home
this was kind of crazy. I there was two babies
on the plane and then one pregnant lady. We all
sat in a line like did they put us together
for a reason because they know I'm not going to
be annoyed if the baby's crying. But it was, Oh,
that was so sweet. It was a it was like
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a young mom.
Speaker 1 (44:39):
Cats crying.
Speaker 2 (44:42):
She was with her sister. I don't know why crying
because it was not sad, but she was like it
was really sweet because she had her baby, like was
wearing her and then she was like trying to I've
got to go back to therapy and about this. But
she was trying to like get a couple things out
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of her bag before she sat down in her seat,
and she was like holding up the line. And then
the sister had all the stuff in her hands so
she couldn't help her, and so like all the people
around her was like trying to help her get her.
Speaker 1 (45:18):
And you were like, nobody self to me, I'm pregnant.
Speaker 2 (45:24):
I was just like screw this. It was just really
sweet and you could tell that the girl was like
felt bad for holding up the line, but I was like,
don't worry about it, like these people can wait. And
then she had to sit by the window, and I
know she did window. Why did she want because she
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asked the lady that was sitting in the aisle. Oh
my god. She asked the lady that was sitting in
the aisle on her row, like, would it make you
more comfortable to sit by the window so I can say,
because you know, if the baby had to go to
the bathroom, something's easy for her to get up. And
the woman said no. That I was like, oh shoot,
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you could tell that lady was like, I don't want
to be in this row. Everybody else had a baby
or was pregnant or was the sister of the And
I was sitting next to a woman with like a
more like she was probably like three months old, and
a car seat, so there's only two people in her row.
And I almost offered my aisle seat, but I knew
I was gonna have to pee like four or five times,
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and I knew that would be more annoying for her,
so I didn't. But that I felt like really bad
for her when she had the courage to ask like,
do you want to sit by the window, and the
woman just said no, like straight faced. So anyway, I
did cry on that flight because the woman next to me,
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the baby, cried a lot. I felt really bad for her.
She was so calm the whole time. This is great.
Speaker 1 (47:01):
Well, we did get a voicemail from Linda in Kansas
who was listening to our episode last week, and she
sent in a voicemail talking about how emotional she would
get as well. So this is a voicemail about moms
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crying a lot, so get used to it.
Speaker 3 (47:31):
This is Linda from Kansas. I'm thirty four, love the show.
I was listening to the show the podcast and Kat
gets emotional ab off the video on TikTok about what
to pack and it's not even supposed to be emotional
and security said that she is an emotional person. I'm
just thinking, oh my gosh, Like becoming a mother like
makes you that much more emotional about everything. Like I
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was never this much of a crier before I became
a mom four years ago, and I just like I
cry at everything and the drop of the hat, and
it's just like, what is wrong with me? So good luck, Cat,
I know you're gonna be in an amazing mother, but
you're gonna cry a lot more, even more than what
you do now. So all right, love the show, keep
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it up.
Speaker 1 (48:14):
There you go, good luck, good luck, You're not alone.
I did think that you were gonna cry and then
murder me. Oh yeah, uh huh after that brief moment
where you thought I killed your baby, I.
Speaker 2 (48:27):
Did not think you killed my baby.
Speaker 1 (48:29):
Well no, no, no.
Speaker 2 (48:30):
Part of my anxiety was fearing that you would feel
like you did. I didn't want you to take that responsibility.
So do you want do you want to share what
had happened?
Speaker 1 (48:39):
Well, so at Canyon Ranch, they had this immortal chamber, yeah,
is what it was called. But it's a red light bed.
But it does other things like there's oxygen, there's electro birds,
like sound, someone's talking to you like a robot, and
it's this whole situation like I don't know, like now
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relax into your and then like trip trip troop, and
I don't know if there's other things happening.
Speaker 2 (49:06):
Like currents, putting, yeah, being put in your body too.
Speaker 1 (49:09):
It was amazing.
Speaker 2 (49:10):
I loved it a lot.
Speaker 1 (49:11):
Well, Kat was in there and I was like, oh
here I'm going to give my phone. Either I was
giving you my phone or you were giving the phone
to me. But I was already laying in there, and
we shocked each other. We got shocked. Kat said she
got electrocuted, but I was like, no, it's like a shock,
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like when you pull stuff out of the dryer or
you shock like it was a shock, and it was.
It was a jolt, but it was You weren't electrocute.
Speaker 2 (49:39):
It was.
Speaker 1 (49:43):
You're acting like your hair was like you're stuck.
Speaker 2 (49:46):
But it wasn't just like a static electricity like a
It was like it was long.
Speaker 1 (49:51):
It was.
Speaker 2 (49:52):
Yes, it wasn't. It wasn't it was, but in my
head it was. But it was a you keep going.
Speaker 1 (50:02):
But I thought I was like, okay, everything is okay,
and I didn't. I wanted you to be okay. Then
later you admitted to me that you were very worried.
I was gonna be worried because you were getting a
massage and you said you couldn't feel the baby.
Speaker 2 (50:17):
So I got my massage. The baby moved a lot.
I was getting a facial after this happened, and the
baby didn't. She didn't move the whole time, So and
that's kind of weird. I'm at the point now where
she is like she's picking this whole time. I can
feel her, and so if time goes by, if like
thirty minutes go by, it I don't feel her. I
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do get a little bit like, oh, what you're doing.
So I was worried, and what my anxiety said during
this facial was, well, that might have shocked her heart.
And she's a fragile heart. She's probably just lying in
your belly.
Speaker 1 (50:55):
Now and laughing now because they know she's fine.
Speaker 2 (50:59):
It's fine. I just had.
Speaker 1 (51:02):
The baby.
Speaker 2 (51:03):
Is my fear was? My fear was this, what is
this going to do to Amy and I friendship?
Speaker 1 (51:08):
Because Kat had I Cat had already ended our friendship.
Speaker 2 (51:12):
I don't know. I didn't want it to be because
I you.
Speaker 1 (51:14):
You you were thinking I wouldn't be able to handle
that I killed your baby. That's what my anxiety told me.
Speaker 2 (51:21):
So what I was, what I was worried about, I
was I was like, Amy's gonna I know, Amy, Amy,
She's gonna feel responsible, but it's not her fault, Like
she didn't know that was going to happen. And I
don't know how we would move on from this because
I think it would just be too big of a thing.
I don't know, and so then I just felt really bad.
And then I was like, oh no. And then the
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last five minutes of this facial, I got a little
tap tap on my belly. So she was she was okay,
But it did impact the enjoyment. I mean, the facial
was awesome, but it did. I wish I wasn't thinking
that during it, you know. Yeah, So luckily I did
get an ultrasound today. Her heartbeat is right on track.
Speaker 1 (52:05):
Did you tell the doctor?
Speaker 2 (52:06):
I did not. He was like, do you have any questions.
I was like, nope, not at all. Everything's fine and
we've been fine this whole time. Yeah, no, no, no,
So I'm glad that you didn't. But also I googled
can getting electrocuted hurt a baby?
Speaker 1 (52:20):
But you didn't get electrocuted. You got shocked. I do
feel like.
Speaker 2 (52:24):
That's different, but it can. But I just want people
to know, don't electricite yourself. It can shocking, it said.
If it's like a shock like what you're saying, it.
Speaker 1 (52:34):
Was like static electricity, then.
Speaker 2 (52:39):
It's probably fine. If it's just like skin to skin like,
but if it enters into your body. It can affect
the baby. So just don't get struck by lightning or
they said. It was talking about like plugs. Don't see
your outlets like that.
Speaker 1 (52:55):
Don't stick your finger in an outlet, don't don't do
it if you're pregnant. Shannon says an electric shock is
simply a non fatal contact with the electricity that causes
a physical reaction or injury, while electrocution specifically refers to
an electrical shock that results in severe injury or death.
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That was Kat's like, I just got electrocuted. We went
to bed that night and Kat would FaceTime with Patrick
before we would go to bed, and she was like
exclaining to him that night, but she got electrocuted. And
I just was like, she got shocked, but.
Speaker 2 (53:31):
Patrick did I So Patrick's like yeah, I don't.
Speaker 1 (53:35):
Well, oh yeah, pellam. At the beginning of the trip,
I was like, Cat's anxiety is so cute, and her
husband was like, oh yeah, just wait, and then by
the end of the trip. By the end of the trip,
I was like, it's not cute anymore.
Speaker 2 (53:50):
It's because we remember we sat down. When we sat
down on the plane, I was like, phew, the back
of art. This was so cool to me. The back
of the seat, the TV where your t is where
you're sitting would say it said our name, so it
said like Catherine said D because I used my maiden name.
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And I was like, oh, it feels so nice to
know weh're in the right seat. And Amy was like,
why wouldn't we be in the right seat? I was like,
I know, sometimes it's confusing, like the way that it's written.
Speaker 1 (54:22):
It can be confusing. On my flight home from Colorado,
there was a woman in my seat and I was like, oh,
are you twelve D or whatever I was and she
was like, no, I'm eleven D. I said, oh, well
you're in twelve D because that's eleven y. But then
there was someone in eleven D. So somebody along the
who knows where it started, but there was a mistake
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and somehow there was an empty seat near me that
somebody else was supposed to be in there, like, oh, shoot,
I think I'm supposed to be over there on that one.
And I was like, did you know, everybody stay, everybody stay,
I'm just going to take this empty seat because I
was that just seemed simple. And when I sat down,
this woman next to me. She goes, well, that was refreshing,
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and I was like what, and she was like, just that,
you just took her seat and it didn't cause this
chaos and nobody got mad. But I do understand people
if they want a specific like I didn't care if
I was aisle window middle.
Speaker 2 (55:18):
If it was if you had to end up in
the middle seat, would you have done the same thing.
Speaker 1 (55:21):
It wasn't I think I was in the middle. It
wasn't my it wasn't the seat that I had. It
just that made it simple. And of course I would
prefer an aisle. I used to love a window in
my younger days, but now that if a case I
have to use the restroom, I want that access. And
I just thought, well, okay, she found this refreshing. Like
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most people like you were saying that story earlier. That
mom that was like, oh, I'd like the aisle, and
that one was like no, which everybody has the right
to be aisle. If maybe she has her home own
health issues that we don't know about. Totally yes, so
totally fine. Just yeah, I guess more times than not,
sometimes people are.
Speaker 2 (56:03):
I don't think I would have done that if I
if it was a it was an aisle.
Speaker 1 (56:08):
Or a I know, but do you know many people
it was gonna be like musical chairs, like everybody's trying
to figure out where they were supposed to be, and
it was just like, let's just it was a forty
five minute flight.
Speaker 2 (56:17):
Okay, I thought it was from Colorado to Nashville.
Speaker 1 (56:20):
No, I mean it was maybe Durangoda Peen.
Speaker 2 (56:25):
I can't remember where it was, and that is okay.
Then I'm not I might do that.
Speaker 1 (56:29):
Yeah, it wasn't nut.
Speaker 2 (56:32):
So Amy doesn't think my anxiety is cute anymore, and
the baby's okay, I.
Speaker 1 (56:36):
Still think it's a little bit cute. I just thought
it was funny that I told Patrick I thought it
was cute, and he was like, yeah, just wait, and
I was like no, I'm never gonna get sick of it.
And then like three days three days later, I'm like, okay,
can we.
Speaker 2 (56:50):
Wrap this up? Because I traveled with you before, it's
not like I had anxiety.
Speaker 1 (56:56):
I know, but I've never traveled with you pregnant. Yeah,
it's different, but not bad. I think there's just new anxieties,
and I think that they're cute sometimes, unless you think
I electrocuted your baby. Anyway, it's good times, Kat and I. Overall,
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let's rate our trip. I give it ten out of ten.
Speaker 2 (57:23):
Well, I have to give it a ten out of ten.
Now I'm gonna do it.
Speaker 1 (57:26):
Speak your mind.
Speaker 2 (57:27):
I'm going to give it a nine point five just
because I had an hour of thinking my baby died.
Speaker 1 (57:32):
Okay, I'll give it a nine point five because we
had to see naked people. Yeah, and then oh, I'll
give it this is nothing to do, like, can you ranch?
I give it ten out of ten. But travel home,
my TSA expired.
Speaker 2 (57:48):
Oh that's what it was.
Speaker 3 (57:49):
Uh huh.
Speaker 1 (57:50):
And I didn't know it had expired because I traveled
there with my TSA pre check working. And then when
we got to the airport, which we didn't have a
lot of time to spare, I went through the TSA
pre check and by the time I got up to him,
he was like, you don't have TSA pre on your ticket.
And I'm like, sure, I do. It's in the fine
print and he's like, no, it's not on there. And
I was like, what, guess I don't know if I've
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gotten to update you on this because you had to
go catch your flight because you were going to Nashville
and I was going to Colorado. I was in a
little bit of a pickle because then I had to
go get into the standard line and it was long.
I was I was so nervous I was going to
miss my flight. So while I'm in line, I'm trying
to figure out what in the world has happened. Turns
out my TSA pre check expired while we were a
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canyon ranch.
Speaker 2 (58:38):
That is nuts.
Speaker 1 (58:39):
What are the odds? It's good for five years and
it expired, so you had to renew it. And heads up,
if you want to renew you have to. You can
either renew it right away. If it's before it expires,
you're good to go. If it is expired, you have
to wait three business days.
Speaker 2 (58:57):
Do you have to go in? No, you can do
it all like to because that would be like when
your driver's license expire. Yeah, that wasn't good.
Speaker 1 (59:05):
But heads up, if you have taste, say TSA pre check,
and you think you're nearing your expiration, just go ahead
and give it a look.
Speaker 2 (59:11):
See and Amy. That is just a piece of why
I like to get to the airport extra early because
you never know what kind of thing you're going to run.
Speaker 1 (59:18):
Into Yeah, but guess what I've made my fight.
Speaker 2 (59:21):
By the skinnier teeth is that the phrase I was
talking to Patrick, I don't know if Amy's gonna make it.
Speaker 1 (59:27):
It was the last person. I was the last person
aboard the flight.
Speaker 2 (59:32):
For sure. You didn't make it.
Speaker 1 (59:36):
Live and learn, Live and learn, you live and yet learn.
All Right, Well, I hope you all had a good week.
Not everybody's on vacation like us. I get that, but
I hope you had a good fourth of July. And
that gosh, can you believe it's already July. We're already
going to be almost think about it, and just seven
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more days it's going to be halfway through July.
Speaker 2 (01:00:00):
It's crazy.
Speaker 1 (01:00:01):
And then seven more days after that, three quarters, and
then seven more days after.
Speaker 2 (01:00:05):
That it'll be over, I know.
Speaker 1 (01:00:07):
And then your baby shower is going to be August.
It's August first.
Speaker 2 (01:00:13):
And then the baby's going to be here. Mm hmm.
Speaker 1 (01:00:15):
Kat was having a lot of anxiety about her baby shower,
but that's her story.
Speaker 2 (01:00:20):
We're gonna talk about that another day. That's probably also
why my anxiety wasn't cute anymore, because that was annoying.
I talked about it a lot, but.
Speaker 1 (01:00:29):
But we solved it. Don't you think Don't you think
it was good because we solved it. Didn't we come
up with the we we came up with a plan,
like it was good that you were we had we
had time.
Speaker 2 (01:00:41):
Yeah, to talk it out, through it out. I didn't
sleep over this. Yeah. Yeah. So but then I think
you're you not being part of my family and saying
what you said made me feel better, you know, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,
so thank you for that. Are you sure you felt
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refreshed after your trip?
Speaker 1 (01:01:10):
I still have fun with you no matter what. I'm
sure I did things that were I mean, your stuff
wasn't even bad. It was just your cute little anxiety
that that got a little out of control. So we
got it all resolved. Yeah, and you're aware of it.
Speaker 2 (01:01:25):
Yeah for the most part. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (01:01:28):
I can't think of one thing you weren't aware of.
Speaker 2 (01:01:31):
Yeah. I knew I was being annoying with the baby shower,
but I couldn't stop at the same time.
Speaker 1 (01:01:35):
Right, So then that's why we paused, and I think
we figured it out.
Speaker 2 (01:01:38):
Yeah, and then to da, it's happening, Okay, okay, all.
Speaker 1 (01:01:45):
Right, have the baby shower you need to have, and
I have the day you need to have.
Speaker 2 (01:01:50):
Bye Bye three
All right, break it down.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
If you ever have feelings that you just falls home
many a Cat got you come and locking a brother,
ladies and felts. You just follow Anna spirit where it's
all us front and real stuff to the chill stuff
and the m but Swayne, sometimes the best thing you
can do it jes stop you feel things. This is
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feeling things with Amy and Cat.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
Happy Tuesday. Welcome to feeling things. I'm Amy and I'm
Cat and Cat and I are back from our retreat.
So my feeling of the day is refreshed from our
time at Canyon Ranch. After a Cat and I wrote
Canyon Ranch, I flew to Colorado. And while that was
amazing and I was there with family and it filled
up my cup and my niece got engaged in all
the good things. Wasn't as refreshing the Canyon Ranch legit
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was so nice.
Speaker 2 (00:54):
Was the chaos like the not refreshing chaos of just
like going somewhere else or well.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
We were just a lot happy, busy. There was a
lot happening. There's a lot of people at my sister's house,
staying at her house. So I slept in this little
loft which was open over the living room kind of
mean you from the living room, you can't see it,
but I could see other down and there's like railing.
So if people didn't go to bed as early as
I did, I could hear them, and whenever they woke up,
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I could hear them.
Speaker 2 (01:23):
Speaking of going to bed as early.
Speaker 1 (01:25):
We went to bed so early on our trip, like
Kat and I were Grandmall's.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
Night, we went to bed at seven o'clock.
Speaker 1 (01:34):
Well, but that was nine o'clock our body clock, right, so,
and we woke up at four in the morning to
travel that day.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
That's true. But every night we would get in bed
by no later than eight, if not earlier. You would
do a little reading and I would go straight to sleep.
Speaker 1 (01:51):
Yeah, I mean Kat was like she was out. I'd
be like, hey, Kat, and I was like, at some
point you got up to do like drink whiter and
I thought you were awake, and I started talking to you,
and you just rolled back over and started snoring again.
We weren't even sharing a bed, well a little bit.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
I don't usually snorin. It's a pregnancy thing, baby, yeah,
it's I do remember that. I was like in and
out of it. But you said, you said, oh, dang it,
cat for gorot you to the show notes, and like
the nice thing to do would be like, oh, let
me help you. I said like, oh no, you were
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like that's your problem.
Speaker 1 (02:33):
They at dinner that night, we had a text from
Houston and I was like, oh, yeah, I need to
do the show notes when we get back to the room.
I forgot for the couch talks that day and I
was like, yeah, yeah, we'll remember. And then I was
having trouble falling asleep, so I was reading more, and
it was getting later and later, and it was like
nine forty five, almost ten, and you'd already been asleep
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for hours an hour, and I was still reading but
really hoping to just go to sleep. And then I
looked at the clockt like, oh, shoot, show notes. So anyway,
that was fun.
Speaker 2 (03:03):
Sorry I didn't help you.
Speaker 1 (03:04):
That's okay, that's my responsibility.
Speaker 2 (03:06):
But we did get up at like five to five
thirty every.
Speaker 1 (03:09):
Morning and we went hiking, which was awesome. That's when
the weather is really the best in Arizona. It did
get hot, but I loved that there was no humidity.
So if you live in that part of the country, what.
Speaker 2 (03:24):
A gift you got to get up at six am, though, Well,
that's fine.
Speaker 1 (03:29):
They're probably also used to the heat, and when you're
in the shade, it's really not that bad. Just the
humidity is what kills me and my hair.
Speaker 2 (03:38):
Yeah, that's true. Speaking of our hike, I will say today,
my feeling is just out of breath because I feel
like I'm really starting to feel that like pregnancy feeling
of walking up the stairs or just to the bathroom
gets me. And you were so kind on our hikes,
pretending to also be out of breath.
Speaker 1 (04:01):
Well, you asked me to why. You were like, could
you just huff and puffer something because I'm feeling really
out of shape and it's not it's just that you're
carrying a baby. And so I said, sure, no problem.
And so I started just breathing heavily for you.
Speaker 2 (04:22):
And then we were walking up a hill and You're like, look,
if I walk backwards, then we walk at the same
pace as you walking. For so I appreciate that.
Speaker 1 (04:33):
I worked on my I did some agility training. Yeah,
I walked sideways and backwards.
Speaker 3 (04:38):
You did.
Speaker 1 (04:39):
We made it work, and we got our spa treatments.
And Cat and I were both shocked at the amount
of women that get into the whirlpool and the cold
plunge and all of that in the women's locker room naked.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
Shocked, shocked. But what I came to after day two
is we're the weird ones.
Speaker 1 (04:59):
Though yeah it was more normal. Were the outnumber naked
in that stuff than not? And I thought, well, did
they just not want to pack a swimsuit or they
don't feel like they have to, or just did we
grow up differently?
Speaker 2 (05:12):
I could not. I've only ever been to like a
hydrotherapy circuit thing like that at a resort, like a
conclusive type of resort where you are there with other
people and they tell you to bring a swimsuit. So
I've never gone to like a spa spa and gone
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into a sauna or steam room or hot tub. So
I've never had the opportunity to see this. I guess
before I did not think that I would ever feel comfortable,
even if I.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
Would never I mean in there with when you were
like I'm going, she kept going back and forth from
the cold plunch to the hot tub, from the cold
punch of the hot tub, and she was naked, and
I was like, why my eyes, my eyes, I don't
want to see you do that naked anymore. And then
we would see her at dinner, and right now I'm like,
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because it's like this one place, see dinner, I feel
like that's and I was like, that's that's naked Lady
number one, and it's like naked Lady number two, and like,
right now I know in my mind what they look
like naked, and I shouldn't, but but I do, and
now I'm picturing them.
Speaker 2 (06:22):
But nobody else thought it was well, I guess if
it was not supposed to happen.
Speaker 1 (06:26):
Yeah, I don't think. I think that that's right that
they do totally fine. Other than that, we had a
I mean, that wasn't even that bad, but we had
a fabulous experience. There's cra so nice and kind. Like
we were asking the people at Kenya Ranchry like, so,
is it a requirement to just be really really nice
to work here? And they said, well, people work here
for so long that it's hard to get your foot
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in the door with so if you get in with
an opening, you want to keep your job. So yeah,
you turn on the kindness. Because we met people that
have worked there thirty five, twenty five, twenty years and
one girl gave you a massage. She was like, I've
only been here five years and I'm a newbie. Yeah,
so it just speaks to the the culture there, and
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I loved it so much. So if you're ever in
Arizona Canyon Ranch. They're opening a new one in Austin,
which I think we're maybe gonna have to try because
it seems like it's gonna be really, really nice.
Speaker 2 (07:22):
But we can't probably go the same time of year
because this isn't Austin. Not they would have the humidity, right.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
Austin would have the humans, so that would be not
as enjoyable. Yeah. Well, apparently we were there in Arizona
during the the what are they called low season or
was it an off season off? There you go low off.
Speaker 2 (07:42):
But honestly, I think that's the play to go to
a resort or anything like that, any vacation in off season,
because it's more enjoyable when it's nothing was crowded. Yeah,
imagine if it was like full, what it would you'd
have to fight to get a chair at the pool?
You could have any chair you wanted.
Speaker 1 (08:00):
Well, that one pool where aerobics class was pretty full,
though I'm not gonna lie we were. I feel like
we missed out on the pool aerobics. I wish we
would have signed up for that because we went to
the pool that one day and I was like, oh
my gosh, look at all these people taking this class,
and it looked so fun.
Speaker 2 (08:13):
I think a lot of them were family people were
on family vacation time.
Speaker 1 (08:16):
Yeah, there was a lot of like groups doing things.
Speaker 2 (08:17):
Cute.
Speaker 1 (08:19):
Kat was making fun of me on our flight because
I printed out my boarding paths at home and brought
it with me, and I thought, this just makes me
feel comfortable. This is like, maybe that's a millennial thing
that I do, but I really like having it, even
though I know I have access to it on my phone.
I just like having my paper copy.
Speaker 2 (08:39):
I think it is very normal because usually I do, too,
is print my boarding pass when I get to the airport.
What threw me off is that you printed it at
your house with your at home printer, which most people
don't even have printers anymore because nobody prints things anymore.
Speaker 1 (08:57):
I print a lot of things.
Speaker 2 (08:59):
Wow, wait, do you have that baby paperwork? Kids?
Speaker 1 (09:06):
Kids?
Speaker 2 (09:06):
Yeah, there's like all marketing stuff. Don't they just like
a document?
Speaker 1 (09:12):
Now you just there's all there's documents and things that
you're gonna need to press.
Speaker 2 (09:15):
But Amy pulled out her computer paper with her ticket,
and I was like, that is so adorable.
Speaker 1 (09:21):
Okay, I'm going to go sidebar and then we can
go back to some millennial things. But I just thought
of a tip that I saw online and it's genius,
and it's about documents. And when you move into a house,
you create an email address with your address. So say
you move into five O five Star Avenue, you create
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five O five Star Avenue at gmail dot com and
everything associated with that house, all the documents, the warranties,
anything you buy, everything goes to that email address. And
then when it comes time to sell your house and
you're looking for certain documents or you want to transform
to the new owner, it's like a gift you're giving them.
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In fact, if I was considering buying your house, you
can be like, you know what, I have five X
five Star Avenue at gmail dot com and I have
everything in there that you're gonna need that's gonna make
your life easier, and they're gonna be like, I want
I want it sold. I'll buy this house. Wait asking
price over you've got five five five star avenue at Gmail.
(10:27):
But I thought that that was so brilliant And it's
just a little tip in case anybody listening. I know
this is random, but the paperwork and documents you have
to keep up with a lot of that, and you
have it printed in a different folder scattered about. Imagine
having it all in one place in that email.
Speaker 2 (10:43):
That is nice. You I feel like, would just print
it all out and put it in a fold.
Speaker 1 (10:48):
This was my tip to make me foler because this
is a way to have everything so you don't have
to have it all printed, but an email you can search, Yeah,
well what are you looking for? Oh the dishwasher warranty?
Dishwasher warranty. Bam, it pops up.
Speaker 2 (11:07):
Do you get that via email?
Speaker 3 (11:09):
No?
Speaker 2 (11:09):
Kat, are you you're.
Speaker 1 (11:11):
Tracking with what I'm saying. Okay, some stuff you might
have to in yeah, okay, some stuff you might have
to scan it. But also yes, I think you can
get digital copies of things and you transfer it to
the email. Or if you're at best Buy, for example,
and they're like, where do you want all your paperwork
(11:31):
to go? Five five five star avenue for the new
washer and dryer or you're at home depot and you
get a new refrigerator, you're like five five five star Avenue.
Speaker 2 (11:41):
And it all just lives there and then you don't
use it for anything else.
Speaker 1 (11:45):
I feel like you're a printer hater.
Speaker 2 (11:48):
I am not a printer hater. We have a home.
Speaker 1 (11:51):
You know what I'm getting you for your baby?
Speaker 2 (11:52):
A printer? Oh, you have a home printer. I just don't.
Speaker 1 (11:58):
Oh, I thought you said people don't have home winters anymore.
Speaker 2 (12:01):
Won't to be bare. It's Patrick's he rot it because
he uses it for work. I don't think I use
it for anything other than I've had to like pronounce
something for my taxes.
Speaker 1 (12:12):
Yeah, you'll probably use it a little more. What's the
most millennial thing you think you do? If I print
out my boarding pass while you think about it, I
can share with you one that I know that I do.
And it's when I call places and I live a
voice smail and I leave my phone number twice.
Speaker 2 (12:25):
What do you mean?
Speaker 1 (12:27):
Well, I might be calling somewhere like my doctor's office,
and they have caller ID or they've got my name
on file. Right, They'll be like, this is Amy Brown,
and then I'll give my phone number, and then I'll say,
like why I'm calling, and I'll say again my number is,
and I give it again.
Speaker 2 (12:42):
If you want to grab a pen. Wait, But I
actually think about that because I always give my number two.
I don't know if I do it twice. I do
it twice just in case twice is crazy, But I
do it too, even though I know caller idea is
a thing. But my thought is I don't know how
to end this like the normal like flow is again,
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this is Catherine van Buren. You can reach me at
blank by blank, thank you bye. It feels awkward not
saying that to me. You know how how would you
end it? This is again, this is Kathan.
Speaker 1 (13:18):
Thank you.
Speaker 2 (13:19):
I'm not going to give you my number because I know.
Speaker 1 (13:21):
You have it. Start saying, have that e to have?
Do you have a voice message on your voice mountain?
Speaker 2 (13:27):
He neither, And I should. I should because I use
my number for work, but.
Speaker 1 (13:33):
You don't whoa you use it for a professional thing
and you don't have a Hey, this is Catherine van
Buren with three quarts therapy. I have this is an
emergency call nine one one.
Speaker 2 (13:45):
No, I don't have that. I had it when I
had a Google voice number, because you know how those work.
They like, still call your phone and then I like,
you know, I have ADHD and something went on with
that and I lost that phone number. Still phone number
on the front of our building. So if you call
that phone number, I don't know who you're kidding.
Speaker 1 (14:06):
So you're not trying to get a new business, are you.
I mean, you've got the clients that you.
Speaker 2 (14:14):
I just hope that they mosey their way to the website. Yeah,
but I should. I just hate that all I know?
Do you?
Speaker 1 (14:24):
No, I don't have it. My sister and I were
talking on my trip in Colorado. We were walking home
from dinner with the Night and telling our kids how
well how it started was we started singing the entire
theme song to the Fresh Prince of bel Air and
how we don't know like what we did yesterday, but
we'll see you every line to that TV theme song,
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And we were talking about how kids these days don't
have TV theme songs that they memorize and know where
we had so many that we watched and knew, especially
on TGIF like all Full House Family Matters, and then
for sure Fresh Friends was just a very popular one.
And then my home answering machine. I took that beat
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and I had put it on the answer machine, and
my sister was talking about how she was so embarrassed
anytime her friends would call because it would be me,
And she was telling my daughter like that, I didn't
even have friends calling me. It was her friends that
were calling. But then it was me being like, hello,
we're the muppets with the story to tell. We're not
home at the moment, so don't have a cow. Just
leave a little message at the sound of the tone,
(15:27):
and we'll call back as soon as possible when we
get home.
Speaker 4 (15:31):
No, nook, your sister could have deleted it or that,
I think eventually, okay, what if I think a cute
boy called in.
Speaker 2 (15:50):
You.
Speaker 1 (15:50):
I used to call my sister's boyfriend's vertenda was my sister,
and I.
Speaker 2 (15:54):
Would say, I love you, I love it. Yeah I
did it.
Speaker 1 (15:59):
Yeah, Yeah. I would call and I would impersonate her.
Speaker 2 (16:02):
You were mad at her?
Speaker 1 (16:03):
No, but I was poored and I would call them
and I would I could sound just like her. We
could do it, and well, I don't know even now,
we still we did that. Actually on this trip, her
son's south was yelling up, Mom, Mom, and I was
like yeah, and he was like, when are we having grapes?
And she she knew what he was talking about. I didn't,
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and I was like grapes, and she was looking at
me like trying to mouth because she was up there
with me while he was yelling, and she was like
and she was like tomorrow, tomorrow. I said, we're having
grapes tomorrow, and she's like, no, crapes. He was saying crapes,
but I was hearing grapes, so then he knew. He's like,
this isn't mom, because we're not having grapes. We're having crapes.
(16:46):
And so I messed it up. But we still will
play that game with her kids and try to act
like we're each other. But I used to do it
to her boyfriends and I would professe her love.
Speaker 2 (16:58):
Then they thought it was her yea. And so did
she want to murder you?
Speaker 1 (17:02):
Yes, murder She did not like me. We're best friends now.
Speaker 2 (17:06):
But amy that is mean wait, but also really funny.
How did she find out? Was her boyfriend called back
later and was like, so now that we're.
Speaker 1 (17:14):
In love, yeah, or I know that one time? She
didn't know how many times I had done it. It
was like a running thing that I would do, and
I think it was with this Brad. I won't say
his last name, but I know for sure. And Brad
she walked in on me and yelled and she was
like Amy, and I was like, oh, Brad called, But
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that's what would happen. I don't even think I was
actually calling them. I mean they were calling the house
and then I would pick up, like.
Speaker 2 (17:43):
Hello, did Brad say I love you back?
Speaker 1 (17:47):
Well?
Speaker 2 (17:47):
Of course, Oh did she love Brad?
Speaker 1 (17:51):
I think so? Okay, she got bested sneaking out to
see Brad.
Speaker 2 (17:55):
Well, so maybe you did her a favor because she
was like scared to tell him and then you did
it for her.
Speaker 1 (17:59):
Shouldn't like that?
Speaker 2 (18:00):
Oh my gosh, that's funny. I was not the perfect sister.
But I don't think I'd be alive today if I
did that to my sister, to be honest. So thank
god I never thought of that.
Speaker 1 (18:11):
Yeah, anyway, what's the most millennial thing you do? Oh?
Speaker 2 (18:17):
I feel like I do a lot of millennial things
that I don't. Actually, I'm like fine with doing the
one that I think is my like, other than the
fact that I look like I'm in my thirties. That
makes me look like a millennial is the laws, which
we've talked about before. I cannot For the longest time,
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I never used lol, and then I started using it
and I can't stop, Like I cannot stop after every
sentence sometimes when I'm like, I'll have the thought to
read this text before I send it, and I'm like,
oh my gosh, I said law multiple times in these
three sentences.
Speaker 1 (18:56):
But I was thrown off by you saying lall, do
not read it lall. I read it as l ol.
Just now you said both the lulls lulls, and I
thought you were saying like a lull like the.
Speaker 2 (19:12):
Or like laws.
Speaker 1 (19:13):
I'm like, you don't.
Speaker 2 (19:16):
The law o lo o l I like, in my
head rita as law like hell. I can't stop. But
that I've learned as a very millennial thing.
Speaker 3 (19:27):
It is.
Speaker 2 (19:28):
It is, but which is crazy because I started doing
that in the last couple of years of my life.
I didn't grow up.
Speaker 1 (19:34):
Lolling, but I do it too, So it's like if
older people are doing it, still makes it millennial.
Speaker 2 (19:39):
Yeah. So I've been working on doing it a little less,
but not totally getting rid of it because it is
part of who I am.
Speaker 1 (19:46):
So I've seen that millennials are love wearing their yoga
pants everywhere or like legging like like, yes, but the
straight leg kind that's what I love. But apparently the
younger people wear more of the flared.
Speaker 2 (20:04):
Okay, I will argue with that. Okay, because I feel
like millennials, I we grew up wearing the leggings, the tights,
and I feel like straight legs are a newer thing.
I don't have any straight legs yoga pants.
Speaker 1 (20:20):
You don't what do you mean?
Speaker 2 (20:22):
What you don't? That's all I have? You don't have
You have leggings. Yeah, I only have leggings.
Speaker 1 (20:29):
I don't have which straight leg do you mean the
kind of flare out at the bottom. Maybe this is
the most millennial conversation we've ever had because we don't
understand each other.
Speaker 2 (20:41):
I have sweatpants, yeah, and then you have leggings.
Speaker 1 (20:45):
Which would be like yoga pants. Like when you see
me come down, I'm going to pilates.
Speaker 2 (20:50):
I'm assuming you're gonn wed leggings, which are which.
Speaker 1 (20:54):
Are yoga pants? Right?
Speaker 2 (20:55):
That's what I like?
Speaker 1 (20:56):
When I when we went to the airport.
Speaker 2 (20:58):
I actually have no idea what we're talking about. I'm
confusing myself. Yoga pants, yoga pants are leggings.
Speaker 1 (21:04):
Okay, they are same thing, right, Yeah.
Speaker 2 (21:10):
All yoga pants are leggings, but not all leggings are
yoga pants. Yes, or maybe it's the roof. Anyway, I
don't have any flares, I will tell you that, so
I'm definitely not a gen z. I did find, though,
a list of things that make you look like a millennial,
and I agree with some of them and disagree with
some of them. What are they? Joggers? Like, are not?
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Are we not wearing joggers anymore?
Speaker 1 (21:36):
I love jogs.
Speaker 2 (21:37):
I love a jogger. I have more joggers than I
have straight leg yoga pants, skinny jeans, which like, yeah,
we know, I do hear their coming back, so don't
get rid of them.
Speaker 1 (21:47):
I've heard that a lot, though, and then I still
have yet to see them.
Speaker 2 (21:50):
I also don't know if I want to go back there.
Speaker 1 (21:52):
Yeah, I think I feel like I thought it looked.
Speaker 2 (21:54):
Good at the time, and looking back, I'm like, I
don't know if that was the best look for my shape.
Speaker 1 (21:59):
I like the genes that I have on right now,
which are more of like a straight leg cigarette. I
can think they call it a cigarette cuts like a straight.
Speaker 2 (22:07):
Leg little baggy.
Speaker 1 (22:10):
They're a little they're not like super tight skinny jeans
are skinny at the ankle. They just go like straight down,
but they're not boot cut. They're more just cigarette.
Speaker 5 (22:23):
Got it, Okay, got leggings, Yeah, leggings, Okay, side part
which like, yeah, okay, I've been toying with the idea
of going back to a side park.
Speaker 1 (22:36):
But probably because you're pregnant, you're gonna be you're gonna
be a mom.
Speaker 2 (22:42):
But what's crazy is I'm scared to go back to
the side part. But for a while I was scared
to do a semi middle part. So I just got
to get the courage.
Speaker 1 (22:50):
Sorry, did you say semi middle?
Speaker 2 (22:51):
I think sometimes it's off centered.
Speaker 1 (22:54):
What you call it your your your goal is center though.
Speaker 2 (22:57):
Right, Yeah, but I can never even really get it
quite right.
Speaker 1 (22:59):
You Know what I do is I get a bobby
pin and I put it right in the center of
my nose, and then I take the bobby pin and
I draw a line and then that makes it perfectly centered.
It's not semi.
Speaker 2 (23:12):
I do that with like I have a comb at
the end that's just like, oh fancy, it's like a
I know what you're talking about. Then I do that too,
but then I always feel like I get off a
little bit so semi so I okay, peace signs and
photos totally and I can't stop.
Speaker 1 (23:30):
I'll ever see.
Speaker 2 (23:31):
Yeah, it just is what it is. And I think
gen zs do that too. I see little kids doing
those poses and their snapchats. Little kids I don't see
their snapchats because they don't have Snapchatat's like all the
little kids.
Speaker 1 (23:44):
I snap with they do peace sign.
Speaker 2 (23:52):
I take that back. It's weird, Okay. Downloading physical copies.
Speaker 1 (23:59):
Of things, yes, im printing them up.
Speaker 2 (24:02):
Yeah, doing things on a computer versus a phone, like
shopping or booking a flight or speaking.
Speaker 1 (24:08):
Of me because I can't see on my face.
Speaker 2 (24:11):
It's just and like it looks. It's you can have
the windows and like you can have multiple things if
you're comparing. I just I like that the have you
ever done it? I did a thing? Post you like,
posted a picture and you're like, I did a thing.
Speaker 1 (24:24):
I see other people do it, and I think it's cute,
but I've never done it.
Speaker 2 (24:27):
I don't know that I've ever done it, but I.
Speaker 1 (24:29):
Might have, like, if I get a haircut, I'd be like,
so I did a thing.
Speaker 2 (24:32):
If you but if you like chopped your hair off,
or if you like, I don't know, bought a new
car and wanted to post.
Speaker 1 (24:38):
It, which, speaking of you're probably going to be like Amy, now,
don't I know. I know I'm not going to chop
my hair, but I want to. And I also really
really really really really want bangs.
Speaker 2 (24:49):
You'll get your clippings.
Speaker 1 (24:51):
No, I tried that. They don't stay in clippins. They
don't stay in. And Ella Langley said Banks changed her life,
her whole career.
Speaker 2 (25:01):
You trying to change your career? No, but I mean no, Okay,
this is my thing with you. I think you look
so cute with short hair. You're somebody who really can
pull long, medium short off. I'm not trying to just yes,
(25:22):
but every time you do it, You've done it multiple
times since I've known you, you get annoyed immediately, like
two weeks later, you're like, I want my hair back.
So I wish there was a way, Like you know
how if you have short hair you can get extensions.
I wish that if you had long hair you could
get and it's old tape or something that I don't know,
(25:43):
because you like you just want it for like a week.
Speaker 1 (25:46):
I guess I could get a wig and you pull
your hair back and hair to fit into a short week. Yeah,
I see. I mean I think like if I was acting,
or maybe I just do it for whimsy, I get
a wig.
Speaker 2 (25:59):
Or is there a way for you to get extensions
that cut into bangs versus your actual hair?
Speaker 1 (26:04):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (26:05):
Interesting, because I just don't what do you mean, I don't,
I don't know. I still have to cut your actual hair.
Speaker 1 (26:13):
I don't know. I'll ask person. But it's a good question.
And then I feel like you would see the little
extension beads coming down, It wouldn't look it.
Speaker 2 (26:25):
Could be like a decoration thing. If you really want
to do it, go for it. But I'm just telling
you the pattern that I've seen. Okay, calling your husband hubby,
did you ever do that? No? I have never done that.
I would. That feels great. That feels more boomer, not boomer,
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but and not elder millennial, because I think we're elder millennials, but.
Speaker 1 (26:51):
We're ten years apart.
Speaker 2 (26:53):
I'm well, I was just trying to make you feel better.
Speaker 1 (26:57):
Thank you.
Speaker 2 (26:59):
Uh it feels not. Yeah, this one I do relate
to looking at your phone when it rings and not answering. Yeah, well,
what do you mean holding your phone somebody's calling me
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and being like, oh, not going to answer that one.
Speaker 1 (27:24):
Is that a millennial thing or because like the bandwith thing.
Speaker 2 (27:26):
Or like they say millennials are like afraid of phone calls.
Speaker 1 (27:29):
Oh, I think that's the younger people than us that
are afraid of the phone. I mind the phone, it's
just sometimes if I'm over stimulated, I can't.
Speaker 2 (27:39):
Yeah, I may not be able to answered. Tom relate
drinking out of a mason jar?
Speaker 1 (27:45):
Mm hmm.
Speaker 2 (27:46):
Do you that's what you do?
Speaker 1 (27:47):
Don't you ordered new they were too little, everything complaining that.
Speaker 2 (27:54):
Yeah, I's like, do you want a glass of water?
And it's literally like literally a shot of water.
Speaker 1 (28:00):
I love those little tiny mason jars that are like
the diamond shape. I remember and I still have them
in my cabinet. But so many people were like, Okay,
can I have water? So then I ordered glasses that
are at least like twelve ounces.
Speaker 2 (28:17):
And that's why you drink out of a measuring cup.
Speaker 1 (28:20):
Yes, I want to order my measuring cup right now
is eight ounces. But I had an idea the other day,
and now I'm glad I'm reminding myself of it. I
need to go order it. I want to order my
exact measuring cup, but double, so the sixteen ounce version.
I hope they make it where.
Speaker 2 (28:40):
The rim is the same, that feels like a large. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (28:45):
I want to start drinking sixteen ounces at a time.
It's my new thing, okay, because I used to just
like throw back eight ounces and I'm like, you know,
if this were double, I would get more water.
Speaker 2 (28:55):
Look what you're doing. You're scaffolding yourself because you started
with the four ounce cup, then you move to the
eight ounce measuring cup, and now you're gonna go to
a sixteen ounce What I also learned about you on
our trip, which I don't know if I knew this
about you before, but I guess it makes sense now
that I'm thinking about it. You like warm water.
Speaker 1 (29:15):
I do not like cold. I love room temperature. It's
not warm.
Speaker 2 (29:18):
It's a room tip that can feel warm.
Speaker 1 (29:21):
Sometimes temperature the room is oh yeah, I don't ever
want it out of the She.
Speaker 2 (29:27):
Never wants ice, and you don't put ice in your
like every night we would go to bed and would
fill up water cups and I would fill up one
full with ice, and you.
Speaker 1 (29:35):
Just water straight tap or room, not as refreshing.
Speaker 2 (29:40):
Maybe, okay, here's a thought. Maybe that's why I don't
drink as much water because it's not as like, like
I love a good cold crisp, especially in the middle
of the night when you just chug some cold water.
Speaker 1 (29:51):
Because I don't want to get up and have to pee.
I don't know, I've just never really liked it cold.
I mean, yeah, if it's a really hot day, then I'll.
Speaker 2 (30:00):
You'll want it was one hundred and five degrees an
a and not once since you drink a cold drink.
You drink your coffee hot in the morning when we
were outside hiking, Yeah, I you you're like you have
you know how we're warm blooded. I feel like you're
maybe cold blooded and that's why you don't.
Speaker 1 (30:21):
Need But when we would get back, I would have
my eyes. It was cooler in the mornings there, and
I just I was having a little hot cappuccino and
then I was I'm like, and I huffing a puffy
latte after.
Speaker 2 (30:36):
You know what else I do.
Speaker 1 (30:38):
Is I am standing up for people on airplanes that
yes you are, or standing up to people that are
cutting the line, because it's always been one of my
biggest pet peeves. And I don't know that I ever
speak up. And maybe it was traveling with you being pregnant.
I was protective of you. But there were people when
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we landed trying to get up and exit the plane
when it wasn't their turn. There's a process to deplaning.
You get off the plane in the order of which
it trinkles back to you. Except for some people in
the back the plane parks and they get up and
immediately start walking forward and then they cause all these
little traffic jams without realizing it. It's like, do they
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have no self awareness at all? I try to give
them the benefit of doubt and maybe assume this is
the first time they've traveled. Maybe they don't know the rules.
Or if you have a flight to catch, that is
the only exception to the rule. If you have somewhere
to be, then you make that known. Hey, I have
a connection to catch, we're a little behind. I'm cutting
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it close. Do you mind if I go? And yes,
And that's politely. People are gonna let you go. It
wouldn't if they don't then kick them in the ship
and go like that's weird.
Speaker 2 (31:56):
It would be weird. I mean, don't because you could
get like like, don't, don't kick them? But what Who's
why I wouldn't do that?
Speaker 1 (32:05):
Who doesn't let somebody go if they have a flight
to catch. But if you have nowhere to be and
you're just marching your little button down the plane to
get off before everybody else, no, And there was someone
that was trying to actually multiple people trying to pass you,
and these two women I could barely even deal with
that were trying to do it. And then comes this man,
well a big old man.
Speaker 2 (32:26):
I was already standing up because I was trying to
stretch my legs because I was sitting for so long.
I'm afraid of getting blood cloths. So I'm standing up
kind of in the aisle, kind of in my seat halfway.
Then all these people show up and take it away
because you did all the talking.
Speaker 1 (32:42):
Well, And then the women were so annoyed you were blocking.
But then the other people around us were annoyed at
those women too for coming up, and so of course
everyone was exchanging looks, and I was just being protective
of you, and they were not gonna be able to
get by. And then I think they sold their way through.
Asked them, you said yeah, I said to catch.
Speaker 2 (33:03):
And they said yes, and so you you go really nicely.
You said okay, well then go ahead. And as soon
as that happened.
Speaker 1 (33:10):
Okay, you're right, I let They didn't weasele the way through.
I let them through, which saw them in the airport later.
They did not have a flight to catch. No no, no,
no no, but they got through. Then here comes big
old man and he's walking down the aisle and I
put my hand up and I was like you.
Speaker 2 (33:28):
Literally go no no, I go no, no, no, no no.
Speaker 1 (33:32):
And I was like, who am I I don't know why.
I just said had enough And it is a pet
peeve of mine. But again I normally don't speak up,
but I held my ground with that man and I
did not let him pass.
Speaker 2 (33:45):
Well. I just thought it was crazy. I think that's
crazy when people did it in general. What was crazy
is after those two women went, like two other people
then rushed past, and then that guy was coming too,
and I'm visibly pregnant. Yeah, that's what I think. Blows
my mind. I was talking can chanting about this earlier
today that I thought when you're pregnant, people will treat
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you differently, like you live. You wouldn't let me lift
my suitcase, and that was really nice. If I had
to do it, I would have been able to do it,
but it was nice that you that you didn't need to.
So I'm just thinking, like, I'm standing up, I'm pregnant.
You think this guy would just be like, go ahead.
Instead he tried to push me back into my seat,
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and that's when you put the hand up, and I
was like, I feel like you're like my like my
mother bear right now. It was really sweet.
Speaker 1 (34:34):
Oh you're welcome. Yeah, he annoyed me. And then I
saw him wandering through the airport. Later he had nowhere
to be. I when I got off the plane, you
were in the bathroom and these other people that were
near us, they came up and they were like, that
was awesome, good job.
Speaker 2 (34:47):
And I was like, you're like a small hero. I
was like, anytime, no problem. I got you.
Speaker 1 (34:59):
But I just couldn't be I can't. So if you're listening,
and maybe you just don't have this knowledge yet, you
need to wait your turn to deplane. I really just
liked to assume people don't know. But then I'm like,
did they not have any self awareness? Remember that guy
that was on the tram at atl and the Atlanta
airport and and it was abruptly starting and stopping because
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we had already been on the tram, and he got
on with his kids, and I tried to tell the
little kid, I'm like, hold on, hold on, hold on,
and the guy like looked at me like weird, like
stop talking to my kid, and then the tram took
off in the kid. They all fall over, and I
was like, oh my gosh, I was just trying to help.
Speaker 2 (35:37):
The kid looked at you like, dad, she's trying to
steal me, Like it's like stranger danger. But that blew
my mind. Maybe they had never been to that airport
around before.
Speaker 1 (35:48):
Had they never been on a tram before.
Speaker 2 (35:50):
Because if that was me, I'd be like everybody, hold
on kids. Yeah. The guy did a little tumbling.
Speaker 1 (35:57):
Yeah, And I was like, well, sorry, I can only
help you so far.
Speaker 2 (36:00):
You can only help people that want to be helped.
Speaker 1 (36:02):
I can only have people that want to be helped. Yeah,
I do have three signs that you're annoying.
Speaker 2 (36:08):
It's one of them. You run up to the front
of the airplane.
Speaker 1 (36:11):
Yeah, you're deplain before it's your turn. Sign number one.
Speaker 2 (36:15):
No.
Speaker 1 (36:15):
Three signs that you're annoying and no one's going to
tell you about it. Okay, So if you do any
of these three things like you might be annoying. However,
I wonder if people even have the self awareness that
they're doing stuff like this, Like sign number one would be,
you complain all the time. Nothing is ever good enough.
Do you think the complainers know? No?
Speaker 2 (36:36):
I think I mean I become aware when I complain.
But I think that people that are doing it like this,
that's just like their baseline. They're never satisfied. I think
that's how they know.
Speaker 1 (36:47):
What about if you say whatever comes to your mind
and you think you're just being honest, but really you're
being inconsiderate because you're not really thinking through before you
say something that could potentially be hurtful. But you those
people might actually see it as like equality, they have
to speak their mind.
Speaker 2 (37:08):
That reminds me when people are like, I'm not a
bad word, I'm just being honest, or I just say
I just say what's on my mind, or I just
tell people the truth, and I'm like, that's not an it.
That doesn't work that way. Like, you don't always have
to say everything. So I think people that like do
that a lot. Yeah, you're right, think that it's okay.
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They think that like, oh, this is just a quality
of mine.
Speaker 1 (37:34):
I think it is good to speak your mind at
times and be one of those people will just tell
it like it is. But then you have to have
don't be mean awareness, sort of like the plane people
like you, there are appropriate times to deep plane. Yeah, early,
but yeah, you have to have awareness of that. Is
you don't have a flight to catch, you don't do it.
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I tie everything back to getting off the plane early.
Speaker 2 (37:59):
I could find that man and just send this episode
to him and give them a little lesson.
Speaker 1 (38:04):
The third and final sign is you make every conversation
about you, no matter what someone else is saying. You
have this beautiful skill of turning the entire conversation to
something about you.
Speaker 2 (38:20):
Here's a thought I'm having. I do all of these things.
Yeah at times, So would you like to tell me something?
Speaker 1 (38:30):
No, you don't complain about everything, but you know that I.
Speaker 2 (38:35):
Did talk to you recently about how I'm gonna try
to be more positive about things because I can get.
Speaker 1 (38:42):
I can complain too. This is you complain about most everything,
and I don't put you in that category.
Speaker 2 (38:49):
Okay, well I'm just checking in.
Speaker 1 (38:51):
I know, well, I would check in on the one
like I feel like a lot of times something's old.
I love how I'm like a lot of times sometimes
maybe just a little bit can actually talk about myself. Well,
I do that too, and some of that is our
with our we always have a story to tell. Yeah,
you know what they say that that's a that's an
ADHD thing.
Speaker 2 (39:11):
But I also think that's part of that's a finesse too,
Like that's a that's part of conversation. Is Okay, if
you relate to it, you can share your story, but
let's make sure that this person is done with their
like or I'm gonna share my story then come back.
I do think that you do that a lot of times.
You'll share your thing, but then you'll you do come
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back and like check in.
Speaker 1 (39:36):
Well, because I think I'm actively trying. Because I'm shot,
I just say that about me, I better go circle back.
Speaker 2 (39:41):
But it's also how conversation works. Sometimes it's like I
say something and they're like, oh, yeah, this happened to me.
Speaker 1 (39:46):
And I've been doing that finger cross thing, like I'll
either move my ring to another finger or I'll cross
my finger. If I'm like, okay, I do have something
to say, and I don't want to forget, but I
want to let this person finish talking. I don't want
to interrupt up so then and then and then by
the time they get in talking, I'm like, why did
I cross my finger? And I don't remember, And then
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if if I don't remember, then oh well it wasn't
meant to be.
Speaker 2 (40:11):
I don't see you as somebody who does like says
like whatever comes to mind, and then it's just like,
I'm just honest, I don't get that that you don't
do that, But sometimes I I don't Okay.
Speaker 1 (40:22):
No, I don't, No, I know, I know what this is.
Like my daughter has this Okay, she speaks her mind
the word blunt, blunt, yes, and and we're working on
that because she you know, and she'll be like what
just I tell it like it is like, well, I
always have to do that. We need to look at
our company, who we're with. And while I don't want
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to rob her of that, trait, like, because I do
think there is. It can be good, yes, and there
can be some courage in there, and it could be
brave at some points, like you know, to speak up
where others may not. Uh. And there are also are
times where it's just not appropriate. Like we were at
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dinner the other night with a group of people and
she said something and I don't want to say it
because it's she could say it if she wanted to,
but involves other people. And I was like, we got
in the car. I had to say, like, I love
that you speak your mind, and that's great. I just
think that that comment in particular could be hurtful, even
(41:26):
though that other person wasn't there, and I know you
didn't mean anything bad. It's just not your cup of tea,
and that's okay, But not everybody at the table needs
to know it's not your cup of tea, because then
it made somebody else uncomfortable because maybe it's a little
bit of their cup of tea.
Speaker 2 (41:38):
Yeah, you know.
Speaker 1 (41:40):
And she's like, well, what I don't, I don't it
was about this one particular person. She's like, what, I
don't like that person. I'm like, well, the other people
at the table did, and now it's like you have
every right to not vibe with that person. That's totally great.
But do we need to announce to the whole table.
Speaker 2 (41:58):
No?
Speaker 1 (41:58):
No, And I think I think, yeah, you can talk
to me about it all day long. Tell me more.
Speaker 2 (42:03):
Why don't you.
Speaker 1 (42:04):
Now that we're in the car, let's go, what's up?
Speaker 2 (42:05):
What happened? Who is it? You know what they do?
Speaker 1 (42:09):
So, yeah, there's that. Something else that happened on our
trip was Kat was very emotional leading up to our
trip and then on the trip and maybe even still.
And I don't want to bring it up right now
if you're going to cry that you cried a lot, and.
Speaker 2 (42:30):
I think I did pretty good.
Speaker 1 (42:32):
Like there was a baby crying on the plane and
that was making you cry, yes, And then there was
a mom that maybe we were guessing this is what happened.
We don't know for a fact, but a mom was
in on the flight deck with the pilots also known
as cockpit, and they were coming out. We have no
idea if he was just getting a little tour or
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if you decided, oh, that kid must be anxious and
he's nervous about flying. So the pilots let.
Speaker 2 (43:01):
Him go back there.
Speaker 1 (43:01):
I don't know if that's exactly what happened, but that
was making you emotional.
Speaker 2 (43:05):
I think that is what I think.
Speaker 1 (43:06):
I heard that, Okay, you did.
Speaker 2 (43:07):
I think I heard the kid being like when they
were walking out of it, and I think that he
was like being calmed down, like he got to see
what was going on up there, They got to meet
the pilots, know who's flying the plane. And that got me,
Like that is so I think that got me because
that is so sweet that the pilots would do that.
Speaker 1 (43:28):
Well, you were definitely or you're gonna cry right now,
Oh my gosh, I'm making you cry.
Speaker 2 (43:34):
I it just there's something about flying in kids. And
maybe it's because I have like future anxiety about like
what's it going to be like? And I and I
imagine taking kids on a flight. You don't want to
like annoy people or and you can't control a little
kid or a baby. You can't. You just can't control
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if they have anxiety, they have anxiety, if they are crying,
their crying like baby's ear pressure. I don't know. And
so I think I make up that parents have more
anxiety maybe than they do. And then so I feel
that for them. Does that make sense?
Speaker 1 (44:11):
Yeah, totally.
Speaker 2 (44:13):
I didn't tell you this, but on my flight home
this was kind of crazy. I there was two babies
on the plane and then one pregnant lady. We all
sat in a line like did they put us together
for a reason because they know I'm not going to
be annoyed if the baby's crying. But it was, Oh,
that was so sweet. It was a it was like
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a young mom.
Speaker 1 (44:39):
Cats crying.
Speaker 2 (44:42):
She was with her sister. I don't know why crying
because it was not sad, but she was like it
was really sweet because she had her baby, like was
wearing her and then she was like trying to I've
got to go back to therapy and about this. But
she was trying to like get a couple things out
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of her bag before she sat down in her seat,
and she was like holding up the line. And then
the sister had all the stuff in her hands so
she couldn't help her, and so like all the people
around her was like trying to help her get her.
Speaker 1 (45:18):
And you were like, nobody self to me, I'm pregnant.
Speaker 2 (45:24):
I was just like screw this. It was just really
sweet and you could tell that the girl was like
felt bad for holding up the line, but I was like,
don't worry about it, like these people can wait. And
then she had to sit by the window, and I
know she did window. Why did she want because she
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asked the lady that was sitting in the aisle. Oh
my god. She asked the lady that was sitting in
the aisle on her row, like, would it make you
more comfortable to sit by the window so I can say,
because you know, if the baby had to go to
the bathroom, something's easy for her to get up. And
the woman said no. That I was like, oh shoot,
(46:07):
you could tell that lady was like, I don't want
to be in this row. Everybody else had a baby
or was pregnant or was the sister of the And
I was sitting next to a woman with like a
more like she was probably like three months old, and
a car seat, so there's only two people in her row.
And I almost offered my aisle seat, but I knew
I was gonna have to pee like four or five times,
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and I knew that would be more annoying for her,
so I didn't. But that I felt like really bad
for her when she had the courage to ask like,
do you want to sit by the window, and the
woman just said no, like straight faced. So anyway, I
did cry on that flight because the woman next to me,
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the baby, cried a lot. I felt really bad for her.
She was so calm the whole time. This is great.
Speaker 1 (47:01):
Well, we did get a voicemail from Linda in Kansas
who was listening to our episode last week, and she
sent in a voicemail talking about how emotional she would
get as well. So this is a voicemail about moms
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crying a lot, so get used to it.
Speaker 3 (47:31):
This is Linda from Kansas. I'm thirty four, love the show.
I was listening to the show the podcast and Kat
gets emotional ab off the video on TikTok about what
to pack and it's not even supposed to be emotional
and security said that she is an emotional person. I'm
just thinking, oh my gosh, Like becoming a mother like
makes you that much more emotional about everything. Like I
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was never this much of a crier before I became
a mom four years ago, and I just like I
cry at everything and the drop of the hat, and
it's just like, what is wrong with me? So good luck, Cat,
I know you're gonna be in an amazing mother, but
you're gonna cry a lot more, even more than what
you do now. So all right, love the show, keep
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it up.
Speaker 1 (48:14):
There you go, good luck, good luck, You're not alone.
I did think that you were gonna cry and then
murder me. Oh yeah, uh huh after that brief moment
where you thought I killed your baby, I.
Speaker 2 (48:27):
Did not think you killed my baby.
Speaker 1 (48:29):
Well no, no, no.
Speaker 2 (48:30):
Part of my anxiety was fearing that you would feel
like you did. I didn't want you to take that responsibility.
So do you want do you want to share what
had happened?
Speaker 1 (48:39):
Well, so at Canyon Ranch, they had this immortal chamber, yeah,
is what it was called. But it's a red light bed.
But it does other things like there's oxygen, there's electro birds,
like sound, someone's talking to you like a robot, and
it's this whole situation like I don't know, like now
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relax into your and then like trip trip troop, and
I don't know if there's other things happening.
Speaker 2 (49:06):
Like currents, putting, yeah, being put in your body too.
Speaker 1 (49:09):
It was amazing.
Speaker 2 (49:10):
I loved it a lot.
Speaker 1 (49:11):
Well, Kat was in there and I was like, oh
here I'm going to give my phone. Either I was
giving you my phone or you were giving the phone
to me. But I was already laying in there, and
we shocked each other. We got shocked. Kat said she
got electrocuted, but I was like, no, it's like a shock,
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like when you pull stuff out of the dryer or
you shock like it was a shock, and it was.
It was a jolt, but it was You weren't electrocute.
Speaker 2 (49:39):
It was.
Speaker 1 (49:43):
You're acting like your hair was like you're stuck.
Speaker 2 (49:46):
But it wasn't just like a static electricity like a
It was like it was long.
Speaker 1 (49:51):
It was.
Speaker 2 (49:52):
Yes, it wasn't. It wasn't it was, but in my
head it was. But it was a you keep going.
Speaker 1 (50:02):
But I thought I was like, okay, everything is okay,
and I didn't. I wanted you to be okay. Then
later you admitted to me that you were very worried.
I was gonna be worried because you were getting a
massage and you said you couldn't feel the baby.
Speaker 2 (50:17):
So I got my massage. The baby moved a lot.
I was getting a facial after this happened, and the
baby didn't. She didn't move the whole time, So and
that's kind of weird. I'm at the point now where
she is like she's picking this whole time. I can
feel her, and so if time goes by, if like
thirty minutes go by, it I don't feel her. I
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do get a little bit like, oh, what you're doing.
So I was worried, and what my anxiety said during
this facial was, well, that might have shocked her heart.
And she's a fragile heart. She's probably just lying in
your belly.
Speaker 1 (50:55):
Now and laughing now because they know she's fine.
Speaker 2 (50:59):
It's fine. I just had.
Speaker 1 (51:02):
The baby.
Speaker 2 (51:03):
Is my fear was? My fear was this, what is
this going to do to Amy and I friendship?
Speaker 1 (51:08):
Because Kat had I Cat had already ended our friendship.
Speaker 2 (51:12):
I don't know. I didn't want it to be because
I you.
Speaker 1 (51:14):
You you were thinking I wouldn't be able to handle
that I killed your baby. That's what my anxiety told me.
Speaker 2 (51:21):
So what I was, what I was worried about, I
was I was like, Amy's gonna I know, Amy, Amy,
She's gonna feel responsible, but it's not her fault, Like
she didn't know that was going to happen. And I
don't know how we would move on from this because
I think it would just be too big of a thing.
I don't know, and so then I just felt really bad.
And then I was like, oh no. And then the
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last five minutes of this facial, I got a little
tap tap on my belly. So she was she was okay,
But it did impact the enjoyment. I mean, the facial
was awesome, but it did. I wish I wasn't thinking
that during it, you know. Yeah, So luckily I did
get an ultrasound today. Her heartbeat is right on track.
Speaker 1 (52:05):
Did you tell the doctor?
Speaker 2 (52:06):
I did not. He was like, do you have any questions.
I was like, nope, not at all. Everything's fine and
we've been fine this whole time. Yeah, no, no, no,
So I'm glad that you didn't. But also I googled
can getting electrocuted hurt a baby?
Speaker 1 (52:20):
But you didn't get electrocuted. You got shocked. I do
feel like.
Speaker 2 (52:24):
That's different, but it can. But I just want people
to know, don't electricite yourself. It can shocking, it said.
If it's like a shock like what you're saying, it.
Speaker 1 (52:34):
Was like static electricity, then.
Speaker 2 (52:39):
It's probably fine. If it's just like skin to skin like,
but if it enters into your body. It can affect
the baby. So just don't get struck by lightning or
they said. It was talking about like plugs. Don't see
your outlets like that.
Speaker 1 (52:55):
Don't stick your finger in an outlet, don't don't do
it if you're pregnant. Shannon says an electric shock is
simply a non fatal contact with the electricity that causes
a physical reaction or injury, while electrocution specifically refers to
an electrical shock that results in severe injury or death.
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That was Kat's like, I just got electrocuted. We went
to bed that night and Kat would FaceTime with Patrick
before we would go to bed, and she was like
exclaining to him that night, but she got electrocuted. And
I just was like, she got shocked, but.
Speaker 2 (53:31):
Patrick did I So Patrick's like yeah, I don't.
Speaker 1 (53:35):
Well, oh yeah, pellam. At the beginning of the trip,
I was like, Cat's anxiety is so cute, and her
husband was like, oh yeah, just wait, and then by
the end of the trip. By the end of the trip,
I was like, it's not cute anymore.
Speaker 2 (53:50):
It's because we remember we sat down. When we sat
down on the plane, I was like, phew, the back
of art. This was so cool to me. The back
of the seat, the TV where your t is where
you're sitting would say it said our name, so it
said like Catherine said D because I used my maiden name.
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And I was like, oh, it feels so nice to
know weh're in the right seat. And Amy was like,
why wouldn't we be in the right seat? I was like,
I know, sometimes it's confusing, like the way that it's written.
Speaker 1 (54:22):
It can be confusing. On my flight home from Colorado,
there was a woman in my seat and I was like, oh,
are you twelve D or whatever I was and she
was like, no, I'm eleven D. I said, oh, well
you're in twelve D because that's eleven y. But then
there was someone in eleven D. So somebody along the
who knows where it started, but there was a mistake
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and somehow there was an empty seat near me that
somebody else was supposed to be in there, like, oh, shoot,
I think I'm supposed to be over there on that one.
And I was like, did you know, everybody stay, everybody stay,
I'm just going to take this empty seat because I
was that just seemed simple. And when I sat down,
this woman next to me. She goes, well, that was refreshing,
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and I was like what, and she was like, just that,
you just took her seat and it didn't cause this
chaos and nobody got mad. But I do understand people
if they want a specific like I didn't care if
I was aisle window middle.
Speaker 2 (55:18):
If it was if you had to end up in
the middle seat, would you have done the same thing.
Speaker 1 (55:21):
It wasn't I think I was in the middle. It
wasn't my it wasn't the seat that I had. It
just that made it simple. And of course I would
prefer an aisle. I used to love a window in
my younger days, but now that if a case I
have to use the restroom, I want that access. And
I just thought, well, okay, she found this refreshing. Like
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most people like you were saying that story earlier. That
mom that was like, oh, I'd like the aisle, and
that one was like no, which everybody has the right
to be aisle. If maybe she has her home own
health issues that we don't know about. Totally yes, so
totally fine. Just yeah, I guess more times than not,
sometimes people are.
Speaker 2 (56:03):
I don't think I would have done that if I
if it was a it was an aisle.
Speaker 1 (56:08):
Or a I know, but do you know many people
it was gonna be like musical chairs, like everybody's trying
to figure out where they were supposed to be, and
it was just like, let's just it was a forty
five minute flight.
Speaker 2 (56:17):
Okay, I thought it was from Colorado to Nashville.
Speaker 1 (56:20):
No, I mean it was maybe Durangoda Peen.
Speaker 2 (56:25):
I can't remember where it was, and that is okay.
Then I'm not I might do that.
Speaker 1 (56:29):
Yeah, it wasn't nut.
Speaker 2 (56:32):
So Amy doesn't think my anxiety is cute anymore, and
the baby's okay, I.
Speaker 1 (56:36):
Still think it's a little bit cute. I just thought
it was funny that I told Patrick I thought it
was cute, and he was like, yeah, just wait, and
I was like no, I'm never gonna get sick of it.
And then like three days three days later, I'm like, okay,
can we.
Speaker 2 (56:50):
Wrap this up? Because I traveled with you before, it's
not like I had anxiety.
Speaker 1 (56:56):
I know, but I've never traveled with you pregnant. Yeah,
it's different, but not bad. I think there's just new anxieties,
and I think that they're cute sometimes, unless you think
I electrocuted your baby. Anyway, it's good times, Kat and I. Overall,
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let's rate our trip. I give it ten out of ten.
Speaker 2 (57:23):
Well, I have to give it a ten out of ten.
Now I'm gonna do it.
Speaker 1 (57:26):
Speak your mind.
Speaker 2 (57:27):
I'm going to give it a nine point five just
because I had an hour of thinking my baby died.
Speaker 1 (57:32):
Okay, I'll give it a nine point five because we
had to see naked people. Yeah, and then oh, I'll
give it this is nothing to do, like, can you ranch?
I give it ten out of ten. But travel home,
my TSA expired.
Speaker 2 (57:48):
Oh that's what it was.
Speaker 3 (57:49):
Uh huh.
Speaker 1 (57:50):
And I didn't know it had expired because I traveled
there with my TSA pre check working. And then when
we got to the airport, which we didn't have a
lot of time to spare, I went through the TSA
pre check and by the time I got up to him,
he was like, you don't have TSA pre on your ticket.
And I'm like, sure, I do. It's in the fine
print and he's like, no, it's not on there. And
I was like, what, guess I don't know if I've
(58:12):
gotten to update you on this because you had to
go catch your flight because you were going to Nashville
and I was going to Colorado. I was in a
little bit of a pickle because then I had to
go get into the standard line and it was long.
I was I was so nervous I was going to
miss my flight. So while I'm in line, I'm trying
to figure out what in the world has happened. Turns
out my TSA pre check expired while we were a
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canyon ranch.
Speaker 2 (58:38):
That is nuts.
Speaker 1 (58:39):
What are the odds? It's good for five years and
it expired, so you had to renew it. And heads up,
if you want to renew you have to. You can
either renew it right away. If it's before it expires,
you're good to go. If it is expired, you have
to wait three business days.
Speaker 2 (58:57):
Do you have to go in? No, you can do
it all like to because that would be like when
your driver's license expire. Yeah, that wasn't good.
Speaker 1 (59:05):
But heads up, if you have taste, say TSA pre check,
and you think you're nearing your expiration, just go ahead
and give it a look.
Speaker 2 (59:11):
See and Amy. That is just a piece of why
I like to get to the airport extra early because
you never know what kind of thing you're going to run.
Speaker 1 (59:18):
Into Yeah, but guess what I've made my fight.
Speaker 2 (59:21):
By the skinnier teeth is that the phrase I was
talking to Patrick, I don't know if Amy's gonna make it.
Speaker 1 (59:27):
It was the last person. I was the last person
aboard the flight.
Speaker 2 (59:32):
For sure. You didn't make it.
Speaker 1 (59:36):
Live and learn, Live and learn, you live and yet learn.
All Right, Well, I hope you all had a good week.
Not everybody's on vacation like us. I get that, but
I hope you had a good fourth of July. And
that gosh, can you believe it's already July. We're already
going to be almost think about it, and just seven
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more days it's going to be halfway through July.
Speaker 2 (01:00:00):
It's crazy.
Speaker 1 (01:00:01):
And then seven more days after that, three quarters, and
then seven more days after.
Speaker 2 (01:00:05):
That it'll be over, I know.
Speaker 1 (01:00:07):
And then your baby shower is going to be August.
It's August first.
Speaker 2 (01:00:13):
And then the baby's going to be here. Mm hmm.
Speaker 1 (01:00:15):
Kat was having a lot of anxiety about her baby shower,
but that's her story.
Speaker 2 (01:00:20):
We're gonna talk about that another day. That's probably also
why my anxiety wasn't cute anymore, because that was annoying.
I talked about it a lot, but.
Speaker 1 (01:00:29):
But we solved it. Don't you think Don't you think
it was good because we solved it. Didn't we come
up with the we we came up with a plan,
like it was good that you were we had we
had time.
Speaker 2 (01:00:41):
Yeah, to talk it out, through it out. I didn't
sleep over this. Yeah. Yeah. So but then I think
you're you not being part of my family and saying
what you said made me feel better, you know, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,
so thank you for that. Are you sure you felt
(01:01:03):
refreshed after your trip?
Speaker 1 (01:01:10):
I still have fun with you no matter what. I'm
sure I did things that were I mean, your stuff
wasn't even bad. It was just your cute little anxiety
that that got a little out of control. So we
got it all resolved. Yeah, and you're aware of it.
Speaker 2 (01:01:25):
Yeah for the most part. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (01:01:28):
I can't think of one thing you weren't aware of.
Speaker 2 (01:01:31):
Yeah. I knew I was being annoying with the baby shower,
but I couldn't stop at the same time.
Speaker 1 (01:01:35):
Right, So then that's why we paused, and I think
we figured it out.
Speaker 2 (01:01:38):
Yeah, and then to da, it's happening, Okay, okay, all.
Speaker 1 (01:01:45):
Right, have the baby shower you need to have, and
I have the day you need to have.
Speaker 2 (01:01:50):
Bye Bye three
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