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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Second date.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
As he reached out to us, I guess that you
went on on a date, and as you need some
help because the ghost to her, she hasn't really heard
from them.
Speaker 1 (00:10):
To day that he okay, oh, I thought I was
like more than one person we get a second date?
Speaker 3 (00:16):
How many.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
None of them were getting back to her, all of
the people that know just one a particular As far
as I know, it's just one.
Speaker 3 (00:25):
But here we were get dizzy, let's figure outzy, what's
going on?
Speaker 4 (00:28):
So I met this guy Noah on a dating app
about a month ago, and we talked for a couple
of weeks before we met at for dinner, and like
it was great. Like we talked for the next couple
of days, like just texted constantly, and like he was
initiating the conversations. He was sending memes, he was asking
(00:50):
me about my day. He seemed genuinely interested, Like it
seemed like okay, like this seems good. And then we
made plans for a second date and he said guested
that you know, we grabbed drinks and play trivia at
this local brewery and everything like seemed really normal. And
then the morning of our date, which was like the
(01:12):
following Friday, he texted me and he said he had
an emergency and he needed to cancel, and so I
was like, okay, like don't worry about it. I hope
everything's okay. Like that was kind of it. And then
he texted back, He's like, okay, I'll explain later. But
then he never texted back, like I never heard from him,
(01:33):
and I still haven't heard from them, you know what
I mean. Like, it's just it's just weird.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
This was all text in between that last date and
when you were supposed to go on the second date.
Speaker 3 (01:42):
It was all just text dialogue there. Okay.
Speaker 1 (01:45):
So nothing anything that you can recall from the text
that would you know, set an alarm up.
Speaker 3 (01:54):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (01:54):
I mean he's been on social media almost every day.
Speaker 2 (01:58):
Okay, yeah, okay, Oh, let's see what's up.
Speaker 3 (02:01):
Yeah, let's find out if he still wants to be alive,
and let's u you will rough them up for you.
Let's call Noah. He's responded to by text and he's ready.
Speaker 4 (02:09):
Okay, okay, okay, all right.
Speaker 1 (02:11):
Well he's responded to by text and he's ready to rock.
So let's get him both together and see if we
can get him on a second Date.
Speaker 5 (02:18):
Hello, Hey, Noah, Yeah.
Speaker 3 (02:21):
It's christ FM capitle too. Are you ready for the
big reveal?
Speaker 5 (02:24):
Here?
Speaker 3 (02:25):
Yeah? Coop? Are you there, Bud?
Speaker 5 (02:27):
Yeah, I'm right here.
Speaker 3 (02:28):
Okay, here we go.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
So I have somebody h that reached out to us
and her name is Izzy.
Speaker 2 (02:33):
Yeah I is. He says that you guys had a
great first date and you got all set up for
a second date, but then you had to cancel. Sounds
again an emergency, totally fine, but she says that ever
since then, she hasn't really heard from you, and we
do this thing where we try to help people get reconnected.
Speaker 1 (02:45):
She's called Second Date Update, And to be fair, she's
on the on the phone right now, listening in and
ready to you know, have a discussion if that's cool.
Speaker 5 (02:54):
Yeah, okay, this is this is super odward. I promise
I wasn't gonna ghost her like that was a thing.
Speaker 2 (03:05):
I it's okay. Well okay, Well we'd love to maybe
chat about it if you're cool with that.
Speaker 3 (03:09):
Was Isy on the phone as well.
Speaker 5 (03:11):
Yeah, okay. So the day of the second date, this
is very weird. I was I was trying to it's
trying to get some yard work done before meeting up
with her, and I was mowing the lawn and it's
like a push mower, right, so it kind of doubles
as a workout. And uh and at one point I
(03:33):
hit this like rut in the yard is this kind
of divot? And I stumbled and it slammed the handle
like the lamb directly into me. And I know it
doesn't like it doesn't sound that serious, but until you
realize where the handle lodged in, Like where in a
(03:54):
really bad area for a guy? Are you following me?
Speaker 3 (03:57):
What you got? Hitting the crotch by a lawnmower.
Speaker 5 (04:00):
Partially suspended in the air. I was riding like a
horse for am and really it was super intense and
I thought like I injured myself, like did some like
irreversible damage downstairs, and I ended up going to I
ended up going to the er with like, I don't
know what do you say? You like, I think I
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broke it, like it's not there's no bones and there
you're like, I think I broke my my my stuff.
And then yeah, no, the doctors were laughing to you, guys,
can all.
Speaker 1 (04:33):
Have a.
Speaker 5 (04:36):
New doctors?
Speaker 1 (04:36):
They were they were.
Speaker 5 (04:38):
Like one of them turned their head because you know
when you like, you're like at church and you're like,
he was doing the whole stifle.
Speaker 3 (04:44):
To laugh thing him are.
Speaker 5 (04:50):
So I showed him the wound and then they're like,
everything's okay. And I spent the next like several days
very ruise, waddling around like a cowboy.
Speaker 4 (05:03):
And why didn't you just tell me that?
Speaker 5 (05:06):
Writing I started. Every time I started typing the text,
I got embarrassed because I'd get to the park for
the lawnmower incident and I didn't really know how to
explain it, and then I'd stop, and then the longer
I waited, the more awkward it God, and I figured
that now there's you know, there's no way she's going
to believe me. It sounds just like this.
Speaker 1 (05:26):
Why in the world would just spill all of this
on the radio right out of the gates, but not
just but could you have just told her, Hey, I
had an accident with my lawnmower.
Speaker 3 (05:34):
I'll get back to you in a way.
Speaker 4 (05:36):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, you would that very right away. Like
I'm totally understood. I wouldn't have thought twice about just
waiting to go out again.
Speaker 5 (05:46):
Now that we're on the radio, I agree with you all.
That's how it should have gone, would have been way better.
Speaker 1 (05:52):
So we're not trying to like, no, no shame or anything.
It's just like her feelings are hurt. Well, your lines
are hurt literally and yeah, and by the way, there's
no expectation of you of needing that in the future.
Date that can wait, by the way, just throwing that
out there.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
No, are you doing better now? Uh?
Speaker 5 (06:13):
Yeah, there's a I have a rotating bag of ice
that is going to the freezer. But I'm I'll be better.
I know that if you tried both on it.
Speaker 3 (06:24):
Nothing. So where are we at here?
Speaker 2 (06:30):
I mean, are you okay? Or like, are you open
for a date?
Speaker 1 (06:33):
Is he?
Speaker 3 (06:34):
Is he?
Speaker 1 (06:34):
He did technically not he kind of he didn't tell
the truth by your mission here, I guess?
Speaker 3 (06:39):
Or yeah? Is he? How are you feeling? Yeah? Are
you okay?
Speaker 5 (06:42):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (06:42):
I know I feel bad for him. I understand, like
it's just a really really crazy kind of thing.
Speaker 3 (06:47):
Would you still want to go out on the date?
Speaker 4 (06:51):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (06:51):
I would want once he can walk? Is that what
I heard? Okay?
Speaker 5 (06:56):
Hold on, I can walk. I don't want to push
it might have to go.
Speaker 3 (07:00):
Don't push it, don't touch it.
Speaker 1 (07:01):
I don't think we see anybody.
Speaker 3 (07:05):
This is putting me in pain just listening to it.
Speaker 1 (07:07):
Can we put you down for a second date and
we will take care of it here at k whatle two?
Speaker 3 (07:18):
I can't answer that.
Speaker 5 (07:20):
Yeah, okay, okay.
Speaker 2 (07:24):
Do you need to like sit on a donut or something?
Speaker 1 (07:31):
Yes, I do too, but it's making it I'm in
pain right now for this. Por man, Hey, you too,
hold the line and we're gonna get you set up
on a date maybe like an ice cream shop.
Speaker 5 (07:42):
All right, thank you, thank you.
Speaker 2 (07:47):
If you if you've been ghosted or somebody's not getting
back to you after you've gone on a date with them,
reach out to us Chris Carr and Company Facebook page
or Instagram. We'd love to help you out.
Speaker 3 (07:57):
Dude.
Speaker 1 (07:57):
If I were her, I would have been like, I
don't I don't this, I don't believe this. You're gonna
have to send me pictures.
Speaker 3 (08:04):
I broke my stuff. Awful for the little broken wing, Bruce.
It's like I didn't know there's aren't any bones in
the day. I'm like, Okay,