August 13, 2025 • 55 mins
This week we Touchup on social media, being delusional, and the art of having a killer brand. We sit down with the CUTEST Taylor Lashae and pick her genius brain about creating a brand for yourself. Professional world traveler who just landed in Nashville and owns a super cool agency called The Social Club. Def go follow her! If for nothing else… follow her for vibe inspo! Don’t worry, we sprinkle in chaotic moments and unhinged cuteness. It’s a really fun listen so ENJOY!
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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Who get a little up.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Hi am Teren, I'm Mari, and you're listening to up.
Speaker 1 (00:12):
We hope you're picking up what we're putting down.
Speaker 3 (00:16):
It's so funny because like I've had like my early
twenties and then I like go a really long, like
ten fifteen year break of just like sober, and I'm like, wait.
Speaker 2 (00:24):
What that was fun?
Speaker 1 (00:26):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (00:27):
That was fun.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
That was really fun. I enjoyed that, you know. But
now it's like moderately speaking, like a little bit sure,
but like I'd rather not.
Speaker 5 (00:36):
Be no sober if we're not. But there's no problem,
no issue, But there's no issue not making.
Speaker 2 (00:42):
Any like crazy mistakes.
Speaker 4 (00:43):
Yeah, Like I love to get to know somebody.
Speaker 3 (00:45):
Over in your thirties and making mistakes or not even mistakes,
like you know yourself so well.
Speaker 2 (00:50):
Like I'm just more myself.
Speaker 4 (00:52):
Yeah this is Wait until you're forty four.
Speaker 2 (00:55):
I can't wait, dude. I just keep getting better.
Speaker 3 (00:57):
I'm like, yeah I was twenty well pleaser, Like I'm not.
Speaker 2 (01:04):
I'm done with.
Speaker 1 (01:05):
That full blown dumb dumb dummy.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
Yeah, done with the People's.
Speaker 5 (01:08):
Energy just falls off with me these days. I don't
even feel like I don't even feel it.
Speaker 4 (01:12):
It doesn't affect me. It's very empowered.
Speaker 2 (01:16):
Yeah, I go through waves.
Speaker 3 (01:17):
Like some waves, it's like it just rolls off, like
this week, it's just sticking to me, Like why why
are you sticking to me?
Speaker 2 (01:23):
So this hands good? Cheers my girl, Yeah, cheers.
Speaker 1 (01:27):
Welcome to the podcast.
Speaker 4 (01:29):
Taylor, Thank you?
Speaker 1 (01:32):
What a name?
Speaker 4 (01:32):
What a name?
Speaker 1 (01:33):
A star? I know you're such a star. That's your
real name, you are.
Speaker 3 (01:38):
It's actually my middle name, Taylor Sola. And I dropped
my last name knowing that I was going to be
a star. War obviously clearly obviously look at your look
at your hair. Star definitely not.
Speaker 1 (01:50):
It's a combination.
Speaker 2 (01:52):
Yeah, it's a little combination.
Speaker 4 (01:53):
We know that I love tan brunettes.
Speaker 1 (01:55):
It's you know, I wonder if we do that because
like I loved blondes. Yeah, I also love burnettes. I
don't know. Maybe we just like gravitate. Maybe we all
we all just want to fuck.
Speaker 2 (02:07):
Oh day, I would.
Speaker 1 (02:15):
Like to meet my doppel ganger, because how fun would
that be?
Speaker 5 (02:18):
I did in a male form, right female?
Speaker 2 (02:21):
Did you date him? Was it as good as it was? Great?
Speaker 4 (02:25):
Well?
Speaker 2 (02:26):
Where is he now?
Speaker 4 (02:27):
Canada?
Speaker 1 (02:27):
Okay? Yeah, we're just talking about him.
Speaker 4 (02:29):
The other day that.
Speaker 1 (02:30):
It's so funny. I do want to know, though, when
did you get here?
Speaker 2 (02:33):
I moved here like four or five months ago. Fresh.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
Oh my god, Yes, so I met you.
Speaker 2 (02:39):
I met you in like January, right like two months fresh.
Speaker 1 (02:42):
We met at a really cute dinner that Mollie Martin hosted.
Speaker 4 (02:46):
Oh I've been dying to go.
Speaker 5 (02:49):
Was it so beautiful?
Speaker 3 (02:50):
Puts on like the best dinners and just it was
amazing And I met so many cool people there. It
was like a women business, Like.
Speaker 2 (02:57):
Yes, I loved it.
Speaker 1 (03:00):
Yeah, it was so good.
Speaker 2 (03:01):
So yeah, so we met there.
Speaker 1 (03:03):
We had April and Molly both on the pod. Such bad,
bad little bitches. Yeah, but I met Taylor for like
a second because you were wearing a monochromatic maroon suit
and it was just like big and I.
Speaker 3 (03:19):
Was like, Stockner, stock You're beautiful.
Speaker 4 (03:22):
You're like one of those.
Speaker 2 (03:25):
Thank you, yeah, thank you, I.
Speaker 1 (03:27):
Know, And I was like, she should come on the
pod because I mean it's a beauty pod. But it's
also like we just like to have people on that
just care about beauty or could speak on anything really beauty, wellness, fitness, anything.
Speaker 4 (03:42):
Ye, we go all the place.
Speaker 1 (03:44):
If you have a sense of humor to giggle whatever.
But anyway, I'm so happy that you're here.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
Thanks, thank you.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
So how did you and why did you come to Nashville.
Everybody has a story.
Speaker 2 (03:53):
Yeah, your long story.
Speaker 3 (03:55):
I'm from Texas originally, so I'm kind of a just
a Southern girl at heart. I've lived in New York
for a decade. In between all of that, I've like
moved out of the country for six years. Every year
was a different country.
Speaker 2 (04:10):
I know, assue me, You're like what I want.
Speaker 3 (04:13):
The thing is it sounds like the most and trust me,
I'm so grateful for that. But whenever you go and
every city is a different city and every year is
a different year, and you kind of just like are
living out of suitcases and you can't find your home
or you're calling and I felt like I was like
trauma running like I was running away from things, and
like I couldn't find a home or friends or you know,
a guy that lived in the same city as me.
(04:35):
It was like so hard. So I was like, okay,
like think I don't want to live in New York.
I don't live in Texas. I've already lived in Paris, London.
I've already had those European boyfriends were done with them.
Speaker 2 (04:44):
We've already had it, We've already done it.
Speaker 3 (04:46):
It was like, so here, where can I go that
gives me that Southern charm but like a little fast
paced like New York. And I was like, dude, okay,
so it's either between like Charlotte or Nashville. And I
was like, well, Charlotte, I remember been. That was just
my two options. It's like I'm just like, okay, I've
already done La. I've literally done it all. And Nashville
(05:06):
was like, you know what, I have a good vibe.
And every time that I've come here, I was like,
I really like it. So I feel like it's very
Texas and New York blend. Yeah, And I figured if
and so far I love it so right. I absolutely
love it here. I'm happy here, like I'm settling roots
here and I just adore it, like already.
Speaker 2 (05:25):
I knew right off the bat that this.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
Was for me.
Speaker 5 (05:27):
Also how I felt when I first I'm from New York, okay,
gotcha like horn Rays, And when I first came here,
I felt the same exact way it about Nashville. Yeah,
and it's a very different Nashville. I still love it
just as much as I did.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
When I first Yeah, I love I mean, I love it.
Speaker 3 (05:40):
The vibe, I love how traffic is not like I
just I love the small town vibes. But it's still city,
you know, it's still growing and it's I don't know.
I like the people here, I like the mindset are
just what's not to like?
Speaker 2 (05:52):
So far?
Speaker 1 (05:53):
There's nothing really Yeah, I feel like some of my
favorite people that I've ever met in my life I've
met here. Yeah you know what I mean?
Speaker 5 (05:58):
Yea, I do big time.
Speaker 1 (06:00):
Yeah, I feel that so hard here. And so you
I know you're a content creator because you're like your
Instagram and all your socials are like literally insane. How
have you cracked the code? I don't understand. But you
also own a company. Tell me about that.
Speaker 3 (06:15):
It's called the Social Club. So technically just to like
kind of give like a little background. So I'm content creation.
I've been an influencer like my whole life, like ever
since before Instagram.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
There was my spapace tumbler, my.
Speaker 4 (06:28):
My Space content creator.
Speaker 2 (06:31):
My Space. Yes, I did my Space tumbler. I remember
what was it, Zenga.
Speaker 3 (06:36):
Like I'm like I'm like one of the OG's you know,
the beginning of time once, but Instagram will be blew
up for me. Whenever I had moved away and I
started like testing the market. Got my heart broken in
LA and I was like, you know what I'm show
all y'all. So I went to Australia and you know,
no one had this little haircut in Australia. They're all
like babes, bleached blondes with abs. And I'm like, I
(06:58):
look at Super French. I'm going to go and I'm going.
Speaker 2 (07:01):
To take your jobs.
Speaker 3 (07:02):
And so I just kind of dominated that side of
the world. They really had, you know, models or influencers
that kind of look like that. But like my business
mind was like, Okay, now that I'm on this side
of the world, let me reach out to everyone in
New York, LA, Miami and be like, hey, instead of
you flying your team out here, why don't you let
me model your campaigns, do location scouting. I'll go to
(07:23):
Bali for you, I'll go to Sri Lanka, I'll go
to Hong Kong. And so I created a deck where,
like before the travel influencer, I was literally pitching for
American brands for me to model and do the entire
campaign and start doing travel influencing that way, and it
was like booming.
Speaker 2 (07:39):
So that was great.
Speaker 3 (07:41):
Billboards like just press, magazines like NonStop. I was booked out,
booked out for years and then started every year moving
closer to the States backwards. So yeah, Sydney, Bali, Hong Kong,
Sri Lanka, Paris, and then London and in each place
at least minimum a year in each place, and it
(08:03):
was fantastic. I don't It's like I look back and
I'm like, did I do all that? Like it's crazy,
But that's kind of where my business and my travel
kind of turned into, Okay, I want to stay still.
But now with the Social Club, I started this knowing
that there wasn't really a big market here for content
creators or influencers, you know, like whenever I even whenever
(08:25):
I first got here, I did a TikTok and I
was like, hey, calling everybody, like what does everyone do?
We're all the dinners, We're all the gifting suite, like
you know, thinking like New York, you know, we're all the.
Speaker 2 (08:33):
Dinners like whalers, Like who do I meet?
Speaker 3 (08:38):
You know, where's all the places at and everyone's just
kind of saying, well, you know it's here, but it's
not you know, there's not really an influencer agency. Yes,
And I was like, oh, well, if anyone's going to
bring it to life, I know how to do that,
to talk to to talk.
Speaker 5 (08:52):
So I've been doing it since I have seven years old.
Speaker 2 (08:56):
I literally dawn of time.
Speaker 3 (08:57):
If anyone's a vet enough to do it, like in
the hours, it's me, Like, I got it. But while
I started opening it, I realized I was like, maybe
I don't want to be an influencer agency because it's
just a lot.
Speaker 2 (09:07):
So I kind of pivoted.
Speaker 3 (09:08):
You know, you start with an idea and you pivot
to what kind of fits what fits for me right
now in the social club and what the business has
kind of really turned into is businesses here in Nashville
that are super local and need to up their game
with their socials so they have like really great stuff
or you know, they need help with social posting and
(09:32):
just kind of the need to take care of their hotels,
their restaurants, that's what they do, but their socials need
to be shaker suave, have more of an alluring whatever.
Speaker 2 (09:40):
I'm here to help you do that.
Speaker 3 (09:42):
So instead of like really helping the influencer world, I
feel like I need to start first with the businesses,
so they start getting more income, so they start getting
more eyes, so they start understanding the importance.
Speaker 5 (09:51):
Of socials, the importance of this necessary you have to
do it.
Speaker 3 (09:56):
So then that opens up more money, more information, and
more knowledge on bringing in the influencers for events and
dinners and this and that. So I'm kind of starting
with the businesses and being like, hey, if you need
help with your socials, I can turn I can basically
turn your business around just from having a presence online.
That's shake cool, super cool branding. You don't do anything.
I'm a concierge. I will have a creator come out,
(10:18):
get your content for you, post for you. You just worry
about doing your job. You run your business, and I
help you run your socials. So that's my business now,
and I love its.
Speaker 4 (10:27):
Great clients.
Speaker 2 (10:28):
I love it. Great clients, Amazing clients.
Speaker 3 (10:30):
And you know, it's like most of them are millennial
to more gen X, and so it's like they don't
quite understand the importance, but they but they want it.
Speaker 2 (10:38):
They need it's important to have and I'm loving it.
Speaker 5 (10:42):
I just linked something for the first time over today.
Parents taught me the other day and I was like,
I'm going to link. I'm going to link if you
linked it wrong.
Speaker 2 (10:50):
But I but that's really what I'm here. I'm here
to bridge the.
Speaker 3 (10:53):
Gap between the gen Z people who do this for
they do this in their sleep. They create content and
know how to launch things and how to make things
look cool with the gen xers who have businesses and
know how to run a business but don't know how
to socially connect.
Speaker 2 (11:06):
And I have them together.
Speaker 1 (11:08):
Yeah, very cool.
Speaker 2 (11:08):
And so that's what I do.
Speaker 3 (11:09):
And I'm the millennial ramp and the bridge in between
to connect the two. And I I love my clients,
I love I love my creators, and I like love
bridging people together and making that work because it's hard
for gen Z and gen.
Speaker 5 (11:23):
X to kind of do that. But it's like two
creative minds. All our minds are very creative. We're always thinking,
I have all these amazing ideas. It's just like implementing it,
like expert sure.
Speaker 3 (11:33):
Or how to do that in a stylized aesthetic, or
how to do certain things. It's like you know what
you want, but you don't know how to get it. Well,
they know how to get it, but don't know how to.
Speaker 2 (11:42):
Do you see what I mean.
Speaker 3 (11:43):
Run a business in the sense and you know what
I mean. So it's kind of like a good way
to blend there. I live for it like I.
Speaker 5 (11:50):
Live, I love it.
Speaker 2 (11:53):
I love I love what you do.
Speaker 3 (11:57):
And then eventually grow it out to be more and
then the influencers than the parties in the events. But
like I'm all about biting off what you can chew.
Right now, it's like I want to I would rather
have like twelve solid clients than having a two hundred
that I can't chew.
Speaker 1 (12:12):
You know, it all just implodes. So that's the point totally.
Speaker 2 (12:16):
And like I just I love it. I really do
love what I do.
Speaker 4 (12:18):
And it's like it's.
Speaker 5 (12:19):
Gratifying too because you're helping.
Speaker 4 (12:23):
I'm helping, so's.
Speaker 2 (12:25):
I'm helping everybody. I feel. Not only that, but there's
something to show for it.
Speaker 3 (12:28):
There's like aesthetics, and that's my thing is like inspiration,
Like I love just inspiring. Really, I know that sound
so like, but truly the actual form of the word.
I like to inspire because that helps them feel more
confident going into their business. They feel more confident sharing.
I don't know, it's just the whole thing makes me
feel so good.
Speaker 5 (12:48):
That energy that should be around, that kind of energy,
like is important to have. Sure that you feel inspired.
They feel inspired. That the whole point of like creating
the whole time. Oh yeah, everything film and if you
don't feel if it doesn't inspire you.
Speaker 1 (13:06):
Yeah, what are we doing here?
Speaker 4 (13:07):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (13:08):
I actually don't know this.
Speaker 4 (13:11):
Yeah I'm inspired.
Speaker 1 (13:13):
Yeah too, Like people my age, or at least for me,
I'm forty one, and I obviously, like I understand understand
social media, and I understand the importance for me because
you know, so many people I have such a fun,
crazy personality and so does she and people are away like, God,
you should like do more this, do more that. There's
(13:34):
like there's some kind of disconnect. I don't know if
it's my age or what, but what I see it
for other people and it's so effortless. And then I'm
sure in the beginning when they started posting, they felt
really awkward. And then the more that they did it,
the more it turned into this like very thoughtful, articulated
(13:56):
brand of whatever they wanted to do. But that's the
hard part that I can't understand. I'm like, so you
just want me to do this and tell everybody, Like,
because I know so much about glam. I've been doing
it for one hundred fucking years, you know what I mean?
Like what we do for a living is insane and
the amount of knowledge that we have is insane. But
that there's just like a disconnect that I don't And.
Speaker 3 (14:17):
You know what the connection is literally delusion. It's actually delusion.
It's having enough delusion to not care enough what anyone
thinks that you post.
Speaker 1 (14:28):
I had done this for so long when I I
were stunting our own growth.
Speaker 3 (14:33):
So the delusion I mean is the delusion of not
caring what anyone thinks. Like you have to be so
delusional to not to be like, I'm just gonna post
it whatever.
Speaker 4 (14:42):
Do you know what I mean?
Speaker 3 (14:43):
Yeah, Like I look back, I could not be more delusional.
I didn't care what anyone said. I had the hottest photos.
I was working with the best brands. That mentality got
me to I look back, and I was so brave.
Speaker 5 (14:55):
I was brave to wear that.
Speaker 2 (14:59):
I was brave. I think that that was cute. And
because of.
Speaker 3 (15:02):
That job, I got so many other jobs because of
the delusion of I was going to rock that ugly
little dress anyway.
Speaker 2 (15:10):
Yeah, it was straight to the.
Speaker 4 (15:12):
Level of confidence.
Speaker 5 (15:13):
It was a level of confidence, that delusion confidence whatever.
You were having a great time.
Speaker 3 (15:18):
For sure, and it was like there was no one,
no one was going to stop me. But I really
do look back and I'm.
Speaker 4 (15:22):
Like, girl, yeah, oh my god.
Speaker 2 (15:26):
But you know what, I'm so proud of that girl
doing all that. Totally.
Speaker 3 (15:30):
I've got like crippling anxiety throughout the years, but I
look back and she was fearless. She did not care
what anyone thought. And I would not be here without
that girl who did not care.
Speaker 5 (15:39):
And that's what people see, is that fearlessness. Yeah, that's
what people resonate with, and that's what people want. That's
what we need to actually hat more of, is people
that aren't afraid to truly be themselves totally.
Speaker 4 (15:49):
You look on you scroll for hours and you're like,
what the fuck is this person doing? At least they're
putting themselves.
Speaker 5 (15:53):
Out there totally, like this is crazy.
Speaker 4 (15:56):
I'm watching this. This is crazy. This person has no
right to it, but they're doing it.
Speaker 3 (16:00):
And then the next thing you know, their overnight success
and have no and then everything they do just makes
sense on it and that it works like that, it
just makes sense.
Speaker 2 (16:08):
It's your delusional until it works. And then when it works,
your genius.
Speaker 4 (16:12):
Yeah, you know, and you put yourself out there and
you gave one hundred it.
Speaker 1 (16:15):
Yes, do it.
Speaker 2 (16:17):
You just do it, and you know what, do it?
Some days I do it and then like turn off
my Instagram the rest of the day.
Speaker 5 (16:22):
Yeah, I posted it.
Speaker 2 (16:24):
I'm done. I'm like, okay, we're good here.
Speaker 3 (16:25):
I did it, and like I put it out there,
but like sometimes I cringe it myself, just like everyone
else does.
Speaker 2 (16:30):
You cringe, but you just turn it off. Yeah, let
it do its things.
Speaker 4 (16:34):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (16:35):
No, And that's what I've been doing, like my on
my I mean, I have like three thousand followers on
my personal Instagram, which is very silly, but I'm like,
I'm having starting to have fun with it. I pick
up my phone, I make a little video. I don't
overthink it, I say what I need to. I put
my phone down and I go, okay, yeah, you did it.
Like that's probably weird, but I'm not going to go
a couple hours and I'll go totally. But I just
(16:55):
need to get this out and I don't care anymore.
It feels really good and you think this.
Speaker 1 (17:01):
Ship totally damn it.
Speaker 4 (17:02):
It doesn't go because it's not real.
Speaker 5 (17:04):
It's not genuine when you start or like like take one,
take two, take three, takes four, like thing, but over
and over.
Speaker 4 (17:11):
I can't do it.
Speaker 1 (17:12):
So many people that I work with do the same
thing over and over again.
Speaker 2 (17:15):
I can't do that. I'm like a one hit one,
one hit.
Speaker 4 (17:18):
Wonder, one hit wonder, Like that's it.
Speaker 2 (17:19):
That's all you get.
Speaker 1 (17:20):
Like a professional.
Speaker 2 (17:22):
I've been doing this.
Speaker 4 (17:23):
For a seven years old.
Speaker 2 (17:25):
But you know what, don't get you.
Speaker 3 (17:27):
There are some things where it's like you can't catch me,
like Hi, my name's Taylor, Like I feel like I'm
a pageant girl. I'm you know, hi, And then today
we're going to talk about you know my favorite Yeah, no,
I'm a voiceover girl.
Speaker 2 (17:39):
It's not me. I don't know.
Speaker 5 (17:40):
But you just killed that though, like you just.
Speaker 1 (17:44):
Like whatever you're telling it.
Speaker 3 (17:49):
He did like beauty pageants way way before all of this,
but like still I still have a problem doing that.
There are just things that are just easier for more people,
like TikTok I cannot be caught dead telling you about
my day or like a minor inconvenience. But I will
watch those all day long. I love it when people
can just talk.
Speaker 4 (18:06):
That's what I do.
Speaker 2 (18:07):
I look at myself and my keys.
Speaker 4 (18:11):
Stories.
Speaker 1 (18:11):
Yeah yeah, what is that?
Speaker 5 (18:13):
I'm like, hey, listen to what I gotta say.
Speaker 1 (18:15):
We no, TikTok is It's what What I'm also learning
to is like each platform is just so different with
its algorithm that it's like, really, you know, we're on YouTube, right,
and like YouTube is like great and once we get
to a certain level, it'll pay the most, right, But
then like TikTok, I'm like, how I don't understand how
(18:38):
to crack that code? Because Instagram is Instagram's Instagram whatever.
Speaker 2 (18:41):
You know what I mean, it's a business, it's your LinkedIn.
Speaker 1 (18:44):
Yeah, TikTok is your.
Speaker 2 (18:47):
Your personal side. Yah. YouTube is like your money maker? Yeah, advice?
How you do TikTok is you just basically how I
see people doing. What I like what people do.
Speaker 3 (18:58):
Like, for instance, like I'll watch a podcast and they're
on YouTube. All the podcasts are on YouTube. Yeah, obviously
everyone gets paid more on that, but they they'll take
their best clips and they're all their clips like ten
second clips kind of like take trailers.
Speaker 2 (19:11):
That's what they do on their TikTok and drive the
sales over time.
Speaker 1 (19:14):
Yeah, that's what I'm learning. Yeah, that's what I'm learning
is that your clips on your podcast clips need to
be shorter.
Speaker 3 (19:21):
Now on TikTok is it's more short format, but it
is enough to like get people engaged to be like,
oh let me go. Yeah, so there's just like little
teasers to like go to YouTube. That's what I if
I were all, that's what I would use TikTok for.
It just makes the most sense because it's like why
make you have enough content? Just like take one episode,
cut them all up, and then we have fifty videos
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fifty videos, and then all of a sudden you have
like months and months of content ready to go. And
you could also start from the beginning of yours and
start posting those to re engage with, Like just because
it was done, like say friends of six months ago,
doesn't mean it's still not you know.
Speaker 1 (19:58):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, I've been thinking about that of like
we should probably go through all of our episodes and
cut like really good sound bites and just like repost
like ten second clips. Likely because there's so.
Speaker 5 (20:13):
Many moments in there that are not on here we
unhinge that we need to truly go back and like
we hinged.
Speaker 4 (20:19):
Yeah, well we are unhinged. Yeah, we don't know how
to not I mean our podcast is not truly are
yeah yeah yeah yeah.
Speaker 1 (20:27):
People, you know, like somebody will reach out and they'll
want uh like PR. A lot of PR people reach
out to us because they want their client to come
on because there's not a lot of beauty podcast technically
beauty podcasts. I mean we're technically a beauty podcast, but
we're also like funny and whatever.
Speaker 4 (20:44):
We have beauty products. Yeah, of course we're beauty yeah day.
Speaker 1 (20:50):
But you know they're like, you know, they want all
this structure and I'm like, no, we're not.
Speaker 2 (20:55):
We're not.
Speaker 1 (20:56):
We're conversational based. That's it. You want people to come
here and not talk about their like healing and trauma.
I mean if that gets brought up that yeah naturally.
Speaker 4 (21:08):
Yeah, we.
Speaker 1 (21:11):
Journey and you're like things that make you laugh and
embarrassing moments and like what your glamoroutine is and what
your favorite products are like like joyful, happy.
Speaker 5 (21:22):
Thing and getting to know you in a very real way,
like if these weren't on right now, this would be.
Speaker 4 (21:28):
Meeting you for the first time.
Speaker 1 (21:29):
Yeah, I buy that, you know.
Speaker 3 (21:32):
Yeah, I mean again, we're all we're millennials here, like
there's no there's no.
Speaker 5 (21:36):
You guys are millennials. I'm gen X on are you here?
Speaker 3 (21:39):
Bro?
Speaker 2 (21:40):
Nineteen eighty I'm literally the last us.
Speaker 5 (21:44):
Let's go, let's go.
Speaker 4 (21:45):
I need to get a gen X patch too. I
see I need a jacket lex on it. Yeah, that's cool,
that's cool.
Speaker 1 (21:53):
Millennials through and through right here.
Speaker 2 (21:55):
Yeah, the same cut off nineteen is it?
Speaker 1 (21:59):
Nineteen?
Speaker 4 (22:00):
Nineteen seventy nine?
Speaker 5 (22:01):
Nineteen eighty is like.
Speaker 3 (22:03):
Literally the other what are ninety three ninety I'm eighty eight,
I'm thirty six years old.
Speaker 1 (22:08):
Yea, yeah, I'm eighty three. Yeah, you're the same age
as my partner, So.
Speaker 4 (22:13):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (22:14):
I think ninety three ninety four is like the cutoff reagon.
Speaker 5 (22:18):
It's a generation generation Yeah, yeah, generations are big.
Speaker 2 (22:23):
Wait, wouldn't generation be ten years?
Speaker 4 (22:26):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (22:26):
Why was it? Why isn't it?
Speaker 2 (22:28):
It's probably ninety like it's probably.
Speaker 1 (22:30):
Eight ninety And also who made those rules?
Speaker 4 (22:35):
I Thomas Jefferson.
Speaker 1 (22:37):
Yeah, actually it was Thomas Jefferson, doctor, doctor Thomas.
Speaker 2 (22:43):
I don't trust Thomas Jefferson.
Speaker 1 (22:44):
They did nobody did.
Speaker 2 (22:46):
What did he do?
Speaker 4 (22:47):
He invented a light bulb? No, that wasn't even him.
Speaker 2 (22:52):
Fucking with you.
Speaker 4 (22:53):
I just wanted to see how much do you know
about history? Too? I don't think she No, guy, I'm a.
Speaker 5 (23:02):
Comitality, are you?
Speaker 3 (23:07):
I'm Colombian, like both parents are a little French, a
little Canadian, a little Mexican.
Speaker 1 (23:17):
That's why I'm so confident that it is.
Speaker 4 (23:22):
Yeah, you got that fire.
Speaker 2 (23:23):
I don't know what I don't know what it is.
I'm like, I don't know I can do Leo.
Speaker 4 (23:29):
I'm a Leo.
Speaker 2 (23:29):
Two.
Speaker 1 (23:30):
Let's go Leo Burnette, see you later. Don't forget tant
Leo Sasy Bernette. Yeah, they will eat you for are you?
Speaker 2 (23:39):
Like?
Speaker 5 (23:39):
I was talking to my mom today and we were
I was like, the older I get, the more extrovert
I get, you know, like, people go, well, I'm I'm
I'm an extrovert, but I'm also introvert, so I need
to like, we need to take rest.
Speaker 4 (23:50):
It's important, for sure. But then I'm like, I need
to be around people.
Speaker 2 (23:53):
Yeah, I don't know about all people, a lot of people,
but in general.
Speaker 5 (23:59):
In general, I like that's where I thrive the best
is being around people, other people's energy, connecting with people.
Speaker 2 (24:07):
You must be hanging.
Speaker 3 (24:08):
Around a lot of cool people. Oh yeah, oh, I
can feel everybody.
Speaker 1 (24:11):
And I'm just we're too old tonight.
Speaker 2 (24:13):
No listen, I'm new here. I'm trying to get my crew.
Speaker 3 (24:17):
I'm getting Yeah, it will so until then, I'm really
weary of where I go because I'm just like, yeah,
just every everywhere.
Speaker 2 (24:24):
I don't mean this city I just went. In general,
I feel uh, I don't think I can just close.
Speaker 4 (24:36):
If you ever just want to get my number and
we can go out regardless.
Speaker 1 (24:41):
Oh my god, I just started watching this show called
like It's Something Polly. There's like two couples that started
dating and now they live together.
Speaker 2 (24:51):
Four of them, all four of them. Reality game Home.
Speaker 1 (24:55):
It's a wild show.
Speaker 4 (24:56):
A lot of chefs in the kitchen.
Speaker 1 (24:57):
It's a lot of chefs in the kitchen, so stress.
So it's so stressful. I could never age. And I
were like, what, So the husband is dating one of
the wives and this other husband is dating the other
one of the wives. So but the girls don't ever
hook up. It's just the boys and the girls. They
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swap rooms every night, and they've had children together. They
don't get paternity.
Speaker 5 (25:25):
Tests, so you don't know whose kids.
Speaker 1 (25:28):
You don't know whose kids from who.
Speaker 5 (25:30):
You just got to play the guessing game. You're like,
let me see the ego.
Speaker 1 (25:33):
That's obviously Michael's kid. He looks like Michael. But like,
they don't they They're trying.
Speaker 2 (25:38):
To how long does this TV show span over?
Speaker 1 (25:41):
So it's a new show. It's one season?
Speaker 2 (25:43):
Oh how old are the kids? Uh?
Speaker 1 (25:46):
They are like young, like five. One couple already had
two kids, then they then both women were pregnant at
the same time, adorable, and then another than this one
girl got pregnant again, and there is drama because somebody
accidentally got the results to the paternity test, and one
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dad is mad that.
Speaker 2 (26:11):
You can't get mad.
Speaker 4 (26:12):
He can't get mad, get mad. I can't get mad.
Speaker 5 (26:16):
I can't you want you're blowing the whistle.
Speaker 1 (26:20):
It isn't that wild though, But also I can't keep
my eyes off of it because I'm like, I don't
understand how everyone's happy. I don't get are they truly like?
Speaker 5 (26:31):
Well, I mean, it's for number one it's TV, so
we don't know.
Speaker 4 (26:33):
No, you never know.
Speaker 1 (26:35):
But I'm just like, I don't I definitely have twenty
five wives. I don't give a shap, But I don't
understand how you're stoked all the time and how this works.
I don't get it.
Speaker 5 (26:47):
So there's no flippy floppy with the dudes.
Speaker 4 (26:50):
We're not there's no gay and there's no.
Speaker 1 (26:52):
Gay nothing each other.
Speaker 4 (26:54):
They like each other.
Speaker 1 (26:55):
Oh, they just swap why why And they were sitting
on the couch and they were like, They're like, so,
what do you guys have in common? And they're like,
we raise a family. We live together, and we raise
a family together, and we share partners. And they're like oh,
and they're like yeah, if we weren't doing those things,
I would never talk to this person. So I'm like, oh,
there's drama between the guides because the women are like
(27:18):
I love her, she's like a sister to me. Like,
I just like, I don't trust anyone else with my
kids about to s girl, Like it's so weird because
I'm just like.
Speaker 2 (27:26):
Is it culty? It sounds maybe it's of cult mentality.
Speaker 4 (27:31):
Do they wear long skirts?
Speaker 1 (27:32):
No, they're literally tattooed like young millennials, millennials, millennials, bitch, Yes, I'm.
Speaker 2 (27:39):
Shocked by the millennials. I would definitely see agen Zy
for sure.
Speaker 5 (27:42):
Yeah, because then you were like, well, we're just on
what's the Oh, they're fluid, they're probably yeah.
Speaker 1 (27:48):
Something I don't know, something I don't know. They're like
thirty five to like thirty eight forty. Yeah, they're me,
But I would. I just I'm like interesting telling AJ
about it, and I was like, there's no way. The
husbands swap rooms every night every night, so they sleep
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with a different woman in a different bed every night, And.
Speaker 5 (28:12):
I wonder if like one of the husband's loves, like
is more in love.
Speaker 1 (28:16):
With I think that's also the drama because the paternity
test showed that it was the other guys. It wasn't
her husbands, it was her boyfriend's kid.
Speaker 2 (28:28):
No, you can't get mad.
Speaker 1 (28:29):
But I think they're just more in love because the
one couple has been together for sixteen years and they're like,
what five years in so they're just like more lovey dovey, and.
Speaker 5 (28:38):
What if they like truly truly fall in love with
each other, Like I don't want anyone to touch your body.
Speaker 4 (28:41):
We're got to get we got to get out of here.
Speaker 1 (28:43):
I think then it all implodes. And then those children,
because how does this like have siblings and are used
to having like all these parents. Then it just all
gets fucked up. I don't know. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (28:55):
That'll be quiet season two.
Speaker 1 (28:58):
Yeah, because it's not like you're it's not a commune
where there's lots of people and lots of children and
everybody like lives in different huts or like or like
houses or whatever. It's not a commune. It's a polygamist
relationship with five children. Yeah, like good show, though, I'm
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watch it.
Speaker 4 (29:21):
Yeah, it's it's so watch it imagine just.
Speaker 2 (29:23):
Like dating now, like.
Speaker 1 (29:28):
It's dating now is fucking polygamist show.
Speaker 2 (29:31):
It is wild, but it's fun.
Speaker 4 (29:35):
It's the worst. But I'm having a lot of having fun.
Speaker 5 (29:38):
Yeah, I don't want to be with it, Like I'm
trying to do it a little bit more intentionally now,
so like I don't not like I was married, I
had a kid, so I'm not like.
Speaker 3 (29:49):
Gotch It makes sense listen, Like, as a romantic, nostalgic romantic,
I love the love, don't get me wrong.
Speaker 2 (29:57):
I need a little bit of reality and logical. Can
I just get a man? A man?
Speaker 1 (30:04):
Please?
Speaker 2 (30:05):
Is that okay?
Speaker 1 (30:06):
Where they are?
Speaker 3 (30:08):
Just do you? Let me do?
Speaker 2 (30:11):
I don't know how to explain it is so complicated.
Speaker 4 (30:14):
Well, also, you met men from around Yeah?
Speaker 2 (30:18):
Not what? Okay, let's not say none. Let's just say
you know what? It might be me? Dare we say
it might be me?
Speaker 1 (30:28):
I'm a little bit more.
Speaker 2 (30:29):
On the I guess.
Speaker 3 (30:31):
I wouldn't say I'm masculine, but I'm a business.
Speaker 4 (30:35):
You're powerful, you're strong.
Speaker 2 (30:38):
I'm just I don't know how to I don't know,
I'm a bit offha Well to say that, that's okay.
I'm like that.
Speaker 4 (30:44):
I like to.
Speaker 3 (30:47):
Lead and I'm good at it. Let me like, dare
I have hobbies? Dare I be good at them?
Speaker 4 (30:52):
To dang?
Speaker 3 (30:54):
I like to lead and I need to find who
likes to lead harder and better. But if you can't
better or harder than what are we doing?
Speaker 4 (31:02):
I know?
Speaker 3 (31:03):
I know you're gonna and it's really hard because the
people I've been with and everyone, they're great, and I
hope they're not like, yeah, everyone's great. Like, honestly, I've
dated really great, great men. I've never had like a shithead.
Speaker 2 (31:16):
Maybe you know who you.
Speaker 1 (31:17):
Are and you're for sure you're watching this podcast.
Speaker 2 (31:22):
No, but honestly no, But honestly, I feel like I'm
just very I don't know. I know what I like,
and I want someone to meet half way. If not,
you know, try to be more.
Speaker 5 (31:34):
I keep saying, I just want I want something Number one,
like humor is the best, Like if you're not joyful
and humor and silly and that you gotta go. But
also to be able to inspire me, Like I feel
like that part have right and that's the thing.
Speaker 4 (31:48):
That's what we're looking for.
Speaker 5 (31:50):
Somebody who you're like, I want to be better because literally,
like and pull me from this thing that I didn't
even know that I could totally totally.
Speaker 3 (31:59):
That's like I'm I'm good at being a cheerleader and
I'm good at inspiring and I'm good at listen.
Speaker 2 (32:04):
I can put people together and I can I can
make them buzz. I need you to make me. I
want you to like be so inspiring that I want to.
Speaker 5 (32:12):
Follow same same and I want you to make me
more like yeah, what are you doing?
Speaker 4 (32:19):
Yes, but don't do that totally but in in a
great way.
Speaker 5 (32:23):
The way that I've done the way they have probably
done to other people have felt like you were being
naggy or controlling or too powerful to whatever, But that's
actually not what it is.
Speaker 2 (32:33):
Yeah, totally totally growing.
Speaker 3 (32:36):
It's like I feel and I never really felt like
I was nagging. I'm like, I'm gonna keep I'm gonna
hold a mirror up to you, and I'm gonna be like, hey,
like we better keep going as a couple or we
aren't going together as a couple because I want to
be like this, whether it be emotionally, physically, business wise, learning,
researching things that are my passions.
Speaker 2 (32:56):
I'm going to continue and growing in that every day,
whether I'm with you or not.
Speaker 3 (33:00):
You better have your own drive and your own passions
that you're like this and let's converse and talk and keep.
Speaker 2 (33:04):
Each other high.
Speaker 1 (33:06):
Period.
Speaker 3 (33:06):
And if you cannot, you don't even have, like you
don't even have like the passions or the drive or
anything like that or anything keeping you going.
Speaker 2 (33:14):
Honey, I cannot do it for you, and I tried
many times. That's like, and it's not just it's not
just men too. I won't just leave girl, get it together.
Speaker 3 (33:29):
And I see the potential in everything I think I'm
an optimist when it comes to that, Like, I see
the potential in you. You better get there and I
will get you there. I can help you get there,
but you need to want it to But that's just
my leo. Like I will support you, I will hype
you up, but you better do it for me to
Let let's go or we're not going anywhere?
Speaker 4 (33:45):
Yeah, or by.
Speaker 1 (33:49):
Coming yeah, Like I don't know.
Speaker 3 (33:51):
So I feel like, just in general, I don't know
what it is. If I'm being as political as I get,
there's an epidemic of men that feel not good enough
or whatever or feel like I don't know, I feel
like there's just something going on with the men as
a whole that has been wildly disruptive to society as
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a whole. Yeah, and it's really sad.
Speaker 5 (34:13):
Well, I think that it's so easy to move on
to the next so before before you get to truly
know somebody, they're already you're already discarded. Well, and like
these beautiful, intelligent, smart, powerful women are just.
Speaker 2 (34:25):
Well, that's because we don't discard like that.
Speaker 3 (34:27):
I saw a quote yesterday that I really loved, and
it says, you test a man's loyalty, you test a
woman's loyalty by if the man has nothing. You know,
you can see if the woman's really loyal to a
man if he has nothing, and you test the man's
loyalty when he has everything, because when he has everything,
that's when he'll cheat. He has no loyalty, no honor,
no morals, no anything like that. And I really liked
(34:48):
that because it just goes to show that women will
go with a deadbate loser and stand by that man's
side with the potential of hoping that he shapes up.
But as soon as the man gets any sort of anything,
it's their lust is too strong for any type of
commitment or any any type of wanting to be better
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for themselves.
Speaker 1 (35:09):
That's such an interesting it's such an ego.
Speaker 2 (35:14):
It happens all the time, and it's like, you know,
I listen to things on tiptok.
Speaker 3 (35:17):
I really like love this topic a lot because I
am a romantic, but I'm also like in reality, so
it's like I want to be able to dip my
toes in both. So I really do research a lot
on this topic, and I feel like, you know, think
about this way. Men don't wake up and are like
I want to fall in love today. They don't think that.
They don't think that. They don't I don't think that
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in any way of their upbringing. Are they like I'm
going to be a father, I'm going to be a husband.
They just feel like they should have it because that's
just what they should do, and then they end up
don't wanting it. I feel like at the end of
the day, they want to feel good with themselves and
don't know how to do that.
Speaker 4 (35:54):
They just weren't tired like that.
Speaker 2 (35:56):
Yeah, yeah, totally.
Speaker 5 (35:57):
Well, they don't over complicate everything the way that we
not over complate. But you know, yeah, are women are
We're so many, We're an onion, we're so many, so many.
Sure not saying that men aren't.
Speaker 4 (36:08):
They truly have all of these.
Speaker 3 (36:11):
For us.
Speaker 4 (36:12):
They're more black and white.
Speaker 3 (36:13):
With totally, and I feel like that doesn't give them
enough room to dig into why they're this way, or
why it's not working out for them.
Speaker 2 (36:20):
Or why I just don't understand. Yeah, it's just one
of those things.
Speaker 3 (36:24):
We're just different species, completely different species.
Speaker 2 (36:28):
And yeah, I think it's sad.
Speaker 3 (36:30):
Yeah, Like I feel bad, like I feel bad for men,
like in the sense of like, yeah, sorry, we're gonna
hold you to your word.
Speaker 2 (36:37):
Yeah, yeah, I'm sorry that. Yes, we expect you to
be loyal bare minimum. Like then don't do that. And
you know what, half of them even aren't So don't
even know what I'm talking about. Half of them don't commit.
Half of them don't even they ghost.
Speaker 3 (36:48):
They can't even it, can't even like hold onto their
own They can't even hold themselves accountable.
Speaker 1 (36:55):
They don't know how.
Speaker 4 (36:56):
They don't know, they don't know how.
Speaker 2 (36:58):
It's like then, what it's like? It can't be the
is it? Is it lack of fathers in the in
the thing?
Speaker 3 (37:03):
Like?
Speaker 2 (37:03):
Is that a thing too? Where it's like, is that
another what.
Speaker 1 (37:06):
The answer would be. I feel like they've they've been
able to get away with so much for so long
because as a society even we didn't really hold people accountable,
sure men especially for a really long time, and we
blamed a lot of things on women.
Speaker 2 (37:22):
When it was actually met. That's actually a good point.
Speaker 1 (37:25):
So now we're like, wait, hold the fucking phone, yea,
why are we taking because it's women, I feel like
we are able to be I'd rather be uncomfortable, so
you're not uncomfortable.
Speaker 3 (37:37):
So all just that's emotional maturity, and in a way,
it's sacrifice.
Speaker 1 (37:43):
It's yes, it's also toxic behavior.
Speaker 3 (37:46):
It is.
Speaker 1 (37:47):
It's it's a lot of things good and bad, but
that's toxic. And that's like making yourself smaller and not
doing yourself any good by doing that. But I think
that's what we've done for so long. That's how I
dated for my entire fucking childhood. And then when I
look at my mom, that's what my mom did. So
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it's like we for a really, really long time just
let things slide. And just now recently is there like
an epidemic of women going actually, I'm not okay and
I'm not okay with that. Yeah, and I'm not okay
with what you just said. Sure, I'm not okay with
the way that you're treating me. And I'm not okay
with any of this actually, and this is how I feel.
(38:28):
And then it's it's nobody likes to be held accountable,
but especially men.
Speaker 5 (38:35):
Yeah you know what I mean, ken and saying that
like I don't like this, I'm also not perfect. I
can look at more too and say that, like I
own all of my staff. Yeah, sure, Well it's all
it's literally it's it's it's trauma. It's all little generation
generational trauma situation that's going on. So you take this
little baby boy who never knew how to heal, like
(38:58):
and he still doesn't now he's for years old, and
he just didn't do what we've done or has been
able to look inwards.
Speaker 4 (39:06):
So you're still a.
Speaker 2 (39:06):
Little incapable, like not even incapable.
Speaker 4 (39:08):
And they're not all men.
Speaker 6 (39:10):
There are men out there that we follow now or
you're like, oh my god, who is this guy that's
like saying beautiful? You know, yeah, But for the majority
of men, it's And I understand this because I was
married to one who's now going through a transition of
you know, maybe awakening or in his journey. I'm so proud,
good but find you know, at forty something, so grateful
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it's happening to him for our daughter.
Speaker 4 (39:35):
But I don't like there are like it's it's hard,
it's really really really really.
Speaker 2 (39:43):
They just don't have like.
Speaker 3 (39:46):
Not like it's their fault, but it's like they don't
have that part of their brain unlocked yet, that that EmPATH,
that maybe emotional thing that women are to may have
where they don't have that where we are able to.
We thought those thoughts at twelve, you know, like what
is this? Or like, my mom's treating me this way? Well,
how did her mom treat her? Guys don't think about that.
(40:07):
I don't think that they're like their father may be
acting this way because their father was treated like this
and and goes down.
Speaker 2 (40:12):
The line and you know, and maybe they do.
Speaker 3 (40:14):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (40:15):
Again, it's just like.
Speaker 4 (40:17):
Talking about stuff like this is all new, like for
someone like my parents or my.
Speaker 2 (40:20):
Father for sure, and that's that and there's no changing now.
Speaker 5 (40:26):
Yeah, you know, so for men in like their thirties
or forties, this is new for them. Yeah, but we're
lucky that we live in a world where people can
talk about.
Speaker 4 (40:34):
This until really feel safe. Yeah, there are men out
there that you're out and if you're out there.
Speaker 1 (40:42):
Trying to get it.
Speaker 4 (40:45):
On a journey, yeah yeah, to be on a healing.
Speaker 2 (40:48):
I would see why not? What's so bad about you know?
What's so bad about that?
Speaker 3 (40:52):
Like I feel like that's what life is like, honestly,
Like I feel I'm like, why aren't these guys.
Speaker 2 (40:56):
Being like to be vulnerable, to be a one hundred percent?
What's wrong with that?
Speaker 4 (41:01):
Not what's wrong with that. You're a human being. It's ego.
Speaker 1 (41:04):
It's ego.
Speaker 4 (41:05):
It's it's ego. And like men, men they're alpha, they're
they're here to you.
Speaker 2 (41:11):
Very well.
Speaker 4 (41:12):
You go back to like the first man, like what
did they was like hunters and gatherers. That's what men did.
Speaker 2 (41:17):
They went out in the field and they hunted.
Speaker 4 (41:19):
They were men. I am man.
Speaker 1 (41:20):
This is what I do.
Speaker 4 (41:21):
I protect woman. You have your job. It's just innately
what who we are.
Speaker 7 (41:26):
Now.
Speaker 3 (41:26):
I feel like they're getting more feminine every day.
Speaker 2 (41:28):
They're even losing that part.
Speaker 4 (41:29):
I'm like, what do you mean, Like now, now you're
just gasing me and you're like.
Speaker 1 (41:35):
Literally, I'm like, you hit all my lotion and.
Speaker 4 (41:39):
Stop.
Speaker 1 (41:40):
God damn it.
Speaker 2 (41:41):
That's the thing. Why are you crying? If you want
to be the man, be the man? Like, you can't
be both, honey, you can't be both.
Speaker 1 (41:49):
It's so funny.
Speaker 3 (41:50):
Yeah, it is so at the same time, it's like
it's yeah and whatever, Yeah, you know.
Speaker 4 (41:58):
What would they do without us? Oh to sand worm?
They wouldn't.
Speaker 1 (42:03):
They wouldn't, they would they would what would they do?
Speaker 2 (42:05):
But imagine what the thing is?
Speaker 4 (42:07):
They love us so much?
Speaker 2 (42:09):
Do they?
Speaker 5 (42:09):
I think a lot.
Speaker 1 (42:10):
I think I think a lot do. But I also
think there's a lot of men that have been programmed
to hate women. Yeah, I think it's so you have.
Speaker 5 (42:18):
I'm surrounded by like good men who really like market
women that are like you.
Speaker 7 (42:22):
Know, the general population do hate women, especially since the honestly,
especially strong Internet, Internet and like listen.
Speaker 3 (42:34):
Instagram, that's a girly app. It's a girly game, influencing.
It's a girly game. It's where girls succeed by showing
off everything and showing how amazing we are in all
the things that we're capable of doing. It's not really
a place where you go and like shop for guys.
It is a never ending buffet of hot girls that
are more talented. Imagine how we feel when we see
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other girls, other influencers murdering it.
Speaker 2 (42:57):
Imagine being a guy and not even close. Yeah, what
do you mean?
Speaker 3 (43:01):
You know, so they try to be gamers and they
try and they can't.
Speaker 2 (43:04):
You know, like that was such a specific niche.
Speaker 3 (43:07):
But you know, look at it, like, look at just
the business aspect of the man making more money than
a woman. Well, you're seeing all of them just by
being pretty. They don't really like the position that we're
in as being people who can easily post online and
get ten k for a post, go on these influencer trips, Like,
I don't think they like us very much, and maybe it's.
Speaker 2 (43:26):
Just a particular niche.
Speaker 3 (43:28):
I've never had anyone be any awful which way to me,
but I know how it feels sometimes when I see
other girls killing it and I'm like, dang, I should
be where they are. I should be where they are.
Imagine being the opposite sex, Like imagine being like dang.
Speaker 4 (43:42):
Dang, dang, sitting down my dungeon plane.
Speaker 3 (43:52):
It's like, but think about it, the world has really gone.
It's for the girlies now. So two thousand and five
is for the girlies. I don't see it like there's.
Speaker 1 (44:00):
Five.
Speaker 2 (44:01):
I'm sorry, I'm sorry.
Speaker 4 (44:03):
Do we just go back in time? I'm sorry? Do
we just go through the black hole day two thousand
and five?
Speaker 1 (44:12):
Like hot time?
Speaker 2 (44:15):
Just give away my age? I'm joking. No, I just
exratulated high school.
Speaker 1 (44:19):
But yeah, okay, okay, cool, because I just had a stroke.
Speaker 3 (44:21):
I was like, I met twenty five but yeah, but
that year too, was also for the girlies.
Speaker 2 (44:27):
But you know, as soon as the internet, what we're
doing to we sidekicks. We had sidekicks.
Speaker 3 (44:32):
We had two double popped, Abercrombie and.
Speaker 5 (44:35):
Fished, No exactly cool cool cool, the double double Collar.
Speaker 2 (44:40):
The Kanye West, the Lime and Green and Pink Bumbo. Think.
Speaker 1 (44:44):
Yeah, we still had Britney Spears.
Speaker 4 (44:48):
Still she was, She was still thriving.
Speaker 1 (44:50):
Yeah she was.
Speaker 2 (44:51):
And it was rhyme.
Speaker 1 (44:53):
It was almost the prime.
Speaker 2 (44:55):
It was the snake VMA is the two thousand and
five snake here.
Speaker 3 (44:57):
That was her best I'm a slave for you was
her best A moment as well, her best A moment.
Speaker 1 (45:05):
Yeah, diet pepsi, Yeah, pepsi.
Speaker 3 (45:12):
I can't wait for that new documentary that or that
new docu movie coming out about excuse me, excuse me
what knew they're casting for her right now?
Speaker 4 (45:20):
I'm sorry Britney Spears.
Speaker 2 (45:24):
Documentory.
Speaker 3 (45:25):
Sorry but but but like real depiction of it, because
actual real of her life, of her book.
Speaker 2 (45:33):
And yes, yes, Adison Ray I love y'all.
Speaker 1 (45:40):
I know who she is.
Speaker 2 (45:41):
Madison, She's got the teeth. I'm here for it. There's
another girl on TikTok.
Speaker 4 (45:45):
That's not the girl from White Lotus, is it?
Speaker 3 (45:47):
No? No, she is she's a singer. She's more of
a TikTok star, but she has dope vibes. She does,
but everyone doesn't like her for it.
Speaker 2 (45:56):
I don't know why.
Speaker 3 (45:58):
And there's another girl who's a nobody, but she's been
like no one. Everyone loves her because she basically is
giving all of Britney's dances, like all of her what
is it called? Like she's auditioning publicly on every single
TikTok about she's making and she's serving. She's serving.
Speaker 2 (46:15):
It's like yeah, and.
Speaker 3 (46:17):
Moved no money and she's like I'm just gonna yeah.
Like she's doing like the dancing like everything.
Speaker 4 (46:23):
Does she look like her too?
Speaker 1 (46:25):
She? Oh my god, it's just like her. Wait does
is Brittany excited about this? Or did she sell the
rights to it or what?
Speaker 3 (46:32):
Actually don't know that, but I think she's involved. She's involved.
They're doing it after her book. She's involved, and they've
been like doing this like process, trying to find the
right person for a while. Who else There's other people
who are like big names that are like trying to
get in.
Speaker 5 (46:45):
On it, Like who else would be a really good
Britney spears It's hard.
Speaker 3 (46:49):
Yeah, Like I know, every crevice of that woman's face,
like every little dip in her abs, like, yeah, it's
gonna be hard.
Speaker 2 (46:57):
I'm gonna be gonna.
Speaker 4 (46:58):
You're like over you. I'm the new role.
Speaker 3 (47:03):
Like they have to be really good else I feel
like someone else was up for it that I thought
would be a really good contender.
Speaker 2 (47:09):
But I can't think right now. But it's in the word.
Speaker 5 (47:11):
There's not a lot of people. She's like a very
specific face.
Speaker 2 (47:15):
You know, I'm going to send you her later.
Speaker 1 (47:17):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, sick, Yeah, her voice, everything about her,
especially that Brittany.
Speaker 2 (47:23):
To think that.
Speaker 1 (47:36):
I'm not a girl, tell me what.
Speaker 4 (47:44):
Yeah, that's it.
Speaker 2 (47:45):
Yeah, it's gonna be her era like we crossroads.
Speaker 4 (47:52):
And also, yeah, she.
Speaker 2 (47:57):
Crazy made they made her crazy.
Speaker 4 (48:00):
It's not crazy.
Speaker 2 (48:01):
My ears ringing.
Speaker 4 (48:02):
Wow, cool someone, she's cool.
Speaker 5 (48:04):
Terreen's thinking about Taron Man is thinking about you right now.
She's talking about you.
Speaker 2 (48:09):
I got you because I saw that not crazy.
Speaker 3 (48:12):
You know, they made her pain out to be because
she went on a podcast and talked about how she
didn't drink the Golden juice of Hollywood.
Speaker 1 (48:18):
Now is the part of our podcast where we like
to uh, it's coming to an end. Sadly because I
love you.
Speaker 4 (48:25):
You're wonderful.
Speaker 1 (48:26):
I know you are wonderful.
Speaker 4 (48:28):
You want to be our third.
Speaker 1 (48:30):
We're not talking about it.
Speaker 4 (48:35):
Wait are we gonna like ane if you want?
Speaker 1 (48:42):
We asked rapid fire question? Okay, and just get to
know you just a little bit better. I love the
cuff off the fly. Okay. Your favorite night time product,
favorite daytime product?
Speaker 2 (48:53):
Flipliner?
Speaker 4 (48:54):
Okay, what's your favorite liip liner?
Speaker 1 (48:56):
Beverly Hill Like, oh cool, Yes, that's a really good one.
What is your least favorite glam trend?
Speaker 4 (49:05):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (49:05):
I don't like the stain where you peel it off.
The stain that peels off.
Speaker 2 (49:09):
I'm like, that seems drying, like.
Speaker 1 (49:11):
If you've tried it or just you're just assuming both.
Speaker 3 (49:14):
I've tried it and I don't like it, and I
don't like what it looks like you're peeling a scab
off and it's just grow.
Speaker 2 (49:18):
It's weird for me. I don't know, it's a it's
a sensory.
Speaker 1 (49:21):
You think you're allowed to feel.
Speaker 2 (49:23):
That was a weird one.
Speaker 4 (49:24):
Okay, I don't like watching it.
Speaker 1 (49:26):
If you could only have one product forever, what would
it be?
Speaker 2 (49:30):
One?
Speaker 1 (49:30):
Just one?
Speaker 2 (49:31):
Sarah?
Speaker 1 (49:32):
Okay, what is your favorite content hack or trick.
Speaker 2 (49:36):
My favorite is batch batching.
Speaker 3 (49:39):
So I will shoot a ton of stuff in one
go and just like act like it's you know, been
over a course of two months.
Speaker 1 (49:45):
Okay, that's matching, very smart. The best advice somebody has
ever given you.
Speaker 2 (49:51):
To lead the last one? She's cool. Okay, yeah, actually
I heard it. This is really weird. Not a good
guy out Will Smith.
Speaker 3 (50:01):
He had this like say, I know, pause, he said
a while with a long time ago for well, I said,
hold on, hold on.
Speaker 2 (50:07):
Never mind. It really changed my life, It really did.
Speaker 1 (50:12):
In fact, I left him for a long time.
Speaker 2 (50:14):
I did too into the bubble burst and he's just
a character. But before all that, I watched.
Speaker 3 (50:20):
This like really random interview that he did and he said,
in order, you know, they said how does it feel
to be the best actor ever?
Speaker 2 (50:27):
And he was just like, I'm not.
Speaker 3 (50:28):
He goes, well, what do you mean?
Speaker 2 (50:29):
He's like, you know, kind of asking this question. He
was just like, I feel like, in.
Speaker 3 (50:32):
Order to be the best at something, you have to
be the best everywhere, travel everywhere, go everywhere. And I
don't know, as simple as that, I don't know what
it was, but it sparked.
Speaker 1 (50:40):
Somebody and that's what made me. That's what you've done.
Speaker 3 (50:43):
Yeah, well that's I heard him say that. Oh yeah,
and then I decided to just go and be the
best everywhere?
Speaker 1 (50:50):
Wow?
Speaker 2 (50:50):
And that he really that weird little thing.
Speaker 3 (50:52):
I was just out line, but it was like it
wasn't an ego thing like I want to be the best.
It was like, no, you got to go everywhere and
the best.
Speaker 5 (51:00):
Does that make sense?
Speaker 2 (51:01):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (51:02):
Something about that when I was like twenty five, Yeah,
just like, bye, I'm out of here.
Speaker 2 (51:07):
I'm gonna go be whatever the best is to me.
Speaker 1 (51:09):
Well, we love that advice, regardless of who it came from,
because look at what you've done with you.
Speaker 2 (51:13):
We'll just say that I said that.
Speaker 4 (51:14):
Okay, great, you're awesome.
Speaker 1 (51:17):
How do you answer the telephone?
Speaker 4 (51:19):
Like this?
Speaker 2 (51:21):
Can you?
Speaker 1 (51:22):
How do you go? Hello? How do you?
Speaker 2 (51:25):
How do you know?
Speaker 3 (51:25):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (51:25):
Oh, I'm sorry? Okay, we're role playing? Yeah? Are you okay? O?
Speaker 1 (51:30):
Cute? Okay?
Speaker 4 (51:31):
I love that heye jello.
Speaker 1 (51:34):
If your pet could talk, what would they say?
Speaker 2 (51:36):
Oh my gosh, she wants cheese. That's all. Like I
got a new kiddie like cheese, that's all she wants.
Speaker 3 (51:42):
And she got one cheese, and she is like, cheese bean,
it's the cutest thing ever.
Speaker 1 (51:46):
So if she could talk, she'd say, do you have
any cheese?
Speaker 3 (51:49):
Cheese?
Speaker 2 (51:49):
Cheese?
Speaker 1 (51:50):
You cheese. I think you're gonna love this one so much. Okay,
what's your biggest ick? I feel like you have so many.
Speaker 2 (51:59):
I've got many biggest ever if you are so sorry, okay,
I'm just gonna go.
Speaker 3 (52:06):
Men, My biggest itch is literally is you claim to
be so artistic and you're so if you give me
the like idea that you're this Bob Dylan poet writer this,
and you're so self sacrificing and you don't put out
any of your ship and you think you're the greatest,
that is my you gross me out.
Speaker 2 (52:27):
At least if you're going to be this confident whatever,
connoisseur of whatever you think that you are, at least
do it.
Speaker 3 (52:37):
Do it all people who are all talk and think
that they're the ship and have nothing to show for it,
and not not like physically, but like you, if you
talk and talk and you it's it's it's literally the
biggest egg I could ever ever ever see. Like gross,
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it's not it's all fake, which means that your art
isn't really art.
Speaker 2 (53:04):
It isn't, it's just it's fake it is.
Speaker 5 (53:08):
And it really drives me.
Speaker 2 (53:09):
Is that crazy?
Speaker 3 (53:11):
Because I'm all about inspiration and really pulling that out
and really finding myself through that. And if you are
all a fake bubble of bullshit, I can't fuck with you.
Speaker 1 (53:20):
I can't.
Speaker 2 (53:21):
Sorry.
Speaker 4 (53:22):
That was That was a deep, was beautiful.
Speaker 1 (53:27):
Guilty pleasure.
Speaker 3 (53:28):
I love the nerdiest history documentaries, like the ones that
you like put on to go to sleep, like in
high school. I live for guilty pleasures, history documentaries, conspiracy theories.
Speaker 2 (53:40):
I research the wildest theories on Earth. I live for it.
Speaker 3 (53:45):
If I could like cancel my life and start over,
I'd be a conspiracy theorist full time.
Speaker 4 (53:50):
I want to sit down and have many.
Speaker 1 (53:54):
Love conspiracy.
Speaker 4 (53:57):
She's like trying to go to bed.
Speaker 2 (53:58):
She's like in the teen Ancient Ancient symbols Alliens.
Speaker 4 (54:10):
But I love it.
Speaker 2 (54:11):
I lived for my guilty pleasure.
Speaker 1 (54:13):
What was the movie title of your life?
Speaker 2 (54:16):
I actually thought about this yesterday. Permanent Visitor.
Speaker 3 (54:21):
Visitor, a film by Taylor, like a little French thing,
like a permanent visit.
Speaker 4 (54:30):
Visit this ship.
Speaker 5 (54:34):
Exactly that it was so nice to me, you like
so much beautiful energy and thanks.
Speaker 1 (54:42):
You are fantastic. How we'll find you? How can people?
I know the Social Club social Club?
Speaker 2 (54:49):
But is it?
Speaker 1 (54:49):
Is it just at the Social Club on Instagram?
Speaker 2 (54:51):
What is it v? Social Club?
Speaker 3 (54:56):
I mean it's like the first thing that pops up
when you click on that. But follow me Taylor Luche
on Instagram. That's where you can find me.
Speaker 1 (55:03):
And yeah, happy scrolling, happy scrolling, I know, go down
like stalk her. It's impressive.
Speaker 2 (55:10):
Please don't stalk me. Follow for follow yeah no no,
no about for all. Have fun and it's been awesome
being there.
Speaker 1 (55:18):
Are thank you, thank you, thank you all right, guys,
see you later.
Speaker 2 (55:21):
By
Who get a little up.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Hi am Teren, I'm Mari, and you're listening to up.
Speaker 1 (00:12):
We hope you're picking up what we're putting down.
Speaker 3 (00:16):
It's so funny because like I've had like my early
twenties and then I like go a really long, like
ten fifteen year break of just like sober, and I'm like, wait.
Speaker 2 (00:24):
What that was fun?
Speaker 1 (00:26):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (00:27):
That was fun.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
That was really fun. I enjoyed that, you know. But
now it's like moderately speaking, like a little bit sure,
but like I'd rather not.
Speaker 5 (00:36):
Be no sober if we're not. But there's no problem,
no issue, But there's no issue not making.
Speaker 2 (00:42):
Any like crazy mistakes.
Speaker 4 (00:43):
Yeah, Like I love to get to know somebody.
Speaker 3 (00:45):
Over in your thirties and making mistakes or not even mistakes,
like you know yourself so well.
Speaker 2 (00:50):
Like I'm just more myself.
Speaker 4 (00:52):
Yeah this is Wait until you're forty four.
Speaker 2 (00:55):
I can't wait, dude. I just keep getting better.
Speaker 3 (00:57):
I'm like, yeah I was twenty well pleaser, Like I'm not.
Speaker 2 (01:04):
I'm done with.
Speaker 1 (01:05):
That full blown dumb dumb dummy.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
Yeah, done with the People's.
Speaker 5 (01:08):
Energy just falls off with me these days. I don't
even feel like I don't even feel it.
Speaker 4 (01:12):
It doesn't affect me. It's very empowered.
Speaker 2 (01:16):
Yeah, I go through waves.
Speaker 3 (01:17):
Like some waves, it's like it just rolls off, like
this week, it's just sticking to me, Like why why
are you sticking to me?
Speaker 2 (01:23):
So this hands good? Cheers my girl, Yeah, cheers.
Speaker 1 (01:27):
Welcome to the podcast.
Speaker 4 (01:29):
Taylor, Thank you?
Speaker 1 (01:32):
What a name?
Speaker 4 (01:32):
What a name?
Speaker 1 (01:33):
A star? I know you're such a star. That's your
real name, you are.
Speaker 3 (01:38):
It's actually my middle name, Taylor Sola. And I dropped
my last name knowing that I was going to be
a star. War obviously clearly obviously look at your look
at your hair. Star definitely not.
Speaker 1 (01:50):
It's a combination.
Speaker 2 (01:52):
Yeah, it's a little combination.
Speaker 4 (01:53):
We know that I love tan brunettes.
Speaker 1 (01:55):
It's you know, I wonder if we do that because
like I loved blondes. Yeah, I also love burnettes. I
don't know. Maybe we just like gravitate. Maybe we all
we all just want to fuck.
Speaker 2 (02:07):
Oh day, I would.
Speaker 1 (02:15):
Like to meet my doppel ganger, because how fun would
that be?
Speaker 5 (02:18):
I did in a male form, right female?
Speaker 2 (02:21):
Did you date him? Was it as good as it was? Great?
Speaker 4 (02:25):
Well?
Speaker 2 (02:26):
Where is he now?
Speaker 4 (02:27):
Canada?
Speaker 1 (02:27):
Okay? Yeah, we're just talking about him.
Speaker 4 (02:29):
The other day that.
Speaker 1 (02:30):
It's so funny. I do want to know, though, when
did you get here?
Speaker 2 (02:33):
I moved here like four or five months ago. Fresh.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
Oh my god, Yes, so I met you.
Speaker 2 (02:39):
I met you in like January, right like two months fresh.
Speaker 1 (02:42):
We met at a really cute dinner that Mollie Martin hosted.
Speaker 4 (02:46):
Oh I've been dying to go.
Speaker 5 (02:49):
Was it so beautiful?
Speaker 3 (02:50):
Puts on like the best dinners and just it was
amazing And I met so many cool people there. It
was like a women business, Like.
Speaker 2 (02:57):
Yes, I loved it.
Speaker 1 (03:00):
Yeah, it was so good.
Speaker 2 (03:01):
So yeah, so we met there.
Speaker 1 (03:03):
We had April and Molly both on the pod. Such bad,
bad little bitches. Yeah, but I met Taylor for like
a second because you were wearing a monochromatic maroon suit
and it was just like big and I.
Speaker 3 (03:19):
Was like, Stockner, stock You're beautiful.
Speaker 4 (03:22):
You're like one of those.
Speaker 2 (03:25):
Thank you, yeah, thank you, I.
Speaker 1 (03:27):
Know, And I was like, she should come on the
pod because I mean it's a beauty pod. But it's
also like we just like to have people on that
just care about beauty or could speak on anything really beauty, wellness, fitness, anything.
Speaker 4 (03:42):
Ye, we go all the place.
Speaker 1 (03:44):
If you have a sense of humor to giggle whatever.
But anyway, I'm so happy that you're here.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
Thanks, thank you.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
So how did you and why did you come to Nashville.
Everybody has a story.
Speaker 2 (03:53):
Yeah, your long story.
Speaker 3 (03:55):
I'm from Texas originally, so I'm kind of a just
a Southern girl at heart. I've lived in New York
for a decade. In between all of that, I've like
moved out of the country for six years. Every year
was a different country.
Speaker 2 (04:10):
I know, assue me, You're like what I want.
Speaker 3 (04:13):
The thing is it sounds like the most and trust me,
I'm so grateful for that. But whenever you go and
every city is a different city and every year is
a different year, and you kind of just like are
living out of suitcases and you can't find your home
or you're calling and I felt like I was like
trauma running like I was running away from things, and
like I couldn't find a home or friends or you know,
a guy that lived in the same city as me.
(04:35):
It was like so hard. So I was like, okay,
like think I don't want to live in New York.
I don't live in Texas. I've already lived in Paris, London.
I've already had those European boyfriends were done with them.
Speaker 2 (04:44):
We've already had it, We've already done it.
Speaker 3 (04:46):
It was like, so here, where can I go that
gives me that Southern charm but like a little fast
paced like New York. And I was like, dude, okay,
so it's either between like Charlotte or Nashville. And I
was like, well, Charlotte, I remember been. That was just
my two options. It's like I'm just like, okay, I've
already done La. I've literally done it all. And Nashville
(05:06):
was like, you know what, I have a good vibe.
And every time that I've come here, I was like,
I really like it. So I feel like it's very
Texas and New York blend. Yeah, And I figured if
and so far I love it so right. I absolutely
love it here. I'm happy here, like I'm settling roots
here and I just adore it, like already.
Speaker 2 (05:25):
I knew right off the bat that this.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
Was for me.
Speaker 5 (05:27):
Also how I felt when I first I'm from New York, okay,
gotcha like horn Rays, And when I first came here,
I felt the same exact way it about Nashville. Yeah,
and it's a very different Nashville. I still love it
just as much as I did.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
When I first Yeah, I love I mean, I love it.
Speaker 3 (05:40):
The vibe, I love how traffic is not like I
just I love the small town vibes. But it's still city,
you know, it's still growing and it's I don't know.
I like the people here, I like the mindset are
just what's not to like?
Speaker 2 (05:52):
So far?
Speaker 1 (05:53):
There's nothing really Yeah, I feel like some of my
favorite people that I've ever met in my life I've
met here. Yeah you know what I mean?
Speaker 5 (05:58):
Yea, I do big time.
Speaker 1 (06:00):
Yeah, I feel that so hard here. And so you
I know you're a content creator because you're like your
Instagram and all your socials are like literally insane. How
have you cracked the code? I don't understand. But you
also own a company. Tell me about that.
Speaker 3 (06:15):
It's called the Social Club. So technically just to like
kind of give like a little background. So I'm content creation.
I've been an influencer like my whole life, like ever
since before Instagram.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
There was my spapace tumbler, my.
Speaker 4 (06:28):
My Space content creator.
Speaker 2 (06:31):
My Space. Yes, I did my Space tumbler. I remember
what was it, Zenga.
Speaker 3 (06:36):
Like I'm like I'm like one of the OG's you know,
the beginning of time once, but Instagram will be blew
up for me. Whenever I had moved away and I
started like testing the market. Got my heart broken in
LA and I was like, you know what I'm show
all y'all. So I went to Australia and you know,
no one had this little haircut in Australia. They're all
like babes, bleached blondes with abs. And I'm like, I
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look at Super French. I'm going to go and I'm going.
Speaker 2 (07:01):
To take your jobs.
Speaker 3 (07:02):
And so I just kind of dominated that side of
the world. They really had, you know, models or influencers
that kind of look like that. But like my business
mind was like, Okay, now that I'm on this side
of the world, let me reach out to everyone in
New York, LA, Miami and be like, hey, instead of
you flying your team out here, why don't you let
me model your campaigns, do location scouting. I'll go to
(07:23):
Bali for you, I'll go to Sri Lanka, I'll go
to Hong Kong. And so I created a deck where,
like before the travel influencer, I was literally pitching for
American brands for me to model and do the entire
campaign and start doing travel influencing that way, and it
was like booming.
Speaker 2 (07:39):
So that was great.
Speaker 3 (07:41):
Billboards like just press, magazines like NonStop. I was booked out,
booked out for years and then started every year moving
closer to the States backwards. So yeah, Sydney, Bali, Hong Kong,
Sri Lanka, Paris, and then London and in each place
at least minimum a year in each place, and it
(08:03):
was fantastic. I don't It's like I look back and
I'm like, did I do all that? Like it's crazy,
But that's kind of where my business and my travel
kind of turned into, Okay, I want to stay still.
But now with the Social Club, I started this knowing
that there wasn't really a big market here for content
creators or influencers, you know, like whenever I even whenever
(08:25):
I first got here, I did a TikTok and I
was like, hey, calling everybody, like what does everyone do?
We're all the dinners, We're all the gifting suite, like
you know, thinking like New York, you know, we're all the.
Speaker 2 (08:33):
Dinners like whalers, Like who do I meet?
Speaker 3 (08:38):
You know, where's all the places at and everyone's just
kind of saying, well, you know it's here, but it's
not you know, there's not really an influencer agency. Yes,
And I was like, oh, well, if anyone's going to
bring it to life, I know how to do that,
to talk to to talk.
Speaker 5 (08:52):
So I've been doing it since I have seven years old.
Speaker 2 (08:56):
I literally dawn of time.
Speaker 3 (08:57):
If anyone's a vet enough to do it, like in
the hours, it's me, Like, I got it. But while
I started opening it, I realized I was like, maybe
I don't want to be an influencer agency because it's
just a lot.
Speaker 2 (09:07):
So I kind of pivoted.
Speaker 3 (09:08):
You know, you start with an idea and you pivot
to what kind of fits what fits for me right
now in the social club and what the business has
kind of really turned into is businesses here in Nashville
that are super local and need to up their game
with their socials so they have like really great stuff
or you know, they need help with social posting and
(09:32):
just kind of the need to take care of their hotels,
their restaurants, that's what they do, but their socials need
to be shaker suave, have more of an alluring whatever.
Speaker 2 (09:40):
I'm here to help you do that.
Speaker 3 (09:42):
So instead of like really helping the influencer world, I
feel like I need to start first with the businesses,
so they start getting more income, so they start getting
more eyes, so they start understanding the importance.
Speaker 5 (09:51):
Of socials, the importance of this necessary you have to
do it.
Speaker 3 (09:56):
So then that opens up more money, more information, and
more knowledge on bringing in the influencers for events and
dinners and this and that. So I'm kind of starting
with the businesses and being like, hey, if you need
help with your socials, I can turn I can basically
turn your business around just from having a presence online.
That's shake cool, super cool branding. You don't do anything.
I'm a concierge. I will have a creator come out,
(10:18):
get your content for you, post for you. You just worry
about doing your job. You run your business, and I
help you run your socials. So that's my business now,
and I love its.
Speaker 4 (10:27):
Great clients.
Speaker 2 (10:28):
I love it. Great clients, Amazing clients.
Speaker 3 (10:30):
And you know, it's like most of them are millennial
to more gen X, and so it's like they don't
quite understand the importance, but they but they want it.
Speaker 2 (10:38):
They need it's important to have and I'm loving it.
Speaker 5 (10:42):
I just linked something for the first time over today.
Parents taught me the other day and I was like,
I'm going to link. I'm going to link if you
linked it wrong.
Speaker 2 (10:50):
But I but that's really what I'm here. I'm here
to bridge the.
Speaker 3 (10:53):
Gap between the gen Z people who do this for
they do this in their sleep. They create content and
know how to launch things and how to make things
look cool with the gen xers who have businesses and
know how to run a business but don't know how
to socially connect.
Speaker 2 (11:06):
And I have them together.
Speaker 1 (11:08):
Yeah, very cool.
Speaker 2 (11:08):
And so that's what I do.
Speaker 3 (11:09):
And I'm the millennial ramp and the bridge in between
to connect the two. And I I love my clients,
I love I love my creators, and I like love
bridging people together and making that work because it's hard
for gen Z and gen.
Speaker 5 (11:23):
X to kind of do that. But it's like two
creative minds. All our minds are very creative. We're always thinking,
I have all these amazing ideas. It's just like implementing it,
like expert sure.
Speaker 3 (11:33):
Or how to do that in a stylized aesthetic, or
how to do certain things. It's like you know what
you want, but you don't know how to get it. Well,
they know how to get it, but don't know how to.
Speaker 2 (11:42):
Do you see what I mean.
Speaker 3 (11:43):
Run a business in the sense and you know what
I mean. So it's kind of like a good way
to blend there. I live for it like I.
Speaker 5 (11:50):
Live, I love it.
Speaker 2 (11:53):
I love I love what you do.
Speaker 3 (11:57):
And then eventually grow it out to be more and
then the influencers than the parties in the events. But
like I'm all about biting off what you can chew.
Right now, it's like I want to I would rather
have like twelve solid clients than having a two hundred
that I can't chew.
Speaker 1 (12:12):
You know, it all just implodes. So that's the point totally.
Speaker 2 (12:16):
And like I just I love it. I really do
love what I do.
Speaker 4 (12:18):
And it's like it's.
Speaker 5 (12:19):
Gratifying too because you're helping.
Speaker 4 (12:23):
I'm helping, so's.
Speaker 2 (12:25):
I'm helping everybody. I feel. Not only that, but there's
something to show for it.
Speaker 3 (12:28):
There's like aesthetics, and that's my thing is like inspiration,
Like I love just inspiring. Really, I know that sound
so like, but truly the actual form of the word.
I like to inspire because that helps them feel more
confident going into their business. They feel more confident sharing.
I don't know, it's just the whole thing makes me
feel so good.
Speaker 5 (12:48):
That energy that should be around, that kind of energy,
like is important to have. Sure that you feel inspired.
They feel inspired. That the whole point of like creating
the whole time. Oh yeah, everything film and if you
don't feel if it doesn't inspire you.
Speaker 1 (13:06):
Yeah, what are we doing here?
Speaker 4 (13:07):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (13:08):
I actually don't know this.
Speaker 4 (13:11):
Yeah I'm inspired.
Speaker 1 (13:13):
Yeah too, Like people my age, or at least for me,
I'm forty one, and I obviously, like I understand understand
social media, and I understand the importance for me because
you know, so many people I have such a fun,
crazy personality and so does she and people are away like, God,
you should like do more this, do more that. There's
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like there's some kind of disconnect. I don't know if
it's my age or what, but what I see it
for other people and it's so effortless. And then I'm
sure in the beginning when they started posting, they felt
really awkward. And then the more that they did it,
the more it turned into this like very thoughtful, articulated
(13:56):
brand of whatever they wanted to do. But that's the
hard part that I can't understand. I'm like, so you
just want me to do this and tell everybody, Like,
because I know so much about glam. I've been doing
it for one hundred fucking years, you know what I mean?
Like what we do for a living is insane and
the amount of knowledge that we have is insane. But
that there's just like a disconnect that I don't And.
Speaker 3 (14:17):
You know what the connection is literally delusion. It's actually delusion.
It's having enough delusion to not care enough what anyone
thinks that you post.
Speaker 1 (14:28):
I had done this for so long when I I
were stunting our own growth.
Speaker 3 (14:33):
So the delusion I mean is the delusion of not
caring what anyone thinks. Like you have to be so
delusional to not to be like, I'm just gonna post
it whatever.
Speaker 4 (14:42):
Do you know what I mean?
Speaker 3 (14:43):
Yeah, Like I look back, I could not be more delusional.
I didn't care what anyone said. I had the hottest photos.
I was working with the best brands. That mentality got
me to I look back, and I was so brave.
Speaker 5 (14:55):
I was brave to wear that.
Speaker 2 (14:59):
I was brave. I think that that was cute. And
because of.
Speaker 3 (15:02):
That job, I got so many other jobs because of
the delusion of I was going to rock that ugly
little dress anyway.
Speaker 2 (15:10):
Yeah, it was straight to the.
Speaker 4 (15:12):
Level of confidence.
Speaker 5 (15:13):
It was a level of confidence, that delusion confidence whatever.
You were having a great time.
Speaker 3 (15:18):
For sure, and it was like there was no one,
no one was going to stop me. But I really
do look back and I'm.
Speaker 4 (15:22):
Like, girl, yeah, oh my god.
Speaker 2 (15:26):
But you know what, I'm so proud of that girl
doing all that. Totally.
Speaker 3 (15:30):
I've got like crippling anxiety throughout the years, but I
look back and she was fearless. She did not care
what anyone thought. And I would not be here without
that girl who did not care.
Speaker 5 (15:39):
And that's what people see, is that fearlessness. Yeah, that's
what people resonate with, and that's what people want. That's
what we need to actually hat more of, is people
that aren't afraid to truly be themselves totally.
Speaker 4 (15:49):
You look on you scroll for hours and you're like,
what the fuck is this person doing? At least they're
putting themselves.
Speaker 5 (15:53):
Out there totally, like this is crazy.
Speaker 4 (15:56):
I'm watching this. This is crazy. This person has no
right to it, but they're doing it.
Speaker 3 (16:00):
And then the next thing you know, their overnight success
and have no and then everything they do just makes
sense on it and that it works like that, it
just makes sense.
Speaker 2 (16:08):
It's your delusional until it works. And then when it works,
your genius.
Speaker 4 (16:12):
Yeah, you know, and you put yourself out there and
you gave one hundred it.
Speaker 1 (16:15):
Yes, do it.
Speaker 2 (16:17):
You just do it, and you know what, do it?
Some days I do it and then like turn off
my Instagram the rest of the day.
Speaker 5 (16:22):
Yeah, I posted it.
Speaker 2 (16:24):
I'm done. I'm like, okay, we're good here.
Speaker 3 (16:25):
I did it, and like I put it out there,
but like sometimes I cringe it myself, just like everyone
else does.
Speaker 2 (16:30):
You cringe, but you just turn it off. Yeah, let
it do its things.
Speaker 4 (16:34):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (16:35):
No, And that's what I've been doing, like my on
my I mean, I have like three thousand followers on
my personal Instagram, which is very silly, but I'm like,
I'm having starting to have fun with it. I pick
up my phone, I make a little video. I don't
overthink it, I say what I need to. I put
my phone down and I go, okay, yeah, you did it.
Like that's probably weird, but I'm not going to go
a couple hours and I'll go totally. But I just
(16:55):
need to get this out and I don't care anymore.
It feels really good and you think this.
Speaker 1 (17:01):
Ship totally damn it.
Speaker 4 (17:02):
It doesn't go because it's not real.
Speaker 5 (17:04):
It's not genuine when you start or like like take one,
take two, take three, takes four, like thing, but over
and over.
Speaker 4 (17:11):
I can't do it.
Speaker 1 (17:12):
So many people that I work with do the same
thing over and over again.
Speaker 2 (17:15):
I can't do that. I'm like a one hit one,
one hit.
Speaker 4 (17:18):
Wonder, one hit wonder, Like that's it.
Speaker 2 (17:19):
That's all you get.
Speaker 1 (17:20):
Like a professional.
Speaker 2 (17:22):
I've been doing this.
Speaker 4 (17:23):
For a seven years old.
Speaker 2 (17:25):
But you know what, don't get you.
Speaker 3 (17:27):
There are some things where it's like you can't catch me,
like Hi, my name's Taylor, Like I feel like I'm
a pageant girl. I'm you know, hi, And then today
we're going to talk about you know my favorite Yeah, no,
I'm a voiceover girl.
Speaker 2 (17:39):
It's not me. I don't know.
Speaker 5 (17:40):
But you just killed that though, like you just.
Speaker 1 (17:44):
Like whatever you're telling it.
Speaker 3 (17:49):
He did like beauty pageants way way before all of this,
but like still I still have a problem doing that.
There are just things that are just easier for more people,
like TikTok I cannot be caught dead telling you about
my day or like a minor inconvenience. But I will
watch those all day long. I love it when people
can just talk.
Speaker 4 (18:06):
That's what I do.
Speaker 2 (18:07):
I look at myself and my keys.
Speaker 4 (18:11):
Stories.
Speaker 1 (18:11):
Yeah yeah, what is that?
Speaker 5 (18:13):
I'm like, hey, listen to what I gotta say.
Speaker 1 (18:15):
We no, TikTok is It's what What I'm also learning
to is like each platform is just so different with
its algorithm that it's like, really, you know, we're on YouTube, right,
and like YouTube is like great and once we get
to a certain level, it'll pay the most, right, But
then like TikTok, I'm like, how I don't understand how
(18:38):
to crack that code? Because Instagram is Instagram's Instagram whatever.
Speaker 2 (18:41):
You know what I mean, it's a business, it's your LinkedIn.
Speaker 1 (18:44):
Yeah, TikTok is your.
Speaker 2 (18:47):
Your personal side. Yah. YouTube is like your money maker? Yeah, advice?
How you do TikTok is you just basically how I
see people doing. What I like what people do.
Speaker 3 (18:58):
Like, for instance, like I'll watch a podcast and they're
on YouTube. All the podcasts are on YouTube. Yeah, obviously
everyone gets paid more on that, but they they'll take
their best clips and they're all their clips like ten
second clips kind of like take trailers.
Speaker 2 (19:11):
That's what they do on their TikTok and drive the
sales over time.
Speaker 1 (19:14):
Yeah, that's what I'm learning. Yeah, that's what I'm learning
is that your clips on your podcast clips need to
be shorter.
Speaker 3 (19:21):
Now on TikTok is it's more short format, but it
is enough to like get people engaged to be like,
oh let me go. Yeah, so there's just like little
teasers to like go to YouTube. That's what I if
I were all, that's what I would use TikTok for.
It just makes the most sense because it's like why
make you have enough content? Just like take one episode,
cut them all up, and then we have fifty videos
(19:43):
fifty videos, and then all of a sudden you have
like months and months of content ready to go. And
you could also start from the beginning of yours and
start posting those to re engage with, Like just because
it was done, like say friends of six months ago,
doesn't mean it's still not you know.
Speaker 1 (19:58):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, I've been thinking about that of like
we should probably go through all of our episodes and
cut like really good sound bites and just like repost
like ten second clips. Likely because there's so.
Speaker 5 (20:13):
Many moments in there that are not on here we
unhinge that we need to truly go back and like
we hinged.
Speaker 4 (20:19):
Yeah, well we are unhinged. Yeah, we don't know how
to not I mean our podcast is not truly are
yeah yeah yeah yeah.
Speaker 1 (20:27):
People, you know, like somebody will reach out and they'll
want uh like PR. A lot of PR people reach
out to us because they want their client to come
on because there's not a lot of beauty podcast technically
beauty podcasts. I mean we're technically a beauty podcast, but
we're also like funny and whatever.
Speaker 4 (20:44):
We have beauty products. Yeah, of course we're beauty yeah day.
Speaker 1 (20:50):
But you know they're like, you know, they want all
this structure and I'm like, no, we're not.
Speaker 2 (20:55):
We're not.
Speaker 1 (20:56):
We're conversational based. That's it. You want people to come
here and not talk about their like healing and trauma.
I mean if that gets brought up that yeah naturally.
Speaker 4 (21:08):
Yeah, we.
Speaker 1 (21:11):
Journey and you're like things that make you laugh and
embarrassing moments and like what your glamoroutine is and what
your favorite products are like like joyful, happy.
Speaker 5 (21:22):
Thing and getting to know you in a very real way,
like if these weren't on right now, this would be.
Speaker 4 (21:28):
Meeting you for the first time.
Speaker 1 (21:29):
Yeah, I buy that, you know.
Speaker 3 (21:32):
Yeah, I mean again, we're all we're millennials here, like
there's no there's no.
Speaker 5 (21:36):
You guys are millennials. I'm gen X on are you here?
Speaker 3 (21:39):
Bro?
Speaker 2 (21:40):
Nineteen eighty I'm literally the last us.
Speaker 5 (21:44):
Let's go, let's go.
Speaker 4 (21:45):
I need to get a gen X patch too. I
see I need a jacket lex on it. Yeah, that's cool,
that's cool.
Speaker 1 (21:53):
Millennials through and through right here.
Speaker 2 (21:55):
Yeah, the same cut off nineteen is it?
Speaker 1 (21:59):
Nineteen?
Speaker 4 (22:00):
Nineteen seventy nine?
Speaker 5 (22:01):
Nineteen eighty is like.
Speaker 3 (22:03):
Literally the other what are ninety three ninety I'm eighty eight,
I'm thirty six years old.
Speaker 1 (22:08):
Yea, yeah, I'm eighty three. Yeah, you're the same age
as my partner, So.
Speaker 4 (22:13):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (22:14):
I think ninety three ninety four is like the cutoff reagon.
Speaker 5 (22:18):
It's a generation generation Yeah, yeah, generations are big.
Speaker 2 (22:23):
Wait, wouldn't generation be ten years?
Speaker 4 (22:26):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (22:26):
Why was it? Why isn't it?
Speaker 2 (22:28):
It's probably ninety like it's probably.
Speaker 1 (22:30):
Eight ninety And also who made those rules?
Speaker 4 (22:35):
I Thomas Jefferson.
Speaker 1 (22:37):
Yeah, actually it was Thomas Jefferson, doctor, doctor Thomas.
Speaker 2 (22:43):
I don't trust Thomas Jefferson.
Speaker 1 (22:44):
They did nobody did.
Speaker 2 (22:46):
What did he do?
Speaker 4 (22:47):
He invented a light bulb? No, that wasn't even him.
Speaker 2 (22:52):
Fucking with you.
Speaker 4 (22:53):
I just wanted to see how much do you know
about history? Too? I don't think she No, guy, I'm a.
Speaker 5 (23:02):
Comitality, are you?
Speaker 3 (23:07):
I'm Colombian, like both parents are a little French, a
little Canadian, a little Mexican.
Speaker 1 (23:17):
That's why I'm so confident that it is.
Speaker 4 (23:22):
Yeah, you got that fire.
Speaker 2 (23:23):
I don't know what I don't know what it is.
I'm like, I don't know I can do Leo.
Speaker 4 (23:29):
I'm a Leo.
Speaker 2 (23:29):
Two.
Speaker 1 (23:30):
Let's go Leo Burnette, see you later. Don't forget tant
Leo Sasy Bernette. Yeah, they will eat you for are you?
Speaker 2 (23:39):
Like?
Speaker 5 (23:39):
I was talking to my mom today and we were
I was like, the older I get, the more extrovert
I get, you know, like, people go, well, I'm I'm
I'm an extrovert, but I'm also introvert, so I need
to like, we need to take rest.
Speaker 4 (23:50):
It's important, for sure. But then I'm like, I need
to be around people.
Speaker 2 (23:53):
Yeah, I don't know about all people, a lot of people,
but in general.
Speaker 5 (23:59):
In general, I like that's where I thrive the best
is being around people, other people's energy, connecting with people.
Speaker 2 (24:07):
You must be hanging.
Speaker 3 (24:08):
Around a lot of cool people. Oh yeah, oh, I
can feel everybody.
Speaker 1 (24:11):
And I'm just we're too old tonight.
Speaker 2 (24:13):
No listen, I'm new here. I'm trying to get my crew.
Speaker 3 (24:17):
I'm getting Yeah, it will so until then, I'm really
weary of where I go because I'm just like, yeah,
just every everywhere.
Speaker 2 (24:24):
I don't mean this city I just went. In general,
I feel uh, I don't think I can just close.
Speaker 4 (24:36):
If you ever just want to get my number and
we can go out regardless.
Speaker 1 (24:41):
Oh my god, I just started watching this show called
like It's Something Polly. There's like two couples that started
dating and now they live together.
Speaker 2 (24:51):
Four of them, all four of them. Reality game Home.
Speaker 1 (24:55):
It's a wild show.
Speaker 4 (24:56):
A lot of chefs in the kitchen.
Speaker 1 (24:57):
It's a lot of chefs in the kitchen, so stress.
So it's so stressful. I could never age. And I
were like, what, So the husband is dating one of
the wives and this other husband is dating the other
one of the wives. So but the girls don't ever
hook up. It's just the boys and the girls. They
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swap rooms every night, and they've had children together. They
don't get paternity.
Speaker 5 (25:25):
Tests, so you don't know whose kids.
Speaker 1 (25:28):
You don't know whose kids from who.
Speaker 5 (25:30):
You just got to play the guessing game. You're like,
let me see the ego.
Speaker 1 (25:33):
That's obviously Michael's kid. He looks like Michael. But like,
they don't they They're trying.
Speaker 2 (25:38):
To how long does this TV show span over?
Speaker 1 (25:41):
So it's a new show. It's one season?
Speaker 2 (25:43):
Oh how old are the kids? Uh?
Speaker 1 (25:46):
They are like young, like five. One couple already had
two kids, then they then both women were pregnant at
the same time, adorable, and then another than this one
girl got pregnant again, and there is drama because somebody
accidentally got the results to the paternity test, and one
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dad is mad that.
Speaker 2 (26:11):
You can't get mad.
Speaker 4 (26:12):
He can't get mad, get mad. I can't get mad.
Speaker 5 (26:16):
I can't you want you're blowing the whistle.
Speaker 1 (26:20):
It isn't that wild though, But also I can't keep
my eyes off of it because I'm like, I don't
understand how everyone's happy. I don't get are they truly like?
Speaker 5 (26:31):
Well, I mean, it's for number one it's TV, so
we don't know.
Speaker 4 (26:33):
No, you never know.
Speaker 1 (26:35):
But I'm just like, I don't I definitely have twenty
five wives. I don't give a shap, But I don't
understand how you're stoked all the time and how this works.
I don't get it.
Speaker 5 (26:47):
So there's no flippy floppy with the dudes.
Speaker 4 (26:50):
We're not there's no gay and there's no.
Speaker 1 (26:52):
Gay nothing each other.
Speaker 4 (26:54):
They like each other.
Speaker 1 (26:55):
Oh, they just swap why why And they were sitting
on the couch and they were like, They're like, so,
what do you guys have in common? And they're like,
we raise a family. We live together, and we raise
a family together, and we share partners. And they're like oh,
and they're like yeah, if we weren't doing those things,
I would never talk to this person. So I'm like, oh,
there's drama between the guides because the women are like
(27:18):
I love her, she's like a sister to me. Like,
I just like, I don't trust anyone else with my
kids about to s girl, Like it's so weird because
I'm just like.
Speaker 2 (27:26):
Is it culty? It sounds maybe it's of cult mentality.
Speaker 4 (27:31):
Do they wear long skirts?
Speaker 1 (27:32):
No, they're literally tattooed like young millennials, millennials, millennials, bitch, Yes, I'm.
Speaker 2 (27:39):
Shocked by the millennials. I would definitely see agen Zy
for sure.
Speaker 5 (27:42):
Yeah, because then you were like, well, we're just on
what's the Oh, they're fluid, they're probably yeah.
Speaker 1 (27:48):
Something I don't know, something I don't know. They're like
thirty five to like thirty eight forty. Yeah, they're me,
But I would. I just I'm like interesting telling AJ
about it, and I was like, there's no way. The
husbands swap rooms every night every night, so they sleep
(28:10):
with a different woman in a different bed every night, And.
Speaker 5 (28:12):
I wonder if like one of the husband's loves, like
is more in love.
Speaker 1 (28:16):
With I think that's also the drama because the paternity
test showed that it was the other guys. It wasn't
her husbands, it was her boyfriend's kid.
Speaker 2 (28:28):
No, you can't get mad.
Speaker 1 (28:29):
But I think they're just more in love because the
one couple has been together for sixteen years and they're like,
what five years in so they're just like more lovey dovey, and.
Speaker 5 (28:38):
What if they like truly truly fall in love with
each other, Like I don't want anyone to touch your body.
Speaker 4 (28:41):
We're got to get we got to get out of here.
Speaker 1 (28:43):
I think then it all implodes. And then those children,
because how does this like have siblings and are used
to having like all these parents. Then it just all
gets fucked up. I don't know. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (28:55):
That'll be quiet season two.
Speaker 1 (28:58):
Yeah, because it's not like you're it's not a commune
where there's lots of people and lots of children and
everybody like lives in different huts or like or like
houses or whatever. It's not a commune. It's a polygamist
relationship with five children. Yeah, like good show, though, I'm
(29:20):
watch it.
Speaker 4 (29:21):
Yeah, it's it's so watch it imagine just.
Speaker 2 (29:23):
Like dating now, like.
Speaker 1 (29:28):
It's dating now is fucking polygamist show.
Speaker 2 (29:31):
It is wild, but it's fun.
Speaker 4 (29:35):
It's the worst. But I'm having a lot of having fun.
Speaker 5 (29:38):
Yeah, I don't want to be with it, Like I'm
trying to do it a little bit more intentionally now,
so like I don't not like I was married, I
had a kid, so I'm not like.
Speaker 3 (29:49):
Gotch It makes sense listen, Like, as a romantic, nostalgic romantic,
I love the love, don't get me wrong.
Speaker 2 (29:57):
I need a little bit of reality and logical. Can
I just get a man? A man?
Speaker 1 (30:04):
Please?
Speaker 2 (30:05):
Is that okay?
Speaker 1 (30:06):
Where they are?
Speaker 3 (30:08):
Just do you? Let me do?
Speaker 2 (30:11):
I don't know how to explain it is so complicated.
Speaker 4 (30:14):
Well, also, you met men from around Yeah?
Speaker 2 (30:18):
Not what? Okay, let's not say none. Let's just say
you know what? It might be me? Dare we say
it might be me?
Speaker 1 (30:28):
I'm a little bit more.
Speaker 2 (30:29):
On the I guess.
Speaker 3 (30:31):
I wouldn't say I'm masculine, but I'm a business.
Speaker 4 (30:35):
You're powerful, you're strong.
Speaker 2 (30:38):
I'm just I don't know how to I don't know,
I'm a bit offha Well to say that, that's okay.
I'm like that.
Speaker 4 (30:44):
I like to.
Speaker 3 (30:47):
Lead and I'm good at it. Let me like, dare
I have hobbies? Dare I be good at them?
Speaker 4 (30:52):
To dang?
Speaker 3 (30:54):
I like to lead and I need to find who
likes to lead harder and better. But if you can't
better or harder than what are we doing?
Speaker 4 (31:02):
I know?
Speaker 3 (31:03):
I know you're gonna and it's really hard because the
people I've been with and everyone, they're great, and I
hope they're not like, yeah, everyone's great. Like, honestly, I've
dated really great, great men. I've never had like a shithead.
Speaker 2 (31:16):
Maybe you know who you.
Speaker 1 (31:17):
Are and you're for sure you're watching this podcast.
Speaker 2 (31:22):
No, but honestly no, But honestly, I feel like I'm
just very I don't know. I know what I like,
and I want someone to meet half way. If not,
you know, try to be more.
Speaker 5 (31:34):
I keep saying, I just want I want something Number one,
like humor is the best, Like if you're not joyful
and humor and silly and that you gotta go. But
also to be able to inspire me, Like I feel
like that part have right and that's the thing.
Speaker 4 (31:48):
That's what we're looking for.
Speaker 5 (31:50):
Somebody who you're like, I want to be better because literally,
like and pull me from this thing that I didn't
even know that I could totally totally.
Speaker 3 (31:59):
That's like I'm I'm good at being a cheerleader and
I'm good at inspiring and I'm good at listen.
Speaker 2 (32:04):
I can put people together and I can I can
make them buzz. I need you to make me. I
want you to like be so inspiring that I want to.
Speaker 5 (32:12):
Follow same same and I want you to make me
more like yeah, what are you doing?
Speaker 4 (32:19):
Yes, but don't do that totally but in in a
great way.
Speaker 5 (32:23):
The way that I've done the way they have probably
done to other people have felt like you were being
naggy or controlling or too powerful to whatever, But that's
actually not what it is.
Speaker 2 (32:33):
Yeah, totally totally growing.
Speaker 3 (32:36):
It's like I feel and I never really felt like
I was nagging. I'm like, I'm gonna keep I'm gonna
hold a mirror up to you, and I'm gonna be like, hey,
like we better keep going as a couple or we
aren't going together as a couple because I want to
be like this, whether it be emotionally, physically, business wise, learning,
researching things that are my passions.
Speaker 2 (32:56):
I'm going to continue and growing in that every day,
whether I'm with you or not.
Speaker 3 (33:00):
You better have your own drive and your own passions
that you're like this and let's converse and talk and keep.
Speaker 2 (33:04):
Each other high.
Speaker 1 (33:06):
Period.
Speaker 3 (33:06):
And if you cannot, you don't even have, like you
don't even have like the passions or the drive or
anything like that or anything keeping you going.
Speaker 2 (33:14):
Honey, I cannot do it for you, and I tried
many times. That's like, and it's not just it's not
just men too. I won't just leave girl, get it together.
Speaker 3 (33:29):
And I see the potential in everything I think I'm
an optimist when it comes to that, Like, I see
the potential in you. You better get there and I
will get you there. I can help you get there,
but you need to want it to But that's just
my leo. Like I will support you, I will hype
you up, but you better do it for me to
Let let's go or we're not going anywhere?
Speaker 4 (33:45):
Yeah, or by.
Speaker 1 (33:49):
Coming yeah, Like I don't know.
Speaker 3 (33:51):
So I feel like, just in general, I don't know
what it is. If I'm being as political as I get,
there's an epidemic of men that feel not good enough
or whatever or feel like I don't know, I feel
like there's just something going on with the men as
a whole that has been wildly disruptive to society as
(34:11):
a whole. Yeah, and it's really sad.
Speaker 5 (34:13):
Well, I think that it's so easy to move on
to the next so before before you get to truly
know somebody, they're already you're already discarded. Well, and like
these beautiful, intelligent, smart, powerful women are just.
Speaker 2 (34:25):
Well, that's because we don't discard like that.
Speaker 3 (34:27):
I saw a quote yesterday that I really loved, and
it says, you test a man's loyalty, you test a
woman's loyalty by if the man has nothing. You know,
you can see if the woman's really loyal to a
man if he has nothing, and you test the man's
loyalty when he has everything, because when he has everything,
that's when he'll cheat. He has no loyalty, no honor,
no morals, no anything like that. And I really liked
(34:48):
that because it just goes to show that women will
go with a deadbate loser and stand by that man's
side with the potential of hoping that he shapes up.
But as soon as the man gets any sort of anything,
it's their lust is too strong for any type of
commitment or any any type of wanting to be better
(35:08):
for themselves.
Speaker 1 (35:09):
That's such an interesting it's such an ego.
Speaker 2 (35:14):
It happens all the time, and it's like, you know,
I listen to things on tiptok.
Speaker 3 (35:17):
I really like love this topic a lot because I
am a romantic, but I'm also like in reality, so
it's like I want to be able to dip my
toes in both. So I really do research a lot
on this topic, and I feel like, you know, think
about this way. Men don't wake up and are like
I want to fall in love today. They don't think that.
They don't think that. They don't I don't think that
(35:38):
in any way of their upbringing. Are they like I'm
going to be a father, I'm going to be a husband.
They just feel like they should have it because that's
just what they should do, and then they end up
don't wanting it. I feel like at the end of
the day, they want to feel good with themselves and
don't know how to do that.
Speaker 4 (35:54):
They just weren't tired like that.
Speaker 2 (35:56):
Yeah, yeah, totally.
Speaker 5 (35:57):
Well, they don't over complicate everything the way that we
not over complate. But you know, yeah, are women are
We're so many, We're an onion, we're so many, so many.
Sure not saying that men aren't.
Speaker 4 (36:08):
They truly have all of these.
Speaker 3 (36:11):
For us.
Speaker 4 (36:12):
They're more black and white.
Speaker 3 (36:13):
With totally, and I feel like that doesn't give them
enough room to dig into why they're this way, or
why it's not working out for them.
Speaker 2 (36:20):
Or why I just don't understand. Yeah, it's just one
of those things.
Speaker 3 (36:24):
We're just different species, completely different species.
Speaker 2 (36:28):
And yeah, I think it's sad.
Speaker 3 (36:30):
Yeah, Like I feel bad, like I feel bad for men,
like in the sense of like, yeah, sorry, we're gonna
hold you to your word.
Speaker 2 (36:37):
Yeah, yeah, I'm sorry that. Yes, we expect you to
be loyal bare minimum. Like then don't do that. And
you know what, half of them even aren't So don't
even know what I'm talking about. Half of them don't commit.
Half of them don't even they ghost.
Speaker 3 (36:48):
They can't even it, can't even like hold onto their
own They can't even hold themselves accountable.
Speaker 1 (36:55):
They don't know how.
Speaker 4 (36:56):
They don't know, they don't know how.
Speaker 2 (36:58):
It's like then, what it's like? It can't be the
is it? Is it lack of fathers in the in
the thing?
Speaker 3 (37:03):
Like?
Speaker 2 (37:03):
Is that a thing too? Where it's like, is that
another what.
Speaker 1 (37:06):
The answer would be. I feel like they've they've been
able to get away with so much for so long
because as a society even we didn't really hold people accountable,
sure men especially for a really long time, and we
blamed a lot of things on women.
Speaker 2 (37:22):
When it was actually met. That's actually a good point.
Speaker 1 (37:25):
So now we're like, wait, hold the fucking phone, yea,
why are we taking because it's women, I feel like
we are able to be I'd rather be uncomfortable, so
you're not uncomfortable.
Speaker 3 (37:37):
So all just that's emotional maturity, and in a way,
it's sacrifice.
Speaker 1 (37:43):
It's yes, it's also toxic behavior.
Speaker 3 (37:46):
It is.
Speaker 1 (37:47):
It's it's a lot of things good and bad, but
that's toxic. And that's like making yourself smaller and not
doing yourself any good by doing that. But I think
that's what we've done for so long. That's how I
dated for my entire fucking childhood. And then when I
look at my mom, that's what my mom did. So
(38:07):
it's like we for a really, really long time just
let things slide. And just now recently is there like
an epidemic of women going actually, I'm not okay and
I'm not okay with that. Yeah, and I'm not okay
with what you just said. Sure, I'm not okay with
the way that you're treating me. And I'm not okay
with any of this actually, and this is how I feel.
(38:28):
And then it's it's nobody likes to be held accountable,
but especially men.
Speaker 5 (38:35):
Yeah you know what I mean, ken and saying that
like I don't like this, I'm also not perfect. I
can look at more too and say that, like I
own all of my staff. Yeah, sure, Well it's all
it's literally it's it's it's trauma. It's all little generation
generational trauma situation that's going on. So you take this
little baby boy who never knew how to heal, like
(38:58):
and he still doesn't now he's for years old, and
he just didn't do what we've done or has been
able to look inwards.
Speaker 4 (39:06):
So you're still a.
Speaker 2 (39:06):
Little incapable, like not even incapable.
Speaker 4 (39:08):
And they're not all men.
Speaker 6 (39:10):
There are men out there that we follow now or
you're like, oh my god, who is this guy that's
like saying beautiful? You know, yeah, But for the majority
of men, it's And I understand this because I was
married to one who's now going through a transition of
you know, maybe awakening or in his journey. I'm so proud,
good but find you know, at forty something, so grateful
(39:33):
it's happening to him for our daughter.
Speaker 4 (39:35):
But I don't like there are like it's it's hard,
it's really really really really.
Speaker 2 (39:43):
They just don't have like.
Speaker 3 (39:46):
Not like it's their fault, but it's like they don't
have that part of their brain unlocked yet, that that EmPATH,
that maybe emotional thing that women are to may have
where they don't have that where we are able to.
We thought those thoughts at twelve, you know, like what
is this? Or like, my mom's treating me this way? Well,
how did her mom treat her? Guys don't think about that.
(40:07):
I don't think that they're like their father may be
acting this way because their father was treated like this
and and goes down.
Speaker 2 (40:12):
The line and you know, and maybe they do.
Speaker 3 (40:14):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (40:15):
Again, it's just like.
Speaker 4 (40:17):
Talking about stuff like this is all new, like for
someone like my parents or my.
Speaker 2 (40:20):
Father for sure, and that's that and there's no changing now.
Speaker 5 (40:26):
Yeah, you know, so for men in like their thirties
or forties, this is new for them. Yeah, but we're
lucky that we live in a world where people can
talk about.
Speaker 4 (40:34):
This until really feel safe. Yeah, there are men out
there that you're out and if you're out there.
Speaker 1 (40:42):
Trying to get it.
Speaker 4 (40:45):
On a journey, yeah yeah, to be on a healing.
Speaker 2 (40:48):
I would see why not? What's so bad about you know?
What's so bad about that?
Speaker 3 (40:52):
Like I feel like that's what life is like, honestly,
Like I feel I'm like, why aren't these guys.
Speaker 2 (40:56):
Being like to be vulnerable, to be a one hundred percent?
What's wrong with that?
Speaker 4 (41:01):
Not what's wrong with that. You're a human being. It's ego.
Speaker 1 (41:04):
It's ego.
Speaker 4 (41:05):
It's it's ego. And like men, men they're alpha, they're
they're here to you.
Speaker 2 (41:11):
Very well.
Speaker 4 (41:12):
You go back to like the first man, like what
did they was like hunters and gatherers. That's what men did.
Speaker 2 (41:17):
They went out in the field and they hunted.
Speaker 4 (41:19):
They were men. I am man.
Speaker 1 (41:20):
This is what I do.
Speaker 4 (41:21):
I protect woman. You have your job. It's just innately
what who we are.
Speaker 7 (41:26):
Now.
Speaker 3 (41:26):
I feel like they're getting more feminine every day.
Speaker 2 (41:28):
They're even losing that part.
Speaker 4 (41:29):
I'm like, what do you mean, Like now, now you're
just gasing me and you're like.
Speaker 1 (41:35):
Literally, I'm like, you hit all my lotion and.
Speaker 4 (41:39):
Stop.
Speaker 1 (41:40):
God damn it.
Speaker 2 (41:41):
That's the thing. Why are you crying? If you want
to be the man, be the man? Like, you can't
be both, honey, you can't be both.
Speaker 1 (41:49):
It's so funny.
Speaker 3 (41:50):
Yeah, it is so at the same time, it's like
it's yeah and whatever, Yeah, you know.
Speaker 4 (41:58):
What would they do without us? Oh to sand worm?
They wouldn't.
Speaker 1 (42:03):
They wouldn't, they would they would what would they do?
Speaker 2 (42:05):
But imagine what the thing is?
Speaker 4 (42:07):
They love us so much?
Speaker 2 (42:09):
Do they?
Speaker 5 (42:09):
I think a lot.
Speaker 1 (42:10):
I think I think a lot do. But I also
think there's a lot of men that have been programmed
to hate women. Yeah, I think it's so you have.
Speaker 5 (42:18):
I'm surrounded by like good men who really like market
women that are like you.
Speaker 7 (42:22):
Know, the general population do hate women, especially since the honestly,
especially strong Internet, Internet and like listen.
Speaker 3 (42:34):
Instagram, that's a girly app. It's a girly game, influencing.
It's a girly game. It's where girls succeed by showing
off everything and showing how amazing we are in all
the things that we're capable of doing. It's not really
a place where you go and like shop for guys.
It is a never ending buffet of hot girls that
are more talented. Imagine how we feel when we see
(42:54):
other girls, other influencers murdering it.
Speaker 2 (42:57):
Imagine being a guy and not even close. Yeah, what
do you mean?
Speaker 3 (43:01):
You know, so they try to be gamers and they
try and they can't.
Speaker 2 (43:04):
You know, like that was such a specific niche.
Speaker 3 (43:07):
But you know, look at it, like, look at just
the business aspect of the man making more money than
a woman. Well, you're seeing all of them just by
being pretty. They don't really like the position that we're
in as being people who can easily post online and
get ten k for a post, go on these influencer trips, Like,
I don't think they like us very much, and maybe it's.
Speaker 2 (43:26):
Just a particular niche.
Speaker 3 (43:28):
I've never had anyone be any awful which way to me,
but I know how it feels sometimes when I see
other girls killing it and I'm like, dang, I should
be where they are. I should be where they are.
Imagine being the opposite sex, Like imagine being like dang.
Speaker 4 (43:42):
Dang, dang, sitting down my dungeon plane.
Speaker 3 (43:52):
It's like, but think about it, the world has really gone.
It's for the girlies now. So two thousand and five
is for the girlies. I don't see it like there's.
Speaker 1 (44:00):
Five.
Speaker 2 (44:01):
I'm sorry, I'm sorry.
Speaker 4 (44:03):
Do we just go back in time? I'm sorry? Do
we just go through the black hole day two thousand
and five?
Speaker 1 (44:12):
Like hot time?
Speaker 2 (44:15):
Just give away my age? I'm joking. No, I just
exratulated high school.
Speaker 1 (44:19):
But yeah, okay, okay, cool, because I just had a stroke.
Speaker 3 (44:21):
I was like, I met twenty five but yeah, but
that year too, was also for the girlies.
Speaker 2 (44:27):
But you know, as soon as the internet, what we're
doing to we sidekicks. We had sidekicks.
Speaker 3 (44:32):
We had two double popped, Abercrombie and.
Speaker 5 (44:35):
Fished, No exactly cool cool cool, the double double Collar.
Speaker 2 (44:40):
The Kanye West, the Lime and Green and Pink Bumbo. Think.
Speaker 1 (44:44):
Yeah, we still had Britney Spears.
Speaker 4 (44:48):
Still she was, She was still thriving.
Speaker 1 (44:50):
Yeah she was.
Speaker 2 (44:51):
And it was rhyme.
Speaker 1 (44:53):
It was almost the prime.
Speaker 2 (44:55):
It was the snake VMA is the two thousand and
five snake here.
Speaker 3 (44:57):
That was her best I'm a slave for you was
her best A moment as well, her best A moment.
Speaker 1 (45:05):
Yeah, diet pepsi, Yeah, pepsi.
Speaker 3 (45:12):
I can't wait for that new documentary that or that
new docu movie coming out about excuse me, excuse me
what knew they're casting for her right now?
Speaker 4 (45:20):
I'm sorry Britney Spears.
Speaker 2 (45:24):
Documentory.
Speaker 3 (45:25):
Sorry but but but like real depiction of it, because
actual real of her life, of her book.
Speaker 2 (45:33):
And yes, yes, Adison Ray I love y'all.
Speaker 1 (45:40):
I know who she is.
Speaker 2 (45:41):
Madison, She's got the teeth. I'm here for it. There's
another girl on TikTok.
Speaker 4 (45:45):
That's not the girl from White Lotus, is it?
Speaker 3 (45:47):
No? No, she is she's a singer. She's more of
a TikTok star, but she has dope vibes. She does,
but everyone doesn't like her for it.
Speaker 2 (45:56):
I don't know why.
Speaker 3 (45:58):
And there's another girl who's a nobody, but she's been
like no one. Everyone loves her because she basically is
giving all of Britney's dances, like all of her what
is it called? Like she's auditioning publicly on every single
TikTok about she's making and she's serving. She's serving.
Speaker 2 (46:15):
It's like yeah, and.
Speaker 3 (46:17):
Moved no money and she's like I'm just gonna yeah.
Like she's doing like the dancing like everything.
Speaker 4 (46:23):
Does she look like her too?
Speaker 1 (46:25):
She? Oh my god, it's just like her. Wait does
is Brittany excited about this? Or did she sell the
rights to it or what?
Speaker 3 (46:32):
Actually don't know that, but I think she's involved. She's involved.
They're doing it after her book. She's involved, and they've
been like doing this like process, trying to find the
right person for a while. Who else There's other people
who are like big names that are like trying to
get in.
Speaker 5 (46:45):
On it, Like who else would be a really good
Britney spears It's hard.
Speaker 3 (46:49):
Yeah, Like I know, every crevice of that woman's face,
like every little dip in her abs, like, yeah, it's
gonna be hard.
Speaker 2 (46:57):
I'm gonna be gonna.
Speaker 4 (46:58):
You're like over you. I'm the new role.
Speaker 3 (47:03):
Like they have to be really good else I feel
like someone else was up for it that I thought
would be a really good contender.
Speaker 2 (47:09):
But I can't think right now. But it's in the word.
Speaker 5 (47:11):
There's not a lot of people. She's like a very
specific face.
Speaker 2 (47:15):
You know, I'm going to send you her later.
Speaker 1 (47:17):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, sick, Yeah, her voice, everything about her,
especially that Brittany.
Speaker 2 (47:23):
To think that.
Speaker 1 (47:36):
I'm not a girl, tell me what.
Speaker 4 (47:44):
Yeah, that's it.
Speaker 2 (47:45):
Yeah, it's gonna be her era like we crossroads.
Speaker 4 (47:52):
And also, yeah, she.
Speaker 2 (47:57):
Crazy made they made her crazy.
Speaker 4 (48:00):
It's not crazy.
Speaker 2 (48:01):
My ears ringing.
Speaker 4 (48:02):
Wow, cool someone, she's cool.
Speaker 5 (48:04):
Terreen's thinking about Taron Man is thinking about you right now.
She's talking about you.
Speaker 2 (48:09):
I got you because I saw that not crazy.
Speaker 3 (48:12):
You know, they made her pain out to be because
she went on a podcast and talked about how she
didn't drink the Golden juice of Hollywood.
Speaker 1 (48:18):
Now is the part of our podcast where we like
to uh, it's coming to an end. Sadly because I
love you.
Speaker 4 (48:25):
You're wonderful.
Speaker 1 (48:26):
I know you are wonderful.
Speaker 4 (48:28):
You want to be our third.
Speaker 1 (48:30):
We're not talking about it.
Speaker 4 (48:35):
Wait are we gonna like ane if you want?
Speaker 1 (48:42):
We asked rapid fire question? Okay, and just get to
know you just a little bit better. I love the
cuff off the fly. Okay. Your favorite night time product,
favorite daytime product?
Speaker 2 (48:53):
Flipliner?
Speaker 4 (48:54):
Okay, what's your favorite liip liner?
Speaker 1 (48:56):
Beverly Hill Like, oh cool, Yes, that's a really good one.
What is your least favorite glam trend?
Speaker 4 (49:05):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (49:05):
I don't like the stain where you peel it off.
The stain that peels off.
Speaker 2 (49:09):
I'm like, that seems drying, like.
Speaker 1 (49:11):
If you've tried it or just you're just assuming both.
Speaker 3 (49:14):
I've tried it and I don't like it, and I
don't like what it looks like you're peeling a scab
off and it's just grow.
Speaker 2 (49:18):
It's weird for me. I don't know, it's a it's
a sensory.
Speaker 1 (49:21):
You think you're allowed to feel.
Speaker 2 (49:23):
That was a weird one.
Speaker 4 (49:24):
Okay, I don't like watching it.
Speaker 1 (49:26):
If you could only have one product forever, what would
it be?
Speaker 2 (49:30):
One?
Speaker 1 (49:30):
Just one?
Speaker 2 (49:31):
Sarah?
Speaker 1 (49:32):
Okay, what is your favorite content hack or trick.
Speaker 2 (49:36):
My favorite is batch batching.
Speaker 3 (49:39):
So I will shoot a ton of stuff in one
go and just like act like it's you know, been
over a course of two months.
Speaker 1 (49:45):
Okay, that's matching, very smart. The best advice somebody has
ever given you.
Speaker 2 (49:51):
To lead the last one? She's cool. Okay, yeah, actually
I heard it. This is really weird. Not a good
guy out Will Smith.
Speaker 3 (50:01):
He had this like say, I know, pause, he said
a while with a long time ago for well, I said,
hold on, hold on.
Speaker 2 (50:07):
Never mind. It really changed my life, It really did.
Speaker 1 (50:12):
In fact, I left him for a long time.
Speaker 2 (50:14):
I did too into the bubble burst and he's just
a character. But before all that, I watched.
Speaker 3 (50:20):
This like really random interview that he did and he said,
in order, you know, they said how does it feel
to be the best actor ever?
Speaker 2 (50:27):
And he was just like, I'm not.
Speaker 3 (50:28):
He goes, well, what do you mean?
Speaker 2 (50:29):
He's like, you know, kind of asking this question. He
was just like, I feel like, in.
Speaker 3 (50:32):
Order to be the best at something, you have to
be the best everywhere, travel everywhere, go everywhere. And I
don't know, as simple as that, I don't know what
it was, but it sparked.
Speaker 1 (50:40):
Somebody and that's what made me. That's what you've done.
Speaker 3 (50:43):
Yeah, well that's I heard him say that. Oh yeah,
and then I decided to just go and be the
best everywhere?
Speaker 1 (50:50):
Wow?
Speaker 2 (50:50):
And that he really that weird little thing.
Speaker 3 (50:52):
I was just out line, but it was like it
wasn't an ego thing like I want to be the best.
It was like, no, you got to go everywhere and
the best.
Speaker 5 (51:00):
Does that make sense?
Speaker 2 (51:01):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (51:02):
Something about that when I was like twenty five, Yeah,
just like, bye, I'm out of here.
Speaker 2 (51:07):
I'm gonna go be whatever the best is to me.
Speaker 1 (51:09):
Well, we love that advice, regardless of who it came from,
because look at what you've done with you.
Speaker 2 (51:13):
We'll just say that I said that.
Speaker 4 (51:14):
Okay, great, you're awesome.
Speaker 1 (51:17):
How do you answer the telephone?
Speaker 4 (51:19):
Like this?
Speaker 2 (51:21):
Can you?
Speaker 1 (51:22):
How do you go? Hello? How do you?
Speaker 2 (51:25):
How do you know?
Speaker 3 (51:25):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (51:25):
Oh, I'm sorry? Okay, we're role playing? Yeah? Are you okay? O?
Speaker 1 (51:30):
Cute? Okay?
Speaker 4 (51:31):
I love that heye jello.
Speaker 1 (51:34):
If your pet could talk, what would they say?
Speaker 2 (51:36):
Oh my gosh, she wants cheese. That's all. Like I
got a new kiddie like cheese, that's all she wants.
Speaker 3 (51:42):
And she got one cheese, and she is like, cheese bean,
it's the cutest thing ever.
Speaker 1 (51:46):
So if she could talk, she'd say, do you have
any cheese?
Speaker 3 (51:49):
Cheese?
Speaker 2 (51:49):
Cheese?
Speaker 1 (51:50):
You cheese. I think you're gonna love this one so much. Okay,
what's your biggest ick? I feel like you have so many.
Speaker 2 (51:59):
I've got many biggest ever if you are so sorry, okay,
I'm just gonna go.
Speaker 3 (52:06):
Men, My biggest itch is literally is you claim to
be so artistic and you're so if you give me
the like idea that you're this Bob Dylan poet writer this,
and you're so self sacrificing and you don't put out
any of your ship and you think you're the greatest,
that is my you gross me out.
Speaker 2 (52:27):
At least if you're going to be this confident whatever,
connoisseur of whatever you think that you are, at least
do it.
Speaker 3 (52:37):
Do it all people who are all talk and think
that they're the ship and have nothing to show for it,
and not not like physically, but like you, if you
talk and talk and you it's it's it's literally the
biggest egg I could ever ever ever see. Like gross,
(53:00):
it's not it's all fake, which means that your art
isn't really art.
Speaker 2 (53:04):
It isn't, it's just it's fake it is.
Speaker 5 (53:08):
And it really drives me.
Speaker 2 (53:09):
Is that crazy?
Speaker 3 (53:11):
Because I'm all about inspiration and really pulling that out
and really finding myself through that. And if you are
all a fake bubble of bullshit, I can't fuck with you.
Speaker 1 (53:20):
I can't.
Speaker 2 (53:21):
Sorry.
Speaker 4 (53:22):
That was That was a deep, was beautiful.
Speaker 1 (53:27):
Guilty pleasure.
Speaker 3 (53:28):
I love the nerdiest history documentaries, like the ones that
you like put on to go to sleep, like in
high school. I live for guilty pleasures, history documentaries, conspiracy theories.
Speaker 2 (53:40):
I research the wildest theories on Earth. I live for it.
Speaker 3 (53:45):
If I could like cancel my life and start over,
I'd be a conspiracy theorist full time.
Speaker 4 (53:50):
I want to sit down and have many.
Speaker 1 (53:54):
Love conspiracy.
Speaker 4 (53:57):
She's like trying to go to bed.
Speaker 2 (53:58):
She's like in the teen Ancient Ancient symbols Alliens.
Speaker 4 (54:10):
But I love it.
Speaker 2 (54:11):
I lived for my guilty pleasure.
Speaker 1 (54:13):
What was the movie title of your life?
Speaker 2 (54:16):
I actually thought about this yesterday. Permanent Visitor.
Speaker 3 (54:21):
Visitor, a film by Taylor, like a little French thing,
like a permanent visit.
Speaker 4 (54:30):
Visit this ship.
Speaker 5 (54:34):
Exactly that it was so nice to me, you like
so much beautiful energy and thanks.
Speaker 1 (54:42):
You are fantastic. How we'll find you? How can people?
I know the Social Club social Club?
Speaker 2 (54:49):
But is it?
Speaker 1 (54:49):
Is it just at the Social Club on Instagram?
Speaker 2 (54:51):
What is it v? Social Club?
Speaker 3 (54:56):
I mean it's like the first thing that pops up
when you click on that. But follow me Taylor Luche
on Instagram. That's where you can find me.
Speaker 1 (55:03):
And yeah, happy scrolling, happy scrolling, I know, go down
like stalk her. It's impressive.
Speaker 2 (55:10):
Please don't stalk me. Follow for follow yeah no no,
no about for all. Have fun and it's been awesome
being there.
Speaker 1 (55:18):
Are thank you, thank you, thank you all right, guys,
see you later.
Speaker 2 (55:21):
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