February 6, 2026 • 30 mins
Should Jodi take on this side hustle?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Welcome to the Murphy Salmon Choty Weekend Show podcast, highlighting
some of our favorite moments from this past week.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
I love shopping for a man, and I got to
shop for my man Murphy the other day.
Speaker 3 (00:13):
He took me. You don't like to shop without me,
which is cute.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
Well, because I trust your eyes, I trust your judgment,
and you find things faster than I do. I know
where everything is, yeah, I mean I'm looking at it.
It's like I was looking for ten fifteen minutes. It's like, nah,
I don't like that. Don't like that. And then Jody
walks over with six things. All right, you ready trying
these on?
Speaker 2 (00:32):
Well?
Speaker 3 (00:32):
Wait, I'm not rushing you. We had somewhere to be.
We were going to visit your uncle Gott.
Speaker 1 (00:36):
I didn't think you were rushing me. You just have
a knack for finding the good.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
You were looking for some basic, you know, pieces, and
you told me what you were looking for. I know
exactly where to go for that. Especially, I was looking
for certain brands.
Speaker 4 (00:49):
That personal shopper.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
I am I and I when I see it, I
know whether he would rock it or not. And I
know what he has already, you.
Speaker 1 (00:58):
Know, and I think That's probably where you're better at
me than that, because I spent a lot of time
looking at things I wish I could fit in and
where you know, it's like because for example, I mean
there was an entire rack of something, I'm like, wow,
I love this material, it feels great, but it was
all slim fit. Oh yeah, and so yeah, I looked
at that. I'm looking for the other sections like you know,
(01:18):
it's where's the generous fish, where's flattering fit? You know,
and that I couldn't find those.
Speaker 3 (01:25):
Here was the wind for me. Everything that we've brought
into the dressing room.
Speaker 2 (01:29):
When I had like six seven things, six or seven
things over my arm, he bought that's what you know,
that's what he got and it was all on sale.
Speaker 3 (01:38):
It was like clearance.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
Yeah I wasn't.
Speaker 3 (01:41):
I wasn't intending to only shop clearance for that.
Speaker 1 (01:44):
Well, look, I like a deal. I mean that's I mean,
that's what because I don't go I'm like, I'm not
an over the top kind of fashion person. So when
I'm shopping, it's probably because I need to you know,
update or do new things. So yeah, I mean I'm
all good with the clearance, right, that's kind of like
a fine that's almost like your shrifting thing. You get
a rush.
Speaker 3 (02:03):
Yeah, you know, it was a rush at scheck out.
Speaker 4 (02:05):
Why are we gonna start seeing these things?
Speaker 2 (02:07):
I know you didn't wear it today any of your
stuff yet. Oh yeah, there's that one polo, the cream
and black polo. If you don't start wearing that, I'm
gonna be rocking that. It just feels incredible. I'm like, God,
this shirt feels incredible.
Speaker 1 (02:20):
I think Jody buddet for her as much as no.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
But the sales lady was like, yeah, that's that's one
I'd put on over leggings too.
Speaker 4 (02:27):
Is it a softnipolar or a PK knit.
Speaker 3 (02:30):
It's more of a flannel. It's a light flannel.
Speaker 1 (02:33):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (02:34):
Was there anything that Murphy picked out that you were
like nah, No, Well.
Speaker 2 (02:38):
One shirt that he loved the way it felt and
he wanted to take it in the dressing room.
Speaker 3 (02:42):
It was actually sleep wear and it's like, this is
for business. I don't want you to wear this.
Speaker 1 (02:47):
I thought it was a little shiny sho.
Speaker 4 (02:53):
Social media connect.
Speaker 2 (02:54):
Cody sent us a message through Instagram Messenger. Hey guys,
just wanted to share my find at the thrift store.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
All right, Cody, we sure those.
Speaker 3 (03:04):
Things all the time because we all I mean, I
like to thrift a lot. He says. This is a
twinkie maker, and it had never been used.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
A twinkie maker. I didn't even know they made twinkie
maker either.
Speaker 3 (03:15):
I've never heard of that a twinkie maker.
Speaker 2 (03:17):
Plan to make twinkies, of course, but there are other
things that you can make with this. The combinations are endless.
Sell it to you, and he says, I will share
some creations when I make them. It means he hasn't
made anything.
Speaker 1 (03:29):
Wait to see that.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
Well, I'm really excited, he says.
Speaker 1 (03:31):
I remember as a kid spending hours wondering how they
got the creams out of a twinkie hours. Well, you know,
because it didn't occur to me that it's like, oh,
they just punch holes in the bottom of it. Okay.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
I have about association with twinkies, and you know.
Speaker 1 (03:43):
That why because you couldn't have chocolate. Correct, That's the reason.
Speaker 2 (03:47):
The family would go here get her some twinkies because
she can't have ding dongs.
Speaker 3 (03:52):
And I just I didn't want twinkies.
Speaker 2 (03:54):
Oh.
Speaker 4 (03:54):
I haven't let go of that, have you?
Speaker 3 (03:55):
And this makes me thank you for sending that to us. Cody.
Speaker 2 (03:58):
What this makes me think of is that gift that
you gave our family one Christmas handful of years ago.
Speaker 3 (04:03):
Do you remember what you gave us?
Speaker 2 (04:06):
Yea Twinkie pan And I was like, I had to
mix with it too. It had the mix to make
the cake with all the in the center, and I
remember going thanks.
Speaker 3 (04:17):
I got home. It was Christmas time and.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
The kids had just gotten out of school and I
and I said, Murphy watched this, and I said, look
what mister Sam gave us and Taylor and people were.
Speaker 3 (04:24):
Like, oh my god. I was present ever and we
made it.
Speaker 1 (04:29):
It was fantastic. But somebody didn't put it in the fridge.
Not you, That's not what I mean. Someone didn't put
it in the refrigerator and it went bad.
Speaker 3 (04:35):
Remember I don't remember that.
Speaker 1 (04:37):
It's unlike twinkies that can live for seven years. The
real thing. This one has whatever dairy in it, and
so you have to refrigerate it.
Speaker 4 (04:44):
After it tastes like a Twinkie.
Speaker 1 (04:46):
It was closed. I mean it was it was close enough.
It was, you know, a giant Twinkie.
Speaker 2 (04:50):
It was probably better because it couldn't have sat on
the shelf for seven years, so it was good.
Speaker 1 (04:56):
But I missed the fact it couldn't sweat inside the
package the way a real twinkie does.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
Oh yeah, sorry anyway, Yeah, you do not ever know
what you were going to see when thrifting, As Cody says,
I used before twinkie mak.
Speaker 1 (05:10):
Yeah, sure, I didn't know there was a Twinkie maker.
I remember the easy bake. I don't remember a twinky maker.
Speaker 3 (05:16):
All right, join the conversation anytime.
Speaker 2 (05:18):
You can also give us a call eight seven seven
three one zero four ms J. I think I found
a really good side hustle guy so that I could
do without you.
Speaker 1 (05:28):
Wow, this doesn't involve your phone in a subscription, right.
Speaker 3 (05:33):
No, I don't even know what that means, youre hey.
Speaker 2 (05:40):
No, just came about Murphy because you know I took
you shopping the other day. You needed some new clothes
and you you couldn't find anything, and I showed up
with seventeen things that most of them you picked out.
Speaker 3 (05:52):
I love shopping for men, I really do. It's easy.
I like shopping for me too, but it just comes.
I can I know if I.
Speaker 2 (05:59):
Know you, and I know your size and height and style.
I can shop for you, and I went. I went
back the next day for one jacket. We decided I
wanted to go pick up for Murphy, and so I
went back in and I wanted to say hi by
the way to Brandy working in the Ralph Lauren department
of the store that I was in, because she recognized
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me and we spoke and it was sweet and she
was like, is this for Murphy? I said, sure, is wonderful.
So it was good to meet you. But while I
was on the way sam jacket anyway, before I checked
out and bought that, I went to every section of
the store, just looking, enjoying.
Speaker 3 (06:36):
It was just all the men's department, though.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
And I want you to know that two other men
that I do not even know asked me for my help.
I felt like saying, you know, there are salespeople here
who actually it's what they're paid to do, but I
didn't say that. Yeah, they were like, you seem to know.
And one of them complimented the way I was stressed.
It's like, okay, you can put something together. Can you
(06:59):
help me?
Speaker 3 (07:00):
And so I did, you.
Speaker 1 (07:02):
Just look like you know what you're doing, you know.
I think that's why it happened.
Speaker 3 (07:05):
I helped an older gentleman pick out a suit.
Speaker 1 (07:08):
Oh it did you?
Speaker 3 (07:09):
Yeah? It was really nice.
Speaker 2 (07:11):
And then another guy I just felt like a sweater
and blazer combo.
Speaker 1 (07:15):
Well, you know when I was shopping with you a
couple of days ago, there was a guy that walked
in and asked your opinion, and his wife was in
the other room. I don't really trust her, can you.
Speaker 3 (07:24):
Oh that's right, I do remember that. I forgot about that.
Speaker 4 (07:27):
So this is going to be your side hustle.
Speaker 2 (07:29):
I'm just saying that I could because it's really fun too.
Plus I know skin in the game. Like, it's not
like I have to go in a dressing room and
try it on. It's all suggestions.
Speaker 4 (07:37):
So if you do this, are you going to set
it up online or are you just going to hang
around the men's section hoping people?
Speaker 1 (07:43):
Well, actually you could use your phone in a subscription
for that.
Speaker 2 (07:47):
But Murphy helped me get started since you already had
ideas about that.
Speaker 1 (07:51):
Yeah, social media connect.
Speaker 3 (07:55):
I love hearing from you, especially about this. Things you've
thrifted for just a buck? Are you kidding me?
Speaker 2 (08:00):
We brought this up as a reminder that early February
late January early February is a great time to go
thrifting because a lot of people cleaned out at the
end of the year and donated things, and not just
cleaned out, but donated gifts they received. Yeah, by this time,
and by this time those things have made it to
the floor of these stores, of consignment stores and all
(08:24):
of that. So Denise said this, sent this to our
Facebook messenger. My sister bought a Vera Bradley cross body bag.
Speaker 3 (08:33):
For one dollar. Oh I got. I don't know if
you guys understand what a deal that is.
Speaker 1 (08:38):
Yeah, Sam, you.
Speaker 3 (08:39):
Seem to know about Actually Murphy doesn't know.
Speaker 4 (08:41):
One of the exos was a Vera Bradley freak. Okay,
so I know exactly how much?
Speaker 1 (08:46):
All right, well say.
Speaker 3 (08:47):
How much about my guess?
Speaker 2 (08:49):
I don't have any Vera Bradley, but my guess is
that a cross body bag is eighty bucks easily.
Speaker 4 (08:55):
Yeah, okay, and Vera Bradley. It's like you have different
patterns in different years and all that stuff.
Speaker 3 (09:01):
So yeah, some of it's collectible.
Speaker 2 (09:03):
Yeah, So for one dollar, I'm thinking, man, that's a steal.
Speaker 3 (09:07):
You could have someone at the store could have priced
that higher and didn't know.
Speaker 1 (09:12):
Someone at the store could have just bought it themselves.
Speaker 2 (09:15):
But yeah, you've never seen those videos online of these
ladies about to go thrifting and going Dear God, please
let it be a teenage boy working at the store
who doesn't know what Trada is, who's pricing all this stuff. Anyway,
Rebecca sent this regarding a thrift find. My daughter found
a brand new souvenir T shirt from Beijing with the
(09:36):
tags still on. We only paid a dollar for it.
She is autistic and loves all things from different places
around the world, so no telling what that was worth,
but they got it for one dollar.
Speaker 4 (09:49):
You know what's also probably a popular section right now.
It's probably loaded with stuff is the collegiate NFL sports
team section. Correct, because during the season, very few things
because everybody snatched them up. But right now, if everybody's
clearing out their jersey and everything, well yeah.
Speaker 1 (10:07):
Well, or maybe you should wait one more week because
there'll be two other sets of jersey.
Speaker 3 (10:12):
It's a right Murphy.
Speaker 2 (10:16):
Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube. Love hearing from
you and all the things we talk about, and you
jump right in. Sam blew our minds last week with
the fact that your son Sammy has been given a
six week sabbatical, paid sabbatical this year and he's taking it.
Speaker 4 (10:32):
Yeah, every five years that you're at the company, you
get a six week sabbatical and so.
Speaker 1 (10:36):
There's no like crazy surprise at the end of this, right,
you know it's.
Speaker 4 (10:39):
Really funny, is it's like I had these like the
same holistic Wait six weeks you get paid. You can
still take vacation.
Speaker 3 (10:46):
Yeah, you still have your position.
Speaker 4 (10:48):
Yeah. Are they just trying to get rid of you? Now?
Speaker 2 (10:52):
So that blew our minds And for anyone who missed it,
Sammy will be taking the six weeks his family on
a tour of the National Party.
Speaker 4 (10:59):
They're on to a bunch of national parks.
Speaker 3 (11:01):
So cool. I love Rebecca sent this Hello, guys, I
wanted to share about the sabbatical.
Speaker 2 (11:06):
Okay, I work for a large financial company. We also
get a sabbatical four weeks paid every five years.
Speaker 1 (11:15):
Wow, Okay, it's.
Speaker 2 (11:16):
Probably jealous of those six weeks. So four weeks paid
every five years.
Speaker 3 (11:20):
Plus when we are hired, we earn anywhere from ten
to thirteen vacation hours every month. Let that sink in.
Speaker 2 (11:28):
You started ten hours, but after ninety six months, moved
to thirteen plus six time and two floating holidays. I
hit my ten year anniversary last September, and we'll be
taking my second sabbatical in July.
Speaker 1 (11:43):
That's awesome. What congratulations on that?
Speaker 3 (11:45):
No, we're jelly.
Speaker 2 (11:47):
I feel like people are starting to negotiate more time
off as a part of their compensation.
Speaker 1 (11:52):
That's true, that's very true. Murphy would do, but that's
usually done in lieu of compensation, or you know when
I say that, in lieu of like additional compensation. So
you're right, you know what I mean. It's a trade
in the park. But would you know, Sammy right, it's
like you know you're in the same one. You're not there.
That's a job right there. Huh?
Speaker 2 (12:11):
All right, this is more from Rebecca. Our lives shouldn't
be spent working. We should be living. I hope you
all are able to negotiate Savvy's for your next contracts.
I love listening to the show, Sabby, say Rebecca.
Speaker 4 (12:26):
Nice, But then when we be gone for six.
Speaker 3 (12:28):
Weeks, we can stand to be apart for.
Speaker 1 (12:31):
Six weeks with that much vacation time, you know too?
I mean, I love the idea of the breaks, but
Eventually you get to a place where you don't even
know who your coworkers are.
Speaker 4 (12:40):
You're never there, and how do you get back in
the groove. After six weeks there comes Monday.
Speaker 2 (12:51):
Should dogs have layers or winterwear in super cold weather?
Speaker 3 (12:56):
The answer is yes and no. You guys know why.
Speaker 4 (13:00):
Because their cold coat long coat.
Speaker 3 (13:02):
Murphy's right. It depends on the dog.
Speaker 2 (13:05):
Some dogs come into this their natural state is almost
that come into this world their natural state like huskies
or akidas or even our long hair Chihuahua with two
and three coats, they can withstand cold.
Speaker 3 (13:19):
Doesn't mean stick them outside.
Speaker 1 (13:21):
Correct, well, I mean sparky are long hair at Chihua
proves that every day because it can be twenty three
degrees and he's going to take a sweet time finding
the perfect spot.
Speaker 3 (13:31):
Do his bits right because he has.
Speaker 1 (13:33):
He can do it in the when it's eighty, he
can do it when it's twenty.
Speaker 3 (13:36):
He has layers. Now our other dog and it depends
on that.
Speaker 2 (13:39):
So other dogs don't even have an undercoat like labs
and so it just just depends. But if you are
cold and you have a dog with just very thin
hair like no undercoat, yeah they can get cold in
certain really cold temperatures. You know, they need protection for
their paws like booties.
Speaker 3 (13:59):
For sure. I'll tell you a story, Murphy.
Speaker 2 (14:02):
I don't know if I ever even told you this,
but back when we were fostering, we fostered a lot
of dogs for a lot of years. We would grab
one from the shelter and introduce it to our pack
and bring it into the family. And when I was
involved in all of that, we had a dog one time,
and it was a female. She was like a brindle
boxer breed, and she had no undercoat. She was, you know,
(14:23):
just very thin, light hair. And someone came to like
an event and wanted to adopt her, and I liked them.
You know, they had a big piece of property out
somewhere like a farm, and they wanted her. And I
was about to say yes to them because it was
like my choice as the foster mom. And then the
(14:43):
lady who ran the organization came over to me and
she said, let's ask some more questions. You know, where
will this dog be in winter? And sure enough they
were just going to like stick it in the barn,
out in the barn at winter. And the organization said,
I'm sorry. You know, this dog has no under coat
and definitely needs shelter in the winter, and we didn't
adopt it out to that family. We suggested a different
(15:06):
dog that had a bigger coat.
Speaker 1 (15:08):
Yeah, right, it.
Speaker 4 (15:11):
Is.
Speaker 3 (15:14):
Alyssa has sent us a message.
Speaker 2 (15:16):
Dear Sam, I need to know what this chili recipe
is that you taught your son Parker to make.
Speaker 3 (15:22):
Please share?
Speaker 2 (15:23):
Okay, Well, we can post it okay at Murphy Salmonjody
dot com.
Speaker 4 (15:26):
Yeah, you know, there is an interesting story behind the
recipe because it's not mine.
Speaker 3 (15:31):
Okay, here you go, Alissa.
Speaker 4 (15:32):
It belongs to one of my ex mothers in law.
Speaker 3 (15:36):
Oh first X or second X second Okay.
Speaker 4 (15:41):
She made it and about twenty twenty plus years ago,
when we were still married, she gave me the recipe.
Speaker 3 (15:48):
You liked it that much?
Speaker 4 (15:49):
Yeah, I loved it, and that's my that's my go
to recipe. I've used that for chili. It's for chili.
Speaker 3 (15:54):
Okay.
Speaker 4 (15:54):
She passed away a few years ago. Oh and it
was also one of her husband's, my ex father in
law's favorite recipes. And when she passed away, he didn't
have the recipe and my ex didn't have the recipe.
I was the only one left with the recipe.
Speaker 3 (16:12):
Oh so they had to come did they come calling?
Speaker 4 (16:15):
My ex said that her she wanted to make that
her mom's chili for her dad. Any chance you have
the recipe, and.
Speaker 3 (16:23):
Here's the here's the part. Here's the part where you
struggled with yourself.
Speaker 4 (16:28):
Yeah, yeah, I mean I was going to give it
to her, but I couldn't think of a good line,
you know, because it wasn't appropriate. But yeah, I gave her.
Speaker 3 (16:35):
You were going to say something like I got that
in the divorce.
Speaker 4 (16:39):
At least I got to keep something.
Speaker 2 (16:42):
Okay, this is this, you know, chili for a lot
of people, chili as chili as chili.
Speaker 3 (16:47):
What about this?
Speaker 4 (16:48):
It's a basic recipe.
Speaker 3 (16:49):
Really, then what about it to you?
Speaker 4 (16:52):
Because I just loved everything worked together. And she made
the beef version, you know, the ground beef, and it
was ground beef, some red beans in the can, light
beans and dark. For some reason, it calls for a
half light beans and half dark beans. Some of the
regular chili seasoning. Yes, and she used water to I've
(17:13):
changed the recipe in that if I use ground beef,
I use a little beef broth. Nice or like this
when we made it with Parker and we used the
ground turkey. I used chicken broth. Very good, just to
liquefy it. But it's a more flatter it's their recipe.
Speaker 3 (17:26):
Oh so good.
Speaker 2 (17:28):
When you talk about chili, I mean like if you
had one hundred people in a room making chili, every
single pot would be different.
Speaker 4 (17:33):
Oh yeah, Well, like you said, y'all don't do beans
in yours.
Speaker 3 (17:36):
No, we do corn.
Speaker 4 (17:37):
And sometimes I add corn to it too. Last time
I made it, I made it from and gave some
of the mat and she goes, you put corn in this?
Is there always been corn in this? I said, Nah,
today was cornet like putting corn in?
Speaker 2 (17:47):
Okay, So to go get your favorite ever X in
laws recipe for chili go to Murphysalmonjody dot com.
Speaker 3 (17:55):
Thank you for sharing it morning, picked me up time.
Speaker 2 (18:00):
I am in love with this story of a wife who,
for years, almost forty years, ignored her husband's request to
please stop signing up to win things you're never gonna win.
Speaker 3 (18:11):
Please stop doing this.
Speaker 2 (18:12):
She kept signing up to win things through an organizations
where you an organization where your money that you've given
goes to different various charities in the UK goes to
different charities, and she did it again recently at the
end of last year, just a couple of months ago.
For thirty three dollars, she bought a ticket. She got
the phone call the other day that she won a mansion,
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a home worth about five million dollars, No kidding, five bedrooms,
Florida ceiling windows, solar panels, a floating staircase, a huge
open floor pant plan, this beautiful lake.
Speaker 3 (18:47):
They are living there now or they're going to move in.
Speaker 2 (18:50):
They can do whatever they want. They can you know,
rent it out like airbnb it it's beautiful, or.
Speaker 3 (18:57):
They can live there, or they can sell it.
Speaker 1 (18:59):
For cas that's really, that's amazing.
Speaker 2 (19:02):
So you have told her for years, please stop. The
words are you have no chance of winning.
Speaker 1 (19:09):
The thing is you always got some chance. It just
depends on how big of a chance. Was this house
owned by anybody named Harry and Meghan possibly in the past.
Oh no, I hear they're not living.
Speaker 4 (19:21):
And the royal families trying to unload it.
Speaker 3 (19:24):
No, the word is this there's some other stuff.
Speaker 2 (19:27):
The very morning that she got the phone call that
she had won through the organization, she spent thirty three
dollars on the ticket was in morning they were having
a serious discussion about downsizing because of financial reasons.
Speaker 3 (19:44):
Yeah you think she ever says, I told you so.
I hope not.
Speaker 2 (19:47):
But another high point of this story is that the
charity that her money, her ticket money, or whatever her
donation went to, along with all the other donations, is
a leading animal welfare charity in that area of the world.
Speaker 3 (20:02):
And that cool.
Speaker 2 (20:03):
And they haven't decided what to do. They did spend
the holidays there. They can choose to live in the house,
rent it out, you know, supplement their income, or literally
sell it.
Speaker 1 (20:12):
You know what, that's just beautiful because you're whatever, You're
still making a donation even if you don't wind up winning.
Speaker 3 (20:18):
So that's what she said.
Speaker 1 (20:19):
Yeah right, it's just a it's it's it's it's beautiful serendipity.
Speaker 2 (20:25):
I really love the trend uh going analog that we
touched on earlier, where more and more of you and
it's all around the world, people wanting to put down
devices and stop doom scrolling and do real things that
actually when you have a break, instead of grabbing a
device and getting lost into that vortex, you know, writing
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something or drawing or knitting, or just doing something else
that's that feels real. That's what going analog, that's what
that trend means. I also read another trend I wanted
to bring to the show and just say, I think Sam,
you will like this, and I kind of like the
idea of it.
Speaker 3 (21:04):
You know what a book club is.
Speaker 2 (21:06):
You get four or five people or how many people
you read the same book and then you.
Speaker 3 (21:11):
Get together and talk about it. I've never done that ever.
I have.
Speaker 2 (21:15):
I've read books with girlfriends, I've read books with you.
Speaker 1 (21:19):
It's got to be your thing. There's certainly nothing wrong
with that. That's just not my note. Unless we're talking
self help books. You know seven habits of highly effective people.
Speaker 4 (21:28):
Let's talk about number four today that there's a group
you want to get are passionate about it.
Speaker 1 (21:34):
Let me just say sharpened the saw. That's you know,
habit number seven. Go ahead, Jody, just.
Speaker 3 (21:40):
Get lost in the vour tax instead anyway, the other
another sort of party like that, that's trending.
Speaker 2 (21:46):
It's not a book club, but a cookbook club. Everybody purchase.
Speaker 3 (21:50):
See that's what I knew, and this is interesting.
Speaker 2 (21:53):
Explain please, everybody in a group let's say four or
five of us all have the same cookbook, you know,
and then we all pick a recipe from it, not
the same one, and we all make a recipe from
it that we've never made before. Then you get together, yes,
and then you talk about it, and it's a shared
social experience that has nothing to do with devices.
Speaker 4 (22:14):
Yeah, built in food and everything I know.
Speaker 1 (22:17):
I have to create.
Speaker 2 (22:18):
I really love that idea, and cooking is one of
those things that's on the list for people of going analog.
If you want to do something instead of doom scroll,
well in the kitchen.
Speaker 1 (22:27):
And here's the thing about that. It doesn't have to
be an either or it's not like you have to
create some complex project. It's fine for you to be
on your phone. It's not a problem. It's the doom
scrolling part. It's like you're saying, when you feel it's
being pulled, it's pulling you in different places. That's your
cue to make some sort of a change coat. And Sam,
I think the food thing might be a dating opportunity
for you to never know, somebody might fall in love
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with your chili.
Speaker 4 (22:49):
Oh you mean there's no women that would want to
talk about sharpening the.
Speaker 3 (22:52):
Saw Murphy while you've been out of town.
Speaker 2 (22:58):
I have to confess that I saw something I wasn't
ready to see in your office. So I had to
go into Murphy's office and filing cabinets, which I don't
ever do. But Phoebe, our youngest, needed her birth certificate.
You know, she's getting her driver's license updated, and she
needed her real things.
Speaker 1 (23:19):
You're twenty one, it needs to look like an adult.
Speaker 2 (23:23):
So I was like, oh, your dad's out of town.
I got to go in there and find that. Okay,
i'll do it. And so I go in there, and
I don't go through the filing cabinets ever. And by
the way, Murphy shout out, you keep great records.
Speaker 4 (23:34):
Wow, well thank you.
Speaker 2 (23:36):
You know.
Speaker 1 (23:37):
I've also eliminated a lot of paper in case you
can't tell as long as we've been together, with a
whole lot of digital stuff. So I only keep the
absolute things i've got to keep on paper and not
the rest.
Speaker 2 (23:46):
The first drawer, I went through the hole drawer and
didn't find Phoebe's stuff, and I was like, man, but wow,
there's a title for this and thanks for your dad here,
and it's all very organized. Then I go to the
next drawer, and I'm like, oh, this is it. This
is all really personal information. I got Feb's birth certificate
for her, and then I saw it. What the Jody folder? Murphy,
(24:08):
do you want to tell everybody what that?
Speaker 3 (24:10):
What that is?
Speaker 1 (24:10):
That Jodi folder came about because Jody was concerned at
one point after we had the girls that she doesn't
really know how the how the financial operations all that
stuff works. You know, Jody and our team, right, I mean,
if you take care of you know, the things that
I'm not really great at, and then the you know,
the finance and all that I do. And it's the folder.
Speaker 2 (24:28):
If something happens to Murphy, but I'll know what's going on.
It's the dump dump dumb folder. That's what it is.
So I had never really seen it. I knew it
was in there. I knew it was pink. So I
just want you to know. I couldn't help myself. I opened it.
I expected there to be like a note or something
in the front going I'll always love you.
Speaker 4 (24:48):
I'm so sorry. I'm not there.
Speaker 3 (24:50):
Oh wow, it's okay.
Speaker 1 (24:52):
I hadn't thought about that. I just kept it pretty yu.
It was business right forward.
Speaker 2 (24:56):
It's all business. But I only really looked at the
first sheet because that's just something in I didn't want
to go through that. I don't need to go through
that yet.
Speaker 1 (25:03):
Yeah, it's weird. It's a it's a weird thing to see,
you know, And here I am out of town and
you're reading that. I'm sure that that's probably kind of.
Speaker 3 (25:10):
No, it's a smart it's a smart thing to have.
Speaker 2 (25:13):
But I just want you to know I've seen the
folder and want you to know I appreciate the work
that went into it.
Speaker 4 (25:18):
Murphy, are you going to put a note in there now?
Speaker 1 (25:21):
Well, it sounds like I have to.
Speaker 2 (25:23):
I do not, absolutely do not morning pick me up time.
The super Bowl is coming up on Sunday. And even
if you were only team food and team commercials, because
you're not your team's not in it, there's always some
there's always something to watch and consume and celebrate, especially
(25:44):
the backstories, so you know that thousands of journalists are
there visiting with the teams all week long, and there
are a lot of cool backstories. I'm really liking the
two star quarterbacks backstories. The Seahawks quarterback Sam Darnold went
from a third round draft pick in twenty eighteen to
playing on four different teams in four years, bounced around
(26:07):
the NFL, and look what he's doing this weekend.
Speaker 3 (26:10):
Boom the ultimate goal.
Speaker 2 (26:12):
I guess if you're an NFL player, you are not
in the NFL if you've not dreamed of being at
the super Bowl.
Speaker 3 (26:20):
So I think that's kind of a cool. It's a
cool backstory.
Speaker 2 (26:23):
The other one is Patriots quarterback Drake may You heard
about him having deja.
Speaker 3 (26:29):
Vous for this. He was at the super Bowl in
the same stadium when he was thirteen years old, just
as a fan.
Speaker 4 (26:36):
I bet they have pictures of it and everything.
Speaker 2 (26:38):
Oh, we're going to see them on Sunday. If you
haven't already seen them in the ramp up to this,
that's cool.
Speaker 1 (26:43):
That's a really full circle thing, huh.
Speaker 3 (26:45):
I know.
Speaker 2 (26:45):
And you know thirteen year old boy sitting at a
super Bowl. Whether he spoke it or not, he.
Speaker 4 (26:51):
Thought, man, one day, I want to be out.
Speaker 3 (26:53):
I want to be there. That would be cool.
Speaker 2 (26:55):
Everybody has that thought, and so that's really cool for
both of those quarterbacks have a cool to get them
there this Sunday.
Speaker 4 (27:02):
There's a cool backstory. If you remember for the national
anthem Charlie Pooth is doing a national anthem. Yes, and
he said he's always really wanted to sing the national anthem,
so he actually nobody came asking him to put in
a demo tape or to try out. He actually recorded
his own national anthem, sent it to jay Z's people. Yeah,
and jay Z's like, Yep, that works, let's do it.
(27:23):
They brought it to the NFL and the NFL was like, yeah,
that works, so let's pick up.
Speaker 1 (27:26):
That's better than that's better than having to fill out
the form. You know, Yeah, and your last name is Pooth?
Speaker 4 (27:32):
How many? How many years have you been singing now?
Speaker 2 (27:35):
I also can't wait to hear what he does with it,
because he does those runs. He does those that falsetto
so well. Okay, So Sunday on NBC and also streaming
on Peacock and NFL plus. Hang out with us on
your schedule, take us along. It's the Murphy, Sam and
Jody Podcast. The whole show, every day rolled up into
one podcast. And there's a bonus also. It's called after
(27:59):
the show.
Speaker 1 (28:00):
Jody found the Jodi folder and I'm out of town
and Jody found the Jodi folder.
Speaker 2 (28:04):
It was it was a moment when I found that,
I was like, Oh, he put in the work to
put this together for me if something were to ever happen.
Speaker 1 (28:11):
Yeah, that's the whole reason for it. And you don't
think about it when there's so many different moving parts
to things now. And I guess I experienced this firsthand.
We had created the Jody folder, by the way, a
long time before my dad passed away. But you know,
after my dad passed away, he had everything so well
organized that we were able to eventually find everything. But
if you have one list to say where you know where,
(28:33):
what is and what you need to address first. I
don't know, it just it makes it easier to manage.
Nobody really wants to think about the end. Life is
still going on, so you don't make it a priority
right to put it together.
Speaker 3 (28:45):
But it's the responsible thing, you know.
Speaker 4 (28:47):
I'm the codasion.
Speaker 2 (28:48):
My father died when I was sixteen, he was forty,
and my mom had to take on and handle a
lot of things. And I watched her struggle with that,
and so I guess I've in my brain, ain't I've
always thought, be ready for the worst case scenario, be
ready well.
Speaker 1 (29:04):
And Jody was the one that actually you know asked
me about it when we when we first had the conversation.
It's like I need to know. I'm like, okay, I
can simplify all of this, and that's what I did
and created the Jody Folder.
Speaker 3 (29:16):
It's pain.
Speaker 1 (29:18):
Yeah, it was weird for me when I started to
put it together because your natural tendency is to think
that there's like some sort of a jinx or something
that you know what I mean, because it's creepy to say,
ye to put that together.
Speaker 4 (29:31):
At first, it's like you know that you are never
going to use that. Jody's the one that's going to
use it.
Speaker 1 (29:36):
Yeah. Actually it's pretty good reference for me if I
ever forget.
Speaker 4 (29:41):
Now I got to ask this, Jody, did you go
through the folder and like look at everything and say, oh,
you know what else needs?
Speaker 3 (29:47):
No, I should do that, but I didn't want to.
I saw the folder.
Speaker 2 (29:50):
I opened it, like I said, I expected there to
be something personal, but it was just records of things
that I would need to know, which I am so
grateful for that.
Speaker 3 (29:59):
And then I close.
Speaker 1 (30:00):
What's crazy is when I first created it, but it's
been about you know, ten twelve years or something like that.
We did go over it. It was just one of
those where it's like, okay, put it away.
Speaker 3 (30:09):
It went over my head.
Speaker 1 (30:11):
I don'tbut that's it's written down.
Speaker 3 (30:15):
So so grateful for the folder,
Welcome to the Murphy Salmon Choty Weekend Show podcast, highlighting
some of our favorite moments from this past week.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
I love shopping for a man, and I got to
shop for my man Murphy the other day.
Speaker 3 (00:13):
He took me. You don't like to shop without me,
which is cute.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
Well, because I trust your eyes, I trust your judgment,
and you find things faster than I do. I know
where everything is, yeah, I mean I'm looking at it.
It's like I was looking for ten fifteen minutes. It's like, nah,
I don't like that. Don't like that. And then Jody
walks over with six things. All right, you ready trying
these on?
Speaker 2 (00:32):
Well?
Speaker 3 (00:32):
Wait, I'm not rushing you. We had somewhere to be.
We were going to visit your uncle Gott.
Speaker 1 (00:36):
I didn't think you were rushing me. You just have
a knack for finding the good.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
You were looking for some basic, you know, pieces, and
you told me what you were looking for. I know
exactly where to go for that. Especially, I was looking
for certain brands.
Speaker 4 (00:49):
That personal shopper.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
I am I and I when I see it, I
know whether he would rock it or not. And I
know what he has already, you.
Speaker 1 (00:58):
Know, and I think That's probably where you're better at
me than that, because I spent a lot of time
looking at things I wish I could fit in and
where you know, it's like because for example, I mean
there was an entire rack of something, I'm like, wow,
I love this material, it feels great, but it was
all slim fit. Oh yeah, and so yeah, I looked
at that. I'm looking for the other sections like you know,
(01:18):
it's where's the generous fish, where's flattering fit? You know,
and that I couldn't find those.
Speaker 3 (01:25):
Here was the wind for me. Everything that we've brought
into the dressing room.
Speaker 2 (01:29):
When I had like six seven things, six or seven
things over my arm, he bought that's what you know,
that's what he got and it was all on sale.
Speaker 3 (01:38):
It was like clearance.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
Yeah I wasn't.
Speaker 3 (01:41):
I wasn't intending to only shop clearance for that.
Speaker 1 (01:44):
Well, look, I like a deal. I mean that's I mean,
that's what because I don't go I'm like, I'm not
an over the top kind of fashion person. So when
I'm shopping, it's probably because I need to you know,
update or do new things. So yeah, I mean I'm
all good with the clearance, right, that's kind of like
a fine that's almost like your shrifting thing. You get
a rush.
Speaker 3 (02:03):
Yeah, you know, it was a rush at scheck out.
Speaker 4 (02:05):
Why are we gonna start seeing these things?
Speaker 2 (02:07):
I know you didn't wear it today any of your
stuff yet. Oh yeah, there's that one polo, the cream
and black polo. If you don't start wearing that, I'm
gonna be rocking that. It just feels incredible. I'm like, God,
this shirt feels incredible.
Speaker 1 (02:20):
I think Jody buddet for her as much as no.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
But the sales lady was like, yeah, that's that's one
I'd put on over leggings too.
Speaker 4 (02:27):
Is it a softnipolar or a PK knit.
Speaker 3 (02:30):
It's more of a flannel. It's a light flannel.
Speaker 1 (02:33):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (02:34):
Was there anything that Murphy picked out that you were
like nah, No, Well.
Speaker 2 (02:38):
One shirt that he loved the way it felt and
he wanted to take it in the dressing room.
Speaker 3 (02:42):
It was actually sleep wear and it's like, this is
for business. I don't want you to wear this.
Speaker 1 (02:47):
I thought it was a little shiny sho.
Speaker 4 (02:53):
Social media connect.
Speaker 2 (02:54):
Cody sent us a message through Instagram Messenger. Hey guys,
just wanted to share my find at the thrift store.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
All right, Cody, we sure those.
Speaker 3 (03:04):
Things all the time because we all I mean, I
like to thrift a lot. He says. This is a
twinkie maker, and it had never been used.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
A twinkie maker. I didn't even know they made twinkie
maker either.
Speaker 3 (03:15):
I've never heard of that a twinkie maker.
Speaker 2 (03:17):
Plan to make twinkies, of course, but there are other
things that you can make with this. The combinations are endless.
Sell it to you, and he says, I will share
some creations when I make them. It means he hasn't
made anything.
Speaker 1 (03:29):
Wait to see that.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
Well, I'm really excited, he says.
Speaker 1 (03:31):
I remember as a kid spending hours wondering how they
got the creams out of a twinkie hours. Well, you know,
because it didn't occur to me that it's like, oh,
they just punch holes in the bottom of it. Okay.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
I have about association with twinkies, and you know.
Speaker 1 (03:43):
That why because you couldn't have chocolate. Correct, That's the reason.
Speaker 2 (03:47):
The family would go here get her some twinkies because
she can't have ding dongs.
Speaker 3 (03:52):
And I just I didn't want twinkies.
Speaker 2 (03:54):
Oh.
Speaker 4 (03:54):
I haven't let go of that, have you?
Speaker 3 (03:55):
And this makes me thank you for sending that to us. Cody.
Speaker 2 (03:58):
What this makes me think of is that gift that
you gave our family one Christmas handful of years ago.
Speaker 3 (04:03):
Do you remember what you gave us?
Speaker 2 (04:06):
Yea Twinkie pan And I was like, I had to
mix with it too. It had the mix to make
the cake with all the in the center, and I
remember going thanks.
Speaker 3 (04:17):
I got home. It was Christmas time and.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
The kids had just gotten out of school and I
and I said, Murphy watched this, and I said, look
what mister Sam gave us and Taylor and people were.
Speaker 3 (04:24):
Like, oh my god. I was present ever and we
made it.
Speaker 1 (04:29):
It was fantastic. But somebody didn't put it in the fridge.
Not you, That's not what I mean. Someone didn't put
it in the refrigerator and it went bad.
Speaker 3 (04:35):
Remember I don't remember that.
Speaker 1 (04:37):
It's unlike twinkies that can live for seven years. The
real thing. This one has whatever dairy in it, and
so you have to refrigerate it.
Speaker 4 (04:44):
After it tastes like a Twinkie.
Speaker 1 (04:46):
It was closed. I mean it was it was close enough.
It was, you know, a giant Twinkie.
Speaker 2 (04:50):
It was probably better because it couldn't have sat on
the shelf for seven years, so it was good.
Speaker 1 (04:56):
But I missed the fact it couldn't sweat inside the
package the way a real twinkie does.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
Oh yeah, sorry anyway, Yeah, you do not ever know
what you were going to see when thrifting, As Cody says,
I used before twinkie mak.
Speaker 1 (05:10):
Yeah, sure, I didn't know there was a Twinkie maker.
I remember the easy bake. I don't remember a twinky maker.
Speaker 3 (05:16):
All right, join the conversation anytime.
Speaker 2 (05:18):
You can also give us a call eight seven seven
three one zero four ms J. I think I found
a really good side hustle guy so that I could
do without you.
Speaker 1 (05:28):
Wow, this doesn't involve your phone in a subscription, right.
Speaker 3 (05:33):
No, I don't even know what that means, youre hey.
Speaker 2 (05:40):
No, just came about Murphy because you know I took
you shopping the other day. You needed some new clothes
and you you couldn't find anything, and I showed up
with seventeen things that most of them you picked out.
Speaker 3 (05:52):
I love shopping for men, I really do. It's easy.
I like shopping for me too, but it just comes.
I can I know if I.
Speaker 2 (05:59):
Know you, and I know your size and height and style.
I can shop for you, and I went. I went
back the next day for one jacket. We decided I
wanted to go pick up for Murphy, and so I
went back in and I wanted to say hi by
the way to Brandy working in the Ralph Lauren department
of the store that I was in, because she recognized
(06:19):
me and we spoke and it was sweet and she
was like, is this for Murphy? I said, sure, is wonderful.
So it was good to meet you. But while I
was on the way sam jacket anyway, before I checked
out and bought that, I went to every section of
the store, just looking, enjoying.
Speaker 3 (06:36):
It was just all the men's department, though.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
And I want you to know that two other men
that I do not even know asked me for my help.
I felt like saying, you know, there are salespeople here
who actually it's what they're paid to do, but I
didn't say that. Yeah, they were like, you seem to know.
And one of them complimented the way I was stressed.
It's like, okay, you can put something together. Can you
(06:59):
help me?
Speaker 3 (07:00):
And so I did, you.
Speaker 1 (07:02):
Just look like you know what you're doing, you know.
I think that's why it happened.
Speaker 3 (07:05):
I helped an older gentleman pick out a suit.
Speaker 1 (07:08):
Oh it did you?
Speaker 3 (07:09):
Yeah? It was really nice.
Speaker 2 (07:11):
And then another guy I just felt like a sweater
and blazer combo.
Speaker 1 (07:15):
Well, you know when I was shopping with you a
couple of days ago, there was a guy that walked
in and asked your opinion, and his wife was in
the other room. I don't really trust her, can you.
Speaker 3 (07:24):
Oh that's right, I do remember that. I forgot about that.
Speaker 4 (07:27):
So this is going to be your side hustle.
Speaker 2 (07:29):
I'm just saying that I could because it's really fun too.
Plus I know skin in the game. Like, it's not
like I have to go in a dressing room and
try it on. It's all suggestions.
Speaker 4 (07:37):
So if you do this, are you going to set
it up online or are you just going to hang
around the men's section hoping people?
Speaker 1 (07:43):
Well, actually you could use your phone in a subscription
for that.
Speaker 2 (07:47):
But Murphy helped me get started since you already had
ideas about that.
Speaker 1 (07:51):
Yeah, social media connect.
Speaker 3 (07:55):
I love hearing from you, especially about this. Things you've
thrifted for just a buck? Are you kidding me?
Speaker 2 (08:00):
We brought this up as a reminder that early February
late January early February is a great time to go
thrifting because a lot of people cleaned out at the
end of the year and donated things, and not just
cleaned out, but donated gifts they received. Yeah, by this time,
and by this time those things have made it to
the floor of these stores, of consignment stores and all
(08:24):
of that. So Denise said this, sent this to our
Facebook messenger. My sister bought a Vera Bradley cross body bag.
Speaker 3 (08:33):
For one dollar. Oh I got. I don't know if
you guys understand what a deal that is.
Speaker 1 (08:38):
Yeah, Sam, you.
Speaker 3 (08:39):
Seem to know about Actually Murphy doesn't know.
Speaker 4 (08:41):
One of the exos was a Vera Bradley freak. Okay,
so I know exactly how much?
Speaker 1 (08:46):
All right, well say.
Speaker 3 (08:47):
How much about my guess?
Speaker 2 (08:49):
I don't have any Vera Bradley, but my guess is
that a cross body bag is eighty bucks easily.
Speaker 4 (08:55):
Yeah, okay, and Vera Bradley. It's like you have different
patterns in different years and all that stuff.
Speaker 3 (09:01):
So yeah, some of it's collectible.
Speaker 2 (09:03):
Yeah, So for one dollar, I'm thinking, man, that's a steal.
Speaker 3 (09:07):
You could have someone at the store could have priced
that higher and didn't know.
Speaker 1 (09:12):
Someone at the store could have just bought it themselves.
Speaker 2 (09:15):
But yeah, you've never seen those videos online of these
ladies about to go thrifting and going Dear God, please
let it be a teenage boy working at the store
who doesn't know what Trada is, who's pricing all this stuff. Anyway,
Rebecca sent this regarding a thrift find. My daughter found
a brand new souvenir T shirt from Beijing with the
(09:36):
tags still on. We only paid a dollar for it.
She is autistic and loves all things from different places
around the world, so no telling what that was worth,
but they got it for one dollar.
Speaker 4 (09:49):
You know what's also probably a popular section right now.
It's probably loaded with stuff is the collegiate NFL sports
team section. Correct, because during the season, very few things
because everybody snatched them up. But right now, if everybody's
clearing out their jersey and everything, well yeah.
Speaker 1 (10:07):
Well, or maybe you should wait one more week because
there'll be two other sets of jersey.
Speaker 3 (10:12):
It's a right Murphy.
Speaker 2 (10:16):
Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube. Love hearing from
you and all the things we talk about, and you
jump right in. Sam blew our minds last week with
the fact that your son Sammy has been given a
six week sabbatical, paid sabbatical this year and he's taking it.
Speaker 4 (10:32):
Yeah, every five years that you're at the company, you
get a six week sabbatical and so.
Speaker 1 (10:36):
There's no like crazy surprise at the end of this, right,
you know it's.
Speaker 4 (10:39):
Really funny, is it's like I had these like the
same holistic Wait six weeks you get paid. You can
still take vacation.
Speaker 3 (10:46):
Yeah, you still have your position.
Speaker 4 (10:48):
Yeah. Are they just trying to get rid of you? Now?
Speaker 2 (10:52):
So that blew our minds And for anyone who missed it,
Sammy will be taking the six weeks his family on
a tour of the National Party.
Speaker 4 (10:59):
They're on to a bunch of national parks.
Speaker 3 (11:01):
So cool. I love Rebecca sent this Hello, guys, I
wanted to share about the sabbatical.
Speaker 2 (11:06):
Okay, I work for a large financial company. We also
get a sabbatical four weeks paid every five years.
Speaker 1 (11:15):
Wow, Okay, it's.
Speaker 2 (11:16):
Probably jealous of those six weeks. So four weeks paid
every five years.
Speaker 3 (11:20):
Plus when we are hired, we earn anywhere from ten
to thirteen vacation hours every month. Let that sink in.
Speaker 2 (11:28):
You started ten hours, but after ninety six months, moved
to thirteen plus six time and two floating holidays. I
hit my ten year anniversary last September, and we'll be
taking my second sabbatical in July.
Speaker 1 (11:43):
That's awesome. What congratulations on that?
Speaker 3 (11:45):
No, we're jelly.
Speaker 2 (11:47):
I feel like people are starting to negotiate more time
off as a part of their compensation.
Speaker 1 (11:52):
That's true, that's very true. Murphy would do, but that's
usually done in lieu of compensation, or you know when
I say that, in lieu of like additional compensation. So
you're right, you know what I mean. It's a trade
in the park. But would you know, Sammy right, it's
like you know you're in the same one. You're not there.
That's a job right there. Huh?
Speaker 2 (12:11):
All right, this is more from Rebecca. Our lives shouldn't
be spent working. We should be living. I hope you
all are able to negotiate Savvy's for your next contracts.
I love listening to the show, Sabby, say Rebecca.
Speaker 4 (12:26):
Nice, But then when we be gone for six.
Speaker 3 (12:28):
Weeks, we can stand to be apart for.
Speaker 1 (12:31):
Six weeks with that much vacation time, you know too?
I mean, I love the idea of the breaks, but
Eventually you get to a place where you don't even
know who your coworkers are.
Speaker 4 (12:40):
You're never there, and how do you get back in
the groove. After six weeks there comes Monday.
Speaker 2 (12:51):
Should dogs have layers or winterwear in super cold weather?
Speaker 3 (12:56):
The answer is yes and no. You guys know why.
Speaker 4 (13:00):
Because their cold coat long coat.
Speaker 3 (13:02):
Murphy's right. It depends on the dog.
Speaker 2 (13:05):
Some dogs come into this their natural state is almost
that come into this world their natural state like huskies
or akidas or even our long hair Chihuahua with two
and three coats, they can withstand cold.
Speaker 3 (13:19):
Doesn't mean stick them outside.
Speaker 1 (13:21):
Correct, well, I mean sparky are long hair at Chihua
proves that every day because it can be twenty three
degrees and he's going to take a sweet time finding
the perfect spot.
Speaker 3 (13:31):
Do his bits right because he has.
Speaker 1 (13:33):
He can do it in the when it's eighty, he
can do it when it's twenty.
Speaker 3 (13:36):
He has layers. Now our other dog and it depends
on that.
Speaker 2 (13:39):
So other dogs don't even have an undercoat like labs
and so it just just depends. But if you are
cold and you have a dog with just very thin
hair like no undercoat, yeah they can get cold in
certain really cold temperatures. You know, they need protection for
their paws like booties.
Speaker 3 (13:59):
For sure. I'll tell you a story, Murphy.
Speaker 2 (14:02):
I don't know if I ever even told you this,
but back when we were fostering, we fostered a lot
of dogs for a lot of years. We would grab
one from the shelter and introduce it to our pack
and bring it into the family. And when I was
involved in all of that, we had a dog one time,
and it was a female. She was like a brindle
boxer breed, and she had no undercoat. She was, you know,
(14:23):
just very thin, light hair. And someone came to like
an event and wanted to adopt her, and I liked them.
You know, they had a big piece of property out
somewhere like a farm, and they wanted her. And I
was about to say yes to them because it was
like my choice as the foster mom. And then the
(14:43):
lady who ran the organization came over to me and
she said, let's ask some more questions. You know, where
will this dog be in winter? And sure enough they
were just going to like stick it in the barn,
out in the barn at winter. And the organization said,
I'm sorry. You know, this dog has no under coat
and definitely needs shelter in the winter, and we didn't
adopt it out to that family. We suggested a different
(15:06):
dog that had a bigger coat.
Speaker 1 (15:08):
Yeah, right, it.
Speaker 4 (15:11):
Is.
Speaker 3 (15:14):
Alyssa has sent us a message.
Speaker 2 (15:16):
Dear Sam, I need to know what this chili recipe
is that you taught your son Parker to make.
Speaker 3 (15:22):
Please share?
Speaker 2 (15:23):
Okay, Well, we can post it okay at Murphy Salmonjody
dot com.
Speaker 4 (15:26):
Yeah, you know, there is an interesting story behind the
recipe because it's not mine.
Speaker 3 (15:31):
Okay, here you go, Alissa.
Speaker 4 (15:32):
It belongs to one of my ex mothers in law.
Speaker 3 (15:36):
Oh first X or second X second Okay.
Speaker 4 (15:41):
She made it and about twenty twenty plus years ago,
when we were still married, she gave me the recipe.
Speaker 3 (15:48):
You liked it that much?
Speaker 4 (15:49):
Yeah, I loved it, and that's my that's my go
to recipe. I've used that for chili. It's for chili.
Speaker 3 (15:54):
Okay.
Speaker 4 (15:54):
She passed away a few years ago. Oh and it
was also one of her husband's, my ex father in
law's favorite recipes. And when she passed away, he didn't
have the recipe and my ex didn't have the recipe.
I was the only one left with the recipe.
Speaker 3 (16:12):
Oh so they had to come did they come calling?
Speaker 4 (16:15):
My ex said that her she wanted to make that
her mom's chili for her dad. Any chance you have
the recipe, and.
Speaker 3 (16:23):
Here's the here's the part. Here's the part where you
struggled with yourself.
Speaker 4 (16:28):
Yeah, yeah, I mean I was going to give it
to her, but I couldn't think of a good line,
you know, because it wasn't appropriate. But yeah, I gave her.
Speaker 3 (16:35):
You were going to say something like I got that
in the divorce.
Speaker 4 (16:39):
At least I got to keep something.
Speaker 2 (16:42):
Okay, this is this, you know, chili for a lot
of people, chili as chili as chili.
Speaker 3 (16:47):
What about this?
Speaker 4 (16:48):
It's a basic recipe.
Speaker 3 (16:49):
Really, then what about it to you?
Speaker 4 (16:52):
Because I just loved everything worked together. And she made
the beef version, you know, the ground beef, and it
was ground beef, some red beans in the can, light
beans and dark. For some reason, it calls for a
half light beans and half dark beans. Some of the
regular chili seasoning. Yes, and she used water to I've
(17:13):
changed the recipe in that if I use ground beef,
I use a little beef broth. Nice or like this
when we made it with Parker and we used the
ground turkey. I used chicken broth. Very good, just to
liquefy it. But it's a more flatter it's their recipe.
Speaker 3 (17:26):
Oh so good.
Speaker 2 (17:28):
When you talk about chili, I mean like if you
had one hundred people in a room making chili, every
single pot would be different.
Speaker 4 (17:33):
Oh yeah, Well, like you said, y'all don't do beans
in yours.
Speaker 3 (17:36):
No, we do corn.
Speaker 4 (17:37):
And sometimes I add corn to it too. Last time
I made it, I made it from and gave some
of the mat and she goes, you put corn in this?
Is there always been corn in this? I said, Nah,
today was cornet like putting corn in?
Speaker 2 (17:47):
Okay, So to go get your favorite ever X in
laws recipe for chili go to Murphysalmonjody dot com.
Speaker 3 (17:55):
Thank you for sharing it morning, picked me up time.
Speaker 2 (18:00):
I am in love with this story of a wife who,
for years, almost forty years, ignored her husband's request to
please stop signing up to win things you're never gonna win.
Speaker 3 (18:11):
Please stop doing this.
Speaker 2 (18:12):
She kept signing up to win things through an organizations
where you an organization where your money that you've given
goes to different various charities in the UK goes to
different charities, and she did it again recently at the
end of last year, just a couple of months ago.
For thirty three dollars, she bought a ticket. She got
the phone call the other day that she won a mansion,
(18:34):
a home worth about five million dollars, No kidding, five bedrooms,
Florida ceiling windows, solar panels, a floating staircase, a huge
open floor pant plan, this beautiful lake.
Speaker 3 (18:47):
They are living there now or they're going to move in.
Speaker 2 (18:50):
They can do whatever they want. They can you know,
rent it out like airbnb it it's beautiful, or.
Speaker 3 (18:57):
They can live there, or they can sell it.
Speaker 1 (18:59):
For cas that's really, that's amazing.
Speaker 2 (19:02):
So you have told her for years, please stop. The
words are you have no chance of winning.
Speaker 1 (19:09):
The thing is you always got some chance. It just
depends on how big of a chance. Was this house
owned by anybody named Harry and Meghan possibly in the past.
Oh no, I hear they're not living.
Speaker 4 (19:21):
And the royal families trying to unload it.
Speaker 3 (19:24):
No, the word is this there's some other stuff.
Speaker 2 (19:27):
The very morning that she got the phone call that
she had won through the organization, she spent thirty three
dollars on the ticket was in morning they were having
a serious discussion about downsizing because of financial reasons.
Speaker 3 (19:44):
Yeah you think she ever says, I told you so.
I hope not.
Speaker 2 (19:47):
But another high point of this story is that the
charity that her money, her ticket money, or whatever her
donation went to, along with all the other donations, is
a leading animal welfare charity in that area of the world.
Speaker 3 (20:02):
And that cool.
Speaker 2 (20:03):
And they haven't decided what to do. They did spend
the holidays there. They can choose to live in the house,
rent it out, you know, supplement their income, or literally
sell it.
Speaker 1 (20:12):
You know what, that's just beautiful because you're whatever, You're
still making a donation even if you don't wind up winning.
Speaker 3 (20:18):
So that's what she said.
Speaker 1 (20:19):
Yeah right, it's just a it's it's it's it's beautiful serendipity.
Speaker 2 (20:25):
I really love the trend uh going analog that we
touched on earlier, where more and more of you and
it's all around the world, people wanting to put down
devices and stop doom scrolling and do real things that
actually when you have a break, instead of grabbing a
device and getting lost into that vortex, you know, writing
(20:46):
something or drawing or knitting, or just doing something else
that's that feels real. That's what going analog, that's what
that trend means. I also read another trend I wanted
to bring to the show and just say, I think Sam,
you will like this, and I kind of like the
idea of it.
Speaker 3 (21:04):
You know what a book club is.
Speaker 2 (21:06):
You get four or five people or how many people
you read the same book and then you.
Speaker 3 (21:11):
Get together and talk about it. I've never done that ever.
I have.
Speaker 2 (21:15):
I've read books with girlfriends, I've read books with you.
Speaker 1 (21:19):
It's got to be your thing. There's certainly nothing wrong
with that. That's just not my note. Unless we're talking
self help books. You know seven habits of highly effective people.
Speaker 4 (21:28):
Let's talk about number four today that there's a group
you want to get are passionate about it.
Speaker 1 (21:34):
Let me just say sharpened the saw. That's you know,
habit number seven. Go ahead, Jody, just.
Speaker 3 (21:40):
Get lost in the vour tax instead anyway, the other
another sort of party like that, that's trending.
Speaker 2 (21:46):
It's not a book club, but a cookbook club. Everybody purchase.
Speaker 3 (21:50):
See that's what I knew, and this is interesting.
Speaker 2 (21:53):
Explain please, everybody in a group let's say four or
five of us all have the same cookbook, you know,
and then we all pick a recipe from it, not
the same one, and we all make a recipe from
it that we've never made before. Then you get together, yes,
and then you talk about it, and it's a shared
social experience that has nothing to do with devices.
Speaker 4 (22:14):
Yeah, built in food and everything I know.
Speaker 1 (22:17):
I have to create.
Speaker 2 (22:18):
I really love that idea, and cooking is one of
those things that's on the list for people of going analog.
If you want to do something instead of doom scroll,
well in the kitchen.
Speaker 1 (22:27):
And here's the thing about that. It doesn't have to
be an either or it's not like you have to
create some complex project. It's fine for you to be
on your phone. It's not a problem. It's the doom
scrolling part. It's like you're saying, when you feel it's
being pulled, it's pulling you in different places. That's your
cue to make some sort of a change coat. And Sam,
I think the food thing might be a dating opportunity
for you to never know, somebody might fall in love
(22:49):
with your chili.
Speaker 4 (22:49):
Oh you mean there's no women that would want to
talk about sharpening the.
Speaker 3 (22:52):
Saw Murphy while you've been out of town.
Speaker 2 (22:58):
I have to confess that I saw something I wasn't
ready to see in your office. So I had to
go into Murphy's office and filing cabinets, which I don't
ever do. But Phoebe, our youngest, needed her birth certificate.
You know, she's getting her driver's license updated, and she
needed her real things.
Speaker 1 (23:19):
You're twenty one, it needs to look like an adult.
Speaker 2 (23:23):
So I was like, oh, your dad's out of town.
I got to go in there and find that. Okay,
i'll do it. And so I go in there, and
I don't go through the filing cabinets ever. And by
the way, Murphy shout out, you keep great records.
Speaker 4 (23:34):
Wow, well thank you.
Speaker 2 (23:36):
You know.
Speaker 1 (23:37):
I've also eliminated a lot of paper in case you
can't tell as long as we've been together, with a
whole lot of digital stuff. So I only keep the
absolute things i've got to keep on paper and not
the rest.
Speaker 2 (23:46):
The first drawer, I went through the hole drawer and
didn't find Phoebe's stuff, and I was like, man, but wow,
there's a title for this and thanks for your dad here,
and it's all very organized. Then I go to the
next drawer, and I'm like, oh, this is it. This
is all really personal information. I got Feb's birth certificate
for her, and then I saw it. What the Jody folder? Murphy,
(24:08):
do you want to tell everybody what that?
Speaker 3 (24:10):
What that is?
Speaker 1 (24:10):
That Jodi folder came about because Jody was concerned at
one point after we had the girls that she doesn't
really know how the how the financial operations all that
stuff works. You know, Jody and our team, right, I mean,
if you take care of you know, the things that
I'm not really great at, and then the you know,
the finance and all that I do. And it's the folder.
Speaker 2 (24:28):
If something happens to Murphy, but I'll know what's going on.
It's the dump dump dumb folder. That's what it is.
So I had never really seen it. I knew it
was in there. I knew it was pink. So I
just want you to know. I couldn't help myself. I opened it.
I expected there to be like a note or something
in the front going I'll always love you.
Speaker 4 (24:48):
I'm so sorry. I'm not there.
Speaker 3 (24:50):
Oh wow, it's okay.
Speaker 1 (24:52):
I hadn't thought about that. I just kept it pretty yu.
It was business right forward.
Speaker 2 (24:56):
It's all business. But I only really looked at the
first sheet because that's just something in I didn't want
to go through that. I don't need to go through
that yet.
Speaker 1 (25:03):
Yeah, it's weird. It's a it's a weird thing to see,
you know, And here I am out of town and
you're reading that. I'm sure that that's probably kind of.
Speaker 3 (25:10):
No, it's a smart it's a smart thing to have.
Speaker 2 (25:13):
But I just want you to know I've seen the
folder and want you to know I appreciate the work
that went into it.
Speaker 4 (25:18):
Murphy, are you going to put a note in there now?
Speaker 1 (25:21):
Well, it sounds like I have to.
Speaker 2 (25:23):
I do not, absolutely do not morning pick me up time.
The super Bowl is coming up on Sunday. And even
if you were only team food and team commercials, because
you're not your team's not in it, there's always some
there's always something to watch and consume and celebrate, especially
(25:44):
the backstories, so you know that thousands of journalists are
there visiting with the teams all week long, and there
are a lot of cool backstories. I'm really liking the
two star quarterbacks backstories. The Seahawks quarterback Sam Darnold went
from a third round draft pick in twenty eighteen to
playing on four different teams in four years, bounced around
(26:07):
the NFL, and look what he's doing this weekend.
Speaker 3 (26:10):
Boom the ultimate goal.
Speaker 2 (26:12):
I guess if you're an NFL player, you are not
in the NFL if you've not dreamed of being at
the super Bowl.
Speaker 3 (26:20):
So I think that's kind of a cool. It's a
cool backstory.
Speaker 2 (26:23):
The other one is Patriots quarterback Drake may You heard
about him having deja.
Speaker 3 (26:29):
Vous for this. He was at the super Bowl in
the same stadium when he was thirteen years old, just
as a fan.
Speaker 4 (26:36):
I bet they have pictures of it and everything.
Speaker 2 (26:38):
Oh, we're going to see them on Sunday. If you
haven't already seen them in the ramp up to this,
that's cool.
Speaker 1 (26:43):
That's a really full circle thing, huh.
Speaker 3 (26:45):
I know.
Speaker 2 (26:45):
And you know thirteen year old boy sitting at a
super Bowl. Whether he spoke it or not, he.
Speaker 4 (26:51):
Thought, man, one day, I want to be out.
Speaker 3 (26:53):
I want to be there. That would be cool.
Speaker 2 (26:55):
Everybody has that thought, and so that's really cool for
both of those quarterbacks have a cool to get them
there this Sunday.
Speaker 4 (27:02):
There's a cool backstory. If you remember for the national
anthem Charlie Pooth is doing a national anthem. Yes, and
he said he's always really wanted to sing the national anthem,
so he actually nobody came asking him to put in
a demo tape or to try out. He actually recorded
his own national anthem, sent it to jay Z's people. Yeah,
and jay Z's like, Yep, that works, let's do it.
(27:23):
They brought it to the NFL and the NFL was like, yeah,
that works, so let's pick up.
Speaker 1 (27:26):
That's better than that's better than having to fill out
the form. You know, Yeah, and your last name is Pooth?
Speaker 4 (27:32):
How many? How many years have you been singing now?
Speaker 2 (27:35):
I also can't wait to hear what he does with it,
because he does those runs. He does those that falsetto
so well. Okay, So Sunday on NBC and also streaming
on Peacock and NFL plus. Hang out with us on
your schedule, take us along. It's the Murphy, Sam and
Jody Podcast. The whole show, every day rolled up into
one podcast. And there's a bonus also. It's called after
(27:59):
the show.
Speaker 1 (28:00):
Jody found the Jodi folder and I'm out of town
and Jody found the Jodi folder.
Speaker 2 (28:04):
It was it was a moment when I found that,
I was like, Oh, he put in the work to
put this together for me if something were to ever happen.
Speaker 1 (28:11):
Yeah, that's the whole reason for it. And you don't
think about it when there's so many different moving parts
to things now. And I guess I experienced this firsthand.
We had created the Jody folder, by the way, a
long time before my dad passed away. But you know,
after my dad passed away, he had everything so well
organized that we were able to eventually find everything. But
if you have one list to say where you know where,
(28:33):
what is and what you need to address first. I
don't know, it just it makes it easier to manage.
Nobody really wants to think about the end. Life is
still going on, so you don't make it a priority
right to put it together.
Speaker 3 (28:45):
But it's the responsible thing, you know.
Speaker 4 (28:47):
I'm the codasion.
Speaker 2 (28:48):
My father died when I was sixteen, he was forty,
and my mom had to take on and handle a
lot of things. And I watched her struggle with that,
and so I guess I've in my brain, ain't I've
always thought, be ready for the worst case scenario, be
ready well.
Speaker 1 (29:04):
And Jody was the one that actually you know asked
me about it when we when we first had the conversation.
It's like I need to know. I'm like, okay, I
can simplify all of this, and that's what I did
and created the Jody Folder.
Speaker 3 (29:16):
It's pain.
Speaker 1 (29:18):
Yeah, it was weird for me when I started to
put it together because your natural tendency is to think
that there's like some sort of a jinx or something
that you know what I mean, because it's creepy to say,
ye to put that together.
Speaker 4 (29:31):
At first, it's like you know that you are never
going to use that. Jody's the one that's going to
use it.
Speaker 1 (29:36):
Yeah. Actually it's pretty good reference for me if I
ever forget.
Speaker 4 (29:41):
Now I got to ask this, Jody, did you go
through the folder and like look at everything and say, oh,
you know what else needs?
Speaker 3 (29:47):
No, I should do that, but I didn't want to.
I saw the folder.
Speaker 2 (29:50):
I opened it, like I said, I expected there to
be something personal, but it was just records of things
that I would need to know, which I am so
grateful for that.
Speaker 3 (29:59):
And then I close.
Speaker 1 (30:00):
What's crazy is when I first created it, but it's
been about you know, ten twelve years or something like that.
We did go over it. It was just one of
those where it's like, okay, put it away.
Speaker 3 (30:09):
It went over my head.
Speaker 1 (30:11):
I don'tbut that's it's written down.
Speaker 3 (30:15):
So so grateful for the folder,
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